Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-31 Thread Deborah Harrell
--- Adam C. Lipscomb wrote: snip You've taken the classic boob's line, God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve! and slapped a new coat of pain on it, but it's still bereft of real substance, and just as ridiculous. While a man and a woman are required for the initial act, it does not

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-31 Thread Deborah Harrell
--- Robert Seeberger [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: snippage ...my thinking has gone off on a bit of a tangent: In Texas, (and I have to assume that things are done in a similar fashion in the rest of the US) when there is a divorce, a child of tender years (age 9 and under in Texas) is

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-31 Thread Julia Thompson
--- Robert Seeberger [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: snippage ...my thinking has gone off on a bit of a tangent: In Texas, (and I have to assume that things are done in a similar fashion in the rest of the US) when there is a divorce, a child of tender years (age 9 and under in Texas)

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-31 Thread Jean-Louis Couturier
At 16:31 2003-07-31 -0500, Julia wrote: Just thought of a scenario not handled by this: Woman man marry Woman man have baby Woman man get divorced Woman gets custody Woman marries another man Woman is killed in an accident when child is 6 years old Who gets primary custody at *this* point?

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-31 Thread Russell Chapman
Julia Thompson wrote: Just thought of a scenario not handled by this: Woman man marry Woman man have baby Woman man get divorced Woman gets custody Woman marries another man Woman is killed in an accident when child is 6 years old Who gets primary custody at *this* point? The bio-dad or the

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-31 Thread Julia Thompson
Russell Chapman wrote: Julia Thompson wrote: Just thought of a scenario not handled by this: Woman man marry Woman man have baby Woman man get divorced Woman gets custody Woman marries another man Woman is killed in an accident when child is 6 years old Who gets primary custody

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-31 Thread Russell Chapman
Julia Thompson wrote: Is there some age at which children of divorced parents can have a say in where they live? Various states in the US have that, and the age varies from state to state. It's 14 *somewhere*. Don't know anything beyond that. The courts in most Australian states will listen to

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-31 Thread Kevin Tarr
This is something that keeps me awake at night... My ex-wife is a fruit-loop who has no concept of responsibility at any level, and can't cope with the children for more than an overnight visit every few months. My second wife, despite having been thrown in the deep end with no preparation

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-31 Thread Russell Chapman
Kevin Tarr wrote: I am 100% not trying to say anything bad. I am only pointing this out because I know two people who went through this, separate cases. You say, the custody of the children is just a casual agreement; then say you put a statement in your will, that is as much as you can do.

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-31 Thread Robert Seeberger
- Original Message - From: Julia Thompson [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Thursday, July 31, 2003 4:31 PM Subject: Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution --- Robert Seeberger [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: snippage ...my

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-31 Thread Robert Seeberger
- Original Message - From: Julia Thompson [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Thursday, July 31, 2003 7:42 PM Subject: Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution Russell Chapman wrote: Julia Thompson wrote: Just thought of a

RE: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-30 Thread Ritu
Jon Gabriel wrote: You deserve a medal for reading Ann Coulter on a regular basis. :) LOL! I didn't buy her books though. Don't blame you - I was gifted one of her books years ago. *shudder* I had to make it disappearit was polluting the other books on my shelf. She is just vile,

RE: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-29 Thread Ritu
Jon Gabriel wrote: I agree that shaking people up and exposing them to an alternative worldview is a good thing. I read AlterNet and Ann Coulter on a regular basis for that precise reason. :) You deserve a medal for reading Ann Coulter on a regular basis. :) Ritu, who spaces out

RE: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-29 Thread Jon Gabriel
From: Ritu [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: 'Killer Bs Discussion' [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: RE: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution Date: Tue, 29 Jul 2003 14:32:30 +0530 Jon Gabriel wrote: I agree that shaking people up and exposing

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-28 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Jul 27, 2003 at 06:31:52PM -0700, Doug Pensinger wrote: I can't remember seeing such obvious sarcasm whoosh over people's heads the way Erik's comments did. I think the reason it seems so obvious to you is that you think about what my viewpoints are likely to be on various issues, and

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-28 Thread Julia Thompson
Doug Pensinger wrote: I know, I know, but we've got a lot of smart people here and I'm guessing that most of them are aware of Erik's libertarian views, not to mention his tendency to use sarcasm (especially when dealing with intolerance), so the statement: Catholics have a distorted view

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-28 Thread Jon Gabriel
From: Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution Date: Mon, 28 Jul 2003 06:49:28 -0400 On Sun, Jul 27, 2003 at 06:31:52PM -0700, Doug Pensinger wrote:

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-28 Thread Reggie Bautista
Erik wrote: Are you really suggesting that people should limit their satire to trivial issues? ... Saturday Night Live completely neutered? You mean they aren't now? Reggie Bautista Smiley Maru _ STOP MORE SPAM with the new MSN 8 and

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-28 Thread Jim Sharkey
Erik Reuter wrote: Saturday Night Live completely neutered? SNL neutered itself a long time ago. :-) Jim ___ Express Yourself - Share Your Mood in Emails! Visit www.SmileyCentral.com - the happiest place on the Web.

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-27 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 06:19 PM 7/24/2003 EDT [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: As will hardly surprise anyone, I could not possibly disagree more. By this logic, the Supreme Court should not have decided as it did in Brown vs Board of Education. If it were left up to states, there would still be legal discrimination in

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-27 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 01:44 PM 7/25/2003 -0400 Bryon Daly wrote: FYI, I'd love to see married and female priests, and yes, even a female pope. Note I didn't mention homosexual priests, because it's unnecessary as I already have seen them - there's quite a lot. I heard a seminarian state that gays far outnumber

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-27 Thread Erik Reuter
On Fri, Jul 25, 2003 at 08:05:07PM -0400, John D. Giorgis wrote: Exactly. The point being that Erik is being wholly unproductive, uncivil, and unapologetic for equating prejudice against bigots with prejudice against Catholics and homosexuals. Actually, you were the one who just equated

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-27 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sat, Jul 26, 2003 at 02:17:56PM -0400, John D. Giorgis wrote: I am solidly opposed to women priests, That is unnatural! There should be a Constitutional amendment banning such aberrant views! -- Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.erikreuter.net/

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-27 Thread Julia Thompson
Erik Reuter wrote: On Fri, Jul 25, 2003 at 03:51:27PM -0500, Reggie Bautista wrote: 2) You condone a law that would prevent 62 million American citizens from being able to get married and have children? How ironic. Apparently you only support freedom of speech, not freedom of thought

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-27 Thread Julia Thompson
John D. Giorgis wrote: At 02:32 PM 7/25/2003 -0500 Julia Thompson wrote: Erik Reuter wrote: You just insulted all bigots while trying to insult me! Personally, I'm prejudiced against bigots. Exactly. The point being that Erik is being wholly unproductive, uncivil, and unapologetic

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-27 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Jul 27, 2003 at 04:06:42PM -0500, Julia Thompson wrote: Wow! That's quite a list! Now, who *should* be allowed to reproduce, in your opinion? Did I miss someone? And what happens if someone reproduces and *then* gets an SUV They have a choice: SUV or junior? Could be a tough

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-27 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 02:32 PM 7/25/2003 -0500 Julia Thompson wrote: Erik Reuter wrote: You just insulted all bigots while trying to insult me! Personally, I'm prejudiced against bigots. Exactly. The point being that Erik is being wholly unproductive, uncivil, and unapologetic for equating prejudice

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-27 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Jul 27, 2003 at 07:34:35PM -0400, John D. Giorgis wrote: In that case, I think that I got Erik's post (both the cheeky and the serious content) better than you did. No, you did not, JDG, based on your earlier comment which was exactly opposite. -- Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-27 Thread Doug Pensinger
Julia Thompson wrote: Actually, *my* point was I thought that Erik was being a bit cheeky, and I was trying to be cheeky right back at him. I think Erik got my post better than you did. I can't remember seeing such obvious sarcasm whoosh over people's heads the way Erik's comments did. Doug

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-27 Thread Julia Thompson
Doug Pensinger wrote: Julia Thompson wrote: Actually, *my* point was I thought that Erik was being a bit cheeky, and I was trying to be cheeky right back at him. I think Erik got my post better than you did. I can't remember seeing such obvious sarcasm whoosh over people's heads

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-27 Thread Doug Pensinger
Julia Thompson wrote: Doug Pensinger wrote: Julia Thompson wrote: Actually, *my* point was I thought that Erik was being a bit cheeky, and I was trying to be cheeky right back at him. I think Erik got my post better than you did. I can't remember seeing such obvious sarcasm whoosh over

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-26 Thread Erik Reuter
On Fri, Jul 25, 2003 at 03:51:27PM -0500, Reggie Bautista wrote: 2) You condone a law that would prevent 62 million American citizens from being able to get married and have children? How ironic. Apparently you only support freedom of speech, not freedom of thought or freedom of religion.

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-26 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 02:32 PM 7/25/2003 -0500 Julia Thompson wrote: Erik Reuter wrote: You just insulted all bigots while trying to insult me! Personally, I'm prejudiced against bigots. Exactly. The point being that Erik is being wholly unproductive, uncivil, and unapologetic for equating prejudice against

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-26 Thread Robert Seeberger
- Original Message - From: John D. Giorgis [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, July 25, 2003 7:39 AM Subject: Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution At 12:06 AM 7/25/2003 -0500 Adam C. Lipscomb wrote: JDG poured an a$$load of

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-26 Thread Adam C. Lipscomb
JDG wrote: My position is based on the fact that I firmly believe that women and men are fundamentally different. I consider this differences to be effects of both fundamental biology, and, of course, differences in cultural roles. Well, duuuh! Differences in biology do not, hoever,

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread Bryon Daly
From: Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED] On Fri, Jul 25, 2003 at 12:11:59AM -0400, John D. Giorgis wrote: I disagree. Since every child is produced by a mother and a father, I think that our ideal goal should be to place every child up for adoption with a very good mother and father. I disagree.

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread Bryon Daly
From: Bryon Daly [EMAIL PROTECTED] So you would deny adoption to single people as well? What of children that would otherwise go unadopted? Would you rather see them in an orphanage than with a loving single parent of gay couple?

RE: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread Jon Gabriel
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Bryon Daly Sent: Friday, July 25, 2003 2:14 AM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution From: Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED] On Fri, Jul 25, 2003 at 12:11:59AM -0400, John D.

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread Erik Reuter
On Fri, Jul 25, 2003 at 02:14:22AM -0400, Bryon Daly wrote: I know you're trying to troll him, but 1) he never stated anything about Catholicism is his remark, did that need to be dragged in?, and 2) it's intolerant and offensive to me and perhaps to any other Catholics who might be on this

RE: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 06:13 AM 7/25/2003 -0400 Jon Gabriel wrote: I disagree. Since every child is produced by a mother and a father, I think that our ideal goal should be to place every child up for adoption with a very good mother and father. I disagree. Catholics have a distorted view of the world

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 12:06 AM 7/25/2003 -0500 Adam C. Lipscomb wrote: JDG poured an a$$load of gasoline on the fire by writing: I disagree. Since every child is produced by a mother and a father, I think that our ideal goal should be to place every child up for adoption with a very good mother and father.

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 01:46 AM 7/25/2003 -0400 Bryon Daly wrote: From: John D. Giorgis [EMAIL PROTECTED] At 11:09 PM 7/24/2003 -0400 David Hobby wrote: I'll tell you what. Change the amendment so that any two adults can enter into a civil union, which the federal and state governments must grant all the

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread TomFODW
    Since society's role in assigning adoptions should entirely give consdieration to the needs and rights of the child - not to the desires of the adopters, I think that society should try and meet the reasonable expectations of the child whenever possible, since of course, there is no way

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread Jean-Louis Couturier
At 18:29 2003-07-24 -0500, Dan Minette wrote: - Original Message - From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Thursday, July 24, 2003 5:19 PM Subject: Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution The family is not in any danger. I differ with this statement. I

RE: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread Bryon Daly
From: Jon Gabriel [EMAIL PROTECTED] From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Bryon Daly From: Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED] I disagree. Catholics have a distorted view of the world that isn't healthy to pass on to children. They should not be permitted to legally

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread Julia Thompson
David Hobby wrote: The above would have been easier to state if we had general kinship terms based on degrees of genetic relatedness. Sibling, parent and child are all halves. Grandparent, grandchild, aunt, uncle, niece, nephew, half-sibling, and so on are quarters. And you know you're

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread Erik Reuter
On Fri, Jul 25, 2003 at 12:42:45PM -0400, Bryon Daly wrote: And if I want to make a point that insulted Erik, I wouldn't do it my making an obnoxious broad general statement about all physics experts or atheists, because either of those would also attack other people on this list. Really?

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread Bryon Daly
From: Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED] Bryon, all children are produced by a man and a woman. But there has never been a female Pope. How can a male-only Pope provide good guidance and nurture to his flock when it is so unnatural? I find this offensive, and I am offended that you cannot tolerate my

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread Julia Thompson
Erik Reuter wrote: You just insulted all bigots while trying to insult me! Personally, I'm prejudiced against bigots. Julia ___ http://www.mccmedia.com/mailman/listinfo/brin-l

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread Reggie Bautista
Erik wrote: I disagree. Catholics have a distorted view of the world that isn't healthy to pass on to children. They should not be permitted to legally marry, and their children should be put up for adoption with decent parents. 1) Don't judge all Catholics based on JDG. Many Catholics are

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-25 Thread Reggie Bautista
Erik wrote: Obviously, there should be a law that requires both a female AND a male Pope. Separate but equal, huh? (Just for the record, I have no problem with a female being Pope or with a female being a priest.) Reggie Bautista

The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-24 Thread John D. Giorgis
While I am sure that many of you will not support the first half of the proposed ammendment, (although I would point out that this first half does not rule out civil unions - such as the ones currently embraced by the gay community in Vermont.) Nevertheless, I would hope that everyone would be

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-24 Thread Jean-Louis Couturier
At 07:26 2003-07-24 -0400, John D Giorgis posted a text containing the following: Gay marriage would cut the final cord that ties marriage to the well-being of children. It is a step we should not take. Our cultural forgetting of the meaning of marriage has already had too many sad consequences

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-24 Thread TomFODW
Nevertheless, I would hope that everyone would be in favor of the second half.  I think that this issue is so important and controversial that it should be decided by the State Legislatures and Congress, which are elected by the people, and not written by unelected judges. As will hardly

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-24 Thread Dan Minette
- Original Message - From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Thursday, July 24, 2003 5:19 PM Subject: Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution The family is not in any danger. I differ with this statement. I think that the family is facing a number of

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-24 Thread David Hobby
John D. Giorgis wrote: While I am sure that many of you will not support the first half of the proposed ammendment, (although I would point out that this first half does not rule out civil unions - such as the ones currently embraced by the gay community in Vermont.) Nevertheless, I

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-24 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 11:09 PM 7/24/2003 -0400 David Hobby wrote: I'll tell you what. Change the amendment so that any two adults can enter into a civil union, which the federal and state governments must grant all the privileges of marriage, and you have my support. I disagree. Since every child is

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-24 Thread David Hobby
Jean-Louis Couturier wrote: At 07:26 2003-07-24 -0400, John D Giorgis posted a text containing the following: Gay marriage would cut the final cord that ties marriage to the well-being of children. It is a step we should not take. Our cultural forgetting of the meaning of marriage has

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-24 Thread Erik Reuter
On Fri, Jul 25, 2003 at 12:11:59AM -0400, John D. Giorgis wrote: I disagree. Since every child is produced by a mother and a father, I think that our ideal goal should be to place every child up for adoption with a very good mother and father. I disagree. Catholics have a distorted view of

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-24 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 02:43 PM 7/24/2003 -0400 Jean-Louis Couturier wrote: I do agree that the laws permitting or restricting marriage should be passed by elected officials rather than appointed ones. However, the courts have there part to play. With such thorny issues, legislators have the bad habit of looking

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-24 Thread Adam C. Lipscomb
JDG poured an a$$load of gasoline on the fire by writing: I disagree. Since every child is produced by a mother and a father, I think that our ideal goal should be to place every child up for adoption with a very good mother and father. With all due respect, I think you're way out of touch

Re: The Case for a Marriage Ammendment to the Constitution

2003-07-24 Thread Bryon Daly
From: John D. Giorgis [EMAIL PROTECTED] At 11:09 PM 7/24/2003 -0400 David Hobby wrote: I'll tell you what. Change the amendment so that any two adults can enter into a civil union, which the federal and state governments must grant all the privileges of marriage, and you have my support. I