Thanks again Marylyn.  I had just sat down to do some googling for Len.  We 
have a nice back room, the laundry room, just redid it with easily cleanable 
flooring so we've decided that will be his night time room.  We're also able to 
leave the patio door open enough for him to go out there but not wide enough 
that intruders could get in.  The patio is screened in and he enjoys being out 
there during the day.  It's at night when the problems arise, kind of like my 
mom was with Alzheimer's.  | want to do some searching about medications too, 
perhaps sedative and/or calming type products.  I have cat nip growing all over 
the place but neither of our cats care about the stuff.  I am also going to 
look for the Feliway.  It's certainly worth a try.  We're not going to give up 
on him yet.  I just don't think it's quite the time.

  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: Marylyn 
  Sent: Saturday, August 02, 2008 1:18 PM
  Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] a decision

  On Aug 2, 2008, at 12:17 PM, Marylyn wrote:

    Can you confine him to an area where he will cause no harm?  Perhaps try 
some sort of sedatives or catnip or ????? to relieve whatever anxieties he may 
have?  I am a big believer in Feliway and Rescue Remedy.  This is assuming he 
is having some problems because of anxiety and/or is picking up on your anxiety 
over the problems.  Just ideas.  

    If there are no a/cs in your area, most will consult by phone.   Here is 
the emails of two I know personally:   [EMAIL PROTECTED] (Ann Baumbach)    
[EMAIL PROTECTED]  (Judy Guetig Greenberg).  You can email them and ask 
questions re their qualifications, prices, etc.  There are wonderful articles 
on the internet if you Google for them.  This is a website that has some 
information on it:  You can do this yourself but 
you may find  that you are too close to the situation.  As always, I am putting 
this on the table.  Take what works for you and leave the rest.  If none of it 
feels right to you, do not feel bad.   We are all on our own paths and they are 
not the same.

    Good luck. 

    On Aug 2, 2008, at 10:27 AM, Lynne wrote:

      Thanks Marylyn and Sally.  I have never heard of an animal communicator.  
And no Sally I haven't taken him to the vet.  We agreed though that we are 
going to before making a decision.  My husband said he got so angry last night 
for what Lennie had done but says he doesn't want to have him put down if we 
can make some changes that may help him.  I gave my husband a good lashing 
about getting angry about a poor old senile guy not knowing what he's doing and 
reminded him that there may come a day that he craps himself and hopefully no 
one will get angry at him.  He's always been very close to Len, and I know he 
doesn't want to lose him.  SO we are going to make an appointment to have him 
checked out and see if there is anything to help him.  The only problem is, you 
know yourself that some vets will order every test ever invented and prescribe 
a ton of medication that honestly serves no purpose.  I can almost predict what 
Len's vet will do.  Prednisone and antibiotics, more blood work maybe even an 
x-ray.  I've practically broke the bank with BooBoo, Snowy and Len.  Still, 
we'll take him in for treatment and work on making a plan to help with 
"mistakes" at night.  AND I am going to search around to see if there is an 
animal communicator in my area.

      Again, thanks girls for the advice.

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