Re: please add Slinky to the CLS
I'm so sorry to hear this Sally. Your sister did what she could. tonya Sally Davis [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi Slinky adopted my sister a year and a half ago. He was cautious to be her cat as he was probably dumped off. He finally befriended her and her canine lab mixes who loved chasing cats. Slinky was fearless andhe invited his self into her home. With his laid back attitude the dogs did not give chase. The day Junior passed I called Laura to cry on her shoulder. She informed me Slinky was sleeping a lot and somewhat lethargic. He was also off his food. I told her get him to a vet ASAP, which she did. She found out that he was FELV positive. He had a fever. The vet gave fliuds and sent abx home with her. Laura was scared . She decided to give it a chance as this cat chose her. Well folks it was not meant to be the cat went off. She found him hiding under her porch and she could see in his eyes he was ready to go. So she took him to another vet who checked everything out and she decided to set him free. She feels as I do that Junior was letting us know that Slinky was not well. So please add Slinky to the CLS for Laura. Hopefully Slinky will send her someone to love soon. Thanks Sally Still very much missing my Junior. -- Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior, Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up. http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3
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Thanks, I know she did. She at least found out the cat was sick and he did not go off and die on her. The cat taught her and her canine companions a lot. She will definitely get another cat at some point. Sally On Mon, Mar 24, 2008 at 6:23 PM, catatonya [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I'm so sorry to hear this Sally. Your sister did what she could. tonya *Sally Davis [EMAIL PROTECTED]* wrote: Hi Slinky adopted my sister a year and a half ago. He was cautious to be her cat as he was probably dumped off. He finally befriended her and her canine lab mixes who loved chasing cats. Slinky was fearless andhe invited his self into her home. With his laid back attitude the dogs did not give chase. The day Junior passed I called Laura to cry on her shoulder. She informed me Slinky was sleeping a lot and somewhat lethargic. He was also off his food. I told her get him to a vet ASAP, which she did. She found out that he was FELV positive. He had a fever. The vet gave fliuds and sent abx home with her. Laura was scared . She decided to give it a chance as this cat chose her. Well folks it was not meant to be the cat went off. She found him hiding under her porch and she could see in his eyes he was ready to go. So she took him to another vet who checked everything out and she decided to set him free. She feels as I do that Junior was letting us know that Slinky was not well. So please add Slinky to the CLS for Laura. Hopefully Slinky will send her someone to love soon. Thanks Sally Still very much missing my Junior. -- Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior, Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up. http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3 -- Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior, Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up. http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3
RE: please add Slinky to the CLS
What a shame. Gentle Bridge journey to Slinky and hugs to Laura. Diane R. From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Sally Davis Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2008 8:30 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: please add Slinky to the CLS Hi Slinky adopted my sister a year and a half ago. He was cautious to be her cat as he was probably dumped off. He finally befriended her and her canine lab mixes who loved chasing cats. Slinky was fearless andhe invited his self into her home. With his laid back attitude the dogs did not give chase. The day Junior passed I called Laura to cry on her shoulder. She informed me Slinky was sleeping a lot and somewhat lethargic. He was also off his food. I told her get him to a vet ASAP, which she did. She found out that he was FELV positive. He had a fever. The vet gave fliuds and sent abx home with her. Laura was scared . She decided to give it a chance as this cat chose her. Well folks it was not meant to be the cat went off. She found him hiding under her porch and she could see in his eyes he was ready to go. So she took him to another vet who checked everything out and she decided to set him free. She feels as I do that Junior was letting us know that Slinky was not well. So please add Slinky to the CLS for Laura. Hopefully Slinky will send her someone to love soon. Thanks Sally Still very much missing my Junior. -- Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior, Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up. http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed 3 This electronic mail transmission and any attachments are confidential and may be privileged. They should be read or retained only by the intended recipient. If you have received this transmission in error, please notify the sender immediately and delete the transmission from your system. In addition, in order to comply with Treasury Circular 230, we are required to inform you that unless we have specifically stated to the contrary in writing, any advice we provide in this email or any attachment concerning federal tax issues or submissions is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, to avoid federal tax penalties.
RE: please add Slinky to the CLS
I'm so very sorry, Sally. Please give my condolences to your sister Laura. hugs, Kerry From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Sally Davis Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2008 8:30 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: please add Slinky to the CLS Hi Slinky adopted my sister a year and a half ago. He was cautious to be her cat as he was probably dumped off. He finally befriended her and her canine lab mixes who loved chasing cats. Slinky was fearless andhe invited his self into her home. With his laid back attitude the dogs did not give chase. The day Junior passed I called Laura to cry on her shoulder. She informed me Slinky was sleeping a lot and somewhat lethargic. He was also off his food. I told her get him to a vet ASAP, which she did. She found out that he was FELV positive. He had a fever. The vet gave fliuds and sent abx home with her. Laura was scared . She decided to give it a chance as this cat chose her. Well folks it was not meant to be the cat went off. She found him hiding under her porch and she could see in his eyes he was ready to go. So she took him to another vet who checked everything out and she decided to set him free. She feels as I do that Junior was letting us know that Slinky was not well. So please add Slinky to the CLS for Laura. Hopefully Slinky will send her someone to love soon. Thanks Sally Still very much missing my Junior. -- Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior, Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up. http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed 3 _ IRS CIRCULAR 230 NOTICE. Any tax advice expressed above by Mayer Brown LLP was not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, by any taxpayer to avoid U.S. federal tax penalties. If such advice was written or used to support the promotion or marketing of the matter addressed above, then each offeree should seek advice from an independent tax advisor. This email and any files transmitted with it are intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are addressed. If you have received this email in error please notify the system manager. If you are not the named addressee you should not disseminate, distribute or copy this e-mail.
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Diane Thanks, it is some comfort that my sister was able to find out the cat was sick beforehand. Otherwise Slinky would have just disappeared. Eric saw Slinky when he visited my sister in January and said he looked like my Puttyrat. Puttyrat went off and died, after only exhibiting symptoms for a day. I do not think he had FELV but maybe he had a cat bite that did not surface and drain. I am only guessing that because he was sore under his arm. I had planned to take him to the vet the next day, but he had other ideas. I will always miss my Puttyrat. Someday I hope to get another Siamese looking cat. He was from a colony of 30 cats. Sally On Thu, Mar 20, 2008 at 9:32 AM, Rosenfeldt, Diane [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: What a shame. Gentle Bridge journey to Slinky and hugs to Laura. Diane R. -- *From:* [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto: [EMAIL PROTECTED] *On Behalf Of *Sally Davis *Sent:* Wednesday, March 19, 2008 8:30 PM *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org *Subject:* please add Slinky to the CLS Hi Slinky adopted my sister a year and a half ago. He was cautious to be her cat as he was probably dumped off. He finally befriended her and her canine lab mixes who loved chasing cats. Slinky was fearless andhe invited his self into her home. With his laid back attitude the dogs did not give chase. The day Junior passed I called Laura to cry on her shoulder. She informed me Slinky was sleeping a lot and somewhat lethargic. He was also off his food. I told her get him to a vet ASAP, which she did. She found out that he was FELV positive. He had a fever. The vet gave fliuds and sent abx home with her. Laura was scared . She decided to give it a chance as this cat chose her. Well folks it was not meant to be the cat went off. She found him hiding under her porch and she could see in his eyes he was ready to go. So she took him to another vet who checked everything out and she decided to set him free. She feels as I do that Junior was letting us know that Slinky was not well. So please add Slinky to the CLS for Laura. Hopefully Slinky will send her someone to love soon. Thanks Sally Still very much missing my Junior. -- Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior, Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up. http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3 This electronic mail transmission and any attachments are confidential and may be privileged. They should be read or retained only by the intended recipient. If you have received this transmission in error, please notify the sender immediately and delete the transmission from your system. In addition, in order to comply with Treasury Circular 230, we are required to inform you that unless we have specifically stated to the contrary in writing, any advice we provide in this email or any attachment concerning federal tax issues or submissions is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, to avoid federal tax penalties. -- Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior, Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up. http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3
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Hi Kerry, I will let my sister know you are thinking of her. Thanks Sally On Thu, Mar 20, 2008 at 10:00 AM, MacKenzie, Kerry N. [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I'm so very sorry, Sally. Please give my condolences to your sister Laura. hugs, Kerry -- *From:* [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto: [EMAIL PROTECTED] *On Behalf Of *Sally Davis *Sent:* Wednesday, March 19, 2008 8:30 PM *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org *Subject:* please add Slinky to the CLS Hi Slinky adopted my sister a year and a half ago. He was cautious to be her cat as he was probably dumped off. He finally befriended her and her canine lab mixes who loved chasing cats. Slinky was fearless andhe invited his self into her home. With his laid back attitude the dogs did not give chase. The day Junior passed I called Laura to cry on her shoulder. She informed me Slinky was sleeping a lot and somewhat lethargic. He was also off his food. I told her get him to a vet ASAP, which she did. She found out that he was FELV positive. He had a fever. The vet gave fliuds and sent abx home with her. Laura was scared . She decided to give it a chance as this cat chose her. Well folks it was not meant to be the cat went off. She found him hiding under her porch and she could see in his eyes he was ready to go. So she took him to another vet who checked everything out and she decided to set him free. She feels as I do that Junior was letting us know that Slinky was not well. So please add Slinky to the CLS for Laura. Hopefully Slinky will send her someone to love soon. Thanks Sally Still very much missing my Junior. -- Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior, Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up. http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3 _ IRS CIRCULAR 230 NOTICE. Any tax advice expressed above by Mayer Brown LLP was not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, by any taxpayer to avoid U.S. federal tax penalties. If such advice was written or used to support the promotion or marketing of the matter addressed above, then each offeree should seek advice from an independent tax advisor. This email and any files transmitted with it are intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are addressed. If you have received this email in error please notify the system manager. If you are not the named addressee you should not disseminate, distribute or copy this e-mail. -- Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior, Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up. http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3
please add Slinky to the CLS
Hi Slinky adopted my sister a year and a half ago. He was cautious to be her cat as he was probably dumped off. He finally befriended her and her canine lab mixes who loved chasing cats. Slinky was fearless andhe invited his self into her home. With his laid back attitude the dogs did not give chase. The day Junior passed I called Laura to cry on her shoulder. She informed me Slinky was sleeping a lot and somewhat lethargic. He was also off his food. I told her get him to a vet ASAP, which she did. She found out that he was FELV positive. He had a fever. The vet gave fliuds and sent abx home with her. Laura was scared . She decided to give it a chance as this cat chose her. Well folks it was not meant to be the cat went off. She found him hiding under her porch and she could see in his eyes he was ready to go. So she took him to another vet who checked everything out and she decided to set him free. She feels as I do that Junior was letting us know that Slinky was not well. So please add Slinky to the CLS for Laura. Hopefully Slinky will send her someone to love soon. Thanks Sally Still very much missing my Junior. -- Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior, Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up. http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3
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I'm sorry Slinky had to leave Sally. It does sound as though he had a good year and a half with your sister. Yes he is now free and with all the other little ones who have left us. Lynne - Original Message - From: Sally Davis To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2008 8:30 PM Subject: please add Slinky to the CLS Hi Slinky adopted my sister a year and a half ago. He was cautious to be her cat as he was probably dumped off. He finally befriended her and her canine lab mixes who loved chasing cats. Slinky was fearless andhe invited his self into her home. With his laid back attitude the dogs did not give chase. The day Junior passed I called Laura to cry on her shoulder. She informed me Slinky was sleeping a lot and somewhat lethargic. He was also off his food. I told her get him to a vet ASAP, which she did. She found out that he was FELV positive. He had a fever. The vet gave fliuds and sent abx home with her. Laura was scared . She decided to give it a chance as this cat chose her. Well folks it was not meant to be the cat went off. She found him hiding under her porch and she could see in his eyes he was ready to go. So she took him to another vet who checked everything out and she decided to set him free. She feels as I do that Junior was letting us know that Slinky was not well. So please add Slinky to the CLS for Laura. Hopefully Slinky will send her someone to love soon. Thanks Sally Still very much missing my Junior. -- Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior, Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up. http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3
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Hi Lynne Thanks you. I wish I were closer to my sister to give her a hug. She is having medical issues, and this is even harder for her. Congratulations on your new kitty. I always assumed Junior had herpes as well. I gave him L Lysine everyday. BooBoo and Junior will be there for Slinky. Sally On Wed, Mar 19, 2008 at 10:16 PM, Lynne [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I'm sorry Slinky had to leave Sally. It does sound as though he had a good year and a half with your sister. Yes he is now free and with all the other little ones who have left us. Lynne - Original Message - *From:* Sally Davis [EMAIL PROTECTED] *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org *Sent:* Wednesday, March 19, 2008 8:30 PM *Subject:* please add Slinky to the CLS Hi Slinky adopted my sister a year and a half ago. He was cautious to be her cat as he was probably dumped off. He finally befriended her and her canine lab mixes who loved chasing cats. Slinky was fearless andhe invited his self into her home. With his laid back attitude the dogs did not give chase. The day Junior passed I called Laura to cry on her shoulder. She informed me Slinky was sleeping a lot and somewhat lethargic. He was also off his food. I told her get him to a vet ASAP, which she did. She found out that he was FELV positive. He had a fever. The vet gave fliuds and sent abx home with her. Laura was scared . She decided to give it a chance as this cat chose her. Well folks it was not meant to be the cat went off. She found him hiding under her porch and she could see in his eyes he was ready to go. So she took him to another vet who checked everything out and she decided to set him free. She feels as I do that Junior was letting us know that Slinky was not well. So please add Slinky to the CLS for Laura. Hopefully Slinky will send her someone to love soon. Thanks Sally Still very much missing my Junior. -- Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior, Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up. http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3 -- Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior, Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up. http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3
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You made me tear up Beth. I found a little lock of fur in my house after my Buddy died and I kept it. I like to pet it now and again. I totally understand where you are coming from. Gina Gussies mom [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I'm so sorry.. I know how hard it is. If my boyfriend hadn't bee holding me when I put my second FeLV kitty to sleep I really think I would have snatched her from the table and ran, even though I knew it was the right thing to do. I had the vet shave some hair from the belly of one of my FeLV cats after he was PTS. He had the most beautiful golden belly fur. I put it in the jar with his ashes. Now I can pet him any time I want. Beth Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all. I guess I need to complete the updates on Slinky, huh? Yes, he went to the bridge last night. I was having second thoughts all day yesterday...he, of course, perked up a bit, sat in the window sill again (hadn't done that in ages), and was still drinking, eating, and breathing fine. I even started to wonder if his nose looked pinker. But I decided to go to the vet appointment and ask her what she thought - and that all important question, what would you do if he were your kitty? Right before we left I think I finally understood that it really was time. It occurred to me that on Sunday he was very cuddly with me and initiating some cuddle time on his own. But yesterday he didn't want anything to do with me. And when we left the vet on Monday, someone said he'd tell me when it was time, and I remember thinking, I think he already has told me but I didn't want to believe it. I think his spirit left on Sunday...I think all that cuddling was him saying goodbye and beginning to get ready for the journey. So we went to the vet and I asked her if she thought his nose looked pinker. She looked at his gums, etc. and assured me that they were not. I was tempted to have her do another CBC, but that seemed like just adding to the torture he'd already been through. Without my even asking, the vet said, If this were my cat, this is what I would be doing. Not only is he not getting any better, but he's actually getting steadily worse...and he's just going to suffer if we wait much longer. She of course pointed out that I had the option of waiting, but that seemed like it would just drag out the inevitable. He was so weak the last couple days that he couldn't even get back on the bed once he'd gotten down. The vet explained everything in detail and even shaved some of his fur for me since I'd forgotten I wanted a sample (good cuz what she got was way better than anything I could've gotten with a scissors). Then she gave him the tranquilizer (I think she did it quickly so I wouldn't have time to change my mind...knowing that was best for me and for Slinky). She said it would take a few minutes for it to work, so they left and I just held him and cried and told him how much I loved him. Thanked him for letting me share in his life and told him I was giving him the only gift I could at this point. The room we were in had a beautiful painting of the bridge, so I showed it to him and told him that was where he was going. They had put a sheep skin-like pad on the table and when they came back I laid him on that and put his head on his favorite pillow (he loved to knead on this sqush pillow I have). She thought they might have to put a catheter in his front leg to get the needle in since his veins were so small, but she was able to do it in his back leg. Once it was in, I just held him and cried and cried some more. But I know he was in peace. He visited me this morning - as I was waking up I could hear the birds outside my window and I distinctly heard a meow (I remember thinking that I didn't know of a bird that meowed). When it happened I got chills. And when I woke up fully I realized that he was letting me know that he's happy and he loves me. I'm actually doing much better than I expected to be. After the vet appointment my friend took me out to dinner and then to ben and jerry's (self-medicating is always good!), which distracted me and that helped a lot. Of course when I got home I completely lost it, but I knew that would happen. I called dad and he was wondeful about telling me I did all the right things, that he loves me, and not to worry about paying all those bills back 'till some time in the future. Today I relaxed in the morning and then went and got my hair cut (my stylist is dad's partner and the owner of the salon...so he has lots of experience with losing kitties) and did some shopping. I got a stuffed kitty that looks just like Slinky, so he'll be my new sleeping buddy. I thought I would lose it when I came home tonight, but I just choked up for a bit and really was okay. I know all the prayers and thoughts everyone is sending me
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Marissa, I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your Slinky. He is still there with you and will wait for you at the bridge. tonya Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all. I guess I need to complete the updates on Slinky, huh? Yes, he went to the bridge last night. I was having second thoughts all day yesterday...he, of course, perked up a bit, sat in the window sill again (hadn't done that in ages), and was still drinking, eating, and breathing fine. I even started to wonder if his nose looked pinker. But I decided to go to the vet appointment and ask her what she thought - and that all important question, what would you do if he were your kitty? Right before we left I think I finally understood that it really was time. It occurred to me that on Sunday he was very cuddly with me and initiating some cuddle time on his own. But yesterday he didn't want anything to do with me. And when we left the vet on Monday, someone said he'd tell me when it was time, and I remember thinking, I think he already has told me but I didn't want to believe it. I think his spirit left on Sunday...I think all that cuddling was him saying goodbye and beginning to get ready for the journey. So we went to the vet and I asked her if she thought his nose looked pinker. She looked at his gums, etc. and assured me that they were not. I was tempted to have her do another CBC, but that seemed like just adding to the torture he'd already been through. Without my even asking, the vet said, If this were my cat, this is what I would be doing. Not only is he not getting any better, but he's actually getting steadily worse...and he's just going to suffer if we wait much longer. She of course pointed out that I had the option of waiting, but that seemed like it would just drag out the inevitable. He was so weak the last couple days that he couldn't even get back on the bed once he'd gotten down. The vet explained everything in detail and even shaved some of his fur for me since I'd forgotten I wanted a sample (good cuz what she got was way better than anything I could've gotten with a scissors). Then she gave him the tranquilizer (I think she did it quickly so I wouldn't have time to change my mind...knowing that was best for me and for Slinky). She said it would take a few minutes for it to work, so they left and I just held him and cried and told him how much I loved him. Thanked him for letting me share in his life and told him I was giving him the only gift I could at this point. The room we were in had a beautiful painting of the bridge, so I showed it to him and told him that was where he was going. They had put a sheep skin-like pad on the table and when they came back I laid him on that and put his head on his favorite pillow (he loved to knead on this sqush pillow I have). She thought they might have to put a catheter in his front leg to get the needle in since his veins were so small, but she was able to do it in his back leg. Once it was in, I just held him and cried and cried some more. But I know he was in peace. He visited me this morning - as I was waking up I could hear the birds outside my window and I distinctly heard a meow (I remember thinking that I didn't know of a bird that meowed). When it happened I got chills. And when I woke up fully I realized that he was letting me know that he's happy and he loves me. I'm actually doing much better than I expected to be. After the vet appointment my friend took me out to dinner and then to ben and jerry's (self-medicating is always good!), which distracted me and that helped a lot. Of course when I got home I completely lost it, but I knew that would happen. I called dad and he was wondeful about telling me I did all the right things, that he loves me, and not to worry about paying all those bills back 'till some time in the future. Today I relaxed in the morning and then went and got my hair cut (my stylist is dad's partner and the owner of the salon...so he has lots of experience with losing kitties) and did some shopping. I got a stuffed kitty that looks just like Slinky, so he'll be my new sleeping buddy. I thought I would lose it when I came home tonight, but I just choked up for a bit and really was okay. I know all the prayers and thoughts everyone is sending me are helping a ton!!! I think half the population of the US is praying for me and checking on me! You guys have been absolutely amazing and having people to talk to who've been there and understand how this is has been an unbelievable help! Thank you all so much for all your support!!! I know this is kinda long, but since you've all been reading so much about Slink, I thought you might want to know some of the details of his crossing. Thanks again for everything...I know I couldn't get through this without you!! Love to you
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Marissa, I am so sorry you had to go through this. I know Slinky knows how much you loved him. I pray you find peace in the days ahead. Dede and Ki --- Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all. I guess I need to complete the updates on Slinky, huh? When you are in the service of your fellow beings, you are only in the service of your God Mosiah 2:17 TV dinner still cooling? Check out Tonight's Picks on Yahoo! TV. http://tv.yahoo.com/
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Hey Marissa, I cried reading your post this morning. I am hoping the kids who are testing across the library from me aren't watching. That old familiar lump kept popping up in my throat as I read along, first when you talked about giving him the only gift you could at that point, then when you spoke of laying him on his pillow while they did the catheter and crying, and then again when you spoke of your dad, and how wonderfully understanding and kind he was to you. That kind of kindness is just invaluable. I laughed when you said that you thought half the u.s. population is praying for you. I felt that way too when I came here when Cricket was sick. After he died, people here told me that he would visit me again. A few mornings after Cricket died, I woke up and looked down beside my bed and there was a cricket there. Granted, it was not alive, but still...usually we have a lot of crickets around november in texas and we just didn't have a cricket season that year. I hadn't seen any, so it shocked me to see this lone cricket by my bed. And Cricket was always 'different'...lol, so it would not surprise me that he would leave a dead cricket by my bed to try to communicate with me. I just want to tell you how much I think of you that you did all you could for Slinky. Bless you for your unconditional and endless love for Slinky. :) Wendy Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world: Indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ Don't pick lemons. See all the new 2007 cars at Yahoo! Autos. http://autos.yahoo.com/new_cars.html
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Marissa, My heart aches for your loss of Slinky. Gina Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all. I guess I need to complete the updates on Slinky, huh? Yes, he went to the bridge last night. I was having second thoughts all day yesterday...he, of course, perked up a bit, sat in the window sill again (hadn't done that in ages), and was still drinking, eating, and breathing fine. I even started to wonder if his nose looked pinker. But I decided to go to the vet appointment and ask her what she thought - and that all important question, what would you do if he were your kitty? Right before we left I think I finally understood that it really was time. It occurred to me that on Sunday he was very cuddly with me and initiating some cuddle time on his own. But yesterday he didn't want anything to do with me. And when we left the vet on Monday, someone said he'd tell me when it was time, and I remember thinking, I think he already has told me but I didn't want to believe it. I think his spirit left on Sunday...I think all that cuddling was him saying goodbye and beginning to get ready for the journey. So we went to the vet and I asked her if she thought his nose looked pinker. She looked at his gums, etc. and assured me that they were not. I was tempted to have her do another CBC, but that seemed like just adding to the torture he'd already been through. Without my even asking, the vet said, If this were my cat, this is what I would be doing. Not only is he not getting any better, but he's actually getting steadily worse...and he's just going to suffer if we wait much longer. She of course pointed out that I had the option of waiting, but that seemed like it would just drag out the inevitable. He was so weak the last couple days that he couldn't even get back on the bed once he'd gotten down. The vet explained everything in detail and even shaved some of his fur for me since I'd forgotten I wanted a sample (good cuz what she got was way better than anything I could've gotten with a scissors). Then she gave him the tranquilizer (I think she did it quickly so I wouldn't have time to change my mind...knowing that was best for me and for Slinky). She said it would take a few minutes for it to work, so they left and I just held him and cried and told him how much I loved him. Thanked him for letting me share in his life and told him I was giving him the only gift I could at this point. The room we were in had a beautiful painting of the bridge, so I showed it to him and told him that was where he was going. They had put a sheep skin-like pad on the table and when they came back I laid him on that and put his head on his favorite pillow (he loved to knead on this sqush pillow I have). She thought they might have to put a catheter in his front leg to get the needle in since his veins were so small, but she was able to do it in his back leg. Once it was in, I just held him and cried and cried some more. But I know he was in peace. He visited me this morning - as I was waking up I could hear the birds outside my window and I distinctly heard a meow (I remember thinking that I didn't know of a bird that meowed). When it happened I got chills. And when I woke up fully I realized that he was letting me know that he's happy and he loves me. I'm actually doing much better than I expected to be. After the vet appointment my friend took me out to dinner and then to ben and jerry's (self-medicating is always good!), which distracted me and that helped a lot. Of course when I got home I completely lost it, but I knew that would happen. I called dad and he was wondeful about telling me I did all the right things, that he loves me, and not to worry about paying all those bills back 'till some time in the future. Today I relaxed in the morning and then went and got my hair cut (my stylist is dad's partner and the owner of the salon...so he has lots of experience with losing kitties) and did some shopping. I got a stuffed kitty that looks just like Slinky, so he'll be my new sleeping buddy. I thought I would lose it when I came home tonight, but I just choked up for a bit and really was okay. I know all the prayers and thoughts everyone is sending me are helping a ton!!! I think half the population of the US is praying for me and checking on me! You guys have been absolutely amazing and having people to talk to who've been there and understand how this is has been an unbelievable help! Thank you all so much for all your support!!! I know this is kinda long, but since you've all been reading so much about Slink, I thought you might want to know some of the details of his crossing. Thanks again for everything...I know I couldn't get through this without you!! Love to you and all your furkids! MJ - Sucker
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I'm so sorry.. I know how hard it is. If my boyfriend hadn't bee holding me when I put my second FeLV kitty to sleep I really think I would have snatched her from the table and ran, even though I knew it was the right thing to do. I had the vet shave some hair from the belly of one of my FeLV cats after he was PTS. He had the most beautiful golden belly fur. I put it in the jar with his ashes. Now I can pet him any time I want. Beth Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all. I guess I need to complete the updates on Slinky, huh? Yes, he went to the bridge last night. I was having second thoughts all day yesterday...he, of course, perked up a bit, sat in the window sill again (hadn't done that in ages), and was still drinking, eating, and breathing fine. I even started to wonder if his nose looked pinker. But I decided to go to the vet appointment and ask her what she thought - and that all important question, what would you do if he were your kitty? Right before we left I think I finally understood that it really was time. It occurred to me that on Sunday he was very cuddly with me and initiating some cuddle time on his own. But yesterday he didn't want anything to do with me. And when we left the vet on Monday, someone said he'd tell me when it was time, and I remember thinking, I think he already has told me but I didn't want to believe it. I think his spirit left on Sunday...I think all that cuddling was him saying goodbye and beginning to get ready for the journey. So we went to the vet and I asked her if she thought his nose looked pinker. She looked at his gums, etc. and assured me that they were not. I was tempted to have her do another CBC, but that seemed like just adding to the torture he'd already been through. Without my even asking, the vet said, If this were my cat, this is what I would be doing. Not only is he not getting any better, but he's actually getting steadily worse...and he's just going to suffer if we wait much longer. She of course pointed out that I had the option of waiting, but that seemed like it would just drag out the inevitable. He was so weak the last couple days that he couldn't even get back on the bed once he'd gotten down. The vet explained everything in detail and even shaved some of his fur for me since I'd forgotten I wanted a sample (good cuz what she got was way better than anything I could've gotten with a scissors). Then she gave him the tranquilizer (I think she did it quickly so I wouldn't have time to change my mind...knowing that was best for me and for Slinky). She said it would take a few minutes for it to work, so they left and I just held him and cried and told him how much I loved him. Thanked him for letting me share in his life and told him I was giving him the only gift I could at this point. The room we were in had a beautiful painting of the bridge, so I showed it to him and told him that was where he was going. They had put a sheep skin-like pad on the table and when they came back I laid him on that and put his head on his favorite pillow (he loved to knead on this sqush pillow I have). She thought they might have to put a catheter in his front leg to get the needle in since his veins were so small, but she was able to do it in his back leg. Once it was in, I just held him and cried and cried some more. But I know he was in peace. He visited me this morning - as I was waking up I could hear the birds outside my window and I distinctly heard a meow (I remember thinking that I didn't know of a bird that meowed). When it happened I got chills. And when I woke up fully I realized that he was letting me know that he's happy and he loves me. I'm actually doing much better than I expected to be. After the vet appointment my friend took me out to dinner and then to ben and jerry's (self-medicating is always good!), which distracted me and that helped a lot. Of course when I got home I completely lost it, but I knew that would happen. I called dad and he was wondeful about telling me I did all the right things, that he loves me, and not to worry about paying all those bills back 'till some time in the future. Today I relaxed in the morning and then went and got my hair cut (my stylist is dad's partner and the owner of the salon...so he has lots of experience with losing kitties) and did some shopping. I got a stuffed kitty that looks just like Slinky, so he'll be my new sleeping buddy. I thought I would lose it when I came home tonight, but I just choked up for a bit and really was okay. I know all the prayers and thoughts everyone is sending me are helping a ton!!! I think half the population of the US is praying for me and checking on me! You guys have been absolutely amazing and having people to talk to who've been there and understand how this is has been an unbelievable help
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Awww your story of telling slinky about friends at the bridge has just raised a few memories of my previous kitties. It is heartbreaking to go through this and my heart goes out to you and Slinky. Slinky will know you have done everything possible and are still helping him to feel better by helping him cross to the pain free bridge. So hard to let them go but Slinky is far better off with you helping him to cross over and having so much love and comfort throughout his journey xxx enjoy your time with him - quality time is priceless no matter how short that time maybe xxx Michelle, Minstrel, Buddy Angel Bramble xxx
Slinky - Please add to the CLS
Hi all. I guess I need to complete the updates on Slinky, huh? Yes, he went to the bridge last night. I was having second thoughts all day yesterday...he, of course, perked up a bit, sat in the window sill again (hadn't done that in ages), and was still drinking, eating, and breathing fine. I even started to wonder if his nose looked pinker. But I decided to go to the vet appointment and ask her what she thought - and that all important question, what would you do if he were your kitty? Right before we left I think I finally understood that it really was time. It occurred to me that on Sunday he was very cuddly with me and initiating some cuddle time on his own. But yesterday he didn't want anything to do with me. And when we left the vet on Monday, someone said he'd tell me when it was time, and I remember thinking, I think he already has told me but I didn't want to believe it. I think his spirit left on Sunday...I think all that cuddling was him saying goodbye and beginning to get ready for the journey. So we went to the vet and I asked her if she thought his nose looked pinker. She looked at his gums, etc. and assured me that they were not. I was tempted to have her do another CBC, but that seemed like just adding to the torture he'd already been through. Without my even asking, the vet said, If this were my cat, this is what I would be doing. Not only is he not getting any better, but he's actually getting steadily worse...and he's just going to suffer if we wait much longer. She of course pointed out that I had the option of waiting, but that seemed like it would just drag out the inevitable. He was so weak the last couple days that he couldn't even get back on the bed once he'd gotten down. The vet explained everything in detail and even shaved some of his fur for me since I'd forgotten I wanted a sample (good cuz what she got was way better than anything I could've gotten with a scissors). Then she gave him the tranquilizer (I think she did it quickly so I wouldn't have time to change my mind...knowing that was best for me and for Slinky). She said it would take a few minutes for it to work, so they left and I just held him and cried and told him how much I loved him. Thanked him for letting me share in his life and told him I was giving him the only gift I could at this point. The room we were in had a beautiful painting of the bridge, so I showed it to him and told him that was where he was going. They had put a sheep skin-like pad on the table and when they came back I laid him on that and put his head on his favorite pillow (he loved to knead on this sqush pillow I have). She thought they might have to put a catheter in his front leg to get the needle in since his veins were so small, but she was able to do it in his back leg. Once it was in, I just held him and cried and cried some more. But I know he was in peace. He visited me this morning - as I was waking up I could hear the birds outside my window and I distinctly heard a meow (I remember thinking that I didn't know of a bird that meowed). When it happened I got chills. And when I woke up fully I realized that he was letting me know that he's happy and he loves me. I'm actually doing much better than I expected to be. After the vet appointment my friend took me out to dinner and then to ben and jerry's (self-medicating is always good!), which distracted me and that helped a lot. Of course when I got home I completely lost it, but I knew that would happen. I called dad and he was wondeful about telling me I did all the right things, that he loves me, and not to worry about paying all those bills back 'till some time in the future. Today I relaxed in the morning and then went and got my hair cut (my stylist is dad's partner and the owner of the salon...so he has lots of experience with losing kitties) and did some shopping. I got a stuffed kitty that looks just like Slinky, so he'll be my new sleeping buddy. I thought I would lose it when I came home tonight, but I just choked up for a bit and really was okay. I know all the prayers and thoughts everyone is sending me are helping a ton!!! I think half the population of the US is praying for me and checking on me! You guys have been absolutely amazing and having people to talk to who've been there and understand how this is has been an unbelievable help! Thank you all so much for all your support!!! I know this is kinda long, but since you've all been reading so much about Slink, I thought you might want to know some of the details of his crossing. Thanks again for everything...I know I couldn't get through this without you!! Love to you and all your furkids! MJ - Sucker-punch spam with award-winning protection. Try the free Yahoo! Mail Beta.
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Marissa, It just leaves such a big hole in your heart, I know. They do let you know. It is so hard to let them go, but to let him pass the way he did was a gift of kindess and caring. I am so glad he came to let you know. Love and hugs - I am crying with you. elizabeth On 3/28/07, Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all. I guess I need to complete the updates on Slinky, huh? Yes, he went to the bridge last night. I was having second thoughts all day yesterday...he, of course, perked up a bit, sat in the window sill again (hadn't done that in ages), and was still drinking, eating, and breathing fine. I even started to wonder if his nose looked pinker. But I decided to go to the vet appointment and ask her what she thought - and that all important question, what would you do if he were your kitty? Right before we left I think I finally understood that it really was time. It occurred to me that on Sunday he was very cuddly with me and initiating some cuddle time on his own. But yesterday he didn't want anything to do with me. And when we left the vet on Monday, someone said he'd tell me when it was time, and I remember thinking, I think he already has told me but I didn't want to believe it. I think his spirit left on Sunday...I think all that cuddling was him saying goodbye and beginning to get ready for the journey. So we went to the vet and I asked her if she thought his nose looked pinker. She looked at his gums, etc. and assured me that they were not. I was tempted to have her do another CBC, but that seemed like just adding to the torture he'd already been through. Without my even asking, the vet said, If this were my cat, this is what I would be doing. Not only is he not getting any better, but he's actually getting steadily worse...and he's just going to suffer if we wait much longer. She of course pointed out that I had the option of waiting, but that seemed like it would just drag out the inevitable. He was so weak the last couple days that he couldn't even get back on the bed once he'd gotten down. The vet explained everything in detail and even shaved some of his fur for me since I'd forgotten I wanted a sample (good cuz what she got was way better than anything I could've gotten with a scissors). Then she gave him the tranquilizer (I think she did it quickly so I wouldn't have time to change my mind...knowing that was best for me and for Slinky). She said it would take a few minutes for it to work, so they left and I just held him and cried and told him how much I loved him. Thanked him for letting me share in his life and told him I was giving him the only gift I could at this point. The room we were in had a beautiful painting of the bridge, so I showed it to him and told him that was where he was going. They had put a sheep skin-like pad on the table and when they came back I laid him on that and put his head on his favorite pillow (he loved to knead on this sqush pillow I have). She thought they might have to put a catheter in his front leg to get the needle in since his veins were so small, but she was able to do it in his back leg. Once it was in, I just held him and cried and cried some more. But I know he was in peace. He visited me this morning - as I was waking up I could hear the birds outside my window and I distinctly heard a meow (I remember thinking that I didn't know of a bird that meowed). When it happened I got chills. And when I woke up fully I realized that he was letting me know that he's happy and he loves me. I'm actually doing much better than I expected to be. After the vet appointment my friend took me out to dinner and then to ben and jerry's (self-medicating is always good!), which distracted me and that helped a lot. Of course when I got home I completely lost it, but I knew that would happen. I called dad and he was wondeful about telling me I did all the right things, that he loves me, and not to worry about paying all those bills back 'till some time in the future. Today I relaxed in the morning and then went and got my hair cut (my stylist is dad's partner and the owner of the salon...so he has lots of experience with losing kitties) and did some shopping. I got a stuffed kitty that looks just like Slinky, so he'll be my new sleeping buddy. I thought I would lose it when I came home tonight, but I just choked up for a bit and really was okay. I know all the prayers and thoughts everyone is sending me are helping a ton!!! I think half the population of the US is praying for me and checking on me! You guys have been absolutely amazing and having people to talk to who've been there and understand how this is has been an unbelievable help! Thank you all so much for all your support!!! I know this is kinda long, but since you've all been reading so much about Slink, I thought you might want to know some of the details of his crossing. Thanks again for everything...I know I couldn't get through this without
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Marissa, Thanks for letting us know about Slink. Even though I was expecting to read this, I prayed that the situation would turn around for him, somehow. Pretty normal to hope until the last, but you obviously did the right thing for him by helping him to leave. I'm glad you got a meow from him. Take care. Lance On Mar 28, 2007, at 10:04 PM, Marissa Johnson wrote: Hi all. I guess I need to complete the updates on Slinky, huh? Yes, he went to the bridge last night. I was having second thoughts all day yesterday...he, of course, perked up a bit, sat in the window sill again (hadn't done that in ages), and was still drinking, eating, and breathing fine. I even started to wonder if his nose looked pinker. But I decided to go to the vet appointment and ask her what she thought - and that all important question, what would you do if he were your kitty? Right before we left I think I finally understood that it really was time. It occurred to me that on Sunday he was very cuddly with me and initiating some cuddle time on his own. But yesterday he didn't want anything to do with me. And when we left the vet on Monday, someone said he'd tell me when it was time, and I remember thinking, I think he already has told me but I didn't want to believe it. I think his spirit left on Sunday...I think all that cuddling was him saying goodbye and beginning to get ready for the journey. So we went to the vet and I asked her if she thought his nose looked pinker. She looked at his gums, etc. and assured me that they were not. I was tempted to have her do another CBC, but that seemed like just adding to the torture he'd already been through. Without my even asking, the vet said, If this were my cat, this is what I would be doing. Not only is he not getting any better, but he's actually getting steadily worse...and he's just going to suffer if we wait much longer. She of course pointed out that I had the option of waiting, but that seemed like it would just drag out the inevitable. He was so weak the last couple days that he couldn't even get back on the bed once he'd gotten down. The vet explained everything in detail and even shaved some of his fur for me since I'd forgotten I wanted a sample (good cuz what she got was way better than anything I could've gotten with a scissors). Then she gave him the tranquilizer (I think she did it quickly so I wouldn't have time to change my mind...knowing that was best for me and for Slinky). She said it would take a few minutes for it to work, so they left and I just held him and cried and told him how much I loved him. Thanked him for letting me share in his life and told him I was giving him the only gift I could at this point. The room we were in had a beautiful painting of the bridge, so I showed it to him and told him that was where he was going. They had put a sheep skin-like pad on the table and when they came back I laid him on that and put his head on his favorite pillow (he loved to knead on this sqush pillow I have). She thought they might have to put a catheter in his front leg to get the needle in since his veins were so small, but she was able to do it in his back leg. Once it was in, I just held him and cried and cried some more. But I know he was in peace. He visited me this morning - as I was waking up I could hear the birds outside my window and I distinctly heard a meow (I remember thinking that I didn't know of a bird that meowed). When it happened I got chills. And when I woke up fully I realized that he was letting me know that he's happy and he loves me. I'm actually doing much better than I expected to be. After the vet appointment my friend took me out to dinner and then to ben and jerry's (self-medicating is always good!), which distracted me and that helped a lot. Of course when I got home I completely lost it, but I knew that would happen. I called dad and he was wondeful about telling me I did all the right things, that he loves me, and not to worry about paying all those bills back 'till some time in the future. Today I relaxed in the morning and then went and got my hair cut (my stylist is dad's partner and the owner of the salon...so he has lots of experience with losing kitties) and did some shopping. I got a stuffed kitty that looks just like Slinky, so he'll be my new sleeping buddy. I thought I would lose it when I came home tonight, but I just choked up for a bit and really was okay. I know all the prayers and thoughts everyone is sending me are helping a ton!!! I think half the population of the US is praying for me and checking on me! You guys have been absolutely amazing and having people to talk to who've been there and understand how this is has been an unbelievable help! Thank you all so much for all your support!!! I know this is kinda long, but since you've
Re: Slinky - Please add to the CLS
Slinky knew just exactly what to do and gave you a special time with him. If you have men who will exclude any of God's creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity, you will have men who will deal likewise with their fellow man. St. Francis - Original Message - From: Marissa Johnson To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, March 28, 2007 10:04 PM Subject: Slinky - Please add to the CLS Hi all. I guess I need to complete the updates on Slinky, huh? Yes, he went to the bridge last night. I was having second thoughts all day yesterday...he, of course, perked up a bit, sat in the window sill again (hadn't done that in ages), and was still drinking, eating, and breathing fine. I even started to wonder if his nose looked pinker. But I decided to go to the vet appointment and ask her what she thought - and that all important question, what would you do if he were your kitty? Right before we left I think I finally understood that it really was time. It occurred to me that on Sunday he was very cuddly with me and initiating some cuddle time on his own. But yesterday he didn't want anything to do with me. And when we left the vet on Monday, someone said he'd tell me when it was time, and I remember thinking, I think he already has told me but I didn't want to believe it. I think his spirit left on Sunday...I think all that cuddling was him saying goodbye and beginning to get ready for the journey. So we went to the vet and I asked her if she thought his nose looked pinker. She looked at his gums, etc. and assured me that they were not. I was tempted to have her do another CBC, but that seemed like just adding to the torture he'd already been through. Without my even asking, the vet said, If this were my cat, this is what I would be doing. Not only is he not getting any better, but he's actually getting steadily worse...and he's just going to suffer if we wait much longer. She of course pointed out that I had the option of waiting, but that seemed like it would just drag out the inevitable. He was so weak the last couple days that he couldn't even get back on the bed once he'd gotten down. The vet explained everything in detail and even shaved some of his fur for me since I'd forgotten I wanted a sample (good cuz what she got was way better than anything I could've gotten with a scissors). Then she gave him the tranquilizer (I think she did it quickly so I wouldn't have time to change my mind...knowing that was best for me and for Slinky). She said it would take a few minutes for it to work, so they left and I just held him and cried and told him how much I loved him. Thanked him for letting me share in his life and told him I was giving him the only gift I could at this point. The room we were in had a beautiful painting of the bridge, so I showed it to him and told him that was where he was going. They had put a sheep skin-like pad on the table and when they came back I laid him on that and put his head on his favorite pillow (he loved to knead on this sqush pillow I have). She thought they might have to put a catheter in his front leg to get the needle in since his veins were so small, but she was able to do it in his back leg. Once it was in, I just held him and cried and cried some more. But I know he was in peace. He visited me this morning - as I was waking up I could hear the birds outside my window and I distinctly heard a meow (I remember thinking that I didn't know of a bird that meowed). When it happened I got chills. And when I woke up fully I realized that he was letting me know that he's happy and he loves me. I'm actually doing much better than I expected to be. After the vet appointment my friend took me out to dinner and then to ben and jerry's (self-medicating is always good!), which distracted me and that helped a lot. Of course when I got home I completely lost it, but I knew that would happen. I called dad and he was wondeful about telling me I did all the right things, that he loves me, and not to worry about paying all those bills back 'till some time in the future. Today I relaxed in the morning and then went and got my hair cut (my stylist is dad's partner and the owner of the salon...so he has lots of experience with losing kitties) and did some shopping. I got a stuffed kitty that looks just like Slinky, so he'll be my new sleeping buddy. I thought I would lose it when I came home tonight, but I just choked up for a bit and really was okay. I know all the prayers and thoughts everyone is sending me are helping a ton!!! I think half the population of the US is praying for me and checking on me! You guys have been
Re: Slinky - Please add to the CLS
I'm so sorry for your loss Marissa. Slinky had a wonderful life with you, and that sounds like the best and most peaceful euthanasia I've ever heard of - everything seemed to just flow and work out. I'm so glad it went smoothly, and he was so at peace. You absolutely did the right thing. I know it's really hard, but please take solace in the fact that you did the VERY BEST for him, and he is now at peace. My thoughts go out to you. Phaewryn
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Marissa - I think these kitties become so precious to us in part because so many people view FeLV kitties as throw aways. We feel extra protective because people don't understand why we go through this. All my FeLV kitties that have passed were my most precious babies. I didn't want to go through this again, but the FeLV kitty I took from the shelter needed me.(BTW our shelter does NOT euthanise just because a cat tests positive :)). I turned in my healthy foster so I could take the FeLV one. I set myself up for heartache, but I put myself aside so he could be happy. The most important lesson you have learned is that these kitties have as much to give as any healthy animal. Anytime I hear someone talk about an FeLV kitty I encourage them to keep them and make them a part of their life. I want people to know these animals can live with this virus. It has become a mission for me. You are now someone who can spread the word so more of these beautiful babies can know life. I know your heart is aching, but you did an amazing thing - you gave this beautiful boy a happy life. Beth Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Nina (and EVERYONE!), thank you soo much! It is so helpful to know that those doubts are normal and that it won't be an indication that I made the wrong decision. I honestly don't know how I would get through this time without all of you! MC and Barb have been absolutely amazing chatting with me online and helping me sort things out - thanks! And all of you, your words of encouragement and support mean so much to me! I know this is going to be near impossible and that it's going to hurt a lot...but somehow I'll manage to get through it. Thank you for sharing this journey with me and for lending me your strength! I've been telling Slink all about my other pets who are waiting for him at the Rainbow Bridge... and telling him that I'm gonna help him get rid of his tired weak body and feel wonderful again. I hope he'll carry a piece of my heart with me...and I know I'll have him in my heart forever. He'll always be my most precious kitty...the kitty of my heart. I truly don't think I understood the depths of love and responsibility I was capable of feeling until he came into my life. He has taught me S MUCH (which I'll write more about someday) and I will cherish those lessons always. I can only hope I've been able to show him the same depth of love, acceptance, and security he has shown me. Thank you again for being here with me. I've got less than 24 hours now to be with my precious baby, so I'm going to make the most of it. GLOW to you and your babies! MJ Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Marissa, I'm so sorry. My eyes filled with tears when I read your news this morning. I had such high hopes for a miracle for you and your Slinky boy. I know you haven't come to this decision lightly and that the only reason you would even consider this is to spare him any unnecessary suffering. MC has a quote that has given me comfort, something about it being better to let them go a day too soon than an hour too late. I have been on both sides of this terrible coin; waiting with hope only to have them suffer, and living afterward with the fear that I made the decision to help them cross too soon. No matter what we do in these circumstances we may be plagued by the possibility that we did the wrong thing, (the dreaded what ifs). I just wanted to let you know that I understand, and that I don't believe that it is possible to do the wrong thing when these hard decisions are made from our hearts. When we lose the hope of recovery, then letting them go is the last gift of love we can bestow on them. The last act of protection we can provide. I had such terrible regrets when I helped my Jazzy cross, but in the weeks that followed I found myself replacing my self-recriminations with acceptance. Even if I hadn't made the decision I did, she most likely would have been gone by then. Finally, I was able to forgive myself, not so much for the decisions I made, but for not being able to control the circumstances of our time together. I was able to forgive myself for not being able to save her. At least I can know that because I made the decision I did, when I did, her suffering was not prolonged. I know that she knows I will always love her, that I'm grateful for the time she graced my life and that no matter how many tears I shed, I will never be sorry I took her in. I can rest easier knowing that my sweet bottle baby, whom I had protected and nurtured from the time I became her surrogate mom, never had a moment of fear or want. Not even at the end of her all too short life. I'm glad that you've made it possible to spend this time in Slinky's company. With how hard you've both fought, with all you and your family have done for your darling Slink, I'm praying
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Marissa, You and Slinky are in my prayers. tonya Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all. Thank you so much for all the GLOW and well wishes. Slinky and I just got back from the vet (and a spin through the park). I am sad to report that his HCT has dropped to just over 5! It was a little above 7 on Friday. The vet didn't even want to give him the IR shot today because she said his platlettes (sp?) are so low that when they stick him in the vein he just bleeds. She thought an IV injection would do more harm than good. She agrees with me that it's best to let him go. She said she's never seen a cat with HCT that low who was still awake and breathing ok (which, amazingly, he is). But she also indicated that as the RBC's drop, his organs will shut down and things will just get worse. Unfortunately, I'm not sure when this will happen. I needed to bring him home right now so I'd have some time to say goodbye and do some of his favorite things. But I have a HGE day at work tomorrow and am not sure I'll get through it if I put him down tonight. Tomorrow night I have an evening meeting for work that I can't get out of! So it might have to be Wednesday. I don't know...I'd just die if he gets worse before then, but some things can't be rescheduled (I've already missed several days of work to take care of him and be with him). He's pretty much the same...still breathing fine, eating, drinking, and using his box. So I guess for now I'll just see how it goes. They said they'd fit me in any time. Thanks again for all your support! I will be getting another kitty eventually (he is my only and my first as an adult!!)...but I don't think I'm up for another FeLV pos. I'm thinking maybe one who's missing an eye or has a bad leg or is deaf or something. Something that makes them difficult to adopt but isn't life threatening...I just don't think I can go through this again right now. I hope all your furkids are well. I'll let you know when I need to add Slinky to the CLS. Thanks! MJ and Slinky - 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut.
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Marissa, Thinking of you and Slinky at this difficult time, so glad that he was able to spend his life with such a good friend at his side. Peace and hugs to you both, Beth N. On 3/26/07, Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Nina (and EVERYONE!), thank you soo much! It is so helpful to know that those doubts are normal and that it won't be an indication that I made the wrong decision. I honestly don't know how I would get through this time without all of you! MC and Barb have been absolutely amazing chatting with me online and helping me sort things out - thanks! And all of you, your words of encouragement and support mean so much to me! I know this is going to be near impossible and that it's going to hurt a lot...but somehow I'll manage to get through it. Thank you for sharing this journey with me and for lending me your strength! I've been telling Slink all about my other pets who are waiting for him at the Rainbow Bridge... and telling him that I'm gonna help him get rid of his tired weak body and feel wonderful again. I hope he'll carry a piece of my heart with me...and I know I'll have him in my heart forever. He'll always be my most precious kitty...the kitty of my heart. I truly don't think I understood the depths of love and responsibility I was capable of feeling until he came into my life. He has taught me S MUCH (which I'll write more about someday) and I will cherish those lessons always. I can only hope I've been able to show him the same depth of love, acceptance, and security he has shown me. Thank you again for being here with me. I've got less than 24 hours now to be with my precious baby, so I'm going to make the most of it. GLOW to you and your babies! MJ *Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED]* wrote: Marissa, I'm so sorry. My eyes filled with tears when I read your news this morning. I had such high hopes for a miracle for you and your Slinky boy. I know you haven't come to this decision lightly and that the only reason you would even consider this is to spare him any unnecessary suffering. MC has a quote that has given me comfort, something about it being better to let them go a day too soon than an hour too late. I have been on both sides of this terrible coin; waiting with hope only to have them suffer, and living afterward with the fear that I made the decision to help them cross too soon. No matter what we do in these circumstances we may be plagued by the possibility that we did the wrong thing, (the dreaded what ifs). I just wanted to let you know that I understand, and that I don't believe that it is possible to do the wrong thing when these hard decisions are made from our hearts. When we lose the hope of recovery, then letting them go is the last gift of love we can bestow on them. The last act of protection we can provide. I had such terrible regrets when I helped my Jazzy cross, but in the weeks that followed I found myself replacing my self-recriminations with acceptance. Even if I hadn't made the decision I did, she most likely would have been gone by then. Finally, I was able to forgive myself, not so much for the decisions I made, but for not being able to control the circumstances of our time together. I was able to forgive myself for not being able to save her. At least I can know that because I made the decision I did, when I did, her suffering was not prolonged. I know that she knows I will always love her, that I'm grateful for the time she graced my life and that no matter how many tears I shed, I will never be sorry I took her in. I can rest easier knowing that my sweet bottle baby, whom I had protected and nurtured from the time I became her surrogate mom, never had a moment of fear or want. Not even at the end of her all too short life. I'm glad that you've made it possible to spend this time in Slinky's company. With how hard you've both fought, with all you and your family have done for your darling Slink, I'm praying that you will be spared the torture of any what ifs. Hold that angel close and know that he has worked his way into all our hearts. Much love to you, Nina Marissa Johnson wrote: Thanks for that reminder Phaewryn. I've actually been able to postpone tomorrow's meeting (my boss had asked if I wanted to this morning because I've been sick, but like a dope I said I'd be okay!...but I was able to call everyone and tell them we're postponing it. I think it's for the best all the way around). So I've made the appointment for tomorrow evening at 6:40 - the last appointment of the day - and have found a friend to go with me. I can't believe I'm doing this. It seems so...FINAL. And I guess it is, but...wow. I know it's what's best but that doesn't make it any easier. Anyway, Slink and I have the rest of tonight and all of tomorrow to be with each other. Thanks again for all your support! MJ -- Looking for earth-friendly autos? Browse Top Cars by Green Ratinghttp
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Hi all. Thank you so much for all the GLOW and well wishes. Slinky and I just got back from the vet (and a spin through the park). I am sad to report that his HCT has dropped to just over 5! It was a little above 7 on Friday. The vet didn't even want to give him the IR shot today because she said his platlettes (sp?) are so low that when they stick him in the vein he just bleeds. She thought an IV injection would do more harm than good. She agrees with me that it's best to let him go. She said she's never seen a cat with HCT that low who was still awake and breathing ok (which, amazingly, he is). But she also indicated that as the RBC's drop, his organs will shut down and things will just get worse. Unfortunately, I'm not sure when this will happen. I needed to bring him home right now so I'd have some time to say goodbye and do some of his favorite things. But I have a HGE day at work tomorrow and am not sure I'll get through it if I put him down tonight. Tomorrow night I have an evening meeting for work that I can't get out of! So it might have to be Wednesday. I don't know...I'd just die if he gets worse before then, but some things can't be rescheduled (I've already missed several days of work to take care of him and be with him). He's pretty much the same...still breathing fine, eating, drinking, and using his box. So I guess for now I'll just see how it goes. They said they'd fit me in any time. Thanks again for all your support! I will be getting another kitty eventually (he is my only and my first as an adult!!)...but I don't think I'm up for another FeLV pos. I'm thinking maybe one who's missing an eye or has a bad leg or is deaf or something. Something that makes them difficult to adopt but isn't life threatening...I just don't think I can go through this again right now. I hope all your furkids are well. I'll let you know when I need to add Slinky to the CLS. Thanks! MJ and Slinky - 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut.
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Thanks Wendy. I'm about to lose it...but I think having had several days to think about it and adjust is helping (not that it makes it any easier). I do have lots of pics of Slinky, and have been taking even more in the last few days. My best friend plans to help me make a scrap book for him (she has made them for each of her pets) and I'm going to put one of his pics in a frame I have on my nightstand (previously used for boyfriends but now being upgraded to a much more loyal love in my life!). If anyone wants to see any of his pics, feel free to check out his myspace page: www.myspace.com/slinkecat thanks again! MJ wendy [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hey Marissa, I am really amazed at how well you are handling all of this. You are really good at making good/difficult decisions. I commend you for that. I hope that when you go see the vet today that his HCT is the same or better if he's going to be able to pull through all this. If not, I completely understand your decision on this. I wanted to tell you that if you don't have any pics of Slinky, you might want to take some. Pictures of Cricket were invaluable after I lost him. I slept with his picture for weeks afterwards. They helped me to grieve, and his pic is still on my nightstand a year and a half after he passed. :) Wendy --- Marissa Johnson wrote: Hi all. Amazingly, Slinky's still hanging in there. Must be all the zillions of prayers going up on his behalf! :) I mentioned the other day that when we went to the vet on Fri, his HCT was down to 7. However, he's till breathing normally and eating and drinking on his own (not eating a ton, but eating nonetheless). The vet was shocked he hadn't lost any weight. He perks up a few times a day to eat and drink, but for the most part he spends all of his time sleeping or lying around - either on my bed or under my bed. I'm giving him Doxy, Prednisone, Clavamox, Hi-Vite, and CLysine in watered down babyfood twice a day! Also giving Epogen once a week and Immuno Reguline a few times a week (that one at the vet). I feel like I live in a hospital! lol We go back to the vet tomorrow morning for the next dose of IR and I think I've made some decisions. First of all, I've decided against another transfusion. The vet doesn't think it will help much (his HCT actually went down after the last one, not up), I don't really want to put him through that, and dad isn't up for paying for another one if it's not likely to help. Most importantly, I don't believe Slinky wants to go through it again. I've also decided that when we go to the vet tomorrow, if his HCT has gone down any further, I think that will be a sign that it's his time. If it's stayed the same, I'll try another dose of the IR and see what happens. If it goes up, we'll obviously keep doing what we're doing. But this is no quality of life for him and if he's continuing to get worse, I think I need to recognize that it may be time to let him go. It's a difficult (almost impossible) decision! But I feel peaceful about it. He's more cuddly lately - coming up to cuddle with me in our usual way and we've had some wonderful time together these last few days. I'm staying home and being with him as much as possible. I'm still praying and hoping that he's improving (and sending him those happy healing vibes), but we'll have to see tomorrow. Thanks again for all your prayers and support! When friends ask how I'm able to get through this I say it's largely because of you all. I hope all your furkids are doing well. Hugs, MJ and Slinky - Need Mail bonding? Go to the Yahoo! Mail QA for great tips from Yahoo! Answers users. Get your own web address. Have a HUGE year through Yahoo! Small Business. http://smallbusiness.yahoo.com/domains/?p=BESTDEAL - Don't be flakey. Get Yahoo! Mail for Mobile and always stay connected to friends.
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Marissa, My heart just dropped when I saw your subject line, but was happy to hear that Slinky had not yet passed. I am the ever hopeful type, and usually refuse to give up. Some people call that stubborn; I call it perseverance. I just don't want to give up on Slinky yet; he's fighting so hard. I hope that over the next few days, you are able to do all you need to do and stay relatively sane. If you need ANYTHING, just ask. We're here for you and Slinky. Prayers going out for Slinky and you. Here's to a miracle turnaround... :) Wendy --- Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all. Thank you so much for all the GLOW and well wishes. Slinky and I just got back from the vet (and a spin through the park). I am sad to report that his HCT has dropped to just over 5! It was a little above 7 on Friday. The vet didn't even want to give him the IR shot today because she said his platlettes (sp?) are so low that when they stick him in the vein he just bleeds. She thought an IV injection would do more harm than good. She agrees with me that it's best to let him go. She said she's never seen a cat with HCT that low who was still awake and breathing ok (which, amazingly, he is). But she also indicated that as the RBC's drop, his organs will shut down and things will just get worse. Unfortunately, I'm not sure when this will happen. I needed to bring him home right now so I'd have some time to say goodbye and do some of his favorite things. But I have a HGE day at work tomorrow and am not sure I'll get through it if I put him down tonight. Tomorrow night I have an evening meeting for work that I can't get out of! So it might have to be Wednesday. I don't know...I'd just die if he gets worse before then, but some things can't be rescheduled (I've already missed several days of work to take care of him and be with him). He's pretty much the same...still breathing fine, eating, drinking, and using his box. So I guess for now I'll just see how it goes. They said they'd fit me in any time. Thanks again for all your support! I will be getting another kitty eventually (he is my only and my first as an adult!!)...but I don't think I'm up for another FeLV pos. I'm thinking maybe one who's missing an eye or has a bad leg or is deaf or something. Something that makes them difficult to adopt but isn't life threatening...I just don't think I can go through this again right now. I hope all your furkids are well. I'll let you know when I need to add Slinky to the CLS. Thanks! MJ and Slinky - 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut. Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world: Indeed it is the only thing that ever has! ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ Food fight? Enjoy some healthy debate in the Yahoo! Answers Food Drink QA. http://answers.yahoo.com/dir/?link=listsid=396545367
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Dear Marissa, Your Slinky is truly amazing, a walking miracle, defying all the odds. Enjoy every possible moment with your brave little trooper. Try not to even think of his passing. I'm glad he has such an upbeat, loving mom. big hugs to you both, Kerry -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Marissa Johnson Sent: Monday, March 26, 2007 12:03 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Slinky - Sad News Hi all. Thank you so much for all the GLOW and well wishes. Slinky and I just got back from the vet (and a spin through the park). I am sad to report that his HCT has dropped to just over 5! It was a little above 7 on Friday. The vet didn't even want to give him the IR shot today because she said his platlettes (sp?) are so low that when they stick him in the vein he just bleeds. She thought an IV injection would do more harm than good. She agrees with me that it's best to let him go. She said she's never seen a cat with HCT that low who was still awake and breathing ok (which, amazingly, he is). But she also indicated that as the RBC's drop, his organs will shut down and things will just get worse. Unfortunately, I'm not sure when this will happen. I needed to bring him home right now so I'd have some time to say goodbye and do some of his favorite things. But I have a HGE day at work tomorrow and am not sure I'll get through it if I put him down tonight. Tomorrow night I have an evening meeting for work that I can't get out of! So it might have to be Wednesday. I don't know...I'd just die if he gets worse before then, but some things can't be rescheduled (I've already missed several days of work to take care of him and be with him). He's pretty much the same...still breathing fine, eating, drinking, and using his box. So I guess for now I'll just see how it goes. They said they'd fit me in any time. Thanks again for all your support! I will be getting another kitty eventually (he is my only and my first as an adult!!)...but I don't think I'm up for another FeLV pos. I'm thinking maybe one who's missing an eye or has a bad leg or is deaf or something. Something that makes them difficult to adopt but isn't life threatening...I just don't think I can go through this again right now. I hope all your furkids are well. I'll let you know when I need to add Slinky to the CLS. Thanks! MJ and Slinky _ 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick http://tools.search.yahoo.com/shortcuts/?fr=oni_on_mail#news in no time with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut. http://tools.search.yahoo.com/shortcuts/?fr=oni_on_mail#news IRS CIRCULAR 230 NOTICE. Any advice expressed above as to tax matters was neither written nor intended by the sender or Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP to be used and cannot be used by any taxpayer for the purpose of avoiding tax penalties that may be imposed under U.S. tax law. If any person uses or refers to any such tax advice in promoting, marketing or recommending a partnership or other entity, investment plan or arrangement to any taxpayer, then (i) the advice was written to support the promotion or marketing (by a person other than Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP) of that transaction or matter, and (ii) such taxpayers should seek advice based on the taxpayers particular circumstances from an independent tax advisor. This email and any files transmitted with it are intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are addressed. If you have received this email in error please notify the system manager. If you are not the named addressee you should not disseminate, distribute or copy this e-mail.
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At 10:02 AM 3/26/2007, you wrote: I am so very sorry about SLinky and all the sadness and pain right now. My thought will be with you...and hope for a gently journey into the light. Kelly Hi all. Thank you so much for all the GLOW and well wishes. Slinky and I just got back from the vet (and a spin through the park). I am sad to report that his HCT has dropped to just over 5! It was a little above 7 on Friday. The vet didn't even want to give him the IR shot today because she said his platlettes (sp?) are so low that when they stick him in the vein he just bleeds. She thought an IV injection would do more harm than good. She agrees with me that it's best to let him go. She said she's never seen a cat with HCT that low who was still awake and breathing ok (which, amazingly, he is). But she also indicated that as the RBC's drop, his organs will shut down and things will just get worse. Unfortunately, I'm not sure when this will happen. I needed to bring him home right now so I'd have some time to say goodbye and do some of his favorite things. But I have a HGE day at work tomorrow and am not sure I'll get through it if I put him down tonight. Tomorrow night I have an evening meeting for work that I can't get out of! So it might have to be Wednesday. I don't know...I'd just die if he gets worse before then, but some things can't be rescheduled (I've already missed several days of work to take care of him and be with him). He's pretty much the same...still breathing fine, eating, drinking, and using his box. So I guess for now I'll just see how it goes. They said they'd fit me in any time. Thanks again for all your support! I will be getting another kitty eventually (he is my only and my first as an adult!!)...but I don't think I'm up for another FeLV pos. I'm thinking maybe one who's missing an eye or has a bad leg or is deaf or something. Something that makes them difficult to adopt but isn't life threatening...I just don't think I can go through this again right now. I hope all your furkids are well. I'll let you know when I need to add Slinky to the CLS. Thanks! MJ and Slinky 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? http://tools.search.yahoo.com/shortcuts/?fr=oni_on_mailFind a flick in no time with thehttp://tools.search.yahoo.com/shortcuts/?fr=oni_on_mailYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut. No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.1.413 / Virus Database: 268.18.17/732 - Release Date: 3/24/2007
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*Marissa... every loss on this list feels like I've lost one of my own! I'm so, so sorry... hugs to you and to Slinky* *Leslie =^..^=* On 3/26/07, MacKenzie, Kerry N. [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Dear Marissa, Your Slinky is truly amazing, a walking miracle, defying all the odds. Enjoy every possible moment with your brave little trooper. Try not to even think of his passing. I'm glad he has such an upbeat, loving mom. big hugs to you both, Kerry -Original Message- *From:* [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto: [EMAIL PROTECTED] *On Behalf Of *Marissa Johnson *Sent:* Monday, March 26, 2007 12:03 PM *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org *Subject:* Slinky - Sad News Hi all. Thank you so much for all the GLOW and well wishes. Slinky and I just got back from the vet (and a spin through the park). I am sad to report that his HCT has dropped to just over 5! It was a little above 7 on Friday. The vet didn't even want to give him the IR shot today because she said his platlettes (sp?) are so low that when they stick him in the vein he just bleeds. She thought an IV injection would do more harm than good. She agrees with me that it's best to let him go. She said she's never seen a cat with HCT that low who was still awake and breathing ok (which, amazingly, he is). But she also indicated that as the RBC's drop, his organs will shut down and things will just get worse. Unfortunately, I'm not sure when this will happen. I needed to bring him home right now so I'd have some time to say goodbye and do some of his favorite things. But I have a HGE day at work tomorrow and am not sure I'll get through it if I put him down tonight. Tomorrow night I have an evening meeting for work that I can't get out of! So it might have to be Wednesday. I don't know...I'd just die if he gets worse before then, but some things can't be rescheduled (I've already missed several days of work to take care of him and be with him). He's pretty much the same...still breathing fine, eating, drinking, and using his box. So I guess for now I'll just see how it goes. They said they'd fit me in any time. Thanks again for all your support! I will be getting another kitty eventually (he is my only and my first as an adult!!)...but I don't think I'm up for another FeLV pos. I'm thinking maybe one who's missing an eye or has a bad leg or is deaf or something. Something that makes them difficult to adopt but isn't life threatening...I just don't think I can go through this again right now. I hope all your furkids are well. I'll let you know when I need to add Slinky to the CLS. Thanks! MJ and Slinky -- 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flickhttp://tools.search.yahoo.com/shortcuts/?fr=oni_on_mail#newsin no time with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut.http://tools.search.yahoo.com/shortcuts/?fr=oni_on_mail#news IRS CIRCULAR 230 NOTICE. Any advice expressed above as to tax matters was neither written nor intended by the sender or Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP to be used and cannot be used by any taxpayer for the purpose of avoiding tax penalties that may be imposed under U.S. tax law. If any person uses or refers to any such tax advice in promoting, marketing or recommending a partnership or other entity, investment plan or arrangement to any taxpayer, then (i) the advice was written to support the promotion or marketing (by a person other than Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP) of that transaction or matter, and (ii) such taxpayers should seek advice based on the taxpayers particular circumstances from an independent tax advisor. This email and any files transmitted with it are intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are addressed. If you have received this email in error please notify the system manager. If you are not the named addressee you should not disseminate, distribute or copy this e-mail. -- Leslie =^..^= To leave the world a better place - whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or an improved social condition - that is to have succeeded. That only one life breathed easier because you lived - that is success. ---Ralph Waldo Emerson
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I just visited his site, WHat a very very special boy,,,He looks just like MAXX my FELV boy and what a tribute to the wonderful care that he lived such a very very long contented life, My heart really goes out to you as this is the decision I had to make twice this month and I am still not recovered, We are here 24 hours a day for you Kelly
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Marissa, my heart hurts with you. elizabeth On 3/26/07, Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all. Thank you so much for all the GLOW and well wishes. Slinky and I just got back from the vet (and a spin through the park). I am sad to report that his HCT has dropped to just over 5! It was a little above 7 on Friday. The vet didn't even want to give him the IR shot today because she said his platlettes (sp?) are so low that when they stick him in the vein he just bleeds. She thought an IV injection would do more harm than good. She agrees with me that it's best to let him go. She said she's never seen a cat with HCT that low who was still awake and breathing ok (which, amazingly, he is). But she also indicated that as the RBC's drop, his organs will shut down and things will just get worse. Unfortunately, I'm not sure when this will happen. I needed to bring him home right now so I'd have some time to say goodbye and do some of his favorite things. But I have a HGE day at work tomorrow and am not sure I'll get through it if I put him down tonight. Tomorrow night I have an evening meeting for work that I can't get out of! So it might have to be Wednesday. I don't know...I'd just die if he gets worse before then, but some things can't be rescheduled (I've already missed several days of work to take care of him and be with him). He's pretty much the same...still breathing fine, eating, drinking, and using his box. So I guess for now I'll just see how it goes. They said they'd fit me in any time. Thanks again for all your support! I will be getting another kitty eventually (he is my only and my first as an adult!!)...but I don't think I'm up for another FeLV pos. I'm thinking maybe one who's missing an eye or has a bad leg or is deaf or something. Something that makes them difficult to adopt but isn't life threatening...I just don't think I can go through this again right now. I hope all your furkids are well. I'll let you know when I need to add Slinky to the CLS. Thanks! MJ and Slinky -- 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut.
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Marissa, I'm so sorry. kelley On 3/26/07, elizabeth trent [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Marissa, my heart hurts with you. elizabeth On 3/26/07, Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all. Thank you so much for all the GLOW and well wishes. Slinky and I just got back from the vet (and a spin through the park). I am sad to report that his HCT has dropped to just over 5! It was a little above 7 on Friday. The vet didn't even want to give him the IR shot today because she said his platlettes (sp?) are so low that when they stick him in the vein he just bleeds. She thought an IV injection would do more harm than good. She agrees with me that it's best to let him go. She said she's never seen a cat with HCT that low who was still awake and breathing ok (which, amazingly, he is). But she also indicated that as the RBC's drop, his organs will shut down and things will just get worse. Unfortunately, I'm not sure when this will happen. I needed to bring him home right now so I'd have some time to say goodbye and do some of his favorite things. But I have a HGE day at work tomorrow and am not sure I'll get through it if I put him down tonight. Tomorrow night I have an evening meeting for work that I can't get out of! So it might have to be Wednesday. I don't know...I'd just die if he gets worse before then, but some things can't be rescheduled (I've already missed several days of work to take care of him and be with him). He's pretty much the same...still breathing fine, eating, drinking, and using his box. So I guess for now I'll just see how it goes. They said they'd fit me in any time. Thanks again for all your support! I will be getting another kitty eventually (he is my only and my first as an adult!!)...but I don't think I'm up for another FeLV pos. I'm thinking maybe one who's missing an eye or has a bad leg or is deaf or something. Something that makes them difficult to adopt but isn't life threatening...I just don't think I can go through this again right now. I hope all your furkids are well. I'll let you know when I need to add Slinky to the CLS. Thanks! MJ and Slinky -- 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut. -- Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time. http://www.rescuties.org Vist the Rescuties store and save a kitty life! http://astore.amazon.com/rescuties-20 Please help Joey! http://rescuties.chipin.com/joey-autoimmune-hemolytic-anemia
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Aw. Glad you liked his site. Unforunately, though, he's actually only 11 months and I've only had him for 8 months!!! I had to set his age as over 14 to give him a myspace, so i just made it 20 for fun...and maybe wishful thinking. Thanks again!! MJ Kelly L [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I just visited his site, WHat a very very special boy,,,He looks just like MAXX my FELV boy and what a tribute to the wonderful care that he lived such a very very long contented life, My heart really goes out to you as this is the decision I had to make twice this month and I am still not recovered, We are here 24 hours a day for you Kelly - Bored stiff? Loosen up... Download and play hundreds of games for free on Yahoo! Games.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you both. Dede and Ki --- Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all. Thank you so much for all the GLOW and well wishes. Slinky and I just got back from the vet (and a spin through the park). I am sad to report that his HCT has dropped to just over 5! It was a little above 7 on Friday. The vet didn't even want to give him the IR shot today because she said his platlettes (sp?) are so low that when they stick him in the vein he just bleeds. She thought an IV injection would do more harm than good. She agrees with me that it's best to let him go. She said she's never seen a cat with HCT that low who was still awake and breathing ok (which, amazingly, he is). But she also indicated that as the RBC's drop, his organs will shut down and things will just get worse. Unfortunately, I'm not sure when this will happen. I needed to bring him home right now so I'd have some time to say goodbye and do some of his favorite things. But I have a HGE day at work tomorrow and am not sure I'll get through it if I put him down tonight. Tomorrow night I have an evening meeting for work that I can't get out of! So it might have to be Wednesday. I don't know...I'd just die if he gets worse before then, but some things can't be rescheduled (I've already missed several days of work to take care of him and be with him). He's pretty much the same...still breathing fine, eating, drinking, and using his box. So I guess for now I'll just see how it goes. They said they'd fit me in any time. Thanks again for all your support! I will be getting another kitty eventually (he is my only and my first as an adult!!)...but I don't think I'm up for another FeLV pos. I'm thinking maybe one who's missing an eye or has a bad leg or is deaf or something. Something that makes them difficult to adopt but isn't life threatening...I just don't think I can go through this again right now. I hope all your furkids are well. I'll let you know when I need to add Slinky to the CLS. Thanks! MJ and Slinky - 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut. When you are in the service of your fellow beings, you are only in the service of your God Mosiah 2:17 Be a PS3 game guru. Get your game face on with the latest PS3 news and previews at Yahoo! Games. http://videogames.yahoo.com/platform?platform=120121
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Marissa, I'm saddened to read that Slinky is so anemic and not doing well. It's wonderful that you've be able to spend some time with him doing things he likes, and that he is somehow managing to hang in there. I'm also sorry that you have a tough day at work tomorrow right after what may be his last night with you. You two will be in my thoughts and prayers. He looks like a very sweet boy. Thank you for posting the pics. Lance On Mon, 26 Mar 2007 10:02:44 -0700 (PDT), Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] said: Hi all. Thank you so much for all the GLOW and well wishes. Slinky and I just got back from the vet (and a spin through the park). I am sad to report that his HCT has dropped to just over 5! It was a little above 7 on Friday. The vet didn't even want to give him the IR shot today because she said his platlettes (sp?) are so low that when they stick him in the vein he just bleeds. She thought an IV injection would do more harm than good. She agrees with me that it's best to let him go. She said she's never seen a cat with HCT that low who was still awake and breathing ok (which, amazingly, he is). But she also indicated that as the RBC's drop, his organs will shut down and things will just get worse. Unfortunately, I'm not sure when this will happen. I needed to bring him home right now so I'd have some time to say goodbye and do some of his favorite things. But I have a HGE day at work tomorrow and am not sure I'll get through it if I put him down tonight. Tomorrow night I have an evening meeting for work that I can't get out of! So it might have to be Wednesday. I don't know...I'd just die if he gets worse before then, but some things can't be rescheduled (I've already missed several days of work to take care of him and be with him). He's pretty much the same...still breathing fine, eating, drinking, and using his box. So I guess for now I'll just see how it goes. They said they'd fit me in any time. Thanks again for all your support! I will be getting another kitty eventually (he is my only and my first as an adult!!)...but I don't think I'm up for another FeLV pos. I'm thinking maybe one who's missing an eye or has a bad leg or is deaf or something. Something that makes them difficult to adopt but isn't life threatening...I just don't think I can go through this again right now. I hope all your furkids are well. I'll let you know when I need to add Slinky to the CLS. Thanks! MJ and Slinky - 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut. -- Lance Linimon [EMAIL PROTECTED]
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When I lost Moogie, I had to drop her off at the vet and go to work. They called and told me that she was dying and there wasn't anything else to do... I rushed back over, but only got about 30 minutes with her. I wish I would have blown off work and spent that morning with her. You can't get that time back. My thoughts are with you. Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources
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Thanks for that reminder Phaewryn. I've actually been able to postpone tomorrow's meeting (my boss had asked if I wanted to this morning because I've been sick, but like a dope I said I'd be okay!...but I was able to call everyone and tell them we're postponing it. I think it's for the best all the way around). So I've made the appointment for tomorrow evening at 6:40 - the last appointment of the day - and have found a friend to go with me. I can't believe I'm doing this. It seems so...FINAL. And I guess it is, but...wow. I know it's what's best but that doesn't make it any easier. Anyway, Slink and I have the rest of tonight and all of tomorrow to be with each other. Thanks again for all your support! MJ [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: When I lost Moogie, I had to drop her off at the vet and go to work. They called and told me that she was dying and there wasn't anything else to do... I rushed back over, but only got about 30 minutes with her. I wish I would have blown off work and spent that morning with her. You can't get that time back. My thoughts are with you. Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources - Now that's room service! Choose from over 150,000 hotels in 45,000 destinations on Yahoo! Travel to find your fit.
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Marissa, I'm so sorry. My eyes filled with tears when I read your news this morning. I had such high hopes for a miracle for you and your Slinky boy. I know you haven't come to this decision lightly and that the only reason you would even consider this is to spare him any unnecessary suffering. MC has a quote that has given me comfort, something about it being better to let them go a day too soon than an hour too late. I have been on both sides of this terrible coin; waiting with hope only to have them suffer, and living afterward with the fear that I made the decision to help them cross too soon. No matter what we do in these circumstances we may be plagued by the possibility that we did the wrong thing, (the dreaded what ifs). I just wanted to let you know that I understand, and that I don't believe that it is possible to do the wrong thing when these hard decisions are made from our hearts. When we lose the hope of recovery, then letting them go is the last gift of love we can bestow on them. The last act of protection we can provide. I had such terrible regrets when I helped my Jazzy cross, but in the weeks that followed I found myself replacing my self-recriminations with acceptance. Even if I hadn't made the decision I did, she most likely would have been gone by then. Finally, I was able to forgive myself, not so much for the decisions I made, but for not being able to control the circumstances of our time together. I was able to forgive myself for not being able to save her. At least I can know that because I made the decision I did, when I did, her suffering was not prolonged. I know that she knows I will always love her, that I'm grateful for the time she graced my life and that no matter how many tears I shed, I will never be sorry I took her in. I can rest easier knowing that my sweet bottle baby, whom I had protected and nurtured from the time I became her surrogate mom, never had a moment of fear or want. Not even at the end of her all too short life. I'm glad that you've made it possible to spend this time in Slinky's company. With how hard you've both fought, with all you and your family have done for your darling Slink, I'm praying that you will be spared the torture of any what ifs. Hold that angel close and know that he has worked his way into all our hearts. Much love to you, Nina Marissa Johnson wrote: Thanks for that reminder Phaewryn. I've actually been able to postpone tomorrow's meeting (my boss had asked if I wanted to this morning because I've been sick, but like a dope I said I'd be okay!...but I was able to call everyone and tell them we're postponing it. I think it's for the best all the way around). So I've made the appointment for tomorrow evening at 6:40 - the last appointment of the day - and have found a friend to go with me. I can't believe I'm doing this. It seems so...FINAL. And I guess it is, but...wow. I know it's what's best but that doesn't make it any easier. Anyway, Slink and I have the rest of tonight and all of tomorrow to be with each other. Thanks again for all your support! MJ
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beautiful, nina. On 3/26/07, Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Marissa, I'm so sorry. My eyes filled with tears when I read your news this morning. I had such high hopes for a miracle for you and your Slinky boy. I know you haven't come to this decision lightly and that the only reason you would even consider this is to spare him any unnecessary suffering. MC has a quote that has given me comfort, something about it being better to let them go a day too soon than an hour too late. I have been on both sides of this terrible coin; waiting with hope only to have them suffer, and living afterward with the fear that I made the decision to help them cross too soon. No matter what we do in these circumstances we may be plagued by the possibility that we did the wrong thing, (the dreaded what ifs). I just wanted to let you know that I understand, and that I don't believe that it is possible to do the wrong thing when these hard decisions are made from our hearts. When we lose the hope of recovery, then letting them go is the last gift of love we can bestow on them. The last act of protection we can provide. I had such terrible regrets when I helped my Jazzy cross, but in the weeks that followed I found myself replacing my self-recriminations with acceptance. Even if I hadn't made the decision I did, she most likely would have been gone by then. Finally, I was able to forgive myself, not so much for the decisions I made, but for not being able to control the circumstances of our time together. I was able to forgive myself for not being able to save her. At least I can know that because I made the decision I did, when I did, her suffering was not prolonged. I know that she knows I will always love her, that I'm grateful for the time she graced my life and that no matter how many tears I shed, I will never be sorry I took her in. I can rest easier knowing that my sweet bottle baby, whom I had protected and nurtured from the time I became her surrogate mom, never had a moment of fear or want. Not even at the end of her all too short life. I'm glad that you've made it possible to spend this time in Slinky's company. With how hard you've both fought, with all you and your family have done for your darling Slink, I'm praying that you will be spared the torture of any what ifs. Hold that angel close and know that he has worked his way into all our hearts. Much love to you, Nina Marissa Johnson wrote: Thanks for that reminder Phaewryn. I've actually been able to postpone tomorrow's meeting (my boss had asked if I wanted to this morning because I've been sick, but like a dope I said I'd be okay!...but I was able to call everyone and tell them we're postponing it. I think it's for the best all the way around). So I've made the appointment for tomorrow evening at 6:40 - the last appointment of the day - and have found a friend to go with me. I can't believe I'm doing this. It seems so...FINAL. And I guess it is, but...wow. I know it's what's best but that doesn't make it any easier. Anyway, Slink and I have the rest of tonight and all of tomorrow to be with each other. Thanks again for all your support! MJ -- Spay Neuter Your Neighbors! Maybe That'll Make The Difference MaryChristine AIM / YAHOO: TenHouseCats MSN: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ICQ: 289856892
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Nina (and EVERYONE!), thank you soo much! It is so helpful to know that those doubts are normal and that it won't be an indication that I made the wrong decision. I honestly don't know how I would get through this time without all of you! MC and Barb have been absolutely amazing chatting with me online and helping me sort things out - thanks! And all of you, your words of encouragement and support mean so much to me! I know this is going to be near impossible and that it's going to hurt a lot...but somehow I'll manage to get through it. Thank you for sharing this journey with me and for lending me your strength! I've been telling Slink all about my other pets who are waiting for him at the Rainbow Bridge... and telling him that I'm gonna help him get rid of his tired weak body and feel wonderful again. I hope he'll carry a piece of my heart with me...and I know I'll have him in my heart forever. He'll always be my most precious kitty...the kitty of my heart. I truly don't think I understood the depths of love and responsibility I was capable of feeling until he came into my life. He has taught me S MUCH (which I'll write more about someday) and I will cherish those lessons always. I can only hope I've been able to show him the same depth of love, acceptance, and security he has shown me. Thank you again for being here with me. I've got less than 24 hours now to be with my precious baby, so I'm going to make the most of it. GLOW to you and your babies! MJ Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Marissa, I'm so sorry. My eyes filled with tears when I read your news this morning. I had such high hopes for a miracle for you and your Slinky boy. I know you haven't come to this decision lightly and that the only reason you would even consider this is to spare him any unnecessary suffering. MC has a quote that has given me comfort, something about it being better to let them go a day too soon than an hour too late. I have been on both sides of this terrible coin; waiting with hope only to have them suffer, and living afterward with the fear that I made the decision to help them cross too soon. No matter what we do in these circumstances we may be plagued by the possibility that we did the wrong thing, (the dreaded what ifs). I just wanted to let you know that I understand, and that I don't believe that it is possible to do the wrong thing when these hard decisions are made from our hearts. When we lose the hope of recovery, then letting them go is the last gift of love we can bestow on them. The last act of protection we can provide. I had such terrible regrets when I helped my Jazzy cross, but in the weeks that followed I found myself replacing my self-recriminations with acceptance. Even if I hadn't made the decision I did, she most likely would have been gone by then. Finally, I was able to forgive myself, not so much for the decisions I made, but for not being able to control the circumstances of our time together. I was able to forgive myself for not being able to save her. At least I can know that because I made the decision I did, when I did, her suffering was not prolonged. I know that she knows I will always love her, that I'm grateful for the time she graced my life and that no matter how many tears I shed, I will never be sorry I took her in. I can rest easier knowing that my sweet bottle baby, whom I had protected and nurtured from the time I became her surrogate mom, never had a moment of fear or want. Not even at the end of her all too short life. I'm glad that you've made it possible to spend this time in Slinky's company. With how hard you've both fought, with all you and your family have done for your darling Slink, I'm praying that you will be spared the torture of any what ifs. Hold that angel close and know that he has worked his way into all our hearts. Much love to you, Nina Marissa Johnson wrote: Thanks for that reminder Phaewryn. I've actually been able to postpone tomorrow's meeting (my boss had asked if I wanted to this morning because I've been sick, but like a dope I said I'd be okay!...but I was able to call everyone and tell them we're postponing it. I think it's for the best all the way around). So I've made the appointment for tomorrow evening at 6:40 - the last appointment of the day - and have found a friend to go with me. I can't believe I'm doing this. It seems so...FINAL. And I guess it is, but...wow. I know it's what's best but that doesn't make it any easier. Anyway, Slink and I have the rest of tonight and all of tomorrow to be with each other. Thanks again for all your support! MJ - Looking for earth-friendly autos? Browse Top Cars by Green Rating at Yahoo! Autos' Green Center.
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Marissa -- I know how bittersweet this next day will be for you. Comfort vibes to you. Slinky knows how very deeply he is loved. How could he not when it shines out of every word you write? We will look forward to your Slink stories when you are ready. Diane R. _ From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Marissa Johnson Sent: Monday, March 26, 2007 6:17 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Slinky - Sad News Nina (and EVERYONE!), thank you soo much! It is so helpful to know that those doubts are normal and that it won't be an indication that I made the wrong decision. I honestly don't know how I would get through this time without all of you! MC and Barb have been absolutely amazing chatting with me online and helping me sort things out - thanks! And all of you, your words of encouragement and support mean so much to me! I know this is going to be near impossible and that it's going to hurt a lot...but somehow I'll manage to get through it. Thank you for sharing this journey with me and for lending me your strength! I've been telling Slink all about my other pets who are waiting for him at the Rainbow Bridge... and telling him that I'm gonna help him get rid of his tired weak body and feel wonderful again. I hope he'll carry a piece of my heart with me...and I know I'll have him in my heart forever. He'll always be my most precious kitty...the kitty of my heart. I truly don't think I understood the depths of love and responsibility I was capable of feeling until he came into my life. He has taught me S MUCH (which I'll write more about someday) and I will cherish those lessons always. I can only hope I've been able to show him the same depth of love, acceptance, and security he has shown me. Thank you again for being here with me. I've got less than 24 hours now to be with my precious baby, so I'm going to make the most of it. GLOW to you and your babies! MJ Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Marissa, I'm so sorry. My eyes filled with tears when I read your news this morning. I had such high hopes for a miracle for you and your Slinky boy. I know you haven't come to this decision lightly and that the only reason you would even consider this is to spare him any unnecessary suffering. MC has a quote that has given me comfort, something about it being better to let them go a day too soon than an hour too late. I have been on both sides of this terrible coin; waiting with hope only to have them suffer, and living afterward with the fear that I made the decision to help them cross too soon. No matter what we do in these circumstances we may be plagued by the possibility that we did the wrong thing, (the dreaded what ifs). I just wanted to let you know that I understand, and that I don't believe that it is possible to do the wrong thing when these hard decisions are made from our hearts. When we lose the hope of recovery, then letting them go is the last gift of love we can bestow on them. The last act of protection we can provide. I had such terrible regrets when I helped my Jazzy cross, but in the weeks that followed I found myself replacing my self-recriminations with acceptance. Even if I hadn't made the decision I did, she most likely would have been gone by then. Finally, I was able to forgive myself, not so much for the decisions I made, but for not being able to control the circumstances of our time together. I was able to forgive myself for not being able to save her. At least I can know that because I made the decision I did, when I did, her suffering was not prolonged. I know that she knows I will always love her, that I'm grateful for the time she graced my life and that no matter how many tears I shed, I will never be sorry I took her in. I can rest easier knowing that my sweet bottle baby, whom I had protected and nurtured from the time I became her surrogate mom, never had a moment of fear or want. Not even at the end of her all too short life. I'm glad that you've made it possible to spend this time in Slinky's company. With how hard you've both fought, with all you and your family have done for your darling Slink, I'm praying that you will be spared the torture of any what ifs. Hold that angel close and know that he has worked his way into all our hearts. Much love to you, Nina Marissa Johnson wrote: Thanks for that reminder Phaewryn. I've actually been able to postpone tomorrow's meeting (my boss had asked if I wanted to this morning because I've been sick, but like a dope I said I'd be okay!...but I was able to call everyone and tell them we're postponing it. I think it's for the best all the way around). So I've made the appointment for tomorrow evening at 6:40 - the last appointment of the day - and have found a friend to go with me. I can't believe I'm doing this. It seems so...FINAL. And I guess it is, but...wow. I know it's what's best
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It sounds like a good solid plan of action Marissa. I wish him all the best, and send manifestation energy that he DOES improve after his next dose of IR. Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources
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Dear Marissa, it's wonderful that Slinky is a) eating and b) interested in playing! Continuing to send zillions of healing vibes to your little sweetheart and prayers for your calmness of mind. It's great that you have such supportive and helpful friends nearby, so you don't have to worry about him being on his own while you're at work. Most of all, it's wonderful that Slinky has such a loving, caring mom. hugs, Kerry -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Marissa Johnson Sent: Monday, March 19, 2007 9:46 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Latest Slinky Update Thanks Wendy!! I did ask the doctor about Epogen...she said if he was regenerating some, we could look at Epogen to increase it. I moved our appointment to Wed. night so I'm sure we'll talk about it then. I'll talk to her about the IR then too. He actually seems a bit better today. His temp was 104.1 this morning and we gave him a bout 250cc's of fluid (he kept moving and getting the needle out!), but he was looking a little pinker. He's been quiet all day, but his temp was down to 103.8 tonight so that's good!! He's still eating, and he's even a LITTLE playful...not running around, but will bat and chew a feather or string. He wouldn't do that at the beginning of this ordeal so I'm taking that as a good sign. Thanks again for all your prayers! I'm going to try to go to work tomorrow (I've stayed home for 3 days but don't have any vacation time left right now!). My friend will still be here, so she'll keep an eye on him for me and I'm only a 10 minute walk away if he goes downhill. But keep me in your prayers...that I'll be able to function without worrying too much. And keep sending him those healing thoughts!! You guys are awesome! Thanks! MJ p.s. Slinky has his own myspace page now. If you're interested, it's www.myspace.com/slinkecat Even has a slideshow of pics. wendy [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Marissa, I can't remember what dose I gave Cricket of the IR, but I did order it from Revival Animal Health and it cost me about $50 with shipping. It came pretty fast, but I might have paid extra to have it emergency shipped. I think it's listed as EqStim; that's the generic version. You probably don't need more than the 5 mL to start off with. I think the dosage for IR is .25 to .5 mL per 8 lb. cat, but don't quote me on that. I really hope that Slinky's fever goes down soon! I know it's worrying you, but I have heard several people say that a fever is not necessarily a bad thing always; it's the body's way of fighting off things. Maybe it's a good fever. Fingers and paws crossed here in Dallas. :) Wendy --- Marissa Johnson wrote: Hi again everyone. Thanks so much for your support and ideas. After Slinky's fever spiked to 104 last night, we gave him some sub-q fluids and it went down to 103. :-| Not great, but better. He did eat during the night and seemed to do okay...but his fever is back up to 104 now. We tried to give him more fluids, but he won't keep the needle in. He got about 250 cc's in him but that's it. We're gonna try more later with a smaller needle, but...ugh. I HATE having to poke him and take his temp and stuff all the time...he's getting really sick of it! Poor baby. He feels very hot and is pretty lethargic. He's still eating though. The doctor called to check in a bit ago (!!!)...i don't know if that's normal but it certainly hasn't been normal for me!!! She said she's glad to hear he's eating. She thinks I'm doing all I can and that eating and being alert might be a good day for him. :( Seems possible that the fever is his body adjusting to the transfusion, but with the FeLV it's hard to know. I asked her about IR and Interferon and she said she's never used it but saw it used with dogs in vet school. She said she'd ask around today and see if anyone had had positive results using it with cats with FeLV. I saw someone's post about getting it online w/o a scrip (can't remember who posted it...sorry). It's not cheap! But I may be able to swing a little. It's $35 for 5mL, $150 for 50mL. But I have NO idea what the dose would even be. Anyone know? I have a vet tech here all week so we could give it here for now...but what would the dose be?? Any ideas or suggestions would be great. Thanks!!! MJ
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MJ, I'm not sure why nobody has suggested trying to find out what is causing the anemia, and I guarantee you clavamox and baytril will not take care of the heamobartonella as well as the doxy if they will at all. The tetracycline group of drugs is what is need to treat hemo. Here are some documents to back this up: To treat Haemobartonella Felis, antibiotics such as tetracycline, oxytetracycline, or doxycycline are given for three weeks. Although it may seem contradictory, in cats with a rapid course of disease, large doses of prednisolone (a steroid) may sometimes be given to suppress the destruction of the red blood cells by the body. In some animals, it is necessary to give one or multiple transfusions. A glucose rich intravenous fluid may be life saving in very weak and debilitated pets. Some cats cannot tolerate tetracycline and will develop fever, vomiting, or diarrhea. If this occurs, the veterinarian may lower the dosage or choose another antibiotic. Only the veterinarian should make changes in treatment. http://www.geocities.com/pvis1960/hemobartonella.html Specific treatment for feline infectious anemia includes tetracycline antibiotics and prednisone. Patients may require supportive care, including blood transfusion. Although treatment does not eliminate the infection completely, cats that survive are thought to have a good long-term outlook. http://www.missionmedvet.com/encyclopedia/haemobartonellosis.htm *What are the symptoms of haemobartonellosis?* Symptoms vary depending on the number of red blood cells infected, the stage of the parasitic infection, the health status of the cat the rapidity of infection, but can include; * Anaemia * Loss of appetite * Weakness * Pale mucous membranes (ie: pale gums) * Weight loss * Jaundice * Fever * Enlarged lymph nodes * Enlarged spleen Untreated, FIA can cause death. *How is haemobartonellosis treated?* Antibiotics oxytetracycline or doxycycline. Treatment with a glucocorticoid such as prednisolone may also be prescribed to diminish the immune-mediated component of the disease process. Severely anaemic cats may require blood transfusions. http://www.cat-world.com.au/FelineInfectiousAnaemia.htm It can be treated with tetracycline class antibiotics with good success but even treated cats should be considered to be carriers of the disease and may experience recurrences later. Supportive care is often necessary for several days in cats with this condition and during the acute infection if may be necessary to use corticosteroids despite the immune suppression associated with these medications. It is very important to control fleas and other blood sucking organisms in a multiple cat household in which one member is found to have hemobartonellosis. It is a good idea to occasionally do followup bloodwork to make sure anemia is not recurring. Mike Richards, DVM http://www.vetinfo.com/catpara.html#Hemobartonellosis I have NEVER heard of or read of treating heamobartonella with clavamox or baytril. Bailey was on doxy, prednisolone and epogen for his anemia. He had a bone marrow aspirate to find out why he was anemic. He did not have hemo but we treated for it just in case. He got the doxy for about 6 weeks. -- Belinda happiness is being owned by cats ... Be-Mi-Kitties http://bemikitties.com Post Adoptable FeLV/FIV/FIP Cats/Kittens http://adopt.bemikitties.com FeLV Candlelight Service http://bemikitties.com/cls HostDesign4U.com [affordable hosting web design] http://HostDesign4U.com BMK Designs [non-profit animals websites] http://bmk.bemikitties.com
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sending GLOW and best thoughts to both of you (sorry if i don't always post right away on every thread; i send GLOW even if i sometimes forget to send the email acknowledging it. ) MC On 3/20/07, MacKenzie, Kerry N. [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Dear Marissa, it's wonderful that Slinky is a) eating and b) interested in playing! Continuing to send zillions of healing vibes to your little sweetheart and prayers for your calmness of mind. It's great that you have such supportive and helpful friends nearby, so you don't have to worry about him being on his own while you're at work. Most of all, it's wonderful that Slinky has such a loving, caring mom. hugs, Kerry -Original Message- *From:* [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto: [EMAIL PROTECTED] *On Behalf Of *Marissa Johnson *Sent:* Monday, March 19, 2007 9:46 PM *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org *Subject:* Re: Latest Slinky Update Thanks Wendy!! I did ask the doctor about Epogen...she said if he was regenerating some, we could look at Epogen to increase it. I moved our appointment to Wed. night so I'm sure we'll talk about it then. I'll talk to her about the IR then too. He actually seems a bit better today. His temp was 104.1 this morning and we gave him a bout 250cc's of fluid (he kept moving and getting the needle out!), but he was looking a little pinker. He's been quiet all day, but his temp was down to 103.8 tonight so that's good!! He's still eating, and he's even a LITTLE playful...not running around, but will bat and chew a feather or string. He wouldn't do that at the beginning of this ordeal so I'm taking that as a good sign. Thanks again for all your prayers! I'm going to try to go to work tomorrow (I've stayed home for 3 days but don't have any vacation time left right now!). My friend will still be here, so she'll keep an eye on him for me and I'm only a 10 minute walk away if he goes downhill. But keep me in your prayers...that I'll be able to function without worrying too much. And keep sending him those healing thoughts!! You guys are awesome! Thanks! MJ p.s. Slinky has his own myspace page now. If you're interested, it's www.myspace.com/slinkecat Even has a slideshow of pics. *wendy [EMAIL PROTECTED]* wrote: Marissa, I can't remember what dose I gave Cricket of the IR, but I did order it from Revival Animal Health and it cost me about $50 with shipping. It came pretty fast, but I might have paid extra to have it emergency shipped. I think it's listed as EqStim; that's the generic version. You probably don't need more than the 5 mL to start off with. I think the dosage for IR is .25 to .5 mL per 8 lb. cat, but don't quote me on that. I really hope that Slinky's fever goes down soon! I know it's worrying you, but I have heard several people say that a fever is not necessarily a bad thing always; it's the body's way of fighting off things. Maybe it's a good fever. Fingers and paws crossed here in Dallas. :) Wendy --- Marissa Johnson wrote: Hi again everyone. Thanks so much for your support and ideas. After Slinky's fever spiked to 104 last night, we gave him some sub-q fluids and it went down to 103. :-| Not great, but better. He did eat during the night and seemed to do okay...but his fever is back up to 104 now. We tried to give him more fluids, but he won't keep the needle in. He got about 250 cc's in him but that's it. We're gonna try more later with a smaller needle, but...ugh. I HATE having to poke him and take his temp and stuff all the time...he's getting really sick of it! Poor baby. He feels very hot and is pretty lethargic. He's still eating though. The doctor called to check in a bit ago (!!!)...i don't know if that's normal but it certainly hasn't been normal for me!!! She said she's glad to hear he's eating. She thinks I'm doing all I can and that eating and being alert might be a good day for him. :( Seems possible that the fever is his body adjusting to the transfusion, but with the FeLV it's hard to know. I asked her about IR and Interferon and she said she's never used it but saw it used with dogs in vet school. She said she'd ask around today and see if anyone had had positive results using it with cats with FeLV. I saw someone's post about getting it online w/o a scrip (can't remember who posted it...sorry). It's not cheap! But I may be able to swing a little. It's $35 for 5mL, $150 for 50mL. But I have NO idea what the dose would even be. Anyone know? I have a vet tech here all week so we could give it here for now...but what would the dose be?? Any ideas or suggestions would be great. Thanks!!! MJ - Never miss an email again! Yahoo! Toolbar alerts you the instant new Mail arrives. Check it out. Get your own web address. Have a HUGE year through Yahoo! Small Business. http://smallbusiness.yahoo.com/domains/?p
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Dear Marissa I'm so happy for you and Slinky that you have him at home now. Have a wonderful day with Slinky. Enjoy every moment you have with him! Sending zillions of prayes and healing vibes, hugs, Kerry PS: I wrote you last night but my server wdn't release it from the outbox. You'll prob get it today if I can get their tech support to release remotely for me. There will be a lot in the archives on IR--Michelle (Lerner) shared a ton of information with us on IR. -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Marissa Johnson Sent: Sunday, March 18, 2007 7:18 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Slinky is Home...but Feverish again Hi all!!! Just wanted to give you all the latest update. I brought Slinky home this afternoon The doctor called me this morning and said he was doing great and could go home. I stopped and saw him on my way to church and he was wanting to jump out of his cage and go home. :) I went back this afternoon and they said his temp is normal (101 - was 102 when I went in the morning), his BP, respirations, heart rate, etc. were all normal. He even ate quite a bit of his dry food after I left in the morning. He was alert and looking around. His gums are still pale but they're definitely pinker! When we got home I took him out of his carrier...and watched my baby boy run across the living room floor, jump up on the couch, and perch on the window sill!!! :) Considering that I wasn't sure I'd even get to bring him home, I just about burst into tears! The bill was actually pretty close to the estimate and they're going to have me continue his clavamox and baytril and give him sub-q fluids if I need them. My friend who's a vet tech will be here tonight to help me take care of him and keep an eye on him for the week. We have a follow-up appointment Thursday night to run another CBC and see where we stand. Throughout all of it, the hospital was absolutely amazing! I called 2-3 times last night for updates and they were great about getting them to me. They actually THANKED me for the opportunity to work with him and told me what a wonderful cat he is. :) Now for the not-so-happy news. He was really alert and energetic for a while...but I noticed he was starting to feel warm again. I took his temp and it got to 104 and then he moved and it came out and he wouldn't let me get it in again. :( I called the hospital to make sure I was supposed to give him his abx tonight (wanted to make sure I wasn't overdosing him after he'd been on IV abx). The doctor said to give him the abx and go ahead with sub-q fluids...but also said that she's concerned about his ability to regenerate and that she thinks I've done all I can for him...and it may be that if he's eating and alert that's a good day for him. We gave him the clavamox, baytril, some C and L-Lysine, and Hi-Vite and then started the sub-q's. Took the temp after the fluids were done and it was 104.4. I'm hoping it will go down by the time the fluid absorbs. He's seeming a bit more lethargic and sleepy now. I hate to keep poking and prodding him...it has to be frustrating for him! I'm feeling a bit discouraged...everything seemed to be going so well when I picked him up! But my friend (the vet tech) is saying that his body needs time to adjust to the new blood. I'm hoping that's what's happening...and not that his body is killing the new blood cells. Please keep up the prayers and good thoughts! I know we've done everything we can...but I really want this to work! I got my baby back for a few hours...and I want more! Thanks again for all your support and love. I'll send more info when I have it. MJ _ Don't get soaked. Take a quick peek at the forecast http://tools.search.yahoo.com/shortcuts/?fr=oni_on_mail#news with theYahoo! Search weather shortcut. http://tools.search.yahoo.com/shortcuts/?fr=oni_on_mail#news IRS CIRCULAR 230 NOTICE. Any advice expressed above as to tax matters was neither written nor intended by the sender or Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP to be used and cannot be used by any taxpayer for the purpose of avoiding tax penalties that may be imposed under U.S. tax law. If any person uses or refers to any such tax advice in promoting, marketing or recommending a partnership or other entity, investment plan or arrangement to any taxpayer, then (i) the advice was written to support the promotion or marketing (by a person other than Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP) of that transaction or matter, and (ii) such taxpayers should seek advice based on the taxpayers' particular circumstances from an independent tax advisor. This email and any files transmitted with it are intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are addressed. If you have received this email in error please notify the system manager. If you are not the named addressee you should not disseminate, distribute or copy
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Hello Marissa and Slinky. I just wanted you to know that, like everyone else on the list, I'm praying for Slinky and you. It is no small thing that your family and friends have rallied around you in your time of need. Everything seems to have fallen into place to give Slinky the best opportunity to recover and I know you recognize how truly blessed you are and how special your little angel is in your life. C'mon Slinky, keep on fighting! Please keep us posted when you can, Nina Marissa Johnson wrote: Hi all!!! Just wanted to give you all the latest update. I brought Slinky home this afternoon The doctor called me this morning and said he was doing great and could go home. I stopped and saw him on my way to church and he was wanting to jump out of his cage and go home. :) I went back this afternoon and they said his temp is normal (101 - was 102 when I went in the morning), his BP, respirations, heart rate, etc. were all normal. He even ate quite a bit of his dry food after I left in the morning. He was alert and looking around. His gums are still pale but they're definitely pinker! When we got home I took him out of his carrier...and watched my baby boy run across the living room floor, jump up on the couch, and perch on the window sill!!! :) Considering that I wasn't sure I'd even get to bring him home, I just about burst into tears! The bill was actually pretty close to the estimate and they're going to have me continue his clavamox and baytril and give him sub-q fluids if I need them. My friend who's a vet tech will be here tonight to help me take care of him and keep an eye on him for the week. We have a follow-up appointment Thursday night to run another CBC and see where we stand. Throughout all of it, the hospital was absolutely amazing! I called 2-3 times last night for updates and they were great about getting them to me. They actually THANKED me for the opportunity to work with him and told me what a wonderful cat he is. :) Now for the not-so-happy news. He was really alert and energetic for a while...but I noticed he was starting to feel warm again. I took his temp and it got to 104 and then he moved and it came out and he wouldn't let me get it in again. :( I called the hospital to make sure I was supposed to give him his abx tonight (wanted to make sure I wasn't overdosing him after he'd been on IV abx). The doctor said to give him the abx and go ahead with sub-q fluids...but also said that she's concerned about his ability to regenerate and that she thinks I've done all I can for him...and it may be that if he's eating and alert that's a good day for him. We gave him the clavamox, baytril, some C and L-Lysine, and Hi-Vite and then started the sub-q's. Took the temp after the fluids were done and it was 104.4. I'm hoping it will go down by the time the fluid absorbs. He's seeming a bit more lethargic and sleepy now. I hate to keep poking and prodding him...it has to be frustrating for him! I'm feeling a bit discouraged...everything seemed to be going so well when I picked him up! But my friend (the vet tech) is saying that his body needs time to adjust to the new blood. I'm hoping that's what's happening...and not that his body is killing the new blood cells. Please keep up the prayers and good thoughts! I know we've done everything we can...but I really want this to work! I got my baby back for a few hours...and I want more! Thanks again for all your support and love. I'll send more info when I have it. MJ Don't get soaked. Take a quick peek at the forecast http://tools.search.yahoo.com/shortcuts/?fr=oni_on_mail#news with theYahoo! Search weather shortcut. http://tools.search.yahoo.com/shortcuts/?fr=oni_on_mail#news
RE: Latest Slinky Update
Melissa, I just sent you an email offlist on IR -- let me know if it doesn't reach you. hugs, Kerry -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Marissa Johnson Sent: Monday, March 19, 2007 12:08 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Latest Slinky Update Hi again everyone. Thanks so much for your support and ideas. After Slinky's fever spiked to 104 last night, we gave him some sub-q fluids and it went down to 103. :-| Not great, but better. He did eat during the night and seemed to do okay...but his fever is back up to 104 now. We tried to give him more fluids, but he won't keep the needle in. He got about 250 cc's in him but that's it. We're gonna try more later with a smaller needle, but...ugh. I HATE having to poke him and take his temp and stuff all the time...he's getting really sick of it! Poor baby. He feels very hot and is pretty lethargic. He's still eating though. The doctor called to check in a bit ago (!!!)...i don't know if that's normal but it certainly hasn't been normal for me!!! She said she's glad to hear he's eating. She thinks I'm doing all I can and that eating and being alert might be a good day for him. :( Seems possible that the fever is his body adjusting to the transfusion, but with the FeLV it's hard to know. I asked her about IR and Interferon and she said she's never used it but saw it used with dogs in vet school. She said she'd ask around today and see if anyone had had positive results using it with cats with FeLV. I saw someone's post about getting it online w/o a scrip (can't remember who posted it...sorry). It's not cheap! But I may be able to swing a little. It's $35 for 5mL, $150 for 50mL. But I have NO idea what the dose would even be. Anyone know? I have a vet tech here all week so we could give it here for now...but what would the dose be?? Any ideas or suggestions would be great. Thanks!!! MJ _ Never miss an email again! Yahoo! Toolbar http://us.rd.yahoo.com/evt=49938/*http://tools.search.yahoo.com/toolbar /features/mail/ alerts you the instant new Mail arrives. Check it out. http://us.rd.yahoo.com/evt=49937/*http://tools.search.yahoo.com/toolbar /features/mail/ IRS CIRCULAR 230 NOTICE. Any advice expressed above as to tax matters was neither written nor intended by the sender or Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP to be used and cannot be used by any taxpayer for the purpose of avoiding tax penalties that may be imposed under U.S. tax law. If any person uses or refers to any such tax advice in promoting, marketing or recommending a partnership or other entity, investment plan or arrangement to any taxpayer, then (i) the advice was written to support the promotion or marketing (by a person other than Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP) of that transaction or matter, and (ii) such taxpayers should seek advice based on the taxpayers' particular circumstances from an independent tax advisor. This email and any files transmitted with it are intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are addressed. If you have received this email in error please notify the system manager. If you are not the named addressee you should not disseminate, distribute or copy this e-mail.
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I got it. Thanks Kerry! M MacKenzie, Kerry N. [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Melissa, I just sent you an email offlist on IR -- let me know if it doesn't reach you. hugs, Kerry -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Marissa Johnson Sent: Monday, March 19, 2007 12:08 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Latest Slinky Update Hi again everyone. Thanks so much for your support and ideas. After Slinky's fever spiked to 104 last night, we gave him some sub-q fluids and it went down to 103. :-| Not great, but better. He did eat during the night and seemed to do okay...but his fever is back up to 104 now. We tried to give him more fluids, but he won't keep the needle in. He got about 250 cc's in him but that's it. We're gonna try more later with a smaller needle, but...ugh. I HATE having to poke him and take his temp and stuff all the time...he's getting really sick of it! Poor baby. He feels very hot and is pretty lethargic. He's still eating though. The doctor called to check in a bit ago (!!!)...i don't know if that's normal but it certainly hasn't been normal for me!!! She said she's glad to hear he's eating. She thinks I'm doing all I can and that eating and being alert might be a good day for him. :( Seems possible that the fever is his body adjusting to the transfusion, but with the FeLV it's hard to know. I asked her about IR and Interferon and she said she's never used it but saw it used with dogs in vet school. She said she'd ask around today and see if anyone had had positive results using it with cats with FeLV. I saw someone's post about getting it online w/o a scrip (can't remember who posted it...sorry). It's not cheap! But I may be able to swing a little. It's $35 for 5mL, $150 for 50mL. But I have NO idea what the dose would even be. Anyone know? I have a vet tech here all week so we could give it here for now...but what would the dose be?? Any ideas or suggestions would be great. Thanks!!! MJ - Never miss an email again! Yahoo! Toolbar alerts you the instant new Mail arrives. Check it out. IRS CIRCULAR 230 NOTICE. Any advice expressed above as to tax matters was neither written nor intended by the sender or Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP to be used and cannot be used by any taxpayer for the purpose of avoiding tax penalties that may be imposed under U.S. tax law. If any person uses or refers to any such tax advice in promoting, marketing or recommending a partnership or other entity, investment plan or arrangement to any taxpayer, then (i) the advice was written to support the promotion or marketing (by a person other than Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP) of that transaction or matter, and (ii) such taxpayers should seek advice based on the taxpayers' particular circumstances from an independent tax advisor. This email and any files transmitted with it are intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are addressed. If you have received this email in error please notify the system manager. If you are not the named addressee you should not disseminate, distribute or copy this e-mail. - Need Mail bonding? Go to the Yahoo! Mail QA for great tips from Yahoo! Answers users.
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Hi Marissa, I loved reading your post. I'm so glad that Slinky is home again. Did you ask the doctor about Epogen and when will they start it? :) Wendy --- Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all!!! Just wanted to give you all the latest update. I brought Slinky home this afternoon The doctor called me this morning and said he was doing great and could go home. I stopped and saw him on my way to church and he was wanting to jump out of his cage and go home. :) I went back this afternoon and they said his temp is normal (101 - was 102 when I went in the morning), his BP, respirations, heart rate, etc. were all normal. He even ate quite a bit of his dry food after I left in the morning. He was alert and looking around. His gums are still pale but they're definitely pinker! When we got home I took him out of his carrier...and watched my baby boy run across the living room floor, jump up on the couch, and perch on the window sill!!! :) Considering that I wasn't sure I'd even get to bring him home, I just about burst into tears! The bill was actually pretty close to the estimate and they're going to have me continue his clavamox and baytril and give him sub-q fluids if I need them. My friend who's a vet tech will be here tonight to help me take care of him and keep an eye on him for the week. We have a follow-up appointment Thursday night to run another CBC and see where we stand. Throughout all of it, the hospital was absolutely amazing! I called 2-3 times last night for updates and they were great about getting them to me. They actually THANKED me for the opportunity to work with him and told me what a wonderful cat he is. :) Now for the not-so-happy news. He was really alert and energetic for a while...but I noticed he was starting to feel warm again. I took his temp and it got to 104 and then he moved and it came out and he wouldn't let me get it in again. :( I called the hospital to make sure I was supposed to give him his abx tonight (wanted to make sure I wasn't overdosing him after he'd been on IV abx). The doctor said to give him the abx and go ahead with sub-q fluids...but also said that she's concerned about his ability to regenerate and that she thinks I've done all I can for him...and it may be that if he's eating and alert that's a good day for him. We gave him the clavamox, baytril, some C and L-Lysine, and Hi-Vite and then started the sub-q's. Took the temp after the fluids were done and it was 104.4. I'm hoping it will go down by the time the fluid absorbs. He's seeming a bit more lethargic and sleepy now. I hate to keep poking and prodding him...it has to be frustrating for him! I'm feeling a bit discouraged...everything seemed to be going so well when I picked him up! But my friend (the vet tech) is saying that his body needs time to adjust to the new blood. I'm hoping that's what's happening...and not that his body is killing the new blood cells. Please keep up the prayers and good thoughts! I know we've done everything we can...but I really want this to work! I got my baby back for a few hours...and I want more! Thanks again for all your support and love. I'll send more info when I have it. MJ - Don't get soaked. Take a quick peek at the forecast with theYahoo! Search weather shortcut. Food fight? Enjoy some healthy debate in the Yahoo! Answers Food Drink QA. http://answers.yahoo.com/dir/?link=listsid=396545367
Re: Latest Slinky Update
Marissa, I can't remember what dose I gave Cricket of the IR, but I did order it from Revival Animal Health and it cost me about $50 with shipping. It came pretty fast, but I might have paid extra to have it emergency shipped. I think it's listed as EqStim; that's the generic version. You probably don't need more than the 5 mL to start off with. I think the dosage for IR is .25 to .5 mL per 8 lb. cat, but don't quote me on that. I really hope that Slinky's fever goes down soon! I know it's worrying you, but I have heard several people say that a fever is not necessarily a bad thing always; it's the body's way of fighting off things. Maybe it's a good fever. Fingers and paws crossed here in Dallas. :) Wendy --- Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi again everyone. Thanks so much for your support and ideas. After Slinky's fever spiked to 104 last night, we gave him some sub-q fluids and it went down to 103. :-| Not great, but better. He did eat during the night and seemed to do okay...but his fever is back up to 104 now. We tried to give him more fluids, but he won't keep the needle in. He got about 250 cc's in him but that's it. We're gonna try more later with a smaller needle, but...ugh. I HATE having to poke him and take his temp and stuff all the time...he's getting really sick of it! Poor baby. He feels very hot and is pretty lethargic. He's still eating though. The doctor called to check in a bit ago (!!!)...i don't know if that's normal but it certainly hasn't been normal for me!!! She said she's glad to hear he's eating. She thinks I'm doing all I can and that eating and being alert might be a good day for him. :( Seems possible that the fever is his body adjusting to the transfusion, but with the FeLV it's hard to know. I asked her about IR and Interferon and she said she's never used it but saw it used with dogs in vet school. She said she'd ask around today and see if anyone had had positive results using it with cats with FeLV. I saw someone's post about getting it online w/o a scrip (can't remember who posted it...sorry). It's not cheap! But I may be able to swing a little. It's $35 for 5mL, $150 for 50mL. But I have NO idea what the dose would even be. Anyone know? I have a vet tech here all week so we could give it here for now...but what would the dose be?? Any ideas or suggestions would be great. Thanks!!! MJ - Never miss an email again! Yahoo! Toolbar alerts you the instant new Mail arrives. Check it out. Get your own web address. Have a HUGE year through Yahoo! Small Business. http://smallbusiness.yahoo.com/domains/?p=BESTDEAL
Re: Latest Slinky Update
Thanks Wendy!! I did ask the doctor about Epogen...she said if he was regenerating some, we could look at Epogen to increase it. I moved our appointment to Wed. night so I'm sure we'll talk about it then. I'll talk to her about the IR then too. He actually seems a bit better today. His temp was 104.1 this morning and we gave him a bout 250cc's of fluid (he kept moving and getting the needle out!), but he was looking a little pinker. He's been quiet all day, but his temp was down to 103.8 tonight so that's good!! He's still eating, and he's even a LITTLE playful...not running around, but will bat and chew a feather or string. He wouldn't do that at the beginning of this ordeal so I'm taking that as a good sign. Thanks again for all your prayers! I'm going to try to go to work tomorrow (I've stayed home for 3 days but don't have any vacation time left right now!). My friend will still be here, so she'll keep an eye on him for me and I'm only a 10 minute walk away if he goes downhill. But keep me in your prayers...that I'll be able to function without worrying too much. And keep sending him those healing thoughts!! You guys are awesome! Thanks! MJ p.s. Slinky has his own myspace page now. If you're interested, it's www.myspace.com/slinkecat Even has a slideshow of pics. wendy [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Marissa, I can't remember what dose I gave Cricket of the IR, but I did order it from Revival Animal Health and it cost me about $50 with shipping. It came pretty fast, but I might have paid extra to have it emergency shipped. I think it's listed as EqStim; that's the generic version. You probably don't need more than the 5 mL to start off with. I think the dosage for IR is .25 to .5 mL per 8 lb. cat, but don't quote me on that. I really hope that Slinky's fever goes down soon! I know it's worrying you, but I have heard several people say that a fever is not necessarily a bad thing always; it's the body's way of fighting off things. Maybe it's a good fever. Fingers and paws crossed here in Dallas. :) Wendy --- Marissa Johnson wrote: Hi again everyone. Thanks so much for your support and ideas. After Slinky's fever spiked to 104 last night, we gave him some sub-q fluids and it went down to 103. :-| Not great, but better. He did eat during the night and seemed to do okay...but his fever is back up to 104 now. We tried to give him more fluids, but he won't keep the needle in. He got about 250 cc's in him but that's it. We're gonna try more later with a smaller needle, but...ugh. I HATE having to poke him and take his temp and stuff all the time...he's getting really sick of it! Poor baby. He feels very hot and is pretty lethargic. He's still eating though. The doctor called to check in a bit ago (!!!)...i don't know if that's normal but it certainly hasn't been normal for me!!! She said she's glad to hear he's eating. She thinks I'm doing all I can and that eating and being alert might be a good day for him. :( Seems possible that the fever is his body adjusting to the transfusion, but with the FeLV it's hard to know. I asked her about IR and Interferon and she said she's never used it but saw it used with dogs in vet school. She said she'd ask around today and see if anyone had had positive results using it with cats with FeLV. I saw someone's post about getting it online w/o a scrip (can't remember who posted it...sorry). It's not cheap! But I may be able to swing a little. It's $35 for 5mL, $150 for 50mL. But I have NO idea what the dose would even be. Anyone know? I have a vet tech here all week so we could give it here for now...but what would the dose be?? Any ideas or suggestions would be great. Thanks!!! MJ - Never miss an email again! Yahoo! Toolbar alerts you the instant new Mail arrives. Check it out. Get your own web address. Have a HUGE year through Yahoo! Small Business. http://smallbusiness.yahoo.com/domains/?p=BESTDEAL - We won't tell. Get more on shows you hate to love (and love to hate): Yahoo! TV's Guilty Pleasures list.
Slinky is Home...but Feverish again
Hi all!!! Just wanted to give you all the latest update. I brought Slinky home this afternoon The doctor called me this morning and said he was doing great and could go home. I stopped and saw him on my way to church and he was wanting to jump out of his cage and go home. :) I went back this afternoon and they said his temp is normal (101 - was 102 when I went in the morning), his BP, respirations, heart rate, etc. were all normal. He even ate quite a bit of his dry food after I left in the morning. He was alert and looking around. His gums are still pale but they're definitely pinker! When we got home I took him out of his carrier...and watched my baby boy run across the living room floor, jump up on the couch, and perch on the window sill!!! :) Considering that I wasn't sure I'd even get to bring him home, I just about burst into tears! The bill was actually pretty close to the estimate and they're going to have me continue his clavamox and baytril and give him sub-q fluids if I need them. My friend who's a vet tech will be here tonight to help me take care of him and keep an eye on him for the week. We have a follow-up appointment Thursday night to run another CBC and see where we stand. Throughout all of it, the hospital was absolutely amazing! I called 2-3 times last night for updates and they were great about getting them to me. They actually THANKED me for the opportunity to work with him and told me what a wonderful cat he is. :) Now for the not-so-happy news. He was really alert and energetic for a while...but I noticed he was starting to feel warm again. I took his temp and it got to 104 and then he moved and it came out and he wouldn't let me get it in again. :( I called the hospital to make sure I was supposed to give him his abx tonight (wanted to make sure I wasn't overdosing him after he'd been on IV abx). The doctor said to give him the abx and go ahead with sub-q fluids...but also said that she's concerned about his ability to regenerate and that she thinks I've done all I can for him...and it may be that if he's eating and alert that's a good day for him. We gave him the clavamox, baytril, some C and L-Lysine, and Hi-Vite and then started the sub-q's. Took the temp after the fluids were done and it was 104.4. I'm hoping it will go down by the time the fluid absorbs. He's seeming a bit more lethargic and sleepy now. I hate to keep poking and prodding him...it has to be frustrating for him! I'm feeling a bit discouraged...everything seemed to be going so well when I picked him up! But my friend (the vet tech) is saying that his body needs time to adjust to the new blood. I'm hoping that's what's happening...and not that his body is killing the new blood cells. Please keep up the prayers and good thoughts! I know we've done everything we can...but I really want this to work! I got my baby back for a few hours...and I want more! Thanks again for all your support and love. I'll send more info when I have it. MJ - Don't get soaked. Take a quick peek at the forecast with theYahoo! Search weather shortcut.
Re: Slinky is Home...but Feverish again
Thanks for the update. Love and prayers for you and Slinky. elizabeth On 3/18/07, Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all!!! Just wanted to give you all the latest update. I brought Slinky home this afternoon The doctor called me this morning and said he was doing great and could go home. I stopped and saw him on my way to church and he was wanting to jump out of his cage and go home. :) I went back this afternoon and they said his temp is normal (101 - was 102 when I went in the morning), his BP, respirations, heart rate, etc. were all normal. He even ate quite a bit of his dry food after I left in the morning. He was alert and looking around. His gums are still pale but they're definitely pinker! When we got home I took him out of his carrier...and watched my baby boy run across the living room floor, jump up on the couch, and perch on the window sill!!! :) Considering that I wasn't sure I'd even get to bring him home, I just about burst into tears! The bill was actually pretty close to the estimate and they're going to have me continue his clavamox and baytril and give him sub-q fluids if I need them. My friend who's a vet tech will be here tonight to help me take care of him and keep an eye on him for the week. We have a follow-up appointment Thursday night to run another CBC and see where we stand. Throughout all of it, the hospital was absolutely amazing! I called 2-3 times last night for updates and they were great about getting them to me. They actually THANKED me for the opportunity to work with him and told me what a wonderful cat he is. :) Now for the not-so-happy news. He was really alert and energetic for a while...but I noticed he was starting to feel warm again. I took his temp and it got to 104 and then he moved and it came out and he wouldn't let me get it in again. :( I called the hospital to make sure I was supposed to give him his abx tonight (wanted to make sure I wasn't overdosing him after he'd been on IV abx). The doctor said to give him the abx and go ahead with sub-q fluids...but also said that she's concerned about his ability to regenerate and that she thinks I've done all I can for him...and it may be that if he's eating and alert that's a good day for him. We gave him the clavamox, baytril, some C and L-Lysine, and Hi-Vite and then started the sub-q's. Took the temp after the fluids were done and it was 104.4. I'm hoping it will go down by the time the fluid absorbs. He's seeming a bit more lethargic and sleepy now. I hate to keep poking and prodding him...it has to be frustrating for him! I'm feeling a bit discouraged...everything seemed to be going so well when I picked him up! But my friend (the vet tech) is saying that his body needs time to adjust to the new blood. I'm hoping that's what's happening...and not that his body is killing the new blood cells. Please keep up the prayers and good thoughts! I know we've done everything we can...but I really want this to work! I got my baby back for a few hours...and I want more! Thanks again for all your support and love. I'll send more info when I have it. MJ -- Don't get soaked. Take a quick peek at the forecast with theYahoo! Search weather shortcut.
To Marissa: Re: Hello Again - Slinky Sick
Hey Marissa, I just read this post. I am so behind from being out of town for a week, and am reading backwards! No apologies needed for living your life. No one here expects anyone to be around all the time, or even any of the time. We are here to help when someone needs help. It's good to know that Slinky's UTI was diagnosed and now he's on antibiotics. I know now that he wasn't given doxy from this post, so I still feel that it's important to try that. If the vet says that Doxy can treat the UTI, ask if you can switch to that. I'm surprised the vet didn't mention it. I think a lot of vets just see FeLV+ and assume that there's no hope, so their mind won't go to any other possibilities, like hemobartanella. I wish they weren't like that but so many are. My Cricket got REALLY sick when he was two years old, with a very high fever that went all the way to the top of the thermometer. The vet tested him for FeLV, and said he was positive. The vet stopped trying to help him then, but I didn't know it. I left him there early in the morning and assumed they were doing their jobs. Even though I told the vet to give him intraveneous fluids if they had to, they didn't and he just kept getting sicker and they gave him no sustenance; I had no idea this was going on for a day and a half. Something kept telling me to go get him, that something wasn't right, so I left work in the middle of the day and went to the vets. That's when I found out that they weren't taking proper care of him and I got PISSED! I demanded antibiotics and I took Cricket home and every hour syringe fed him a little water and some canned A/D, plus his meds. I didn't even know about subQ then. Cricket pulled through, but it's ONLY because I did NOT listen to that vet. I wrote a complaint against him to the State Veterinary Board, but the way things are in Texas, they just wrote me back saying they found that the vet hadn't done anything wrong. Bullshit (excuse my language). Giving fluids is the most BASIC of care. Hello. Anyway, I learned from that experience to trust my gut. And if your gut is telling you to keep trying, despite what the vets say, then keep trying. Where there's a will, there's a way. Cricket lived for two more years with NO issues at all. All he had was a simple infection, and the vet was willing to give up because of that damn FeLV stamp on his forehead. Don't be afraid to do the subQ fluids. It really does make kitties feel better. If you touch Slinky's gums and they are sticky instead of moist, then he needs fluids. You will be surprised at how much better he will feel. I wish I had known all of this when Cricket was sick. Also, try finger feeding him some meat baby food (without any additives like garlic or onion; I can't remember which one is bad, I think the garlic). Slinky might like that. Deli food also. Tuna. Whatever you can get him to eat right now; it's VERY important that Slinky does not go without food or he can develop feline lipidosis (fatty liver disease) quickly. The A/D is great too, but you will have to get it from the vet. It's VERY smooth, and goes through a syringe quite nicely, although you might have to add just a little water. Please keep us posted on Slinky. Prayers going out for him. If you need anything, just ask. The list is usually pretty quiet over the weekend, and should pick up Monday. I will try to keep checking my email to see if have any more questions. :) Wendy The fish are biting. Get more visitors on your site using Yahoo! Search Marketing. http://searchmarketing.yahoo.com/arp/sponsoredsearch_v2.php
Re: One more thing about Slinky
You can mix the lysine with anything wet, like the baby food. Or just crush it up and mix with water and syringe him. I would not stop the lysine. It's important for his immune system. :) Wendy --- Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: should mention also that with his raw food I mix in L-Lysine, Vitamin C, and Gentle Digest. He won't eat his dry food if I add those things so he's not getting them right now. But he has been getting them for several months. FYI. Thanks! MJ - We won't tell. Get more on shows you hate to love (and love to hate): Yahoo! TV's Guilty Pleasures list. No need to miss a message. Get email on-the-go with Yahoo! Mail for Mobile. Get started. http://mobile.yahoo.com/mail
slinky update
slink is having transfusion now. not sure how he will react but we are trying. a wonderful friend is helping w the bill. sending from my phone so this is brief. will send more details later. i could not feel better about the hospital i an at. they are wonderful and the dr had a pos cat herself. please send positive thoughts and prayers for slink. thanks! Don't pick lemons. See all the new 2007 cars at Yahoo! Autos. http://autos.yahoo.com/new_cars.html
Update on Slinky
Hi all. First of all, thank you SO MUCH for all of your advice, help, and support It's done me worlds of good!! I can't remember what all I've already posted and what I haven't (esp. cuz I've told so many people all the details that it's all getting a bit jumbled), so if some of this is repeat, forgive me. Slinky has never stopped eating entirely. He's been eating his dry Innova Evo like crazy...just wouldn't eat the raw I usually feed him. He's also been drinking quite a bit and using his litter box regularly (and no diarrhea). I got some sub-q fluids at the vet yesterday (they didn't really think it would help but gave them to me anyway), but didn't end up using them. When I went to bed last night his temp was 103.6, so I just syringe-fed him some ice water, wiped him down with a cold washcloth, and opened the window. He ate several times during the night (I had his dish with the dry food on my bed next to my pillow, so I heard him when he started eating, and his water glass - only thing he'd drink out of - is next to my bed), drank, and used the litter box. He felt cool to the touch to me all night (when he's had high fevers, he's usually been very hot) and this morning, so I didn't even take his temp. But, after reading all of your posts about transfusions, anemia, etc. I noted that his gums were VERY pale, and I thought his breathing and heart seemed a bit fast (though I'd never really paid attention before so wasn't sure how abnormal they were), so I decided to take him in this morning. Let me first say that I have the BEST chosen family in the entire universe!! I called my sister this morning because she said she was getting together with the 2 dads (it's complicated but you get the idea) and did I want to come. I called to tell her I couldn't go and why and she recommended I take Slink to a 24 hour animal hospital in DC (she took her dog there and both of the dads took their cats and dogs there as well). So we headed out to see what they could do. I had called the hospital and they said they could do a payment plan. But it turns out that what they have is a credit card you can apply for, but I applied for one through my bank this morning and was denied. The visit alone was going to be $110, but I figured I could at least find out what my options were. When I walked in, I said that my cat had FeLV and was very anemic, his gums were almost white..they came and took him back and started checking him even before they had all my ID info (I figured this was a good sign - they were serious about getting him taken care of!). When we got there, his temp was 106!!! That's the highest it's ever been! I gave them the results from the clinic on Wed (the ones I posted earlier) and they ran a PCV. They said his RBC was at 12 and Wed. it had been at 14...but since they were different machines and different types of tests they were hard to compare but figured the numbers were fairly comparable - at least it wasn't plummeting. They said about the only option was a transfusion and broad-spectrum antibiotics...but for all of that we were looking at probably about $1000 (the transfusion plus overnight stay, tests, etc.). They're a little higher than most because it's a 24 hour hospital, but I figured the other places would end up being about the same with all the tests, etc. The doctor said she had had a cat that was FeLV+ who lived to be about 5 and then got really sick...so I knew that at least she was familiar with the disease and was not going to write him off because of his label. That made me feel TONS better!!! She continued to say that his long-term prognosis is not great, but that it was worth trying the transfusion if I could spend the money. I called my sister in hysterics not at all sure what to do. She came over immediately and said if I wanted to do it, she'd pay for it if necessary. She doesn't have THAT much more money than I do though, so I wasn't crazy about that idea. But while I was waiting for her to come, I had called one of the dads who has 2 cats and recently spent $3500 on surgery for one of them. Despite the fact that he was running a million errands to get ready for a big trip, he said he'd be there in 20 minutes. When he got there, he looked at the estimates, talked to the doctor, and said, we can put it on my card. I said, I don't know when I can pay you back and he just said, we'll figure that out someday. In other words, I can pay him back slowly and he's not going to stress about it. I really considered not doing the transfusion, but Slinky was very alert, was walking around the exam room and looking around like, Hey mom! Let's go home and PLAY! Everyone says that when they're done fighting, they'll tell you and I knew he wasn't done. So we decided to go ahead with the transfusion and I came home. I called when I got here
Re: Update on Slinky
oh Marissa that's awesome!! doesn't it just make your heart overflow to have such loving and generous people around you? Sending GLOW to you , Slinky and the rest of your chosen family:) Barb+Smoky the House Puma+El Bandito Malito My cat the clown: paying no mind to whom he should impress. Merely living his life, doing what pleases him, and making me smile. - Anonymous - Original Message From: Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org; [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Saturday, March 17, 2007 7:53:17 PM Subject: Update on Slinky Hi all. First of all, thank you SO MUCH for all of your advice, help, and support It's done me worlds of good!! I can't remember what all I've already posted and what I haven't (esp. cuz I've told so many people all the details that it's all getting a bit jumbled), so if some of this is repeat, forgive me. Slinky has never stopped eating entirely. He's been eating his dry Innova Evo like crazy...just wouldn't eat the raw I usually feed him. He's also been drinking quite a bit and using his litter box regularly (and no diarrhea). I got some sub-q fluids at the vet yesterday (they didn't really think it would help but gave them to me anyway), but didn't end up using them. When I went to bed last night his temp was 103.6, so I just syringe-fed him some ice water, wiped him down with a cold washcloth, and opened the window. He ate several times during the night (I had his dish with the dry food on my bed next to my pillow, so I heard him when he started eating, and his water glass - only thing he'd drink out of - is next to my bed), drank, and used the litter box. He felt cool to the touch to me all night (when he's had high fevers, he's usually been very hot) and this morning, so I didn't even take his temp. But, after reading all of your posts about transfusions, anemia, etc. I noted that his gums were VERY pale, and I thought his breathing and heart seemed a bit fast (though I'd never really paid attention before so wasn't sure how abnormal they were), so I decided to take him in this morning. Let me first say that I have the BEST chosen family in the entire universe!! I called my sister this morning because she said she was getting together with the 2 dads (it's complicated but you get the idea) and did I want to come. I called to tell her I couldn't go and why and she recommended I take Slink to a 24 hour animal hospital in DC (she took her dog there and both of the dads took their cats and dogs there as well). So we headed out to see what they could do. I had called the hospital and they said they could do a payment plan. But it turns out that what they have is a credit card you can apply for, but I applied for one through my bank this morning and was denied. The visit alone was going to be $110, but I figured I could at least find out what my options were. When I walked in, I said that my cat had FeLV and was very anemic, his gums were almost white..they came and took him back and started checking him even before they had all my ID info (I figured this was a good sign - they were serious about getting him taken care of!). When we got there, his temp was 106!!! That's the highest it's ever been! I gave them the results from the clinic on Wed (the ones I posted earlier) and they ran a PCV. They said his RBC was at 12 and Wed. it had been at 14...but since they were different machines and different types of tests they were hard to compare but figured the numbers were fairly comparable - at least it wasn't plummeting. They said about the only option was a transfusion and broad-spectrum antibiotics...but for all of that we were looking at probably about $1000 (the transfusion plus overnight stay, tests, etc.). They're a little higher than most because it's a 24 hour hospital, but I figured the other places would end up being about the same with all the tests, etc. The doctor said she had had a cat that was FeLV+ who lived to be about 5 and then got really sick...so I knew that at least she was familiar with the disease and was not going to write him off because of his label. That made me feel TONS better!!! She continued to say that his long-term prognosis is not great, but that it was worth trying the transfusion if I could spend the money. I called my sister in hysterics not at all sure what to do. She came over immediately and said if I wanted to do it, she'd pay for it if necessary. She doesn't have THAT much more money than I do though, so I wasn't crazy about that idea. But while I was waiting for her to come, I had called one of the dads who has 2 cats and recently spent $3500 on surgery for one of them. Despite the fact that he was running a million errands to get ready for a big trip, he said he'd be there in 20 minutes. When he got there, he looked at the estimates, talked
Slinky - latest update
Hi again! The hospital just called and said the transfusion is done and he's doing well. HALLELUJAH It took 5 hours - a little longer than usual cuz they went slowly, but it went well. They said his gums are a little pinker and his heart rate and breathing are strong. His temp was a little high (103 - which after 106 is NOTHING!), but they're running an IV with ice water to bring it down. They said he's been munching on his food a bit (yay!) and he has water and they're giving him fluids. He looks good and is stable. :) I told them I might call if I wake up and they gave me the name of the doctor who'll be with him tonight. I told the tech to give him a kiss for me and she said she'd be back in the morning and looks forward to seeing me. Too early to know how much it's helped, but they'll run another CBC in the morning and we'll go from there. I plan to at least stop in on my way to church...and may stay depending on how he's doing. Maybe I could even take him home after church if he's doing well. :) Re: my family. Yes, they are AMAZING My real dad (biological, the one i lived with growing up) does think Im crazy! I haven't told him yet that I did the transfusion but he kept saying that i should save the money for my next cat! GEESH!!! But this chosen dad really gets it and really wanted to help. He's always been there when I've needed him most! I'm just SO RELIEVED to know he's doing well!!! I think I might actually sleep tonight - for the first time in 3 nights! He's a fighter and it looks like he's gonna win this one! I hope it will buy us much more time together, and time to figure out some other strategies. This hospital is incredible - they have 17 vets on staff not counting specialists, techs, and the wellness team! And they really seem on top of the care and are very sensitive to the owners - kept preparing me for seeing him in isolation with a gown on, etc. and made sure to call and update me. So I'm thankful to have a great hospital, incredible family, and one AMAZING furbaby!!! Be encouraged: miracles DO happen! Praise God!! :) Thanks again for all your support! Hang in there everyone. Hugs for all the fur kids! MJ - No need to miss a message. Get email on-the-go with Yahoo! Mail for Mobile. Get started.
Re: Slinky - latest update
Thank you so much for keeping us posted - so glad you have some good news. All good thoughts and prayers to you and Slinky. elizabeth On 3/17/07, Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi again! The hospital just called and said the transfusion is done and he's doing well. HALLELUJAH It took 5 hours - a little longer than usual cuz they went slowly, but it went well. They said his gums are a little pinker and his heart rate and breathing are strong. His temp was a little high (103 - which after 106 is NOTHING!), but they're running an IV with ice water to bring it down. They said he's been munching on his food a bit (yay!) and he has water and they're giving him fluids. He looks good and is stable. :) I told them I might call if I wake up and they gave me the name of the doctor who'll be with him tonight. I told the tech to give him a kiss for me and she said she'd be back in the morning and looks forward to seeing me. Too early to know how much it's helped, but they'll run another CBC in the morning and we'll go from there. I plan to at least stop in on my way to church...and may stay depending on how he's doing. Maybe I could even take him home after church if he's doing well. :) Re: my family. Yes, they are AMAZING My real dad (biological, the one i lived with growing up) does think Im crazy! I haven't told him yet that I did the transfusion but he kept saying that i should save the money for my next cat! GEESH!!! But this chosen dad really gets it and really wanted to help. He's always been there when I've needed him most! I'm just SO RELIEVED to know he's doing well!!! I think I might actually sleep tonight - for the first time in 3 nights! He's a fighter and it looks like he's gonna win this one! I hope it will buy us much more time together, and time to figure out some other strategies. This hospital is incredible - they have 17 vets on staff not counting specialists, techs, and the wellness team! And they really seem on top of the care and are very sensitive to the owners - kept preparing me for seeing him in isolation with a gown on, etc. and made sure to call and update me. So I'm thankful to have a great hospital, incredible family, and one AMAZING furbaby!!! Be encouraged: miracles DO happen! Praise God!! :) Thanks again for all your support! Hang in there everyone. Hugs for all the fur kids! MJ -- No need to miss a message. Get email on-the-go http://us.rd.yahoo.com/evt=43910/*http://mobile.yahoo.com/mail%0A with Yahoo! Mail for Mobile. Get started.http://us.rd.yahoo.com/evt=43910/*http://mobile.yahoo.com/mail%0A
Re: Update on Slinky
I'm so glad you've got some help with this and people who love you and Slinky. hugs and love right back. Keep us posted. elizabeth On 3/17/07, Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all. First of all, thank you SO MUCH for all of your advice, help, and support It's done me worlds of good!! I can't remember what all I've already posted and what I haven't (esp. cuz I've told so many people all the details that it's all getting a bit jumbled), so if some of this is repeat, forgive me. Slinky has never stopped eating entirely. He's been eating his dry Innova Evo like crazy...just wouldn't eat the raw I usually feed him. He's also been drinking quite a bit and using his litter box regularly (and no diarrhea). I got some sub-q fluids at the vet yesterday (they didn't really think it would help but gave them to me anyway), but didn't end up using them. When I went to bed last night his temp was 103.6, so I just syringe-fed him some ice water, wiped him down with a cold washcloth, and opened the window. He ate several times during the night (I had his dish with the dry food on my bed next to my pillow, so I heard him when he started eating, and his water glass - only thing he'd drink out of - is next to my bed), drank, and used the litter box. He felt cool to the touch to me all night (when he's had high fevers, he's usually been very hot) and this morning, so I didn't even take his temp. But, after reading all of your posts about transfusions, anemia, etc. I noted that his gums were VERY pale, and I thought his breathing and heart seemed a bit fast (though I'd never really paid attention before so wasn't sure how abnormal they were), so I decided to take him in this morning. Let me first say that I have the BEST chosen family in the entire universe!! I called my sister this morning because she said she was getting together with the 2 dads (it's complicated but you get the idea) and did I want to come. I called to tell her I couldn't go and why and she recommended I take Slink to a 24 hour animal hospital in DC (she took her dog there and both of the dads took their cats and dogs there as well). So we headed out to see what they could do. I had called the hospital and they said they could do a payment plan. But it turns out that what they have is a credit card you can apply for, but I applied for one through my bank this morning and was denied. The visit alone was going to be $110, but I figured I could at least find out what my options were. When I walked in, I said that my cat had FeLV and was very anemic, his gums were almost white..they came and took him back and started checking him even before they had all my ID info (I figured this was a good sign - they were serious about getting him taken care of!). When we got there, his temp was 106!!! That's the highest it's ever been! I gave them the results from the clinic on Wed (the ones I posted earlier) and they ran a PCV. They said his RBC was at 12 and Wed. it had been at 14...but since they were different machines and different types of tests they were hard to compare but figured the numbers were fairly comparable - at least it wasn't plummeting. They said about the only option was a transfusion and broad-spectrum antibiotics...but for all of that we were looking at probably about $1000 (the transfusion plus overnight stay, tests, etc.). They're a little higher than most because it's a 24 hour hospital, but I figured the other places would end up being about the same with all the tests, etc. The doctor said she had had a cat that was FeLV+ who lived to be about 5 and then got really sick...so I knew that at least she was familiar with the disease and was not going to write him off because of his label. That made me feel TONS better!!! She continued to say that his long-term prognosis is not great, but that it was worth trying the transfusion if I could spend the money. I called my sister in hysterics not at all sure what to do. She came over immediately and said if I wanted to do it, she'd pay for it if necessary. She doesn't have THAT much more money than I do though, so I wasn't crazy about that idea. But while I was waiting for her to come, I had called one of the dads who has 2 cats and recently spent $3500 on surgery for one of them. Despite the fact that he was running a million errands to get ready for a big trip, he said he'd be there in 20 minutes. When he got there, he looked at the estimates, talked to the doctor, and said, we can put it on my card. I said, I don't know when I can pay you back and he just said, we'll figure that out someday. In other words, I can pay him back slowly and he's not going to stress about it. I really considered not doing the transfusion, but Slinky was very alert, was walking around the exam room and looking around like, Hey mom! Let's go home and PLAY! Everyone says that when they're done fighting, they'll tell you and I knew he wasn't done. So we decided
Re: Hello Again - Slinky Sick
How do I get home sub-q fluids? Vet or...? Are those fluids I have to inject or...? His fever seems to be going back up. :( Thanks for the positive energy! MJ [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I'll be sending positive energy for Slinky. I don't have anything to suggest, home sub-q fluids might be helpful if his fever spikes again. Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources - Food fight? Enjoy some healthy debate in the Yahoo! Answers Food Drink QA.
Re: Hello Again - Slinky Sick
the instructions for doing sub-q fluids was just posted on the list the other day--you should be able to search back for them, or someone can repost. most people i know have had their vet show them how to do it the first time, because it seems scary, tho in reality it's an incredibly simple process that can make all the difference in the world to your kitty. may not be able to SAVE them, but can make even the worst times, and times of passage, more comfortable. On 3/16/07, Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: How do I get home sub-q fluids? Vet or...? Are those fluids I have to inject or...? His fever seems to be going back up. :( Thanks for the positive energy! MJ *[EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED]* wrote: I'll be sending positive energy for Slinky. I don't have anything to suggest, home sub-q fluids might be helpful if his fever spikes again. Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources -- Food fight?http://answers.yahoo.com/dir/index;_ylc=X3oDMTFvbGNhMGE3BF9TAzM5NjU0NTEwOARfcwMzOTY1NDUxMDMEc2VjA21haWxfdGFnbGluZQRzbGsDbWFpbF90YWcx?link=asksid=396545367Enjoy some healthy debate in the Yahoo! Answers Food Drink QA.http://answers.yahoo.com/dir/index;_ylc=X3oDMTFvbGNhMGE3BF9TAzM5NjU0NTEwOARfcwMzOTY1NDUxMDMEc2VjA21haWxfdGFnbGluZQRzbGsDbWFpbF90YWcx?link=asksid=396545367 -- Spay Neuter Your Neighbors! Maybe That'll Make The Difference MaryChristine AIM / YAHOO: TenHouseCats MSN: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ICQ: 289856892
One more thing about Slinky
should mention also that with his raw food I mix in L-Lysine, Vitamin C, and Gentle Digest. He won't eat his dry food if I add those things so he's not getting them right now. But he has been getting them for several months. FYI. Thanks! MJ - We won't tell. Get more on shows you hate to love (and love to hate): Yahoo! TV's Guilty Pleasures list.
Hello Again - Slinky Sick
Hi all. I'm so sorry I haven't been able to keep up with the listserv. I've been overwhelmed with work and life...and everything kind of got away from me! For any who've lost kitties or whose fur babies are sick, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Please send thoughts and prayers to Slinky. Last week he peed in my bed twice. I thought it was just behavioral...until Saturday when I noticed he was really lethargic. Sunday morning I took his temp and it was 104.6. I took him to the vet and they said he was a bit dehydrated and gave him a shot of saline and a shot of clavamox. Sent me home with 2 rounds of Clavamox - 1cc twice a day. I thought he was doing better...but yesterday when I came home from work, I sat down on my bed and watched while he sat on a duffle bag I had on the floor and peed all over it. I took his temp and it was 105.3! I called a friend who's a vet tech and she recommended wrapping him with a cold water bottle and syringe feeding him ice water. That brought it down to 105.1, but we knew he needed to go in. So I took him to the emergency clinic. By the time we got there, his temp was 105.6! They did a urinalysis and a complete blood count. Results said he has a UTI (no surprise there) and that his FeLV is now full-blown. He's very anemic, his red blood cell count is down, everything was low. They gave him some more fluids and a shot of Baytril and sent me home w/ 5 days' worth of Baytril (to give in addition to the Clavamox). The doctor said the Baytril might buy him some time, but that his time is limited. She said the only other option would be a transfusion which I can't afford (though I'm not sure I'd put him through that even if I could afford it). I spent just about all the money I've got on last night's appointment. This morning his temp was down to 100.6. He was quiet most of the day, but that's pretty normal. I stayed home with him, but he wasn't in the mood to cuddle (which is very unusual) or to play. I went out to dinner and just came back to find him feeling warm. I took his temp and it's 103.8. I just gave him his abx and some ice water and opened the window (I figured sitting in the open window sill last night probably helped with his temp). I've been feeding him raw (Nature's Variety) for several months now. But he's refusing to eat his raw food. He will lick off treats if I crumble them on top and he took about 2 bites when I tried to hand-feed them. He will eat his dry food (go figure!) - Innova Evo - but not a ton of it. He's drinking some (only from glasses next to my bed, not from his dish!). The doctor last night said his hydration was fine. Does anyone have any suggestions??? I am a WRECK I'm trying hard to hold it togehter for him...but it's not working. He's my only kitty and he's my baby!!! He's not even a year yet and I've only had him 7 months!!! I don't know what I'll do without him! Any suggestions/prayers/support would be most appreciated!!! Thanks for being here! And I'm sorry again I haven't done better at keeping up with everyone. Love to you and your fur babies! MJ - Now that's room service! Choose from over 150,000 hotels in 45,000 destinations on Yahoo! Travel to find your fit.
Re: Hello Again - Slinky Sick
I'll be sending positive energy for Slinky. I don't have anything to suggest, home sub-q fluids might be helpful if his fever spikes again. Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources
Re: How did Slinky do?
Awesome!!! Makes coming home all the more sweet! I'm so happy for both of you! :) Wendy --- Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Thanks, Wendy! I got home last night, and he did in fact do fantastic!! He ate just fine, he played with my coworker a lot, and he didn't get sick or anything. When I first walked in the door, I told him I was home and then i heard this big clunk., He had knocked a picture frame off the ledge down onto the staircase...right in front of me!! I thought maybe he was mad!! :( But when I got upstairs, after a minute he let me pick himi up and he was VERY cuddly and purring like mad! We played for a bit...and I gave him one of the new toys I brought him (one of those plastic mesh balls with a bell in it)...and he loved it! Then during the night, he kept coming up to cuddle. He did start playing in the middle of the night and I had to lock him out of the bedroom so I could sleep...and he cried! But this morning when I let him back in, he came up and kept nuzzling my face and wanting kisses. So...all in all everything went really well and he still loves me! Thanks for all your support and positive thoughts and prayers!! I know it helped! The conference I was at also went INCREDIBLY well. So it was a great weekend! I hope you're all doing well. I have quite a bit of catching up to do with your messages, but...my prayers and love are with you! Take care everyone! MJ (and Slinky!) wendy [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi Marissa, I was wondering how Slinky did while you were gone? I just read your post, so it's a little late for prayer, but I am hoping he did fantastic! :) Wendy __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com - Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check it out. __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com
Re: How did Slinky do?
Thanks, Wendy! I got home last night, and he did in fact do fantastic!!He ate just fine, he played with my coworker a lot, and he didn't get sick or anything.When I first walked in the door, I told him I was home and then i heard this big "clunk.," He had knocked a picture frame off the "ledge" down onto the staircase...right in front of me!! I thought maybe he was mad!! :(But when I got upstairs, after a minute he let me pick himi up and he was VERY cuddly and purring like mad! We played for a bit...and I gave him one of the new toys I brought him (one of those plastic mesh balls with a bell in it)...and he loved it!Then during the night, he kept coming up to cuddle. He did start playing in the middle of the night and I had to lock him out of the bedroom so I could sleep...and he cried! But this morning when I let him back in, he came up and kept nuzzling my face and wanting kisses. So...all in all everything went really well and he still loves me! Thanks for all your support and positive thoughts and prayers!! I know it helped! The conference I was at also went INCREDIBLY well. So it was a great weekend!I hope you're all doing well. I have quite a bit of catching up to do with your messages, but...my prayers and love are with you! Take care everyone!MJ (and Slinky!)wendy [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi Marissa,I was wondering how Slinky did while you were gone? Ijust read your post, so it's a little late for prayer,but I am hoping he did fantastic! :)Wendy__Do You Yahoo!?Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check it out.
How did Slinky do?
Hi Marissa, I was wondering how Slinky did while you were gone? I just read your post, so it's a little late for prayer, but I am hoping he did fantastic! :) Wendy __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com
RE: Positive Thoughts for Slinky (and his Mom)
Title: Message Sounds like you have made excellent arrangements, Marissa---Slinky will be fine! Wishing you a carefree and successful trip. Would that everyone in this world cared as much about their pets. Kerry -Original Message-From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Marissa JohnsonSent: Thursday, August 24, 2006 11:11 AMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Positive Thoughts for Slinky (and his Mom) Hi all. I can't believe I'm even sending this considering that Slinky is asymptomatic and seems to be fine...and as compared to the struggles you all have, this is such a tiny matter! But...I could use your positive thoughts anyway. I'm going out of town tomorrow for about 4 days (leaving tomorrow morning, returning monday night)...and I am S nervous about leaving Slinky! This will be the first time I've ever left him overnight!! One of my coworkers is going to come in every day and feed him, play with him, and clean out his litter box. I've gone through everything with her and she loves animals. I'm leaving his dry food and water in automatic feeders (also the first time for using those) and she will give him canned food when she comes. I'm sure everything will be fine, but...I'm kind of freaking out! I'm worried that he'll get into something, get sick, or that he'll just hate me for leaving him! Last weekend, my boyfriend and his sister were here. He and I went to a movie and his sister told me Slinky sat near the door and cried for about 15 minutes until she went and told him she was still there. And yesterday when I left for work, I could hear him meowing behind the door after I left! :( Really, I KNOW this isn't a big deal and I know there are so many other problems I could be dealing with. But I would still appreciate your positive thoughts and prayers...for Slinky AND for me!! I'll be at a conference where I'm speaking several times and kind of need to be "on" so I don't want to be too worried. And I just hope he'll still love me after I get back! I'm sure I sound mellow-dramatic, but since he's my first pet as an adult, and this is the first time I've left him, I'm just...worried. Thanks for all your support and for understanding!!! I hope you and all you kitties are doing well!! MJ Get your email and more, right on the new Yahoo.com IRS CIRCULAR 230 NOTICE. Any advice expressed above as to tax matters was neither written nor intended by the sender or Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP to be used and cannot be used by any taxpayer for the purpose of avoiding tax penalties that may be imposed under U.S. tax law. If any person uses or refers to any such tax advice in promoting, marketing or recommending a partnership or other entity, investment plan or arrangement to any taxpayer, then (i) the advice was written to support the promotion or marketing (by a person other than Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP) of that transaction or matter, and (ii) such taxpayer should seek advice based on the taxpayers particular circumstances from an independent tax advisor This email and any files transmitted with it are intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are addressed. If you have received this email in error please notify the system manager. If you are not the named addressee you should not disseminate, distribute or copy this e-mail.
Re: Positive Thoughts for Slinky (and his Mom)
Thanks Kat!! I'm at the conference hotel now...and doing okay. I did talk to Slinky and told him I'd be back. He still looked sad when I left this morning, but I just kept reassuring him that I love him and I'll be back. I'm sure he'll be fine.Thanks for the tips...and the hugs!!!Have a great weekend!MJKat [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi MJ,Slinky will be just fine, and will welcome you back with hugs and kittykisses!! Talk to him now, as if he understands words, and tell him whatis going on, and when you'll be back, and that you'll bring him back akitty present, etc. By talking to him out loud you will be able to relaxmore about your trip, and he WILL understand that you are not going toabandon him. The more you relax, the less worried he will be. It soundslike you have everything covered. Just leave your number (and your vet'snumber) with your co-worker, and maybe call your vet to let them know whowill be watching Slinky for you, so that they have that info on file. I'msending you hugs. Have a safe trip.Kat (Mew Jersey)On Thu, 24 Aug 2006, Marissa Johnson wrote: Date: Thu, 24 Aug 2006 09:10:30 -0700 (PDT) From: Marissa Johnson <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Positive Thoughts for Slinky (and his Mom) Hi all. I can't believe I'm even sending this considering that Slinky is asymptomatic and seems to be fine...and as compared to the struggles you all have, this is such a tiny matter! But...I could use your positive thoughts anyway. I'm going out of town tomorrow for about 4 days (leaving tomorrow morning, returning monday night)...and I am S nervous about leaving Slinky! This will be the first time I've ever left him overnight!! One of my coworkers is going to come in every day and feed him, play with him, and clean out his litter box. I've gone through everything with her and she loves animals. I'm leaving his dry food and water in automatic feeders (also the first time for using those) and she will give him canned food when she comes. I'm sure everything will be fine, but...I'm kind of freaking out! I'm worried that he'll get into something, get sick, or that he'll just hate me for leaving him! Last weekend, my boyfriend and his sister were here. He and I went to a movie and his sister told me Slinky sat near the door and cried for about 15 minutes until she went and told him she was still there. And yesterday when I left for work, I could hear him meowing behind the door after I left! :( Really, I KNOW this isn't a big deal and I know there are so many other problems I could be dealing with. But I would still appreciate your positive thoughts and prayers...for Slinky AND for me!! I'll be at a conference where I'm speaking several times and kind of need to be "on" so I don't want to be too worried. And I just hope he'll still love me after I get back! I'm sure I sound mellow-dramatic, but since he's my first pet as an adult, and this is the first time I've left him, I'm just...worried. Thanks for all your support and for understanding!!! I hope you and all you kitties are doing well!! MJ - Get your email and more, right on the new Yahoo.com Get your email and more, right on the new Yahoo.com
Re: Positive Thoughts for Slinky (and his Mom)
Hey Tonya! Thanks for the reassurance. I am planning on getting another cat, but I thought I should wait until after we retest Slinky so I'm sure of his felv status (and then can get a pos or neg cat depending on the results). The vet wants to wait a few more months before retesting. Yes, I know how it is dealing with principals! It can be horrible...which is so sad since they're supposed to be supportive and helpful!! Glad to hear HR gave you your day back, though. Good luck with the rest of the year! Thanks!MJcatatonya [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:It's always hard to leave them, but sometimes you have to. It sounds like you've done everything you can to make Slinky comfortable while you're gone. I'm sure he'll be fine. Have you thought about getting another cat so he won't be alone when you're not home?tonyaMarissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:Hi all. I can't believe I'm even sending this considering that Slinky is asymptomatic and seems to be fine...and as compared to the struggles you all have, this is such a tiny matter! But...I could use your positive thoughts anyway.I'm going out of town tomorrow for about 4 days (leaving tomorrow morning, returning monday night)...and I am S nervous about leaving Slinky! This will be the first time I've ever left him overnight!! One of my coworkers is going to come in every day and feed him, play with him, and clean out his litter box. I've gone through everything with her and she loves animals. I'm leaving his dry food and water in automatic feeders (also the first time for using those) and she will give him canned food when she comes. I'm sure everything will be fine, but...I'm kind of freaking out!I'm worried that he'll get into something, get sick, or that he'll just hate me for leaving him! Last weekend, my boyfriend and his sister were here. He and I went to a movie and his sister told me Slinky sat near the door and cried for about 15 minutes until she went and told him she was still there. And yesterday when I left for work, I could hear him meowing behind the door after I left! :(Really, I KNOW this isn't a big deal and I know there are so many other problems I could be dealing with. But I would still appreciate your positive thoughts and prayers...for Slinky AND for me!! I'll be at a conference where I'm speaking several times and kind of need to be "on" so I don't want to be too worried. And I just hope he'll still love me after I get back!I'm sure I sound mellow-dramatic, but since he's my first pet as an adult, and this is the first time I've left him, I'm just...worried. Thanks for all your support and for understanding!!!I hope you and all you kitties are doing well!!MJ Get your email and more, right on the new Yahoo.com Get your own web address for just $1.99/1st yr. We'll help. Yahoo! Small Business.
Positive Thoughts for Slinky (and his Mom)
Hi all. I can't believe I'm even sending this considering that Slinky is asymptomatic and seems to be fine...and as compared to the struggles you all have, this is such a tiny matter! But...I could use your positive thoughts anyway.I'm going out of town tomorrow for about 4 days (leaving tomorrow morning, returning monday night)...and I am S nervous about leaving Slinky! This will be the first time I've ever left him overnight!! One of my coworkers is going to come in every day and feed him, play with him, and clean out his litter box. I've gone through everything with her and she loves animals. I'm leaving his dry food and water in automatic feeders (also the first time for using those) and she will give him canned food when she comes. I'm sure everything will be fine, but...I'm kind of freaking out!I'm worried that he'll get into something, get sick, or that he'll just hate me for leaving him! Last weekend, my boyfriend and his sister were here. He and I went to a movie and his sister told me Slinky sat near the door and cried for about 15 minutes until she went and told him she was still there. And yesterday when I left for work, I could hear him meowing behind the door after I left! :(Really, I KNOW this isn't a big deal and I know there are so many other problems I could be dealing with. But I would still appreciate your positive thoughts and prayers...for Slinky AND for me!! I'll be at a conference where I'm speaking several times and kind of need to be "on" so I don't want to be too worried. And I just hope he'll still love me after I get back!I'm sure I sound mellow-dramatic, but since he's my first pet as an adult, and this is the first time I've left him, I'm just...worried. Thanks for all your support and for understanding!!!I hope you and all you kitties are doing well!!MJ Get your email and more, right on the new Yahoo.com
Re: Positive Thoughts for Slinky (and his Mom)
Hi MJ, Slinky will be just fine, and will welcome you back with hugs and kitty kisses!! Talk to him now, as if he understands words, and tell him what is going on, and when you'll be back, and that you'll bring him back a kitty present, etc. By talking to him out loud you will be able to relax more about your trip, and he WILL understand that you are not going to abandon him. The more you relax, the less worried he will be. It sounds like you have everything covered. Just leave your number (and your vet's number) with your co-worker, and maybe call your vet to let them know who will be watching Slinky for you, so that they have that info on file. I'm sending you stay strong focused hugs. Have a safe trip. Kat (Mew Jersey) On Thu, 24 Aug 2006, Marissa Johnson wrote: Date: Thu, 24 Aug 2006 09:10:30 -0700 (PDT) From: Marissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Positive Thoughts for Slinky (and his Mom) Hi all. I can't believe I'm even sending this considering that Slinky is asymptomatic and seems to be fine...and as compared to the struggles you all have, this is such a tiny matter! But...I could use your positive thoughts anyway. I'm going out of town tomorrow for about 4 days (leaving tomorrow morning, returning monday night)...and I am S nervous about leaving Slinky! This will be the first time I've ever left him overnight!! One of my coworkers is going to come in every day and feed him, play with him, and clean out his litter box. I've gone through everything with her and she loves animals. I'm leaving his dry food and water in automatic feeders (also the first time for using those) and she will give him canned food when she comes. I'm sure everything will be fine, but...I'm kind of freaking out! I'm worried that he'll get into something, get sick, or that he'll just hate me for leaving him! Last weekend, my boyfriend and his sister were here. He and I went to a movie and his sister told me Slinky sat near the door and cried for about 15 minutes until she went and told him she was still there. And yesterday when I left for work, I could hear him meowing behind the door after I left! :( Really, I KNOW this isn't a big deal and I know there are so many other problems I could be dealing with. But I would still appreciate your positive thoughts and prayers...for Slinky AND for me!! I'll be at a conference where I'm speaking several times and kind of need to be on so I don't want to be too worried. And I just hope he'll still love me after I get back! I'm sure I sound mellow-dramatic, but since he's my first pet as an adult, and this is the first time I've left him, I'm just...worried. Thanks for all your support and for understanding!!! I hope you and all you kitties are doing well!! MJ - Get your email and more, right on the new Yahoo.com
Re: Positive Thoughts for Slinky (and his Mom)
It's always hard to leave them, but sometimes you have to. It sounds like you've done everything you can to make Slinky comfortable while you're gone. I'm sure he'll be fine. Have you thought about getting another cat so he won't be alone when you're not home?tonyaMarissa Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:Hi all. I can't believe I'm even sending this considering that Slinky is asymptomatic and seems to be fine...and as compared to the struggles you all have, this is such a tiny matter! But...I could use your positive thoughts anyway.I'm going out of town tomorrow for about 4 days (leaving tomorrow morning, returning monday night)...and I am S nervous about leaving Slinky! This will be the first time I've ever left him overnight!! One of my coworkers is going to come in every day and feed him, play with him, and clean out his litter box. I've gone through everything with her and she loves animals. I'm leaving his dry food and water in automatic feeders (also the first time for using those) and she will give him canned food when she comes. I'm sure everything will be fine, but...I'm kind of freaking out!I'm worried that he'll get into something, get sick, or that he'll just hate me for leaving him! Last weekend, my boyfriend and his sister were here. He and I went to a movie and his sister told me Slinky sat near the door and cried for about 15 minutes until she went and told him she was still there. And yesterday when I left for work, I could hear him meowing behind the door after I left! :(Really, I KNOW this isn't a big deal and I know there are so many other problems I could be dealing with. But I would still appreciate your positive thoughts and prayers...for Slinky AND for me!! I'll be at a conference where I'm speaking several times and kind of need to be "on" so I don't want to be too worried. And I just hope he'll still love me after I get back!I'm sure I sound mellow-dramatic, but since he's my first pet as an adult, and this is the first time I've left him, I'm just...worried. Thanks for all your support and for understanding!!!I hope you and all you kitties are doing well!!MJ Get your email and more, right on the new Yahoo.com
RE: Slinky Update: Good News
Slinky is a GREAT boy. Congratulations on such a good vet visit. Diane R. From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Marissa JohnsonSent: Wednesday, August 02, 2006 7:13 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Slinky Update: Good News Hi again all. Just thought I'd let you know that all is well with Slinky. I went up to get his meds today and decided to take him with to have them weigh him. He's actually gained about 1/2 a pound, maybe a little more since I was last there a week and a half ago. And the nurse looked at him and said he looked perfect. :) She also cleaned out his ears (which were quitegoopy since I've been giving him mitricide). The doctor even came out and talked with me a bit (he didn't think the chemicals used for the roaches would be a problem for him since they're not for other cats...said they tend not to affect mammals much). He also gave him the first of the 2 Drontal tablets so I wouldn't have to try to get him to take it. So that was helpful!!! My baby did GREAT. Didn't even make much noise in the car and didn't flinch at all when they cleaned his ears and gave him the pill. Such a good boy!!! I told both the nurse and the vet about this group so that if they have others who have positive cats, they can pass on the info. The nurse was thrilled...and shocked to hear that some vets recommend immediate euthanasia. The doctor was already familiar with the site. He said that there's really nothing you can do to boost his immune system, but that nothing I did would hurt him (not a great response, but ok). But he kept reiterating that he has every chance of having a normal life expectancy and staying healthy...or of testing negative in a few months. So that was helpful! I told him I was going to keep up with the natural food, supplements, etc. so that at least I'd feel like I was doing something to help him. Anyway...just thought I'd share. Thanks for all your help with trying to figure out his weight and "bonyness" issues. I appreciate it!!! MJ See the all-new, redesigned Yahoo.com. Check it out. This electronic mail transmission and any attachments are confidential and may be privileged. They should be read or retained only by the intended recipient. If you have received this transmission in error, please notify the sender immediately and delete the transmission from your system. In addition, in order to comply with Treasury Circular 230, we are required to inform you that unless we have specifically stated to the contrary in writing, any advice we provide in this email or any attachment concerning federal tax issues or submissions is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, to avoid federal tax penalties.
RE: Slinky Update: Good News
Title: Message Great news about Slinky! Re: He said that there's really nothing you can do to boost his immune system, I guess if he's right what we're doing is trying to make sure it's not further depressed? -Original Message-From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Marissa JohnsonSent: Wednesday, August 02, 2006 7:13 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Slinky Update: Good News Hi again all. Just thought I'd let you know that all is well with Slinky. I went up to get his meds today and decided to take him with to have them weigh him. He's actually gained about 1/2 a pound, maybe a little more since I was last there a week and a half ago. And the nurse looked at him and said he looked perfect. :) She also cleaned out his ears (which were quitegoopy since I've been giving him mitricide). The doctor even came out and talked with me a bit (he didn't think the chemicals used for the roaches would be a problem for him since they're not for other cats...said they tend not to affect mammals much). He also gave him the first of the 2 Drontal tablets so I wouldn't have to try to get him to take it. So that was helpful!!! My baby did GREAT. Didn't even make much noise in the car and didn't flinch at all when they cleaned his ears and gave him the pill. Such a good boy!!! I told both the nurse and the vet about this group so that if they have others who have positive cats, they can pass on the info. The nurse was thrilled...and shocked to hear that some vets recommend immediate euthanasia. The doctor was already familiar with the site. He said that there's really nothing you can do to boost his immune system, but that nothing I did would hurt him (not a great response, but ok). But he kept reiterating that he has every chance of having a normal life expectancy and staying healthy...or of testing negative in a few months. So that was helpful! I told him I was going to keep up with the natural food, supplements, etc. so that at least I'd feel like I was doing something to help him. Anyway...just thought I'd share. Thanks for all your help with trying to figure out his weight and "bonyness" issues. I appreciate it!!! MJ See the all-new, redesigned Yahoo.com. Check it out. IRS CIRCULAR 230 NOTICE. Any advice expressed above as to tax matters was neither written nor intended by the sender or Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP to be used and cannot be used by any taxpayer for the purpose of avoiding tax penalties that may be imposed under U.S. tax law. If any person uses or refers to any such tax advice in promoting, marketing or recommending a partnership or other entity, investment plan or arrangement to any taxpayer, then (i) the advice was written to support the promotion or marketing (by a person other than Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP) of that transaction or matter, and (ii) such taxpayer should seek advice based on the taxpayers particular circumstances from an independent tax advisor This email and any files transmitted with it are intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are addressed. If you have received this email in error please notify the system manager. If you are not the named addressee you should not disseminate, distribute or copy this e-mail.
Re: Slinky Update: Good News (boosting the immune system)
Of course you can boost the immune system! What he means is there is nothing that he believes will boost the immune system. Which is still a ludicrous statement. What about the use of immune boosters for human cancer patients? What about Vita supplements?? What's that? A multi million dollar hoax, built on the placebo effect?? Anytime I've asked a specialist, esp a surgeon about supplements and immune boosters, their eyes kind of glaze over. That's one of the problems with the medical world vs. the "real" world. They are very reluctant to give credence to anything that has not been clinically proven. They aren't that interested, usually, in anequdotal success stories. They want hard, validated proof that something works before they feel comfortable recommending it to others, (and very few are willing to fund costly studies unless there's the hope of a pot of gold sitting at the end of it). The best I can get out of most of them is "Well, I guess it couldn't hurt". How many times do we have to prove the "experts" wrong before we stop listening to them nay say? Nina MacKenzie, Kerry N. wrote: Message Great news about Slinky! Re: He said that there's really nothing you can do to boost his immune system, I guess if he's right what we're doing is trying to make sure it's not further depressed?
Re: Slinky Update: Good News (boosting the immune system)
Yep, Nina. That's exactly what he meant! And that's exactly what I got out of him: "Nothing you do will hurt him." I completely agree with you. We know about the positive effects of supplements and vitamins for humans (otherwise why would OB's tell pregnant women to take PRENATAL vitamins, why did my dr. tell me to take folic acid), so why would it be so different for other animals? But...I guess what he doesn't believe won't hurt him! lol Actually, though, it can. But at least he does believe he could throw it off or live a full and healthy life even with a pos test. And I'm certainly not going to listen to him...I believe diet and sups, etc. will help my Slink. It is frustrating though!!!MarissaNina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Of course you can boost the immune system! What he means is there is nothing that he believes will boost the immune system. Which is still a ludicrous statement. What about the use of immune boosters for human cancer patients? What about Vita supplements?? What's that? A multi million dollar hoax, built on the placebo effect?? Anytime I've asked a specialist, esp a surgeon about supplements and immune boosters, their eyes kind of glaze over. That's one of the problems with the medical world vs. the "real" world. They are very reluctant to give credence to anything that has not been clinically proven. They aren't that interested, usually, in anequdotal success stories. They want hard, validated proof that something works before they feel comfortable recommending it to others, (and very few are willing to fund costly studies unless there's the hope of a pot of gold sitting at the end of it). The best I can get out of most of them is "Well, I guess it couldn't hurt". How many times do we have to prove the "experts" wrong before we stop listening to them nay say?NinaMacKenzie, Kerry N. wrote: Great news about Slinky! Re: He said that there's really nothing you can do to boost his immune system, I guess if he's right what we're doing is trying to make sure it's not further depressed? Do you Yahoo!? Everyone is raving about the all-new Yahoo! Mail Beta.
RE: Slinky Update: Good News (boosting the immune system)
Title: Message Thanks Nina! -Original Message-From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of NinaSent: Thursday, August 03, 2006 11:33 AMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Re: Slinky Update: Good News (boosting the immune system)Of course you can boost the immune system! What he means is there is nothing that he believes will boost the immune system. Which is still a ludicrous statement. What about the use of immune boosters for human cancer patients? What about Vita supplements?? What's that? A multi million dollar hoax, built on the placebo effect?? Anytime I've asked a specialist, esp a surgeon about supplements and immune boosters, their eyes kind of glaze over. That's one of the problems with the medical world vs. the "real" world. They are very reluctant to give credence to anything that has not been clinically proven. They aren't that interested, usually, in anequdotal success stories. They want hard, validated proof that something works before they feel comfortable recommending it to others, (and very few are willing to fund costly studies unless there's the hope of a pot of gold sitting at the end of it). The best I can get out of most of them is "Well, I guess it couldn't hurt". How many times do we have to prove the "experts" wrong before we stop listening to them nay say?NinaMacKenzie, Kerry N. wrote: Great news about Slinky! Re: He said that there's really nothing you can do to boost his immune system, I guess if he's right what we're doing is trying to make sure it's not further depressed? IRS CIRCULAR 230 NOTICE. Any advice expressed above as to tax matters was neither written nor intended by the sender or Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP to be used and cannot be used by any taxpayer for the purpose of avoiding tax penalties that may be imposed under U.S. tax law. If any person uses or refers to any such tax advice in promoting, marketing or recommending a partnership or other entity, investment plan or arrangement to any taxpayer, then (i) the advice was written to support the promotion or marketing (by a person other than Mayer, Brown, Rowe Maw LLP) of that transaction or matter, and (ii) such taxpayer should seek advice based on the taxpayers particular circumstances from an independent tax advisor This email and any files transmitted with it are intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are addressed. If you have received this email in error please notify the system manager. If you are not the named addressee you should not disseminate, distribute or copy this e-mail.
RE: Slinky Update: Good News
Great news MJ! Good for Slinky! About your vet's immunity statment: tell that vet I asked if he'd personally do an experiment with L-lyine on some symptomatic feline herpes kitties (test group vs. non-test group) and then tell me that you can't boost their immune systems! If you can boost our immune systems, why couldn't you boost an animal's? Isn't that what different HIV+ patients are doing when they take anti-virals and other meds??? I can't believe he made that statment. Sorry about the vent. Again, so happy for Slinky! :) Wendy From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Marissa Johnson Sent: Wednesday, August 02, 2006 7:13 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Slinky Update: Good News Hi again all. Just thought I'd let you know that all is well with Slinky. I went up to get his meds today and decided to take him with to have them weigh him. He's actually gained about 1/2 a pound, maybe a little more since I was last there a week and a half ago. And the nurse looked at him and said he looked perfect. :) She also cleaned out his ears (which were quite goopy since I've been giving him mitricide). The doctor even came out and talked with me a bit (he didn't think the chemicals used for the roaches would be a problem for him since they're not for other cats...said they tend not to affect mammals much). He also gave him the first of the 2 Drontal tablets so I wouldn't have to try to get him to take it. So that was helpful!!! My baby did GREAT. Didn't even make much noise in the car and didn't flinch at all when they cleaned his ears and gave him the pill. Such a good boy!!! I told both the nurse and the vet about this group so that if they have others who have positive cats, they can pass on the info. The nurse was thrilled...and shocked to hear that some vets recommend immediate euthanasia. The doctor was already familiar with the site. He said that there's really nothing you can do to boost his immune system, but that nothing I did would hurt him (not a great response, but ok). But he kept reiterating that he has every chance of having a normal life expectancy and staying healthy...or of testing negative in a few months. So that was helpful! I told him I was going to keep up with the natural food, supplements, etc. so that at least I'd feel like I was doing something to help him. Anyway...just thought I'd share. Thanks for all your help with trying to figure out his weight and bonyness issues. I appreciate it!!! MJ See the all-new, redesigned Yahoo.com. Check it out. http://us.rd.yahoo.com/evt=40762/*http://www.yahoo.com/preview This electronic mail transmission and any attachments are confidential and may be privileged. They should be read or retained only by the intended recipient. If you have received this transmission in error, please notify the sender immediately and delete the transmission from your system. In addition, in order to comply with Treasury Circular 230, we are required to inform you that unless we have specifically stated to the contrary in writing, any advice we provide in this email or any attachment concerning federal tax issues or submissions is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, to avoid federal tax penalties. __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com
Slinky Update: Good News
Hi again all. Just thought I'd let you know that all is well with Slinky. I went up to get his meds today and decided to take him with to have them weigh him. He's actually gained about 1/2 a pound, maybe a little more since I was last there a week and a half ago. And the nurse looked at him and said he looked perfect. :) She also cleaned out his ears (which were quitegoopy since I've been giving him mitricide). The doctor even came out and talked with me a bit (he didn't think the chemicals used for the roaches would be a problem for him since they're not for other cats...said they tend not to affect mammals much). He also gave him the first of the 2 Drontal tablets so I wouldn't have to try to get him to take it. So that was helpful!!!My baby did GREAT. Didn't even make much noise in the car and didn't flinch at all when they cleaned his ears and gave him the pill. Such a good boy!!!I told both the nurse and the vet about this group so that if they have others who have positive cats, they can pass on the info. The nurse was thrilled...and shocked to hear that some vets recommend immediate euthanasia. The doctor was already familiar with the site. He said that there's really nothing you can do to boost his immune system, but that nothing I did would hurt him (not a great response, but ok). But he kept reiterating that he has every chance of having a normal life expectancy and staying healthy...or of testing negative in a few months. So that was helpful! I told him I was going to keep up with the natural food, supplements, etc. so that at least I'd feel like I was doing something to help him. Anyway...just thought I'd share. Thanks for all your help with trying to figure out his weight and "bonyness" issues. I appreciate it!!! MJ See the all-new, redesigned Yahoo.com. Check it out.
Re: Slinky Update: Good News
This is such good news! Thank you for the update. Please give Slinky a big kitty kiss from me and the kids. elizabeth In a message dated 8/2/2006 5:13:02 P.M. Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Hi again all. Just thought I'd let you know that all is well with Slinky. I went up to get his meds today and decided to take him with to have them weigh him. He's actually gained about 1/2 a pound, maybe a little more since I was last there a week and a half ago. And the nurse looked at him and said he looked perfect. :) She also cleaned out his ears (which were quitegoopy since I've been giving him mitricide). The doctor even came out and talked with me a bit (he didn't think the chemicals used for the roaches would be a problem for him since they're not for other cats...said they tend not to affect mammals much). He also gave him the first of the 2 Drontal tablets so I wouldn't have to try to get him to take it. So that was helpful!!! My baby did GREAT. Didn't even make much noise in the car and didn't flinch at all when they cleaned his ears and gave him the pill. Such a good boy!!! I told both the nurse and the vet about this group so that if they have others who have positive cats, they can pass on the info. The nurse was thrilled...and shocked to hear that some vets recommend immediate euthanasia. The doctor was already familiar with the site. He said that there's really nothing you can do to boost his immune system, but that nothing I did would hurt him (not a great response, but ok). But he kept reiterating that he has every chance of having a normal life expectancy and staying healthy...or of testing negative in a few months. So that was helpful! I told him I was going to keep up with the natural food, supplements, etc. so that at least I'd feel like I was doing something to help him. Anyway...just thought I'd share. Thanks for all your help with trying to figure out his weight and "bonyness" issues. I appreciate it!!! MJ
