[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect pitch, anybody??
Tempered Tuning This is a method of tuning that addresses all of the above factors. In essence, this method takes the inharmonicity of all six strings and the slight mathematical discrepancy between the whole scales and divides the variation equally among each string. This means that while no one chord or interval is perfect (and it is physically impossible for them all to be perfect), they are all only slightly off. But off by such a small, consistent amount that no ordinary ear can detect any dissonance. What follow are the steps to achieve this tempered tuning. You can learn it quickly. Master it and you will tune your guitar quicker and slicker than the other kids on the block! Fail to master it, and studies show you will spend 7.52 years of your life tuning your guitar. http://www.ryanguitars.com/GuitarTech-Tuning.html http://www.ryanguitars.com/GuitarTech-Tuning.html http://www.ryanguitars.com/GuitarTech-Tuning.html http://www.ryanguitars.com/GuitarTech-Tuning.html http://www.ryanguitars.com/GuitarTech-Tuning.html I learned this method of temper-tuning a guitar while I was a professional piano tuner in Ohio about 24 years ago. View on www.ryan... http://www.ryanguitars.com/GuitarTech-Tuning.html Preview by Yahoo
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect pitch, anybody??
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,wrote : MS, It's unusual that a girl would study the trombone as the instrument of choice. I'm thinking that girls usually play the violin, viola or cello. But it obviously paid off for her since she's playing for symphonies now. I have a niece who started out with playing the flute and ended up at Guildehall in London getting her Masters int the French Horn. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Guildhall_School_of_Music_and_Drama https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Guildhall_School_of_Music_and_Drama To a gifted musician, the world itself is a symphony of music. One of Greek philosophers coined the term "music of the spheres" to describe the function of the various planets in the zodiac. IMO, the "music" refers to the wave functions for each of the planets which affect our brains and physiology. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote : This girl was 13 at the time. She did not major in piano but trombone and now plays for symphonies. Her father was a conductor. She said that her biggest problem was when playing with symphonies it would drive her nuts when the symphony would tune sharp of the standardized tuning of 440 because to her ear 440 was normal. When she was young and would hang out with my daughter, she would identify the pitches of all the different sounds like printers transformer noise etc. Got to be a joke after awhile. http://music.stackexchange.com/questions/776/why-are-orchestras-tuned-differently http://music.stackexchange.com/questions/776/why-are-orchestras-tuned-differently
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect pitch, anybody??
Wikipedia: A440 or A4, which has a frequency of 440 Hz https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hertz, is the musical note https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Musical_note A https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_(musical_note) above middle C https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Middle_C and serves as a general tuning standard for musical pitch https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pitch_(music). Prior to the standardization on 440 Hz, many countries and organizations followed the Austrian https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Austriagovernment's 1885 recommendation of 435 Hz, which had also been the French standard since the 1860s.[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A440_(pitch_standard)#cite_note-1 The American music industry reached an informal standard of 440 Hz in 1926, and some began using it in instrument manufacturing. In 1936 the American Standards Association https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_Standards_Associationrecommended that the A above middle C be tuned to 440 Hz.[2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A440_(pitch_standard)#cite_note-2 This standard was taken up by theInternational Organization for Standardization https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Organization_for_Standardization in 1955 (reaffirmed by them in 1975) as ISO 16.[3] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A440_(pitch_standard)#cite_note-3 Although not universally accepted, since then it has served as the audio frequency https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frequency reference for the calibration of acoustic equipment and the tuning of pianos, violins, and other musical instruments.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect pitch, anybody??
Friend of my daughters was playing our plano. she looked up at me and said this piano is flat, it's tuned to 436 instead of 440. It just so happened that the piano had been tuned to 436 intentionally a few hours before she sat down to play it.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect pitch, anybody??
MS, I had a friend while in college who proved to me that he had perfect pitch. While he was on the other room, I played on the piano several notes one at a time. And he named all of the notes that I played. I was impressed. He was our guitar player at the time. But he majored in Engineering at UC Berkeley, and did not stay in music as a professional career. I myself am self-taught in playing the piano. There is much to know about the subject. There's a guy on YouTube who is an excellent teacher for playing jazz. He's got a video on how to use the various scales and modes while playing during solos and improvisations. I'm practicing some of his concepts now and it's improved my playing as well. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,wrote : Friend of my daughters was playing our plano. she looked up at me and said this piano is flat, it's tuned to 436 instead of 440. It just so happened that the piano had been tuned to 436 intentionally a few hours before she sat down to play it.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect pitch, anybody??
This girl was 13 at the time. She did not major in piano but trombone and now plays for symphonies. Her father was a conductor. She said that her biggest problem was when playing with symphonies it would drive her nuts when the symphony would tune sharp of the standardized tuning of 440 because to her ear 440 was normal. When she was young and would hang out with my daughter, she would identify the pitches of all the different sounds like printers transformer noise etc. Got to be a joke after awhile. http://music.stackexchange.com/questions/776/why-are-orchestras-tuned-differently
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect pitch, anybody??
I've never quite understood perfect pitch because musical tunings have evolved arbitrarily unless some frequency just seemed "right" to some people. I worked with a pianist who claimed to have perfect pitch and would bring a tuning kit to gigs to fix and instrument he had to play on. I need to look up if there is some physiological theory on why some people develop "perfect pitch." On 09/13/2015 11:42 AM, jr_...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife] wrote: MS, It's unusual that a girl would study the trombone as the instrument of choice. I'm thinking that girls usually play the violin, viola or cello. But it obviously paid off for her since she's playing for symphonies now. To a gifted musician, the world itself is a symphony of music. One of Greek philosophers coined the term "music of the spheres" to describe the function of the various planets in the zodiac. IMO, the "music" refers to the wave functions for each of the planets which affect our brains and physiology. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,wrote : This girl was 13 at the time. She did not major in piano but trombone and now plays for symphonies. Her father was a conductor. She said that her biggest problem was when playing with symphonies it would drive her nuts when the symphony would tune sharp of the standardized tuning of 440 because to her ear 440 was normal. When she was young and would hang out with my daughter, she would identify the pitches of all the different sounds like printers transformer noise etc. Got to be a joke after awhile. http://music.stackexchange.com/questions/776/why-are-orchestras-tuned-differently
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect pitch, anybody??
MS, It's unusual that a girl would study the trombone as the instrument of choice. I'm thinking that girls usually play the violin, viola or cello. But it obviously paid off for her since she's playing for symphonies now. To a gifted musician, the world itself is a symphony of music. One of Greek philosophers coined the term "music of the spheres" to describe the function of the various planets in the zodiac. IMO, the "music" refers to the wave functions for each of the planets which affect our brains and physiology. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,wrote : This girl was 13 at the time. She did not major in piano but trombone and now plays for symphonies. Her father was a conductor. She said that her biggest problem was when playing with symphonies it would drive her nuts when the symphony would tune sharp of the standardized tuning of 440 because to her ear 440 was normal. When she was young and would hang out with my daughter, she would identify the pitches of all the different sounds like printers transformer noise etc. Got to be a joke after awhile. http://music.stackexchange.com/questions/776/why-are-orchestras-tuned-differently http://music.stackexchange.com/questions/776/why-are-orchestras-tuned-differently
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect pitch, anybody??
Has the Department of Homeland Security been notified? ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,wrote : Friend of my daughters was playing our plano. she looked up at me and said this piano is flat, it's tuned to 436 instead of 440. It just so happened that the piano had been tuned to 436 intentionally a few hours before she sat down to play it.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect pitch, anybody??
My son who plays bass professionally has relative pitch which means he can determine a secondary note from hearing in his head an E note. The note is always E so he has to work his way up or down the scale to figure out the secondary note.This is probably developed. Perfect pitch on the other hand seems to be a talent your born with because it's uncanny how Matar can tell you the pitch-note and frequency, sharp ,flat or natural immediately with no calculation.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect living arrangements for Buck
The developer's website says, For security reasons, we will not disclose the exact location, though we can tell you that both silo 1 and 2 are located in Kansas. Well, locations of old missile silos are public info and easily found online. From what I can gather, these are the two locations: https://www.google.com/maps/place/39%C2%B024%2745.4%22N+97%C2%B040%2755.4%22W/@39.412606,-97.68206,335m/data=!3m2!1e3!4b1!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x0 https://www.google.com/maps/place/39%C2%B024%2745.4%22N+97%C2%B040%2755.4%22W/@39.412606,-97.68206,335m/data=!3m2!1e3!4b1!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x0 https://www.google.com/maps/place/39%C2%B009'52.0%22N+97%C2%B039'50.0%22W/@39.1595884,-97.666,2729m/data=!3m1!1e3!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x0?hl=en https://www.google.com/maps/place/39%C2%B009%2752.0%22N+97%C2%B039'50.0%22W/@39.1595884,-97.666,2729m/data=!3m1!1e3!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x0?hl=en ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoi...@yahoo.com wrote : Those On The Program TMers who want to be prepared for *either* the coming Age of Sat Yuga *or* the Apocalypse (whichever comes first) should consider buying one of these condos. Only 1 hour and ten minutes from the Brahmastan of the US at Lebanon, Kansas. They've already got a pee in the cup room and a holding cell for those who are unstressing or Off The Program and need a time out. Sounds *perfect* for diehard TMers who want to die hard. :-) U.S. survival condos: Luxury apartments designed for doomsday https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=himiayarTS8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=himiayarTS8 U.S. survival condos: Luxury apartments designed for doo... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=himiayarTS8 View on www.youtube.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=himiayarTS8 Preview by Yahoo
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect living arrangements for Buck
Personally, I would rather not survive anything resembling an apocalypse, and most certainly not in a bunker full of survivalist types. Perhaps, if I had children, I'd feel differently; my dad always made it clear he did not want to be kept alive with machines and whatnot. But, several years ago, when nature provided him with a ticket out of here, he opted to to get the pacemaker so that he could spend more time with his kids. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoi...@yahoo.com wrote : I just keep thinking that there's a movie of the week in this somewhere. I mean, a properly perverted writer could do wonders with the idea of these Luxury Condos Of The Rich And Famous as a kind of self-selecting hell, similar to Poe's The Masque of the Red Death. You pay your million+ bucks to get your insurance policy for the Apocalypse, and then the Apocalypse really happens, and you're stuck with people just like you in an underground bunker. Forever. It could be a really funny sitcom, with people like Donald Trump living next to Paris Hilton and Shirley MacLaine and and a few assorted celebrities, politicians, rock stars, and Silicon Valley gazillionaires. It could be like Harlan Ellison's A Boy and his Dog, but with better characters and better cuisine. ( That's an in-joke for those who know Harlan's piece. :-) From: j_alexander_stan...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, February 19, 2015 3:45 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect living arrangements for Buck The developer's website says, For security reasons, we will not disclose the exact location, though we can tell you that both silo 1 and 2 are located in Kansas. Well, locations of old missile silos are public info and easily found online. From what I can gather, these are the two locations: https://www.google.com/maps/place/39%C2%B024%2745.4%22N+97%C2%B040%2755.4%22W/@39.412606,-97.68206,335m/data=!3m2!1e3!4b1!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x0 https://www.google.com/maps/place/39%C2%B024%2745.4%22N+97%C2%B040%2755.4%22W/@39.412606,-97.68206,335m/data=!3m2!1e3!4b1!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x0 https://www.google.com/maps/place/39%C2%B009'52.0%22N+97%C2%B039'50.0%22W/@39.1595884,-97.666,2729m/data=!3m1!1e3!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x0?hl=en https://www.google.com/maps/place/39%C2%B009%2752.0%22N+97%C2%B039%2750.0%22W/@39.1595884,-97.666,2729m/data=!3m1!1e3!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x0?hl=en ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoi...@yahoo.com wrote : Those On The Program TMers who want to be prepared for *either* the coming Age of Sat Yuga *or* the Apocalypse (whichever comes first) should consider buying one of these condos. Only 1 hour and ten minutes from the Brahmastan of the US at Lebanon, Kansas. They've already got a pee in the cup room and a holding cell for those who are unstressing or Off The Program and need a time out. Sounds *perfect* for diehard TMers who want to die hard. :-) U.S. survival condos: Luxury apartments designed for doomsday https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=himiayarTS8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=himiayarTS8 U.S. survival condos: Luxury apartments designed for doo... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=himiayarTS8 View on www.youtube.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=himiayarTS8 Preview by Yahoo
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect living arrangements for Buck
I just keep thinking that there's a movie of the week in this somewhere. I mean, a properly perverted writer could do wonders with the idea of these Luxury Condos Of The Rich And Famous as a kind of self-selecting hell, similar to Poe's The Masque of the Red Death. You pay your million+ bucks to get your insurance policy for the Apocalypse, and then the Apocalypse really happens, and you're stuck with people just like you in an underground bunker. Forever. It could be a really funny sitcom, with people like Donald Trump living next to Paris Hilton and Shirley MacLaine and and a few assorted celebrities, politicians, rock stars, and Silicon Valley gazillionaires. It could be like Harlan Ellison's A Boy and his Dog, but with better characters and better cuisine. ( That's an in-joke for those who know Harlan's piece. :-) From: j_alexander_stan...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, February 19, 2015 3:45 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect living arrangements for Buck The developer's website says, For security reasons, we will not disclose the exact location, though we can tell you that both silo 1 and 2 are located in Kansas. Well, locations of old missile silos are public info and easily found online. From what I can gather, these are the two locations: https://www.google.com/maps/place/39%C2%B024%2745.4%22N+97%C2%B040%2755.4%22W/@39.412606,-97.68206,335m/data=!3m2!1e3!4b1!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x0 https://www.google.com/maps/place/39%C2%B009'52.0%22N+97%C2%B039'50.0%22W/@39.1595884,-97.666,2729m/data=!3m1!1e3!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x0?hl=en ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoi...@yahoo.com wrote : Those On The Program TMers who want to be prepared for *either* the coming Age of Sat Yuga *or* the Apocalypse (whichever comes first) should consider buying one of these condos. Only 1 hour and ten minutes from the Brahmastan of the US at Lebanon, Kansas. They've already got a pee in the cup room and a holding cell for those who are unstressing or Off The Program and need a time out. Sounds *perfect* for diehard TMers who want to die hard. :-) U.S. survival condos: Luxury apartments designed for doomsday | | | | | | | | | | | U.S. survival condos: Luxury apartments designed for doo... | | | | View on www.youtube.com | Preview by Yahoo | | | | | #yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727 -- #yiv1452207727ygrp-mkp {border:1px solid #d8d8d8;font-family:Arial;margin:10px 0;padding:0 10px;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727ygrp-mkp hr {border:1px solid #d8d8d8;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727ygrp-mkp #yiv1452207727hd {color:#628c2a;font-size:85%;font-weight:700;line-height:122%;margin:10px 0;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727ygrp-mkp #yiv1452207727ads {margin-bottom:10px;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727ygrp-mkp .yiv1452207727ad {padding:0 0;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727ygrp-mkp .yiv1452207727ad p {margin:0;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727ygrp-mkp .yiv1452207727ad a {color:#ff;text-decoration:none;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727ygrp-sponsor #yiv1452207727ygrp-lc {font-family:Arial;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727ygrp-sponsor #yiv1452207727ygrp-lc #yiv1452207727hd {margin:10px 0px;font-weight:700;font-size:78%;line-height:122%;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727ygrp-sponsor #yiv1452207727ygrp-lc .yiv1452207727ad {margin-bottom:10px;padding:0 0;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727actions {font-family:Verdana;font-size:11px;padding:10px 0;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727activity {background-color:#e0ecee;float:left;font-family:Verdana;font-size:10px;padding:10px;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727activity span {font-weight:700;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727activity span:first-child {text-transform:uppercase;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727activity span a {color:#5085b6;text-decoration:none;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727activity span span {color:#ff7900;}#yiv1452207727 #yiv1452207727activity span .yiv1452207727underline {text-decoration:underline;}#yiv1452207727 .yiv1452207727attach {clear:both;display:table;font-family:Arial;font-size:12px;padding:10px 0;width:400px;}#yiv1452207727 .yiv1452207727attach div a {text-decoration:none;}#yiv1452207727 .yiv1452207727attach img {border:none;padding-right:5px;}#yiv1452207727 .yiv1452207727attach label {display:block;margin-bottom:5px;}#yiv1452207727 .yiv1452207727attach label a {text-decoration:none;}#yiv1452207727 blockquote {margin:0 0 0 4px;}#yiv1452207727 .yiv1452207727bold {font-family:Arial;font-size:13px;font-weight:700;}#yiv1452207727 .yiv1452207727bold a {text-decoration:none;}#yiv1452207727 dd.yiv1452207727last p a {font-family:Verdana;font-weight:700;}#yiv1452207727 dd.yiv1452207727last p span {margin-right:10px;font-family:Verdana;font-weight:700;}#yiv1452207727 dd.yiv1452207727last p span.yiv1452207727yshortcuts {margin-right:0;}#yiv1452207727 div.yiv1452207727attach-table div div a {text-decoration:none;}#yiv1452207727
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect living arrangements for Buck
The only thing the TMers on FFL are concerned about at present is if we have enough saved up so we can retire and eat well. We're not concerned with surviving the coming apocalypse because we already realize we're all going to die soon of old age - nobody gets out of here alive. If you want to go ahead and believe in pie in the sky Buddhas and a soul that reincarnates, that's your business. We've already done what had to be done, worked all our life and raised families - we've accomplished all our aims and are at peace. Now all we have to do is sit back and enjoy. You, on the other hand, may still need some spiritual work in order to avoid the danger that lies ahead. So, forget about us, just continue to work out your own salvation with diligence and hope you can last a few more years without much pain and suffering. Good luck - you'll probably be needing it considering where you're presently holed up and how much money you've been able to save for your own retirement - don't give up your day job, if your still have one. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : Those On The Program TMers who want to be prepared for *either* the coming Age of Sat Yuga *or* the Apocalypse (whichever comes first) should consider buying one of these condos. Only 1 hour and ten minutes from the Brahmastan of the US at Lebanon, Kansas. They've already got a pee in the cup room and a holding cell for those who are unstressing or Off The Program and need a time out. Sounds *perfect* for diehard TMers who want to die hard. :-) U.S. survival condos: Luxury apartments designed for doomsday https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=himiayarTS8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=himiayarTS8 U.S. survival condos: Luxury apartments designed for doo... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=himiayarTS8 View on www.youtube.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=himiayarTS8 Preview by Yahoo
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect!
turquoise: ...whenever I see photos of this guy, I always think of Ravi. So, why would think you're superior to Ravi, because you're a free white, and look different from an average Asian? Last time I checked, Indians were Caucasian just like you. LoL! To be white like you in Paris ...is to have the privilege of being able to define one's political identity in terms of one's own superiority, whether real or imagined, over other members of one's own race. 'A Theory of White Racism Against Whites' Wall Street Journal: http://tinyurl.com/cekutw6
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect!
Ravi Chivukula: Yes - I totally agree Barry baby - he's a clown Rama (a.k.a. Frederick Lenz a.k.a. Atmananda) 1950-1998 http://www.zenmasterrama.com/TantricZen.htm
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect!
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Richard J. Williams richard@... wrote: Ravi Chivukula: Yes - I totally agree Barry baby - he's a clown Rama (a.k.a. Frederick Lenz a.k.a. Atmananda) 1950-1998 http://www.zenmasterrama.com/TantricZen.htm Maybe we should forgive Fred for this image and blame the whole thing on the 80's.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect!
Sort of Alice Cooper meets Art Garfunkel meets Carrot Top, with a healthy dose of extra frizz. He must have followed the directions on the Prell bottle that said, rinse, AND REPEAT. Guaranteed to strip the oil from every follicle on his head, and then some. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Richard J. Williams richard@ wrote: Ravi Chivukula: Yes - I totally agree Barry baby - he's a clown Rama (a.k.a. Frederick Lenz a.k.a. Atmananda) 1950-1998 http://www.zenmasterrama.com/TantricZen.htm Maybe we should forgive Fred for this image and blame the whole thing on the 80's.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect!
Ann: Maybe we should forgive Fred for this image and blame the whole thing on the 80's. Maybe, but that's Fred from the 70s. LoL! Fred's guru, Chinmoy Kumar Ghose: 'The Transcendental' http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sri_Chinmoy
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect!
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Richard J. Williams wrote: Fred's guru, Chinmoy Kumar Ghose: 'The Transcendental' The second greatest being I ever met. An amazing Yogi.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect Sense
I saw this some time ago (think Johnny Depp saying, Pirate!), and thought I'd mentioned it here, but a quick search seems to indicate that maybe I didn't. I just loved this movie, and not *only* because it stars one of the most beautiful women in the world, Eva Green. The whole metaphor is lovely, especially what happens as people learn to cope with the loss of a sense that they felt kinda defined life and what it is to live it. The sense disappears, but life does not, and one learns to cope, and continue on. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu wrote: Perfect Sense is an apocalyptic love story. It is the story of two people who fall in love as an epidemic spreads the planet robbing people of their sensory perceptions. Ewan McGregor plays a chef in a restaurant next door to the apartment of a epidemiologist, played by Eva Green, who works for an organization trying to solve what is happening with the epidemic. The first sense to go is that of smell. This is a smart apocalyptic film. People don't turn into zombies but they do go berserk a bit whenever they lose another sense. More nudity than blood but not enough to rate it Not for Buck. It's not on Netflix WI but available on DVD from Netflix. I watched it on Showtime OnDemand because Netflix was having another re-buffering fit because apparently a lot of people were staying home last night and watching Netflix and their servers are just not ready for that kind of demand. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1439572/
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect Sense
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: I saw this some time ago (think Johnny Depp saying, Pirate!), and thought I'd mentioned it here, but a quick search seems to indicate that maybe I didn't. Ah, I did. I was searching for the title of the movie in the text of the post, and it was in the Subject line. Worth repeating, because as Bhairitu says, this is a pretty good movie: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/299267 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/299278 I just loved this movie, and not *only* because it stars one of the most beautiful women in the world, Eva Green. The whole metaphor is lovely, especially what happens as people learn to cope with the loss of a sense that they felt kinda defined life and what it is to live it. The sense disappears, but life does not, and one learns to cope, and continue on. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu wrote: Perfect Sense is an apocalyptic love story. It is the story of two people who fall in love as an epidemic spreads the planet robbing people of their sensory perceptions. Ewan McGregor plays a chef in a restaurant next door to the apartment of a epidemiologist, played by Eva Green, who works for an organization trying to solve what is happening with the epidemic. The first sense to go is that of smell. This is a smart apocalyptic film. People don't turn into zombies but they do go berserk a bit whenever they lose another sense. More nudity than blood but not enough to rate it Not for Buck. It's not on Netflix WI but available on DVD from Netflix. I watched it on Showtime OnDemand because Netflix was having another re-buffering fit because apparently a lot of people were staying home last night and watching Netflix and their servers are just not ready for that kind of demand. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1439572/
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect Sense
I stumbled upon it because of Netflix's buffering problems. I also had the problem Saturday night so spent some money and watched Bourne Legacy on Amazon. I chose Amazon over Vudu not because Vudu is owned by Walmart but because they use Dolby Digital Plus on some of their HD offerings and my receiver is too old to know what the hell DD+ is and decodes it as ProLogic which is underwhelming. Amazon only does Dolby Digital 5.1. Many of the films listed on Showtime, HBO and the free movies section of Comcast I've seen. This was one I hadn't. It followed trying to watch Wreckage for the second time on Showtime. I stopped a couple nights back because Wreckage had all the signs of being a real loser because of 5 minutes of opening credits and a weak opening. There was some argument about the film on a forum so I checked the reviews and many people said it picks up when Breaking Bad actor Aaron Paul is introduced and indeed it does. The film is too brutal for tender FFL'ers though so I'll rate it Not for Buck. I don't know how much longer I'm going to make out checks to Comcast welfare. They lobbied and got the right from the FCC to encrypt local broadcast stations. When that happens there is no real reason to keep them. I will take up U-Verse on their promo offer. When that runs out I'll switch to a satellite provider. Broadcast TV is rather droll as it is obvious that without upsetting mythical prudish midwesterners, who apparently stupidly fall for the advertising pitches, shows get toned down too much. I won't risk the eyepatch route because the US gestapo is always looking for someone to hang for that. Regarding fireworks I'll note they aren't happening this year for the downtown. I think they even canceled them last year as they were too expensive and in recent years even canceled due to rain. It is going to be a clear cold evening and cops busy filling jails with people who have alcohol on their breathe though maybe not even impaired enough to drive carelessly. I'll find another video to watch. After all: It's the most boring time of the year. When TV is boring, you feel just like snoring, as repeats make your eyes tear. It's the most boring time of the year! Happy New Year! :-D On 12/31/2012 09:48 AM, turquoiseb wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: I saw this some time ago (think Johnny Depp saying, Pirate!), and thought I'd mentioned it here, but a quick search seems to indicate that maybe I didn't. Ah, I did. I was searching for the title of the movie in the text of the post, and it was in the Subject line. Worth repeating, because as Bhairitu says, this is a pretty good movie: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/299267 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/299278 I just loved this movie, and not *only* because it stars one of the most beautiful women in the world, Eva Green. The whole metaphor is lovely, especially what happens as people learn to cope with the loss of a sense that they felt kinda defined life and what it is to live it. The sense disappears, but life does not, and one learns to cope, and continue on. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu wrote: Perfect Sense is an apocalyptic love story. It is the story of two people who fall in love as an epidemic spreads the planet robbing people of their sensory perceptions. Ewan McGregor plays a chef in a restaurant next door to the apartment of a epidemiologist, played by Eva Green, who works for an organization trying to solve what is happening with the epidemic. The first sense to go is that of smell. This is a smart apocalyptic film. People don't turn into zombies but they do go berserk a bit whenever they lose another sense. More nudity than blood but not enough to rate it Not for Buck. It's not on Netflix WI but available on DVD from Netflix. I watched it on Showtime OnDemand because Netflix was having another re-buffering fit because apparently a lot of people were staying home last night and watching Netflix and their servers are just not ready for that kind of demand. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1439572/
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Thank you Raunchy. Coming back to FFL is a bit like returning after vacation to the large projects I used to work onwithin a space of a week or two, much can happen. From: raunchydog raunchy...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sunday, September 30, 2012 10:16 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology Welcome back, Emily. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote: Well,  I clicked randomly on this because I like Judy and because I am randomly re-entering my life here in Seattle.  I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. Simply focusing on this statement above by Barry, and responding to Alex incorrectly, I just have to say that I have proactively dared Barry to take a week off and watch several times nowya know, to practice what he preaches, and all that.  Now, I will STFU for awhile and try and catch up.  Or...not.  I'm holed up in another hotel undergoing my re-entry process, watching cable TV, catching up on the news for the masses.  The grandeur of Utah and Highway 12 were unparalleled.  Beauty and spirit in the Escalante were almost more than one could take in.  Didn't even make it to the Arches or Canyonlands National Parks, proper.  Vegas has grown up in the 20 years since I've been there - talk about man-made surreal.  Psychodelic.  O was a good show, and it was hard to leave the pastries cooked up by the French chefs at the Bellagio. But, nothing compares to what nature presents to us and I'd rather be camped at the base of a sandstone cliff in the desert.  Curtis, while hiking up Angel's Landing in Zion it came to me that I was, oh so long ago it seems now, laughing at your expense.  I admit it.  As I told you, I wrote my out into my revamp of Robin's ironic post.  Remember I told you that.  I was laughing at youlong and luscious laughs. Where *was* your sense of humor.  Jesus loves you...the Mormons told me so.  I'll get back to you later on all those rockin' assumptions about my motivations you leveled at me in my absence.  Tee Hee and don't forget it :) From: Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 8:29 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. WHY am I doing this? As a kind of proactive experiment. We who have (ahem) been around FFL longer than you have are by now used to her attempting to restart the demon- izations after a break. Let's see what she -- and others who tend to join her in them -- do this time, shall we? From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? I guess only time will tell, eh? Yahoo already gave us an intervention of sorts, on Aug 24th, the Day of 999 Error Terror. On that day, Judy patiently sat it out, waiting for Yahoo to fix the web interface. Barry, OTOH, decloaked from no_reply mode in order to send two posts via email: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/317920 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/317926
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Judy. You are right - Barry could have been referring to me in that quote! After all, this was his latest assessment of my character: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320299 Pussywhipped, juvenile, and pathetic person that I am, I see little hope for recovery of any credibility related to my postings here on FFL. Perhaps I can redeem some semblance of perceived normality in the eyes of Barry by posting a few pics (although I know he's seen it all before being the dismissive, been there, done that kind of guy that he is) which I will do in the next week or so. My camera battery near the beginning of the trip so many of the images are retained in my mind's eye. Again, not so good for my credibility. But, yes, I'll share. From: authfriend authfri...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sunday, September 30, 2012 8:56 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote: Well, I clicked randomly on this because I like Judy and because I am randomly re-entering my life here in Seattle. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. Emily baby! Great to see you back. Thank you for da kind woids. But however did you figure out Barry was referring to me in that quote? I just can't imagine. Sounds like a terrific trip. Got pictures? Simply focusing on this statement above by Barry, and responding to Alex incorrectly, I just have to say that I have proactively dared Barry to take a week off and watch several times nowya know, to practice what he preaches, and all that.  Now, I will STFU for awhile and try and catch up.  Or...not.  I'm holed up in another hotel undergoing my re-entry process, watching cable TV, catching up on the news for the masses.  The grandeur of Utah and Highway 12 were unparalleled.  Beauty and spirit in the Escalante were almost more than one could take in.  Didn't even make it to the Arches or Canyonlands National Parks, proper.  Vegas has grown up in the 20 years since I've been there - talk about man-made surreal.  Psychodelic.  O was a good show, and it was hard to leave the pastries cooked up by the French chefs at the Bellagio. But, nothing compares to what nature presents to us and I'd rather be camped at the base of a sandstone cliff in the desert.  Curtis, while hiking up Angel's Landing in Zion it came to me that I was, oh so long ago it seems now, laughing at your expense.  I admit it.  As I told you, I wrote my out into my revamp of Robin's ironic post.  Remember I told you that.  I was laughing at youlong and luscious laughs. Where *was* your sense of humor.  Jesus loves you...the Mormons told me so.  I'll get back to you later on all those rockin' assumptions about my motivations you leveled at me in my absence.  Tee Hee and don't forget it :)
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Ann, I did practice clubbing for one night at the B club, but was without the appropriate gem-studded, sparkly, spike heels. Still a student I fear, but I'll try and aspire to dancing with the C club. The DJ played Black Eyed Peas (I've Gotta Feeling) as we walked in: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uSD4vsh1zDA From: awoelflebater no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sunday, September 30, 2012 8:41 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote: Well,  I clicked randomly on this because I like Judy and because I am randomly re-entering my life here in Seattle.  I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. Simply focusing on this statement above by Barry, and responding to Alex incorrectly, I just have to say that I have proactively dared Barry to take a week off and watch several times nowya know, to practice what he preaches, and all that.  Now, I will STFU for awhile and try and catch up.  Or...not.  I'm holed up in another hotel undergoing my re-entry process, watching cable TV, catching up on the news for the masses.  The grandeur of Utah and Highway 12 were unparalleled.  Beauty and spirit in the Escalante were almost more than one could take in.  Didn't even make it to the Arches or Canyonlands National Parks, proper.  Vegas has grown up in the 20 years since I've been there - talk about man-made surreal.  Psychodelic.  O was a good show, and it was hard to leave the pastries cooked up by the French chefs at the Bellagio. But, nothing compares to what nature presents to us and I'd rather be camped at the base of a sandstone cliff in the desert.  Curtis, while hiking up Angel's Landing in Zion it came to me that I was, oh so long ago it seems now, laughing at your expense.  I admit it.  As I told you, I wrote my out into my revamp of Robin's ironic post.  Remember I told you that.  I was laughing at youlong and luscious laughs. Where *was* your sense of humor.  Jesus loves you...the Mormons told me so.  I'll get back to you later on all those rockin' assumptions about my motivations you leveled at me in my absence.  Tee Hee and don't forget it :) Emily, you seem in fine form. I look forward to your full return but the preview was more than worth the price of admission. Be careful, you might be joining the 'C' club but you can handle it. From: Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 8:29 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. WHY am I doing this? As a kind of proactive experiment. We who have (ahem) been around FFL longer than you have are by now used to her attempting to restart the demon- izations after a break. Let's see what she -- and others who tend to join her in them -- do this time, shall we? From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? I guess only time will tell, eh? Yahoo already gave us an intervention of sorts, on Aug 24th
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote: Ann, I did practice clubbing for one night at the B club, but was without the appropriate gem-studded, sparkly, spike heels. Â Still a student I fear, but I'll try and aspire to dancing with the C club. Â The DJ played Black Eyed Peas (I've Gotta Feeling) as we walked in: A brand new nightclub just opened in Seattle: http://www.qcapitolhill.com/
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Ha ha. Didn't know about this; just read the review. With 4 disco balls and a bourbon lounge, it might be worth a try next time I need to blow some steam off. I don't pick up men anymore, but I still love to dance. From: Alex Stanley j_alexander_stan...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Monday, October 1, 2012 9:54 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote: Ann, I did practice clubbing for one night at the B club, but was without the appropriate gem-studded, sparkly, spike heels. Â Still a student I fear, but I'll try and aspire to dancing with the C club. Â The DJ played Black Eyed Peas (I've Gotta Feeling) as we walked in: A brand new nightclub just opened in Seattle: http://www.qcapitolhill.com/
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Alex, that last line should have read..I don't pick up men anymore *and* I still love to dance. Whooo. From: Emily Reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Monday, October 1, 2012 10:18 AM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology Ha ha. Didn't know about this; just read the review. With 4 disco balls and a bourbon lounge, it might be worth a try next time I need to blow some steam off. I don't pick up men anymore, but I still love to dance. From: Alex Stanley j_alexander_stan...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Monday, October 1, 2012 9:54 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote: Ann, I did practice clubbing for one night at the B club, but was without the appropriate gem-studded, sparkly, spike heels. Â Still a student I fear, but I'll try and aspire to dancing with the C club. Â The DJ played Black Eyed Peas (I've Gotta Feeling) as we walked in: A brand new nightclub just opened in Seattle: http://www.qcapitolhill.com/
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Well, I clicked randomly on this because I like Judy and because I am randomly re-entering my life here in Seattle. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. Simply focusing on this statement above by Barry, and responding to Alex incorrectly, I just have to say that I have proactively dared Barry to take a week off and watch several times nowya know, to practice what he preaches, and all that. Now, I will STFU for awhile and try and catch up. Or...not. I'm holed up in another hotel undergoing my re-entry process, watching cable TV, catching up on the news for the masses. The grandeur of Utah and Highway 12 were unparalleled. Beauty and spirit in the Escalante were almost more than one could take in. Didn't even make it to the Arches or Canyonlands National Parks, proper. Vegas has grown up in the 20 years since I've been there - talk about man-made surreal. Psychodelic. O was a good show, and it was hard to leave the pastries cooked up by the French chefs at the Bellagio. But, nothing compares to what nature presents to us and I'd rather be camped at the base of a sandstone cliff in the desert. Curtis, while hiking up Angel's Landing in Zion it came to me that I was, oh so long ago it seems now, laughing at your expense. I admit it. As I told you, I wrote my out into my revamp of Robin's ironic post. Remember I told you that. I was laughing at youlong and luscious laughs. Where *was* your sense of humor. Jesus loves you...the Mormons told me so. I'll get back to you later on all those rockin' assumptions about my motivations you leveled at me in my absence. Tee Hee and don't forget it :) From: Alex Stanley j_alexander_stan...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 8:29 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. WHY am I doing this? As a kind of proactive experiment. We who have (ahem) been around FFL longer than you have are by now used to her attempting to restart the demon- izations after a break. Let's see what she -- and others who tend to join her in them -- do this time, shall we? From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? I guess only time will tell, eh? Yahoo already gave us an intervention of sorts, on Aug 24th, the Day of 999 Error Terror. On that day, Judy patiently sat it out, waiting for Yahoo to fix the web interface. Barry, OTOH, decloaked from no_reply mode in order to send two posts via email: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/317920 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/317926
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote: Curtis, while hiking up Angel's Landing in Zion it came to me that I was, oh so long ago it seems now, laughing at your expense.  I admit it.  As I told you, I wrote my out into my revamp of Robin's ironic post.  Remember I told you that.  I was laughing at youlong and luscious laughs. Where *was* your sense of humor.  Jesus loves you...the Mormons told me so.  I'll get back to you later on all those rockin' assumptions about my motivations you leveled at me in my absence.  Tee Hee and don't forget it :) Hey Em, If you don't mind my asking, how did you find the hike up Angel's Landing? I did it summer before this one. My one son scrambled up without much of a problem. (other son was sick at the hotel) My daughter got freaked a couple hundred feet on the trail, and I had to turn around with her. I was freaked out pretty much the entire time as I went back up. My wife passed on it. It was the second time I have done it. From your tone, it sounds like there was not much trepidation on your part.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote: Well,  I clicked randomly on this because I like Judy and because I am randomly re-entering my life here in Seattle.  I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. Simply focusing on this statement above by Barry, and responding to Alex incorrectly, I just have to say that I have proactively dared Barry to take a week off and watch several times nowya know, to practice what he preaches, and all that.  Now, I will STFU for awhile and try and catch up.  Or...not.  I'm holed up in another hotel undergoing my re-entry process, watching cable TV, catching up on the news for the masses.  The grandeur of Utah and Highway 12 were unparalleled.  Beauty and spirit in the Escalante were almost more than one could take in.  Didn't even make it to the Arches or Canyonlands National Parks, proper.  Vegas has grown up in the 20 years since I've been there - talk about man-made surreal.  Psychodelic.  O was a good show, and it was hard to leave the pastries cooked up by the French chefs at the Bellagio. But, nothing compares to what nature presents to us and I'd rather be camped at the base of a sandstone cliff in the desert.  Curtis, while hiking up Angel's Landing in Zion it came to me that I was, oh so long ago it seems now, laughing at your expense.  I admit it.  As I told you, I wrote my out into my revamp of Robin's ironic post.  Remember I told you that.  I was laughing at youlong and luscious laughs. Where *was* your sense of humor.  Jesus loves you...the Mormons told me so.  I'll get back to you later on all those rockin' assumptions about my motivations you leveled at me in my absence.  Tee Hee and don't forget it :) Emily, you seem in fine form. I look forward to your full return but the preview was more than worth the price of admission. Be careful, you might be joining the 'C' club but you can handle it. From: Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 8:29 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. WHY am I doing this? As a kind of proactive experiment. We who have (ahem) been around FFL longer than you have are by now used to her attempting to restart the demon- izations after a break. Let's see what she -- and others who tend to join her in them -- do this time, shall we? From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? I guess only time will tell, eh? Yahoo already gave us an intervention of sorts, on Aug 24th, the Day of 999 Error Terror. On that day, Judy patiently sat it out, waiting for Yahoo to fix the web interface. Barry, OTOH, decloaked from no_reply mode in order to send two posts via email: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/317920 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/317926
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Emily, you seem in fine form. I look forward to your full return but the preview was more than worth the price of admission. *Be careful, you might be joining the 'C' club but you can handle it.* LOL..good one, now it makes sense dear Ann, all Curtis was doing was preparing Emily to be part of the C club. I see it - poor guy, oh man why do I always misunderstand him, his compassion, love and sacrifice is unmatched. Welcome Emily !!! On Sun, Sep 30, 2012 at 8:41 PM, awoelflebater no_re...@yahoogroups.comwrote: ** --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote: Well,  I clicked randomly on this because I like Judy and because I am randomly re-entering my life here in Seattle.  I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. Simply focusing on this statement above by Barry, and responding to Alex incorrectly, I just have to say that I have proactively dared Barry to take a week off and watch several times nowya know, to practice what he preaches, and all that.  Now, I will STFU for awhile and try and catch up.  Or...not.  I'm holed up in another hotel undergoing my re-entry process, watching cable TV, catching up on the news for the masses.  The grandeur of Utah and Highway 12 were unparalleled.  Beauty and spirit in the Escalante were almost more than one could take in.  Didn't even make it to the Arches or Canyonlands National Parks, proper.  Vegas has grown up in the 20 years since I've been there - talk about man-made surreal.  Psychodelic.  O was a good show, and it was hard to leave the pastries cooked up by the French chefs at the Bellagio. But, nothing compares to what nature presents to us and I'd rather be camped at the base of a sandstone cliff in the desert.  Curtis, while hiking up Angel's Landing in Zion it came to me that I was, oh so long ago it seems now, laughing at your expense.  I admit it.  As I told you, I wrote my out into my revamp of Robin's ironic post.  Remember I told you that.  I was laughing at youlong and luscious laughs. Where *was* your sense of humor.  Jesus loves you...the Mormons told me so.  I'll get back to you later on all those rockin' assumptions about my motivations you leveled at me in my absence.  Tee Hee and don't forget it :) Emily, you seem in fine form. I look forward to your full return but the preview was more than worth the price of admission. Be careful, you might be joining the 'C' club but you can handle it. From: Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 8:29 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. WHY am I doing this? As a kind of proactive experiment. We who have (ahem) been around FFL longer than you have are by now used to her attempting to restart the demon- izations after a break. Let's see what she -- and others who tend to join her in them -- do this time, shall we? From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? I guess only time will tell, eh? Yahoo already gave us an intervention of sorts, on Aug 24th, the Day of 999 Error Terror. On that day
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote: Well, I clicked randomly on this because I like Judy and because I am randomly re-entering my life here in Seattle. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. Emily baby! Great to see you back. Thank you for da kind woids. But however did you figure out Barry was referring to me in that quote? I just can't imagine. Sounds like a terrific trip. Got pictures? Simply focusing on this statement above by Barry, and responding to Alex incorrectly, I just have to say that I have proactively dared Barry to take a week off and watch several times nowya know, to practice what he preaches, and all that.  Now, I will STFU for awhile and try and catch up.  Or...not.  I'm holed up in another hotel undergoing my re-entry process, watching cable TV, catching up on the news for the masses.  The grandeur of Utah and Highway 12 were unparalleled.  Beauty and spirit in the Escalante were almost more than one could take in.  Didn't even make it to the Arches or Canyonlands National Parks, proper.  Vegas has grown up in the 20 years since I've been there - talk about man-made surreal.  Psychodelic.  O was a good show, and it was hard to leave the pastries cooked up by the French chefs at the Bellagio. But, nothing compares to what nature presents to us and I'd rather be camped at the base of a sandstone cliff in the desert.  Curtis, while hiking up Angel's Landing in Zion it came to me that I was, oh so long ago it seems now, laughing at your expense.  I admit it.  As I told you, I wrote my out into my revamp of Robin's ironic post.  Remember I told you that.  I was laughing at youlong and luscious laughs. Where *was* your sense of humor.  Jesus loves you...the Mormons told me so.  I'll get back to you later on all those rockin' assumptions about my motivations you leveled at me in my absence.  Tee Hee and don't forget it :)
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Welcome back, Emily. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote: Well,  I clicked randomly on this because I like Judy and because I am randomly re-entering my life here in Seattle.  I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. Simply focusing on this statement above by Barry, and responding to Alex incorrectly, I just have to say that I have proactively dared Barry to take a week off and watch several times nowya know, to practice what he preaches, and all that.  Now, I will STFU for awhile and try and catch up.  Or...not.  I'm holed up in another hotel undergoing my re-entry process, watching cable TV, catching up on the news for the masses.  The grandeur of Utah and Highway 12 were unparalleled.  Beauty and spirit in the Escalante were almost more than one could take in.  Didn't even make it to the Arches or Canyonlands National Parks, proper.  Vegas has grown up in the 20 years since I've been there - talk about man-made surreal.  Psychodelic.  O was a good show, and it was hard to leave the pastries cooked up by the French chefs at the Bellagio. But, nothing compares to what nature presents to us and I'd rather be camped at the base of a sandstone cliff in the desert.  Curtis, while hiking up Angel's Landing in Zion it came to me that I was, oh so long ago it seems now, laughing at your expense.  I admit it.  As I told you, I wrote my out into my revamp of Robin's ironic post.  Remember I told you that.  I was laughing at youlong and luscious laughs. Where *was* your sense of humor.  Jesus loves you...the Mormons told me so.  I'll get back to you later on all those rockin' assumptions about my motivations you leveled at me in my absence.  Tee Hee and don't forget it :) From: Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 8:29 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. WHY am I doing this? As a kind of proactive experiment. We who have (ahem) been around FFL longer than you have are by now used to her attempting to restart the demon- izations after a break. Let's see what she -- and others who tend to join her in them -- do this time, shall we? From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? I guess only time will tell, eh? Yahoo already gave us an intervention of sorts, on Aug 24th, the Day of 999 Error Terror. On that day, Judy patiently sat it out, waiting for Yahoo to fix the web interface. Barry, OTOH, decloaked from no_reply mode in order to send two posts via email: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/317920 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/317926
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- replying to BW
Excellent analysis and ideas, Barry. And compassionate, too. YUou do see connections between things, kind of like a rabbi or a minister preparing a sermon. Next lifetime. LMAO..This has got to be the post of my FFL lifetime. King Baby Barry - the emotionally stunted, deranged, depraved one..the compassionate rabbi? The paranoid, delusional, narcissist..a compassionate minister? OMG..this is just too hilarious. It will take a while to recover from this :-) On Fri, Sep 21, 2012 at 1:06 PM, wayback71 waybac...@yahoo.com wrote: ** --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Hi BW, yes, I saw that article. Read quickly as is my tendency. Sometimes I think I'm using a VERY small part of my brain here on FFL. Sometimes I think I'm using too much! Wonder how that combo of thoughts would look on MRI. I was a Lit major in undergrad and then TV/Film in grad school. Now can't even imagine reading or watching for anything other than pleasure. But, having said that, it seems deeply imbued in my perceiving such to notice patterns, themes, overarching tones. Dare I say that I attribute this to my jyotish chart?! I think it would be fascinating to do similar research on musicians. I read somewhere, not recently, that overall, musicians tend to live longer. Don't remember other details. Not my strong suit to do so. But wanted to mention it anyway. And wonder if maybe they, more than any other artists, combine pleasure and work. Hmmm, now that I think of it, I'd put poets in this category too. Probably missing merudanda more than is reasonable. Yes, I take into account that someone might be accustomed to close reading. And it makes sense to me that that trait would spill over into writing. Even into other activities. I appreciate your bringing this to my attention again. Can aim for compassion. As I anticipate a new posting week (-: Also want to say that I appreciate your being somewhat of a good sport about the Stand Up Comedy Awards, etc. PS I enjoyed both reading your post and replying to it. win win, my favorite From: turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Friday, September 21, 2012 9:10 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say above, is it possible that a certain person is using different parts of their brain when reading your posts than you used when writing them? I find this an interesting question when applied to this forum. Different strokes for different folks turns out to be true even in the brain, and at different times, depending on the *intent* with which we read. Two people could read the same piece of literature -- in the experiments, passages from Jane Austen -- and get two very different things from them. That's not a surprise, of course, chances are we *all* would see the same passages slightly differently. *However*, the new information from these studies is that the *same* person could view and interpret these passages completely differently, depend- ing on how they're reading them -- for pleasure, or for work. Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case of a professional editor. Their day job is parsing other people's writing, *looking for nits to pick*. The person is, as you suggest, parsing word by word, sentence by sentence, *look- ing for errors or lapses in grammar or logic*. And to such a person, a single typo or misspelling could render an entire work unworthy of publication, and thus of being taken seriously. Now consider another random profession, say a person who makes their living as a musician and an educator
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- replying to BW
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... wrote: Excellent analysis and ideas, Barry. And compassionate, too. You do see connections between things, kind of like a rabbi or a minister preparing a sermon. Next lifetime. LMAO..This has got to be the post of my FFL lifetime. King Baby Barry - the emotionally stunted, deranged, depraved one.. the compassionate rabbi? The paranoid, delusional, narcissist.. a compassionate minister? OMG..this is just too hilarious. It will take a while to recover from this :-) I'm sure both you and the Judester will get over it. After all, it's just simple jealousy. :-) If either of you actually had anything original or even slightly interesting to post, people might say stuff like that about you, too. Just sayin'...
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- replying to BW
On Sun, Sep 23, 2012 at 12:54 AM, turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.comwrote: ** --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... wrote: Excellent analysis and ideas, Barry. And compassionate, too. You do see connections between things, kind of like a rabbi or a minister preparing a sermon. Next lifetime. LMAO..This has got to be the post of my FFL lifetime. King Baby Barry - the emotionally stunted, deranged, depraved one.. the compassionate rabbi? The paranoid, delusional, narcissist.. a compassionate minister? OMG..this is just too hilarious. It will take a while to recover from this :-) I'm sure both you and the Judester will get over it. After all, it's just simple jealousy. :-) If either of you actually had anything original or even slightly interesting to post, people might say stuff like that about you, too. Just sayin'... _ You dirt eating piece of slime, you scum sucking pig, you son of a motherless goat !!!
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- replying to BW
Doc sez, grain of truth to that, and also that what a sermon is known best for, is putting people to sleep. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@ wrote: Excellent analysis and ideas, Barry. And compassionate, too. You do see connections between things, kind of like a rabbi or a minister preparing a sermon. Next lifetime. LMAO..This has got to be the post of my FFL lifetime. King Baby Barry - the emotionally stunted, deranged, depraved one.. the compassionate rabbi? The paranoid, delusional, narcissist.. a compassionate minister? OMG..this is just too hilarious. It will take a while to recover from this :-) I'm sure both you and the Judester will get over it. After all, it's just simple jealousy. :-) If either of you actually had anything original or even slightly interesting to post, people might say stuff like that about you, too. Just sayin'...
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- replying to BW
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... wrote: On Sun, Sep 23, 2012 at 12:54 AM, turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.comwrote: ** --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@ wrote: Excellent analysis and ideas, Barry. And compassionate, too. You do see connections between things, kind of like a rabbi or a minister preparing a sermon. Next lifetime. LMAO..This has got to be the post of my FFL lifetime. King Baby Barry - the emotionally stunted, deranged, depraved one.. the compassionate rabbi? The paranoid, delusional, narcissist.. a compassionate minister? OMG..this is just too hilarious. It will take a while to recover from this :-) I'm sure both you and the Judester will get over it. After all, it's just simple jealousy. :-) If either of you actually had anything original or even slightly interesting to post, people might say stuff like that about you, too. Just sayin'... _ You dirt eating piece of slime, you scum sucking pig, you son of a motherless goat !!! (God, I hope this works) Baby Krishna...Baby Krishna...Baby Krishna...Baby Krishna...Baby Krishna...
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- replying to BW
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, laughinggull108 no_reply@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@ wrote: On Sun, Sep 23, 2012 at 12:54 AM, turquoiseb no_reply@yahoogroups.comwrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@ wrote: Excellent analysis and ideas, Barry. And compassionate, too. You do see connections between things, kind of like a rabbi or a minister preparing a sermon. Next lifetime. LMAO..This has got to be the post of my FFL lifetime. King Baby Barry - the emotionally stunted, deranged, depraved one.. the compassionate rabbi? The paranoid, delusional, narcissist.. a compassionate minister? OMG..this is just too hilarious. It will take a while to recover from this :-) I'm sure both you and the Judester will get over it. After all, it's just simple jealousy. :-) If either of you actually had anything original or even slightly interesting to post, people might say stuff like that about you, too. Just sayin'... You dirt eating piece of slime, you scum sucking pig, you son of a motherless goat !!! (God, I hope this works) Baby Krishna...Baby Krishna...Baby Krishna... Baby Krishna...Baby Krishna... Hey, this is kinda cool, being surrounded by babes and all. I think when I grow up I'm going to learn to play the flute. I hear babes like that.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- to Ann Judy writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Is this the one where TurqB was trying to convert me?! No, this is a different one from the one you just read and pretended you hadn't. If yes, I did read it but didn't pick up any fanatic trying to make me a fanatic vibe. Did someone suggest something about a fanatic trying to make you a fanatic vibe? Or did you make that up as well?  I thought it was simply an interesting article. I looked in Trash, Inbox and FFL folder. Couldn't find the one where he was misrepresenting me. Will have another look after Dome. From: turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Friday, September 21, 2012 9:10 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say above, is it possible that a certain person is using different parts of their brain when reading your posts than you used when writing them? I find this an interesting question when applied to this forum. Different strokes for different folks turns out to be true even in the brain, and at different times, depending on the *intent* with which we read. Two people could read the same piece of literature -- in the experiments, passages from Jane Austen -- and get two very different things from them. That's not a surprise, of course, chances are we *all* would see the same passages slightly differently. *However*, the new information from these studies is that the *same* person could view and interpret these passages completely differently, depend- ing on how they're reading them -- for pleasure, or for work. Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case of a professional editor. Their day job is parsing other people's writing, *looking for nits to pick*. The person is, as you suggest, parsing word by word, sentence by sentence, *look- ing for errors or lapses in grammar or logic*. And to such a person, a single typo or misspelling could render an entire work unworthy of publication, and thus of being taken seriously. Now consider another random profession, say a person who makes their living as a musician and an educator. Such a person might have said many times that they read the posts on FFL -- and write their own -- for pleasure. They do *not* tend to parse them carefully, looking for things not right in them; instead they might be looking for things to enjoy. Which is the objective, after all, of reading for pleasure. These two types of people, conditioned by years of habit to read either for pleasure or for work, might be using entirely different parts of their brains while reading, and as a result might have a tendency to react to what you write completely differently. Now make a mental leap with me beyond the context of the experiments so far and to the next level. If humans use different parts of their brains when either reading for pleasure or reading more seriously, close reading, is it possible that they do the exact same thing when writing? The musician in my completely random example, for example, might have gone on record many times as saying that he writes for pleasure, for the sheer fun of writing and for the joy of seeing one's ideas come together as a result of the very act of writing. I'm like that, and I intuit that you might be, too. Someone else might tend to bring the same close reading brain functioning they practice as a reader to their writing, and tend to take the writing more seriously, and less as an opportunity to have fun. They might, in fact, be practicing close writing. If this were the case, would it not be likely that they are using an entirely different mode of brain functioning when writing than the person
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. Sez Barry, who has been busy demonizing me all week and thinks he has a chance of converting Share--not realizing she underwent her conversion several weeks ago (and never had anything to be converted *from* anyway). snip From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. His best is none too good. If he's tried this once, he's tried it scores of times, unsuccessfully. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Uh-oh, the Bullshit Meter just went on Overload. And it's set *very* high for Barry's posts. You'd think Curtis would speak up to correct Barry's misrepresentations, wouldn't you? But he won't, even knowing that the rest of the forum is well aware they're bullshit. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. As Barry knows, the rather disturbed troll was Vaj himself. Vaj is silent because the last we heard from him, Barry reported that he had told Barry something about Ann in private that turned out not to be true. He does not want to have to confront the fallout from his lie. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? Let's see if Share will correct Barry's misrepresentations of her. I'll bet she won't either. There's no hiding from the demands of reality. Who would have thought that courage and integrity were required on a forum where miles of space and time can seem to separate us from each other? But what do you know, there's no hiding behind any curtain. Sooner or later Dorothy and her friends are going to catch a glimpse of what is really going on back there. And it may not be pretty. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DPei0VZnZUo
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to BW Judy -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Is this the one where Turq was trying to convert and misrepresent me? Anyway, BW, to set the record straight, the sensible positive clique I told Ravi to put me in was the Curtis Susan Steven one. Never mentioned Vaj. Did not include you BW in that clique because have never thought the dumb c remark was positive. Or the least bit funny. And several times mentioned that I was referring to that situation only. Plus that I didn't like cliques and would be independent re all posts and pilings on. Then called fouls on Barry and Judy and Curtis. So, BW, time has already told. But perhaps you're not reading ALL my posts wink wink. From: turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 8:37 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. WHY am I doing this? As a kind of proactive experiment. We who have (ahem) been around FFL longer than you have are by now used to her attempting to restart the demon- izations after a break. Let's see what she -- and others who tend to join her in them -- do this time, shall we? From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? I guess only time will tell, eh?
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to BW Judy -- writing for the Church of $cientology
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ksfAyW5FCwwfeature=related --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Is this the one where Turq was trying to convert and misrepresent me? Anyway, BW, to set the record straight, the sensible positive clique I told Ravi to put me in was the Curtis Susan Steven one. Never mentioned Vaj. Did not include you BW in that clique because have never thought the dumb c remark was positive. Or the least bit funny. And several times mentioned that I was referring to that situation only. Plus that I didn't like cliques and would be independent re all posts and pilings on. Then called fouls on Barry and Judy and Curtis. So, BW, time has already told. But perhaps you're not reading ALL my posts wink wink. From: turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 8:37 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. WHY am I doing this? As a kind of proactive experiment. We who have (ahem) been around FFL longer than you have are by now used to her attempting to restart the demon- izations after a break. Let's see what she -- and others who tend to join her in them -- do this time, shall we? From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? I guess only time will tell, eh?
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to BW Judy -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Is this the one where Turq was trying to convert and misrepresent me? Anyway, BW, to set the record straight, the sensible positive clique I told Ravi to put me in was the Curtis Susan Steven one. Never mentioned Vaj. Did not include you BW in that clique because have never thought the dumb c remark was positive. Or the least bit funny. And several times mentioned that I was referring to that situation only. Plus that I didn't like cliques and would be independent re all posts and pilings on. Then called fouls on Barry and Judy and Curtis. So, BW, time has already told. But perhaps you're not reading ALL my posts wink wink. Share, you clearly didn't understand my Time will tell comment, and still don't. Part of what I was referring to is the difference between your *talk*, in which you claim to wish to end all of this petty, Junior-high-school-level nastiness, and your *walk*, in which you are one of the people perpetuating it. What do you think that your ego-need to set the straight DOES? Let's look at the numbers so far this new posting week, shall we? So far, the person we all expected to try to restart last week's juvenile nasty-fest has made five posts attempting to do just that. You have made four on the same subject. So far. You may feel that in so doing you are just defending yourself or setting the record straight, but the bottom line is that you've almost doubled the total number of nasty-fest posts. Have you ever considered walking away from the whole thing, and just *ignoring* the provocations meant to tempt you *into* perpetuating it? The reason that this person is focusing on YOU and no longer on C or myself is that she knows we won't fall for it any more unless she stoops to outright libel. So far, the only people besides yourself who *have* fallen for it this week and piled on the same old nastywagon were Awoe and Robin. Just sayin'...
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... wrote: CURTIS: This exchange made it worth participating on FFL this month! Thanks. ROBIN: A wonderfully generous and fair and noble summing up. We are grateful for this, Curtis. I entirely concur--and not under duress either. I envy your brotherly love with Barry. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: CURTIS: That was a bit of a revelation and a cogent analysis of why we can't get there from here between some posters. ROBIN: Indubitably. The self-objectivity of you and Barry in terms of appraising your performance on FFL, it is something I strive for, Curtis. Well, at least you don't have to worry about getting crucified for your willingness to stand for the truth. Curtis: I am the way, the truth, and the life. Except you come through me you cannot enter the kingdom of Curtis. I wish I could enter that kingdom, Curtis. My conscience in this regard is my enemy. BARRY: Glad you enjoyed it. ROBIN: I enjoyed it too, Barry. But my response carries the universality of my pleasure in it, not the inside fidelity of my friendship with you. Glad you enjoyed it--why even have to say this out loud to each other, Barry? We all know that you would be glad that Curtis enjoyed it. Stick with the secret handshake. Don't give away the initiation ceremony with all the skulls. CURTIS: Since I know the hypothetical guy you were imagining... it also explains why it can be fun to go point by point to stimulate a different part of my brain. That was largely what doing philosophy involved and I enjoy that in a different way from creative writing. ROBIN: What a guy we have here who presents himself to us. Inside talk to Barry: closed off to the rest of us. This quarantined talk between you and Barry: it is a singular phenomenon on FFL: no one else acts as if their bond was a Freemasonry; only you and Barry. This is decisive in its sentence of failure. I don't know any posters on the other side--the hostile alliance arrayed against you guys--who speak in a kind of intimate sphere of seclusion. A wonder, this. You have stopped talking to reality; you are only talking to yourselves. Hope this works when you come to the Big Event that all of us face, Curtis. But then you are a True Believer. CLICK BARRY: Professor Phillips points out that neither of these modes of brain functioning are superior, and in fact the real benefit is that we can switch between them, to train and develop different parts of the brain. In her words, ...cognition is shaped not just by what we read, but how we read it. Reading rigorously and analyzing the ideas presented and even the structure of the language and how the ideas are presented exercises one mode of functioning in our brains, and cultivates that mode. Reading just for the fun of it exercises another mode of functioning, and cultivates it. Both are necessary to see the world around us clearly, from a balanced point of view. ROBIN: You and Curtis: You guys didn't even have to read the theory: it is already embodied in the performance of each of you. This is just self-congratulations. You are reading a description of what your brains do perfectly already. I like this. I am jealous of this. It is an achievement which we can only lament because it is clear, from the tone of your conversation with Curtis, that the rest of us have been left out. Reading rigorously and analyzing the ideas presented and even the structure of the language and how the ideas are presented: this is an exercise that is manifest in every one of your posts, Barry. Both are necessary to see the world around us clearly, from a balanced point of view. Oops! I get it. This is Monty Python. But since I can't quite bring myself to believe that, I am going to take you and Curtis seriously from here until I get to the end. CURTIS: Drilling deeper into this thoery I can also see how being attacked here stimulates a pseudo fear mechanism that prompts and urgency of response. Combined with things that a reader feels are inaccurate it creates a sturdy chain to pull and get pulled by. That may be a case for not posting in a place where a lot of that goes on. It is hard to resist getting pulled into that cycle, especially when not much more of that writing is going on. ROBIN: For your position to be true, Curtis, it requires that Raunchy's three satirical pieces didn't make it. Are you prepared to lie through your teeth and declare that it is your honest experience that Barry's assessment of the efficacy of Raunchy's dialogues is in agreement with a truth beyond and outside of your, my, Raunchy's, and Barry's POV? Your loyalty to your friend comes ahead of any regard for truth. And the appalling and ludicrous implication of what you say here is: NO ONE BUT YOU
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to BW Judy -- writing for the Church of $cientology
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qCU1qQ0cw6U --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Is this the one where Turq was trying to convert and misrepresent me? Anyway, BW, to set the record straight, the sensible positive clique I told Ravi to put me in was the Curtis Susan Steven one. Never mentioned Vaj. Did not include you BW in that clique because have never thought the dumb c remark was positive. Or the least bit funny. And several times mentioned that I was referring to that situation only. Plus that I didn't like cliques and would be independent re all posts and pilings on. Then called fouls on Barry and Judy and Curtis. So, BW, time has already told. But perhaps you're not reading ALL my posts wink wink. Share, you clearly didn't understand my Time will tell comment, and still don't. Part of what I was referring to is the difference between your *talk*, in which you claim to wish to end all of this petty, Junior-high-school-level nastiness, and your *walk*, in which you are one of the people perpetuating it. What do you think that your ego-need to set the straight DOES? Let's look at the numbers so far this new posting week, shall we? So far, the person we all expected to try to restart last week's juvenile nasty-fest has made five posts attempting to do just that. You have made four on the same subject. So far. You may feel that in so doing you are just defending yourself or setting the record straight, but the bottom line is that you've almost doubled the total number of nasty-fest posts. Have you ever considered walking away from the whole thing, and just *ignoring* the provocations meant to tempt you *into* perpetuating it? The reason that this person is focusing on YOU and no longer on C or myself is that she knows we won't fall for it any more unless she stoops to outright libel. So far, the only people besides yourself who *have* fallen for it this week and piled on the same old nastywagon were Awoe and Robin. Just sayin'...
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=berL-80EPmg --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, maskedzebra maskedzebra@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: CURTIS: This exchange made it worth participating on FFL this month! Thanks. ROBIN: A wonderfully generous and fair and noble summing up. We are grateful for this, Curtis. I entirely concur--and not under duress either. I envy your brotherly love with Barry. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: CURTIS: That was a bit of a revelation and a cogent analysis of why we can't get there from here between some posters. ROBIN: Indubitably. The self-objectivity of you and Barry in terms of appraising your performance on FFL, it is something I strive for, Curtis. Well, at least you don't have to worry about getting crucified for your willingness to stand for the truth. Curtis: I am the way, the truth, and the life. Except you come through me you cannot enter the kingdom of Curtis. I wish I could enter that kingdom, Curtis. My conscience in this regard is my enemy. BARRY: Glad you enjoyed it. ROBIN: I enjoyed it too, Barry. But my response carries the universality of my pleasure in it, not the inside fidelity of my friendship with you. Glad you enjoyed it--why even have to say this out loud to each other, Barry? We all know that you would be glad that Curtis enjoyed it. Stick with the secret handshake. Don't give away the initiation ceremony with all the skulls. CURTIS: Since I know the hypothetical guy you were imagining... it also explains why it can be fun to go point by point to stimulate a different part of my brain. That was largely what doing philosophy involved and I enjoy that in a different way from creative writing. ROBIN: What a guy we have here who presents himself to us. Inside talk to Barry: closed off to the rest of us. This quarantined talk between you and Barry: it is a singular phenomenon on FFL: no one else acts as if their bond was a Freemasonry; only you and Barry. This is decisive in its sentence of failure. I don't know any posters on the other side--the hostile alliance arrayed against you guys--who speak in a kind of intimate sphere of seclusion. A wonder, this. You have stopped talking to reality; you are only talking to yourselves. Hope this works when you come to the Big Event that all of us face, Curtis. But then you are a True Believer. CLICK BARRY: Professor Phillips points out that neither of these modes of brain functioning are superior, and in fact the real benefit is that we can switch between them, to train and develop different parts of the brain. In her words, ...cognition is shaped not just by what we read, but how we read it. Reading rigorously and analyzing the ideas presented and even the structure of the language and how the ideas are presented exercises one mode of functioning in our brains, and cultivates that mode. Reading just for the fun of it exercises another mode of functioning, and cultivates it. Both are necessary to see the world around us clearly, from a balanced point of view. ROBIN: You and Curtis: You guys didn't even have to read the theory: it is already embodied in the performance of each of you. This is just self-congratulations. You are reading a description of what your brains do perfectly already. I like this. I am jealous of this. It is an achievement which we can only lament because it is clear, from the tone of your conversation with Curtis, that the rest of us have been left out. Reading rigorously and analyzing the ideas presented and even the structure of the language and how the ideas are presented: this is an exercise that is manifest in every one of your posts, Barry. Both are necessary to see the world around us clearly, from a balanced point of view. Oops! I get it. This is Monty Python. But since I can't quite bring myself to believe that, I am going to take you and Curtis seriously from here until I get to the end. CURTIS: Drilling deeper into this thoery I can also see how being attacked here stimulates a pseudo fear mechanism that prompts and urgency of response. Combined with things that a reader feels are inaccurate it creates a sturdy chain to pull and get pulled by. That may be a case for not posting in a place where a lot of that goes on. It is hard to resist getting pulled into that cycle, especially when not much more of that writing is going on. ROBIN: For your position to be true, Curtis, it requires that Raunchy's three satirical pieces didn't make it. Are you prepared to lie through your teeth and declare that it is your honest experience that Barry's assessment of the efficacy of Raunchy's dialogues is in agreement with a truth
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to BW Judy -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: snip Have you ever considered walking away from the whole thing, and just *ignoring* the provocations meant to tempt you *into* perpetuating it? The reason that this person is focusing on YOU and no longer on C or myself is that she knows we won't fall for it any more unless she stoops to outright libel. No, that isn't true, and Barry knows it isn't true. Curtis and Barry both focused on me plenty in the past week, with no outright libel in sight (at least not on my part). How much I focus on Barry and Curtis and Share in the coming week will depend on how much bullshit they post. Share was up today because she made several bullshit posts aimed at me. Right now I'm addressing a bullshit post of Barry's aimed at me. Curtis has left only one post so far today, so lame it didn't even qualify as bullshit, not worth responding to. Curtis and Barry's bullshit exchange yesterday was dealt with definitively by Robin; Barry's bullshit Open Mike post yesterday was definitively dealt with by Ann and raunchy and Dr. Dumbass and Robin and Ravi, so nothing from Barry or Curtis I needed to deal with. But we'll see what they post tomorrow.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say above, is it possible that a certain person is using different parts of their brain when reading your posts than you used when writing them? I find this an interesting question when applied to this forum. Different strokes for different folks turns out to be true even in the brain, and at different times, depending on the *intent* with which we read. Two people could read the same piece of literature -- in the experiments, passages from Jane Austen -- and get two very different things from them. That's not a surprise, of course, chances are we *all* would see the same passages slightly differently. *However*, the new information from these studies is that the *same* person could view and interpret these passages completely differently, depend- ing on how they're reading them -- for pleasure, or for work. Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case of a professional editor. Their day job is parsing other people's writing, *looking for nits to pick*. The person is, as you suggest, parsing word by word, sentence by sentence, *look- ing for errors or lapses in grammar or logic*. And to such a person, a single typo or misspelling could render an entire work unworthy of publication, and thus of being taken seriously. Now consider another random profession, say a person who makes their living as a musician and an educator. Such a person might have said many times that they read the posts on FFL -- and write their own -- for pleasure. They do *not* tend to parse them carefully, looking for things not right in them; instead they might be looking for things to enjoy. Which is the objective, after all, of reading for pleasure. These two types of people, conditioned by years of habit to read either for pleasure or for work, might be using entirely different parts of their brains while reading, and as a result might have a tendency to react to what you write completely differently. Now make a mental leap with me beyond the context of the experiments so far and to the next level. If humans use different parts of their brains when either reading for pleasure or reading more seriously, close reading, is it possible that they do the exact same thing when writing? The musician in my completely random example, for example, might have gone on record many times as saying that he writes for pleasure, for the sheer fun of writing and for the joy of seeing one's ideas come together as a result of the very act of writing. I'm like that, and I intuit that you might be, too. Someone else might tend to bring the same close reading brain functioning they practice as a reader to their writing, and tend to take the writing more seriously, and less as an opportunity to have fun. They might, in fact, be practicing close writing. If this were the case, would it not be likely that they are using an entirely different mode of brain functioning when writing than the person who is writing for the pleasure of it? Just a few random thoughts, written for the pleasure of writing them. Parse them as you will, and do with them what you will, using whatever parts of your brain you tend to use when doing that sorta stuff. :-)
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- replying to BW
Hi BW, yes, I saw that article. Read quickly as is my tendency. Sometimes I think I'm using a VERY small part of my brain here on FFL. Sometimes I think I'm using too much! Wonder how that combo of thoughts would look on MRI. I was a Lit major in undergrad and then TV/Film in grad school. Now can't even imagine reading or watching for anything other than pleasure. But, having said that, it seems deeply imbued in my perceiving such to notice patterns, themes, overarching tones. Dare I say that I attribute this to my jyotish chart?! I think it would be fascinating to do similar research on musicians. I read somewhere, not recently, that overall, musicians tend to live longer. Don't remember other details. Not my strong suit to do so. But wanted to mention it anyway. And wonder if maybe they, more than any other artists, combine pleasure and work. Hmmm, now that I think of it, I'd put poets in this category too. Probably missing merudanda more than is reasonable. Yes, I take into account that someone might be accustomed to close reading. And it makes sense to me that that trait would spill over into writing. Even into other activities. I appreciate your bringing this to my attention again. Can aim for compassion. As I anticipate a new posting week (-: Also want to say that I appreciate your being somewhat of a good sport about the Stand Up Comedy Awards, etc. PS I enjoyed both reading your post and replying to it. win win, my favorite From: turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Friday, September 21, 2012 9:10 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say above, is it possible that a certain person is using different parts of their brain when reading your posts than you used when writing them? I find this an interesting question when applied to this forum. Different strokes for different folks turns out to be true even in the brain, and at different times, depending on the *intent* with which we read. Two people could read the same piece of literature -- in the experiments, passages from Jane Austen -- and get two very different things from them. That's not a surprise, of course, chances are we *all* would see the same passages slightly differently. *However*, the new information from these studies is that the *same* person could view and interpret these passages completely differently, depend- ing on how they're reading them -- for pleasure, or for work. Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case of a professional editor. Their day job is parsing other people's writing, *looking for nits to pick*. The person is, as you suggest, parsing word by word, sentence by sentence, *look- ing for errors or lapses in grammar or logic*. And to such a person, a single typo or misspelling could render an entire work unworthy of publication, and thus of being taken seriously. Now consider another random profession, say a person who makes their living as a musician and an educator. Such a person might have said many times that they read the posts on FFL -- and write their own -- for pleasure. They do *not* tend to parse them carefully, looking for things not right in them; instead they might be looking for things to enjoy. Which is the objective, after all, of reading for pleasure. These two types of people, conditioned by years of habit to read either for pleasure or for work, might be using entirely different parts of their brains while reading, and as a result might have a tendency to react to what you write completely differently. Now make a mental leap with me beyond the context of the experiments so far and to the next level. If humans use different parts of their brains when either reading for pleasure or reading more seriously, close
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: That was a bit of a revelation and a cogent analysis of why we can't get there from here between some posters. Since I know the hypothetical guy you were imagining...it also explains why it can be fun to go point by point to stimulate a different part of my brain. That was largely what doing philosophy involved and I enjoy that in a different way from creative writing. Drilling deeper into this thoery I can also see how being attacked here stimulates a pseudo fear mechanism that prompts and urgency of response. Combined with things that a reader feels are inaccurate it creates a sturdy chain to pull and get pulled by. That may be a case for not posting in a place where a lot of that goes on. It is hard to resist getting pulled into that cycle, especially when not much more of that writing is going on. I used to think about some of the back and forth stuff about Maharishi's philosophy here as more of the first thing, the stimulation of the close attention part of my brain. As it has drifted further and further from any content, it has become less and less satisfying in that regard, so I switch to the creative but negative angle creating images of trollish scenes to keep me interested in writing. This really gives me a lot to think about, thanks for that Barry. I would like to become a bit more conscious of my outcomes here and ultimately if being here is where my real outcomes are likely to get met in becoming the kind of writer I want to be. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say above, is it possible that a certain person is using different parts of their brain when reading your posts than you used when writing them? I find this an interesting question when applied to this forum. Different strokes for different folks turns out to be true even in the brain, and at different times, depending on the *intent* with which we read. Two people could read the same piece of literature -- in the experiments, passages from Jane Austen -- and get two very different things from them. That's not a surprise, of course, chances are we *all* would see the same passages slightly differently. *However*, the new information from these studies is that the *same* person could view and interpret these passages completely differently, depend- ing on how they're reading them -- for pleasure, or for work. Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case of a professional editor. Their day job is parsing other people's writing, *looking for nits to pick*. The person is, as you suggest, parsing word by word, sentence by sentence, *look- ing for errors or lapses in grammar or logic*. And to such a person, a single typo or misspelling could render an entire work unworthy of publication, and thus of being taken seriously. Now consider another random profession, say a person who makes their living as a musician and an educator. Such a person might have said many times that they read the posts on FFL -- and write their own -- for pleasure. They do *not* tend to parse them carefully, looking for things not right in them; instead they might be looking for things to enjoy. Which is the objective, after all, of reading for pleasure. These two types of people, conditioned by years of habit to read either for pleasure or for work, might be using entirely different parts of their brains while reading, and as a result might have a tendency to react to what you write completely differently. Now make a mental leap with me beyond the context of the experiments so far and to the next level. If humans use different parts of their brains when either reading for pleasure or reading more seriously, close reading, is it possible that they do the exact same thing when writing? The musician in my completely random
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- replying to Curtis
Enjoying what you say here Curtis. AND I also want to add my 2 cents worth about emotions, such as fear, and the body and or energy field around it. I'll speak from personal experience. Which is, especially recently, if I've eaten sugar, even the day before, I get triggered quite easily. What I mean by triggered, is that I have a physiological response that initially is ALMOST ENTIRELY energetic. Neither thoughts nor emotions attached to it yet. They can come later. So I've learned to postpone responding at least until my physiology is settled down. Another confession: if I suspect that a post will upset me, I don't read it until there's a soothing activity on the horizon. Such as getting together with a friend, going to writing group, going to the Dome. I'm not suggesting that any of this applies directly to you. I thought my experience might add something to the conversation. BTW, I've also been thinking about the wisdom of participating here. I think even more than the gratuitous negativity I get triggered by the ganging up on one person. Probably something from my childhood. From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltabl...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Friday, September 21, 2012 9:47 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: That was a bit of a revelation and a cogent analysis of why we can't get there from here between some posters. Since I know the hypothetical guy you were imagining...it also explains why it can be fun to go point by point to stimulate a different part of my brain. That was largely what doing philosophy involved and I enjoy that in a different way from creative writing. Drilling deeper into this thoery I can also see how being attacked here stimulates a pseudo fear mechanism that prompts and urgency of response. Combined with things that a reader feels are inaccurate it creates a sturdy chain to pull and get pulled by. That may be a case for not posting in a place where a lot of that goes on. It is hard to resist getting pulled into that cycle, especially when not much more of that writing is going on. I used to think about some of the back and forth stuff about Maharishi's philosophy here as more of the first thing, the stimulation of the close attention part of my brain. As it has drifted further and further from any content, it has become less and less satisfying in that regard, so I switch to the creative but negative angle creating images of trollish scenes to keep me interested in writing. This really gives me a lot to think about, thanks for that Barry. I would like to become a bit more conscious of my outcomes here and ultimately if being here is where my real outcomes are likely to get met in becoming the kind of writer I want to be. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say above, is it possible that a certain person is using different parts of their brain when reading your posts than you used when writing them? I find this an interesting question when applied to this forum. Different strokes for different folks turns out to be true even in the brain, and at different times, depending on the *intent* with which we read. Two people could read the same piece of literature -- in the experiments, passages from Jane Austen -- and get two very different things from them. That's not a surprise, of course, chances are we *all* would see the same passages slightly differently. *However*, the new information from these studies is that the *same* person could view and interpret these passages completely differently, depend- ing on how they're reading them -- for pleasure, or for work. Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. turquoiseb: Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case of a professional editor... Share, I already told you it's all about Judy. Don't you get it - Barry does. He'll write almost anything for hours, days, weeks, months, and years, to drag you down with him into the rabbit hole. LoL! Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say above, is it possible that a certain person is using different parts of their brain when reading your posts than you used when writing them? I find this an interesting question when applied to this forum. Different strokes for different folks turns out to be true even in the brain, and at different times, depending on the *intent* with which we read. Two people could read the same piece of literature -- in the experiments, passages from Jane Austen -- and get two very different things from them. That's not a surprise, of course, chances are we *all* would see the same passages slightly differently. *However*, the new information from these studies is that the *same* person could view and interpret these passages completely differently, depend- ing on how they're reading them -- for pleasure, or for work. Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case of a professional editor. Their day job is parsing other people's writing, *looking for nits to pick*. The person is, as you suggest, parsing word by word, sentence by sentence, *look- ing for errors or lapses in grammar or logic*. And to such a person, a single typo or misspelling could render an entire work unworthy of publication, and thus of being taken seriously. Now consider another random profession, say a person who makes their living as a musician and an educator. Such a person might have said many times that they read the posts on FFL -- and write their own -- for pleasure. They do *not* tend to parse them carefully, looking for things not right in them; instead they might be looking for things to enjoy. Which is the objective, after all, of reading for pleasure. These two types of people, conditioned by years of habit to read either for pleasure or for work, might be using entirely different parts of their brains while reading, and as a result might have a tendency to react to what you write completely differently. Now make a mental leap with me beyond the context of the experiments so far and to the next level. If humans use different parts of their brains when either reading for pleasure or reading more seriously, close reading, is it possible that they do the exact same thing when writing? The musician in my completely random example, for example, might have gone on record many times as saying that he writes for pleasure, for the sheer fun of writing and for the joy of seeing one's ideas come together as a result of the very act of writing. I'm like that, and I intuit that you might be, too. Someone else might tend to bring the same close reading brain functioning they practice as a reader to their writing, and tend to take the writing more seriously, and less as an opportunity to have fun. They might, in fact, be practicing close writing. If this were the case, would it not be likely that they are using an entirely different mode of brain functioning when writing than the person who is writing for the pleasure of it? Just a few random thoughts, written for the pleasure of writing them. Parse them as you will, and do with them what you will, using whatever parts of your brain you tend to use when doing that sorta stuff. :-)
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Doc sez, through careful and conclusive research, it has been shown that blowing oneself up like a balloon, purely by virtue of a large internal volume of hot air, somehow distorts the visual field, making all of those around you look like pricks. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: That was a bit of a revelation and a cogent analysis of why we can't get there from here between some posters. Since I know the hypothetical guy you were imagining...it also explains why it can be fun to go point by point to stimulate a different part of my brain. That was largely what doing philosophy involved and I enjoy that in a different way from creative writing. Drilling deeper into this thoery I can also see how being attacked here stimulates a pseudo fear mechanism that prompts and urgency of response. Combined with things that a reader feels are inaccurate it creates a sturdy chain to pull and get pulled by. That may be a case for not posting in a place where a lot of that goes on. It is hard to resist getting pulled into that cycle, especially when not much more of that writing is going on. I used to think about some of the back and forth stuff about Maharishi's philosophy here as more of the first thing, the stimulation of the close attention part of my brain. As it has drifted further and further from any content, it has become less and less satisfying in that regard, so I switch to the creative but negative angle creating images of trollish scenes to keep me interested in writing. This really gives me a lot to think about, thanks for that Barry. I would like to become a bit more conscious of my outcomes here and ultimately if being here is where my real outcomes are likely to get met in becoming the kind of writer I want to be. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say above, is it possible that a certain person is using different parts of their brain when reading your posts than you used when writing them? I find this an interesting question when applied to this forum. Different strokes for different folks turns out to be true even in the brain, and at different times, depending on the *intent* with which we read. Two people could read the same piece of literature -- in the experiments, passages from Jane Austen -- and get two very different things from them. That's not a surprise, of course, chances are we *all* would see the same passages slightly differently. *However*, the new information from these studies is that the *same* person could view and interpret these passages completely differently, depend- ing on how they're reading them -- for pleasure, or for work. Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case of a professional editor. Their day job is parsing other people's writing, *looking for nits to pick*. The person is, as you suggest, parsing word by word, sentence by sentence, *look- ing for errors or lapses in grammar or logic*. And to such a person, a single typo or misspelling could render an entire work unworthy of publication, and thus of being taken seriously. Now consider another random profession, say a person who makes their living as a musician and an educator. Such a person might have said many times that they read the posts on FFL -- and write their own -- for pleasure. They do *not* tend to parse them carefully, looking for things not right in them; instead they might be looking for things to enjoy. Which is the objective, after all, of reading for pleasure. These two types of people, conditioned by years of habit to read either for pleasure or for work, might be using entirely different parts of their brains while
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... wrote: That was a bit of a revelation and a cogent analysis of why we can't get there from here between some posters. Glad you enjoyed it. Since I know the hypothetical guy you were imagining... it also explains why it can be fun to go point by point to stimulate a different part of my brain. That was largely what doing philosophy involved and I enjoy that in a different way from creative writing. Professor Phillips points out that neither of these modes of brain functioning are superior, and in fact the real benefit is that we can switch between them, to train and develop different parts of the brain. In her words, ...cognition is shaped not just by what we read, but how we read it. Reading rigorously and analyzing the ideas presented and even the structure of the language and how the ideas are presented exercises one mode of functioning in our brains, and cultivates that mode. Reading just for the fun of it exercises another mode of functioning, and cultivates it. Both are necessary to see the world around us clearly, from a balanced point of view. Drilling deeper into this thoery I can also see how being attacked here stimulates a pseudo fear mechanism that prompts and urgency of response. Combined with things that a reader feels are inaccurate it creates a sturdy chain to pull and get pulled by. That may be a case for not posting in a place where a lot of that goes on. It is hard to resist getting pulled into that cycle, especially when not much more of that writing is going on. I used to think about some of the back and forth stuff about Maharishi's philosophy here as more of the first thing, the stimulation of the close attention part of my brain. As it has drifted further and further from any content, it has become less and less satisfying in that regard, so I switch to the creative but negative angle creating images of trollish scenes to keep me interested in writing. This really gives me a lot to think about, thanks for that Barry. I would like to become a bit more conscious of my outcomes here and ultimately if being here is where my real outcomes are likely to get met in becoming the kind of writer I want to be. Much more research is being done by this same team, including fMRI scans of readers to determine how the two different modes of reading affect such things as how they experience emotion arising from what they're reading. Will those emotions be stronger and affect the person more when reading for pleasure, or for analysis? But one of the valuable things learned even so far from this projects is that each of us has the ability to *change the way that our own brains work*. We can shift them from one mode of operation to another, just by the *intent* we bring to our reading. This is a discovery that I cannot help but relate to work on mindfulness meditation and fMRI, which has also shown that we can control which areas of our brains light up and are used or not used, depending on whether or not they are appropriate for the circumstances. On the literature side of the equation, these experiments may help us to understand the impact that great writing has on us. As Natalie Phillips says, ...give us a bigger, richer picture of how our minds engage with art or, in our case, of the complex experience we know as literary reading. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say above, is it possible that a certain person is using different parts of their brain when reading your posts than you used when writing them? I find this an interesting question when applied to this forum. Different strokes for different folks turns out to be true even in the
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
This exchange made it worth participating on FFL this month! Thanks. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: That was a bit of a revelation and a cogent analysis of why we can't get there from here between some posters. Glad you enjoyed it. Since I know the hypothetical guy you were imagining... it also explains why it can be fun to go point by point to stimulate a different part of my brain. That was largely what doing philosophy involved and I enjoy that in a different way from creative writing. Professor Phillips points out that neither of these modes of brain functioning are superior, and in fact the real benefit is that we can switch between them, to train and develop different parts of the brain. In her words, ...cognition is shaped not just by what we read, but how we read it. Reading rigorously and analyzing the ideas presented and even the structure of the language and how the ideas are presented exercises one mode of functioning in our brains, and cultivates that mode. Reading just for the fun of it exercises another mode of functioning, and cultivates it. Both are necessary to see the world around us clearly, from a balanced point of view. Drilling deeper into this thoery I can also see how being attacked here stimulates a pseudo fear mechanism that prompts and urgency of response. Combined with things that a reader feels are inaccurate it creates a sturdy chain to pull and get pulled by. That may be a case for not posting in a place where a lot of that goes on. It is hard to resist getting pulled into that cycle, especially when not much more of that writing is going on. I used to think about some of the back and forth stuff about Maharishi's philosophy here as more of the first thing, the stimulation of the close attention part of my brain. As it has drifted further and further from any content, it has become less and less satisfying in that regard, so I switch to the creative but negative angle creating images of trollish scenes to keep me interested in writing. This really gives me a lot to think about, thanks for that Barry. I would like to become a bit more conscious of my outcomes here and ultimately if being here is where my real outcomes are likely to get met in becoming the kind of writer I want to be. Much more research is being done by this same team, including fMRI scans of readers to determine how the two different modes of reading affect such things as how they experience emotion arising from what they're reading. Will those emotions be stronger and affect the person more when reading for pleasure, or for analysis? But one of the valuable things learned even so far from this projects is that each of us has the ability to *change the way that our own brains work*. We can shift them from one mode of operation to another, just by the *intent* we bring to our reading. This is a discovery that I cannot help but relate to work on mindfulness meditation and fMRI, which has also shown that we can control which areas of our brains light up and are used or not used, depending on whether or not they are appropriate for the circumstances. On the literature side of the equation, these experiments may help us to understand the impact that great writing has on us. As Natalie Phillips says, ...give us a bigger, richer picture of how our minds engage with art or, in our case, of the complex experience we know as literary reading. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say above, is it possible that a certain
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Drilling deeper into this thoery I can also see how being attacked here stimulates a pseudo fear mechanism that prompts and urgency of response... curtisdeltablues: This exchange made it worth participating on FFL this month! Thanks. Looks like several respondents got really scared of Judy. LoL! That was a bit of a revelation and a cogent analysis of why we can't get there from here between some posters. Glad you enjoyed it. Since I know the hypothetical guy you were imagining... it also explains why it can be fun to go point by point to stimulate a different part of my brain. That was largely what doing philosophy involved and I enjoy that in a different way from creative writing. Professor Phillips points out that neither of these modes of brain functioning are superior, and in fact the real benefit is that we can switch between them, to train and develop different parts of the brain. In her words, ...cognition is shaped not just by what we read, but how we read it. Reading rigorously and analyzing the ideas presented and even the structure of the language and how the ideas are presented exercises one mode of functioning in our brains, and cultivates that mode. Reading just for the fun of it exercises another mode of functioning, and cultivates it. Both are necessary to see the world around us clearly, from a balanced point of view. Drilling deeper into this thoery I can also see how being attacked here stimulates a pseudo fear mechanism that prompts and urgency of response. Combined with things that a reader feels are inaccurate it creates a sturdy chain to pull and get pulled by. That may be a case for not posting in a place where a lot of that goes on. It is hard to resist getting pulled into that cycle, especially when not much more of that writing is going on. I used to think about some of the back and forth stuff about Maharishi's philosophy here as more of the first thing, the stimulation of the close attention part of my brain. As it has drifted further and further from any content, it has become less and less satisfying in that regard, so I switch to the creative but negative angle creating images of trollish scenes to keep me interested in writing. This really gives me a lot to think about, thanks for that Barry. I would like to become a bit more conscious of my outcomes here and ultimately if being here is where my real outcomes are likely to get met in becoming the kind of writer I want to be. Much more research is being done by this same team, including fMRI scans of readers to determine how the two different modes of reading affect such things as how they experience emotion arising from what they're reading. Will those emotions be stronger and affect the person more when reading for pleasure, or for analysis? But one of the valuable things learned even so far from this projects is that each of us has the ability to *change the way that our own brains work*. We can shift them from one mode of operation to another, just by the *intent* we bring to our reading. This is a discovery that I cannot help but relate to work on mindfulness meditation and fMRI, which has also shown that we can control which areas of our brains light up and are used or not used, depending on whether or not they are appropriate for the circumstances. On the literature side of the equation, these experiments may help us to understand the impact that great writing has on us. As Natalie Phillips says, ...give us a bigger, richer picture of how our minds engage with art or, in our case, of the complex experience we know as literary reading. Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Richard, do you have a little Irish in you? We Irish are prone to exaggerating for effect from time to time. Anyway, if by rabbit hole you mean my opinions of Judy, I assure you that Barry has little to do with that. When Judy butted in and continued to butt into a personal and emotional matter between me and Robin, that's when my current opinions of Judy were formed. From: Richard J. Williams rich...@rwilliams.us To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Friday, September 21, 2012 10:45 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. turquoiseb: Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case of a professional editor... Share, I already told you it's all about Judy. Don't you get it - Barry does. He'll write almost anything for hours, days, weeks, months, and years, to drag you down with him into the rabbit hole. LoL! Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say above, is it possible that a certain person is using different parts of their brain when reading your posts than you used when writing them? I find this an interesting question when applied to this forum. Different strokes for different folks turns out to be true even in the brain, and at different times, depending on the *intent* with which we read. Two people could read the same piece of literature -- in the experiments, passages from Jane Austen -- and get two very different things from them. That's not a surprise, of course, chances are we *all* would see the same passages slightly differently. *However*, the new information from these studies is that the *same* person could view and interpret these passages completely differently, depend- ing on how they're reading them -- for pleasure, or for work. Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case of a professional editor. Their day job is parsing other people's writing, *looking for nits to pick*. The person is, as you suggest, parsing word by word, sentence by sentence, *look- ing for errors or lapses in grammar or logic*. And to such a person, a single typo or misspelling could render an entire work unworthy of publication, and thus of being taken seriously. Now consider another random profession, say a person who makes their living as a musician and an educator. Such a person might have said many times that they read the posts on FFL -- and write their own -- for pleasure. They do *not* tend to parse them carefully, looking for things not right in them; instead they might be looking for things to enjoy. Which is the objective, after all, of reading for pleasure. These two types of people, conditioned by years of habit to read either for pleasure or for work, might be using entirely different parts of their brains while reading, and as a result might have a tendency to react to what you write completely differently. Now make a mental leap with me beyond the context of the experiments so far and to the next level. If humans use different parts of their brains when either reading for pleasure or reading more seriously, close reading, is it possible that they do the exact same thing when writing? The musician in my completely random example, for example, might have gone on record many times as saying that he writes for pleasure, for the sheer fun of writing and for the joy of seeing one's ideas come together as a result of the very act of writing. I'm like that, and I intuit that you might be, too. Someone else might tend to bring the same close reading brain functioning they practice as a reader to their writing, and tend to take the writing more seriously, and less as an opportunity to have fun. They might, in fact, be practicing close writing. If this were the case, would it not be likely that they are using an entirely different mode of brain functioning when writing than
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Richard, do you have a little Irish in you? We Irish are prone to exaggerating for effect from time to time. Anyway, if by rabbit hole you mean my opinions of Judy, I assure you that Barry has little to do with that. When Judy butted in and continued to butt into a personal and emotional matter between me and Robin, that's when my current opinions of Judy were formed. Pick Your Battles - Dr. Thema Bryant-Davis http://youtu.be/x6ZpdxlwxLI From: Richard J. Williams richard@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Friday, September 21, 2012 10:45 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. turquoiseb: Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case of a professional editor... Share, I already told you it's all about Judy. Don't you get it - Barry does. He'll write almost anything for hours, days, weeks, months, and years, to drag you down with him into the rabbit hole. LoL! Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say above, is it possible that a certain person is using different parts of their brain when reading your posts than you used when writing them? I find this an interesting question when applied to this forum. Different strokes for different folks turns out to be true even in the brain, and at different times, depending on the *intent* with which we read. Two people could read the same piece of literature -- in the experiments, passages from Jane Austen -- and get two very different things from them. That's not a surprise, of course, chances are we *all* would see the same passages slightly differently. *However*, the new information from these studies is that the *same* person could view and interpret these passages completely differently, depend- ing on how they're reading them -- for pleasure, or for work. Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case of a professional editor. Their day job is parsing other people's writing, *looking for nits to pick*. The person is, as you suggest, parsing word by word, sentence by sentence, *look- ing for errors or lapses in grammar or logic*. And to such a person, a single typo or misspelling could render an entire work unworthy of publication, and thus of being taken seriously. Now consider another random profession, say a person who makes their living as a musician and an educator. Such a person might have said many times that they read the posts on FFL -- and write their own -- for pleasure. They do *not* tend to parse them carefully, looking for things not right in them; instead they might be looking for things to enjoy. Which is the objective, after all, of reading for pleasure. These two types of people, conditioned by years of habit to read either for pleasure or for work, might be using entirely different parts of their brains while reading, and as a result might have a tendency to react to what you write completely differently. Now make a mental leap with me beyond the context of the experiments so far and to the next level. If humans use different parts of their brains when either reading for pleasure or reading more seriously, close reading, is it possible that they do the exact same thing when writing? The musician in my completely random example, for example, might have gone on record many times as saying that he writes for pleasure, for the sheer fun of writing and for the joy of seeing one's ideas come together as a result of the very act of writing. I'm like that, and I intuit that you might be, too. Someone else might tend to bring the same close reading brain functioning they practice as a reader to their writing, and tend
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@... wrote: Actually Steve, Ravi thought the story wasn't funny because he was joking that he thought story was real. Now, *that* was funny. Anyway, thanks for the kudos. Missing Ravi's humor. How could that happen!
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- replying to BW
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Hi BW, yes, I saw that article. Read quickly as is my tendency. Sometimes I think I'm using a VERY small part of my brain here on FFL. Sometimes I think I'm using too much! Wonder how that combo of thoughts would look on MRI. I was a Lit major in undergrad and then TV/Film in grad school. Now can't even imagine reading or watching for anything other than pleasure. But, having said that, it seems deeply imbued in my perceiving such to notice patterns, themes, overarching tones. Dare I say that I attribute this to my jyotish chart?! I think it would be fascinating to do similar research on musicians. I read somewhere, not recently, that overall, musicians tend to live longer. Don't remember other details. Not my strong suit to do so. But wanted to mention it anyway. And wonder if maybe they, more than any other artists, combine pleasure and work. Hmmm, now that I think of it, I'd put poets in this category too. Probably missing merudanda more than is reasonable. Yes, I take into account that someone might be accustomed to close reading. And it makes sense to me that that trait would spill over into writing. Even into other activities. I appreciate your bringing this to my attention again. Can aim for compassion. As I anticipate a new posting week (-: Also want to say that I appreciate your being somewhat of a good sport about the Stand Up Comedy Awards, etc. PS I enjoyed both reading your post and replying to it. win win, my favorite From: turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Friday, September 21, 2012 9:10 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. Share, trying to stay out of the conflict but tripping on what you said above, I thought I should draw your attention to a post I made here recently entitled This is your brain on reading for fun...this is it on reading seriously. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320510 It details some fascinating research being done on people to determine what is going on in their brains when they read either 1) for pleasure, the sheer enjoyment of it, or 2) for work, what is called close reading, as if they have to report on what they're reading later in an essay about it. The researchers, watching the brains of people through an MRI scanner as they read, have discovered that very different parts of the brain are being used, depending on whether one is reading for pleasure, or doing close reading. Riffing on what you say above, is it possible that a certain person is using different parts of their brain when reading your posts than you used when writing them? I find this an interesting question when applied to this forum. Different strokes for different folks turns out to be true even in the brain, and at different times, depending on the *intent* with which we read. Two people could read the same piece of literature -- in the experiments, passages from Jane Austen -- and get two very different things from them. That's not a surprise, of course, chances are we *all* would see the same passages slightly differently. *However*, the new information from these studies is that the *same* person could view and interpret these passages completely differently, depend- ing on how they're reading them -- for pleasure, or for work. Taking a profession completely at random, consider the case of a professional editor. Their day job is parsing other people's writing, *looking for nits to pick*. The person is, as you suggest, parsing word by word, sentence by sentence, *look- ing for errors or lapses in grammar or logic*. And to such a person, a single typo or misspelling could render an entire work unworthy of publication, and thus of being taken seriously. Now consider another random profession, say a person who makes their living as a musician and an educator. Such a person might have said many times that they read the posts on FFL -- and write their own -- for pleasure. They do *not* tend to parse them carefully, looking for things not right in them; instead they might be looking for things to enjoy. Which is the objective, after all, of reading for pleasure. These two types of people, conditioned by years of habit to read either for pleasure or for work, might be using entirely different parts of their brains while reading, and as a result might have a tendency to react to what you write completely differently
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: snip Anyway, if by rabbit hole you mean my opinions of Judy, I assure you that Barry has little to do with that. When Judy butted in and continued to butt into a personal and emotional matter between me and Robin, that's when my current opinions of Judy were formed. You are not being truthful here, Share. You and I had *exactly one exchange* concerning the matter between you and Robin. I did not continue to butt in. Moreover, when you make public posts, you do not have the right to expect that nobody will comment on them, no matter how personal and emotional they are. You don't get to have a private exchange on a public forum. That's what email is for. It wasn't my butting in that formed your current opinions of me in any case. It's that I took you to task for the misstatements and unfairness in your posts. Curtis butted in as well, but he supported you, so you didn't form a negative opinion of him for doing so.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. WHY am I doing this? As a kind of proactive experiment. We who have (ahem) been around FFL longer than you have are by now used to her attempting to restart the demon- izations after a break. Let's see what she -- and others who tend to join her in them -- do this time, shall we? From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? I guess only time will tell, eh? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YWyCCJ6B2WE
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Share, you might want to read my response to Curtis below. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: I left in the post of mine you were responding to. I'd suggest you read it again to refresh your memory, and then see if you can bring yourself to respond to my question straightforwardly. M: If I could pick one snip of a post to express how Judy operates here, it might be this one. It is so pregnant with assumptive condescension. If it was a line spoken in a movie who would play it? Joan Crawford with the arching eyebrows? Perhaps the aging Betty Davis with her foundation cracking into her furrowed skin? Gee, Curtis, you wouldn't be trying to discourage Share from looking over the post again, would you? Share did say I was sounding more reasonable than you. Do you think she'll find this post of yours any more reasonable? Or do you think she'll realize you're doing your damndest to prevent her from acknowledging that you had lied about what I had said in your response to my earlier post? Nice touch calling my asking Robin for the reasons he finds stories of saints doing miraculous things a long time ago compelling as picking a fight. Sure it was. This type of issue has been one of the biggest sources of conflict between you and Robin. He hadn't been addressing you; you jumped into a discussion between him and Salyavin--and then acknowledged at the end of your post that you should have left it at the comment Salyavin had made, and that you hadn't helped further the discussion with your post. But you made it anyway. Hmmm. Jumping into discussions is something we often do here. But when you jump into a discussion on the side of a debating opponent of one of your biggest adversaries, concerning an issue that has always been a hot-button one between you, picking a fight is not an inappropriate characterization. Especially when that's the only post of substance you had addressed to Robin since your return. And I loved your doubling down on the death threat thing, even now, with the connection with the Darwin Awards spelled out for you, clueless to the end. Curtis, I do not believe you are so oblivious to the context of what I said to Share that you honestly think I doubled down on the death threat thing. I think you're trying very hard to make *Share*--and anyone else reading this--think I did. But you know I didn't. Share erred in saying Barry's remark hadn't had anything about death in it, and I corrected her. I also agreed with her that it wasn't a literal death threat. The Darwin Awards business is just misdirection, as you know. It was never relevant. It was only an excuse Barry used to fantasize about raunchy and me dying. Too stupid to tie their shoes or something similar would have conveyed the idea Barry claims he wanted to express just as well--but he chose too stupid to live. And then of course there was also the fantasy about our bursting into flame, which you have consistently avoided mentioning. Again Barry has tried to convince us that this was a reference to liar, liar, pants on fire--but neither raunchy nor I had lied, and in any case pants on fire refers to being spanked for lying, not to bursting into flame via spontaneous combustion. You're a writer who claims to be sensitive to nuance. These did not escape you. And all the time wagging her finger, liar, liar, liar, liar all around her liars. I'm wagging my finger at you and Barry. There are a few others here who lie, but none of them to anywhere near the same extent, or with the same intense malice, as the two of you. Now Share, obey her command to focus on her mighty words, dripping with contempt, Curtis-spin designed to keep Share from rereading what I wrote. There was no contempt at all in it. But if Curtis can convince her there was, he's hoping she'll be offended and refuse. and answer zee questions, zey are critical and will expose you before her mighty power. Just one question, actually, a rather simple one. And please remember to answer what she ASKED and do it straightforwardly zis time. Share *was* willing to answer my question, and *did* answer it in my favor. She just couldn't quite bring herself to acknowledge your attempts at deception. You are terribly afraid she will do so this time, so you are again attempting to deceive in an effort to keep her from acknowledging the blatantly obvious.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. Sez Barry, who has been busy demonizing me all week and thinks he has a chance of converting Share--not realizing she underwent her conversion several weeks ago (and never had anything to be converted *from* anyway). snip From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. His best is none too good. If he's tried this once, he's tried it scores of times, unsuccessfully. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Uh-oh, the Bullshit Meter just went on Overload. And it's set *very* high for Barry's posts. You'd think Curtis would speak up to correct Barry's misrepresentations, wouldn't you? But he won't, even knowing that the rest of the forum is well aware they're bullshit. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. As Barry knows, the rather disturbed troll was Vaj himself. Vaj is silent because the last we heard from him, Barry reported that he had told Barry something about Ann in private that turned out not to be true. He does not want to have to confront the fallout from his lie. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? Let's see if Share will correct Barry's misrepresentations of her. I'll bet she won't either.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. Sez Barry, who has been busy demonizing me all week and thinks he has a chance of converting Share--not realizing she underwent her conversion several weeks ago (and never had anything to be converted *from* anyway). snip From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. His best is none too good. If he's tried this once, he's tried it scores of times, unsuccessfully. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Uh-oh, the Bullshit Meter just went on Overload. And it's set *very* high for Barry's posts. You'd think Curtis would speak up to correct Barry's misrepresentations, wouldn't you? But he won't, even knowing that the rest of the forum is well aware they're bullshit. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. As Barry knows, the rather disturbed troll was Vaj himself. Vaj is silent because the last we heard from him, Barry reported that he had told Barry something about Ann in private that turned out not to be true. He does not want to have to confront the fallout from his lie. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? Let's see if Share will correct Barry's misrepresentations of her. I'll bet she won't either. There's no hiding from the demands of reality. Who would have thought that courage and integrity were required on a forum where miles of space and time can seem to separate us from each other? But what do you know, there's no hiding behind any curtain. Sooner or later Dorothy and her friends are going to catch a glimpse of what is really going on back there. And it may not be pretty.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
On Wed, Sep 19, 2012 at 10:04 PM, raunchydog raunchy...@yahoo.com wrote: ** --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@... wrote: At the risk of 'piling on' this little vignette was priceless. Probably because it rang so true. All you left out was some bimbo trying to climb onto his lap. Hold the applause, Ann. You're only encouraging me. I can't...no I mustn't...Help! Somebody STOP ME! Oh alright. Scene: Leiden, Holland, 2:00 am. Two Dutch grifters discuss their recent mark. Guy: Hey, what's in his wallet? Gal: ID, Barry Wright, two bucks and a condom...expiration date, August 18, 1969. Guy: Sonofabitch, the last time that old geezer got laid was at Woodstock! Gal: Thought so...probably explains the tie-dyed boxer shorts. Guy: Did you get those too? Gal: Yep, trophy for my easy mark collection. Guy: Two bucks? Hardly worth the trouble of letting him feel your ass. Gal: My ass, his shorts, win, win. Meanwhile, alone in a fleabag hotel, passed out cold, handcuffed to a chair and stripped naked except for a Jerry Garcia tie* gracefully covering his privates. Barry slowly regains consciousness, muttering, win, win...win, win. Barry: What a night! Can't wait to write about it. *Jerry Garcia tie: Barry's most prized possession. Sorry raunchy, this would have been real funny if it weren't real. Thanks for trying. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote: Barry: I've got a problem. Bartender: Yeah. Tell me about it. Barry: There's this woman... Bartender (aside): Here he goes again...another sob story about some crazy bitch named Judy. Man, this dame really gets to him. Barry: This woman is diving me crazy...haunting my every waking moment. Gimme another drink. Bartender: I hear you, Buddy. (aside) Yep. We know where this one's going. Barry: She has this creepy power over people who actually read her posts on FFLife. Bartender: (pretending interest) Uh-huh... Barry: THOSE PEOPLE...who read her posts. Do you know what happens to them? Bartender: Have another shot with your beer, Buddy. You're gunna need it. Barry: She makes THOSE PEOPLE hate me...Oh the agony, the unbearable pain...etc, etc, etc. blubber, blubber, boo hoo hoo. Two hours later.. Bartender: Time to go home, Buddy. Barry: My hair! What happened to my hair? I have no hair! Bartender: It caught on fire...spontaneous combustion. You should have seen it. You were spectacular! Never saw anything like it. Blue flames shooting out yer ass, hair on fire...quite a show, quite a show, indeed. The joint was packed. Barry: I need a drink. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: You'll have to learn by experience what the positive-to- negative ratios of FFL participants are. With some of them, you may never see their negative side until you get into a dispute with them. Note the incredibly clueless assumption here -- that getting into a dispute with them is something that is going to -- or should -- happen. It doesn't, for most here. It *does*, for those who live for disputes. The same assumption -- nigh unto a presumption -- was voiced recently in response to my suggestion that the screaming of Non-sequitur! was a barrier to conver- sation. The person replying didn't even *address* the possibility that FFL could be *about* conversation. Instead, it was presumed to be a forum for debate. Some people, as strange as it may seem, *don't* live for debate, or view every occasion to interact with other human beings as an opportunity to start one. These people instead -- not being as ego-attached to their POVs and rigid, fixed ideas -- enjoy discussing them calmly with others, in more of a (dare I say it) conversation. These strange people don't feel the same compulsive need to *assert* their own POVs and ideas and declare them better or more right than those of others, and thus don't feel the same compulsive need to turn every conversation about POVs and ideas into a debate. Just sayin'... Those with a penchant for dishonesty are so clever about giving the false impression that the other side is at fault that a third party reading the posts in the dispute is unable to see how they've done it. Rght. Only Judy can. It is kind of like a magical power but she was never bitten by a spider and doesn't come from a red planet that exploded. I'm not completely convinced about her not coming from another planet :-), but I'd agree with you about not being bitten by a spider. Spiders have better taste.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Hi Ann, I was out of town yesterday but here I am now! Right! I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! I totally understand if someone is triggered and lashes out. But some of the seemingly untriggered attacks just seem mean spirited. Replying to other email: Thank you for your curiosity about my life. I think! I don't mind your posting about QL. Maybe it will generate some business for Kenji (-: Here's the thing, Ann: it sounds like you're happily married. In this day and age, IMO, that in and of itself is an accomplishment. Plus you have your beloved horses. And you live in a wonderful albeit expensive place. I'm retired and fortunately FF is inexpensive enough that I can live comfortably here. I go to the Dome morning and evening. I consider that my job. When I left campus 10 years ago I did so with the conscious intention to get the emotional healing I needed. I think I've been very blessed in that endeavor. Both with the people who have been in my life and the knowledge and techniques I've learned about. I haven't done everything that's come to FF. But I've done a lot. Some of it I've stuck with. Some not. And some just a little. For example, from Kenji's QLW, I do self waves when I have trouble getting back to sleep. And don't tell, but I combine EFT and ho'oponopono! I don't really do jyotish as in check my chart every day. But I read the newsletters I get, etc. I'm nowhere near as knowledgeable as John is. For me TM is the basis of emotional development. And other procedures are necessary for my emotional healing. Hope this all helps. From: awoelflebater no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, September 19, 2012 9:13 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Something that happened almost 9 years ago?! Nope, not interested. Someone getting beat up by someone else. Definitely not interested. Figuratively speaking I believe. It seems there were no bloody noses or cauliflower ears resulting from the verbal tussle. But, again, I could be wrong. I have been once or twice before. (By the way, I hope you didn't mind me posting the blurb on QLW, it was a straight quote right off the website. I was actually really curious about what it could be, I dated a quantum physicist once and was wondering if it involved any real physics. I am still not sure. But I do know that boyfriend and I had some physics going on at the time. Curtis knew him, they played music together.) From: Richard J. Williams richard@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, September 19, 2012 10:57 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  Sorry, Richard but IMO Barry's not schizo... authfriend: ...don't believe everything you read here. Not only is Barry not schizo, the rest of Richard's description of him is not accurate either. Here's the thread so Share can read it and judge for herself how Turq got beatup by Moogin and Judy. Not only did Turq get beat up by Judy, Moogin beat up Turq's defense of TMer 'transcendence creation' theory! LoL! Subject: Emperor's New Clothes Newsgroups: alt.religion.gnostic Date: 2003-10-17 05:35:21 PST http://tinyurl.com/95drxtz Uncle Tantra: I don't believe that there is anything in the universe called truth. Moogin: Then you said, The only 'perspective' that would be valid to judge creation would have to transcend creation, you were just offering one of your beliefs, not -- despite appearances -- a claim about the truth of things concerning the universe. -- Moggin to e-mail, remove the thorn
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. WHY am I doing this? As a kind of proactive experiment. We who have (ahem) been around FFL longer than you have are by now used to her attempting to restart the demon- izations after a break. Let's see what she -- and others who tend to join her in them -- do this time, shall we? From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? I guess only time will tell, eh?
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Hi Share, thanks for being a good sport because I was making just the teeniest bit of fun yesterday, especially about the World Puja Show. But I don't think you took it as spiteful so some of those techniques are obviously working for you. And I sometimes have a slightly mischevious sense of humour when I like to feel someone out on certain things. But you passed the test and I learned a little about Light Weaving. But that Puja business seems just a little good to be true... And yes, some people here just lurk and wait to jump out and land in a heap on top of someone once it looks safe to do so because there is safety in numbers or others simply start out all welcoming and inviting until you get a bit vulnerable and then they throw in a left hook when you expected a plate of cupcakes. But I have figured that particular person out months ago and never believe there are cupcakes on the menu even when the smell from the kitchen is delicious. When I lived in FF as a student I had my horse there and every day summer or winter I went to ride. Freezing cold or boiling hot I loved the opportunity to ride through the soybean fields and corn, to jump through large snow drifts and to get to know some of the locals as well. I also enjoyed the small town ambiance, the town square and all the little shops. The quintessential small town America from the 50's and 60's when I was there in the late 70's and early 80's. I know it is very different now. I haven't been there since about 1988. But I know I couldn't live there now. I have this rebel thing going on and there are just too many rules and too many people doing the same thing. Or at least I have that impression. Maybe one day I will make a trip back just to get the feel for the place but I won't be making any forays into that Golden Dome, they wouldn't have me anyway. And I'd do something obnoxious like make some scene about it just to push some buttons. I can be a real jerk sometimes. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Hi Ann, I was out of town yesterday but here I am now! Right! I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH!    I totally understand if someone is triggered and lashes out. But some of the seemingly untriggered attacks just seem mean spirited.   Replying to other email: Thank you for your curiosity about my life. I think! I don't mind your posting about QL. Maybe it will generate some business for Kenji (-: Here's the thing, Ann: it sounds like you're happily married. In this day and age, IMO, that in and of itself is an accomplishment. Plus you have your beloved horses. And you live in a wonderful albeit expensive place. I'm retired and fortunately FF is inexpensive enough that I can live comfortably here. I go to the Dome morning and evening. I consider that my job. When I left campus 10 years ago I did so with the conscious intention to get the emotional healing I needed. I think I've been very blessed in that endeavor. Both with the people who have been in my life and the knowledge and techniques I've learned about. I haven't done everything that's come to FF. But I've done a lot. Some of it I've stuck with. Some not. And some just a little. For example, from Kenji's QLW, I do self waves when I have trouble getting back to sleep. And don't tell, but I combine EFT and ho'oponopono! I don't really do jyotish as in check my chart every day. But I read the newsletters I get, etc. I'm nowhere near as knowledgeable as John is. For me TM is the basis of emotional development. And other procedures are necessary for my emotional healing. Hope this all helps. From: awoelflebater no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, September 19, 2012 9:13 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Something that happened almost 9 years ago?!àNope, not interested. Someone getting beat up by someone else.àDefinitely not interested. Figuratively speaking I believe. It seems there were no bloody noses or cauliflower ears resulting from the verbal tussle. But, again, I could be wrong. I have been once or twice before. (By the way, I hope you didn't mind me posting the blurb on QLW, it was a straight quote right off the website. I was actually really curious about what it could be, I dated a quantum physicist once and was wondering if it involved any real physics. I am still not sure. But I do know that boyfriend and I had some physics going on at the time. Curtis knew
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Oh s--- woman it just gets better and better. This is funny, not because poor Barry has been given this huge send up but because it is downright hilarious on any level. Come to think of it, okay, it's funny because it makes fun of Barry but my God woman, you've missed your calling. Keep cooking with gas. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote: At the risk of 'piling on' this little vignette was priceless. Probably because it rang so true. All you left out was some bimbo trying to climb onto his lap. Hold the applause, Ann. You're only encouraging me. I can't...no I mustn't...Help! Somebody STOP ME! Oh alright. Scene: Leiden, Holland, 2:00 am. Two Dutch grifters discuss their recent mark. Guy: Hey, what's in his wallet? Gal: ID, Barry Wright, two bucks and a condom...expiration date, August 18, 1969. Guy: Sonofabitch, the last time that old geezer got laid was at Woodstock! Gal: Thought so...probably explains the tie-dyed boxer shorts. Guy: Did you get those too? Gal: Yep, trophy for my easy mark collection. Guy: Two bucks? Hardly worth the trouble of letting him feel your ass. Gal: My ass, his shorts, win, win. Meanwhile, alone in a fleabag hotel, passed out cold, handcuffed to a chair and stripped naked except for a Jerry Garcia tie* gracefully covering his privates. Barry slowly regains consciousness, muttering, win, win...win, win. Barry: What a night! Can't wait to write about it. *Jerry Garcia tie: Barry's most prized possession. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote: Barry: I've got a problem. Bartender: Yeah. Tell me about it. Barry: There's this woman... Bartender (aside): Here he goes again...another sob story about some crazy bitch named Judy. Man, this dame really gets to him. Barry: This woman is diving me crazy...haunting my every waking moment. Gimme another drink. Bartender: I hear you, Buddy. (aside) Yep. We know where this one's going. Barry: She has this creepy power over people who actually read her posts on FFLife. Bartender: (pretending interest) Uh-huh... Barry: THOSE PEOPLE...who read her posts. Do you know what happens to them? Bartender: Have another shot with your beer, Buddy. You're gunna need it. Barry: She makes THOSE PEOPLE hate me...Oh the agony, the unbearable pain...etc, etc, etc. blubber, blubber, boo hoo hoo. Two hours later.. Bartender: Time to go home, Buddy. Barry: My hair! What happened to my hair? I have no hair! Bartender: It caught on fire...spontaneous combustion. You should have seen it. You were spectacular! Never saw anything like it. Blue flames shooting out yer ass, hair on fire...quite a show, quite a show, indeed. The joint was packed. Barry: I need a drink. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: You'll have to learn by experience what the positive-to- negative ratios of FFL participants are. With some of them, you may never see their negative side until you get into a dispute with them. Note the incredibly clueless assumption here -- that getting into a dispute with them is something that is going to -- or should -- happen. It doesn't, for most here. It *does*, for those who live for disputes. The same assumption -- nigh unto a presumption -- was voiced recently in response to my suggestion that the screaming of Non-sequitur! was a barrier to conver- sation. The person replying didn't even *address* the possibility that FFL could be *about* conversation. Instead, it was presumed to be a forum for debate. Some people, as strange as it may seem, *don't* live for debate, or view every occasion to interact with other human beings as an opportunity to start one. These people instead -- not being as ego-attached to their POVs and rigid, fixed ideas -- enjoy discussing them calmly with others, in more of a (dare I say it) conversation. These strange people don't feel the same compulsive need to *assert* their own POVs and ideas and declare them better or more right than those of others, and thus don't feel the same compulsive need to turn every conversation about POVs and ideas into a debate. Just sayin'... Those with a penchant for dishonesty are so clever about giving the false impression that the other side is at fault that a third party reading the posts in the dispute is unable to see how they've done it. Rght. Only Judy can. It is kind of like a
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Share Long: Something that happened almost 9 years ago? Nope, not interested. Did you ever notice how Turq's posts seem to mention or refer to Judy all the time? It's been this way for over fourteen years, Share. Get a grip and get up to speed. If you're going to go down the rabbit hole, you need to know what you're dealing with. Someone getting beat up by someone else. Definitely not interested. Turq called you an 'idiot', Share. Now why would Turq do that when you took up for Judy? There's a pattern here. Sorry, Richard but IMO Barry's not schizo... authfriend: ...don't believe everything you read here. Not only is Barry not schizo, the rest of Richard's description of him is not accurate either. Here's the thread so Share can read it and judge for herself how Turq got beatup by Moogin and Judy. Not only did Turq get beat up by Judy, Moogin beat up Turq's defense of TMer 'transcendence creation' theory! LoL! Subject: Emperor's New Clothes Newsgroups: alt.religion.gnostic Date: 2003-10-17 05:35:21 PST http://tinyurl.com/95drxtz Uncle Tantra: I don't believe that there is anything in the universe called truth. Moogin: Then you said, The only 'perspective' that would be valid to judge creation would have to transcend creation, you were just offering one of your beliefs, not -- despite appearances -- a claim about the truth of things concerning the universe. -- Moggin to e-mail, remove the thorn
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig to Ann for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: ... I think what I don't like is gratuitous negativity. Especially the kind that is mean and nasty towards someone else. Like the kind that seemingly pops up out of nowhere and functions merely to keep the negativity flowing. And ironically enough, often it happens here just when things have quieted down! DUH! A noble thought. Now let's see how you follow through on it. I've said what I had to say in my little Intervention riff. I've adopted the fictive voice of others and dared a certain someone to take a week off from dissing those she so habitually feels the need to demonize here on FFL. WHY am I doing this? As a kind of proactive experiment. We who have (ahem) been around FFL longer than you have are by now used to her attempting to restart the demon- izations after a break. Let's see what she -- and others who tend to join her in them -- do this time, shall we? From my side, I will try my best to neither read any- thing she writes, or respond to it. I shall also try to avoid mentioning her at all. I suspect that Curtis will do the same, since that is his current M.O. anyway. He rarely gets involved until after the first brick has been thrown attempting to damage his career as an educator. Vaj is silent for his own reasons, many of which have to do with the renewed presence on this forum of a rather disturbed troll. So...just sayin'...what will happen from *your* side, since you've weighed in above? Will you call *others* on this forum if *they* try to restart the olde bitterness and grudges? Or is that something you only do when those whom you've been taught to assoc- iate with the Curtis-Barry-Vaj troika speak up? I guess only time will tell, eh? Yahoo already gave us an intervention of sorts, on Aug 24th, the Day of 999 Error Terror. On that day, Judy patiently sat it out, waiting for Yahoo to fix the web interface. Barry, OTOH, decloaked from no_reply mode in order to send two posts via email: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/317920 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/317926
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
About Turq calling me an idiot, when someone calls me a name, first I consider the source. Then I recognize that I've probably been that at least once in my life. Then I figure they got triggered by something I said. Basically people should not waste posts calling me names. Unless they really enjoy doing so. Thanks for heads up. From: Richard J. Williams rich...@rwilliams.us To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 9:58 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology Share Long: Something that happened almost 9 years ago? Nope, not interested. Did you ever notice how Turq's posts seem to mention or refer to Judy all the time? It's been this way for over fourteen years, Share. Get a grip and get up to speed. If you're going to go down the rabbit hole, you need to know what you're dealing with. Someone getting beat up by someone else. Definitely not interested. Turq called you an 'idiot', Share. Now why would Turq do that when you took up for Judy? There's a pattern here. Sorry, Richard but IMO Barry's not schizo... authfriend: ...don't believe everything you read here. Not only is Barry not schizo, the rest of Richard's description of him is not accurate either. Here's the thread so Share can read it and judge for herself how Turq got beatup by Moogin and Judy. Not only did Turq get beat up by Judy, Moogin beat up Turq's defense of TMer 'transcendence creation' theory! LoL! Subject: Emperor's New Clothes Newsgroups: alt.religion.gnostic Date: 2003-10-17 05:35:21 PST http://tinyurl.com/95drxtz Uncle Tantra: I don't believe that there is anything in the universe called truth. Moogin: Then you said, The only 'perspective' that would be valid to judge creation would have to transcend creation, you were just offering one of your beliefs, not -- despite appearances -- a claim about the truth of things concerning the universe. -- Moggin to e-mail, remove the thorn
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Share Long: Basically people should not waste posts calling me names. Unless they really enjoy doing so. Thanks for heads up... This entire thread from Turq is an attempt to take you down the rabbit hole, Share. But, for GAWD'S sake, DON'T talk about the spiritual life! LoL! Something that happened almost 9 years ago? Nope, not interested. Did you ever notice how Turq's posts seem to mention or refer to Judy all the time? It's been this way for over fourteen years, Share. Get a grip and get up to speed. If you're going to go down the rabbit hole, you need to know what you're dealing with. Someone getting beat up by someone else. Definitely not interested. Turq called you an 'idiot', Share. Now why would Turq do that when you took up for Judy? There's a pattern here. Sorry, Richard but IMO Barry's not schizo... authfriend: ...don't believe everything you read here. Not only is Barry not schizo, the rest of Richard's description of him is not accurate either. Here's the thread so Share can read it and judge for herself how Turq got beatup by Moogin and Judy. Not only did Turq get beat up by Judy, Moogin beat up Turq's defense of TMer 'transcendence creation' theory! LoL! Subject: Emperor's New Clothes Newsgroups: alt.religion.gnostic Date: 2003-10-17 05:35:21 PST http://tinyurl.com/95drxtz Uncle Tantra: I don't believe that there is anything in the universe called truth. Moogin: Then you said, The only 'perspective' that would be valid to judge creation would have to transcend creation, you were just offering one of your beliefs, not -- despite appearances -- a claim about the truth of things concerning the universe. -- Moggin to e-mail, remove the thorn
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
. And this current flareup began when Curtis decided to pick a fight with Robin about saints and levitation. You were already here then, I believe. I wonder how you missed it. It was only a little over two weeks ago: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319290 Your thing with Robin was just a sideshow to the main event. (BTW, Curtis misrepresents the page Robin cited in that post. I don't imagine you looked at the page, though, so even if you saw the exchange, you'd have no way of knowing that.) Which lead to Sal comment, which lead to Emily email to you, which lead to...yep, these things seem to take on a life of their own. This one certainly seems to have done so in your mind. Lastly, I will continue to not choose sides but rather take each situation, each post on its own merit. Really? Because on Tuesday you said: dear Ravi, you can add me to the Curtis Susan Steven clique. Thank you, Share PS I really don't like to be in any clique but in this ongoing conflict between the absent Emily and Sal, hope you can see the irony in that, I choose to align myself with the clique that is overall being the most positive and sensible. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320393 Had you forgotten you'd chosen a side just two days ago? While maintaining some compassionate memory of a history I've only glimpsed. Best I can do for now. Yeah, I'm not sure those glimpses have been enough to be useful to you in evaluating many of these situations. You're probably better off not even trying when they involve the past history of the forum. But when a situation unfolds before your eyes, you ought to be able to come to some conclusions. For example, Curtis has been under some pretty heavy fire. in the matter of Sal's email to Emily. If you look closely at how he attempts to defend himself, comparing it with what others have been saying, you may be able to determine for yourself what kind of tactics he uses to do this. Barry, as you've no doubt seen, refuses to engage with his critics or even read their posts (not true, but that's what he claims), let alone take any responsibility for the accuracy of what he says about them. To my mind, that's a big red flag in and of itself. Because I *have* been following the discussion closely (and have seen Sal's email), and because I've been here for years and know what people have done and said and not done and said, I'm quite comfortable with my evaluation of the honesty and accuracy of Curtis's and Barry's recent posts. Most positive and sensible is not a phrase I'd apply to Curtis's posts, let alone Barry's. And poor Steve and Susan are just right out of it, even though they've been here for years. I left in the post of mine you were responding to. I'd suggest you read it again to refresh your memory, and then see if you can bring yourself to respond to my question straightforwardly. From: authfriend authfriend@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 6:26 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  Share, can you see the attempted deceptions in Curtis's response? Read what I wrote carefully, then read what Curtis wrote, then read the numbered paragraphs I added. See which of us you think is telling the truth about what I said to you. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: You'll have to learn by experience what the positive-to- negative ratios of FFL participants are. With some of them, you may never see their negative side until you get into a dispute with them. Those with a penchant for dishonesty are so clever about giving the false impression that the other side is at fault that a third party reading the posts in the dispute is unable to see how they've done it. Rght. Only Judy can. 1. What I said was that only those people who have disputes with such folks are likely to see their negative side. There are at least six people currently posting to FFL who have had disputes with Curtis, for example. All of them have seen his negative side and have testified to it. Many of those who have *not* had disputes with Curtis, in contrast, think of him as Mr. Wonderful. It is kind of like a magical power but she was never bitten by a spidera and doesn't come from a red planet that exploded. She just declared it and ShhaaammmM! 2. Not magic at all. Again, as I said, it's a function of getting into a dispute with such people. It's very hard for a third party to tell when one's context is being twisted or erased, but one can see it quite clearly oneself. So just take her word for when someone is lying, she will need no evidence and you shouldn't worry your pretty little head. 3. What I
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
sounding like a death wish. So still extreme vicious. Easy for me to suggest forgive and forget. But can't help but wonder what would happen if you did. If *I* did?? Have you not been paying *any* attention? Or perhaps you've been paying attention only to Barry and Curtis, who have consistently and deliberately misrepresented the whole incident. FYI, Share: *Barry is the person who brings this up over and over, not me, and not raunchy*. I already told you that just two days ago: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320416 You might want to speak to him about forgiving and forgetting. Really, though, you're a lot better off not giving advice when you don't have any idea what the hell is going on. Have not checked archives to see Curtis part in all that. Probably won't. Of course you won't. You're struggling to preserve your image of him; why would you expose yourself to any contrary evidence? What else? I still think piling on does not help matters that are essentially private and emotional. Like the conflict between me and Robin. You mean, all your public posts castigating him for having said something that you misunderstood? Which is actually what lead to conflict between Robin and Curtis. Oh, Share. No, that isn't what led to the conflict between Robin and Curtis. That began last fall. And this current flareup began when Curtis decided to pick a fight with Robin about saints and levitation. You were already here then, I believe. I wonder how you missed it. It was only a little over two weeks ago: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319290 Your thing with Robin was just a sideshow to the main event. (BTW, Curtis misrepresents the page Robin cited in that post. I don't imagine you looked at the page, though, so even if you saw the exchange, you'd have no way of knowing that.) Which lead to Sal comment, which lead to Emily email to you, which lead to...yep, these things seem to take on a life of their own. This one certainly seems to have done so in your mind. Lastly, I will continue to not choose sides but rather take each situation, each post on its own merit. Really? Because on Tuesday you said: dear Ravi, you can add me to the Curtis Susan Steven clique. Thank you, Share PS I really don't like to be in any clique but in this ongoing conflict between the absent Emily and Sal, hope you can see the irony in that, I choose to align myself with the clique that is overall being the most positive and sensible. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320393 Had you forgotten you'd chosen a side just two days ago? While maintaining some compassionate memory of a history I've only glimpsed. Best I can do for now. Yeah, I'm not sure those glimpses have been enough to be useful to you in evaluating many of these situations. You're probably better off not even trying when they involve the past history of the forum. But when a situation unfolds before your eyes, you ought to be able to come to some conclusions. For example, Curtis has been under some pretty heavy fire. in the matter of Sal's email to Emily. If you look closely at how he attempts to defend himself, comparing it with what others have been saying, you may be able to determine for yourself what kind of tactics he uses to do this. Barry, as you've no doubt seen, refuses to engage with his critics or even read their posts (not true, but that's what he claims), let alone take any responsibility for the accuracy of what he says about them. To my mind, that's a big red flag in and of itself. Because I *have* been following the discussion closely (and have seen Sal's email), and because I've been here for years and know what people have done and said and not done and said, I'm quite comfortable with my evaluation of the honesty and accuracy of Curtis's and Barry's recent posts. Most positive and sensible is not a phrase I'd apply to Curtis's posts, let alone Barry's. And poor Steve and Susan are just right out of it, even though they've been here for years. I left in the post of mine you were responding to. I'd suggest you read it again to refresh your memory, and then see if you can bring yourself to respond to my question straightforwardly. From: authfriend authfriend@ To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 6:26 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  Share, can you see the attempted deceptions in Curtis's response? Read what I wrote carefully, then read what Curtis wrote, then read the numbered paragraphs I added. See which of us you think is telling the truth about what I said to you. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
question straightforwardly. From: authfriend authfriend@ To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 6:26 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  Share, can you see the attempted deceptions in Curtis's response? Read what I wrote carefully, then read what Curtis wrote, then read the numbered paragraphs I added. See which of us you think is telling the truth about what I said to you. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: You'll have to learn by experience what the positive-to- negative ratios of FFL participants are. With some of them, you may never see their negative side until you get into a dispute with them. Those with a penchant for dishonesty are so clever about giving the false impression that the other side is at fault that a third party reading the posts in the dispute is unable to see how they've done it. Rght. Only Judy can. 1. What I said was that only those people who have disputes with such folks are likely to see their negative side. There are at least six people currently posting to FFL who have had disputes with Curtis, for example. All of them have seen his negative side and have testified to it. Many of those who have *not* had disputes with Curtis, in contrast, think of him as Mr. Wonderful. It is kind of like a magical power but she was never bitten by a spidera and doesn't come from a red planet that exploded. She just declared it and ShhaaammmM! 2. Not magic at all. Again, as I said, it's a function of getting into a dispute with such people. It's very hard for a third party to tell when one's context is being twisted or erased, but one can see it quite clearly oneself. So just take her word for when someone is lying, she will need no evidence and you shouldn't worry your pretty little head. 3. What I told Share was that she would have to learn from experience, not that she should take my word for it. When it looks like she has been spinning bullshit here, it is really that you just lack her special powers. I don't spin bullshit. I don't have to. Curtis had to, as his post demonstrates. Sometimes I wonder if she believes she is addressing a room full of preschoolers. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Sorry, Richard but IMO Barry's not schizo. Barry is simply like the rest of us, a mix and positive and negative. Judy too. And yes it's often perplexing to me. But I rarely find it helpful to pull out DSM IV labels (not sure that's the right number) to bolster one's argument. None of us are trained therapists, right? And it's not helpful when Turq does it either. Just in case someone was going to waste a post bringing that to my attention! Good for you, Share. Just two points to add: First, don't believe everything you read here. Not only is Barry not schizo, the rest of Richard's description of him is not accurate either. On the other hand, most of what Barry has said about FFL and its participants, especially in the last couple of days, is not accurate either (and the inaccuracy goes way beyond just spinning). You have to be particularly cautious, generally speaking, when someone delivers a rant about past trends or events on this forum that you weren't around to witness. It's often just about impossible to know whether they're telling the truth if you weren't here, especially if you have never learned how to consult the archives of the forum. Second, everyone is a mixture of positive and negative, that's very true. But the ratio of positive to negative is not always equal in a given individual. Some people are more negative than positive, some are more positive than negative. You'll have to learn by experience what the positive-to- negative ratios of FFL participants are. With some of them, you may never see their negative side until you get into a dispute with them. Those with a penchant for dishonesty are so clever about giving the false impression that the other side is at fault that a third party reading the posts in the dispute is unable to see how they've done it. Others are less clever about concealing the truth; if they got into an actual dispute their dishonesty would very quickly become apparent. They know this and do their best to avoid
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. For example, what I said about the death wish phrase. From your overall relentlessly combative tone, I think this aim of distorting, rather than arriving at truth or harmony, is your purpose. More directly, I did not put Barry in the positive and sensible clique as you accuse me of below. OTOH, when I recall the straightforward tone of Barry calling me an idiot, I'm more likely to put him there rather than you with, what one friend of mine calls, your toxic and obfuscating nitpicking. And I'm sure Barry's happy not to be put in any clique! Perhaps I've been guilty of considered and considerate niceness, what you call synthetic, in the service of not hurting people's feelings and speaking the truth that is sweet. But you're guilty of synthetic truth seeking. In service to putting others down and attempting to win every argument. From: authfriend authfri...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 11:35 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Yes, Judy I see what you mean. In this instance I'd say you're sounding more reasonable than Curtis. Oh, but that isn't what I asked, is it? I asked if you could see the attempted deceptions in Curtis's comments on my earlier post to you. The attempts to deceive are very clear-cut and objective: I said one thing, and he pretended I had said something different. You should be able to see that and to acknowledge it. Take another look, please. I left it all in below. BUT...did you see his reply to Ravi in which he admits that he overreacted? Yes, I didn't find it terribly impressive. He didn't retract any of his accusations (false, IMHO) against Ravi, and in any case in his next post to Ravi he said he was not so sure that he'd overreacted after all. That's something I very much admire. When a person can say that maybe they got it wrong that time. Or maybe they overreacted. Or maybe they weren't thinking clearly, or maybe having a bad day. Something along those lines. So for me, Curtis gets big points for that. It needs to be balanced against everything else he's said to and about Ravi and the other participants in this dispute, including Emily. It's barely a drop in the bucket of the retractions and apologies he still owes. And I'm glad that you're feeling better. Now, why would you say that, Share, when I never said I was feeling anything less than fine? You know, I have a lot more respect for people who come right out and say what they mean, even if it's hostile, than for those who try to disguise it, as you just did with that comment. Or perhaps you're just having a bad day. I'll take honesty and reality, even if they're ugly, over synthetic niceness any time. Which is how you sound to me in this post. Seems like your intuition may need a tune-up. Or just your common sense, maybe. I addressed you in a more cordial tone in the post you're responding to not because I hadn't been feeling well previously, but because you had said something important and intelligent that I agreed with, about DSM-IV labels (V will come out next May) not being helpful to nonprofessionals (although Richard's SCHIZO wasn't a DSM label, but a crude insult to go with the rest of his faux history of Barry--and no, the link he posted to an old discussion doesn't help his own credibility, just FYI). Hey I just remembered. You have 49 posts so you're welcome to answer this to me directly if you want. Uhhh, thanks, but no thanks. If I had wanted to communicate with you privately, I would have done that from the start. Anyway, I agree with you that different people are a different percentage of positive and negative. I find most people to be mostly positive. Say 70-90%. It doesn't surprise me that this is what you think. I'm not at all sure it serves you in contexts like FFL, though. snip Anyway, what else to say that might be beneficial at this point? As I said before, I don't think the dumb c phrase was a death threat. Not literally, of course not. Actually the word death is not in the quote at all. Too stupid to live does suggest death, don't you think? But perhaps you missed that part of the quote. Or the other bit in the post about raunchy and me bursting into flames. Barry reposted the whole thing, though, so you should have seen both: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320412 Oh, I just checked, and you *did* see that post, because you responded to it. So why would you say there was nothing about death in what he'd written? Nonetheless it comes across sounding like a death wish. So still extreme vicious. Easy
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. For example, what I said about the death wish phrase. From your overall relentlessly combative tone, I think this aim of distorting, rather than arriving at truth or harmony, is your purpose. More directly, I did not put Barry in the positive and sensible clique as you accuse me of below. OTOH, when I recall the straightforward tone of Barry calling me an idiot, I'm more likely to put him there rather than you with, what one friend of mine calls, your toxic and obfuscating nitpicking. And I'm sure Barry's happy not to be put in any clique! Perhaps I've been guilty of considered and considerate niceness, what you call synthetic, in the service of not hurting people's feelings and speaking the truth that is sweet. But you're guilty of synthetic truth seeking. In service to putting others down and attempting to win every argument.   ad victorem spolias From: authfriend authfriend@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 11:35 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Yes, Judy I see what you mean. In this instance I'd say you're sounding more reasonable than Curtis. Oh, but that isn't what I asked, is it? I asked if you could see the attempted deceptions in Curtis's comments on my earlier post to you. The attempts to deceive are very clear-cut and objective: I said one thing, and he pretended I had said something different. You should be able to see that and to acknowledge it. Take another look, please. I left it all in below. BUT...did you see his reply to Ravi in which he admits that he overreacted? Yes, I didn't find it terribly impressive. He didn't retract any of his accusations (false, IMHO) against Ravi, and in any case in his next post to Ravi he said he was not so sure that he'd overreacted after all. That's something I very much admire. When a person can say that maybe they got it wrong that time. Or maybe they overreacted. Or maybe they weren't thinking clearly, or maybe having a bad day. Something along those lines. So for me, Curtis gets big points for that. It needs to be balanced against everything else he's said to and about Ravi and the other participants in this dispute, including Emily. It's barely a drop in the bucket of the retractions and apologies he still owes. And I'm glad that you're feeling better. Now, why would you say that, Share, when I never said I was feeling anything less than fine? You know, I have a lot more respect for people who come right out and say what they mean, even if it's hostile, than for those who try to disguise it, as you just did with that comment. Or perhaps you're just having a bad day. I'll take honesty and reality, even if they're ugly, over synthetic niceness any time. Which is how you sound to me in this post. Seems like your intuition may need a tune-up. Or just your common sense, maybe. I addressed you in a more cordial tone in the post you're responding to not because I hadn't been feeling well previously, but because you had said something important and intelligent that I agreed with, about DSM-IV labels (V will come out next May) not being helpful to nonprofessionals (although Richard's SCHIZO wasn't a DSM label, but a crude insult to go with the rest of his faux history of Barry--and no, the link he posted to an old discussion doesn't help his own credibility, just FYI). Hey I just remembered. You have 49 posts so you're welcome to answer this to me directly if you want. Uhhh, thanks, but no thanks. If I had wanted to communicate with you privately, I would have done that from the start. Anyway, I agree with you that different people are a different percentage of positive and negative. I find most people to be mostly positive. Say 70-90%. It doesn't surprise me that this is what you think. I'm not at all sure it serves you in contexts like FFL, though. snip Anyway, what else to say that might be beneficial at this point?  As I said before, I don't think the dumb c phrase was a death threat. Not literally, of course not. Actually the word death is not in the quote at all. Too stupid to live does suggest death, don't you think? But perhaps you missed that part of the quote. Or the other bit in the post about raunchy and me bursting into flames. Barry reposted the whole thing, though, so you should have seen both: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320412 Oh, I just
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--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... wrote: Sorry raunchy, this would have been real funny if it weren't real. Thanks for trying. Poor Ravi. He's gotten so twisted that he can't appreciate real humor. I guess if it doesn't contain a heaping dose of abusive language, it doesn't make an impression on him. Oh, well. Raunch, I thought it was pretty funny.
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@ wrote: Sorry raunchy, this would have been real funny if it weren't real. Thanks for trying. Poor Ravi. He's gotten so twisted that he can't appreciate real humor. I guess if it doesn't contain a heaping dose of abusive language, it doesn't make an impression on him. Oh, well. Raunch, I thought it was pretty funny. Actually Steve, Ravi thought the story wasn't funny because he was joking that he thought story was real. Now, *that* was funny. Anyway, thanks for the kudos.
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Dear Ravi, Thank you so much for this, for not taking sides, for good intentions, for trying to bridge a gap as it were. I can feel your kindness towards me in your words and it touches my heart. And I must admit I wish you could be as kind to everyone on FFL. I guess you're a mix like we all are. It's all right. We're all human here and doing the best we can. Share From: Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 5:08 PM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology Auntie Share - the legend of St. Judy Durga, the embodiment of honest and integrity is well known around here. FYI - we usually don't mess with her unless we are suffering from IDSD - Ignorance Deception Spectrum Disorder. She will wear us down, because for her truth is not a game of probability, there's no 70-80% truth for her, she doesn't buy that, either it's the truth or not, doesn't negotiate truth, integrity for the sake of niceness, politeness, doesn't shy away from any discomfort, pain, anxiety, fear caused by taking strong moral stands. A tough love secular saint, some say. Even you brave, intrepid nephew Ladislaw is wary of this woman. Love, Ravi On Sep 20, 2012, at 12:31 PM, Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote: Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. For example, what I said about the death wish phrase. From your overall relentlessly combative tone, I think this aim of distorting, rather than arriving at truth or harmony, is your purpose. More directly, I did not put Barry in the positive and sensible clique as you accuse me of below. OTOH, when I recall the straightforward tone of Barry calling me an idiot, I'm more likely to put him there rather than you with, what one friend of mine calls, your toxic and obfuscating nitpicking. And I'm sure Barry's happy not to be put in any clique! Perhaps I've been guilty of considered and considerate niceness, what you call synthetic, in the service of not hurting people's feelings and speaking the truth that is sweet. But you're guilty of synthetic truth seeking. In service to putting others down and attempting to win every argument. From: authfriend authfri...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 11:35 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Yes, Judy I see what you mean. In this instance I'd say you're sounding more reasonable than Curtis. Oh, but that isn't what I asked, is it? I asked if you could see the attempted deceptions in Curtis's comments on my earlier post to you. The attempts to deceive are very clear-cut and objective: I said one thing, and he pretended I had said something different. You should be able to see that and to acknowledge it. Take another look, please. I left it all in below. BUT...did you see his reply to Ravi in which he admits that he overreacted? Yes, I didn't find it terribly impressive. He didn't retract any of his accusations (false, IMHO) against Ravi, and in any case in his next post to Ravi he said he was not so sure that he'd overreacted after all. That's something I very much admire. When a person can say that maybe they got it wrong that time. Or maybe they overreacted. Or maybe they weren't thinking clearly, or maybe having a bad day. Something along those lines. So for me, Curtis gets big points for that. It needs to be balanced against everything else he's said to and about Ravi and the other participants in this dispute, including Emily. It's barely a drop in the bucket of the retractions and apologies he still owes. And I'm glad that you're feeling better. Now, why would you say that, Share, when I never said I was feeling anything less than fine? You know, I have a lot more respect for people who come right out and say what they mean, even if it's hostile, than for those who try to disguise it, as you just did with that comment. Or perhaps you're just having a bad day. I'll take honesty and reality, even if they're ugly, over synthetic niceness any time. Which is how you sound to me in this post. Seems like your intuition may need a tune-up. Or just your common sense, maybe. I addressed you in a more cordial tone in the post you're responding to not because I hadn't been feeling well previously, but because you had said something important and intelligent that I agreed with, about DSM-IV labels (V will come out next May) not being helpful to nonprofessionals (although Richard's SCHIZO wasn't a DSM label, but a crude
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Any time dear Share. Love, Ravi. On Sep 20, 2012, at 4:24 PM, Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote: Dear Ravi, Thank you so much for this, for not taking sides, for good intentions, for trying to bridge a gap as it were. I can feel your kindness towards me in your words and it touches my heart. And I must admit I wish you could be as kind to everyone on FFL. I guess you're a mix like we all are. It's all right. We're all human here and doing the best we can. Share From: Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 5:08 PM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology Auntie Share - the legend of St. Judy Durga, the embodiment of honest and integrity is well known around here. FYI - we usually don't mess with her unless we are suffering from IDSD - Ignorance Deception Spectrum Disorder. She will wear us down, because for her truth is not a game of probability, there's no 70-80% truth for her, she doesn't buy that, either it's the truth or not, doesn't negotiate truth, integrity for the sake of niceness, politeness, doesn't shy away from any discomfort, pain, anxiety, fear caused by taking strong moral stands. A tough love secular saint, some say. Even you brave, intrepid nephew Ladislaw is wary of this woman. Love, Ravi On Sep 20, 2012, at 12:31 PM, Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote: Judy, your practice of replying sentence by sentence distorts the meaning of my words and overshadows the import of my complete thought as contained in the whole paragraph. For example, what I said about the death wish phrase. From your overall relentlessly combative tone, I think this aim of distorting, rather than arriving at truth or harmony, is your purpose. More directly, I did not put Barry in the positive and sensible clique as you accuse me of below. OTOH, when I recall the straightforward tone of Barry calling me an idiot, I'm more likely to put him there rather than you with, what one friend of mine calls, your toxic and obfuscating nitpicking. And I'm sure Barry's happy not to be put in any clique! Perhaps I've been guilty of considered and considerate niceness, what you call synthetic, in the service of not hurting people's feelings and speaking the truth that is sweet. But you're guilty of synthetic truth seeking. In service to putting others down and attempting to win every argument. From: authfriend authfri...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, September 20, 2012 11:35 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Yes, Judy I see what you mean. In this instance I'd say you're sounding more reasonable than Curtis. Oh, but that isn't what I asked, is it? I asked if you could see the attempted deceptions in Curtis's comments on my earlier post to you. The attempts to deceive are very clear-cut and objective: I said one thing, and he pretended I had said something different. You should be able to see that and to acknowledge it. Take another look, please. I left it all in below. BUT...did you see his reply to Ravi in which he admits that he overreacted? Yes, I didn't find it terribly impressive. He didn't retract any of his accusations (false, IMHO) against Ravi, and in any case in his next post to Ravi he said he was not so sure that he'd overreacted after all. That's something I very much admire. When a person can say that maybe they got it wrong that time. Or maybe they overreacted. Or maybe they weren't thinking clearly, or maybe having a bad day. Something along those lines. So for me, Curtis gets big points for that. It needs to be balanced against everything else he's said to and about Ravi and the other participants in this dispute, including Emily. It's barely a drop in the bucket of the retractions and apologies he still owes. And I'm glad that you're feeling better. Now, why would you say that, Share, when I never said I was feeling anything less than fine? You know, I have a lot more respect for people who come right out and say what they mean, even if it's hostile, than for those who try to disguise it, as you just did with that comment. Or perhaps you're just having a bad day. I'll take honesty and reality, even if they're ugly, over synthetic niceness any time. Which is how you sound to me in this post. Seems like your intuition may need a tune-up. Or just your common sense, maybe. I addressed you in a more cordial tone in the post you're responding to not because I hadn't been feeling well previously, but because you had said something important and intelligent that I agreed with, about
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: You'll have to learn by experience what the positive-to- negative ratios of FFL participants are. With some of them, you may never see their negative side until you get into a dispute with them. Note the incredibly clueless assumption here -- that getting into a dispute with them is something that is going to -- or should -- happen. It doesn't, for most here. It *does*, for those who live for disputes. The same assumption -- nigh unto a presumption -- was voiced recently in response to my suggestion that the screaming of Non-sequitur! was a barrier to conver- sation. The person replying didn't even *address* the possibility that FFL could be *about* conversation. Instead, it was presumed to be a forum for debate. Some people, as strange as it may seem, *don't* live for debate, or view every occasion to interact with other human beings as an opportunity to start one. These people instead -- not being as ego-attached to their POVs and rigid, fixed ideas -- enjoy discussing them calmly with others, in more of a (dare I say it) conversation. These strange people don't feel the same compulsive need to *assert* their own POVs and ideas and declare them better or more right than those of others, and thus don't feel the same compulsive need to turn every conversation about POVs and ideas into a debate. Just sayin'... Those with a penchant for dishonesty are so clever about giving the false impression that the other side is at fault that a third party reading the posts in the dispute is unable to see how they've done it. Rght. Only Judy can. It is kind of like a magical power but she was never bitten by a spider and doesn't come from a red planet that exploded. I'm not completely convinced about her not coming from another planet :-), but I'd agree with you about not being bitten by a spider. Spiders have better taste. :-) She just declared it and ShhaaammmM! And when other people here the magic word Shazam they should just STFU and believe it thoroughly, the way she did whenever Maharishi said something. She wants to have that same level of authority, but without ever having done anything to deserve it. So just take her word for when someone is lying, she will need no evidence and you shouldn't worry your pretty little head. When it looks like she has been spinning bullshit here, it is really that you just lack her special powers. Also, Share has never had conferred upon her the Blinding Light Power Of The Presumptuous Assumption as Judy has. This is a special power given to those who uphold the High Dharma by telling other people who is lying and who is not. Such people are needed in the world because others, less evolved than Judy, are too STPID to see that people are LYING to them. Only Judy is clever enough to see that. More important, these lesser people, being so STPID and all, desperately NEED someone as devoted as Judy to save them from themselves. Being too STPID to make decisions on their own, they NEED the Judy's of this world to decide for them, and tell them who to believe, who not to believe, and who to hate. Sometimes I wonder if she believes she is addressing a room full of preschoolers. I don't wonder about this at all. Judy's whole ACT is an insult to the people she claims to be protecting. It *presumes* that they are too STPID to figure things out on their own, and make their own decisions. These STOPID people NEED her to explain to them how deviously clever these People They Should Hate are. They NEED her to tell them what to think and what to believe. Just as she NEEDED Maharishi to do the same for her. Does no one else see the incredible PRESUMPTION at the basis of Judy's whole act? She as appointed herself protector of people who Don't Need Her Protection. Because they're more than smart enough and more than capable enough of figuring things out on their own. The person who is incapable of doing this, in my considered opinion, is the person who has been repeat- ing the same hate speech about people on this forum for years, telling others over and over who to hate and what to believe, and NEVER figuring out either that they don't need her to do this, or that They're Not Listening. The more people think for themselves, the more upset Judy gets. The more they like the people she's told them to hate, the more Judy hates the people she hates, and the more she attacks those who haven't yet seen the light and joined her in hating them. And all of this without ever once having been asked to provide this service. She appointed herself as Protector. The same way that the olde members of the Inquisition did, and the same way that Maharishi did, with the people *he* told how to think, what to believe, and who to
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Barry: I've got a problem. Bartender: Yeah. Tell me about it. Barry: There's this woman... Bartender (aside): Here he goes again...another sob story about some crazy bitch named Judy. Man, this dame really gets to him. Barry: This woman is diving me crazy...haunting my every waking moment. Gimme another drink. Bartender: I hear you, Buddy. (aside) Yep. We know where this one's going. Barry: She has this creepy power over people who actually read her posts on FFLife. Bartender: (pretending interest) Uh-huh... Barry: THOSE PEOPLE...who read her posts. Do you know what happens to them? Bartender: Have another shot with your beer, Buddy. You're gunna need it. Barry: She makes THOSE PEOPLE hate me...Oh the agony, the unbearable pain...etc, etc, etc. blubber, blubber, boo hoo hoo. Two hours later.. Bartender: Time to go home, Buddy. Barry: My hair! What happened to my hair? I have no hair! Bartender: It caught on fire...spontaneous combustion. You should have seen it. You were spectacular! Never saw anything like it. Blue flames shooting out yer ass, hair on fire...quite a show, quite a show, indeed. The joint was packed. Barry: I need a drink. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: You'll have to learn by experience what the positive-to- negative ratios of FFL participants are. With some of them, you may never see their negative side until you get into a dispute with them. Note the incredibly clueless assumption here -- that getting into a dispute with them is something that is going to -- or should -- happen. It doesn't, for most here. It *does*, for those who live for disputes. The same assumption -- nigh unto a presumption -- was voiced recently in response to my suggestion that the screaming of Non-sequitur! was a barrier to conver- sation. The person replying didn't even *address* the possibility that FFL could be *about* conversation. Instead, it was presumed to be a forum for debate. Some people, as strange as it may seem, *don't* live for debate, or view every occasion to interact with other human beings as an opportunity to start one. These people instead -- not being as ego-attached to their POVs and rigid, fixed ideas -- enjoy discussing them calmly with others, in more of a (dare I say it) conversation. These strange people don't feel the same compulsive need to *assert* their own POVs and ideas and declare them better or more right than those of others, and thus don't feel the same compulsive need to turn every conversation about POVs and ideas into a debate. Just sayin'... Those with a penchant for dishonesty are so clever about giving the false impression that the other side is at fault that a third party reading the posts in the dispute is unable to see how they've done it. Rght. Only Judy can. It is kind of like a magical power but she was never bitten by a spider and doesn't come from a red planet that exploded. I'm not completely convinced about her not coming from another planet :-), but I'd agree with you about not being bitten by a spider. Spiders have better taste. :-) She just declared it and ShhaaammmM! And when other people here the magic word Shazam they should just STFU and believe it thoroughly, the way she did whenever Maharishi said something. She wants to have that same level of authority, but without ever having done anything to deserve it. So just take her word for when someone is lying, she will need no evidence and you shouldn't worry your pretty little head. When it looks like she has been spinning bullshit here, it is really that you just lack her special powers. Also, Share has never had conferred upon her the Blinding Light Power Of The Presumptuous Assumption as Judy has. This is a special power given to those who uphold the High Dharma by telling other people who is lying and who is not. Such people are needed in the world because others, less evolved than Judy, are too STPID to see that people are LYING to them. Only Judy is clever enough to see that. More important, these lesser people, being so STPID and all, desperately NEED someone as devoted as Judy to save them from themselves. Being too STPID to make decisions on their own, they NEED the Judy's of this world to decide for them, and tell them who to believe, who not to believe, and who to hate. Sometimes I wonder if she believes she is addressing a room full of preschoolers. I don't wonder about this at all. Judy's whole ACT is an insult to the people she claims to be protecting. It *presumes* that they are too STPID to figure things out on their own, and make their own decisions. These STOPID people
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Thank you and glad if it helps. Funnily enough my ex and I were just emailing about how sometimes relationships can be so simple. Of course we were also laughing about that illusion delusion. IMUnhumbleO, intimate partnerships are the post doc work for so called spiritual life. With parents and children being close runner ups. You remind me of one of my favorite Sedona Method inquiries: Can I let go and allow them to be other than what I think they are? Such a gift to others. Because I do think our long term beliefs about others has an influence on them, for good or bad. Good to see the potential good in others. And practical to have accurate vision of how much that potential is actually realized. In this moment. And overall. Sorry for lecturing. thanks again. Share From: stevelf ysoy1...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 7:13 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology Ah, but the solution is SO simple, yet perhaps temporarily thwarted by my calling attention to it : One of them has to send the other your Hawaiian guy's cool deal ; I'm sorry-- please forgive me--- Thank you--- I LOVE YOU.. BTW-- I use this thanks to you... --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Sorry, Richard but IMO Barry's not schizo. Barry is simply like the rest of us, a mix and positive and negative. Judy too. And yes it's often perplexing to me. But I rarely find it helpful to pull out DSM IV labels (not sure that's the right number) to bolster one's argument. None of us are trained therapists, right? And it's not helpful when Turq does it either. Just in case someone was going to waste a post bringing that to my attention! As for the ongoing war between him and Judy, they do seem locked into it from my perspective. At this point, with my very limited knowledge, I find them equally responsible in terms of keeping it going. What to do? I'll soldier on with compassion and reasonableness and good humor as best I can.  Bound to make mistakes. Repeating myself. Ugh!  From: Richard J. Williams richard@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 10:40 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  Share Long: This foul's on you, Turq... Brain stretching to encompass such a polarity.  Obviously, Turq is SCHIZO! Keep in mind that Turq once was a defender of MMY and TM, but he turned negative after Judy whipped Turq real good in an argument with Andrew Skolnick; the final takedown before the actual melt-down came a little later on on alt.religion.gnostic with Moogin and Kater. Ever since then, Turq got his head on screwed on spinning backwards. It's ALL about Judy. Go figure.  If Judy ever gets tired of correcting other people's homework and decides to try her hand at actually writing something, I've got the perfect gig for her: writing angry, stinging letters to Co$ critics. The back story on this is as follows. Vanity Fair is released a story about how Tom Cruise, unable to find a wife for himself who was considered suitable by the Church, arranged for numerous interview sessions so that he could try out pre-approved $cientologists as his prospective wife, while the Church interrogated them and investigated every aspect of their lives in the background. According to the article, it was a level of vetting that political candidates don't even go through. So how did the Co$ *react* to this article? Well, those who have followed their exploits know that they'll prob- ably react by siccing private detectives and smear artists on the article's author and on Graydon Carter, the publisher of VF. What they did in public was to have their lawyers send Mr. Carter a long, long, long-winded, eight-page hate letter: Article about the letter: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/17/church-of-scientology-responds-vanity-fair-tom-cruise-wife-auditioning_n_1889734.html The letter itself: http://www.scientologynews.org/sites/default/files/1-Jeff-Riffer-Re-David-Miscavige-to-Gaydon-Carter-16-Aug-2012.pdf Look it over. See if you don't think that writing such letters is a PERFECT career choice for Judy Stein. I mean, it's got all of her trademarks: * Picking nits and homing in on them to obfuscate larger issues * Trying to present the criticism as an example of religious hate crime and its authors as bigots * Posting total irrelevancies lauding David Miscavige (the leader of the Co$) to make him seem saintly while demonizing his critics * Lying outright (Miscavige has been reported as viewing videotapes of auditing
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
At the risk of 'piling on' this little vignette was priceless. Probably because it rang so true. All you left out was some bimbo trying to climb onto his lap. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@... wrote: Barry: I've got a problem. Bartender: Yeah. Tell me about it. Barry: There's this woman... Bartender (aside): Here he goes again...another sob story about some crazy bitch named Judy. Man, this dame really gets to him. Barry: This woman is diving me crazy...haunting my every waking moment. Gimme another drink. Bartender: I hear you, Buddy. (aside) Yep. We know where this one's going. Barry: She has this creepy power over people who actually read her posts on FFLife. Bartender: (pretending interest) Uh-huh... Barry: THOSE PEOPLE...who read her posts. Do you know what happens to them? Bartender: Have another shot with your beer, Buddy. You're gunna need it. Barry: She makes THOSE PEOPLE hate me...Oh the agony, the unbearable pain...etc, etc, etc. blubber, blubber, boo hoo hoo. Two hours later.. Bartender: Time to go home, Buddy. Barry: My hair! What happened to my hair? I have no hair! Bartender: It caught on fire...spontaneous combustion. You should have seen it. You were spectacular! Never saw anything like it. Blue flames shooting out yer ass, hair on fire...quite a show, quite a show, indeed. The joint was packed. Barry: I need a drink. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: You'll have to learn by experience what the positive-to- negative ratios of FFL participants are. With some of them, you may never see their negative side until you get into a dispute with them. Note the incredibly clueless assumption here -- that getting into a dispute with them is something that is going to -- or should -- happen. It doesn't, for most here. It *does*, for those who live for disputes. The same assumption -- nigh unto a presumption -- was voiced recently in response to my suggestion that the screaming of Non-sequitur! was a barrier to conver- sation. The person replying didn't even *address* the possibility that FFL could be *about* conversation. Instead, it was presumed to be a forum for debate. Some people, as strange as it may seem, *don't* live for debate, or view every occasion to interact with other human beings as an opportunity to start one. These people instead -- not being as ego-attached to their POVs and rigid, fixed ideas -- enjoy discussing them calmly with others, in more of a (dare I say it) conversation. These strange people don't feel the same compulsive need to *assert* their own POVs and ideas and declare them better or more right than those of others, and thus don't feel the same compulsive need to turn every conversation about POVs and ideas into a debate. Just sayin'... Those with a penchant for dishonesty are so clever about giving the false impression that the other side is at fault that a third party reading the posts in the dispute is unable to see how they've done it. Rght. Only Judy can. It is kind of like a magical power but she was never bitten by a spider and doesn't come from a red planet that exploded. I'm not completely convinced about her not coming from another planet :-), but I'd agree with you about not being bitten by a spider. Spiders have better taste. :-) She just declared it and ShhaaammmM! And when other people here the magic word Shazam they should just STFU and believe it thoroughly, the way she did whenever Maharishi said something. She wants to have that same level of authority, but without ever having done anything to deserve it. So just take her word for when someone is lying, she will need no evidence and you shouldn't worry your pretty little head. When it looks like she has been spinning bullshit here, it is really that you just lack her special powers. Also, Share has never had conferred upon her the Blinding Light Power Of The Presumptuous Assumption as Judy has. This is a special power given to those who uphold the High Dharma by telling other people who is lying and who is not. Such people are needed in the world because others, less evolved than Judy, are too STPID to see that people are LYING to them. Only Judy is clever enough to see that. More important, these lesser people, being so STPID and all, desperately NEED someone as devoted as Judy to save them from themselves. Being too STPID to make decisions on their own, they NEED the Judy's of this world to decide for them, and tell them who to believe, who not to believe, and
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Thank you and glad if it helps. Funnily enough my ex and I were just emailing about how sometimes relationships can be so simple. Of course we were also laughing about that illusion delusion. IMUnhumbleO, intimate partnerships are the post doc work for so called spiritual life. With parents and children being close runner ups. You remind me of one of my favorite Sedona Method inquiries: Can I let go and allow them to be other than what I think they are? Such a gift to others. Because I do think our long term beliefs about others has an influence on them, for good or bad. Good to see the potential good in others. And practical to have accurate vision of how much that potential is actually realized. In this moment. And overall. Sorry for lecturing. thanks again. Share From: stevelf ysoy10li@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 7:13 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  Ah, but the solution is SO simple, yet perhaps temporarily thwarted by my calling attention to it : One of them has to send the other your Hawaiian guy's cool deal ; I'm sorry-- please forgive me--- Thank you--- I LOVE YOU.. BTW-- I use this thanks to you... --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Sorry, Richard but IMO Barry's not schizo.àBarry is simply like the rest of us, a mix and positive and negative.àJudy too.àAnd yes it's often perplexing to me.àBut I rarely find it helpful to pull out DSM IV labels (not sure that's the right number) to bolster one's argument.àNone of us are trained therapists, right?àAnd it's not helpful when Turq does it either.àJust in case someone was going to waste a post bringing that to my attention! As for the ongoing war between him and Judy, they do seem locked into it from my perspective.àAt this point, with my very limited knowledge, I find them equally responsible in terms of keeping it going.àWhat to do? I'll soldier on with compassion and reasonableness and good humor as best I can. àBound to make mistakes.àRepeating myself.àUgh! àFrom: Richard J. Williams richard@ To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 10:40 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology àShare Long: This foul's on you, Turq...ÃâàBrain stretching to encompass such a polarity. àObviously, Turq is SCHIZO! Keep in mind that Turq once was a defender of MMY and TM, but he turned negative after Judy whipped Turq real good in an argument with Andrew Skolnick; the final takedown before the actual melt-down came a little later on on alt.religion.gnostic with Moogin and Kater. Ever since then, Turq got his head on screwed on spinning backwards. It's ALL about Judy. Go figure. àIf Judy ever gets tired of correcting other people's homework and decides to try her hand at actually writing something, I've got the perfect gig for her: writing angry, stinging letters to Co$ critics. The back story on this is as follows. Vanity Fair is released a story about how Tom Cruise, unable to find a wife for himself who was considered suitable by the Church, arranged for numerous interview sessions so that he could try out pre-approved $cientologists as his prospective wife, while the Church interrogated them and investigated every aspect of their lives in the background. According to the article, it was a level of vetting that political candidates don't even go through. So how did the Co$ *react* to this article? Well, those who have followed their exploits know that they'll prob- ably react by siccing private detectives and smear artists on the article's author and on Graydon Carter, the publisher of VF. What they did in public was to have their lawyers send Mr. Carter a long, long, long-winded, eight-page hate letter: Article about the letter: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/17/church-of-scientology-responds-vanity-fair-tom-cruise-wife-auditioning_n_1889734.html The letter itself: http://www.scientologynews.org/sites/default/files/1-Jeff-Riffer-Re-David-Miscavige-to-Gaydon-Carter-16-Aug-2012.pdf Look it over. See if you don't think that writing such letters is a PERFECT career choice for Judy Stein. I mean, it's got all of her trademarks: * Picking nits and homing in on them to obfuscate larger issues * Trying to present the criticism as an example of religious hate crime and its authors
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Thank you and glad if it helps. Funnily enough my ex and I were just emailing about how sometimes relationships can be so simple. Of course we were also laughing about that illusion delusion. IMUnhumbleO, intimate partnerships are the post doc work for so called spiritual life. With parents and children being close runner ups. You remind me of one of my favorite Sedona Method inquiries: Can I let go and allow them to be other than what I think they are? Such a gift to others. Because I do think our long term beliefs about others has an influence on them, for good or bad. In all seriousness Share, I would love to see a list of all of the techniques and different mental, physical and spiritual practices you engage in currently or have used in the past. Nearly every time you post you mention another one! I can't keep up and I have heard of only two - TM and jyotish. But you have mentioned at least 6 others including my personal favourite Quantum Light Weaving. While I've been out trying to make a living and improve my riding skills you have had the opportunity to engage in far less mundane activities your whole life. What am I missing? (That's partly what I meant about you being horrified living my life for a week.) Good to see the potential good in others. And practical to have accurate vision of how much that potential is actually realized. In this moment. And overall. Sorry for lecturing. thanks again. Share From: stevelf ysoy10li@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 7:13 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  Ah, but the solution is SO simple, yet perhaps temporarily thwarted by my calling attention to it : One of them has to send the other your Hawaiian guy's cool deal ; I'm sorry-- please forgive me--- Thank you--- I LOVE YOU.. BTW-- I use this thanks to you... --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Sorry, Richard but IMO Barry's not schizo.àBarry is simply like the rest of us, a mix and positive and negative.àJudy too.àAnd yes it's often perplexing to me.àBut I rarely find it helpful to pull out DSM IV labels (not sure that's the right number) to bolster one's argument.àNone of us are trained therapists, right?àAnd it's not helpful when Turq does it either.àJust in case someone was going to waste a post bringing that to my attention! As for the ongoing war between him and Judy, they do seem locked into it from my perspective.àAt this point, with my very limited knowledge, I find them equally responsible in terms of keeping it going.àWhat to do? I'll soldier on with compassion and reasonableness and good humor as best I can. àBound to make mistakes.àRepeating myself.àUgh! àFrom: Richard J. Williams richard@ To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 10:40 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology àShare Long: This foul's on you, Turq...ÃâàBrain stretching to encompass such a polarity. àObviously, Turq is SCHIZO! Keep in mind that Turq once was a defender of MMY and TM, but he turned negative after Judy whipped Turq real good in an argument with Andrew Skolnick; the final takedown before the actual melt-down came a little later on on alt.religion.gnostic with Moogin and Kater. Ever since then, Turq got his head on screwed on spinning backwards. It's ALL about Judy. Go figure. àIf Judy ever gets tired of correcting other people's homework and decides to try her hand at actually writing something, I've got the perfect gig for her: writing angry, stinging letters to Co$ critics. The back story on this is as follows. Vanity Fair is released a story about how Tom Cruise, unable to find a wife for himself who was considered suitable by the Church, arranged for numerous interview sessions so that he could try out pre-approved $cientologists as his prospective wife, while the Church interrogated them and investigated every aspect of their lives in the background. According to the article, it was a level of vetting that political candidates don't even go through. So how did the Co$ *react* to this article? Well, those who have followed their exploits know that they'll prob- ably react by siccing private detectives and smear artists on the article's author and on Graydon Carter, the publisher of VF. What they did in public was to have their lawyers send Mr. Carter a long, long, long-winded
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Yes, Judy I see what you mean. In this instance I'd say you're sounding more reasonable than Curtis. BUT...did you see his reply to Ravi in which he admits that he overreacted? That's something I very much admire. When a person can say that maybe they got it wrong that time. Or maybe they overreacted. Or maybe they weren't thinking clearly, or maybe having a bad day. Something along those lines. So for me, Curtis gets big points for that. And I'm glad that you're feeling better. Which is how you sound to me in this post. Hey I just remembered. You have 49 posts so you're welcome to answer this to me directly if you want. Anyway, I agree with you that different people are a different percentage of positive and negative. I find most people to be mostly positive. Say 70-90%. And most of us can and do fluctuate from day to day or situation to situation. Heck I've even seen posters fluctuate from positive to very negative within 1 paragraph of a post! If I did that I'd figure I ate too much sugar. But probably what puts someone over the top is different for different peeps. Laughing because I was typing away and looked at screen and I had typed poops instead of peeps in last sentence above. You gotta love Freud and his whole Freudian slip thingie (-: Anyway, what else to say that might be beneficial at this point? As I said before, I don't think the dumb c phrase was a death threat. Actually the word death is not in the quote at all. Nonetheless it comes across sounding like a death wish. So still extreme vicious. Easy for me to suggest forgive and forget. But can't help but wonder what would happen if you did. Have not checked archives to see Curtis part in all that. Probably won't. Have to go out of town today. 1 hour drive each way. What else? I still think piling on does not help matters that are essentially private and emotional. Like the conflict between me and Robin. Which is actually what lead to conflict between Robin and Curtis. Which lead to Sal comment, which lead to Emily email to you, which lead to...yep, these things seem to take on a life of their own. Lastly, I will continue to not choose sides but rather take each situation, each post on its own merit. While maintaining some compassionate memory of a history I've only glimpsed. Best I can do for now. Share From: authfriend authfri...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 6:26 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology Share, can you see the attempted deceptions in Curtis's response? Read what I wrote carefully, then read what Curtis wrote, then read the numbered paragraphs I added. See which of us you think is telling the truth about what I said to you. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: You'll have to learn by experience what the positive-to- negative ratios of FFL participants are. With some of them, you may never see their negative side until you get into a dispute with them. Those with a penchant for dishonesty are so clever about giving the false impression that the other side is at fault that a third party reading the posts in the dispute is unable to see how they've done it. Rght. Only Judy can. 1. What I said was that only those people who have disputes with such folks are likely to see their negative side. There are at least six people currently posting to FFL who have had disputes with Curtis, for example. All of them have seen his negative side and have testified to it. Many of those who have *not* had disputes with Curtis, in contrast, think of him as Mr. Wonderful. It is kind of like a magical power but she was never bitten by a spidera and doesn't come from a red planet that exploded. She just declared it and ShhaaammmM! 2. Not magic at all. Again, as I said, it's a function of getting into a dispute with such people. It's very hard for a third party to tell when one's context is being twisted or erased, but one can see it quite clearly oneself. So just take her word for when someone is lying, she will need no evidence and you shouldn't worry your pretty little head. 3. What I told Share was that she would have to learn from experience, not that she should take my word for it. When it looks like she has been spinning bullshit here, it is really that you just lack her special powers. I don't spin bullshit. I don't have to. Curtis had to, as his post demonstrates. Sometimes I wonder if she believes she is addressing a room full of preschoolers. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Sorry, Richard but IMO Barry's not schizo. Barry is simply like the rest
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Sorry, Richard but IMO Barry's not schizo... authfriend: ...don't believe everything you read here. Not only is Barry not schizo, the rest of Richard's description of him is not accurate either. Here's the thread so Share can read it and judge for herself how Turq got beatup by Moogin and Judy. Not only did Turq get beat up by Judy, Moogin beat up Turq's defense of TMer 'transcendence creation' theory! LoL! Subject: Emperor's New Clothes Newsgroups: alt.religion.gnostic Date: 2003-10-17 05:35:21 PST http://tinyurl.com/95drxtz Uncle Tantra: I don't believe that there is anything in the universe called truth. Moogin: Then you said, The only 'perspective' that would be valid to judge creation would have to transcend creation, you were just offering one of your beliefs, not -- despite appearances -- a claim about the truth of things concerning the universe. -- Moggin to e-mail, remove the thorn
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Isn't it nice? I mean doesn't it make an enormous difference when Judy takes on a more conciliatory tone. It does for me. She had me won over. Curtis didn't buy the more conciliatory tone. That's certainly his right. He sort of tore it apart. But perhaps like you, Judy in that fashion was someone that I know I would enjoy talking with. I don't think she respects me much however, but that's okay too. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Yes, Judy I see what you mean. In this instance I'd say you're sounding more reasonable than Curtis. BUT...did you see his reply to Ravi in which he admits that he overreacted? That's something I very much admire. When a person can say that maybe they got it wrong that time. Or maybe they overreacted. Or maybe they weren't thinking clearly, or maybe having a bad day. Something along those lines. So for me, Curtis gets big points for that. And I'm glad that you're feeling better. Which is how you sound to me in this post. Hey I just remembered. You have 49 posts so you're welcome to answer this to me directly if you want. Anyway, I agree with you that different people are a different percentage of positive and negative. I find most people to be mostly positive. Say 70-90%. And most of us can and do fluctuate from day to day or situation to situation. Heck I've even seen posters fluctuate from positive to very negative within 1 paragraph of a post! If I did that I'd figure I ate too much sugar. But probably what puts someone over the top is different for different peeps. Laughing because I was typing away and looked at screen and I had typed poops instead of peeps in last sentence above. You gotta love Freud and his whole Freudian slip thingie (-: Anyway, what else to say that might be beneficial at this point? As I said before, I don't think the dumb c phrase was a death threat. Actually the word death is not in the quote at all. Nonetheless it comes across sounding like a death wish. So still extreme vicious. Easy for me to suggest forgive and forget. But can't help but wonder what would happen if you did. Have not checked archives to see Curtis part in all that. Probably won't. Have to go out of town today. 1 hour drive each way. What else? I still think piling on does not help matters that are essentially private and emotional. Like the conflict between me and Robin. Which is actually what lead to conflict between Robin and Curtis. Which lead to Sal comment, which lead to Emily email to you, which lead to...yep, these things seem to take on a life of their own. Lastly, I will continue to not choose sides but rather take each situation, each post on its own merit. While maintaining some compassionate memory of a history I've only glimpsed. Best I can do for now. Share From: authfriend authfriend@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 6:26 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  Share, can you see the attempted deceptions in Curtis's response? Read what I wrote carefully, then read what Curtis wrote, then read the numbered paragraphs I added. See which of us you think is telling the truth about what I said to you. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: You'll have to learn by experience what the positive-to- negative ratios of FFL participants are. With some of them, you may never see their negative side until you get into a dispute with them. Those with a penchant for dishonesty are so clever about giving the false impression that the other side is at fault that a third party reading the posts in the dispute is unable to see how they've done it. Rght. Only Judy can. 1. What I said was that only those people who have disputes with such folks are likely to see their negative side. There are at least six people currently posting to FFL who have had disputes with Curtis, for example. All of them have seen his negative side and have testified to it. Many of those who have *not* had disputes with Curtis, in contrast, think of him as Mr. Wonderful. It is kind of like a magical power but she was never bitten by a spidera and doesn't come from a red planet that exploded. She just declared it and ShhaaammmM! 2. Not magic at all. Again, as I said, it's a function of getting into a dispute with such people. It's very hard for a third party to tell when one's context is being twisted or erased, but one can see it quite clearly oneself. So just take her word for when someone is lying, she will need no evidence and you shouldn't worry your pretty little head. 3. What I told Share was that she would have
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Something that happened almost 9 years ago?! Nope, not interested. Someone getting beat up by someone else. Definitely not interested. From: Richard J. Williams rich...@rwilliams.us To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, September 19, 2012 10:57 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology Sorry, Richard but IMO Barry's not schizo... authfriend: ...don't believe everything you read here. Not only is Barry not schizo, the rest of Richard's description of him is not accurate either. Here's the thread so Share can read it and judge for herself how Turq got beatup by Moogin and Judy. Not only did Turq get beat up by Judy, Moogin beat up Turq's defense of TMer 'transcendence creation' theory! LoL! Subject: Emperor's New Clothes Newsgroups: alt.religion.gnostic Date: 2003-10-17 05:35:21 PST http://tinyurl.com/95drxtz Uncle Tantra: I don't believe that there is anything in the universe called truth. Moogin: Then you said, The only 'perspective' that would be valid to judge creation would have to transcend creation, you were just offering one of your beliefs, not -- despite appearances -- a claim about the truth of things concerning the universe. -- Moggin to e-mail, remove the thorn
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Something that happened almost 9 years ago?! Nope, not interested. Someone getting beat up by someone else. Definitely not interested. Figuratively speaking I believe. It seems there were no bloody noses or cauliflower ears resulting from the verbal tussle. But, again, I could be wrong. I have been once or twice before. (By the way, I hope you didn't mind me posting the blurb on QLW, it was a straight quote right off the website. I was actually really curious about what it could be, I dated a quantum physicist once and was wondering if it involved any real physics. I am still not sure. But I do know that boyfriend and I had some physics going on at the time. Curtis knew him, they played music together.) From: Richard J. Williams richard@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, September 19, 2012 10:57 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology  Sorry, Richard but IMO Barry's not schizo... authfriend: ...don't believe everything you read here. Not only is Barry not schizo, the rest of Richard's description of him is not accurate either. Here's the thread so Share can read it and judge for herself how Turq got beatup by Moogin and Judy. Not only did Turq get beat up by Judy, Moogin beat up Turq's defense of TMer 'transcendence creation' theory! LoL! Subject: Emperor's New Clothes Newsgroups: alt.religion.gnostic Date: 2003-10-17 05:35:21 PST http://tinyurl.com/95drxtz Uncle Tantra: I don't believe that there is anything in the universe called truth. Moogin: Then you said, The only 'perspective' that would be valid to judge creation would have to transcend creation, you were just offering one of your beliefs, not -- despite appearances -- a claim about the truth of things concerning the universe. -- Moggin to e-mail, remove the thorn
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@... wrote: At the risk of 'piling on' this little vignette was priceless. Probably because it rang so true. All you left out was some bimbo trying to climb onto his lap. Hold the applause, Ann. You're only encouraging me. I can't...no I mustn't...Help! Somebody STOP ME! Oh alright. Scene: Leiden, Holland, 2:00 am. Two Dutch grifters discuss their recent mark. Guy: Hey, what's in his wallet? Gal: ID, Barry Wright, two bucks and a condom...expiration date, August 18, 1969. Guy: Sonofabitch, the last time that old geezer got laid was at Woodstock! Gal: Thought so...probably explains the tie-dyed boxer shorts. Guy: Did you get those too? Gal: Yep, trophy for my easy mark collection. Guy: Two bucks? Hardly worth the trouble of letting him feel your ass. Gal: My ass, his shorts, win, win. Meanwhile, alone in a fleabag hotel, passed out cold, handcuffed to a chair and stripped naked except for a Jerry Garcia tie* gracefully covering his privates. Barry slowly regains consciousness, muttering, win, win...win, win. Barry: What a night! Can't wait to write about it. *Jerry Garcia tie: Barry's most prized possession. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote: Barry: I've got a problem. Bartender: Yeah. Tell me about it. Barry: There's this woman... Bartender (aside): Here he goes again...another sob story about some crazy bitch named Judy. Man, this dame really gets to him. Barry: This woman is diving me crazy...haunting my every waking moment. Gimme another drink. Bartender: I hear you, Buddy. (aside) Yep. We know where this one's going. Barry: She has this creepy power over people who actually read her posts on FFLife. Bartender: (pretending interest) Uh-huh... Barry: THOSE PEOPLE...who read her posts. Do you know what happens to them? Bartender: Have another shot with your beer, Buddy. You're gunna need it. Barry: She makes THOSE PEOPLE hate me...Oh the agony, the unbearable pain...etc, etc, etc. blubber, blubber, boo hoo hoo. Two hours later.. Bartender: Time to go home, Buddy. Barry: My hair! What happened to my hair? I have no hair! Bartender: It caught on fire...spontaneous combustion. You should have seen it. You were spectacular! Never saw anything like it. Blue flames shooting out yer ass, hair on fire...quite a show, quite a show, indeed. The joint was packed. Barry: I need a drink. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: You'll have to learn by experience what the positive-to- negative ratios of FFL participants are. With some of them, you may never see their negative side until you get into a dispute with them. Note the incredibly clueless assumption here -- that getting into a dispute with them is something that is going to -- or should -- happen. It doesn't, for most here. It *does*, for those who live for disputes. The same assumption -- nigh unto a presumption -- was voiced recently in response to my suggestion that the screaming of Non-sequitur! was a barrier to conver- sation. The person replying didn't even *address* the possibility that FFL could be *about* conversation. Instead, it was presumed to be a forum for debate. Some people, as strange as it may seem, *don't* live for debate, or view every occasion to interact with other human beings as an opportunity to start one. These people instead -- not being as ego-attached to their POVs and rigid, fixed ideas -- enjoy discussing them calmly with others, in more of a (dare I say it) conversation. These strange people don't feel the same compulsive need to *assert* their own POVs and ideas and declare them better or more right than those of others, and thus don't feel the same compulsive need to turn every conversation about POVs and ideas into a debate. Just sayin'... Those with a penchant for dishonesty are so clever about giving the false impression that the other side is at fault that a third party reading the posts in the dispute is unable to see how they've done it. Rght. Only Judy can. It is kind of like a magical power but she was never bitten by a spider and doesn't come from a red planet that exploded. I'm not completely convinced about her not coming from another planet :-), but I'd agree with you about not being bitten by a spider. Spiders have better taste. :-) She just declared it and ShhaaammmM! And when other people here the magic word Shazam they should just STFU and believe it thoroughly, the way she did whenever
[FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Share Long: This foul's on you, Turq... Brain stretching to encompass such a polarity. Obviously, Turq is SCHIZO! Keep in mind that Turq once was a defender of MMY and TM, but he turned negative after Judy whipped Turq real good in an argument with Andrew Skolnick; the final takedown before the actual melt-down came a little later on on alt.religion.gnostic with Moogin and Kater. Ever since then, Turq got his head on screwed on spinning backwards. It's ALL about Judy. Go figure. If Judy ever gets tired of correcting other people's homework and decides to try her hand at actually writing something, I've got the perfect gig for her: writing angry, stinging letters to Co$ critics. The back story on this is as follows. Vanity Fair is released a story about how Tom Cruise, unable to find a wife for himself who was considered suitable by the Church, arranged for numerous interview sessions so that he could try out pre-approved $cientologists as his prospective wife, while the Church interrogated them and investigated every aspect of their lives in the background. According to the article, it was a level of vetting that political candidates don't even go through. So how did the Co$ *react* to this article? Well, those who have followed their exploits know that they'll prob- ably react by siccing private detectives and smear artists on the article's author and on Graydon Carter, the publisher of VF. What they did in public was to have their lawyers send Mr. Carter a long, long, long-winded, eight-page hate letter: Article about the letter: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/17/church-of-scientology-responds-vanity-fair-tom-cruise-wife-auditioning_n_1889734.html The letter itself: http://www.scientologynews.org/sites/default/files/1-Jeff-Riffer-Re-David-Miscavige-to-Gaydon-Carter-16-Aug-2012.pdf Look it over. See if you don't think that writing such letters is a PERFECT career choice for Judy Stein. I mean, it's got all of her trademarks: * Picking nits and homing in on them to obfuscate larger issues * Trying to present the criticism as an example of religious hate crime and its authors as bigots * Posting total irrelevancies lauding David Miscavige (the leader of the Co$) to make him seem saintly while demonizing his critics * Lying outright (Miscavige has been reported as viewing videotapes of auditing sessions and using them for blackmail purposes *in court*, despite what this letter says) * Pretending that the critics don't really believe what they are saying but are lying and saying it to be malicious * Appealing to a derogatory history of the critics that is made up * Portraying the author's sources in not just a derogatory fashion but a libelous one, trying to portray them as liars * Making threats * Ignoring the actual question of whether the Church tried to be a matchmaker for Tom Cruise to find him a wife who was suitable for them, focusing only on Kill the messenger This letter follows almost all of the guidelines I posted (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/318903) the other day from L. Ron Hubbard on how to deal with critics. It also follows the Judy Stein Playbook, using the same tactics she uses here every week to demonize critics of TM, the TMO, and Maharishi. That's why I think writing for the Church of $cientology might be a great career choice for her. She certainly has the training for it, and who knows... writing for them she might accomplish what she has not here, and find some people who buy her act.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology
Sorry, Richard but IMO Barry's not schizo. Barry is simply like the rest of us, a mix and positive and negative. Judy too. And yes it's often perplexing to me. But I rarely find it helpful to pull out DSM IV labels (not sure that's the right number) to bolster one's argument. None of us are trained therapists, right? And it's not helpful when Turq does it either. Just in case someone was going to waste a post bringing that to my attention! As for the ongoing war between him and Judy, they do seem locked into it from my perspective. At this point, with my very limited knowledge, I find them equally responsible in terms of keeping it going. What to do? I'll soldier on with compassion and reasonableness and good humor as best I can. Bound to make mistakes. Repeating myself. Ugh! From: Richard J. Williams rich...@rwilliams.us To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 10:40 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Perfect gig for Judy Stein -- writing for the Church of $cientology Share Long: This foul's on you, Turq... Brain stretching to encompass such a polarity. Obviously, Turq is SCHIZO! Keep in mind that Turq once was a defender of MMY and TM, but he turned negative after Judy whipped Turq real good in an argument with Andrew Skolnick; the final takedown before the actual melt-down came a little later on on alt.religion.gnostic with Moogin and Kater. Ever since then, Turq got his head on screwed on spinning backwards. It's ALL about Judy. Go figure. If Judy ever gets tired of correcting other people's homework and decides to try her hand at actually writing something, I've got the perfect gig for her: writing angry, stinging letters to Co$ critics. The back story on this is as follows. Vanity Fair is released a story about how Tom Cruise, unable to find a wife for himself who was considered suitable by the Church, arranged for numerous interview sessions so that he could try out pre-approved $cientologists as his prospective wife, while the Church interrogated them and investigated every aspect of their lives in the background. According to the article, it was a level of vetting that political candidates don't even go through. So how did the Co$ *react* to this article? Well, those who have followed their exploits know that they'll prob- ably react by siccing private detectives and smear artists on the article's author and on Graydon Carter, the publisher of VF. What they did in public was to have their lawyers send Mr. Carter a long, long, long-winded, eight-page hate letter: Article about the letter: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/17/church-of-scientology-responds-vanity-fair-tom-cruise-wife-auditioning_n_1889734.html The letter itself: http://www.scientologynews.org/sites/default/files/1-Jeff-Riffer-Re-David-Miscavige-to-Gaydon-Carter-16-Aug-2012.pdf Look it over. See if you don't think that writing such letters is a PERFECT career choice for Judy Stein. I mean, it's got all of her trademarks: * Picking nits and homing in on them to obfuscate larger issues * Trying to present the criticism as an example of religious hate crime and its authors as bigots * Posting total irrelevancies lauding David Miscavige (the leader of the Co$) to make him seem saintly while demonizing his critics * Lying outright (Miscavige has been reported as viewing videotapes of auditing sessions and using them for blackmail purposes *in court*, despite what this letter says) * Pretending that the critics don't really believe what they are saying but are lying and saying it to be malicious * Appealing to a derogatory history of the critics that is made up * Portraying the author's sources in not just a derogatory fashion but a libelous one, trying to portray them as liars * Making threats * Ignoring the actual question of whether the Church tried to be a matchmaker for Tom Cruise to find him a wife who was suitable for them, focusing only on Kill the messenger This letter follows almost all of the guidelines I posted (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/318903) the other day from L. Ron Hubbard on how to deal with critics. It also follows the Judy Stein Playbook, using the same tactics she uses here every week to demonize critics of TM, the TMO, and Maharishi. That's why I think writing for the Church of $cientology might be a great career choice for her. She certainly has the training for it, and who knows... writing for them she might accomplish what she has not here, and find some people who buy her act.