Dear Monica,
   Well, to be clear, I didn't wish to say anything on the open list
   since, knowing how some may take any suggestion, even if meant
   helpfully (as explained in my longer subsequent posting), as a slight,
   a private rather than public message was thought more appropriate in
   this case. Just because someone's name is on this list doesn't prohibit
   one from conducting private communications if considered more
   appropriate (and tactful..........).
   In general I think the usual protocol is probably the wisest to follow:
   a personal message is just that. Ralf Mattes well sets this out in his
   message yesterday.
   And yes, if we think it more appropriate to discuss things personally
   with another individual list member (who we may already know anyway)
   then I can see no problem with that. Indeed, some of the more useful
   and helpful messages I receive from time to time are by from individual
   list members not copied to the entire list. Horses for courses I
   think..........
   regards,
   Martyn.
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   From: "[email protected]" <[email protected]>
   To: LutList <[email protected]>
   Sent: Thursday, 4 August 2016, 15:31
   Subject: [LUTE] Privacy
   I think that what I was trying to say has been misconstrued - as is
   often the case with these arguments.
   If you are on Facebook - or Earlyguitar.ning people can only contact
   you directly if you accept them as friends.
   This list is different.  Anyone can join, there is no moderator, nobody
   decides who may join.  That means that everyone on the list has access
   to everyone else's e-mails. This facility should not be abused.
   As I understand it Martyn contacted Anton after he had posted details
   of his latest intabulations on this list. If Martyn has anything
   helpful to say that might help Anton  to make his work even more useful
   than it is already - and a lot of people do find it very useful and are
   grateful to him for posting the details - then why not say it here. We
   have discussed this before.
   Does being on this list mean that anyone is entitled to engage in a
   one-
   to-one correspondence with you?
   Better leave it at that as this will probably be misconstrued too.
   Monica
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