[FairfieldLife] The Onion posts the best Roger Ebert obit so far

2013-04-05 Thread turquoiseb
It's sweet, it's poignant, and it riffs on Roger's own quote, No good
movie is too long, and no bad movie is too short. RIP, Roger...you've
earned your measure of peace.
Roger Ebert Hails Human Existence As 'A Triumph'News
http://www.theonion.com/features/news/  •
News http://www.theonion.com/channels/news/ •
ISSUE 49•14 http://www.theonion.com/issue/4914/
•  Apr 4, 2013  [396]
CHICAGO—Calling  the overall human experience poignant,
thought-provoking, and a  complete tour de force,
film critic Roger Ebert praised existence  Thursday as an audacious
and thrilling triumph. While not without its  flaws, life,
from birth to death, is a masterwork, and an uplifting  journey that
both touches the heart and challenges the mind, said  Ebert, adding
that while the totality of all humankind is sometimes a  mess in
places, it strives to be a magnum opus and, according to Ebert, 
largely succeeds at this goal. At times brutally sad, yet
surprisingly  funny, and always completely honest, I wholeheartedly
recommend  existence. If you haven't experienced it yet, then what
are you waiting  for? It is not to be missed. Ebert later said that
while human  existence's running time was a little on the long
side, it could have  gone on much, much longer and he would have
been perfectly happy.
 
http://www.theonion.com/articles/disney-finds-dozens-of-unauthorized-ch\
aracters-app,31939/ 
http://www.theonion.com/articles/disney-finds-dozens-of-unauthorized-ch\
aracters-app,31939/



[FairfieldLife] I do not fear death, by Roger Ebert

2013-04-05 Thread turquoiseb
An excerpt from his book Life Itself: A Memoir.

http://www.salon.com/2011/09/15/roger_ebert/





[FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:

 It's very unfortunate news for the Fairfield Dome community that they have 
 returned to the strict anti-saint policy, considering how many people went 
 over to India and saw saints just recently.  Purusha in India continues to 
 see saints.  Down in Boone meditators see saints.  So much for the flower of 
 the movement. 

Maharishi gave different instructions to different groups for a reason. 
Different strokes for different people. Stop whining and learn to live with it. 
There are rules everywhere, every company and org have their own regulations. 
Those that can't accept that are free to start their own group.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Saintly Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread Buck


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck wrote:
 
  It's very unfortunate news for the Fairfield Dome community that they have 
  returned to the strict anti-saint policy, considering how many people went 
  over to India and saw saints just recently.  Purusha in India continues to 
  see saints.  Down in Boone meditators see saints.  So much for the flower 
  of the movement.  John Douglas comes to Fairfield in just a few days.
   http://www.spirit-repair.com/shop/workshops 
 
 I would love to know what your definition of saint is. Or at least the 
 definition of those who go to see these people.
  
 

The Saintly:  Spiritually activated folks who carry a field effect that is 
healing physically or in consciousness in positive transformative spiritual 
affect on people.  It's that simple, we know them when we meet them in the work 
of their lifetime.

From FFL post 335353 :
 It is relatively helpful in looking at this holy subject to graph
comparatively the Saintly or Holy ones in a Distribution by Graphing their
Saintly Distribution as data pairs on a Cartesian x-y axis.

It seems most everyone here in Fairfield has developed a graph somewhat like
this that they work off of from their own experience in sorting [reconciling]
the [moral] spiritual dissonance they've seen.


See FFL post 335353  for the graph  

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/335353  

  
   Trouble?  For the community?
Well yes, things evidently went backwards recently with the movement 
   guidelines.  Talked to someone just recently, an old movement campaigner 
   who was denied employment up there because would not sign a paper 
   pledging to never see saints again.  This is a highly competent long time 
   movement person in the community that they had sought out for employment 
   in to a position.  After the discussion the person turned around and 
   called the course office people to check the guidelines and it was 
   confirmed the guidelines are back again to old governors not seeing 
   saints to be involved with the movement.
   
   
 Thanks for taking the time and having the courage to post this here.
 your last six words bothered me just a little. In what way? As in 
 fearful of repercussions for expressing one's opinions? If so, do you 
 really feel this way?
 

Trouble?
Yes, someone in the course office could view [judge] Trowbridge as 
being negative and un-stressing in the act of posting his letter.  As 
JT  values coming back to the group meditation he could have created 
trouble for himself.  Tru-believers in the middle easily could see 
Trowbridge being disloyal and lacking in fealty.  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, laughinggull108 no_reply@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck  wrote:
 
  Beautiful.  Thanks for taking the time and having the courage to 
  post this here.
  -Buck in the Dome
  
 
 Ditto. In fact, worth saying again: *Beautiful*, Mr. Trowbridge. 
 Perhaps it will be read by people with the ability to affect the 
 changes of which you write.
 
 your last six words bothered me just a little. In what way? As in 
 fearful of repercussions for expressing one's opinions? If so, do you 
 really feel this way?
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jwtrowbridge 
  johnwtrowbridge@ wrote:
  
   I would like to give feedback from the perspective of one who 
   loves TM, but not how the organization is run. I have wanted to 
   do so for many years. I feel I have a unique perspective to do 
   so. I am not angry. I am not dependent on TM other than my 
   wonderful program I practice. I have no ax to grind other than a 
   genuine desire to see the organization succeed. I wish to help 
   this organization from the point of view of one who is a family 
   man, a professional who sees the divinity of my practice, and the 
   missteps of the organization.
   
   My TM program is the only time during the day that I know my 
   activity is perfect. It is a perfect program. It is a perfect 
   activity. It is perfect knowledge. I have recently obtained all 
   of the advanced techniques. I have missed maybe five meditations 
   in 40 years only because I enjoy it. There is no other reason. 
   Not for health, not for enlightenment, such is the joy and power 
   of my program. 
   
   I have just finished 34 years as a public school teacher in North 
   Carolina, and I am still teaching. I have been married 30 years. 
   I have two children. My wife meditates. My two children have been 
   initiated. From the beginning, I have provided support to the TM 
   Movement through the use of my house for lectures, initiations, 
   and whatever I have to offer all these 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Beware on April 26, 2013

2013-04-05 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, John jr_esq@... wrote:

 Mike,
 
 Kim Jong Un is mentally disturbed as can be seen in his natal chart.  That's 
 why his decision making is erratic and dangerous.  

What about everyone else born on that day, are they mentally 
disturbed too? 

There ought to be a system whereby astrologers tell us what 
children to euthenase before they become a threat to others
or the world. Maybe in the age of enlightenment?


Unfortunately, the US will have to take all of his threats seriously.  If he 
acts on his threat, the US will have to retaliate accordingly to defend itself. 
 It could be a very ugly scenario for the history books.
 
 JR
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Mike Dixon mdixon.6569@ wrote:
 
  could this be the Mouse That Roared, a suicidal attack, in the hopes that 
  the US would rebuild a new North in a unified Korea?
  
   
  
  
   From: John jr_esq@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 2:42 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Beware on April 26, 2013
 
     
   
  Given the tense situation in North Korea, the US military should be extra 
  vigilant on this day for possible attack from the rogue nation.  On this 
  day, Mars will be in very close opposition with Saturn.
  
  There are several planets involved in this opposition, including the Moon 
  and Venus.  It is likely that the malefic opposition can be mitigated by 
  the involvement of women in the situation.  Perhaps, the president of South 
  Korea should keep close contact with the wife of Kim Jong Un.  They could 
  possibly prevent a nuclear war.
  
  JR
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread Share Long
dear Dolphie, I love you.  Please be my valentine forever.  If you build me a 
house I will happily live in it with you and our little Dolphies and Dolphinas. 
 And every time you build another building you will bring me yellow roses and 
white chocolate and we will drink dark red wine with our vegetarian dinner.  We 
will send the children off to bed early and then we will giggle a lot on the 
front sofa just like my Mommy and Daddy do when he has sold another VW.  Ooops, 
here comes teacher Old  Scowly Face.  I'll give this to you at recess.  Your 
friend, Theodora    





 From: Robin Carlsen maskedze...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 10:24 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] HITLER'S VALENTINE
 

  
Robin:I think you would like to send Hitler a Valentine's Card and make 
everything all
right again. 

Share:  Perhaps if someone had sent Hitler a valentine, he would have become a 
happy architect.

Robin: If you said this ironically then you have essentially defied my analysis 
of you--or at least in coming up with this response (assuming, again, that it 
is ironic) you have proven to me you can resist your primary tendency 
(sentimentality = a failure of real feeling). If, however--you must tell me 
which it is, dear Share,--you meant this non-ironically, then you have 
demonstrated just how true my essential idea of you is, dear Share.

So, either way I win. Because if you meant it in a deliberately ironic way, 
then you have jumped out of your mould and have said something easily as good 
as anything I could have said. And if you meant it sincerely (really believing 
in the truth of what you say here; namely, that the course of history could 
have been changed by one valentine) then you have rendered my last three posts 
to you superfluous.

I won't ask you to clarify whether you were being ironic or not, Share; I will 
just pray that if you were serious you will see that what you have said means 
you have knocked yourself out with one roundhouse to the brain. And I wonder 
whether you will ever get up off the canvas.

That said, I have to contemplate that the joke is on me; and in that case I 
declare you the victor here. It is that good, your self-mockery--and in a way 
you are making fun of me brilliantly.

Roger I believe had less of a problem in facing what is there (as he had to 
today) than did Adolph--but then, if all it would have taken was one valentine, 
then perhaps God thought Hitler was just one valentine short of going to heaven.

Thank you for writing with the intention to do your best, Share. It was pretty 
good, all things considered.

But the motive for Hitler's valentine: on that hangs a fearful judgment!


 

[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread seventhray27

This is what they call in the trade. A
Perfect Response!!


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@...
wrote:

 dear Dolphie, I love you.  Please be my valentine forever.  If
you build me a house I will happily live in it with you and our little
Dolphies and Dolphinas.  And every time you build another building
you will bring me yellow roses and white chocolate and we will drink
dark red wine with our vegetarian dinner.  We will send the children
off to bed early and then we will giggle a lot on the front sofa just
like my Mommy and Daddy do when he has sold another VW.  Ooops, here
comes teacher Old  Scowly Face.  I'll give this to you at
recess.  Your friend, Theodora  Â




 
 From: Robin Carlsen maskedzebra@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 10:24 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] HITLER'S VALENTINE


 Â
 Robin:I think you would like to send Hitler a Valentine's Card and
make everything all
 right again.

 Share: Perhaps if someone had sent Hitler a valentine, he would have
become a happy architect.

 Robin: If you said this ironically then you have essentially defied my
analysis of you--or at least in coming up with this response (assuming,
again, that it is ironic) you have proven to me you can resist your
primary tendency (sentimentality = a failure of real feeling). If,
however--you must tell me which it is, dear Share,--you meant this
non-ironically, then you have demonstrated just how true my essential
idea of you is, dear Share.

 So, either way I win. Because if you meant it in a deliberately ironic
way, then you have jumped out of your mould and have said something
easily as good as anything I could have said. And if you meant it
sincerely (really believing in the truth of what you say here; namely,
that the course of history could have been changed by one valentine)
then you have rendered my last three posts to you superfluous.

 I won't ask you to clarify whether you were being ironic or not,
Share; I will just pray that if you were serious you will see that what
you have said means you have knocked yourself out with one roundhouse to
the brain. And I wonder whether you will ever get up off the canvas.

 That said, I have to contemplate that the joke is on me; and in that
case I declare you the victor here. It is that good, your
self-mockery--and in a way you are making fun of me brilliantly.

 Roger I believe had less of a problem in facing what is there (as he
had to today) than did Adolph--but then, if all it would have taken was
one valentine, then perhaps God thought Hitler was just one valentine
short of going to heaven.

 Thank you for writing with the intention to do your best, Share. It
was pretty good, all things considered.

 But the motive for Hitler's valentine: on that hangs a fearful
judgment!





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread Michael Jackson
A couple of questions about this - how many levels of experience are they 
counting and what are they?

The other question is, what do they do with this info - as in if 500 people 
have level 2 experiences on Thursday, what does that mean? And how do they take 
the polls of what experiences are happening? Do they have you fill out forms or 
something?





 From: jwtrowbridge johnwtrowbri...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 5:48 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement
 

  
Level 1 experiences are counted for percentages everyday in the dome, men, 
women, vedic city, special groups, etc. It is the experience of bliss becoming 
blissful.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 I am not familiar with what Level 1 experiences mean - I haven't been to 
 Fairfield since I was on staff at MIU in the 1980's
 
 
 
 
 
  From: jwtrowbridge johnwtrowbridge@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, April 3, 2013 6:33 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement
 
 
   
 Thanks Michael. I will just keep going on doing what I do. I love my program, 
 but I have never been financially dependent on anyone from the TMO. I feel I 
 have the best of both worlds. I am grounded and enjoy my work. I contribute, 
 and the knowledge, my experiences have always been fantastic. If I did not 
 get anything from the technique I would not practice it a week. The truly 
 devoted are the ones in the Dome who are part of the 50% who keep coming back 
 and report daily no level 1 experiences.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@ wrote:
 
  Having read your ideas about the Movement it gives me a good feeling that 
  there are people with common sense who want something that has been good 
  for them to blossom and prosper. Even having left TM years ago, I do 
  understand the feeling doing program gives one, I recently did my TMSP 
  after years of not doing so and it felt good.
  
  I sincerely believe the only way for you to fulfill the desires you have 
  for the Movement is to walk away from the TM Movement and create one of 
  your own. Others have done so, thereby giving a fresh venue for teaching 
  and promoting the technique that is so meaningful to you. 
  
  The TM Movement has never really existed to do what you want it to do. I 
  spent years wondering why something that felt so good to me and had such 
  high goals and spoke about itself in such glowing terms could produce such 
  unkind, unhelpful people who administered the Movement - how could the 
  practice of the TM technique not create a group of individuals who 
  administered the Movement intelligently, lovingly, and efficiently? 
  
  As long as I believed that Maharishi was enlightened and somehow in some 
  unknown way, the excesses and omissions of the people who ran the Movement 
  were some sort of aberrant anomalies and that one day it would all balance 
  out, the Movement would straighten itself out and people would actually be 
  well taken care of in all phases and aspects of their dealings with the 
  TMO, much of what Maharishi did and none of what the TMO did made any sense.
  
  When I realized that Maharishi was not enlightened, and used his Movement 
  to further his desires to, in essence, be a big shot, gain wealth and have 
  a revolving door of sex partners, it all fell into place. This means that 
  the people who ran and still run the Movement learned at his feet and 
  realize that anything they want to do is alright as long as they remain in 
  charge and get paid. 
  
  The idea that Bevan, Tony and the rest will ever give any authority to a 
  Board of Directors is something that will never happen. They will not give 
  up power  - the TMO gives them everything. When is the last time any of 
  them had to worry about paying rent? How to pay the utilities? When is the 
  last time they had to wash their own clothes? Make their own meals? These 
  guys live like princes and they won't give it up.
  
  They will never put others needs and desires above their own need to be in 
  charge and keep getting paid, just like their former leader - and just like 
  M putting these guys in charge, who do you think these guys will pick to 
  follow them? The exact same energy will be passed on in the next generation 
  of leadership. 
  
  Get together with all the responsible teachers with common sense who feel 
  the way you do, organize your own Movement and get out while the getting is 
  good. 
  
  I have mentioned once or twice before that Girish, and the Srivastavas 
  brothers still run the Maharishi Group which I believe still owns all the 
  property that MUM is occupying, both the land and buildings. If the day 
  comes when they feel the revenue coming to them from MUM isn't satisfying 
  them, they will sell 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread Michael Jackson
It's got nothing to do with different instructions for different people - the 
TMO is just like Marshy was capricious and unfair -  and lots of the absurd 
rules are very Nazi-like -no wonder Nappy likes 'em.

Besides, not seeing the so-called saints has to do with only one thing - not 
wanting people to give ANY credit for experiences to anything other than the 
TMO, and to try to prevent gifts, payments and donations to ANYONE other than 
the TMO, cuz a donation to Amma, Sri Sri Ravi or any other saint is dollars 
that the TMO doesn't get.

It costs a whole heap of money to feed the Movement and they don't want to miss 
a penny.





 From: nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 5:57 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement
 

  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:

 It's very unfortunate news for the Fairfield Dome community that they have 
 returned to the strict anti-saint policy, considering how many people went 
 over to India and saw saints just recently.  Purusha in India continues to 
 see saints.  Down in Boone meditators see saints.  So much for the flower of 
 the movement. 

Maharishi gave different instructions to different groups for a reason. 
Different strokes for different people. Stop whining and learn to live with it. 
There are rules everywhere, every company and org have their own regulations. 
Those that can't accept that are free to start their own group.


 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Career As Path (was Re: Majorca Spain to turq)

2013-04-05 Thread Michael Jackson
As opposed to Marshy who died in dementia having spent years lying to and 
defrauding millions of people? 

At least Rama had the good grace to remove himself from harming anyone else at 
the end, Marshy hung on tight with both his fists as long as he could, of
 course after he got really bad with his mind, his kin and the TMO leaders 
could not reveal the truth for fear of the whole 
TMO-is-good-cause-an-enlightened-saint-set-it-up schtick would fall apart. Of 
course they could always have claimed he was still enlightened and was just 
taking on a whole bunch of his favorite followers
 karma cuz he was so peachy keen loving to them.





 From: nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 27, 2013 8:07 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Career As Path (was Re: Majorca Spain to turq)
 

  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

Perhaps Lenz was the perfect teacher for those on the traditionally defined 
career path.  And other teachers are perfect for others on different dharma 
paths.

Share, here's how Rama and guru of the Turq ended his career; he committed 
suicide by throwing himself in the ocean wearing a dog-collar around his neck. 

That's quite a testimonial from a perfect teacher, wouldn't you say ? 


 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread seventhray27

Michael,

As the self appointed spokesman for the group, I want to extend a Hell
Yea to you for staying under the posting limit.  (or at least what
looks like an accomplishment in this regard).

I know we've worked on some techniques.  Breathe in, Breathe out.  And
the exercises we've been doing, asking yourself, Is this something I
need to post just right now?

Isn't it a good feeling to know that you can wake up Saturday morning,
with FULL POSTING PRIVLIDGES?  Yea, I know it is.

Anyway, I'm off to work.  But, I will be feeling a little lighter, a
little extra bounce in my step, knowing that we've achieved this
milestone again.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@...
wrote:

 A couple of questions about this - how many levels of experience are
they counting and what are they?

 The other question is, what do they do with this info - as in if 500
people have level 2 experiences on Thursday, what does that mean? And
how do they take the polls of what experiences are happening? Do they
have you fill out forms or something?




 
 From: jwtrowbridge johnwtrowbridge@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 5:48 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement


 Â
 Level 1 experiences are counted for percentages everyday in the dome,
men, women, vedic city, special groups, etc. It is the experience of
bliss becoming blissful.

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@
wrote:
 
  I am not familiar with what Level 1 experiences mean - I haven't
been to Fairfield since I was on staff at MIU in the 1980's
 
 
 
 
  
  From: jwtrowbridge johnwtrowbridge@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
  Sent: Wednesday, April 3, 2013 6:33 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement
 
 
  ÂÂ
  Thanks Michael. I will just keep going on doing what I do. I love my
program, but I have never been financially dependent on anyone from the
TMO. I feel I have the best of both worlds. I am grounded and enjoy my
work. I contribute, and the knowledge, my experiences have always been
fantastic. If I did not get anything from the technique I would not
practice it a week. The truly devoted are the ones in the Dome who are
part of the 50% who keep coming back and report daily no level 1
experiences.
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@
wrote:
  
   Having read your ideas about the Movement it gives me a good
feeling that there are people with common sense who want something that
has been good for them to blossom and prosper. Even having left TM years
ago, I do understand the feeling doing program gives one, I recently did
my TMSP after years of not doing so and it felt good.
  
   I sincerely believe the only way for you to fulfill the desires
you have for the Movement is to walk away from the TM Movement and
create one of your own. Others have done so, thereby giving a fresh
venue for teaching and promoting the technique that is so meaningful to
you.
  
   The TM Movement has never really existed to do what you want it to
do. I spent years wondering why something that felt so good to me and
had such high goals and spoke about itself in such glowing terms could
produce such unkind, unhelpful people who administered the Movement -
how could the practice of the TM technique not create a group of
individuals who administered the Movement intelligently, lovingly, and
efficiently?
  
   As long as I believed that Maharishi was enlightened and somehow
in some unknown way, the excesses and omissions of the people who ran
the Movement were some sort of aberrant anomalies and that one day it
would all balance out, the Movement would straighten itself out and
people would actually be well taken care of in all phases and aspects of
their dealings with the TMO, much of what Maharishi did and none of what
the TMO did made any sense.
  
   When I realized that Maharishi was not enlightened, and used his
Movement to further his desires to, in essence, be a big shot, gain
wealth and have a revolving door of sex partners, it all fell into
place. This means that the people who ran and still run the Movement
learned at his feet and realize that anything they want to do is alright
as long as they remain in charge and get paid.
  
   The idea that Bevan, Tony and the rest will ever give any
authority to a Board of Directors is something that will never happen.
They will not give up power  - the TMO gives them
everything. When is the last time any of them had to worry about paying
rent? How to pay the utilities? When is the last time they had to wash
their own clothes? Make their own meals? These guys live like princes
and they won't give it up.
  
   They will never put others needs and desires above their own need
to be in charge and keep getting paid, just like their former leader -
and just like M putting these guys in charge, who do you 

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2013-04-05 Thread FFL PostCount
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Post Count Fri 05-Apr-13 12:44:46 UTC

2013-04-05 Thread Alex Stanley
Due to posts showing up late in email, I manually ran the post count script for 
your post counting pleasure. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, FFL PostCount ffl.postcount@... wrote:

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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Beware on April 26, 2013

2013-04-05 Thread Mike Dixon
also a very young(27 and immature) leader of a nation and can be easily 
manipulated. He may have painted himself into a corner that he will have to 
*fight* his way out of,literally. The trouble  is, when these things get 
started, you don't know where they end up. The US is already talking regime 
change if this goes too far.

 


 From: John jr_...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 9:09 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Beware on April 26, 2013
   
   
 
Mike,

Kim Jong Un is mentally disturbed as can be seen in his natal chart.  That's 
why his decision making is erratic and dangerous.  Unfortunately, the US will 
have to take all of his threats seriously.  If he acts on his threat, the US 
will have to retaliate accordingly to defend itself.  It could be a very ugly 
scenario for the history books.

JR

--- In mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, Mike Dixon mdixon.6569@... 
wrote:

 could this be the Mouse That Roared, a suicidal attack, in the hopes that the 
 US would rebuild a new North in a unified Korea?
 
 
 
 
  From: John jr_esq@...
 To: mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 2:42 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Beware on April 26, 2013
 
   
 
 Given the tense situation in North Korea, the US military should be extra 
 vigilant on this day for possible attack from the rogue nation.  On this day, 
 Mars will be in very close opposition with Saturn.
 
 There are several planets involved in this opposition, including the Moon and 
 Venus.  It is likely that the malefic opposition can be mitigated by the 
 involvement of women in the situation.  Perhaps, the president of South Korea 
 should keep close contact with the wife of Kim Jong Un.  They could possibly 
 prevent a nuclear war.
 
 JR


   
 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Beware on April 26, 2013

2013-04-05 Thread Mike Dixon
Now there's a project for Maharishi Jyotish! Avoid the suffering before it 
comes! We'll just kill the little bastards before they get started! Better yet, 
that system could tell what their potential is at the moment of conception so 
if people wanted to have sex at that moment in time, they could go to a 
different time zone to conjugate and avoid conceiving a little Hitler. And just 
think of all the new laws and regulations that could come about regulating when 
and where people could have sex. This could be a lawyers dream!

 


 From: salyavin808 fintlewoodle...@mail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 3:51 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Beware on April 26, 2013
   
   
 


--- In mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, John jr_esq@... wrote:

 Mike,
 
 Kim Jong Un is mentally disturbed as can be seen in his natal chart.  That's 
 why his decision making is erratic and dangerous. 

What about everyone else born on that day, are they mentally 
disturbed too? 

There ought to be a system whereby astrologers tell us what 
children to euthenase before they become a threat to others
or the world. Maybe in the age of enlightenment?

Unfortunately, the US will have to take all of his threats seriously.  If he 
acts on his threat, the US will have to retaliate accordingly to defend itself. 
 It could be a very ugly scenario for the history books.
 
 JR
 
 
 
 --- In mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, Mike Dixon mdixon.6569@ 
 wrote:
 
  could this be the Mouse That Roared, a suicidal attack, in the hopes that 
  the US would rebuild a new North in a unified Korea?
  
  
  
  
   From: John jr_esq@
  To: mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 2:42 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Beware on April 26, 2013
  
    
  
  Given the tense situation in North Korea, the US military should be extra 
  vigilant on this day for possible attack from the rogue nation.  On this 
  day, Mars will be in very close opposition with Saturn.
  
  There are several planets involved in this opposition, including the Moon 
  and Venus.  It is likely that the malefic opposition can be mitigated by 
  the involvement of women in the situation.  Perhaps, the president of South 
  Korea should keep close contact with the wife of Kim Jong Un.  They could 
  possibly prevent a nuclear war.
  
  JR
 


   
 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread feste37
Ah, yes, Nazi-like. Of course. What took you so long? You should pick this up 
and run with it, Michael. If you take a look back in the archives you will find 
plenty of valuable references, enough to keep you frothing at the mouth for 
days or possibly even weeks. Nazi-like! Nazi-like! I advise you not to stop and 
ask yourself, In what sense, precisely, are the rules of the TMO, 
'Nazi-like'. That would just spoil all the fun. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 It's got nothing to do with different instructions for different people - the 
 TMO is just like Marshy was capricious and unfair -  and lots of the absurd 
 rules are very Nazi-like -no wonder Nappy likes 'em.
 
 Besides, not seeing the so-called saints has to do with only one thing - 
 not wanting people to give ANY credit for experiences to anything other than 
 the TMO, and to try to prevent gifts, payments and donations to ANYONE other 
 than the TMO, cuz a donation to Amma, Sri Sri Ravi or any other saint is 
 dollars that the TMO doesn't get.
 
 It costs a whole heap of money to feed the Movement and they don't want to 
 miss a penny.
 
 
 
 
 
  From: nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 5:57 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement
  
 
   
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
 
  It's very unfortunate news for the Fairfield Dome community that they have 
  returned to the strict anti-saint policy, considering how many people went 
  over to India and saw saints just recently.  Purusha in India continues to 
  see saints.  Down in Boone meditators see saints.  So much for the flower 
  of the movement. 
 
 Maharishi gave different instructions to different groups for a reason. 
 Different strokes for different people. Stop whining and learn to live with 
 it. There are rules everywhere, every company and org have their own 
 regulations. Those that can't accept that are free to start their own group.





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread Share Long
Dare I ask, dear Steve, what trade would that be, me grinning wickedly 





 From: seventhray27 steve.sun...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 7:05 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE
 

  
This is what they call in the trade. A Perfect 
Response!!

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 dear Dolphie, I love you.  Please be my valentine forever.  If you build me 
 a house I will happily live in it with you and our little Dolphies and 
 Dolphinas.  And every time you build another building you will bring me 
 yellow roses and white chocolate and we will drink dark red wine with our 
 vegetarian dinner.  We will send the children off to bed early and then we 
 will giggle a lot on the front sofa just like my Mommy and Daddy do when he 
 has sold another VW.  Ooops, here comes teacher Old  Scowly Face.  I'll 
 give this to you at recess.  Your friend, Theodora    
 
 
 
 
 
 From: Robin Carlsen maskedzebra@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 10:24 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] HITLER'S VALENTINE
 
 
   
 Robin:I think you would like to send Hitler a Valentine's Card and make 
 everything all
 right again. 
 
 Share: Perhaps if someone had sent Hitler a valentine, he would have become a 
 happy architect.
 
 Robin: If you said this ironically then you have essentially defied my 
 analysis of you--or at least in coming up with this response (assuming, 
 again, that it is ironic) you have proven to me you can resist your primary 
 tendency (sentimentality = a failure of real feeling). If, however--you must 
 tell me which it is, dear Share,--you meant this non-ironically, then you 
 have demonstrated just how true my essential idea of you is, dear Share.
 
 So, either way I win. Because if you meant it in a deliberately ironic way, 
 then you have jumped out of your mould and have said something easily as good 
 as anything I could have said. And if you meant it sincerely (really 
 believing in the truth of what you say here; namely, that the course of 
 history could have been changed by one valentine) then you have rendered my 
 last three posts to you superfluous.
 
 I won't ask you to clarify whether you were being ironic or not, Share; I 
 will just pray that if you were serious you will see that what you have said 
 means you have knocked yourself out with one roundhouse to the brain. And I 
 wonder whether you will ever get up off the canvas.
 
 That said, I have to contemplate that the joke is on me; and in that case I 
 declare you the victor here. It is that good, your self-mockery--and in a way 
 you are making fun of me brilliantly.
 
 Roger I believe had less of a problem in facing what is there (as he had to 
 today) than did Adolph--but then, if all it would have taken was one 
 valentine, then perhaps God thought Hitler was just one valentine short of 
 going to heaven.
 
 Thank you for writing with the intention to do your best, Share. It was 
 pretty good, all things considered.
 
 But the motive for Hitler's valentine: on that hangs a fearful judgment!


 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Beware on April 26, 2013

2013-04-05 Thread Share Long
How dare you impugn my dear Dolphie in this way!  Was it his fault that Old 
Scowly Face intercepted my beautiful valentine before I could deliver it to him 
at recess?  sniff sniff  He was never the same after that.  And then next year 
that Van Braun hussy came into our 4th grade.  From there it was all down hill 
for my dear Dolphie.  Let the historians among you take note of that!
PS to dear Dolphie wherever you are and in case I forget:  Happy Birthday on 
May 1 toothy facial beam





 From: Mike Dixon mdixon.6...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 8:52 AM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Beware on April 26, 2013
 

  
Now there's a project for Maharishi Jyotish! Avoid the suffering before it 
comes! We'll just kill the little bastards before they get started! Better yet, 
that system could tell what their potential is at the moment of conception so 
if people wanted to have sex at that moment in time, they could go to a 
different time zone to conjugate and avoid conceiving a little Hitler. And just 
think of all the new laws and regulations that could come about regulating when 
and where people could have sex. This could be a lawyers dream!

From: salyavin808 fintlewoodle...@mail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 3:51 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Beware on April 26, 2013
 
  


--- In mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, John jr_esq@... wrote:

 Mike,
 
 Kim Jong Un is mentally disturbed as can be seen in his natal chart.  That's 
 why his decision making is erratic and dangerous. 

What about everyone else born on that day, are they mentally 
disturbed too? 

There ought to be a system whereby astrologers tell us what 
children to euthenase before they become a threat to others
or the world. Maybe in the age of enlightenment?

Unfortunately, the US will have to take all of his threats seriously.  If he 
acts on his threat, the US will have to retaliate accordingly to defend itself. 
 It could be a very ugly scenario for the history books.
 
 JR
 
 
 
 --- In mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, Mike Dixon mdixon.6569@ 
 wrote:
 
  could this be the Mouse That Roared, a suicidal attack, in the hopes that 
  the US would rebuild a new North in a unified Korea?
  
  
  
  
   From: John jr_esq@
  To: mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 2:42 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Beware on April 26, 2013
  
    
  
  Given the tense situation in North Korea, the US military should be extra 
  vigilant on this day for possible attack from the rogue nation.  On this 
  day, Mars will be in very close opposition with Saturn.
  
  There are several planets involved in this opposition, including the Moon 
  and Venus.  It is likely that the malefic opposition can be mitigated by 
  the involvement of women in the situation.  Perhaps, the president of South 
  Korea should keep close contact with the wife of Kim Jong Un.  They could 
  possibly prevent a nuclear war.
  
  JR
 



 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2

2013-04-05 Thread Share Long
Duh!  Well since the majority of they have known me for less than a year and 
only online, hopefully they will understand that I trust more the opinions of 
family, friends, TMers and acquaintances who have known me in person for 65 
years or slightly less in the case of family members;  38 years or slightly 
less in the case of friends, acquaintances and TMers. 





 From: authfriend authfri...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 7:17 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
 

  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 I'm quite sure that my definition of sentimentality is different
 from Robin's. In almost 65 years of living, no one has ever
 accused me of being sentimental,

Well, now they have.

 nor do I think of myself that way. In this post I begin by 
 addressing Robin's assertions in the 6th paragraph of his
 post wherein he talks about contact with life and alleged
 reality denial. As for metaphysical discomfort, I did not 
 experience such in reading Robin's post.

I told you what it seemed like to me. Now you get to find
out what it seemed like to Robin.

 
  From: authfriend authfriend@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 11:16 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
 
 
   
 You know, Share, all this is very lovely, but it doesn't
 seem to have much of anything to do with what Robin was
 saying.
 
 In fact, it appears to me to be an *example* of the very
 behavior he describes: using sentimentality as a way to
 insulate yourself from the metaphysical discomfort his
 post produced in you.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  Robin, it is my experience that life reality is always making contact with 
  us; that any filtering of that contact is also done by life reality though 
  it may seem like the individual is doing it!  There are stories of people 
  going through trauma and their later reports suggest that the system at 
  least partially shut down all by itself for the sake of avoiding overwhelm 
  and surviving.  
  
  I think we are all doing this to some degree or another all the time.  If 
  only to avoid being overwhelmed by all the sensory data being presented to 
  us at every nanosecond.  And I think the decrease of the need for 
  filtering is one way to describe human development.  So I am at a certain 
  level of development with reference to this.  As is everyone else.  No 
  need to feel sad on my account.  I am simply at a less developed stage 
  than you are probably.  
  
  Referring back to Emily's quote from Descartes we could say that I am going 
  as far as possible in doubting everything.  Just as is everyone else!
  
  And from Salyavin:  Another explanation is that maybe we just don't know 
  enough about the nature of reality yet? 
  
  I did say that it seemed you were expressing a grudge against turq.  I 
  apologize for misjudging you about that and about your interaction
   with Curtis.  And I apologize to Doc if it seemed I was mocking him.  
  Indeed I enjoyed his post about this.
  
  It is my experience also that the
   tragic and the beautiful can be exquisitely intertwined.    
  
  PS  I saw your post in one of Ann's and retrieved it from Message View.  
  It has not yet appeared in my yahoo inbox.
  
  Fair enough, Share. Thanks. I was acting in both my analysis of Barry and 
  in my
  two posts to Curtis, from a clear conscience and a loving heart. I do not 
  carry
  or have grudges--never have. My analysis came from a direct perception, and 
  I
  believe it to be something that can be tested against one's experience. No 
  one
  with any intelligence could fail to comprehend what I said. Indeed Curtis 
  said
  it was formulaic, simple, and unsophisticated.
  
  In my two posts to Curtis I was acting honourably and appropriately, given 
  what
  he had written to Ann about me and about his friend and then in his 
  contemptuous
  reference to DrD.
  
  You will understand, then, Share, that as far as I am concerned my motives 
  to
  write what I wrote were unimpeachable. You will realize therefore that your
  characterization of those posts gravely contradicts my conscious intention 
  and
  experience--and make a mockery of those posters who chose to respond to 
  what I
  have written in terms which coincide with my intention and experience.
  
  What this disagreement turns on then, Share, is the quality of truthfulness 
  I
  exercised in writing that analysis of Barry, and in my two posts to Curtis
  versus the quality of truthfulness you are exercising in telling me I was 
  in the
  case of the analysis of Barry expressing a grudge and that I was
  incomprehensible; and in the case of Curtis, that I was sarcastic and 
  accusatory
  when he had been reasonable.
  
  You realize that if there is such a thing 

[FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2

2013-04-05 Thread emilymae.reyn
Perhaps you might ask them whether or not they think it is a good idea for you 
to energetically align yourself with Adolf Hitler.  I will pray for your soul.  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Duh!  Well since the majority of they have known me for less than a year 
 and only online, hopefully they will understand that I trust more the 
 opinions of family, friends, TMers and acquaintances who have known me in 
 person for 65 years or slightly less in the case of family members;  38 
 years or slightly less in the case of friends, acquaintances and TMers. 
 
 
 
 
 
  From: authfriend authfriend@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 7:17 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
  
 
   
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  I'm quite sure that my definition of sentimentality is different
  from Robin's. In almost 65 years of living, no one has ever
  accused me of being sentimental,
 
 Well, now they have.
 
  nor do I think of myself that way. In this post I begin by 
  addressing Robin's assertions in the 6th paragraph of his
  post wherein he talks about contact with life and alleged
  reality denial. As for metaphysical discomfort, I did not 
  experience such in reading Robin's post.
 
 I told you what it seemed like to me. Now you get to find
 out what it seemed like to Robin.
 
  
   From: authfriend authfriend@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 11:16 AM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
  
  
    
  You know, Share, all this is very lovely, but it doesn't
  seem to have much of anything to do with what Robin was
  saying.
  
  In fact, it appears to me to be an *example* of the very
  behavior he describes: using sentimentality as a way to
  insulate yourself from the metaphysical discomfort his
  post produced in you.
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   Robin, it is my experience that life reality is always making contact 
   with us; that any filtering of that contact is also done by life reality 
   though it may seem like the individual is doing it!  There are stories 
   of people going through trauma and their later reports suggest that the 
   system at least partially shut down all by itself for the sake of 
   avoiding overwhelm and surviving.  
   
   I think we are all doing this to some degree or another all the time.  
   If only to avoid being overwhelmed by all the sensory data being 
   presented to us at every nanosecond.  And I think the decrease of the 
   need for filtering is one way to describe human development.  So I am 
   at a certain level of development with reference to this.  As is 
   everyone else.  No need to feel sad on my account.  I am simply at 
   a less developed stage than you are probably.  
   
   Referring back to Emily's quote from Descartes we could say that I am 
   going as far as possible in doubting everything.  Just as is everyone 
   else!
   
   And from Salyavin:  Another explanation is that maybe we just don't 
   know enough about the nature of reality yet? 
   
   I did say that it seemed you were expressing a grudge against turq.  I 
   apologize for misjudging you about that and about your interaction
with Curtis.  And I apologize to Doc if it seemed I was mocking 
   him.  Indeed I enjoyed his post about this.
   
   It is my experience also that the
tragic and the beautiful can be exquisitely intertwined.    
   
   PS  I saw your post in one of Ann's and retrieved it from Message 
   View.  It has not yet appeared in my yahoo inbox.
   
   Fair enough, Share. Thanks. I was acting in both my analysis of Barry and 
   in my
   two posts to Curtis, from a clear conscience and a loving heart. I do not 
   carry
   or have grudges--never have. My analysis came from a direct perception, 
   and I
   believe it to be something that can be tested against one's experience. 
   No one
   with any intelligence could fail to comprehend what I said. Indeed Curtis 
   said
   it was formulaic, simple, and unsophisticated.
   
   In my two posts to Curtis I was acting honourably and appropriately, 
   given what
   he had written to Ann about me and about his friend and then in his 
   contemptuous
   reference to DrD.
   
   You will understand, then, Share, that as far as I am concerned my 
   motives to
   write what I wrote were unimpeachable. You will realize therefore that 
   your
   characterization of those posts gravely contradicts my conscious 
   intention and
   experience--and make a mockery of those posters who chose to respond to 
   what I
   have written in terms which coincide with my intention and experience.
   
   What this disagreement turns on then, Share, is the quality of 
   truthfulness I
   

[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread Robin Carlsen
It is indeed Perfect Response. And so is this. But the verdict is now in. 
Share's response is quite obviously a form of defensive irony to avoid having 
to reveal whether her initial suggestion of the Holocaust remedy was meant 
ironically or not. It was obviously a straight answer. Why don't you ask 
her--offline: Am I to assume that this last response to Robin means 
unequivocally that you made that Hitler Valentine comment in jest?

No, Share simply and reflexively (and I must presume involuntarily) found that 
her modus operandi could come up with only one idea: I WILL JUST NOT DEAL WITH 
THIS.

And she did not.

Steve, Yes, you are a great guy, but your NEED to celebrate what Share just 
did, it is your meta-blind spot. But you dwell in a kind of grace of 
not-knowingness (regarding matters like this), so I say: This is what they 
call in the trade A Perfect Response.

Sure, let's do that.

I will not try to remove the bullet in your foot--as I see there are quite a 
few lodged there--but since you don't feel any pain, no problem.

Great post, Steve.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 
 This is what they call in the trade. A
 Perfect Response!!
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@
 wrote:
 
  dear Dolphie, I love you.  Please be my valentine forever.  If
 you build me a house I will happily live in it with you and our little
 Dolphies and Dolphinas.  And every time you build another building
 you will bring me yellow roses and white chocolate and we will drink
 dark red wine with our vegetarian dinner.  We will send the children
 off to bed early and then we will giggle a lot on the front sofa just
 like my Mommy and Daddy do when he has sold another VW.  Ooops, here
 comes teacher Old  Scowly Face.  I'll give this to you at
 recess.  Your friend, Theodora  Â
 
 
 
 
  
  From: Robin Carlsen maskedzebra@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
  Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 10:24 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] HITLER'S VALENTINE
 
 
  Â
  Robin:I think you would like to send Hitler a Valentine's Card and
 make everything all
  right again.
 
  Share: Perhaps if someone had sent Hitler a valentine, he would have
 become a happy architect.
 
  Robin: If you said this ironically then you have essentially defied my
 analysis of you--or at least in coming up with this response (assuming,
 again, that it is ironic) you have proven to me you can resist your
 primary tendency (sentimentality = a failure of real feeling). If,
 however--you must tell me which it is, dear Share,--you meant this
 non-ironically, then you have demonstrated just how true my essential
 idea of you is, dear Share.
 
  So, either way I win. Because if you meant it in a deliberately ironic
 way, then you have jumped out of your mould and have said something
 easily as good as anything I could have said. And if you meant it
 sincerely (really believing in the truth of what you say here; namely,
 that the course of history could have been changed by one valentine)
 then you have rendered my last three posts to you superfluous.
 
  I won't ask you to clarify whether you were being ironic or not,
 Share; I will just pray that if you were serious you will see that what
 you have said means you have knocked yourself out with one roundhouse to
 the brain. And I wonder whether you will ever get up off the canvas.
 
  That said, I have to contemplate that the joke is on me; and in that
 case I declare you the victor here. It is that good, your
 self-mockery--and in a way you are making fun of me brilliantly.
 
  Roger I believe had less of a problem in facing what is there (as he
 had to today) than did Adolph--but then, if all it would have taken was
 one valentine, then perhaps God thought Hitler was just one valentine
 short of going to heaven.
 
  Thank you for writing with the intention to do your best, Share. It
 was pretty good, all things considered.
 
  But the motive for Hitler's valentine: on that hangs a fearful
 judgment!
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread Michael Jackson
The TMO rules are analogous to the Nazi regime rules and in some senses the TMO 
itself has been compared to the Nazi regime because:

1 - Marshy used to praise Hitler

2 - German Purusha, who should be focusing on enlightenment and world peace 
have been reported as wearing German swastikas underneath their ties and 
celebrating Hitler's Birthday in Movement facilities (yet they have so-called 
standards about music and other vibes that are supposedly off the program)

3 - The rules of the Nazi regime served the interests of the regime overall and 
its leaders over the real best interests of the people of the German state, 
even those in the Nazi party in many instances. Same story for the TMO.

4 - Everyone under the Nazi regime was expected to
 march in lock-step (or should I say goose-step) with whatever arbitrary and 
capricious orders were handed down from on high. Same deal for the TMO.

5 - Infractions of the rules were dealt with in a harsh and unfair fashion by 
the Nazis. Same deal for the TMO.

6 - Many low, mid, and upper level managers of the Nazi regime were hidebound, 
stupid and unable to express real creativity. Same for the TMO. 

7 - The rules of the Nazi Party were created and administered in an unfair 
capricious manner that was ultimately to the detriment of the German people and 
the party itself. Same for the TMO.

8 - As Barry had mentioned there have been times that official TM reps have 
grilled and interrogated meditators and those seeking to advance in the 
Movement as to whether or not the applicants are actually marching in lock step 
with the TM Movement. I believe the Nazis were famous for such activities.

9 - Much like the Nazis, many upper level TM people have a great sense of 
elitism,
 entitlement and superiority to non-meditators and even those who are beneath 
them in the Movement. 

10 - Like the Nazi regime, the TM Movement does not want people to engage in 
independent thinking, but rather to think whatever the TMO tells them to think.

 
I could come up with more obvious comparisons but I have other things to do 
today.




 From: feste37 fest...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 9:53 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement
 

  
Ah, yes, Nazi-like. Of course. What took you so long? You should pick this up 
and run with it, Michael. If you take a look back in the archives you will find 
plenty of valuable references, enough to keep you frothing at the mouth for 
days or possibly even weeks. Nazi-like! Nazi-like! I advise you not to stop and 
ask yourself, In what sense, precisely, are the rules of the TMO, 
'Nazi-like'. That would just spoil all the fun. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 It's got nothing to do with different instructions for different people - the 
 TMO is just like Marshy was capricious and unfair -  and lots of the absurd 
 rules are very Nazi-like -no wonder Nappy likes 'em.
 
 Besides, not seeing the so-called saints has to do with only one thing - 
 not wanting people to give ANY credit for experiences to anything other than 
 the TMO, and to try to prevent gifts, payments and donations to ANYONE other 
 than the TMO, cuz a donation to Amma, Sri Sri Ravi or any other saint is 
 dollars that the TMO doesn't get.
 
 It costs a whole heap of money to feed the Movement and they don't want to 
 miss a penny.
 
 
 
 
 
  From: nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 5:57 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement
 
 
   
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
 
  It's very unfortunate news for the Fairfield Dome community that they have 
  returned to the strict anti-saint policy, considering how many people went 
  over to India and saw saints just recently.  Purusha in India continues to 
  see saints.  Down in Boone meditators see saints.  So much for the flower 
  of the movement. 
 
 Maharishi gave different instructions to different groups for a reason. 
 Different strokes for different people. Stop whining and learn to live with 
 it. There are rules everywhere, every company and org have their own 
 regulations. Those that can't accept that are free to start their own group.



 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread feste37
How many Jews has the TMO killed?

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 The TMO rules are analogous to the Nazi regime rules and in some senses the 
 TMO itself has been compared to the Nazi regime because:
 
 1 - Marshy used to praise Hitler
 
 2 - German Purusha, who should be focusing on enlightenment and world peace 
 have been reported as wearing German swastikas underneath their ties and 
 celebrating Hitler's Birthday in Movement facilities (yet they have so-called 
 standards about music and other vibes that are supposedly off the program)
 
 3 - The rules of the Nazi regime served the interests of the regime overall 
 and its leaders over the real best interests of the people of the German 
 state, even those in the Nazi party in many instances. Same story for the TMO.
 
 4 - Everyone under the Nazi regime was expected to
  march in lock-step (or should I say goose-step) with whatever arbitrary and 
 capricious orders were handed down from on high. Same deal for the TMO.
 
 5 - Infractions of the rules were dealt with in a harsh and unfair fashion by 
 the Nazis. Same deal for the TMO.
 
 6 - Many low, mid, and upper level managers of the Nazi regime were 
 hidebound, stupid and unable to express real creativity. Same for the TMO. 
 
 7 - The rules of the Nazi Party were created and administered in an unfair 
 capricious manner that was ultimately to the detriment of the German people 
 and the party itself. Same for the TMO.
 
 8 - As Barry had mentioned there have been times that official TM reps have 
 grilled and interrogated meditators and those seeking to advance in the 
 Movement as to whether or not the applicants are actually marching in lock 
 step with the TM Movement. I believe the Nazis were famous for such 
 activities.
 
 9 - Much like the Nazis, many upper level TM people have a great sense of 
 elitism,
  entitlement and superiority to non-meditators and even those who are beneath 
 them in the Movement. 
 
 10 - Like the Nazi regime, the TM Movement does not want people to engage in 
 independent thinking, but rather to think whatever the TMO tells them to 
 think.
 
  
 I could come up with more obvious comparisons but I have other things to do 
 today.
 
 
 
 
  From: feste37 feste37@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 9:53 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement
  
 
   
 Ah, yes, Nazi-like. Of course. What took you so long? You should pick this 
 up and run with it, Michael. If you take a look back in the archives you will 
 find plenty of valuable references, enough to keep you frothing at the mouth 
 for days or possibly even weeks. Nazi-like! Nazi-like! I advise you not to 
 stop and ask yourself, In what sense, precisely, are the rules of the TMO, 
 'Nazi-like'. That would just spoil all the fun. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@ wrote:
 
  It's got nothing to do with different instructions for different people - 
  the TMO is just like Marshy was capricious and unfair -  and lots of the 
  absurd rules are very Nazi-like -no wonder Nappy likes 'em.
  
  Besides, not seeing the so-called saints has to do with only one thing - 
  not wanting people to give ANY credit for experiences to anything other 
  than the TMO, and to try to prevent gifts, payments and donations to ANYONE 
  other than the TMO, cuz a donation to Amma, Sri Sri Ravi or any other 
  saint is dollars that the TMO doesn't get.
  
  It costs a whole heap of money to feed the Movement and they don't want to 
  miss a penny.
  
  
  
  
  
   From: nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 5:57 AM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement
  
  
    
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
  
   It's very unfortunate news for the Fairfield Dome community that they 
   have returned to the strict anti-saint policy, considering how many 
   people went over to India and saw saints just recently.  Purusha in India 
   continues to see saints.  Down in Boone meditators see saints.  So much 
   for the flower of the movement. 
  
  Maharishi gave different instructions to different groups for a reason. 
  Different strokes for different people. Stop whining and learn to live with 
  it. There are rules everywhere, every company and org have their own 
  regulations. Those that can't accept that are free to start their own group.
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread Robin Carlsen

SL: Robin, it is my experience that life reality is always making contact with 
us.

RC: There is no evidence that this is an 'experience' of yours, whatsoever,
Share. This is imagined via your philosophy, a philosophy whose purpose is to
insure there is a fire wall between you and reality at all times. Reality? The
reality, Share, which would make you seek to find the actual point of tension
which results in the disagreement about the truthfulness and appropriateness of
those disputed posts of mine. Your platitudes here cannot be a substitute for
finding out WTF REALITY THINKS OF THIS DIFFERENT WAY YOU AND I ARE INTERPRETING
HER. Does it matter to reality which one of us more closely represents her
(reality's) point of view about those posts, Share? Was your construal more
innocent and sincere (therefore more convincing) than DrD's judgment of those
same posts?

Is there, does there exist, some means of adjudicating between different claims
about what is more real, what is more truthful? I believe there is, although
this is not set out in any book I have read or lived out by any person that I
have known.

SL: That any filtering of that contact is also done by life reality though it
may seem like the individual is doing it! 

RC: What is the empirical or experimental basis of this knowledge you present
here, Share? You have actually experienced inside your being the simultaneity of
free will and reality being expressed in the actions of an individual human
being? No one that I have ever known (or who has existed as a human being) has
ever had such an experience--For if they had this experience, Share, they would
be able to solve the problem of free will and determinism.

Don't you see, Share, you are making an idea take the place of an existential
encounter with your own personally felt experience? This is what confounds me,
that you settle for a pure abstraction in the place of a required experience.
There is no experience here, Share; therefore what you propose is just Hindu
philosophy disjoined from your own existence.

SL: There are stories of people going through trauma and their later reports
suggest that the system at least partially shut down all by itself for the sake
of avoiding overwhelm and surviving.

RC: Fine, Undoubtedly true. What has this to do with those three posts of mine,
your question to authfriend, or anything I have written to you since then? There
is, Share, a real place of exact location where life is going on in this
argument we are having. Why not see where we can go by bearing as much of what
is happening here as we can--and see where we end up? I want to bring all of
myself, all of my history, along with me in any serious debate--and I don't mind
being humbled in the discovery that indeed my analysis of BW was ill-conceived,
that my posts to CM were scornful and petty. But you have not entered into any
form of experience whereby you could deliver up such a verdict--because then,
Share, SOME OF REALITY WOULD BE COMING THROUGH YOU WHEN YOU DID THIS. 

And I would feel this. This is where what really is the case (objectivity) gets
into our subjectivity (what we *experience* is the case, or what we would *like*
to be the case).

SL: I think we are all doing this to some degree or another all the time.

RC: Are we, Share? Where is the data you have collected on this issue, in terms
of recording it on your nervous system? Don't you see, Share, if you really
believed this, there should be some evidence--even unconscious--that your life
reflects the legitimacy of drawing such a conclusion. Whereas the fact is, you
are a zero (in terms of the legacy of your life) in any connection you are
making here between this idea and reality. Like right in this very moment,
Share, what is your experience of what I just said?

I submit to you, Share, you are dominated by a subjective experience that tells
you what I am writing must be answered *in order to allow you to survive with
your philosophy and modus operandi intact*. Whereas what I would have liked is
for you to see what the effect is of what I say upon you as a living soul in the
universe. Hell, you might be right about everything, Share, but the irony is:
YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO KNOW THIS. 

SL: If only to avoid being overwhelmed by all the sensory data being presented
to us at every nanosecond.

RC: Just a concept, Share. 

SL: And I think the decrease of the need for filtering is one way to describe
human development.

RC: Intriguing idea here, Share. Does it go to anything relevant to what we have
been discussing? The need for filtering: that could be a concept interestingly
enough which is pertinent here (to our dispute). Again, Share, you are going
from an idea, a sentiment, a principle back to life, instead of the other way
around. What just astonishes me, Share, is that all I get from you (besides your
intelligence and friendliness) are ideas totally divorced from your personal
experience. And whatever is keeping you in this 

[FairfieldLife] Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread emilymae.reyn
Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI





[FairfieldLife] Is the US Headed for Fiscal Collapse?

2013-04-05 Thread John
David Stockman thinks so.  But his stance on the management of the economy 
appears too severe and conservative.  There are other ways the economy can bump 
and grind.

http://news.yahoo.com/u-headed-fiscal-collapse-083000608.html



[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread Robin Carlsen
Your subjective delight overwhelms any chance of the impartiality of truth 
getting to have any say in this, Steve. And therefore, all we get is your 
emotion. If you were really making contact with what was true, the truth would 
do the work for you that, in the absence of this objectifying element, you must 
do all on your own. If your initial experience of reading Share's response to 
my Hitler's Valentine post originated in reality, this would be present in your 
post. The desperate chivalry and eruption of unfortunate relief is all that 
came through, Steve. If there was any validity in your judgment of Share's 
post, it would make itself known independent of your own feelings. And it did 
not.

See what a sore loser I am?

You would make Share's post into some devastating counterpunch.

Share actually just went into her corner and handed out flowers.

Did you actually smell those flowers, Steve?

And your post ignored how much I wanted her to best me. (Read my post again, 
Steve; the first Hitler's Valentine.)

You must remember, Steve:  The only emperor is the emperor of ice-cream.

 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 
 This is what they call in the trade. A
 Perfect Response!!
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@
 wrote:
 
  dear Dolphie, I love you.  Please be my valentine forever.  If
 you build me a house I will happily live in it with you and our little
 Dolphies and Dolphinas.  And every time you build another building
 you will bring me yellow roses and white chocolate and we will drink
 dark red wine with our vegetarian dinner.  We will send the children
 off to bed early and then we will giggle a lot on the front sofa just
 like my Mommy and Daddy do when he has sold another VW.  Ooops, here
 comes teacher Old  Scowly Face.  I'll give this to you at
 recess.  Your friend, Theodora  Â
 
 
 
 
  
  From: Robin Carlsen maskedzebra@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
  Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 10:24 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] HITLER'S VALENTINE
 
 
  Â
  Robin:I think you would like to send Hitler a Valentine's Card and
 make everything all
  right again.
 
  Share: Perhaps if someone had sent Hitler a valentine, he would have
 become a happy architect.
 
  Robin: If you said this ironically then you have essentially defied my
 analysis of you--or at least in coming up with this response (assuming,
 again, that it is ironic) you have proven to me you can resist your
 primary tendency (sentimentality = a failure of real feeling). If,
 however--you must tell me which it is, dear Share,--you meant this
 non-ironically, then you have demonstrated just how true my essential
 idea of you is, dear Share.
 
  So, either way I win. Because if you meant it in a deliberately ironic
 way, then you have jumped out of your mould and have said something
 easily as good as anything I could have said. And if you meant it
 sincerely (really believing in the truth of what you say here; namely,
 that the course of history could have been changed by one valentine)
 then you have rendered my last three posts to you superfluous.
 
  I won't ask you to clarify whether you were being ironic or not,
 Share; I will just pray that if you were serious you will see that what
 you have said means you have knocked yourself out with one roundhouse to
 the brain. And I wonder whether you will ever get up off the canvas.
 
  That said, I have to contemplate that the joke is on me; and in that
 case I declare you the victor here. It is that good, your
 self-mockery--and in a way you are making fun of me brilliantly.
 
  Roger I believe had less of a problem in facing what is there (as he
 had to today) than did Adolph--but then, if all it would have taken was
 one valentine, then perhaps God thought Hitler was just one valentine
 short of going to heaven.
 
  Thank you for writing with the intention to do your best, Share. It
 was pretty good, all things considered.
 
  But the motive for Hitler's valentine: on that hangs a fearful
 judgment!
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread curtisdeltablues
I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically aligning to 
Hitler charge seems unfair.


It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just batted that 
ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was thrown.

It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her as if she 
doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live through it, but have 
read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a horrible bad thing just as you 
do, and posting more horrors wont make her more sensitive to the issues than 
she already is.

And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought Hitler up 
in a flip way?

That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so I guess 
in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 







 



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote:

 Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
 video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI





[FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 It's got nothing to do with different instructions for different people - 

I'm very happy and grateful that you have clarified this point now Michael 
Jackson. Thank's again !



[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread feste37
It's just the usual Let's get Share pile on. Nothing new here. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically aligning to 
 Hitler charge seems unfair.
 
 
 It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just batted that 
 ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was thrown.
 
 It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her as if 
 she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live through it, 
 but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a horrible bad thing 
 just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make her more sensitive to the 
 issues than she already is.
 
 And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought Hitler 
 up in a flip way?
 
 That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so I 
 guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
  video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread Michael Jackson
TMO likes wealthy Jews to keep 'em goin'




 From: feste37 fest...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 10:53 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement
 

  
How many Jews has the TMO killed?

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 The TMO rules are analogous to the Nazi regime rules and in some senses the 
 TMO itself has been compared to the Nazi regime because:
 
 1 - Marshy used to praise Hitler
 
 2 - German Purusha, who should be focusing on enlightenment and world peace 
 have been reported as wearing German swastikas underneath their ties and 
 celebrating Hitler's Birthday in Movement facilities (yet they have so-called 
 standards about music and other vibes that are supposedly off the program)
 
 3 - The rules of the Nazi regime served the interests of the regime overall 
 and its leaders over the real best interests of the people of the German 
 state, even those in the Nazi party in many instances. Same story for the TMO.
 
 4 - Everyone under the Nazi regime was expected to
  march in lock-step (or should I say goose-step) with whatever arbitrary and 
 capricious orders were handed down from on high. Same deal for the TMO.
 
 5 - Infractions of the rules were dealt with in a harsh and unfair fashion by 
 the Nazis. Same deal for the TMO.
 
 6 - Many low, mid, and upper level managers of the Nazi regime were 
 hidebound, stupid and unable to express real creativity. Same for the TMO. 
 
 7 - The rules of the Nazi Party were created and administered in an unfair 
 capricious manner that was ultimately to the detriment of the German people 
 and the party itself. Same for the TMO.
 
 8 - As Barry had mentioned there have been times that official TM reps have 
 grilled and interrogated meditators and those seeking to advance in the 
 Movement as to whether or not the applicants are actually marching in lock 
 step with the TM Movement. I believe the Nazis were famous for such 
 activities.
 
 9 - Much like the Nazis, many upper level TM people have a great sense of 
 elitism,
  entitlement and superiority to non-meditators and even those who are beneath 
 them in the Movement. 
 
 10 - Like the Nazi regime, the TM Movement does not want people to engage in 
 independent thinking, but rather to think whatever the TMO tells them to 
 think.
 
  
 I could come up with more obvious comparisons but I have other things to do 
 today.
 
 
 
 
  From: feste37 feste37@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 9:53 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement
 
 
   
 Ah, yes, Nazi-like. Of course. What took you so long? You should pick this 
 up and run with it, Michael. If you take a look back in the archives you will 
 find plenty of valuable references, enough to keep you frothing at the mouth 
 for days or possibly even weeks. Nazi-like! Nazi-like! I advise you not to 
 stop and ask yourself, In what sense, precisely, are the rules of the TMO, 
 'Nazi-like'. That would just spoil all the fun. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@ wrote:
 
  It's got nothing to do with different instructions for different people - 
  the TMO is just like Marshy was capricious and unfair -  and lots of the 
  absurd rules are very Nazi-like -no wonder Nappy likes 'em.
  
  Besides, not seeing the so-called saints has to do with only one thing - 
  not wanting people to give ANY credit for experiences to anything other 
  than the TMO, and to try to prevent gifts, payments and donations to ANYONE 
  other than the TMO, cuz a donation to Amma, Sri Sri Ravi or any other 
  saint is dollars that the TMO doesn't get.
  
  It costs a whole heap of money to feed the Movement and they don't want to 
  miss a penny.
  
  
  
  
  
   From: nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 5:57 AM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement
  
  
    
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
  
   It's very unfortunate news for the Fairfield Dome community that they 
   have returned to the strict anti-saint policy, considering how many 
   people went over to India and saw saints just recently.  Purusha in India 
   continues to see saints.  Down in Boone meditators see saints.  So much 
   for the flower of the movement. 
  
  Maharishi gave different instructions to different groups for a reason. 
  Different strokes for different people. Stop whining and learn to live with 
  it. There are rules everywhere, every company and org have their own 
  regulations. Those that can't accept that are free to start their own group.
 



 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread Robin Carlsen
For once, Curtis, I can see your point. And I appreciate it. I wish I had read 
this before I posted that HV post. What I most respect about you is how you 
seek to do justice to an issue that is being controverted, how you amass all 
the details and demonstrate in your rebuttals how keen you are to grasp the 
entirety of what is at stake (in terms of truth).

For instance, I could feel how you had absorbed all the posts back and forth 
between me and Share--and then how your post here reflected--and then 
transcended--the totality of what had been said. It is a very beautiful thing 
watching you in action, Curtis.

You have the extraordinary gift of being infinitely invulnerable.

All of what you say here is pure BS. Want to know why?

I don't think you do.

But if you answer this, I will tell you.

Robin

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically aligning to 
 Hitler charge seems unfair.
 
 
 It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just batted that 
 ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was thrown.
 
 It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her as if 
 she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live through it, 
 but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a horrible bad thing 
 just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make her more sensitive to the 
 issues than she already is.
 
 And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought Hitler 
 up in a flip way?
 
 That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so I 
 guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
  video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this
 energetically aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.
 
 It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she
 just batted that ball back in the same sense of absurdity
 that it was thrown.

Regardless of whether Share's initial response had the
same sense of absurdity, I suspect Emily was referring
to her Dolphie follow-up posts.

 It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the
 holocaust on her as if she doesn't have the same grasp
 any of us have who didn't live through it, but have read
 about it.

I'd be astonished if anyone here was capable of anything
equivalent to the Dolphie posts.

Well, maybe *you* would be.

 I'll be she also thinks it was a horrible bad thing just
 as you do, and posting more horrors wont make her more
 sensitive to the issues than she already is.

I can go along with this, though.





 And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought Hitler 
 up in a flip way?
 
 That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so I 
 guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
  video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread emilymae.reyn
Dear Curtis, the last line in your post is the closest that you come to my 
intentions on posting what I did.  

Talking in Bed

Talking in be ought to be easiest,
Lying together there goes back so far,
An emblem of two people being honest.

Yet more and more time passes silently.
Outside, the wind's incomplete unrest
Builds and disperses clouds about the sky,

And dark towns heap up on the horizon.
None of this cares for us. Nothing shows why
At this unique distance from isolation

It becomes still more difficult to find
Words at once true and kind,
Or not untrue and not unkind.

James Dickey


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically aligning to 
 Hitler charge seems unfair.
 
 
 It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just batted that 
 ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was thrown.
 
 It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her as if 
 she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live through it, 
 but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a horrible bad thing 
 just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make her more sensitive to the 
 issues than she already is.
 
 And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought Hitler 
 up in a flip way?
 
 That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so I 
 guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
  video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread curtisdeltablues
I was going to second Steve's post but I guess I would rather address you 
directly Robin since I am so tight with reality that if she dies tonight on 
the car ride home CSI would convict me on DNA evidence alone.

From the outset your mission with Share has been unfriendly and she has done a 
pretty good job of handling herself considering that you are just letting her 
have it with both barrels about herself, uninvited.  It reminds me of our 
conversations which followed the same arc, although I at lest got some flowers 
and chocolates at the door before the assault. 

You would make Share's post into some devastating counterpunch.

You have used similar metaphors of competition in our conversations and I am 
seeing a pattern. The issue is that you seem to believe, perhaps sincerely, 
that you have a better insight into some posters here than they do of 
themselves.  And when they reject this assumption, (as any adult would), you 
act as if you are in a fight to make them see themselves through your 
unflattering lens.

Why would we? You may be thinking that your insight is more valuable than it 
is.  And having been the focus of your unasked for improvement sessions myself, 
I have to say that you aren't that perceptive Robin. And perhaps you are in 
person, so you have developed an unnaturally high self-regard about this 
ability, but it isn't cutting it here.  You have been running a formula and it 
is increasingly obvious.

So that is my opinion and I don't need to word flood you about it or repeat it 
a million times.  I've made my point and as a fellow adult I suspect you will 
just blow it all off as me being me.

Just as Share did with you.  I think she did pretty well considering that you 
were quite invested in going after her with an unfriendly agenda.  She 
responded to your charges as best she could just as I tried to do.  She engaged 
and stood up for herself.

And no I don't want to know why you don't approve of my post to Emily.  I'll 
let her speak for herself.

One more thing.  Crack a book on Descartes, you have him all wrong.   








--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robin Carlsen maskedzebra@... wrote:

 Your subjective delight overwhelms any chance of the impartiality of truth 
 getting to have any say in this, Steve. And therefore, all we get is your 
 emotion. If you were really making contact with what was true, the truth 
 would do the work for you that, in the absence of this objectifying element, 
 you must do all on your own. If your initial experience of reading Share's 
 response to my Hitler's Valentine post originated in reality, this would be 
 present in your post. The desperate chivalry and eruption of unfortunate 
 relief is all that came through, Steve. If there was any validity in your 
 judgment of Share's post, it would make itself known independent of your own 
 feelings. And it did not.
 
 See what a sore loser I am?
 
 You would make Share's post into some devastating counterpunch.
 
 Share actually just went into her corner and handed out flowers.
 
 Did you actually smell those flowers, Steve?
 
 And your post ignored how much I wanted her to best me. (Read my post again, 
 Steve; the first Hitler's Valentine.)
 
 You must remember, Steve:  The only emperor is the emperor of ice-cream.
 
  
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ wrote:
 
  
  This is what they call in the trade. A
  Perfect Response!!
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@
  wrote:
  
   dear Dolphie, I love you.  Please be my valentine forever.  If
  you build me a house I will happily live in it with you and our little
  Dolphies and Dolphinas.  And every time you build another building
  you will bring me yellow roses and white chocolate and we will drink
  dark red wine with our vegetarian dinner.  We will send the children
  off to bed early and then we will giggle a lot on the front sofa just
  like my Mommy and Daddy do when he has sold another VW.  Ooops, here
  comes teacher Old  Scowly Face.  I'll give this to you at
  recess.  Your friend, Theodora  Â
  
  
  
  
   
   From: Robin Carlsen maskedzebra@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
   Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 10:24 PM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] HITLER'S VALENTINE
  
  
   Â
   Robin:I think you would like to send Hitler a Valentine's Card and
  make everything all
   right again.
  
   Share: Perhaps if someone had sent Hitler a valentine, he would have
  become a happy architect.
  
   Robin: If you said this ironically then you have essentially defied my
  analysis of you--or at least in coming up with this response (assuming,
  again, that it is ironic) you have proven to me you can resist your
  primary tendency (sentimentality = a failure of real feeling). If,
  however--you must tell me which it is, dear Share,--you meant this
  non-ironically, then you have demonstrated just 

[FairfieldLife] Robin or Good Irony vs Defensive Irony

2013-04-05 Thread Share Long
Share to Robin:  I can hardly keep up.  Now we have Defensive Irony?!  As 
opposed to Robin Irony which I assume is the Good Irony.
BTW I made no suggestion about a Holocaust remedy.  You of course know this.  
Perhaps you had written the word Holocaust in invisible ink?  

In the spirit of your approved Descartes's little technique, I made a light 
hearted response about Hitler and valentines.  But you know this too.  OTOH, a 
la Descartes, perhaps a valentine to Hitler would have healed him.  Perhaps 
not.  And apologies if I'm being too sentimental according to RWC.  Anyway, 
think of the movie Citizen Kane for example.  Rosebud, he said on his deathbed. 
 Who knows what event can turn someone into a monster?  Or prevent him from 
becoming one?  Perhaps only ex cult leaders?    

I totally understand your ignoring the rest of my reply, instead grabbing onto 
this part and running with it.  And lookie, you've got your little gang to run 
with it as well.  Well at least Emily is praying for me!   

Robin to Steve:  It is indeed Perfect Response. And so is this. But the verdict 
is now in.
Share's response is quite obviously a form of defensive irony to avoid having to
reveal whether her initial suggestion of the Holocaust remedy was meant
ironically or not. It was obviously a straight answer.   

[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread emilymae.reyn
Feste - you are way off the mark here.  Stop belittling the human condition.  
It is time for you to clean out your dome.  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@... wrote:

 It's just the usual Let's get Share pile on. Nothing new here. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically aligning 
  to Hitler charge seems unfair.
  
  
  It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just batted that 
  ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was thrown.
  
  It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her as if 
  she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live through it, 
  but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a horrible bad 
  thing just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make her more sensitive 
  to the issues than she already is.
  
  And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought 
  Hitler up in a flip way?
  
  That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so I 
  guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
   
  
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
  wrote:
  
   Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
   video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2

2013-04-05 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Duh! Well since the majority of they have known me for less
 than a year and only online, hopefully they will understand
 that I trust more the opinions of family, friends, TMers and 
 acquaintances who have known me in person for 65 years or
 slightly less in the case of family members; 38 years or
 slightly less in the case of friends, acquaintances and TMers.

Oh, by all means trust those who have known you in person
for many years with regard to how you behave in person.

Then ask yourself why those with whom you have interacted
most intensely and extensively on FFL perceive your
behavior here quite differently.

You see, unfortunately one can't disavow how one's online
persona appears to others online by claiming that one's
offline persona is somehow much different. One must own
both personas and be accountable for each one to the people
who are familiar with it.



 
 
  From: authfriend authfriend@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 7:17 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
  
 
   
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  I'm quite sure that my definition of sentimentality is different
  from Robin's. In almost 65 years of living, no one has ever
  accused me of being sentimental,
 
 Well, now they have.
 
  nor do I think of myself that way. In this post I begin by 
  addressing Robin's assertions in the 6th paragraph of his
  post wherein he talks about contact with life and alleged
  reality denial. As for metaphysical discomfort, I did not 
  experience such in reading Robin's post.
 
 I told you what it seemed like to me. Now you get to find
 out what it seemed like to Robin.
 
  
   From: authfriend authfriend@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 11:16 AM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
  
  
    
  You know, Share, all this is very lovely, but it doesn't
  seem to have much of anything to do with what Robin was
  saying.
  
  In fact, it appears to me to be an *example* of the very
  behavior he describes: using sentimentality as a way to
  insulate yourself from the metaphysical discomfort his
  post produced in you.
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   Robin, it is my experience that life reality is always making contact 
   with us; that any filtering of that contact is also done by life reality 
   though it may seem like the individual is doing it!  There are stories 
   of people going through trauma and their later reports suggest that the 
   system at least partially shut down all by itself for the sake of 
   avoiding overwhelm and surviving.  
   
   I think we are all doing this to some degree or another all the time.  
   If only to avoid being overwhelmed by all the sensory data being 
   presented to us at every nanosecond.  And I think the decrease of the 
   need for filtering is one way to describe human development.  So I am 
   at a certain level of development with reference to this.  As is 
   everyone else.  No need to feel sad on my account.  I am simply at 
   a less developed stage than you are probably.  
   
   Referring back to Emily's quote from Descartes we could say that I am 
   going as far as possible in doubting everything.  Just as is everyone 
   else!
   
   And from Salyavin:  Another explanation is that maybe we just don't 
   know enough about the nature of reality yet? 
   
   I did say that it seemed you were expressing a grudge against turq.  I 
   apologize for misjudging you about that and about your interaction
with Curtis.  And I apologize to Doc if it seemed I was mocking 
   him.  Indeed I enjoyed his post about this.
   
   It is my experience also that the
tragic and the beautiful can be exquisitely intertwined.    
   
   PS  I saw your post in one of Ann's and retrieved it from Message 
   View.  It has not yet appeared in my yahoo inbox.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread feste37
Wrong poet. This is by Philip Larkin. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote:

 Dear Curtis, the last line in your post is the closest that you come to my 
 intentions on posting what I did.  
 
 Talking in Bed
 
 Talking in be ought to be easiest,
 Lying together there goes back so far,
 An emblem of two people being honest.
 
 Yet more and more time passes silently.
 Outside, the wind's incomplete unrest
 Builds and disperses clouds about the sky,
 
 And dark towns heap up on the horizon.
 None of this cares for us. Nothing shows why
 At this unique distance from isolation
 
 It becomes still more difficult to find
 Words at once true and kind,
 Or not untrue and not unkind.
 
 James Dickey
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically aligning 
  to Hitler charge seems unfair.
  
  
  It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just batted that 
  ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was thrown.
  
  It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her as if 
  she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live through it, 
  but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a horrible bad 
  thing just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make her more sensitive 
  to the issues than she already is.
  
  And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought 
  Hitler up in a flip way?
  
  That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so I 
  guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
   
  
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
  wrote:
  
   Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
   video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread feste37
What on earth are you talking about?

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote:

 Feste - you are way off the mark here.  Stop belittling the human condition.  
 It is time for you to clean out your dome.  
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
 
  It's just the usual Let's get Share pile on. Nothing new here. 
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically 
   aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.
   
   
   It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just batted 
   that ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was thrown.
   
   It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her as 
   if she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live through 
   it, but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a horrible 
   bad thing just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make her more 
   sensitive to the issues than she already is.
   
   And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought 
   Hitler up in a flip way?
   
   That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so I 
   guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
   
   
   
   
   
   
   

   
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
   wrote:
   
Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread emilymae.reyn
I like the poem - repeated it from one of Robin's posts.  Good to know though.  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@... wrote:

 Wrong poet. This is by Philip Larkin. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Dear Curtis, the last line in your post is the closest that you come to my 
  intentions on posting what I did.  
  
  Talking in Bed
  
  Talking in be ought to be easiest,
  Lying together there goes back so far,
  An emblem of two people being honest.
  
  Yet more and more time passes silently.
  Outside, the wind's incomplete unrest
  Builds and disperses clouds about the sky,
  
  And dark towns heap up on the horizon.
  None of this cares for us. Nothing shows why
  At this unique distance from isolation
  
  It becomes still more difficult to find
  Words at once true and kind,
  Or not untrue and not unkind.
  
  James Dickey
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically 
   aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.
   
   
   It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just batted 
   that ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was thrown.
   
   It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her as 
   if she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live through 
   it, but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a horrible 
   bad thing just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make her more 
   sensitive to the issues than she already is.
   
   And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought 
   Hitler up in a flip way?
   
   That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so I 
   guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
   
   
   
   
   
   
   

   
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
   wrote:
   
Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 no_reply@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@ wrote:
 
  It's got nothing to do with different instructions for different people - 
 
 I'm very happy and grateful that you have clarified this point now Michael 
 Jackson. Thank's again !


Probably many here wonders how you singelhandedly could reach a conclusion in 
such a complicated matter. Divine inspiration, spiritism perhaps ? Please 
enlighten us on the nature of your revelation !



[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread emilymae.reyn
I am talking about the assumption that my post to Share and to FFL at large (in 
that I posted it publicly) was sent with some intention to pile on.  Curtis 
also alluded to this.  This is so completely off-base as an excuse for anything 
posted, IMHO, and completely negates and disrespects attempts to communicate 
with each other on all levels.  

I was responding, as an individual to Share's love notes to Hitler and yes, I 
found her decision to play up that aspect of the conversation she was having 
with Robin offensive and supremely disrespectful - no matter the context - but 
that's my issue and I claim that. It has absolutely nothing to do with whether 
or not I like her; I was responding to what she posted. 

I was attempting to send her a little heart-felt feeling (as I don't think she 
can feel my prayers as legitimate - and, I haven't gotten around to doing them 
anyway, yet.  Ha.)  I was also intending to show some respect and give a nod to 
all the artists of Auschvitz (although I don't know that this song was written 
in a camp); an example of entertwining tragedy with beauty perhaps, in one 
sense.   

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@... wrote:

 What on earth are you talking about?
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Feste - you are way off the mark here.  Stop belittling the human 
  condition.  It is time for you to clean out your dome.  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
  
   It's just the usual Let's get Share pile on. Nothing new here. 
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically 
aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.


It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just batted 
that ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was thrown.

It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her as 
if she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live 
through it, but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a 
horrible bad thing just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make 
her more sensitive to the issues than she already is.

And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought 
Hitler up in a flip way?

That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so 
I guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 







 



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
wrote:

 Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
 video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI

   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Too much consciousness Woo-Woo for TEDx

2013-04-05 Thread Buck
xTED.  

Dateline: the Fairfield Weekly Reader this week:

...the challenges continued on the scientific rigor of some talks as well an 
underlying theme of consciousness present in some presentations.   …the whole 
field of consciousness was a hot issue and a red flag for the TED community.   
.. They challenged our subtitle- Consciousness and Transformation-TED, as 
I found out later, they were at the center of a consciousness controversy  
TED pulled videos of such scientists as Rupert Sheldrake, …, the next week, the 
TEDxWestHollywood event-also with a consciousness-oriented theme... -had their 
license revoked just two weeks prior to their event.   …, Silver Lining. 
Consciousness is so intrinsic to much of life in Fairfield...  chosen to 
reframe this TEDx experience as an opportunity to restructure our event 
[without] TEDx.

X-TEDx:  creating a platform where we can freely express a consciousness-based 
orientation, an orientation of richness, subtlety, and depth.   …  April 20th  
-  Our Conscious Future.xTED

... consider this as an opportunity to re-affirm our own core values, as we 
explore the emerging paradigms shaping our conscious future.

xTED  



[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread feste37
I am afraid that you are the one who is off the mark here. Nothing I wrote 
could possibly be interpreted as belittling the human condition.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote:

 I am talking about the assumption that my post to Share and to FFL at large 
 (in that I posted it publicly) was sent with some intention to pile on.  
 Curtis also alluded to this.  This is so completely off-base as an excuse for 
 anything posted, IMHO, and completely negates and disrespects attempts to 
 communicate with each other on all levels.  
 
 I was responding, as an individual to Share's love notes to Hitler and yes, I 
 found her decision to play up that aspect of the conversation she was having 
 with Robin offensive and supremely disrespectful - no matter the context - 
 but that's my issue and I claim that. It has absolutely nothing to do with 
 whether or not I like her; I was responding to what she posted. 
 
 I was attempting to send her a little heart-felt feeling (as I don't think 
 she can feel my prayers as legitimate - and, I haven't gotten around to doing 
 them anyway, yet.  Ha.)  I was also intending to show some respect and give a 
 nod to all the artists of Auschvitz (although I don't know that this song was 
 written in a camp); an example of entertwining tragedy with beauty perhaps, 
 in one sense.   
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
 
  What on earth are you talking about?
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
  wrote:
  
   Feste - you are way off the mark here.  Stop belittling the human 
   condition.  It is time for you to clean out your dome.  
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
   
It's just the usual Let's get Share pile on. Nothing new here. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically 
 aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.
 
 
 It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just 
 batted that ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was 
 thrown.
 
 It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her 
 as if she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live 
 through it, but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a 
 horrible bad thing just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make 
 her more sensitive to the issues than she already is.
 
 And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought 
 Hitler up in a flip way?
 
 That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing 
 so I guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn 
 emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that 
  the
  video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
 

   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Another movie for Curtis

2013-04-05 Thread Bhairitu
Since Curtis enjoyed the comedy Butter on Netflix WI I'll also 
recommend the comedy Dirty Girl.   Set in 1987  Juno Temple plays a 
promiscuous teenager who pals up with a gay boy played by Jeremy Dozier 
and the two travel off to find her father.  The cast includes Milla 
Jovovich, William H. Macy,  Mary Steenburgen and Dwight Yoakam.  Rated 
OK for Buck if he can get past the language.  The film is hilarious.

http://movies.netflix.com/WiMovie/Dirty_Girl/70140516



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2

2013-04-05 Thread Share Long
There are many people on FFL to whom I feel accountable.  They are not however 
the people who choose to interpret whatever I write in a negative way.  As 
wonderful as those people may be or not be, they have blind spots with regards 
to me.  Just to be clear, I include you in this latter category.





 From: authfriend authfri...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 10:41 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
 

  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Duh! Well since the majority of they have known me for less
 than a year and only online, hopefully they will understand
 that I trust more the opinions of family, friends, TMers and 
 acquaintances who have known me in person for 65 years or
 slightly less in the case of family members; 38 years or
 slightly less in the case of friends, acquaintances and TMers.

Oh, by all means trust those who have known you in person
for many years with regard to how you behave in person.

Then ask yourself why those with whom you have interacted
most intensely and extensively on FFL perceive your
behavior here quite differently.

You see, unfortunately one can't disavow how one's online
persona appears to others online by claiming that one's
offline persona is somehow much different. One must own
both personas and be accountable for each one to the people
who are familiar with it.

 
 
  From: authfriend authfriend@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 7:17 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
 
 
   
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  I'm quite sure that my definition of sentimentality is different
  from Robin's. In almost 65 years of living, no one has ever
  accused me of being sentimental,
 
 Well, now they have.
 
  nor do I think of myself that way. In this post I begin by 
  addressing Robin's assertions in the 6th paragraph of his
  post wherein he talks about contact with life and alleged
  reality denial. As for metaphysical discomfort, I did not 
  experience such in reading Robin's post.
 
 I told you what it seemed like to me. Now you get to find
 out what it seemed like to Robin.
 
  
   From: authfriend authfriend@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 11:16 AM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
  
  
    
  You know, Share, all this is very lovely, but it doesn't
  seem to have much of anything to do with what Robin was
  saying.
  
  In fact, it appears to me to be an *example* of the very
  behavior he describes: using sentimentality as a way to
  insulate yourself from the metaphysical discomfort his
  post produced in you.
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   Robin, it is my experience that life reality is always making contact 
   with us; that any filtering of that contact is also done by life reality 
   though it may seem like the individual is doing it!  There are stories 
   of people going through trauma and their later reports suggest that the 
   system at least partially shut down all by itself for the sake of 
   avoiding overwhelm and surviving.  
   
   I think we are all doing this to some degree or another all the time.  
   If only to avoid being overwhelmed by all the sensory data being 
   presented to us at every nanosecond.  And I think the decrease of the 
   need for filtering is one way to describe human development.  So I am 
   at a certain level of development with reference to this.  As is 
   everyone else.  No need to feel sad on my account.  I am simply at 
   a less developed stage than you are probably.  
   
   Referring back to Emily's quote from Descartes we could say that I am 
   going as far as possible in doubting everything.  Just as is everyone 
   else!
   
   And from Salyavin:  Another explanation is that maybe we just don't 
   know enough about the nature of reality yet? 
   
   I did say that it seemed you were expressing a grudge against turq.  I 
   apologize for misjudging you about that and about your interaction
with Curtis.  And I apologize to Doc if it seemed I was mocking 
   him.  Indeed I enjoyed his post about this.
   
   It is my experience also that the
tragic and the beautiful can be exquisitely intertwined.    
   
   PS  I saw your post in one of Ann's and retrieved it from Message 
   View.  It has not yet appeared in my yahoo inbox.


 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread emilymae.reyn
Yes, I was responding to her Dolphie posts.  They shocked the shit out of me. 
 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this
  energetically aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.
  
  It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she
  just batted that ball back in the same sense of absurdity
  that it was thrown.
 
 Regardless of whether Share's initial response had the
 same sense of absurdity, I suspect Emily was referring
 to her Dolphie follow-up posts.
 
  It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the
  holocaust on her as if she doesn't have the same grasp
  any of us have who didn't live through it, but have read
  about it.
 
 I'd be astonished if anyone here was capable of anything
 equivalent to the Dolphie posts.
 
 Well, maybe *you* would be.
 
  I'll be she also thinks it was a horrible bad thing just
  as you do, and posting more horrors wont make her more
  sensitive to the issues than she already is.
 
 I can go along with this, though.
 
 
 
 
 
  And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought 
  Hitler up in a flip way?
  
  That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so I 
  guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
   
  
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
  wrote:
  
   Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
   video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
  
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Is the US Headed for Fiscal Collapse?

2013-04-05 Thread Bhairitu
On 04/05/2013 08:02 AM, John wrote:
 David Stockman thinks so.  But his stance on the management of the economy 
 appears too severe and conservative.  There are other ways the economy can 
 bump and grind.

 http://news.yahoo.com/u-headed-fiscal-collapse-083000608.html

There is something like $254 trillion out there in bad paper.  So there 
is no way to recover from that.  It's the bankster's fault and 
government for not reigning them in.  Just erase the blackboard and 
start over but the rich don't like that idea.  For you and me it won't 
make a hill o' beans difference.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread emilymae.reyn
I concede that my choice of words in response to your post was poor.  Your 
response does not acknowledge my explanation of why I wrote those words, 
however.  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@... wrote:

 I am afraid that you are the one who is off the mark here. Nothing I wrote 
 could possibly be interpreted as belittling the human condition.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  I am talking about the assumption that my post to Share and to FFL at large 
  (in that I posted it publicly) was sent with some intention to pile on.  
  Curtis also alluded to this.  This is so completely off-base as an excuse 
  for anything posted, IMHO, and completely negates and disrespects attempts 
  to communicate with each other on all levels.  
  
  I was responding, as an individual to Share's love notes to Hitler and yes, 
  I found her decision to play up that aspect of the conversation she was 
  having with Robin offensive and supremely disrespectful - no matter the 
  context - but that's my issue and I claim that. It has absolutely nothing 
  to do with whether or not I like her; I was responding to what she posted. 
  
  I was attempting to send her a little heart-felt feeling (as I don't think 
  she can feel my prayers as legitimate - and, I haven't gotten around to 
  doing them anyway, yet.  Ha.)  I was also intending to show some respect 
  and give a nod to all the artists of Auschvitz (although I don't know that 
  this song was written in a camp); an example of entertwining tragedy with 
  beauty perhaps, in one sense.   
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
  
   What on earth are you talking about?
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
   wrote:
   
Feste - you are way off the mark here.  Stop belittling the human 
condition.  It is time for you to clean out your dome.  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:

 It's just the usual Let's get Share pile on. Nothing new here. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically 
  aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.
  
  
  It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just 
  batted that ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was 
  thrown.
  
  It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on 
  her as if she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't 
  live through it, but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks 
  it was a horrible bad thing just as you do, and posting more 
  horrors wont make her more sensitive to the issues than she already 
  is.
  
  And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he 
  brought Hitler up in a flip way?
  
  That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing 
  so I guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
   
  
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn 
  emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
  
   Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in 
   that the
   video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
  
 

   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2

2013-04-05 Thread emilymae.reyn
Again, Share - you are exhibiting an us and them mentality here.  You have 
made zero progress in this assumption of yours - you assume it's true and 
that's that, isn't it?  I summarily reject your second sentence and assume you, 
in your need to categorize me out of existence with this theory (if past posts 
from you to me are any indication - remember wts), also include me in this 
bucket.  Have you forgotten that I recently posted an appreciation for your 
poetry?

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 There are many people on FFL to whom I feel accountable.  They are not 
 however the people who choose to interpret whatever I write in a negative 
 way.  As wonderful as those people may be or not be, they have blind spots 
 with regards to me.  Just to be clear, I include you in this latter category.
 
 
 
 
 
  From: authfriend authfriend@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 10:41 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
  
 
   
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  Duh! Well since the majority of they have known me for less
  than a year and only online, hopefully they will understand
  that I trust more the opinions of family, friends, TMers and 
  acquaintances who have known me in person for 65 years or
  slightly less in the case of family members; 38 years or
  slightly less in the case of friends, acquaintances and TMers.
 
 Oh, by all means trust those who have known you in person
 for many years with regard to how you behave in person.
 
 Then ask yourself why those with whom you have interacted
 most intensely and extensively on FFL perceive your
 behavior here quite differently.
 
 You see, unfortunately one can't disavow how one's online
 persona appears to others online by claiming that one's
 offline persona is somehow much different. One must own
 both personas and be accountable for each one to the people
 who are familiar with it.
 
  
  
   From: authfriend authfriend@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 7:17 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
  
  
    
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   I'm quite sure that my definition of sentimentality is different
   from Robin's. In almost 65 years of living, no one has ever
   accused me of being sentimental,
  
  Well, now they have.
  
   nor do I think of myself that way. In this post I begin by 
   addressing Robin's assertions in the 6th paragraph of his
   post wherein he talks about contact with life and alleged
   reality denial. As for metaphysical discomfort, I did not 
   experience such in reading Robin's post.
  
  I told you what it seemed like to me. Now you get to find
  out what it seemed like to Robin.
  
   
From: authfriend authfriend@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
   Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 11:16 AM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
   
   
     
   You know, Share, all this is very lovely, but it doesn't
   seem to have much of anything to do with what Robin was
   saying.
   
   In fact, it appears to me to be an *example* of the very
   behavior he describes: using sentimentality as a way to
   insulate yourself from the metaphysical discomfort his
   post produced in you.
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
   
Robin, it is my experience that life reality is always making contact 
with us; that any filtering of that contact is also done by life 
reality though it may seem like the individual is doing it!  
There are stories of people going through trauma and their later 
reports suggest that the system at least partially shut down all by 
itself for the sake of avoiding overwhelm and surviving.  

I think we are all doing this to some degree or another all the 
time.  If only to avoid being overwhelmed by all the sensory 
data being presented to us at every nanosecond.  And I think 
the decrease of the need for filtering is one way to describe human 
development.  So I am at a certain level of development with 
reference to this.  As is everyone else.  No need to 
feel sad on my account.  I am simply at a less developed stage 
than you are probably.  

Referring back to Emily's quote from Descartes we could say that I am 
going as far as possible in doubting everything.  Just as is 
everyone else!

And from Salyavin:  Another explanation is that maybe we just 
don't know enough about the nature of reality yet? 

I did say that it seemed you were expressing a grudge against 
turq.  I apologize for misjudging you about that and about your 
interaction
 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Old Ashram

2013-04-05 Thread Barbra Kay Puckett





 From: Buck dhamiltony...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 9:01 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Old Ashram
 

  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 http://jimandatravels.wordpress.com/about/northern-india/rishikesh/maharishi-the-beatles/


What a cool, fun, fanciful place.


 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Another movie for Curtis

2013-04-05 Thread curtisdeltablues
Thanks, I'm on it.  You are a reliable source.  Another good cast.  That is my 
usual way to pick movies I know nothing about.

I figure you probably saw, Man on Wire, but here is one you may have missed:  
Puppet.  It is a documentary about an unusual puppet show that transcends our 
expectations for the artform.  America is the only country where puppets means: 
for kids.  This is for adults.





--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:

 Since Curtis enjoyed the comedy Butter on Netflix WI I'll also 
 recommend the comedy Dirty Girl.   Set in 1987  Juno Temple plays a 
 promiscuous teenager who pals up with a gay boy played by Jeremy Dozier 
 and the two travel off to find her father.  The cast includes Milla 
 Jovovich, William H. Macy,  Mary Steenburgen and Dwight Yoakam.  Rated 
 OK for Buck if he can get past the language.  The film is hilarious.
 
 http://movies.netflix.com/WiMovie/Dirty_Girl/70140516





[FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2

2013-04-05 Thread feste37
Share, you interact with people here with much grace and generosity. You are 
always respectful of others, even when provoked. Well done!

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 There are many people on FFL to whom I feel accountable.  They are not 
 however the people who choose to interpret whatever I write in a negative 
 way.  As wonderful as those people may be or not be, they have blind spots 
 with regards to me.  Just to be clear, I include you in this latter category.
 
 
 
 
 
  From: authfriend authfriend@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 10:41 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
  
 
   
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  Duh! Well since the majority of they have known me for less
  than a year and only online, hopefully they will understand
  that I trust more the opinions of family, friends, TMers and 
  acquaintances who have known me in person for 65 years or
  slightly less in the case of family members; 38 years or
  slightly less in the case of friends, acquaintances and TMers.
 
 Oh, by all means trust those who have known you in person
 for many years with regard to how you behave in person.
 
 Then ask yourself why those with whom you have interacted
 most intensely and extensively on FFL perceive your
 behavior here quite differently.
 
 You see, unfortunately one can't disavow how one's online
 persona appears to others online by claiming that one's
 offline persona is somehow much different. One must own
 both personas and be accountable for each one to the people
 who are familiar with it.
 
  
  
   From: authfriend authfriend@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 7:17 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
  
  
    
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   I'm quite sure that my definition of sentimentality is different
   from Robin's. In almost 65 years of living, no one has ever
   accused me of being sentimental,
  
  Well, now they have.
  
   nor do I think of myself that way. In this post I begin by 
   addressing Robin's assertions in the 6th paragraph of his
   post wherein he talks about contact with life and alleged
   reality denial. As for metaphysical discomfort, I did not 
   experience such in reading Robin's post.
  
  I told you what it seemed like to me. Now you get to find
  out what it seemed like to Robin.
  
   
From: authfriend authfriend@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
   Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 11:16 AM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
   
   
     
   You know, Share, all this is very lovely, but it doesn't
   seem to have much of anything to do with what Robin was
   saying.
   
   In fact, it appears to me to be an *example* of the very
   behavior he describes: using sentimentality as a way to
   insulate yourself from the metaphysical discomfort his
   post produced in you.
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
   
Robin, it is my experience that life reality is always making contact 
with us; that any filtering of that contact is also done by life 
reality though it may seem like the individual is doing it!  
There are stories of people going through trauma and their later 
reports suggest that the system at least partially shut down all by 
itself for the sake of avoiding overwhelm and surviving.  

I think we are all doing this to some degree or another all the 
time.  If only to avoid being overwhelmed by all the sensory 
data being presented to us at every nanosecond.  And I think 
the decrease of the need for filtering is one way to describe human 
development.  So I am at a certain level of development with 
reference to this.  As is everyone else.  No need to 
feel sad on my account.  I am simply at a less developed stage 
than you are probably.  

Referring back to Emily's quote from Descartes we could say that I am 
going as far as possible in doubting everything.  Just as is 
everyone else!

And from Salyavin:  Another explanation is that maybe we just 
don't know enough about the nature of reality yet? 

I did say that it seemed you were expressing a grudge against 
turq.  I apologize for misjudging you about that and about your 
interaction
 with Curtis.  And I apologize to Doc if it seemed I was 
mocking him.  Indeed I enjoyed his post about this.

It is my experience also that the
 tragic and the beautiful can be exquisitely intertwined.  
  

PS  I saw your post in one of Ann's and retrieved it from 

[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread authfriend
Share wrote:

dear Dolphie, I love you.  Please be my valentine forever.  If you build me a 
house I will happily live in it with you and our little Dolphies and Dolphinas. 
 And every time you build another building you will bring me yellow roses and 
white chocolate and we will drink dark red wine with our vegetarian dinner.  We 
will send the children off to bed early and then we will giggle a lot on the 
front sofa just like my Mommy and Daddy do when he has sold another VW.  Ooops, 
here comes teacher Old  Scowly Face.  I'll give this to you at recess.  Your 
friend, Theodora

How dare you impugn my dear Dolphie in this way!  Was it his fault that Old 
Scowly Face intercepted my beautiful valentine before I could deliver it to him 
at recess?  sniff sniff  He was never the same after that.  And then next year 
that Van Braun hussy came into our 4th grade.  From there it was all down hill 
for my dear Dolphie.  Let the historians among you take note of that!
PS to dear Dolphie wherever you are and in case I forget:  Happy Birthday on 
May 1 toothy facial beam

I find these paragraphs as hard to read as Emily's video
of the Holocaust survivor's song is to watch. The
juxtaposition is almost unbearable.

Share wrote:

There are many people on FFL to whom I feel accountable.  They are not however 
the people who choose to interpret whatever I write in a negative way.  As 
wonderful as those people may be or not be, they have blind spots with regards 
to me.  Just to be clear, I include you in this latter category.

You misunderstand. In this context accountability is not
a personal choice, it's a circumstance. You can ignore it,
but that doesn't make it go away. We are all accountable
to each other, willy-nilly.


Curtis wrote:

From the outset your mission with Share has been unfriendly
and she has done a pretty good job of handling herself considering that you are 
just letting her have it with both barrels about 
herself, uninvited. It reminds me of our conversations which
followed the same arc, although I at lest got some flowers and
chocolates at the door before the assault.

Curtis, you are a filthy, filthy liar.


Feste wrote:

It's just the usual 'Let's get Share' pile on. Nothing
new here.

Feste, Emily is right. This is uncalled-for, a cheap way
of invalidating a point of view you disagree with.


I find the corruption that has been spreading on FFL
recently--of both intellect and heart--frightening.

That's 50 for me. I'll be back tonight.






[FairfieldLife] Re: Another movie for Curtis

2013-04-05 Thread Buck


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:

 Since Curtis enjoyed the comedy Butter on Netflix WI I'll also 
 recommend the comedy Dirty Girl.   Set in 1987  Juno Temple plays a 
 promiscuous teenager who pals up with a gay boy played by Jeremy Dozier 
 and the two travel off to find her father.  The cast includes Milla 
 Jovovich, William H. Macy,  Mary Steenburgen and Dwight Yoakam.  Rated 
 OK for Buck if he can get past the language.  The film is hilarious.
 
 http://movies.netflix.com/WiMovie/Dirty_Girl/70140516


Dear Bhairitu,  I am flattered that my more refined and spiritual sensibilities 
have ascended to standard here.  Your movie reviewing sensitivities towards me 
have been very helpful.
-Buck 



[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread Robin Carlsen


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

Curtis: I was going to second Steve's post but I guess I would rather address 
you
directly Robin since I am so tight with reality that if she dies tonight on
the car ride home CSI would convict me on DNA evidence alone.

Robin: I welcome you once again, Curtis. Let us see where this goes. I think 
you act as if you certainly are tight with 'reality', Curtis--as much easily 
as I do. We both seemed to be inspired by what is real, I will give you that. I 
am becoming accustomed to the tension between us. It seems it's going to last. 
You are bloody consistent, Curtis--and I respect your ferocious commitment to 
what you have determined must be the case. But you get me wrong every 
time--except maybe about Descartes. More about that at the end of this. By the 
way, Curtis, you get me more wrong than I perhaps have got Descartes wrong 
(although I only was using his idea of there perhaps being a demon behind all 
that we believe--and turning this into a sense of a devil's advocate: who 
allows us to consider we might be absolutely wrong in everything we believe is 
true--I exploited one idea there. Perhaps you can tell me where I 
misrepresented him).

Curtis: From the outset your mission with Share has been unfriendly.

Robin: A blatant lie. This demonstrates how unconscionable you are when you 
argue, Curtis. You are contradicting the record. Share and I started off very 
much enjoying each other's company and posts. That lasted for quite some time. 
Where did you get the idea that my mission with Share has been 
unfriendly--from the outset. Correct this, Curtis. Even Share will admit you 
have seriously abused the truth here. But your agenda metaphysically and 
psychologically is so powerful and compulsive that you would make this claim as 
if in the face of truth--You can do this better I think than anyone I have 
known. And I respect this. But no, Curtis, I liked Share right from the 
beginning, and I have not given up on the notion of our becoming reconciled at 
the most important level. And I think my posts reflect this. You know: clear 
conscience, loving heart.

 Curtis: and she has done a pretty good job of handling herself considering 
that you are just letting her have it with both barrels about herself, 
uninvited.

Robin: You are imposing a Curtis reality upon reality here, Curtis. As a matter 
of fact, Share has not, in my estimation, done a pretty good job of handling 
herself--although I think her intelligent, friendly, and sincere even while 
she is at the mercy of some tremendous need to avoid reality. Curtis, my 
friend, WhyTF do you so craftily, cunningly avoid making contact with facts 
which would create dissonance in your moral and intellectual crusade? You are 
selective and controlling and strategic in all that you write about issues 
which turn on controversy. This post itself is a prime example of this. Curtis, 
what you need to do is actually pinpoint what it is psychologically which 
explains your judgment of me--because my experience of you when you go at me, 
Curtis, is you have no goddam belief in the veracity of what you are saying to 
me, and about me. Not that you miss anything. In a very obvious sense your 
withholding and distorting the truth is done in such a way as to make it clear 
you are acutely aware of everything that is going on. But your presentation of 
the argument, it is always cruelly reactive to the truth every sincere human 
being is seeking. 

You are like some dark angel of judgment, telling wayward souls on this forum 
(who have the temerity to disagree with you) they are consigned to Coventry by 
order of Curtis.
As for letting her have it with both barrels about herself, uninvited in my 
own mind, Curtis, in my own heart, I have only sought to defend myself. And I 
have always kept before me the contingent possibility that Share might turn out 
to be more what she seemed to me to be in the beginning. You load up what you 
assert, Curtis, with a kind of assumed authoritativeness (which I experience to 
be metaphysical), and this is always--as I apprehend it, dear Curtis--inversely 
proportional to the extent to which there is an absence of real confidence in 
the truth of what you are saying. You are always scolding people in some way 
which would make it seem as if the judgment you are rendering is outside of 
time and space. People submit to this authority--I have seen it. But it is 
feigned, Curtis. Now will you please shut up, Curtis? We love each other, 
remember? Share can look after herself. If my posts to her are unfair, untrue, 
inappropriate, this will be seen by discriminating readers--they don't have to 
defend Share if this happens. They can issue their challenge to me in a form of 
argument. Right?

Curtis: It reminds me of our conversations which followed the same arc, 
although I at lest got some flowers and chocolates at the door before the 
assault.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread Robin Carlsen
Dickey, Feste. It certain SEEMS like Larkin--I like this. But JD all the way.

I will admit to being wrong if you provide the proof.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@... wrote:

 Wrong poet. This is by Philip Larkin. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Dear Curtis, the last line in your post is the closest that you come to my 
  intentions on posting what I did.  
  
  Talking in Bed
  
  Talking in be ought to be easiest,
  Lying together there goes back so far,
  An emblem of two people being honest.
  
  Yet more and more time passes silently.
  Outside, the wind's incomplete unrest
  Builds and disperses clouds about the sky,
  
  And dark towns heap up on the horizon.
  None of this cares for us. Nothing shows why
  At this unique distance from isolation
  
  It becomes still more difficult to find
  Words at once true and kind,
  Or not untrue and not unkind.
  
  James Dickey
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically 
   aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.
   
   
   It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just batted 
   that ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was thrown.
   
   It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her as 
   if she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live through 
   it, but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a horrible 
   bad thing just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make her more 
   sensitive to the issues than she already is.
   
   And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought 
   Hitler up in a flip way?
   
   That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so I 
   guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
   
   
   
   
   
   
   

   
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
   wrote:
   
Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] innumerable stars

2013-04-05 Thread merlin


innumerable stars ...

... and the Jyotishi
..


http://apod.nasa.gov/apod/ap130405.html

e.n.j.o.y...

[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread Robin Carlsen
Feste: You were right. Thank you. Apologies. It somehow means less to me that I 
know it is Larkin now. :-) If you get my drift. I liked being corrected, as in 
some subtle way I was misaligned with reality when I thought it was a James 
Dickey poem.

Tell Share I am doing my best. And that I am a nice guy.

I always was a kind of bully.

Anyway, Larkin it is.

Robin

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@... wrote:

 Wrong poet. This is by Philip Larkin. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Dear Curtis, the last line in your post is the closest that you come to my 
  intentions on posting what I did.  
  
  Talking in Bed
  
  Talking in be ought to be easiest,
  Lying together there goes back so far,
  An emblem of two people being honest.
  
  Yet more and more time passes silently.
  Outside, the wind's incomplete unrest
  Builds and disperses clouds about the sky,
  
  And dark towns heap up on the horizon.
  None of this cares for us. Nothing shows why
  At this unique distance from isolation
  
  It becomes still more difficult to find
  Words at once true and kind,
  Or not untrue and not unkind.
  
  James Dickey
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically 
   aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.
   
   
   It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just batted 
   that ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was thrown.
   
   It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her as 
   if she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live through 
   it, but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a horrible 
   bad thing just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make her more 
   sensitive to the issues than she already is.
   
   And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought 
   Hitler up in a flip way?
   
   That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so I 
   guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
   
   
   
   
   
   
   

   
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
   wrote:
   
Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread feste37
Talking in Bed, first published in Larkin's The Whitsun Weddings, 1964. In 
his Collected Poems, 1989, ed. p. 129. Got it in front of me right now. 

I've always liked this poem. Larkin is my favorite post-World War II poet. 
Pessimistic of course, in an English kind of way, but some of the poems are in 
fact very spiritual -- they lift out into a kind of nameless transcendence that 
is quite wonderful. High Windows, for example (I love this poem! The context 
of course is the sexual revolution of the 1960s, which came a little late for 
Larkin, born 1922):

When I see a couple of kids
And guess he's fucking her and she's   
Taking pills or wearing a diaphragm,   
I know this is paradise

Everyone old has dreamed of all their lives—   
Bonds and gestures pushed to one side
Like an outdated combine harvester,
And everyone young going down the long slide

To happiness, endlessly. I wonder if   
Anyone looked at me, forty years back,   
And thought, That'll be the life;
No God any more, or sweating in the dark

About hell and that, or having to hide   
What you think of the priest. He
And his lot will all go down the long slide   
Like free bloody birds. And immediately

Rather than words comes the thought of high windows:   
The sun-comprehending glass,
And beyond it, the deep blue air, that shows
Nothing, and is nowhere, and is endless.



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robin Carlsen maskedzebra@... wrote:

 Dickey, Feste. It certain SEEMS like Larkin--I like this. But JD all the way.
 
 I will admit to being wrong if you provide the proof.
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
 
  Wrong poet. This is by Philip Larkin. 
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
  wrote:
  
   Dear Curtis, the last line in your post is the closest that you come to 
   my intentions on posting what I did.  
   
   Talking in Bed
   
   Talking in be ought to be easiest,
   Lying together there goes back so far,
   An emblem of two people being honest.
   
   Yet more and more time passes silently.
   Outside, the wind's incomplete unrest
   Builds and disperses clouds about the sky,
   
   And dark towns heap up on the horizon.
   None of this cares for us. Nothing shows why
   At this unique distance from isolation
   
   It becomes still more difficult to find
   Words at once true and kind,
   Or not untrue and not unkind.
   
   James Dickey
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically 
aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.


It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just batted 
that ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was thrown.

It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her as 
if she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live 
through it, but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a 
horrible bad thing just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make 
her more sensitive to the issues than she already is.

And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought 
Hitler up in a flip way?

That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so 
I guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 







 



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
wrote:

 Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
 video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI

   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Considering a Mac

2013-04-05 Thread card

I'm so fed up with Windoze, especially 8, that I'm considering
buying a Mac.

What do I potentially lose (possibility to use some programs??) if I do buy 
one??



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2

2013-04-05 Thread Share Long
thank you for your support, feste and you too, Curtis and Steve.  And I get 
that you guys are not taking sides.  Emily, indeed I remember that you 
complimented my poetry and thank you for that.  However I must point out to 
Judy and you that there was only ONE Dolphie followup post.  I know yahoo is 
being wonky these days but I've checked my Sent folder several times and unless 
I'm totally addled by all this, which is quite possible, I count one original 
Dolphie post and one followup.  Both were written in what I thought was an 
transparently joking way.  Obviously YMMV and does.

And yes I misspoke when I did not qualify better and say that even those who 
USUALLY think negatively of me and or what I write, do not always do so.

BTW, it was Robin's choice to play up the Hitler angle which he also 
introduced.  

Emily, that was a clever swipe at me and my Dome cleaning tales, your quip to 
feste about cleaning his Dome.  Just fyi, feste told us some time ago that due 
to his knees, he does not go to the Dome.  So I'm pretty dang sure he's not 
gonna go there to hoist foam, etc.


Anyhoo, Emily, just in case you were being neither Robin Ironic nor Defensive 
Ironic, I assure you that I have not written you off nor categorized you out of 
existence nor put you in any bucket.  That post in which you used these 
phrases, that post was written to... JUDY.

And finally please forgive me for, as you said, shocking the s**t out of you.  
And please also forgive me for saying:  but not quite all of it.

FWIW I do believe that this whole thing happened because Robin and I 
misinterpreted his original * everything * differently.  When he suggested that 
a valentine would have made everything all right, he, no doubt having a more 
cosmic view than me, meant Hitler's Holocaust.  Whereas 
I, having a more psychological view, meant Hitler's damaged psyche and 
monstrous actions. 



 From: feste37 fest...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 11:35 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
 

  
Share, you interact with people here with much grace and generosity. You are 
always respectful of others, even when provoked. Well done!

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 There are many people on FFL to whom I feel accountable.  They are not 
 however the people who choose to interpret whatever I write in a negative 
 way.  As wonderful as those people may be or not be, they have blind spots 
 with regards to me.  Just to be clear, I include you in this latter category.
 
 
 
 
 
  From: authfriend authfriend@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 10:41 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
 
 
   
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  Duh! Well since the majority of they have known me for less
  than a year and only online, hopefully they will understand
  that I trust more the opinions of family, friends, TMers and 
  acquaintances who have known me in person for 65 years or
  slightly less in the case of family members; 38 years or
  slightly less in the case of friends, acquaintances and TMers.
 
 Oh, by all means trust those who have known you in person
 for many years with regard to how you behave in person.
 
 Then ask yourself why those with whom you have interacted
 most intensely and extensively on FFL perceive your
 behavior here quite differently.
 
 You see, unfortunately one can't disavow how one's online
 persona appears to others online by claiming that one's
 offline persona is somehow much different. One must own
 both personas and be accountable for each one to the people
 who are familiar with it.
 
  
  
   From: authfriend authfriend@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 7:17 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
  
  
    
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   I'm quite sure that my definition of sentimentality is different
   from Robin's. In almost 65 years of living, no one has ever
   accused me of being sentimental,
  
  Well, now they have.
  
   nor do I think of myself that way. In this post I begin by 
   addressing Robin's assertions in the 6th paragraph of his
   post wherein he talks about contact with life and alleged
   reality denial. As for metaphysical discomfort, I did not 
   experience such in reading Robin's post.
  
  I told you what it seemed like to me. Now you get to find
  out what it seemed like to Robin.
  
   
From: authfriend authfriend@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
   Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 11:16 AM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
   
   
     
   You know, Share, all this is very lovely, but it doesn't
   seem to have much of anything to do with what Robin was
   saying.
   

Re: [FairfieldLife] Considering a Mac

2013-04-05 Thread Bhairitu
On 04/05/2013 11:15 AM, card wrote:
 I'm so fed up with Windoze, especially 8, that I'm considering
 buying a Mac.

 What do I potentially lose (possibility to use some programs??) if I do buy 
 one??



About $1000 for a special logo on a PC.  Have you ever tried Linux? Try 
one of the live CD/DVDs or make a persistent pendrive version. Of course 
it will run much faster and boot in a blink on a HD compared to Windoze.



[FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2

2013-04-05 Thread feste37


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 
 Emily, that was a clever swipe at me and my Dome cleaning tales, your quip to 
 feste about cleaning his Dome.  Just fyi, feste told us some time ago that 
 due to his knees, he does not go to the Dome.  So I'm pretty dang sure he's 
 not gonna go there to hoist foam, etc.

omg, I hope I didn't make it sound like I am an old crock. Far from it, 
actually, although I do have to be a little protective of an old knee injury 
that makes it inadvisable me to sit for too long cross-legged or go leaping 
about on foam like a two-year-old.  



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Another movie for Curtis

2013-04-05 Thread Bhairitu
I avoided Man on Wire because I'm acrophobic.  Any movie dealing with 
heights even though most all action movies use green screen for it make 
me dizzy.  Funny thing is looking out an airplane window doesn't do that 
to me.   I may check out Puppet though.  Also for those that don't have 
Syfy but have NF WI it looks like Continuum may be available on the 19th.

Dirty Girl popped up last night when looking through the new 
releases section.   Must be vacation week as new arrivals and releases 
have been filtering in all week on Netflix.  Juno Temple is also in 
Killer Joe which is definitely not for Buck but also not yet WI.  I 
rented it from Redbox.  Guess I'm in a war mood because I also rented 
the Red Dawn remake on Bluray from Redbox for tonight.  It'll be 
interesting to see how it stands up to the original and of course the 
Chinese made them change the enemy to North Korea in the remake.  Very 
timely with the media brouhaha over North Korea at the moment.

On 04/05/2013 09:31 AM, curtisdeltablues wrote:
 Thanks, I'm on it.  You are a reliable source.  Another good cast.  That is 
 my usual way to pick movies I know nothing about.

 I figure you probably saw, Man on Wire, but here is one you may have missed:  
 Puppet.  It is a documentary about an unusual puppet show that transcends our 
 expectations for the artform.  America is the only country where puppets 
 means: for kids.  This is for adults.





 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:
 Since Curtis enjoyed the comedy Butter on Netflix WI I'll also
 recommend the comedy Dirty Girl.   Set in 1987  Juno Temple plays a
 promiscuous teenager who pals up with a gay boy played by Jeremy Dozier
 and the two travel off to find her father.  The cast includes Milla
 Jovovich, William H. Macy,  Mary Steenburgen and Dwight Yoakam.  Rated
 OK for Buck if he can get past the language.  The film is hilarious.

 http://movies.netflix.com/WiMovie/Dirty_Girl/70140516






[FairfieldLife] Re: Considering a Mac

2013-04-05 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, card cardemaister@... wrote:

 
 I'm so fed up with Windoze, especially 8, that I'm considering
 buying a Mac.
 
 What do I potentially lose (possibility to use some programs??) if I do buy 
 one??

Buying a new laptop with the WIN8 installed was a nightmare, couldn't find even 
the simples thingy at the computer anymore. They seem to think they are so 
smart they could re-invent the wheel by putting it on the roof. Gave it back 
and ordered one with WIN7. Isn't Windows the company that teach their employees 
free woo-woo Buddhist meditation ?  That would explain alot...




[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 I was going to second Steve's post but I guess I would rather address you 
 directly Robin since I am so tight with reality that if she dies tonight on 
 the car ride home CSI would convict me on DNA evidence alone.
 
 From the outset your mission with Share has been unfriendly and she has done 
 a pretty good job of handling herself considering that you are just letting 
 her have it with both barrels about herself, uninvited.  It reminds me of our 
 conversations which followed the same arc, although I at lest got some 
 flowers and chocolates at the door before the assault. 
 
 You would make Share's post into some devastating counterpunch.
 
 You have used similar metaphors of competition in our conversations and I am 
 seeing a pattern. The issue is that you seem to believe, perhaps sincerely, 
 that you have a better insight into some posters here than they do of 
 themselves.  And when they reject this assumption, (as any adult would), you 
 act as if you are in a fight to make them see themselves through your 
 unflattering lens.
 
 Why would we? You may be thinking that your insight is more valuable than 
 it is.  And having been the focus of your unasked for improvement sessions 
 myself, I have to say that you aren't that perceptive Robin. And perhaps you 
 are in person, so you have developed an unnaturally high self-regard about 
 this ability, but it isn't cutting it here.  You have been running a formula 
 and it is increasingly obvious.
 
 So that is my opinion and I don't need to word flood you about it or repeat 
 it a million times.  I've made my point and as a fellow adult I suspect you 
 will just blow it all off as me being me.

Me, I'm gonna stick with my three-word description of
the guy, which I think explains it all, and in the
least possible number of words: Narcissistic Personality
Disorder, in spades. OK, that was five words. :-)

People here must be really, Really, REALLY masochistic
to put up with this kinda abuse by continuing to read
and respond to this asshole's crap. My suggestion is 
that people would have to shower less if they just 
ignored him like the pisshole in otherwise new and 
pristine snow he is. 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Considering a Mac

2013-04-05 Thread Alex Stanley


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:

 On 04/05/2013 11:15 AM, card wrote:
  I'm so fed up with Windoze, especially 8, that I'm considering
  buying a Mac.
 
  What do I potentially lose (possibility to use some programs??) if I do buy 
  one??
 
 
 
 About $1000 for a special logo on a PC.  Have you ever tried
 Linux? Try one of the live CD/DVDs or make a persistent pendrive
 version. Of course it will run much faster and boot in a blink on
 a HD compared to Windoze.


Alternative POV: About $1000 for the power of *nix in a form that's actually 
usable by average joe, non-neckbeards.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Considering a Mac

2013-04-05 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, card cardemaister@... wrote:

 
 I'm so fed up with Windoze, especially 8, that I'm considering
 buying a Mac.
 
 What do I potentially lose (possibility to use some programs??) if I do buy 
 one??



I was looking at a Macbook Pro but decided to go with a PC
with the same spec but at half the price. Now a mate of mine
has forked out for the Mac I wish I had too. If you can justify
the expense it's all just so much nicer in every way. 



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Considering a Mac

2013-04-05 Thread Bhairitu
On 04/05/2013 12:29 PM, Alex Stanley wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:
 On 04/05/2013 11:15 AM, card wrote:
 I'm so fed up with Windoze, especially 8, that I'm considering
 buying a Mac.

 What do I potentially lose (possibility to use some programs??) if I do buy 
 one??


 About $1000 for a special logo on a PC.  Have you ever tried
 Linux? Try one of the live CD/DVDs or make a persistent pendrive
 version. Of course it will run much faster and boot in a blink on
 a HD compared to Windoze.

 Alternative POV: About $1000 for the power of *nix in a form that's actually 
 usable by average joe, non-neckbeards.



Ya sayin' our geeky card is an average Joe? :-D



[FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread Buck

Would seem that the ultra- strict preservationist Bevan side of the movement 
reversed Hagelin's more progressive re-write of the guidelines from a little 
while ago that allowed people more generally to see saints.  Meanwhile all 
kinds of movement people, rajas, purusha, see saints in dissonance with the 
guidelines.  Bottom line of the Bevan people is that People should surrender, 
either cease and desist from seeing saints or get out now.  The course office 
[more strictly under MUM/Bevan admin] evidently continues to work at this line 
of restriction.  Seems very unfortunate for the Dome numbers and people coming 
back to Fairfield. 


 It's very unfortunate news for the Fairfield Dome community that they have 
 returned to the strict anti-saint policy, considering how many people went 
 over to India and saw saints just recently.  Purusha in India continues to 
 see saints.  Down in Boone meditators see saints.  So much for the flower of 
 the movement.  John Douglas comes to Fairfield in just a few days.
  http://www.spirit-repair.com/shop/workshops 
 
 
 
  Trouble?  For the community?
   Well yes, things evidently went backwards recently with the movement 
  guidelines.  Talked to someone just recently, an old movement campaigner 
  who was denied employment up there because would not sign a paper pledging 
  to never see saints again.  This is a highly competent long time movement 
  person in the community that they had sought out for employment in to a 
  position.  After the discussion the person turned around and called the 
  course office people to check the guidelines and it was confirmed the 
  guidelines are back again to old governors not seeing saints to be involved 
  with the movement.
  
  
Thanks for taking the time and having the courage to post this here.
your last six words bothered me just a little. In what way? As in 
fearful of repercussions for expressing one's opinions? If so, do you 
really feel this way?

   
   Trouble?
   Yes, someone in the course office could view [judge] Trowbridge as being 
   negative and un-stressing in the act of posting his letter.  As JT  
   values coming back to the group meditation he could have created trouble 
   for himself.  Tru-believers in the middle easily could see Trowbridge 
   being disloyal and lacking in fealty.  
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, laughinggull108 no_reply@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck  wrote:

 Beautiful.  Thanks for taking the time and having the courage to post 
 this here.
 -Buck in the Dome
 

Ditto. In fact, worth saying again: *Beautiful*, Mr. Trowbridge. 
Perhaps it will be read by people with the ability to affect the 
changes of which you write.

your last six words bothered me just a little. In what way? As in 
fearful of repercussions for expressing one's opinions? If so, do you 
really feel this way?

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jwtrowbridge 
 johnwtrowbridge@ wrote:
 
  I would like to give feedback from the perspective of one who loves 
  TM, but not how the organization is run. I have wanted to do so for 
  many years. I feel I have a unique perspective to do so. I am not 
  angry. I am not dependent on TM other than my wonderful program I 
  practice. I have no ax to grind other than a genuine desire to see 
  the organization succeed. I wish to help this organization from the 
  point of view of one who is a family man, a professional who sees 
  the divinity of my practice, and the missteps of the organization.
  
  My TM program is the only time during the day that I know my 
  activity is perfect. It is a perfect program. It is a perfect 
  activity. It is perfect knowledge. I have recently obtained all of 
  the advanced techniques. I have missed maybe five meditations in 40 
  years only because I enjoy it. There is no other reason. Not for 
  health, not for enlightenment, such is the joy and power of my 
  program. 
  
  I have just finished 34 years as a public school teacher in North 
  Carolina, and I am still teaching. I have been married 30 years. I 
  have two children. My wife meditates. My two children have been 
  initiated. From the beginning, I have provided support to the TM 
  Movement through the use of my house for lectures, initiations, and 
  whatever I have to offer all these years. I am your biggest fan.
  
  I started TM on November 13th, 1971 and got the sidhis in `80 or 
  `81 at MUM. I practiced my program by myself over the decades until 
  5 years ago, when I went to MUM to fly in the dome for a 7-week 
  visit. I have gone ever 2 years during the summer thereafter. I 
  have never taken one dime of grant money. 
  
  I mention specific names and impressions in this letter, not to 
  target 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:

 Would seem that the ultra- strict preservationist Bevan side 
 of the movement reversed Hagelin's more progressive re-write 
 of the guidelines from a little while ago that allowed people 
 more generally to see saints.  

With all due respect, Buck, anyone who can consider 
John Hagelin progressive, in *any* universe, would
probably consider KKK leaders as equally progressive
if they allowed their members to wear pink or blue 
sheets to the lynchings. 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread curtisdeltablues
I don't know how you can blame the movement for exhibiting much of the same 
judgmentalism about how people live their lives as you often do here.

Not so fun when it is directed toward you is it?

You are tipping at windmills here.  The movement has a triumphalist attitude 
toward its superior knowledge about what is better for other people. And just 
like you accusing people who have moved on from the movement fantasies as being 
quitters, the movement will demonized anyone who does not tow the party, we 
are the bestest of the bestest, self-aggrandizing line.

I hope they don't kick you out of the dome again because I don't think I can go 
another round of all the whining about the movement being the movement. It was 
not built for adults. Time to move out of the house and let dead Daddy and 
fantasy mommy (I'm looking at you Laxmi), have some peace for a change.







--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:

 
 Would seem that the ultra- strict preservationist Bevan side of the movement 
 reversed Hagelin's more progressive re-write of the guidelines from a little 
 while ago that allowed people more generally to see saints.  Meanwhile all 
 kinds of movement people, rajas, purusha, see saints in dissonance with the 
 guidelines.  Bottom line of the Bevan people is that People should surrender, 
 either cease and desist from seeing saints or get out now.  The course office 
 [more strictly under MUM/Bevan admin] evidently continues to work at this 
 line of restriction.  Seems very unfortunate for the Dome numbers and people 
 coming back to Fairfield. 
 
 
  It's very unfortunate news for the Fairfield Dome community that they have 
  returned to the strict anti-saint policy, considering how many people went 
  over to India and saw saints just recently.  Purusha in India continues to 
  see saints.  Down in Boone meditators see saints.  So much for the flower 
  of the movement.  John Douglas comes to Fairfield in just a few days.
   http://www.spirit-repair.com/shop/workshops 
  
  
  
   Trouble?  For the community?
Well yes, things evidently went backwards recently with the movement 
   guidelines.  Talked to someone just recently, an old movement campaigner 
   who was denied employment up there because would not sign a paper 
   pledging to never see saints again.  This is a highly competent long time 
   movement person in the community that they had sought out for employment 
   in to a position.  After the discussion the person turned around and 
   called the course office people to check the guidelines and it was 
   confirmed the guidelines are back again to old governors not seeing 
   saints to be involved with the movement.
   
   
 Thanks for taking the time and having the courage to post this here.
 your last six words bothered me just a little. In what way? As in 
 fearful of repercussions for expressing one's opinions? If so, do you 
 really feel this way?
 

Trouble?
Yes, someone in the course office could view [judge] Trowbridge as 
being negative and un-stressing in the act of posting his letter.  As 
JT  values coming back to the group meditation he could have created 
trouble for himself.  Tru-believers in the middle easily could see 
Trowbridge being disloyal and lacking in fealty.  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, laughinggull108 no_reply@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck  wrote:
 
  Beautiful.  Thanks for taking the time and having the courage to 
  post this here.
  -Buck in the Dome
  
 
 Ditto. In fact, worth saying again: *Beautiful*, Mr. Trowbridge. 
 Perhaps it will be read by people with the ability to affect the 
 changes of which you write.
 
 your last six words bothered me just a little. In what way? As in 
 fearful of repercussions for expressing one's opinions? If so, do you 
 really feel this way?
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jwtrowbridge 
  johnwtrowbridge@ wrote:
  
   I would like to give feedback from the perspective of one who 
   loves TM, but not how the organization is run. I have wanted to 
   do so for many years. I feel I have a unique perspective to do 
   so. I am not angry. I am not dependent on TM other than my 
   wonderful program I practice. I have no ax to grind other than a 
   genuine desire to see the organization succeed. I wish to help 
   this organization from the point of view of one who is a family 
   man, a professional who sees the divinity of my practice, and the 
   missteps of the organization.
   
   My TM program is the only time during the day that I know my 
   activity is perfect. It is a perfect program. It is a perfect 
   activity. It is perfect knowledge. I have recently obtained all 
   of the advanced techniques. I have missed maybe five meditations 
   

[FairfieldLife] Roger Ebert on contributing joy

2013-04-05 Thread Share Long
Share to Robin:  Even though you don't want any apology, I do apologize for my 
ex cult leader swipe at you.  
Share to Robin again:  Clear conscience, loving heart.  If only we could agree 
on what any of those 4 words mean, grin
Share to Robin thricely:  Surely you oh Cosmic Scolder know it was kind of 
funny when you accused Curtis of scolding?!
   
Curtis to Robin:  I wish we could condense this, but then I guess that wouldn't 
be rapping with Robin. 
Share to Curtis:  This touched my heart very sweetly.  Thank you.
Share to Curtis again:  Maybe it's that birthday of ours, grinning playfully

Share to Judy:  When you say we're all willy nilly accountable to each other, 
does that also include your being accountable to
 turq?

I received this from DailyGood.org today.  It seemed appropriate for more than 
one reason:


To make others less happy is a crime. To make ourselves unhappy is where 
all crime starts. We must try to contribute joy to the world. That is 
true no matter what our problems, our health, our circumstances. We must try. I 
didn't always know this and am happy I lived long enough to find it out.

- Roger Ebert -


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement

2013-04-05 Thread Michael Jackson
typical Movement shenanigans that came straight from Marshy's energy - do as I 
say but not as I do





 From: Buck dhamiltony...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 3:54 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Feedback to the TM Movement
 

  

Would seem that the ultra- strict preservationist Bevan side of the movement 
reversed Hagelin's more progressive re-write of the guidelines from a little 
while ago that allowed people more generally to see saints.  Meanwhile all 
kinds of movement people, rajas, purusha, see saints in dissonance with the 
guidelines.  Bottom line of the Bevan people is that People should surrender, 
either cease and desist from seeing saints or get out now.  The course office 
[more strictly under MUM/Bevan admin] evidently continues to work at this line 
of restriction.  Seems very unfortunate for the Dome numbers and people coming 
back to Fairfield. 


 It's very unfortunate news for the Fairfield Dome community that they have 
 returned to the strict anti-saint policy, considering how many people went 
 over to India and saw saints just recently.  Purusha in India continues to 
 see saints.  Down in Boone meditators see saints.  So much for the flower of 
 the movement.  John Douglas comes to Fairfield in just a few days.
 http://www.spirit-repair.com/shop/workshops 
 
 
 
  Trouble?  For the community?
   Well yes, things evidently went backwards recently with the movement 
  guidelines.  Talked to someone just recently, an old movement campaigner 
  who was denied employment up there because would not sign a paper pledging 
  to never see saints again.  This is a highly competent long time movement 
  person in the community that they had sought out for employment in to a 
  position.  After the discussion the person turned around and called the 
  course office people to check the guidelines and it was confirmed the 
  guidelines are back again to old governors not seeing saints to be involved 
  with the movement.
  
  
Thanks for taking the time and having the courage to post this here.
your last six words bothered me just a little. In what way? As in 
fearful of repercussions for expressing one's opinions? If so, do you 
really feel this way?

   
   Trouble?
   Yes, someone in the course office could view [judge] Trowbridge as being 
   negative and un-stressing in the act of posting his letter.  As JT  
   values coming back to the group meditation he could have created trouble 
   for himself.  Tru-believers in the middle easily could see Trowbridge 
   being disloyal and lacking in fealty. 
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, laughinggull108 no_reply@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck  wrote:

 Beautiful.  Thanks for taking the time and having the courage to post 
 this here.
 -Buck in the Dome
 

Ditto. In fact, worth saying again: *Beautiful*, Mr. Trowbridge. 
Perhaps it will be read by people with the ability to affect the 
changes of which you write.

your last six words bothered me just a little. In what way? As in 
fearful of repercussions for expressing one's opinions? If so, do you 
really feel this way?

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jwtrowbridge 
 johnwtrowbridge@ wrote:
 
  I would like to give feedback from the perspective of one who loves 
  TM, but not how the organization is run. I have wanted to do so for 
  many years. I feel I have a unique perspective to do so. I am not 
  angry. I am not dependent on TM other than my wonderful program I 
  practice. I have no ax to grind other than a genuine desire to see 
  the organization succeed. I wish to help this organization from the 
  point of view of one who is a family man, a professional who sees 
  the divinity of my practice, and the missteps of the organization.
  
  My TM program is the only time during the day that I know my 
  activity is perfect. It is a perfect program. It is a perfect 
  activity. It is perfect knowledge. I have recently obtained all of 
  the advanced techniques. I have missed maybe five meditations in 40 
  years only because I enjoy it. There is no other reason. Not for 
  health, not for enlightenment, such is the joy and power of my 
  program. 
  
  I have just finished 34 years as a public school teacher in North 
  Carolina, and I am still teaching. I have been married 30 years. I 
  have two children. My wife meditates. My two children have been 
  initiated. From the beginning, I have provided support to the TM 
  Movement through the use of my house for lectures, initiations, and 
  whatever I have to offer all these years. I am your biggest fan.
  
  I started TM on November 13th, 1971 and got the sidhis in `80 or 
  `81 at MUM. I practiced my program by myself over the 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Another movie for Curtis

2013-04-05 Thread Bhairitu
On 04/05/2013 09:35 AM, Buck wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:
 Since Curtis enjoyed the comedy Butter on Netflix WI I'll also
 recommend the comedy Dirty Girl.   Set in 1987  Juno Temple plays a
 promiscuous teenager who pals up with a gay boy played by Jeremy Dozier
 and the two travel off to find her father.  The cast includes Milla
 Jovovich, William H. Macy,  Mary Steenburgen and Dwight Yoakam.  Rated
 OK for Buck if he can get past the language.  The film is hilarious.

 http://movies.netflix.com/WiMovie/Dirty_Girl/70140516

 Dear Bhairitu,  I am flattered that my more refined and spiritual 
 sensibilities have ascended to standard here.  Your movie reviewing 
 sensitivities towards me have been very helpful.
 -Buck



I was amused by your story of traveling and what you found on hotel 
TVs.  A foreigner judging American TV would think:

1) Americans have sex all the time even though they don't show it.
2) Life's not only cheap in the Orient but in America as well.

I was watching BBC America's Spies of Warsaw which is set before WWII 
as Poles try to figure out what the Nazis are up to.  They blurred some 
butt scenes even though tame channels like Syfy don't and I even think 
some network TV shows won't bother with that if the show is on after 10 
PM.  But what was hilarious was blurring a word in the subtitle of a 
German soldier's conversation.

I recall having some friends over once and I went out to get something 
in my bedroom and when I come back into the living room I had one of my 
friends frantically trying to figure out my remote because there was a 
violent scene on a channel they had been watching.  My eyes got a good 
exercise rolling.



[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread seventhray27

What was the 'ol phrase M used to say, you don't solve a problem on the
level of a problem, you solve it on the level of the solution?  I think
you interpret Share's method of approaching situations from a different
angle than you are used to, as avoiding the problem, or being
unwilling to address something head on.  I think she finds a different
opening to apply her leverage, and in my mind she does so effectively,
and usually with a good bit of humor, although sometimes it is dry.
(which I like even more)


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robin Carlsen maskedzebra@...
wrote:

 It is indeed Perfect Response. And so is this. But the verdict is now
in. Share's response is quite obviously a form of defensive irony to
avoid having to reveal whether her initial suggestion of the Holocaust
remedy was meant ironically or not. It was obviously a straight answer.
Why don't you ask her--offline: Am I to assume that this last response
to Robin means unequivocally that you made that Hitler Valentine comment
in jest?

 No, Share simply and reflexively (and I must presume involuntarily)
found that her modus operandi could come up with only one idea: I WILL
JUST NOT DEAL WITH THIS.

 And she did not.

 Steve, Yes, you are a great guy, but your NEED to celebrate what Share
just did, it is your meta-blind spot. But you dwell in a kind of grace
of not-knowingness (regarding matters like this), so I say: This is
what they call in the trade A Perfect Response.

 Sure, let's do that.

 I will not try to remove the bullet in your foot--as I see there are
quite a few lodged there--but since you don't feel any pain, no problem.

 Great post, Steve.

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
 
  This is what they call in the trade. A
  Perfect Response!!
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@
  wrote:
  
   dear Dolphie, I love you. Please be my valentine forever.Â
If
  you build me a house I will happily live in it with you and our
little
  Dolphies and Dolphinas. And every time you build another
building
  you will bring me yellow roses and white chocolate and we will drink
  dark red wine with our vegetarian dinner. We will send the
children
  off to bed early and then we will giggle a lot on the front sofa
just
  like my Mommy and Daddy do when he has sold another VW. Ooops,
here
  comes teacher Old Scowly Face. I'll give this to you at
  recess. Your friend, Theodora Â
  
  
  
  
   
   From: Robin Carlsen maskedzebra@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
   Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 10:24 PM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] HITLER'S VALENTINE
  
  
   Â
   Robin:I think you would like to send Hitler a Valentine's Card and
  make everything all
   right again.
  
   Share: Perhaps if someone had sent Hitler a valentine, he would
have
  become a happy architect.
  
   Robin: If you said this ironically then you have essentially
defied my
  analysis of you--or at least in coming up with this response
(assuming,
  again, that it is ironic) you have proven to me you can resist your
  primary tendency (sentimentality = a failure of real feeling). If,
  however--you must tell me which it is, dear Share,--you meant this
  non-ironically, then you have demonstrated just how true my
essential
  idea of you is, dear Share.
  
   So, either way I win. Because if you meant it in a deliberately
ironic
  way, then you have jumped out of your mould and have said something
  easily as good as anything I could have said. And if you meant it
  sincerely (really believing in the truth of what you say here;
namely,
  that the course of history could have been changed by one valentine)
  then you have rendered my last three posts to you superfluous.
  
   I won't ask you to clarify whether you were being ironic or not,
  Share; I will just pray that if you were serious you will see that
what
  you have said means you have knocked yourself out with one
roundhouse to
  the brain. And I wonder whether you will ever get up off the canvas.
  
   That said, I have to contemplate that the joke is on me; and in
that
  case I declare you the victor here. It is that good, your
  self-mockery--and in a way you are making fun of me brilliantly.
  
   Roger I believe had less of a problem in facing what is there (as
he
  had to today) than did Adolph--but then, if all it would have taken
was
  one valentine, then perhaps God thought Hitler was just one
valentine
  short of going to heaven.
  
   Thank you for writing with the intention to do your best, Share.
It
  was pretty good, all things considered.
  
   But the motive for Hitler's valentine: on that hangs a fearful
  judgment!
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread seventhray27

that's neat.  just by coincidence, my daughter and a friend of hers, are
going to interview two holocaust survivors, a husband and wife next
Sunday at 1:30. They just left their house to go to a nursing home. The
wife of one of my employees did housekeeping chores for them.

When he said he didn't believe they had ever been interviewed, I thought
it would be an important thing to do.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn
emilymae.reyn@... wrote:

 Dear Share: This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
 video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI





[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread seventhray27


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robin Carlsen maskedzebra@...
wrote:

 Your subjective delight overwhelms any chance of the impartiality of
truth getting to have any say in this, Steve. And therefore, all we get
is your emotion. If you were really making contact with what was true,
the truth would do the work for you that, in the absence of this
objectifying element, you must do all on your own. If your initial
experience of reading Share's response to my Hitler's Valentine post
originated in reality, this would be present in your post. The desperate
chivalry and eruption of unfortunate relief is all that came through,
Steve. If there was any validity in your judgment of Share's post, it
would make itself known independent of your own feelings. And it did
not.

 See what a sore loser I am?

 You would make Share's post into some devastating counterpunch.

 Share actually just went into her corner and handed out flowers.

 Did you actually smell those flowers, Steve?
Do you know that my wife and daughter bought me a hyacinth the other
day, and I bring it with me into whichever room I may be in.  I just
love it.

   And your post ignored how much I wanted her to best me. (Read my post
again, Steve; the first Hitler's Valentine.)
Robin, no one ever bests you.  You appear so inviting a person to
discourse with, but it never works out that way.  I guess it's the
template that you use for these discussions.  It never seems to vary
much and inevitably whoever you are discoursing with is found to be
lacking in many ways.  Usually they are guilty of being unwilling to
face whatever reality is trying to tell them. Maybe that is working
for you.   I think there are some here who might say you are just too
brilliant for the rest of us.  But as the saying goes, beliefs are one
thing, but it's  how we act and interact with others that counts.
 You must remember, Steve: The only emperor is the emperor of
ice-cream.
Haagen Dazs Coffee is high on my list.  Fortunately my wife hasn't
bought any recently, and I am not about to ask her.

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
 
  This is what they call in the trade. A
  Perfect Response!!
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@
  wrote:
  
   dear Dolphie, I love you. Please be my valentine forever.Â
If
  you build me a house I will happily live in it with you and our
little
  Dolphies and Dolphinas. And every time you build another
building
  you will bring me yellow roses and white chocolate and we will drink
  dark red wine with our vegetarian dinner. We will send the
children
  off to bed early and then we will giggle a lot on the front sofa
just
  like my Mommy and Daddy do when he has sold another VW. Ooops,
here
  comes teacher Old Scowly Face. I'll give this to you at
  recess. Your friend, Theodora Â
  
  
  
  
   
   From: Robin Carlsen maskedzebra@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
   Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 10:24 PM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] HITLER'S VALENTINE
  
  
   Â
   Robin:I think you would like to send Hitler a Valentine's Card and
  make everything all
   right again.
  
   Share: Perhaps if someone had sent Hitler a valentine, he would
have
  become a happy architect.
  
   Robin: If you said this ironically then you have essentially
defied my
  analysis of you--or at least in coming up with this response
(assuming,
  again, that it is ironic) you have proven to me you can resist your
  primary tendency (sentimentality = a failure of real feeling). If,
  however--you must tell me which it is, dear Share,--you meant this
  non-ironically, then you have demonstrated just how true my
essential
  idea of you is, dear Share.
  
   So, either way I win. Because if you meant it in a deliberately
ironic
  way, then you have jumped out of your mould and have said something
  easily as good as anything I could have said. And if you meant it
  sincerely (really believing in the truth of what you say here;
namely,
  that the course of history could have been changed by one valentine)
  then you have rendered my last three posts to you superfluous.
  
   I won't ask you to clarify whether you were being ironic or not,
  Share; I will just pray that if you were serious you will see that
what
  you have said means you have knocked yourself out with one
roundhouse to
  the brain. And I wonder whether you will ever get up off the canvas.
  
   That said, I have to contemplate that the joke is on me; and in
that
  case I declare you the victor here. It is that good, your
  self-mockery--and in a way you are making fun of me brilliantly.
  
   Roger I believe had less of a problem in facing what is there (as
he
  had to today) than did Adolph--but then, if all it would have taken
was
  one valentine, then perhaps God thought Hitler was just one
valentine
  short of going to heaven.
  
   Thank you for writing with the 

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Robin or Good Irony vs Defensive Irony

2013-04-05 Thread seventhray27


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@...
wrote:

 Share to Robin:  I can hardly keep up.  Now we have Defensive Irony?! 
As opposed to Robin Irony which I assume is the Good Irony.
 BTW I made no suggestion about a Holocaust remedy.  You of course
know this.  Perhaps you had written the word Holocaust in invisible ink?

 In the spirit of your approved Descartes's little technique, I made a
light hearted response about Hitler and valentines.  But you know this
too.  OTOH, a la Descartes, perhaps a valentine to Hitler would have
healed him.  Perhaps not.  And apologies if I'm being too sentimental
according to RWC.  Anyway, think of the movie Citizen Kane for example. 
Rosebud, he said on his deathbed.  Who knows what event can turn someone
into a monster?  Or prevent him from becoming one?  Perhaps only ex cult
leaders?

 I totally understand your ignoring the rest of my reply, instead
grabbing onto this part and running with it.  And lookie, you've got
your little gang to run with it as well.  Well at least Emily is praying
for me!

Holds her own while being the target of unfriendly attacks?  Nay, she
excels under these circumstances.  Nicely done Share!



 Robin to Steve:  It is indeed Perfect Response. And so is this. But
the verdict is now in.
 Share's response is quite obviously a form of defensive irony to avoid
having to
 reveal whether her initial suggestion of the Holocaust remedy was
meant
 ironically or not. It was obviously a straight answer.





[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread seventhray27


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@... wrote:

 I really enjoyed it too Robin. But damn it takes some serious time. I
wish we could condense this, but then I guess that wouldn't be rapping
with Robin.

Now this has potential.   Welcome everyone to another Friday night of
Rapping with Robin

Tonight's discussion, a  perennial favorite, FPO.  Yea, you know what
I'm talkin about, First Person Ontology

And if there's time, Reality, Reality, Where Art Thou Reality

And now this little poem just sent in by a listener

Reality, Reality, Where Art Thou?

Are you in caves so deep?

Where may I find you, reality my friend?

Aligned with you I want to be.

For you to verify, and codify my experience here.

But I fear, I fall short.

Reality, Reality, where art thou

Thank you listener.  I might recommend a creative writing class

Time for a commercial break.  Don't go away.  We'll be back with some
more, Rapping with Robin











[FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2

2013-04-05 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@... wrote:

 Share, you interact with people here with much grace and
 generosity. You are always respectful of others, even when
 provoked. Well done!

That is, if you consider flagrant avoidance of the substance
of what she's responding to respectful.

(And even without taking said avoidance into account, it's an
absurd stretch to call what she wrote that you quote respectful
or gracious or generous. But you knew that.)

It does not go unnoticed, feste, that you prefer cheap drive-by
cheerleading and putdowns to addressing the substance of the
controversies here.




 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  There are many people on FFL to whom I feel accountable.  They are not 
  however the people who choose to interpret whatever I write in a negative 
  way.  As wonderful as those people may be or not be, they have blind spots 
  with regards to me.  Just to be clear, I include you in this latter 
  category.
  
  
  
  
  
   From: authfriend authfriend@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 10:41 AM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
   
  
  Â  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   Duh! Well since the majority of they have known me for less
   than a year and only online, hopefully they will understand
   that I trust more the opinions of family, friends, TMers and 
   acquaintances who have known me in person for 65 years or
   slightly less in the case of family members; 38 years or
   slightly less in the case of friends, acquaintances and TMers.
  
  Oh, by all means trust those who have known you in person
  for many years with regard to how you behave in person.
  
  Then ask yourself why those with whom you have interacted
  most intensely and extensively on FFL perceive your
  behavior here quite differently.
  
  You see, unfortunately one can't disavow how one's online
  persona appears to others online by claiming that one's
  offline persona is somehow much different. One must own
  both personas and be accountable for each one to the people
  who are familiar with it.
  
   
   
From: authfriend authfriend@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
   Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 7:17 PM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
   
   
     
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
   
I'm quite sure that my definition of sentimentality is different
from Robin's. In almost 65 years of living, no one has ever
accused me of being sentimental,
   
   Well, now they have.
   
nor do I think of myself that way. In this post I begin by 
addressing Robin's assertions in the 6th paragraph of his
post wherein he talks about contact with life and alleged
reality denial. As for metaphysical discomfort, I did not 
experience such in reading Robin's post.
   
   I told you what it seemed like to me. Now you get to find
   out what it seemed like to Robin.
   

 From: authfriend authfriend@
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 11:16 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2


  
You know, Share, all this is very lovely, but it doesn't
seem to have much of anything to do with what Robin was
saying.

In fact, it appears to me to be an *example* of the very
behavior he describes: using sentimentality as a way to
insulate yourself from the metaphysical discomfort his
post produced in you.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:

 Robin, it is my experience that life reality is always making contact 
 with us; that any filtering of that contact is also done by life 
 reality though it may seem like the individual is doing it!  
 There are stories of people going through trauma and their later 
 reports suggest that the system at least partially shut down all by 
 itself for the sake of avoiding overwhelm and surviving.  
 
 I think we are all doing this to some degree or another all the 
 time.  If only to avoid being overwhelmed by all the sensory 
 data being presented to us at every nanosecond.  And I think 
 the decrease of the need for filtering is one way to describe human 
 development.  So I am at a certain level of development with 
 reference to this.  As is everyone else.  No need to 
 feel sad on my account.  I am simply at a less developed 
 stage than you are probably.  
 
 Referring back to Emily's quote from Descartes we could say that I am 
 going as far as possible in doubting everything.  Just as is 
 everyone else!
 
 And from Salyavin:  Another 

[FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2

2013-04-05 Thread authfriend
Not one of Share's statements in this post is made with
integrity. One way or another, they're all fraudulent.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 thank you for your support, feste and you too, Curtis and Steve.
 And I get that you guys are not taking sides.

Of course they're taking sides.

 Emily, indeed I remember that you complimented my poetry and thank
 you for that. However I must point out to Judy and you that there
 was only ONE Dolphie followup post. I know yahoo is being wonky
 these days but I've checked my Sent folder several times and unless
 I'm totally addled by all this, which is quite possible, I count
 one original Dolphie post and one followup.

Right. Two Dolphie follow-up posts to your Hitler Valentine
response to Robin. But you knew that.

 Both were written in what I thought was an transparently
 joking way. Obviously YMMV and does.

No, our mileage does not vary. That they were written in an
oh-so-cutsie-poo transparently joking way WAS THE PROBLEM,
Share. But you knew that.

snip
 BTW, it was Robin's choice to play up the Hitler angle which
 he also introduced.

Did anybody claim otherwise? He had excellent reason to do so,
and it inspired your two Dolphie follow-up posts, which have
told us more about you than anything you've written here so far,
handily confirming what Robin has perceived about you.

 Anyhoo, Emily, just in case you were being neither Robin
 Ironic nor Defensive Ironic, I assure you that I have not
 written you off nor categorized you out of existence nor
 put you in any bucket. That post in which you used these
 phrases, that post was written to... JUDY.

However, the phrases in question defined an entire *category*
of people on FFL, not just Judy (as you know). Emily had every
reason to assume she was included given your past interactions.

 FWIW I do believe that this whole thing happened because Robin
 and I misinterpreted his original * everything * differently.

No, this whole thing happened because (as you know) you stupidly 
disapproved of his posts to Curtis and Barry and stupidly (and 
disingenuously) tried to draw me into an argument about them.

 When he suggested that a valentine would have made everything
 all right, he, no doubt having a more cosmic view than me, meant
 Hitler's Holocaust. Whereas I, having a more psychological view,
 meant Hitler's damaged psyche and monstrous actions.

No cosmic view required, just the ability to read English.

Here's what he wrote:

I think you would like to send Hitler a Valentine's Card and
make everything all right again.

He obviously wasn't talking about going back in time to send
the card *before* everything went wrong. He was suggesting
you'd send it hoping to make everything all right that had
already gone wrong--i.e., the Holocaust.

But you knew that too.

Phew. It's getting hard to breathe in here; the smell is
nauseating.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Roger Ebert on contributing joy

2013-04-05 Thread seventhray27

Nice post Share.  All of it.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@...
wrote:

 Share to Robin:  Even though you don't want any apology, I do
apologize for my ex cult leader swipe at you.
 Share to Robin again:  Clear conscience, loving heart.  If only we
could agree on what any of those 4 words mean, grin
 Share to Robin thricely:  Surely you oh Cosmic Scolder know it was
kind of funny when you accused Curtis of scolding?!

 Curtis to Robin:  I wish we could condense this, but then I guess that
wouldn't be rapping with Robin.
 Share to Curtis:  This touched my heart very sweetly.  Thank you.
 Share to Curtis again:  Maybe it's that birthday of ours, grinning
playfully

 Share to Judy:  When you say we're all willy nilly accountable to each
other, does that also include your being accountable to
 turq?

 I received this from DailyGood.org today.  It seemed appropriate for
more than one reason:


 To make others less happy is a crime. To make ourselves unhappy is
where
 all crime starts. We must try to contribute joy to the world. That is
 true no matter what our problems, our health, our circumstances. We
must try. I didn't always know this and am happy I lived long enough to
find it out.

 - Roger Ebert -





[FairfieldLife] Re: Roger Ebert on contributing joy

2013-04-05 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Share to Robin:  Even though you don't want any apology, I do
 apologize for my ex cult leader swipe at you.

You have a *lot* more to apologize to him for than that.

 Share to Robin again:  Clear conscience, loving heart.  If only
 we could agree on what any of those 4 words mean, grin

One thing those words do not mean is a phony grin.

 Share to Robin thricely:  Surely you oh Cosmic Scolder know it
 was kind of funny when you accused Curtis of scolding?!

Here's what Robin wrote to Curtis:

You load up what you assert, Curtis, with a kind of assumed
authoritativeness (which I experience to be metaphysical),
and this is always--as I apprehend it, dear Curtis--inversely
proportional to the extent to which there is an absence of real
confidence in the truth of what you are saying. You are always
scolding people in some way which would make it seem as if the
judgment you are rendering is outside of time and space. People
submit to this authority--I have seen it. But it is feigned,
Curtis.

His point, of course, was not *that* Curtis scolds people--
we all do it from time to time--but *how* Curtis scolds
people. When Robin does it, including in that very paragraph,
he doesn't do it the way Curtis does. As I apprehend it
makes it clear that Robin's judgment is personal, as opposed
to making it seem outside of time and space.

This is just basic English comprehension. Curtis knew what
Robin meant when he read it, so his claim that it involved
inadvertent irony was knowingly false. And you've
deliberately taken it out of context to help Curtis with his
deception. Quite a team, the two of you.

 Curtis to Robin:  I wish we could condense this, but then I guess
 that wouldn't be rapping with Robin. 
 Share to Curtis:  This touched my heart very sweetly.  Thank you.
 Share to Curtis again:  Maybe it's that birthday of ours, grinning
 playfully

Dear heaven, I'm glad I'm not diabetic.

 Share to Judy:  When you say we're all willy nilly accountable
 to each other, does that also include your being accountable to
 turq?

(You mean Barry?) Which words in We are all willy nilly 
accountable to each other do you not understand?

 I received this from DailyGood.org today.  It seemed appropriate
 for more than one reason:
 
 To make others less happy is a crime. To make ourselves unhappy
 is where all crime starts. We must try to contribute joy to the
 world. That is true no matter what our problems, our health, our
 circumstances. We must try. I didn't always know this and am
 happy I lived long enough to find it out.
 
 - Roger Ebert -

Ebert contributed joy to the world for the sake of others,
not for the sake of making himself look good. I hope you
live long enough to find that out. Hypocrisy is one of the
very worst crimes against other people, IMHO.




[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:
(snip)
 Robin, no one ever bests you.  You appear so inviting a person to
 discourse with, but it never works out that way.  I guess it's the
 template that you use for these discussions.  It never seems to vary
 much and inevitably whoever you are discoursing with is found to be
 lacking in many ways.  Usually they are guilty of being unwilling to
 face whatever reality is trying to tell them.

Ask Emily whether that's true, Steve. Or Ann. Or raunchy.
Or me, for that matter. We have all discoursed with
Robin without having been found lacking or unwilling to
face reality.  Feste (before he turned against Robin) and
PaliGap and Bob Price have all had very cordial discourses
with Robin. Others as well.




[FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2

2013-04-05 Thread feste37


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
 
  Share, you interact with people here with much grace and
  generosity. You are always respectful of others, even when
  provoked. Well done!
 
 That is, if you consider flagrant avoidance of the substance
 of what she's responding to respectful.
 
 (And even without taking said avoidance into account, it's an
 absurd stretch to call what she wrote that you quote respectful
 or gracious or generous. But you knew that.)
 
 It does not go unnoticed, feste, that you prefer cheap drive-by
 cheerleading and putdowns to addressing the substance of the
 controversies here.


You may well be right on that, authfriend. I don't have time to write much 
more. I am a full-time worker. I often wonder how you guys find the time to do 
so much in-depth posting. Are you all wealthy retirees?


 
 
 
 
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   There are many people on FFL to whom I feel accountable.  They are not 
   however the people who choose to interpret whatever I write in a negative 
   way.  As wonderful as those people may be or not be, they have blind 
   spots with regards to me.  Just to be clear, I include you in this 
   latter category.
   
   
   
   
   
From: authfriend authfriend@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
   Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 10:41 AM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2

   
   Â  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
   
Duh! Well since the majority of they have known me for less
than a year and only online, hopefully they will understand
that I trust more the opinions of family, friends, TMers and 
acquaintances who have known me in person for 65 years or
slightly less in the case of family members; 38 years or
slightly less in the case of friends, acquaintances and TMers.
   
   Oh, by all means trust those who have known you in person
   for many years with regard to how you behave in person.
   
   Then ask yourself why those with whom you have interacted
   most intensely and extensively on FFL perceive your
   behavior here quite differently.
   
   You see, unfortunately one can't disavow how one's online
   persona appears to others online by claiming that one's
   offline persona is somehow much different. One must own
   both personas and be accountable for each one to the people
   who are familiar with it.
   


 From: authfriend authfriend@
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 7:17 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2


  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:

 I'm quite sure that my definition of sentimentality is different
 from Robin's. In almost 65 years of living, no one has ever
 accused me of being sentimental,

Well, now they have.

 nor do I think of myself that way. In this post I begin by 
 addressing Robin's assertions in the 6th paragraph of his
 post wherein he talks about contact with life and alleged
 reality denial. As for metaphysical discomfort, I did not 
 experience such in reading Robin's post.

I told you what it seemed like to me. Now you get to find
out what it seemed like to Robin.

 
  From: authfriend authfriend@
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 11:16 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Robin 2
 
 
   
 You know, Share, all this is very lovely, but it doesn't
 seem to have much of anything to do with what Robin was
 saying.
 
 In fact, it appears to me to be an *example* of the very
 behavior he describes: using sentimentality as a way to
 insulate yourself from the metaphysical discomfort his
 post produced in you.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  Robin, it is my experience that life reality is always making 
  contact with us; that any filtering of that contact is also done by 
  life reality though it may seem like the individual is doing 
  it!  There are stories of people going through trauma and 
  their later reports suggest that the system at least partially shut 
  down all by itself for the sake of avoiding overwhelm and 
  surviving.  
  
  I think we are all doing this to some degree or another all the 
  time.  If only to avoid being overwhelmed by all the 
  sensory data being presented to us at every nanosecond.  
  And I think the decrease of the need for filtering is one way to 
  describe human development.  So I am at a certain level of 
  development 

[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread feste37


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ wrote:
 (snip)
  Robin, no one ever bests you.  You appear so inviting a person to
  discourse with, but it never works out that way.  I guess it's the
  template that you use for these discussions.  It never seems to vary
  much and inevitably whoever you are discoursing with is found to be
  lacking in many ways.  Usually they are guilty of being unwilling to
  face whatever reality is trying to tell them.
 
 Ask Emily whether that's true, Steve. Or Ann. Or raunchy.
 Or me, for that matter. We have all discoursed with
 Robin without having been found lacking or unwilling to
 face reality.  Feste (before he turned against Robin) and
 PaliGap and Bob Price have all had very cordial discourses
 with Robin. Others as well.


I have since altered that stance, authfriend, as Robin knows. I like RWC. 




[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 What was the 'ol phrase M used to say, you don't solve a
 problem on the level of a problem, you solve it on the
 level of the solution?  I think you interpret Share's
 method of approaching situations from a different angle
 than you are used to, as avoiding the problem, or being
 unwilling to address something head on.  I think she
 finds a different opening to apply her leverage

Yes, she does that. But interestingly enough, it virtually
always *does* enable her to avoid honestly addressing what
she's responding to. It's a skill she's obviously honed
over quite some time, and it works very well indeed on
people like you who can't see what's behind it.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@... wrote:

 What on earth are you talking about?

Stepping in here after a long and busy work day but I think she was making a 
pun about your head (your dome). Quite funny actually.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Feste - you are way off the mark here.  Stop belittling the human 
  condition.  It is time for you to clean out your dome.  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
  
   It's just the usual Let's get Share pile on. Nothing new here. 
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically 
aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.


It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just batted 
that ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was thrown.

It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her as 
if she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live 
through it, but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a 
horrible bad thing just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make 
her more sensitive to the issues than she already is.

And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought 
Hitler up in a flip way?

That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing so 
I guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 







 



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
wrote:

 Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that the
 video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI

   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread seventhray27


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@...
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 (snip)
  Robin, no one ever bests you. You appear so inviting a person to
  discourse with, but it never works out that way. I guess it's the
  template that you use for these discussions. It never seems to vary
  much and inevitably whoever you are discoursing with is found to be
  lacking in many ways. Usually they are guilty of being unwilling to
  face whatever reality is trying to tell them.

 Ask Emily whether that's true, Steve. Or Ann. Or raunchy.
 Or me, for that matter. We have all discoursed with
 Robin without having been found lacking or unwilling to
 face reality. Feste (before he turned against Robin) and
 PaliGap and Bob Price have all had very cordial discourses
 with Robin. Others as well.

Okay, I am sure that is true.  I guess within a certain range it works
out.  But out of a certain range a different Robin emerges.  And yes, I
am referring to his discussions with Curtis, or Share, or me on a few
occassions me.  And I am sure there are others.

I believe your position will be that he is pointing out deficiencies in
their FBO, but I am not on board with that evaluation.

And for all I know you and others may be correct in that evaluation.  I
just don't see it that way.  And then, of course there is reality.

The reality of his life, and your life, and anyone's life.  How is that
going?  How is one perceived by others?  Let's take that into
consideration as well.



[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread seventhray27


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@...
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  What was the 'ol phrase M used to say, you don't solve a
  problem on the level of a problem, you solve it on the
  level of the solution? I think you interpret Share's
  method of approaching situations from a different angle
  than you are used to, as avoiding the problem, or being
  unwilling to address something head on. I think she
  finds a different opening to apply her leverage

 Yes, she does that. But interestingly enough, it virtually
 always *does* enable her to avoid honestly addressing what
 she's responding to. It's a skill she's obviously honed
 over quite some time, and it works very well indeed on
 people like you who can't see what's behind it.

There's always reality Judy.  That may be the most important metric. 
Perhaps next to death, (as a nod to Robin).

If a person is happy, if they have fulfilling relationships, if they are
valued.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread seventhray27

Good one Ann.  I missed it.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:



 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
 
  What on earth are you talking about?

 Stepping in here after a long and busy work day but I think she was
making a pun about your head (your dome). Quite funny actually.
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn
emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
  
   Feste - you are way off the mark here. Stop belittling the human
condition. It is time for you to clean out your dome.
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
   
It's just the usual Let's get Share pile on. Nothing new here.
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this
energetically aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.


 It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she
just batted that ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was
thrown.

 It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust
on her as if she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't
live through it, but have read about it. I'll be she also thinks it was
a horrible bad thing just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make
her more sensitive to the issues than she already is.

 And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he
brought Hitler up in a flip way?

 That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is
amazing so I guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions.











 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn
emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Dear Share: This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in
that the
  video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
 

   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread feste37
I knew I could rely on you for a tart response. But the comment of Emily's that 
I was referring to was not that one but the one before it -- as you would know 
if you had read the traffic. (Too long a work day, obviously, authfriend.)

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
 
  What on earth are you talking about?
 
 Stepping in here after a long and busy work day but I think she was making a 
 pun about your head (your dome). Quite funny actually.
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
  wrote:
  
   Feste - you are way off the mark here.  Stop belittling the human 
   condition.  It is time for you to clean out your dome.  
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
   
It's just the usual Let's get Share pile on. Nothing new here. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically 
 aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.
 
 
 It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just 
 batted that ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was 
 thrown.
 
 It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her 
 as if she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live 
 through it, but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a 
 horrible bad thing just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make 
 her more sensitive to the issues than she already is.
 
 And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought 
 Hitler up in a flip way?
 
 That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing 
 so I guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn 
 emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that 
  the
  video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
 

   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Latcho Drom - Auschwitz Song - Gypsy Melody - To Share

2013-04-05 Thread feste37


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
 
  What on earth are you talking about?
 
 Stepping in here after a long and busy work day but I think she was making a 
 pun about your head (your dome). Quite funny actually.

Wolf, I was referring to the comment about belittling the human condition, not 
the dome comment. 

  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
  wrote:
  
   Feste - you are way off the mark here.  Stop belittling the human 
   condition.  It is time for you to clean out your dome.  
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
   
It's just the usual Let's get Share pile on. Nothing new here. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 I get it that you don't like Share Emily, but this energetically 
 aligning to Hitler charge seems unfair.
 
 
 It was Robin who brought him into the conversation and she just 
 batted that ball back in the same sense of absurdity that it was 
 thrown.
 
 It is a setup to now lay the whole heaviness of the holocaust on her 
 as if she doesn't have the same grasp any of us have who didn't live 
 through it, but have read about it.  I'll be she also thinks it was a 
 horrible bad thing just as you do, and posting more horrors wont make 
 her more sensitive to the issues than she already is.
 
 And why didn't Robin get the sad gypsy song treatment when he brought 
 Hitler up in a flip way?
 
 That said the song is beautiful and moving and the video is amazing 
 so I guess in the end art triumphs over all intentions. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn 
 emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Dear Share:  This song is quite stirring from about 1:12 - in that 
  the
  video allows us to *see* the woman singing.
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwsNbhz-XcI
 

   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  I was going to second Steve's post but I guess I would rather address you 
  directly Robin since I am so tight with reality that if she dies tonight 
  on the car ride home CSI would convict me on DNA evidence alone.
  
  From the outset your mission with Share has been unfriendly and she has 
  done a pretty good job of handling herself considering that you are just 
  letting her have it with both barrels about herself, uninvited.  It reminds 
  me of our conversations which followed the same arc, although I at lest got 
  some flowers and chocolates at the door before the assault. 
  
  You would make Share's post into some devastating counterpunch.
  
  You have used similar metaphors of competition in our conversations and I 
  am seeing a pattern. The issue is that you seem to believe, perhaps 
  sincerely, that you have a better insight into some posters here than they 
  do of themselves.  And when they reject this assumption, (as any adult 
  would), you act as if you are in a fight to make them see themselves 
  through your unflattering lens.
  
  Why would we? You may be thinking that your insight is more valuable than 
  it is.  And having been the focus of your unasked for improvement sessions 
  myself, I have to say that you aren't that perceptive Robin. And perhaps 
  you are in person, so you have developed an unnaturally high self-regard 
  about this ability, but it isn't cutting it here.  You have been running a 
  formula and it is increasingly obvious.
  
  So that is my opinion and I don't need to word flood you about it or repeat 
  it a million times.  I've made my point and as a fellow adult I suspect you 
  will just blow it all off as me being me.
 
 Me, I'm gonna stick with my three-word description of
 the guy, which I think explains it all, and in the
 least possible number of words: Narcissistic Personality
 Disorder, in spades. OK, that was five words. :-)
 
 People here must be really, Really, REALLY masochistic
 to put up with this kinda abuse by continuing to read
 and respond to this asshole's crap. My suggestion is 
 that people would have to shower less if they just 
 ignored him like the pisshole in otherwise new and 
 pristine snow he is.

A few things I will give you Barry:
You are very, very consistent
Your words bludgeon, they never, ever caress
Whatever it is you manage to do when you write you repel as opposed to draw 
people 
You reduce things to the lowest common denominator 
You would have made a terrible surgeon
You would have never made a ballet dance
Your repertoire needs an overhaul







[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   What was the 'ol phrase M used to say, you don't solve a
   problem on the level of a problem, you solve it on the
   level of the solution? I think you interpret Share's
   method of approaching situations from a different angle
   than you are used to, as avoiding the problem, or being
   unwilling to address something head on. I think she
   finds a different opening to apply her leverage
 
  Yes, she does that. But interestingly enough, it virtually
  always *does* enable her to avoid honestly addressing what
  she's responding to. It's a skill she's obviously honed
  over quite some time, and it works very well indeed on
  people like you who can't see what's behind it.
 
 There's always reality Judy.  That may be the most important 
 metric. Perhaps next to death, (as a nod to Robin).
 
 If a person is happy, if they have fulfilling relationships,
 if they are valued.

But only if the person has integrity. Without integrity,
it's all just a charade.




[FairfieldLife] Re: HITLER'S VALENTINE

2013-04-05 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  (snip)
   Robin, no one ever bests you. You appear so inviting a
   person to discourse with, but it never works out that
   way. I guess it's the template that you use for these 
   discussions. It never seems to vary much and inevitably
   whoever you are discoursing with is found to be lacking
   in many ways. Usually they are guilty of being unwilling
   to face whatever reality is trying to tell them.
 
  Ask Emily whether that's true, Steve. Or Ann. Or raunchy.
  Or me, for that matter. We have all discoursed with
  Robin without having been found lacking or unwilling to
  face reality. Feste (before he turned against Robin) and
  PaliGap and Bob Price have all had very cordial discourses
  with Robin. Others as well.
 
 Okay, I am sure that is true.  I guess within a certain range
 it works out.  But out of a certain range a different Robin 
 emerges.

Nope, same Robin, just talking to people who seem to him
to have a feeble grasp on reality, or the intention to
subvert it.

 And yes, I am referring to his discussions with Curtis,
 or Share, or me on a few occassions me.  And I am sure
 there are others.
 
 I believe your position will be that he is pointing out 
 deficiencies in their FBO, but I am not on board with
 that evaluation.

I have no idea what FBO is.

 And for all I know you and others may be correct in that 
 evaluation.  I just don't see it that way.  And then, of
 course there is reality.
 
 The reality of his life, and your life, and anyone's life.
 How is that going?  How is one perceived by others?  Let's
 take that into consideration as well.

Let's not and say we did. I was addressing a factual 
misstatement of yours. I'm not interested in getting
into a discussion with you beyond correcting that.





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