[FairfieldLife] RE: Sumatikirti Kadampa?

2013-11-29 Thread cardemaister
Gyatso on praaNa's:
 

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eOKT6YpP6vg 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eOKT6YpP6vg 
 

---In fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com, emptybill@... wrote:

 If yer talking about their lineage then wiki search on Kelsang Gyatso. 
 
The Dalai Lama changed things and denounced a protector that had been 
worshiped by many other Gelugpa-s for quite a while. Apparently some monks and 
nuns then denounced the Dalai Lama and started a break-away lineage under 
Kelsang. 

 

 Tibetans can be as much or more psycho as Christians. However, not as 
sociopathic as the Muslims. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, cardemaister@... wrote:

 Anyone heard of this: 

 
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Meditaatio-Suomessa-Sumatikirti-Kadampa-buddhalainen-keskus/215145618515052?fref=ts
 
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Meditaatio-Suomessa-Sumatikirti-Kadampa-buddhalainen-keskus/215145618515052?fref=ts

 

 Nice Facebook pages?
 

 




 


[FairfieldLife] RE: RE: Sumatikirti Kadampa?

2013-11-29 Thread cardemaister


 Dalai Lama lied??
 

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zp0N72-uv58 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zp0N72-uv58 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, cardemaister@... wrote:

 Gyatso on praaNa's:
 

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eOKT6YpP6vg 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eOKT6YpP6vg 
 

 ---In fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com, emptybill@... wrote:

 If yer talking about their lineage then wiki search on Kelsang Gyatso. 
 
The Dalai Lama changed things and denounced a protector that had been 
worshiped by many other Gelugpa-s for quite a while. Apparently some monks and 
nuns then denounced the Dalai Lama and started a break-away lineage under 
Kelsang. 

 

 Tibetans can be as much or more psycho as Christians. However, not as 
sociopathic as the Muslims. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, cardemaister@... wrote:

 Anyone heard of this: 

 
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Meditaatio-Suomessa-Sumatikirti-Kadampa-buddhalainen-keskus/215145618515052?fref=ts
 
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Meditaatio-Suomessa-Sumatikirti-Kadampa-buddhalainen-keskus/215145618515052?fref=ts

 

 Nice Facebook pages?
 

 




 




[FairfieldLife] RE: RE: Sumatikirti Kadampa?

2013-11-29 Thread cardemaister
Dalai lama is a politician?
 

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wC-F6VUyGZM 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wC-F6VUyGZM 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, cardemaister@... wrote:

 Gyatso on praaNa's:
 

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eOKT6YpP6vg 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eOKT6YpP6vg 
 

 ---In fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com, emptybill@... wrote:

 If yer talking about their lineage then wiki search on Kelsang Gyatso. 
 
The Dalai Lama changed things and denounced a protector that had been 
worshiped by many other Gelugpa-s for quite a while. Apparently some monks and 
nuns then denounced the Dalai Lama and started a break-away lineage under 
Kelsang. 

 

 Tibetans can be as much or more psycho as Christians. However, not as 
sociopathic as the Muslims. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, cardemaister@... wrote:

 Anyone heard of this: 

 
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Meditaatio-Suomessa-Sumatikirti-Kadampa-buddhalainen-keskus/215145618515052?fref=ts
 
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Meditaatio-Suomessa-Sumatikirti-Kadampa-buddhalainen-keskus/215145618515052?fref=ts

 

 Nice Facebook pages?
 

 




 




[FairfieldLife] CC affects p-nis length??

2013-11-29 Thread cardemaister
http://www.targetmap.com/viewer.aspx?reportId=3073 
http://www.targetmap.com/viewer.aspx?reportId=3073 
 

 Any Venezuelans?
 

 



[FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: A Meditator#39;s Thanksgiving

2013-11-29 Thread doctordumbass
OK - Thank you for revealing your lack of experience with GC. Frankly, it 
didn't sound to me, as if you knew what you were talking about, when you first 
brought it up. I am also curious why you think you are in unity. It sounds 
like your unity has a lot of conditions attached to it, in order to remain 
unified.  

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anartaxius@... wrote:

 The thought popped into my head, and then I put to the keyboard and you read 
it. As basically an atheist, I seemed to have mostly done an end run around GC, 
it had no conceptual material to work with, as GC, as M explained it, derives 
its material from what one's beliefs are in regard to spiritual traditions etc. 
Still this state is described in various ways. For example the philosopher 
Plotinus said nous (pure being) falls in love and is simplified into a happy 
fullness. 
 

 I remember writing some things long ago that from an emotional point of view 
correspond with what Buck is writing now, but I did not express it in religious 
terms. Benchmarks are guide posts but are not rigid time and place dependent 
markers, and you might experience something of unity even when you are barely 
transcending as a new meditator, or if you are one of those rare individuals 
like Ekhart Tolle or Krishnamurti, you might just slip into unity without any 
preliminaries. Unity throws you off the path, the path dies, you are on your 
own, and there is no way to doubt it, if it is clear enough. By on your own, I 
mean there isn't anything else, even though you can refer to your body as 'me' 
and so forth. Everything that went before is seen through as having been as a 
fraud. 
 

 Eventually you can look at it any way you like, as wholeness, as unity, as 
duality. Everything that was there before is still there except the 
relationship of thought with experience undergoes a profound shift, their roles 
are reversed so to speak, thought becoming secondary. Those words, duality, 
unity are not what is experienced, they are just ways you try to convey the 
potential of that experience to someone else. You cannot give it to them 
because they have it in spades already. They just do not realise what it can be 
for them so you try to light a fire under them to get them moving in the proper 
direction, which is not a direction at all. Basically you want their mind to 
completely stop, and eventually recognize what the significance of that is. 
There are things people can learn to do that seems to increase the probability 
that this will happen, like meditation.
 

 Buck has been expressing himself dualistically, so I was rubbing the grain the 
other way. So if you are in unity, and someone smashes an ice cream cone in 
your face, are you going to assume the universe has no parts?
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 Hi, Your post brought up a few questions for me:
 

 What gives you the idea that God Consciousness is the *last* stage of 
delusion? What does that even mean, and how would you know? Are you willing to 
share your deluded experiences of GC with me?

 

 Also, if Buck is the unified field, aren't you looking to him, and therefore, 
looking to it, when addressing him?
 Why can't duality occur within the wholeness of Unity, according to you?

 

 Thx
 (rhymes with Spx)

 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anartaxius@... wrote:

 This is redundant Buck. You are the unified field, you cannot look to it. Are 
you by any chance in that last stage of delusion known as GC?
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:

 My spirit looks to the Unified Field alone,
My rock and refuge is Its throne.
In all my fears, in all my straits, 
My soul on Its salvation waits.
Trust It, ye meditators, in all your ways,
Pour out your hearts before Its face;
When helpers fail and foes invade,

 the Unified Field is our all-sufficient aid. 
 


 Paraphrased excerpt from Psalm 62 by Isaac Watts:
 

 http://www.ccel.org/ccel/watts/psalmshymns.Ps.131.html 
http://www.ccel.org/ccel/watts/psalmshymns.Ps.131.html 
 














RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread doctordumbass
I like Curtis, but I found him to be emotionally duplicitous - that means 
acting one way, while feeling another. Its a gut thing, Barry, so I cannot 
explain it further. Except to say that Curtis is not unique in that regard, and 
I show no prejudice, personally, towards him, as I avoid all of those who are 
ignorant of their true natures, equally. 
  
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote:
 
 Richard, 
 
 A well poisoner. Nice observation, including all the rest you wrote. In post 
 363322 perhaps there is a clue. In a response to Share authfriend wrote: 

 P.S.: You're quite right about my childhood, albeit not in the way you hope. 
 I had a happy, stress-free childhood with two parents who loved me deeply and 
 steadfastly. They passed on their own devotion to authenticity and loathing 
 of phoniness to me. 
 
 Whatever she feels is non authentic gets a dose of loathing, i.e., a feeling 
 of intense dislike or disgust; hatred (that is the definition of the word). 
 If you want to change the world, loathing is not the emotion I would want to 
 operate from; it is the antithesis of acceptance, which is what spirituality 
 develops (sometimes anyway). Loathing is the emotion you want to instill if 
 you want to pass on intolerance. It is a blinding emotion. 


 In the talk on how to detect and deal with liars I viewed as part of an 
internal IBM education program, the speaker pointed out one particular facial 
expression that one should *always* be wary of. He showed a photo of Dick 
Cheney, wearing a snarl characterized by one side of his mouth raised higher 
than the other and said, This is *contempt*. Whenever you see it, when in a 
business meeting, *don't* sign the contract, and instead just get up and leave 
the room. That is what the other person really thinks of you, and it's never 
going to change.

 


The aspect of this whole routine that always amazes me when someone trots out 
the supposedly derogatory buzzphrase phony is that the person using this term 
never seems to be able to define what the target of their contempt is being a 
phony AT. The belief at the heart of hurling the epithet phony is that the 
person they are hurling it at is *pretending* to be something that they're not. 

I suggest that this is pure projection, coming in almost every case from people 
whose *whole lives* are about pretending to be something they're not. Such 
people really *cannot comprehend* other people who have no need to do this, so 
they constantly project their own insecure need to project an image onto 
those they dislike, incorrectly (in many cases) assuming that their 
contempt-objects have such a need as well. 

The classic example of this, of course, is Judy trying to deal with someone 
like Curtis. In my opinion, there have been no posters on this forum more 
comfortable with just being what they are than Curtis. I don't think I ever saw 
him pretend to be anything other than what he was...the sum state of his 
life, all that had led up to him being who and what he was, in that moment. But 
to Judy, he was a phony. 

A phony WHAT, Judy? *What* exactly did you believe that Curtis was trying to 
pretend to be? *What* exactly do you think that Share is trying to be, or that 
I am trying to be when you call us phonies? *Why* do you think that someone 
would ever have the need to try to project an image and convince other people 
to believe it? Could it possibly be because that's what YOU do, on a pretty 
much constant basis?

Which of the people you have claimed were phonies, for instance, have ever 
said something as stupid and as *obviously* untrue as I never lie? YOU have 
said this, many times, and everyone here except you knows immediately that it's 
not true, and that you're lying when you say it. Wouldn't that make YOU the 
phony in this scenario?

When you pretend to know what people really mean by what they wrote, when 
there is no possible way for you to know that, aren't YOU being the phony? 

Save your contempt for yourself, Judy. You're the one who demonstrates the 
behavior you claim to loathe the most on this forum. 


  ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, punditster@ wrote: 
 
 I've been an respondent on the internet since 1999, so it's not like I'm a 
 newbie or something. And it's been my observation that Judy has a really big 
 ego, maybe bigger even than Barry, and that's saying a lot! There are facts 
 and there are opinions - facts can be argued, but an opinion stands no matter 
 what, and that's everyone's right to express - you may not agree, but there 
 should be no excuse for slandering your debating opponents. 
 
 It's like when some people call others 'nazis' all the time - it soon loses 
 its force, and in the end doesn't do justice to the real nazi victims. 
 
 At first I thought Judy was being very astute when she called Barry a liar 
 over and over again; then she started going after me with the same 

[FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread salyavin808
Ah, you spotted that I hadn't read the story.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Actually, if you read the story, the chemo had made her horribly ill, and she 
begged her parents not to make her continue. Doesn't seem to have had anything 
to do with religious preference per se. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the irony 
in that and stop being so silly. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:

 But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to me 
that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if that is 
their religious preference to do so. 

 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html
 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html









Re: [FairfieldLife] 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@...  wrote:

 I like Curtis, but I found him to be emotionally duplicitous - that
 means acting one way, while feeling another.

Whereas you felt completely comfortable with Robin's overuse
(combined with bad writing) of irony, the very definition of
which is saying one thing and meaning another. I understand. :-)

 Its a gut thing, Barry, so I cannot explain it further. Except to
 say that Curtis is not unique in that regard, and I show no prejudice,
 personally, towards him, as I avoid all of those who are ignorant of
 their true natures, equally.

Since that includes pretty much everyone who doesn't claim
to be as enlightened as you are, I think it's noble of you to
have anything to do with us at all.

That was irony, just in case your gut thing didn't detect it. :-)

We may agree to disagree about Curtis if you like. I found him
to be one of the *most* WSIWYG people I've ever encountered.
I miss *his* honesty here, because it presented such a contrast
to those who put on such a show of being honest for their
perceived audience, but are duplicitous to the core. Maybe
that's why they hounded him until he didn't feel it was worth
his time to participate here any more.

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@ wrote:

  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wrote:
  
  Richard,
 
  A well poisoner. Nice observation, including all the rest you wrote.
In post 363322 perhaps there is a clue. In a response to Share
authfriend wrote:
 
  P.S.: You're quite right about my childhood, albeit not in the way
you hope. I had a happy, stress-free childhood with two parents who
loved me deeply and steadfastly. They passed on their own devotion to
authenticity and loathing of phoniness to me.
 
  Whatever she feels is non authentic gets a dose of loathing, i.e., a
feeling of intense dislike or disgust; hatred (that is the definition of
the word). If you want to change the world, loathing is not the emotion
I would want to operate from; it is the antithesis of acceptance, which
is what spirituality develops (sometimes anyway). Loathing is the
emotion you want to instill if you want to pass on intolerance. It is a
blinding emotion.


  In the talk on how to detect and deal with liars I viewed as part of
an internal IBM education program, the speaker pointed out one
particular facial expression that one should *always* be wary of. He
showed a photo of Dick Cheney, wearing a snarl characterized by one side
of his mouth raised higher than the other and said, This is *contempt*.
Whenever you see it, when in a business meeting, *don't* sign the
contract, and instead just get up and leave the room. That is what the
other person really thinks of you, and it's never going to change.




 The aspect of this whole routine that always amazes me when someone
trots out the supposedly derogatory buzzphrase phony is that the
person using this term never seems to be able to define what the
target of their contempt is being a phony AT. The belief at the heart
of hurling the epithet phony is that the person they are hurling it at
is *pretending* to be something that they're not.

 I suggest that this is pure projection, coming in almost every case
from people whose *whole lives* are about pretending to be something
they're not. Such people really *cannot comprehend* other people who
have no need to do this, so they constantly project their own insecure
need to project an image onto those they dislike, incorrectly (in many
cases) assuming that their contempt-objects have such a need as well.

 The classic example of this, of course, is Judy trying to deal with
someone like Curtis. In my opinion, there have been no posters on this
forum more comfortable with just being what they are than Curtis. I
don't think I ever saw him pretend to be anything other than what he
was...the sum state of his life, all that had led up to him being who
and what he was, in that moment. But to Judy, he was a phony.

 A phony WHAT, Judy? *What* exactly did you believe that Curtis was
trying to pretend to be? *What* exactly do you think that Share is
trying to be, or that I am trying to be when you call us phonies?
*Why* do you think that someone would ever have the need to try to
project an image and convince other people to believe it? Could it
possibly be because that's what YOU do, on a pretty much constant basis?

 Which of the people you have claimed were phonies, for instance,
have ever said something as stupid and as *obviously* untrue as I never
lie? YOU have said this, many times, and everyone here except you knows
immediately that it's not true, and that you're lying when you say it.
Wouldn't that make YOU the phony in this scenario?

 When you pretend to know what people really mean by what they
wrote, when there is no possible way for you to know that, aren't YOU
being the phony?

 Save your contempt for yourself, Judy. You're the one who demonstrates
the behavior you claim to loathe the 

[FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread salyavin808
The land of the free. Free to die because of religious beliefs? Fair enough. 
Plenty of belief systems refuse blood transfusions. I've known TMers who say 
they would refuse any sort of transplant because they don't want someone else's 
karma. In fact, I've known people who died because they chose alternative 
healthcare. Alternative to things that work it would seem.
 

 This is why I say natural selection works on the religious too. Not cruel at 
all, or at least no crueller than it is for you and me. Maybe if I'd read 
article
 

 

 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the irony 
in that and stop being so silly. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:

 But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to me 
that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if that is 
their religious preference to do so. 

 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html
 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html









RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread anartaxius
I miss Curtis too. He has a solid, practical nature, and expresses it 
masterfully.


[FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: A Meditator#39;s Thanksgiving

2013-11-29 Thread anartaxius
There is the experience of wholeness. You are not 'in it', the experience is 
it; there is nothing attached to it. The mind can play the game of trying to 
understand it with its habit of conditional thinking but ultimately it just has 
to surrender to the fact that that doesn't work. The unity does not have to do 
anything to hold together; it is not like a ball of caramel popcorn stuck 
together that can come apart. There is what is described as unity, but there is 
no one in it.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 OK - Thank you for revealing your lack of experience with GC. Frankly, it 
didn't sound to me, as if you knew what you were talking about, when you first 
brought it up. I am also curious why you think you are in unity. It sounds 
like your unity has a lot of conditions attached to it, in order to remain 
unified.  

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anartaxius@... wrote:

 The thought popped into my head, and then I put to the keyboard and you read 
it. As basically an atheist, I seemed to have mostly done an end run around GC, 
it had no conceptual material to work with, as GC, as M explained it, derives 
its material from what one's beliefs are in regard to spiritual traditions etc. 
Still this state is described in various ways. For example the philosopher 
Plotinus said nous (pure being) falls in love and is simplified into a happy 
fullness. 
 

 I remember writing some things long ago that from an emotional point of view 
correspond with what Buck is writing now, but I did not express it in religious 
terms. Benchmarks are guide posts but are not rigid time and place dependent 
markers, and you might experience something of unity even when you are barely 
transcending as a new meditator, or if you are one of those rare individuals 
like Ekhart Tolle or Krishnamurti, you might just slip into unity without any 
preliminaries. Unity throws you off the path, the path dies, you are on your 
own, and there is no way to doubt it, if it is clear enough. By on your own, I 
mean there isn't anything else, even though you can refer to your body as 'me' 
and so forth. Everything that went before is seen through as having been as a 
fraud. 
 

 Eventually you can look at it any way you like, as wholeness, as unity, as 
duality. Everything that was there before is still there except the 
relationship of thought with experience undergoes a profound shift, their roles 
are reversed so to speak, thought becoming secondary. Those words, duality, 
unity are not what is experienced, they are just ways you try to convey the 
potential of that experience to someone else. You cannot give it to them 
because they have it in spades already. They just do not realise what it can be 
for them so you try to light a fire under them to get them moving in the proper 
direction, which is not a direction at all. Basically you want their mind to 
completely stop, and eventually recognize what the significance of that is. 
There are things people can learn to do that seems to increase the probability 
that this will happen, like meditation.
 

 Buck has been expressing himself dualistically, so I was rubbing the grain the 
other way. So if you are in unity, and someone smashes an ice cream cone in 
your face, are you going to assume the universe has no parts?
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 Hi, Your post brought up a few questions for me:
 

 What gives you the idea that God Consciousness is the *last* stage of 
delusion? What does that even mean, and how would you know? Are you willing to 
share your deluded experiences of GC with me?

 

 Also, if Buck is the unified field, aren't you looking to him, and therefore, 
looking to it, when addressing him?
 Why can't duality occur within the wholeness of Unity, according to you?

 

 Thx
 (rhymes with Spx)

 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anartaxius@... wrote:

 This is redundant Buck. You are the unified field, you cannot look to it. Are 
you by any chance in that last stage of delusion known as GC?
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:

 My spirit looks to the Unified Field alone,
My rock and refuge is Its throne.
In all my fears, in all my straits, 
My soul on Its salvation waits.
Trust It, ye meditators, in all your ways,
Pour out your hearts before Its face;
When helpers fail and foes invade,

 the Unified Field is our all-sufficient aid. 
 


 Paraphrased excerpt from Psalm 62 by Isaac Watts:
 

 http://www.ccel.org/ccel/watts/psalmshymns.Ps.131.html 
http://www.ccel.org/ccel/watts/psalmshymns.Ps.131.html 
 
















Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: A Meditator's Thanksgiving

2013-11-29 Thread Mike Dixon
Interesting. I used to have a lot of visual and auditory experiences in 
meditation and they always left me confused. I would come out of meditation and 
deny what I had just *seen* or *heard* until I realized it wasn't a matter of 
*seeing* or *hearing*, it was a matter of *Being*. I didn't *see* it because I 
*was* it. *I* was the whole experience. M used to say, Unity, it it's early 
days, can be very confusing. Never understood what he meant at the time, then 
it dawned on me.




On Friday, November 29, 2013 5:51 AM, anartax...@yahoo.com 
anartax...@yahoo.com wrote:
  
  
There is the experience of wholeness. You are not 'in it', the experience is 
it; there is nothing attached to it. The mind can play the game of trying to 
understand it with its habit of conditional thinking but ultimately it just has 
to surrender to the fact that that doesn't work. The unity does not have to do 
anything to hold together; it is not like a ball of caramel popcorn stuck 
together that can come apart. There is what is described as unity, but there is 
no one in it. 


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:


OK - Thank you for revealing your lack of experience with GC. Frankly, it 
didn't sound to me, as if you knew what you were talking about, when you first 
brought it up. I am also curious why you think you are in unity. It sounds 
like your unity has a lot of conditions attached to it, in order to remain 
unified.  
 



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anartaxius@... wrote:


The thought popped into my head, and then I put to the keyboard and you read 
it. As basically an atheist, I seemed to have mostly done an end run around 
GC, it had no conceptual material to work with, as GC, as M explained it, 
derives its material from what one's beliefs are in regard to spiritual 
traditions etc. Still this state is described in various ways. For example the 
philosopher Plotinus said nous (pure being) falls in love and is simplified 
into a happy fullness. 


I remember writing some things long ago that from an emotional point of view 
correspond with what Buck is writing now, but I did not express it in 
religious terms. Benchmarks are guide posts but are not rigid time and place 
dependent markers, and you might experience something of unity even when you 
are barely transcending as a new meditator, or if you are one of those rare 
individuals like Ekhart Tolle or Krishnamurti, you might just slip into unity 
without any preliminaries. Unity throws you off the path, the path dies, you 
are on your own, and there is no way to doubt it, if it is clear enough. By on 
your own, I mean there isn't anything else, even though you can refer to your 
body as 'me' and so forth. Everything that went before is seen through as 
having been as a fraud. 


Eventually you can look at it any way you like, as wholeness, as unity, as 
duality. Everything that was there before is still there except the 
relationship of thought with experience undergoes a profound shift, their 
roles are reversed so to speak, thought becoming secondary. Those words, 
duality, unity are not what is experienced, they are just ways you try to 
convey the potential of that experience to someone else. You cannot give it to 
them because they have it in spades already. They just do not realise what it 
can be for them so you try to light a fire under them to get them moving in 
the proper direction, which is not a direction at all. Basically you want 
their mind to completely stop, and eventually recognize what the significance 
of that is. There are things people can learn to do that seems to increase the 
probability that this will happen, like meditation.


Buck has been expressing himself dualistically, so I was rubbing the grain the 
other way. So if you are in unity, and someone smashes an ice cream cone in 
your face, are you going to assume the universe has no parts? 



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:


Hi, Your post brought up a few questions for me:


What gives you the idea that God Consciousness is the *last* stage of 
delusion? What does that even mean, and how would you know? Are you willing 
to share your deluded experiences of GC with me?



Also, if Buck is the unified field, aren't you looking to him, and therefore, 
looking to it, when addressing him?
Why can't duality occur within the wholeness of Unity, according to you?



Thx
(rhymes with Spx)




 



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anartaxius@... wrote:


This is redundant Buck. You are the unified field, you cannot look to it. 
Are you by any chance in that last stage of delusion known as GC? 



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:


My
spirit looks to the Unified Field alone,
My rock and refuge is Its
throne.
In all my fears, in all my straits, 
My soul on
Its salvation waits.
Trust It, ye meditators, in all your
ways,
Pour out your hearts before Its face;
When helpers fail
and 

RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
Barry wrote:
 

  Which of the people you have claimed were phonies, for instance, have ever 
  said something as stupid 
  and as *obviously* untrue as I never lie?
 

 YOU. Many times, pretending to quote me.
 

  YOU have said this, many times,
 

 I can't find one single instance in the archives of my ever having said those 
words here.
 

 Can you?
 



RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
To be a little more specific, if I may: Curtis pretended to be comfortable 
with who he was, as Barry puts it. But that was a carefully constructed facade, 
and it took very little in the way of chipping to expose the real Curtis 
underneath. Anyone who ever tangled with Curtis discovered this.
 

 Curtis was comfortable with who he was as long as he didn't feel challenged. 
When he was feeling challenged, it was a very different story: his entire being 
became totally focused on defending himself and annihilating his challenger, 
using whatever means he could, no matter how duplicitous, including flat-out 
lying.
 
Curtis was not a nice guy, and while he fooled quite a few people, I was hardly 
the only person on FFL to see through his act.
 

 

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 I like Curtis, but I found him to be emotionally duplicitous - that means 
acting one way, while feeling another. Its a gut thing, Barry, so I cannot 
explain it further. Except to say that Curtis is not unique in that regard, and 
I show no prejudice, personally, towards him, as I avoid all of those who are 
ignorant of their true natures, equally. 
  




RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
Xeno wrote:
 
 As for authfriend, she said she would not have any discussions with me until 
 I apologised for 
  some slight to her phony authenticity, and she has tried to worm out of that 
  by entering into 
  a thread I have started or entered myself by 'making a comment' and 
  proclaiming that to not 
  be entering a discussion. But of course that is exactly how you enter a 
  discussion, by making 
  a comment.
 

 If anybody ever thought Xeno had any integrity, the above should change their 
minds.
 

 



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread Share Long
This morning when I opened Yahoo there was a news story in the top five saying 
that the family was fleeing the country! Now when I went to find that story, 
it's gone!





On Friday, November 29, 2013 6:24 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
  
The land of the free. Free to die because of religious beliefs? Fair enough. 
Plenty of belief systems refuse blood transfusions. I've known TMers who say 
they would refuse any sort of transplant because they don't want someone else's 
karma. In fact, I've known people who died because they chose alternative 
healthcare. Alternative to things that work it would seem.

This is why I say natural selection works on the religious too. Not cruel at 
all, or at least no crueller than it is for you and me. Maybe if I'd read 
article


That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:


That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:


Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the irony 
in that and stop being so silly. 



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:


But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to me 
that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if that 
is their religious preference to do so.


http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html



RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
Dr. Dumbass wrote:   I like Curtis, but I found him to be emotionally 
duplicitous - that
   means acting one way, while feeling another. Barry remarked:
 
  Whereas you felt completely comfortable with Robin's overuse 
  (combined with bad writing) of irony, the very definition of 
  which is saying one thing and meaning another. I understand. :-)
 
Irony is designed to be understood as such, and most people know it when they 
see it. But Barry has always had a hard time recognizing irony, which is one 
big reason why Robin made him so uncomfortable--he could never be sure when 
Robin was being ironic.
 

 Curtis, in stark contrast, went to considerable lengths to hide his emotional 
duplicity. Barry's never been good at detecting that either, which is why he 
describes Curtis as WYSIWYG.
 

 

 




[FairfieldLife] Good Endings

2013-11-29 Thread TurquoiseB
Walking my dog along the Leiden canals just now, I found myself with a
song running through my head. It was Lissie's Everywhere I Go, which I
would never have heard of (let alone heard) if Joss Whedon hadn't used
it in the last scene of Dollhouse. That was a perfect song, inserted
at just the right part of a Perfect Ending.

Not everything has a Good Ending. Especially in the world of television,
where the vagaries and egos of networks and production companies often
cut a TV series too short, and without giving proper notice. Proper
notice, in my lexicon, means telling the people who are creating the TV
show week by week that you're cancelling their asses *several weeks
before you do it*. That gives them a chance to come up with a Good
Ending.

And yet, even proper notice can't save a series that has already
jumped the shark, as we saw with the recent ending of Dexter. That was
SO not a Good Ending, even though they had a whole year to prepare for
it.

Joss Whedon's Firefly was not given proper notice. They were on the
air one week with four episodes already in the can and ready to be shown
and Fox just pulled the plug on them. They didn't even air the
not-yet-seen episodes. Just Bam!...bullet in the head. *Not* a Good
Ending.

And it *felt* like that to the fans, as well. They hit the roof and hit
the Internet, and stirred up enough outrage and enough chatter that Joss
was able to make a full-length movie followup to his cancelled series,
called Serenity. And, knowing that in all likelihood he was never
going to get another shot at the Firefly 'Verse again, he pulled out all
the stops and came up not only with a Good Ending, but a Perfect Ending.

It bookended perfectly with the history of the entire series. At the
end of the first episode of Firefly, Mal is sitting in the control
room of Serenity, saying to one of his crew, That was a good day. The
crew member reminds Mal that he was shot, several members of his crew
are wounded, and that they barely escaped with their lives. Mal says
something like, We're still flying. That's a good day.

At the end of Serenity, Mal is sitting in the control room with
another of his crew, one who in this case can even read minds:

Capt. Malcolm Reynolds: But it ain't all buttons and charts, little
albatross. You know what the first rule of flying is? Well, I suppose
you do, since you already know what I'm about to say.

River Tam: I do. But I like to hear you say it.

Capt. Malcolm Reynolds: Love. You can learn all the math in the 'Verse,
but you take a boat in the air that you don't love, she'll shake you off
just as sure as the turning of the worlds. Love keeps her in the air
when she oughta fall down, tells you she's hurtin' 'fore she keens.
Makes her a home.

River Tam: Storm's getting worse.

Capt. Malcolm Reynolds: We'll pass through it soon enough.

All these episodes on, and Mal and his crew are still flying. Good
Ending.

The recent culmination of Breaking Bad pretty much sets the bar for
how high TV creators can jump when ending their series. It was the
definition of not only Good Ending, but Perfect Ending.

Another TV show I thought had a Perfect Ending was (again) Joss Whedon's
Dollhouse. The show was cancelled halfway through its second season,
but this time Fox gave him the time to create a Good Ending. In my
opinion, Joss turned that into an opportunity to create a Perfect
Ending. I think that the last episode of Dollhouse (if you've seen all
the other episodes) is as classic an example of the Perfect Ending as
the last episode of Breaking Bad (same caveat about having seen all
that led up to it).

If you *did* watch all the episodes of Dollhouse, and enjoyed them,
then this song is permanently etched in your mind. So much so that it
occasionally plays in your head spontaneously from time to time, as it
just did on my walk. If you didn't, it's just a song.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JLm1suqb-6g
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JLm1suqb-6g




Re: [FairfieldLife] 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread TurquoiseB
Ah, the patented Steinian Nitpick Lie.  :-)

Now Judy's going to pretend that 41 instances of I don't lie don't add
up to a declaration of I never lie.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/msearch?date=anyDM=\
DD=DY=DM2=DD2=DY2=AM=containsAT=a\
uthfriendSM=containsST=MM=containsMT=%22I+don%27t+lie%22charset=UTF\
-8
 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/msearch?date=anyDM=---\
-DD=DY=DM2=DD2=DY2=AM=containsAT=\
authfriendSM=containsST=MM=containsMT=%22I+don%27t+lie%22charset=UT\
F-8

  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,  Judy Stein wrote:

  Barry wrote:
   
   Which of the people you have claimed were phonies, for
  instance, have ever said something as stupid
   and as *obviously* untrue as I never lie?

  YOU. Many times, pretending to quote me.

   YOU have said this, many times,

  I can't find one single instance in the archives of my ever having
said those words here.

  Can you?






RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
Share blurted:
 

  This morning when I opened Yahoo there was a news story in the top five 
  saying that the 
  family was fleeing the country! Now when I went to find that story, it's 
  gone!
 

 Wow!! That's amazing!!
 

 You mean this story that was on Good Morning America this morning?
 

 
http://gma.yahoo.com/gap-chemo-makes-amish-girls-leukemia-more-difficult-232308511--abc-news-health.html
 
http://gma.yahoo.com/gap-chemo-makes-amish-girls-leukemia-more-difficult-232308511--abc-news-health.html

 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 6:24 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:

 
   The land of the free. Free to die because of religious beliefs? Fair enough. 
Plenty of belief systems refuse blood transfusions. I've known TMers who say 
they would refuse any sort of transplant because they don't want someone else's 
karma. In fact, I've known people who died because they chose alternative 
healthcare. Alternative to things that work it would seem.
 

 This is why I say natural selection works on the religious too. Not cruel at 
all, or at least no crueller than it is for you and me. Maybe if I'd read 
article
 

 

 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the irony 
in that and stop being so silly. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:

 But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to me 
that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if that is 
their religious preference to do so. 

 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html
 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html








 
 

 
 




 
 
 
 






RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread feste37
Share, make Google your friend!  Missed you at the Thanksgiving dinner 
yesterday.

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

 This morning when I opened Yahoo there was a news story in the top five saying 
that the family was fleeing the country! Now when I went to find that story, 
it's gone!
 

 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 6:24 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
   The land of the free. Free to die because of religious beliefs? Fair enough. 
Plenty of belief systems refuse blood transfusions. I've known TMers who say 
they would refuse any sort of transplant because they don't want someone else's 
karma. In fact, I've known people who died because they chose alternative 
healthcare. Alternative to things that work it would seem.
 

 This is why I say natural selection works on the religious too. Not cruel at 
all, or at least no crueller than it is for you and me. Maybe if I'd read 
article
 

 

 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the irony 
in that and stop being so silly. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:

 But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to me 
that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if that is 
their religious preference to do so. 

 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html
 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html








 
 

 
 




 
 
 
 






RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread doctordumbass
No big deal - You, however, strike me as a lot more emotionally honest, than 
Curtis. Weird, huh? Seriously, you sometimes express yourself in a hostile and 
negative way, and own it, but ol' Curt, blinded with his stories of who he was, 
was just so gosh darned folksy jokesy, until his shit leaked out sideways, that 
I found him too weird to interact with, after awhile.

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 
doctordumbass@... wrote:
 
  I like Curtis, but I found him to be emotionally duplicitous - that
  means acting one way, while feeling another.
 
 Whereas you felt completely comfortable with Robin's overuse
 (combined with bad writing) of irony, the very definition of
 which is saying one thing and meaning another. I understand. :-)
 
  Its a gut thing, Barry, so I cannot explain it further. Except to
  say that Curtis is not unique in that regard, and I show no prejudice,
  personally, towards him, as I avoid all of those who are ignorant of
  their true natures, equally.
 
 Since that includes pretty much everyone who doesn't claim
 to be as enlightened as you are, I think it's noble of you to
 have anything to do with us at all.
 
 That was irony, just in case your gut thing didn't detect it. :-)
 
 We may agree to disagree about Curtis if you like. I found him
 to be one of the *most* WSIWYG people I've ever encountered.
 I miss *his* honesty here, because it presented such a contrast
 to those who put on such a show of being honest for their
 perceived audience, but are duplicitous to the core. Maybe
 that's why they hounded him until he didn't feel it was worth
 his time to participate here any more.
 
  ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 
  turquoiseb@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 
  wrote:
  
   Richard,
  
   A well poisoner. Nice observation, including all the rest you wrote.
 In post 363322 perhaps there is a clue. In a response to Share
 authfriend wrote:
  
   P.S.: You're quite right about my childhood, albeit not in the way
 you hope. I had a happy, stress-free childhood with two parents who
 loved me deeply and steadfastly. They passed on their own devotion to
 authenticity and loathing of phoniness to me.
  
   Whatever she feels is non authentic gets a dose of loathing, i.e., a
 feeling of intense dislike or disgust; hatred (that is the definition of
 the word). If you want to change the world, loathing is not the emotion
 I would want to operate from; it is the antithesis of acceptance, which
 is what spirituality develops (sometimes anyway). Loathing is the
 emotion you want to instill if you want to pass on intolerance. It is a
 blinding emotion.
 
 
  In the talk on how to detect and deal with liars I viewed as part of
 an internal IBM education program, the speaker pointed out one
 particular facial expression that one should *always* be wary of. He
 showed a photo of Dick Cheney, wearing a snarl characterized by one side
 of his mouth raised higher than the other and said, This is *contempt*.
 Whenever you see it, when in a business meeting, *don't* sign the
 contract, and instead just get up and leave the room. That is what the
 other person really thinks of you, and it's never going to change.
 
 
 
 
  The aspect of this whole routine that always amazes me when someone
 trots out the supposedly derogatory buzzphrase phony is that the
 person using this term never seems to be able to define what the
 target of their contempt is being a phony AT. The belief at the heart
 of hurling the epithet phony is that the person they are hurling it at
 is *pretending* to be something that they're not.
 
  I suggest that this is pure projection, coming in almost every case
 from people whose *whole lives* are about pretending to be something
 they're not. Such people really *cannot comprehend* other people who
 have no need to do this, so they constantly project their own insecure
 need to project an image onto those they dislike, incorrectly (in many
 cases) assuming that their contempt-objects have such a need as well.
 
  The classic example of this, of course, is Judy trying to deal with
 someone like Curtis. In my opinion, there have been no posters on this
 forum more comfortable with just being what they are than Curtis. I
 don't think I ever saw him pretend to be anything other than what he
 was...the sum state of his life, all that had led up to him being who
 and what he was, in that moment. But to Judy, he was a phony.
 
  A phony WHAT, Judy? *What* exactly did you believe that Curtis was
 trying to pretend to be? *What* exactly do you think that Share is
 trying to be, or that I am trying to be when you call us phonies?
 *Why* do you think that someone would ever have the need to try to
 project an image and convince other people to believe it? Could it
 possibly be because that's 

RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread doctordumbass
I have used the Google. - former President G. W. Bush
  
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 Share, make Google your friend!  Missed you at the Thanksgiving dinner 
yesterday.

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

 This morning when I opened Yahoo there was a news story in the top five saying 
that the family was fleeing the country! Now when I went to find that story, 
it's gone!
 

 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 6:24 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
   The land of the free. Free to die because of religious beliefs? Fair enough. 
Plenty of belief systems refuse blood transfusions. I've known TMers who say 
they would refuse any sort of transplant because they don't want someone else's 
karma. In fact, I've known people who died because they chose alternative 
healthcare. Alternative to things that work it would seem.
 

 This is why I say natural selection works on the religious too. Not cruel at 
all, or at least no crueller than it is for you and me. Maybe if I'd read 
article
 

 

 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the irony 
in that and stop being so silly. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:

 But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to me 
that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if that is 
their religious preference to do so. 

 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html
 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html








 
 

 
 




 
 
 
 








RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
Actually, having been caught lying about what I've said, Barry is now 
pretending it wasn't the never that had him so exercised:
 
Researchers into lying would find this claim rather suspect, because in their 
studies they've never found a single individual who *never* lies.
 

 Science tells
us that human beings tell on the average 25 lies 
a day. A self-honest person can look at themselves
and realize that they tell lies, too, if only to
themselves. Only an idiot would claim, 'I never 
lie.'

  Ah, the patented Steinian Nitpick Lie.  :-)
 

 Uh-huh. If it were just a nitpick, how come Barry has for years been so 
careful to make it never lie every time he wants to attack me for...uh...not 
lying?
 
 Now Judy's going to pretend that 41 instances of I don't lie don't add up 
 to a declaration of I never lie.
 

 Well, don't certainly doesn't have the same appeal as never for Barry. 
There must be a reason why he always misquotes me as saying never. Could it 
be that it's not quite so easy to accuse me of lying when I say I don't lie 
as it would be if I had said I never lie?
 

 Could it be that I don't lie and I never lie aren't actually equivalent, 
and Barry is well aware of it?
 

 The fun thing is that while there are innumerable documented instances in the 
archives of Barry lying, there aren't any of me lying.
 

 

 

 

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/msearch?date=anyDM=DD=DY=DM2=DD2=DY2=AM=containsAT=authfriendSM=containsST=MM=containsMT=%22I+don%27t+lie%22charset=UTF-8
 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/msearch?date=anyDM=DD=DY=DM2=DD2=DY2=AM=containsAT=authfriendSM=containsST=MM=containsMT=%22I+don%27t+lie%22charset=UTF-8

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Judy Stein wrote:
 
  Barry wrote: 
 
  Which of the people you have claimed were phonies, for 
  instance, have ever said something as stupid 
  and as *obviously* untrue as I never lie? 
 
 YOU. Many times, pretending to quote me. 
 
  YOU have said this, many times, 
 
 I can't find one single instance in the archives of my ever having said those 
 words here. 
 
 Can you?



 



Re: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread Share Long
feste, I was doing a moveable feast yesterday! Thanksgiving lunch with my Mom 
and sister and her family then dinner with my half sister, my Dad and step Mom 
and that family. Today I am recuperating (-:
After dinner we played a fun board game called Mexican Train Wreck. It's kind 
of a complicated dominoes that can be played by up to 7 people. Hope you all 
had a great time. Was CO there and in fine fettle?





On Friday, November 29, 2013 9:38 AM, feste37 no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
 
  
Share, make Google your friend!  Missed you at the Thanksgiving dinner 
yesterday.



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:


This morning when I opened Yahoo there was a news story in the top five saying 
that the family was fleeing the country! Now when I went to find that story, 
it's gone!





On Friday, November 29, 2013 6:24 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
  
The land of the free. Free to die because of religious beliefs? Fair enough. 
Plenty of belief systems refuse blood transfusions. I've known TMers who say 
they would refuse any sort of transplant because they don't want someone else's 
karma. In fact, I've known people who died because they chose alternative 
healthcare. Alternative to things that work it would seem.

This is why I say natural selection works on the religious too. Not cruel at 
all, or at least no crueller than it is for you and me. Maybe if I'd read 
article


That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:


That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:


Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the 
irony in that and stop being so silly. 



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:


But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to me 
that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if that 
is their religious preference to do so.


http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html





[FairfieldLife] Re: 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB  wrote:

 Ah, the patented Steinian Nitpick Lie.  :-)

 Now Judy's going to pretend that 41 instances of I don't lie don't
add
 up to a declaration of I never lie.


http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/msearch?date=anyDM=\
DD=DY=DM2=DD2=DY2=AM=containsAT=a\
uthfriendSM=containsST=MM=containsMT=%22I+don%27t+lie%22charset=UTF\
-8
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/msearch?date=anyDM=---\
-DD=DY=DM2=DD2=DY2=AM=containsAT=\
authfriendSM=containsST=MM=containsMT=%22I+don%27t+lie%22charset=UT\
F-8

Since I belatedly realized that this search is done in the old Yahoo
interface and that possibly not everyone can see it, here are a few
highlights:

Oct 5, 2013, in message #359820
I don't lie or twist or reshuffle.

Aug 13, 2013, in message #353409
I'm not the Queen of anything, but as you know, Nabby, I don't lie

Aug 13, 2013, in message #353336
Plus which, they know I don't lie, and they know you *do* lie.

Feb 12, 2013, in message #335232
Um, no, it's because they know I don't lie.

Jan 26, 2013, in message #333579
I don't lie, and I deny only what is not true.

Mar 12, 2012, in message #306217
Oops, no, Raunchy and I don't lie.

Mar 1, 2012, in message #305356
There are no lies in the paragraph. I sometimes make mistakes, but I
don't lie.

Jan 9, 2012, in message #301381
I'm tough, but I'm pretty fair; I don't lie; I usually check my facts;
and I rarely make gratuitous attacks. Nor do I dump nastily on posters
who respectfully and sincerely say things I don't agree with.

Oct 31, 2011, in message #293675
Vaj has never caught me in a lie, for the simple reason that I don't
lie.

Jul 12, 2011, in message #282357
Since Judy doesn't lie, it's not possible for her to be lying *again*.
Vaj knows I don't lie.

Apr 11, 2011, in message #274245
Whatever my other faults may be, I don't lie.

Oct 31, 2010, in message #260625
I don't lie. I'm not a hypocrite.

Oct 11, 2010, in message #259089
As you and Vaj well know, I don't lie.

Jan 26, 2010, in message #239742
I don't lie about Barry. It's his lies that create the battle.

Jan 3, 2009, in message #203765
In contrast, I don't lie, and I do my damndest to be fair.

Jan 3, 2009, in message #203746
Vaj knows I don't lie, so his comment above is itself a lie.

Aug 17, 2008, in message #187141
Funny thing is, nobody has ever caught me in a lie in any Internet
forum. You know why? It's because there isn't anything to catch. I don't
lie.

Mar 15, 2008, in message #170153
However, I'm not duplicitous, mendacious, dishonest, or disingenuous.
And I don't lie, either.

Dec 3, 2007, in message #156651
As Vaj knows, I don't lie. I haven't lied before, and I wasn't lying
here.

Sep 25, 2007, in message #149814
Nope, I don't lie, Vaj. Don't project.

May 22, 2006, in message #98982
BTW, I don't lie, nor do I rewrite history.



   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,  Judy Stein wrote:
 
   Barry wrote:

Which of the people you have claimed were phonies, for
   instance, have ever said something as stupid
and as *obviously* untrue as I never lie?
 
   YOU. Many times, pretending to quote me.
 
YOU have said this, many times,
 
   I can't find one single instance in the archives of my ever having
 said those words here.
 
   Can you?
 




RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: A Meditator#39;s Thanksgiving

2013-11-29 Thread dhamiltony2k5
 Thanks Doc for your diagnosis too. I concur. Yep, these intellectual guys work 
way too hard at something that is much simpler as It is. It is, as is Simplest 
state of Being, with a nose in the human life.  It is fabulous in reality.  
They are so close and so knowledgeable in ways you can feel they just should 
come back, get their Dome badge updated, sit up and really go for It and git 
along for the finish line. Like, what else are they dooing? I sense Annex 
should come back; like he so wants it, should get on back on faculty again and 
really go for It some more. Attend to It and sit more intently with It more. Is 
an amazing benefit of Being on MUM faculty for instance, that you get housing, 
meals, stipend, and the time actually structured to the work day to do long 
meditation and Be with the Knowledge. It is incredible. It is way better than 
say, just Federal prison where you just get three squares and some clothes to 
wear, or just working out in the world. And, hey there are more graduate 
degrees that can be taken too as a means to Be here. It is a great prescription 
for finishing a life on earth while you have it. Life is so pitiful and 
pitiable otherwise. I'd say, Git on with It. It is time for old meditators who 
do know better to Be here now and git it done,
 -Buck in the Dome 
 
 
 Like what are people waiting for!
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, mdixon.6569@... wrote:

 Interesting. I used to have a lot of visual and auditory experiences in 
meditation and they always left me confused. I would come out of meditation and 
deny what I had just *seen* or *heard* until I realized it wasn't a matter of 
*seeing* or *hearing*, it was a matter of *Being*. I didn't *see* it because I 
*was* it. *I* was the whole experience. M used to say, Unity, it it's early 
days, can be very confusing. Never understood what he meant at the time, then 
it dawned on me.
 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 5:51 AM, anartaxius@... anartaxius@... wrote:
 
   There is the experience of wholeness. You are not 'in it', the experience is 
it; there is nothing attached to it. The mind can play the game of trying to 
understand it with its habit of conditional thinking but ultimately it just has 
to surrender to the fact that that doesn't work. The unity does not have to do 
anything to hold together; it is not like a ball of caramel popcorn stuck 
together that can come apart. There is what is described as unity, but there is 
no one in it.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 OK - Thank you for revealing your lack of experience with GC. Frankly, it 
didn't sound to me, as if you knew what you were talking about, when you first 
brought it up. I am also curious why you think you are in unity. It sounds 
like your unity has a lot of conditions attached to it, in order to remain 
unified.  

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anartaxius@... wrote:

 The thought popped into my head, and then I put to the keyboard and you read 
it. As basically an atheist, I seemed to have mostly done an end run around GC, 
it had no conceptual material to work with, as GC, as M explained it, derives 
its material from what one's beliefs are in regard to spiritual traditions etc. 
Still this state is described in various ways. For example the philosopher 
Plotinus said nous (pure being) falls in love and is simplified into a happy 
fullness. 
 

 I remember writing some things long ago that from an emotional point of view 
correspond with what Buck is writing now, but I did not express it in religious 
terms. Benchmarks are guide posts but are not rigid time and place dependent 
markers, and you might experience something of unity even when you are barely 
transcending as a new meditator, or if you are one of those rare individuals 
like Ekhart Tolle or Krishnamurti, you might just slip into unity without any 
preliminaries. Unity throws you off the path, the path dies, you are on your 
own, and there is no way to doubt it, if it is clear enough. By on your own, I 
mean there isn't anything else, even though you can refer to your body as 'me' 
and so forth. Everything that went before is seen through as having been as a 
fraud. 
 

 Eventually you can look at it any way you like, as wholeness, as unity, as 
duality. Everything that was there before is still there except the 
relationship of thought with experience undergoes a profound shift, their roles 
are reversed so to speak, thought becoming secondary. Those words, duality, 
unity are not what is experienced, they are just ways you try to convey the 
potential of that experience to someone else. You cannot give it to them 
because they have it in spades already. They just do not realise what it can be 
for them so you try to light a fire under them to get them moving in the proper 
direction, which is not a direction at all. Basically you want their mind to 
completely stop, and eventually recognize what the significance of that 

Re: [FairfieldLife] What I Did Today

2013-11-29 Thread Share Long
Richard, hope you all had a good Thanksgiving. Mom refuses to go near a 
shopping area today so we won't be going to Whole Foods which is located in 
Annapolis Town Center featuring Target and lots of upscale clothing stores like 
Brook Bros. and Anthropologie. I'll be ready for the looney bin if we stay in 
all day so I'm hoping to lure her to CVS or Walgreens (-:





On Wednesday, November 27, 2013 5:29 PM, Richard Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
 
  
Yesterday we also went to Whole Foods and had a nice salad. They have got to 
have the very best salad bar in the whole town!





On Wed, Nov 27, 2013 at 9:25 AM, Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote:

 
  
Richard, yesterday I went to Coldwater Creek in Annapolis Town Center. I got 
my Mom a tunic length blouse for her birthday. It's a beautiful paisley print 
in black on white. But it's a little too small so we'll take it back today 
after lunch. I'm taking her and my sister to Brio's for lunch, also in 
Annapolis Town Center. People are calling my Mom this morning to wish her 
Happy Birthday. She's 83 and still zips around pretty well. Actually her foot 
can be a little heavy on the pedal but I just close my eyes LOL!







On Tuesday, November 26, 2013 6:47 PM, Richard Williams pundits...@gmail.com 
wrote:
 
  
Today we went back to this place:







On Tue, Nov 19, 2013 at 9:51 PM, Richard Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote:

My Whole Foods has lots of dried fruit and nuts:







On Tue, Nov 19, 2013 at 9:39 PM, Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote:

 
  
Soon, Richard, I'll be going to the Whole Foods in Annapolis. They have TWO 
kinds of quinoa concoctions at the salad bar. How many different kinds of 
quinoa salad does your Whole Foods have?
PS I LOVE these photos of the different places you visit or drive by!







On Tuesday, November 19, 2013 9:25 PM, Richard Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
 
  
Tonight we went to this place:





On Tue, Nov 19, 2013 at 7:11 PM, Richard Williams pundits...@gmail.com 
wrote:

Today I drove by this place:







On Mon, Nov 18, 2013 at 12:02 PM, Richard Williams pundits...@gmail.com 
wrote:

This morning I went to this place:







On Sun, Nov 17, 2013 at 7:57 PM, Richard Williams pundits...@gmail.com 
wrote:

On  the way home from the store I visited this place:








On Sun, Nov 17, 2013 at 3:03 PM, Richard Williams pundits...@gmail.com 
wrote:

There;s a rock and roll running marathon here today and there having a 
Formula Grand Prix race up in Austin.


But, I went to this place today:









On Sat, Nov 16, 2013 at 6:07 PM, Richard Williams pundits...@gmail.com 
wrote:

Today I went by this place. What are those people all lined up for, 
waiting for days?







On Fri, Nov 15, 2013 at 5:16 PM, Richard Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:

Later today I drove past this place:







On Fri, Nov 15, 2013 at 4:21 PM, Bhairitu noozg...@sbcglobal.net 
wrote:

 
  
There's an app for this:
https://twitter.com/

I'm sure everyone on FFL will sign up for your tweets.


On 11/15/2013 12:07 PM, Richard Williams wrote:

  
Alright, I'm back on the discussion board; sorry for the delay but I 
had to go here:: 





















[FairfieldLife] 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread TurquoiseB
That's eight zeros above, not .  is what you say
when you learn that the launch codes to much of America's nuclear
arsenal were set to for many years during the Cold War to eight zeros.
Makes you feel all warm and comfy knowing that, doesn't it?  :-)

http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-\
si-1473483587
http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman\
-si-1473483587

So to recap, for around 20 years, the Strategic Air Command went out of
their way to make launching a nuclear missile as easy, and quick, as 
possible.





Re: [FairfieldLife] Thanksgiving California Style

2013-11-29 Thread Share Long
noozguru, that world's slowest Starbuck's made me smile. But nice to have a 
sunny day. Curious what all the lemons were for! When I first arrived in 
Annapolis it rained cats and dogs were 2 days straight and the traffic here is 
horrendous anyway. Adventures in the big, bad city (-:





On Thursday, November 28, 2013 1:00 PM, bhairitu noozg...@sbcglobal.net wrote:
 
  
So much for rain today (which was forecast).  I was also fairly overdressed to 
sit out on this patio.  I had not planned to stop at the world's slowest 
Starbucks but they did not appear that busy from the parking lot.  I had gone 
to the store to pick up some supplies for hors d'oeuvres and decided to treat 
myself.  And wouldn't you know it about as soon as I wanted to take a picture 
someone comes out the door.  And after I got back I picked large bunch of 
lemons to take to my nephew's who is hosting today. 

Happy Turkey (or tofurky) Day!




Re: [FairfieldLife] 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread Share Long
Could we say the inmates have taken over the asylum?!





On Friday, November 29, 2013 10:41 AM, TurquoiseB turquoi...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
That's eight zeros above, not .  is what you say when you 
learn that the launch codes to much of America's nuclear arsenal were set to 
for many years during the Cold War to eight zeros. Makes you feel all warm and 
comfy knowing that, doesn't it?  :-)

http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 

So to recap, for around 20 years, the Strategic Air Command went out of 
their way to make launching a nuclear missile as easy, and quick, as 
possible.





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Thanksgiving - Pope Francis tells the truth about unbridled capitalism

2013-11-29 Thread Share Long
Oy, Buck, I prefer to think of myself as a woman rather than a lady! Lady 
connotes, well never mind what it connotes. I am woman, hear me roar.





On Wednesday, November 27, 2013 10:42 PM, dhamiltony...@yahoo.com 
dhamiltony...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
We have 'ladies' in the TM movement.  


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:


Interview:  Sister Louise Akers Challenges the Church Patriarchy - Sun Magazine

http://thesunmagazine.org/issues/455/sisterhood 



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:


Absolutely!  What a clever idea!  Ah ha ha...yes, yes, yes...this will make 
good dinner conversation for you.  



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck wrote:


CHAPTER
ONE
 THE
MOVEMENT’S MISSIONARY TRANSFORMATION




CHAPTER
ONE
THE
Movement’S MISSIONARY TRANSFORMATION [19]
I. A
Movement WHICH GOES FORTH [20-24]
Taking
the first step, being involved and supportive, bearing fruit and
rejoicing [24]
II. PASTORAL
ACTIVITY AND CONVERSION [25-33]
An
ecclesial renewal which cannot be deferred [27-33]
III. FROM
THE HEART OF THE GOSPEL [34-39]
IV. A
MISSION EMBODIED WITHIN HUMAN LIMITS [40-45]
V. A
MOTHER WITH AN OPEN HEART [46-49]


http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/francesco/apost_exhortations/documents/papa-francesco_esortazione-ap_20131124_evangelii-gaudium_en.html#No_to_an_economy_of_exclusion
 


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck wrote:


His Holiness Nader Ram might take
some pages for our TM movement from the Pope Frances play book.  Yep,
on becoming the universal movement of the Unified Field.  The Popular Spiritual 
Liberation Front.
Like chapter I reads, 



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:


I like this guy - He tells the truth, straight up. 

Even as the American Dream becomes less obtainable for most here, he points 
out, plainly, that the rest of the world, is suffering, far more than we do 
in the West; wars are waged simply for economic gain, rampant consumerism 
is dehumanizing everyone, and 'trickle down economics' is a naive idea, at 
best, and clearly does not work. 


http://www.businessinsider.com/the-pope-on-the-financial-system-inequality-money-2013-11


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: A Meditator#39;s Thanksgiving

2013-11-29 Thread Share Long
Doc, our mutual buddy on Batgap is convinced that some people hit Unity first 
and afterwards experience GC. I don't get it but there you are!

On Fri, 11/29/13, doctordumb...@rocketmail.com doctordumb...@rocketmail.com 
wrote:

 Subject: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: A Meditator#39;s 
Thanksgiving
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Date: Friday, November 29, 2013, 4:59 AM
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
   
 
 
 
   
   
   OK - Thank you for revealing your lack of
 experience with GC. Frankly, it didn't sound to me, as
 if you knew what you were talking about, when you first
 brought it up. I am also curious why you think you are
 in unity. It sounds like your unity has a lot of
 conditions attached to it, in order to remain unified. 
 
  
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anartaxius@...
 wrote:
 
 The thought
 popped into my head, and then I put to the keyboard and you
 read it. As basically an atheist, I seemed to have mostly
 done an end run around GC, it had no conceptual material to
 work with, as GC, as M explained it, derives its material
 from what one's beliefs are in regard to spiritual
 traditions etc. Still this state is described in various
 ways. For example the philosopher Plotinus said nous (pure being) falls in
 love and is simplified into a happy fullness. 
 I remember writing
 some things long ago that from an emotional point of view
 correspond with what Buck is writing now, but I did not
 express it in religious terms. Benchmarks are guide posts
 but are not rigid time and place dependent markers, and you
 might experience something of unity even when you are barely
 transcending as a new meditator, or if you are one of those
 rare individuals like Ekhart Tolle or Krishnamurti, you
 might just slip into unity without any preliminaries. Unity
 throws you off the path, the path dies, you are on your own,
 and there is no way to doubt it, if it is clear enough. By
 on your own, I mean there isn't anything else, even
 though you can refer to your body as 'me' and so
 forth. Everything that went before is seen through as having
 been as a fraud. 
 Eventually
 you can look at it any way you like, as wholeness, as unity,
 as duality. Everything that was there before is still there
 except the relationship of thought with experience undergoes
 a profound shift, their roles are reversed so to speak,
 thought becoming secondary. Those words, duality, unity are
 not what is experienced, they are just ways you try to
 convey the potential of that experience to someone else. You
 cannot give it to them because they have it in spades
 already. They just do not realise what it can be for them so
 you try to light a fire under them to get them moving in the
 proper direction, which is not a direction at all. Basically
 you want their mind to completely stop, and eventually
 recognize what the significance of that is. There are things
 people can learn to do that seems to increase the
 probability that this will happen, like meditation.
 Buck has been
 expressing himself dualistically, so I was rubbing the grain
 the other way. So if you are in unity, and someone smashes
 an ice cream cone in your face, are you going to assume the
 universe has no parts? 
 
  ---In
 FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
 no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
 
 Hi,
 Your post brought up a few questions for me:
 What gives you the idea that God Consciousness is the
 *last* stage of delusion? What does that even mean, and how
 would you know? Are you willing to share your deluded
 experiences of GC with me?
 
 Also,
 if Buck is the unified field, aren't you looking to him,
 and therefore, looking to it, when addressing him?Why
 can't duality occur within the wholeness of Unity,
 according to you?
 
 Thx(rhymes
 with Spx)
 
 
  
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anartaxius@...
 wrote:
 
 This
 is redundant Buck. You are the unified field, you
 cannot look to it. Are you by any chance in that last stage
 of delusion known as GC? 
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
 dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:
 
 My
 spirit looks to the Unified Field alone,
 My rock and refuge is Its
 throne.
 In all my fears, in all my straits, 
 My soul on
 Its salvation waits.
 Trust It, ye meditators, in all your
 ways,
 Pour out your hearts before Its face;
 When helpers fail
 and foes invade,
 the
 Unified Field is our all-sufficient aid.  
 
 
 Paraphrased excerpt from
 Psalm 62 by Isaac Watts:
 http://www.ccel.org/ccel/watts/psalmshymns.Ps.131.html 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
   
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


[FairfieldLife] RE: Re: 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
Nobody was challenging your I don't lie search, Barry. What did you think you 
had to prove? That's pretty funny. Getting a little nervous, are ya?
 

 BTW, I pointed out a day or so ago that I rarely tout my own honesty (contrary 
to the claims of some here) unless someone has first called it in question. 
These examples all fall right in that category, I believe. And interestingly 
enough, the questioning (accusations, really) in most of these cases came from 
folks I had previously caught lying (e.g., Barry, navashok, Curtis, Vaj, 
Nabby). 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB wrote:
 
 Ah, the patented Steinian Nitpick Lie. :-)
 
 Now Judy's going to pretend that 41 instances of I don't lie don't add
 up to a declaration of I never lie.
 
 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/msearch?date=anyDM=DD=DY=DM2=DD2=DY2=AM=containsAT=authfriendSM=containsST=MM=containsMT=%22I+don%27t+lie%22charset=UTF-8
  
 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/msearch?date=anyDM=DD=DY=DM2=DD2=DY2=AM=containsAT=authfriendSM=containsST=MM=containsMT=%22I+don%27t+lie%22charset=UTF-8
  

 Since I belatedly realized that this search is done in the old Yahoo interface 
and that possibly not everyone can see it, here are a few highlights:

Oct 5, 2013, in message #359820
I don't lie or twist or reshuffle.

Aug 13, 2013, in message #353409
I'm not the Queen of anything, but as you know, Nabby, I don't lie

Aug 13, 2013, in message #353336
Plus which, they know I don't lie, and they know you *do* lie.

Feb 12, 2013, in message #335232 
Um, no, it's because they know I don't lie.

Jan 26, 2013, in message #333579
I don't lie, and I deny only what is not true.

Mar 12, 2012, in message #306217
Oops, no, Raunchy and I don't lie.

Mar 1, 2012, in message #305356
There are no lies in the paragraph. I sometimes make mistakes, but I don't 
lie.

Jan 9, 2012, in message #301381
I'm tough, but I'm pretty fair; I don't lie; I usually check my facts; and I 
rarely make gratuitous attacks. Nor do I dump nastily on posters who 
respectfully and sincerely say things I don't agree with.

Oct 31, 2011, in message #293675
Vaj has never caught me in a lie, for the simple reason that I don't lie.

Jul 12, 2011, in message #282357
Since Judy doesn't lie, it's not possible for her to be lying *again*. Vaj 
knows I don't lie.

Apr 11, 2011, in message #274245
Whatever my other faults may be, I don't lie.

Oct 31, 2010, in message #260625
I don't lie. I'm not a hypocrite.

Oct 11, 2010, in message #259089
As you and Vaj well know, I don't lie.

Jan 26, 2010, in message #239742
I don't lie about Barry. It's his lies that create the battle.

Jan 3, 2009, in message #203765
In contrast, I don't lie, and I do my damndest to be fair.

Jan 3, 2009, in message #203746
Vaj knows I don't lie, so his comment above is itself a lie.

Aug 17, 2008, in message #187141
Funny thing is, nobody has ever caught me in a lie in any Internet forum. You 
know why? It's because there isn't anything to catch. I don't lie.

Mar 15, 2008, in message #170153
However, I'm not duplicitous, mendacious, dishonest, or disingenuous. And I 
don't lie, either.

Dec 3, 2007, in message #156651
As Vaj knows, I don't lie. I haven't lied before, and I wasn't lying here.

Sep 25, 2007, in message #149814
Nope, I don't lie, Vaj. Don't project.

May 22, 2006, in message #98982
BTW, I don't lie, nor do I rewrite history.



  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Judy Stein wrote:
 
   Barry wrote:
  
   Which of the people you have claimed were phonies, for
   instance, have ever said something as stupid
   and as *obviously* untrue as I never lie?
 
  YOU. Many times, pretending to quote me.
 
   YOU have said this, many times,
 
  I can't find one single instance in the archives of my ever having
 said those words here.
 
  Can you?
 

 



RE: Re: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread feste37
Yes, CO was there and was her usual self. That woman has more empathy, for a 
wider range of people, than anyone I have ever known. It's completely unforced, 
like breathing. Quite remarkable. I wish I had some of it.   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

 feste, I was doing a moveable feast yesterday! Thanksgiving lunch with my Mom 
and sister and her family then dinner with my half sister, my Dad and step Mom 
and that family. Today I am recuperating (-:
After dinner we played a fun board game called Mexican Train Wreck. It's kind 
of a complicated dominoes that can be played by up to 7 people. Hope you all 
had a great time. Was CO there and in fine fettle?
 

 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 9:38 AM, feste37 no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
 
   Share, make Google your friend!  Missed you at the Thanksgiving dinner 
yesterday.

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

 This morning when I opened Yahoo there was a news story in the top five saying 
that the family was fleeing the country! Now when I went to find that story, 
it's gone!
 

 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 6:24 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
   The land of the free. Free to die because of religious beliefs? Fair enough. 
Plenty of belief systems refuse blood transfusions. I've known TMers who say 
they would refuse any sort of transplant because they don't want someone else's 
karma. In fact, I've known people who died because they chose alternative 
healthcare. Alternative to things that work it would seem.
 

 This is why I say natural selection works on the religious too. Not cruel at 
all, or at least no crueller than it is for you and me. Maybe if I'd read 
article
 

 

 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the irony 
in that and stop being so silly. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:

 But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to me 
that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if that is 
their religious preference to do so. 

 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html
 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html








 
 

 
 




 
 
 
 





 
 

 
 




 
 
 
 






Re: [FairfieldLife] What I Did Today

2013-11-29 Thread Bhairitu
Driving back from my nephews from the freeway I could see the lines 
winding around Target.  I avoid stores today. ;-)


On 11/29/2013 08:32 AM, Share Long wrote:
Richard, hope you all had a good Thanksgiving. Mom refuses to go near 
a shopping area today so we won't be going to Whole Foods which is 
located in Annapolis Town Center featuring Target and lots of upscale 
clothing stores like Brook Bros. and Anthropologie. I'll be ready for 
the looney bin if we stay in all day so I'm hoping to lure her to CVS 
or Walgreens (-:








[FairfieldLife] Want a cool cave to meditate in?

2013-11-29 Thread TurquoiseB
It's yours, for less than the cost of becoming a Raja.

http://www.messynessychic.com/2013/11/29/for-sale-hand-carved-cave-cathe\
dral/
http://www.messynessychic.com/2013/11/29/for-sale-hand-carved-cave-cath\
edral/





Re: [FairfieldLife] Thanksgiving California Style

2013-11-29 Thread Share Long
The niece and nephew with young children went elsewhere so it was kind of quiet 
at my sister's. But it was great for interesting conversations. My oldest 
nephew commented on that and I agreed. His daughters are my sister's oldest 
grandchildren. They're 21, 19 and 17. 

 What is smokey egg dip?





On Friday, November 29, 2013 11:09 AM, Bhairitu noozg...@sbcglobal.net wrote:
 
  
I picked the lemons to get them off the tree.  There is a crop of very young 
lemons coming on.  The lemons are very popular the rels make lemon bars and 
lemon pie with them.   We had a small gathering, just my nephew, his wife, two 
sons, his dad and her brother.  My nephew fixed an excellent turkey dinner.  I 
sometimes take smokey egg dip but I didn't get enough forewarning to do that so 
I just picked up a spinach and an artichoke dip at the store as well as some 
sourdough baguettes to cut up and serve with them.  The spinach dip is very 
popular with my two great nephews but the artichoke dip went over well too.  
The chain store does both dips very well so much so I think would be hard to 
make better ones from scratch. 

On 11/29/2013 08:43 AM, Share Long wrote:

  
noozguru, that world's slowest Starbuck's made me smile. But nice to have a 
sunny day. Curious what all the lemons were for! When I first arrived in 
Annapolis it rained cats and dogs were 2 days straight and the traffic here is 
horrendous anyway. Adventures in the big, bad city (-:






On Thursday, November 28, 2013 1:00 PM, bhairitu noozg...@sbcglobal.net 
wrote:
 
  
So much for rain today (which was forecast).  I was also fairly overdressed to 
sit out on this patio.  I had not planned to stop at the world's slowest 
Starbucks but they did not appear that busy from the parking lot.  I had gone 
to the store to pick up some supplies for hors d'oeuvres and decided to treat 
myself.  And wouldn't you know it about as soon as I wanted to take a picture 
someone comes out the door.  And after I got back I picked large bunch of 
lemons to take to my nephew's who is hosting today. 


Happy Turkey (or tofurky) Day!







Re: [FairfieldLife] Thanksgiving California Style

2013-11-29 Thread Bhairitu
Smokey egg dip from the original recipe in the 1963 Better Homes and 
Gardens (where my sister got it):

http://www.thevintagebazaar.com/blog/2011/12/19/vintage-recipes-harvey-wallbanger-smoky-egg-dip/

Nabisco used to make a bacon flavored cracker that went great with it.

On 11/29/2013 09:41 AM, Share Long wrote:
The niece and nephew with young children went elsewhere so it was kind 
of quiet at my sister's. But it was great for interesting 
conversations. My oldest nephew commented on that and I agreed. His 
daughters are my sister's oldest grandchildren. They're 21, 19 and 17.


 What is smokey egg dip?



On Friday, November 29, 2013 11:09 AM, Bhairitu 
noozg...@sbcglobal.net wrote:
I picked the lemons to get them off the tree.  There is a crop of very 
young lemons coming on.  The lemons are very popular the rels make 
lemon bars and lemon pie with them.   We had a small gathering, just 
my nephew, his wife, two sons, his dad and her brother.  My nephew 
fixed an excellent turkey dinner.  I sometimes take smokey egg dip but 
I didn't get enough forewarning to do that so I just picked up a 
spinach and an artichoke dip at the store as well as some sourdough 
baguettes to cut up and serve with them.  The spinach dip is very 
popular with my two great nephews but the artichoke dip went over well 
too.  The chain store does both dips very well so much so I think 
would be hard to make better ones from scratch.


On 11/29/2013 08:43 AM, Share Long wrote:
noozguru, that world's slowest Starbuck's made me smile. But nice to 
have a sunny day. Curious what all the lemons were for! When I first 
arrived in Annapolis it rained cats and dogs were 2 days straight and 
the traffic here is horrendous anyway. Adventures in the big, bad 
city (-:




On Thursday, November 28, 2013 1:00 PM, bhairitu 
noozg...@sbcglobal.net mailto:noozg...@sbcglobal.net wrote:
So much for rain today (which was forecast).  I was also fairly 
overdressed to sit out on this patio.  I had not planned to stop at 
the world's slowest Starbucks but they did not appear that busy 
from the parking lot.  I had gone to the store to pick up some 
supplies for hors d'oeuvres and decided to treat myself.  And 
wouldn't you know it about as soon as I wanted to take a picture 
someone comes out the door.  And after I got back I picked large 
bunch of lemons to take to my nephew's who is hosting today.


Happy Turkey (or tofurky) Day!













[FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread salyavin808
Wow, you could accidentally put a coffee mug on the keyboard and off we all go 
to the next world!
 

 I remember that the systems monitoring Russian missile launches mistakenly 
thought the west was under attack twice with ICBMs actually on the way. And 
Ronald Reagan's escape plane took off twice without him! LOL.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 That's eight zeros above, not .  is what you say when you 
learn that the launch codes to much of America's nuclear arsenal were set to 
for many years during the Cold War to eight zeros. Makes you feel all warm and 
comfy knowing that, doesn't it?  :-)

http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 
http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 

So to recap, for around 20 years, the Strategic Air Command went out of their 
way to make launching a nuclear missile as easy, and quick, as possible.






[FairfieldLife] My Thanksgiving Movie

2013-11-29 Thread Bhairitu
Definitely rated NOT FOR BUCK but quite a strange movie.  It's 
13/13/13 by Asylum of Sharknado fame and available in HD on 
Netflix.  It's a horror film about the 13th month which occurs because 
we weren't supposed to have leap years.  What happens is everyone goes 
crazy except for people who were born on February 29th.  Rated not for 
Buck due to excessive violence and use of the F word (they must have 
set a new record).  It's a direct to video production for Asylum who 
often do schlock films for Syfy.  This one would have wound up being a 
succession of bleep if shown on Syfy. Dark movie but in many ways the 
craziness was hilarious and you need a taste cheesy horror flims.

http://movies.netflix.com/WiMovie/13_13_13/70285997




Re: Re: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread Share Long
I know what you mean. Me too. She's an amazing soul. And fun at the same time!





On Friday, November 29, 2013 11:09 AM, feste37 no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
 
  
Yes, CO was there and was her usual self. That woman has more empathy, for a 
wider range of people, than anyone I have ever known. It's completely unforced, 
like breathing. Quite remarkable. I wish I had some of it.   



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:


feste, I was doing a moveable feast yesterday! Thanksgiving lunch with my Mom 
and sister and her family then dinner with my half sister, my Dad and step Mom 
and that family. Today I am recuperating (-:
After dinner we played a fun board game called Mexican Train Wreck. It's kind 
of a complicated dominoes that can be played by up to 7 people. Hope you all 
had a great time. Was CO there and in fine fettle?





On Friday, November 29, 2013 9:38 AM, feste37 no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
 
  
Share, make Google your friend!  Missed you at the Thanksgiving dinner 
yesterday.



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:


This morning when I opened Yahoo there was a news story in the top five saying 
that the family was fleeing the country! Now when I went to find that story, 
it's gone!





On Friday, November 29, 2013 6:24 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
  
The land of the free. Free to die because of religious beliefs? Fair enough. 
Plenty of belief systems refuse blood transfusions. I've known TMers who say 
they would refuse any sort of transplant because they don't want someone else's 
karma. In fact, I've known people who died because they chose alternative 
healthcare. Alternative to things that work it would seem.

This is why I say natural selection works on the religious too. Not cruel at 
all, or at least no crueller than it is for you and me. Maybe if I'd read 
article


That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:


That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:


Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the 
irony in that and stop being so silly. 



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:


But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to 
me that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if 
that is their religious preference to do so.


http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html







Re: [FairfieldLife] What I Did Today

2013-11-29 Thread Share Long
noozguru, do you mean you spent the night and saw the lines this morning? Or 
were the lines forming last night?!





On Friday, November 29, 2013 11:11 AM, Bhairitu noozg...@sbcglobal.net wrote:
 
  
Driving back from my nephews from the freeway I could see the lines winding 
around Target.  I avoid stores today. ;-) 

On 11/29/2013 08:32 AM, Share Long wrote:

  
Richard, hope you all had a good Thanksgiving. Mom refuses to go near a 
shopping area today so we won't be going to Whole Foods which is located in 
Annapolis Town Center featuring Target and lots of upscale clothing stores 
like Brook Bros. and Anthropologie. I'll be ready for the looney bin if we 
stay in all day so I'm hoping to lure her to CVS or Walgreens (-:









Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread Share Long
I don't know why I find that kind of funny, that we could all be blown to 
smithereens because someone spilled coffee on a keyboard! Obviously too much 
turkey has taken over my brain!

Speaking of food, at my half sister's last night, a neighbor brought over 
little goblets of pumpkin bread pudding! Bread pudding is my favorite dessert 
so I was in 7th heaven. 




On Friday, November 29, 2013 11:52 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
  
Wow, you could accidentally put a coffee mug on the keyboard and off we all go 
to the next world!

I remember that the systems monitoring Russian missile launches mistakenly 
thought the west was under attack twice with ICBMs actually on the way. And 
Ronald Reagan's escape plane took off twice without him! LOL.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:


That's eight zeros above, not .  is what you say when you 
learn that the launch codes to much of America's nuclear arsenal were set to 
for many years during the Cold War to eight zeros. Makes you feel all warm and 
comfy knowing that, doesn't it?  :-)

http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 

So to recap, for around 20 years, the Strategic Air Command went out of 
their way to make launching a nuclear missile as easy, and quick, as 
possible.





RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread emilymaenot
The way you state half sister is so odd to me.  Yes, I understand the genetic 
aspect, but from a relational standpoint, it is just so odd to me.  Did you 
just meet her or have you known her for a long time?   
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

 I don't know why I find that kind of funny, that we could all be blown to 
smithereens because someone spilled coffee on a keyboard! Obviously too much 
turkey has taken over my brain!
 

 Speaking of food, at my half sister's last night, a neighbor brought over 
little goblets of pumpkin bread pudding! Bread pudding is my favorite dessert 
so I was in 7th heaven. 

 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 11:52 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
   Wow, you could accidentally put a coffee mug on the keyboard and off we all 
go to the next world!
 

 I remember that the systems monitoring Russian missile launches mistakenly 
thought the west was under attack twice with ICBMs actually on the way. And 
Ronald Reagan's escape plane took off twice without him! LOL.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 That's eight zeros above, not .  is what you say when you 
learn that the launch codes to much of America's nuclear arsenal were set to 
for many years during the Cold War to eight zeros. Makes you feel all warm and 
comfy knowing that, doesn't it?  :-)

http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 
http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 

So to recap, for around 20 years, the Strategic Air Command went out of their 
way to make launching a nuclear missile as easy, and quick, as possible.





 
 

 
 




 
 
 
 






Re: [FairfieldLife] What I Did Today

2013-11-29 Thread Bhairitu
Last night on my way back home.  My nephew only lives about 35 miles 
away.  His dad and mom moved into an apartment at a retirement complex 
and their unit is literally right behind my nephew's fence.  Both his 
dad and mom were sick but his dad felt well enough to come over for dinner.


On 11/29/2013 10:28 AM, Share Long wrote:
noozguru, do you mean you spent the night and saw the lines this 
morning? Or were the lines forming last night?!




On Friday, November 29, 2013 11:11 AM, Bhairitu 
noozg...@sbcglobal.net wrote:
Driving back from my nephews from the freeway I could see the lines 
winding around Target.  I avoid stores today. ;-)


On 11/29/2013 08:32 AM, Share Long wrote:
Richard, hope you all had a good Thanksgiving. Mom refuses to go near 
a shopping area today so we won't be going to Whole Foods which is 
located in Annapolis Town Center featuring Target and lots of upscale 
clothing stores like Brook Bros. and Anthropologie. I'll be ready for 
the looney bin if we stay in all day so I'm hoping to lure her to CVS 
or Walgreens (-:













RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Thanksgiving - Pope Francis tells the truth about unbridled capitalism

2013-11-29 Thread emilymaenot
Should they rename the Dome to Womens' Dome?   Or are the two terms used 
interchangeably?
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Oy, Buck, I prefer to think of myself as a woman rather than a lady! Lady 
connotes, well never mind what it connotes. I am woman, hear me roar.
 

 
 
 On Wednesday, November 27, 2013 10:42 PM, dhamiltony2k5@... 
dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:
 
   We have 'ladies' in the TM movement.  
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 Interview:  Sister Louise Akers Challenges the Church Patriarchy - Sun Magazine
 

 http://thesunmagazine.org/issues/455/sisterhood  
http://thesunmagazine.org/issues/455/sisterhood
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 Absolutely!  What a clever idea!  Ah ha ha...yes, yes, yes...this will make 
good dinner conversation for you.  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck wrote:

 CHAPTER ONE
 THE MOVEMENT’S MISSIONARY TRANSFORMATION
 
 
 
 
 CHAPTER ONE
THE Movement’S MISSIONARY TRANSFORMATION [19]
 I. A Movement WHICH GOES FORTH [20-24]
 Taking the first step, being involved and supportive, bearing fruit and 
rejoicing [24] II. PASTORAL ACTIVITY AND CONVERSION [25-33]
 An ecclesial renewal which cannot be deferred [27-33] III. FROM THE HEART OF 
THE GOSPEL [34-39]
 IV. A MISSION EMBODIED WITHIN HUMAN LIMITS [40-45]
 V. A MOTHER WITH AN OPEN HEART [46-49]
 
 
 
http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/francesco/apost_exhortations/documents/papa-francesco_esortazione-ap_20131124_evangelii-gaudium_en.html#No_to_an_economy_of_exclusion
 
http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/francesco/apost_exhortations/documents/papa-francesco_esortazione-ap_20131124_evangelii-gaudium_en.html#No_to_an_economy_of_exclusion
 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck wrote:

 His Holiness Nader Ram might take some pages for our TM movement from the Pope 
Frances play book. Yep, on becoming the universal movement of the Unified 
Field.  The Popular Spiritual Liberation Front.
 Like chapter I reads, 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 I like this guy - He tells the truth, straight up. 

Even as the American Dream becomes less obtainable for most here, he points 
out, plainly, that the rest of the world, is suffering, far more than we do in 
the West; wars are waged simply for economic gain, rampant consumerism is 
dehumanizing everyone, and 'trickle down economics' is a naive idea, at best, 
and clearly does not work. 

 
http://www.businessinsider.com/the-pope-on-the-financial-system-inequality-money-2013-11
 
http://www.businessinsider.com/the-pope-on-the-financial-system-inequality-money-2013-11




 





 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread Bhairitu
OTOH, that might be the LAST password anyone would have tried. Reminds 
me the web site for the local paper had an article on the Orwellian CCTV 
system the police put in with a picture of the command center.  I 
noticed that there was a post-it at the top of one of the monitors.  
Zoomed in on the picture and there was the password! :-D


On 11/29/2013 08:41 AM, TurquoiseB wrote:


That's eight zeros above, not .  is what you say 
when you learn that the launch codes to much of America's nuclear 
arsenal were set to for many years during the Cold War to eight zeros. 
Makes you feel all warm and comfy knowing that, doesn't it?  :-)


http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587 



So to recap, for around 20 years, the Strategic Air Command went out 
of their way to make launching a nuclear missile as easy, and quick, 
as possible.








RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread feste37
Ramping up for a Mean Girl attack 

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 The way you state half sister is so odd to me.  Yes, I understand the 
genetic aspect, but from a relational standpoint, it is just so odd to me.  Did 
you just meet her or have you known her for a long time?   
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

 I don't know why I find that kind of funny, that we could all be blown to 
smithereens because someone spilled coffee on a keyboard! Obviously too much 
turkey has taken over my brain!
 

 Speaking of food, at my half sister's last night, a neighbor brought over 
little goblets of pumpkin bread pudding! Bread pudding is my favorite dessert 
so I was in 7th heaven. 

 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 11:52 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
   Wow, you could accidentally put a coffee mug on the keyboard and off we all 
go to the next world!
 

 I remember that the systems monitoring Russian missile launches mistakenly 
thought the west was under attack twice with ICBMs actually on the way. And 
Ronald Reagan's escape plane took off twice without him! LOL.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 That's eight zeros above, not .  is what you say when you 
learn that the launch codes to much of America's nuclear arsenal were set to 
for many years during the Cold War to eight zeros. Makes you feel all warm and 
comfy knowing that, doesn't it?  :-)

http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 
http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 

So to recap, for around 20 years, the Strategic Air Command went out of their 
way to make launching a nuclear missile as easy, and quick, as possible.





 
 

 
 




 
 
 
 








RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
Poor, helpless Share. She is Lady, hear her squeak...
 
Feste Sir Galahads:

  Ramping up for a Mean Girl attack 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 The way you state half sister is so odd to me.  Yes, I understand the 
genetic aspect, but from a relational standpoint, it is just so odd to me.  Did 
you just meet her or have you known her for a long time?   
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

 I don't know why I find that kind of funny, that we could all be blown to 
smithereens because someone spilled coffee on a keyboard! Obviously too much 
turkey has taken over my brain!
 

 Speaking of food, at my half sister's last night, a neighbor brought over 
little goblets of pumpkin bread pudding! Bread pudding is my favorite dessert 
so I was in 7th heaven. 

 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 11:52 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
   Wow, you could accidentally put a coffee mug on the keyboard and off we all 
go to the next world!
 

 I remember that the systems monitoring Russian missile launches mistakenly 
thought the west was under attack twice with ICBMs actually on the way. And 
Ronald Reagan's escape plane took off twice without him! LOL.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 That's eight zeros above, not .  is what you say when you 
learn that the launch codes to much of America's nuclear arsenal were set to 
for many years during the Cold War to eight zeros. Makes you feel all warm and 
comfy knowing that, doesn't it?  :-)

http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 
http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 

So to recap, for around 20 years, the Strategic Air Command went out of their 
way to make launching a nuclear missile as easy, and quick, as possible.





 
 

 
 




 
 
 
 










Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread Richard J. Williams
It's not complicated: In one post Judy says the TM bijas are not the 
names of the Hindu gods. In the other post, she denies posting that the 
TM bija are not the names of the Hindu gods.


So, which is it? Did Judy post that the TM bijas are not the names of 
the Hindu gods, or didn't she?


It looks like to me that Judy posted that the TM bijas are not the names 
of the Hindu gods, so why would she deny posting that, when it's right 
there in the archives?


From the archives:

Judy posted:

Richard is lying. I never said anything about the technique, whatever 
it is, or was. Nor did I say the bijas weren't nicknames of the 
deities (whatever nicknames means in this context).


http://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/FairfieldLife/conversations/messages/364436

Judy posted:

Just for example, the TM mantras are *not* the names of the
Hindu gods.  The Hindu gods have perfectly good names of
their own.

https://groups.google.com/forum/alt.meditation.transcendental

On 11/28/2013 10:13 AM, emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:


Yes, they can Richard.  That's what I don't understand and why I was 
asking.  If you can't explain said allegation, why don't you let let 
it go?  It appears to be taking up valuable space in your brain.  You 
and Rita have a good day.




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, punditster@... wrote:

It's not complicated: Judy posted both statements, both can't be true.

On 11/27/2013 9:54 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:

Richard, seriously, I just don't understand what you are saying here. 
Instead of reposting and reposting the same thing, can you, in 
detail, explain how, based on the words in the two sentences in 
question, you are coming to said conclusion of Judy lying?  If you 
are all bent out of shape about Judy, just objectively review the two 
statements and explain how the two sentences that you keep reposting 
proves a lie.




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, punditster@... 
mailto:punditster@... wrote:


Well, I'm quoting it because you posted it. You're not doing a very 
good job of explaining what you meant. So, did you or did you not 
post this?


Richard is lying. I never said anything about the technique, 
whatever it is, or was. Nor did I say the bijas weren't nicknames 
of the deities (whatever nicknames means in this context).


http://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/FairfieldLife/conversations/messages/364436

Just for example, the TM mantras are *not* the names of the
Hindu gods.  The Hindu gods have perfectly good names of
their own.

https://groups.google.com/forum/alt.meditation.transcendental 
https://groups.google.com/forum/?hl=en#%21topic/alt.meditation.transcendental/1bJzUyLPecQ


P.S. This may be lost on you, but I'm pretty sure Barry and Share can 
understand what you posted. It looks to me like you are trying to 
wiggle out of owning your own words. Not that anyone cares what you 
say these days,anyway. Go figure.


On 11/27/2013 3:50 PM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote:

I don't know why you keep quoting stuff that documents the fact that 
you were lying, but that's your problem.




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, punditster@... 
mailto:punditster@... wrote:


The most reliable proof is to post the message number and the URL to 
the actual words, like when I posted your own words and the URL to 
see them, and you still called me a liar.


Richard is lying. I never said anything about the technique, 
whatever it is, or was. Nor did I say the bijas weren't nicknames 
of the deities (whatever nicknames means in this context).


http://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/FairfieldLife/conversations/messages/364436

...the TM mantras are *not* the names of the Hindu gods. The Hindu 
gods have perfectly good names of their own.


Subject: Re: do you ever repeat your mantra when you are asleep and 
dreaming?

Author: Judy Stein
Newsgroups: alt.meditation.transcendental
Date: Sat, Dec 17 2005 1:22 pm
http://tinyurl.com/9gxse

On 11/27/2013 9:11 AM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote:


*Hey, Barry, have a look at this. It's fascinating. *

*
Xeno wrote:
*

/*10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth*/

http://liespotting.com/liespotting-basics/words/

We are not face-to-face on FFL, it's all words, words,
words. There are those here who make a big deal of their
integrity. Perhaps that is a suspect trait.

*Um, or perhaps not. /Legitimately/ suspect, that is.*

Me, I think the most reliable way to tell if someone is a
liar is whether there is documented evidence that they have
lied. (That's why a functioning Search feature is so
frightening to Barry.)













Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FFL Neo Mobile

2013-11-29 Thread Richard J. Williams

Maybe I should rephrase what I said:

Only a nerd would post to FFL, using Windows, Android or any other 
software, whether a PC, a tablet, or a phone.


If you're using Google Android on your phone, wouldn't it make sense to 
view FFL using Google Chrome and Google Mail? Go figure.


On 11/28/2013 11:05 AM, Bhairitu wrote:


Windows Yahoo?  Since when is Yahoo just Windows?  It's a web site not 
peculiar to Windows at all.   Why would I want to download emails just 
to look at FFL?  You aren't making any sense, Richard.  Go figure.


On 11/28/2013 04:32 AM, Richard J. Williams wrote:


Thanks for the screen shot. But, only a nerd would want to view 
Windows Yahoo on an Android phone when they could get the same 
messages using free Google Mail with a Chrome browser. Go figure.


 On 11/27/2013 4:32 PM, Bhairitu wrote:


On 11/27/2013 12:53 PM, TurquoiseB wrote:


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, bhairitu wrote:

 Here you go. Remember most people will be reading on a smartphone a
few
 inches from their face. As you see the message history is an option
 which can be selected. The first image was the start screen which has
 the banner. You can scroll down the messages as far as you want.
Also
 the phone can be turned sideways for a wider display though shorter
 display (handy for ready Turqs hard return messages).

You'll possibly have noticed that I have abandoned the hard returns as
the Old Geezers Of Internet Tech They Are. :-)

You got me looking at FFL on different formats, and so I noticed that
the old style didn't work as well on most screens these days. So I
changed.

As opposed, one might say, to someone who doesn't like a new variety of
tech because it doesn't allow her to keep arguing the same way she's
been arguing for almost twenty years now. Just sayin'. :-) :-) :-)



Problem I have is the new kids worshiping companies as gods like 
whatever they do is right.  I had a long argument with Android 
developers that it might WELL be appropriate to put an exit in the 
menu if your app goes several layers (or Intents) deep. Each 
Intent is really like a little app in itself.  To have to press 
the back key several times to exit is a bit rude.  Most of the 
Google tech writing engineers seem to have limited experience in 
real world software development.


Similarly developers raved over the new release of the game 
development platform Unity3D.  The company felt compelled to make 
one extravagant demo of their new 2D library.  Problem is there are 
really just a few things experienced developers needed to know to 
get up and running using it but wading through that extravagant demo 
to find those points was a bit overkill.  But sure as hell don't 
criticize Unity3D over it as the cranky dweeb fans will get all over 
you.  I suspect they will role out a very simple example eventually 
as had to do that with their 3D engine.












RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread feste37
It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share responds, 
Emily declares the response to be inadequate or shocking, and proceeds to 
plunge the knife in and twist it as much as she can.

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Poor, helpless Share. She is Lady, hear her squeak...
 
Feste Sir Galahads:

  Ramping up for a Mean Girl attack 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 The way you state half sister is so odd to me.  Yes, I understand the 
genetic aspect, but from a relational standpoint, it is just so odd to me.  Did 
you just meet her or have you known her for a long time?   
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

 I don't know why I find that kind of funny, that we could all be blown to 
smithereens because someone spilled coffee on a keyboard! Obviously too much 
turkey has taken over my brain!
 

 Speaking of food, at my half sister's last night, a neighbor brought over 
little goblets of pumpkin bread pudding! Bread pudding is my favorite dessert 
so I was in 7th heaven. 

 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 11:52 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
   Wow, you could accidentally put a coffee mug on the keyboard and off we all 
go to the next world!
 

 I remember that the systems monitoring Russian missile launches mistakenly 
thought the west was under attack twice with ICBMs actually on the way. And 
Ronald Reagan's escape plane took off twice without him! LOL.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 That's eight zeros above, not .  is what you say when you 
learn that the launch codes to much of America's nuclear arsenal were set to 
for many years during the Cold War to eight zeros. Makes you feel all warm and 
comfy knowing that, doesn't it?  :-)

http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 
http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 

So to recap, for around 20 years, the Strategic Air Command went out of their 
way to make launching a nuclear missile as easy, and quick, as possible.





 
 

 
 




 
 
 
 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FFL Neo Mobile

2013-11-29 Thread Bhairitu
Ahem!  Reread time.  The browser used in the screenshot was indeed 
Google Chrome on Android.  Figure it out.


Interesting thing on Linux (I don't read FFL on Windows) was that Chrome 
wouldn't let me insert the HTML code for the pictures. Firefox worked 
though.  Now I think I'll port that app for Base64 encoding to Android 
so I can use it on the go.  Should be easy since it is written in C# and 
I'll just compile on Xamarin with a couple changes for the Android 
interface.


On 11/29/2013 11:44 AM, Richard J. Williams wrote:


Maybe I should rephrase what I said:

Only a nerd would post to FFL, using Windows, Android or any other 
software, whether a PC, a tablet, or a phone.


If you're using Google Android on your phone, wouldn't it make sense 
to view FFL using Google Chrome and Google Mail? Go figure.


On 11/28/2013 11:05 AM, Bhairitu wrote:


Windows Yahoo?  Since when is Yahoo just Windows?  It's a web site 
not peculiar to Windows at all.   Why would I want to download emails 
just to look at FFL?  You aren't making any sense, Richard.  Go figure.


On 11/28/2013 04:32 AM, Richard J. Williams wrote:


Thanks for the screen shot. But, only a nerd would want to view 
Windows Yahoo on an Android phone when they could get the same 
messages using free Google Mail with a Chrome browser. Go figure.


 On 11/27/2013 4:32 PM, Bhairitu wrote:


On 11/27/2013 12:53 PM, TurquoiseB wrote:


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, bhairitu wrote:

 Here you go. Remember most people will be reading on a smartphone a
few
 inches from their face. As you see the message history is an option
 which can be selected. The first image was the start screen 
which has

 the banner. You can scroll down the messages as far as you want.
Also
 the phone can be turned sideways for a wider display though shorter
 display (handy for ready Turqs hard return messages).

You'll possibly have noticed that I have abandoned the hard returns as
the Old Geezers Of Internet Tech They Are. :-)

You got me looking at FFL on different formats, and so I noticed that
the old style didn't work as well on most screens these days. So I
changed.

As opposed, one might say, to someone who doesn't like a new 
variety of

tech because it doesn't allow her to keep arguing the same way she's
been arguing for almost twenty years now. Just sayin'. :-) :-) :-)



Problem I have is the new kids worshiping companies as gods like 
whatever they do is right.  I had a long argument with Android 
developers that it might WELL be appropriate to put an exit in 
the menu if your app goes several layers (or Intents) deep.  Each 
Intent is really like a little app in itself. To have to press 
the back key several times to exit is a bit rude.  Most of the 
Google tech writing engineers seem to have limited experience in 
real world software development.


Similarly developers raved over the new release of the game 
development platform Unity3D.  The company felt compelled to make 
one extravagant demo of their new 2D library.  Problem is there are 
really just a few things experienced developers needed to know to 
get up and running using it but wading through that extravagant 
demo to find those points was a bit overkill. But sure as hell 
don't criticize Unity3D over it as the cranky dweeb fans will get 
all over you. I suspect they will role out a very simple example 
eventually as had to do that with their 3D engine.














[FairfieldLife] RE: A Meditator#39;s Thanksgiving

2013-11-29 Thread s3raphita
Re I think it is kind of like asymptotic lines, which approach each other but 
never meet, but eventually you get close enough to see there is an end, 
closure, but you can never quite get there.:
 

 St Gregory of Nyssa (fourth century) questioned classical antiquity's static 
take on perfection and claimed that the Christian life is one of never-ending 
growth - a movement 'from glory to glory' - which would continue ad infinitum 
in the next life. 
 

---In fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com, anartaxius@... wrote:

 Clarity starts with unity, and once you start to ramp down on unity and really 
start to let go and forget about the whole benchmark thing, you have that 
'Brahman consciousness' thing. Whatever word you use, you really don't need to 
use that word, because it will never do it justice. Words that seem to imply 
grandeur and magnificence are particularly misleading because they ramp up 
expectation for an experience which is not possible to anticipate. If somebody 
asks you of course, you have to make up stuff to explain, or use traditional 
vehicles of explanation, which somebody else made up.
 

 I think it is kind of like asymptotic lines, which approach each other but 
never meet, but eventually you get close enough to see there is an end, 
closure, but you can never quite get there, there is always some little 
picayune insight that one might get about some aspect of experience or other, 
but now it is just a tiny little faded jewel in a much larger setting, and that 
larger setting is utterly ordinary, just life as it was, and is, and you don't 
think much about what will be, since that is what is always happening, just 
being is all that is happening. 
 

 If you remember something from the past, that experience of remembering is 
now, and if you think of a potential future state, that imagining is now, and 
these imaginings are just thoughts passing in the mind, the substance of those 
thoughts is not what is real, though at another time, you may have an 
experience that is related to the thought in your memory. If you read a weather 
report that says it will be hot tomorrow, and the next day you experience 
discomfort from heat, there is a relationship there, but the experience that we 
call heat is not the same as the word 'heat', which can only encapsulate that 
experience in a rather simplistic way as a mental concept. One person might 
feel comfortable in that heat; another might be miserable. Thought is a two 
dimensional replication of three dimensional experience. So while thought can 
be very valuable for life, something is always missing if your life is lived in 
the world of thought, and so one's thoughts are always to a lesser or greater 
extent, a lie.
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, s3raphita@... wrote:

 Re This is redundant Buck. You are the unified field, you cannot look to it. 
Are you by any chance in that last stage of delusion known as GC?:
 

 Excellent comment! 
 

 But is the next level, Unity Consciousness, the last stage? Isn't Brahman 
Consciousness then the new goal? Jesus! Does it never end? I'm exhausted. I 
think I'll settle for the deep-sleep state.

 

 ---In fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com, anartaxius@... wrote:

 This is redundant Buck. You are the unified field, you cannot look to it. Are 
you by any chance in that last stage of delusion known as GC?
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:

 My spirit looks to the Unified Field alone,
My rock and refuge is Its throne.
In all my fears, in all my straits, 
My soul on Its salvation waits.
Trust It, ye meditators, in all your ways,
Pour out your hearts before Its face;
When helpers fail and foes invade,

 the Unified Field is our all-sufficient aid. 
 


 Paraphrased excerpt from Psalm 62 by Isaac Watts:
 

 http://www.ccel.org/ccel/watts/psalmshymns.Ps.131.html 
http://www.ccel.org/ccel/watts/psalmshymns.Ps.131.html 
 







 



 


Re: [FairfieldLife] My Thanksgiving Movie

2013-11-29 Thread Bhairitu
Of course if you want to watch society actually go crazy just watch some 
of the today's news videos of Black Friday.  HOWEVER, I disagree with 
those who feel if the economy goes south we'll see the same thing.  
Hurricane Sandy disapproved that and when the economy tanks there will 
still be time to help people learn to survive without eating each other.


On 11/29/2013 09:56 AM, Bhairitu wrote:


Definitely rated NOT FOR BUCK but quite a strange movie. It's
13/13/13 by Asylum of Sharknado fame and available in HD on
Netflix. It's a horror film about the 13th month which occurs because
we weren't supposed to have leap years. What happens is everyone goes
crazy except for people who were born on February 29th. Rated not for
Buck due to excessive violence and use of the F word (they must have
set a new record). It's a direct to video production for Asylum who
often do schlock films for Syfy. This one would have wound up being a
succession of bleep if shown on Syfy. Dark movie but in many ways the
craziness was hilarious and you need a taste cheesy horror flims.

http://movies.netflix.com/WiMovie/13_13_13/70285997






Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread Bhairitu
I've never heard of chemo being forced on people but I'm sure there are 
some naive do gooders who want to do so and big pharma loves to make 
all that money off cancer. Heaven forbid if university researchers prove 
that spices many people have in their kitchen cupboards can cure cancer.


On 11/28/2013 03:02 PM, feste37 wrote:


That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since 
when does the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people 
who don't want it? The family has every right to choose an alternative 
method of treatment. This is supposed to be the land of the free.




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see 
the irony in that and stop being so silly.




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:

But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It
appears to me that the girl and her family have the right to
forego the treatment if that is their religious preference to do so.


http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html






RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Thanksgiving - Pope Francis tells the truth about unbridled capitalism

2013-11-29 Thread dhamiltony2k5
The Domes. The local colloquial works as Men's Dome and the “Ladies Dome”. Even 
within deep TM it is becoming more and more quaint as time goes along the thing 
of calling it the Ladies Dome. The progressive element of the meditating 
community say, the “Womens' Dome”. The more insular old-style strict 
preservationist-element of the meditating community refer to it still as the 
“Ladies Dome”, as some matter of cultural tradition either as habit or as they 
try to enforce it. Times do change though. Usage mostly depends which part of 
the meditating community you're talking with. Navigating that is part of 
getting along in the meditating community. Mostly we are all very nice with 
each other if we happen to be at the same table with each other and we will 
just dial the dissonance down with each other. The real taliban of the movement 
don't come to town much. Really there are not too many of them now.  Mostly we 
just run in to the “ladies” thing in their e-mail announcements coming from the 
middle.
 -Buck  
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 Should they rename the Dome to Womens' Dome?   Or are the two terms used 
interchangeably?
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Oy, Buck, I prefer to think of myself as a woman rather than a lady! Lady 
connotes, well never mind what it connotes. I am woman, hear me roar.
 

 
 
 On Wednesday, November 27, 2013 10:42 PM, Buck. Buck wrote:
 
   We have 'ladies' in the TM movement.  
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 Interview:  Sister Louise Akers Challenges the Church Patriarchy - Sun Magazine
 

 http://thesunmagazine.org/issues/455/sisterhood  
http://thesunmagazine.org/issues/455/sisterhood
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 Absolutely!  What a clever idea!  Ah ha ha...yes, yes, yes...this will make 
good dinner conversation for you.  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck wrote:

 CHAPTER ONE
 THE MOVEMENT’S MISSIONARY TRANSFORMATION
 
 
 
 
 CHAPTER ONE
THE Movement’S MISSIONARY TRANSFORMATION [19]
 I. A Movement WHICH GOES FORTH [20-24]
 Taking the first step, being involved and supportive, bearing fruit and 
rejoicing [24] II. PASTORAL ACTIVITY AND CONVERSION [25-33]
 An ecclesial renewal which cannot be deferred [27-33] III. FROM THE HEART OF 
THE GOSPEL [34-39]
 IV. A MISSION EMBODIED WITHIN HUMAN LIMITS [40-45]
 V. A MOTHER WITH AN OPEN HEART [46-49]
 
 
 
http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/francesco/apost_exhortations/documents/papa-francesco_esortazione-ap_20131124_evangelii-gaudium_en.html#No_to_an_economy_of_exclusion
 
http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/francesco/apost_exhortations/documents/papa-francesco_esortazione-ap_20131124_evangelii-gaudium_en.html#No_to_an_economy_of_exclusion
 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck wrote:

 His Holiness Nader Ram might take some pages for our TM movement from the Pope 
Frances play book. Yep, on becoming the universal movement of the Unified 
Field.  The Popular Spiritual Liberation Front.
 Like chapter I reads, 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 I like this guy - He tells the truth, straight up. 

Even as the American Dream becomes less obtainable for most here, he points 
out, plainly, that the rest of the world, is suffering, far more than we do in 
the West; wars are waged simply for economic gain, rampant consumerism is 
dehumanizing everyone, and 'trickle down economics' is a naive idea, at best, 
and clearly does not work. 

 
http://www.businessinsider.com/the-pope-on-the-financial-system-inequality-money-2013-11
 
http://www.businessinsider.com/the-pope-on-the-financial-system-inequality-money-2013-11




 





 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 







RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
And it's all just completely gratuitous, right, Feste? 
 
Feste pronounced:

  It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls.
 

 (You do realize Mean Girls is a name Barry dreamed up for his critics, don't 
you?)
 

  Authfriend practices a kind of knee- 
  jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty attacks. In respect of Share (and 
  Barry), she is All Nasty, All the 
  Time. It doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the 
  same. Any excuse to belittle, mock, 
  and insult -- that's authfriend's MO.
 

 Better than being a lying phony, IMHO.
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: A Meditator's Thanksgiving

2013-11-29 Thread TurquoiseB

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,  anartaxius wrote:

  I think it is kind of like asymptotic lines, which approach each
other but never meet, but eventually you get close enough to see there
is an end, closure, but you can never quite get there...

From an old Firesign Theatre album, the voice reading out the signs that
a character in one of their audio plays passes on a Southern California
highway:

Antelope Freeway, 1 mile
Antelope Freeway, 1/2 mile
Antelope Freeway, 1/4 mile
Antelope Freeway, 1/8 mile
Antelope Freeway, 1/16 mile
Antelope Freeway, 1/32 mile
Antelope Freeway, 1/64 mile...

:-)







Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread Richard J. Williams
This post has all the earmarks of you sitting at your computer in your 
home office, and when the 'ding' goes off alerting an email, then you 
respond within three minutes using the same computer. LoL!


On 11/29/2013 1:14 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:


*Poor, helpless Share. She is Lady, hear her squeak...*

*
Feste Sir Galahads:
*

 Ramping up for a Mean Girl attack

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

The way you state half sister is so odd to me.  Yes, I
understand the genetic aspect, but from a relational standpoint,
it is just so odd to me.  Did you just meet her or have you known
her for a long time?



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

I don't know why I find that kind of funny, that we could all
be blown to smithereens because someone spilled coffee on a
keyboard! Obviously too much turkey has taken over my brain!

Speaking of food, at my half sister's last night, a neighbor
brought over little goblets of pumpkin bread pudding! Bread
pudding is my favorite dessert so I was in 7th heaven.


On Friday, November 29, 2013 11:52 AM, salyavin808
no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
Wow, you could accidentally put a coffee mug on the keyboard
and off we all go to the next world!

I remember that the systems monitoring Russian missile
launches mistakenly thought the west was under attack twice
with ICBMs actually on the way. And Ronald Reagan's escape
plane took off twice without him! LOL.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

That's eight zeros above, not .  is what
you say when you learn that the launch codes to much of
America's nuclear arsenal were set to for many years during
the Cold War to eight zeros. Makes you feel all warm and comfy
knowing that, doesn't it?  :-)


http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587


So to recap, for around 20 years, the Strategic Air Command
went out of their way to make launching a nuclear missile as
easy, and quick, as possible.









Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread Richard J. Williams

This NOT a conference call, Mr. Obama - Angela Merkel

On 11/29/2013 10:01 AM, doctordumb...@rocketmail.com wrote:


I have used the Google. - former President G. W. Bush



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

Share, make Google your friend!  Missed you at the Thanksgiving dinner 
yesterday.




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

This morning when I opened Yahoo there was a news story in the top
five saying that the family was fleeing the country! Now when I
went to find that story, it's gone!



On Friday, November 29, 2013 6:24 AM, salyavin808
no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
The land of the free. Free to die because of religious beliefs?
Fair enough. Plenty of belief systems refuse blood transfusions.
I've known TMers who say they would refuse any sort of transplant
because they don't want someone else's karma. In fact, I've known
people who died because they chose alternative healthcare.
Alternative to things that work it would seem.

This is why I say natural selection works on the religious too.
Not cruel at all, or at least no crueller than it is for you and
me. Maybe if I'd read article


That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since
when does the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on
people who don't want it? The family has every right to choose an
alternative method of treatment. This is supposed to be the land
of the free.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since
when does the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on
people who don't want it? The family has every right to choose an
alternative method of treatment. This is supposed to be the land
of the free.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe
they'll see the irony in that and stop being so silly.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:

But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the
treatment.  It appears to me that the girl and her
family have the right to forego the treatment if that
is their religious preference to do so.


http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html








Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread Share Long
Tumeric!




On Friday, November 29, 2013 2:01 PM, Bhairitu noozg...@sbcglobal.net wrote:
 
  
I've never heard of chemo being forced on people but I'm sure there are some 
naive do gooders who want to do so and big pharma loves to make all that 
money off cancer.  Heaven forbid if university researchers prove that spices 
many people have in their kitchen cupboards can cure cancer.

On 11/28/2013 03:02 PM, feste37 wrote:

  
That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:


Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the irony 
in that and stop being so silly. 



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:


But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to me 
that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if that 
is their religious preference to do so. 


http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html




RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread jr_esq
 Share,
 

 Turmeric can aggravate the pitta dosha on the pitta types.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Tumeric! 

 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 2:01 PM, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:
 
   
 I've never heard of chemo being forced on people but I'm sure there are some 
naive do gooders who want to do so and big pharma loves to make all that 
money off cancer.  Heaven forbid if university researchers prove that spices 
many people have in their kitchen cupboards can cure cancer.
 
 On 11/28/2013 03:02 PM, feste37 wrote:
 
   That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 
 
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 
no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
 
 Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the irony 
in that and stop being so silly. 
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 
jr_esq@... mailto:jr_esq@... wrote:
 
 But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to me 
that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if that is 
their religious preference to do so. 
 
 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html
 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
 




 
 
 
 






Re: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread Share Long
But John, they all say tumeric's good for reducing inflammation!





On Friday, November 29, 2013 2:45 PM, jr_...@yahoo.com jr_...@yahoo.com 
wrote:
 
  
 Share,

Turmeric can aggravate the pitta dosha on the pitta types.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:


Tumeric!




On Friday, November 29, 2013 2:01 PM, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:
 
  
I've never heard of chemo being forced on people but I'm sure there are some 
naive do gooders who want to do so and big pharma loves to make all that 
money off cancer.  Heaven forbid if university researchers prove that spices 
many people have in their kitchen cupboards can cure cancer.


On 11/28/2013 03:02 PM, feste37 wrote:

  
That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:


Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the irony 
in that and stop being so silly. 



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:


But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to me 
that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if that 
is their religious preference to do so. 


http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html






RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread emilymaenot
 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
 

 No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to explain what she is 
saying or thinking or feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to 
provide a larger context for her comments because a lot of what she says 
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, 
human behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious 
sort of person.  
 

 Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. 
 

 I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone the benefit of the 
doubt and I am often reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a 
context or a writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given this 
statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or 
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I 
wouldn't stay here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of 
them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the moment, or as a 
result of watching the trajectory of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a 
larger picture in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the energy and 
feeling of a thread as it resonates within me. I may not always succeed in the 
heat of the moment (in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind 
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process of lessons learned, 
if you will. I am a human being and I *believe* in the concepts of 
accountability and humility, for example.   
 

 This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share responds, Emily 
declares the response to be inadequate or shocking, and proceeds to plunge the 
knife in and twist it as much as she can.

 

 Jesus Christ Feste, I have been shocked by Share on many occasions, it's true, 
and she has deferred and refused to take accountability for her words, or even 
explain them, on even more occasions.  I have also apologized more times and 
copped to my own actions more than many here and I have stated many times that 
I always check what I might say to others against my self - I am not a saint 
nor do I pretend to be. Share has a record of zero on that front.  I hold no 
animosity towards her; I am just objectively stating what I have noticed from 
her posts here.  To attribute these kinds of violent images to me says a lot 
about you, not me.  Curiously, Share, do you agree with what Feste says here 
about me?  Is this how you have experienced me on this forum?   
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Poor, helpless Share. She is Lady, hear her squeak...
 
Feste Sir Galahads:

  Ramping up for a Mean Girl attack 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 The way you state half sister is so odd to me.  Yes, I understand the 
genetic aspect, but from a relational standpoint, it is just so odd to me.  Did 
you just meet her or have you known her for a long time?   
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

 I don't know why I find that kind of funny, that we could all be blown to 
smithereens because someone spilled coffee on a keyboard! Obviously too much 
turkey has taken over my brain!
 

 Speaking of food, at my half sister's last night, a neighbor brought over 
little goblets of pumpkin bread pudding! Bread pudding is my favorite dessert 
so I was in 7th heaven. 

 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 11:52 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
   Wow, you could accidentally put a coffee mug on the keyboard and off we all 
go to the next world!
 

 I remember that the systems monitoring Russian missile launches mistakenly 
thought the west was under attack twice with ICBMs actually on the way. And 
Ronald Reagan's escape plane took off twice without him! LOL.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 That's eight zeros above, not .  is what you say when you 
learn that the launch codes to much of America's nuclear arsenal were set to 
for many years during the Cold War to eight zeros. Makes you feel all warm and 
comfy knowing that, doesn't it?  :-)

http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 
http://gizmodo.com/for-20-years-the-nuclear-launch-code-at-us-minuteman-si-1473483587
 

So to recap, for around 20 years, 

[FairfieldLife] RE: A Meditator#39;s Thanksgiving

2013-11-29 Thread s3raphita
You're not trying to pull a Zeno on us are you?
 

 The series you list tends to zero so you do finally make it to Antelope 
Freeway.
 

 Asymptotic lines never touch while ever-increasing-blessedness is never 
sated. 
 

 Unsatisfied desire is in itself more desirable than any other satisfaction. 
- C S Lewis

 

---In fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 
anartaxius wrote:
 
  I think it is kind of like asymptotic lines, which approach each
 other but never meet, but eventually you get close enough to see there
 is an end, closure, but you can never quite get there...
 
 From an old Firesign Theatre album, the voice reading out the signs that
 a character in one of their audio plays passes on a Southern California
 highway:
 
 Antelope Freeway, 1 mile
 Antelope Freeway, 1/2 mile
 Antelope Freeway, 1/4 mile
 Antelope Freeway, 1/8 mile
 Antelope Freeway, 1/16 mile
 Antelope Freeway, 1/32 mile
 Antelope Freeway, 1/64 mile...
 
 :-)
 


Re: [FairfieldLife] 10 Ways Liars Use Words To Obscure the Truth

2013-11-29 Thread Richard J. Williams
So, I've been thinking about this for awhile and I've come to the 
conclusion that Judy doesn't want to dialog with anyone, otherwise she 
would be, I guess.


And, I don't know of anyone who would want to dialog with Judy, after 
meeting up with her in this group. But, I can think of several people 
who left the group after attempting to dialog with Judy. Judy has been 
attempting to get everyone to shun me for years. It looks like she 
didn't get to you, YET. LoL!


So, my conclusion is that Judy doesn't want anyone dialoging here, which 
is really weird, because she's been hanging on our every work for a 
decade. Nobody even cares if people are truthful in an online chat room, 
they just feel better when they have someone to talk to.


But everyone hates a well-poisoner - especially when they try to post 
something sincere and they meet up with a fanatical partisan who tries 
to get real personal on first meeting. Go figure.


In one of my first posts ever to a newsgroup, alt.m.t., I invited anyone 
to come over to my place for a visit. The first reply I got was from Lon 
P. Stacks (RIP) who said: And do what, drink coctails on the veranda? 
Well, duh


Can you imagine what it would be like if you went to a social gathering 
in NYC and met up with Judy and she behaved the way she behaves in this 
group? People would probably start heading for the door - just like they 
do here. There's what, 1000 subscribers to this list, but only a half 
dozen dare post here. Go figure.


On 11/28/2013 9:48 PM, anartax...@yahoo.com wrote:


Richard,


A well poisoner. Nice observation, including all the rest you wrote. 
In post 363322 perhaps there is a clue. In a response to Share 
authfriend wrote:


P.S.: You're quite right about my childhood, albeit not in the
way you hope. I had a happy, stress-free childhood with two
parents who loved me deeply and steadfastly. They passed on their
own devotion to authenticity and loathing of phoniness to me.

Whatever she feels is non authentic gets a dose of loathing, i.e., a 
feeling of intense dislike or disgust; hatred (that is the definition 
of the word). If you want to change the world, loathing is not the 
emotion I would want to operate from; it is the antithesis of 
acceptance, which is what spirituality develops (sometimes anyway). 
Loathing is the emotion you want to instill if you want to pass on 
intolerance. It is a blinding emotion.



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, punditster@... wrote:

I've been an respondent on the internet since 1999, so it's not like 
I'm a newbie or something. And it's been my observation that Judy has 
a really big ego, maybe bigger even than Barry, and that's saying a 
lot! There are facts and there are opinions - facts can be argued, but 
an opinion stands no matter what, and that's everyone's right to 
express - you may not agree, but there should be no excuse for 
slandering your debating opponents.


It's like when some people call others 'nazis' all the time - it soon 
loses its force, and in the end doesn't do justice to the real nazi 
victims.


At first I thought Judy was being very astute when she called Barry a 
liar over and over again; then she started going after me with the 
same tactic. For awhile I thought there was something wrong with me 
and that maybe I did lack integrity. But now, after Judy called Buck a 
liar for no reason  at all, I've come to the conclusion that Judy is 
simply a well-poisoner.


That's her style I guess.

Hey, I'm all for truthfulness and personal integrity, but I'm just not 
sure dialoging with anonymous informants in an online chat-room is the 
place to prove it - this is supposed to fun, not a trial by a 
one-person judge and jury.


But, it has reached a level now that she's calling almost everyone a 
liar, a troll, and/or a poser.


At this point, she's just a very unpleasant person to deal with and 
not very informative either. And, there's no relief when anyone starts 
up a dialog with her - it's incessant and endless. Barry is a case in 
point - from what I can tell, Judy carries a grudge for a very, very 
long time. Go figure.


P.S. You may have noticed that Judy does NOT respond very elegantly to 
constructive criticism. If anyone can point to an untruth I've posted, 
please let me know and point my error - be specific, so we can resolve 
any misunderstandings. Thanks in advance.



On 11/27/2013 10:33 AM, Share Long wrote:

I think Truth is something huge, that cannot really be completely 
conveyed in words alone. Unless the speaker or writer is 
communicating from a very settled and integrated level of 
consciousness. OTOH, unless someone has a nefarious intention, I 
think most people try to communicate truthfully. But each of us is 
limited by our connection to Truth. The most trustworthy people, 
imho, are those who recognize this and intend to become more and more 
truthful.




On Wednesday, November 27, 2013 9:21 AM, Richard J. Williams 

RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread feste37
What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you in the 
way you declare that she ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You think 
she should say what you have scripted for her, but of course things don't work 
that way, and to expect them to is just another way of trying to control 
another person. 

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
 

 No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to explain what she is 
saying or thinking or feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to 
provide a larger context for her comments because a lot of what she says 
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, 
human behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious 
sort of person.  
 

 Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. 
 

 I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone the benefit of the 
doubt and I am often reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a 
context or a writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given this 
statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or 
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I 
wouldn't stay here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of 
them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the moment, or as a 
result of watching the trajectory of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a 
larger picture in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the energy and 
feeling of a thread as it resonates within me. I may not always succeed in the 
heat of the moment (in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind 
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process of lessons learned, 
if you will. I am a human being and I *believe* in the concepts of 
accountability and humility, for example.   
 

 This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share responds, Emily 
declares the response to be inadequate or shocking, and proceeds to plunge the 
knife in and twist it as much as she can.

 

 Jesus Christ Feste, I have been shocked by Share on many occasions, it's true, 
and she has deferred and refused to take accountability for her words, or even 
explain them, on even more occasions.  I have also apologized more times and 
copped to my own actions more than many here and I have stated many times that 
I always check what I might say to others against my self - I am not a saint 
nor do I pretend to be. Share has a record of zero on that front.  I hold no 
animosity towards her; I am just objectively stating what I have noticed from 
her posts here.  To attribute these kinds of violent images to me says a lot 
about you, not me.  Curiously, Share, do you agree with what Feste says here 
about me?  Is this how you have experienced me on this forum?   
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Poor, helpless Share. She is Lady, hear her squeak...
 
Feste Sir Galahads:

  Ramping up for a Mean Girl attack 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 The way you state half sister is so odd to me.  Yes, I understand the 
genetic aspect, but from a relational standpoint, it is just so odd to me.  Did 
you just meet her or have you known her for a long time?   
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote:

 I don't know why I find that kind of funny, that we could all be blown to 
smithereens because someone spilled coffee on a keyboard! Obviously too much 
turkey has taken over my brain!
 

 Speaking of food, at my half sister's last night, a neighbor brought over 
little goblets of pumpkin bread pudding! Bread pudding is my favorite dessert 
so I was in 7th heaven. 

 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 11:52 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
   Wow, you could accidentally put a coffee mug on the keyboard and off we all 
go to the next world!
 

 I remember that the systems monitoring Russian missile launches mistakenly 
thought the west was under attack twice with ICBMs actually on the way. And 
Ronald Reagan's escape plane took off twice without him! LOL.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 That's eight zeros above, not .  is what you say when you 
learn that 

RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
Feste, You. Do. Not. Have. A. Clue.
  
 Feste the Clueless wrote:

  What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you in 
  the way you declare that she 
  ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You think she should say what you 
  have scripted for her, 
  but of course things don't work that way, and to expect them to is just 
  another way of trying to control 
  another person. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
 

 No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to explain what she is 
saying or thinking or feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to 
provide a larger context for her comments because a lot of what she says 
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, 
human behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious 
sort of person.  
 

 Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. 
 

 I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone the benefit of the 
doubt and I am often reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a 
context or a writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given this 
statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or 
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I 
wouldn't stay here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of 
them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the moment, or as a 
result of watching the trajectory of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a 
larger picture in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the energy and 
feeling of a thread as it resonates within me. I may not always succeed in the 
heat of the moment (in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind 
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process of lessons learned, 
if you will. I am a human being and I *believe* in the concepts of 
accountability and humility, for example.   
 

 This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share responds, Emily 
declares the response to be inadequate or shocking, and proceeds to plunge the 
knife in and twist it as much as she can.

 

 Jesus Christ Feste, I have been shocked by Share on many occasions, it's true, 
and she has deferred and refused to take accountability for her words, or even 
explain them, on even more occasions.  I have also apologized more times and 
copped to my own actions more than many here and I have stated many times that 
I always check what I might say to others against my self - I am not a saint 
nor do I pretend to be. Share has a record of zero on that front.  I hold no 
animosity towards her; I am just objectively stating what I have noticed from 
her posts here.  To attribute these kinds of violent images to me says a lot 
about you, not me.  Curiously, Share, do you agree with what Feste says here 
about me?  Is this how you have experienced me on this forum?   
 
 



 
 

 
 
























[FairfieldLife] RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread jr_esq
Salyavin,
 

 There's nothing wrong in dying with dignity.  The human body does not have to 
be prolonged by artificial means.   It can be justified, in most cases, to 
leave the body alone by itself to follow the natural course.  If the body 
recovers, it would be the best.  If it does not, then life would end naturally.
 

---In fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 The land of the free. Free to die because of religious beliefs? Fair enough. 
Plenty of belief systems refuse blood transfusions. I've known TMers who say 
they would refuse any sort of transplant because they don't want someone else's 
karma. In fact, I've known people who died because they chose alternative 
healthcare. Alternative to things that work it would seem.
 

 This is why I say natural selection works on the religious too. Not cruel at 
all, or at least no crueller than it is for you and me. Maybe if I'd read 
article
 

 

 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the irony 
in that and stop being so silly. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jr_esq@... wrote:

 But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to me 
that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if that is 
their religious preference to do so. 

 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html
 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html








 


[FairfieldLife] Re: MyFace

2013-11-29 Thread Richard Williams
MyFace, updated.

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Visit MyFace:
http://www.rwilliams.us/myface/ http://www.rwilliams.us/myface/index.htm


On Wed, Oct 30, 2013 at 10:32 AM, Richard Williams pundits...@gmail.comwrote:

 You've heard of 'My Space'. And, you've heard of 'Facebook'. My new social
 networking site will be called 'My Face'.

 Just post pictures of your face, nothing else, and then post comments
 about each others face.  Everyone loves to make comments about other
 people's face.  Don't know HTML? Send me a photo of your face along with
 your real name and I'll put up it  up on the web for you. It will be fun
 and I'll be a millionaire in a year or two. Don't be shy just because
 you've got no hair or teeth left. LoL!

 [image: Inline image 1]

 http://www.rwilliams.us/myface/




Re: [FairfieldLife] What I Did Today

2013-11-29 Thread Richard Williams
Today I went to this place:

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On Wed, Nov 27, 2013 at 5:29 PM, Richard Williams pundits...@gmail.comwrote:

 Yesterday we also went to Whole Foods and had a nice salad. They have got
 to have the very best salad bar in the whole town!

 [image: Inline image 1]


 On Wed, Nov 27, 2013 at 9:25 AM, Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote:



 Richard, yesterday I went to Coldwater Creek in Annapolis Town Center. I
 got my Mom a tunic length blouse for her birthday. It's a beautiful paisley
 print in black on white. But it's a little too small so we'll take it back
 today after lunch. I'm taking her and my sister to Brio's for lunch, also
 in Annapolis Town Center. People are calling my Mom this morning to wish
 her Happy Birthday. She's 83 and still zips around pretty well. Actually
 her foot can be a little heavy on the pedal but I just close my eyes LOL!




   On Tuesday, November 26, 2013 6:47 PM, Richard Williams 
 pundits...@gmail.com wrote:

  Today we went back to this place:

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 On Tue, Nov 19, 2013 at 9:51 PM, Richard Williams 
 pundits...@gmail.comwrote:

 My Whole Foods has lots of dried fruit and nuts:

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 On Tue, Nov 19, 2013 at 9:39 PM, Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.comwrote:


  Soon, Richard, I'll be going to the Whole Foods in Annapolis. They have
 TWO kinds of quinoa concoctions at the salad bar. How many different kinds
 of quinoa salad does your Whole Foods have?
 PS I LOVE these photos of the different places you visit or drive by!




   On Tuesday, November 19, 2013 9:25 PM, Richard Williams 
 pundits...@gmail.com wrote:

  Tonight we went to this place:

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 On Tue, Nov 19, 2013 at 7:11 PM, Richard Williams 
 pundits...@gmail.comwrote:

 Today I drove by this place:

 [image: Inline image 1]


 On Mon, Nov 18, 2013 at 12:02 PM, Richard Williams 
 pundits...@gmail.comwrote:

 This morning I went to this place:

 [image: Inline image 1]


 On Sun, Nov 17, 2013 at 7:57 PM, Richard Williams 
 pundits...@gmail.comwrote:

 On  the way home from the store I visited this place:

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 On Sun, Nov 17, 2013 at 3:03 PM, Richard Williams 
 pundits...@gmail.comwrote:

 There;s a rock and roll running marathon here today and there having a
 Formula Grand Prix race up in Austin.

 But, I went to this place today:

 [image: Inline image 1]



 On Sat, Nov 16, 2013 at 6:07 PM, Richard Williams 
 pundits...@gmail.comwrote:

 Today I went by this place. What are those people all lined up for,
 waiting for days?

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 On Fri, Nov 15, 2013 at 5:16 PM, Richard Williams 
 pundits...@gmail.comwrote:

 Later today I drove past this place:

 [image: Inline image 1]


 On Fri, Nov 15, 2013 at 4:21 PM, Bhairitu noozg...@sbcglobal.net wrote:


   There's an app for this:
 https://twitter.com/

 I'm sure everyone on FFL will sign up for your tweets.


 On 11/15/2013 12:07 PM, Richard Williams wrote:


 Alright, I'm back on the discussion board; sorry for the delay but I had
 to go here::

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RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread feste37
Hey auth, what's with the weird punctuation? Doesn't. Make. Any. Sense.  I can 
only conclude that you have cracked under the recent pressure. First, Share 
stands up to you. Then Richard J. Williams kicks your ass all over the park, 
without much reply from you, and then Xeno and Barry put the boot in, just to 
make sure you don't get up. Not a good week for you on this board, is it?

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Feste, You. Do. Not. Have. A. Clue.
  
 Feste the Clueless wrote:

  What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you in 
  the way you declare that she 
  ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You think she should say what you 
  have scripted for her, 
  but of course things don't work that way, and to expect them to is just 
  another way of trying to control 
  another person. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
 

 No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to explain what she is 
saying or thinking or feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to 
provide a larger context for her comments because a lot of what she says 
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, 
human behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious 
sort of person.  
 

 Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. 
 

 I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone the benefit of the 
doubt and I am often reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a 
context or a writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given this 
statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or 
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I 
wouldn't stay here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of 
them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the moment, or as a 
result of watching the trajectory of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a 
larger picture in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the energy and 
feeling of a thread as it resonates within me. I may not always succeed in the 
heat of the moment (in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind 
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process of lessons learned, 
if you will. I am a human being and I *believe* in the concepts of 
accountability and humility, for example.   
 

 This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share responds, Emily 
declares the response to be inadequate or shocking, and proceeds to plunge the 
knife in and twist it as much as she can.

 

 Jesus Christ Feste, I have been shocked by Share on many occasions, it's true, 
and she has deferred and refused to take accountability for her words, or even 
explain them, on even more occasions.  I have also apologized more times and 
copped to my own actions more than many here and I have stated many times that 
I always check what I might say to others against my self - I am not a saint 
nor do I pretend to be. Share has a record of zero on that front.  I hold no 
animosity towards her; I am just objectively stating what I have noticed from 
her posts here.  To attribute these kinds of violent images to me says a lot 
about you, not me.  Curiously, Share, do you agree with what Feste says here 
about me?  Is this how you have experienced me on this forum?   
 
 



 
 

 
 


























[FairfieldLife] Re: 100 Great Rock Artists

2013-11-29 Thread Richard Williams
ZZTop

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ZZ Top - Got Me Under Pressure (Live In Texas):
http://youtu.be/ZHRHc5HmFHg

ZZ Top - Billy Gibbons, Dusty Hill, and Frank Beard (the one without a
beard). ZZ Top is considered to be one of the greatest rock bands of all
time. Some of the songs are so powerful they were once recommended by Rama.
Several of the members are very fond of MMY - one became a TM Teacher.

ZZ Top was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 2004. As a
group, ZZ Top possesses 11 gold records and 7 platinum (13 multi-platinum)
records; their 1983 album, Eliminator, remains the group's most
commercially successful record, selling over 10 million units.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ZZ_Top

Music Suggested by Rama:

Sleeping Bag from Afterburner
ZZ Top, 1987

http://www.ramalila.com/music/complete.html

ZZ Top: Live From Texas'
DVD, June 24, 2008
Color, Dolby, DTS Surround Sound, DVD-Video, Live, NTSC
122 minutes

Read more:

'Roadhouse Blues: Stevie Ray Vaughan and Texas RB'
by Hugh Gregory
Backbeat Books, 2003

Amazon reviews:

I was there and they were fantastic!! - J. Field

The show is filmed very well, very clear and sharp. The sound is amazing
and the set list is so full of hits even a classic rock station can't keep
up. - Christopher

Forget AC/DC - ZZ Top is the greatest rock band ever and they prove it
once again on this awesome DVD! - P. Myers


On Sun, Nov 17, 2013 at 8:29 AM, Richard Williams pundits...@gmail.comwrote:

 Back when people could actually sing and play music for real:

 [image: Inline image 1]

 Bob Seeger  The Silver Bullet Band:
 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bob_Seger

 Night Moves Live-Bob Seger:
 http://youtu.be/mKaHci9Mc4A

 Early Detroit Band:

 Marshall Crenshaw
 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marshall_Crenshaw

 Marshall Crenshaw 2010 Detroit All Star Revue:
 http://youtu.be/HiaYst5wIQI



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread Richard J. Williams
Sometimes people get real busy working in their home office and don't 
really have time to post a long reply to a discussion group. Or, when 
they hear the 'ding', they break away just long enough to post a short 
one-liner, just so you know they are still monitoring everything that's 
said. Go figure.


On 11/29/2013 4:04 PM, feste37 wrote:


Hey auth, what's with the weird punctuation? Doesn't. Make. Any. 
Sense.  I can only conclude that you have cracked under the recent 
pressure. First, Share stands up to you. Then Richard J. Williams 
kicks your ass all over the park, without much reply from you, and 
then Xeno and Barry put the boot in, just to make sure you don't get 
up. Not a good week for you on this board, is it?




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

*Feste, You. Do. Not. Have. A. Clue.*

*Feste the Clueless wrote:*

 What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you 
in the way you declare that she

 ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You think she should say what 
you have scripted for her,

 butof course things don't work that way, and to expect them to is
just another way of trying to control

 another person.



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by
the Mean Girls. Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk
negativity that produces crude, nasty attacks. In respect
of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is
always the same. Any excuse to belittle, mock, and insult
-- that's authfriend's MO.


With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts
with the pretense that she doesn't understand or is trying
to understand something that Share wrote.


No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to
explain what she is saying or thinking or feeling when she
says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to provide a larger
context for her comments because a lot of what she says
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many,
times.  Objectively, human behavior does interest me, no
doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious sort of person.


Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully
trying to disguise her hostility.


I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone
the benefit of the doubt and I am often reasonable and
usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a context or a
writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given
this statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I
don't hold onto or maintain hostility on this forum
towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I wouldn't stay
here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is
one of them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up
in the moment, or as a result of watching the trajectory
of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a larger picture
in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the
energy and feeling of a thread as it resonates within me.
I may not always succeed in the heat of the moment (in
keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process
of lessons learned, if you will. I am a human being and
I *believe* in the concepts of accountability and
humility, for example.


This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share
responds, Emily declares the response to be inadequate or
shocking, and proceeds to plunge the knife in and twist it
as much as she can.


Jesus Christ Feste, I have been shocked by Share on many
occasions, it's true, and she has deferred and refused to
take accountability for her words, or even explain them,
on even more occasions.  I have also apologized more times
and copped to my own actions more than many here and I
have stated many times that I always check what I might
say to others against my self - I am not a saint nor do I
pretend to be. Share has a record of zero on that front.
 I hold no animosity towards her; I am just objectively
stating what I have noticed from her posts here.  To
attribute these kinds of violent images to me says a lot
about you, not me.  Curiously, Share, do you agree with
what Feste says here 

RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread emilymaenot
First of all, I am seldom, if ever, truly mean; I do get mad sometimes. I do 
tease others about themselves and only those who have no ability to laugh at 
themselves whatsoever take offense, from what I've noticed.  I make fun of 
myself as well all the time. (Again, all in a manner and context sometimes that 
not everyone understands, particularly given that you can't see me or hear my 
tone of voice).  Secondly, I always try to communicate from an honest place.  I 
*never* script anyone - how could I do that?  I have no power or control over 
what anyone except myself writes.  Everyone here has a choice if and how, they 
respond.  Share ignores most of what I comment to her on; she certainly never 
responds the way I think she ought; I am not her keeper, but like everyone 
here, including me, if she posts, she runs the risk of receiving feedback.  If 
that bothers her, than she has the option not to post.  Thank you for your 
feedback; I find it humorous honestly, although quite off-base.  
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you in 
the way you declare that she ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You 
think she should say what you have scripted for her, but of course things don't 
work that way, and to expect them to is just another way of trying to control 
another person. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
 

 No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to explain what she is 
saying or thinking or feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to 
provide a larger context for her comments because a lot of what she says 
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, 
human behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious 
sort of person.  
 

 Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. 
 

 I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone the benefit of the 
doubt and I am often reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a 
context or a writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given this 
statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or 
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I 
wouldn't stay here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of 
them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the moment, or as a 
result of watching the trajectory of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a 
larger picture in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the energy and 
feeling of a thread as it resonates within me. I may not always succeed in the 
heat of the moment (in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind 
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process of lessons learned, 
if you will. I am a human being and I *believe* in the concepts of 
accountability and humility, for example.   
 

 This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share responds, Emily 
declares the response to be inadequate or shocking, and proceeds to plunge the 
knife in and twist it as much as she can.

 

 Jesus Christ Feste, I have been shocked by Share on many occasions, it's true, 
and she has deferred and refused to take accountability for her words, or even 
explain them, on even more occasions.  I have also apologized more times and 
copped to my own actions more than many here and I have stated many times that 
I always check what I might say to others against my self - I am not a saint 
nor do I pretend to be. Share has a record of zero on that front.  I hold no 
animosity towards her; I am just objectively stating what I have noticed from 
her posts here.  To attribute these kinds of violent images to me says a lot 
about you, not me.  Curiously, Share, do you agree with what Feste says here 
about me?  Is this how you have experienced me on this forum?   
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Poor, helpless Share. She is Lady, hear her squeak...
 
Feste Sir Galahads:

  Ramping up for a Mean Girl attack 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 The way you state half sister is so odd to me.  Yes, I understand the 
genetic aspect, but from a relational standpoint, it 

RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
I think Feste must have taken one too many of his testosterone pills over 
Thanksgiving. 
 
Emily wrote:

  First of all, I am seldom, if ever, truly mean; I do get mad sometimes. I do 
  tease others about themselves and only those who have no ability to laugh at 
  themselves whatsoever take offense, from what I've noticed.  I make fun of 
  myself as well all the time. (Again, all in a manner and context sometimes 
  that not everyone understands, particularly given that you can't see me or 
  hear my tone of voice).  Secondly, I always try to communicate from an 
  honest place.  I *never* script anyone - how could I do that?  I have no 
  power or control over what anyone except myself writes.  Everyone here has a 
  choice if and how, they respond.  Share ignores most of what I comment to 
  her on; she certainly never responds the way I think she ought; I am not 
  her keeper, but like everyone here, including me, if she posts, she runs the 
  risk of receiving feedback.  If that bothers her, than she has the option 
  not to post.  Thank you for your feedback; I find it humorous honestly, 
  although quite off-base.  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you in 
the way you declare that she ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You 
think she should say what you have scripted for her, but of course things don't 
work that way, and to expect them to is just another way of trying to control 
another person. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
 

 No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to explain what she is 
saying or thinking or feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to 
provide a larger context for her comments because a lot of what she says 
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, 
human behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious 
sort of person.  
 

 Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. 
 

 I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone the benefit of the 
doubt and I am often reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a 
context or a writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given this 
statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or 
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I 
wouldn't stay here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of 
them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the moment, or as a 
result of watching the trajectory of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a 
larger picture in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the energy and 
feeling of a thread as it resonates within me. I may not always succeed in the 
heat of the moment (in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind 
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process of lessons learned, 
if you will. I am a human being and I *believe* in the concepts of 
accountability and humility, for example.   
 

 This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share responds, Emily 
declares the response to be inadequate or shocking, and proceeds to plunge the 
knife in and twist it as much as she can.

 

 Jesus Christ Feste, I have been shocked by Share on many occasions, it's true, 
and she has deferred and refused to take accountability for her words, or even 
explain them, on even more occasions.  I have also apologized more times and 
copped to my own actions more than many here and I have stated many times that 
I always check what I might say to others against my self - I am not a saint 
nor do I pretend to be. Share has a record of zero on that front.  I hold no 
animosity towards her; I am just objectively stating what I have noticed from 
her posts here.  To attribute these kinds of violent images to me says a lot 
about you, not me.  Curiously, Share, do you agree with what Feste says here 
about me?  Is this how you have experienced me on this forum?   
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Poor, helpless Share. She is Lady, hear her squeak...
 
Feste Sir Galahads:

  Ramping up for a Mean Girl attack 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 

RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
Um, looks a whole lot different from here, Feste. As for the weird 
punctuation, you must not get around the Web a lot; it's pretty much standard 
practice these days for bloggers and commenters when they want to say something 
emphatically.
 

 Poor Richard has been exceedingly frustrated that he can't get me to respond 
to his trolling (but as I keep saying, if you'd like me to give you a detailed 
refutation of anything he says about me, just ask). If Share stood up to me, 
it must have been awfully feebly, because I didn't notice. Xeno's making a 
total ass of himself, not for the first time. And Barry? He's repeatedly shot 
himself in the foot trying to get me over the past few days. Trouble is, he 
doesn't have any ammunition except lies, and for some reason it never dawns on 
him that his lies are easily disposed of. I guess you've been reading only his 
posts and not my responses.
 

 Want to try again?
 
Feste fumphs:
 
 Hey auth, what's with the weird punctuation? Doesn't. Make. Any. Sense.  I can 
only conclude that you have cracked under the recent pressure. First, Share 
stands up to you. Then Richard J. Williams kicks your ass all over the park, 
without much reply from you, and then Xeno and Barry put the boot in, just to 
make sure you don't get up. Not a good week for you on this board, is it?

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Feste, You. Do. Not. Have. A. Clue.
  
 Feste the Clueless wrote:

  What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you in 
  the way you declare that she 
  ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You think she should say what you 
  have scripted for her, 
  but of course things don't work that way, and to expect them to is just 
  another way of trying to control 
  another person. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
 

 No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to explain what she is 
saying or thinking or feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to 
provide a larger context for her comments because a lot of what she says 
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, 
human behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious 
sort of person.  
 

 Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. 
 

 I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone the benefit of the 
doubt and I am often reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a 
context or a writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given this 
statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or 
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I 
wouldn't stay here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of 
them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the moment, or as a 
result of watching the trajectory of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a 
larger picture in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the energy and 
feeling of a thread as it resonates within me. I may not always succeed in the 
heat of the moment (in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind 
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process of lessons learned, 
if you will. I am a human being and I *believe* in the concepts of 
accountability and humility, for example.   
 

 This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share responds, Emily 
declares the response to be inadequate or shocking, and proceeds to plunge the 
knife in and twist it as much as she can.

 

 Jesus Christ Feste, I have been shocked by Share on many occasions, it's true, 
and she has deferred and refused to take accountability for her words, or even 
explain them, on even more occasions.  I have also apologized more times and 
copped to my own actions more than many here and I have stated many times that 
I always check what I might say to others against my self - I am not a saint 
nor do I pretend to be. Share has a record of zero on that front.  I hold no 
animosity towards her; I am just objectively stating what I have noticed from 
her posts here.  To attribute these kinds of violent images to me says a lot 
about you, not me.  Curiously, Share, do you agree with what Feste says here 
about me?  Is this how you have 

RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread feste37
Standard practice? You have got to be kidding. I have never seen it before. I. 
Think. It. Is. Very. Bad. Writing. It's quite fun watching you being a punching 
bag for everyone else and lamely trying to claim victory. As for the 
testosterone pills, I don't need them. Just ask my girlfriend. 

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Um, looks a whole lot different from here, Feste. As for the weird 
punctuation, you must not get around the Web a lot; it's pretty much standard 
practice these days for bloggers and commenters when they want to say something 
emphatically.
 

 Poor Richard has been exceedingly frustrated that he can't get me to respond 
to his trolling (but as I keep saying, if you'd like me to give you a detailed 
refutation of anything he says about me, just ask). If Share stood up to me, 
it must have been awfully feebly, because I didn't notice. Xeno's making a 
total ass of himself, not for the first time. And Barry? He's repeatedly shot 
himself in the foot trying to get me over the past few days. Trouble is, he 
doesn't have any ammunition except lies, and for some reason it never dawns on 
him that his lies are easily disposed of. I guess you've been reading only his 
posts and not my responses.
 

 Want to try again?
 
Feste fumphs:
 
 Hey auth, what's with the weird punctuation? Doesn't. Make. Any. Sense.  I can 
only conclude that you have cracked under the recent pressure. First, Share 
stands up to you. Then Richard J. Williams kicks your ass all over the park, 
without much reply from you, and then Xeno and Barry put the boot in, just to 
make sure you don't get up. Not a good week for you on this board, is it?

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Feste, You. Do. Not. Have. A. Clue.
  
 Feste the Clueless wrote:

  What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you in 
  the way you declare that she 
  ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You think she should say what you 
  have scripted for her, 
  but of course things don't work that way, and to expect them to is just 
  another way of trying to control 
  another person. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
 

 No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to explain what she is 
saying or thinking or feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to 
provide a larger context for her comments because a lot of what she says 
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, 
human behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious 
sort of person.  
 

 Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. 
 

 I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone the benefit of the 
doubt and I am often reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a 
context or a writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given this 
statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or 
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I 
wouldn't stay here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of 
them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the moment, or as a 
result of watching the trajectory of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a 
larger picture in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the energy and 
feeling of a thread as it resonates within me. I may not always succeed in the 
heat of the moment (in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind 
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process of lessons learned, 
if you will. I am a human being and I *believe* in the concepts of 
accountability and humility, for example.   
 

 This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share responds, Emily 
declares the response to be inadequate or shocking, and proceeds to plunge the 
knife in and twist it as much as she can.

 

 Jesus Christ Feste, I have been shocked by Share on many occasions, it's true, 
and she has deferred and refused to take accountability for her words, or even 
explain them, on even more occasions.  I have also apologized more times and 
copped to my own actions more than many here and I have stated many times that 
I always check what I might say to others against my self - I am 

RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread emilymaenot
Feste, do you see the humor in this?  
 

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 I think Feste must have taken one too many of his testosterone pills over 
Thanksgiving. 
 
Emily wrote:

  First of all, I am seldom, if ever, truly mean; I do get mad sometimes. I do 
  tease others about themselves and only those who have no ability to laugh at 
  themselves whatsoever take offense, from what I've noticed.  I make fun of 
  myself as well all the time. (Again, all in a manner and context sometimes 
  that not everyone understands, particularly given that you can't see me or 
  hear my tone of voice).  Secondly, I always try to communicate from an 
  honest place.  I *never* script anyone - how could I do that?  I have no 
  power or control over what anyone except myself writes.  Everyone here has a 
  choice if and how, they respond.  Share ignores most of what I comment to 
  her on; she certainly never responds the way I think she ought; I am not 
  her keeper, but like everyone here, including me, if she posts, she runs the 
  risk of receiving feedback.  If that bothers her, than she has the option 
  not to post.  Thank you for your feedback; I find it humorous honestly, 
  although quite off-base.  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you in 
the way you declare that she ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You 
think she should say what you have scripted for her, but of course things don't 
work that way, and to expect them to is just another way of trying to control 
another person. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
 

 No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to explain what she is 
saying or thinking or feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to 
provide a larger context for her comments because a lot of what she says 
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, 
human behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious 
sort of person.  
 

 Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. 
 

 I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone the benefit of the 
doubt and I am often reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a 
context or a writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given this 
statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or 
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I 
wouldn't stay here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of 
them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the moment, or as a 
result of watching the trajectory of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a 
larger picture in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the energy and 
feeling of a thread as it resonates within me. I may not always succeed in the 
heat of the moment (in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind 
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process of lessons learned, 
if you will. I am a human being and I *believe* in the concepts of 
accountability and humility, for example.   
 

 This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share responds, Emily 
declares the response to be inadequate or shocking, and proceeds to plunge the 
knife in and twist it as much as she can.

 

 Jesus Christ Feste, I have been shocked by Share on many occasions, it's true, 
and she has deferred and refused to take accountability for her words, or even 
explain them, on even more occasions.  I have also apologized more times and 
copped to my own actions more than many here and I have stated many times that 
I always check what I might say to others against my self - I am not a saint 
nor do I pretend to be. Share has a record of zero on that front.  I hold no 
animosity towards her; I am just objectively stating what I have noticed from 
her posts here.  To attribute these kinds of violent images to me says a lot 
about you, not me.  Curiously, Share, do you agree with what Feste says here 
about me?  Is this how you have experienced me on this forum?   
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Poor, helpless Share. She is Lady, hear her squeak...
 
Feste 

RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread emilymaenot
Good, it appears that you do.  OTOH, you gain pleasure from holding a 
perception that Judy is a punching bag getting beat up. Sounds kind of 
macabre to me.  
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 Feste, do you see the humor in this?  
 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 I think Feste must have taken one too many of his testosterone pills over 
Thanksgiving. 
 
Emily wrote:

  First of all, I am seldom, if ever, truly mean; I do get mad sometimes. I do 
  tease others about themselves and only those who have no ability to laugh at 
  themselves whatsoever take offense, from what I've noticed.  I make fun of 
  myself as well all the time. (Again, all in a manner and context sometimes 
  that not everyone understands, particularly given that you can't see me or 
  hear my tone of voice).  Secondly, I always try to communicate from an 
  honest place.  I *never* script anyone - how could I do that?  I have no 
  power or control over what anyone except myself writes.  Everyone here has a 
  choice if and how, they respond.  Share ignores most of what I comment to 
  her on; she certainly never responds the way I think she ought; I am not 
  her keeper, but like everyone here, including me, if she posts, she runs the 
  risk of receiving feedback.  If that bothers her, than she has the option 
  not to post.  Thank you for your feedback; I find it humorous honestly, 
  although quite off-base.  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you in 
the way you declare that she ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You 
think she should say what you have scripted for her, but of course things don't 
work that way, and to expect them to is just another way of trying to control 
another person. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
 

 No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to explain what she is 
saying or thinking or feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to 
provide a larger context for her comments because a lot of what she says 
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, 
human behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious 
sort of person.  
 

 Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. 
 

 I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone the benefit of the 
doubt and I am often reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a 
context or a writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given this 
statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or 
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I 
wouldn't stay here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of 
them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the moment, or as a 
result of watching the trajectory of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a 
larger picture in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the energy and 
feeling of a thread as it resonates within me. I may not always succeed in the 
heat of the moment (in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind 
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process of lessons learned, 
if you will. I am a human being and I *believe* in the concepts of 
accountability and humility, for example.   
 

 This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share responds, Emily 
declares the response to be inadequate or shocking, and proceeds to plunge the 
knife in and twist it as much as she can.

 

 Jesus Christ Feste, I have been shocked by Share on many occasions, it's true, 
and she has deferred and refused to take accountability for her words, or even 
explain them, on even more occasions.  I have also apologized more times and 
copped to my own actions more than many here and I have stated many times that 
I always check what I might say to others against my self - I am not a saint 
nor do I pretend to be. Share has a record of zero on that front.  I hold no 
animosity towards her; I am just objectively stating what I have noticed from 
her posts here.  To attribute these kinds of violent images to me says a lot 
about you, not me.  Curiously, Share, do 

RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
Feste tries again:
  Standard practice? You have got to be kidding.
 

 Uh, no.
 

  I have never seen it before. I. Think. It. Is. Very. Bad. Writing.
 

 LOL. Better learn to appreciate Web-speak for the sake of your blood pressure. 
It's not going anywhere.
 

  It's quite fun watching you being a punching bag for everyone else and 
  lamely trying to claim victory.
 

 Actually I don't claim victory. The folks throwing the punches and missing 
(or smacking themselves in the face) are losers without any assistance from me. 
But I'm glad you're enjoying the spectacle.
 

  As for the testosterone pills, I don't need them. Just ask my girlfriend. 

 
Mmmm-hmmm.
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Um, looks a whole lot different from here, Feste. As for the weird 
punctuation, you must not get around the Web a lot; it's pretty much standard 
practice these days for bloggers and commenters when they want to say something 
emphatically.
 

 Poor Richard has been exceedingly frustrated that he can't get me to respond 
to his trolling (but as I keep saying, if you'd like me to give you a detailed 
refutation of anything he says about me, just ask). If Share stood up to me, 
it must have been awfully feebly, because I didn't notice. Xeno's making a 
total ass of himself, not for the first time. And Barry? He's repeatedly shot 
himself in the foot trying to get me over the past few days. Trouble is, he 
doesn't have any ammunition except lies, and for some reason it never dawns on 
him that his lies are easily disposed of. I guess you've been reading only his 
posts and not my responses.
 

 Want to try again?
 
Feste fumphs:
 
 Hey auth, what's with the weird punctuation? Doesn't. Make. Any. Sense.  I can 
only conclude that you have cracked under the recent pressure. First, Share 
stands up to you. Then Richard J. Williams kicks your ass all over the park, 
without much reply from you, and then Xeno and Barry put the boot in, just to 
make sure you don't get up. Not a good week for you on this board, is it?

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Feste, You. Do. Not. Have. A. Clue.
  
 Feste the Clueless wrote:

  What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you in 
  the way you declare that she 
  ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You think she should say what you 
  have scripted for her, 
  but of course things don't work that way, and to expect them to is just 
  another way of trying to control 
  another person. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
 

 No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to explain what she is 
saying or thinking or feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to 
provide a larger context for her comments because a lot of what she says 
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, 
human behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious 
sort of person.  
 

 Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. 
 

 I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone the benefit of the 
doubt and I am often reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a 
context or a writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given this 
statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or 
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I 
wouldn't stay here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of 
them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the moment, or as a 
result of watching the trajectory of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a 
larger picture in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the energy and 
feeling of a thread as it resonates within me. I may not always succeed in the 
heat of the moment (in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind 
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process of lessons learned, 
if you will. I am a human being and I *believe* in the concepts of 
accountability and humility, for example.   
 

 This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share responds, Emily 
declares the response to be inadequate or shocking, and proceeds to plunge the 
knife in and twist it as much as she can.

 

 Jesus Christ 

RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread feste37
It's just a metaphor, hon.

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 Good, it appears that you do.  OTOH, you gain pleasure from holding a 
perception that Judy is a punching bag getting beat up. Sounds kind of 
macabre to me.  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 Feste, do you see the humor in this?  
 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 I think Feste must have taken one too many of his testosterone pills over 
Thanksgiving. 
 
Emily wrote:

  First of all, I am seldom, if ever, truly mean; I do get mad sometimes. I do 
  tease others about themselves and only those who have no ability to laugh at 
  themselves whatsoever take offense, from what I've noticed.  I make fun of 
  myself as well all the time. (Again, all in a manner and context sometimes 
  that not everyone understands, particularly given that you can't see me or 
  hear my tone of voice).  Secondly, I always try to communicate from an 
  honest place.  I *never* script anyone - how could I do that?  I have no 
  power or control over what anyone except myself writes.  Everyone here has a 
  choice if and how, they respond.  Share ignores most of what I comment to 
  her on; she certainly never responds the way I think she ought; I am not 
  her keeper, but like everyone here, including me, if she posts, she runs the 
  risk of receiving feedback.  If that bothers her, than she has the option 
  not to post.  Thank you for your feedback; I find it humorous honestly, 
  although quite off-base.  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you in 
the way you declare that she ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You 
think she should say what you have scripted for her, but of course things don't 
work that way, and to expect them to is just another way of trying to control 
another person. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
 

 No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to explain what she is 
saying or thinking or feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to 
provide a larger context for her comments because a lot of what she says 
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, 
human behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious 
sort of person.  
 

 Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. 
 

 I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone the benefit of the 
doubt and I am often reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a 
context or a writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given this 
statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or 
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I 
wouldn't stay here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of 
them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the moment, or as a 
result of watching the trajectory of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a 
larger picture in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the energy and 
feeling of a thread as it resonates within me. I may not always succeed in the 
heat of the moment (in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind 
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process of lessons learned, 
if you will. I am a human being and I *believe* in the concepts of 
accountability and humility, for example.   
 

 This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share responds, Emily 
declares the response to be inadequate or shocking, and proceeds to plunge the 
knife in and twist it as much as she can.

 

 Jesus Christ Feste, I have been shocked by Share on many occasions, it's true, 
and she has deferred and refused to take accountability for her words, or even 
explain them, on even more occasions.  I have also apologized more times and 
copped to my own actions more than many here and I have stated many times that 
I always check what I might say to others against my self - I am not a saint 
nor do I pretend to be. Share has a record of zero on that front.  I hold no 
animosity towards her; I am just objectively stating what I have noticed from 
her posts here.  To 

RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: Amish Girl Refuses Chemotheraphy

2013-11-29 Thread doctordumbass
Apples and oranges, Dick. Can't really compare the loftly self ambition and 
arrogance that characterizes Obama, with the demonic idiocy of George Bush. 

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, punditster@... wrote:

 This NOT a conference call, Mr. Obama - Angela Merkel
 
 On 11/29/2013 10:01 AM, doctordumbass@... mailto:doctordumbass@... wrote:
 
   I have used the Google. - former President G. W. Bush
 
  
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 
no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
 
 Share, make Google your friend!  Missed you at the Thanksgiving dinner 
yesterday.
 
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 
sharelong60@... mailto:sharelong60@... wrote:
 
 This morning when I opened Yahoo there was a news story in the top five saying 
that the family was fleeing the country! Now when I went to find that story, 
it's gone!
 
 
 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 6:24 AM, salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
 
   The land of the free. Free to die because of religious beliefs? Fair enough. 
Plenty of belief systems refuse blood transfusions. I've known TMers who say 
they would refuse any sort of transplant because they don't want someone else's 
karma. In fact, I've known people who died because they chose alternative 
healthcare. Alternative to things that work it would seem.
 
 
 This is why I say natural selection works on the religious too. Not cruel at 
all, or at least no crueller than it is for you and me. Maybe if I'd read 
article
 
 
 
 
 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 
no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
 
 That's a very cruel comment. I'm on the side of the parents. Since when does 
the state have the right to inflict chemotherapy on people who don't want it? 
The family has every right to choose an alternative method of treatment. This 
is supposed to be the land of the free. 
 
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 
no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
 
 Yup, natural selection works on the religious too. Maybe they'll see the irony 
in that and stop being so silly. 
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 
jr_esq@... mailto:jr_esq@... wrote:
 
 But the State of Ohio wants her to continue the treatment.  It appears to me 
that the girl and her family have the right to forego the treatment if that is 
their religious preference to do so. 
 
 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html
 
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-amish-girl-cuts-off-contact-amid-chemo-161240343.html
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 



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Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread Richard J. Williams
Like I said, Feste, Judy doesn't take criticism very gracefully. It's 
looking like Judy is striking out on all counts today - not one single 
person is defending her. If anyone dares to say anything about her, she 
bites back. And there is an echo in here.


On 11/29/2013 4:47 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:


Um, looks a whole lot different from here, Feste. As for the weird 
punctuation, you must not get around the Web a lot; it's pretty much 
standard practice these days for bloggers and commenters when they 
want to say something emphatically.



Poor Richard has been exceedingly frustrated that he can't get me to 
respond to his trolling (but as I keep saying, if you'd like me to 
give you a detailed refutation of anything he says about me, just 
ask). If Share stood up to me, it must have been awfully feebly, 
because I didn't notice. Xeno's making a total ass of himself, not for 
the first time. And Barry? He's repeatedly shot himself in the foot 
trying to get me over the past few days. Trouble is, he doesn't have 
any ammunition except lies, and for some reason it never dawns on him 
that his lies are easily disposed of. I guess you've been reading only 
his posts and not my responses.



Want to try again?


Feste fumphs:

Hey auth, what's with the weird punctuation? Doesn't. Make. Any. 
Sense.  I can only conclude that you have cracked under the recent 
pressure. First, Share stands up to you. Then Richard J. Williams 
kicks your ass all over the park, without much reply from you, and 
then Xeno and Barry put the boot in, just to make sure you don't get 
up. Not a good week for you on this board, is it?




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

*Feste, You. Do. Not. Have. A. Clue.*

*Feste the Clueless wrote:*

 What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to 
you in the way you
declare that she

 ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You think she should say 
what you have scripted for
her,

 butof course things don't work that way, and to expect them to is
just another way of trying to control

 another person.



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

It's interesting to see the different approaches taken
by the Mean Girls. Authfriend practices a kind of
knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All
Nasty, All the Time. It doesn't matter what these two
write; the response is always the same. Any excuse to
belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO.


With Emily, it's a little different at first. It
starts with the pretense that she doesn't understand
or is trying to understand something that Share wrote.


No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking
her to explain what she is saying or thinking or
feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her
to provide a larger context for her comments because a
lot of what she says doesn't make sense to me.  I've
stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, human
behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a
sincerely curious sort of person.


Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully
trying to disguise her hostility.


I am *sounding* that way because I always give
everyone the benefit of the doubt and I am often
reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes
within a context or a writing style that you don't
seem to pick up on, given this statement of yours.  I
am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever,
really.  If I did, I wouldn't stay here.  I have
certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of them,
when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the
moment, or as a result of watching the trajectory of a
conversation unfold.  I try to keep a larger picture
in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the
energy and feeling of a thread as it resonates within
me. I may not always succeed in the heat of the moment
(in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but
behind the scenes, in my own life, I always go through
a process of lessons learned, if you will. I am a
human being and I *believe* in the concepts of

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2013-11-29 Thread feste37
Goodness me, just because it's a fad on the Web doesn't mean you have to follow 
it. It. Makes. No. Sense. At. All. It's. Stupid.  I thought you were the sort 
of person who liked to uphold standards of good, effective writing, but alas, 
it appears that I am mistaken. I. Am. Sad. About. That. 

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Feste tries again:
  Standard practice? You have got to be kidding.
 

 Uh, no.
 

  I have never seen it before. I. Think. It. Is. Very. Bad. Writing.
 
 
 LOL. Better learn to appreciate Web-speak for the sake of your blood pressure. 
It's not going anywhere.
 

  It's quite fun watching you being a punching bag for everyone else and 
  lamely trying to claim victory.
 
 
 Actually I don't claim victory. The folks throwing the punches and missing 
(or smacking themselves in the face) are losers without any assistance from me. 
But I'm glad you're enjoying the spectacle.
 

  As for the testosterone pills, I don't need them. Just ask my girlfriend. 
 
 
Mmmm-hmmm.
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Um, looks a whole lot different from here, Feste. As for the weird 
punctuation, you must not get around the Web a lot; it's pretty much standard 
practice these days for bloggers and commenters when they want to say something 
emphatically.
 

 Poor Richard has been exceedingly frustrated that he can't get me to respond 
to his trolling (but as I keep saying, if you'd like me to give you a detailed 
refutation of anything he says about me, just ask). If Share stood up to me, 
it must have been awfully feebly, because I didn't notice. Xeno's making a 
total ass of himself, not for the first time. And Barry? He's repeatedly shot 
himself in the foot trying to get me over the past few days. Trouble is, he 
doesn't have any ammunition except lies, and for some reason it never dawns on 
him that his lies are easily disposed of. I guess you've been reading only his 
posts and not my responses.
 

 Want to try again?
 
Feste fumphs:
 
 Hey auth, what's with the weird punctuation? Doesn't. Make. Any. Sense.  I can 
only conclude that you have cracked under the recent pressure. First, Share 
stands up to you. Then Richard J. Williams kicks your ass all over the park, 
without much reply from you, and then Xeno and Barry put the boot in, just to 
make sure you don't get up. Not a good week for you on this board, is it?

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Feste, You. Do. Not. Have. A. Clue.
  
 Feste the Clueless wrote:

  What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you in 
  the way you declare that she 
  ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You think she should say what you 
  have scripted for her, 
  but of course things don't work that way, and to expect them to is just 
  another way of trying to control 
  another person. 
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by the Mean Girls. 
Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk negativity that produces crude, nasty 
attacks. In respect of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It 
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is always the same. Any 
excuse to belittle, mock, and insult -- that's authfriend's MO. 

 

 With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts with the pretense that 
she doesn't understand or is trying to understand something that Share wrote. 
 

 No pretense.  I *am* trying to understand by asking her to explain what she is 
saying or thinking or feeling when she says it.  Sometimes I am asking her to 
provide a larger context for her comments because a lot of what she says 
doesn't make sense to me.  I've stated that many, many, times.  Objectively, 
human behavior does interest me, no doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious 
sort of person.  
 

 Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully trying to disguise her 
hostility. 
 

 I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone the benefit of the 
doubt and I am often reasonable and usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a 
context or a writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given this 
statement of yours.  I am not a hostile person and I don't hold onto or 
maintain hostility on this forum towards anyone ever, really.  If I did, I 
wouldn't stay here.  I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is one of 
them, when it pops up.  I respond to what shows up in the moment, or as a 
result of watching the trajectory of a conversation unfold.  I try to keep a 
larger picture in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the energy and 
feeling of a thread as it resonates within me. I may not always succeed in the 
heat of the moment (in keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind 
the scenes, in my own life, I always go 

RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: A Meditator#39;s Thanksgiving

2013-11-29 Thread dhamiltony2k5
 Synchronicity. Dang look here, on the Zen Calendar for today out in the 
outhouse on the shelf right next to that other paper...
 
 
 “In their deepest nature humans are Buddha,
 as water is ice. And there is not ice without
 water, so without the Buddha there could be no humans. 
 Woe to them who seek it in the far distance, 
 and know not that it is very near.”
 -Hakuin
 
 
 The Zen Calendar
 For 11/29/2013
  it’s a daily quote, koan, sutra, or parable to ensure every morning gets off 
to an enlightened start. 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck wrote:

  Thanks Doc for your diagnosis too. I concur. Yep, these intellectual guys 
work way too hard at something that is much simpler as It is. It is, as is 
Simplest state of Being, with a nose in the human life.  It is fabulous in 
reality.  They are so close and so knowledgeable in ways you can feel they just 
should come back, get their Dome badge updated, sit up and really go for It and 
git along for the finish line. Like, what else are they dooing?
 

  I sense Annex should come back; like he so wants It, should get on back on 
faculty again and really go for It some more. Attend to It and sit more 
intently with It more. Is an amazing benefit of Being on MUM faculty for 
instance, that you get housing, meals, stipend, and the time actually 
structured to the work day to do long meditation and Be with the Knowledge. It 
is incredible. It is way better than say, just Federal prison where you just 
get three squares and some clothes to wear, or just working out in the world. 
And, hey there are more graduate degrees that can be taken too as a means to Be 
here. It is a great prescription for finishing a life on earth while you have 
it. Life is so pitiful and pitiable otherwise. I'd say, Git on with It. It is 
time for old meditators who do know better to Be here now and git it done,
 -Buck in the Dome 
 
 
 Like what are people waiting for!
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, mdixon.6569@... wrote:

 Interesting. I used to have a lot of visual and auditory experiences in 
meditation and they always left me confused. I would come out of meditation and 
deny what I had just *seen* or *heard* until I realized it wasn't a matter of 
*seeing* or *hearing*, it was a matter of *Being*. I didn't *see* it because I 
*was* it. *I* was the whole experience. M used to say, Unity, it it's early 
days, can be very confusing. Never understood what he meant at the time, then 
it dawned on me.
 
 
 On Friday, November 29, 2013 5:51 AM, anartaxius@... anartaxius@... wrote:
 
   There is the experience of wholeness. You are not 'in it', the experience is 
it; there is nothing attached to it. The mind can play the game of trying to 
understand it with its habit of conditional thinking but ultimately it just has 
to surrender to the fact that that doesn't work. The unity does not have to do 
anything to hold together; it is not like a ball of caramel popcorn stuck 
together that can come apart. There is what is described as unity, but there is 
no one in it.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 OK - Thank you for revealing your lack of experience with GC. Frankly, it 
didn't sound to me, as if you knew what you were talking about, when you first 
brought it up. I am also curious why you think you are in unity. It sounds 
like your unity has a lot of conditions attached to it, in order to remain 
unified.  

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anartaxius@... wrote:

 The thought popped into my head, and then I put to the keyboard and you read 
it. As basically an atheist, I seemed to have mostly done an end run around GC, 
it had no conceptual material to work with, as GC, as M explained it, derives 
its material from what one's beliefs are in regard to spiritual traditions etc. 
Still this state is described in various ways. For example the philosopher 
Plotinus said nous (pure being) falls in love and is simplified into a happy 
fullness. 
 

 I remember writing some things long ago that from an emotional point of view 
correspond with what Buck is writing now, but I did not express it in religious 
terms. Benchmarks are guide posts but are not rigid time and place dependent 
markers, and you might experience something of unity even when you are barely 
transcending as a new meditator, or if you are one of those rare individuals 
like Ekhart Tolle or Krishnamurti, you might just slip into unity without any 
preliminaries. Unity throws you off the path, the path dies, you are on your 
own, and there is no way to doubt it, if it is clear enough. By on your own, I 
mean there isn't anything else, even though you can refer to your body as 'me' 
and so forth. Everything that went before is seen through as having been as a 
fraud. 
 

 Eventually you can look at it any way you like, as wholeness, as unity, as 
duality. Everything that was there before is still there except the 
relationship of thought with experience 

[FairfieldLife] RE: Childhood dreams don#39;t have to be let in childhood

2013-11-29 Thread steve.sundur
Hey Barry,
  
 Wanted to let you know how much everyone here (in the family) enjoyed that 
video.  
  
  
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 Thanks to Red Bull Media House, at least one young boy's dreams became a 
reality. I simply cannot imagine how many takes and bandages went into the 
making of this, but it sure paid off:

http://vitaminl.tv/video/1?ref=fbs http://vitaminl.tv/video/1?ref=fbs 






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2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
I don't follow it because it's a fad. I don't follow it at all, actually; I 
very rarely use it. But it really isn't stupid--if you think about how it 
would sound if you said it aloud, you may hear an echo of, say, your mother: 
You. Get. In. Here. Right. Now. It can be an effective way of emphasizing 
something.
 

 Me, I don't think standards of good writing on a Web forum (i.e., highly 
informal, conversational) necessarily exclude what would be nonstandard in more 
formal writing if it adds something--flavor, humor, irony, surprise. It can be 
creative and entertaining if well used.
 

 Given your reaction, I'll most likely use the period-after-every-word effect 
more often. It's fun to see your stuffy freakout.
 

 I believe Barry has used it a few times, but that didn't seem to have upset 
you. Double standards, perhaps?
 
Feste huffed:
 
  Goodness me, just because it's a fad on the Web doesn't mean you have to 
  follow it. It. Makes. No. Sense. At. All. It's. Stupid.  I thought you were 
  the sort of person who liked to uphold standards of good, effective writing, 
  but alas, it appears that I am mistaken. I. Am. Sad. About. That. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Feste tries again:
  Standard practice? You have got to be kidding.
 

 Uh, no.
 

  I have never seen it before. I. Think. It. Is. Very. Bad. Writing.
 
 
 LOL. Better learn to appreciate Web-speak for the sake of your blood pressure. 
It's not going anywhere.
 

  It's quite fun watching you being a punching bag for everyone else and 
  lamely trying to claim victory.
 
 
 Actually I don't claim victory. The folks throwing the punches and missing 
(or smacking themselves in the face) are losers without any assistance from me. 
But I'm glad you're enjoying the spectacle.
 

  As for the testosterone pills, I don't need them. Just ask my girlfriend. 
 
 
Mmmm-hmmm.
 



 
 

 
 




































RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
Richard bluffs: 
  Feste is correct - it's not standard web practice - I'm no newbie and I've 
  never seen anything like this. On a 
  blog, a discussion group, or on Twitter or Facebook. It's almost bizarre and 
  even more bizarre for Judy to 
  then try and make you feel like it's all your fault.
 

 http://lmgtfy.com/?q=period+after+every+word 
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=period+after+every+word

 

 (guffaw)
 

 Next time I see it used, I'll save the link for you.
 

 

 



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2013-11-29 Thread feste37
Are you still insisting that it's pretty much standard practice these days for 
bloggers and commenters when they want to say something emphatically?  
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 I don't follow it because it's a fad. I don't follow it at all, actually; 
I very rarely use it. But it really isn't stupid--if you think about how it 
would sound if you said it aloud, you may hear an echo of, say, your mother: 
You. Get. In. Here. Right. Now. It can be an effective way of emphasizing 
something.
 

 Me, I don't think standards of good writing on a Web forum (i.e., highly 
informal, conversational) necessarily exclude what would be nonstandard in more 
formal writing if it adds something--flavor, humor, irony, surprise. It can be 
creative and entertaining if well used.
 

 Given your reaction, I'll most likely use the period-after-every-word effect 
more often. It's fun to see your stuffy freakout.
 

 I believe Barry has used it a few times, but that didn't seem to have upset 
you. Double standards, perhaps?
 
Feste huffed:
 
  Goodness me, just because it's a fad on the Web doesn't mean you have to 
  follow it. It. Makes. No. Sense. At. All. It's. Stupid.  I thought you were 
  the sort of person who liked to uphold standards of good, effective writing, 
  but alas, it appears that I am mistaken. I. Am. Sad. About. That. 
 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Feste tries again:
  Standard practice? You have got to be kidding.
 

 Uh, no.
 

  I have never seen it before. I. Think. It. Is. Very. Bad. Writing.
 
 
 LOL. Better learn to appreciate Web-speak for the sake of your blood pressure. 
It's not going anywhere.
 

  It's quite fun watching you being a punching bag for everyone else and 
  lamely trying to claim victory.
 
 
 Actually I don't claim victory. The folks throwing the punches and missing 
(or smacking themselves in the face) are losers without any assistance from me. 
But I'm glad you're enjoying the spectacle.
 

  As for the testosterone pills, I don't need them. Just ask my girlfriend. 
 
 
Mmmm-hmmm.
 



 
 

 
 





































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2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
What is with you? I wouldn't have said it if I didn't mean it. But don't 
overinterpret. It's not that every time someone wants to be emphatic, they use 
it. Rather, it's standard in that it's used often enough that most readers 
have seen it before and don't think it's weird; they understand what it's meant 
to convey. It's been around for several years now.
 

 As I say, next time I see it used, I'll give you the link. Then maybe you can 
relax. You're getting yourself all worked up over nothing. The Internet is 
changing how people write, and there ain't a damn thing you can do about it.
 

 You didn't answer my question, BTW, as to why you didn't explode in blind rage 
when Barry has used it.
 
Feste continues to fester:

  Are you still insisting that it's pretty much standard practice these days 
  for bloggers and 
  commenters when they want to say something emphatically?  
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 I don't follow it because it's a fad. I don't follow it at all, actually; 
I very rarely use it. But it really isn't stupid--if you think about how it 
would sound if you said it aloud, you may hear an echo of, say, your mother: 
You. Get. In. Here. Right. Now. It can be an effective way of emphasizing 
something.
 

 Me, I don't think standards of good writing on a Web forum (i.e., highly 
informal, conversational) necessarily exclude what would be nonstandard in more 
formal writing if it adds something--flavor, humor, irony, surprise. It can be 
creative and entertaining if well used.
 

 Given your reaction, I'll most likely use the period-after-every-word effect 
more often. It's fun to see your stuffy freakout.
 

 I believe Barry has used it a few times, but that didn't seem to have upset 
you. Double standards, perhaps?
 
Feste huffed:
 
  Goodness me, just because it's a fad on the Web doesn't mean you have to 
  follow it. It. Makes. No. Sense. At. All. It's. Stupid.  I thought you were 
  the sort of person who liked to uphold standards of good, effective writing, 
  but alas, it appears that I am mistaken. I. Am. Sad. About. That. 
 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Feste tries again:
  Standard practice? You have got to be kidding.
 

 Uh, no.
 

  I have never seen it before. I. Think. It. Is. Very. Bad. Writing.
 
 
 LOL. Better learn to appreciate Web-speak for the sake of your blood pressure. 
It's not going anywhere.
 

  It's quite fun watching you being a punching bag for everyone else and 
  lamely trying to claim victory.
 
 
 Actually I don't claim victory. The folks throwing the punches and missing 
(or smacking themselves in the face) are losers without any assistance from me. 
But I'm glad you're enjoying the spectacle.
 

  As for the testosterone pills, I don't need them. Just ask my girlfriend. 
 
 
Mmmm-hmmm.
 



 
 

 
 







































[FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: The Vivid and Present Threat of Hooliganism on Fairfield Life.

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
So you think lying is fine too?
 

 As I've said before, most folks here are honest. But there are still several 
Bad Apples (fortunately some of the worst ones have left) who have no 
inhibitions about lying--in particular, about other FFL members they don't 
like--and I think that is terribly destructive. It's the essence of unkindness. 
And it's hardly a matter of old grudges when it continues to this day.
 

 I have never been on a Web forum where lying was so complacently tolerated. 
But it breeds mutual disrespect and lowers standards of civility generally. I 
would be willing to bet that if there were less tolerance for lying, there 
would be a lot less unkindness overall.
 

 As I've said many times before, life is tough enough when everyone is doing 
their absolute damndest to be as honest as they possibly can. There's no excuse 
for making it tougher.
 

 IMHO, of course.

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 I think people are pretty honest here. The only person who obsesses about 
lying is you. Your question to Buck is of course just a way of sidestepping the 
issue of perpetual unkindness. I can see why you would want to do that, since 
you are the principal purveyor of it. You need to let go of all these old 
grudges and obsessions. They are negative attachments that do not serve you 
well. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 How about the lying? You never mention the lying, Buck. Does that mean you 
think it's OK to lie? 
 
Buck huffed:
 

 You can't even hardly invite any civilized person to visit here to FFL with 
what perpetual unkindness has taken over here on this yahoo-group. It is simply 
appalling that this culture of low meanness and unkindness has got going here. 
It is no good to have in our house, But I fear most now for the very life of 
this entire list if this culture of unkindness is not checked.
 -Buck
  











 

































[FairfieldLife] RE: Re: A Meditator#39;s Thanksgiving

2013-11-29 Thread doctordumbass
Antelope Valley Freeway! YES - loved those guys! high five... 

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 
anartaxius wrote:
 
  I think it is kind of like asymptotic lines, which approach each
 other but never meet, but eventually you get close enough to see there
 is an end, closure, but you can never quite get there...
 
 From an old Firesign Theatre album, the voice reading out the signs that
 a character in one of their audio plays passes on a Southern California
 highway:
 
 Antelope Freeway, 1 mile
 Antelope Freeway, 1/2 mile
 Antelope Freeway, 1/4 mile
 Antelope Freeway, 1/8 mile
 Antelope Freeway, 1/16 mile
 Antelope Freeway, 1/32 mile
 Antelope Freeway, 1/64 mile...
 
 :-)



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2013-11-29 Thread feste37
You are as responsible as anyone else for creating an atmosphere of mutual 
disrespect. Do you behave like this in your real, day-to-day life? Is that how 
you talk to people? I don't think so. The real dishonesty, the real lie, comes 
from you. I think you are dishonest with yourself. I suspect that the truth, as 
I mentioned a couple of weeks ago, is that you enjoy being mean. You enjoy 
hitting out at other people. My guess is that doing so assuages some of the 
anger that you feel and gives you some kind of safety valve that you find 
satisfying. You concoct this fake issue of dishonesty and pretend to yourself 
that you are the virtuous one, standing up for what is right. Unfortunately, 
the reality is that you are a person in the grip of some very deep-rooted 
obsessions that make you very difficult and unpleasant to deal with. Your 
behavior toward Share is a disgrace. It amounts to harassment, and I don't 
think this forum should put up with it. You wouldn't be able to do it on 
Facebook, yet you think you can do it here. You should either change your 
behavior or unsubscribe. 
  
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 So you think lying is fine too?
 

 As I've said before, most folks here are honest. But there are still several 
Bad Apples (fortunately some of the worst ones have left) who have no 
inhibitions about lying--in particular, about other FFL members they don't 
like--and I think that is terribly destructive. It's the essence of unkindness. 
And it's hardly a matter of old grudges when it continues to this day.
 

 I have never been on a Web forum where lying was so complacently tolerated. 
But it breeds mutual disrespect and lowers standards of civility generally. I 
would be willing to bet that if there were less tolerance for lying, there 
would be a lot less unkindness overall.
 

 As I've said many times before, life is tough enough when everyone is doing 
their absolute damndest to be as honest as they possibly can. There's no excuse 
for making it tougher.
 

 IMHO, of course.

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 I think people are pretty honest here. The only person who obsesses about 
lying is you. Your question to Buck is of course just a way of sidestepping the 
issue of perpetual unkindness. I can see why you would want to do that, since 
you are the principal purveyor of it. You need to let go of all these old 
grudges and obsessions. They are negative attachments that do not serve you 
well. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 How about the lying? You never mention the lying, Buck. Does that mean you 
think it's OK to lie? 
 
Buck huffed:
 

 You can't even hardly invite any civilized person to visit here to FFL with 
what perpetual unkindness has taken over here on this yahoo-group. It is simply 
appalling that this culture of low meanness and unkindness has got going here. 
It is no good to have in our house, But I fear most now for the very life of 
this entire list if this culture of unkindness is not checked.
 -Buck
  











 



































[FairfieldLife] Confirmation bias in the TM movement

2013-11-29 Thread s3raphita
Confirmation bias is a tendency to favour information that confirms beliefs. 
People display this bias when they gather information selectively, or when they 
interpret it in a biased way. The effect is stronger for emotionally charged 
issues and for deeply entrenched beliefs. 
 

 So how does it work? 

 Many people learned TM back in the glory days. How did they fare? Well, some 
of them dropped into the rabbit hole at the first initiation and had a Damascus 
Road experience and became convinced converts on the spot. At the other end of 
the scale, some people thought, Well, yes. I repeated a syllable for 20 
minutes. I guess I feel kinda relaxed. Is that it? The latter group would 
carry on meditating for a month or so and eventually get bored and drop the 
practice. 
 

 The former group - those who were sold on the technique - became enthusiastic 
meditators and eventually moved on to become TM teachers and sidhi 
practitioners. They mixed with others exactly like themselves and naturally 
thought that this was the universal effect of TM on everybody else. When they 
later went out into the world of the common people and encountered those whose 
results were less earth-shaking they insisted such doubting souls should have 
their meditation checked. Now here is were confusion was worse confounded: some 
of those they counselled did indeed later have more valuable results after 
checking. That led the teachers to assume that *everyone else* whose 
experiences didn't match their own must be at fault. But what say they were 
wrong? 
 

 Look. In meditation you're asking someone to revert their attention 180 
degrees from the objective world to the subjective experience. Isn't it obvious 
that for some people that could trigger an ecstatic kundalini blow-out but for 
others it could be a trivial event. It depends on individual psychology. In 
fact, for a small minority, I imagine it could be positively harmful and 
actually damage their nervous system. If you're contacting the Universal Field 
and you're a fragile individual that could be like connecting a low-watt light 
bulb to a high-voltage supply.
 

 My point is that I'm very happy if TM has proved a life-changing boon for some 
people; or has proved a useful re-charge-cum-re-boot for those like me. But I 
don't have any issue with accepting that for many it's almost completely 
useless and for a minority could be positively harmful.
 

 A little humility may be in order.



RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: 00000000, right

2013-11-29 Thread feste37
I don't think you have even remotely established this as standard practice. 
On the contrary, it's an unusual deviation from the norm. I wasn't impressed by 
the link you provided. It was a lot of people asking about the use of periods 
after every word, but not a single example that I could see. Nor have I seen a 
single example of its use by a good writer. Where are these blogs in which it 
is standard practice?
 

 In answer to your question, I do not in general read Turquoise B. He is a mean 
S.O.B. so I usually avoid him. 

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 What is with you? I wouldn't have said it if I didn't mean it. But don't 
overinterpret. It's not that every time someone wants to be emphatic, they use 
it. Rather, it's standard in that it's used often enough that most readers 
have seen it before and don't think it's weird; they understand what it's meant 
to convey. It's been around for several years now.
 

 As I say, next time I see it used, I'll give you the link. Then maybe you can 
relax. You're getting yourself all worked up over nothing. The Internet is 
changing how people write, and there ain't a damn thing you can do about it.
 

 You didn't answer my question, BTW, as to why you didn't explode in blind rage 
when Barry has used it.
 
Feste continues to fester:

  Are you still insisting that it's pretty much standard practice these days 
  for bloggers and 
  commenters when they want to say something emphatically?  
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 I don't follow it because it's a fad. I don't follow it at all, actually; 
I very rarely use it. But it really isn't stupid--if you think about how it 
would sound if you said it aloud, you may hear an echo of, say, your mother: 
You. Get. In. Here. Right. Now. It can be an effective way of emphasizing 
something.
 

 Me, I don't think standards of good writing on a Web forum (i.e., highly 
informal, conversational) necessarily exclude what would be nonstandard in more 
formal writing if it adds something--flavor, humor, irony, surprise. It can be 
creative and entertaining if well used.
 

 Given your reaction, I'll most likely use the period-after-every-word effect 
more often. It's fun to see your stuffy freakout.
 

 I believe Barry has used it a few times, but that didn't seem to have upset 
you. Double standards, perhaps?
 
Feste huffed:
 
  Goodness me, just because it's a fad on the Web doesn't mean you have to 
  follow it. It. Makes. No. Sense. At. All. It's. Stupid.  I thought you were 
  the sort of person who liked to uphold standards of good, effective writing, 
  but alas, it appears that I am mistaken. I. Am. Sad. About. That. 
 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Feste tries again:
  Standard practice? You have got to be kidding.
 

 Uh, no.
 

  I have never seen it before. I. Think. It. Is. Very. Bad. Writing.
 
 
 LOL. Better learn to appreciate Web-speak for the sake of your blood pressure. 
It's not going anywhere.
 

  It's quite fun watching you being a punching bag for everyone else and 
  lamely trying to claim victory.
 
 
 Actually I don't claim victory. The folks throwing the punches and missing 
(or smacking themselves in the face) are losers without any assistance from me. 
But I'm glad you're enjoying the spectacle.
 

  As for the testosterone pills, I don't need them. Just ask my girlfriend. 
 
 
Mmmm-hmmm.
 



 
 

 
 









































[FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: The Vivid and Present Threat of Hooliganism on Fairfield Life.

2013-11-29 Thread authfriend
Feste, You. Still. Do. Not. Have. A. Clue.
 

 Are you familiar with the term false equivalency? What a hypocrite you are. 
Not to mention a male chauvinist. It's perfectly OK with you for Barry to beat 
up on people he doesn't like with far, far worse nastiness than I could ever 
dream of managing. Including your precious Share. Remember his SHUT THE FUCK 
UP post to her? (Do you remember that Ann, Emily, and I tried to get her to 
stand up for herself instead of continuing to let him maul her?) And then that 
he actually repeated it just recently?
 

 I don't recall a word from you about either of those posts (do remind me if 
I'm wrong). Or any others of Barry's many hundreds of sadistic attacks, for 
that matter. Not to mention the unending lies in those attacks. Barry's gross 
and slanderous dishonesty is not a fake issue.
 

 You don't have a damn thing to say to me until you open your eyes, get your 
head on straight, and see who's doing the real damage to this forum. I'm a 
piker compared to Barry. And you are a coward.
 

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 You are as responsible as anyone else for creating an atmosphere of mutual 
disrespect. Do you behave like this in your real, day-to-day life? Is that how 
you talk to people? I don't think so. The real dishonesty, the real lie, comes 
from you. I think you are dishonest with yourself. I suspect that the truth, as 
I mentioned a couple of weeks ago, is that you enjoy being mean. You enjoy 
hitting out at other people. My guess is that doing so assuages some of the 
anger that you feel and gives you some kind of safety valve that you find 
satisfying. You concoct this fake issue of dishonesty and pretend to yourself 
that you are the virtuous one, standing up for what is right. Unfortunately, 
the reality is that you are a person in the grip of some very deep-rooted 
obsessions that make you very difficult and unpleasant to deal with. Your 
behavior toward Share is a disgrace. It amounts to harassment, and I don't 
think this forum should put up with it. You wouldn't be able to do it on 
Facebook, yet you think you can do it here. You should either change your 
behavior or unsubscribe. 
  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 So you think lying is fine too?
 

 As I've said before, most folks here are honest. But there are still several 
Bad Apples (fortunately some of the worst ones have left) who have no 
inhibitions about lying--in particular, about other FFL members they don't 
like--and I think that is terribly destructive. It's the essence of unkindness. 
And it's hardly a matter of old grudges when it continues to this day.
 

 I have never been on a Web forum where lying was so complacently tolerated. 
But it breeds mutual disrespect and lowers standards of civility generally. I 
would be willing to bet that if there were less tolerance for lying, there 
would be a lot less unkindness overall.
 

 As I've said many times before, life is tough enough when everyone is doing 
their absolute damndest to be as honest as they possibly can. There's no excuse 
for making it tougher.
 

 IMHO, of course.

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 I think people are pretty honest here. The only person who obsesses about 
lying is you. Your question to Buck is of course just a way of sidestepping the 
issue of perpetual unkindness. I can see why you would want to do that, since 
you are the principal purveyor of it. You need to let go of all these old 
grudges and obsessions. They are negative attachments that do not serve you 
well. 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 How about the lying? You never mention the lying, Buck. Does that mean you 
think it's OK to lie? 
 
Buck huffed:
 

 You can't even hardly invite any civilized person to visit here to FFL with 
what perpetual unkindness has taken over here on this yahoo-group. It is simply 
appalling that this culture of low meanness and unkindness has got going here. 
It is no good to have in our house, But I fear most now for the very life of 
this entire list if this culture of unkindness is not checked.
 -Buck
  











 





































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