Actually all three of the women in the room spontaneously burst into hysterics, clutching each other for support and gasping "Oh, my, God, did he just say YOU ARE NOT THE BOSS OF ME" so it wasnt' necesary
----- Original Message ----- From: "Greenwood, Erin E." <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Friday, April 05, 2002 9:08 AM Subject: RE: Question about Rudeness? > Did you yell back "AM TOO"? Nothing like regressing to second grade. : ) > > e > > > -----Original Message----- > From: Beth F [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > Sent: Friday, April 05, 2002 12:03 PM > To: CF-Community > Subject: Re: Question about Rudeness? > > > Where were you spitting the sunflower seeds? And was the meeting one where > you were supposed to lead the discussion or was it with clients? If not, > then no, its not rude. I dont' think its disgusting either unless you spit > the seeds in his lap or something. > > Perhaps because he is a web developer he doesn't understand that you could > be capable both? If he is your equal then dont' worry too much about it. > If you background is more designy you could give him the quick rundown and > explain that you are so fortunate to be able to do both. > > I suspect you make him insecure so he acts like a weenie. There is one in > every workplace. My last job one guy screamed at me in front of five people > with his finger in my face yelling "YOU ARE NOT THE BOSS OF ME". > > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Sent: Friday, April 05, 2002 4:42 AM > Subject: Question about Rudeness? > > > > I had another developer same level as me who has been with the company 2 > weeks longer then I tell me it was rude to take sunflower seeds to a meeting > we had in house. My question is... > > > > 1. Was I being rude? > > > > 2. Was I being Disgusting? > > > > This type of conflict with this person has happened before but with other > issues. I feel I am a Web Developer and a Web Designer. He thinks I am > only a Web Developer and the three of us in our team are NOT capible of > doing the DESIGN work. The other developer and I think I am capible to do > the DESIGN work. > > > > These issues really bother me. I do not have these problems with ANYONE > else. Should I let this bother me and should I do anything about it? > > > > Thanks, > > CFUser - working toward being the best I can. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ______________________________________________________________________ Get the mailserver that powers this list at http://www.coolfusion.com Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/index.cfm?sidebar=lists
