Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-23 Thread TenHouseCats
oh, nina-- i'm so sorry. this is the first time i've had the computer up in more than a day--glorious thunderstorms all day yesterday, so i believe that grace is at the bridge as i write this. all GLOW to her to find her way safely, and to heal your heart... i really liked the illusion of a

Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
My Beloved Group, First of all, I'm sorry I haven't been able to participate fully in the group this last couple of weeks. I love you all, but for the last couple of days, I haven't even been able bring myself to read the posts. I'm physically and emotionally exhausted by Grace and my last

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Lernermichelle
Nina, I am so sorry. I do not think lack of fat makes veins smaller or harder to find, so though I may be wrong, I do not think that should be a concern. You know how I am, though, I do not think I would do it at all since she does not seem to be in active pain. I do think the annoyed look she

RE: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Doljan, Joan
PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Nina Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2005 10:18 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace My Beloved Group, First of all, I'm sorry I haven't been able to participate fully in the group this last couple of weeks. I love you all

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Kat
have followed your posts about Grace. Kat (Mew Jersey) On Thu, 22 Sep 2005, Nina wrote: Date: Thu, 22 Sep 2005 07:18:15 -0700 From: Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace My Beloved Group

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
Michelle, Thank you so much for answering my post. When I was struggling with gathering the energy it took to actually write, I was thinking of you. I wanted your opinion about this. I wish I were braver. Funny, isn't it, I always think of myself as strong and brave, but when it comes to

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace My Beloved Group, First of all, I'm sorry I haven't been able to participate fully in the group this last couple of weeks. I love you all, but for the last couple of days, I haven't even been able bring myself

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Barb Moermond
Nina, I'm so sorry you're going through this right now, it's so hard. If you're worried about them finding a vein, you could request that they inject her parenterally, that's how my vet helped Ninja - no worried or stress about finding a vein and using an IV, just a shot.Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
From: Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace My Beloved Group, First of all, I'm sorry I haven't been able to participate fully in the group this last couple of weeks. I love you all

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
Hello, Barb, thank you. What does parenterally mean exactly? Is that subq, IM? N Barb Moermond wrote: Nina, I'm so sorry you're going through this right now, it's so hard. If you're worried about them finding a vein, you could request that they inject her parenterally, that's how my vet

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Barb Moermond
I had to look up the exact meaning myself http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=parenteral it's an injection into the abdomen, but not into any organ within the abdomen Ninja winced a bit with the initial needle entry, but that was it. Unfortunately, she was so ill, intestinal lymphoma, that

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Cherie A Gabbert
Nina, That is true just the shot would be so much better can you make an appointment for Friday, so at least you have some more good bye time. CherieBarb Moermond [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Nina, I'm so sorry you're going through this right now, it's so hard. If you're worried about them finding a

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
Thanks Cherie, I just called my Internist's office and they will be able to squeeze me in tomorrow at 9:30. I know you all know how this feels. The final moment, the realization that there's nothing left to do, nothing left to try. How can a heart break over and over again? N Cherie A

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Barb Moermond
Because your heart is big enough and flexible enough to love over and over again.Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Thanks Cherie,I just called my Internist's office and they will be able to squeeze me in tomorrow at 9:30. I know you all know how this feels. The final moment, the realization that

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread janine paton
Hi all, I'm going through this same thing and am so grateful for all the experience and calmness on this subject. And Nina, I don't feel so crazy since reading how you are feeling the same way. My cat MacKenzie is not positive, but he is dying. His breathing is mostly quieter now, but very

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
Thank you Janine for letting me know what's going on with you and MacKenzie. The picture you paint makes me see your MacKenzie as if he's in front of my eyes, and not just in my mind. Your sharing this with us, somehow makes me feel a little less alone. I'm so torn about this decision.

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Cherie A Gabbert
Nina, A Grace and all our furrbabies heal the broken hearts, then when they leave us they tend to break all over again...Are they going to come to your house, so you do not have to move her? Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Thanks Cherie,I just called my Internist's office and they will be able to

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Cherie A Gabbert
Janine, I am sorry to hear about MacKenzie, it is so hard and hurts so much, be strong for him, he needs you now. Cheriejanine paton [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all, I'm going through this same thing and am so gratefulfor all the experience and calmness on this subject. And Nina, I don't feel so

Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread BONNIE J KALMBACH
Nina wrote: Can anyone tell me how difficult it is to put an animal to sleep in an emaciated condition? Dear Nina, You would want the vet to be VERY CAREFUL. One of my positive kitties, my beloved little shy golden turkish angora kitty, Katyusha, had a very painful death - I think -

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Sheila208
Nina, my heart breaks for you. I have been through the same situation recently with my Bubba and I know watching them leave is harder than actually losing them. I felt so guilty when he died for having feelings of relief when it was over. Seeing our babies suffer from this terrible disease is

RE: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread MacKenzie, Kerry N.
PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Nina Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2005 10:30 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace Thank you Janine for letting me know what's going on with you and MacKenzie. The picture you paint makes me see your

RE: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
: Thursday, September 22, 2005 8:18 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace My Beloved Group, First of all, I'm sorry I haven't been able to participate fully in the group this last couple of weeks. I love you all, but for the last couple of days, I haven't

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
Bonnie, This was one of my concerns. I'm so sorry you had this experience, but because of it, you may be helping others, you're certainly helping me. I know how hard it is to forgive ourselves when these things happen. Your intentions were loving and I know that Katyusha knows this too.

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
This goes for you as well Kerry. You never told me the full circumstances of what happened with Levi, but I know it was horrendous for both of you. You're too kind and loving a person to dwell on what happened. What can we do, but move on and learn from life's hard lessons the best we can.

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Lernermichelle
Nina, I am sorry. This is so awful for you and her to have to go through this. If you do euthanize at some point, maybe you can give her some oral valium first, the way you did earlier, so that she is more relaxed for the process? While she does sound uncomfortable, she does not sound like she

RE: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread MacKenzie, Kerry N.
PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of [EMAIL PROTECTED]Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2005 12:03 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace Nina, I am sorry. This is so awful for you and her to have to go through this. If you do euthanize

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Lernermichelle
I am not sure it is about bravery. It does take bravery to be with someone as they die a natural death. But I think that the hardest thing I ever did in my life was to euthanize my horse Shire. If I had felt it would be ok, or fair, to him, it would have been easier for me, i think, to just

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Rachel
I made that decision with my Butch. It is very hard, but I firmly believe that when they have given up there is no need for anything to be dragged out. I almost wish people could have the option of euthanasia because I know some would take it. Butch was having trouble breathing and had lost

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Terri Brown
?1083970447350 - Original Message - From: Nina To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2005 10:18 AM Subject: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace My Beloved Group,First of all, I'm sorry I haven't been able to participate fully in the group

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Steph E Caldwell
Nina, I can't help you decide, but my thoughts are with you. I don't personally believe in euthanasia, but I came very close with TeeCee this spring. It's tough... With Care, Steph

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread maimaipg
- From: Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2005 10:18 AM Subject: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace My Beloved Group, First of all, I'm sorry I haven't been able to participate fully in the group this last couple of weeks. I love you all

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread maimaipg
A heart that is full of love can break in infinite number of times. A hard heart might break once. - Original Message - From: Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2005 11:16 AM Subject: Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace Thanks

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Kerry Roach
replying, please edit your Subject line so it is more specificthan "Re: Contents of Felvtalk digest..."Today's Topics:1. Sulphur ([EMAIL PROTECTED])2. Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace (Rachel)3. Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace (T

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Gloria Lane
Nina, my heart goes out to you, I am so sorry for your pain. These are such difficult, important, and soul-searching questions. I can only answer of course from my own experience, but want to mention that homeopathy also has ways of supporting the one who is about to pass on, so you

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread maimaipg
on losing a loved one, you did not truly love. - Original Message - From: Gloria Lane [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2005 7:09 PM Subject: Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace Nina, my heart goes out to you, I am so sorry for your

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Sue Feldbusch
I personally think Euthanasia of pets is wrong. We shouldn't have the power to take an innocent life. Only God has that power. From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace Date: Thu, 22 Sep

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread gblane
: Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace Date: Thu, 22 Sep 2005 13:15:40 EDT I am not sure it is about bravery. It does take bravery to be with someone as they die a natural death. But I think that the hardest thing I ever did in my life was to euthanize my horse Shire. If I had felt

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread catatonya
Nina, I'm so sorry. I can say that as animals lose weight it does make it more difficult to find a vein. My vet can find a vein in a potato, but it sounds like your favorite vet is not available. Make sure that whoever you decide on sedates her first. Also, do NOT let them take her away from

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread catatonya
I may be wrong about the weight being the issue about finding a vein, but if Grace is anemic, that too can cause a problem with it. tonya --- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Nina, I am so sorry. I do not think lack of fat makes veins smaller or harder to find, so though I may be wrong, I do not