Horse,

I do try to respond, but often the complaints make no sense to me, or come from 
nowhere.  How am I suppose to defend against having my thoughts accused of 
representing nihilistic relativism or solipsistic subjectivism?  Based on what? 
 Dmb's opinion?  And when I ask for evidence, I get something like "Anyone can 
just check the archives."  Or my request for precise evidence and explanation 
is transformed onto "evasion"?  While a rhetorical device like stating my 
"attitude is way too sanctimonious and it's as pretentious as a monkey in a 
tux." is humorous, it is an ad hominem attack and besides any intellectual 
point.  I might be able to address complaints if they did not contain sideshow 
theatrics.  I have been very diligent in trying to address serious and clear 
complaints.

I do like you suggestion that discussions be confined to one point at a time, 
and those points should address ideas and not people.



Marsha

p.s.  Until you state otherwise I will take the 4 posts per day rule to be the 
case.








On Sep 19, 2013, at 6:22 AM, Horse <[email protected]> wrote:

> Hi Marsha
> 
> I think that much of what you say below is a result of prior unwillingness to 
> engage in discussions which has raised tempers and, consequently resulted in, 
> for want of a better phrase, a slanging match!
> If this is to change then it will take an effort by all concerned (not just 
> yourself) to take a step back, take a deep breath and re-engage in a 
> reasonable, rational and measured way. No insults, sarcasm, parody, 
> misrepresentation etc.and no prevarication, sidestepping, dismissal or 
> evasion.
> 
> There has been far too much acrimony (on both sides) in the past and this 
> needs to stop.
> 
> May I suggest that, if you are now prepared to engage meaningfully with 
> others on this forum, then both yourself and anyone else involved take one 
> point at a time and consider only that point until you have at least some 
> idea of where you agree or disagree. I would also suggest that, given the 
> four posts a day limit currently in force, that everyone involved in the 
> discussions limit their responses apprpriately in order that you are all able 
> to answer questions and criticisms made. I will be quite happy to increase 
> the post limitations, either individually or overall, if it is required or 
> necessary.
> 
> Please remember (all of you) that moq_discuss is the ONLY forum on the 
> internet that works AND is exclusive to the MoQ and Robert Pirsigs work. So 
> please exercise restraint and enter into the discussions in a fair and 
> reasonable way.
> 
> Horse
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> On 19/09/2013 10:28, MarshaV wrote:
>> Horse,
>> 
>> I do not feel obliged to defend myself against projections, 
>> misrepresentations, sarcasm, irony, parody and insults, which does not 
>> represent a fair discussion.  For example, I should argue that I am not a 
>> postmodernism psychopath?  I cannot relate to dmb's complaints or 
>> accusations within any statement I have ever made.  If he would present my 
>> exact statements and cite the precise post (subject and time&date) as 
>> context, I will try to explain.
>> 
>> Recently I wrote to dmb:
>> 
>> 
>> On Sep 5, 2013, at 2:38 PM, MarshaV wrote:
>> 
>>> Until you can admit that you might be wrong, that you might need 
>>> correcting, you will never learn. In other words, you will never learn.
>> Wrong about your misrepresentations?  For example, you've repeatedly said 
>> that I don't understand the difference between Dynamic Quality and static 
>> quality.  I have forever said that the difference is Dynamic Quality is 
>> unpatterned, while static quality is patterned?  Am I wrong?
>> 
>> ---
>> 
>> Where was the answer to my question?
>>        Marsha
> 
> -- 
> 
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> deadlines or dates by which bills must be paid."
> — Frank Zappa
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