Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-12-01 Thread ashok _
On Tue, Dec 1, 2009 at 10:40 AM, Shoba Narayan narayan.sh...@gmail.com wrote: mind-games.  You start thinking of India as a hardship posting; you expect Believe me it is a hard-ship posting ... I cannot find any decent alcohol in madras... its even difficult to ask around (why do you want to buy

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-12-01 Thread Srini RamaKrishnan
On Tue, Dec 1, 2009 at 7:33 AM, Mahesh Murthy mahesh.mur...@gmail.com wrote: [...] This is quite the Derrida-ish argument that everything is justifiable if only we try to really really understand it, and that Charles Manson should Whatever is being smoked in this room smells of religion to me.

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-12-01 Thread Charles Haynes
On Tue, Dec 1, 2009 at 2:23 AM, Venkat Mangudi s...@venkatmangudi.com wrote: Too bad you went and settled down in Tamilnadu which even the rest of us think is a hard ship posting. :-) Just come on down to Bangalore and get yourself some decent wine. The Nandi valley wines are reasonably good

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-12-01 Thread Venkatesh Hariharan
On Tue, Dec 1, 2009 at 10:40 AM, Shoba Narayan narayan.sh...@gmail.com wrote: --Original Message-- From: Deepa Mohan Sender: silklist-bounces+suresh=hserus@lists.hserus.net To: silklist@lists.hserus.net ReplyTo: silklist@lists.hserus.net Subject: Re: [silk] Some Indians Find It

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-12-01 Thread ashok _
On Tue, Dec 1, 2009 at 10:49 PM, Charles Haynes charles.hay...@gmail.com wrote: Mass produced Australian or Chilean plonk is still better than even high end Indian wine. To get decent wine in India I had to bring it in myself, or implore visiting friends to bring me decent wine. Things will

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-12-01 Thread Chandrachoodan Gopalakrishnan
On Wed, Dec 2, 2009 at 12:01 AM, ashok _ listmans...@gmail.com wrote: (I have visited quite a few government run TASMAC liquor store outlets in chennai now. The little bottles of brandy seem to be the most popular items. Saw a guy stop in a scooter, down a whole bottle without removing his

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-12-01 Thread Venkat Mangudi
Charles Haynes wrote: With all due respect, no. There is no decent wine available in If you have the money, you can get decent imports. Bangalore either. The only people who think so are people who don't really have experience with the current state of wine in the rest of We aren't that

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-12-01 Thread Udhay Shankar N
Venkatesh Hariharan wrote, [on 12/1/2009 10:57 PM]: In 98-99, I spent a year in Boston and found that most Indians were constantly caught in the should I, shouldn't I go back? kind of vacillation. I did not find the idea of building a life in one place, winding it up and then trying to build

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-12-01 Thread ss
On Tuesday 01 Dec 2009 10:57:25 pm Venkatesh Hariharan wrote: Indians were constantly caught in the should I, shouldn't I go back? kind of vacillation. The same thing was true back in the late 1980s too and I made a mental note of the factors that people were whining about as part of the

[silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-11-30 Thread Shoba Narayan
--Original Message-- From: Deepa Mohan Sender: silklist-bounces+suresh=hserus@lists.hserus.net To: silklist@lists.hserus.net ReplyTo: silklist@lists.hserus.net Subject: Re: [silk] Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again Sent: Nov 30, 2009 18:16 On Mon, Nov 30, 2009 at 6:03 PM,

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-11-30 Thread Mahesh Murthy
On 01-Dec-2009, at 10:40 AM, Shoba Narayan narayan.sh...@gmail.com Returning home is not (or should not be) an altruistic act. You return home due to circumstances (ill parents) or by choice, or by tacit agreement (company sends you and you don't protest). Bingo! Well said, Shoba. I'd

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-11-30 Thread Deepa Mohan
On Tue, Dec 1, 2009 at 10:40 AM, Shoba Narayan narayan.sh...@gmail.comwrote: I so agree. As a repat or cowpat, I have little patience with the whining about how hard it is to assimilate back home. Shoba and othersthis problem of having little patience is one I'd like to address.

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-11-30 Thread Mahesh Murthy
On Tue, Dec 1, 2009 at 11:13 AM, Deepa Mohan mohande...@gmail.com wrote: Shoba and othersthis problem of having little patience is one I'd like to address. snip Oh well...nuff said, I guess. Please...let us have, not little patience, but...a little MORE patience! This is quite

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-11-30 Thread .
On Tue, Dec 1, 2009 at 11:13, Deepa Mohan mohande...@gmail.com wrote: On Tue, Dec 1, 2009 at 10:40 AM, Shoba Narayan narayan.sh...@gmail.comwrote: I so agree. As a repat or cowpat, I have little patience with the whining about how hard it is to assimilate back home. My sis in law is

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-11-30 Thread .
On Tue, Dec 1, 2009 at 12:03, Mahesh Murthy mahesh.mur...@gmail.com wrote: I do think returnees who have a problem today came to India with a chip on their shoulder and a wrong set of hagiographic expectations. And there is no [..] to blame for these than themselves. And if they feel bad

Re: [silk] e: Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again

2009-11-30 Thread Mahesh Murthy
On Tue, Dec 1, 2009 at 12:16 PM, . svaks...@gmail.com wrote: Maybe the ex-pats do have a chip on their shoulder but what about the desi's who want change for a change. Or are you proposing that each individual should single-handedly bring about change magically without any support from