The fact that you're disabled
can't be the trouble. Amy's mom attended her sister's wedding and still
disapproved. I'd be very careful about badmouthing Amy's mom, especially
while she's pregnant. Raging hormones could be
dangerous.
Her mom must be a very unhappy
person. She could do some
I have the zero effort steering. Not by choice. The guy I got
it from is a para so I'm not sure why he got it. I was told by the guy
that put in the swirl drivers seat and new lift that the company that DORS uses
recomends things for vans/cars that people dont necessarily need to they can
Larry,
I've told Amy many many times that she /we needs to see a professional.
Every time I mention it she just gets angry. Amy's mother told the
pastor of her church about me and he agreed that Amy is wasting her time
with me. Even though Amy's mother refers to me as that invalid she
Yes, I sure know how to get myself in some shit but like I
mentioned, if we waited to get things straight with her parents, we
could be waiting forever. Thanks.
Eric
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River,
I told Amy that if anything happened to her, her mother would try to get
custody of the kid. Amy told me her mother isn't THAT evil. I know
better though. I'd like to talk to you and anyone else about the legal
issues. I remember you posting that you and you're partner got things
Hey Eric,
My niece has a mo-in-law from Hell but Amy's Mom makes her look like a saint!
I may have misread or got confused at the end of your email but you first wrote"
"Anyway, Amy knows her mother is way to stressful to tell before she's
well into her third trimester, but we're
My husband and I were in a similar predicament 25 years ago. We now have 2
well-adjusted daughters and 4 granddaughters! God is good. People like Amy's
mother give Christianity a bad name, unfortunately. Time has healed all
wounds here! You and Amy focus on taking care of that new little life
Eric ...
It'sa sad case but I'm sure you've seenin 90% of court cases NO MATTER what ... the female gets
custody.
Things in writing? Even THAT is a laugh! When my hubby slit with his ex IT WAS A COURT ORDER that
the mother (his ex)keep the daughter in the same state. That didn't stop her.
Picking up and moving and starting "anew" is an option. But, hearing what I have of Amy, she'll
resent that and leave you in the dusty in a matter of months or years.
Your S.O. should be NUMBER ONE one the list of love respect. I don't think Amy is putting you
there. For your sake, Erik,
Bill_J wrote:
The fact that
you're disabled can't be the trouble. Amy's mom attended her sister's
wedding and still disapproved. I'd be very careful about badmouthing
Amy's mom, especially while she's pregnant. Raging hormones could be
dangerous.
I know. The hormones are a big
Eric,
Unless you heard it from the Pastor's lips that "Amy is wasting her time with you" it's
probably untrue and something her mom WOULD spread as truth or her gospel. Amy's mom
"sort" of peopke need to stand on the shoulder's of others to make them look taller or bigger.
Using a
I can see where you would be confused. Her family doesn't know.
At Christmas, they wanted her to stop over but only if she came alone.
Once the baby is born, I can see them asking her to bring the baby over
but only if she comes alone. Yes having a baby in this situation does
seem stupid
All of this is true but I can't spend my entire life playing "what
if" games. What if your husband left you? Sometimes you have to take
chances.
Lori Michaelson wrote:
Picking up and moving and starting "anew" is an option.
But, hearing what I have
You obviously haven't had any experience with Pentecostal
Christians. They are a cult. Women can not wear pants. They must
wear skirts or dresses. Amy and her sister wore skirts winter or
summer every day they lived at home. Women can't have short hair. It
must be long usually pulled
Yikes, Eric!
If Amy still supports this way of life ... G_D help you!!! I'd say move! When ya become a real couple ... ya kinda get
the whole family like it or not. And I can't see anything on Amy's side 'working itself out.'
We moved 3000 miles away for other reasons but if we did it (AS
Eric, a bit of Ann Landers wisdom: If she won't go, go by yourself. If the
church is the source of her prejudice, ignore the pastor for he is no
Christian. Reminds me of radical Muslims -- anyone different is an infidel
who deserves to die. Make an appointment with that counselor now. You need
They believe that the ability to speak in tongues is a necessary indication of a valid religious conversion.. They deny the legitimacy of the conversion of "born again" Christians from other denominations where tongues are rarely, if ever, spoken. "No tongues - no salvation." So, for example,
Amy doesn't believe in this anymore but I'm sure it has a lot to do
with her insane need for her parents approval and why it's so hard for
her to break away from. Being raised under that iron fist religion and
mother has to mess a person up. That's why I have to tread lightly
when it comes
My family loves her and she loves them. You'd think my family's support
would be enough.
William Willis wrote:
Eric, a bit of Ann Landers wisdom: If she won't go, go by yourself. If
the church is the source of her prejudice, ignore the pastor for he is
no Christian. Reminds me of radical
Not all Paras and Quads are alike in their mobility needs. But I
still find it difficult to judge others... by my standards. There are some
paras that need just as much adaptive equipment as quads.
W
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I'm sorry if it seemed that I was implying that all paras dont need lower
floors. That wasnt my intention.I did say that not all
para'sdont need lower floors. I didn't say para's dont need.
I was only saying what I was told by the guy that worked on the
van.I have also heard bad things
Some have asked about exercise videos. 6469312182 on ebay.Looks
interesting.
Diane
I hate riding in cars/vans. I like whoever drives to go slow and gently. I
don't like how most people drive and they are supposedly "able" drivers. Why
would I want to ride with an impaired driver?
john
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