Hi Bill and Group

Bill, in a previous post to DP you said something about when one has a problem 
with someone, it is never theirs it's always yours. This is something that I 
have previously found VERY intruiging. I've investigated it recently in my own 
life, to a greater or lesser degree. I seem to be able to *manage* it with 
small issues, but with big issues...wow, it's difficult. Could you say more 
about it? What I'd really like is get some real life (possibly extreme?) 
examples of how this has worked out (peace of mind) for you maybe, or for 
others. To my western mind, the idea that *it* is not the other persons 
fault/problem is kinda counterintuitive. But I can see the potential for peace 
of mind in getting out of this particular habit of mind.

This has been swimming around in my brain for days now, so anyone, if you have 
any thoughts, that'd be great! And I don't really mean just soundbites and 
corny one liners,  I mean actual examples from your life.




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