Re: [lace-chat] Chestnut adventure

2009-10-22 Thread Lynn Carpenter

Jane Viking Swanson jvik...@sover.net wrote:

Hi All,  DH got a bunch of edible chestnuts a couple weeks ago.  THe spiny
pods opened up to reveal the brown nuts.  Then he broke some open and has
been eating the raw ones and giving me some.
(snip)
I ate some of the roasted ones and I still don't like them very much.  They
are so mealy in texture.  DH is still eating them.  I do like the delicate
flavor but I had expected something crunchy.

Hi, Jane  all,

Some chestnut research has been done near me using Chinese hybrid 
chestnuts.  When we first moved to our house, we found trees on the farm 
next door and got some of the nuts to plant.  Our nuts are now small trees 
that have just started to bear in the last year or two.  Time flies!


I have to agree on the texture.  The farm down the road that is producing 
them now had a charcoal grill and was roasting them when the closest little 
town had a mini-festival after Thanksgiving.  They smell good, but the 
texture is like garbanzo beans.


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[lace-chat] recipes with cloves

2007-02-27 Thread Lynn Carpenter
The chili recipe my mom (which came from my dad's Aunt Ruth) always uses
has cloves, the spice, in it.  My husband likes to add the garlic -- but
that's not on the recipe!

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[lace-chat] the tall Dutch

2007-02-27 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Hazel Smith [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Here in Holland we find the top
shelves in the supermarkets are too high for us to
reach because the Dutch are on average much taller
than Brits. We chuckle and say It's so anti-British

That's for sure!  In the US, I'm about average height for a woman, but in
the Netherlands I felt like I was looking at everyone's belt buckles.  But
my husband had it worse -- once I remember him coming out of a bathroom
totally flustered, as the height of the urinal in it was too high!

I read somewhere that the Dutch had the tallest average height in the
world.  Now I can't find where I read that, but I believe it.

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Re: [lace-chat] I know it is not lace

2007-01-30 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Dora Northern [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I know it is not lace, but I just had to show off with some of the work which
were done in my Upholstery classes.
They all worked very hard and we had much fun as well.

My next webpage will show all my pictures I made in lace.So please forgive me
showing chairs, but you must admit lace would not look very well on it.

http://theknotter.atspace.com

Your webpage opened all right for me -- and I have the same rule when I
vacuum under the chair cushions:
Anything found in chairs or sofas belongs to the (vacuum-er) especially
money.

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[lace-chat] Re: Christmas too early

2007-01-02 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Tamara P Duvall [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I have my own beef with premie Christmas and it's the Christmas 
trees disappearing, by Dec 15 or wearlier. Our supplier sets up on the 
Friday after Thanksgiving and is gone  (sold out? given up?) sometime 
between Dec 10 and 15. But, in Poland, we don't set up our home tree 
until Dec 24th (Christmas Eve). And we don't take it down till Jan 6th 
(Epiphany). Even a dyed-in-the-wool atheist like myself knows that.

I'm lucky:  living in SW Outer Nowhere has the side benefit that Christmas
trees are grown here.  Although I do see several shipments of them on
trucks early in November (no wonder the needles fall off!), with a little
effort I can still cut my own a week or so before Christmas.

For all the fuss that's being made in US about the godless liberals 
declaring a war on Christmas it's the theofascists, driven by profits, 
who have taken both the meaning and the magic out of the holiday. I 
used to love Christmas but don't anymore.

I spend a lot of time in stores turning my head, looking the other way, and
practically plugging my ears and singing la la la to avoid even seeing
all the Buy buy buy now now now that goes on.

Not to mention that snow is now a hit-and-miss thing for Christmas.  When I
was growing up only 60 miles from here, we always had snow for Christmas,
sometimes for Thanksgiving.  Whether it's global warming or not, we have
certainly experienced a considerable change from then (1960's and 70's) to
now.

This year we had no snow for Christmas, still no snow now, and temperatures
near 50 degrees F.  Pfui!

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[lace-chat] Latvian mittens at Riga NATO summit

2006-12-12 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Take a look at the awesome mittens -- 4500 pairs -- given away at the NATO
summit.

Habetrot's blog, where I heard about it:
http://habetrot.typepad.com/habetrot/2006/12/a_treasure_trov.html

Mitten galleries from the Riga summit webpages:

Latvian women`s mittens from the Latgale region, 9 pages (a full page shows
20 mittens!)
http://www.rigasummit.lv/en/id/gallery/nid/114/

Latvian men`s mittens from the Latgale region, 9 pages
http://www.rigasummit.lv/en/id/gallery/nid/115/

Latvian women`s mittens from the Kurzeme region, 6 pages
http://www.rigasummit.lv/en/id/gallery/nid/116/

Latvian men`s mittens from the Kurzeme region, 9 pages
http://www.rigasummit.lv/en/id/gallery/nid/117/

Latvian women`s mittens from the Zemgale region, 9 pages
http://www.rigasummit.lv/en/id/gallery/nid/118/

Latvian men`s mittens from the Zemgale region, 9 pages
http://www.rigasummit.lv/en/id/gallery/nid/119/

Latvian men`s mittens from the Vidzeme region, 8 pages
http://www.rigasummit.lv/en/id/gallery/nid/120/

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Re: [lace-chat] how government works and recycling

2006-09-19 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Rosemary Naish [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Someone who only had their recycling collected fortnightly, but had 
also been the recipient of an edict forbidding food waste in the 
ordinary bin, asked her local council what to do with the remains of 
her sunday roast chicken until the recycling bin was collected. The 
official, and absolutely serious, answer was either not have roast 
meals until just before the bin was due to be collected or to put the 
remains in her freezer until collection day!

We live in what I often call Southwest outer Nowhere, and we don't have
trash pickup.  Instead, our taxes to the local township pay for something
called a transfer station, which is basically a pickup point for all of
our trash.  The transfer station is open on Saturdays, and we haul our
trash there.  Each year they issue us a punch card, and if you use it up,
you have to buy another.

We recycle and compost most of our trash, but for fatty or greasy things
like the chicken bones (which don't go into the compost heap, because
caterwauling raccoons at 3am wake both me and the dogs!), we do keep a
labelled bag in the freezer.  Often we skip a week between trips to the
transfer station, and I'm sure two-week-old chicken scraps would get pretty
unpleasant if we didn't freeze them.

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[lace-chat] three snakes on a large round pillow

2006-08-17 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Rosemary Naish [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I also like the idea floated earlier of having three snakes on a large 
round pillow, so several people could have a go at once. So often when 
someone else is using the have a go pillow a child has wanted to try 
but couldn't wait long enough.

I read this message, and since I understood what it was about, it didn't
really strike me until later how calmly I had read the phrase three snakes
on a large round pillow.

Then it struck me as very funny!

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Re: [lace-chat] another strange 'lace' tool

2006-08-06 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Alice Howell [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Here is a lacemaking board that's different.  Any
clues, anyone?

http://cgi.ebay.com/antique-sewing-tool-lace-making-or-knitting-1800_W0QQit
emZ280009330998

Looks to this weaver like a warping paddle!  Here is a much plainer wooden
one in an eBay store:
http://cgi.ebay.com/Wood-warping-paddle-hand-weaving-tool-weaver-warp_W0QQit
emZ8257312619

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Re: [lace-chat] World Cup

2006-06-14 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Jean Nathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Just watching USA playing football against the Czech Republic in the FIFA 
World Cup (soccer to those in the US, and incidentally USA is currently 
losing 2-0), and it got me wondering how the team came about. We don't hear 
about it being played in schools,

Since I don't watch TV or follow sports, I have missed most of this, except
for some depressing commentary on the radio about the US team's, er,
performance.

But soccer is played enough here that the phrase soccer mom shows up in
Wikipedia!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soccer_mom

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[lace-chat] Drat, forgot to email this!

2006-06-14 Thread Lynn Carpenter
*sigh*

Just found this half-written email in my Out box, not sent.

I was listening to the BBC World Service on the radio last week, and was
surprised to hear the announcers talking to someone in Hell, Michigan.
(This was Monday night, just before 6/6/06.)

I think we talked about the place back when we were sharing webcams around
the world, or maybe just talking about odd place names.

Anyway, it really tickled my funnybone to hear the announcer solemnly
asking someone in Hell what he thought was going to happen.  And
predictably, after they thanked him, the other announcer did wonder how hot
it actually got in Hell.  (Rarely over 100 degrees F.)

It's a tiny place, hardly a dot on the map.

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[lace-chat] sirens

2006-06-01 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Sue [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Our town air raid sirens are also still used as a flood warning, about once
a year they are tested and although I cannot remember the war they still
give me the creeps when they go off.

The sirens around here mark the 10-mile boundary for a nuclear power plant.
 If they go off, I'm afraid I'd have more than the creeps. :(

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[lace-chat] Re: What's the term?

2006-05-08 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Tamara P Duvall [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

On May 6, 2006, at 11:09, Lynn Carpenter wrote:

 And I don't know if this one counts -- I always think it sounds like a
 tattoo-and-piercing place -- there is a law firm that advertises on 
 one of
 the public radio stations I listen to called Harness, Dickey  
 Pierce.

Sounds like owners of an SM club to me. Though, I suppose, equally 
suitable for a law firm :)

Intellectual property lawyers -- is that close enough? ;D
Harness, Dickey  Pierce website:
http://www.hdp.com/

The opening page alone says l a w y e r s ! all over it.

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Re: [lace-chat] What's the term?

2006-05-06 Thread Lynn Carpenter
I remember going on vacation with my parents and driving through a little
town where the dentist's name was Dr. Paine.

And I don't know if this one counts -- I always think it sounds like a
tattoo-and-piercing place -- there is a law firm that advertises on one of
the public radio stations I listen to called Harness, Dickey  Pierce.

It's true, really, try Googling them!

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[lace-chat] gammon

2006-04-22 Thread Lynn Carpenter
David in Ballarat [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

NOw I've just been talking with a cousin who wants me to ask all you
knowledgeable folk whether anyone uses the word gammon.

The only place I've ever seen gammon was in Beatrix Potter's The Pie and
the Patty-Pan, where the magpie says Gammon and spinach!

:)


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[lace-chat] Re: paraffin

2006-04-19 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Joy Beeson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Jean Nathan wrote:

 It's not paraffin wax. It's a bit like petrol (gas) but not so volatile. 
 Used to be used here a lot in free standing room heaters 

I'm pretty sure that your paraffin is our kerosene.  There
used to be a little kerosene pump at the side of every
filling station, but you can't buy kerosene at all now, let
alone by the gallon.

Guess that's a regional thing -- here in SW Michigan, there are still
regular pumps at many gas stations labelled kerosene.  They sell it for
use in kerosene heaters.


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[lace-chat] Re: Writing (was: Editing )

2006-02-15 Thread Lynn Carpenter
When I was in college, we were sternly told that when we described our lab
work, it should always be in the impersonal and passive voice.  Thus

Fifty-seven cubic centimeters of water were added to the soil mixture
containing three varieties of petunia seed.

Hey!  Wake up!  No snoring on lace-chat!

I hated writing like that.  Who added that water?  What, did it just
materialize over the soil like a tiny miniature rainstorm?  Godlike,
indeed, if so!

Most of my grammar is self-taught.  The English teacher I had in high
school -- hah!  A woman so boring I can't even remember her name without
searching through my old mildewy yearbook.  She obviously didn't love
teaching English.

I learned far more English puzzling my way through Dickens and Sir Arthur
Conan Doyle, and can remember being in complete sympathy with Amy Carter
bringing a book to a state dinner.


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Re: [lace-chat] Terry Pratchett

2006-02-10 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Helen [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Lace and fantasy/sci-fi readers isn't a combination I would 
necessarily have put together but I don't know why.  Somehow, through 
sheer fluke, I've managed to get a copy of the Soul Music animation 
on DVDand my brother's got the Wyrd Sisters DVD.  I've received every 
book since Jingo as either a birthday or a Christmas present.

I've built up a collection of them all through Thief of Time.  I even
have Strata, which doesn't seem to have turned up in the round of
reprints and American releases.

http://news.independent.co.uk/media/article344232.ece

I noted this quote from the article above:
 . . . a 6ft 7in Dutchman will play Death in person.

I don't generally feel short in the US, but when we went to the Netherlands
-- well, let's just say I haven't looked so many belt buckles in the eye
since I was in grade school!


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[lace-chat] Re: favourite authors

2006-02-09 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Sharon Whiteley [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

My all-time favourite author is Terry Pratchett.

Hooray, another Terry Pratchett fan!  I hate to say Me, too, but I'll say
it anyway.

The only time I got really mad reading one was when it turned out to be a
bowdlerized Americanized version where Mr. Dibbler's famous
sausages-inna-bun had been somehow turned into hot dogs.  Ack. :P

Talk about wanting to reach out and smack some silly editor.  Or maybe feed
the gormless soul a sausage-inna-bun!  I hate it when they do that.  Lucky
for Dickens he doesn't live now, or we'd be reading It was the best and
worst of times.


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[lace-chat] For the aluminum-coifed among us

2005-11-13 Thread Lynn Carpenter
On the Effectiveness of Aluminium Foil Helmets:
An Empirical Study

http://people.csail.mit.edu/rahimi/helmet/

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Re: [lace-chat] Cleaning

2005-10-27 Thread Lynn Carpenter
 Jane Partridge [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

In message [EMAIL PROTECTED], Alice
Howell [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes
At 08:09 AM 10/26/2005, you wrote:
I've been cleaning everything in the house this last month, .
  I have found:...
1 An ENTIRE CLEAN SHELF

The SHELF is what I envy the most of your finds!!!

ermm... has anyone seen the floor recently, I seem to have lost it
somewhere under his computer magazines :-)

I have a table like that, too.  I know it must be under there, otherwise
all that stuff is just levitating !

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Re: [lace-chat] moka maker and coffee press

2005-09-21 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Sylvie Nguyen [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Thank you to the list, as I now know what my coffee
makers are called in English.  

To add to the variety of coffee makers that we've
mentioned, I can describe one more.  In the past, my
father and husband have used single-serving makers
that are placed on top of coffee cups.  First coffee
is placed in the small metal drip-type cup.  Next a
small perforated disk is screwed onto a center post in
the cup.  Hot water is poured into the metal cup,
which has been set on top of the coffee cup.  Of
course, it takes several minutes for all of the hot
water to drip through.

Oh.  Yes, we actually have one of those, too.  We first saw them when we
ordered Thai coffee at a tiny  Viet Namese restaurant my husband likes, and
later bought one at the Mexican / Viet Namese food store where he buys kim
chi.

I also forgot we do have one small drip machine, besides the others I
mentioned before.  (Is it possible to have too many coffee pots? [twinkle] )

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Re: [lace-chat] coffee plunger

2005-09-20 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Malvary J Cole [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Sylvie wrote:  My coffee is made in what you have called a coffee plunger. 
The water in put in the bottom portion, the grounds in the middle.  As the 
water is heated up, it's forced up, through the grounds, into the top 
portion.

Sylvie, I think what you are describing is a coffee percolator.

I'm something of a coffee-pot connoisseur, and Sylvie's description does
sound something like a percolator, but I think she is describing a moka
pot.  We have three of these, in three sizes, made in Italy.  This page
shows an example:
http://www.viecokitchen.com/mokexbia.htm

In my house right now, I have percolators (both electric and the stovetop
one we use when camping), vacuum pots, moka pots, and my coffee saucepan,
a tiny yellow-enamelled saucepan with a percolator insert and a big glass lid.

If it has to do with coffee making, we have probably tried it!

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[lace-chat] Katrina

2005-09-14 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Sent to me via the origami list: 

http://www.defendamerica.mil/articles/sep2005/a090905ms2.html
 
It's a report on Iraqi soldiers who collected up a million dinars for
victims of Hurricane Katrina.  It amounts to more than a year's pay for many
people there.

I have nothing to add.

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[lace-chat] Iraqi Katrina donation

2005-09-14 Thread Lynn Carpenter
I said I had nothing to add -- I was mistaken.

The article says the total is over a month's pay for the Iraqi soldiers who
collected the money.  My origami-list correspondent said it was over a
*year's* pay for many of the Iraqi people.  I don't know, myself, if Iraqi
soldiers are making 12 times what other Iraqi citizens are making.
(Although I think they probably deserve it for their courage, making
themselves targets of other Iraqis.)

http://www.defendamerica.mil/articles/sep2005/a090905ms2.html
 
It's a report on Iraqi soldiers who collected up a million dinars for
victims of Hurricane Katrina.  It amounts to more than a year's pay for many
people there.

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[lace-chat] smaller knitting needles

2005-08-31 Thread Lynn Carpenter
susan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

i don't know why i forgot that lacis is an american company.  i'm sure
someone brought that up in an email a few days ago.  they are the only
ones who carry a complete supply of knitting needles in the smaller
sizes.

I know of several US suppliers of the smaller size (00 to 8-0) knitting
needles besides Lacis.

Here are a few I can remember off the top of my head:
http://www.purseparadise.com/
http://www.baglady.com/
http://www.jklneedles.com/
http://www.mielkesfarm.com/

I'm sure I'll remember another two or three as soon as I press Send!

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[lace-chat] Re: Creepy crawlies

2005-08-08 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Carol Adkinson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I am becoming even more thankful that I live in the UK!   We don't have to
put up with all these poisonous and unpleasant creepy crawlies and snakes!

Michigan's list of creepy crawlies is pretty short.  There is supposed to
be one poisonous snake that lives in Michigan, the massasauga rattlesnake.
They are very shy and rare, and although I have gone camping many times, I
have never seen one.

We do have various kinds of wasps and hornets.  When I was growing up,
there used to be wild honeybees, and if you had dandelions or clover in
your lawn, once in a while someone would be stung on the ankle or foot.
But these days the varroa mites and trachea mites have killed off most of
the wild honeybees, so you only see them if you are near a beekeeper.

I still find it very strange to stand by a flowering tree in the spring,
and see that the few bees in the blossoms are big bumble bees, and not hear
the flowers buzzing with honey bees.

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[lace-chat] Re: silkworms

2005-08-08 Thread Lynn Carpenter
BrambleLane [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Ricki in Utah writes: I've thought about raising silkworms in my mulberry
trees, too, until I heard someone explain it's cruelty to animals.

Ricki, I am in my second season of raising silkworms.  I am a handspinner.
And I intend to use the silk from them.  I would be interested in knowing
why it is considered cruelty to animals.

I think that must be the point when cocoons for reeling are put in boiling
water, killing the caterpillars before they chew their way out.

Personally I'm not that sentimental about caterpillars.  I've certainly
killed my share of the white cabbage butterfly caterpillars!

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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[lace-chat] Wasp story

2005-08-08 Thread Lynn Carpenter
We certainly have a lot of bug stories, don't we?  This is better than
the flame war that sometimes seem to start up in August.  Give me creepy
crawly stories from the safety of the computer room any time!

Nova's wasp story reminded me that I have a wasp story of my own.

A couple of years ago, in the fall, I took in a batch of laundry I had hung
outdoors on the clothesline.  The days were getting shorter and cooler, and
so some of the heavier fabrics, like denim blue jeans, had not quite dried.
 So I put the whole batch into the dryer, thinking that at least they were
partly dry.

The next morning I pulled out a pair of my slacks to wear to work and put
them on.  As I walked to the kitchen I felt that jabbing pain Nova
described -- like having a hot knitting needle spiked into you -- right
where the back of the leg meets the buttock!  YOW!  I dropped those pants
so fast!  And sure enough, a wasp had ridden indoors on the laundry and
survived its tumbling in the dryer.

All I could think of was the fact that for me, wasp bites usually swell,
and then they *itch*.  I would be going to work (minus the wasp!), with an
itchy wasp bite right on my backside!

But strangely, this wasp bite, although it hurt, never started to itch.  I
slowly realized that it must have used up all of its venom stinging the
laundry as it tumbled in the hot dryer!  And I thanked goodness that the
batch hadn't quite dried.  Otherwise it might have been my hand, as I
folded the laundry, that met up with the wasp.

I learned my lesson -- when the wasps start looking for places to hibernate
in the fall, I give up hanging laundry outdoors, even if the day is sunny
and warm.  It's not worth the wasp-roulette!

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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[lace-chat] Re: IDIOTS

2005-07-30 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Tamara P Duvall [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 This one was from Kingman, KS.
 And he was a Kansas City  chef!
 Happened in Birmingham, Ala.
 probation officer in Wichita, KS
 This was a brunch at Texas Instruments.
 A deputy with the Dallas County Sheriff's office no less.
 This was at a dealership in Canton, Mississippi!

I've collected just the locations from the idiot sightings that Lynn 
Weasenforth had sent and can't help but wonder... Do we (here in the 
South) *really* have all the idiots in the US? Could it be due to 
gravity, seeing as we're down South heah?

Up here in the North, we lose bunches of idiots to things like:

I'm sure that ice is thick enough to drive my snowmobile (or hey, pick-up
truck!) on!
Quit complaining, the road's not that bad!  (Flying down 131 in a blizzard)
Aw, come on, the waves aren't that high!  (Also spelled, Let's go
swimming in a Lake Michigan rip current.)

Mother Nature and winter are tough on idiots.

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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[tongue somewhat in cheek]

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[lace-chat] Re: Air Conditioning

2005-07-26 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Jean Nathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I've only encountered air conditioning in modern shops and ofices. 
Everywhere else relies on opening doors and windows and portable fans. 
Portable air conditioning units are available in the big DIY stores, but 
they're not something we seem to have latched on to.

In the early 1960's this was true in Michigan, too, and this reminds me of
a story:

When my parents were married, they went to Florida on their honeymoon.
They were married in August.

So these two 1960's 20-year-olds drive down to hot, humid, sticky Florida
in August.  They are so hot, they are practically hanging their heads out
the car windows like a dog to catch the breeze.  But they notice that a lot
of the people in the other cars they see are driving around with their car
windows all rolled up!

Hm, they say to each other, Maybe they know something we don't!  And
they roll their car windows up.  After sweating profusely in their
closed-up car for a few minutes, one of them realizes that what all these
native Floridians have in *their* cars, that they don't, is a little thing
called car air conditioning!  :D

(In the 1960's in Michigan, air conditioning was relatively rare except in
classy department stores, and *car* air conditioning was even rarer.)

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[lace-chat] Distances, was Large city populations

2005-07-25 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Carol Adkinson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Despite mathematics being my first love, I am still sometimes fazed by
distances, and I think it sometimes gets the UK into perspective when you
realise that, from our coastal side of the country, in East Anglia, to *my*
part of Wales - St Davids, right on the bit that sticks out into the Irish
sea, and at the lower end of St Bride's Bay - it is about 400 miles.  And
that is - apart from the bottom of the country from the south east the south
west - one of the widest parts of the UK, and can still easily be travelled
in a day.

And what I find hard to grasp is that the USA is farther from one side to
the other, than it is from the UK to the USA.   My mind boggles at the
number of noughts on the mileage!

When we went to the Netherlands, we had to make the opposite adjustment.
We rented a car, and the map we bought was about the size of our Michigan
state road map.  But the scale!  I often navigate when my husband is
driving, so I have a pretty clear mental picture of how far we have to
drive from the distance on the map.

Well, on the Netherlands map, that distance was *much* shorter.  Whiz!
Before I could say to take N141, we had already passed it, and I was
scrambling to figure out what other exit we could take to get back where we
meant to be.

It took me about a day to adjust, and then my mother said, Well, I should
get used to doing that, too, so I can navigate while your husband visits
his Dutch friends.

Mom had to make the same map-to-distance adjustment, but her established
strategy, from as long as I can remember, when the driver misses an exit,
is to panic and yell, We passed it!  We should have taken that exit back
there!  You'll have to get off and go back!

Ouch.  I don't drive very well with people yelling at me, so when I had to
drive, I wrote out the route, line by line, in large black letters, so I
could read it without looking at the map.

Michigan's size -- (the wonders of the internet) -- the lower,
mitten-shaped peninsula is about 277 miles long from north to south, and
195 miles wide from east to west.

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[lace-chat] Michigan geography quirks, was towel heaters

2005-07-23 Thread Lynn Carpenter
susan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

have you ever been to saginaw?  even the water tastes like the lake
water.  it is very damp there as well. 

I probably have, as my parents took us camping all over the state, upper 
lower peninsula, and my husband also loves to travel.  But I doubt I would
have noticed the taste of the water:  I grew up drinking hard well water
with a very high iron content, and thinking my grama's chlorinated city
water tasted weird!

 i have never lived near a
swamp.  only the detroit river, and honestly i might have only seen
that 10 times my whole life in detroit. that is why i thought it was so
strange here in tennessee where there are creeks every 3 or 4 city
blocks.  

I don't know about Detroit, but I grew up near Grand Rapids, and once saw a
map of historical GR.  I was surprised at how many creeks showed up on that
map.  All of them had been routed underground decades before I was born.
Even the rapids are all completely flattened out by dams, so the river
just looks flat.

michigan is very flat compared to tennessee, so if you are in
mighigan and in a flood zone, you won't have too many hilltops to move
to.  i can image out in the surrounding counties it floods all the
time. i know the roads in the city do.

Yeah, Michigan doesn't have the extremes of elevation Tennessee does, but I
think the west side of the state is less flat than the east side, and the
northern part of the west side (for example, the Traverse Bay area) is even
more roll-y.  But then Michigan got plowed flat a couple of times by
glaciers, so I guess it has an excuse.  Personally, I live on the top of a
little hill, in a 500-year flood zone.

A couple of maps from my favorite map website, Raven Maps  Images:
http://www.ravenmaps.com/Detail.bok?no=33#  (Michigan)
http://www.ravenmaps.com/Detail.bok?no=49# (Tennessee)

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[lace-chat] towel heaters

2005-07-22 Thread Lynn Carpenter
susan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

i saw a photo of one [that is, a towel heater] used in a hotel in the u.k.
and i thought that was
the silliest thing anyone would ever need.  i lived in detroit michigan
and it didn't make sense why you would need a heater to warm or dry
your towels.

What a difference the width of the state makes!  I live along the west side
of Michigan, close to the lake (Lake Michigan) and I completely
understand why you might need a heater to dry your towels.  Very often in
the spring, summer,  fall, we have such damp air, towels won't dry hanging
outdoors on the line in the sun, let alone hanging indoors in a small
bathroom with no exhaust fan.

Thank goodness for the humidity-reducing power of air conditioning, heated
clothes dryers, and the germ-killing power of Oxiclean and chlorine bleach.
 There is nothing like a damp and stinky dishcloth to make you appreciate
such things.

Then again, in the winter, humidity, what humidity?  At 20 degrees F, doors
that were swollen and sticking are cracking up the middle.

A state of contrasts.  Michigan is a place where you drive to the top of a
tall sand hill covered with dune grasses, and there you find:  a swamp full
of mosquitoes.

And I still wonder why that water doesn't drain down into the sand!

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[lace-chat] Watching America website

2005-07-17 Thread Lynn Carpenter
I know news in the US is often so US-centered, we don't get a balanced
picture of what is going on in the world.  Often I have found out about
world events, everything from floods to election results, via my
international email contacts, rather than the news sources.

So here is a website I find interesting:

http://www.watchingamerica.com/

They take news from sources around the world and link to them,
machine-translate them, and in some cases have volunteers translate them to
English.

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[lace-chat] USA eating, lack of exercise

2005-07-15 Thread Lynn Carpenter
*sigh*

Not only are many neighborhoods unwalkable, almost everything is set up
with cars and driving in mind.  Mega-stores like Wal-Mart sit in the middle
of *huge* parking lots, but people circle around and around in their cars
like sharks to get a close parking spot, so they won't have to walk to buy
their sugar water and sweet greasy salty food.

My husband has always said he dislikes sweets, so imagine my surprise
(okay, dismay) when we went to the Netherlands and I had to share my
Pavlova with him!  He said, I don't mind sweet things with flavor, I just
don't like sweet things that have no other taste than sweet!

It didn't take long, and now my taste is spoiled for sweets that only taste
of sweet.  Imagine, if you make something with real eggs, real butter, real
vanilla, it takes hardly any sugar and only a touch of salt to taste good.

But I'm sweeping against the ocean here in the US!

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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Does this count as whale watching in a state with something like 30%
obesity?
http://www.mlive.com/beachcam/

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Re: [lace-chat] strange lace

2005-06-19 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Alice Howell [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I found the strangest lace on eBay.  It is listed as a collar but shown 
draped over a head form.  There's lots of pictures so it takes a moment to 
load.  The closeup pictures show that the base fabric of the collar is 
knotted lace like is used for Filet or Lacis.  The flowers attached are 
neither needlelace nor bobbin lace.  Anyone seen these before?  This collar 
looks like it would make a good stage prop.  It would look lacy from a 
distance yet be sturdy for rough handling.

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItemitem=7330550325

Only in the close-up could I finally make out the netting knots.  But the
applique is completely unfamiliar to me.  It almost looks like something
made of, I don't know, toothpaste or white caulking or some substance like
that.  (I can see it's not, but it's so big and, and, uh, GLOOPY looking!)

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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[lace-chat] Re: Dealing with pet accident on car seat

2005-06-05 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Ann McClean [EMAIL PROTECTED]

We lost our faithful collie, Smudge, on Thursday - she was 14 and had 
lost the use of her back legs, etc.   Despite extra covers over the car 
back seat to take her to the vets, she had an accident  it soaked through.

So what is the best way of cleaning and deodourising the seat?  
The cover is fixed so I cannot remove it.   Have already sponged it with 
water and disinfectant, but need to do more.

It is so difficult to lose pets.  Five years later, I still miss my little
lap-sitting Sky.

Since you are in Wales, I don't know if you will be able to find this exact
brand, but I have had good results using a product called Nature's
Miracle.  My vet sells it, and I have also seen it at large pet-supply
stores.

The products that seem to work best are either biological (containing some
sort of bacteria that breaks down the odorous material) or enzymatic.

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[lace-chat] Re: Van Gogh's family tree

2005-05-30 Thread Lynn Carpenter
 Jean Nathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Only works in the UK because we know van Gogh is pronounced 'van Go' 
 in the
 US. The UK tends to pronounce it 'van Goff'.

and I replied:
 And in the Netherlands, they pronounce it with a difficult, I don't 
 know,  glottal? sound.

and Tamara P Duvall [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Tamara, say gracht (canal)

I'd do my best (imagine choking on a chicken bone twice, with an aaah 
in the middle), and the room would explode in friendly laughter; 
ah... they'd say, you *might* 'make it' in *Belgium*, but, in 
Netherlands, you need to practice a lot more...

Glottal is right, Lynn; we have trouble coping with it because, 
except for the Netherlands version of Dutch, glottal stops of that 
intensity are used only in African and Arabic languages; all European 
ones are much more gentle :)

Yeah, I can hear it in my head, but I can't *make* that sound voluntarily.
At least not when I am healthy!

Now in the middle of the winter, in the middle of the second cold (the one
that followed right on the heels of the first cold), I might wake up in the
middle of the night making similar noises, but at that point I'm trying to
breathe, rather than communicate.

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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Who confesses to being mostly Dutch -- you can't tell a thing from last
names!

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[lace-chat] Re: pronunciation

2005-05-30 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Jean Nathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I don't know about anyone else, but when I read the emails from the list, 
Tamara, Joy, Lynn, Pam, Joy and everyone else have all written them in a 
slight 'East End of London' accent because that's how I speak so that's how 
I read them.

And I mostly hear you guys (that's Michigan-accent for y'all) with my
undetectable-to-me Michigan accent.

http://www.michigannative.com/ma_home.shtml

:)

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[lace-chat] Re: Van Gogh's family tree

2005-05-28 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Jean Nathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Only works in the UK because we know van Gogh is pronounced 'van Go' in the 
US. The UK tends to pronounce it 'van Goff'.

And in the Netherlands, they pronounce it with a difficult, I don't know,
glottal? sound.  This keyboard doesn't seem to have letters for that sound!

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[lace-chat] slow motion video clips

2005-05-19 Thread Lynn Carpenter
My husband sent me these, and I've been having a few entertaining minutes
viewing them:
http://www.engr.colostate.edu/%7edga/high_speed_video/

They are .wmv files, and need Windows Media Player to view them.  For some
reason, Mozilla (my browser) was not opening them when I clicked on them,
but I was able to open WMP and copy each link into the Open URL box,
under the File menu.

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[lace-chat] Re: Getting sticky-label gunge off melamine

2005-04-28 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Tamara P Duvall [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

In the US, we have a product called Goo Gone.
I'm sure something similiar (though, probably, under another name) is 
available in the UK as well 

and Jean Nathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I use the orange-scented 'Sticky-stuff remover' available from suppliers 
like Kleeneze, Bettaware or Lakeland.

Goo-Gone even works on pine pitch, as I found after my husband sat on a
picnic-table bench on a hot July day.  The bench was painted, but the heat
had made sap leak through the paint layer.  The label says Removes oil,
tape, blood, candle wax, asphalt, tree sap, make-up, adhesives.  I gave it
to the contractor who applied the asphalt to the outside of our basement,
and it took that off, too.  The front label says Citrus power, so I
wonder if the UK Sticky-stuff remover is basically the same stuff.

For label stickum, after soaking the paper off, I let the remainder dry,
then saturate the stickum with baby oil or mineral oil.  Leave it
overnight, then scrape the oil and stickum off.

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[lace-chat] Re: what *is* a piñata?

2005-03-28 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Subject: [lace-chat] Re Bungee Jumping

In message [EMAIL PROTECTED], Shirley
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes
Well, what the hell *is* a piñata?

Piñata's are very popular here now for children's parties where they are
usually filled with sweets.
Shirley in Corio Oz.

We used to make them for international events (eg Thinking Day) at
Guides - basically, a papier mache shape (can't remember if that's spelt
right and the spell checker doesn't like this version!) moulded over a
balloon, brightly painted, which is filled with sweets and suspended
from something high up (or convenient sky-hook!). Children (usually) are
then encouraged to hit the Piñata with sticks in order to break it, and
release the sweets. Mayhem ensues 

Michigan is an agricultural state, and attracts lots of migrant labor,
largely from Mexico, so we enjoy lots of small Mexican groceries around
here.  Some of these stores sell piñatas that are apparently made out of
concrete!  At least, the last one I saw at a children's party had 20 or 30
children lining up, taking turns being blindfolded and whacking at it.  I
think they went through the line about three times before the rope finally
broke and the child with the bat pulled off the blindfold and beat the
thing to pieces.

So -- the real Mexican piñatas take a really *hard* hit.

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[lace-chat] Re: Mac Duff, a question

2005-03-05 Thread Lynn Carpenter
My understanding of Lay on in Lay on, Mac Duff, is the sense I find in
my 1960 (American) Webster's dictionary under lay on:  To strike; beat;
attack.

Of course you have to remember that I am in the SCA (Society for Creative
Anachronism), and frequently hear the fighting marshalls tell combat
participants to Lay on!, meaning Start fighting !

(And yes, we do cry hold, enough!  When melees start moving too close to
pavilions or non-combatants at the edge of the fighting lists, you will
hear a chorus of Hold! s coming from the gentlefolk who want to avoid
being hit or trampled.  Or both.)

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[lace-chat] Re: Pictures of this area (SW Michigan)

2005-02-25 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Here is the grainy webcam that is closest to me.  The camera turns around,
sometimes showing a view of Lake Michigan, and sometimes a rather
uninteresting street:
http://webcams.fbv.mhe.viapointe.com/wwmt/southhaven.jpg


This website has higher resolution webcams:
http://www.glerl.noaa.gov/webcams/

GLERL is the Great Lakes Environmental Research Laboratories.  There are
4 different views of the Muskegon channel and piers, as well as a webcam
looking at Chicago, one in Alpena, Michigan, and another in Toledo, Ohio.

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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Still cold, still snowy, but I saw the very tips of some daffodil leaves on
the south side of the house!

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: art

2005-02-13 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Tamara P. Duvall [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

On Feb 12, 2005, at 20:33, Lynn Carpenter wrote:

 If you like big realistic art, how about Nina Akamu's interpretation of
 Leonardo da Vinci's horse?

 http://www.leonardoshorse.org

 I've seen the one at the Frederik Meijer gardens, and what can one say?
 It's enormous!

Well, the one on the website is supposed to be only 8 feet; that's no 
more than most monuments of equestrian figures I've seen elsewhere.

No, both the one in Milan and the one in Grand Rapids are 24 feet.  From
the Fact Sheet http://www.leonardoshorse.org/factsheet.asp  section:

Master Model
* Eight-foot clay model sculpted by Nina Akamu
* Based on Leonardo da Vinci's drawings
* Input from Council of Scholars and Sculptor's Advisory Committee
* Enlarged to 24 feet in clay by Tallix Art Foundry, Beacon, NY
* Final sculpting by Nina Akamu and team of seven assistants

Final Horse
* Height: 24 feet; weight with armature: 15 tons
* Engineered to withstand wind shear and earthquakes
* Cast at Tallix Art Foundry
* Silicon bronze, Alloy #872
* Armature of stainless steel, Type 304
* Flown to Italy courtesy of Alitalia
* Mounted on a pedestal of Carrara marble
* Installation: Milan, Italy at the cultural park in the San Siro
Hippodrome
* Unveiled: September 10, 1999
* A gift to the Italian people from the American people

American Horse
* Second casting of the 24-foot model
* Unveiled October 7, 1999
* Located at the Frederik Meijer Gardens, Grand Rapids, Michigan
* Displayed at ground level which allows easy visitor interaction

Which reminds me, when a friend of mine visited with her husband, she took
a photo of him under the horse's slightly-raised back foot, on his back as
if the horse was about to squash him.  And if that humor wasn't low enough,
walking under the horse with my mother, we looked up and -- oh, yes! -- the
horse is male . . .

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[lace-chat] art

2005-02-12 Thread Lynn Carpenter
If you like big realistic art, how about Nina Akamu's interpretation of
Leonardo da Vinci's horse?

http://www.leonardoshorse.org

I've seen the one at the Frederik Meijer gardens, and what can one say?
It's enormous!

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Re: [lace-chat] the Disaster

2004-12-29 Thread Lynn Carpenter
David Collyer [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Dear Friends,
I must say I've been amazed that in the past 3 days all we can find to talk 
about is what Santa brought us, when the world's worst ever natural 
disaster has just occurred in the Indian Ocean!

I think it's more a matter of taking refuge in what feels safe and sane,
rather than callousness over what happened.  I don't watch television, but
the radio and newspaper reports -- the mind just staggers.

Since we live near a large body of water (Lake Michigan, admittedly no
ocean, but you certainly can't see Wisconsin from here), we have had to
explain to our son that a tsunami is unlikely to get us.

He has already had to deal with the still-strong possibility of his dad
being deployed to Iraq (Why can't those Iraq people come here? he asked
me), and now he has to worry that the lake will wash him away.  *sigh*

My heart just goes out to the thousands and thousands affected.

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[lace-chat] Re: Mittens on small folks

2004-12-26 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Joy Beeson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

At 07:05 PM 12/18/04 -0500, Lynn Carpenter wrote:

My Dover copy of Mary Thomas's Knitting Book mentions special glove needles
used for knitting glove fingers.  I wonder if anyone still sells glove
needles?  Must ask my Historic Knit list . . .

After making a set of glove needles and finding them impossible to work
with, I realized that in Mary Thomas's day, dp needles were long enough to
tuck under your arm or plug into a knitting sheath to free up one hand.
What she called glove needles were, no doubt, much like our sock needles.

Report back what the Historic Knitters say.  But don't tell me where they
are; I spend *way* too much time sitting in front of the computer now.

It turns out glove needles, from 4 to 5 inches long, are still available.
Some of the vendors include JKL Needles, 
http://www.jklneedles.com
Woodland Woolworks, 
http://www.woodlandwoolworks.com/Knitting/Tools/Needles/knitNeedles.html
and Knitters' Underground has steel ones from Inox, in sizes #0 to #:
http://www.knitters-underground.com/dpneedles.html

The Historic Knit list replies were pretty varied.  Some knitters found, as
you did, that they just couldn't use them.  Others used them all the time
and loved them.

I think it must be like the metal-needle-versus-wooden-needle debate, or
the metal-tatting-shuttle versus plastic-tatting-shuttle:  some people
absolutely love one or the other, and can't stand to use anything else.

Lynn Carpenter in snowy SW Michigan, USA
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[lace-chat] Lake Michigan webcams

2004-12-26 Thread Lynn Carpenter
We haven't done a round of webcams for a while, and I thought those who can
get to them during our daylight hours (about 8am to 5pm right now, and I
think we are at GMT minus 5 hours) might enjoy the NOAA (National
Oceanographic  Atmospheric Administration) webcams for the Great Lakes
Environmental Research station.

http://www.glerl.noaa.gov/webcams/

At this address you will find thumbnails for 7 webcams, 4 on Lake Michigan
at Muskegon, 1 looking at Chicago, 1 in Alpena, Michigan, and 1 in Toledo,
Ohio.

If you click on any of the thumbnail photos, they will take you to larger
pictures.  The Muskegon links also show more information, for example the
latitude and longitude of each station, height above sea level, and links
to current weather conditions.  In summer I often see boats going in and
out of the channel, but I don't think you'll see any today!  At 22 deg. F
(about -5 C), we don't get many pleasure boaters.

And at that, the temperature has gone up all day:  yesterday the high temp.
was about 14 deg. F.  Definitely mitten weather, and sometimes I do work my
thumb out of the mitten thumb to warm it up in the mitten body!

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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Re: [lace-chat] Louise Story

2004-12-18 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Faye Owers [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Some years back a Christmas story was posted regarding Louise would anyone
still have a copy on hand???

Oh, Faye!  This was one of the few stories that actually made me laugh my
tea through my nose!  Ouch!  So here, for your enjoyment, is 

CHRISTMAS WITH LOUISE

As a joke, my brother used to hang a pair of panty hose over his fireplace
before Christmas. He said all he wanted was for Santa to fill them. What they
say about Santa checking the list twice must be true because every Christmas
morning, although Jay's kids' stockings were overflowed, his poor pantyhose
hung
sadly empty.

One year I decided to make his dream come true. I put on sunglasses and
went in
search of an inflatable love doll. They don't sell those things at
Wal-Mart.  I
had to go to an adult bookstore downtown. If you've never been in an X-rated
store, don't go.  You'll only confuse yourself. I was there an hour saying
things like, What does this do? You're kidding me! Who would buy that?

Finally, I made it to the inflatable doll section. I wanted to buy a standard,
uncomplicated doll that could also substitute as a passenger in my truck so I
could use the car pool lane during rush hour.

Finding what I wanted was difficult. Love dolls come in many different models.
The top of the line, according to the side of the box, could do things I'd
only
seen in a book on animal husbandry. I settled for Lovable Louise. She was
at the
bottom of the price scale. To call Louise a doll took a huge leap of
imagination.

On Christmas Eve, with the help of an old bicycle pump, Louise came to
life.  My
sister-in-law was in on the plan and let me in during the wee morning hours,
long after Santa had come and gone, I filled the dangling pantyhose with
Louise's pliant legs and bottom. I also ate some cookies and drank what
remained
of a glass of milk on a nearby tray. I went home, and giggled for a couple of
hours.

The next morning my brother called to say that Santa had been to his house and
left a present that had made him VERY happy but had left the dog confused. She
would bark, start to walk away, then come back and bark some more.

We all agreed that Louise should remain in her panty hose so the rest of the
family could admire her when they came over for the traditional Christmas
dinner.

My grandmother noticed Louise the moment she walked in the door. What the
hell
is that? she asked.

My brother quickly explained, It's a doll.

Who would play with something like that? Granny snapped. I had several
candidates in mind, but kept my mouth shut. Where are her clothes?Granny
continued.

Boy, that turkey sure smells nice, Gran, Jay said, trying to steer her into
the dining room. But Granny was relentless. Why doesn't she have any teeth?
Again, I could have answered, but why would I? It was Christmas and no one
wanted to ride in the back of the ambulance saying, Hang on Granny, Hang on!

My grandfather, a delightful old man with poor eyesight, sidled up to me and
said,  Hey, who's the naked gal by the fireplace? I told him she was Jay's
friend.

A few minutes later I noticed Grandpa by the mantel, talking to Louise. Not
just
talking, but actually flirting. It was then that we realized this might be
Grandpa's last Christmas at home.

The dinner went well. We made the usual small talk about who had died, who was
dying, and who should be killed, when suddenly Louise made a noise that
sounded
a lot like my father in the bathroom in the morning. Then she lurched from the
panty hose, flew around the room twice, and fell in a heap in front of the
sofa.

The cat screamed. I passed cranberry sauce through my nose, and Grandpa ran
across the room, fell to his knees, and began administering mouth to mouth
resuscitation. My brother fell back over his chair and wet his pants and
Granny
threw down her napkin, stomped out of the room, and sat in the car.  It was
indeed a Christmas to treasure and remember.

Later in my brother's garage, we conducted a thorough examination to decide
the
cause of Louise's collapse. We discovered that Louise had suffered from a hot
ember to the
back of her right thigh. Fortunately, thanks to a wonder drug called duct
tape,
we restored her to perfect health. Louise went on to star in several bachelor
party movies.

I think Grandpa still calls her whenever he can get out of the house.

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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Who wants to make it perfectly clear that she is *forwarding* the Louise
story for Faye, and has never seen Lovable Louise in the flesh, er, vinyl!

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[lace-chat] Christmas tree in the US

2004-11-24 Thread Lynn Carpenter
http://www.historychannel.com/exhibits/holidays/christmas/trees.html

I've browsed through several websites, many of which seem to have lifted
their text wholesale from somewhere, and a good chunk of them point to
Prince Albert's tree.

I can believe that -- England and English customs had a certain amount of
snob appeal, but more importantly, Queen Victoria lived in an age that
saw the beginnings of (relatively) quick communications and quick travel.
So word of what was fashionable could spread more quickly and easily than
ever before.

There was a book I read a review of, detailing inventions like electric
lighting and the telephone, that were developed during Victoria's reign,
and I dearly wish I could remember its name, and read the darn book!

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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Re: [lace-chat] Fwd: push-pin

2004-11-20 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Janice Blair [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

My daughter asked if I had ever heard of an old English game called
push-pin.  I guess it was waaay before my time.  It came up at college.
Has anyone else heard about it and how to play it?

I have Alice Bertha Gomme's The Traditional Games of England, Scotland,
and Ireland, first published in 1894 (Volume I) and 1898 (Volume II) by
David Nutt, London, and reprinted by Dover Pub. in 1964, but now out of print.

Now, for likely more than the list ever wanted to know about the game of
push-pin!

I'll quote the whole entry on push-pin:

Push-pin, or Put-pin
A child's play, in which pins are pushed with an endeavour to cross them.
So explained by Ash, but it would seem, from Beaumont and Fletcher, vii.
25, that the game was played by aiming pins at some object. --Halliwell's
_Dictionary_.

To see the sonne you would admire,
Goe play at push-pin with his sire. --_Men's Miracles_, 1656, p. 15

Love and myselfe, beleeve me on a day,
At childish push-pin for our sport did play. -- Herrick's _Works_, i.22.

There is an allusion to it under the name of put-pin in Nash's _Apologie_,
1593:
That can lay down maidens bedds,
And that can hold ther sickly heds;
That can play at put-pin,
Blow poynte and near lin.

Two pins are laid upon a table, and the object of each player is to push
his pin across his opponent's pin. --Addy's _Sheffield Glossary_.

See Hattie, Pop the Bonnet. [end quote]

(Hattie, A game with pins on the crown of a hat.  Two or more may play.
Each lays on a pin,then with the hand they strike the side of the hat time
about, and whoever makes the pins by a stroke cross each other, lifts those
so crossed.

Pop the Bonnet, A game in which two, each putting down a pin on the crown
of a hat or bonnet, alternately pop on the bonnet till one of the pins
crosses the other; then he at whose pop or tap this takes place, lifts the
stakes.)

Gambling for pins occurs pretty often in this collection of descriptions of
children's games -- I guess I don't need to lecture lacemakers on how
valuable  pins used to be!

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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[lace-chat] Re: black squirrels

2004-10-25 Thread Lynn Carpenter
In Michigan, we have three common species of squirrel:

The Eastern fox squirrel, Sciurus niger, a small red squirrel.
The red squirrel, Tamiasciurus hudsonicus
And the Eastern gray squirrel, Sciurus carolinensis.
http://animaldiversity.ummz.umich.edu/site/accounts/information/Sciurus_caro
linensis.html

(Sorry, the link above will probably break, but it's a good one.)

Black squirrels (well, at least in Michigan, I'm not going to vouch for
anywhere else!) are a melanistic form of the gray squirrel.  Here on the
Lake Michigan coast they are pretty common.  It is kind of strange to see
them running on the grass out of the corner of your eye -- like seeing a
cat that turns out to be a squirrel.

I could go on about ground squirrels and flying squirrels, but I can't type
that word any more.  It's starting to look too weird.  If I type it again,
I won't be able to spell it at all any more!

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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The heart of bushy-tailed rodent country!

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[lace-chat] Re: Pronunciation

2004-09-06 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Moving this to chat, as it has wandered away from lace:

Annette Gill [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
Sylvie Nguyen wrote:
While I naturally use the American pronunciation of Sylvie, people 
still insist on calling me Sylvia, which is not my name.

You're lucky - I'm often called Anita! G  My aunt is called Sylvia, 
but in the family she's often called Sylvie as an affectionate nick-name.

And while I have a name I think is utterly simply, I am amazed at the
people who hear me introduce myself as Lynn and then call me Linda.

Of course, my last name is utterly impossible for most to pronounce. 

My sister-in-law was married to a Nguyen, and so my niece and two nephews
are Nguyens.  (If you are wondering, the Ng is a nasal sound just like
the ng in sing -- it sounds sort of like Wen, but put that ng sound
first.)  My SIL says when she gets people calling her and asking for Mrs.
Nuh-goo-yen, she knows she doesn't want to talk to them.

Mine is often pronounced with a soft G - even after I've said it to the 
person concerned with a hard G, they still think they know better than 
me how it should be pronounced.

Funny how people who can't pronounce Lynn as Lynn can pronounce
Carpenter correctly!

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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[lace-chat] Re: Weather

2004-07-20 Thread Lynn Carpenter
I have to say, I'm another who loves hearing about the weather in other
places.

Where I live in Michigan, we had a very wet spring, and the Grand River
near where my parents and brother live reached its highest level since the
1960's.  Lake Michigan recovered several inches of depth --we've been
having low water levels, and some people who bought waterfront property on
rivers that feed the lake found themselves looking out at mud flats these
last 5 years or so.  I forget how many millions or billions of gallons they
said it took to add an inch to the level of Lake Michigan.

This affects Lake Michigan shipping, and the ore and cargo freighters have
been loaded less heavily to avoid scraping bottom in the harbors and
channels.  Lots of money has been spent on dredging the channels deeper.

Last year we were adding on to our house (a geodesic dome-room with a
little bunker basement), and it seemed like every time the contractor put
his hand on the back hoe, it began to rain!

Today it's an overcast and steamy day, but we are still going to the beach
for our son's 5th birthday.

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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[lace-chat] Dishwashing liquid fleas

2004-06-12 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Before I started using Frontline (fipronil?) on my dogs, I used to use the
dishsoap-in-water to drown the little biters.  That was after I discovered
a flea could struggle to the surface of plain water and leap back out!
G.  However, adding the dish liquid made them struggle around under the
water and drown.  Bite *my* dog, will you?

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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[lace-chat] Re:Mosquito advice

2004-06-10 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Sorry, the Lemon Fresh Joy killing mosquitoes -- that's from someone who's
been baking their brain in the sunny garden too long!

Snopes' Urban Legends page:
http://www.snopes.com/spoons/oldwives/dishsoap.htm

Me, I'll stick to an old long-sleeved shirt sprayed with Muskol or Deep
Woods Off.

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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[lace-chat] Re: Mosquitoes

2004-06-07 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Louise Hume [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 only the male mosquitoes sing, to attract the females.
So... if you hear a mosquito singing, it is a male and will not bite.

I have read this, too, but apparently the mosquitoes in Michigan haven't.
I don't know if male and female mosquitoes have a different pitch, but I
can definitely hear the ones that bite me.  Then again, perhaps this is a
species thing, with some mosquiteo species quiet and other ones buzzy.

Louise in Central Virginia,  where we have had so much rain in the past
month that the mozzies rise up in clouds when one walks across the lawn.

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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Where we had so much rain in May that we hopefully raised the possibility
that all the mosquito wigglers (larvae) would be washed out into Lake
Michigan!

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[lace-chat] Re: Flies and mosquitos

2004-06-04 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Tamara P. Duvall [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Mosquitoes. In Poland, they were plentiful, but only outdoors; they 
almost never came into the house. Here, it's the same; they happily 
congregate over patches of standing water (lotsa happiness there, the 
past few weeks g), especially in the shade.

Wa!  So are you telling me in the South, even the mosquitoes are
polite? !  I am so envious!  A vampire insect that waits on the threshold
-- it boggles the imagination (at least, to someone who grew up with the
impolite Michigan species).

I just did a Google search, and apparently one of our Michigan mosquito
species is even called the northern house mosquito, Culex pipiens.  They
like shade:  houses count as shady.  If we have even a small hole in a
window screen, say the size of a dime (about 1cm), they will funnel inside
like the pointy end of a tornado.

Not only are they whiny and annoying, now they also carry West Nile virus.
Historically mosquitoes were malaria carriers here.

Alexis de Tocqueville, who wrote Democracy in America in the 1830's, went
hunting up near Saginaw, and found the mosquitoes so fierce he couldn’t
even pause to write in his notebook.  Some summers when they are bad, I
can't even pick black raspberries with long sleeves, jeans, AND mosquito
repellant on -- they buzz all around you until they drive you flat NUTS.

This page
http://www.mackinac.org/article.asp?ID=25
describes Michigan in the early 1800's as uninhabitable due to the hordes
of mosquitoes.  The page has some other interesting quotes:  In 1859, the
new Michigan Agricultural College in East Lansing came to a standstill
because all 100 students, and all but one of the faculty members,
contracted malaria.
and
Tocqueville later wrote that he had never experienced a torment like
mosquitoes, which were the scourge of the American solitudes. 

Wow, someone who has experienced a Michigan mosquito cloud, writing with
the grammar of the 1830's.  They are a scourge, all right.

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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[lace-chat] Re: Flies and mosquitos

2004-06-04 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Lorri Ferguson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

How many have tried keeping basil plants around to keep out the flies?
It really does work, I noticed the effect when I had a pot of basil (the 
herb) in my kitchen window.  Then later read it in a gardening news column.

It must depend on the fly species.  Last year in my garden we had some kind
of fly that liked to rest, sit, perch, whatever you call it, on the plants.
 They came by the tens at a time, and I do remember them sitting on the
basil, as well the tomatoes, the four o'clocks, and whatever else was
growing out there.

Are there any other plants that have this effect?

The old-fashioned scented-leaved geraniums are supposed to be insect
repellents.
But they are worth growing just for the leaf scent, if you can find them.

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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Re: [lace-chat] The culture shock

2004-06-02 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Weronika Patena [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Ah, and they [windows] all have those insect nets,

In Michigan (very recently wet, rainy Michigan), if you didn't have window
screens, you'd be eaten alive at night by mosquitoes.  Even with the
screens, sometimes the mosquito-whining from outside the screens drives me
crazy, and if one of the little devils has sneaked into the house, into the
bedroom, it has to die before I can sleep.

Does the US really have that many more flying, stinging insects than
elsewhere in the world?

Insects the screens keep out (in Michigan, I'm sure the list varies by area
of the US):  horseflies, blackflies, mosquitoes, wasps, hornets, various
native bees, honey bees.  Non-stinging but annoying to have blundering
around: crane flies (or mosquito hawks, although they don't eat
mosquitoes, unfortunately), all kinds of house flies.

And nothing keeps out a no-see-um, a tiny little biting fly that can walk
right through window screen mesh.

The loggers who came here to lumber off our white pine forests came up with
folk tales about the mosquitoes.  One I dimly remember has a logger running
from a cloud of mosquitoes.  He hides under a big iron cooking pot,  only
to have the mosquitoes sting through it.  He hammers each stinger over as
it pierces the iron, and eventually the whole swarm is caught, whereupon
they fly away, pot and all.

Every state I've ever heard of with lots of mosquitoes, jokingly says the
mosquito is the state bird.

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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[lace-chat] Re: Language and culture

2004-05-28 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Ruth Budge wrote:

  I come from England, have
lived in Australia most of my life - and after all, both countries are
supposed
to speak the same language!  However, after all these years, I still find
that
the occasional Australian phrase comes up which I don't understand, I
still use
expressions which turn out to be particularly English.

When my husband and I were first married, his Polish grandmother went back
to Poland to visit her relatives.  I remember her saying she and her
sisters spoke American Polish.  Since they came to the US as youngsters,
when they encountered new things (television, say), sometimes they made up
words or phrases for them.  Naturally these were different from the real
Polish words for whatever it was.

Another thing that happened was that she and her sisters kept some of the
1920's or 30's ways of saying things, since they weren't hearing anything
different.  Meanwhile the Polish their cousins were hearing was evolving
and changing, so when the two got together, sometimes they had to do a lot
of rephrasing and explaining to get the meaning across.

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[lace-chat] Time Change

2004-04-04 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Where I live in Michigan, the daylength varies from 9 hours, 4 minutes in
the middle of winter to 15 hours and 18 minutes in the middle of summer.

It takes 6 weeks from the spring forward clock change for the sunrise
time here to catch back up to where it was yesterday.  When I still had to
obey an alarm clock I loathed it.  I'm only a fake morning person.  I wake
up with the sun, but I operate on autopilot most of the morning.  My
autopilot never cared for resetting.

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Re: [lace-chat] did you know ?

2004-02-29 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Coca-Cola was originally green.   

Nope.  http://www.snopes.com/cokelore/green.asp

 ***   
The phrase rule of thumb is derived from an old English law

Nope.  http://www.urbanlegends.com/language/etymology/rule_of_thumb.html

It's amazing how people will tell you things they absolutely know are true
that turn out to be completely false!  I was once told by a friend of my
husband's that it was illegal for me to not change my surname, once I was
married.

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[lace-chat] Thunder snow

2004-01-30 Thread Lynn Carpenter
You can send your hearings (I want to say sightings, but that's not
right) of thunder snow to 
http://solberg.snr.missouri.edu/ROCS/
where they are doing research on Convective Snows.  They are particularly
interested in thunder snow that occurs out of the Great Lakes area -- I'm
pretty sure Poole is out of that area!

And yes, you can enter your hearing after the fact.

We had a little thunder snow back in December.  Of course, now we are
having plenty of snow:
http://webcams.fbv.mhe.viapointe.com/wwmt/southhaven.jpg
This webcam is turned from a view of the channel into Lake Michigan (yes,
that tiny little thing is a lighthouse) around to various views of the
streets of downtown South Haven.

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[lace-chat] Re: red shoes

2003-12-04 Thread Lynn Carpenter
No, I never had red shoes.  I have the family Frisian feet, wide across
the toe (4) and narrow at the heel (2).  When I find shoes that just
plain fit, it's a cause for celebration, doubly so if they're not tan
boats.  And if they fit at the toe AND the heel, heck, I'd throw a party
just for the shoes as guests of honor!

When I buy shoes, I walk down the row to my size (approx. US 9), look for
9Wide, xxx out all the tan boats, and pick from what's left.  Boo hoo, I
can't remember that what's left has ever been red!

My red-shoe equivalent was a pair of knee-high zip-up suede boots that I
wore and wore and wore until the synthetic rubbery soles got some kind of
plastic disease and started to stick to things.  My current equivalent is
a little pair of suede ankle boots made in Rumania or some lovely European
country where feet are not size 3 and 2 inches wide.  They fit at the toe
AND the heel, and I've worn them to enough parties, I guess they do deserve
their own by now.

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[lace-chat] first paychecks

2003-12-04 Thread Lynn Carpenter
I well remember what I bought with one of my first paychecks:  I was
slaving in a baby clothing factory, and I sent away for a stunning $56
worth of lily bulbs that I had been circling in the catalog for at least 3
years.  Tiger Babies,  White Henry, Pink Perfection, Harlequin
hybrids.  I sweated about spending the money for months afterwards, but
these days I am not sorry at all:  18 years later, I have Tiger Babies
lilies all along the top of my retaining wall, and still a good stand of
Pink Perfection and White Henryi.

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Re: [lace-chat] Found this and thought it would make you laugh

2003-12-01 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Devon[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I'd say the fire department in Austin, is doing very well if it can arrive
at 
the homes of people who use the terms rubbish and petrol within 5 
minutes.

Caught that, too, eh?  I'd say someone reworded it to make it
understandable to a Forwardee along the line.  Otherwise it's a long
drive across the ocean from Austin!

Lynn Carpenter in SW Michigan, USA
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Where it might be trash or junk, but if it's rubbish, you're not from
around here!

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[lace-chat] Christmas on the cheap!

2003-11-22 Thread Lynn Carpenter
I don't care what the economists say (an economic recovery that started in
November 2001?  In what alternate universe?), Christmas is going to be a
bit on the lean side in this neck of the woods.

So what have your favorite Christmas gifts been, that didn't cost much?

One of my personal favorites has been an Exacto knife set, given me by my
brother.  I have solved more how can I cut this dilemmas with that knife!

Others I can think of were a big box of miscellaneous food items given to
my husband by his aunt (my husband is the cook of the household), and two
pairs of excellent sock given me by my sister-in-law.

How about yours?

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[lace-chat] Remember the Small World experiment?

2003-11-21 Thread Lynn Carpenter
http://smallworld.columbia.edu

Do you all remember the Small World experiment, in which some researchers
at Columbia University in New York were attempting to prove or disprove the
6 degrees of separation hypothesis?  (That is, the idea that any person
in the world could be reached through a chain of acquaintances an average
of 6 links long.)

Well, the first Small World experiment is now complete and findings were
published in Science Magazine in August, 2003.  The results and press
coverage of the experiment are available here:
http://smallworld.columbia.edu/results.html
and here: http://smallworld.columbia.edu/press.html

And now I am looking for a contact in Tennessee, the closer to Gainsboro,
the better!

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[lace-chat] Rods-only vision: achromats

2003-11-14 Thread Lynn Carpenter
The word for rods-only vision is achromatatopsia.  More info at:
http://www.achromat.org/

The section about special needs of achromats was interesting reading.  I
believe the horse trainer Monty Roberts is supposed to be an achromat.

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[lace-chat] Sun overhead?

2003-11-12 Thread Lynn Carpenter
I'm too far north for the sun to rise in the east in November.  :)  The sun
goes south for the winter, just like a lot of people here.  No, no, I'm not
saying it *rises* in the south, but it does rise distinctly south of
east.  And as for overhead -- no, no, here in the north it's much lower in
the sky as we head into winter.  If I face west, at noon if I look straight
up, I see sky.  To see the sun (well, assuming we don't have a thick gray
cloud layer) at noon in the northern winter, if I am facing west, I have to
turn my head to the left.  The only time I am going to see the sun straight
overhead at noon is the vernal (spring) and autumnal equinoxes.  At the two
extremes, in the winter at the solstice, the sun souths.  On the summer
solstice, it is to the north at noon.

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I might not know left from right without checking my thumb, but I can tell
you where the sun is!

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Re: [lace-chat] Right? Left?

2003-11-08 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Lynn Scott [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

My kindergarten version of revenge on the
teachers and my father, who insisted I change hands, was to learn to write
upside down and backwards, something I am still quite adept at 45 years on.

Hey, me, too!  One rainy afternoon, my mom, with me and my two little
brothers running out of entertainment, suggested we learn to write upside
down.  Then backwards.  I can still write (or read) backwards or upside
down or upside down AND backwards.

Many people over the years have told me, Oh, it's easy, just remember that
if you hold out your thumb and index finger, the left hand makes an L!
However, since in kindergarten, I distinctly remember having trouble
deciding which way the bottom of the L pointed, I doubt this would have
helped me. :)

I did eventually learn that if north was up on a map, west and east spelled
WE . . .

another Lynn,
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[lace-chat] Right? Left?

2003-11-03 Thread Lynn Carpenter
I confess, I never properly learned my right from my left.  While still in
kindergarten, I realized I had a double jointed thumb only on my left
hand, and I learned to click that thumb out of joint to tell which hand
was which.  If you give me directions with left and right in them, and
pay close attention to my hands, to this day you might catch the little
flick of my left thumb that tells me which is which.  (Left is the click
thumb, right is the other one.)

For years I kept this secret, figuring everybody else just knew right
from left.  Then the subject came up in my origami email list, and it turns
out there are dozens of us, mathematicians, physicists even, who use
various devices to remind them right from left.  Then one day I found this
great quote:

Sigmund Freud (you might have heard of him), writing to a friend:

I do not know whether it is obvious to other people which is their own or
other's right or left.  In my case, I had to think which was my right; no
organic feeling told me.  To make sure which was my right hand I used
quickly to make a few writing movements.

So I don't feel half so embarrassed about not really knowing right from
left any more!

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[lace-chat] Cruise control

2003-11-02 Thread Lynn Carpenter
I don't know about other car's owner's manuals, but the one in mine flat
out SAYS Do not use Cruise Control in icy conditions.  Do not use when the
pavement is wet, as well as a whole bunch of other warnings that make you
wonder when you can ever use it at all.  (Yes, they call it pavement here
in Michigan, too.)

And the deal with hydroplaning is, a thin film of water gets between the
tire rubber and the road surface.  Your tires don't necessarily lift off
the road (at least not at first, she said with an evil grin) -- but you
*are* gliding or sliding exactly like an ice skater on the ice.  And then
you are in the situation my dad always talks about:  You can go as fast as
you want when it's icy out.  The problem is stopping.

It's not just cruise control.  You can hydroplane with the cruise off, too.
 I have a police officer friend who told me the citation driving too fast
for conditions could be issued even if you were driving below the speed
limit, if weather or visibility made driving at that speed unsafe.

And don't even get me started on people driving at me half in my lane
having an doubtless life-and-death conversation on a cell phone!

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[lace-chat] Knitting Lace by Susanna E. Lewis

2003-10-23 Thread Lynn Carpenter
I am looking for a copy of Knitting Lace by Susanna E. Lewis.  Yes, I've
checked my usual online used-book vendors -- copies are going for around
$95 US!  Yowch!  I've also emailed the publisher, Taunton Press, about the
fact that used copies are going for almost a hundred dollars, and gotten
the following:

From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Date: Wed, 22 Oct 2003

Dear Lynn Carpenter, 

Thank you for your email about Knitting Lace by Susanna E. Lewis.  At this
time we are focusing less on our Fiber Arts list, and more in other areas,
but I want to thank you for your input.  It is important to us to know who
is reading our books and how you feel about them.  I will pass along your
email to the appropriate people in my department, so they know how much in
demand this title is. 

Best regards, 
Jenny Peters 
Editorial Assistant 
Taunton Books

Then it occurred to me (late light-bulb moment), oh, yeah, I'm still on
lace-chat.  Anyone on lace-chat have a used copy of this book they'd care
to part with?  I can get it at one of the not-too-far libraries, but I'd
really like my own to stick sticky notes in.  I can't pay $95 right now!
And I probably wouldn't if I could!

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[lace-chat] hat on backwards

2003-09-07 Thread Lynn Carpenter
What I always say is, Take lots of pictures.

:D

In 20 years, whatever the style today, they'll be groaning, I can't
BELIEVE you let me dress that way!

The pictures will also be great for showing to their children.

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[lace-chat] Re: English is hard to learn

2003-09-06 Thread Lynn Carpenter
When I was a little girl, we lived two houses over from my great-aunt, who
was an English war bride.  My mother says I picked up her accent so
strongly that at one point she was asked how she came to adopt me!

I thought I had completely lost it (I still think I have completely lost
it), and last winter I was talking to another woman in a ceramics class I
was taking, when suddenly she asked me where I was from.  I gave her the
name of the small town where I grew up, just north of Grand Rapids,
Michigan, and she shook her head.  Your vowels are all wrong for that
area.  Apparently the way I say o sounds, as in road are more
eastern-US than they should be!

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[lace-chat] photos

2003-08-31 Thread Lynn Carpenter
My mom is the family genealogy nut. You'd think someone who has boxes of
very old family photos with labels like Mother on them -- no date, no
name, no indication of *whose* mother -- would label her own photos, but no.

I'm one who obsessively labels my photographs with full names and dates. I
don't want them to end up for sale like some in a horrible box I once saw
in an antique store, labelled Instant Ancestors, full of old tintypes.

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[lace-chat] Re: lactose intolerance

2003-08-25 Thread Lynn Carpenter
All this discussion of lactose intolerance has finally jogged a memory.  I
was doing some historical research relating to playing in the SCA (Society
for Creative Anachronism), and happened to pick up a book about food.  Now,
I don't cook, although I do bake, and one of the quotes that stuck in my
head was about milk.

The section I remember had to do with the switch made from keeping sheep
for wool, milk, and meat, to keeping cows.  And it quoted a passage about
the vast quantity of milk given by cows as compared to ewes, with the
regretful note that it was a pity that cow's milk was indigestible for
adults.

This was a book about food in history, so they were talking about ?1500?s,
maybe ?1600?s.  I can't bring the title to mind.  Next time I go to my
library, I will see if I can find the book and find out how close my memory
is to the actual text.

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Re: [lace-chat] forest fires

2003-08-24 Thread Lynn Carpenter
sharon [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Amazing isn't it?  Last week we had around the clock coverage of the
blackout
in Eastern Canada and the States.  Here in British Columbia we have the
worst
forest fires going on in over 75 years..but we barely rate a footnote in
the
news.

I think it's a shame.  It used to be that I relied on NPR (the US National
Public Radio) for international news, but now all that is changed and they
seem to get their headlines from the likes of USA Today.  And now I rely on
my email lists, such as lace-chat, for international news!

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[lace-chat] allergies

2003-08-23 Thread Lynn Carpenter
The mention of Band-Aid allergies reminds me of the time one of my brothers
was having trouble with a spot on his arm, which he covered with a
band-aid.  It did not seem to be going away for a long time, and he was
worried about what it might be.  Eventually I thought to mention to him
that I had had trouble with band-aid adhesive irritating my skin sometimes,
leaving a red, itchy patch.  Then he realized that it was mostly square,
like the band-aids (square with a small gauze dot) he was using.  He took
the band-aid off, left the spot alone for a couple of weeks, and it went
away entirely.

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Re: [lace-chat] roo whistles?

2003-08-23 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Ruth Budge[EMAIL PROTECTED]wrote:

I think I can answer both those questions, even though I live in the
biggest
city in Australia!

In most cases, its the vehicle comes off worse in an encounter with a
kangaroo
- -roos are often very heavy animals, and they're bouncing fast and hard
when
they hit a car.

We don't have elk or kangaroos, just white-tailed deer, which are
relatively light, usually under 150 lbs.  But their fast gait is a leap:
when a deer leaps out of a ditch into the side or onto the hood of a car,
it's not unknown for the car to be totalled when the driver loses control.
Car-deer accidents having been going up as more people move into rural
Michigan, over a 1000 a year in our county.

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Re: [lace-chat] Hot weather and the British railway system

2003-08-14 Thread Lynn Carpenter
Jean Nathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Our railway system is never short of an excuse as to why services are
disrupted. Yesterday trains were
restricted to 60 mph instead of their usual 120 mph because of the
exceptionally hot weather making it possible that the railway lines will
buckle.

This reminds me of a hot weather story.  Several years back after work, I
took the highway north to visit my mother, instead of south and home.  I
got stuck in a miles-long traffic jam, very unusual for that highway at
that time.  When we finally got to the delay, there was a police car with
lights flashing in one of the two lanes.  No accident -- all across the
blocked lane, the concrete had buckled so that a foot-thick section was
slanting up, facing oncoming traffic.

Later I read in the newspaper that the section of highway in question was
an experimental one, built without expansion joints.

Result of experiment, highway buckles in extreme hot weather.  Luckily no
one was killed!

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[lace-chat] men in kilts

2003-08-14 Thread Lynn Carpenter
I play in the SCA (Society for Creative Anachronism), and meet the
occasional man in a kilt.  A bunch of other ladies and I were greatly
amused by one man, who obviously never got the skirt lecture we got as
girls (that is, how to sit, stand, cross your legs and so on without
anything showing).

He was standing by a picnic table and put one foot up on the bench!  :)  So
we had a good view of what was under that particular kilt.

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I know nothing about the Gulf Stream, but I can tell you plenty about the
effect of Lake Michigan on the weather.

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[lace-chat] Onions

2003-07-26 Thread Lynn Carpenter
All right, I finally can't resist.

alice howell [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Has anyone ever tried wearing goggles while chopping?

I haven't, but I find I can chop onions tearlessly while wearing my
(rigid, gas-permeable) contact lenses.  They make me cry when I wear just
glasses.

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[lace-chat] Re: gone south

2003-06-23 Thread Lynn Carpenter
I found two web sites discussing origins of this phrase:

http://www.word-detective.com/032602.html#gonesouth

http://www.geocities.com/PicketFence/7608/sayG.htm

And all this time I had thought it had something to do with the card game
of bridge, where the players are north, south, east, and west!

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[lace-chat] Re: May I be excused

2003-06-19 Thread Lynn Carpenter
(Devon) wrote:

 It seems to me that most of the respondents who adhere to the practice 
 of
 excusing themselves and others from the table are Europeans or former 
 Europeans.

Hmm, my parents adhered to it, and family on both sides has been in the US
for 200-400 years.  My grandmother would have had a conniption if we had
left the table without asking to be excused.

My child-training philosophy comes from my dog-training philosophy:  you
are *always* teaching them with every thing you do and say, so they might
as well learn what you want them to know.  Consistent discipline gives a
dog (or a child) a mental map:  this is *always* no, this is usually yes,
this is a maybe.  What makes kids and dogs crazy is inconsistency.

I have a friend who over the course of 18 months lost all four of his
children to car accidents, so I am no discipline-mad monster.  We go out
for ice cream, and once in a while I will buy treats.  But if I say No, I
stick to it -- whining and tantrums won't work.  And if I say Yes, we
*will* do it, none of the someday and when we get around to it that
never happened.

I say please and thank you to my son and husband, so it is no surprise
to me when both of them say please and thank you back.  It sure amazes
some people, though!

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