Slight correction - Buddhists don't believe in god, or at least they
don't worship a god. There are gods in Buddhism, but they are more like
a state of being which is impermanent - i.e. any sentient being has the
capacity to reach that state, but eventually they will be reincarnated
as something else. 


> -----Original Message-----
> From: William H Bowen [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
> Sent: 06 August 2003 21:10
> To: CF-Community
> Subject: Re: Yet another scumbag parent....
> 
> 
> Where did I mention not believing in God? Jews believe in 
> God, are they 
> going to Heaven or not? Muslim, Hindu, Buddist believe in God (some 
> several, but that's a whole other thing...) do they get to go 
> to Heaven?
> 
> Isn't one of your basic belief tenets that one cannot go to heaven 
> without believing in (or being saved by) Christ? Specifically Christ.
> 
> My comment pertains (and pertained) to Christians of one sect that 
> believe that *Christians* of another sect will not go to 
> heaven because 
> the latter do not share the formers' "true belief". A sort of "*my* 
> faith in Jesus will get me into heaven, but yours won't" attitude.
> 
> This, in my own experience is especially true in relation to 
> "Christian" 
> views of Catholics.
> 
> And, FWIW I don't have a problem with people practising their 
> religion 
> either, more power to ya!; and I appreciate the fact that you "don't 
> have any problem with people believing what they want to 
> believe" that's 
> great, but there are those out there that *do* believe that 
> it is their 
> business to get into my (and others') business. There are those that 
> *do* believe that they *must* do everything in their power to 
> "save" me, 
> whether they find out I'm Catholic or not (but many times especially 
> *because* they did).
> 
> 
> will
> 
> Matthew Small wrote:
> 
> >What I really get out of this is that non-Christians want Christians 
> >to:
> >1) Not look at them as non-Christians
> >2) Believe they are going to Heaven right along with Christians
> >3) Ignore the Scripture as it has been taught throughout the 
> ages in favor
> >of a "feel-good, do what makes you happy" interpretation.
> >
> >Gosh, if the above is true, then what is religion for?
> >
> >"there are some (not all) sects of Christianity that believe that if 
> >you're not in the  same sect/franchise/denomination/whatever (never 
> >mind whether or not  you're a Christian) you're going to 
> hell. 'course 
> >we can't fault them  for their beliefs I suppose...guess 
> they found the 
> >section of the bible  they wanted to uphold..."
> >
> >So which parts of the Bible do you subscribe to that lets you go to 
> >Heaven without believing in God?
> >
> >Most of the world is religious to one extent or the other. Somebody 
> >somewhere has a different religion than mine and therefore I 
> will go to 
> >their version of Hell when I die.  That's fine with me.  I'm 
> not going 
> >to make them accept Jesus (although I believe they should).  I'm not 
> >going to tell them that they need to pick a leader who 
> doesn't support 
> >their core beliefs when that opportunity arises. I'm just going to 
> >practice my own faith, as you should practice yours or lack of faith 
> >and let them be.
> >
> >Like I said before, there is a distinct anti-Christian feel to this 
> >group, it comes up often, but not from other members of religious 
> >organizations, but from distictly non-religious people.
> >
> >I don't have any problem with people believing what they want to 
> >believe. Why do you?  I'll practice my religion, you... do whatever.
> >
> >Matt Small
> >
> >
> >----- Original Message -----
> >From: "William H Bowen" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >Sent: Wednesday, August 06, 2003 3:41 PM
> >Subject: Re: Yet another scumbag parent....
> >
> >
> >  
> >
> >>>Absolutely, it's the whole idea about Christanity - that if you're
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>outside
> >> > of the religion, you're going to Hell. I don't 
> understand what the
> >>problem
> >>
> >>Oooo, and this brings up a personal favorite of mine...> ...nice...
> >>
> >>or how about those Christians that believe Catholics are going to 
> >>hell, too? Aren't Catholics Christians as well?
> >>
> >>will
> >>
> >>Matthew Small wrote:
> >>
> >>    
> >>
> >>>It's obvious you don't get it at all - wait a minute, maybe you do.
> >>>
> >>>Absolutely, it's the whole idea about Christanity - that if you're
> >>>      
> >>>
> >outside
> >  
> >
> >>>of the religion, you're going to Hell. I don't understand what the
> >>>      
> >>>
> >problem
> >  
> >
> >>>is with this.  Either you subscribe to the religion, or 
> you don't.  
> >>>Those that do subscribe are forgiven and go to Heaven.  Those that 
> >>>don't
> >>>      
> >>>
> >subscribe
> >  
> >
> >>>to the religion are not forgiven and go to Hell.  There is no two 
> >>>ways
> >>>      
> >>>
> >about
> >  
> >
> >>>it, there's no "forgiveness because he's a good person at 
> heart", no 
> >>>in-betweens, no exceptions.  Obviously, there are people within the
> >>>      
> >>>
> >religion
> >  
> >
> >>>who commit bad sins, heinous crimes, hold grudges, hate others.
> >>>      
> >>>
> >Everybody
> >  
> >
> >>>points the finger at others for their crimes and sins and ask for 
> >>>retribution.  Fortunately, Christians know to also look at 
> themselves 
> >>>and ask for the forgiveness for their sins (including judgement of 
> >>>others)
> >>>      
> >>>
> >that
> >  
> >
> >>>Jesus Christ gave to us when He died on the cross, and we 
> do try to 
> >>>live
> >>>      
> >>>
> >the
> >  
> >
> >>>right life.
> >>>
> >>>It appears to me that you're saying that the greatest 
> fault with the
> >>>      
> >>>
> >church
> >  
> >
> >>>is the judgement of fellow man. It is a failing, but don't 
> forget the
> >>>      
> >>>
> >fact
> >  
> >
> >>>that the ultimate judgement comes from God, and either you're with 
> >>>Him or against Him.
> >>>
> >>>Matthew Small
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>----- Original Message -----
> >>>From: "Jerry Johnson" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >>>To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >>>Sent: Wednesday, August 06, 2003 1:56 PM
> >>>Subject: Re: Yet another scumbag parent....
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>>>I have been to many, many churches. They are all about the same. 
> >>>>Most
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >very
> >  
> >
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>nice. But the gossip, backstabbing and petty hate has been an 
> >>>integral
> >>>      
> >>>
> >part
> >  
> >
> >>>of all the ones I've spent any time in to date. And it is 
> always the
> >>>      
> >>>
> >church
> >  
> >
> >>>elders and "VIP"s that are the worst offenders. Note, 
> however, it is
> >>>      
> >>>
> >seldom
> >  
> >
> >>>the priests (at least not in my hearing).
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>>>I don't think that the people should be perfect. But if 
> they point 
> >>>>their
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>finger at me (or others) and say - You are not following the LAW, 
> >>>then
> >>>      
> >>>
> >they
> >  
> >
> >>>should be willing to look at themselves at the same time, 
> and see how
> >>>      
> >>>
> >their
> >  
> >
> >>>actions fall within their own rules.
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>>>Most of these churches I have been to have a very active "other"
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >barrier.
> >  
> >
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>They are very tolerant of those inside the barrier, but do 
> not allow 
> >>>the same kind of human foibles to those outside the 
> barrier. The same 
> >>>action
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>>from one within their group is treated as a forgivable sin, but if 
> >>>done
> >>    
> >>
> >by
> >  
> >
> >>>someone outside, "they're going to hell". Fortunately the 
> barrier and 
> >>>reasons for it move from group to group, so most people can find a 
> >>>group just like them (as you say "personality is more 
> like"). But the 
> >>>very existence of that kind of thinking is at odds with the basic 
> >>>teachings of all these churches, IMHO.
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>>>You say this issue about the Bishop is not about hate. It 
> is about 
> >>>>hate.
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>Not everyone. Those who just disagree, even enthusiastically, are 
> >>>great. Differences of opinion are great. That's why there is more 
> >>>than one
> >>>      
> >>>
> >church.
> >  
> >
> >>>People who think this guy is the worst thing to come along 
> since the 
> >>>Inquisition have every right to their opinion. Heck, even those 
> >>>people
> >>>      
> >>>
> >who
> >  
> >
> >>>are calling in the death threats have the right to their opinion. 
> >>>Just
> >>>      
> >>>
> >not
> >  
> >
> >>>to act on it.
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>>>The coverage I have seen (TV, Radio, Internet) have shown 
> that many 
> >>>>of
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>those in the "against" camp are of the witch-burning 
> variety. Many of
> >>>      
> >>>
> >them
> >  
> >
> >>>hold high positions in the Anglican Church. That is what I 
> find sad 
> >>>and a little bit funny. They don't see that their very actions are
> >>>      
> >>>
> >diametrically
> >  
> >
> >>>opposite of what they say they are fighting for. And they guy they 
> >>>are fighting against seems to be better at what they say they are 
> >>>fighting
> >>>      
> >>>
> >for
> >  
> >
> >>>than they are. Funny.
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>>>I do think most Christians (since they fall in the "most people"
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >category)
> >  
> >
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>are selfish, self absorbed, and quite capable of not only 
> hating, but
> >>>      
> >>>
> >actual
> >  
> >
> >>>being proud of hating.
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>>>I also never said their (our) religion was invalid. I think its 
> >>>>great.
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >And
> >  
> >
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>I hope that someday they will _follow_ it a little more.
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>>>Jerry Johnson
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>>>>>[EMAIL PROTECTED] 08/06/03 12:32PM >>>
> >>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>              
> >>>>>>>
> >>>>I would say that your church is in the minority, and that 
> you don't 
> >>>>go
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >to
> >  
> >
> >>>>church enough, and that you need to find a church where you feel 
> >>>>that
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >your
> >  
> >
> >>>>personality is more like those of the congregation.
> >>>>
> >>>>I love my church, I have a good time going, and I don't find most 
> >>>>people
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>to
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>>>be hypocrital, just human.  It sounds as though you expect all of 
> >>>>your church goers to be practically perfect - that just 
> isn't so.  
> >>>>If you subscribe to tolerance, don't be bothered by what 
> others do, 
> >>>>just live
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >the
> >  
> >
> >>>>right life yourself.
> >>>>
> >>>>Take a minute and listen to what the bible-thumbers have 
> to say in 
> >>>>it's entirety, and you'll realize that it's not about 
> hate at all, 
> >>>>it's about different opinions than yours regarding some 
> issues.  Not 
> >>>>to say that
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>there
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>>>is not hate, but it's mostly not.
> >>>>
> >>>>It sounds like your opinion of your church leads to you 
> think that 
> >>>>most Christians are people filled with hate and therefore their 
> >>>>religion is invalid.  How's that for intolerance?  You're 
> blaming an 
> >>>>entire religion
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>for
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>>>the problems that you have your your church.  I'm sure that you 
> >>>>don't
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >know
> >  
> >
> >>>>the people that I go to church with.  They are the nicest group of
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >people
> >  
> >
> >>>>that I've ever had the chance to be affliated with.
> >>>>
> >>>>Matthew Small
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>----- Original Message -----
> >>>>From: "Jerry Johnson" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >>>>To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >>>>Sent: Wednesday, August 06, 2003 12:01 PM
> >>>>Subject: Re: Yet another scumbag parent....
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>>>First off, I am a Christian. Methodist to be precise.
> >>>>>
> >>>>>But I don't often go to Church.
> >>>>>
> >>>>>I find that the Church, and most of those who practice the 
> >>>>>Christian
> >>>>>
> >>>>>
> >>>>>          
> >>>>>
> >>>>religions, somewhat hypocritical. (And I do know this is 
> an insult.)
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>>>They preach love and tolerance, but seldom practice it. And don't
> >>>>>          
> >>>>>
> >really
> >  
> >
> >>>>>          
> >>>>>
> >>>>try too hard. Nor feel bad about it when they don't. They 
> tend to be
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>really
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>      
> >>>
> >>>>good haters. And if you don't toe the line exactly as 
> they define it
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >(and
> >  
> >
> >>>>there are hundreds of lines, all drawn in different 
> places) you are 
> >>>>a
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >bad,
> >  
> >
> >>>>bad person, and deserve all you get.
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >>>>>As for this guy, I truly don't care one way or another. If his
> >>>>>
> >>>>>
> >>>>>          
> >>>>>
> >>>>congregation is for him, that's what matters to me. 
> Intellectually. 
> >>>>It doesn't really matter to me at all in the overall 
> sense. But I do 
> >>>>get
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>        
> >>>>
> >
> 
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