I'm sorry you and your mom are having to go through this. It sound
like you made the best decision, and remember what you said, "I
honestly
feel like God led us to this place." Hang on to that. You know she
can't be at home. You visit her every week; and that's great! Is there
anything else you can bring to her to leave in her room that will make
it more like home? (I know it's not really the same, though.)

My parents just put my mom's mom into assisted living. She had moved
in with them about a year ago. She didn't need 24 hour care, but
everyone was miserable, I think. My grandma would, of course, rather
be at home, but she's able to realize that she can't take care of
everything anymore, and frankly doesn't want to. She had been living
by herself for about a year away from any family before she moved in
with my parents. Fortunately for my family, my grandma seems to be
taking to it well. I think my mom visits about once a week, too.

Hang in there. Don't regret it. It's not "perfect," but it's the best
you can do given the situation.


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