To Melissa: Re: Cassidy now at Best Friends
Hey Melissa, I am so sorry that I have not been able to reply to this post until now. I saw it when I was out of town last weekend, and have been so busy at work and home, it's crazy. I am so happy to hear that Cassidy made it to Best Friends! I hate that you miss him so, but isn't it wonderful that he had someone so great that loves him?! Some kitties never find that. It seems so often here that someone finds something extra special in the FeLV kitties. And like you said, you can't put a name to it. I was surprised to hear you call yourself selfish. I wouldn't call someone selfish who would spend their own money and time to fly a cat to another state and drive to yet another state only to hand the kitty off to a place that would take good care of him. No, selfish is not the word for you. Caring, loving, sacrificial...those are more appropriate characterizations. I hope you'll be able to settle in soon without Cassidy and know that Joanie and her crew are going to take good care of him. I hope missing him isn't too hard on you. Congratulations on your new job Melissa! You deserve it! And who knows...maybe one day very soon, you'll be going back to Best Friends and adopting Cassidy and taking him back home to your new FeLV sanctuary in Nebraska! ;) Wendy Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world - indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ No need to miss a message. Get email on-the-go with Yahoo! Mail for Mobile. Get started. http://mobile.yahoo.com/mail
RE: Cassidy now at Best Friends
Kelly, I'd love to see the pictures you took! I wasn't able to visit Best Friends since I got there after hours-I was only able to drop Cassidy off. I'm so happy to hear that they are excited about Cassidy! I can't wait to visit during regular hours some day! Melissa _ From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Kelly L Sent: Tuesday, May 15, 2007 2:03 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Cassidy now at Best Friends At 12:08 PM 5/12/2007, you wrote: I just get back from Best Friends today and they were all excited to have Cassidy there, i took some great pictures of the new FELV area and saw one sweet Siamese22 years young with FELV!! Kelly Welcome back Melissa, sounds like an emotionally draining situation. I know you will get through it though! Just remember, he's in a happy place now, like you said. Congrats on the new job too! Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources http://www.iGive.com/html/refer.cfm?causeid=21303 Sign up for iGive and a percentage of your purchases helps save animals! No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.467 / Virus Database: 269.7.0/803 - Release Date: 5/13/2007 12:17 PM
Re: Cassidy now at Best Friends
At 12:08 PM 5/12/2007, you wrote: I just get back from Best Friends today and they were all excited to have Cassidy there, i took some great pictures of the new FELV area and saw one sweet Siamese22 years young with FELV!! Kelly Welcome back Melissa, sounds like an emotionally draining situation. I know you will get through it though! Just remember, he's in a happy place now, like you said. Congrats on the new job too! Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.htmlhttp://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources http://www.iGive.com/html/refer.cfm?causeid=21303http://www.iGive.com/html/refer.cfm?causeid=21303 Sign up for iGive and a percentage of your purchases helps save animals! No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.467 / Virus Database: 269.7.0/803 - Release Date: 5/13/2007 12:17 PM
Re: Cassidy now at Best Friends
Welcome back Melissa, sounds like an emotionally draining situation. I know you will get through it though! Just remember, he's in a happy place now, like you said. Congrats on the new job too! Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources http://www.iGive.com/html/refer.cfm?causeid=21303 Sign up for iGive and a percentage of your purchases helps save animals!
Cassidy now at Best Friends
Hi All, I haven't written in a while, and I haven't been able to read the posts for several weeks as the end of the semester was winding down and the amount of grading and advising I had to do has been enormous. So, bear with me as I try to ease back into the group! If you remember me and Cassidy (FeLV+), I'll give you an update. The sweet guy and I flew from Nebraska to Las Vegas and then drove to Best Friends in Utah. This all happened yesterday, and I flew back today-no overnight stay-just back to the airport and home. I'm exhausted emotionally and physically. Unfortunately, I didn't get to see Best Friends since I arrived after hours and had to hand Cassidy over to my contact there and a lady from Cats. It was the hardest thing I've ever done. I've never lost a kitty, but now I have a feel for what all of you have gone through. I felt like my heart was being torn out of my body. Cassidy has lived in my office at my house since the first week of April, and since I spend the majority of my time in there, we've spent a lot of time together. I can't help but cry and cry as I write this-the first email I've sent without his help since he got here. It's so lonely in my office now, and quiet. I miss our talks and discussions. I miss how he always asked me questions or just meowed a little bit to remind me he was there. I miss his soft little body curling of in my lap. What I miss the most is the way he would always look deep into my eyes like no other cat has ever done-as if he were communicating with me on a deeper level. I love him so much. Of course, I still have 3 permanent cats and 2 other rescues to keep me company, but there was something special about Cassidy-something that was so far beyond my other cats, and I just can't name it. I didn't think I could love another cat more than my Bandit who I've had 10 years, but in only a month and a half Cassidy completely stole my heart. It hurts so much to not have him here to talk to. Of course, I know he's much happier now. He'll have so much room to play and jump around and go outside and visit with other cats, but I'm selfish, and I wish he was here with me. I hope they'll be able to send me pictures or at least tell me how he's doing. He's going to have so much fun adventuring in his new home. I just wish I could have afforded to build a place just for him and other future FeLVs at my house. Someday I'll have a FeLV rescue, and I'll dedicate it to this boy who has opened my eyes and taught me my calling. He found me just when I needed to be found. I was lost, confused, didn't know what to do to feel more complete-to find my niche in this world. He showed me what I need to strive for and why. Luckily, since he's been here, I was hired for a new job-a full-time one! I start on Monday! I couldn't even get interviews around here because I have too much schooling. But, after nearly giving up hope, I got an interview and the job! I can't help but think that Cassidy was the catalyst for all of this-my guardian angel sent to set me straight! Everything is going to fall into place, I just know it. Now I can start saving for my dream, and if another special guy like Cassidy ever comes into my life, I'll be able to offer him a place to stay. Well, I have to sign off since I can't stop crying and I have work to do yet this evening. Thank you all for listening, and I'm sorry I haven't posted in forever! Melissa minus Cassidy, plus Bandit, Angel, Smokey, Ashley, and Nonie.
Re: Cassidy now at Best Friends
i was just wondering today what was happening with you and cassidy, melissa. i am SO glad that you were able to get him to best friends. i am sure it was incredibly difficult for you, but i think it was a great gift that you gave him. these special ones do crawl into our hearts--and they touch us, and teach us, in ways that we carry with us forever. MC On 5/11/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi All, I haven't written in a while, and I haven't been able to read the posts for several weeks as the end of the semester was winding down and the amount of grading and advising I had to do has been enormous. So, bear with me as I try to ease back into the group! If you remember me and Cassidy (FeLV+), I'll give you an update. The sweet guy and I flew from Nebraska to Las Vegas and then drove to Best Friends in Utah. This all happened yesterday, and I flew back today—no overnight stay—just back to the airport and home. I'm exhausted emotionally and physically. Unfortunately, I didn't get to see Best Friends since I arrived after hours and had to hand Cassidy over to my contact there and a lady from Cats. It was the hardest thing I've ever done. I've never lost a kitty, but now I have a feel for what all of you have gone through. I felt like my heart was being torn out of my body. Cassidy has lived in my office at my house since the first week of April, and since I spend the majority of my time in there, we've spent a lot of time together. I can't help but cry and cry as I write this—the first email I've sent without his help since he got here. It's so lonely in my office now, and quiet. I miss our talks and discussions. I miss how he always asked me questions or just meowed a little bit to remind me he was there. I miss his soft little body curling of in my lap. What I miss the most is the way he would always look deep into my eyes like no other cat has ever done—as if he were communicating with me on a deeper level. I love him so much. Of course, I still have 3 permanent cats and 2 other rescues to keep me company, but there was something special about Cassidy—something that was so far beyond my other cats, and I just can't name it. I didn't think I could love another cat more than my Bandit who I've had 10 years, but in only a month and a half Cassidy completely stole my heart. It hurts so much to not have him here to talk to. Of course, I know he's much happier now. He'll have so much room to play and jump around and go outside and visit with other cats, but I'm selfish, and I wish he was here with me. I hope they'll be able to send me pictures or at least tell me how he's doing. He's going to have so much fun adventuring in his new home. I just wish I could have afforded to build a place just for him and other future FeLVs at my house. Someday I'll have a FeLV rescue, and I'll dedicate it to this boy who has opened my eyes and taught me my calling. He found me just when I needed to be found. I was lost, confused, didn't know what to do to feel more complete—to find my niche in this world. He showed me what I need to strive for and why. Luckily, since he's been here, I was hired for a new job—a full-time one! I start on Monday! I couldn't even get interviews around here because I have too much schooling. But, after nearly giving up hope, I got an interview and the job! I can't help but think that Cassidy was the catalyst for all of this—my guardian angel sent to set me straight! Everything is going to fall into place, I just know it. Now I can start saving for my dream, and if another special guy like Cassidy ever comes into my life, I'll be able to offer him a place to stay. Well, I have to sign off since I can't stop crying and I have work to do yet this evening. Thank you all for listening, and I'm sorry I haven't posted in forever! Melissa minus Cassidy, plus Bandit, Angel, Smokey, Ashley, and Nonie. -- Spay Neuter Your Neighbors! Maybe That'll Make The Difference MaryChristine AIM / YAHOO: TenHouseCats MSN: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ICQ: 289856892
RE: update on Cassidy
Well, yesterday I went over to my mom's for supper, had to bring their cat inside since he always escapes, and I'm the only one he trusts to get him back in, well, there was another cat under the bushes--very pretty tabby. We sat in the grass and got to know each other for a while. My mom laughed and said, We were hoping you wouldn't see him. I have my limit on cats right now, but it made me think--if Cassidy's got a chance to go to a loving and wonderful home, I should do what I can to get him there. Once he's gone, I'll miss him so much, but that will make room for other cats who need me. This cat that I saw yesterday, my mom thinks belongs to the neighbors who yell at their kids. They feed him in the garage. Unfortunately, I know these people and they belong to our card club--can't really steal their cat away! But, if I see them, I'll talk to them gently. This cat has a funny eye--crooked, but not milky colored. The one eye looks up instead of straight. I don't know if that means he's blind in that eye, but either way, I think he should be a house cat, not a garage cat. But, that convinced me that I must do what's best for Cassidy by taking him to Best Friends, but also, I know that I'll have room for more cats should they choose to find me. One way or another, I know I can find resources to get him there--I just have to be resourceful! :) Melissa -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Rosenfeldt, Diane Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 4:14 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: RE: update on Cassidy Wendy, I'm glad you posted this. I was afraid I had missed or forgotten some detail about the situation that made it absolutely vital that Cassidy actually go to BF NOW. I agree with you, if this is such a rush and a hardship, Melissa would be better off waiting for some firm results on the IFA -- preferably one taken a few months from now -- than trying to hustle together some arrangements to get Cassidy to BF in less than 2 weeks. Trying to move him now will take a toll on finances, marriage and emotions, and there would be an even greater toll if, after all this, Cassidy turned out to have shed the virus and it would all have been for nothing. No matter how wonderful BF is, by the nature of the cats they take in, there will, sadly, always be turnover. If Cassidy is truly positive, I am sure there will be a place for him down the line. I can't imagine that BF would be insensitive to the many difficulties Melissa is going through at the moment. Melissa, I know these decisions don't come easily, and ultimately you're the one who has to make them, but please don't let yourself be rushed into all this angst and expense without sitting down and thinking it through again. Diane R. -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of wendy Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 2:18 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Hey Melissa, I called BF to talk to Joanie, the girl who is normally at BF's Casa de Calmar, but today is her day off, and the girl I spoke with didn't know if she would be back tomorrow or Friday. So I'm going to call and speak with Joanie again tomorrow and/or Friday and see what she thinks about this situation. So if you can hold tight for a day or two, we will probably have a better answer to this problem. I wish they were more flexible! If it were me, I'd probably wait and not go anyway, because of the costs associated and the fact that she might test negative. And I am betting come July 1 if she's still postitive, they'll be able to take her still and maybe by then you can get help with transport. This is all so rushed. And when I feel rushed, usually things don't feel right, you know? I wonder if your vet is aware there is a problem with his staff? You might let him know you are frustrated and thinking of going elsewhere because of all the mix-ups and that you aren't feeling secure with the service you are receiving which you take very seriously because you love your animals so much. Maybe he doesn't even know there are that many issues, and if he doesn't know, he can't fix it. I would be angry too if I were you. I do expect people in a business setting to get their job right as they are being paid to do so. I'm certainly not perfect at work, but I do a pretty decent job. If it were me dealing with people and their animals' health, I would take it very seriously. :) Wendy Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world - indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com This electronic mail transmission and any attachments are confidential and may be privileged. They should be read or retained only by the intended recipient
Re: update on Cassidy
Are you part of any rescue lists? There are rescue transport lists with networks all over. There is even an air transport for animals. I'll see if I can find some info for you. If not, I'd be more than willing to send you a little money to help with gas. Beth Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Well Cassidy has to go to Best Friends soon after May 1st. They cant wait until July 1st for me to get a second IFA, but they said theyd keep him apart from the other FeLV cats if there was any doubt as to his status. But, I wonder what they consider doubt. Id hate to expose him and he turns up negative in the future. And then theres the problem of funding the trip. I dont know how to come up with just the gas money before May 1st! Do you guys know of any place to turn to for help in a hurry? I figure it will cost me at least $240 for gas round trip. Plus, according to Map Quest, the drive is a little over 18 hours! Thatll mean lodging along the way and at the destination. Then lodging on the way home unless I can get someone to take turns driving/sleeping. I know! Maybe Ill just hitch a ride with a trucker! Theyre used to long days like that! (Just kidding of course). Then theres the fact that I still dont have his first IFA test results (just the Elisa). Im so frustrated by my vets office! I like my vet quite a bit, but some of the helpers are a bunch of, pardon me, morons! Im sure I couldnt do theyre jobs, but I know I could keep things straight. They told me today that the lab work for Cassidys IFA got lost in the mail, at the lab, somewhere. My guess is they forgot to send it, and now they need another sample. Who knows, but now were really pushing the deadline for his trip to Utah. They want him to come in on Monday since they wont send to the lab until next week anyway. I think that if they wont put a rush on it (like tomorrow), then Ill just have to find a vet who will. Furthermore, I called this morning about my two rescues in the garage. One has the squirts, but I cant figure out which one. I can never catch them in the act! I wanted to know what I should do, and I also called to get Bandits Prozac refilled. Okay, the receptionist takes down the info, and says theyll call back. So, I finally get a call back late in the afternoon (I had called early in the morning). The message they left was something about Bandit needing blood drawn again (but Cassidys the one who actually needs it), and the rest of the message said that the food I wanted would be there in the morning. What?!?! I didnt ask for food; Cassidy needs the blood work; what about the diarrhea?; what about the Prozac? G! Sorry Im ranting, but seriously! So, I called back and politely explained the real situation. Sometimes one of the workers there (or several) just seem like complete space-cadets! I know we all have off days, but they seem to more than most. If I didnt like my vet so much well, I suppose there are other likeable vets around I just hate to travel too far since the car ride is usually traumatizing enough. Thanks for listening to me complain. I needed to vent. I know many of you are going through much worse situations and are dealing with a lot of sadness, so Im sorry if my complaints seem trivial! Im still not sure what Ill do with Cassidy. Im just hoping his IFA comes back negative, but I know thats not going to happen. But, hes so healthy now, I just hope he has a wonderfully, long life. Melissa - Ahhh...imagining that irresistible new car smell? Check outnew cars at Yahoo! Autos.
RE: update on Cassidy
Hi Beth, No I'm not part of any rescue list. At the beginning of this month three rescues found me, and I couldn't turn them away. I wasn't out looking for cats, it just happened. It was a wonderful thing since I was kind of feeling lost as to my purpose in life, and I've found my calling; however, starting my own rescue/shelter will take some time and planning. I'm working on getting a better job. I teach on-line courses for high school kids for college credit. The pay is horrendous-I figured out that's it's less that minimum wage per hour that I work! I like the teaching, somewhat, but for the amount of time I put into it. If you know of any rescue transport resources, please let me know! I'd hate to take money from people for gas, but if worse comes to worst, I could probably swallow my pride and do it. I'd have to pay you back, of course. Right now I'm working on paying off the vet bill. My husband makes a good amount of money, but he doesn't part with it easily for cat stuff. He thinks I should be on my own with this. We're not rich by any means-we live paycheck to paycheck pretty much-but I think even though he's kind hearted, if I turned on the waterworks for this, he'd still not be willing to give for the trip. I'll see what I can do between now and May 1st. I'll keep looking for transport funding on websites, etc. Thanks for your help-I know you probably have a lot of other things on your mind right now with the loss of poor Stamp. Melissa _ From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Gussies mom Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:06 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Are you part of any rescue lists? There are rescue transport lists with networks all over. There is even an air transport for animals. I'll see if I can find some info for you. If not, I'd be more than willing to send you a little money to help with gas. Beth Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Well Cassidy has to go to Best Friends soon after May 1st. They can't wait until July 1st for me to get a second IFA, but they said they'd keep him apart from the other FeLV cats if there was any doubt as to his status. But, I wonder what they consider doubt. I'd hate to expose him and he turns up negative in the future. And then there's the problem of funding the trip. I don't know how to come up with just the gas money before May 1st! Do you guys know of any place to turn to for help in a hurry? I figure it will cost me at least $240 for gas round trip. Plus, according to Map Quest, the drive is a little over 18 hours! That'll mean lodging along the way and at the destination. Then lodging on the way home unless I can get someone to take turns driving/sleeping. I know! Maybe I'll just hitch a ride with a trucker! They're used to long days like that! (Just kidding of course). Then there's the fact that I still don't have his first IFA test results (just the Elisa). I'm so frustrated by my vet's office! I like my vet quite a bit, but some of the helpers are a bunch of, pardon me, morons! I'm sure I couldn't do they're jobs, but I know I could keep things straight. They told me today that the lab work for Cassidy's IFA got lost in the mail, at the lab, somewhere. My guess is they forgot to send it, and now they need another sample. Who knows, but now we're really pushing the deadline for his trip to Utah. They want him to come in on Monday since they won't send to the lab until next week anyway. I think that if they won't put a rush on it (like tomorrow), then I'll just have to find a vet who will. Furthermore, I called this morning about my two rescues in the garage. One has the squirts, but I can't figure out which one. I can never catch them in the act! I wanted to know what I should do, and I also called to get Bandit's Prozac refilled. Okay, the receptionist takes down the info, and says they'll call back. So, I finally get a call back late in the afternoon (I had called early in the morning). The message they left was something about Bandit needing blood drawn again (but Cassidy's the one who actually needs it), and the rest of the message said that the food I wanted would be there in the morning. What?!?! I didn't ask for food; Cassidy needs the blood work; what about the diarrhea?; what about the Prozac? G! Sorry I'm ranting, but seriously! So, I called back and politely explained the real situation. Sometimes one of the workers there (or several) just seem like complete space-cadets! I know we all have off days, but they seem to more than most. If I didn't like my vet so much.well, I suppose there are other likeable vets around.I just hate to travel too far since the car ride is usually traumatizing enough. Thanks for listening to me complain. I needed to vent. I know many of you are going through much worse situations and are dealing with a lot of sadness, so I'm sorry if my complaints seem trivial! I'm still
Re: update on Cassidy
Hi Melissa, I recently started a rescue. It is exhausting, expensive, and super rewarding. I studied about it for 6 months before I did it and still make more than my share of mistakes. If you want help, resources, advice, etc I will be happy to share. Kelley On 4/18/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi Beth, No I'm not part of any rescue list. At the beginning of this month three rescues found me, and I couldn't turn them away. I wasn't out looking for cats, it just happened. It was a wonderful thing since I was kind of feeling lost as to my purpose in life, and I've found my calling; however, starting my own rescue/shelter will take some time and planning. I'm working on getting a better job. I teach on-line courses for high school kids for college credit. The pay is horrendous—I figured out that's it's less that minimum wage per hour that I work! I like the teaching, somewhat, but for the amount of time I put into it… If you know of any rescue transport resources, please let me know! I'd hate to take money from people for gas, but if worse comes to worst, I could probably swallow my pride and do it. I'd have to pay you back, of course. Right now I'm working on paying off the vet bill. My husband makes a good amount of money, but he doesn't part with it easily for cat stuff. He thinks I should be on my own with this. We're not rich by any means—we live paycheck to paycheck pretty much—but I think even though he's kind hearted, if I turned on the waterworks for this, he'd still not be willing to give for the trip. I'll see what I can do between now and May 1st. I'll keep looking for transport funding on websites, etc. Thanks for your help—I know you probably have a lot of other things on your mind right now with the loss of poor Stamp. Melissa From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Gussies mom Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:06 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Are you part of any rescue lists? There are rescue transport lists with networks all over. There is even an air transport for animals. I'll see if I can find some info for you. If not, I'd be more than willing to send you a little money to help with gas. Beth Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Well Cassidy has to go to Best Friends soon after May 1st. They can't wait until July 1st for me to get a second IFA, but they said they'd keep him apart from the other FeLV cats if there was any doubt as to his status. But, I wonder what they consider doubt. I'd hate to expose him and he turns up negative in the future. And then there's the problem of funding the trip. I don't know how to come up with just the gas money before May 1st! Do you guys know of any place to turn to for help in a hurry? I figure it will cost me at least $240 for gas round trip. Plus, according to Map Quest, the drive is a little over 18 hours! That'll mean lodging along the way and at the destination. Then lodging on the way home unless I can get someone to take turns driving/sleeping. I know! Maybe I'll just hitch a ride with a trucker! They're used to long days like that! (Just kidding of course). Then there's the fact that I still don't have his first IFA test results (just the Elisa). I'm so frustrated by my vet's office! I like my vet quite a bit, but some of the helpers are a bunch of, pardon me, morons! I'm sure I couldn't do they're jobs, but I know I could keep things straight. They told me today that the lab work for Cassidy's IFA got lost in the mail, at the lab, somewhere. My guess is they forgot to send it, and now they need another sample. Who knows, but now we're really pushing the deadline for his trip to Utah. They want him to come in on Monday since they won't send to the lab until next week anyway. I think that if they won't put a rush on it (like tomorrow), then I'll just have to find a vet who will. Furthermore, I called this morning about my two rescues in the garage. One has the squirts, but I can't figure out which one. I can never catch them in the act! I wanted to know what I should do, and I also called to get Bandit's Prozac refilled. Okay, the receptionist takes down the info, and says they'll call back. So, I finally get a call back late in the afternoon (I had called early in the morning). The message they left was something about Bandit needing blood drawn again (but Cassidy's the one who actually needs it), and the rest of the message said that the food I wanted would be there in the morning. What?!?! I didn't ask for food; Cassidy needs the blood work; what about the diarrhea?; what about the Prozac? G! Sorry I'm ranting, but seriously! So, I called back and politely explained the real situation. Sometimes one of the workers there (or several) just seem like complete space-cadets! I know we all have off days, but they seem to more than most. If I didn't like my vet so much…well
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Thanks Kelly! I'm hoping to get a steady income first--I'm trying to get into the freelance copywriting and/or copyediting market. This way I can work from home like I already do. Plus I live in the middle of no where, so job opportunities for my degree are slim to none. AND I can't get a job as a secretary/receptionist and the like because now I have too much school. That's how it goes I guess! $60,000 in student loans and I make like $400 a month! I have so much to learn about starting a rescue, but I don't know if I'll be able to start one until we move out of town. Our house is so small that I just can't figure out how to arrange for a shelter and still allow my husband to use his garage! He's upset already that I've got two cats in there and one in my office! I will definitely keep you in mind as a good source for information since you've just started and the experience is fresh in your mind! Do you have FeLV cats only or just all kinds? I just love that everyone is so supportive on this site. Thanks, Melissa -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Kelley Saveika Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:42 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Hi Melissa, I recently started a rescue. It is exhausting, expensive, and super rewarding. I studied about it for 6 months before I did it and still make more than my share of mistakes. If you want help, resources, advice, etc I will be happy to share. Kelley On 4/18/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi Beth, No I'm not part of any rescue list. At the beginning of this month three rescues found me, and I couldn't turn them away. I wasn't out looking for cats, it just happened. It was a wonderful thing since I was kind of feeling lost as to my purpose in life, and I've found my calling; however, starting my own rescue/shelter will take some time and planning. I'm working on getting a better job. I teach on-line courses for high school kids for college credit. The pay is horrendous-I figured out that's it's less that minimum wage per hour that I work! I like the teaching, somewhat, but for the amount of time I put into it. If you know of any rescue transport resources, please let me know! I'd hate to take money from people for gas, but if worse comes to worst, I could probably swallow my pride and do it. I'd have to pay you back, of course. Right now I'm working on paying off the vet bill. My husband makes a good amount of money, but he doesn't part with it easily for cat stuff. He thinks I should be on my own with this. We're not rich by any means-we live paycheck to paycheck pretty much-but I think even though he's kind hearted, if I turned on the waterworks for this, he'd still not be willing to give for the trip. I'll see what I can do between now and May 1st. I'll keep looking for transport funding on websites, etc. Thanks for your help-I know you probably have a lot of other things on your mind right now with the loss of poor Stamp. Melissa From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Gussies mom Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:06 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Are you part of any rescue lists? There are rescue transport lists with networks all over. There is even an air transport for animals. I'll see if I can find some info for you. If not, I'd be more than willing to send you a little money to help with gas. Beth Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Well Cassidy has to go to Best Friends soon after May 1st. They can't wait until July 1st for me to get a second IFA, but they said they'd keep him apart from the other FeLV cats if there was any doubt as to his status. But, I wonder what they consider doubt. I'd hate to expose him and he turns up negative in the future. And then there's the problem of funding the trip. I don't know how to come up with just the gas money before May 1st! Do you guys know of any place to turn to for help in a hurry? I figure it will cost me at least $240 for gas round trip. Plus, according to Map Quest, the drive is a little over 18 hours! That'll mean lodging along the way and at the destination. Then lodging on the way home unless I can get someone to take turns driving/sleeping. I know! Maybe I'll just hitch a ride with a trucker! They're used to long days like that! (Just kidding of course). Then there's the fact that I still don't have his first IFA test results (just the Elisa). I'm so frustrated by my vet's office! I like my vet quite a bit, but some of the helpers are a bunch of, pardon me, morons! I'm sure I couldn't do they're jobs, but I know I could keep things straight. They told me today that the lab work for Cassidy's IFA got lost in the mail, at the lab, somewhere. My guess is they forgot to send it, and now they need another
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Yes, income is essential as rescue is very expensive. I actually have no FELV cats at this time, and probably will not unless I just get some in, at which point I'd probably transfer them to Best Friends, if I were lucky enough to be able to get space - it is VERY HARD to get a cat into BF. I have too many immune suppressed cats (my heart disease cat, and Joey who is on massive doses of steroids for his anemia, and etc.) for me to feel comfortable with mixing, and I have nowhere to permanently isolate cats. My ISO rooms are generally taken up with incoming cats, or moms w/kittens. I have no husband nor boyfriend, so I have cats in *every* room in my house. I have stopped intake for the moment as I just cannot physically take in any more, not to mention I have a lot who are on daily meds (Missy, Joey, Shimmer, Toodles, the kittens w/diarrhea). You could actually do a foster based network and not have any cats in your house at all. Or if you had enough money you could rent a building. I wanted to do an all breed cat rescue, so I do all kinds. There are rescues for most sorts of purebred cats here already, but I sure understand why people do breed-only rescue as otherwise there are such overwhelming numbers. Anyway, feel free to ask questions, though it might be better to do so off list as we are getting OT for FELV:) KElley On 4/18/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Thanks Kelly! I'm hoping to get a steady income first--I'm trying to get into the freelance copywriting and/or copyediting market. This way I can work from home like I already do. Plus I live in the middle of no where, so job opportunities for my degree are slim to none. AND I can't get a job as a secretary/receptionist and the like because now I have too much school. That's how it goes I guess! $60,000 in student loans and I make like $400 a month! I have so much to learn about starting a rescue, but I don't know if I'll be able to start one until we move out of town. Our house is so small that I just can't figure out how to arrange for a shelter and still allow my husband to use his garage! He's upset already that I've got two cats in there and one in my office! I will definitely keep you in mind as a good source for information since you've just started and the experience is fresh in your mind! Do you have FeLV cats only or just all kinds? I just love that everyone is so supportive on this site. Thanks, Melissa -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Kelley Saveika Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:42 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Hi Melissa, I recently started a rescue. It is exhausting, expensive, and super rewarding. I studied about it for 6 months before I did it and still make more than my share of mistakes. If you want help, resources, advice, etc I will be happy to share. Kelley On 4/18/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi Beth, No I'm not part of any rescue list. At the beginning of this month three rescues found me, and I couldn't turn them away. I wasn't out looking for cats, it just happened. It was a wonderful thing since I was kind of feeling lost as to my purpose in life, and I've found my calling; however, starting my own rescue/shelter will take some time and planning. I'm working on getting a better job. I teach on-line courses for high school kids for college credit. The pay is horrendous-I figured out that's it's less that minimum wage per hour that I work! I like the teaching, somewhat, but for the amount of time I put into it. If you know of any rescue transport resources, please let me know! I'd hate to take money from people for gas, but if worse comes to worst, I could probably swallow my pride and do it. I'd have to pay you back, of course. Right now I'm working on paying off the vet bill. My husband makes a good amount of money, but he doesn't part with it easily for cat stuff. He thinks I should be on my own with this. We're not rich by any means-we live paycheck to paycheck pretty much-but I think even though he's kind hearted, if I turned on the waterworks for this, he'd still not be willing to give for the trip. I'll see what I can do between now and May 1st. I'll keep looking for transport funding on websites, etc. Thanks for your help-I know you probably have a lot of other things on your mind right now with the loss of poor Stamp. Melissa From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Gussies mom Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:06 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Are you part of any rescue lists? There are rescue transport lists with networks all over. There is even an air transport for animals. I'll see if I can find some info for you. If not, I'd be more than willing to send you a little money to help with gas. Beth Melissa Lind
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http://purebredcatbreedrescue.org/transport.htm great info and resources on what is involved in setting up a transport; if you scroll down on the page, you'll find a link to some lists that work with cats. however, as a cat transporter, i'll tell you that most will not accept a cat with FeLV please contact me offlist at [EMAIL PROTECTED] with the name of the city you're in, and the nearest couple of airports, and i'll see if i can find out if we can arrange anything with our special-needs transporter. MC On 4/18/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi Beth, No I'm not part of any rescue list. At the beginning of this month three rescues found me, and I couldn't turn them away. I wasn't out looking for cats, it just happened. It was a wonderful thing since I was kind of feeling lost as to my purpose in life, and I've found my calling; however, starting my own rescue/shelter will take some time and planning. I'm working on getting a better job. I teach on-line courses for high school kids for college credit. The pay is horrendous—I figured out that's it's less that minimum wage per hour that I work! I like the teaching, somewhat, but for the amount of time I put into it… If you know of any rescue transport resources, please let me know! I'd hate to take money from people for gas, but if worse comes to worst, I could probably swallow my pride and do it. I'd have to pay you back, of course. Right now I'm working on paying off the vet bill. My husband makes a good amount of money, but he doesn't part with it easily for cat stuff. He thinks I should be on my own with this. We're not rich by any means—we live paycheck to paycheck pretty much—but I think even though he's kind hearted, if I turned on the waterworks for this, he'd still not be willing to give for the trip. I'll see what I can do between now and May 1st. I'll keep looking for transport funding on websites, etc. Thanks for your help—I know you probably have a lot of other things on your mind right now with the loss of poor Stamp. Melissa -- *From:* [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto: [EMAIL PROTECTED] *On Behalf Of *Gussies mom *Sent:* Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:06 AM *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org *Subject:* Re: update on Cassidy Are you part of any rescue lists? There are rescue transport lists with networks all over. There is even an air transport for animals. I'll see if I can find some info for you. If not, I'd be more than willing to send you a little money to help with gas. Beth *Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED]* wrote: Well Cassidy has to go to Best Friends soon after May 1st. They can't wait until July 1st for me to get a second IFA, but they said they'd keep him apart from the other FeLV cats if there was any doubt as to his status. But, I wonder what they consider doubt. I'd hate to expose him and he turns up negative in the future. And then there's the problem of funding the trip. I don't know how to come up with just the gas money before May 1st! Do you guys know of any place to turn to for help in a hurry? I figure it will cost me at least $240 for gas round trip. Plus, according to Map Quest, the drive is a little over 18 hours! That'll mean lodging along the way and at the destination. Then lodging on the way home unless I can get someone to take turns driving/sleeping. I know! Maybe I'll just hitch a ride with a trucker! They're used to long days like that! (Just kidding of course). Then there's the fact that I still don't have his first IFA test results (just the Elisa). I'm so frustrated by my vet's office! I like my vet quite a bit, but some of the helpers are a bunch of, pardon me, morons! I'm sure I couldn't do they're jobs, but I know I could keep things straight. They told me today that the lab work for Cassidy's IFA got lost in the mail, at the lab, somewhere. My guess is they forgot to send it, and now they need another sample. Who knows, but now we're really pushing the deadline for his trip to Utah. They want him to come in on Monday since they won't send to the lab until next week anyway. I think that if they won't put a rush on it (like tomorrow), then I'll just have to find a vet who will. Furthermore, I called this morning about my two rescues in the garage. One has the squirts, but I can't figure out which one. I can never catch them in the act! I wanted to know what I should do, and I also called to get Bandit's Prozac refilled. Okay, the receptionist takes down the info, and says they'll call back. So, I finally get a call back late in the afternoon (I had called early in the morning). The message they left was something about Bandit needing blood drawn again (but Cassidy's the one who actually needs it), and the rest of the message said that the food I wanted would be there in the morning. What?!?! I didn't ask for food; Cassidy needs the blood work; what about the diarrhea?; what about the Prozac? G! Sorry I'm ranting, but seriously
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Hey Melissa, I called BF to talk to Joanie, the girl who is normally at BF's Casa de Calmar, but today is her day off, and the girl I spoke with didn't know if she would be back tomorrow or Friday. So I'm going to call and speak with Joanie again tomorrow and/or Friday and see what she thinks about this situation. So if you can hold tight for a day or two, we will probably have a better answer to this problem. I wish they were more flexible! If it were me, I'd probably wait and not go anyway, because of the costs associated and the fact that she might test negative. And I am betting come July 1 if she's still postitive, they'll be able to take her still and maybe by then you can get help with transport. This is all so rushed. And when I feel rushed, usually things don't feel right, you know? I wonder if your vet is aware there is a problem with his staff? You might let him know you are frustrated and thinking of going elsewhere because of all the mix-ups and that you aren't feeling secure with the service you are receiving which you take very seriously because you love your animals so much. Maybe he doesn't even know there are that many issues, and if he doesn't know, he can't fix it. I would be angry too if I were you. I do expect people in a business setting to get their job right as they are being paid to do so. I'm certainly not perfect at work, but I do a pretty decent job. If it were me dealing with people and their animals' health, I would take it very seriously. :) Wendy Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world - indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com
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On 4/18/07, wendy [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hey Melissa, I called BF to talk to Joanie, the girl who is normally at BF's Casa de Calmar, but today is her day off, and the girl I spoke with didn't know if she would be back tomorrow or Friday. So I'm going to call and speak with Joanie again tomorrow and/or Friday and see what she thinks about this situation. So if you can hold tight for a day or two, we will probably have a better answer to this problem. I wish they were more flexible! If it were me, I'd probably wait and not go anyway, because of the costs associated and the fact that she might test negative. And I am betting come July 1 if she's still postitive, they'll be able to take her still and maybe by then you can get help with transport. This is all so rushed. And when I feel rushed, usually things don't feel right, you know? Honestly, Wendy, if it were me I would jump on it. I'm frankly amazed she was able to get a cat into BF. I know lots of people who have tried for very long periods of time to get cats into BF and were not able to do so. It can take months or years or never. I still don't know how she did it. I know that I was told that the FELV sanctuary Sherry volunteers at has a 40 cat waiting list and only takes cats from Michigan. I'm still worried about what I am going to do when I get a cat that tests positive, and I can assure you that if at any time BF would take a cat I needed to rehome, I would beg, borrow and steal if necessary to get that cat there. -- Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time. http://www.rescuties.org Vist the Rescuties store and save a kitty life! http://astore.amazon.com/rescuties-20 Please help Joey! http://rescuties.chipin.com/joey-autoimmune-hemolytic-anemia
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Re transporting FeLV+ cats, I have and I would never hesitate to transport any cat. It's difficult to find people to transport cats, period! Del - Original Message - From: TenHouseCats To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 11:44 AM Subject: Re: update on Cassidy http://purebredcatbreedrescue.org/transport.htm great info and resources on what is involved in setting up a transport; if you scroll down on the page, you'll find a link to some lists that work with cats. however, as a cat transporter, i'll tell you that most will not accept a cat with FeLV please contact me offlist at [EMAIL PROTECTED] with the name of the city you're in, and the nearest couple of airports, and i'll see if i can find out if we can arrange anything with our special-needs transporter. MC On 4/18/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi Beth, No I'm not part of any rescue list. At the beginning of this month three rescues found me, and I couldn't turn them away. I wasn't out looking for cats, it just happened. It was a wonderful thing since I was kind of feeling lost as to my purpose in life, and I've found my calling; however, starting my own rescue/shelter will take some time and planning. I'm working on getting a better job. I teach on-line courses for high school kids for college credit. The pay is horrendous—I figured out that's it's less that minimum wage per hour that I work! I like the teaching, somewhat, but for the amount of time I put into it… If you know of any rescue transport resources, please let me know! I'd hate to take money from people for gas, but if worse comes to worst, I could probably swallow my pride and do it. I'd have to pay you back, of course. Right now I'm working on paying off the vet bill. My husband makes a good amount of money, but he doesn't part with it easily for cat stuff. He thinks I should be on my own with this. We're not rich by any means—we live paycheck to paycheck pretty much—but I think even though he's kind hearted, if I turned on the waterworks for this, he'd still not be willing to give for the trip. I'll see what I can do between now and May 1st. I'll keep looking for transport funding on websites, etc. Thanks for your help—I know you probably have a lot of other things on your mind right now with the loss of poor Stamp. Melissa From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Gussies mom Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:06 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Are you part of any rescue lists? There are rescue transport lists with networks all over. There is even an air transport for animals. I'll see if I can find some info for you. If not, I'd be more than willing to send you a little money to help with gas. Beth Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Well Cassidy has to go to Best Friends soon after May 1st. They can't wait until July 1st for me to get a second IFA, but they said they'd keep him apart from the other FeLV cats if there was any doubt as to his status. But, I wonder what they consider doubt. I'd hate to expose him and he turns up negative in the future. And then there's the problem of funding the trip. I don't know how to come up with just the gas money before May 1st! Do you guys know of any place to turn to for help in a hurry? I figure it will cost me at least $240 for gas round trip. Plus, according to Map Quest, the drive is a little over 18 hours! That'll mean lodging along the way and at the destination. Then lodging on the way home unless I can get someone to take turns driving/sleeping. I know! Maybe I'll just hitch a ride with a trucker! They're used to long days like that! (Just kidding of course). Then there's the fact that I still don't have his first IFA test results (just the Elisa). I'm so frustrated by my vet's office! I like my vet quite a bit, but some of the helpers are a bunch of, pardon me, morons! I'm sure I couldn't do they're jobs, but I know I could keep things straight. They told me today that the lab work for Cassidy's IFA got lost in the mail, at the lab, somewhere. My guess is they forgot to send it, and now they need another sample. Who knows, but now we're really pushing the deadline for his trip to Utah. They want him to come in on Monday since they won't send to the lab until next week anyway. I think that if they won't put a rush on it (like tomorrow), then I'll just have to find a vet who will. Furthermore, I called this morning about my two rescues in the garage. One has the squirts, but I can't figure out which one. I can never catch them in the act! I wanted to know what I should do, and I also called to get Bandit's Prozac refilled. Okay, the receptionist takes down
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The only thing I can think of as to how Melissa got Cassidy in is because she does not run a rescue. I bet those with rescues do not get first dibs, because they are rescues, and once BF takes one from a shelter, they know there will be others because they are dealing with a shelter. If this is the case, it's probably not something written down because that would be discrimination. But it could be a possibility. I didn't realize it was so difficult to get an animal into BF. I didn't think it was, because they were not at full capacity in Casa de Calmar when I was there visiting. There are three rooms there, and none of them were maxed out. :) Wendy Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world - indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com
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Thanks Del, I think each case is individual. I don't foresee any unusual problems with transporting Cassidy since he's in excellent health other than the difficulty that transporting any cat can have. My only problem is financial. I can handle the transporting as incredible of an experience as it might turn out to be! :-) Melissa PS. Do hotels allow for cats? I know many do for dogs, but I'm not sure about cats. He's very vocal, so keeping him a secret could be difficult! _ From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Del H. Daniels Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 4:02 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Re transporting FeLV+ cats, I have and I would never hesitate to transport any cat. It's difficult to find people to transport cats, period! Del - Original Message - From: TenHouseCats mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 11:44 AM Subject: Re: update on Cassidy http://purebredcatbreedrescue.org/transport.htm great info and resources on what is involved in setting up a transport; if you scroll down on the page, you'll find a link to some lists that work with cats. however, as a cat transporter, i'll tell you that most will not accept a cat with FeLV please contact me offlist at [EMAIL PROTECTED] with the name of the city you're in, and the nearest couple of airports, and i'll see if i can find out if we can arrange anything with our special-needs transporter. MC On 4/18/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi Beth, No I'm not part of any rescue list. At the beginning of this month three rescues found me, and I couldn't turn them away. I wasn't out looking for cats, it just happened. It was a wonderful thing since I was kind of feeling lost as to my purpose in life, and I've found my calling; however, starting my own rescue/shelter will take some time and planning. I'm working on getting a better job. I teach on-line courses for high school kids for college credit. The pay is horrendous-I figured out that's it's less that minimum wage per hour that I work! I like the teaching, somewhat, but for the amount of time I put into it. If you know of any rescue transport resources, please let me know! I'd hate to take money from people for gas, but if worse comes to worst, I could probably swallow my pride and do it. I'd have to pay you back, of course. Right now I'm working on paying off the vet bill. My husband makes a good amount of money, but he doesn't part with it easily for cat stuff. He thinks I should be on my own with this. We're not rich by any means-we live paycheck to paycheck pretty much-but I think even though he's kind hearted, if I turned on the waterworks for this, he'd still not be willing to give for the trip. I'll see what I can do between now and May 1st. I'll keep looking for transport funding on websites, etc. Thanks for your help-I know you probably have a lot of other things on your mind right now with the loss of poor Stamp. Melissa _ From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Gussies mom Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:06 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Are you part of any rescue lists? There are rescue transport lists with networks all over. There is even an air transport for animals. I'll see if I can find some info for you. If not, I'd be more than willing to send you a little money to help with gas. Beth Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Well Cassidy has to go to Best Friends soon after May 1st. They can't wait until July 1st for me to get a second IFA, but they said they'd keep him apart from the other FeLV cats if there was any doubt as to his status. But, I wonder what they consider doubt. I'd hate to expose him and he turns up negative in the future. And then there's the problem of funding the trip. I don't know how to come up with just the gas money before May 1st! Do you guys know of any place to turn to for help in a hurry? I figure it will cost me at least $240 for gas round trip. Plus, according to Map Quest, the drive is a little over 18 hours! That'll mean lodging along the way and at the destination. Then lodging on the way home unless I can get someone to take turns driving/sleeping. I know! Maybe I'll just hitch a ride with a trucker! They're used to long days like that! (Just kidding of course). Then there's the fact that I still don't have his first IFA test results (just the Elisa). I'm so frustrated by my vet's office! I like my vet quite a bit, but some of the helpers are a bunch of, pardon me, morons! I'm sure I couldn't do they're jobs, but I know I could keep things straight. They told me today that the lab work for Cassidy's IFA got lost in the mail, at the lab, somewhere. My guess is they forgot to send it, and now they need another sample. Who knows, but now we're really pushing
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Good observation Wendy. I had wondered the same. I think they're full now from what I've been told. The lady who is helping me said the only way to get an FeLV+ in is usually when another passes on :( She said that they are very seldom adopted out. I hope that this vacancy is being adopted out and that's why I have to wait until May 1st. I'm very excited to visit the place after the descriptions you've given! Melissa -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of wendy Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 4:07 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy The only thing I can think of as to how Melissa got Cassidy in is because she does not run a rescue. I bet those with rescues do not get first dibs, because they are rescues, and once BF takes one from a shelter, they know there will be others because they are dealing with a shelter. If this is the case, it's probably not something written down because that would be discrimination. But it could be a possibility. I didn't realize it was so difficult to get an animal into BF. I didn't think it was, because they were not at full capacity in Casa de Calmar when I was there visiting. There are three rooms there, and none of them were maxed out. :) Wendy Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world - indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com
RE: update on Cassidy
Melissa, I know you will love it if you end up going. And if you stay at the BF property, it's not as expensive as if you stay in Kanab; the cabins are $70. It's really beautiful there, in a canyon-like way. Probably very different from Nebraska. If I were close, I would definitely help with transport, but I'm pretty far away. There is a kitty at BF that I absolutely love. Her name is Toshie. The lady I spoke with today said she's doing great. Shredding paper towel reams as usual...lol! I so wish I could adopt her (ie. that she was negative). I'd go pick her up right now. I guess either way, you were going to be adopting Cassidy out, right? So if she does turn negative and is at BF, she will be adopted. They adopt out 75% of their adoptable animals. The ones who are unadoptable are mainly dogs that have behavior issues. :) Wendy --- Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Good observation Wendy. I had wondered the same. I think they're full now from what I've been told. The lady who is helping me said the only way to get an FeLV+ in is usually when another passes on :( She said that they are very seldom adopted out. I hope that this vacancy is being adopted out and that's why I have to wait until May 1st. I'm very excited to visit the place after the descriptions you've given! Melissa -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of wendy Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 4:07 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy The only thing I can think of as to how Melissa got Cassidy in is because she does not run a rescue. I bet those with rescues do not get first dibs, because they are rescues, and once BF takes one from a shelter, they know there will be others because they are dealing with a shelter. If this is the case, it's probably not something written down because that would be discrimination. But it could be a possibility. I didn't realize it was so difficult to get an animal into BF. I didn't think it was, because they were not at full capacity in Casa de Calmar when I was there visiting. There are three rooms there, and none of them were maxed out. :) Wendy Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world - indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world - indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com
Re: Cassidy
Ok, found some other posts on Cassidy, HE, sorry I referred to HIM as a female. And you are in Nebraska, I'm no help there. Re Ashley and URIs, if she is an adult: the best is L-Lysine, 500 mg twice a day. Buy the capsules or loose powder, usually a health food store. You can mix in a bit of water then into the canned food if she eats that. If not, mix with water, maybe 2 cc, then syringe it. If she is a kitten 2 months or older use only half that amount If she is not on any other medication, and had runny nose/eyes, congestion, an anti-histamine works. again for an adult. If she is a kitten you have to ask your vet who doesn't sound so hot. I use Chlorpheniramine (generic for Clotrimitron), not the 12 hour formula. Give 2 mg (1/2 tablet, every 12 hours for an adult cat. I also give my URIs Interferon (1 cc)(prescription) during the outbreak. It also lowers the virus in the system as does Lysine so if you can use both, it's a double whammy against the virus. Del - Original Message - From: Melissa Lind To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Friday, April 06, 2007 11:45 AM Subject: Re: Cassidy and Ashley are home! Beth, Yes, yes, they spayed, vaccinated, the works. I'm sorry if this was not the thing to do; I'm not very knowledgeable yet. As someone pointed out on an earlier post-we're all learning. I guess I have a lot of learning to do-more than most. I appreciate the advice. I asked my vet today if I should give her anything-he said no as long as the discharge is clear. Poor baby, she just sits on her nest in front of the heater. But, she has moved around a lot more since yesterday. Now when I go to visit her, she comes down to eat and talk a little. Let me know if you have any advice for us. I'm going to look into Lysine. Problem around here is that there are not a lot of resources for sick kitties. No one cares. Melissa
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Hotels may not allow for cats ... you choose a motel with an outdoor entrance away from the main office and they will not know you have a kitty. Play music. I use an open wire dog crate large enough to litter box and place to lay while in the motel, some of those motels have hidey holes where it is difficult to get a hiding cat out, like behind the head of the bed! Del - Original Message - From: Melissa Lind To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 4:10 PM Subject: RE: update on Cassidy Thanks Del, I think each case is individual. I don't foresee any unusual problems with transporting Cassidy since he's in excellent health other than the difficulty that transporting any cat can have. My only problem is financial. I can handle the transporting as incredible of an experience as it might turn out to be! J Melissa PS. Do hotels allow for cats? I know many do for dogs, but I'm not sure about cats. He's very vocal, so keeping him a secret could be difficult! -- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Del H. Daniels Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 4:02 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Re transporting FeLV+ cats, I have and I would never hesitate to transport any cat. It's difficult to find people to transport cats, period! Del - Original Message - From: TenHouseCats To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 11:44 AM Subject: Re: update on Cassidy http://purebredcatbreedrescue.org/transport.htm great info and resources on what is involved in setting up a transport; if you scroll down on the page, you'll find a link to some lists that work with cats. however, as a cat transporter, i'll tell you that most will not accept a cat with FeLV please contact me offlist at [EMAIL PROTECTED] with the name of the city you're in, and the nearest couple of airports, and i'll see if i can find out if we can arrange anything with our special-needs transporter. MC On 4/18/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi Beth, No I'm not part of any rescue list. At the beginning of this month three rescues found me, and I couldn't turn them away. I wasn't out looking for cats, it just happened. It was a wonderful thing since I was kind of feeling lost as to my purpose in life, and I've found my calling; however, starting my own rescue/shelter will take some time and planning. I'm working on getting a better job. I teach on-line courses for high school kids for college credit. The pay is horrendous-I figured out that's it's less that minimum wage per hour that I work! I like the teaching, somewhat, but for the amount of time I put into it. If you know of any rescue transport resources, please let me know! I'd hate to take money from people for gas, but if worse comes to worst, I could probably swallow my pride and do it. I'd have to pay you back, of course. Right now I'm working on paying off the vet bill. My husband makes a good amount of money, but he doesn't part with it easily for cat stuff. He thinks I should be on my own with this. We're not rich by any means-we live paycheck to paycheck pretty much-but I think even though he's kind hearted, if I turned on the waterworks for this, he'd still not be willing to give for the trip. I'll see what I can do between now and May 1st. I'll keep looking for transport funding on websites, etc. Thanks for your help-I know you probably have a lot of other things on your mind right now with the loss of poor Stamp. Melissa From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Gussies mom Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:06 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Are you part of any rescue lists? There are rescue transport lists with networks all over. There is even an air transport for animals. I'll see if I can find some info for you. If not, I'd be more than willing to send you a little money to help with gas. Beth Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Well Cassidy has to go to Best Friends soon after May 1st. They can't wait until July 1st for me to get a second IFA, but they said they'd keep him apart from the other FeLV cats if there was any doubt as to his status. But, I wonder what they consider doubt. I'd hate to expose him and he turns up negative in the future. And then there's the problem of funding the trip. I don't know how to come up with just the gas money before May 1st! Do you guys know of any place to turn to for help in a hurry? I figure it will cost me at least $240 for gas round trip. Plus, according to Map Quest
RE: update on Cassidy
Great advice! As for the post about Ashley, she's not as sickly now, but her one eye does run a little. I'll ask my vet for something tomorrow when I go there. Thanks! Melissa _ From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Del H. Daniels Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 4:57 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Hotels may not allow for cats ... you choose a motel with an outdoor entrance away from the main office and they will not know you have a kitty. Play music. I use an open wire dog crate large enough to litter box and place to lay while in the motel, some of those motels have hidey holes where it is difficult to get a hiding cat out, like behind the head of the bed! Del - Original Message - From: Melissa mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Lind To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 4:10 PM Subject: RE: update on Cassidy Thanks Del, I think each case is individual. I don't foresee any unusual problems with transporting Cassidy since he's in excellent health other than the difficulty that transporting any cat can have. My only problem is financial. I can handle the transporting as incredible of an experience as it might turn out to be! :-) Melissa PS. Do hotels allow for cats? I know many do for dogs, but I'm not sure about cats. He's very vocal, so keeping him a secret could be difficult! _ From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Del H. Daniels Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 4:02 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Re transporting FeLV+ cats, I have and I would never hesitate to transport any cat. It's difficult to find people to transport cats, period! Del - Original Message - From: TenHouseCats mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 11:44 AM Subject: Re: update on Cassidy http://purebredcatbreedrescue.org/transport.htm great info and resources on what is involved in setting up a transport; if you scroll down on the page, you'll find a link to some lists that work with cats. however, as a cat transporter, i'll tell you that most will not accept a cat with FeLV please contact me offlist at [EMAIL PROTECTED] with the name of the city you're in, and the nearest couple of airports, and i'll see if i can find out if we can arrange anything with our special-needs transporter. MC On 4/18/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi Beth, No I'm not part of any rescue list. At the beginning of this month three rescues found me, and I couldn't turn them away. I wasn't out looking for cats, it just happened. It was a wonderful thing since I was kind of feeling lost as to my purpose in life, and I've found my calling; however, starting my own rescue/shelter will take some time and planning. I'm working on getting a better job. I teach on-line courses for high school kids for college credit. The pay is horrendous-I figured out that's it's less that minimum wage per hour that I work! I like the teaching, somewhat, but for the amount of time I put into it. If you know of any rescue transport resources, please let me know! I'd hate to take money from people for gas, but if worse comes to worst, I could probably swallow my pride and do it. I'd have to pay you back, of course. Right now I'm working on paying off the vet bill. My husband makes a good amount of money, but he doesn't part with it easily for cat stuff. He thinks I should be on my own with this. We're not rich by any means-we live paycheck to paycheck pretty much-but I think even though he's kind hearted, if I turned on the waterworks for this, he'd still not be willing to give for the trip. I'll see what I can do between now and May 1st. I'll keep looking for transport funding on websites, etc. Thanks for your help-I know you probably have a lot of other things on your mind right now with the loss of poor Stamp. Melissa _ From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Gussies mom Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:06 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Are you part of any rescue lists? There are rescue transport lists with networks all over. There is even an air transport for animals. I'll see if I can find some info for you. If not, I'd be more than willing to send you a little money to help with gas. Beth Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Well Cassidy has to go to Best Friends soon after May 1st. They can't wait until July 1st for me to get a second IFA, but they said they'd keep him apart from the other FeLV cats if there was any doubt as to his status. But, I wonder what they consider doubt. I'd hate to expose him and he turns up negative in the future. And then there's the problem of funding the trip. I don't know how to come up with just the gas money before May 1st! Do you guys
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Diane, Del, Yes, I'm in a tight spot. I can't keep him either way (if he ends up positive or negative), but if they isolate him for a while and he turns up negative, then as Wendy pointed out, they'd most likely find him a good home. If he's positive, then it sounds like he's in a better home than with me. Poor guy is sleeping on the cat tree right now having no clue that I'm anguishing about his fate... I don't really understand the time wait between the Elisa and the IFA. I was told that I had to have the Elisa's positive confirmed with an IFA positive, and then re-test in 90 days with another IFA. BF will re-test I've been told. What I basically understood from others is that the Elisa isn't really as reliable, so don't go by it anyway. But I do agree that another IFA is definitely needed to confirm his status. Such a dilemma, I'm not sure what I'll decide. I suppose the IFA results will tell me more. Maybe I'm making a mountain out of a mole hill. What's $400 dollars or whatever the trip will take compared to the happy life he could lead there? Maybe I could try and sweet talk my husband somehow...with that thought, I'd better go do the dishes! :) Melissa -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Rosenfeldt, Diane Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 4:14 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: RE: update on Cassidy Wendy, I'm glad you posted this. I was afraid I had missed or forgotten some detail about the situation that made it absolutely vital that Cassidy actually go to BF NOW. I agree with you, if this is such a rush and a hardship, Melissa would be better off waiting for some firm results on the IFA -- preferably one taken a few months from now -- than trying to hustle together some arrangements to get Cassidy to BF in less than 2 weeks. Trying to move him now will take a toll on finances, marriage and emotions, and there would be an even greater toll if, after all this, Cassidy turned out to have shed the virus and it would all have been for nothing. No matter how wonderful BF is, by the nature of the cats they take in, there will, sadly, always be turnover. If Cassidy is truly positive, I am sure there will be a place for him down the line. I can't imagine that BF would be insensitive to the many difficulties Melissa is going through at the moment. Melissa, I know these decisions don't come easily, and ultimately you're the one who has to make them, but please don't let yourself be rushed into all this angst and expense without sitting down and thinking it through again. Diane R. -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of wendy Sent: Wednesday, April 18, 2007 2:18 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: update on Cassidy Hey Melissa, I called BF to talk to Joanie, the girl who is normally at BF's Casa de Calmar, but today is her day off, and the girl I spoke with didn't know if she would be back tomorrow or Friday. So I'm going to call and speak with Joanie again tomorrow and/or Friday and see what she thinks about this situation. So if you can hold tight for a day or two, we will probably have a better answer to this problem. I wish they were more flexible! If it were me, I'd probably wait and not go anyway, because of the costs associated and the fact that she might test negative. And I am betting come July 1 if she's still postitive, they'll be able to take her still and maybe by then you can get help with transport. This is all so rushed. And when I feel rushed, usually things don't feel right, you know? I wonder if your vet is aware there is a problem with his staff? You might let him know you are frustrated and thinking of going elsewhere because of all the mix-ups and that you aren't feeling secure with the service you are receiving which you take very seriously because you love your animals so much. Maybe he doesn't even know there are that many issues, and if he doesn't know, he can't fix it. I would be angry too if I were you. I do expect people in a business setting to get their job right as they are being paid to do so. I'm certainly not perfect at work, but I do a pretty decent job. If it were me dealing with people and their animals' health, I would take it very seriously. :) Wendy Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world - indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com This electronic mail transmission and any attachments are confidential and may be privileged. They should be read or retained only by the intended recipient. If you have received this transmission in error, please notify the sender immediately and delete the transmission from your system. In addition, in order to comply with Treasury Circular 230, we
update on Cassidy
Well Cassidy has to go to Best Friends soon after May 1st. They can't wait until July 1st for me to get a second IFA, but they said they'd keep him apart from the other FeLV cats if there was any doubt as to his status. But, I wonder what they consider doubt. I'd hate to expose him and he turns up negative in the future. And then there's the problem of funding the trip. I don't know how to come up with just the gas money before May 1st! Do you guys know of any place to turn to for help in a hurry? I figure it will cost me at least $240 for gas round trip. Plus, according to Map Quest, the drive is a little over 18 hours! That'll mean lodging along the way and at the destination. Then lodging on the way home unless I can get someone to take turns driving/sleeping. I know! Maybe I'll just hitch a ride with a trucker! They're used to long days like that! (Just kidding of course). Then there's the fact that I still don't have his first IFA test results (just the Elisa). I'm so frustrated by my vet's office! I like my vet quite a bit, but some of the helpers are a bunch of, pardon me, morons! I'm sure I couldn't do they're jobs, but I know I could keep things straight. They told me today that the lab work for Cassidy's IFA got lost in the mail, at the lab, somewhere. My guess is they forgot to send it, and now they need another sample. Who knows, but now we're really pushing the deadline for his trip to Utah. They want him to come in on Monday since they won't send to the lab until next week anyway. I think that if they won't put a rush on it (like tomorrow), then I'll just have to find a vet who will. Furthermore, I called this morning about my two rescues in the garage. One has the squirts, but I can't figure out which one. I can never catch them in the act! I wanted to know what I should do, and I also called to get Bandit's Prozac refilled. Okay, the receptionist takes down the info, and says they'll call back. So, I finally get a call back late in the afternoon (I had called early in the morning). The message they left was something about Bandit needing blood drawn again (but Cassidy's the one who actually needs it), and the rest of the message said that the food I wanted would be there in the morning. What?!?! I didn't ask for food; Cassidy needs the blood work; what about the diarrhea?; what about the Prozac? G! Sorry I'm ranting, but seriously! So, I called back and politely explained the real situation. Sometimes one of the workers there (or several) just seem like complete space-cadets! I know we all have off days, but they seem to more than most. If I didn't like my vet so much.well, I suppose there are other likeable vets around.I just hate to travel too far since the car ride is usually traumatizing enough. Thanks for listening to me complain. I needed to vent. I know many of you are going through much worse situations and are dealing with a lot of sadness, so I'm sorry if my complaints seem trivial! I'm still not sure what I'll do with Cassidy. I'm just hoping his IFA comes back negative, but I know that's not going to happen. But, he's so healthy now, I just hope he has a wonderfully, long life. Melissa
Re: good news, sort of, for Cassidy
What a beautiful place! My house should only look that clean! Wonderful photos! :) Tee 'n' the Wildlife On Apr 13, 2007, at 12:59 PM, wendy wrote: Melissa, This is WONDERFUL!!! If you saw the facility, you would really be at peace with Cassidy going there. It's a fantastic shelter!!! I told my husband when I was there that in some cases, I bet it's better that some of these babies live out their lives at Best Friends rather than be adopted because it's such a peaceful, well-taken care of, and loving facility. And the girl who runs the shelter is GREAT! I can't pull up her name at the moment (I'm wanting to say Diane), but she really impressed me. I had long conversations with her both days I volunteered in that unit, and she really knows her stuff. Cassidy is so very lucky! There are pics of the cattery at this link: http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/wendy2724/ album?.dir=bea1re2.src=phstore=prodid=.done=http%3a// photos.yahoo.com/ph//my_photos I completely agree with you wanting to verify her FeLV status with another test, especially considering the cost of traveling there. Maybe your husband will consider going with you and you can take a little vacation. They have a cute bed and breakfast there that we stayed in, and the canyons are beautiful! Again, I think this is great. Let us know how things turn out! :) Wendy --- Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Cassidy has been accepted to Best Friend in Utah for their FeLV ward. This is wonderful, but I am still hoping to find him a forever home in the meantime. He's such a wonderful guy, I'd just hate for him not to go to a real home. He's about one year old and not exhibiting any symptoms, so I've got my fingers crossed for a long, healthy life. Here's the rub: even though I advised them that I wouldn't be able to bring Cassidy out there until July, they've asked that he come around May 1st. I want to confirm his FeLV status with a second IFA in three months before exposing him to other FeLV cats. His first IFA is still not back; the only confirmation of his FeLV status is the Elisa. I know the people who work there are very busy, but I made this clear in my emails, but no one seemed to heed it. I've emailed back saying I just couldn't take him until his status is determined with another test. This would mean he'd be available after July 1st, unless he finds a home before then. So, I'm not sure if they'll be able to keep him on the list since other FeLV+ babies might need a home before then. But, he just can't live in my office room forever! He started crying last night through the door-kept me awake most of the night. I'd go comfort him, but the only way he'd stop is if I'd just quit coming into the room-it's very sad for me. One more thing-even if they could isolate him from the other cats until another test is given-I can't afford to travel to Utah right now! I mentioned that I'd have to save up anyway. I don't know if there is any place to get financial assistance for travel expenses. One contact there suggested that I get in touch with people through their website, especially people in Nebraska. But, how could I convince people that I'm not just stealing their money? Furthermore, I'm not sure if I'd be eligible for assistance because of my husband's income. I know it's technically our money, but when it comes to the rescue cats, my husband is less than enthusiastic about spending his truly hard earned money. If only I had a real job! Around here (the middle of no where) I have too much schooling! G! My only hope is freelance jobs over the internet-which is slow going so far. I guess it's just going to be a waiting game, and in the meantime, I really need to get the word out that Cassidy needs a forever home. If any of you have advice or comments, send them my way! Thanks for listening! Melissa Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world: Indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com
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I don't know where you live, but Cassidy is the most beautiful, friendly, loving cat! He's probably less than one year old, or around there. Here's his picture: He's gorgeous. I'm up in Vermont but am not really in a position to take in other cats at the moment, mostly because of Stitch's particular personality issues. :) If I think of or find anyone who is, though, or if my situation changes, I'll keep you in mind. Best of luck with your new quest on educating yourself on FeLV. There's so much to learn as I've found out this past week! But, the people here are so helpful and understanding-I'm so glad you've found this resource as well! Thanks! Joe [EMAIL PROTECTED] __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com
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Thanks Joe! Vermont is quite a distance from Nebraska! But, of course keep us in mind if you know of any compassionate people would like and FeLV baby. A vacation with a purpose would be nice. However, I'm sure there are plenty of cats in need out East! And, luckily, Cassidy has been accepted to Best Friends in Utah (a little closer), if I don't find him a home before then. Best, Melissa -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Joe Reil Sent: Saturday, April 14, 2007 7:49 AM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: RE: Felvtalk - introduction - Chewie and Stitch/Cassidy I don't know where you live, but Cassidy is the most beautiful, friendly, loving cat! He's probably less than one year old, or around there. Here's his picture: He's gorgeous. I'm up in Vermont but am not really in a position to take in other cats at the moment, mostly because of Stitch's particular personality issues. :) If I think of or find anyone who is, though, or if my situation changes, I'll keep you in mind. Best of luck with your new quest on educating yourself on FeLV. There's so much to learn as I've found out this past week! But, the people here are so helpful and understanding-I'm so glad you've found this resource as well! Thanks! Joe [EMAIL PROTECTED] __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com
good news, sort of, for Cassidy
Cassidy has been accepted to Best Friend in Utah for their FeLV ward. This is wonderful, but I am still hoping to find him a forever home in the meantime. He's such a wonderful guy, I'd just hate for him not to go to a real home. He's about one year old and not exhibiting any symptoms, so I've got my fingers crossed for a long, healthy life. Here's the rub: even though I advised them that I wouldn't be able to bring Cassidy out there until July, they've asked that he come around May 1st. I want to confirm his FeLV status with a second IFA in three months before exposing him to other FeLV cats. His first IFA is still not back; the only confirmation of his FeLV status is the Elisa. I know the people who work there are very busy, but I made this clear in my emails, but no one seemed to heed it. I've emailed back saying I just couldn't take him until his status is determined with another test. This would mean he'd be available after July 1st, unless he finds a home before then. So, I'm not sure if they'll be able to keep him on the list since other FeLV+ babies might need a home before then. But, he just can't live in my office room forever! He started crying last night through the door-kept me awake most of the night. I'd go comfort him, but the only way he'd stop is if I'd just quit coming into the room-it's very sad for me. One more thing-even if they could isolate him from the other cats until another test is given-I can't afford to travel to Utah right now! I mentioned that I'd have to save up anyway. I don't know if there is any place to get financial assistance for travel expenses. One contact there suggested that I get in touch with people through their website, especially people in Nebraska. But, how could I convince people that I'm not just stealing their money? Furthermore, I'm not sure if I'd be eligible for assistance because of my husband's income. I know it's technically our money, but when it comes to the rescue cats, my husband is less than enthusiastic about spending his truly hard earned money. If only I had a real job! Around here (the middle of no where) I have too much schooling! G! My only hope is freelance jobs over the internet-which is slow going so far. I guess it's just going to be a waiting game, and in the meantime, I really need to get the word out that Cassidy needs a forever home. If any of you have advice or comments, send them my way! Thanks for listening! Melissa
RE: good news, sort of, for Cassidy
Melissa -- I'm glad Cassidy got (potentially) accepted to Best Friends, but I think you're right in wanting to wait for the retest. Otherwise, the logistics of this are really hairy. Maybe you just need to recontact Best Friends AFTER the retest (and save up in the meantime just in case) so they won't be pressuring you to get it all together in TWO WEEKS. That's so little time! And what if, by some miracle, he doesn't test positive on the IFA? Then he'll be easy to rehome and you won't have to worry about Best Friends at all. Here's hoping this is the case! Diane R. From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Melissa Lind Sent: Friday, April 13, 2007 9:18 AM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: good news, sort of, for Cassidy Cassidy has been accepted to Best Friend in Utah for their FeLV ward. This is wonderful, but I am still hoping to find him a forever home in the meantime. He's such a wonderful guy, I'd just hate for him not to go to a real home. He's about one year old and not exhibiting any symptoms, so I've got my fingers crossed for a long, healthy life. Here's the rub: even though I advised them that I wouldn't be able to bring Cassidy out there until July, they've asked that he come around May 1st. I want to confirm his FeLV status with a second IFA in three months before exposing him to other FeLV cats. His first IFA is still not back; the only confirmation of his FeLV status is the Elisa. I know the people who work there are very busy, but I made this clear in my emails, but no one seemed to heed it. I've emailed back saying I just couldn't take him until his status is determined with another test. This would mean he'd be available after July 1st, unless he finds a home before then. So, I'm not sure if they'll be able to keep him on the list since other FeLV+ babies might need a home before then. But, he just can't live in my office room forever! He started crying last night through the door-kept me awake most of the night. I'd go comfort him, but the only way he'd stop is if I'd just quit coming into the room-it's very sad for me. One more thing-even if they could isolate him from the other cats until another test is given-I can't afford to travel to Utah right now! I mentioned that I'd have to save up anyway. I don't know if there is any place to get financial assistance for travel expenses. One contact there suggested that I get in touch with people through their website, especially people in Nebraska. But, how could I convince people that I'm not just stealing their money? Furthermore, I'm not sure if I'd be eligible for assistance because of my husband's income. I know it's technically our money, but when it comes to the rescue cats, my husband is less than enthusiastic about spending his truly hard earned money. If only I had a real job! Around here (the middle of no where) I have too much schooling! G! My only hope is freelance jobs over the internet-which is slow going so far. I guess it's just going to be a waiting game, and in the meantime, I really need to get the word out that Cassidy needs a forever home. If any of you have advice or comments, send them my way! Thanks for listening! Melissa This electronic mail transmission and any attachments are confidential and may be privileged. They should be read or retained only by the intended recipient. If you have received this transmission in error, please notify the sender immediately and delete the transmission from your system. In addition, in order to comply with Treasury Circular 230, we are required to inform you that unless we have specifically stated to the contrary in writing, any advice we provide in this email or any attachment concerning federal tax issues or submissions is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, to avoid federal tax penalties.
Re: good news, sort of, for Cassidy
Melissa, I don't know. I expect that Best Friends is better than some forever homes - it is a wonderful place, for sure. And much cleaner than my house, from looking at the pictures. Not cheap to travel to, though, for sure - I can't afford to go either! I wish I could tell you the answers you need. On 4/13/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Cassidy has been accepted to Best Friend in Utah for their FeLV ward. This is wonderful, but I am still hoping to find him a forever home in the meantime. He's such a wonderful guy, I'd just hate for him not to go to a real home. He's about one year old and not exhibiting any symptoms, so I've got my fingers crossed for a long, healthy life. Here's the rub: even though I advised them that I wouldn't be able to bring Cassidy out there until July, they've asked that he come around May 1st. I want to confirm his FeLV status with a second IFA in three months before exposing him to other FeLV cats. His first IFA is still not back; the only confirmation of his FeLV status is the Elisa. I know the people who work there are very busy, but I made this clear in my emails, but no one seemed to heed it. I've emailed back saying I just couldn't take him until his status is determined with another test. This would mean he'd be available after July 1st, unless he finds a home before then. So, I'm not sure if they'll be able to keep him on the list since other FeLV+ babies might need a home before then. But, he just can't live in my office room forever! He started crying last night through the door—kept me awake most of the night. I'd go comfort him, but the only way he'd stop is if I'd just quit coming into the room—it's very sad for me. One more thing—even if they could isolate him from the other cats until another test is given—I can't afford to travel to Utah right now! I mentioned that I'd have to save up anyway. I don't know if there is any place to get financial assistance for travel expenses. One contact there suggested that I get in touch with people through their website, especially people in Nebraska. But, how could I convince people that I'm not just stealing their money? Furthermore, I'm not sure if I'd be eligible for assistance because of my husband's income. I know it's technically our money, but when it comes to the rescue cats, my husband is less than enthusiastic about spending his truly hard earned money. If only I had a real job! Around here (the middle of no where) I have too much schooling! G! My only hope is freelance jobs over the internet—which is slow going so far. I guess it's just going to be a waiting game, and in the meantime, I really need to get the word out that Cassidy needs a forever home. If any of you have advice or comments, send them my way! Thanks for listening! Melissa -- Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time. http://www.rescuties.org Vist the Rescuties store and save a kitty life! http://astore.amazon.com/rescuties-20 Please help Joey! http://rescuties.chipin.com/joey-autoimmune-hemolytic-anemia
RE: good news, sort of, for Cassidy
Kelley, Thanks for the info on Best Friends--it might be a better place like you said--finding the right place for him is so risky. I'm so anxious that he won't go to a home that's as loving as mine! I only wish I had more room so I could adopt an FeLV buddy for him. Diane, Good idea--and lets hope and pray that he tests negative on the IFA! Then I'd probably (well, maybe) vaccinate my youngest and let him hang out with the clan until he gets a home. I'm still unsure about vaccinating Smokey--I'm so worried she'll get a sarcoma--but we've been over all this before! I'm just a chronic worrier! Melissa -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Kelley Saveika Sent: Friday, April 13, 2007 9:28 AM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: good news, sort of, for Cassidy Melissa, I don't know. I expect that Best Friends is better than some forever homes - it is a wonderful place, for sure. And much cleaner than my house, from looking at the pictures. Not cheap to travel to, though, for sure - I can't afford to go either! I wish I could tell you the answers you need. On 4/13/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Cassidy has been accepted to Best Friend in Utah for their FeLV ward. This is wonderful, but I am still hoping to find him a forever home in the meantime. He's such a wonderful guy, I'd just hate for him not to go to a real home. He's about one year old and not exhibiting any symptoms, so I've got my fingers crossed for a long, healthy life. Here's the rub: even though I advised them that I wouldn't be able to bring Cassidy out there until July, they've asked that he come around May 1st. I want to confirm his FeLV status with a second IFA in three months before exposing him to other FeLV cats. His first IFA is still not back; the only confirmation of his FeLV status is the Elisa. I know the people who work there are very busy, but I made this clear in my emails, but no one seemed to heed it. I've emailed back saying I just couldn't take him until his status is determined with another test. This would mean he'd be available after July 1st, unless he finds a home before then. So, I'm not sure if they'll be able to keep him on the list since other FeLV+ babies might need a home before then. But, he just can't live in my office room forever! He started crying last night through the door-kept me awake most of the night. I'd go comfort him, but the only way he'd stop is if I'd just quit coming into the room-it's very sad for me. One more thing-even if they could isolate him from the other cats until another test is given-I can't afford to travel to Utah right now! I mentioned that I'd have to save up anyway. I don't know if there is any place to get financial assistance for travel expenses. One contact there suggested that I get in touch with people through their website, especially people in Nebraska. But, how could I convince people that I'm not just stealing their money? Furthermore, I'm not sure if I'd be eligible for assistance because of my husband's income. I know it's technically our money, but when it comes to the rescue cats, my husband is less than enthusiastic about spending his truly hard earned money. If only I had a real job! Around here (the middle of no where) I have too much schooling! G! My only hope is freelance jobs over the internet-which is slow going so far. I guess it's just going to be a waiting game, and in the meantime, I really need to get the word out that Cassidy needs a forever home. If any of you have advice or comments, send them my way! Thanks for listening! Melissa -- Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time. http://www.rescuties.org Vist the Rescuties store and save a kitty life! http://astore.amazon.com/rescuties-20 Please help Joey! http://rescuties.chipin.com/joey-autoimmune-hemolytic-anemia
Re: good news, sort of, for Cassidy
Melissa, This is WONDERFUL!!! If you saw the facility, you would really be at peace with Cassidy going there. It's a fantastic shelter!!! I told my husband when I was there that in some cases, I bet it's better that some of these babies live out their lives at Best Friends rather than be adopted because it's such a peaceful, well-taken care of, and loving facility. And the girl who runs the shelter is GREAT! I can't pull up her name at the moment (I'm wanting to say Diane), but she really impressed me. I had long conversations with her both days I volunteered in that unit, and she really knows her stuff. Cassidy is so very lucky! There are pics of the cattery at this link: http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/wendy2724/album?.dir=bea1re2.src=phstore=prodid=.done=http%3a//photos.yahoo.com/ph//my_photos I completely agree with you wanting to verify her FeLV status with another test, especially considering the cost of traveling there. Maybe your husband will consider going with you and you can take a little vacation. They have a cute bed and breakfast there that we stayed in, and the canyons are beautiful! Again, I think this is great. Let us know how things turn out! :) Wendy --- Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Cassidy has been accepted to Best Friend in Utah for their FeLV ward. This is wonderful, but I am still hoping to find him a forever home in the meantime. He's such a wonderful guy, I'd just hate for him not to go to a real home. He's about one year old and not exhibiting any symptoms, so I've got my fingers crossed for a long, healthy life. Here's the rub: even though I advised them that I wouldn't be able to bring Cassidy out there until July, they've asked that he come around May 1st. I want to confirm his FeLV status with a second IFA in three months before exposing him to other FeLV cats. His first IFA is still not back; the only confirmation of his FeLV status is the Elisa. I know the people who work there are very busy, but I made this clear in my emails, but no one seemed to heed it. I've emailed back saying I just couldn't take him until his status is determined with another test. This would mean he'd be available after July 1st, unless he finds a home before then. So, I'm not sure if they'll be able to keep him on the list since other FeLV+ babies might need a home before then. But, he just can't live in my office room forever! He started crying last night through the door-kept me awake most of the night. I'd go comfort him, but the only way he'd stop is if I'd just quit coming into the room-it's very sad for me. One more thing-even if they could isolate him from the other cats until another test is given-I can't afford to travel to Utah right now! I mentioned that I'd have to save up anyway. I don't know if there is any place to get financial assistance for travel expenses. One contact there suggested that I get in touch with people through their website, especially people in Nebraska. But, how could I convince people that I'm not just stealing their money? Furthermore, I'm not sure if I'd be eligible for assistance because of my husband's income. I know it's technically our money, but when it comes to the rescue cats, my husband is less than enthusiastic about spending his truly hard earned money. If only I had a real job! Around here (the middle of no where) I have too much schooling! G! My only hope is freelance jobs over the internet-which is slow going so far. I guess it's just going to be a waiting game, and in the meantime, I really need to get the word out that Cassidy needs a forever home. If any of you have advice or comments, send them my way! Thanks for listening! Melissa Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world: Indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com
RE: good news, sort of, for Cassidy
Wendy, Thanks for the photos! Also, that's great to know about the bed and breakfast! I've been complaining that my husband gets to go fishing in Canada every year, but that we never get to go anywhere together! So, maybe I can persuade him (I'll need all the prayers for that) to go with me--maybe we can volunteer to help out for a couple of days! I would love that, and I think that he needs to get out of his element as see what people are doing for animals. He truly has a kind heart, but he needs a little (a lot) of coaxing to open the pocketbook. He's never had to worry about money until now (marriage!), and I've grown up in a family that often had troubles making ends meet, but we didn't sweat it because it always works out one way or another, but my husband is not so flippant or at ease about money as I am. This is probably a good thing! Melissa -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of wendy Sent: Friday, April 13, 2007 1:00 PM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: good news, sort of, for Cassidy Melissa, This is WONDERFUL!!! If you saw the facility, you would really be at peace with Cassidy going there. It's a fantastic shelter!!! I told my husband when I was there that in some cases, I bet it's better that some of these babies live out their lives at Best Friends rather than be adopted because it's such a peaceful, well-taken care of, and loving facility. And the girl who runs the shelter is GREAT! I can't pull up her name at the moment (I'm wanting to say Diane), but she really impressed me. I had long conversations with her both days I volunteered in that unit, and she really knows her stuff. Cassidy is so very lucky! There are pics of the cattery at this link: http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/wendy2724/album?.dir=bea1re2.src=phstore=pr odid=.done=http%3a//photos.yahoo.com/ph//my_photos I completely agree with you wanting to verify her FeLV status with another test, especially considering the cost of traveling there. Maybe your husband will consider going with you and you can take a little vacation. They have a cute bed and breakfast there that we stayed in, and the canyons are beautiful! Again, I think this is great. Let us know how things turn out! :) Wendy --- Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Cassidy has been accepted to Best Friend in Utah for their FeLV ward. This is wonderful, but I am still hoping to find him a forever home in the meantime. He's such a wonderful guy, I'd just hate for him not to go to a real home. He's about one year old and not exhibiting any symptoms, so I've got my fingers crossed for a long, healthy life. Here's the rub: even though I advised them that I wouldn't be able to bring Cassidy out there until July, they've asked that he come around May 1st. I want to confirm his FeLV status with a second IFA in three months before exposing him to other FeLV cats. His first IFA is still not back; the only confirmation of his FeLV status is the Elisa. I know the people who work there are very busy, but I made this clear in my emails, but no one seemed to heed it. I've emailed back saying I just couldn't take him until his status is determined with another test. This would mean he'd be available after July 1st, unless he finds a home before then. So, I'm not sure if they'll be able to keep him on the list since other FeLV+ babies might need a home before then. But, he just can't live in my office room forever! He started crying last night through the door-kept me awake most of the night. I'd go comfort him, but the only way he'd stop is if I'd just quit coming into the room-it's very sad for me. One more thing-even if they could isolate him from the other cats until another test is given-I can't afford to travel to Utah right now! I mentioned that I'd have to save up anyway. I don't know if there is any place to get financial assistance for travel expenses. One contact there suggested that I get in touch with people through their website, especially people in Nebraska. But, how could I convince people that I'm not just stealing their money? Furthermore, I'm not sure if I'd be eligible for assistance because of my husband's income. I know it's technically our money, but when it comes to the rescue cats, my husband is less than enthusiastic about spending his truly hard earned money. If only I had a real job! Around here (the middle of no where) I have too much schooling! G! My only hope is freelance jobs over the internet-which is slow going so far. I guess it's just going to be a waiting game, and in the meantime, I really need to get the word out that Cassidy needs a forever home. If any of you have advice or comments, send them my way! Thanks for listening! Melissa Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world: Indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade
RE: good news, sort of, for Cassidy
Melissa, Maybe you can entice him with the dog section at Best Friends, if he's not really a cat person. You can also stay ON the property, and have a sleepover with one of the dogs...lol. Isn't that the coolest? The Bed and Breakfast is owned by Clarion, but it's still good. It's called The Victorian Charm Inn. :) Wendy --- Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Wendy, Thanks for the photos! Also, that's great to know about the bed and breakfast! I've been complaining that my husband gets to go fishing in Canada every year, but that we never get to go anywhere together! So, maybe I can persuade him (I'll need all the prayers for that) to go with me--maybe we can volunteer to help out for a couple of days! I would love that, and I think that he needs to get out of his element as see what people are doing for animals. He truly has a kind heart, but he needs a little (a lot) of coaxing to open the pocketbook. He's never had to worry about money until now (marriage!), and I've grown up in a family that often had troubles making ends meet, but we didn't sweat it because it always works out one way or another, but my husband is not so flippant or at ease about money as I am. This is probably a good thing! Melissa -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of wendy Sent: Friday, April 13, 2007 1:00 PM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: good news, sort of, for Cassidy Melissa, This is WONDERFUL!!! If you saw the facility, you would really be at peace with Cassidy going there. It's a fantastic shelter!!! I told my husband when I was there that in some cases, I bet it's better that some of these babies live out their lives at Best Friends rather than be adopted because it's such a peaceful, well-taken care of, and loving facility. And the girl who runs the shelter is GREAT! I can't pull up her name at the moment (I'm wanting to say Diane), but she really impressed me. I had long conversations with her both days I volunteered in that unit, and she really knows her stuff. Cassidy is so very lucky! There are pics of the cattery at this link: http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/wendy2724/album?.dir=bea1re2.src=phstore=pr odid=.done=http%3a//photos.yahoo.com/ph//my_photos I completely agree with you wanting to verify her FeLV status with another test, especially considering the cost of traveling there. Maybe your husband will consider going with you and you can take a little vacation. They have a cute bed and breakfast there that we stayed in, and the canyons are beautiful! Again, I think this is great. Let us know how things turn out! :) Wendy --- Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Cassidy has been accepted to Best Friend in Utah for their FeLV ward. This is wonderful, but I am still hoping to find him a forever home in the meantime. He's such a wonderful guy, I'd just hate for him not to go to a real home. He's about one year old and not exhibiting any symptoms, so I've got my fingers crossed for a long, healthy life. Here's the rub: even though I advised them that I wouldn't be able to bring Cassidy out there until July, they've asked that he come around May 1st. I want to confirm his FeLV status with a second IFA in three months before exposing him to other FeLV cats. His first IFA is still not back; the only confirmation of his FeLV status is the Elisa. I know the people who work there are very busy, but I made this clear in my emails, but no one seemed to heed it. I've emailed back saying I just couldn't take him until his status is determined with another test. This would mean he'd be available after July 1st, unless he finds a home before then. So, I'm not sure if they'll be able to keep him on the list since other FeLV+ babies might need a home before then. But, he just can't live in my office room forever! He started crying last night through the door-kept me awake most of the night. I'd go comfort him, but the only way he'd stop is if I'd just quit coming into the room-it's very sad for me. One more thing-even if they could isolate him from the other cats until another test is given-I can't afford to travel to Utah right now! I mentioned that I'd have to save up anyway. I don't know if there is any place to get financial assistance for travel expenses. One contact there suggested that I get in touch with people through their website, especially people in Nebraska. But, how could I convince people that I'm not just stealing their money? Furthermore, I'm not sure if I'd be eligible for assistance because of my husband's income. I know it's technically our money, but when it comes to the rescue cats, my husband is less than enthusiastic about spending his truly hard earned money. If only I had a real job! Around here (the middle
Re: Cassidy and Ashley are home!
Well, I'm over 100 messages behind, so please forgive me if I cover ground that's already been covered. Melissa, the girls at the vet's office probably just were looking at you that way because you seem to not know how contagious Upper Respiratory Infections are in cats, and they are afraid you will NOT heed the vet's advice to quarantine this cat. If the FELV+ cat you have gets the URI (that's the short way to say Upper Respiratory Infection) it could have fairly severe consequences for him. So, they were PROBABLY giving you the oh, she is SOOO naive! look. Don't take it personally. THEY do not know you ARE seeking to become more aware of these things, so they are judging you unfairly. I could be wrong, mind you, but having been a vet assistant myself, I can assure you I personally gave MY OWN fair share of Oh these people are Sooo naive looks. It sounds like you have things going in the right direction to me. Putting the FELV cat in your office is a good option until you are more comfortable with the idea of mixing. As for the girl in the garage, my only concern is that some garages are dusty, be it from an unfinished concrete floor, to general outside dirt finding it's way in on cars and bikes over the years, to a lack of deep cleaning (how many of us vacuum the garage?). If she is having respiratory issues, this dust could make it worse. So, you may want to consider putting her in a bathroom, IF your garage is dusty. Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources
Re: pictures of Cassidy and Ashley
Lion cuts are SOOO cute! Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources
Re: pictures of Cassidy and Ashley
Melissa, Ashley's gorgeous, but that Cassidy is as cute as can be with his haircut, he's got the most expressive face! -- Belinda happiness is being owned by cats ... Be-Mi-Kitties http://bemikitties.com Post Adoptable FeLV/FIV/FIP Cats/Kittens http://adopt.bemikitties.com FeLV Candlelight Service http://bemikitties.com/cls HostDesign4U.com [affordable hosting web design] http://HostDesign4U.com BMK Designs [non-profit animals websites] http://bmk.bemikitties.com
Re: pictures of Cassidy and Ashley
Opps, please apologise to Cassidy for my slip up in assuming she was a he :( -- Belinda happiness is being owned by cats ... Be-Mi-Kitties http://bemikitties.com Post Adoptable FeLV/FIV/FIP Cats/Kittens http://adopt.bemikitties.com FeLV Candlelight Service http://bemikitties.com/cls HostDesign4U.com [affordable hosting web design] http://HostDesign4U.com BMK Designs [non-profit animals websites] http://bmk.bemikitties.com
Re: pictures of Cassidy and Ashley
They are precious! I like their markings. Both of them look very sweet. Gina Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Okay, I know youre all sick of hearing from me, but here are some pictures. I hope this works. Cassidy: http://picasaweb.google.com/mzurovsk/Cassidy/photo?authkey=Iq5dHa-Vucs#5050179613677810130 Ashley: http://picasaweb.google.com/mzurovsk/Ashley/photo?authkey=imb76PXJObI#5050180614405190130 Theyre kind of grainy since my flash isnt working, and I had to lighten them manually. Melissa Visit my Tigger Tales site! - Expecting? Get great news right away with email Auto-Check. Try the Yahoo! Mail Beta.
Re: pictures of Cassidy and Ashley
Oh my..:) If you have men who will exclude any of God's creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity, you will have men who will deal likewise with their fellow man. St. Francis - Original Message - From: Melissa Lind To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Friday, April 06, 2007 12:38 AM Subject: pictures of Cassidy and Ashley Okay, I know you're all sick of hearing from me, but here are some pictures. I hope this works. Cassidy: http://picasaweb.google.com/mzurovsk/Cassidy/photo?authkey=Iq5dHa-Vucs#5050179613677810130 Ashley: http://picasaweb.google.com/mzurovsk/Ashley/photo?authkey=imb76PXJObI#5050180614405190130 They're kind of grainy since my flash isn't working, and I had to lighten them manually. Melissa
Re: pictures of Cassidy and Ashley
I love the manxy one- Gina WN [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: They are precious! I like their markings. Both of them look very sweet. Gina Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Okay, I know youre all sick of hearing from me, but here are some pictures. I hope this works. Cassidy: http://picasaweb.google.com/mzurovsk/Cassidy/photo?authkey=Iq5dHa-Vucs#5050179613677810130 Ashley: http://picasaweb.google.com/mzurovsk/Ashley/photo?authkey=imb76PXJObI#5050180614405190130 Theyre kind of grainy since my flash isnt working, and I had to lighten them manually. Melissa Visit my Tigger Tales site! - Expecting? Get great news right away with email Auto-Check. Try the Yahoo! Mail Beta. - Don't pick lemons. See all the new 2007 cars at Yahoo! Autos.
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Re: Cassidy and Ashley are home!
They spayed a cat that had URI? That should never happen. Did they also vaccinate her? This is not good. Beth Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I havent had time to read all the posts, but Im starting to, and its comforting to know there are others out there like all of you! Im so sorry about all the losses I read on here. Marissa, I hope a beautiful kitty finds you soon. Ill be thinking of you. I only wish there were people like you around here to take on my newest kitties. I know that Ive been strongly encouraged to mix my household, but I just cantat least not yet. You all have so much experience, and Im just starting out, just learning about FeLV, and Im such a doubterIve been taught to question everythingso I have a hard time trusting I have all these worries about endangering my other cats. I can hear all the success stories, but it still doesnt change things. If Smokey (less than one year) were older, I wouldnt have a problem with it. Maybe in the future Ill consider it, but I hope to have a sanctuary by then anyway for FeLVs and others. But, with good news I chose to put Cassidy (FeLV+) in my office with me since thats where I spend most of the time. Oh the joys of having a litter box in a small, warm room! But, Im not sure if hes even used it yet! Hes been eating very nicely since we got home today, so I expect some treats by morning. Hes still pretty tired after his neuterand he spends the majority of the time at my feet under the desk all curled up. He talks every once in a while to let me know hes there! How precious! It sounds as if hell be with us for a while since most FeLV sanctuaries/rescues require another IFA in 3 months for confirmation before theyll take him in. I wont get his IFA results (only Elisa so far) back until next week. But, hes doing really wellquite the talker. His lion-cut is adorable, and Im sure he feel so much better without that snarly fur. My other three cats in the house are upset that they dont get to hang out in their favorite room! But, not so good news Ashley (FeLV neg.), the stray who found me the day after Cassidy, also came home today. She was spayed yesterday and is just not moving around as much as I thought she would. I had to put her in the garage. I was going to put Cassidy in there, but he has a problem paw, so I thought the cement would be bad for it. Well, Ashley liked the garage fairly well when she stayed the first nightfound herself a nice place to nest on my husbands work coats near a window. Today I covered the coats with a furry blanketan Alpaca one I got in Peru and was saving for specialbut whos more special then these guys? Then I also put a little pet-safe space heater in the garage for her. Its still pretty chilly here in Nebraska. She cried through the door a little today, and that was heartbreaking, but its for the best. The vet had suggested that Ashley stay quarantined for 60 days until she has another FeLV test to be sure shes still neg. He also thought that she should be isolated since she could be carrying other things. Im very worried about her upper respiratory. She was sneezy when I first got her--now she seems to have some respiratory problems--wheezy and phlegmy-sounding. I heard the girls (vet techs?) at the vet's office talking to him about her nose, etc., and I heard him say something about some cats can have severe respiratory infections, but then when he came in the room, he never said anything to me. I'm going to call tomorrow and see if I need to give Ashley anything for that. I've never had cats with anything more than routine issues, so I'm sorry if I sound dumb--I'm new to thisIve had to learn so much just this week! I was also worried because the vet girls were looking at me in a way I was not comfortable with (not like I smell), but they looked like they knew something I didnt. I dont understand why they wouldnt send me home with something for Ashleys nose, etc., I picked up antibiotics for my other cat, Bandit, who gets abscesses all the time from the littlest scratch. Im glad Ive finally embraced my passion and found my calling. Now its time to plan for the future and more room for cats (and kids too I hope). This week Ive heard so many negative comments about saving cats that I just stopped telling people about my new kitties. Some peoples comments surprised me, some didnt. But, Im glad I have you guys to talk to so I dont feel so alone. I dont understand the lack of compassionbut Im sure you all know what thats like. It doesnt make any sense to me why people can be so mean about cats. One of my closest friend said, Well, I just dont like how theyre always rubbing up against me. She meant cats in generalnot just mine. And I thought, thats what makes them so great! Theyre loving and they show it! I could go
Re: pictures of Cassidy and Ashley
What cutie petuties! Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:Okay, I know youre all sick of hearing from me, but here are some pictures. I hope this works. Cassidy: http://picasaweb.google.com/mzurovsk/Cassidy/photo?authkey=Iq5dHa-Vucs#5050179613677810130 Ashley: http://picasaweb.google.com/mzurovsk/Ashley/photo?authkey=imb76PXJObI#5050180614405190130 Theyre kind of grainy since my flash isnt working, and I had to lighten them manually. Melissa - Don't get soaked. Take a quick peek at the forecast with theYahoo! Search weather shortcut.
Re: Cassidy and Ashley are home!
Beth, Yes, yes, they spayed, vaccinated, the works. I'm sorry if this was not the thing to do; I'm not very knowledgeable yet. As someone pointed out on an earlier post-we're all learning. I guess I have a lot of learning to do-more than most. I appreciate the advice. I asked my vet today if I should give her anything-he said no as long as the discharge is clear. Poor baby, she just sits on her nest in front of the heater. But, she has moved around a lot more since yesterday. Now when I go to visit her, she comes down to eat and talk a little. Let me know if you have any advice for us. I'm going to look into Lysine. Problem around here is that there are not a lot of resources for sick kitties. No one cares. Melissa
Re: Cassidy and Ashley are home!
Most vets do it this way. I just think it's too much at once to vaccinate and spay all at once. Too taxing on the system. I've lost fosters that way. But a vet should never spay of vaccinate if a cat is sniffling or has a temp. Beth Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Beth, Yes, yes, they spayed, vaccinated, the works. Im sorry if this was not the thing to do; Im not very knowledgeable yet. As someone pointed out on an earlier postwere all learning. I guess I have a lot of learning to domore than most. I appreciate the advice. I asked my vet today if I should give her anythinghe said no as long as the discharge is clear. Poor baby, she just sits on her nest in front of the heater. But, she has moved around a lot more since yesterday. Now when I go to visit her, she comes down to eat and talk a little. Let me know if you have any advice for us. Im going to look into Lysine. Problem around here is that there are not a lot of resources for sick kitties. No one cares. Melissa - Need Mail bonding? Go to the Yahoo! Mail QA for great tips from Yahoo! Answers users.
Re: pictures of Cassidy and Ashley
Melissa, Again, bless you for taking these two sweethearts in! Their eyes show so much appreciation. Cassidy looks like she has a beautiful coat (or rather, will have when it grows back, lol)! I hope Ashley's next test comes back neg. Stay warm! :) Wendy --- Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Okay, I know you're all sick of hearing from me, but here are some pictures. I hope this works. Cassidy: http://picasaweb.google.com/mzurovsk/Cassidy/photo?authkey=Iq5dHa-Vucs#50501 79613677810130 Ashley: http://picasaweb.google.com/mzurovsk/Ashley/photo?authkey=imb76PXJObI#505018 0614405190130 They're kind of grainy since my flash isn't working, and I had to lighten them manually. Melissa Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world: Indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ Need Mail bonding? Go to the Yahoo! Mail QA for great tips from Yahoo! Answers users. http://answers.yahoo.com/dir/?link=listsid=396546091
Re: Cassidy and Ashley are home!
Your vet should have Lysine. That is where I found my first batch. Insist on what you think you need. And don't ketch yourself. I had a vet vaccinate a sick feral cat even though I specifically said not to..but we don't have much trouble with this vaccine.. and there are two vets in my county! If you have men who will exclude any of God's creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity, you will have men who will deal likewise with their fellow man. St. Francis - Original Message - From: Gussies mom To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Friday, April 06, 2007 4:52 PM Subject: Re: Cassidy and Ashley are home! Most vets do it this way. I just think it's too much at once to vaccinate and spay all at once. Too taxing on the system. I've lost fosters that way. But a vet should never spay of vaccinate if a cat is sniffling or has a temp. Beth Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Beth, Yes, yes, they spayed, vaccinated, the works. I'm sorry if this was not the thing to do; I'm not very knowledgeable yet. As someone pointed out on an earlier post-we're all learning. I guess I have a lot of learning to do-more than most. I appreciate the advice. I asked my vet today if I should give her anything-he said no as long as the discharge is clear. Poor baby, she just sits on her nest in front of the heater. But, she has moved around a lot more since yesterday. Now when I go to visit her, she comes down to eat and talk a little. Let me know if you have any advice for us. I'm going to look into Lysine. Problem around here is that there are not a lot of resources for sick kitties. No one cares. Melissa -- Need Mail bonding? Go to the Yahoo! Mail QA for great tips from Yahoo! Answers users.
Re: Updates on Cassidy - vaccines
The intranasals are very effective and work quickly. The shelter I used to work with sometimes gave them to kittens. The vet did say, however, that there was more risk of URI with them and since the vaccine was live, they could sneeze it onto other cats. I don't know how true that is. My vet had started to use the FeLV gun, which is supposed to have fewer side effects. One of my cats did get extremely lethargic after being vaccinated, but she also had the FVRCP with it. When she was re-vaccinated at the shelter with regular vaccines, she didin't have a reaction. I do thinks the gun is better, but I would not give 2 vaccines at the same time any more. Beth [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Just a side note... there are effective intra-nasal FVRCP vaccines which do not require any injection, thus NO RISK of sarcoma. Then there are non-adjuvanted rabies and FELV vaccines, which are less apt to cause sarcoma, even though they are injected (well, the FELV vaccine is actually jetted without a needle through the skin). I have all this info and more on my vaccine info page at: http://ucat.us/vaccines.html (recommended brands are almost exactly halfway down the page) Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources - Don't pick lemons. See all the new 2007 cars at Yahoo! Autos.
Cassidy and Ashley are home!
I haven't had time to read all the posts, but I'm starting to, and it's comforting to know there are others out there like all of you! I'm so sorry about all the losses I read on here. Marissa, I hope a beautiful kitty finds you soon. I'll be thinking of you. I only wish there were people like you around here to take on my newest kitties. I know that I've been strongly encouraged to mix my household, but I just can't-at least not yet. You all have so much experience, and I'm just starting out, just learning about FeLV, and I'm such a doubter-I've been taught to question everything-so I have a hard time trusting.I have all these worries about endangering my other cats. I can hear all the success stories, but it still doesn't change things. If Smokey (less than one year) were older, I wouldn't have a problem with it. Maybe in the future I'll consider it, but I hope to have a sanctuary by then anyway for FeLVs and others. But, with good news.I chose to put Cassidy (FeLV+) in my office with me since that's where I spend most of the time. Oh the joys of having a litter box in a small, warm room! But, I'm not sure if he's even used it yet! He's been eating very nicely since we got home today, so I expect some treats by morning. He's still pretty tired after his neuter-and he spends the majority of the time at my feet under the desk all curled up. He talks every once in a while to let me know he's there! How precious! It sounds as if he'll be with us for a while since most FeLV sanctuaries/rescues require another IFA in 3 months for confirmation before they'll take him in. I won't get his IFA results (only Elisa so far) back until next week. But, he's doing really well-quite the talker. His lion-cut is adorable, and I'm sure he feel so much better without that snarly fur. My other three cats in the house are upset that they don't get to hang out in their favorite room! But, not so good news.Ashley (FeLV neg.), the stray who found me the day after Cassidy, also came home today. She was spayed yesterday and is just not moving around as much as I thought she would. I had to put her in the garage. I was going to put Cassidy in there, but he has a problem paw, so I thought the cement would be bad for it. Well, Ashley liked the garage fairly well when she stayed the first night-found herself a nice place to nest on my husband's work coats near a window. Today I covered the coats with a furry blanket-an Alpaca one I got in Peru and was saving for special-but who's more special then these guys? Then I also put a little pet-safe space heater in the garage for her. It's still pretty chilly here in Nebraska. She cried through the door a little today, and that was heartbreaking, but it's for the best. The vet had suggested that Ashley stay quarantined for 60 days until she has another FeLV test to be sure she's still neg. He also thought that she should be isolated since she could be carrying other things. I'm very worried about her upper respiratory. She was sneezy when I first got her--now she seems to have some respiratory problems--wheezy and phlegmy-sounding. I heard the girls (vet techs?) at the vet's office talking to him about her nose, etc., and I heard him say something about some cats can have severe respiratory infections, but then when he came in the room, he never said anything to me. I'm going to call tomorrow and see if I need to give Ashley anything for that. I've never had cats with anything more than routine issues, so I'm sorry if I sound dumb--I'm new to this-I've had to learn so much just this week! I was also worried because the vet girls were looking at me in a way I was not comfortable with (not like I smell), but they looked like they knew something I didn't. I don't understand why they wouldn't send me home with something for Ashley's nose, etc., I picked up antibiotics for my other cat, Bandit, who gets abscesses all the time from the littlest scratch. I'm glad I've finally embraced my passion and found my calling. Now it's time to plan for the future and more room for cats (and kids too I hope). This week I've heard so many negative comments about saving cats that I just stopped telling people about my new kitties. Some people's comments surprised me, some didn't. But, I'm glad I have you guys to talk to so I don't feel so alone. I don't understand the lack of compassion-but I'm sure you all know what that's like. It doesn't make any sense to me why people can be so mean about cats. One of my closest friend said, Well, I just don't like how they're always rubbing up against me. She meant cats in general-not just mine. And I thought, that's what makes them so great! They're loving and they show it! I could go on and on, but you already know all of this. It just feels nice to tell it to some people who agree. Bless all of you for all you do! And thank you for the support! Melissa
pictures of Cassidy and Ashley
Okay, I know you're all sick of hearing from me, but here are some pictures. I hope this works. Cassidy: http://picasaweb.google.com/mzurovsk/Cassidy/photo?authkey=Iq5dHa-Vucs#50501 79613677810130 Ashley: http://picasaweb.google.com/mzurovsk/Ashley/photo?authkey=imb76PXJObI#505018 0614405190130 They're kind of grainy since my flash isn't working, and I had to lighten them manually. Melissa
Re: Cassidy is a boy!
Some kids in the neighborhood brought me Oscar. She became Oscarina... Beth elizabeth trent [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: LOL My Othello was Ophelia until he went to get spayed :0) elizabeth On 4/3/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Ha! Ha! The vet called me with interesting newsCassidy fooled us all! He is now neutered. Luckily, I named him after a fictional cowboy, so the name will stay. I appreciate all the info on mixed households, but I'm still leery about trying it. We'll see how the search for a home goes and then I'll make a decision when the time comes. I've found places in Minnesota and Iowa that might be able to take him, but I haven't contacted the one in Utah yet. The ones in MN and IA are both sanctuaries for cats, and they are no-kill. The one in Minnesota is the Feline Leukemia Care Center http://www.felineleukemiacarecenter.org which only takes FeLV cats, but I haven't heard back from them. The one in Iowa can be viewed at www.rustichollowshelter.org. but they have a waiting list. I'll just have to wait and see. I apologize for not responding to the other posts at this timeI'm swamped with following leads for Cassidy, but I want to keep active on this mail list even if I don't have a FeLV baby in the future. My poor students but right now I care about cats more than them! Wendy, I should have known that I'd find other English people on here! I think all my English professors in undergrad had catssome with an entire household of them. I'll write down what you're reading, and look into it laterI'll add it to my must-read list. Why is it that English-minded people (or literature enthusiasts) are so compassionate with animals? Maybe it's because our studies (and our paychecks) have taught us that not everything valuable and honorable involves a price tag. Linda Hogan has a great book called Intimate Nature: The Bond Between Women and Animals. Perhaps many of you would find it comforting. Well, back to work for Cassidy the Cowboy Kitty! I'll let you all know how it goes Melissa, Osmond, NE To give a thing a name, a label, a handle; to rescue it from anonymity, to pluck it out of the Place of Nothingness, in short to identify it--well, that's a way of bringing the said thing into being. --Iff, the Water Genie - TV dinner still cooling? Check out Tonight's Picks on Yahoo! TV.
Re: Updates on Cassidy - vaccines
Just a side note... there are effective intra-nasal FVRCP vaccines which do not require any injection, thus NO RISK of sarcoma. Then there are non-adjuvanted rabies and FELV vaccines, which are less apt to cause sarcoma, even though they are injected (well, the FELV vaccine is actually jetted without a needle through the skin). I have all this info and more on my vaccine info page at: http://ucat.us/vaccines.html (recommended brands are almost exactly halfway down the page) Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources
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I had a feral cat, one that came to me through rescue, which a VET looked at and gave it's shots to before sending him to me, he was a neutered male per the vet. He had kittens about 6 months later, oh yes, NOW I know WHY the other males were SO friendly to him! His name? Little Guy! He is still called Little Guy. Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources
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*We had Katie and never had HER fixed because she had VSD (which is a very serious heart condition). The specialist vet did ultrasounds and other extensive diagnostics on this kitty... convinced he was a she. Until one day she was having a bath with her back leg raised above her head and... umm... what are those?! Talk about not being able to wrap your head around the concept that we had a boy named Sue... or named Katie!! LOL, we still laugh about that adorable little boy... we lost him a year ago to heart failure, but we'll always love our little guynamed Katie.* *Leslie =^..^=* On 4/4/07, [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I had a feral cat, one that came to me through rescue, which a VET looked at and gave it's shots to before sending him to me, he was a neutered male per the vet. He had kittens about 6 months later, oh yes, NOW I know WHY the other males were SO friendly to him! His name? Little Guy! He is still called Little Guy. Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources -- Leslie =^..^= To leave the world a better place - whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or an improved social condition - that is to have succeeded. That only one life breathed easier because you lived - that is success. ---Ralph Waldo Emerson
Updates on Cassidy
It's the newbie again. I'm not sure if I'm using this mailing list correctly-please advise me if I'm not! And I apologize for being wordy-I'm an English major/instructor who just can seem to mince her words! Cassidy is getting spayed today. She's very healthy considering what she's gone through with her lame foot, and her tail seems to not know where it's at sometimes due to the nerve damage. I forgot the digital camera again today, so the vet's going to take a picture of her for my adoption posting. Yesterday I did copious amounts of research, and I've been emailing places all over Nebraska. I'm going to work on South Dakota and the Twin Cities area (Minnesota) today since these areas are relatively close to where I live. I've been astonished by the outpouring of support. Even though I haven't found a home for her, I'm now convinced that I could never euthanize her. There just wasn't any support around here for my passion for cats, so I was feeling a little desperate! I know I'll find a home for her eventually. I've received other reports of people housing their FeLV positives with the negatives. I'm just not sure I can do that just yet. Plus, my youngest (less than a year old) is not vaccinated because my vet did not recommend it. He said that the vaccine has a 1 in 10,000 chance of causing a sarcoma which would lead to amputation and chemotherapy. I certainly cannot afford that emotionally or financially! My vet doesn't vaccinate his house cats against FeLV either since (like mine) they never go outside or even occasionally escape. I have mixed feelings about getting my youngest, Smokey, vaccinated after reading more about FeLV. I haven't decided yet what to do. If I didn't have her, I believe the older cats (5 and 10 years of age) would be resistant to the disease. Crazy enough-another cat found me last night! I've named her Ashley since she looks like my Smokey and they are about the same age (smoke/ash, get it?). Luckily, her test came back negative for FeLV (the Elisa test). She's getting spayed Wednesday, and I'll pick both her and Cassidy up on Thursday. I think I'll be able to find a home quite easily for Ashley. I talked to my vet about having another test. He strongly suggested the better test (IFA is it?) that others have also advised me on. If I still have Cassidy in a couple weeks, I'll get her tested. If she comes back negative then, I'll consider getting Smokey vaccinated and keeping them all together, that is if my husband doesn't kick us all out before then! No, he's very tolerant, but if I ever got his baby Smokey sick from another cat, he'd be very upset (as would I). In defense of my vet, he's very knowledgeable-much more so than any vet we've had in these areas when it comes to pets (cows and pigs are the thing here)-but I think he's used to dealing with penny-pinchers around these parts who won't even consider spending money on cats like these-so he wasn't expecting that I'd be so open to alternatives. I've let him know that I'm going to make up a handout for his clients who might bring in an FeLV positive cat in the future. He was very pleased and luckily very supportive. I hate it when vets are condescending or think that people shouldn't save strays. He's discussed doing a feral trap and spay/neuter project-I'll work on that with him for the summer. If you'd like, I'll keep you posted on Cassidy. Again, sorry about the length of this email! Melissa
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Melissa -- Thanks for the update! I'm glad Cassidy is going in for her zipper, vibes that all goes well. I know you're kind of crunched for time, but it would really be better to wait longer to retest her -- if the first test was a true positive (which of course you don't know) you should give her some time to lose the FeLV herself before retesting. (The theory here is, she may have gotten it from her mom at birth, but will defeat it herself in time as her body's natural defenses mature.) I'm excited and impressed about your vet! Maybe he's been bored stiff with the cows and pigs, and really wants to know and do more! The TNR program would be a huge boon to everybody in your area. Best of luck with that! Diane R. From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Melissa Lind Sent: Tuesday, April 03, 2007 10:51 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Updates on Cassidy It's the newbie again. I'm not sure if I'm using this mailing list correctly-please advise me if I'm not! And I apologize for being wordy-I'm an English major/instructor who just can seem to mince her words! Cassidy is getting spayed today. She's very healthy considering what she's gone through with her lame foot, and her tail seems to not know where it's at sometimes due to the nerve damage. I forgot the digital camera again today, so the vet's going to take a picture of her for my adoption posting. Yesterday I did copious amounts of research, and I've been emailing places all over Nebraska. I'm going to work on South Dakota and the Twin Cities area (Minnesota) today since these areas are relatively close to where I live. I've been astonished by the outpouring of support. Even though I haven't found a home for her, I'm now convinced that I could never euthanize her. There just wasn't any support around here for my passion for cats, so I was feeling a little desperate! I know I'll find a home for her eventually. I've received other reports of people housing their FeLV positives with the negatives. I'm just not sure I can do that just yet. Plus, my youngest (less than a year old) is not vaccinated because my vet did not recommend it. He said that the vaccine has a 1 in 10,000 chance of causing a sarcoma which would lead to amputation and chemotherapy. I certainly cannot afford that emotionally or financially! My vet doesn't vaccinate his house cats against FeLV either since (like mine) they never go outside or even occasionally escape. I have mixed feelings about getting my youngest, Smokey, vaccinated after reading more about FeLV. I haven't decided yet what to do. If I didn't have her, I believe the older cats (5 and 10 years of age) would be resistant to the disease. Crazy enough-another cat found me last night! I've named her Ashley since she looks like my Smokey and they are about the same age (smoke/ash, get it?). Luckily, her test came back negative for FeLV (the Elisa test). She's getting spayed Wednesday, and I'll pick both her and Cassidy up on Thursday. I think I'll be able to find a home quite easily for Ashley. I talked to my vet about having another test. He strongly suggested the better test (IFA is it?) that others have also advised me on. If I still have Cassidy in a couple weeks, I'll get her tested. If she comes back negative then, I'll consider getting Smokey vaccinated and keeping them all together, that is if my husband doesn't kick us all out before then! No, he's very tolerant, but if I ever got his baby Smokey sick from another cat, he'd be very upset (as would I). In defense of my vet, he's very knowledgeable-much more so than any vet we've had in these areas when it comes to pets (cows and pigs are the thing here)-but I think he's used to dealing with penny-pinchers around these parts who won't even consider spending money on cats like these-so he wasn't expecting that I'd be so open to alternatives. I've let him know that I'm going to make up a handout for his clients who might bring in an FeLV positive cat in the future. He was very pleased and luckily very supportive. I hate it when vets are condescending or think that people shouldn't save strays. He's discussed doing a feral trap and spay/neuter project-I'll work on that with him for the summer. If you'd like, I'll keep you posted on Cassidy. Again, sorry about the length of this email! Melissa This electronic mail transmission and any attachments are confidential and may be privileged. They should be read or retained only by the intended recipient. If you have received this transmission in error, please notify the sender immediately and delete the transmission from your system. In addition, in order to comply with Treasury Circular 230, we are required to inform you that unless we have specifically stated to the contrary in writing, any advice we provide in this email or any attachment concerning federal tax issues or submissions is not intended
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Hey Melissa, Imagine...meeting a fellow English teacher and cat lover here...lol. I think books and cats just go together. You are using this mailing list perfectly. This is what we are here for. And imo, it's the best place to be for FeLV info. And we're so glad that you aren't going to euthanize Cassidy. You will not regret it. You are right to be weary of mixing your youngest with Cassidy. Kittens are more susceptible, we think, but are not sure. Their immune systems are not fully developed. Your vet sounds like he knows what he's doing. He is right about the sarcoma. Of course, sarcoma's can be associated with all sorts of vaccinations, not just FeLV. That's why we recommend using a back leg for the vaccinations, alternating legs between vaccinations. If a sarcoma does happen, the leg can be removed, and kitty can still live a long life, albeit a bit wobbly at first. Sarcomas in the neck are much less treatable. Most of us here do not vaccinate our inside cats either, unless they mix, and then some do and some don't. Good luck finding Ashley a home. You sound like a cat magnet. lol. I'm sure your husband just loves that about you. My husband wasn't really a cat person, but after meeting me, he's warmed up quite a bit. He still loves his dogs best though. If he had his way, we'd have a backyard full of every breed of dog imaginable to man. I think it's wonderful you are going to make up a handout for FeLV for your vet. I'm going to talk to my vet about doing the same thing. And possibly other vets around here who I know. And I think it's wonderful you are going to do the tnr project with him this summer. Again, he sounds like a FANTASTIC vet. If only they all were that knowledgeable and open to suggestions. Yes, we would love to be updated on Cassidy. I just know this is going to turn out great for her with you in her corner. :) Wendy Dallas, Tx (currently reading the Janet Evanovich series with Miss Stephanie Plum; great series) Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world: Indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ Don't pick lemons. See all the new 2007 cars at Yahoo! Autos. http://autos.yahoo.com/new_cars.html
Cassidy is a boy!
Ha! Ha! The vet called me with interesting news-Cassidy fooled us all! He is now neutered. Luckily, I named him after a fictional cowboy, so the name will stay. I appreciate all the info on mixed households, but I'm still leery about trying it. We'll see how the search for a home goes.and then I'll make a decision when the time comes. I've found places in Minnesota and Iowa that might be able to take him, but I haven't contacted the one in Utah yet. The ones in MN and IA are both sanctuaries for cats, and they are no-kill. The one in Minnesota is the Feline Leukemia Care Center http://www.felineleukemiacarecenter.org http://www.felineleukemiacarecenter.org/ which only takes FeLV cats, but I haven't heard back from them. The one in Iowa can be viewed at www.rustichollowshelter.org http://www.rustichollowshelter.org/ . but they have a waiting list. I'll just have to wait and see. I apologize for not responding to the other posts at this time-I'm swamped with following leads for Cassidy, but I want to keep active on this mail list even if I don't have a FeLV baby in the future. My poor students.but right now I care about cats more than them! Wendy, I should have known that I'd find other English people on here! I think all my English professors in undergrad had cats-some with an entire household of them. I'll write down what you're reading, and look into it later-I'll add it to my must-read list. Why is it that English-minded people (or literature enthusiasts) are so compassionate with animals? Maybe it's because our studies (and our paychecks) have taught us that not everything valuable and honorable involves a price tag. Linda Hogan has a great book called Intimate Nature: The Bond Between Women and Animals. Perhaps many of you would find it comforting. Well, back to work for Cassidy the Cowboy Kitty! I'll let you all know how it goes. Melissa, Osmond, NE To give a thing a name, a label, a handle; to rescue it from anonymity, to pluck it out of the Place of Nothingness, in short to identify it--well, that's a way of bringing the said thing into being. --Iff, the Water Genie
Re: Cassidy is a boy!
Hehehe...Sounds like Cassidy is going to be a hoot already! Love your quote Melissa! :) Wendy Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world: Indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ Never miss an email again! Yahoo! Toolbar alerts you the instant new Mail arrives. http://tools.search.yahoo.com/toolbar/features/mail/
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LOL My Othello was Ophelia until he went to get spayed :0) elizabeth On 4/3/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Ha! Ha! The vet called me with interesting news—Cassidy fooled us all! He is now neutered. Luckily, I named him after a fictional cowboy, so the name will stay. I appreciate all the info on mixed households, but I'm still leery about trying it. We'll see how the search for a home goes…and then I'll make a decision when the time comes. I've found places in Minnesota and Iowa that might be able to take him, but I haven't contacted the one in Utah yet. The ones in MN and IA are both sanctuaries for cats, and they are no-kill. The one in Minnesota is the Feline Leukemia Care Center http://www.felineleukemiacarecenter.org which only takes FeLV cats, but I haven't heard back from them. The one in Iowa can be viewed at www.rustichollowshelter.org. but they have a waiting list. I'll just have to wait and see. I apologize for not responding to the other posts at this time—I'm swamped with following leads for Cassidy, but I want to keep active on this mail list even if I don't have a FeLV baby in the future. My poor students…but right now I care about cats more than them! Wendy, I should have known that I'd find other English people on here! I think all my English professors in undergrad had cats—some with an entire household of them. I'll write down what you're reading, and look into it later—I'll add it to my must-read list. Why is it that English-minded people (or literature enthusiasts) are so compassionate with animals? Maybe it's because our studies (and our paychecks) have taught us that not everything valuable and honorable involves a price tag. Linda Hogan has a great book called *Intimate Nature: The Bond Between Women and Animals*. Perhaps many of you would find it comforting. Well, back to work for Cassidy the Cowboy Kitty! I'll let you all know how it goes… Melissa, Osmond, NE To give a thing a name, a label, a handle; to rescue it from anonymity, to pluck it out of the Place of Nothingness, in short to identify it--well, that's a way of bringing the said thing into being. --Iff, the Water Genie
Re: Cassidy is a boy!
Same here, Mack (short for MacQuyver) was Sophia until we notied him 'laying' on top of the other females. Thankfully the other females were already taken care of:) Chris - Original Message - From: elizabeth trent To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Tuesday, April 03, 2007 8:10 PM Subject: Re: Cassidy is a boy! LOL My Othello was Ophelia until he went to get spayed :0) elizabeth On 4/3/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Ha! Ha! The vet called me with interesting news—Cassidy fooled us all! He is now neutered. Luckily, I named him after a fictional cowboy, so the name will stay. I appreciate all the info on mixed households, but I'm still leery about trying it. We'll see how the search for a home goes…and then I'll make a decision when the time comes. I've found places in Minnesota and Iowa that might be able to take him, but I haven't contacted the one in Utah yet. The ones in MN and IA are both sanctuaries for cats, and they are no-kill. The one in Minnesota is the Feline Leukemia Care Center http://www.felineleukemiacarecenter.org which only takes FeLV cats, but I haven't heard back from them. The one in Iowa can be viewed at www.rustichollowshelter.org. but they have a waiting list. I'll just have to wait and see. I apologize for not responding to the other posts at this time—I'm swamped with following leads for Cassidy, but I want to keep active on this mail list even if I don't have a FeLV baby in the future. My poor students…but right now I care about cats more than them! Wendy, I should have known that I'd find other English people on here! I think all my English professors in undergrad had cats—some with an entire household of them. I'll write down what you're reading, and look into it later—I'll add it to my must-read list. Why is it that English-minded people (or literature enthusiasts) are so compassionate with animals? Maybe it's because our studies (and our paychecks) have taught us that not everything valuable and honorable involves a price tag. Linda Hogan has a great book called Intimate Nature: The Bond Between Women and Animals. Perhaps many of you would find it comforting. Well, back to work for Cassidy the Cowboy Kitty! I'll let you all know how it goes… Melissa, Osmond, NE To give a thing a name, a label, a handle; to rescue it from anonymity, to pluck it out of the Place of Nothingness, in short to identify it--well, that's a way of bringing the said thing into being. --Iff, the Water Genie
