@Isaac S A leveled and rational response that ignores Bryan Cantrill shockingly inflammatory public attempt at shaming Ben. The community response is (mostly) based on public information, so if there is a private justification for Bryan's publicly rude behavior and treatment of a community member Joyent should clear the air, apologize, or understand that the community is right to condemn such behavior by one of Joyent's officers. I was disappointed and shocked to see such malice on Joyent's or any corporate blog.
Unfortunately, this is not the first time I've witnessed rude behavior by Joyent staff, as I recall being called a troll publicly by you on Twitter while I attempted to have a discussion on a proposal for improving error handling in core. We're all in this together, and Joyent needs to understand they're in a position of responsibility and hopefully after this will start acting like it. Cheers, Adam Crabtree On Fri, Dec 6, 2013 at 8:26 AM, Isaac Schlueter <[email protected]> wrote: > Perhaps against my better judgement, I want to try to clear up a few > things. > > First of all, to characterize Ben's departure, or the whole recent drama, > as being over pronoun usage, is a radical oversimplification. > > Every group has internal tensions, and ours is no different. It is normal > and healthy for projects like Node to gradually cycle new members in and > out as people's interests, skills, and motivation shift over time. > Remember that Ryan guy? He sure wrote a lot of code. When he left, > people said that Node wouldn't survive. The tech press called it a "mic > drop", even though it was 6 months in the making (of course, how would they > know that Ryan and I worked closely for a long time planning his > departure?) And yet, here we are. People sometimes give me credit for > being his replacement, but that's really unfair praise. When he left, we > suffered from that loss, and we just had to figure out how to carry on. > Same for Igor, Felix, Paul, and all the rest who once were extremely > engaged and are now either watching from the sidelines, or not even > watching at all. That's life, and growing pains suck for a little while, > but it's actually a sign of health. > > Most of the time, we announce new project member additions, but do not > announce project members leaving. Typically, leaving the project happens > gradually, and there's really no point making any kind of public > announcement about it. This is the second time that we've done so. (The > first was Ryan handing off the project lead spot to me.) Ben made the > decision to leave, and publicly stated this on GitHub and in an email to > the core libuv team. I wrote this message (and sent it only after getting > feedback from the rest of the team), because I felt that it was important > to call out the good things he's done for us and wish him the best. > > Ben's done a ton of work on Node core and libuv, including writing code, > managing issues, reviewing patches, and mentoring newcomers. For that, we > should all be thankful. He's not a sexist or a bigot or a horrible person, > and perhaps after some time he'll be more involved with Node again. Who > knows? There was (and still is) a lot of negativity in the air, and the > best thing we can all do is let the dust settle, and move on. > > This FUD around "What if you're the next Ben?!" is ridiculous. It's a bit > like seeing someone break up with their significant other, and wondering if > you can be friends with them, since they are no longer with that other > person you also like. "If he broke HER heart, he can break mine!" But it > doesn't actually work that way. Similarly with the complaints about how no > one spoke to Ben privately. (Which is absurd on the face of it--how could > you even know what we said to one another in private? That's how privacy > works!) > > I understand that, from the outside, an event like this seems like it > happens in one flash, and certainly there were some rather sudden fireworks > last week. But no one decides to join or leave a project overnight like > that. Ben is a smart guy with many talents. He'll do fine, I'm sure. > > We all enjoy the addictive dopamine rush of conflict. We all have > opinions about who did what wrong, and fears that they might do it to us. > Some people will try to serve their own interests by fanning the flames to > generate press, or try to push the community in a direction that suits > them, or take a cheap shot at a project that they see as a threat to their > own. The best thing we can do is keep calm and get back to what we were > doing. > > The future is much bigger than the past. Let's get to it. > > > > On Fri, Dec 6, 2013 at 7:34 AM, Mihai Ene <[email protected]> wrote: > >> Thank you Ben for your great contributions! We're sad this happened. >> >> 'nuff said >> > > -- > -- > Job Board: http://jobs.nodejs.org/ > Posting guidelines: > https://github.com/joyent/node/wiki/Mailing-List-Posting-Guidelines > You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google > Groups "nodejs" group. > To post to this group, send email to [email protected] > To unsubscribe from this group, send email to > [email protected] > For more options, visit this group at > http://groups.google.com/group/nodejs?hl=en?hl=en > > --- > You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups > "nodejs" group. > To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an > email to [email protected]. > For more options, visit https://groups.google.com/groups/opt_out. > -- Better a little with righteousness than much gain with injustice. 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