Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-07 Thread awoelflebater
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: Ann, it's an interesting topic: what constitutes initiating violence against another? With this wording I'm excluding violence that a person uses to defend themselves or their loved ones. So again, what constitutes initiating violence or harm a

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-07 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 1/6/2014 9:20 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: > > When most people "fight" for a cause, they harm other people. > > > Simply not true that when most people "fight" for a cause, they > harm other people. > The U.S. invaded Afghanistan based on the opinion of our congressional leaders. For

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-07 Thread Share Long
Ann, it's an interesting topic: what constitutes initiating violence against another? With this wording I'm excluding violence that a person uses to defend themselves or their loved ones. So again, what constitutes initiating violence or harm against another? Does it encompass only physical harm

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-07 Thread Michael Jackson
. On Tue, 1/7/14, Duveyoung wrote: Subject: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Date: Tuesday, January 7, 2014, 6:03 AM

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Duveyoung
The guy quit on day 16...eating pizza tonight on TV.miffed that he only got one pizza sent to him -- asks for more to be sent. On day 16 of a fast, an inexperienced person might be hallucinating to some degree -- maybe God came to him and said, "Oy! Could you lay off with the hating? What

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread steve.sundur
I see, A rather extreme stance IMO, but we all have our hot button issues, I guess.

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread steve.sundur
uh, that might better be a micro!

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread awoelflebater
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: Now wait a second. What you are saying has nothing to do with whether he is fasting or not, at least as I understand it. And forget for a moment his other comments, as they seem to have no bearing on what you are saying above. It seems tha

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread awoelflebater
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: good one Judy You could make a macro for that too Steve!

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread authfriend
Simply not true that when most people "fight" for a cause, they harm other people. When it does happen, it's the exception, not the rule, not by a very long shot indeed. Most people in this country, at least, don't believe their strong opinions give them the right to do violence to others. I

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread steve.sundur
Now wait a second. What you are saying has nothing to do with whether he is fasting or not, at least as I understand it. And forget for a moment his other comments, as they seem to have no bearing on what you are saying above. It seems that you are rendering a pretty harsh judgement simply

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread awoelflebater
But, the thing is, in his "fight" to protest and in turn his hope to have gay marriages banned or made unlawful he is doing a kind of violence. The form his violence is taking is to judge and ultimately condemn the validity and the power of love and the desire to commit, in the form of marriage,

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Share Long
Steve, what I had been admiring about the guy was his lack of violence against others in the presence of his own strong opinions. Meaning, he isn't bombing abortion clinics or flying airplanes into buildings or bullying gays online. When most people "fight" for a cause, they harm other people. T

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Share Long
Seraph, I don't think opinions themselves can be true or false though they can be based on true or false conclusions. And I still think emotional blackmail is an interaction that occurs on the personal rather than societal level. On Monday, January 6, 2014 5:30 PM, "s3raph...@yahoo.com" wr

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread steve.sundur
I guess you could look at it both ways. But it would seem to me that he is putting the onus on someone in this case. I think it is a nice distinction Ann is making in either fighting for a cause, or being willing to die, if something isn't changed in a manner you want to see it changed.

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread steve.sundur
I think he probably knew he had an out. And looks like he just got it.

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread s3raphita
Re "IMO emotional blackmail occurs only when there is a personal relationship between the people involved.": You opinion is false. Hunger strikes whip up a lot of emotion! Re "In the US suffragettes jailed for their beliefs went on hunger strikes and were force fed as a result. Would you say y

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread awoelflebater
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: turq, as I said to Ann, I've found it difficult to really know someone's complete self without knowing them in person. I don't think that's an idiotic realization. On Monday, January 6, 2014 11:43 AM, TurquoiseB wrote: --- In Fairf

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Share Long
Thanks for passing it along, Judy. This makes me think way less of him. On Monday, January 6, 2014 1:22 PM, "authfri...@yahoo.com" wrote:   You don't need to know someone's "complete self" to draw certain conclusions about them, Share, and it's idiotic to think you do. BTW, here's what

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread authfriend
You don't need to know someone's "complete self" to draw certain conclusions about them, Share, and it's idiotic to think you do. BTW, here's what this "very courageous" person has said about gay people on his Facebook page: “The homosexual movement is less tolerant than the Nazis and if

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread authfriend
Barry wrote: Her father didn't like this much, and wrote back a long -- and from the Psychologist's point of view, "sociopathic and manipulative" letter, in which he basically ran the ultimate Narcissistic Personality Disorder routine, denying any wrongdoing on his part, trying to put the bl

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Share Long
turq, as I said to Ann, I've found it difficult to really know someone's complete self without knowing them in person. I don't think that's an idiotic realization. On Monday, January 6, 2014 11:43 AM, TurquoiseB wrote:   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > Ann, I

[FairfieldLife] Re: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > Ann, I don't think that guy is putting an onus on anyone. He seems like a very courageous person to me, taking responsibility for his own beliefs, as wrong as I think they are. But I could be incorrect, as I've found it's difficult to rea

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Share Long
Ann, I don't think that guy is putting an onus on anyone. He seems like a very courageous person to me, taking responsibility for his own beliefs, as wrong as I think they are. But I could be incorrect, as I've found it's difficult to really know people's complete selves without knowing them in

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread awoelflebater
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: Seraphita, I support gay marriage and I don't feel emotionally blackmailed by the guy who's starving himself to death to protest it. IMO emotional blackmail occurs when there is a personal relationship between the people involved. To some de

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Share Long
turq, I don't agree with you that I'm dragging the forum down because I have mostly ignored the taunts. I've been engaging in what for me was an interesting discussion about several topics. I was surprised by my initial reaction to what you posted and for the most part I've been enjoying unpacki

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread awoelflebater
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: I'll comment on this because...uh, frankly...I set these two up to get their panties in a twist and run around acting like cultists, and they did, so I might as well gloat a little and rub it in. :-) :-) :-) What happened was this. A former

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Share Long
Seraphita, I support gay marriage and I don't feel emotionally blackmailed by the guy who's starving himself to death to protest it. IMO emotional blackmail occurs when there is a personal relationship between the people involved. In the US suffragettes jailed for their beliefs went on hunger st

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread authfriend
Really, this is so revealing of Barry's integrity and character (or rather, lack of same). It's impossible even to imagine Robin doing something like that to Barry, or to anybody, for that matter. It's also brilliantly confirmatory of everything I've said here about how threatened Barry was-

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread authfriend
Barry has taken his anti-Robin jihad over to Facebook?? Unbelievable. He can't get away with that here, because there are too many people who know the facts. On Facebook, he can simply block anyone who knows what the real story is. What a coward. Yup, Barry has chosen his next favourite haunt,

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread awoelflebater
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: Ann, he does this sort of thing deliberately - his MO. I read a book once that mentioned about chronological age, vs. emotional age. Barry is very immature for his age. He continues to act as a child, yet because of what he has done in his many

[FairfieldLife] Re: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread authfriend
Oh, good grief, what a load of utter crap. None of it is even halfway accurate or fair. It's just Barry fantasizing again, demonizing his critics while pretending that he pays no attention to them. Four specific points: First, like Feste and Stevie, Barry doesn't dare acknowledge that th

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread doctordumbass
Ann, he does this sort of thing deliberately - his MO. I read a book once that mentioned about chronological age, vs. emotional age. Barry is very immature for his age. He continues to act as a child, yet because of what he has done in his many years, and the development of his intellect, he soc

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread awoelflebater
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: Steve and Feste, I don't think it's a good idea to encourage Share to participate, no matter how badly she kicks the Mean Girls' asses. You *know* how the MGC pack thinks -- if they can taunt one of their hate-objects into replying to them, per

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread awoelflebater
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: Steve and Feste, I don't think it's a good idea to encourage Share to participate, no matter how badly she kicks the Mean Girls' asses. You *know* how the MGC pack thinks -- if they can taunt one of their hate-objects into replying to them, per

[FairfieldLife] Re: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread TurquoiseB
Steve and Feste, I don't think it's a good idea to encourage Share to participate, no matter how badly she kicks the Mean Girls' asses. You *know* how the MGC pack thinks -- if they can taunt one of their hate-objects into replying to them, period, then they believe they've "won." It's the same gam

[FairfieldLife] Re: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wgm4u wrote: > > Yes. Barry I think we can arrange something? Good to hear. The more of these thought-dinosaurs who remove themselves from the collective gene pool by practicing the Darwin Awards Hunger Fast technique, the better off the human race will be.

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread wgm4u
Yes. Barry I think we can arrange something? ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: Oh, yesss! Barry. the girl's a super freak! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gT65GFEMQ2s http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gT65GFEMQ2s ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: I think that

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread wgm4u
Oh, yesss! Barry. the girl's a super freak! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gT65GFEMQ2s http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gT65GFEMQ2s ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: I think that *everyone* who feels that gay marriage is wrong should do exactly what this Utah man is doing,

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread awoelflebater
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: Is that worse than being a "lying jackass," auth, because that's what you were calling me a couple of weeks ago. I know that following your failure to get the better of Share, who is far too nimble for you ever to lay a glove on, you need to fi

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread s3raphita
People who starve themselves to make a political point should be ignored and allowed to die. I detest people who use emotional blackmail to get their points across. We were given the gift of rationality so let's use it. Give me reasons why Position X is preferable to Position Y and I'll either

[FairfieldLife] RE: Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread awoelflebater
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote: I think that *everyone* who feels that gay marriage is wrong should do exactly what this Utah man is doing, and go on hunger fasts to the death to stand up for their beliefs. This would actually solve much of the problem, and leave the world a