On Nov 5, 2006, at 3:24 PM, authfriend wrote: > > One wonders how much time *Barry* has spent with women > in a tight, hierarchical group, Mother Divine in > particular.
Well, obviously nobody except those on MD have spent much time there, unless it's the cooks or others who work for them. > > I suppose if a particular woman were driven to be at the > top of a hierarchy, she might endure all kinds of things > to stay there, or get there. But I don't think that's > what drives most women. They tend to be more team > players, and if they're getting something from being in > the group, they don't mind if they aren't the ones to > rise to the top. Some may even avoid it. Whether > that's nature or nurture, I couldn't say. > > But if they're not getting their jollies from being at > the top, there has to be something else they find > satisfying, or they wouldn't come back. Doesn't mean > everything is perfect, necessarily, but whatever isn't > right has to be made up for by something else. Yep, and one wonders what it is--I would guess some kind of security. Gotta be *some* payoff for all that boredom. Sal To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
