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I hope this situation has given you much more knowledge and I wish you the best with your social work experience. You are a very good coach
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There's no need for excessive guilt. Contact the appropriate people, do the right thing, and remember this for future. No one is interested in whipping you for a mistake. This wasn't the best choice you could've made, but recognition
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how do you unsubscribe from a topic?
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I see what I have done. I have been writing in this topic, to y'all, instead of talking to parents, and other people. And I am sorry for not taking care of the solution correctly, even after multiple people have redirected me. Obviously I
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going to agree with jayde above. From the OP's very first post, it is evident that he has a lack of understanding on how mental health, family structures, and the interactions of outside stimuli tend to interact together. he disregards
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I'm becoming very troubled by what I'm reading here, on multiple angles.First, I'm troubled because if the abuse is deeper and more widespread than we thought, and isn't just external bullying (which is way more than enough on its own
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So, I sent the sister the topic. Now all of that strength is gone, and she wants to do nothing but help her brother. I am telling her that these opinions are before her and I started talking, but it isn't working. So, what do I do now? Her
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So, I sent the sister the topic. Now all of that strength is gone, and she wants to do nothing but help her brother. I am telling her that these opinions are before her and I started talking, but it isn't working. So, what do I do now? Her
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just replied
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I seem to post here a lot, so I sent you a pm.
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Ok. I need to say something, and it is going to be said now. Him and his parents are going to a bad place. I dont' know where they will end up going, but they will not be going to a good place. And anyone who is talking about getting him
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Ok. I am talking with the sister. By the way, I double checked that my friend and this sister are not the same person. My mind wanted me to make sure that they were different people before I continue. And they are. This sister has no idea
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Ok. I am talking with the sister. By the way, I double checked that my frienAnd they are. This sister has no idea what wrong and right is, she doesn't know what aoptions are avilable. This is truely dad. The brother does physically abuse
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Wow.. This has me properly fired up.. LOL. I can definitely feel where you're coming from, as I'm extremely hotheaded and quick-tempered. Things like this are what drive me up the GODDAMN WALL.. I also don't care about the hole idea of &qu
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All of the messages in post 1 ar every single one he has sent. So they were not lost, however since I am the main carrier of them, technically I tampered with it. Now onto more news, the friend is now in contact with the sister. She asked
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Turtlepower, I'm not advocating a light touch. Not at all. When you do bad things, you need to face consequences. I'm totally behind that. Having this boy suffer consequences for his actions is just, in my opinion. I simply believe it's
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Well, I would be hesitant to go to the authorities too, simply because I went to a school that was extremely unhelpful when it came to these sorts of issues. In fact, in my case, teachers literally saw bullying behavior going on, but did
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Yes. Not only will it raise awareness about situations like this (since it seems that even people here have gone through something similar) but like I said before, with attention drawn to everything, the school will be a lot more willing
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Now. Should we try getting these messages publicly known? I don’t mean tying his name to it, just using these to help raise awareness for the blind.
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I know that I wouldn't be able to consider other options if I were in your situation. It would be really hard to talk me out of taking matters into my own hands and getting back at whoever is causing a problem. I flew off the handle when I
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I'm sorry guys. I am still having fits of rage and sometimes I still wish for solution 3. I know that is wrong, but don't expect me to not wan solution 3 sometimes. I would like to get her, one of her parents, and the principal
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I'm sorry guys. I am still having fits of rage and sometimes I still wish for solution 3. I know that is wrong, but but you don't expect me to not wan solution 3 sometimes. I would like to get her, her mom, nad the principal
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@defenderThat was the point i was going for. Being in the situation he's in doesn't excuse anything he's done, but children (or anyone really) can handle life with a dysfunctional family in some pretty negative ways. One child can take
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@defenderThat was the point i was going for. Being in the situation he's in doesn't excuse anything he's done, but children (or anyone really) can handle life with a dysfunctional family in some really negative ways. One child can take
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Are you sure the texts are not saved in the cloud somewhere as a wait before full delete measure? If the police step in, they may also get permission to grab the texts from the server which might still be their.By the way I agree with 12
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. You must remember that everything I am saying was told to me by my friend, so is it 100% accurate? Well she doesn't lie, but no, that doesn't mean it is 100% accurate. Not from me saying it anyway.I do need to point out however, that his
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I know it sounds fishy, that's why I am fearful in the first place. But I can't think about that anymore. I know I have some explaining to do, and possibly go through trouble because of that, but what's done is done. I have to move
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Oh they'll deal with it. It's true that you can't legally charge a child, but there are even exceptions for that. For one thing, if a child murders someone, given age and the like, they can rule in the courts to proceed with his trial
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Middle school is approximately 12-14 years of age. Seventh through ninth grades, roughly, in Canada and the United States.And Zarvox, here's the deal. If you knew it would hurt evidence but told her to do it anyway, the very first thing
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Oh, middle school, that's the US equivalent of primary school in Britain right? As in up to 12? I don't know about the law in the US, but if this kid is under a certain age, he might not be prosecutable and the police will be powerless
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Oh, middle school, that's the US equivalent of primary school in Britain right? As in up to 12? I don't know about the law in the US, but if this kid is under a certain age, he might not be prosecutable and the police will be powerless
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I just wanted to ask if the boy who is threatening and targeting her is also in middle school like she is? I don't want this to come off in a way that might be offensive, but it seems that, given the information you've written about
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I just wanted to ask if the boy who is threatening and targeting her is also in middle school like she is? I don't want this to come off in a way that might be offensive, but it seems that, given the information you've written about
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I am aware it might be a scam, but I know my friend very well, and she knows me very well. But I have taken that possibility into account. There is one person who has done it to me before, but it was outragiously false and I was too dumb
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I am aware it might be a scam, but I know my friend very well, and she knows me very well. But I have taken that possibility into account. It has happened before, but it was outragiously false and I was too dumb to realize. I'm not dumb
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I am aware it might be a scam, but I know my friend very well, and she knows me very well. But I have taken that possibility into account. It is very hard to move on after making a big mistake like this, but I need to. Was it big? Yes
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@post 23 I would never lie. I would never give them anything but 100% truth. And I was aware at the time that having her delete them would tamper the evidence, I was aware. And telling them that will help me a lot. I would never anything
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I am aware it might be a scam, but I know my friend very well, and she knows me very well. But I have taken that possibility into It is very hard to move on after making a big mistake like this, but I need to. Was it big? Yes. Have I put
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I don't think you can blame yourself for having her delete the messages. It's not your fault for just innately knowing how to deal with a problem like this. Yes, you could very well have screwed up the chance for direct evidence, but just
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You still need to help your friend open this up to the appropriate people (parents, school, authorities, etc). The best thing you can do, if this happens, is to own your part in it. Mention that you deleted the texts (or had her do
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I am so nervous. I shouldn't have made her delete them, even if I knew she was going to dwell on them. And even worse, she can look at them, from this topic, so there was no point in the first place, I didn't think I would post about
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I am so nervous. I shouldn't have made her delete them, even if I knew she was going to dwell on them. And even worse, she can look at them, from this topic, so there as no point in the first place, I didn't think I would post about
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Yeah, I'm an idiot, because I already had her delete the conversation from her phone because I knew she would look at the texts and dwell on them. So yes, I kind of fucked myself over for that. However she sent them to me, but I had her
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Yeah, I'm an idiot, because I already had her delete the conversation from her phone beause I knew she would look at the texts and dwell on them. So yes, I kind of fucked myself over for that. However she sent them to me, but I had her
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I'm going to double post here because this topic is pretty active, and I don't want this to be lost in an edit.This attacker has done your friend a favor by contacting them via text message. Save every one of those messages, because
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I'm going to double post here because this topic is pretty active, and I don't want this to be lost in an edit.This attacker has done your friend a favor by contacting them via text message. Save every one of those messages, because
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I am very much with everyone whose saying to take this to the appropriate authorities, since attacking this individual directly will likely get them to escalate, and unless your friend is (a) a trained fighter, or (b) able to keep someone
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My problem is not that the school won’t take it seriously. My concern is the school won’t take it seriously enough
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There are 2 cases of physical violence this was before the prick got her number yesterday. His parents smoke and drink a lot. Also he has a twin sister who doesn’t act like this. All this info comes from my friend, not me.
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While I see Chris's point about blocking texts, at the same time having a log might help.You might have to go through different authorities. Some schools are better about these things than others, likewise if his parents aren't
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Woah! Some people are just... horrible! Picking on someone who is actually less fortunate than you? What a fucker!If you haven't already, contact everyone and get them working together on this. What the hell are his parents doing? Are his
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Ok we will try 1 and 2. Any other solutions?
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Fighting fire with fire may make a bigger fire, and someone else might just get swept up in the process. Is that really worth the risk? I don’t think so. The easy way is not usually the right way. Go with both one and two as post 2
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If you go with plan #3, you are feeding the problem. You may be the difference between bullying texts and your friend in the hospital. Let's be clear: it will not be your fault if that happens, the bully is the perpetrator and he
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As a person who unfortunately used to be bullied like that before, I can see where you're coming from when you say you want to go with solution 3. But as most people said, fighting fire with fire only creates bigger fire. I'd probably do
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If you know someone who could knock seven shades of shit out of this guy, he would very likely stop picking on your friend immediately. But as others have said, the trouble is he'll likely transfer his malice to someone else who doesn't
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you might want to go combine and salutions 1 and 2, and go with itas others says fighting fire with fire, creates a bigger fire, and that burns evrything around it
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If you know someone who could knock seven shades of shit out of this guy, he would very likely stop picking on your friend immediately. But as others have said, the trouble is he'll likely transfer his malice to someone else who doesn't
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If you know someone who could knock seven shades of shit out of this guy, he would very likely stop picking on your friend immediately. But as others have said, the trouble is he'll likely transfer his malice to someone else who doesn't
Re: Help with hazing issue (may get controversial)
If you know someone who could knock seven shades of shit out of this guy, he would very likely stop picking on your friend immediately. But as others have said, the trouble is he'll likely transfer his malice to someone else who doesn't
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The school is useless.
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He's not a f**king man May I please post this story and maybe we could rally support behind this girl. those texts are sick and there is some things I would like to say but I'm not going to say them lets just say if he was a little older I
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Hello,While I understand the situation very well as we’ve had similar cases in our school which occurred with sighted people as opposed to blind counterparts, there is one quite important thing to be pointed out:1. Taking harsh
Re: Help with hazing issue (may get controversial)
Hello,While I understand the situation very well as we’ve had similar cases in our school which occurred with sighted people as opposed to blind counterparts, there is one quite important thing to be pointed out:1. Taking harsh
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I empathize with your anger and frustration. Those texts are sickening.But solutions 1 and 2 are the best way to go. Notify every authority figure you can about this situation, and don't stop talking until someone listens.Thank you
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@Zarvox firstly, yes, I gather your annoyed about this, and want to do something, but unfortunately the situation needs looking at in a logical way, since going off half cocked or trying something out that doesn't work is likely to have
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Fighting fire with fire may make a bigger fire. Is that really worth the risk? I don’t think so. The easy way is not usually the right way. Go with both one and two as post 2 said. If her parents don’t care, no harm done from what I can
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While it might be tempting to go with solution three, there is the possibility that it won't help things at all. It may in fact just make things worse. There's every chance that he doesn't care what people say to him, and he could just use
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This is going to be a very long and drawn out post, and quite a controversial topic. Below I will describe the situation, the solutions so far, and then messages at the end.Before I begin, I want to point out that yes, I do have a personal
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