[ozmidwifery] Abby's Birth Announcement

2005-11-04 Thread Abby and Toby
HI,

Sorry for the x-post, but thought I would share that thismorning at 3:46am I
gave birth to a beautiful little girl, Runah. After a couple of days of
crazy prelabour and 5 hours of active labour she was birthed in warm water,
in my own home, into my friends hands with just her daddy, mummy and two
friends there.
After having a very traumatic c-section with my first daughter, this was
truly amazing!!
I am sore, tired and truly EMPOWERED!!

Love Abby

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[ozmidwifery] Pinky McKay - an amazing woman

2005-09-29 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

Just thought I would let everyone know that there is no way Pinky would ever
be in agreement with the Ezzo's and their teachings. In fact Pinky spends
quite a lot of time with parents difusing the terrible belief systems they
have, that were put in place by such people as the Ezzo's, Tizzie Hall and
Gina Ford. Pinky's books are wonderful as a tool against such teachings.
They encourage parents to follow their instincts, trust in themselves and
also give great practical advice when needed.

I have met Pinky online and in real life and heard her speakshe is
one of the best and most passionate speakers I have ever heard. Check out
her site and read her books they are really gentle and wonderful.
http://www.pinky-mychild.com/

I wonder Brenda if you were thinking of Tizzie Hall. She is a shocker and
her attitude is terrible towards babies and children. She makes heaps of
money out of really bad advice. But I won't get on to the Tizzie subject it
makes me dizzie! lol!

Love Abby

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[ozmidwifery] Watch Out The Ezzo's Are in Town!!

2005-09-28 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

I hardly post here anymore but thought this was worth mentioning. If I had
known earlier I would've been campaigning!

The Ezzo's are in Victor Harbour, SA for the GFA National Conference this
weekend. I can't imagine anything worse than spending a weekend listening to
babies being left to cry and watching children getting smacked and
disrespected!

Not sure what anyone could do, but if I was there I would be picketing and
yelling for childrens rights!

Love Abby



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Re: [ozmidwifery] doula in the Hawkesbury?

2005-07-17 Thread Abby and Toby



Subject: [ozmidwifery] doula in the Hawkesbury?
Hi all,Does anyone know of a doula in this 
area?

Here is Bonny's details Janet. They are posted 
on a public site so I am sure she wouldn't mind me posting them 
here.

Bonny Davies (Maternity and Birth 
Support)north-west sydney region: Hawkesbury Region 
(Windsor)ph: (02) 0414 457 293

Love Abby


[ozmidwifery] Fw: Joyous Birth Review: Episiotomies May Bring More Risks

2005-05-04 Thread Abby and Toby



Hi,

Thought some people may find this 
interesting.

Love Abby


Subject: Joyous Birth Review: Episiotomies May Bring More 
Risks
Review: Episiotomies May Bring More RisksBy CARLA K. 
JOHNSON, Associated Press WriterTue May 3,11:09 PM ETFor years, some 
doctors believed that an episiotomy, an incision toenlarge the vaginal 
opening during childbirth, would preventspontaneous tearing that would be 
harder to repair. They also believedthe procedure would help women avoid 
incontinence and improve theirsex lives.It turns out those beliefs 
were myths.A new review of 26 research studies shows that episiotomies 
are linkedwith a higher risk of injury, more trouble healing and more 
pain.Episiotomies also had no effect on incontinence, pelvic floor 
strengthor sexual function. Women who had the procedure waited longer 
toresume sex after childbirth. And their first post-birth 
intercoursecaused them more pain."This review puts together in one 
place all the evidence that we'renot getting the results we want," said Dr. 
Katherine Hartmann, thestudy's lead author and a researcher at the 
University of NorthCarolina.The review was published in Wednesday's 
Journal of the AmericanMedical Association.An episiotomy is usually 
a small cut  deeper than the width of alarge metal paperclip and about as 
long, she said. But spontaneoustears often are smaller and don't need 
stitches.Many women and their doctors already know episiotomies haven't 
provenbeneficial, Hartmann said, adding that rates are dropping, but 
notfast enough.She estimated that 1 million women each year have 
unnecessaryepisiotomies, citing studies that indicate they are done in about 
30percent of vaginal births.An Associated Press analysis of hospital 
data found there were 616,702episiotomies in 2002, but Hartmann said the 
procedures areunderestimated in hospital records.Since 1983, the 
American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologistshas said episiotomies 
should not be done routinely. Dr. Laura Riley,of ACOG's obstetrical practice 
committee, said most doctors alreadyknow they should be done only when the 
baby is in distress."I think the message has been out there a while," 
she said. Herhospital, Massachusetts General in Boston, only does them in 
about 8percent of births, she said.However, the numbers vary widely. 
Women are more likely to get anepisiotomy at some hospitals, Hartmann said. 
One study from themid-1990s found that episiotomy rates at Philadelphia 
hospitals variedfrom 20 percent to 73 percent.The Agency for 
Healthcare Quality and Research, which funded thereview, planned to post a 
summary on its Web site Tuesday afternoon.Pregnant women should discuss it 
with their doctors or midwives,Hartmann said."Just in time for 
Mother's Day," Hartmann said. "This is a big giftfor future 
mothers."Every woman and every baby and every 
family have the right to Joyous Birth! 

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[ozmidwifery] Expo this weekend

2005-04-10 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

Homebirth Access Sydney is in need of your support. We need some more people
to help out at the stand this weekend.

I am sure we are all aware that in Australia less than 1% of births occur at
home, it is a tragedy. Women do not seem to be aware of their options and
choices for prenatal and birth support. Nor do women and their partners seem
to be aware of the safety of homebirth and the amazing support that an
independent midwife can offer.

Pregnancy and parenting expos are a great way to bring awareness to womens
birthing choices and to the services that independent midwives provide.

It would be really wonderful if a few more Sydney midwives could join HAS in
promoting homebirth at this expo. So far, only one midwife has put her hand
up to volunteer and we need more. If you have just a couple of hours spare,
please join us in giving women options and information. You can promote your
services while you are there and help women and their partners become aware.

It is a small step, but it is a small step in the right direction. More
awareness on a grassroots level means more acceptance of midwives and
homebirthing.

Please email me if you want to help out. We still have spaces on Saturday
12pm-2pm and every afternoon.

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Thanks
Love Abby
HAS Events Co-ordinator

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[ozmidwifery] HAS needs you at the PBC Expo

2005-04-05 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi Sydney Midwives,

Homebirth Access Sydney would love if you could lend a couple of hours to
come and help promote and raise awareness of the joys of homebirthing in
Sydney. HAS is having a stall at the Parents, Babies and Childrens Expo from
Friday 15th April to Sunday 17th April. We still have a couple of time slots
open for someone to help man the stall. Friday 2pm-5pm, Saturday 10am-12pm
and 2pm-5pm.

It's a great opportunity to advertise yourself and homebirth.

Please contact me offlist at [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Thanks
Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] big baby

2005-03-18 Thread Abby and Toby
 I am unclear  about some of this reply but when I said 'stressed about the
 size and labour' I meant (and this is what I needed from people), was that
 she needs to get her head away from worry about the size and birthing a
big
 baby because that will inhibit and affect her ability to labour well - as
in her own head space and find a way to be confident.

So sorry Belinda, that was me misreading what you were saying. I have heard
so many `professionals` telling women that they will have problems birthing
because of their `big` babies, I thought that's what you had stressed to
her.
I think if you convey to her that her body will grow the perfectly sized
baby for her to birth, it would be good for her to hear that.
US are so unreliable, I don't know why they are still being used for
guessing weight.

Sorry again Belinda. I am feeling kinda fiesty about women and
birth.didn't know whybut today I know
why...I'm pregnant!! YAY!!

Love Abby

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[ozmidwifery] Midiwves supporting in the Blue Mountains?

2005-03-18 Thread Abby and Toby



Hi,

Are there any midwives on here that support women 
birthing in the upper Blue Mountains, or do you know of any?
I already know of one, but was wondering if there 
were any others willing to come up.

Thanks
Love Abby


[ozmidwifery] Fwd: [AVN] After 11 years, Australia to lose volunteer-run consumer health lobby group

2005-03-16 Thread Abby and Toby



Thought that many people would be interested to know this is happening. I 
for one would be really upset if this great resource was shut down. Consumers 
need both sides to make informed decisions, without both sides there is no 
informed choice.

Love Abby

Meryl Dorey [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 

To: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED]From: 
  "Meryl Dorey" [EMAIL PROTECTED]Date: Sun, 13 Mar 
  2005 17:08:13 +1100Subject: [AVN] After 11 years, Australia to lose 
  volunteer-run consumer health lobby groupDear 
  everyone,Well, it's been a long, hard 11 years but I personally cannot 
  continue tofight any more without help and help has not been forthcoming 
  except from avery few extremely dedicated people - you know who you are. 
  After 11 yearsof volunteering full time for this organisation, I am afraid 
  I've come tothe end of my resources. We need $20,000 to continue - $50,000 
  to get to thepoint where we are not always borrowing from Peter to pay 
  Paul - and we havenot been able to raise those funds so, on Monday, I will 
  be contacting thenecessary authorities to discuss putting the AVN into 
  bankruptcy and foldingthis organisation.Believe me, I don't want 
  to see 11 years of my life go down the tubes, but Idon't see any other way 
  out of this. As one of the members of our committeesaid when told about 
  this, "I wonder why it is that those who want to deny others choice 
  are the oneswho can get the money, and the help? I daresay most people are 
  just toohappy to let others do the work for them - but come out screaming 
  whensomething finally affects them. And people like the sceptics are just 
  sofull of their own imagined importance that they attract all 
  thepsuedo-intellectuals, and have no trouble financing all sorts 
  ofconferences, awards, etc etc etc."The saddest thing is that 
  parents and health consumers who choose naturaltherapies will not longer 
  have us as their voice to be lobbying on theirbehalf and helping to inform 
  anyone who cared to listen. The government willbe pleased. The mainstream 
  medical community will be ecstatic. No doubt, theAustralian Sceptics will 
  be declaring a national week of celebration at thedeath of the 
  'Anti-Vaccine Liars'.If you know of anyone who can help - please speak 
  up now. If you can helpand haven't because you have put it off for one 
  reason or another, stopputting it off - it's past time 
  now.Otherwise, I'm afraid that next week, I will be closing this list 
  down,disconnecting our phones and unfortunately, stopping production of 
  thecurrent issue of Informed Choice magazine which is now at the 
  printers.If you are a member of the AVN, please accept my sincere 
  apologies. I nevermeant for this to happen and have done whatever was 
  within my power toprevent it. It wasn't enough. No matter what 
  (thank you Alan :-)Meryl 

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Re: [ozmidwifery] big baby

2005-03-16 Thread Abby and Toby
I have discussed with her the probs with ultrasound
 weights, big babies, birth, she is very tall as is her husband, stressing
about the size in labour affecting her labour.

Maybe her body just grows big babies. If a womans body grows big babies, why
would you stress how size can affect labour, that just sets up fear and
stress for a woman. Her baby, is more than likely, growing perfectly to her
body, so size in labour would not make any difference. That is what should
be stressed to her, that her baby will be perfect for her body.
In this day and age fear is pushed on women, why offer any more stress or
fear for a woman to contend with? Lots of women around the world birth big
and beautiful babies.
If the focus is on the `problems` that the `professionals` see, that is what
the womans focus will also become. Why not just let her be and focus on
birthing her baby, rather than size, or this problem or that problem.
I am reminded of a friend that had a `necessary` c-section because her baby
was going to be over 10lbs, but alas, out came her scrawny 7lb, immature
baby girl. Oh the joy of `accurate` diagnostic testing.

Love Abby - who is wondering why mothers are not treated as the
`professionals`


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[ozmidwifery] Protein in Urine?

2005-02-25 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

A client and I have been discussing protein in urine and how much is too
much, when to get worried etc. She was admitted to hospital at 37 weeks with
her daughter and induced, apparently due to high blood pressure and protein
in her urine. A friend of hers had a similiar symptoms of pre eclampsia but
was not admitted to hospital and went on to have a natural birth. So, my
question is, can the test measure quantities of protein or just pick up
protein in general. If it is in quantities, what level is too much?

Thanks
Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] MORE ACTIVE MANGAEMENT

2005-02-25 Thread Abby and Toby



Has anyone had any experience with women eating a chunk of raw 
placenta to stop pph? I have read a few things about it and was just wondering 
if anyone had experience with this. 

Thanks
Love Abby



[ozmidwifery] 100% Caesarean rate at Baxter??

2005-02-09 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

I have just heard, fifth hand, that at Baxter detention centre they are
forcing all pregnant women to have a scheduled caesarean. Is this correct?
If so, is there anything happening to change it?

Thanks
Love Abby


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[ozmidwifery] Fw: [birthings] [Fwd: want to learn]

2004-12-21 Thread Abby and Toby



Thought someone here might be able to share some knowledge and insight 
with this woman.

Love Abby 

 Original Message Subject: 
 want to learnDate: 
 Sat, 18 Dec 2004 18:14:05 -0800 (PST)From: 
 Emily [EMAIL PROTECTED]To: 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED]Hi 
thereIm a 20 year old female, just finished my second year of medicine and 
am hoping to eventually work attending home births or set up a small 
birthing centre. I am passionately interested in pregnancy, birth and 
women's health but am having a lot of trouble finding people who will 
guide or teach me within the hospital setting. I am travelling to alice 
springs in februrary to do a placement at Alakura Indigenous women's 
centre. Before i go i would really like to get more experience that 
might make me more useful in my time there. I'm interested in attending 
home and hospital births, antenatal and postnatal visits and working 
with a lactation consultant/midwife or doula to learn more about helping 
women to breastfeed. I am based in newcastle. Any help would be greatly 
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Re: [ozmidwifery] Fwd: The risk that follows caesarean

2004-12-17 Thread Abby and Toby
 IN case any of your missed this. lots of mixed messages here!

http://www.smh.com.au/news/National/The-risk-that-follows-caesarean/2004/12/
16/1102787218025.html
Regards,mAndrea

Don't know if I am even game to read it! lol! On the c-aware list there has
already been a response from a woman planning a vbac but know questioning
some things.
Why do people persist in printing rubbish? Not at all evidence based care or
even intelligent thinking. It erks me s much. These people would be
seemingly intelligent people yet they don't seem to know anything.
The other morning on channel 9 they were talking about prem babies and they
didn't mention one thing about kangaroo care, yet they mentioned stuff about
babies not being able to regulate their temperature. This was during an
interview with the expert on prems. I don't understand why the journalists
don't look into things properly before printing and reporting such BS!

Jumping off the soapbox now!

Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Baby whisperers...

2004-12-13 Thread Abby and Toby



Hm, was just on the phone to a friend 
talking about when this would get posted on here...Pinky are you on this 
list? lol!
As if parents need more pressure to sleep and have 
children that should be sleeping through. Too much focus goes on how many hours 
a baby sleeps or if they are a good sleeper and not enough focus goes into 
parenting and night time parenting. Parenting is a 24hour a day 7 day a week 
job.
I can't believe, thatpeople believe, that a 
three month old should be able to put herself back to sleep?? What about the 
studies showing that babies still get at least 25% of their nutrition at night 
time if they need it? What about their tiny tummies? What about the emotional 
and physical impacts on the child? What about the fact that we know so much more 
about the psychological effects that the Tresillian method has on the child?? 
What about the fact that this child has had her whole life rearranged and needs 
her mummy and daddy to nurture and care for her not take her to a strange place 
and have strangers`care` for her.
I don't believe that Tresillian teaches how 
to "understand the perspective of the 
infants", how can they when they use 85 year old ideas that can cause 
psychological damage to such a young child.
Their formula is not "sleep-inducing" it is `shut down for survival` 
inducing.
It erks me that newspapers print such propaganda.

Abby

http://www.smh.com.au/news/National/Thanks-baby-whisperers-now-we-can-all-sleep/2004/12/12/1102786955922.html

  
  This should be of interest to 
  you...


[ozmidwifery] AAIMHI Policy Paper on Controlled Crying

2004-12-13 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

Thought I would post a link to this for anyone that may not have seen it.
The policy certainly challenges much of the popular thinking about sleep
training and such.

http://www.aaimhi.org/documents/position%20papers/controlled_crying.pdf

Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Baby whisperers...

2004-12-13 Thread Abby and Toby




I can't believe, thatpeople believe, 
that a three month old should be able to put herself back to sleep?? 


Sorry, I misread the age of the child and she was 7 
months when they went to Tresillian. Still far too young in my opinion, she 
still has such a tiny tummy and babies usually wake if they need something, not 
just to be annoying and inconvenient.

Love Abby


[ozmidwifery] Glucose Challenge Testing

2004-12-13 Thread Abby and Toby



Hi,

Couple of questions about this-

1) Is this application normal or necessary, the 
fasting for so long I mean - "My 
midwife wants me to have a glucose challenge test that involves 12 hours fasting 
then a blood test, drinking a sugary drink, 1hr later another blood test, 
drinking another drink and then another hour later another blood 
test."

I have never 
heard of someonehaving to fast for that long beforehand?? Seems like a 
strange thing to ask a pregnant woman to do. Any insight would be 
great.

2) Does anyone have any info, links, research etc about the accuracy, 
relevance/importance, evidence etc for the glucose test?

Thanksin advance.
Love Abby

(P.S. Still working on the `evidence` aboutcontrolled crying, 
nutrition etc) 


[ozmidwifery] Breech birth question

2004-11-26 Thread Abby and Toby



Hi,

Just reading about breech births and differences of 
opinions between caregivers. Came across this comment, on a homebirth midwifes 
page and found it kinda odd. I would expect it from some Obs and hospital 
staff,but not sure what to make of this. There are other things on the 
page that I think are weird eg. semi reclined position, do this, do that, I'm in 
charge kind of attitude, but this comment struck me as `fear`.

7. At this point the baby must be born quickly. 
STAY CALM! It is possible for the baby to suffocate if not 
born within 5 minutes. Note: Time seems to stand still when we 
are under stress. Have an assistant keep track of time. What will seem like 
twenty minutes to you will have probably have been two! 
http://www.moondragon.org/obgyn/pregnancy/breechhome.html

Any midwives out there that have differing views on 
breech births. I realise that these days most women are encouraged to have 
c-sections, but thought some of you would supported women at breech 
births.
I have learnt from a couple of wise women that the 
best way for women to birth a breech baby is just like any other baby, her way 
in her time.

Love Abby
(P.S. She also warns against the advocation of the 
squatting position, where as Michel Odent believes it should be insisted that 
women birth a breech baby squatting?? Any thoughts??)



Re: [ozmidwifery] Breech birth question

2004-11-26 Thread Abby and Toby



Couple that with knowledge and common sense 
and you will cope with most midwifery situations including breech 
birth.marilyn

Thanks for sharing Marilyn. I think that paragraph 
was pretty full on too..actually, I thought most of it was coming from a 
very "managed" and aggressive approach.

Was your breech birth any different to your other 
births? It really interests me, the perspective of mothers birthing breech 
babies. I assume that most breech babies are "delivered" by c-section these days 
in hospitals and a lot of mothers believe this is the only way.

Do you think that the high numbers of morbidity or 
injuryin breech birth statistics is because peope have not kept their 
hands and management out of the births? I wonder what the stats would be if 
there was a study done on completely natural breech births, not that stats tell 
everything, but it would be an interesting comparison of 
hospitals/home/managedto natural/ unmanaged.

Love Abby- always thinking, always asking. 
lol.


Re: [ozmidwifery] Breech birth question

2004-11-26 Thread Abby and Toby
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] Breech birth question



I really love your interest in all 
the finer details of birth - your inquisitive nature will hold you well as you 
watch all your births unfold - all in their own manner, positions and time 
frame.

Thanks for the encouragement Sue. Sometimes my 
inquisitive, questioning mind gets me in trouble! lol!I have also not long returned from Maggie Banks 
Midwifery Intensive in New Zealand where we really bashed out breech births from 
all perspectives and positions.

I am so keen to get along to one of Maggies intensives. I 
am hoping to go sometime next year. Flights can be so cheap now and what a 
wonderful way to spend a weekend!!If you run a breech 
simulation through a plastic uterus, like we did many times in NZ, it appears 
that the most accommodating position ie the easiest 'sweep' of the baby's head 
through the bones and the perineum is with the pelvis tipped slightly forwards 
ie mum leaning slightly back, but upright not sitting on her pelvis ('bed 
dystocia' as Maggie calls it).

It is interesting that some `caregivers` can observe this 
and then some cannot see the ease different positions create, not just in birth. 
I have a very old obstetrics book and everything is shown on a plastic model. (I 
got the book to cut up for some artworks I am doing). Every pic is the model 
lying down or semi reclined, I just wonder how people don't notice the 
`obstructions`, generally created in those 
positions.However, 2 of my 3 homebirth breeches were 
standing leaning forward which does allow baby to drop through well, but with 
each of these, when the head was ready to be born ie after the nape of the neck 
was visible, when asked to 'let go', both mothers spontaneously tipped 
their pelvises forward (into the better sweeping position). 

It is amazing how women will follow their bodies cues and 
intuition if supported in that space. I love to hear these stories, they are so 
few and far between, where a woman is encouraged to `let go`.
Cord cut immediately, off to the resus trolley, suctioned, 
aspirated, shown to another midwife out the door - all before mum even had a 
look!! Disgusting behaviour !! 

That is disgusting! Women can be treated so badly, it is 
an outrage. It is incredibly sad too. Did you want to deck him one 
Sue??!!This makes senes to me anyway, as we all know the 
difficulties sometimes faced with severe dystocias which sometimes end in 
tragedy.

It makes sense to me too. I am sooo 
keen to get along to an intensive now!! Even though I am not a midwife, I just 
love learning from wise women about women. I think I would've loved to have 
grown up watching heaps of births and sitting in womens circles! 
lol!
I think that in the attempt to stop tragedy in birth, the 
medical "professionals" have taken it too far and created many tragedies through 
interventions. I am amazed and thankful for the life saving interventions when 
they really are needed, but many cause more problems if used incorrectly etc. 
The more I learn and hear about women, pregnancy and birth, the more I see that 
there are tragedies that happen, and they sometimes are part of the `natural` 
process of life and birth. Not sure if I am explaining how to express what I am 
trying to say, or if this makes sense, it is hard to put into 
words.
Birth is a dynamic process and we always have to be on out toes 
and expectant, rather than complacent. But as you say Abby, 'the best way to 
birth a breech baby is just like any other baby, her way in her 
time.'SueAhhh Sue, I wish I had listened to my heart 
and sought you for support at my birth when I lived in the Shire. Though, if it 
had been a wonderful waterbirth at home I may not be where I am now, supporting 
women.

Love Abby


Re: [ozmidwifery] Re Stillbirth Memory ideas

2004-11-25 Thread Abby and Toby



When my sister lost her baby, 
my mum, other sister and I had a ceremony together. My sister and I each made 
her a small, quilted wall piece and my mum gave her a love, hope and charity 
gold charm.
We gave them to her in a memory 
box that we had decorated.
She kept the box hidden away 
for almost a year and didn't look at it. Now she has the two wall pieces up in 
her lounge room and she wears her charm.
A friend of mine lost her 
little daughter and I am making tiny rainbow quilt for her. 


I think the black and white 
photos are a beautiful idea. I have seen a book and a couple of memorial 
websites with black and white photos, they are a beautiful 
reminder.

Love 
Abby


[ozmidwifery] Gentian Violet?

2004-11-21 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

can anyone help me in locating info about the dangers of gentian violet? It
was my understanding that in Oz we stopped recommending it quite some time
ago because of some dangers?? My sister in America has been told to use it
on her 4 week old daughter for thrush. Any info, especially online that I
can access and email straight to her would be great.
Please correct me if I'm wrong or if you have other ideas about the benefits
etc.

Thanks
Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Gentian Violet?

2004-11-21 Thread Abby and Toby
A lactation consultant can help with this.
 Nicole C

Thanks Joy, Nicole and Pinky. I'll pass on the info to my sister. All the
info I found on the internet was people recommending it's good to know that
it is safe.

Thanks
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Re: [ozmidwifery] Re:cold epidurals

2004-11-07 Thread Abby and Toby
 Why not just invent an artificial womb that can sit in the loungeroom for
nine months with a little window in it so we can watch the fetus develop and
if it's not quite 'right' just start all over again and then at exactly
40weeks gestation (no longer of course) open up the cupboard  and voila - a
baby!

Funny you mention this Jo. A young woman I know, her mother is a midwife, is
so terrified of pregnancy and birth that she said to me,  the only time
you'll see me having a baby is when they can grow one in an artificial
womb. She was going on and on about the pain of childbirth and how
pregnancy is such an inconvenience etc etc. I was shocked and wondered what
on earth her mother had been telling her. Her mum works in a public
hospital.

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Fwd: (Adelaide)Meeting to Defend a Woman's Right to Choose

2004-11-07 Thread Abby and Toby
 and how dare anyone take that right away.

 Nicole

How dare anyone take away the right to live. It is a life being
terminated. If I was about to be killed because someone decided I should
be, then I sure hope someone would speak out for me.

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[ozmidwifery] Reclaiming Our Choices in Childbirth Conference 2005

2004-11-06 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

Thought some might be interested in this. The speaker line up looks great.

http://conference.ican-online.org/index1.htm

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Fwd: (Adelaide)Meeting to Defend a Woman's Right to Choose

2004-11-05 Thread Abby and Toby
 Do pro abornists ever stop to think about all the 'WOMEN' that are
aborted?

Very well said.also, what about their RIGHT TO CHOOSE?! There is
always so much focus on the right to choose for women to choose abortion,
but pro choice people never talk about the person being killed and their
choice. If it really is pro choice shouldn't it be every body that is
involved, their choice.

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Epidurals

2004-11-05 Thread Abby and Toby



It would be nice for us if all 
women were pro-active in determining their birth plan in advance in 
collaboration with their primary care-giver, be it GP, Obstetrician , or 
midwife, but sadly as we all know this is not the case with many women arriving 
at hospital for their baby's birth with no knowledge of the birth process, let 
alone knowing the effects of analgesia on bonding or breastfeeding. 


I know soo many women that have their birth 
plan fully researched and written out, discussed with care givers and most where 
caregivers have agreed, they come into the "birthing place" wherever it may be, 
give out multiple copies and noone takes any notice of them 
what-so-ever.
If these "professionals" have made it so women 
believe they need them to birth, then these "professionals" need to educate, 
inform and share knowledge
We live in a society of broken families, broken 
birth lines, mothers who were not even awake for the birth and we were taken 
from our mothers for hours..how will women learn and become proactive. Yes 
there are women that take the initiative and become proactive but it takes alot 
of guts, strength and frustration. It is not as easy as, "well I understand the 
birthing process and I have a great birth plan and I want a natural birth etc", 
women come up against fight after fight during pregnancy, labour and 
postnatally. From the whole, "how about you wee on this stick so I can know that 
you are REALLY pregnant" to, "we should talk about induction for your "late" 
baby" to "no really it's routine, you do need this shot of syntocinon" or, " oh! 
you wanted me to leave the cord pulsating...we couldn't do that, it is 
against protocol!"
The uneducated "knowledge" has come from the people 
women are meant to trust. It makes me mad when I read or hear comments as above. 
If a woman has spent 8 months going on her monthly, then fortnightly, then 
weekly, maybe daily visits to her "professional" care giver, then she should 
know and understand the knowledge of the birth process.
It is not the lack of knowledge on the woman's part 
that is the problem, it is the lack of educated knowledge shared that is the 
problem.

Love Abby



Re: [ozmidwifery] Fwd: (Adelaide)Meeting to Defend a Woman's Right to Choose

2004-11-05 Thread Abby and Toby
 I need to add that the intentions of my initial posting was merely to
inform those who may be interested in attending, I don't see the advantage
in voicing our indidviual opinions on this subject under this forum. cheers
Megan

Hi Megan,

I think this was an emotive post so posting to a list of very passionate
women is of course going to get individuals replies. For pro abortionists,
they want to fight for their choice while, just as fiercely want to fight
for womens and childrens choices.
For me personally, the right to kill babies is something I cannot ignore, no
matter where it is posted or brought up.
I am appaulled that this woman is the adviser to the Minister for the Status
of Women. She certainly will not be speaking on my behalf or on behalf of
lots of the women in Australia.
It really made me sick when I read this post. The fact that people assume
that all australian women want that right whatever that right may be.
Anyway...I am pretty sure everyone here knows my opinions on terminating
your offspring. So no more personal opinions from me..until the next
time.

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Fwd: (Adelaide)Meeting to Defend a Woman's Right to Choose

2004-11-05 Thread Abby and Toby

For pro abortionists, they want to fight for their choice while, just as
fiercely want to fight  for womens and childrens choices.

Oopps! This should've read, ...just as fiercely, pro lifers want to fight
for womens and childrens choices

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Re: [ozmidwifery] cold epidurals

2004-11-04 Thread Abby and Toby
Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] cold epidurals
 This is also recommended be the hospitals here for birth of twins. Just
 in case.


I have to say I am sitting here feeling sick to my stomach that this is
happening to women, twins or not. What kind of uneducated, misinformation
are they recieving to make them want to choose this??
I shudder at so many things that professionals do to women.

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Gary Ezzo

2004-10-30 Thread Abby and Toby
 been doing the right thing to let the baby cry for hours ... naturally
nobody in the house has been getting any sleep and everyone is on edge!! Can
anybody help me?Leanne.

Hi Leanne,

It makes me cringe and cry everytime I hear of another baby being tortured
and a family being torn up because of this mans ridiculous teachings.
There is a great site with heaps of info www.ezzo.info , I can't help out
with a lactation consultant and ezzo has a dodgy way of making mothers
believe that other professionals have no idea about child rearing. He uses
brainwashing and cultish techniquesgrrr he makes me mad. All
in the name of money!

Hope you find some good info on that site.
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Re: [ozmidwifery] Gary Ezzo

2004-10-30 Thread Abby and Toby
 Great site Abby.
 marilyn

It is a great site. I believe we all need to be really aware of this book
and this mans teachings, his Becoming Babywise books are fast becoming one
of Australias best selling childcare books and to be honest, it is
frightening. All the major bookstores carry his books now and some of the
stuff in those books is really worrying to me. Because people in the USA
have spoken out against it and it is not selling so well now, they have
focused marketing on Australia and other countries. It breaks my heart.
He also has a great (sarcasm) book on Becoming Birthwise!! Doctors are s
wonderful and vitally important did you know??!!

Here are some examples of results of Babywise that I know.

- 8 month old baby boy, nursing at the breast, accidentally bites his mum so
gets flicked on the cheek. Same little guy is whacked, hard on his legs if
he looks around while nursing and doesn't focus on the feed.
- 7 week old baby left to cry because of her manipulative, sin nature. When
told baby looks hungry mother replies with, no, she just is manipualtive.
- baby cries on and off for 4 hours during the night while neighbours in
flats listen wondering what could possibly wrong only to find out the next
day that parents just leave him to cry. He needs to learn to self settle
- 5 day old shut in a room by himself because he is being manipulative
- father in hospital says that mum needs to start implimenting PDF ( parent
directed feeding) when baby is just 2 hours old.

I could go on and on and these are only stories from the very small group of
people I know that use Babywise. It has been linked to failure to thrive,
malnutrition, lots of mums only being able to feed for 6 weeks due to their
milk supply disappearing, babies not wanting to feed because it is so
traumatic. That is only for the babies, then he has Babywise 2 for toddlers
in which you should hit your 5 month old if they want to touch their food
because they need to learn highchair manners!

I fell physically ill talking about it.

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[ozmidwifery] Fw: Joyous Birth Fw: axing of ABC George Negus

2004-10-27 Thread Abby and Toby






Sent: Thursday, October 28, 2004 10:30 AM
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Subject: axing of ABC George Negus
Dear friends, I have just rung the ABC to congratulate the 
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that she was tooupset to make comment as the program had just been 'AXED' 
!We need to call  make our comments known. The number in 
melb for ABC is03) 96261500Please take the time  callRegards 
Annie -- Annie Sprague, Independent Midwife34 Shiers 
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[ozmidwifery] Fw: [ozbirthing] FW: private midwife PLEASE

2004-10-25 Thread Abby and Toby
Sue Cookson, are you on this list? This is your area I think.

Love Abby

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 There are many Doula's but I have been unable to find a Midwife.
 PLEASE HELP if you can.
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[ozmidwifery] BMid Info Session

2004-10-23 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

Today I attended the information session for the direct entry BMid at UTS.
Sounded interesting, lots of people there, but I must admit I was
disappointed to learn the NO alternative therapies will be taught. No
herbs or anything. I find it so hard to accept that, in a course teaching
about natural birth,  alternative things can't be taught because they
are apparently not evidence based but all medical interventions will be
taught??
Sorry to rehash this subject I really don't want to get in another arguement
about it. I went with a positive outlook and came away very disappointed. I
find it hard to understand how learning to facilitate natural birth would
include all medical interventions, but not all the natural tools we can use.

How can student midwives learn to really be with woman if they are not
given a chance to learn all the skills involved? To me it does still seem so
medical.

I really believe that the proof is there with alternative therapies, maybe
just not the type of evidence that the medical professionals will accept.

I really am feeling so disappointed as I was excited to go and see what was
happening and maybe even get a little more tempted to study midwifery here,
but now I just feel disillusioned.

Love Abby

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[ozmidwifery] Homebirth Poem by Matire O'Connor

2004-10-22 Thread Abby and Toby
No rush to get to hospital on time! 
No hospital gowns. No identity crisis. 

No clocks. No drips. No drugs. 
No rush to produce this baby. 

No poking or prodding. No stirrups. 
Just privacy. And freedom. 

No superbugs. No strangers. 
No waiting-rooms. 

No wiring up your womb to a fetal heart monitor. 
No screwing electrodes into your baby's scalp. 

No false positives, no rush to get the baby out. 
No 'emergency' section. 

No theatre lights, no high trolleys. 
No metal, no Dettol. 

Only the peace of your own bed in your own room. 
And your own germs. 

No amniotomies, no episiotomies. 
You want your perfect body intact. 

No rush to take your baby away. 
No nurseries. 

Early labour? Go for a walk. Go for a swim. 
Clean out the cutlery drawer. 

Call the shots. Call your midwife. Play music. 
Make coffee. Sit in the bathroom. Be on your own. 

Knowing your midwife is half the battle. 
You know your midwife for nine months. 

She tells you to take your time. 
No rush, no fear. 

Lie in a hot bath, or sit in a birth pool. 
Water eases the stress of labour. 

He holds your hand, makes hot toast, 
Massages your back, boils water. 

Your midwife listens to the baby's heartbeat. 
You trust her, and feel safe. 

No pushing, no pulling, no panic. 
No rush to get the baby out. 

You give birth standing up, or sitting down. 
Body wide open, baby slips out. 

You come back from earth. 
No rush to cut the cord. 

You watch it together, admire its rainbow colours. 
Marvel at this pulsating thing which has kept your baby alive. 

Three hearts beat in time. 
There is no rush. Only time.  



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[ozmidwifery] Caesarean Debate on channel 9

2004-10-14 Thread Abby and Toby
Found this on another list.it was originally posted on Essential Baby.


I am a producer at Channel 9 researching a story on the debate between
people

 who support and oppose elective caesareans.

I would like to talk to people who are interested in participating in this
story

If you would like to discuss this issue please contact Glenda Gaitz at:

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[ozmidwifery] Has anyone studied through UTS?

2004-10-14 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

Was just wondering a couple of thingshas anyone studied mid through
UTS? If so, how did you honestly find the training? Woman centred or
medical? Evidence based, natural etc?

Also, does anyone know anything about Jill White the dean and how she views
birth, her attitudes etc?

They are starting BMid there next year and I am kind of tempted..well
sort of..depending on what the teaching would be like. Does anyone know
who any of the lecturers will be?

Thanks
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Re: [ozmidwifery] FFP

2004-10-13 Thread Abby and Toby
 I believe all midwives and midwifery students should first ask themselves
whether or not they want support from and association with any party that
endorses a candidate who claims on national radio/print media/TV that all
lesbians are witches and should be burnt at the stake. Maybe time to tread
lightly, miriam

Hi Miriam,

I think most women on here would agree that we don't particularly agree with
all that the parties in power stand for and say etc, but what this is about
is finding support for women and birth. If they are going to be in power in
the senate, then they are one party to lobby, we have to try and work with
whatever we get when it comes to politics.
I also read that it was one of their volunteers that said that
comment..I don't know though, we don't have the TV so don't really get
all the media hype.
I also think that we can't believe everything we hear or read in the media.
That's not to say that some weirdo might say that, even though it is not the
way Jesus would act at all as he hung out with the outcasts of society,
but I think that in the media things are blown way out of proportion,
especially when it comes to christians.

I believe we need all the support we can get to have the policies re: one to
one midwifery, PI, birthing options etc changed in this country. It does not
mean we have to form associations with parties, it just means gaining their
support for midwives, women and birth.

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Re: [ozmidwifery] FFP

2004-10-13 Thread Abby and Toby



Dear All, The family First party are not a 
religious party, but a put the welfare of the family first party based on 
judeo-Christian principles (as are the Laws ofour country, our 
constitution etc). I heard the SA rep speaking and this came from his mouth. I 
then checked out the website and found nothing on maternity issues, but they are 
only a young party. I was disappointed though.Dear Abby, I believe God has called me to be a childbirth educator as a 
mission to women to empower them to trust in their God-given ability to birth 
their babies without intervention (Eve had only Adam to support her!). So yes, 
hopefully things will be changing! Love Fiona (grad/dip CE student).- we met at 
Active Birth

Hi Fiona,

I do believe that FF claim to not be a religious 
party, but they are strongly affiliated with AOG churches, from my 
understanding. Doesn't bother me, either way, every party is affiliated with 
something or someone.
It is such a shame that they don't mention 
maternity issues/policies etc, but lots of parties and people don't see it as an 
important issuein my opinion it should be one of the most important 
issues.
I think it's fantastic that God has called you to 
work with and encourage women. I believe He sparked my passion tooyou 
know "all things work together for good." 
Remind me what you look like? I am trying to 
remember who you are. Where do you live?


Re: [ozmidwifery] FFP

2004-10-12 Thread Abby and Toby
 christians were the backbone of the homebirth movement and I am wondering
if
 this is so with the FFP and if they would support midwives and PI
insurance,
 NMAP etc.pondering marilyn

Hi Marilyn,

I have been thinking about that all day. To be honest, I don't know where
they stand, but I think them more than any other party, could be easily
convinced of the necessity of midwives, continuity of care, NMAP and PI.
It is so strange how in america, as you say, the christians were the
backbone of the homebirth movement, but here I have met hardly any christian
women that trust in the design of their birthing bodies..maybe that
will soon change.
I am working on getting together a letter to send to Family First. I know
there are some wonderful scriptures that support natural birth, midwifery
and breastfeeding so I am on a mission so to speak!lol!
I think, if approached from the right angle, honestly and biblically, that
they would see the reality and the need.
I noticed on their website that they are interested in mental health issues
and I really want to work with that. We all know what a difference it would
make to mums and their children, then society, if birth was bought back to
its natural elements and if mothers had the care and support that they
deserve. Just like that saying, gentle birth for a peaceful earth
Could go on and on.I didn't know how I felt about them at first,
still don't really, but what I do know is that I can speak their language
more so than any other party, if that makes sense. They look pretty
conservative thoughdon't know how they'd react to a dreadlocked,
pierced, birth activist! We'll seelots of young christians are
breaking out of the stereotypes and AOG churches usually have thriving youth
groups.
A woman on another list, (Janet are you on here?) has written to them to ask
where they stand with midwifery so I'll let you know their response.
 wrote to another list earlier that good or bad, for midwifery and birth, I
think it could be quite positive.

Love Abby

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[ozmidwifery] Trading place for midwifery and birth resources??

2004-10-12 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

Is there any online trading place for people into birth in Australia? There
are a few in the US that I have bought stuff from but I'd love to tap into
any in Oz. I am a bit of a women and birth book fiend and love buying
secondhand stuff so if you know of any please send a link.

thanks
Love Abby

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[ozmidwifery] Midwifery Today Conference

2004-10-11 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

Most people on here would probably know about this, but for those who don't,
it looks like a great conference!

http://www.midwiferytoday.com/conferences/eugene2005/program.asp

Love Abby

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[ozmidwifery] Free standing birth centre idea

2004-10-11 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

As much as I LOVE the idea of homebirth for all womenlolI know
lots of women feel safer birthing in a birth centre or hospital. I do have
a dream for an amazing birthing place, one day.
Anywaythere is a great, practically new, birth centre attached to
Nepean Hospital. I think it was used for about 6 months and has been closed
for about three years ( don't quote those numbers because I am not
definite), what I was thinking is that I wonder if someone could take it
over as a free standing birth centre.
The reasons for it being closed are not really clear, but mainly revolve
around funding I think, so, I think in my idealistic mind, why couldn't
someone take it on and so it was run as a seperate entity, yet attached to
the hospital? Is this too way out? Who could do it? I have no idea, but I
think it could work if someone knew how to make it work.

Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] RE: What the Pollies are offering Midwifery? and women

2004-10-08 Thread Abby and Toby



Indeed, the Bible is full of 
dreadful cruelties towards women and children. Most of them God 
ordained...David
Hi David,

The Bible also has some beautiful and amazing 
things about women, children and babies. I don't want to get into a "it says, he 
says, she says" kind of thing, but just thought I would point out the positives 
as well as the negatives. There are some things in the Bible I would never be 
able to understand or defend, but there are also lots of amazing things 
aswell.

Love Abby



Re: [ozmidwifery] Doppler anyone....?

2004-10-07 Thread Abby and Toby



So imagine the excitement, joy and peace of mind you 
could get frombeing able to hear 
your baby's heartbeat and movements.
OR the 
terror and anxiousness from not being able to accurately find the heartbeat, or 
worry from an irregular or slow heartbeat!!and then the extra drs 
visits and ultrasounds to make sure baby is okay.

Love 
Abby



[ozmidwifery] Induction by Rupture of Membranes

2004-10-06 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

I've got a question about hospitals inducing etc. I have a client going to
St George public and her EDD was the 5th, mum and bubs are doing
wonderfully, heads 3/5 engaged, heart rate fine etc.

Went to see doc today who swept and stretched, clients words, that was
OMG that was painful, male doc. She's booked in for AROM on the 18th.
After recent discussions about AROM, I am just wondering why anyone would
suggest this? I thought first course of hospital action was prostagladin?
What is the thinking behind trying to get labour started with AROM? From
what I understand, a lot of you believe it is sometimes beneficial in second
stage, so why would anyone think it was good for getting things started?

Of course you all know how I feel about any of that, lol! But my job is to
be there and support my client in whatever she chooses so, I've got a few
ideas of natural induction techniques does anyone else want to share some
too? My client is really keen for a natural birth with minimal
interventions, she had a very traumatic experience last time (her words).
She has read some great books and I am not really sure why she is just going
along with what is happening but I want to give her some good natural
options.

Thanks
Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Induction by Rupture of Membranes

2004-10-06 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi Leanne,

 If your client wants a normal birth she should avoid an induction unless
it is medically indicated, not just because she is a couple of days past her
due date.

I know! I know! I actually don't understand why she is choosing to go along
with it, she is very educated and has lots of great information so I guess
it is something she wants to do.

Thanks so much for the info about AROM etc and thanks so much for reminding
me about time limits I had forgotten that and I will mention it to her.

Love Abby


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Re: [ozmidwifery] Catty midwives

2004-10-05 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi Trish,

I think we must be completely misunderstanding each other.

As for the doula thing...well I think I made myself clear during the
whole doula vs midwife conversation.

I don't know how you see that what I was saying is in any way an attack on
midwives, I am really sorry if it came across that way, as I said before,
that was not my intent. I value midwives, appreciate midwives and have met
some very amazing and inspiring midwives as also in the doulaing world.

I know of no doula trainer that would be in it for the money. At the recent
doula conference, alot of the trainers were there and I think everyone that
was there would agree that the trainers were all in it for the women.

I don't claim to be a professional anything nor do I hide behind just a
mum I think you have misread what I was saying. I am not, by saying who I
am, saying that nothing I say is valid, quite the contrary.

I am really sorry Trish, that you see my disagreement with some opinions as
pot shots. I actually see my opinion as valid as learned and as a
consumer. I am unlearned against the training of a midwife, but am learned
from what I have done through midwifery courses, doula training and self
study. Though, most my learned opinions come from spending time with
women, battered or not so battered, by the system.

I'm sorry my comments came across as an attack. Please accept my apology, I
had no malice toward midwives in my comments, I was stating my opinion and
things I understood and had learned.

Midwives (99.8% of them) are women, too. Many of them also identify as
'just a mum' (1/3 of my students are mothers in grad program, and about
1/2 in undergrad), and they would appreciate other mothers such as
yourself standing with them..

I have to admit that I am not sure how I am not standing with them by
disagreeing with the way the education system for midwives is? I believe,
from reading your comments such as this one, that you are not understanding
what I am saying.

You could be a really useful pain in the  for the slack and crappy
care providers out there 

Oh Trish, if only you knew me in real life...

(not supported by the evidence, however,
as most women are happy with the care of midwives in whatever setting, so
perhaps we need to tap into your samples, Abby).

Could you direct me to the place where that evidence is Trish? As part of
being a doula I have to get credit points each year and hand in reports,
book reviews, attend workshops and we are encouraged research about
everything we learn from all sides. ( I guess that answers your earlier
thoughts) So i would love to read up on this evidence and write a report on
it. I think it is fantastic that women are happy with services, how
wonderful for those women. Unfortunately though, I get contacted mostly by
the women that have had traumatic birth experiences, been treated badly etc
etc. I also have friends that have had amazing experiences. Once again I
will say that I think you have misunderstood my writings. I am not anti
midwives, gosh not at all! I admit I am anti hospitals as an institution for
birth, but that is a very personal choice for women and I respect that.

I am sorry if I have said anything that offends you personally, really I am.
I had no idea that speaking out about midwifery training in australia would
be so offensive. The midwives and students I have spent time with felt the
same way as I do, infact they opened my eyes to it.

I hope your throat is feeling much better soon.
Love Abby







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Re: [ozmidwifery] Re: uterine rupture 1998

2004-10-05 Thread Abby and Toby



I believe that you are coming from the 
right place in your heart, but sometimes we need to take a step back  think 
about how others may perceive us if we want to be listened to at all. I am 
speaking as someone who has learnt this lesson  skill recently. Your 
opinion is valued.Philippa ScottBirth Buddies

Thanks for the advice Phillipa, I'll keep that in 
mind. lol! Funny how it seems that I don't already do that. It is hard with 
plain text. I'm sure it wouldn't of caused such a problem if I was talking IRL 
about it..or maybe it would because it does go against the grain, or maybe 
it would because I am not a midwife and haven't been there..who 
knows.
I definitely didn't mean to cause any offense, I 
really was talking about the system.

I will keep your advice in mind and keep on 
trying.

Love Abby- always learning always standing 
corrected.


Re: [ozmidwifery] Labours commitment to PI insurance (X posted! sorry!)

2004-10-05 Thread Abby and Toby



This will be done byJuila 
Gilliard and it will focused on providing solutions to thelack of PI 
insurance country wide, not just for the NT.
He sounded sincere and i really think they 
will deliver for midwives.Kirsten. 
Darwin.
~~~start life with a midwife~~~

That's excellent and inspiring news Kirsten! 

Love Abby


Re: [ozmidwifery] Question about Chickenpox

2004-10-05 Thread Abby and Toby
I was only about 5 days into my first week of midwifery training ( never
had it as a child).
Hope all goes well.
Regards, Tina H. (Brisbane)

Thanks Tina, we went to the docs today and it is not chickenpox. Her few
spots on her arms and chest cleared up, she is prone to rashes, and she
instead broke out in ulcers all through her mouth, about 15. My poor little
girl, it must be so painful. The doc said it was some kind of viral mouth
ulcer thing so we are just taking it easy, eating lots of soft bland food
and I am washing my hands heaps. I got some great homeopathics from Brauer,
one called Recovery for kids which seems to be helping amazingly.

thanks again
Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Catty midwives

2004-10-05 Thread Abby and Toby
 Apology accepted Abby, and I meant pain in the  as a true compliment.
Trish

Thanks Trish! I hope our paths cross one day.

Love Abby

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Re: ARm was Re: [ozmidwifery] VE

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby
 I suggested that perhaps that was one of the hazards of her
profession?
 Grr!!!
 Jo x

HOMEBIRTH! HOMEBIRTH!HOMEBIRTH!

Do you think there will come a day when the majority of women will stop
putting up with medical professionals bullshit and start trusting
themselves?
I cringe when I hear some of the things that are said to women.
Aren't bodily fluids a big part of labour? Isn't it about serving women not
keeping yourself clean? I can understand the risks of infection, disease etc
nowadaysso wear a eye shield, but don't stuff around with the natural
process.
I so believe that there is hardly ever a time, like probably 1%, when there
is a real need for intervention and not necessarily medical. Sometimes all
it takes is a change in position. I find it very unnerving that the
traditional, natural methods are not taught to most aspiring midwives. It is
scary, I don't know why women think they are so safe in hospitals???
(disclaimer: this comment is about hospitals and midwifery training in
general, I am sure there are some amazing midwives in hospitals that are
really with women and I am sure there are aspiring midwives that take it
on themselves to learn from the wise ways of women.)

Love Abby ~ who is a little shocked about some midwives opinions towards
unnatural interventions.

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Re: uterine rupture 1998

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby



Hi Belinda,

I will throw a flame - what is a 
traditional midwife and why is this person always without faults and seemingly 
all knowledgeable and sanctified. 

I don't think anyone thinks that traditional 
midwives are without faults or sanctified, however, I do believe that in their 
education they learn more about the natural processes than in our current 
midwifery courses. I don't think this makes them anymore or less, though, they 
often have less rates of intervention.

Why should I as a midwife capable 
ofmanaging women with induction's, ctgs, multiple iv lines and drugs, 
catheters, monitors, ventilated babies, suction, uvcs uacs etc etc be classed as 
something other (therefore subtextually less than) this traditional 
midwife - where is she for sick women and babies who deserve a midwife. 


I believe traditional midwives are different. They 
often learn from another woman, on the job training so to speak, the wise ways 
rather than from books, in a classroom, in a hospital, from menetc. I 
guess the main difference I see, is that they don't see it as "managing" women 
or labour. In todays studies, from what I understand, student midwives are 
taught more about interventions and how to "manage" labour, rather than trusting 
a woman to birth her baby her way. Unfortunately much of the interventions you 
mention above are because of the system, not because women need them. Obviously 
there is a need in a very minimal percentage of cases, but most these 
interventions come from the way we are taught to believe birth has to be and 
from a lack of traditional knowledge within the hospital system and within 
women. I don't think this is the midwifes own problem but it stems from the 
training and conditioning. It is kinda like the difference between a naturopath 
and a doctor, one is naturally, wholistically trained ( though these days 
mostlythrough a college) and the other is medically trained, and not often 
wholistically.

Please do not separate midwives, it 
maintains the divide and conquer problem which means we can do less than if we 
accept diversity and stand together. 

I think diversity is wonderful, though I would not 
put doctors and naturopaths in the same category. Would you not agree that 
current midwifery studies are not based on traditional, wise ways or even 
evidence based care in some schools? I find it hard not to seperate the two. 
That does not mean that midwives who are training now aren't good midwives, but 
they certainly are trained more as obstetric nurses and have to work hard to 
learn for themselves the wise and traditional ways of women.

This traditional midwife vs obstetric nurse 
stuff is a huge bug bear of mine. I attend homebirth as well and am quite 
confident and comfortable independently, but my ability to work in labour wards 
and NICU settings does not mean I work as an obstetric nurse - ever. 

I also work very hard with students and know full 
well the dilemmas they endure in their training and can understand their 
frustration.

Unfortunately, I've got to leave it there, just 
found my daughters first chickenpox and she is radiating 
heat.

Great discussion though and I would love to finish 
this email another day.

Love Abby


[ozmidwifery] Students, training and other things was Re: uterine rupture 1998

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby



Hi Trish,

Abby, could I ask where you are studying midwifery???

I'm not studying midwifery, nor did I say that I was. I do know quite a few 
students and midwives and have had numerous discussions with them about what 
they do and don't learn.

I've read a fair bit about 'wise' women, don't romanticise some 
half-forgotten past. Don't idealise a model of training and education that isn't 
open to the scrutiny and evaluation of all its stakeholders. To talk about 
traditionally trained midwives is like talking about clouds. 

I think people have misunderstood what I am saying. 
I am not saying that traditional midwives are amazing godesses from the planet 
of enlightenment, I am saying that there is a difference between the way women 
use to learn and the way they learn now. Midwives are trained differently now, 
is that not correct? There is a difference in learning, there are big 
differences in what is taught etc etc. 

I do think it is very sad that student midwives no 
longer learn traditional methods in their training, wouldn't people agree with 
that? Why does "traditional" ways of learning mean that they are not open to 
"scrutiny and evaluation of all its 
stakeholders" Why not have a training program, apprenticeships etc for midwives 
that want to work with women at home or that was based on trusting a woman to 
birth and then have training for midwives that want to work in the hospital 
system etc? Why not have training that focuses on non intervention rather than 
focusing on intervention and having medical "tools" rather than natural 
tools?
I know of midwives that couldn't give a stuff about 
the women they are caring for and want to work in an interventionistic way in 
hospitals and then I know midwives that want to work with women in their homes 
but don't feel like they got the training to support that.

Similarly, to say most student midwives in Australia are taught 
obstetric nursing is an affront to those of us who struggle very hard to create 
curricula and learning opportunities to subvert systems that oppress women and 
midwives while allowing them to work safely in the system that is out there. 


Isn't it true though, that what is taught is more 
about working in the system than being with the women. From what I have heard, 
from conversations between student midwives and some qualified midwives is that 
they wished they had learnt more about being with women, natural ways of dealing 
with challenging, unexpected situations in labour and also to trust more in a 
womans ability to birth her baby.

Would you have them learn for some ideal world in the future while 
the women of today suffer a lack of midwives who can work with them now? 

Why not learn for the ideal now, foster the trust 
of birth and then learn all the other stuff, why does it have to be the other 
way around. Why not teach student midwives the reverence of birth and women 
rather than foster the belief that birth is something that needs to be meddled 
with and fixed? I am not saying that this is what you in particular do, but 
isn't it true to say that a lot of universities do that?
To be honest, I do think women already "suffer a lack of midwives who can work with them 
now". Have you listened to the incredible amount of stories coming from women 
who had their babies in a hospital setting, you know 6 months down the track 
when they start really thinking about what happened to them? Horrible 
"midwives", being treated like crap, not being acknowledged. I think that the 
majority of hospital "midwives" are not trained to work with women now, 
they are trained to work with the system, not the women.

I'm with Belinda. While I believe not all midwives have the same 
qualities or levels of skill, it serves no purpose to create a schism, to pit us 
one against the other, but rather we should walk a mile in each others shoes and 
learn to critically evaluate why we are as we are, and determine how to make it 
better without blame and finger-pointing. 

I think that people are missing what I am saying 
because of already a set defensive attitude. I am not putting one AGAINST 
another, merely pointing out that yes, there are differences. I think it is hard 
to disagree with there being differences. Any blame and finger pointing I have 
is at the system not at any particular category of midwives.

The 'lay' midwives I know, the 
homebirth midwives I have been priveleged to work alongside, and the 'direct 
entry' midwives I have met and am now helping to educate, are expected to be 
able to provide the spectrum of care not just for well women, but also for 
those who have emergencies and illness. These women need competent, fast 
thinking, appropriately acting midwives with a heart, and who can use EVERY tool 
at their disposal. 

I agree with the above completely, but I would ask, 
does the current training program for student midwives equip them with every 
tool? From what I have heard, no. I was at a very 

Re: [ozmidwifery] Re: uterine rupture 1998

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby



I have spoken 
to a woman who ruptured after a very natural homebirth. It can happen even when all seems to be 
going well and no intervention has occurred  fortunately she was okay although 
it was touch and go at one stage. 
She can no longer have children. I know midwives(independent) who believe the percentage for uterine 
rupture after a caeser to be around 
12%.

Hi 
Amanda,

It is fortunate that 
she is okay, though very sad that she can't have more children. Thanks for 
sharing about her story, I haven't heardanyones storyin a natural, 
unhinderedVBAC before.
Wow 12 % is a lot, I 
have never heard of that high a percentage before. the most I have heard of was 
4% and that was from a scaremongering website.

These are some of the 
rates I have read about. To be honest, I would be very worrisome about an 
independent midwife whose clients have a 12% rupture rate.

"For the last 2 
decades the uterine rupture rate has been documented by dozens of reputable 
studies to be stable at approximately 1%, with a low range of 0.5% to as high as 
1.8%. The major point of difference between the high and low numbers is whether 
or not the labor was induced or augmented with prostaglandins and/or 
Pitocin."
http://www.collegeofmidwives.org/prac_issues01/VBAC_waiver_2003.htm


"80% (11,000 of 13,500) of single previous cesareans underwent a TOL with 
an 83% success rate and rupture rate of 0.6% and a rupture-related perinatal 
death rate of 0.18 per 1000 trials of labor. 
54% (1600 of 3000)of two previous cesarean had a TOL, with a 75% success 
rate and a rupture rate of 1.8% and a perinatal death rate of 0.63. 
30% (240 of 800)of three or more prior cesareans had a TOL, with a 
success rate of 79% and a rupture rate of 1.2% and no rupture related deaths (of 
course, the numbers in this group are much smaller -- only n=240 who had TOL, so 
a larger group would be needed to really observe the risks-- although I wonder 
where you might find a larger group?) "
http://www.gentlebirth.org/archives/icanvbac.html#Safety
"I just opened the report from The Public Citizens health Research Group 
and here are some rupture stats: Flamm 1990 5,733 women laboring for VBAC, 10 
ruptures (0.17%), Farmer 1991, 7,598 women, 61 ruptures, (0.8%), Meehan 1989; 
1,350 women 6 ruptures (0.4%); Nielson 1989 1,008 women, 6 ruptures 
(0.6%)"
Here is a great article if anyone wants to read it, just 
full of tidbits of information about the likelihood of rupture as opposed to 
being struck by lightning
http://www.gentlebirth.org/archives/vbacrisk.html
Love Abby


Re: [ozmidwifery] Re: uterine rupture 1998

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby



There is such a 
wide variation about how people are trained. I feel pretty lucky to have has 
midwifery training and then apprenticed with a group of midwives. I worked for 
about 18 more months as the apprentice. This was a fantastic time. One of the 
women who inspired me (Hi Annie Pop) told me that the longer I spent working in 
the hospital the more fear I would learn. I am eternally grateful t her for 
encouraging me to move out of hospitalised birth earlier rather than later! This 
is one way to blend the medicalised training with wise 
woman training.I believe that we need 
to work more with the wise women and I am still learning from and in awe of my 
mentors here in Fremantle (Hi Theresa and Mary).

That's fantastic Sally. 
Were you able to apprentice with them as part of your practical training ie. was 
it able to be included as part of your course? Is this possible all over 
australia? Did you also have to work in the hospital? Sorry for all the 
questions, friends and I often talk about these things.

I would love to study 
midwifery, though, I don't know if I want to "work" as a midwife. I would really 
love to volunteer as a midwife and offer support to women whenever the need 
arised. I am very reluctant to train in australia though and would love to train 
at a traditional midwifery house in the US, then apprentice with an independent 
midwife...but that would cost alot.
So if apprenticing is 
an option in australia, that certainly makes it more appealing. I had the 
understanding that through australian training you had to do your prac in 
hospitals or, if you're very lucky, a birth centre, but that you are not able to 
do it with independent midwives. Please anyone correct me if I am wrong, I would 
love to be! lol!

Our doula trainer, who 
is a midwife, said a similiar thing to us about hospitals and fear. I think it 
is so related to the fact that the only time you go to hospital when you are 
well is if you are having a baby. You go to hospital to get fixed and that is 
what is happening to women, that idea that birth is something that needs to be 
fixed.

love 
Abby


Re: [ozmidwifery] Students, training and other things was Re: uterinerupture 1998

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi Trish,

 Abby, if I didn't think I was trying to impart a degree of wisdom, and
assist students to find their own wisdom, together with the women (heard
of the follow-through experience???) and the lovely midwives in hospitals
who assist them with onsite learning, and the VERY occassional homebirth
midwife who can take a student... then I would give it up. With
(diminishing) respect, evaluate a curriculum or two, enrol in a midwifery
program, and don't generalise what you see in a workshop of 10
midwives to what is taught in every curriculum in Australia.

I don't know why, because I disagree with the training that I know of, this
means that disrespect is okay. Whoa. I am just a mum, passionate about women
and birth, with a voice. Please disagree with me, but I don't think comments
like (diminishing) respect are necessary or helpful. I'm not really into
personal attack in disagreements..well only with my husband! Maybe
because I am only a mum and not a midwife then you see my opinion as
threatening or not worth noting, so that warrants disrespect?? I don't
know.whatever.

I am not generalising from one workshop I attended. I believe in testimony
as a conveyancer of truth. I have listened to qualified midwives, student
midwives, teaching midwives, international midwives and student
midwives,that have quit their courses because of lack of education,
testimonies and stories of there education, or lack there of. I don't know
where they went to school or trained, I do know they are/were unhappy with
it.

I'm going to leave it there Trish. I think you are seeing what I am saying
in a really wrong light.
I do not, never have and never would claim to have all the answers or even
one answer. I do not claim to know how to fix the worlds problems or stop
all maternal deaths. What I do know is that most birthing practices in this
country suck! Women are being treated poorly by alot, not all, caregivers
and something needs to change. I am a dreamer and a hoper. I find nothing
wrong in dreaming of a better future for women in birth.

I don't want to argue about this curriculum says this and this says that
blah blah blah, I wouldn't even know. I only know what women have shared and
what I have read.

It would be a great shame if you quit midwifery. You seem a strong,
knowledgeable woman committed to women, change and education. I think it is
wonderful that teachers like you exist.

Love Abby

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[ozmidwifery] Question about Chickenpox

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

Wondering if any of you know if chickenpox can be carried by someone that
doesn't actually have the virus? I am sure there is a word for this but I
don't know what it is.

My dd has chickenpox, we are pretty sure, and I have a client who could call
at anytime. Wondering if you think it is safe to support her. Could I carry
the virus? I had the pox when I was little and ended up in hospital so I am
pretty sure I won't get it again.

Thanks in advance for replies.

Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Students, training and other things was Re: uterine rupture 1998

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby



Many of the skills we learn don't 
come from the uni itself, it's when we are on clinical placements and with our 
follow thru woman that we learn the most. I am forever indebited to the woman 
who have allowed me to be with them and to the amazing midwives who offer their 
advice and support. It is them all who i learn the most off, not textbooks, not 
the uni.Cheers,Kirsten Darwin.

Thanks for sharing about your uni Kirsten. It is great to 
hear positive comments about learning. It's also really great to hear about you 
working with independent midwives. Is this possible all over Australia, with 
every uni?

Thanks
Love Abby


Re: [ozmidwifery] Cochrane review on ARM

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby



Further 
to the ARM discussion  whether we like it or not some women will ask for ARM 
knowing all too well that it does significantly shorten labour!!! The full 
review is available on the Cochrane website.lisa

Thanks 
for that Lisa. In all the info I had read and been taught, the average was 
30minutes. I'm off to look at the full review now.

Love 
Abby


Re: [ozmidwifery] Students, training and other things was Re: uterine rupture 1998

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby



Anyway, I hope my current perspective as a student is helpful.Jen 
3rd year BMid, Melbourne

Thanks Jen for sharing. It is such a shame that 
there is not the opportunity for practice of the theory you are learning. I was 
just recently talking to a friend about that. She had brought it up after 
watching a discussion on the BMid list.

I often even wonder what is "normal" in our 
society, as in 
"Abby, I think the high standards that ACMI has set for us help ensure 
that we do know normal. Granted, this is still the 
hospital setting, but until community midwifery is more widely available to 
women  midwives, the reality is that the majority of student midwives 
cannot gain experience in this setting."

Is normal natural? (Just asking the question out loud)

Love Abby


Re: [ozmidwifery] Re: uterine rupture 1998

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby



The system is 
not perfect and in many cases is abhorrent, but comments such as yours makes one 
wonder why one bothers at all! 
How far does it go when 
we discuss the traditional midwife? Are we all to be walking around drunk, 
with warts on our noses?! Sorry couldnt help that!! But it is just 
this very subject that insults many midwives, especially those of us who work 
our butts of in hospital units to provide the best care we 
can.lisa

Wow, some of you women 
sure are catty!
Why so defensive? It's 
the system I was commenting on. My comments gatheredfrom women that have 
been involved in that system. What do you all do if a client comments on you 
personally? Do you get your backs up at them? No wonder women hardly ever want 
to complain about the crap care they get, it's scary!!
(sigh) In my original 
response about midwives not being the primary carer in intervened labours eg 
someone wrote about that in regards to the VBAC case, my point was that the way 
midwives are trained these days they CAN still be the primary carer, which is 
what alot of the reply posts have been saying. You are saying that you learn to 
be competent in those circumstances, you know how to care for women in 
intervened labours etc etc. 

What comments makes you 
wonder why you bother?? Why do you bother, is it not for passion for women and 
birth, because you are drawn to it? If I was saying all midwives suck, leave it 
to the Obs, why do women need midwives when obs can handle it, I would 
understand the offense. My "comments" ,whatever offended you, were in no way 
meant to be offensive. I love midwives that are passionate about women, that see 
birth as a natural process and that support women whole heartedly. I am sorry if 
anything I have said comes across as offensive, that was in no way my 
intent.

I sometimesthink 
I must write in another language.

Love 
Abby
(P.S. Haven't met any 
traditional midwives that are drunkards, with warts on their noses, I can see 
that that would be an offensive comment if one was a traditional midwife. The 
midwives I have met IRL and online are amazing women, committed to women 100% 
and most are very lovely looking.)


Re: [ozmidwifery] Question about Chickenpox

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby
 If you have had it then you can work with women, you should be immune now
 this is the hospital policy at wch
 Belinda

Thanks for that Belinda. It's especially good to hear of hospital policy as
I am sure most would have the same policy.
I was pretty definite that I couldn't carry it, just wanted to ask the wise
women on this list.

Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Students, training and other things was Re: uterine rupture 1998

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby




Kirsten wroteAs for the debate on 
VE's etc, just because we learn something does not mean we will all go out and 
perform them every 5 minutes! There are many skills taught to us that could be 
seen as unnecessary interventions, why as Andrea Robertson in the Midwife 
Companion ( love this book!) says, talking unnecessarily to a woman 
in labour and distracting her can slow things down! 
Personally i would rather be confident and 
competent in these skills so if i have to do them i am gentle and cause as less 
harm and discomfort as i can to the woman. I would hate to be ignoarant and say 
" i don't need these interventionalist skills" and then have to perform a VE and 
not be able to do it carefully and gently.There are still many woman out there who request them, even if you 
don't think so.

Just wanted to clarify that I was not the only one that 
said I wasn't really into VEs. I also wanted to clarify that I didn't say that 
women don't request them, in fact I am sure that many women do. As they also 
request c-sections, epidurals, inductions and numerous other, mostly, 
unnecessary interventions.
Does this mean then that it is right, physically, morally, 
ethically etc, to perform these interventions? Or is it better to aim for full 
education of pregnant women and their support people ( not midwives) so that 
they can make a fully informed choice themselves?
I did "childbirth preparation" classes at a birth centre 
and it was more like "hospital preparation" classes. Not that all classes are 
like that. I am wondering how many women REALLY know their bodies, their 
capabilities, the necessary interventions as opposed to the not necessary etc 
etc. From being with alot of women just talking in everyday life, and that is 
heaps and heaps from conservative christians to wild tripped out hippies and 
ferals, one thing I have noticed heaps is that birthing women never knew that 
they could say no to VEs, this is discluding women that have decided to really 
educate themselves, usually after a traumatic experience. Nearly every woman I 
know or have spoken tothat has birthed in a hospital or birth centre 
setting has had at least one VE without knowing what it is for. Quite a few have 
had numerous VEs from different midwives and lots have had differing opinions on 
how "progressed" they are.
Also, quite a few women, that had VEs described them as 
painful, invasive, humiliating, abusive, weird, unnecessaryand numerous 
other descriptive obscenities. They also have said they were not given a choice 
etc. ( If any of you are wondering, I do spend alot of time with mums that have 
had traumatic birth experiences, some natural occurences, but the majority 
caused by bad care).
I wanted to ask Kirsten, when you said "I would hate to be ignoarant and say " i don't need these 
interventionalist skills" and then have to perform a VE and not be able to do it 
carefully and gently.", do you think that if you 
were "ignorant" and chose not to learn those interventionalist skills, that then 
your practice would be very different? Would you see things differently in a 
sense of there may be a problem, challenge etc and you would use non 
interventionalist skills? I really am interested, because I do believe that what 
we learn about birth affects our attitude towards birth.
I personally don't think that women 
who choose to not learn interventionalist skills are ignorant. Maybe they see it 
differently, like they think about it differently, if a real problem did occur, 
then they would transfer and obstetric "professionals" could deal with that 
problem. I think that hospitals, interventions and all that stuff are WONDERFUL 
for life saving, IF, not when, it comes up.
I don't believe that just because a woman asks for 
something then it should be given, I don't believe that is empowering to women 
or appropriate as a caregiver.

Love Abby- sharing my opinion, not 
fact.


Re: [ozmidwifery] Students, training and other things was Re: uterinerupture 1998

2004-10-04 Thread Abby and Toby

 I would also have to argue that many women out there who do not experience
the type of birth we desire or see as wonderful and achievable do not see
 themselves as victims of an uncaring system. I would have to say that many
of the women in my study would be pissed off if you categorised them as
making poor choices, lacking insight, dreams or hope.

Oh Belinda, I don't know how it came across to you that I was saying
anything at all like the above. I'm not sure where in my posts this came
across, but I am very sorry if it did. I don't know where you see that I was
categorising women in that way, but I assure you and others I was not.

Love Abby

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ARm was Re: [ozmidwifery] VE

2004-10-03 Thread Abby and Toby
 VEs are like perineal suturing and rupturing of membranes. They are a tool
in
 the professional midwife's kit that should be used with caution,
judgement, humanity and great respect.

Hi,

I wanted to ask when, if ever, anyone would use ARM? From my understanding,
and I am completely open to correction, on average ARM only speeds up labour
by 30mins if that and it carries with it a higher risk of prolapse, a babys
head coming down in the wrong position and also tends to make labour much
more painful for women. In my unlearned opinion, that would make it a very
unnecessary intervention.
I know, for me, it was when my midwife did that, that it all went
downhill. I wonder if this often happens to women because it is
unnecessary??
So I am curious as to when some people think it is necessary.

Thanks

Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] VE, ARM etc..

2004-10-03 Thread Abby and Toby
 There is some strong correlational evidence to suggest a shortened labour
if ARM is performed late second stage or third stage and this may be of

Hi Trish or anyone that knows,

Could you please tell me where to find this evidence? This is contradictory
to what I have read and learned, so I would like to read from the other side
of thinking. Is there any links, books, papers etc that include this
evidence?

Thanks
Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Re: uterine rupture 1998

2004-10-03 Thread Abby and Toby



While I do not support the notion 
that women desiring vbac are considered high risk or obstetric care, I do 
believe that once a decision is made to augment and/or induce a labour then the 
obstetrician needs to be consulted referred to and obstetric protocols need to 
be followed if the decision is made to augment/induce, even though midwives are 
providing the one-to-one care, it is now obstetric care. 

I think the way midwives are trained now, they can still 
be the carer if induction etc was chosen because they are trained basically as 
obstetric nurses, not really in the traditional sense of a midwife. (Throw the 
flames if you want, but this idea comes from student midwives 
themselves.)
Though, I would question any midwife that agreed or 
suggested medical induction for any woman having a vbac, it hikes the risk 
factor up by heaps.
A scarred uterus is usually only at a higher risk of 
rupture than an unscarred uterus when unnecessary interventions are performed ie 
induction. I haven't heard or read of any woman having a vbac that had a uterine 
rupture that was labouring completely naturally, with absolutely no 
interventions eg. natural or medical inductions, ve's, ARM etc.
I have met one woman that ruptured, not after a c-section, 
but her second son was born so quickly and ferociously she 
ruptured.

Love Abby 



Re: [ozmidwifery] VE

2004-10-01 Thread Abby and Toby
i would be happy to talk more, but would like to see what other midwives
think? MM

I am not a midwife ( though one day may be), but I too am interested to see
what others say.
The thought of VEs in labour makes me physically ill. I can still feel that
disgusting mans hand checking me while he and the medwife held me down!
If only women knew that, no, strangers do not need to put their hands inside
you to check your progress.
I think that what you said Mary is so important, the art of knowing has
been ignored and is not experienced(in general) anymore, so it seems.
From what I have learnt and read, VEs do more damage than good.
Looking forward to hearing other midwives opinions.
It is such a shame that midwives cannot legally have apprentices anymore,
this is where aspiring midwives would learn and experience all those amazing
aspects of being with woman.

Love Abby
(P.S. Mary, I think this is quotable!
I believe that the art of knowing when a woman is in labour has been
sacrificed on the alter of measuring labour by what one finds on vaginal
examination. -Mary Murphy


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[ozmidwifery] Fw: [UCbirthnews] New DVD - Unassisted Homebirth of Twins!

2004-09-29 Thread Abby and Toby



Thought this would be an amazing 
resource!
Love Abby

Dear Friends,
I'm thrilled to announce that I've just added a wonderful new DVD to my 
bookstore: "Psalm  Zoya - The Unassisted Homebirth of Our Twins," a film by 
Mindy Goorchenko. After watching this film, I immediately ordered 20 copies. 
Then I went back and watched it two more times. It's THAT good! Mindy caught her 
first baby herself, and a few minutes later, caught her second one - who came 
out easily, feet first! This is truly spectacular footage. Although the 
film is only 20 minutes long, it is well worth the money.Available 
in DVD only, itsells for $39.99 plus $6 postage and handling. Total: 
$45.99. To order by credit card call 303-444-4881 (9am-9pm Mountain 
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That's all for now. Please feel free to forward this message.
Love, Laura

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Nataliedash

2004-09-28 Thread Abby and Toby



fairly regularly get a message via ozmidwifery from 
"Nataliedash" with an attachment and nothing in the body of the message. It 
invariably has a virus. Maybe the list moderator could block this 
sender?Lynda

Hi Lynda,

Nat has checked her machine and she has no viruses, she's not sure how it 
is coming from her address. I get them too, from Ozmid, but never from anywhere 
else from Nat and we send each other emails quite often. She has tried unsubbing 
and resubbing to the list, but this keeps happening. Weird, but no viruses are 
coming from her computer. Don't think this is much help to find out what the 
problem is, but thought I would let you know.

Love Abby


[ozmidwifery] Good birthing places in Mitcham SA

2004-09-24 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

A woman on another list is moving to Mitcham SA and is 36 weeks. She is
looking at Flinders Medical Centre.
Does anyone know of anywhere good to go?

Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Good birthing places in Mitcham SA

2004-09-24 Thread Abby and Toby
 We can help with options and so on.  There is independant mw in the area
she
 is going also.
 cheers
 Jo
 ps when we gunna  have that chat Abby?  I will be away fro the next two
 weeks so pencil me in your diary for the following weeks!

Thanks Jo. I passed on the Birth Matters number already and also the numbers
of Cares and Maternity Coalition. Just found a birth places summary on
bubhub I think. One of the summarized things is Woman chooses birthing
style in all the hospitals with birth centres it says yes but in all the
others it says in consultation. Gee that peeves me!!! Whos decision is
it?
Anyway.about that chatthis is how my brain works these
days.remember, forget, remember, forget, remember, forget...I am
just getting used to my calender and writing things down, so I am putting it
in now. Have a good holiday.

Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Put Midwifery Care on the Agenda Thurs Sep 30

2004-09-23 Thread Abby and Toby
Title: Put Midwifery Care on the Agenda Thurs Sep 30



I'll be there with bells on!!

Love Abby

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Justine Caines 
  To: Julie Clarke ; OzMid List ; Pat 
  Brodie ; Hannah Dahlen ; [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; Lisa 
  Metcalfe ; Nicole Christensen ; MC NSW 
  Branch 
  Sent: Friday, September 24, 2004 12:21 
  AM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Put Midwifery Care 
  on the Agenda Thurs Sep 30
  Dear AllAs part of Maternity 
  Coalitions election campaign, women are gathering outside Jackie Kellys 
  electorate office in Penrith to highlight the lack of choice in maternity 
  care (and particularly that the Nepean Birth Centre has remained closed 
  for 3 years).Jackie Kelly is the Parliamentary Secretary to the Prime 
  Minister and is the member that the PM chose When launching his Medicare 
  Package. Jackie was the Government rep at the federal launch ofNMAP 
  in September 2002. Despite her personal support her Gov has done nothing 
  to give women andfamilies choice in maternity care. We plan to 
  remind her on Thursday Sep 30.We plan to make a strong and positive 
  statement of the need for an election commitmenton what is such a critical 
  part of a woman and families life.If you can possibly come we would 
  appreciate your support.When: Thursday September 
  3011amWhere: 
  Jackie Kellys electorate 
  officecnr 
  of Woodriff and Tindale 
  StreetsPENRITHMore 
  Details: Justine Caines or Jo 
  Hunter0408210273 
  47519840


[ozmidwifery] LUDICROUS! Fw: Joyous Birth if this doesn't make you write a letter nothing will!

2004-09-22 Thread Abby and Toby



You have got to read thismy favourite 
part is where he says, "Home is the most dangerous place to have a baby. " 

My mind is running trying to figure out where to start 
with this bunch of BS!! Of course, it would be a male OB!!! When will they 
learn.

- Original Message - 
From: Janet 
Fraser 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
Sent: Wednesday, September 22, 2004 7:19 PM
Subject: Joyous Birth if this doesn't make you write a letter 
nothing will!

The EditorThe 
Weekly TimesP O Box 14999Melbourne 3001Tel: 9292 1584Fax: 
(03) 9292 2697Email: [EMAIL PROTECTED]Letters must be short and may 
be edited for space and legal reasons. Names andaddresses must be 
includedMIDWIFE-ONLY PLAN IS A BABY GAMBLEReplacing 
obstetricians with midwives will not fix the lack of birthing servicesin the 
country, argues, DR PIETER MOURIKDoes the Vic Govt really believe its 
plans to set up midwife-led maternity unitswill relieve the shortage of 
rural obstetricians?There is no question midwivesare recognised as skilled 
professionals who do a great job caring for women inlabour. However they are 
not trained to deal with complications beyond theirexperience or expertise. 
This is where an obstetrician is required to attend thelabour ward and take 
over the delivery.A normal delivery does not need an obstetrician in the 
labour ward, but mostwomen want to have the security that the most 
experienced person is making thedecisions and is immediately available. 
Seconds can make the difference betweena happy and successful outcome and a 
disaster.The silent majority of midwives continue to support the concept 
of teammidwifery with obstetricians.The vocal minority of midwives, 
who say they can do without obstetricians, andwho claim they are cheaper as 
they do not induce labour or perform instrumentaldeliveries or caesareans, 
are deluding themselves, the public and the Govt. theyare not comparing 
apples with apples. Midwives purposefully select heatlhy womenwith low risks 
and transfer those who do not deliver spontaneously to anobstetrician, so 
their statistics of successful outcomes are good.Women selected as low 
risk for a midwife delivery are not "no risk", as 30 percent develop 
problems during the pregnancy or in labour and have to betransferred to an 
obstetrician.No midwife can guarantee to a pregnant woman she can 
complete the job, while anobstetrician can always complete the delivery and 
deal with complications thatmay occur. That is the difference. The 0.2 per 
cent of women in Vic who chooseto deliver at home take increased risks to 
themselves and their babies andshould be informed of that fact by the 
midwife caring for them.Home is the most dangerous place to have a baby. 
The best compromise is todeliver in a birthing unit at a hospital. Patients 
can have the best of bothworlds where midwives work in collaboration with 
obstetricians, not incompetition.Unfortunately, the vocal minority 
of independent midwives seem to have positionsof influence and have 
convinced the Govt their wishes are what the majority ofmidwives and women 
want, when this is not true. These midwives should do whattwo of our local 
midwives have done: apply to medical school, complete six yearsof training 
then complete another six years to be a qualified obstetrician.They 
would be most welcome, particularly in rural centres, to help reverse 
thedecline in the number of doctors willing to deliver babies.*PETER 
MOURIK HAS BEEN A CONSULTANT OBSTETRICIAN IN WODONGA FOR 25 YEARS AND 
ISCHAIRMAN OF THE WODONGA OBSTETRIC 
SUB-COMMITTEE.Every woman and 
every baby and every family have the right to Joyous Birth! 

  
  
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Re: [ozmidwifery] LUDICROUS! Fw: Joyous Birth if this doesn't make you write a letter nothing will!

2004-09-22 Thread Abby and Toby



I am not clear where this was sourced from - can you help me 
out?
The letter was published in The Weekly Times in 
Melbourne.
I recieved the email on the Joyous Birth list and 
forwarded it on.

Is that the info you wanted?

Love Abby


[ozmidwifery] Fw: [BirthRage] controlling delivery pt 1

2004-09-22 Thread Abby and Toby



Hi,

I know this is based on America, but it seems, 
similiar attitudes are becoming more common here too.

Love Abby
(P.S. There are three parts to this.)

- Original Message - 
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
Sent: Thursday, September 23, 2004 11:03 AM
Subject: [BirthRage] controlling delivery pt 1
" Controlling Delivery "Increasingly, U.S. women 
choose not to have a conventional birth.By John Pope Of New Orleans 
Times PicayuneWhen Marilyn Hamilton learned she was pregnant, she was 
happy - then afraid. She would have no way of knowing when labor would 
start, how long it would last, how painful it would be and how much damage 
it might inflict on her and her child.So she plans to delivery by 
Cesarean section, even though at 21, she might be considered healthy enough 
to withstand a conventional labor and delivery when she gives birth in 
January." With the Cesarean section, you get a pretty good idea of when its 
going to happen and how you're going to feel ," Hamilton said. " I've read 
up on Cesarean sections and listened to the side effects, and I can handle 
that " Hamilton, of Slidell, La, is one of the growing number of American 
women who , doctors say, chose the procedure for a variety of reasons :* 
they want to schedule the birth so that they won't have to endure long, 
painful hours of labor.* they are afraid of labor pain* they are 
anxious about possible complications of vaginal delivery, such as 
incontinence, the risk of infecting the baby and weakening the muscles that 
provide support for some organs." Over the last two or three years, 
doctors are hearing more of these requests, " said Dr. Bruce Flamm of the 
University of California, Irvine, a spokesman for the American College of 
Obstetricians and Gynecologists. " We used to think that a Cesarean section 
with no medical reason is a silly idea. I'm not so certain anymore" 
The oddest thing is that I dont know whether anyone knows whether this is a 
good or a bad trend . " In a change from their previous hard-line stance 
against using the procesudre without a medical reason, increasing numbers of 
doctors are acceding to their patients' wishes. Though the patient comes 
first, the doctor clearly benefit from a scheduled procedures. Even though a 
Cesarean section is a major abdominal operation, more women are delivering 
this way. From 1989 to 2002, the latest statistics available, the rate of 
such births rose by nearly 15 percent, from 22.8 percent to 26.1 percent, 
according to the National Center for Health Statistics. [Non-text 
portions of this message have been removed]BirthRage 
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[ozmidwifery] Fw: [BirthRage] controlling delivery pt 2

2004-09-22 Thread Abby and Toby




- Original Message - 
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; [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
Sent: Thursday, September 23, 2004 11:02 AM
Subject: [BirthRage] controlling delivery pt 2
" Controlling Delivery " Part 2By : John PopeOf 
the New Orleans Times PicayuneWenner contributed Patriot News reporter David 
to this storyObstetrics at a CrossroadsIn the Harrisburg region, 
the frequency of Cesarean sections appears flat, and the percentage is 
likely below the national average. At Holy Spirit Hospital in East 
Pennsboro Twp., Cesarean sections accounted for 22 percent of births in the 
most recent fiscal year. That's a slight decrease from 2002-03, when 
Cesareans accounted for 23 percent of births, and a slight increase from the 
previous fiscal year , whenthey accounted for 21 percent, hospital 
spokeswoman Lori Moran said.Dr. Kenneth Oken, when deliveres babies at 
Harrisburg Hospital, said he's heard of local women requesting Cesareans for 
non medical reasons, but "its very unusual. " " Usually, after we've 
discussed it, they've elected to go for the vaginal delivery, " he said. 
Oken regards vaginal delivery as slightly safer, and recommends it unless 
there's a medical reason to do otherwise. On the plus side, Cesareans 
allow deliveries to be scheduled at 39 weeks, which he said can eliminate a 
small number of stillbirths. On the downside, an elective Cesarean 
could prove unwise for a woman planning a large family. Possible 
consequences , including scar tissue and adhesions, could affect future 
deliveries, especially for someone who has had more than two Cesareans, Oken 
said. But Oken realizes his profession has reached a crossroads 
regarding deliveries and could be on the verge of a time when doctors inform 
patients about both kinds and patients chose." We are becoming more 
attuned to the fact that people would ask for (Cesarean) to avoid 
potential trauma to mom and baby, even though ( such trauma) is very rare, " 
he said. " We have to listen to what our patients want "He pointed out, 
however that a surge in Cesareans would drive up delivery costs, because of 
anesthesia, equiptment, and longer stays would cause space shortages in 
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[ozmidwifery] Fw: [BirthRage] controlling delivery pt 3

2004-09-22 Thread Abby and Toby




- Original Message - 
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
Sent: Thursday, September 23, 2004 11:05 AM
Subject: [BirthRage] controlling delivery pt 3
" Controlling Delivery " Part 3By John Pope 
Of New Orleans Times PicayuneContributing : David Wenner of 
Patriot-NewsControlling ChildbirthAlthough the United States 
has been criticized for its high rate of Cesarean sections, the operation is 
being performed more in other countries , too, according to the World Health 
Organization. The rates of Cesarean sections as percentages of hospital 
births in Great Britain and sub-Saharan Africa are about the same in the 
United States, but in Chile, the figure is 40 percent.The numbers do not 
show whether the doctors of the patients chose Cesarean sections. In 
what may be the first study of its kinds, doctors fround 14.7 percent of the 
pregnant women at New Orleans' Ochsner Foundation Hospital would request 
Cesarean sections.For years, that option did not exist for women without 
strong medical reasons, said Dr. Michael A. Finan, an Ochsner obstetrician- 
gynecologist who participated in the study. Besides, he said, the American 
College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists had long pressured its members to 
bring down the rate of Cesarean sections. Criticism included swipes at 
doctors for encouraging a practice that was more a convenience for them- and 
a source of added income - than a medical necessity for women." The fact 
that we found that women are interested in having a C-secion as an option 
was a surprise, " Finan said. " The fact that 14 percent of women want that 
as an option is news... it may seem small, but it's a huge number . "The 
report, based on 157 women's responses to questionaires, appeared in the 
May issue of Female patient, a peer-reveiwed journal.The main reason 
women would chose Cesareans was to exercise as much control as possible over 
giving birth because they have become accustomed to planning othe parts of 
their lives, said Dr. Elizabeth Lapeyre, an Ochsner 
obstetrician-gynecologist and the study's lead author.Control is the one 
factor Ellen Manning to choose a Cesarean section when she gave birth to her 
second child three months ago. She delivered her first child vaginally after 
16 hours of labor.Another component in the decision , she said, was her 
husbands family history of big babies.Her second child was born weighing 
10 lbs,5 ounces. " When my doctor opened me up and saw the baby, she said he 
never would have come out through the birth canal , " Manning 
said.Despite the six week recuperation period, she said " I like having a 
Cesarean section because once you get in and have your epidural ( 
anesthesia) it takes 20 minutes. "Doctors might be more likely to go 
along with a woman's request or even recommend the procedure if she is 
expecting multiple births or has had children by Cesareans. Insurers yield 
to the doctor's decision and do not refuse to pay for the procedure on 
grounds that it is elective.The American College of Obstetricians and 
Gynecologist is giving some flexibility to doctors who might not be willing 
to let women have the last word on how they want to give birth, said Dr. 
Gariella Pridjian, chairwoman of obstetrics and gynecology at Tulane 
University Health Sciences Center." The organization said there are 
situations when a woman can have more autonomy and choose to have a Cesarean 
section because there isnt sufficient evidence to show that one is better 
than the other, " she said, " but physicians don't have to perform them if 
they don't feel comfortable and if they feel the risks of a Cesarean section 
are greater ( than those) vaginal delivery. " From a strictly medical 
standpoint, the risk a Cesarean section poses to mother and child has been 
lowered to where it is equivalent to the risk of giving birth vaginally, 
according to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists.The 
debate over Cesarean section versus vaginal delivery has plenty of opinion 
but no much science, said Dr. Thomas Nolan, cheif of obstetrics and 
gynecology at Louisiana State University Health Sciences Center .There 
are plenty of questions , he said.For instance, Nolan said, a Cesarean 
section requires anesthesia and can result in greater blood loss than a 
vaginal delivery, but an elective Cesarean section is cost-effective because 
no labor -and- delivery nurses are needed.For the physician, the Cesarean is 
worth a few hundred dollars more in fees than natural birth, Nolan said, but 
the economic advantage grows given that the doctor can schedule Cesareans 
with some precision and perform more of them in a given period of 
time.The back-and-forth has left doctors who delivery babies feeling 
whipsawed, especially if they have been practising for more than 20 
years." We came through the ' 70's and ' 80's where we had this swing 
back to natural deliveries, where people wanted to deliver at home and 

Re: [ozmidwifery] going off list for a while

2004-09-21 Thread Abby and Toby



SOrry , but 53 emails is too many to deal 
with. I'm going off list for a while till things are sorted out
Kirsten blacker

Wow Kirsten! You only get 53 emails? My husband is 
happy if there are under 200 a day with all my lists! lol! It use to be about 
800 till I unsubbed.

It will be good when this gets sorted though. I 
think Kim is working on it.

Love Abby




Re: [ozmidwifery] Free Standing Birth Centres

2004-09-17 Thread Abby and Toby



I can hear my littleAkayrii calling 
for me, so I best get to bed.Goodnight, thanks 
for sparking the dream again!Love 
Abby

Don't know what is going on, but I sent this email 
at about midnight last night, seems my emails are taking ages to come 
through??

love Abby


Re: [ozmidwifery] Abby

2004-09-17 Thread Abby and Toby



I was sent hate email for weeks by having 
the ordasity to suggest some people are painting cs to be the easiest and safest 
type of birth and perhaps that is a little concerning as it is not the 
case.love Jo

Lol! I can imagine! One of my clients visits there 
frequently and was telling me some of the things people write about. 

I got cut down by a midwife on another site because 
I was speaking out against the "light" discussion surrounding epidurals when a 
first time mum-to-be asked about good pain relief for labour. 

Love Abby
(P.S. Thanks for the encouraging 
words.)


[ozmidwifery] Free Standing Birth Centres

2004-09-16 Thread Abby and Toby
Hi,

Is there any such thing in Australia? Or are they all connected to hospitals
or government run etc?
Is it legal to have a free standing birth centre, if we don't have any in
Australia?

Thanks
Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Free Standing Birth Centres

2004-09-16 Thread Abby and Toby



That's why I asked. 
Ever since I started really feeling "called" to 
supporting women during pregnancy and birth I have been looking at different 
ways women choose to birth.
Ultimately it would be AMAZING if the 99% of women 
that could, would birth at home...though, I can't imagine that 
happening in the near future. Not only because of the costs or availablity, but 
also because of the way the majority of our culture, and women,think. 
So..then comes the idea for an amazing birth centre. 
I would love to hear some others ideas about what 
would make a good birth centre. I love the idea of The Farm, where families go 
to stay for a little while before and after the birth. 
I would love a place that was not just for "low 
risk" but for all kinds of "risk". A beautiful and inspiring place with outdoor 
birthing pools, rolling green hills, earth buildings, stone labrynths, 
complimentry therapies, organic foodah..I love to 
dream!
And a place where aspiring midwives could 
apprentice with other wise women, maybe even a traditional midwifery learning 
centre.

I can hear my littleAkayrii calling for me, 
so I best get to bed.

Goodnight, thanks for sparking the dream 
again!
Love Abby

I'm another with the same dream! 
TaniaKim .You and I should 
talk, as I also have this same dream!!! :-)KatrinaGood question Abby! I have no idea but would like to 
know what the reason isapart from the standard line "not enough 
anesthetists". One of my dreams is to build one so I will be keen to 
see if anyone knows the answers!Kim.


[ozmidwifery] Prochiaden and breastfeeding?

2004-09-14 Thread Abby and Toby
Thought some of you wise women could help with a friends query. She has been
prescribed Prochiaden 25mg for depression and she is breastfeeding her 2
month old. She was worried about the side effects and what effects that
would have on bubs. I thought that most anti depressants would have similiar
side effects listed ie. drowsiness, dizziness, nausea(? spelling)
Do any of you know much about this drug? are there any safer anti
depressants for pregnancy ( DISCLAIMER- I am actually not a fan of anti
depressants at all. I believe most depression can be cured with exercise,
nutrition and various therapies. However, she is adimant about taking them
and so I want to find out the safest).
Could someone look it up in, is it Dr Hales, book?

Thanks so much.
Love Abby

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Re: [ozmidwifery] abortion and working with women etc

2004-09-14 Thread Abby and Toby



Perhaps its time you turned the attention 
and energy around and focus on yourself and look at what it is inside yourself 
that you can't accept. 

Is this really a serious comment? Because of the 
fact that I strongly disagree with something, then there is something I need to 
deal with. So.because I disagree strongly with child abuse, pornography, 
rape etc etc, then I will need to look inside myself to see what it is that I 
can't accept?? I am willing to speak out against, what I see as major problems 
in our world, so this means I have issues. I know I have issues, but I don't see 
speaking out against the norm as that being a sign of them.

 worry that someone who works with women 
regulary would hold such harsh views.How can you care and support them 
adequetly feeling the way you do? Do you ask each 
woman before you work with them about their "abortion status" and decline 
working with them if they have had an abortion?

I love the "please don't judge women" comments and 
then the judgements. To the above statement, as if. If you knew 
mewell...you obviously don't. Just because I feel 
strongly against abortion and feel the need to speak out against it, doesn't 
mean the topic runs my life. I am not even going to answer the second question. 


So, I am guessing you are perfect, so you can care 
and support women adequately then? There are so many things in this world that 
people can disagree on. Here is a list that I think we would all have differing 
views on smacking children, co-sleeping, natural parenting, drugs in birth, 
breastfeeding, religion, politics etc etc, does this mean then, that because 
someone disagrees with you, then they are inadequate carers.

What does a woman need to care adequately for a 
woman? Is it the "right" opinion or is it a heart and passion for her and her 
journey?

Love Abby- please don't throw insults out, while 
telling me not to be judgemental.



[ozmidwifery] Fw: Joyous Birth Big sigh :) This is lovely

2004-09-13 Thread Abby and Toby



Subject: Joyous Birth Big sigh :) This is lovely

http://www.freep.com/news/statewire/sw104008_20040910.htmGreat, 
short homebirth story!

Love Abby
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Re: [ozmidwifery] re: abortion etc

2004-09-13 Thread Abby and Toby



Violence is perpetrated against women and children 
all over the world, lets not equate abortion in this, lets make the world a 
better place for women and children to be born into and to 
live.
I'm not sure that I quite understand what you are saying, 
but I think you are saying that we shouldn't use violent sayings when talking 
about abortion. If that is correct then I would like to ask how you would 
describe it, if not violent.
I believe that abortion is incredibly violent toward the 
unborn baby eg.dismemberment, limbs being torn fromthe body, being 
cut up and sucked out through a tube in a process called "menstrual 
extraction", "suction aspiration" tears the fetus and placenta into small 
pieces which are sucked through the tube into a bottle and 
discarded,poisoning-which we all know causes extreme pain in most 
cases,etc etc, I am not sure how else you can describe these things. 
They are definitely not loving and kind and gentle. What about the use of 
aborted babies bodies for research, is that too not violent? Let's face facts it 
is the killing of a life, life in its simplest most innocent form, how can 
anyone deny that. Even someone that is pro-abortion, I imagine, would have a 
hard time denying that those are all violent acts. 
It can also be very violent to women, physically and 
emotionally. It is a completely unnatural event, in most cases, and thus 
immeadiately creates risks. Having a vaccum stuck inside you to suck out the 
"contents", that you helped create, out of your uterus can of course pose a 
risk.Different procedures offer different risks, but here is a short list 
of damage that can be done -hemorrhage, infection, embolism, death, uterine 
perforation, cervical lacerations, pelvic inflammatory disease, increased risks 
of breast cancer, ectopic pregnancy, uterine damage etc etc. 
"National statistics on abortion show that 10% of 
women who undergo this procedure suffer from immediate complications. (1) Over 
one hundred different complications have been associated with induced abortion. 
Minor complications include: infections, bleeding, fevers, chronic abdominal 
pain, gastro-intestinal disturbances, vomiting, and Rh Sensitization. The nine 
most common major complications are infection, excessive bleeding, embolism, 
ripping or perforation of the uterus, anesthesia complications, convulsions, 
hemorrhage, cervical injury and endotoxic shock. (2) Can you imagine what an 
honest warning label might read like for such a procedure?! " Mary Cunningham 
Agee
How can we honestly say that abortion is not a violent 
act, against a mother and her child. these are only the physical risks, but many 
women carry emotionalscars all their lives.
Just as we see women very uninformed of the risks of 
intervention during childbirth, we too see the very uninformed choice of 
abortion. By trying to not see the reality of abortion procedures ie. how 
violent they are, are we not exactly the same as the doctors that gloss over 
intervention in pregnancy and childbirth? This is a quote from www.plannedparenthood.org and the kind of 
glossing over I am talking about 
A tube is inserted through the cervix into the uterus. 
A hand-held instrument gently empties the uterus. 
Please someone tell me where is the description of the 
"hand-held" instrument? Where is the description of what happens to the baby? 
How at all does this empower women in their choices?
I wasn't going to enter my own thoughts into this but I am 
sick of women being told BS and am tired of people trying to see abortion as a 
"gentle" and loving thing to do for an unwanted baby. How many women do you 
think would really have an abortion if they could see the reality of what goes 
on, from what the drugs administered are doing to their bodies, to the baby 
being ripped apart, to a part of the being taken away?
I appreciate Jeanine as she is talking about real 
empowerment. Encouraging women to take control of their fertility and their 
bodies rather than being fed BS about their "choices" ( obviously if a woman is 
raped then it is not her choice, but she should still be told about the 
realities of her choices. Some women that are raped feel like they get raped a 
second time if they have an abortion. I can't find the link but I think it was 
something like 1% of abortions in Australia are because of 
rape.)
I find it so distressing that abortion is used as a 
general form of "birth control". Apparently "98% of abortions are for 
convenience (these reasons do not include medical purposes, rape or foetal 
deformities)."
This email has bevome very long, so I will send a seperate 
one for other distressing facts about abortion.

Love Abby



[ozmidwifery] Abortion Facts in Australia

2004-09-13 Thread Abby and Toby



Here are some, what I find, disturbing facts about 
abortion in Australia.

-There are 100,000 abortions in Australia each year.-There are 800 
abortions each week in NSW - approximately 40,000 annually.-There are 
250,000 live births each year in Australia, which means that there are 2 aborted 
babies for every 5 born.-Worldwide, there are about 60-70 million abortions 
being carried out.-The average age of an aborted baby is 8 weeks.-There 
were only 40 adoptions in NSW in 1997.-Abortion is a multi-million dollar 
industry subsidised by the Australian taxpayer.-The top five 
abortionists in NSW earn $1.5 million per year from Medicare 
alone.-In Australia we now have a low birth rate (zero population 
growth), a high abortion rate and an aging population.-98% of abortions are 
for convenience (these reasons do not include medical purposes, rape or foetal 
deformities).In South Australia only 1% of abortions are claimed for medical 
grounds.Many women who have had abortions suffer from a condition known as 
Post-abortion syndrome

No wonder abortionists are so keen to keep abortion going, they sure do 
reap the "benefits".

Love Abby


Re: [ozmidwifery] re: abortion etc

2004-09-13 Thread Abby and Toby



Vegetarianism and abortion, I find that incredibly 
ridiculous!

I just can't get this comment out of my head. It is 
so ridiculous...so ridiculous that some women don't eat meat because 
they don't want to harm or killan animal, yet they will willfully, and by 
choice, harm and kill their unborn baby. I find this incredibly 
ridiculous.

Abby



[ozmidwifery] Fw: Joyous Birth Fw: [birthnews] FW: raffle to support Jeanine Parvati Baker, birthkeeper

2004-09-13 Thread Abby and Toby




-Original Message-From: Sarah J Buckley [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]Sent: 
Monday, 13 September 2004 8:12 PMTo: Sarah BuckleySubject: 
raffle to support Jeanine Parvati Baker, birthkeeper

Dear friends

I am organising the Australian branch of a US raffle to benefit my 
friendand mentorJeanine Parvati Baker.

Jeanine Parvati Bakerhas been abirthkeeper, as she 
callsherself,for over 30 years.Jeanine Parvati wrote the 
first-ever book on prenatalyoga in 1972 (Prenatal Yoga and Natural 
Childbirth,recently revised)and has beenattending women as a lay 
midwife in her home state of Utah for a generation.A mother of 6 and 
grandmother, sheis also an accomplished herbalist (as her book Hygeia, A 
Woman's Herbal shows); astrologer and yogini. She also co-wrote the awesome 
Conscious Conception, one of my favourite-ever books.Jeanine Parvati coined the 
phrase Healing birth is healing the earth, and her life has been dedicated to 
this work foreveryoneon our planet. JP visited Australia in 1996, 
where she touched many lives and families, including mine. For more about JP and 
her writing, see her luscious site www.birthkeeper.com.

Jeanine Parvati has been seriously unwell this year, and unable to 
work. A raffle has been organised by her friends, based in the US, with 
first prizeof a gorgeous king-size quilt,named Parvati's paradise. For a 
vision of the quilt, and more info about the raffle, see http://sparklinglotusink.com/PPQP.html(NB 
ticket prices on this site are in US Dollars).

As well as the quilt, ancillary prizes include a copy of the book 
Lotus Birth (withchapter byJP - see http://www.acegraphics.com.au/product/book/bk663.html) 
and, for Australian supporters, three copies of the2005 Bellies 
Bots, Boobs and Babes calendars, valued at $15 each.(See http://www.cybercoast.com.au/homebirth/calendar.htm) 

Also an additional ancillary prize -- JP is donating her newest collection 
of writing, THE POSSIBLE MOTHER BOOKLET valued at $25AUS-- a compilation 
of her columns2002-2004 for the U.K. magazine, TheMother, see http://www.birthkeeper.com/Giftshop.html

Tickets are as follows, in Australian dollars
$5 (minimum purchase) for 4 tickets
$10 for 8 tickets
$15 for 13 tickets
$20 for18 tickets
$40 for 38 tickets
$50 for 50 tickets

Please deposit the money into my account (AUSTRALIA ONLY) , as below, 
and send me the receipt, along with your name,address, email 
andphone number.
I will check and reply to you, send your details to the US where 
ticket numbers will be assigned to you, and forward the money toJPB's 
Australian account. She will draw the raffle personally on November 26th. 

Commonwealth Bank 
Account number
BSB 063151 10056443
name- Sarah J Buckley

Alternatively, you can make a cheque out to Jeanine A Baker and post to me 
at the address below.

FOR THOSE IN THEUS, see the website http://sparklinglotusink.com/PPQP.html 
to buy tickets.

Pleasehelp to spread the word for JP, our living treasure, and 
email on to your friends and contacts. 

Thank you for your support
Blessings
Sarah

Sarah J Buckley245 Sugars RdAnstead, Qld 
4070Australia
[EMAIL PROTECTED][EMAIL PROTECTED]"Healing 
birth is healing the earth"www.freestone.org/hygieia/additionalpostings.htmlwww.womenofspirit.asn.au/sarahjbuckleywww.birthlove.com/pages/sarahwww.mothering.com/11-0-0/html/11-2-0/ecstatic-birth.shtml
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Re: [ozmidwifery] re: abortion etc

2004-09-13 Thread Abby and Toby
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] re: abortion etc



Abby, use your passion to work to reduce 
unwanted pregnancies, rather than judge those who make such a difficult 
choice.

Just wanted to make 
it clear that I judge the action, not the woman. A very good 
friend of mine had an abortion, I love her but I hate the decision she made. I 
mourn for her baby.
I also think that calling it as it is, 
isn't judging, it's just seeing the reality.
Thanks for the reminder to work to help 
reduce unwanted pregnancies.
I think it is important that we also 
remember that those "unwanted pregnancies" are not unwanted babies. There are 
hundreds of women and men around our country that would like to parent those 
babies through adoption. 

Love Abby



Re: [ozmidwifery] re: abortion etc

2004-09-13 Thread Abby and Toby




I don't find it ridiculous that you would 
say it. Vegetarians are often held to much "higher" expectations than others, 
but just in case you hadn't noticed they are human too and liable to all such 
vagaries. Apparently refusing to eat animals or objecting to animal 
cruelty implies one is on another plane. Only to those who for some reason are 
offended by such a position. Vegetarians never portray themselves as "perfect". 
At least not in my experience (always the caveat).

Oh the joys of email without emotion! lol! 

I think you have misinterpreted what I was saying. 
I was a vego for years and still now am 90%. So...I don't think anything 
of vegetarians, except, yes, they are human. I don't believe that what you eat 
makes you any more or any less of a person.
My point being that I find it ironic that some 
vegos are so concerned by harming animallife, yet they will kill their own 
offspring. To me, this goes against their own philosophies, hence, 
irony.

Love Abby




Re: [ozmidwifery] Vegan and pro-choice (was abortion etc)

2004-09-13 Thread Abby and Toby
We are talking about a procedure much more akin to the removal of
unwanted/unviable flesh from a woman's body, to assess it from a purely
medical point of view.

I would love to hear this said to Gianna, the aborted fetus that lived to
tell of her story. How can we call, something two people have partaked in
creating unwanted/unviable flesh? The problem is, that piece of flesh has
a soul, has nerve endings, can feel pain, can have eyes, ears, toes, finger,
organs etc etc this is not just flesh.
How can we assess anything from a purely medical view for our bodies are
not purely medical. We are body, mind and spirit, living as one being.
I find the idea of viability an interesting one, because, if a baby and
mother were all alone, no support, but the baby was alive and born, would it
then be okay for the mother to kill her baby? It certainly wouldn't be
viable if she left it alone never to return.

I agree that this is not a list to argue on and I don't really fancy arguing
by email as so many things are misinterpreted. I will admit that I am a
hypocrite in the fact of eating meat (though, as soon as I could I made a
decision not to eat meat and started only when I felt my body needed it for
a time)  though I do hold human life in much higher regard, way above an
animals life. I don't ever believe that their is a need for abortion.
Most, true unviable pregnancies are naturally aborted by the mothers body.

Love Abby

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