TonyaI am so sorry. You have been through so much. Please
don't blame yourself. Both of these babies at least got to leave this
world loved cared for. Both Grayson his brother know
that.Take care.
Yvonne
Tonya dearest, someone else said it already I think, but from
everything I know about you from our beloved list, the only thing you personally
could ever smother a cat with is pure unadulterated love. I could imagine many
of us including myself reacting in grief the way you are
I add my prayers for your emotional healing and gratitude for what you did for Grayson and his brother.Ginacatatonya [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:I just woke and Grayson was dead. I think I smothered him. I think 2:30 was the last time he woke me up to be fed. I had him up by my neck but
Oh Honey, don't say that. You didn't kill Grayson. You didn't wake up
on top of him, you woke up with him lower on your body and you moved him
back up. There's no way you could possibly know he stopped breathing
because you suffocated him, or because he simply stopped breathing.
Even if
Tonya please don't say that you killed him,you did so much more for him than than anyone could have.catatonya [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:I just woke and Grayson was dead. I think I smothered him. I think 2:30 was the last time he woke me up to be fed. I had him up by my neck but remember finding
Oh Tonya,
I'm so sorry Grayson has gone to be with his brother.
Kittens are so very fragile sometimes. I'm sure he's
being cared for now by Brenda and all our other angels.
Kat (Mew Jersey)
On Tue, 18 Jul 2006, catatonya wrote:
Date: Tue, 18 Jul 2006 02:58:42 -0700 (PDT)
From: catatonya
Tonya, kittens that young just die sometimes. You have no idea why he died.
When I was young we tried to save a baby rabbit who had been pulled from the
nest by a dog, uninjured; we bottle fed him, kept him warm, etc. and he seemed
fine for 3 days. Then when my mom went to feed him in the
Grayson left this world because it was his time to
leave. He left loved and cared for, not abandoned or gassed or cold or
frightened. In all likelihood he simply left in his sleep. You gave
him the ability to leave this world by giving him comfort. It takes energy
to leave. He needed to and
You didn't kill him. Kittens die suddenly despite our best efforts
and there is nothing we can do. He died knowing he was loved. That
makes a difference.
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From: catatonya [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Date: Tuesday, July 18, 2006 4:59 am
Subject: I killed Grayson
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Tonya,
In no way did you do anything to harm sweet little Grayson. He had
surely already passed when you woke up and found him lower and like Nina
said you weren't smothering him in any way.
His mission in this life was short, to come in, know despair, then
amazing love and caring
, July 18, 2006 6:17 AM
Subject: Re: I killed Grayson
Oh Honey, don't say that. You didn't kill Grayson. You didn't wake up
on top of him, you woke up with him lower on your body and you moved him
back up. There's no way you could possibly know he stopped breathing
because you suffocated him
Tonya --
Just joining in the chorus here. You have no cause to blame yourself.
Please take comfort in knowing Grayson died knowing love. So many don't
even have that chance. Gentle Bridge vibes for Grayson and his brother.
Diane R.
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Tonya,
Please don't think that! Grayson had a couple of days being fed, cuddled, and loved - something his own mother couldn't do for him. Without you he would have died alone in an abandoned house. Looking back at your posts it is obvious to see that he was not a healthy kitten to begin with.
Tonya,
I dont believe that you killed himkittens,
no matter how small, contend with the pile of kittens when they all nuzzle
against their mom and when mom moves around.. They do get around more then you
think. It was an uphill battle with Graysonhe was so very young. You
did the very
Thanks Nina, but I killed him. I know I did. And I know it's because I was so worried about bringing in another cat and 'wished' I didn't have that problem. So now I don't. I just feel horrible. tNina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Oh Honey, don't say that. You didn't kill Grayson. You didn't wake
I did kill him though. He was doing so well. I just feel horrible.tSherry DeHaan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Tonya please don't say that you killed him,you did so much more for him than than anyone could have.catatonya [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I just woke and Grayson was dead. I think I
Tonya hon...cats don't "smother" easily. If you had, I would assume there would be claw marks up one side of you ...or the sheets would be shredded. Isn't there the chance that he just passed peacefully in his sleep?I was to adopt a cat last spring. One week before I was to get him, he fell
Tonya!If wishin' could kill someone...there'd be a hell of a lot of corpses layin' around...esp... in the work places!catatonya [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:Thanks Nina, but I killed him. I know I did. And I know it's because I was so worried about bringing in another cat and 'wished' I didn't
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Grayson
Thanks Nina, but I killed him. I know I did. And I know it's
because I was so worried about bringing in another cat and 'wished' I didn't
have
that they both died. Thats OK but its absolutely not your fault!
Chris
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Sleep soft, dear Grayson and your tiny tabby brother too.
On Tue, 18 Jul 2006, catatonya wrote:
Date: Tue, 18 Jul 2006 08:27:15 -0700 (PDT)
From: catatonya [EMAIL PROTECTED]
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It just
Tonya, I'm so sorry. I worry about that sometimes. One of my sick
dogs rested her head on my dangling computer cables and died. I felt
awful, like I needed to have her in a perfect room with no
dangers. My dear beloved kitty Jacques, back in the early 1990's,
was in the process of dying,
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To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
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Oh Honey, don't say that. You didn't kill Grayson. You didn't wake up
on top of him, you woke up with him lower
Oh Tonya, everything that Nina said! I am so so sorry. We all know you and love you and it's OK to be sad about his passing, but please don't feel guilty.Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Oh Honey, don't say that. You didn't kill Grayson. You didn't wake up on top of him, you woke up with him lower
Tonya,
Oh sweetie, it wasn't your fault! Kittens can be so fragile and their
mortality rate can seem so high.
I just found outSunday what happened to 4 of the kittens I had at
time of my accident. I had a beautiful, long haired mama and her 5 kittens
when I had my accident. They all seemed
Oh, Tonya, a truth to hold to right now is that Grayson snuggled into your
loving heart for a short time and of course you deeply mourn his passing
he was not an just another kitty to care for. He may have been
facing months and years of medicines, pain and limitations. His lack of
Please don't think that. If you had deliberately set out to
harm that dear one - then you might have cause to take blame.
Blaming yourself in this case simply isn't appropriate. It is
obvious to me that you cared very much and you made his short time here
the very best that it could possibly be.
oh, my dearest dear:
i know you can't hear all of us right now, but believe what we're all telling you: you did NOT kill grayson, you gifted him with warmth and food and safety and love. and THAT'S the only thing you smothered him with. please be gentle with yourself, and know that your role was
Tonya,
You did not kill "Grayson" sometimes we can not control what god has planned for our furbabies. Grayson and his sibling were loved and you did more than anyone else would have done for them at the time of need. He has gone to be with his sibling to a placewhere he canbe whole again.
Tonya, I am so sorry to hear about lil Grayson.. We all know how you feel, but you didn't kill him..we all can "what if" ourselves to no end..I have done that many times, too..And I guess we never really know..You did give him love and care for the short time he was here and he knew that..I think
, July 18, 2006 9:59
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Subject: Re: I killed Grayson
Thanks Nina, but I killed him. I know I did. And I know it's
because I was so worried about bringing in another cat and 'wished' I didn't
have that problem. So now I don't. I just feel horrible.
tNina [EMAIL PROTECTED
with
their fellow man.
St.
Francis
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Sent: Tuesday, July 18, 2006 7:50 AM
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Tonya,
In no way did you do
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