yeah, you're right. too many list items...

still though I think the question is valid.

will

Wayne Putterill wrote:

>Slight correction - Buddhists don't believe in god, or at least they
>don't worship a god. There are gods in Buddhism, but they are more like
>a state of being which is impermanent - i.e. any sentient being has the
>capacity to reach that state, but eventually they will be reincarnated
>as something else. 
>
>
>  
>
>>-----Original Message-----
>>From: William H Bowen [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
>>Sent: 06 August 2003 21:10
>>To: CF-Community
>>Subject: Re: Yet another scumbag parent....
>>
>>
>>Where did I mention not believing in God? Jews believe in 
>>God, are they 
>>going to Heaven or not? Muslim, Hindu, Buddist believe in God (some 
>>several, but that's a whole other thing...) do they get to go 
>>to Heaven?
>>
>>Isn't one of your basic belief tenets that one cannot go to heaven 
>>without believing in (or being saved by) Christ? Specifically Christ.
>>
>>My comment pertains (and pertained) to Christians of one sect that 
>>believe that *Christians* of another sect will not go to 
>>heaven because 
>>the latter do not share the formers' "true belief". A sort of "*my* 
>>faith in Jesus will get me into heaven, but yours won't" attitude.
>>
>>This, in my own experience is especially true in relation to 
>>"Christian" 
>>views of Catholics.
>>
>>And, FWIW I don't have a problem with people practising their 
>>religion 
>>either, more power to ya!; and I appreciate the fact that you "don't 
>>have any problem with people believing what they want to 
>>believe" that's 
>>great, but there are those out there that *do* believe that 
>>it is their 
>>business to get into my (and others') business. There are those that 
>>*do* believe that they *must* do everything in their power to 
>>"save" me, 
>>whether they find out I'm Catholic or not (but many times especially 
>>*because* they did).
>>
>>
>>will
>>
>>Matthew Small wrote:
>>
>>    
>>
>>>What I really get out of this is that non-Christians want Christians 
>>>to:
>>>1) Not look at them as non-Christians
>>>2) Believe they are going to Heaven right along with Christians
>>>3) Ignore the Scripture as it has been taught throughout the 
>>>      
>>>
>>ages in favor
>>    
>>
>>>of a "feel-good, do what makes you happy" interpretation.
>>>
>>>Gosh, if the above is true, then what is religion for?
>>>
>>>"there are some (not all) sects of Christianity that believe that if 
>>>you're not in the  same sect/franchise/denomination/whatever (never 
>>>mind whether or not  you're a Christian) you're going to 
>>>      
>>>
>>hell. 'course 
>>    
>>
>>>we can't fault them  for their beliefs I suppose...guess 
>>>      
>>>
>>they found the 
>>    
>>
>>>section of the bible  they wanted to uphold..."
>>>
>>>So which parts of the Bible do you subscribe to that lets you go to 
>>>Heaven without believing in God?
>>>
>>>Most of the world is religious to one extent or the other. Somebody 
>>>somewhere has a different religion than mine and therefore I 
>>>      
>>>
>>will go to 
>>    
>>
>>>their version of Hell when I die.  That's fine with me.  I'm 
>>>      
>>>
>>not going 
>>    
>>
>>>to make them accept Jesus (although I believe they should).  I'm not 
>>>going to tell them that they need to pick a leader who 
>>>      
>>>
>>doesn't support 
>>    
>>
>>>their core beliefs when that opportunity arises. I'm just going to 
>>>practice my own faith, as you should practice yours or lack of faith 
>>>and let them be.
>>>
>>>Like I said before, there is a distinct anti-Christian feel to this 
>>>group, it comes up often, but not from other members of religious 
>>>organizations, but from distictly non-religious people.
>>>
>>>I don't have any problem with people believing what they want to 
>>>believe. Why do you?  I'll practice my religion, you... do whatever.
>>>
>>>Matt Small
>>>
>>>
>>>----- Original Message -----
>>>From: "William H Bowen" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>>>To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>>>Sent: Wednesday, August 06, 2003 3:41 PM
>>>Subject: Re: Yet another scumbag parent....
>>>
>>>
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>Absolutely, it's the whole idea about Christanity - that if you're
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>outside
>>>>        
>>>>
>>>>>of the religion, you're going to Hell. I don't 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>understand what the
>>    
>>
>>>>problem
>>>>
>>>>Oooo, and this brings up a personal favorite of mine...> ...nice...
>>>>
>>>>or how about those Christians that believe Catholics are going to 
>>>>hell, too? Aren't Catholics Christians as well?
>>>>
>>>>will
>>>>
>>>>Matthew Small wrote:
>>>>
>>>>   
>>>>
>>>>        
>>>>
>>>>>It's obvious you don't get it at all - wait a minute, maybe you do.
>>>>>
>>>>>Absolutely, it's the whole idea about Christanity - that if you're
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>outside
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>of the religion, you're going to Hell. I don't understand what the
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>problem
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>is with this.  Either you subscribe to the religion, or 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>you don't.  
>>    
>>
>>>>>Those that do subscribe are forgiven and go to Heaven.  Those that 
>>>>>don't
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>subscribe
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>to the religion are not forgiven and go to Hell.  There is no two 
>>>>>ways
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>about
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>it, there's no "forgiveness because he's a good person at 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>heart", no 
>>    
>>
>>>>>in-betweens, no exceptions.  Obviously, there are people within the
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>religion
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>who commit bad sins, heinous crimes, hold grudges, hate others.
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>Everybody
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>points the finger at others for their crimes and sins and ask for 
>>>>>retribution.  Fortunately, Christians know to also look at 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>themselves 
>>    
>>
>>>>>and ask for the forgiveness for their sins (including judgement of 
>>>>>others)
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>that
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>Jesus Christ gave to us when He died on the cross, and we 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>do try to 
>>    
>>
>>>>>live
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>the
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>right life.
>>>>>
>>>>>It appears to me that you're saying that the greatest 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>fault with the
>>    
>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>church
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>is the judgement of fellow man. It is a failing, but don't 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>forget the
>>    
>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>fact
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>that the ultimate judgement comes from God, and either you're with 
>>>>>Him or against Him.
>>>>>
>>>>>Matthew Small
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>----- Original Message -----
>>>>>From: "Jerry Johnson" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>>>>>To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>>>>>Sent: Wednesday, August 06, 2003 1:56 PM
>>>>>Subject: Re: Yet another scumbag parent....
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>>>I have been to many, many churches. They are all about the same. 
>>>>>>Most
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>very
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>nice. But the gossip, backstabbing and petty hate has been an 
>>>>>integral
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>part
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>of all the ones I've spent any time in to date. And it is 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>always the
>>    
>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>church
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>elders and "VIP"s that are the worst offenders. Note, 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>however, it is
>>    
>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>seldom
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>the priests (at least not in my hearing).
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>>>I don't think that the people should be perfect. But if 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>they point 
>>    
>>
>>>>>>their
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>finger at me (or others) and say - You are not following the LAW, 
>>>>>then
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>they
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>should be willing to look at themselves at the same time, 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>and see how
>>    
>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>their
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>actions fall within their own rules.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>>>Most of these churches I have been to have a very active "other"
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>barrier.
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>They are very tolerant of those inside the barrier, but do 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>not allow 
>>    
>>
>>>>>the same kind of human foibles to those outside the 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>barrier. The same 
>>    
>>
>>>>>action
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>>from one within their group is treated as a forgivable sin, but if 
>>>>        
>>>>
>>>>>done
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>   
>>>>
>>>>        
>>>>
>>>by
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>someone outside, "they're going to hell". Fortunately the 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>barrier and 
>>    
>>
>>>>>reasons for it move from group to group, so most people can find a 
>>>>>group just like them (as you say "personality is more 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>like"). But the 
>>    
>>
>>>>>very existence of that kind of thinking is at odds with the basic 
>>>>>teachings of all these churches, IMHO.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>>>You say this issue about the Bishop is not about hate. It 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>is about 
>>    
>>
>>>>>>hate.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>Not everyone. Those who just disagree, even enthusiastically, are 
>>>>>great. Differences of opinion are great. That's why there is more 
>>>>>than one
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>church.
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>People who think this guy is the worst thing to come along 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>since the 
>>    
>>
>>>>>Inquisition have every right to their opinion. Heck, even those 
>>>>>people
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>who
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>are calling in the death threats have the right to their opinion. 
>>>>>Just
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>not
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>to act on it.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>>>The coverage I have seen (TV, Radio, Internet) have shown 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>that many 
>>    
>>
>>>>>>of
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>those in the "against" camp are of the witch-burning 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>variety. Many of
>>    
>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>them
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>hold high positions in the Anglican Church. That is what I 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>find sad 
>>    
>>
>>>>>and a little bit funny. They don't see that their very actions are
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>diametrically
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>opposite of what they say they are fighting for. And they guy they 
>>>>>are fighting against seems to be better at what they say they are 
>>>>>fighting
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>for
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>than they are. Funny.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>>>I do think most Christians (since they fall in the "most people"
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>category)
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>are selfish, self absorbed, and quite capable of not only 
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>hating, but
>>    
>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>actual
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>being proud of hating.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>>>I also never said their (our) religion was invalid. I think its 
>>>>>>great.
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>And
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>I hope that someday they will _follow_ it a little more.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>>>Jerry Johnson
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>[EMAIL PROTECTED] 08/06/03 12:32PM >>>
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>             
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>                  
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>I would say that your church is in the minority, and that 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>you don't 
>>    
>>
>>>>>>go
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>to
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>>church enough, and that you need to find a church where you feel 
>>>>>>that
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>your
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>>personality is more like those of the congregation.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>I love my church, I have a good time going, and I don't find most 
>>>>>>people
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>to
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>>>be hypocrital, just human.  It sounds as though you expect all of 
>>>>>>your church goers to be practically perfect - that just 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>isn't so.  
>>    
>>
>>>>>>If you subscribe to tolerance, don't be bothered by what 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>others do, 
>>    
>>
>>>>>>just live
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>the
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>>right life yourself.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Take a minute and listen to what the bible-thumbers have 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>to say in 
>>    
>>
>>>>>>it's entirety, and you'll realize that it's not about 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>hate at all, 
>>    
>>
>>>>>>it's about different opinions than yours regarding some 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>issues.  Not 
>>    
>>
>>>>>>to say that
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>there
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>>>is not hate, but it's mostly not.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>It sounds like your opinion of your church leads to you 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>think that 
>>    
>>
>>>>>>most Christians are people filled with hate and therefore their 
>>>>>>religion is invalid.  How's that for intolerance?  You're 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>blaming an 
>>    
>>
>>>>>>entire religion
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>for
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>>>the problems that you have your your church.  I'm sure that you 
>>>>>>don't
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>know
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>>the people that I go to church with.  They are the nicest group of
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>people
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>>that I've ever had the chance to be affliated with.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Matthew Small
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>----- Original Message -----
>>>>>>From: "Jerry Johnson" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>>>>>>To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>>>>>>Sent: Wednesday, August 06, 2003 12:01 PM
>>>>>>Subject: Re: Yet another scumbag parent....
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>>>First off, I am a Christian. Methodist to be precise.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>But I don't often go to Church.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>I find that the Church, and most of those who practice the 
>>>>>>>Christian
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>         
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>              
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>religions, somewhat hypocritical. (And I do know this is 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>an insult.)
>>    
>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>>>They preach love and tolerance, but seldom practice it. And don't
>>>>>>>         
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>              
>>>>>>>
>>>really
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>>>         
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>              
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>try too hard. Nor feel bad about it when they don't. They 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>tend to be
>>    
>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>really
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>     
>>>>>
>>>>>          
>>>>>
>>>>>>good haters. And if you don't toe the line exactly as 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>they define it
>>    
>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>(and
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>>there are hundreds of lines, all drawn in different 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>places) you are 
>>    
>>
>>>>>>a
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>bad,
>>> 
>>>
>>>      
>>>
>>>>>>bad person, and deserve all you get.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>>>>>>As for this guy, I truly don't care one way or another. If his
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>         
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>              
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>congregation is for him, that's what matters to me. 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>Intellectually. 
>>    
>>
>>>>>>It doesn't really matter to me at all in the overall 
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>>sense. But I do 
>>    
>>
>>>>>>get
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>       
>>>>>>
>>>>>>            
>>>>>>
>
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