Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread David McGlone
On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 12:13 -0400, tedd wrote:
> At 8:27 AM -0400 4/21/10, David McGlone wrote:
> >I give up. trying to reply to messages on this list is tedious. I can't
> >pinpoint whether it's because the list is set up to make replies go to
> >the OP or the OP has his reply-to in his mail client set, or most people
> >are hitting the reply-to button instead of simply reply.
> >
> >It just doesn't make sense to me, why be on the mailing list if it
> >hinders having a group discussion without having to jump through
> >hurdles. It also defeats the purpose of being on a group list if
> >replying sends the reply to the OP.
> >
> >Every message sent to this list, simply hitting reply should send back
> >to this list and not the OP.
> >--
> >Blessings,
> >David M.
> 
> David:
> 
> Whenever I want to reply to the OP privately, I use their email address.
> 
> Whenever I want to reply to all, I use "PHP "
> 
> I do NOT (usually) use any quick "Reply" or "Reply to All" options in 
> my email program that sends stuff to everyone. Instead I think about 
> what I am sending and consider if anyone wants to receive my email. 
> Sure it's another step, but no more troublesome than trimming my 
> email to the point or other such considerations to make my replies 
> "on topic" and more readable.
> 
> I'm sorry that you feel that doing so is *so tedious* that you are 
> going to "give up", but consider the effort that is put forth by 
> those answering you you should reconsider how much effort you are 
> willing spend to make this list work. Sometimes things cannot be as 
> simple as "Click".

Hi Ted, thanks for the words of encouragement. The thread got a little
big pretty quick so you may have missed a previous post from me. here it
is:

"I'm the type of person that figures out how and why and then weighs my
options. Figuring out how to reply properly to this list was the first
step, now the next step is figuring out if I can deal with it or not.

I've decided to stay for a couple reasons, for one, everybody on this
list didn't once get mean or hateful during this whole discussion. That
flabbergasted me, because on a lot of lists I am on, quite a few people
on those lists would have instantly jumped down my throat. Secondly,
Everyone on this list that I have seen ask questions and give advise are
darn good programmers, so in order to be in the company of people like
this, then changing my habits shouldn't be hard.

The reason for the subject change was because I feared I was going to
start a flame war, so I was going to back down and just forget I
mentioned it."


I have learned to use the "reply to list" option. Something I never knew
existed.

Even though I prefer it the other way around, where hitting "reply" does
the job, I am willing to compromise just like many others on the
list. :-)
 
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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Per Jessen
David McGlone wrote:

> On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 17:07 +0200, Per Jessen wrote:
>> David McGlone wrote:
>> 
>> > Also, I do not want this discussion to turn into a flame war or
>> > anything of such. I am simply just trying to have a discussion and
>> > learn why and how there is different behavior here, but not
>> > anywhere else.
>> 
>> David, the PHP list behaves like hundreds or thousands of others in
>> this
>> respect.  Of course there are also lists that work the other way, but
>> the PHP list is far from alone.
> 
> It could be just me, but it seems to me this behavior is mostly PHP
> list specific. 

Some examples of other lists that behave the same:

ntp-general
linux-kernel
spamassassin-general
rrdtool-users
opensuse-*
nasm-users
isdn4linux
asterisk-users
postfix-users
dovecot-general



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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread tedd

At 8:27 AM -0400 4/21/10, David McGlone wrote:

I give up. trying to reply to messages on this list is tedious. I can't
pinpoint whether it's because the list is set up to make replies go to
the OP or the OP has his reply-to in his mail client set, or most people
are hitting the reply-to button instead of simply reply.

It just doesn't make sense to me, why be on the mailing list if it
hinders having a group discussion without having to jump through
hurdles. It also defeats the purpose of being on a group list if
replying sends the reply to the OP.

Every message sent to this list, simply hitting reply should send back
to this list and not the OP.
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David:

Whenever I want to reply to the OP privately, I use their email address.

Whenever I want to reply to all, I use "PHP "

I do NOT (usually) use any quick "Reply" or "Reply to All" options in 
my email program that sends stuff to everyone. Instead I think about 
what I am sending and consider if anyone wants to receive my email. 
Sure it's another step, but no more troublesome than trimming my 
email to the point or other such considerations to make my replies 
"on topic" and more readable.


I'm sorry that you feel that doing so is *so tedious* that you are 
going to "give up", but consider the effort that is put forth by 
those answering you you should reconsider how much effort you are 
willing spend to make this list work. Sometimes things cannot be as 
simple as "Click".


Cheers,

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread David McGlone
On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 17:07 +0200, Per Jessen wrote:
> David McGlone wrote:
> 
> > Also, I do not want this discussion to turn into a flame war or
> > anything of such. I am simply just trying to have a discussion and
> > learn why and how there is different behavior here, but not anywhere
> > else. 
> 
> David, the PHP list behaves like hundreds or thousands of others in this
> respect.  Of course there are also lists that work the other way, but
> the PHP list is far from alone. 

It could be just me, but it seems to me this behavior is mostly PHP list
specific. The only other php list I am on is php-db. It doesn't have
this behavior so I guess I'm just not experienced enough to know
otherwise.

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Per Jessen
David McGlone wrote:

> Also, I do not want this discussion to turn into a flame war or
> anything of such. I am simply just trying to have a discussion and
> learn why and how there is different behavior here, but not anywhere
> else. 

David, the PHP list behaves like hundreds or thousands of others in this
respect.  Of course there are also lists that work the other way, but
the PHP list is far from alone. 



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RE: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Tommy Pham
> -Original Message-
> From: daniel.egeb...@gmail.com [mailto:daniel.egeb...@gmail.com] On
> Behalf Of Daniel Egeberg
> Sent: Wednesday, April 21, 2010 7:40 AM
> To: Tommy Pham
> Cc: php-general@lists.php.net
> Subject: Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)
> 



I'm using gmail's label which isn't the same as 'move to' filter.  I'm pretty 
sure that I didn't receive duplicate.  So it might that gmail's server has some 
detection method in place.


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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Daniel Brown
On Wed, Apr 21, 2010 at 10:20, David McGlone  wrote:
>
> I just received 3 copies of this message. One went to my PHP folder and
> 2 went to my Inbox.

It was sent multiple times.  Probably an intentional demonstration
of irony.  ;-P

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Daniel Egeberg
On Wed, Apr 21, 2010 at 16:32, Tommy Pham  wrote:
> I'm sure that the reason why the this list and a few others are setup this 
> way so that if anyone want to reply just to the OP can do so without having 
> to figure out or remembering the e-mail address of the sender.

Yes, plus many of the people who send to lists such as php-webmaster@
generally do not actually subscribe. Sending a reply privately to
someone can also come in handy if you wish to comment privately on a
commit. Logs/diffs are sent to mailing lists and the From header will
always contain usern...@php.net.

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Daniel Egeberg
On Wed, Apr 21, 2010 at 16:12, Hans Åhlin  wrote:
> 2010/4/21 David McGlone :
>> On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 14:49 +0200, Peter Lind wrote:
>>> On 21 April 2010 14:38, Hans Åhlin  wrote:
>>> > Why change the way that has been around for years and adopted by
>>> > multiple e-mail lists?
>>> > It feels like it's more problem to change the way for thousands of
>>> > users just to satisfy a couple of few.
>>>
>>> David was venting based on a discussion in another thread. I'm pretty
>>> sure he knows about the option to reply-all - that's part of the
>>> reason for venting (it sends multiple emails instead of just the one
>>> needed). The optimal scenario is to: 1) be able to quickly respond to
>>> the list, as that's the normal action you want to do and 2) not spam
>>> people with several emails for no reason (i.e. avoid replying to the
>>> OP AND the list).
>>
>> Exactly. I also feel bad for those who have to pay to download per Mb,
>> GB, etc.
>>
>> It's pitiful that once I send this E-Mail, Peter and Hans both will get
>> 2 of the exact messages.
>>
>
> Strange I only got one, but it ma be a mail server filter

I'll have to say that I've never received duplicate messages on any of
the nine PHP.net mailing lists I'm subscribed to either.

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Michiel Sikma
On 21 April 2010 15:41, Dan Joseph  wrote:

> When you hit reply all, just take out all the other addresses and leave the
> list one in there.  The list was setup like this years ago on purpose, and
> they've stated in the past they don't want to change it..
>
> --
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>
>
I'd like to refrain from actually passing judgement on this issue--since I
use reply-all by default I could live with both of these settings--but I'm
still curious as to why the list is set up the way it is.

What is the advantage of sending to the OP by default rather than the list?

Michiel


RE: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Tommy Pham
I'm sure that the reason why the this list and a few others are setup this way 
so that if anyone want to reply just to the OP can do so without having to 
figure out or remembering the e-mail address of the sender.


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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread David McGlone
On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 16:12 +0200, Hans Åhlin wrote:
> 2010/4/21 David McGlone :
> > On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 14:49 +0200, Peter Lind wrote:
> >> On 21 April 2010 14:38, Hans Åhlin  wrote:
> >> > Why change the way that has been around for years and adopted by
> >> > multiple e-mail lists?
> >> > It feels like it's more problem to change the way for thousands of
> >> > users just to satisfy a couple of few.
> >>
> >> David was venting based on a discussion in another thread. I'm pretty
> >> sure he knows about the option to reply-all - that's part of the
> >> reason for venting (it sends multiple emails instead of just the one
> >> needed). The optimal scenario is to: 1) be able to quickly respond to
> >> the list, as that's the normal action you want to do and 2) not spam
> >> people with several emails for no reason (i.e. avoid replying to the
> >> OP AND the list).
> >
> > Exactly. I also feel bad for those who have to pay to download per Mb,
> > GB, etc.
> >
> > It's pitiful that once I send this E-Mail, Peter and Hans both will get
> > 2 of the exact messages.
> >
> 
> Strange I only got one, but it ma be a mail server filter

I just received 3 copies of this message. One went to my PHP folder and
2 went to my Inbox.

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Peter Lind
On 21 April 2010 14:56, Ashley Sheridan  wrote:
> On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 08:56 -0400, David McGlone wrote:
>
>> On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 14:42 +0200, Daniel Egeberg wrote:
>> > On Wed, Apr 21, 2010 at 14:27, David McGlone  wrote:
>> > > I give up. trying to reply to messages on this list is tedious. I can't
>> > > pinpoint whether it's because the list is set up to make replies go to
>> > > the OP or the OP has his reply-to in his mail client set, or most people
>> > > are hitting the reply-to button instead of simply reply.
>> >
>> > Then get a better email client if yours doesn't support "reply to all"
>> > or "reply to group". It's hardly the mailing list's fault that your
>> > client doesn't support that.
>>
>> My email client does support "reply to all", but it's IMHO
>> inconsiderate.
>>
>> Think about people that have to pay for every Mb they download. "reply
>> to all" causes these people to have to pay for duplicates.
>>
>> Now if somebody on this list was paying for their downloads, then you
>> and I am costing them money by using "reply to all" and now there are 2
>> duplicate messages for them the download.
>>
>> How would you feel if this was you?
>>
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>> David M.
>>
>>
>
>
> Did you read the link that David Robley sent on the original thread you
> made?
> http://www.unicom.com/pw/reply-to-harmful.html
>
> What you're proposing would cause a lot of problems for the sake of a
> few people. And I hardly think that a few emails are going to cause a
> bandwidth issue for anybody. If bandwidth was such an issue, they'd be
> using an email client that only downloaded the email headers first, and
> from there you could easily discern the duplicate messages.

Except it wouldn't cause a lot of problems, now would it? As you've
heard from quite a few others, many mailing lists work using the
'reply-to' ... and have happy users. Most of the points in the doc you
posted a link to are viewpoints from someone that's used to one thing
and hates the idea of things changing - whether or not it makes life
easier (the "It makes things break" for instance ... calling replying
to the list instead of the OP a "break" is rather farfetched unless
you've stared at something you hate for so long you've become blinded
byt it. Then there's the "Freedom of choice": well, where's my freedom
of choice? I can't use 'reply' as I want to, so it's effectively
reduced *my* freedom).

Quick guess is by now, the majority of people clicking "reply" *mean*
to reply to the list but in effect reply to the OP. Using "reply-to"
would help these people. Anyone using "reply-all" would see no
difference. So when you're advocating that many subscribers should
ditch their email client and install Evolution instead of having *one*
email list have it's settings changed a bit ... I start to wonder if
you've considered things from both sides.

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Peter

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Hans Åhlin
2010/4/21 David McGlone :
> On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 14:49 +0200, Peter Lind wrote:
>> On 21 April 2010 14:38, Hans Åhlin  wrote:
>> > Why change the way that has been around for years and adopted by
>> > multiple e-mail lists?
>> > It feels like it's more problem to change the way for thousands of
>> > users just to satisfy a couple of few.
>>
>> David was venting based on a discussion in another thread. I'm pretty
>> sure he knows about the option to reply-all - that's part of the
>> reason for venting (it sends multiple emails instead of just the one
>> needed). The optimal scenario is to: 1) be able to quickly respond to
>> the list, as that's the normal action you want to do and 2) not spam
>> people with several emails for no reason (i.e. avoid replying to the
>> OP AND the list).
>
> Exactly. I also feel bad for those who have to pay to download per Mb,
> GB, etc.
>
> It's pitiful that once I send this E-Mail, Peter and Hans both will get
> 2 of the exact messages.
>

Strange I only got one, but it ma be a mail server filter

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Hans Åhlin
2010/4/21 David McGlone :
> On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 14:49 +0200, Peter Lind wrote:
>> On 21 April 2010 14:38, Hans Åhlin  wrote:
>> > Why change the way that has been around for years and adopted by
>> > multiple e-mail lists?
>> > It feels like it's more problem to change the way for thousands of
>> > users just to satisfy a couple of few.
>>
>> David was venting based on a discussion in another thread. I'm pretty
>> sure he knows about the option to reply-all - that's part of the
>> reason for venting (it sends multiple emails instead of just the one
>> needed). The optimal scenario is to: 1) be able to quickly respond to
>> the list, as that's the normal action you want to do and 2) not spam
>> people with several emails for no reason (i.e. avoid replying to the
>> OP AND the list).
>
> Exactly. I also feel bad for those who have to pay to download per Mb,
> GB, etc.
>
> It's pitiful that once I send this E-Mail, Peter and Hans both will get
> 2 of the exact messages.
>

Strange I only got one, but it ma be a mail server filter

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>
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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread David McGlone
On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 09:41 -0400, Dan Joseph wrote:
> On Wed, Apr 21, 2010 at 9:33 AM, David McGlone  wrote:
> 
> > I'm not passing judgment, It just saddens me that I have to send
> > multiple messages and this isn't because of anyone, it's because of my
> > lack of knowledge on how to reply to lists that are set up in this way.
> > But I think the "reply to list" like ash suggested solves the multiples
> > problem.
> >
> > And on a positive note, If I wouldn't have brought this discussion up, I
> > would have never known. Pretty sure I do now.
> >
> >
> >
> 
> Every couple years this discussion comes up.  Cracks me up every time.
> 
> When you hit reply all, just take out all the other addresses and leave the
> list one in there.  The list was setup like this years ago on purpose, and
> they've stated in the past they don't want to change it..
> 

I'm the type of person that figures out how and why and then weighs my
options. Figuring out how to reply properly to this list was the first
step, now the next step is figuring out if I can deal with it or not.

I've decided to stay for a couple reasons, for one, everybody on this
list didn't once get mean or hateful during this whole discussion. That
flabbergasted me, because on a lot of lists I am on, quite a few people
on those lists would have instantly jumped down my throat. Secondly,
Everyone on this list that I have seen ask questions and give advise are
darn good programmers, so in order to be in the company of people like
this, then changing my habits shouldn't be hard.

The reason for the subject change was because I feared I was going to
start a flame war, so I was going to back down and just forget I
mentioned it.


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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Robert Cummings

Peter Lind wrote:

On 21 April 2010 15:41, Dan Joseph  wrote:

When you hit reply all, just take out all the other addresses and leave the
list one in there.  The list was setup like this years ago on purpose, and
they've stated in the past they don't want to change it..


And waste time every single time you post to the list ... why do
people become programmers/developers again? To end creating technical
solutions they can then avoid using by doing extra, pointless manual
work?


Well most of us have read this thread now... and it kinda burned up 
about 4 years worth of time to remove the extraneous addresses :B


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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Daniel Brown
On Wed, Apr 21, 2010 at 09:41, Dan Joseph  wrote:
>
> When you hit reply all, just take out all the other addresses and leave the
> list one in there.  The list was setup like this years ago on purpose, and
> they've stated in the past they don't want to change it..

And we won't, but that doesn't take away from the fact that it
probably does irk a few folks, so this will continue to come up now
and again.  As annoying as some may find it, though, it's not
something we're going to change.

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Peter Lind
On 21 April 2010 15:41, Dan Joseph  wrote:
> When you hit reply all, just take out all the other addresses and leave the
> list one in there.  The list was setup like this years ago on purpose, and
> they've stated in the past they don't want to change it..

And waste time every single time you post to the list ... why do
people become programmers/developers again? To end creating technical
solutions they can then avoid using by doing extra, pointless manual
work?

Anyway, if there's no chance of changing the minds of the people
administering the list, the discussion might as well end now.

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Dan Joseph
On Wed, Apr 21, 2010 at 9:33 AM, David McGlone  wrote:

> I'm not passing judgment, It just saddens me that I have to send
> multiple messages and this isn't because of anyone, it's because of my
> lack of knowledge on how to reply to lists that are set up in this way.
> But I think the "reply to list" like ash suggested solves the multiples
> problem.
>
> And on a positive note, If I wouldn't have brought this discussion up, I
> would have never known. Pretty sure I do now.
>
>
>

Every couple years this discussion comes up.  Cracks me up every time.

When you hit reply all, just take out all the other addresses and leave the
list one in there.  The list was setup like this years ago on purpose, and
they've stated in the past they don't want to change it..

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread David McGlone
On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 09:19 -0400, Robert Cummings wrote:
> David McGlone wrote:
> > On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 14:49 +0200, Peter Lind wrote:
> >> On 21 April 2010 14:38, Hans Åhlin  wrote:
> >>> Why change the way that has been around for years and adopted by
> >>> multiple e-mail lists?
> >>> It feels like it's more problem to change the way for thousands of
> >>> users just to satisfy a couple of few.
> >> David was venting based on a discussion in another thread. I'm pretty
> >> sure he knows about the option to reply-all - that's part of the
> >> reason for venting (it sends multiple emails instead of just the one
> >> needed). The optimal scenario is to: 1) be able to quickly respond to
> >> the list, as that's the normal action you want to do and 2) not spam
> >> people with several emails for no reason (i.e. avoid replying to the
> >> OP AND the list).
> > 
> > Exactly. I also feel bad for those who have to pay to download per Mb,
> > GB, etc.
> > 
> > It's pitiful that once I send this E-Mail, Peter and Hans both will get
> > 2 of the exact messages.
> 
> I thought you just wanted to know why it is the way it is? Now you're 
> passing judgement.

I'm not passing judgment, It just saddens me that I have to send
multiple messages and this isn't because of anyone, it's because of my
lack of knowledge on how to reply to lists that are set up in this way.
But I think the "reply to list" like ash suggested solves the multiples
problem.

And on a positive note, If I wouldn't have brought this discussion up, I
would have never known. Pretty sure I do now.


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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread David McGlone
On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 13:56 +0100, Ashley Sheridan wrote:
> On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 08:56 -0400, David McGlone wrote:
> 
> > On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 14:42 +0200, Daniel Egeberg wrote:
> > > On Wed, Apr 21, 2010 at 14:27, David McGlone  wrote:
> > > > I give up. trying to reply to messages on this list is tedious. I can't
> > > > pinpoint whether it's because the list is set up to make replies go to
> > > > the OP or the OP has his reply-to in his mail client set, or most people
> > > > are hitting the reply-to button instead of simply reply.
> > > 
> > > Then get a better email client if yours doesn't support "reply to all"
> > > or "reply to group". It's hardly the mailing list's fault that your
> > > client doesn't support that.
> > 
> > My email client does support "reply to all", but it's IMHO
> > inconsiderate.
> > 
> > Think about people that have to pay for every Mb they download. "reply
> > to all" causes these people to have to pay for duplicates.
> > 
> > Now if somebody on this list was paying for their downloads, then you
> > and I am costing them money by using "reply to all" and now there are 2
> > duplicate messages for them the download.
> > 
> > How would you feel if this was you?
> > 
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> > Blessings,
> > David M.
> > 
> > 
> 
> 
> Did you read the link that David Robley sent on the original thread you
> made?
> http://www.unicom.com/pw/reply-to-harmful.html

Yes. but if it was so harmful, why does the 40, 50 or so lists that I've
been on, simply let you hit the reply and it goes back to the list?

I am not arguing or upset, I am just so puzzled as to why the list has
this behavior. It is tedious to have to remember which lists I am on
will accept simply hitting the reply and those that don't.

> 
> What you're proposing would cause a lot of problems for the sake of a
> few people.

I'm not proposing anything. Don't get me wrong. It's just so mind
boggling why this behavior. I read and understand the idea behind that
link, but if it was so harmful why is the majority of mailing lists
allowing a simple "reply"?
 
>  And I hardly think that a few emails are going to cause a
> bandwidth issue for anybody. If bandwidth was such an issue, they'd be
> using an email client that only downloaded the email headers first, and
> from there you could easily discern the duplicate messages.

Thats true, I agree. But what about those that are not computer savvy?
Take my wife for instance. LOL

Also, I do not want this discussion to turn into a flame war or anything
of such. I am simply just trying to have a discussion and learn why and
how there is different behavior here, but not anywhere else. And I am
also venting just a tad bit, because for the last 15 years up until I
joined this list 6 months or so ago, I have never seen this issue, and
changing habits after 15 years is quite hard, but I can't change my
habits if I don't figure out how and why.


PS. I used the "reply to list" on this e-mail. Do you know of any way I
can add an icon to my tool bar instead of clicking on the Message menu
or hitting ctrl+l?

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Ken Kixmoeller

Daniel Egeberg wrote:


Then get a better email client if yours doesn't support "reply to all"
or "reply to group". It's hardly the mailing list's fault that your
client doesn't support that.


Nonsense. I have used lists like this for many, many years. PHP lists 
are the only ones I have ever used that behave this way. All the others 
I have used are configured that a simple "Reply" replies to the list.


Sure, you can always "Reply All" but then you get multiple replies from 
the same person to the same post. Plus, it is really easy to forget.


In my opinion, it is idiotic.

OTOH, what is important to me is the quality of the information that 
comes in from you incredibly generous people. Thank you to all posters. 
You are the best.


The list behavior is just an irritant, but it pales in comparison to the 
benefit.



Ken

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Robert Cummings

David McGlone wrote:

On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 14:49 +0200, Peter Lind wrote:

On 21 April 2010 14:38, Hans Åhlin  wrote:

Why change the way that has been around for years and adopted by
multiple e-mail lists?
It feels like it's more problem to change the way for thousands of
users just to satisfy a couple of few.

David was venting based on a discussion in another thread. I'm pretty
sure he knows about the option to reply-all - that's part of the
reason for venting (it sends multiple emails instead of just the one
needed). The optimal scenario is to: 1) be able to quickly respond to
the list, as that's the normal action you want to do and 2) not spam
people with several emails for no reason (i.e. avoid replying to the
OP AND the list).


Exactly. I also feel bad for those who have to pay to download per Mb,
GB, etc.

It's pitiful that once I send this E-Mail, Peter and Hans both will get
2 of the exact messages.


I thought you just wanted to know why it is the way it is? Now you're 
passing judgement.


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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Ashley Sheridan
On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 08:56 -0400, David McGlone wrote:

> On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 14:42 +0200, Daniel Egeberg wrote:
> > On Wed, Apr 21, 2010 at 14:27, David McGlone  wrote:
> > > I give up. trying to reply to messages on this list is tedious. I can't
> > > pinpoint whether it's because the list is set up to make replies go to
> > > the OP or the OP has his reply-to in his mail client set, or most people
> > > are hitting the reply-to button instead of simply reply.
> > 
> > Then get a better email client if yours doesn't support "reply to all"
> > or "reply to group". It's hardly the mailing list's fault that your
> > client doesn't support that.
> 
> My email client does support "reply to all", but it's IMHO
> inconsiderate.
> 
> Think about people that have to pay for every Mb they download. "reply
> to all" causes these people to have to pay for duplicates.
> 
> Now if somebody on this list was paying for their downloads, then you
> and I am costing them money by using "reply to all" and now there are 2
> duplicate messages for them the download.
> 
> How would you feel if this was you?
> 
> -- 
> Blessings,
> David M.
> 
> 


Did you read the link that David Robley sent on the original thread you
made?
http://www.unicom.com/pw/reply-to-harmful.html

What you're proposing would cause a lot of problems for the sake of a
few people. And I hardly think that a few emails are going to cause a
bandwidth issue for anybody. If bandwidth was such an issue, they'd be
using an email client that only downloaded the email headers first, and
from there you could easily discern the duplicate messages.

Thanks,
Ash
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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread David McGlone
On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 14:49 +0200, Peter Lind wrote:
> On 21 April 2010 14:38, Hans Åhlin  wrote:
> > Why change the way that has been around for years and adopted by
> > multiple e-mail lists?
> > It feels like it's more problem to change the way for thousands of
> > users just to satisfy a couple of few.
> 
> David was venting based on a discussion in another thread. I'm pretty
> sure he knows about the option to reply-all - that's part of the
> reason for venting (it sends multiple emails instead of just the one
> needed). The optimal scenario is to: 1) be able to quickly respond to
> the list, as that's the normal action you want to do and 2) not spam
> people with several emails for no reason (i.e. avoid replying to the
> OP AND the list).

Exactly. I also feel bad for those who have to pay to download per Mb,
GB, etc.

It's pitiful that once I send this E-Mail, Peter and Hans both will get
2 of the exact messages.

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Ashley Sheridan
On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 14:49 +0200, Peter Lind wrote:

> On 21 April 2010 14:38, Hans Åhlin  wrote:
> > Why change the way that has been around for years and adopted by
> > multiple e-mail lists?
> > It feels like it's more problem to change the way for thousands of
> > users just to satisfy a couple of few.
> 
> David was venting based on a discussion in another thread. I'm pretty
> sure he knows about the option to reply-all - that's part of the
> reason for venting (it sends multiple emails instead of just the one
> needed). The optimal scenario is to: 1) be able to quickly respond to
> the list, as that's the normal action you want to do and 2) not spam
> people with several emails for no reason (i.e. avoid replying to the
> OP AND the list).
> 
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As I mentioned earlier, the Evolution mail client has a reply to list
option which I've used to send this to the list. A decent email client
*will* have this option somewhere, but if anyone is using one that
doesn't, Evolution is available for the majority of operating systems
out there.

Thanks,
Ash
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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread David McGlone
On Wed, 2010-04-21 at 14:42 +0200, Daniel Egeberg wrote:
> On Wed, Apr 21, 2010 at 14:27, David McGlone  wrote:
> > I give up. trying to reply to messages on this list is tedious. I can't
> > pinpoint whether it's because the list is set up to make replies go to
> > the OP or the OP has his reply-to in his mail client set, or most people
> > are hitting the reply-to button instead of simply reply.
> 
> Then get a better email client if yours doesn't support "reply to all"
> or "reply to group". It's hardly the mailing list's fault that your
> client doesn't support that.

My email client does support "reply to all", but it's IMHO
inconsiderate.

Think about people that have to pay for every Mb they download. "reply
to all" causes these people to have to pay for duplicates.

Now if somebody on this list was paying for their downloads, then you
and I am costing them money by using "reply to all" and now there are 2
duplicate messages for them the download.

How would you feel if this was you?

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Peter Lind
On 21 April 2010 14:38, Hans Åhlin  wrote:
> Why change the way that has been around for years and adopted by
> multiple e-mail lists?
> It feels like it's more problem to change the way for thousands of
> users just to satisfy a couple of few.

David was venting based on a discussion in another thread. I'm pretty
sure he knows about the option to reply-all - that's part of the
reason for venting (it sends multiple emails instead of just the one
needed). The optimal scenario is to: 1) be able to quickly respond to
the list, as that's the normal action you want to do and 2) not spam
people with several emails for no reason (i.e. avoid replying to the
OP AND the list).

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Hans Åhlin
Why change the way that has been around for years and adopted by
multiple e-mail lists?
It feels like it's more problem to change the way for thousands of
users just to satisfy a couple of few.

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2010/4/21 David McGlone :
> I give up. trying to reply to messages on this list is tedious. I can't
> pinpoint whether it's because the list is set up to make replies go to
> the OP or the OP has his reply-to in his mail client set, or most people
> are hitting the reply-to button instead of simply reply.
>
> It just doesn't make sense to me, why be on the mailing list if it
> hinders having a group discussion without having to jump through
> hurdles. It also defeats the purpose of being on a group list if
> replying sends the reply to the OP.
>
> Every message sent to this list, simply hitting reply should send back
> to this list and not the OP.
> --
> Blessings,
> David M.
>
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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Daniel Egeberg
On Wed, Apr 21, 2010 at 14:27, David McGlone  wrote:
> I give up. trying to reply to messages on this list is tedious. I can't
> pinpoint whether it's because the list is set up to make replies go to
> the OP or the OP has his reply-to in his mail client set, or most people
> are hitting the reply-to button instead of simply reply.

Then get a better email client if yours doesn't support "reply to all"
or "reply to group". It's hardly the mailing list's fault that your
client doesn't support that.

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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread Per Jessen
David McGlone wrote:

> I give up. trying to reply to messages on this list is tedious. I
> can't pinpoint whether it's because the list is set up to make replies
> go to the OP or the OP has his reply-to in his mail client set, or
> most people are hitting the reply-to button instead of simply reply.

Did you try "Reply-All" ?  That usually does it for me.

> It just doesn't make sense to me, why be on the mailing list if it
> hinders having a group discussion without having to jump through
> hurdles. It also defeats the purpose of being on a group list if
> replying sends the reply to the OP.

Reply-All. 



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Re: [PHP] replying to list (I give up)

2010-04-21 Thread shiplu
The reply-to header should be changed to php-gene...@lists.php.net.
I experience many dev list that are configured this way.
So, in my gmail i change my habit to press "a" instead of "r".

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