Judy wrote:
> It is my opinion - that this moderation thing is
> getting too oppressive.  When it becomes impossible
> to dialogue with another person without constant nit
> picking about ad hominems then communicating
> becomes more of a burden than a joy..  Is it really
> necessary?

I agree with you that to reprimand you for what you said would be a little 
harsh.  Frankly, I agreed with your statement, so what you said appeared to 
me to be a very clever and funny way to make your point.  However, if 
somebody is so sensitive that it offends them, then we have to analyze what 
you said and acknowledge that you turned from talking about his theology of 
the incarnation to characterizing him as being stuck in a time warp.  The 
best thing is if TruthTalkers allow some lattitude for mild situations like 
this, but if they are indeed so sensitive that they object, then we can be 
big enough to work harder at making our posts less personal in nature.  The 
goal is to make sure we do not cause another member to begin responding 
emotionally out of self defense.

Judy wrote:
> There was no question about ad hominem when G
> accused me of writing on an 8th grade level.
> which is both personal and unflattering along with the
> ongoing cult and myth accusations...Is my referring
> to Lance's incarnation doctrine one time worse than
> all that?

Well, there was some question in my mind about G's comment, but it was 
similar to yours.  He too had a point.  You object to scholarly discussions 
that invoke other authors and theologians, and when asked for who you read, 
you refer to the KJV Bible.  That does appear to be "8th grade level" 
theology so to speak.  Technically, there is a problem with him making the 
discussion personal, but if you can react in a mature way, then we can let 
it slide.

Judy wrote:
> Hey! I can overlook some things - in fact I would
> rather overlook things myself than live with this
> constant scrutiny.  Could we save it for crisis
> situations?

Yes, I do think we need to save reprimands for crisis situations.  Note that 
Slade did not reprimand you.  He was asking for feedback concerning what the 
list members thought about it.  Perhaps he is trying to understand better 
the no ad hominem rule himself.  I think we need to be gracious to one 
another as much as possible, and forgive one another and not be offended by 
one another so easily.  When this is not working, then the moderators need 
to step in and stop the ad hominem mud slinging.

You know, if everyone reacted to posts the way Dave Hansen does, we would 
not even know that there was a no ad hominem rule on TruthTalk.  :-)  We 
really should try to emulate his posting manners, but if we fail in that, 
well, the law is for the lawless.  :-)

Peace be with you.
David Miller. 


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