Re: Halo effect

2010-08-13 Thread Kathryn Darrah
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Greetings, All !I joined a couple of weeks ago and am just beginning to
follow your conversations.  Am I supposed to introduce myself?  Actually,
I'm not sure the history and purpose of this list and would appreciate
someone explaining -- as a separate topic.

I simply wanted to contribute my own thought.  I come from a Christian
background but I would assume the halo effect would usually be a
photographic technique.   I saw this to the point of nausea when I spent a
few months studying Scientology many years ago.   I have no doubt that
Abd'ul Baha has indescribable divine aura not capturable by current
technology, but nothing about L.Ron Hubbard inspired that confidence!

Kathryn Darrah

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On Fri, Aug 13, 2010 at 07:36, David Regal david.re...@yahoo.com wrote:

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   I've heard Baha'is talk about the halo seen in various pictures of
 'Abdu'l-Baha.  I'm just wondering, is there a skeptical Baha'i view of this,
 or do all agree this is amazing?

 Regards,
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Re: Good object lesson for avoiding reading Covenant-breaker sites

2010-08-31 Thread Kathryn Darrah
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I have been avidly watching this conversation unfold, as the question of CB
sites had come up just days before.

I subscribe to Google alerts for Bahai articles and videos.  Some of
the sites I've visited look absolutely legitimate but still, I get a funny
feeling.  Often, I can't identify anything what feels wrong.

 I, too, am a relatively isolated believer with no LSA.  There are a handful
of us scattered across two counties but in different incorporated  rural
areas.  Although we keep the calendar together, we can't form a group.  Our
oldest member - in her 90s! - brought up the topic at last Feast.  One of
the group served several years on the Arc project in Haifa but she had no
idea who is our ABM for Protection.  (I've since learned by writing an old
friend.)

I would appreciate clear guidance on how to recognize the wheat from the
chaff!  I don't want to assume wrongly about a dedicated soul trying to
share the Faith, but there is so much out there.  I've been a Bahai 15 years
with no easy access to a wide variety of materials until recently -
the internet in the last year.  I feel somewhat anxious wandering loose on
the web because I'm old enough to understand how subtle and insidious the
damage can be!  I'm very grateful I was well grounded in my faith before
finding these questionable sources - how would I know which to trust as a
new believer when I don't know even now?

Kathryn




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 The danger in reading Covenant breaker sites is often not that the person
 will be in danger of following these groups; it is that they destroy one's
 faith.  The confusing answers of Mr. Grey, and his statement that he is
 leaving religion altogether, make the point very clearly.
 '
 One of the most malicious slanders of the Faith is the comparisons of the
 Learned to the East German stazi or other tyrannical regimes.  This prevents
 the believer from seeking support from the people most capable of giving it.

 As to the person who supposedly met a grandson of Abdu'l-Baha, whose father
 broke the Covenant, and through whom he did not claim to be a Guardian. This
 makes absolutely no sense.  The children of Abdu'l-Baha were all daughters.

 It is more likely that it was a great grandson, and possibly one of them
 was, for a time, faithful to the Covenant during the conversation he had
 with the believer you know.  But now all of the male descendants, down to
 the present day, are out of the Faith (or at least that was the case up to a
 decade ago when I asked a House member).

 Brent

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Re: Politics on Facebook

2010-10-16 Thread Kathryn Darrah
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Anything inappropriate with this?:

 Political Views: Registered as Decline to State
 Religious Views: Baháí Faith - see www.bahai.org

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   I've noticed a number of Baha'is on Facebook who have 'Barack Obama' as
 one of their 'Likes'.  Baha'is are not supposed to take sides in political
 disputes.  Isn't indicating your support for a politican doing just this?
 Ah, you might say, they are just saying they like Obama, not that they
 support him.  Perhaps, but isn't any non-Baha'i going to interpret it as
 meaning you are a supporter?

 I did also just see a Baha'i who has chosen to specify their political
 views on their profile, which I certainly don't think is appropriate.

 Regards,
 David



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Re: How will they cope?

2010-12-15 Thread Kathryn Darrah
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This has been my experience.  I understand we are to be obedient, and we are
not to take offense, but this dogmatic approach raised bitterness,
resentment and resistance in me.  I started 1, 2  3 three times each before
finally completing 1  2 in an intensive.   Many years later, that is where
I am stalled.  After a decade as a Bahai, I still did not have what I
considered a solid enough grounding in Baha'u'llah to share the Faith with
others.  I wanted Book 4 badly and was delighted when we started it.  Then,
we were told we must complete the books in order.  I love children  support
their activities financially as often as possible, and I'm a board member
for a community theater  which has provided 17 years of classes for kids 
teens (including 3 absolutely amazing now young adult Bahais!) but I will
never, ever teach children's classes.  I haven't got physical health 
energy even to babysit.   Finally, as an isolated believer, I have an
opportunity to do Book 8 with a tutor while we wait for a group to finish
book 2 so we can do Book 4 together with a new believer.  I can't wait!

I'm frustrated with the way information still lags in getting to everyone.
It's been a few years now since I read the House of Justice's clarification
that we are not completely bound to Ruhi, that we have the freedom to use
whatever works best in the situation, whether Firesides or Core Curriculum
or Virtues.  I'd like to see more of us loving, respecting and supporting
each other for what we *can* do instead of tsk, tsking and shunning those
who can't do what we think they ought to be doing.

Kathryn



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  Then again there is a wisdom in the sequence of books so actually im not
  sure. p:

 Keep in mind that these books were designed for Baha'is, not seekers.
 We start with Book one because the first thing we want a new Baha'i to
 do is to pray. But there are some seekers for whom Book One works
 best. I find the ones that are drawn in through the children's classes
 is one example.

 In any case, if I had had to do the books in order like is being
 dogmatically pushed in some areas I never would have completed the
 sequence. I did Book One, then Book Four, then Book Seven. Then I
 started tutoring Book Four. I picked up the other books as I felt I
 needed them, but I didn't finish the sequence until they appointed me
 Cluster Development Facilitator.

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Re: How will they cope?

2010-12-15 Thread Kathryn Darrah
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Tim wrote:   In the early years of Ruhi, the process was sometimes
dominated by zealots who insisted everything had to be done by
rigid rules.

Kathryn:  As time goes on, I finally understand that everything is a growth
process, from immature LSA's whose decisions unintentionally harm
individuals to experiments in how to best share the Faith.  There are so few
of us and we are struggling to find our way.  I felt then that Ruhi  Anna
work in some cultures but not as well in the jaded, cynical, self-centered,
fiercely independent West.  I chafed but I respected the intitutional
process that was guiding the experiment. I just couldn't participate until
the new rules had a chance to shake out.  I hoped that, as more tutors
arose, the process would return to satisfying people's interests.

I have not yet and don't plan to knock on doors.  I'm gracious to the
Witnesses  Mormons who come to my door but I'm not cold-calling.  I trust
God to orchestrate the meeting between me and the souls who will respond to
the way I can comfortably, genuinely share my understanding of Him.

Re:  I'd like to see more of us loving, respecting and supporting each other
for what we *can* do instead of tsk, tsking and shunning those who can't
do what we think they ought to be doing.

Kathryn:  I hope we will learn to meditate more deeply on all Writings
concerning love.  I'm not good for quoting Writings but I believe there is
support for this belief:  Only when we understand that we were created by
Love to love will we understand that Love is the attractive force in the
universe.  Love is the essence that draws us in and unites us.

I treasure the dear woman who was my first contact with the Faith.  She was
the perfect person to nurture me through the ups  downs of adapting to some
uncomfortable changes of viewpoint.  Her loving spirit kept me coming back
to firesides for months.  Her unconditional love through years of despair
lifted me up and kept me from leaving the Faith.

I can't overstate how critical to retention of new believers is the power of
love.  We cannot preach what we do not practice, and I've very rarely seen
genuine friendship, let alone unconditional love, practiced among the many
communities I've passed through.

That's my prayer:  Not that Ruhi brings entry by troops, but that every
living Bahai becomes transformed in radiant beacons of love.  The world is
literally starving to death for want of love.

Kathryn








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On Wed, Dec 15, 2010 at 10:47, Tim Nolan tnola...@yahoo.com wrote:

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  Hi Kathryn

  I understand we are to be obedient, and we are not to take offense,
  but this dogmatic approach raised bitterness,  resentment

 One of the things I have had to learn in my Baha'i life,
 is that while we are to be obedient to the *institutions* and
 to the Writings, we haved zero obligation to be obedient
 to any individual who insists on his or her viewpoint,
 regardless of that person's title.  So if an individual
 says I must do things a certain way, I might listen politely
 then do what I think is best.  People have a right to their own views,
 but  experience has taught me not to give in to bullies.
 It's always important to ask, obedient to whom?
 Nothing in the writings supports the idea that we have
 to obey charismatic people or people who claim
 that their opinion is the Baha'i way.

 In the early years of Ruhi, the process was sometimes dominated by
 zealots who insisted everything had to be done by
 rigid rules.  I think as the Baha'i community matures, we will
 learn not to let zealots run our lives.

 I have done several Ruhi books out of order, and I don't care who
 knows it.

 I'd like to see more of us loving, respecting and supporting each other
 for what we *can* do
 instead of tsk, tsking and shunning those who can't do what we think
 they ought to be doing.

 Hurrah for that!!  And the House of Justice has encouraged us to
  appreciate everyone's efforts, of course. There is a deadening effect of
 people who think,

   I know what the Baha'i really is, and *you* don't conform.

 Tim


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 --Roger Ebert


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  This has been my experience.  I understand we are to be obedient, and we
 are not to take offense, but this dogmatic approach raised bitterness,
 resentment and resistance in me.  I started 1, 2  3 three times each before
 finally completing 1  2

Re: How will they cope?

2010-12-15 Thread Kathryn Darrah
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Gracious!  What a wonderfully affirming response.  Thank you, Susan.

I've often wondered how it is we determine which neighborhoods are
receptive.  I vaguely remember something about prayers having an
effect within a two-block radius of Bahai homes.   I wondered how that was
determined, too.  I enjoyed praying, hoping  it's true.  For 18 months I've
lived just outside the perimeter of a youth correctional facility.  I've
prayed for those young men and the staff trying to help them.  It will be
interesting to arrive in the next world and learn whether my
presence/prayers really had any effect.

Kathryn

Dedicate the precious days of your lives to the betterment of the world. ~
Bahá’u’lláh
I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know;
the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who
have sought and found how to serve.~ Albert Schweitzer

www.bahai.org




On Wed, Dec 15, 2010 at 12:03, Susan Maneck sman...@gmail.com wrote:

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  I have not yet and don't plan to knock on doors.  I'm gracious to the
  Witnesses  Mormons who come to my door but I'm not cold-calling.

 Generally speaking the 'cold-calling' is used to in neighborhoods
 which appear receptive in order to find interest in starting children
 classes and junior youth groups. We have found a lot of families
 receptive to this. I don't like doing an entire presentation of the
 Faith door-to-door. Note that the House in its last Ridvan message
 speaks of knocking on doors in the context of building community not
 simply 'teaching the Faith.'

  Kathryn:  I hope we will learn to meditate more deeply on all Writings
  concerning love.  I'm not good for quoting Writings but I believe there
 is
  support for this belief:  Only when we understand that we were created by
  Love to love will we understand that Love is the attractive force in the
  universe.  Love is the essence that draws us in and unites us.

 I think you will find when you do Book Six this is very much stressed.
 My problem has been when people take Anna's Presentation out of the
 context of Book Six, memorize and just recite it to people. It
 completely undoes everything Book Six was trying to do. Note that the
 last Ridvan message from the House stresses understanding the *logic*
 behind Anna's Presentation and treating it as a conversation rather
 than something we are merely reciting to those we assume to be
 seekers.

 I love your spirit Kathryn.

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Re: How will they cope?

2010-12-15 Thread Kathryn Darrah
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Stephen,

I pray every day, in one way or another.  So many of the prayers fill me
that it would be impossible to say which are my favorites.  I'm very
attached to the Bab's prayer in the shape of a pentacle.  I also get great
comfort from the prayers for families, particularly parents as my mother
commited suicide when I was small and all the grandparents who reared me are
now in the next world.  This prayer also facilitated the reunion with my
father and healed our relationship.  There are phrases in some prayers that
echo through me but I couldn't find them if I wanted to.  I guess the
prayers I offer most often are informal appeals for healing, assistance 
comfort and the prayers for the departed -- several times a day, as emails
arrive.

I have no memory of where I heard that comment.  It was most likely
conversation in the Ruhi classes or some gathering where the institute
process was being discussed.  I know it was early days in encouraging us to
reach out to our family, friends, neighbors and co-workers.

Kathryn


Dedicate the precious days of your lives to the betterment of the world. ~
Bahá’u’lláh
I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know;
the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who
have sought and found how to serve.~ Albert Schweitzer

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On Wed, Dec 15, 2010 at 13:03, Stephen Gray skg_z...@yahoo.com wrote:

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  How often do you pray (other than the Obligatory Prayers, which would
 obviously be daily)? Which prayers do you pray most often? Which ones are
 your favorites? Where did you get that two-block radius quote from
 (obviously not authoritative as paryer knows no boundaries)?

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 *Sent:* Wed, December 15, 2010 2:57:51 PM

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 Gracious!  What a wonderfully affirming response.  Thank you, Susan.

 I've often wondered how it is we determine which neighborhoods are
 receptive.  I vaguely remember something about prayers having an
 effect within a two-block radius of Bahai homes.   I wondered how that was
 determined, too.  I enjoyed praying, hoping  it's true.  For 18 months I've
 lived just outside the perimeter of a youth correctional facility.  I've
 prayed for those young men and the staff trying to help them.  It will be
 interesting to arrive in the next world and learn whether my
 presence/prayers really had any effect.

 Kathryn

 Dedicate the precious days of your lives to the betterment of the world.
 ~ Bahá’u’lláh
 I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know;
 the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who
 have sought and found how to serve.~ Albert Schweitzer

 www.bahai.org





 On Wed, Dec 15, 2010 at 12:03, Susan Maneck sman...@gmail.com wrote:

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  I have not yet and don't plan to knock on doors.  I'm gracious to the
  Witnesses  Mormons who come to my door but I'm not cold-calling.

 Generally speaking the 'cold-calling' is used to in neighborhoods
 which appear receptive in order to find interest in starting children
 classes and junior youth groups. We have found a lot of families
 receptive to this. I don't like doing an entire presentation of the
 Faith door-to-door. Note that the House in its last Ridvan message
 speaks of knocking on doors in the context of building community not
 simply 'teaching the Faith.'

  Kathryn:  I hope we will learn to meditate more deeply on all Writings
  concerning love.  I'm not good for quoting Writings but I believe there
 is
  support for this belief:  Only when we understand that we were created
 by
  Love to love will we understand that Love is the attractive force in the
  universe.  Love is the essence that draws us in and unites us.

 I think you will find when you do Book Six this is very much stressed.
 My problem has been when people take Anna's Presentation out of the
 context of Book Six, memorize and just recite it to people. It
 completely undoes everything Book Six was trying to do. Note that the
 last Ridvan message from the House stresses understanding the *logic*
 behind Anna's Presentation and treating it as a conversation rather
 than something we are merely reciting to those we assume to be
 seekers.

 I love your spirit Kathryn.

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Re: How will they cope?

2010-12-15 Thread Kathryn Darrah
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Yes, Stephen, those are two I offer often.  This is another
favorite specifically mentioning parents:
http://www.bahaiprayers.org/families2.htm


I have several Bahai prayers books and some from other faiths also.  I've
just recently found that website and really, really appreciate it.  When I'm
here at the computer reading an email requesting prayers the website is so
much faster than finding a prayer book.  The beauty of the photographs helps
me move quickly from my head to my heart.

Have you found favorites among the prayers?  Have you seen the prayer book
for men?  I gave it as a gift to a friend going through a difficult time,
but he's never opened it, as far as I know.

Kathryn


Dedicate the precious days of your lives to the betterment of the world. ~
Bahá’u’lláh
I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know;
the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who
have sought and found how to serve.~ Albert Schweitzer

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  http://www.bahaiprayers.org/protection7.htm


 This is a prayer you specifically mentioned.

 Also, I assume by father you mean this prayer:

 http://www.bahaiprayers.org/families3.htm


 The Long Healing Prayer and Short Healing Prayer are very common in the
 healing department.

 http://www.bahaiprayers.org/healing2.htm

 http://www.bahaiprayers.org/healing6.htm


 Also, there is the book Prayers  Meditatons. Do you get them from there
 often? It has alot of the prayers for the website there, but some have yet
 to be categoried.

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 *From:* Kathryn Darrah allaboutjoye1...@gmail.com
 *To:* Baha'i Studies bahai-st@list.jccc.edu
 *Sent:* Wed, December 15, 2010 3:33:09 PM

 *Subject:* Re: How will they cope?

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 Stephen,

 I pray every day, in one way or another.  So many of the prayers fill me
 that it would be impossible to say which are my favorites.  I'm very
 attached to the Bab's prayer in the shape of a pentacle.  I also get great
 comfort from the prayers for families, particularly parents as my mother
 commited suicide when I was small and all the grandparents who reared me are
 now in the next world.  This prayer also facilitated the reunion with my
 father and healed our relationship.  There are phrases in some prayers that
 echo through me but I couldn't find them if I wanted to.  I guess the
 prayers I offer most often are informal appeals for healing, assistance 
 comfort and the prayers for the departed -- several times a day, as emails
 arrive.

 I have no memory of where I heard that comment.  It was most likely
 conversation in the Ruhi classes or some gathering where the institute
 process was being discussed.  I know it was early days in encouraging us to
 reach out to our family, friends, neighbors and co-workers.

 Kathryn


 Dedicate the precious days of your lives to the betterment of the world.
 ~ Bahá’u’lláh
 I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know;
 the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who
 have sought and found how to serve.~ Albert Schweitzer

 www.bahai.org





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  How often do you pray (other than the Obligatory Prayers, which would
 obviously be daily)? Which prayers do you pray most often? Which ones are
 your favorites? Where did you get that two-block radius quote from
 (obviously not authoritative as paryer knows no boundaries)?

  --
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 *Sent:* Wed, December 15, 2010 2:57:51 PM

 *Subject:* Re: How will they cope?

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 Gracious!  What a wonderfully affirming response.  Thank you, Susan.

 I've often wondered how it is we determine which neighborhoods are
 receptive.  I vaguely remember something about prayers having an
 effect within a two-block radius of Bahai homes.   I wondered how that was
 determined, too.  I enjoyed praying, hoping  it's true.  For 18 months I've
 lived just outside the perimeter of a youth correctional facility.  I've
 prayed for those young men and the staff trying to help them.  It will be
 interesting to arrive in the next world and learn whether my
 presence/prayers really had any effect.

 Kathryn

 Dedicate the precious days of your lives to the betterment of the world.
 ~ Bahá’u’lláh
 I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know;
 the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who
 have sought and found how to serve.~ Albert Schweitzer

 www.bahai.org






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  I have not yet and don't plan to knock on doors.  I'm gracious to the
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Re: How will they cope?

2010-12-15 Thread Kathryn Darrah
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Oh, yes!  I tend to forget that's at the front of the prayer book, just
before the table of contents.  That's certainly clear about the effect of
reciting the prayers and Writings!

As for the 2-block radius of Bahai homes, Susan is probably right that what
I'm remembering is Kitab-i-Hearsay, but memories are tickling me.  I have a
sense it was based on something from the House of Justice and would have
been about 2004-2005.  The neighborhood I was living in then is associated
with this memory.

Oh, well, not important.

Kathryn





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  You may be referring to the following quotation from Baha'u'llah.  There
 is no mention of a two-block radius, but the prayer said shall scatter
 abroad the fragrance of the words uttered by his mouth, and shall cause the
 heart of every righteous man to throb

 Intone, O My servant, the verses of God that have been received by thee,
 as intoned by them who have drawn nigh unto Him, that the sweetness of thy
 melody may kindle thine own soul, and attract the hearts of all men. Whoso
 reciteth, in the privacy of his chamber, the verses revealed by God, the
 scattering angels of the Almighty shall scatter abroad the fragrance of the
 words uttered by his mouth, and shall cause the heart of every righteous man
 to throb. Though he may, at first, remain unaware of its effect, yet the
 virtue of the grace vouchsafed unto him must needs sooner or later exercise
 its influence upon his soul. Thus have the mysteries of the Revelation of
 God been decreed by virtue of the Will of Him Who is the Source of power and
 wisdom.  (Baha'u'llah, Gleanings from the Writings of Baha'u'llah, p. 295)

 Loving regards,
 Shirley

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 allaboutjoye1...@gmail.com writes:

 I've often wondered how it is we determine which neighborhoods are
 receptive.  I vaguely remember something about prayers having an
 effect within a two-block radius of Bahai homes.   I wondered how that was
 determined, too.  I enjoyed praying, hoping  it's true.  For 18 months I've
 lived just outside the perimeter of a youth correctional facility.  I've
 prayed for those young men and the staff trying to help them.  It will be
 interesting to arrive in the next world and learn whether my
 presence/prayers really had any effect.

 Kathryn



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Re: God as Forgiver

2010-12-29 Thread Kathryn Darrah
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First, I have to note that you did not answer Iskandar's question.   I have
no source, either, but I do vaguely remember reading something to the effect
that Islam will be forgotten in the future - I think it as referring to the
suffering inflicted on The Bab, Babi's, Baha'u'llah and early Bahai's.

From whatever I read I did not get the impression that Muslims as a whole
are not forgiven.  The specific clerics who instigate in the abuse and
continue to lead their people astray, perhaps . or perhaps not.  Christ
said that the only unforgivable sin is to deny the Holy Spirit.  I think it
was either Baha'u'llah or 'Abdu'l Baha who explained that this means to fail
to recognize the current Manifestation.  Again, I'm a terrible one for
remembering sources, but I've also read that those who did not recognize Him
during their lifetimes have another opportunity in the next world, and will
be forgiven if sincerely repentant.  It would be an outrageous God who
consigns billions of people to hell simply because they were led astray by
their leaders or never even heard of the current Manifestation.

Second, as a former Scientologist, I have to ask why you insult the Quran,
the bread on which Baha'u'llah was fed, by including it in the same thought
as L. Ron Hubbard? I am offended.Surely, you can answer the question
and cite your source without resorting to such childishly
provocative insults?

Kathryn
Dedicate the precious days of your lives to the betterment of the world. ~
Bahá’u’lláh
I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know;
the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who
have sought and found how to serve.~ Albert Schweitzer

www.bahai.org




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 Muslims have to put away their Qurans, or at least put them on the shelf
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Re: List Status

2011-10-26 Thread Kathryn Darrah
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Excellent!   I have missed it!!


*Kathryn*
*a wee mouse in the corner, soaking it all in*


Dedicate the precious days of your lives to the betterment of the world. ~
Bahá’u’lláh

Example is not the main thing in influencing others.  It is the only
thing. ~ Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt,
kindness  causes misunderstanding, mistrust and hostility to evaporate. ~
Until he extends his circle of compassion to include all living things, man
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  Hi, folks:

 The list is back up. Since I will now be watching the list, I have taken it
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 I am also back after many, many inner changes.

  
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Re: Archives

2014-11-12 Thread Kathryn Darrah
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Just found this in spam folder. Gmail thinks none of you in this thread are
really you. Strange.

I'm sorry to read the list is dead. I was enjoying it until that member
seemed to hijack it. It got real quiet about then, it seemed.

I've been a member only a few years  never thought about public/private ,
but I clearly remember knowing it was Open to non-bahai's.

Kathryn

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