Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-16 Thread Pete Forsyth
Austin and all, I'm just coming back to this, and see that I have indeed been widely interpreted as having spoken from personal animosity. My one comment on this, which I hope will be allowed through, is that I carry absolutely no personal animosity toward anybody I mentioned, and if any of them d

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Yves Z
> I understand now why this would come across this way, and will put together > a more focused summaryYou've done enough. Have you no sense of decency? > From: petefors...@gmail.com > To: wikimedia-l@lists.wikimedia.org > Subject: Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship go

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Austin Hair
On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 11:33 PM, Pete Forsyth wrote: > My point was straightforward: I would certainly not be bringing this topic > up in a public forum if it had not been widely and extensively discussed in > public forums beforehand. It was brought up by Wil, not by me. His reasons > for doing

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread edward
On 15/06/2014 22:33, Pete Forsyth wrote: On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 1:19 PM, edward wrote: If making them public is the problem, then the aggressor and one of the victims are one and the same person. You are saying that Sinclair is the aggressor here? Not at all -- you'll note that my statem

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Pete Forsyth
On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 1:19 PM, edward wrote: > > >>If making them public is the problem, then the aggressor and one of the > victims are one and the same person. > > You are saying that Sinclair is the aggressor here? > > Not at all -- you'll note that my statement, quoted above, was conditiona

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread edward
On 15/06/2014 20:19, Pete Forsyth wrote: Since this seems to be the most heated issue at the moment, I want to point out: I am not the one who made these allegedly nasty comments public; the person who made them public, and then proceeded to discuss them in numerous public forums, was Wil Sinclai

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Milos Rancic
On Jun 15, 2014 10:07 PM, "edward" wrote: > > On 15/06/2014 20:08, Milos Rancic wrote: >> >> Christophe, Wil tried to open issues closed few years ago. Besides that, >> not under ED mandate. > > > In what sense were these issues 'closed'? 'Closed' usually means 'resolved'. As far as I know, they

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread edward
On 15/06/2014 20:08, Milos Rancic wrote: Christophe, Wil tried to open issues closed few years ago. Besides that, not under ED mandate. In what sense were these issues 'closed'? 'Closed' usually means 'resolved'. As far as I know, they were not resolved. ___

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Gerard Meijssen
Hoi, Please don't Thanks, GerardM On 15 June 2014 21:19, Pete Forsyth wrote: > On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 11:13 AM, Christophe Henner < > christophe.hen...@gmail.com> wrote: > > > Hi, > > > > I'm puzzled of those emails. > > > > Christophe, thank you for explaining how this looks from your en

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Pete Forsyth
On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 11:13 AM, Christophe Henner < christophe.hen...@gmail.com> wrote: > Hi, > > I'm puzzled of those emails. > Christophe, thank you for explaining how this looks from your end. I understand now why this would come across this way, and will put together a more focused summary

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Andrew Gray
On 15 June 2014 19:13, Christophe Henner wrote: > From my point of view, french wikimedian, all I saw is some drama around > specific topics that stopped days ago. As far as I know, the crisis isn't > going further than that. And what your email, sofar, is doing, is > generating fruitless discuss

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Milos Rancic
Christophe, Wil tried to open issues closed few years ago. Besides that, not under ED mandate. Everything else in his behavior was behavioral problem, not substantial one. Thus, quite irrelevant. Just if Lila opens the same questions -- and I am sure they are far from her focus -- that would beco

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Christophe Henner
Hi, I'm puzzled of those emails. Especially melting organisational discussions and private issues. Who sleeps with whom is of no importance actually. What you seem to describe is someone using a personal relationship with a leader of our movement to push forward its POV. This asks for an organis

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Nathan
On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 12:45 PM, Pete Forsyth wrote: > On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 8:19 AM, Nathan wrote: > > No, I have not recapped the whole situation. What I think is appropriate is > that we find a way to bring the situation to a calm conclusion of some > kind. I think the ED has far more opti

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Pete Forsyth
On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 8:19 AM, Nathan wrote: > Here are the ethical principles I think you're espousing: > I don't think you read my message very carefully. > > 1) Vicious, hurtful gossip and speculation about a female executive's > private personal life is acceptable > No, inaccurate. Rathe

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread edward
On 15/06/2014 17:11, Austin Hair wrote: >>Are we subscribed to the same list? It looks to me like everyone else here has moved on. I urge you to do the same. Charles Ainsworth (en:user:cla68) mentioned to me an incident from his army days when a soldier got drunk and drove a Hummer into the m

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Milos Rancic
On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 5:19 PM, Nathan wrote: > 1) Vicious, hurtful gossip and speculation about a female executive's > private personal life is acceptable > 2) People who point out that this is a ridiculous position are > manufacturing "outrage" to fuel drama > 3) Recapping the whole sordid situ

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Pete Forsyth
On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 9:11 AM, Austin Hair wrote: > it doesn't explain what you want. > For that part, read this again, which you misinterpreted. Parentheses to clarify, this time: > I don't think it's a good idea to [ignore (this apparently escalating > situation) on this email list]. > The

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Austin Hair
On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 5:51 PM, Pete Forsyth wrote: > On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 8:36 AM, Austin Hair wrote: > >> Can you sum up what you're trying to accomplish in one sentence >> > > Well, fairly close to one sentence: > > English Wikipedia is seeing a shift in how many longtime banned users are

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread edward
On 15/06/2014 16:51, Pete Forsyth wrote: English Wikipedia is seeing a shift in how many longtime banned users are regarded, commanding substantial valuable attention from WMF trustees, staff, and volunteers. This has been brought about largely by a single individual, whose megaphone was his a

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Pete Forsyth
On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 8:36 AM, Austin Hair wrote: > Can you sum up what you're trying to accomplish in one sentence > Well, fairly close to one sentence: English Wikipedia is seeing a shift in how many longtime banned users are regarded, commanding substantial valuable attention from WMF trus

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Austin Hair
On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 4:43 PM, Pete Forsyth wrote: > I think we all share a concern about the amount of "drama" in our > community-wide discussions. Expressing outrage (even though it's sometimes > appropriate and necessary) can often be the fuel of "drama" -- and I think > it's important to exp

Re: [Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Nathan
On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 10:43 AM, Pete Forsyth wrote: > All: > > In other Wikimedia-related forums, recent discussions have focused on some > (alleged) comments at the Wiki Conference in New York. Apparently, some > people suggested that the WMF's Executive Director should "dump" her > significan

[Wikimedia-l] On relationship gossip and appropriate conversation

2014-06-15 Thread Pete Forsyth
All: In other Wikimedia-related forums, recent discussions have focused on some (alleged) comments at the Wiki Conference in New York. Apparently, some people suggested that the WMF's Executive Director should "dump" her significant other.[1] Many have expressed outrage about this. (For background