Re: [Felvtalk] Cats not getting along

2010-12-20 Thread Lorrie
Laura, I feel for you I had one like that! He tore up all my other cats, and it got so bad I had to keep him in one section of our house. He was about two when we rescued him and we had to do this for ten years until he finally got so old he decided he'd rather sleep than fight! Lorrie

Re: [Felvtalk] Cats not getting along

2010-12-20 Thread Lorrie
Natalie, I'd like to hear about your method of introductions. and I'd love to know how many cats you have. I assume you must rescue too. I have what I think is an excellent set up here. I have an entire little guest cottage attached to our house that has never housed guests other than cats :-) I

Re: [Felvtalk] Cats not getting along

2010-12-20 Thread Heather
My bf and I care for over 20 feral cat colonies a day (around 143 cats) and what I see in the colonies is much more peaceful than what is going on in my packed condo. I do see some scuffles perhaps at larger colonies or those in problematic spots, but most cohabitate pretty well though their

Re: [Felvtalk] Cats not getting along

2010-12-20 Thread Natalie
Yes, rescue group since 1992. I have over 70 cats - in our house. Huge garage, built condos there, and they have outdoor enclosures for warmer weather. I use full-spectrum lights and no one has been sick in years (unless they come in with something). I put two large cages together, door to door,

Re: [Felvtalk] Cats not getting along

2010-12-20 Thread LauraM
Thank you, Dana, I will try this. I'm desperate and Blizzard is a good cat, I just can't understand why he is the way he is.   ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org

Re: [Felvtalk] Cats not getting along

2010-12-20 Thread Sally Davis
Right now there are five cats on my bed and it can be up to 7 maybe even 8. That is not to say they don't hiss at each other. Once settled they look like angel kitties.Mine arrived at different times as well. The hardest one to adjust is Daisy. She lost her BEST BUD during the feline leukemia

Re: [Felvtalk] Cats not getting along

2010-12-20 Thread POTT, BEVERLY
There's a book by a Dr. Nicholas Dodman called The Cat Who Cried For Help that has a chapter on feline aggression- it may not be the absolute answer for Blizzard (or others), but it is informative and it may help... :-) http://www.randomhouse.com/catalog/display.pperl/9780553378542.html

Re: [Felvtalk] Rescue work

2010-12-20 Thread Lorrie
Wow, Natalie, that is impressive. You definitely have a lot more cats than we have. I'd take in more if my hubby and I weren't so ancient (77 and 88) but I'm afraid when we die we'll leave a bunch of orphans. It's a constant worry, and we have no rescue group to help.. We're it! No, I

Re: [Felvtalk] Cats not getting along

2010-12-20 Thread Lorrie
Good for you with 10 cats. It's nice to know there are many of us who either rescue or have ended up with lots of cats. Lorrie On 12-20, Sally Davis wrote: Right now there are five cats on my bed and it can be up to 7 maybe even 8. That is not to say they don't hiss at each other. Once

Re: [Felvtalk] Rescue work

2010-12-20 Thread MaiMaiPG
Consider providing for them in your will. I had a lawyer draw up one leaving everything in trust for the care of my guys. On Dec 20, 2010, at 2:55 PM, Lorrie wrote: Wow, Natalie, that is impressive. You definitely have a lot more cats than we have. I'd take in more if my hubby and I

Re: [Felvtalk] Rescue work

2010-12-20 Thread Natalie
YES, we have provided for them, and I want someone to continue the work...am actively assessing younger people who work here, how they interact with cats, reliability, etc. I still have a few good years in me..unless I'm hit by a bus tomorrowNatalie -Original Message- From:

Re: [Felvtalk] Cats not getting along

2010-12-20 Thread Natalie
There is something about that magic number of 8 cats that I've been hearing about for so longwhen you have 8 cats, one is bound to pee where it shouldn't! -Original Message- From: felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org [mailto:felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org] On Behalf Of Sally Davis

Re: [Felvtalk] Cats not getting along

2010-12-20 Thread Natalie
That's an excellent book - one of the best. He tells it like it is! I highly recommend it - Natalie -Original Message- From: felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org [mailto:felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org] On Behalf Of POTT, BEVERLY Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 1:19 PM To:

Re: [Felvtalk] Rescue work

2010-12-20 Thread Laurieskatz
I have a trust for my cats and a guardian and successor guardian identified. Very important. We just helped find homes for 5 cats and 2 dogs when their 50 year old guardian/owner died unexpectedly. HASSLE. The animals were in TN and those helping were in IA and CO. She had lots of money and could

Re: [Felvtalk] Rescue work

2010-12-20 Thread MaiMaiPG
It is amazing how many people don't bother to provide but trust friends, family, whomever to take care of their little friends...that is why so many go to the pound, are killed, or.. On Dec 20, 2010, at 5:29 PM, Natalie wrote: YES, we have provided for them, and I want

Re: [Felvtalk] Cats not getting along

2010-12-20 Thread Sally Davis
Daisy started marking when she came in heat. She had an appt for spaying. It was at a low cost clinic so I could not get an earlier date. That was the first of many times she peed on my headboard. Nothing like waking up to that., Oh and yes she has very strong scented pee. It has actually gotten