Thanks,
Chris Austin-Lane
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On Mar 10, 2011, at 11:04, "ED" <[email protected]> wrote:

> namely, that I had done no wrong and therefore an apology is not required and 
> would technically be a lie.

I am not sure that an apology has to do with right vs. wrong, rather than to 
acknowledge harm and/or blindness. 

Certainly I will apologize even when I think I did the best I could have done, 
to restore the connection in the relationship. I probably apologize to my kids 
twice a week for being brusque as I hurry them along in the morning. 

If I have not seen part of my behavior, or if I am freaking out a person around 
me, for whatever reason, some acknowledgement of that seems correct to me. 

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