You have made many assumptions and completely misunderstood me and I don't want 
to explain myself.


--- In, "maitreya003" <joult...@...> wrote:
> THis is meant to bring peace to a being who goes through the world affected 
> by everyone else.  If you want to be happy and you go about it by changing 
> every one else you will fail, so change your self.  However Trying to help 
> others, not merely to control your own upset caused by others, is not found 
> in this saying.  It was intended to help a person that always blames others 
> for their own unhappiness.  
> "Don't draw another's bow, don't ride another's horse, don't mind another's
> business. Mind your own business." --Dahui
> Again misapplied.  When someone is being raped, don't help.  When someone 
> asks for help tell them it is their business.  When a seial rapist is 
> captured, let him go.  When an addict is suffering don't offer help. Where is 
> the balance in this?  

FROM: Over the hills and far away. . .
The way to do is be. Lao Tzu


Current Book Discussion: any Zen book that you recently have read or are 
reading! Talk about it today!Yahoo! Groups Links

<*> To visit your group on the web, go to:

<*> Your email settings:
    Individual Email | Traditional

<*> To change settings online go to:
    (Yahoo! ID required)

<*> To change settings via email:

<*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:

<*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:

Reply via email to