Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Ajay Minocha
Hi shadab bhai I totally agree with you it depends on the nature of partner and the situation I know many couples which have both or at least one partner differently abled and they are leading very happy maried lives some examples can also be seen on our list as well regards On 12/11/11, Shadab

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Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Renuka Warriar
Depends the perspective. When I was 50% visually impired, I had a proposal with a guy with the same rate of disability. But he refused the proposal stating that it is not right to marry a disable person of the same nature. Another thing, even if we sincierly disclosed our disability, the

[AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread ss sarfudeen
Dear members. I totally agree with the view expressed by Bhawani Shankar Verma earlier about the plight of the disabled partner irrespective of the gender. It is in fact, worse for the VI women. Whether in love or in marriage, the sighted person at some stage, rejects their disabled partner.

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Re: [AI] Regarding IAS coaching material and any Reasoning book

2011-12-11 Thread Bikash J
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Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA
yes, you are right. at the beginning sighted or abled person shows interest on disabled person due to his/her job income or any other attraction. latter it gradually comes down and a disabled partner suffers a lot. i have many evidence but, it is unfair to disclose the personal lives to the

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Shadab Husain
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Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Dr Jalaja
I can't agree with you fully. Cheating happens even if both are sighted. It is a matter of mutual trust in relations, and if the trust is not there we can't lead a normal married life. RegardsJalaja - Original Message - From: BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA bsvermad...@gmail.com To:

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Rohiet A. Patil
But I think unfortunetly, it's a reality. Accept or not, But according to my view, it's very easy to cheet a VI person. Further, I also think that most of the time, the sighted partner thinks that chalo isko cheet karna hamaray liye bohot hi aasan mamla hai. hum insay shadi karangay aur hum

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Chetan Sharma
Hello sir, I've seen in many cases VI are smarter than sighted people, On 12/11/11, Rohiet A. Patil patil_ro...@dataone.in wrote: But I think unfortunetly, it's a reality. Accept or not, But according to my view, it's very easy to cheet a VI person. Further, I also think that most of the

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Krishnan
friends, now marriage becomes more social than individual because individuals give much importance to social prevailence than individuals interest. individual desire totally neglecting and make compromise with society. marriage should be an attempt to satisfy individual desire. this world

Re: [AI] Regarding IAS coaching material and any Reasoning book

2011-12-11 Thread Shona Man
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Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread tkg
hai friends the various message from the different parts of india it is realised that the problems in marriage is a big fact. in the modern society the criteria for mate selection is changing day by day even in the case of normal personthe youngergeneration have imaginationabout his

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread akhilesh
Hello, I don't understand why the persons with disabilities prefer to marry with a sighted or the non disabled? I strongly believe that a blind person can understand the problem of a blind person better. Whatever I have seen in Delhi so far in 10 years, the trend is that the visually challenged

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Prashant Ranjan Verma
Seems like there are many eligible men women for marriage on this list itself but unfortunately there is no good platform to encourage interaction among them. I am told that efforts of many NGOs for VI in this arena has not yielded much result. The BEST Way to Read and Publish:

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread B. R. Nautial
Of course! fully agree with you! B. R. Nautial - Original Message - From: Dr Jalaja jalajakumar...@gmail.com To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:10 PM Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage I can't agree with you fully. Cheating

[AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Mujtaba Merchant
Hello Members, Looks like we are having a great debate on this topic. Sighted or not Male or Female for everyone matrimony is a challenging affair. There is always a quest to find the perfect partner. Here the definition of a perfect partner is different from person to person. Some might

Re: [AI] need folder lock software

2011-12-11 Thread Dr. Yogesh Sharma
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Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Anirban Mukherjee
i entirely agree with you. we should not make extreme opinions. the chemistry of a relationship is different between 2 couples--be it in marriage or in love. so painting all with same brush is a bit unfair. what, according to me, is most important is to keep faith in oneself and one's own

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA
but, you can partially agree with me. - Original Message - From: Dr Jalaja jalajakumar...@gmail.com To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:10 PM Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage I can't agree with you fully. Cheating happens

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA
you are absolutely right! i did not say that one should not go for sighted partner, but, preferably don't go for sighted partner. keep it as the last option. - Original Message - From: Rohiet A. Patil patil_ro...@dataone.in To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Sunday, December

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA
how do a person can perform love marrige. one should fall in love first. it desires a big fortune! if you have done so, you are luckey enough. smiles! - Original Message - From: akhilesh akhil.akhi...@gmail.com To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 10:23

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA
please arrange one special accessindia convention for the purpose smile! - Original Message - From: Prashant Ranjan Verma pr_ve...@hotmail.com To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 11:34 PM Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Subramani L
Hai folks: Enjoyed the great discussion. I feel trust and love are the two important ingredients of a loving companionship and not eye contacts. In fact, as someone who has seen the world and living without sight now, I feel eyes are the greatest distractions for anyone . I support being honest

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Subramani L
I do agree marriage or companionship is an important part of our lives, but we shouldn't base our happiness on someone's acceptance or rejection of us. Of course, it may make us feel disappointed or point to our disability, but we are our own person and no one has the divine right to hurt us that

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread B. R. Nautial
oh! this is not such a big issue, only we need to prefer a good partner in the same disability. a blind girl should have to marry with a partially blind guy and a blind guy should have to marry to a partially blind girl. If we go forward with this approach, the problem will automatically be

Re: [AI] two requests regarding chess

2011-12-11 Thread Justin Philips
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Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Surinder
But the problem is that a partial vision person wants a sighted life partner. This is the general mentality. - Original Message - From: B. R. Nautial brnaut...@gmail.com To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 8:58 AM Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing

Re: [AI] Regarding IAS coaching material and any Reasoning book

2011-12-11 Thread Bikash J
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Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Asudani, Rajesh
Good Shadab, Congrats for the right approach and of course for marriage as well. However, you have conveniently chosen to omit the modus operandi of disclosure and the impact on your wife. You have just written a couple of last lines, as if positive decisions do not need any analysis

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Renuka Warriar
I am afryed, there is some misunderstanding in my mail. I did'nt mean to say that the disability should not be disclosed at all. But my point was that, even the disability was disclosed, there is a tendency of the society to assume that it has not been fully disclosed. Renuka. On 12/12/11,

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Asudani, Rajesh
In most of the cases cheated? Have you conducted any empirical study? Please share the sample size and the results? -Original Message- From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA Sent: Sunday,

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Asudani, Rajesh
Well, I think we cannot just push disability into oblivion like this. saying that I feel eyes are the greatest distractions for anyone . etc. just reinforces false defense mechanisms we all have inbuilt. Love is never unconditional, believe it or not. So, only a person who is able to relevantly

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Rishi Kewalramani
Dear Subramani, I think you've made some excellent points on this subject. Marriage or companionship is an important part of our lives, but we shouldn't base our happiness on someone's acceptance or rejection of us. no one has the divine right to hurt us that way. Every human being tries

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Subramani L
Is the very reason why I said eyes or the lack of it can be a constraint. Subbu On 12/12/11, Asudani, Rajesh rajeshasud...@rbi.org.in wrote: Well, I think we cannot just push disability into oblivion like this. saying that I feel eyes are the greatest distractions for anyone . etc. just

Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Subramani L
Is the very reason why I said eyes or the lack of it cannot be a constraint. On 12/12/11, Subramani L lsubramani.v...@gmail.com wrote: Is the very reason why I said eyes or the lack of it can be a constraint. Subbu On 12/12/11, Asudani, Rajesh rajeshasud...@rbi.org.in wrote: Well, I think

[AI] Tailoring by visually challenged

2011-12-11 Thread Asudani, Rajesh
Friends We at BGFI Resource centre for the blind at Nagpur have a friend who was a tailor while sighted. He has gone blind about five years ago and has left his job of tailoring. I know the blind can effectively do the sewing and other tailoring jobs. Now the challenge is to train him do them

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2011-12-11 Thread ekinath ekinath
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2011-12-11 Thread Kotian, H P
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Re: [AI] Solution for win32 application error

2011-12-11 Thread austin pinto
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Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Anirban Mukherjee
Dear mr Subramani, i entirely agree with your observations. thank you. with warm regards, Anirban Mukherjee On 12/12/11, Rishi Kewalramani rishi.kewalram...@gmail.com wrote: Dear Subramani, I think you've made some excellent points on this subject. Marriage or companionship is an

Re: [AI] Possible Spam : Re: Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage

2011-12-11 Thread Sushmeetha
Dear Prashant I agree your point of not having a proper platform to interact. Will like to extend the small platform created by Voice Vision on our website as a matrimonial column for both able disable. Will request all the eligible men women to enrol yourselves on this website, so that the

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