Re: [Felvtalk] needing support

2010-05-31 Thread Julie Dalesio Gladnick
Hi Diane-

Thank you for your note.  I definitely agree to letting my kitties be
together makes them the happiest.  Of course, I am still praying that his
first test was a false positive, but if not, will hope that Maggie has built
some immunity and I can keep them both happy and loved as Iong as I can.  I
will certainly keep you all posted as to the results from his next test
later this week.  He is being tested tomorrow, so I hopefully won't have to
wait too much longer.  Thank you again for your care.

On Mon, May 31, 2010 at 9:17 PM, Diane Rosenfeldt wrote:

> Julie, you've gotten some great advice here already, but just one more
> thing
> I don't think anyone has mentioned at length: your boy is asymptomatic now,
> and that's great. But as has been mentioned, he is more liable to pick up
> opportunistic infections and the like, and they may be likely to hit him
> harder than they would a negative cat. Since stress and poor nutrition make
> basically every living thing more vulnerable, the best thing you can do for
> him is get him the best foods and the most stress-free circumstances you
> can, and that comes back to the issue of separating them. I don't think
> that
> is at all the way to go, since they are so fond of each other that
> separating them would be a major stressor for him. I think that separating
> them now won't keep her from getting infected -- I think if she were going
> to, the time they've spent together already would have made it happen.
>
> Good luck with your babies, and wishes that they both stay healthy
> indefiinitely.
>
> Diane
>
> -Original Message-
> From: felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org
> [mailto:felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org] On Behalf Of Julie Dalesio
> Gladnick
> Sent: Monday, May 31, 2010 11:02 PM
> To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
> Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] needing support
>
> Hi Tad-
>
> Thank you so much for your supportive words.  I am so sorry to hear about
> your girl kitty, but it certainly does bring some perspective and reality.
> I think I will take your advice and let them be together at least until the
> second test; they are so much happier.  I guess my hesitancy is that I
> don't
> think I could deal if they both were positive.  Then again, I never
> imagined
> dealing with either of them facing this.  Do anyone have any info on
> pregnant woman or babies and FeLV cats?  I've obviously read that they
> should not be together, but does anyone have actual experience?  I've been
> finding that a lot of info online tends to be pretty negative.
>
> Thanks again, I feel truly grateful.
>
> On Mon, May 31, 2010 at 8:40 PM, Tad Burnett
> wrote:
>
> > Hi Julie
> >  You have come to the right place... We all have a similar story to
> tell...
> > Your story is exactly like mine.. Two black and white tux kittens..
> > Boy was pos and girl was neg... I didn't have room to separate them
> > and the vet advised that she surely she had been exposed and she might
> > be one of the few that have a strong natural immunity or else she
> > wouldgo pos at some time later...
> > Anyway
> > she got vaccinated but not separated
> >  The 2 were very close and played together all the time.. I remember
> > thinking how sad it was going to be when the pos one got sick and
> > passed on leaving her
> > As fate would have it the neg one stopped eating one evening after
> > only a month...
> > Took her to the vet 1st thing in the morning and she got some
> > emergenct treatment but she died while still at the vets in the middle
> > of the morning
> >  The vet said it was FIP... The point is there are many things that
> > can take a cat early... My pos boy lived on for seven years... During
> > his life I got hms several other pos kitties and most of the he out
> > lived too...
> >  There is also a good chance that the 1st test is a false pos... Do
> > get that 2nd test and we will all hope for the best...
> >  If it were me I would let the stay together... Keep them happy and no
> > stress...
> > Feed them a good quality food and have a vet that approves of keeping
> > a pos kitty and will give you an appointment in very short time if you
> > think something is wrong..
> > They may have a weak immune system and need antibiotics quickly...
> >  FeLV+ kitties seem to know that you are taking special care of them
> > and are extra loving in return
> >
> > Tad
> >
> >
> >
> > Julie Dalesio Gladnick wrote:
> >
> >  Hi there-
> >>
> >> I don't know if this is the right place, but I am hoping for some
> >> feedback.
> >> I recently adopted two kittens, a brother and sister.  At 7 weeks, I
> >> had them tested for FeLV.  The boy kitty is positive but the girl
> >> kitty is negative.  Is that even possible?  They have been living
> >> together for 7 weeks; wouldn't she be positive if he was at this
> >> point?  I am taking them both in tomorrow so he can be re-tested with
> the
> IFA and she can be
> >> vaccinated.  I am absolutely devastated.   I am in love with 

Re: [Felvtalk] needing support

2010-05-31 Thread Tad Burnett
There is a disease that pregnant women can get from the litter box 
cleaning...
It is very rare and I think you have to stick your fingers in your mouth 
after

handling litter in order to get it...
I don't think it has anything to do with FeLV
It can cause brain damage to the fetus if you should get it and that is why
some doctors make such a big deal about it But if you wash your hands
after cleaning litter box or wear gloves or even better get daddy to do 
litter

duty than it is almost impossible that you will get it
Tad


Julie Dalesio Gladnick wrote:


Hi Tad-

Thank you so much for your supportive words.  I am so sorry to hear about
your girl kitty, but it certainly does bring some perspective and reality.
I think I will take your advice and let them be together at least until the
second test; they are so much happier.  I guess my hesitancy is that I don't
think I could deal if they both were positive.  Then again, I never imagined
dealing with either of them facing this.  Do anyone have any info on
pregnant woman or babies and FeLV cats?  I've obviously read that they
should not be together, but does anyone have actual experience?  I've been
finding that a lot of info online tends to be pretty negative.

Thanks again, I feel truly grateful.

On Mon, May 31, 2010 at 8:40 PM, Tad Burnett wrote:

 


Hi Julie
You have come to the right place... We all have a similar story to tell...
Your story is exactly like mine.. Two black and white tux kittens.. Boy was
pos
and girl was neg... I didn't have room to separate them and the vet advised
that
she surely she had been exposed and she might be one of the few that have a
strong natural immunity or else she wouldgo pos at some time later...
Anyway
she got vaccinated but not separated
The 2 were very close and played together all the time.. I remember
thinking
how sad it was going to be when the pos one got sick and passed on leaving
her
As fate would have it the neg one stopped eating one evening after only a
month...
Took her to the vet 1st thing in the morning and she got some emergenct
treatment
but she died while still at the vets in the middle of the morning
The vet said it was FIP... The point is there are many things that can
take a cat
early... My pos boy lived on for seven years... During his life I got hms
several
other pos kitties and most of the he out lived too...
There is also a good chance that the 1st test is a false pos... Do get
that 2nd test
and we will all hope for the best...
If it were me I would let the stay together... Keep them happy and no
stress...
Feed them a good quality food and have a vet that approves of keeping a pos
kitty
and will give you an appointment in very short time if you think something
is wrong..
They may have a weak immune system and need antibiotics quickly...
FeLV+ kitties seem to know that you are taking special care of them and
are extra
loving in return

Tad



Julie Dalesio Gladnick wrote:

Hi there-
   


I don't know if this is the right place, but I am hoping for some
feedback.
I recently adopted two kittens, a brother and sister.  At 7 weeks, I had
them tested for FeLV.  The boy kitty is positive but the girl kitty is
negative.  Is that even possible?  They have been living together for 7
weeks; wouldn't she be positive if he was at this point?  I am taking them
both in tomorrow so he can be re-tested with the IFA and she can be
vaccinated.  I am absolutely devastated.   I am in love with both of these
kitties and am looking for some hope.  My boy kitty is active and playful,
though he has had a little diarrhea today and is eating a little less.
I'm
totally freaked out.  I am keeping the two apart, which is also killing
me,
because they are such a comfort for each other.  Does anyone know what my
odds are for his second test being negative?  Is is weird that she's
negative?  If he is positive, do I have to keep them apart forever?  If we
have a baby and he is positive, do we have to get rid of him?  I can't
even
bare thinking of all of this, as he snuggles on my tummy purring while I
type.  Any advice, support, guidance is sincerely appreciated.



 


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Re: [Felvtalk] needing support

2010-05-31 Thread Diane Rosenfeldt
Julie, you've gotten some great advice here already, but just one more thing
I don't think anyone has mentioned at length: your boy is asymptomatic now,
and that's great. But as has been mentioned, he is more liable to pick up
opportunistic infections and the like, and they may be likely to hit him
harder than they would a negative cat. Since stress and poor nutrition make
basically every living thing more vulnerable, the best thing you can do for
him is get him the best foods and the most stress-free circumstances you
can, and that comes back to the issue of separating them. I don't think that
is at all the way to go, since they are so fond of each other that
separating them would be a major stressor for him. I think that separating
them now won't keep her from getting infected -- I think if she were going
to, the time they've spent together already would have made it happen. 

Good luck with your babies, and wishes that they both stay healthy
indefiinitely.

Diane

-Original Message-
From: felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org
[mailto:felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org] On Behalf Of Julie Dalesio
Gladnick
Sent: Monday, May 31, 2010 11:02 PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] needing support

Hi Tad-

Thank you so much for your supportive words.  I am so sorry to hear about
your girl kitty, but it certainly does bring some perspective and reality.
I think I will take your advice and let them be together at least until the
second test; they are so much happier.  I guess my hesitancy is that I don't
think I could deal if they both were positive.  Then again, I never imagined
dealing with either of them facing this.  Do anyone have any info on
pregnant woman or babies and FeLV cats?  I've obviously read that they
should not be together, but does anyone have actual experience?  I've been
finding that a lot of info online tends to be pretty negative.

Thanks again, I feel truly grateful.

On Mon, May 31, 2010 at 8:40 PM, Tad Burnett
wrote:

> Hi Julie
>  You have come to the right place... We all have a similar story to
tell...
> Your story is exactly like mine.. Two black and white tux kittens.. 
> Boy was pos and girl was neg... I didn't have room to separate them 
> and the vet advised that she surely she had been exposed and she might 
> be one of the few that have a strong natural immunity or else she 
> wouldgo pos at some time later...
> Anyway
> she got vaccinated but not separated
>  The 2 were very close and played together all the time.. I remember 
> thinking how sad it was going to be when the pos one got sick and 
> passed on leaving her
> As fate would have it the neg one stopped eating one evening after 
> only a month...
> Took her to the vet 1st thing in the morning and she got some 
> emergenct treatment but she died while still at the vets in the middle 
> of the morning
>  The vet said it was FIP... The point is there are many things that 
> can take a cat early... My pos boy lived on for seven years... During 
> his life I got hms several other pos kitties and most of the he out 
> lived too...
>  There is also a good chance that the 1st test is a false pos... Do 
> get that 2nd test and we will all hope for the best...
>  If it were me I would let the stay together... Keep them happy and no 
> stress...
> Feed them a good quality food and have a vet that approves of keeping 
> a pos kitty and will give you an appointment in very short time if you 
> think something is wrong..
> They may have a weak immune system and need antibiotics quickly...
>  FeLV+ kitties seem to know that you are taking special care of them 
> and are extra loving in return
>
> Tad
>
>
>
> Julie Dalesio Gladnick wrote:
>
>  Hi there-
>>
>> I don't know if this is the right place, but I am hoping for some 
>> feedback.
>> I recently adopted two kittens, a brother and sister.  At 7 weeks, I 
>> had them tested for FeLV.  The boy kitty is positive but the girl 
>> kitty is negative.  Is that even possible?  They have been living 
>> together for 7 weeks; wouldn't she be positive if he was at this 
>> point?  I am taking them both in tomorrow so he can be re-tested with the
IFA and she can be
>> vaccinated.  I am absolutely devastated.   I am in love with both of
these
>> kitties and am looking for some hope.  My boy kitty is active and 
>> playful, though he has had a little diarrhea today and is eating a little
less.
>>  I'm
>> totally freaked out.  I am keeping the two apart, which is also 
>> killing me, because they are such a comfort for each other.  Does 
>> anyone know what my odds are for his second test being negative?  Is 
>> is weird that she's negative?  If he is positive, do I have to keep 
>> them apart forever?  If we have a baby and he is positive, do we have 
>> to get rid of him?  I can't even bare thinking of all of this, as he 
>> snuggles on my tummy purring while I type.  Any advice, support, 
>> guidance is sincerely appreciated.
>>
>>
>>
>
> _

Re: [Felvtalk] needing support

2010-05-31 Thread Julie Dalesio Gladnick
Hi Tad-

Thank you so much for your supportive words.  I am so sorry to hear about
your girl kitty, but it certainly does bring some perspective and reality.
I think I will take your advice and let them be together at least until the
second test; they are so much happier.  I guess my hesitancy is that I don't
think I could deal if they both were positive.  Then again, I never imagined
dealing with either of them facing this.  Do anyone have any info on
pregnant woman or babies and FeLV cats?  I've obviously read that they
should not be together, but does anyone have actual experience?  I've been
finding that a lot of info online tends to be pretty negative.

Thanks again, I feel truly grateful.

On Mon, May 31, 2010 at 8:40 PM, Tad Burnett wrote:

> Hi Julie
>  You have come to the right place... We all have a similar story to tell...
> Your story is exactly like mine.. Two black and white tux kittens.. Boy was
> pos
> and girl was neg... I didn't have room to separate them and the vet advised
> that
> she surely she had been exposed and she might be one of the few that have a
> strong natural immunity or else she wouldgo pos at some time later...
> Anyway
> she got vaccinated but not separated
>  The 2 were very close and played together all the time.. I remember
> thinking
> how sad it was going to be when the pos one got sick and passed on leaving
> her
> As fate would have it the neg one stopped eating one evening after only a
> month...
> Took her to the vet 1st thing in the morning and she got some emergenct
> treatment
> but she died while still at the vets in the middle of the morning
>  The vet said it was FIP... The point is there are many things that can
> take a cat
> early... My pos boy lived on for seven years... During his life I got hms
> several
> other pos kitties and most of the he out lived too...
>  There is also a good chance that the 1st test is a false pos... Do get
> that 2nd test
> and we will all hope for the best...
>  If it were me I would let the stay together... Keep them happy and no
> stress...
> Feed them a good quality food and have a vet that approves of keeping a pos
> kitty
> and will give you an appointment in very short time if you think something
> is wrong..
> They may have a weak immune system and need antibiotics quickly...
>  FeLV+ kitties seem to know that you are taking special care of them and
> are extra
> loving in return
>
> Tad
>
>
>
> Julie Dalesio Gladnick wrote:
>
>  Hi there-
>>
>> I don't know if this is the right place, but I am hoping for some
>> feedback.
>> I recently adopted two kittens, a brother and sister.  At 7 weeks, I had
>> them tested for FeLV.  The boy kitty is positive but the girl kitty is
>> negative.  Is that even possible?  They have been living together for 7
>> weeks; wouldn't she be positive if he was at this point?  I am taking them
>> both in tomorrow so he can be re-tested with the IFA and she can be
>> vaccinated.  I am absolutely devastated.   I am in love with both of these
>> kitties and am looking for some hope.  My boy kitty is active and playful,
>> though he has had a little diarrhea today and is eating a little less.
>>  I'm
>> totally freaked out.  I am keeping the two apart, which is also killing
>> me,
>> because they are such a comfort for each other.  Does anyone know what my
>> odds are for his second test being negative?  Is is weird that she's
>> negative?  If he is positive, do I have to keep them apart forever?  If we
>> have a baby and he is positive, do we have to get rid of him?  I can't
>> even
>> bare thinking of all of this, as he snuggles on my tummy purring while I
>> type.  Any advice, support, guidance is sincerely appreciated.
>>
>>
>>
>
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Re: [Felvtalk] needing support

2010-05-31 Thread Tad Burnett

Hi Julie
 You have come to the right place... We all have a similar story to tell...
Your story is exactly like mine.. Two black and white tux kittens.. Boy 
was pos
and girl was neg... I didn't have room to separate them and the vet 
advised that

she surely she had been exposed and she might be one of the few that have a
strong natural immunity or else she wouldgo pos at some time later... Anyway
she got vaccinated but not separated
 The 2 were very close and played together all the time.. I remember 
thinking
how sad it was going to be when the pos one got sick and passed on 
leaving her
As fate would have it the neg one stopped eating one evening after only 
a month...
Took her to the vet 1st thing in the morning and she got some emergenct 
treatment

but she died while still at the vets in the middle of the morning
 The vet said it was FIP... The point is there are many things that can 
take a cat
early... My pos boy lived on for seven years... During his life I got 
hms several

other pos kitties and most of the he out lived too...
  There is also a good chance that the 1st test is a false pos... Do 
get that 2nd test

and we will all hope for the best...
  If it were me I would let the stay together... Keep them happy and no 
stress...
Feed them a good quality food and have a vet that approves of keeping a 
pos kitty
and will give you an appointment in very short time if you think 
something is wrong..

They may have a weak immune system and need antibiotics quickly...
  FeLV+ kitties seem to know that you are taking special care of them 
and are extra

loving in return

Tad


Julie Dalesio Gladnick wrote:


Hi there-

I don't know if this is the right place, but I am hoping for some feedback.
I recently adopted two kittens, a brother and sister.  At 7 weeks, I had
them tested for FeLV.  The boy kitty is positive but the girl kitty is
negative.  Is that even possible?  They have been living together for 7
weeks; wouldn't she be positive if he was at this point?  I am taking them
both in tomorrow so he can be re-tested with the IFA and she can be
vaccinated.  I am absolutely devastated.   I am in love with both of these
kitties and am looking for some hope.  My boy kitty is active and playful,
though he has had a little diarrhea today and is eating a little less.  I'm
totally freaked out.  I am keeping the two apart, which is also killing me,
because they are such a comfort for each other.  Does anyone know what my
odds are for his second test being negative?  Is is weird that she's
negative?  If he is positive, do I have to keep them apart forever?  If we
have a baby and he is positive, do we have to get rid of him?  I can't even
bare thinking of all of this, as he snuggles on my tummy purring while I
type.  Any advice, support, guidance is sincerely appreciated.

 



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Re: [Felvtalk] needing support

2010-05-31 Thread Julie Dalesio Gladnick
Hi Chris,

Again, thank you for your support and experience.  I had cats all my life
growing up, and this is my first experience with FELV, so I am certainly
still learning.  I certainly am waiting (and praying) for the IFA tomorrow.
He's a tough little guy and I have to keep believing in him.  Do you think I
should keep the kittens away from each other?  I feel like they hate it;
they have been together every day since this morning.  I'm not sure one day
will change all of the exposure they've already had with each other, but I'm
still afraid of risking her getting infected.  Thanks again; Wish I had
found the group 3 days ago!

On Mon, May 31, 2010 at 8:12 PM, Chris  wrote:

> You are definitely in the right place!  You'll get lots of good ideas
> here...  As someone owned by 3 FELV - & 1 FELV+ cat, I can understand how
> frightening this all is.  My Tucson is 8 + years old & I've had her since
> she's a kitten. I never seperated them & no one has turned pos in all these
> years.  My Tucson had a neg Elissa (snap) test when she was a kitten & had
> pos 4 years later--go figure!  I had one other cat, Romeo, who I took in
> after feeding him as a stray for a couple of years.  He was the oldest cat &
> lived w. me for several years, healthy & happy--sadly he succumbed to
> lymphoma last fall.
>
> You might want to wait a bit for the IFA--its always possible he fights the
> virus off.  As for risk to humans, there is absolutely none.  FELV is a
> virus that suppresses cat's immune system--pos cats don't ever die from the
> virus but they are much more prone to succumb to any sort of infections or
> some forms of cancer.  W. kittens, the riskiest things are upper respiratory
> or urine tract infections or gum infections, etc.
>
> There are folks on this group who have used interferon & some other
> experimental drugs.  I have not though when my Tucson has had a couple of
> bouts with really low white blood cell counts, my vet gave her some shots of
> immuno regulin.  Tucson could never handle more invasive sorts of
> treatments--its just her personality.  I give them all some decent food,
> they're all inside cats & other than the occasional tussles among each
> other, they lead a pretty stress free life!
>
> -Original Message-
> >From: Julie Dalesio Gladnick 
> >Sent: May 31, 2010 10:26 PM
> >To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
> >Subject: [Felvtalk] needing support
> >
> >Hi there-
> >
> >I don't know if this is the right place, but I am hoping for some
> feedback.
> >I recently adopted two kittens, a brother and sister.  At 7 weeks, I had
> >them tested for FeLV.  The boy kitty is positive but the girl kitty is
> >negative.  Is that even possible?  They have been living together for 7
> >weeks; wouldn't she be positive if he was at this point?  I am taking them
> >both in tomorrow so he can be re-tested with the IFA and she can be
> >vaccinated.  I am absolutely devastated.   I am in love with both of these
> >kitties and am looking for some hope.  My boy kitty is active and playful,
> >though he has had a little diarrhea today and is eating a little less.
>  I'm
> >totally freaked out.  I am keeping the two apart, which is also killing
> me,
> >because they are such a comfort for each other.  Does anyone know what my
> >odds are for his second test being negative?  Is is weird that she's
> >negative?  If he is positive, do I have to keep them apart forever?  If we
> >have a baby and he is positive, do we have to get rid of him?  I can't
> even
> >bare thinking of all of this, as he snuggles on my tummy purring while I
> >type.  Any advice, support, guidance is sincerely appreciated.
> >
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2010-05-31 Thread Chris
There is no rhyme or reason for who fights the virus off & who doesn't...  
Don't assume she'll automatically become positive.  My youngest 2 cats were 
with my Tucson as kittens before I knew she was positive.  They were kittens 
from the street & though not in horrendous shape, they hadn't eaten the best of 
food & had the best of lives when they were out there.  They shared litter 
boxes, ate out of each other's dishes, groomed each other, etc & neither caught 
the virus.  Its not as easily transmitted as some of the literature 
says--though clearly, a kitten is much more vulnurable.  

Basically, FELV is not an automatic death sentence.  I've had 2 who proved 
that.  But again, any infection can take kittens...  

-Original Message-
>From: Julie Dalesio Gladnick 
>Sent: May 31, 2010 11:10 PM
>To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
>Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] needing support
>
>Thank you so much, Kathi- I'm needing as much support as I can get.  I love
>these two more than anything and can't stand thinking about them in pain.
>Yes, they have been playing and grooming each other for 7 weeks; I'm hoping
>that the test was faulty, because if not, it sounds like Maggie will soon be
>infected, as well.  I can't stand waiting, yet that's all I seem to be able
>to do right now.  I have them separated currently, as well, which both they
>and me are hating.  Thanks again for your support.
>
>On Mon, May 31, 2010 at 8:05 PM, Kathi Clark wrote:
>
>>
>> Julie,
>>
>>
>>
>> I, too, freaked out when I found out my new kitty was positive.  She lives
>> in a my household with 4 other cats and as far as I know, none of the others
>> have been infected.  I do get each one of them (except for the + one) FeLV
>> boosted every year.  She's now 4 years old and is a fun, playful cat with no
>> signs of sickness.  You need to just try to relax because you may not have
>> that much need for concern.  If you get the girl vaccinated and then boosted
>> every year, they may be able to live together for the rest of their lives.
>>  His second test could be negative.  She may be negative because there
>> wasn't that much physical contact between the two?  Mine, that is FeLV
>> positive, played intensely with one of my young boy kitties and he tested
>> positive; however, I kept them separated and 6 weeks later, he tested
>> negative and, as far as I know, he is still negative.  This was 4 years ago
>> and my healthy ones show no signs of disease.  Good luck and try not to get
>> too upset.  Just relax and enjoy them.
>>
>>
>>
>> Kathi
>>
>> > Date: Mon, 31 May 2010 19:26:55 -0700
>> > From: juliegladn...@gmail.com
>> > To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
>> > Subject: [Felvtalk] needing support
>> >
>> > Hi there-
>> >
>> > I don't know if this is the right place, but I am hoping for some
>> feedback.
>> > I recently adopted two kittens, a brother and sister. At 7 weeks, I had
>> > them tested for FeLV. The boy kitty is positive but the girl kitty is
>> > negative. Is that even possible? They have been living together for 7
>> > weeks; wouldn't she be positive if he was at this point? I am taking them
>> > both in tomorrow so he can be re-tested with the IFA and she can be
>> > vaccinated. I am absolutely devastated. I am in love with both of these
>> > kitties and am looking for some hope. My boy kitty is active and playful,
>> > though he has had a little diarrhea today and is eating a little less.
>> I'm
>> > totally freaked out. I am keeping the two apart, which is also killing
>> me,
>> > because they are such a comfort for each other. Does anyone know what my
>> > odds are for his second test being negative? Is is weird that she's
>> > negative? If he is positive, do I have to keep them apart forever? If we
>> > have a baby and he is positive, do we have to get rid of him? I can't
>> even
>> > bare thinking of all of this, as he snuggles on my tummy purring while I
>> > type. Any advice, support, guidance is sincerely appreciated.
>> >
>> > --
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Re: [Felvtalk] needing support

2010-05-31 Thread Chris
You are definitely in the right place!  You'll get lots of good ideas here...  
As someone owned by 3 FELV - & 1 FELV+ cat, I can understand how frightening 
this all is.  My Tucson is 8 + years old & I've had her since she's a kitten. I 
never seperated them & no one has turned pos in all these years.  My Tucson had 
a neg Elissa (snap) test when she was a kitten & had pos 4 years later--go 
figure!  I had one other cat, Romeo, who I took in after feeding him as a stray 
for a couple of years.  He was the oldest cat & lived w. me for several years, 
healthy & happy--sadly he succumbed to lymphoma last fall.  

You might want to wait a bit for the IFA--its always possible he fights the 
virus off.  As for risk to humans, there is absolutely none.  FELV is a virus 
that suppresses cat's immune system--pos cats don't ever die from the virus but 
they are much more prone to succumb to any sort of infections or some forms of 
cancer.  W. kittens, the riskiest things are upper respiratory or urine tract 
infections or gum infections, etc.  

There are folks on this group who have used interferon & some other 
experimental drugs.  I have not though when my Tucson has had a couple of bouts 
with really low white blood cell counts, my vet gave her some shots of immuno 
regulin.  Tucson could never handle more invasive sorts of treatments--its just 
her personality.  I give them all some decent food, they're all inside cats & 
other than the occasional tussles among each other, they lead a pretty stress 
free life!  

-Original Message-
>From: Julie Dalesio Gladnick 
>Sent: May 31, 2010 10:26 PM
>To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
>Subject: [Felvtalk] needing support
>
>Hi there-
>
>I don't know if this is the right place, but I am hoping for some feedback.
>I recently adopted two kittens, a brother and sister.  At 7 weeks, I had
>them tested for FeLV.  The boy kitty is positive but the girl kitty is
>negative.  Is that even possible?  They have been living together for 7
>weeks; wouldn't she be positive if he was at this point?  I am taking them
>both in tomorrow so he can be re-tested with the IFA and she can be
>vaccinated.  I am absolutely devastated.   I am in love with both of these
>kitties and am looking for some hope.  My boy kitty is active and playful,
>though he has had a little diarrhea today and is eating a little less.  I'm
>totally freaked out.  I am keeping the two apart, which is also killing me,
>because they are such a comfort for each other.  Does anyone know what my
>odds are for his second test being negative?  Is is weird that she's
>negative?  If he is positive, do I have to keep them apart forever?  If we
>have a baby and he is positive, do we have to get rid of him?  I can't even
>bare thinking of all of this, as he snuggles on my tummy purring while I
>type.  Any advice, support, guidance is sincerely appreciated.
>
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Re: [Felvtalk] needing support

2010-05-31 Thread Julie Dalesio Gladnick
Thank you so much, Kathi- I'm needing as much support as I can get.  I love
these two more than anything and can't stand thinking about them in pain.
Yes, they have been playing and grooming each other for 7 weeks; I'm hoping
that the test was faulty, because if not, it sounds like Maggie will soon be
infected, as well.  I can't stand waiting, yet that's all I seem to be able
to do right now.  I have them separated currently, as well, which both they
and me are hating.  Thanks again for your support.

On Mon, May 31, 2010 at 8:05 PM, Kathi Clark wrote:

>
> Julie,
>
>
>
> I, too, freaked out when I found out my new kitty was positive.  She lives
> in a my household with 4 other cats and as far as I know, none of the others
> have been infected.  I do get each one of them (except for the + one) FeLV
> boosted every year.  She's now 4 years old and is a fun, playful cat with no
> signs of sickness.  You need to just try to relax because you may not have
> that much need for concern.  If you get the girl vaccinated and then boosted
> every year, they may be able to live together for the rest of their lives.
>  His second test could be negative.  She may be negative because there
> wasn't that much physical contact between the two?  Mine, that is FeLV
> positive, played intensely with one of my young boy kitties and he tested
> positive; however, I kept them separated and 6 weeks later, he tested
> negative and, as far as I know, he is still negative.  This was 4 years ago
> and my healthy ones show no signs of disease.  Good luck and try not to get
> too upset.  Just relax and enjoy them.
>
>
>
> Kathi
>
> > Date: Mon, 31 May 2010 19:26:55 -0700
> > From: juliegladn...@gmail.com
> > To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
> > Subject: [Felvtalk] needing support
> >
> > Hi there-
> >
> > I don't know if this is the right place, but I am hoping for some
> feedback.
> > I recently adopted two kittens, a brother and sister. At 7 weeks, I had
> > them tested for FeLV. The boy kitty is positive but the girl kitty is
> > negative. Is that even possible? They have been living together for 7
> > weeks; wouldn't she be positive if he was at this point? I am taking them
> > both in tomorrow so he can be re-tested with the IFA and she can be
> > vaccinated. I am absolutely devastated. I am in love with both of these
> > kitties and am looking for some hope. My boy kitty is active and playful,
> > though he has had a little diarrhea today and is eating a little less.
> I'm
> > totally freaked out. I am keeping the two apart, which is also killing
> me,
> > because they are such a comfort for each other. Does anyone know what my
> > odds are for his second test being negative? Is is weird that she's
> > negative? If he is positive, do I have to keep them apart forever? If we
> > have a baby and he is positive, do we have to get rid of him? I can't
> even
> > bare thinking of all of this, as he snuggles on my tummy purring while I
> > type. Any advice, support, guidance is sincerely appreciated.
> >
> > --
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Re: [Felvtalk] needing support

2010-05-31 Thread Kathi Clark

Julie,

 

I, too, freaked out when I found out my new kitty was positive.  She lives in a 
my household with 4 other cats and as far as I know, none of the others have 
been infected.  I do get each one of them (except for the + one) FeLV boosted 
every year.  She's now 4 years old and is a fun, playful cat with no signs of 
sickness.  You need to just try to relax because you may not have that much 
need for concern.  If you get the girl vaccinated and then boosted every year, 
they may be able to live together for the rest of their lives.  His second test 
could be negative.  She may be negative because there wasn't that much physical 
contact between the two?  Mine, that is FeLV positive, played intensely with 
one of my young boy kitties and he tested positive; however, I kept them 
separated and 6 weeks later, he tested negative and, as far as I know, he is 
still negative.  This was 4 years ago and my healthy ones show no signs of 
disease.  Good luck and try not to get too upset.  Just relax and enjoy them.

 

Kathi
 
> Date: Mon, 31 May 2010 19:26:55 -0700
> From: juliegladn...@gmail.com
> To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
> Subject: [Felvtalk] needing support
> 
> Hi there-
> 
> I don't know if this is the right place, but I am hoping for some feedback.
> I recently adopted two kittens, a brother and sister. At 7 weeks, I had
> them tested for FeLV. The boy kitty is positive but the girl kitty is
> negative. Is that even possible? They have been living together for 7
> weeks; wouldn't she be positive if he was at this point? I am taking them
> both in tomorrow so he can be re-tested with the IFA and she can be
> vaccinated. I am absolutely devastated. I am in love with both of these
> kitties and am looking for some hope. My boy kitty is active and playful,
> though he has had a little diarrhea today and is eating a little less. I'm
> totally freaked out. I am keeping the two apart, which is also killing me,
> because they are such a comfort for each other. Does anyone know what my
> odds are for his second test being negative? Is is weird that she's
> negative? If he is positive, do I have to keep them apart forever? If we
> have a baby and he is positive, do we have to get rid of him? I can't even
> bare thinking of all of this, as he snuggles on my tummy purring while I
> type. Any advice, support, guidance is sincerely appreciated.
> 
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2010-05-31 Thread Julie Dalesio Gladnick
Hi there-

I don't know if this is the right place, but I am hoping for some feedback.
I recently adopted two kittens, a brother and sister.  At 7 weeks, I had
them tested for FeLV.  The boy kitty is positive but the girl kitty is
negative.  Is that even possible?  They have been living together for 7
weeks; wouldn't she be positive if he was at this point?  I am taking them
both in tomorrow so he can be re-tested with the IFA and she can be
vaccinated.  I am absolutely devastated.   I am in love with both of these
kitties and am looking for some hope.  My boy kitty is active and playful,
though he has had a little diarrhea today and is eating a little less.  I'm
totally freaked out.  I am keeping the two apart, which is also killing me,
because they are such a comfort for each other.  Does anyone know what my
odds are for his second test being negative?  Is is weird that she's
negative?  If he is positive, do I have to keep them apart forever?  If we
have a baby and he is positive, do we have to get rid of him?  I can't even
bare thinking of all of this, as he snuggles on my tummy purring while I
type.  Any advice, support, guidance is sincerely appreciated.

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