[FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread John
The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of consciousness.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec




[FairfieldLife] Re: lecture on research on adverse effects of meditation

2012-09-17 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig LEnglish5@... wrote:

 Feel free to recommend it to the DOD and Office of Veterans Affairs.


Feel free to read it again.

 
 L.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig LEnglish5@ wrote:
  
   The question arises: which ruts does TM practice create?
  
  What I'm talking about is behaviour patterns, could be anything from
  driving a car to having panic attacks. All of them are things that we
  learn and become habituated to doing at certain times.
  
  Don't know if TM itself would create a rut other than than the habit
  of doing it. but then we don't really know how it works, maybe the
  increase of what you call coherence is due to a rut being followed
  and the after effect carrying on into daily routine. They always
  become easier as the path becomes better worn.
  
  Ruts aren't bad it's only our opinion of them that colours them so. When 
  you have a nervous problem (OCD for instance) your brain is 
  just following it's learned procedure same as when you sit behind 
  the wheel of a car to drive it. All this is unconscious and the brain 
  thinks it is helping you whatever it does, it's all stimulus/response.
  There is no good or bad [to the unconscious] but thinking makes it so.
  
  NLP techniques teach you to identify the trigger and lead yourself
  away from the rutted path you dislike. TM, it claims, does something
  similar in diluting the rut and removing the line on stone. That's
  the idea anyway, which is why I say if you learn TM for a specific reason 
  you may be disappointed as that is likely to be something that
  has pissed you off for many years. TM = not such a good therapy there.
  But for general anxiety or PTSD it may be better as that is a constant 
  state of adrenal arousal that may benefit from the rut of the relaxation 
  response as there isn't a specific target to re-rut.
  
  So maybe comparative meditation studies should include NLP in
  working out which is most effective for various complaints?
  
  
  
  
   
   L
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
   
Yes, what I've read is that the neural pathways are like ruts in a dirt 
road.  Every time one goes down a particular rut, the pathway is as if 
deepened.  Thus one is more likely to go down that pathway the next 
time.  I think I first encountered this idea in Tara Bennett Goleman's 
Emotional Alchemy.  

I know just a very little bit about NLP, mainly from an expat friend 
who has lived in China for quite some time.  Glad you found something 
both so beneficial and enjoyable.   


Thank you for positive feedback
Share



 From: salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, September 16, 2012 11:51 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: lecture on research on adverse effects of 
meditation
 

  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:

 Here's an article I received recently that talks about, among other 
 related topics, attention in the sense of what Rick Hanson calls self 
 regulated neuroplasticity.  
 
 
 http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_trick_your_brain_for_happiness

Good share Share, sounds similar to some of the Neuro Linguistic
Programming courses I've done and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy I've 
read about. Train the mind to go in a particular direction at a
particular time and it will be more likely to go that way next time
the stimulus arises. It can be used to train the mind to alieviate 
stress or play musical instruments better or even to perform better at 
job interviews - you are only limited by your imagination, the brochure 
says.

I found it useful, I quit the siddhis so I'd have more time to 
practise NLP and found that I really prefered life without all that 
sitting around and hoping for the best. Much better to feel that
you are directly tackling life's problems rather than hoping some 
stress will be released, some day

 PS  Maharishi used to also say take it as it comes.  And if it 
 doesn't come, then go out and create it.
 
 
 
  From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Sunday, September 16, 2012 10:34 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: lecture on research on adverse effects 
 of meditation
 
 
   
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 
 fintlewoodlewix@ wrote:
 
 If you'd asked me when I was a TB I'd have dutifully given all the
 correct responses about how it affected me and everyone I'd
 known who'd done it long term, 

[FairfieldLife] What do Boy Scout leaders have in common with Catholic priests?

2012-09-17 Thread turquoiseb
It's looking as if they have a similar Law:

A Scout Leader is: Trustworthy, Loyal, Helpful, Friendly, Courteous,
Kind, Obedient, Cheerful, Thrifty, Brave, Clean, Reverent, Perverted, a
Child Abuser, and Willing To Help Other Child Abusers Get Away With It.

Speaking as an ex-Eagle Scout (I had more merit badges than Warren
Beatty had lovers), no Scout leader ever tried to molest or take
unwarranted liberties with me. But they could have, and nothing would
have ever been done about it. If it had happened and I reported it, no
one would have believed me, because the institution itself (just like
the Catholic Church) was considered above reproach.

IMO, the problem lies not with either organization per se, but with
placing them on a pedestal of authority and worthiness so high that no
one can imagine that their leaders would do something so...uh...human as
to be human, and thus prey to the sometimes depraved things that humans
are prey to. The *same* type of child abuse happened within the Sai Baba
organization, and rampant child neglect has been reported to have
happened at MIU/MUM, with parents or caregivers essentially leaving kids
in their care on their own while they did more important things,
like...uh...meditating. And I think we all know that if the latter had
been widely reported, almost everyone in the TM organization would have
swung behind trying to cover it up.

The problem happens when protecting the organization becomes a higher
priority than protecting those the organization was invented to serve.
When that happens to *any* organization, it is on a slippery slope to
scandal.
Boy Scouts Face Release Of Damaging Child Sex Abuse FilesBy Chris
Francescani

Sept 16 (Reuters) - The Boy  Scouts of America could face a  wave of bad
publicity as decades of  records of confirmed or  alleged child
molesters within the U.S.  organization are  expected to be released in
coming weeks.

On  Sunday, the Los Angeles Times reported the organization  failed to 
report allegations of sex abuse of scouts by adult  leaders and 
volunteers to police in hundreds of cases from 1970  to 1991. In some 
cases, the Boy Scouts helped the accused cover  their tracks, the 
paper said.

The story was based on a review of  1,600 internal Boy Scouts  case
files the newspaper said it obtained  that detailed  accusations against
confirmed or alleged child molesters  within  the youth organization.

About 1,200  ineligible volunteer files dating from 1965 to  1985 are
set to be  publicly released under a June order by the  Oregon Supreme
Court,  including some already reviewed by the  newspaper.

Those  files played a key role in a 2010 civil trial in which  an Oregon
jury  found the Boy Scouts liable in a 1980s pedophile  case and ordered
the  organization to pay nearly $20 million in  damages.

The  files will be released within three to four weeks, said  Paul
Mones,  one of the attorneys representing the plaintiff in  the Oregon
case.

In  the wake of revelations about systemic child sex abuse  within the 
Catholic Church and the recent Penn State sex abuse  scandal, the files 
threaten to damage the reputation of one of  America's most trusted 
institutions.

Mones said the allegations revealed  in the Oregon case are  not
necessarily comparable to the Catholic  Church's sex abuse  scandal.

In the Catholic  Church there were overt cover-ups, and I  don't think
you see a lot of  that here with the Boy Scouts,  Mones told Reuters on
Sunday.

The  Boy Scouts of America said in a statement on Sunday that  while it 
regrets past incidents where scouts were sexually  abused, its current 
policies require even suspicions of abuse to  be reported directly to 
law enforcement.

The BSA (has) continuously  enhanced its multi-tiered  policies and
procedures, which now include  background checks,  comprehensive
training programs and safety  policies, the  statement said.

The organization  said it has maintained an internal  ineligible
volunteer file since at  least 1919 to prevent  suspected or confirmed
child sex abusers from  joining or  re-entering its ranks.

Boy Scouts of  America officials and attorneys have said the  files
represent only a  fraction of the adults who participate as  scout
leaders each year.

The  Boy Scouts have annually counted between 3.5 and 5  million scouts
and  more than 1 million adult leaders and  volunteers among its members
since the 1960s, a spokesman for  the organization said.

The  organization is facing more than 50 pending child sexual  abuse
cases  in 18 states, according to Kelly Clark, another  plaintiff
attorney in  the Oregon case.

Mones said he did not expect  many new lawsuits to result  from the
upcoming release of the Scouts'  files, predicting that  statutes of
limitation on sex abuse charges in  most U.S. states  would prevent
victims from successful civil or  criminal  prosecution of alleged
molesters.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Bill Clinton: Practicing Vegan Meditator

2012-09-17 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 He's doing Buddhist meditation, Nabs.


I see, always thought there was something fishy about this character anyway :-)



 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Bill Clinton: Practicing Vegan  Meditator  [bill_clinton]
  Former President Bill Clinton, who just celebrated his 66th birthday, is
  now reportedly embracing meditation for stress relief while on the road,
  according to a Radaronline
  http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2012/08/bill-clinton-buddhist-med\
  itation  report.
  
  He has a hectic life. He travels a lot on business as an ambassador
  for the U.S. and needs something to keep him sane, according to a
  source quoted in the report. Meditation offers him that. He has a
  mantra that he likes to chant and after every session he feels
  transformed and full of positive energy. It's definitely doing him
  the world of good – he feels fitter and stronger than ever.
  
  Also, Clinton stated in the past his favorite book is Marcus
  Aurelius' Meditations, a collection of personal writings
  by the former Roman Emperor, which offers a theme of analyzing one's
  judgment of themselves and others in order to develop a cosmic
  perspective, the report stated.
  
  The former President also switched to a vegan diet in 2010, which he
  announced during a 2010 CNN interview, following heart problems,
  including a quadruple bypass surgery in 2004.
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread Share Long
Maybe like a combo of enigma and origami 



 From: awoelflebater no_re...@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, September 16, 2012 10:26 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to shut up; 
it's my turn!
 

  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
   So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with whatever this
   thing is that seems to interest you.
  
  Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.
 
 
 I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine backwards, it generates 
 one of your posts.

Imagine backwards almost spells enigma but not quite.
 
 
 
 
 



 

[FairfieldLife] Fw: Daily Bluetruth - Monday 17th of September 2012 Rumi

2012-09-17 Thread Share Long
Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,
there is a field.
I will meet you there...Rumi

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Re: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread Share Long
Hey John, do you have software to do a chart of FFL?  I inadvertantly gave my 
friend the wrong date of Sept 1.  Going to post 1, it should be Sept 5 2001 
2:24 pm Fairfield.  Which probably means a little better for the women folk 
here (-:


anyway, thanks, share




 From: John jr_...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 1:20 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man
 

  
The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of consciousness.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec


 

[FairfieldLife] Which will you buy?

2012-09-17 Thread card

http://www.wired.com/gadgetlab/2012/09/iphone5-spec-showdown/

Whoa! Guess I'll keep my Nokia shares at least for a while, after all...





[FairfieldLife] Re: Which will you buy?

2012-09-17 Thread Alex Stanley


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, card cardemaister@... wrote:

 
 http://www.wired.com/gadgetlab/2012/09/iphone5-spec-showdown/
 
 Whoa! Guess I'll keep my Nokia shares at least for a while, after all...


Out of those, I'd buy the Galaxy S3. I bought a Galaxy S2 a few months ago, and 
I'm delighted with it. But, I'm not so thrilled that Samsung keeps making their 
phones bigger and bigger; the S3 is bigger than the S2, and the S4 is 
supposedly going to be even bigger still. I want a phone that fits in my 
pocket, even when it's in a protective case.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread Susan


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Hey John, do you have software to do a chart of FFL?  I inadvertantly gave 
 my friend the wrong date of Sept 1.  Going to post 1, it should be Sept 5 
 2001 2:24 pm Fairfield.  Which probably means a little better for the women 
 folk here (-:
 
 
 anyway, thanks, share
 
 
 
 
  From: John jr_esq@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 1:20 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man
  
 
   
 The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of 
 consciousness.
 
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec

THe book, Initiation by Elizabeth Haitch, is interesting about Eygypt's ancient 
culture and chakras, symbols, etc.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread awoelflebater


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Hey John, do you have software to do a chart of FFL?  I inadvertantly gave 
 my friend the wrong date of Sept 1.  Going to post 1, it should be Sept 5 
 2001 2:24 pm Fairfield.  Which probably means a little better for the women 
 folk here (-:
 
 
 anyway, thanks, share

Hey, I want my chart done!
 
 
 
 
  From: John jr_esq@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 1:20 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man
  
 
   
 The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of 
 consciousness.
 
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with 
whatever this thing is that seems to interest you.
   
   Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.
  
  I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine 
  backwards, it generates one of your posts.
  
 You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's 
 cool with you. After calling her motives into question 
 so brutally, do you really think she trusts you? Just 
 curious...

There's a number of things Curtis can't change.

1. He can't change the ugly email Sal wrote Emily accusing
her of being mean to him.
2. He can't change the fact that he then defended Sal on FFL.
3. He can't change the fact that he tried to make Sal's email
sound like no big deal.
4. He can't change the fact that he accused Emily of sending
me Sal's email to foment a public fight, after Emily had
explicitly explained otherwise.

Why *would* Emily want to be cool with Curtis in light of
those facts?

Nor can Curtis change the fact that I've also read Sal's email.

Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?). If he had
not defended Sal, if he had acknowledged the ugliness of Sal's
email, if he hadn't attributed ulterior motives to Emily for
sending me the email, he wouldn't be out of favor with Emily,
and folks on FFL wouldn't be wondering about his integrity.

If one of my supporters had written a nasty email to
someone viciously castigating them for purportedly putting
me down, and I found out about it, I'd call the emailer out
on FFL by name.

Curtis *definitely* doesn't have the integrity to do that.

 When Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think
 she was teasing you or did it piss you off? Was your 
 poor treatment of her pay back for a bruised ego or did
 it have nothing to do with this:
 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723

Good question. But if he deigns to respond to it, will we
have any reason to trust what he tells us? Will Emily?




[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread awoelflebater


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with 
 whatever this thing is that seems to interest you.

Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.
   
   I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine 
   backwards, it generates one of your posts.
   
  You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's 
  cool with you. After calling her motives into question 
  so brutally, do you really think she trusts you? Just 
  curious...
 
 There's a number of things Curtis can't change.
 
 1. He can't change the ugly email Sal wrote Emily accusing
 her of being mean to him.
 2. He can't change the fact that he then defended Sal on FFL.
 3. He can't change the fact that he tried to make Sal's email
 sound like no big deal.
 4. He can't change the fact that he accused Emily of sending
 me Sal's email to foment a public fight, after Emily had
 explicitly explained otherwise.
 
 Why *would* Emily want to be cool with Curtis in light of
 those facts?
 
 Nor can Curtis change the fact that I've also read Sal's email.
 
 Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
 know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
 him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?). If he had
 not defended Sal, if he had acknowledged the ugliness of Sal's
 email, if he hadn't attributed ulterior motives to Emily for
 sending me the email, he wouldn't be out of favor with Emily,
 and folks on FFL wouldn't be wondering about his integrity.
 
 If one of my supporters had written a nasty email to
 someone viciously castigating them for purportedly putting
 me down, and I found out about it, I'd call the emailer out
 on FFL by name.
 
 Curtis *definitely* doesn't have the integrity to do that.
 
  When Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think
  she was teasing you or did it piss you off? Was your 
  poor treatment of her pay back for a bruised ego or did
  it have nothing to do with this:
  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723
 
 Good question. But if he deigns to respond to it, will we
 have any reason to trust what he tells us? Will Emily?

Here is the thing, the email, according to Curtis, was supportive and 
ego-stroking to Curtis. When that happens and yet the other side of the email 
was allegedly an unwarranted and vicious attack on Emily, Curtis appears to not 
be able to get beyond the fact that he liked the email because Sal was 
complimentary to him. If he really has no problem with Emily (and frankly, why 
should he?) then he should have understood and admitted that Sal's email to 
Emily was harsh, ugly, unjustified. Instead of liking the email because it was 
good for his ego he should have (if he had any respect or reasonable feeling 
for Emily's position) gotten beyond his subjective support of this otherwise 
mean-spirited and traumatizing correspondence and called it for what it was. 
That has not happened and therefore I question Curtis' intentions and values 
not to mention his motives for treating Emily badly by not supporting her and 
understanding where she was coming from in her pain. But maybe that is asking 
too much.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@... wrote:

R: You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's cool with you. 
 
M: Does the thought of that excite you?  Are you acting as a peacekeeper here 
Raunchy?  Trying to help Emily and I smooth out a misunderstanding maybe? 
 
 
R: After calling her motives into question so brutally, 
 
M: Oh, that was disappointing  , did you have to tip your hand so fast?  You 
were doing so well with the restrained tone and now this ham handed word 
choice.  From now on the mean girl agenda is going to be so obvious and boring. 
Trying to invoke the feeling of violence between Emily and me huh? Something 
that we already worked out just fine without your help.
 
Does the word  brutally make you think of blood, how it smells?  The warmth on 
your tongue, before it clots with its delicious mineral taste, somewhere 
between liver and raw steak.  Are you inviting me to share a dream with you?  
I'll pass. 
 
 
R:  do you really think she trusts you? 

M: Let's see, if you really wanted to know, you would be asking her, so what 
are you getting at here?  Oh I get it, you want me to worry about whether or 
not she trusts me.  The problem I have is that so little trust is really 
required between us to post here.  Let me answer your insincerity with some 
sincerity.  I suspect that Emily will display an appropriate level of trust and 
mistrust for our interactions here, just as I do. 
 
R: Just curious... 
 
M: This is really just a style point but that ah shucks lets set here a spell 
and shoot the breeze has been overused by your mean mentor, so we all kinda 
know what is coming.  Kinda like the brutally, but with the added 
unpleasantness of copying her style too closely. 
 
R: when Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think she was teasing you 
or did it piss you off? 
 
M: I thought Emily was sincerely expressing how she saw it, that was her actual 
POV on that.  Different people here often have different POVs on the same 
thing.  Does that tend to piss you off? 
 
R: Was your poor treatment 
 
M: See I would have held back on the brutally at first and gone with this 
weaker accusation poor treatment and then built to brutality.  This is kind 
of anti-climatic now.  I hardly want to correct it as a misstatement after 
dealing with the brutally already.

Is the brutality and poor treatment because I didn't view the email as 
egregious as Judy does?  Or that I didn't believe that Emily's stated reasons 
for sending it to Judy was comprehensive?  And does her lack of seeing Robin's 
send up the same as I do constitute her being brutal with me for disagreeing?  
Or is that only applied to me?
 
 
R: of her pay back for a bruised ego or did it have nothing to do with this: 
 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723 
 
 
ME: She sent me an email and I called it like I saw it.  You are welcome to 
interpret that any way you want.
I guess it makes you happy to imagine me having a bruised ego over her thinking 
differently than I did about something.  Perhaps you are running these posts a 
bit closer to your own ego sense than I do.
  
But just curious...are you looking forward to a pat on the head from Judy, or 
were you pursuing your own desire to cause trouble between posters here who 
seem to be getting along fine without your junior high bullshit? 



 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:

So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with whatever this
thing is that seems to interest you.
   
   Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.
  
  
  I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine backwards, it generates 
  one of your posts.
  
  
 
 You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's cool with you. After 
 calling her motives into question so brutally, do you really think she trusts 
 you? Just curious...when Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think 
 she was teasing you or did it piss you off? Was your poor treatment of her 
 pay back for a bruised ego or did it have nothing to do with this:
 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@... wrote:

ME: Jesus, did someone call a meeting?

A:  Here is the thing, the email, according to Curtis, was supportive and 
ego-stroking to Curtis.

M: Sorry to intrude in the fantasy, but there was no ego stroking.  She was 
defending me for something she believed to be unfair.

A:  When that happens and yet the other side of the email was allegedly an 
unwarranted and vicious attack on Emily, Curtis appears to not be able to get 
beyond the fact that he liked the email because Sal was complimentary to him.

M:  Sorry spin sister, no go.  Even Judy didn't try this routine and she read 
it.

A:  If he really has no problem with Emily (and frankly, why should he?) then 
he should have understood and admitted that Sal's email to Emily was harsh, 
ugly, unjustified.


M: Unless that isn't how I viewed it.  

A:  Instead of liking the email because it was good for his ego he should have 
(if he had any respect or reasonable feeling for Emily's position)

M:  Now you are really running with that ball you created aren't you?

A:  gotten beyond his subjective support of this otherwise mean-spirited and 
traumatizing correspondence and called it for what it was.

M: And that would be because someone else's subjective opinion about the letter 
is the right one?  I don't agree with Judy or Emily about how horrible the 
letter was.  You tipped your hand a bit far with the word traumatizing.  I 
think you and Raunchy are being a bit too eager to please Judy. I don't see any 
reason to think Emily was traumatized by the email.  Nor should she have been. 
I read it.


A: That has not happened and therefore I question Curtis' intentions and values 
not to mention his motives for treating Emily badly by not supporting her and 
understanding where she was coming from in her pain. But maybe that is asking 
too much.


M:  Feeling a little mean today?

Emily and I are fine, sorry to disappoint.  At least I am fine with her and our 
last exchange was very friendly and full of understanding and tolerance for 
each others differences.

The very qualities your post lacks.   




 



 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
-- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with 
  whatever this thing is that seems to interest you.
 
 Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.

I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine 
backwards, it generates one of your posts.

   You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's 
   cool with you. After calling her motives into question 
   so brutally, do you really think she trusts you? Just 
   curious...
  
  There's a number of things Curtis can't change.
  
  1. He can't change the ugly email Sal wrote Emily accusing
  her of being mean to him.
  2. He can't change the fact that he then defended Sal on FFL.
  3. He can't change the fact that he tried to make Sal's email
  sound like no big deal.
  4. He can't change the fact that he accused Emily of sending
  me Sal's email to foment a public fight, after Emily had
  explicitly explained otherwise.
  
  Why *would* Emily want to be cool with Curtis in light of
  those facts?
  
  Nor can Curtis change the fact that I've also read Sal's email.
  
  Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
  know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
  him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?). If he had
  not defended Sal, if he had acknowledged the ugliness of Sal's
  email, if he hadn't attributed ulterior motives to Emily for
  sending me the email, he wouldn't be out of favor with Emily,
  and folks on FFL wouldn't be wondering about his integrity.
  
  If one of my supporters had written a nasty email to
  someone viciously castigating them for purportedly putting
  me down, and I found out about it, I'd call the emailer out
  on FFL by name.
  
  Curtis *definitely* doesn't have the integrity to do that.
  
   When Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think
   she was teasing you or did it piss you off? Was your 
   poor treatment of her pay back for a bruised ego or did
   it have nothing to do with this:
   http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723
  
  Good question. But if he deigns to respond to it, will we
  have any reason to trust what he tells us? Will Emily?
 
 Here is the thing, the email, according to Curtis, was supportive and 
 ego-stroking to Curtis. When that happens and yet the other side of the email 
 was allegedly an unwarranted and vicious attack on Emily, Curtis appears to 
 not be able 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
 know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
 him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).

Judy at her finest.







 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with 
 whatever this thing is that seems to interest you.

Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.
   
   I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine 
   backwards, it generates one of your posts.
   
  You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's 
  cool with you. After calling her motives into question 
  so brutally, do you really think she trusts you? Just 
  curious...
 
 There's a number of things Curtis can't change.
 
 1. He can't change the ugly email Sal wrote Emily accusing
 her of being mean to him.
 2. He can't change the fact that he then defended Sal on FFL.
 3. He can't change the fact that he tried to make Sal's email
 sound like no big deal.
 4. He can't change the fact that he accused Emily of sending
 me Sal's email to foment a public fight, after Emily had
 explicitly explained otherwise.
 
 Why *would* Emily want to be cool with Curtis in light of
 those facts?
 
 Nor can Curtis change the fact that I've also read Sal's email.
 
 Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
 know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
 him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?). If he had
 not defended Sal, if he had acknowledged the ugliness of Sal's
 email, if he hadn't attributed ulterior motives to Emily for
 sending me the email, he wouldn't be out of favor with Emily,
 and folks on FFL wouldn't be wondering about his integrity.
 
 If one of my supporters had written a nasty email to
 someone viciously castigating them for purportedly putting
 me down, and I found out about it, I'd call the emailer out
 on FFL by name.
 
 Curtis *definitely* doesn't have the integrity to do that.
 
  When Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think
  she was teasing you or did it piss you off? Was your 
  poor treatment of her pay back for a bruised ego or did
  it have nothing to do with this:
  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723
 
 Good question. But if he deigns to respond to it, will we
 have any reason to trust what he tells us? Will Emily?





[FairfieldLife] Re: Which will you buy?

2012-09-17 Thread Richard J. Williams


  Whoa! Guess I'll keep my Nokia shares at least for a 
  while, after all...
 
Alex Stanley:
 Out of those, I'd buy the Galaxy S3...

It all depends on what you need a phone for. Since I'm at 
a computer desk all day I don't need much else to 
communicate. Almost any phone will send and recieve phone 
calls if I step out to the parking lot for a break. And, 
almost any smartphones can browse the internet for mail 
and snap a photo. 

It all boils down to security - how much are employees 
allowed to use on the company network for their personal
communications. 

Actually, I find cell phones to be a distraction and I 
don't like talking on phones, unless it's an emergencey. 
That said, if I get another phone it will probably be the 
Nokia Lumia 920 for the camera and video capabilities.

'Why Android has a reason to be paranoid'
http://tinyurl.com/99bl3hv

A Windows tablet that works seamlessly with Microsoft's 
Exchange email system and Office applications would be a 
godsend for corporate technology managers, who have been 
bending over backward to put their CEO's iPads -- 
'executive jewelry,' as one analyst puts it -- onto their 
company's email and security systems.

'Microsoft unveils Windows 8 for public test'
http://tinyurl.com/82pqg7e

With the rise of texting, instant chat and transcription 
apps, more people are ditching the venerable tool that 
once revolutionized the telephone business, displaced 
armies of secretaries and allowed us to eat dinner more 
or less in peace. The behavioral shift is occurring in 
tandem with the irreversible fading of voice calls in 
general, prompting more wireless carriers to offer 
unlimited voice minutes.

'The Death of Voicemail?'
http://tinyurl.com/8rc3dz8



[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
  know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
  him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
 
 Judy at her finest.


What a sad, ugly, vindictive cunt.

All of this because she can't get everyone on the
forum to hate someone she hates, in this case you.

I've been trying to stay out of this silliness,
if for no other reason than I've got better things
to do than to relive Junior High School, but I'll
weigh in with my take on what Emily did, and
why. 

I once lived in a dorm that contained a rather
disturbed prankster. One of his favorite tricks 
was to take a tall trash can, fill it with water,
and then lean it against the inward-opening door
of one of his victims. One of them. Because then
what he'd do is knock on the door, and at the
same time knock on the door of the other victim
on the opposite side of the hall, and run.

Victim 1 would open the door and watch helplessly
at water cascaded all over his feet, his rugs,
and his room. Victim 2, opening his door to the
knock, would invariably laugh at Victim 1. At
that point, Victim 1 would attack Victim 2. Mean-
while the sick prankster was laughing down the
hall, having caused a fight between two people.

My impression is that this is exactly what Emily
did, and intended to do. 

A mature person, sent an email that she didn't
take kindly to, would have replied to the sender
*in email*, telling her to buzz off, and never
said a word about it to anyone else. But Emily,
pussywhipped by Judy and wishing to get on her
good side, sent copies of the email to you and
to Judy. My take is that in so doing she was
trying to get you to criticize one of Judy's
announced enemies, start a fight between you
and Sal, and thus get strokes from Judy for
having done it. 

She succeeded only in the latter, having made
an ass of herself in trying to start the fight.

This behavior is so juvenile and pathetic that 
I don't understand how anyone could be fascinated 
enough by it to continue obsessing about it. 
Including you, Curtis. This is just another 
attempt by Judy to get people to pile on to one 
of her enemies. You've seen it all before, as 
has everyone else here. 

[Cop voice] Move along folks...nothing to see here.


  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
-- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with 
  whatever this thing is that seems to interest you.
 
 Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.

I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine 
backwards, it generates one of your posts.

   You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's 
   cool with you. After calling her motives into question 
   so brutally, do you really think she trusts you? Just 
   curious...
  
  There's a number of things Curtis can't change.
  
  1. He can't change the ugly email Sal wrote Emily accusing
  her of being mean to him.
  2. He can't change the fact that he then defended Sal on FFL.
  3. He can't change the fact that he tried to make Sal's email
  sound like no big deal.
  4. He can't change the fact that he accused Emily of sending
  me Sal's email to foment a public fight, after Emily had
  explicitly explained otherwise.
  
  Why *would* Emily want to be cool with Curtis in light of
  those facts?
  
  Nor can Curtis change the fact that I've also read Sal's email.
  
  Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
  know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
  him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?). If he had
  not defended Sal, if he had acknowledged the ugliness of Sal's
  email, if he hadn't attributed ulterior motives to Emily for
  sending me the email, he wouldn't be out of favor with Emily,
  and folks on FFL wouldn't be wondering about his integrity.
  
  If one of my supporters had written a nasty email to
  someone viciously castigating them for purportedly putting
  me down, and I found out about it, I'd call the emailer out
  on FFL by name.
  
  Curtis *definitely* doesn't have the integrity to do that.
  
   When Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think
   she was teasing you or did it piss you off? Was your 
   poor treatment of her pay back for a bruised ego or did
   it have nothing to do with this:
   http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723
  
  Good question. But if he deigns to respond to it, will we
  have any reason to trust what he tells us? Will Emily?
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Roger Ebert on the film that caused four murders

2012-09-17 Thread Richard J. Williams


  Apparently Obama is running scared, afraid of the radicals
  over there - maybe Obama wants to arrest the film-maker.
  Go figure. 
  Hillary opposed the jailing of Pussy Riot over
  in Russia - why not support American film-makers?
 
Bhairitu:
 You sound really intelligent, Willy.  Why don't you 
 run for office? :-D

Maybe so. If I was in charge I wouldn't be sending 
out apologies in a riot - I'd send out warnings to all 
the other embassies to take cover. 

And, I wouldn't blame some poor film-maker for the 
lapse in security. And, I wouldn't send out the U.N. 
Ambassador to go on TV and lie like that about the 
pre-planned attack on the embassy in Libya.

U.S. intelligence agencies and the State Department 
did not issue warnings to diplomats after an anti-Islamic 
video, made in the United States, was broadcast on an 
Arab talk show, which may have been the flashpoint for 
the unrest in Egypt, Libya and elsewhere.

http://tinyurl.com/9u22gr3

Federal investigators questioned — but later released — 
one of the filmmakers behind the incendiary anti-Islam 
video that sparked violent clashes across the Middle 
East...

Read more:

New York Daily News, Monday, September 17, 2012
http://tinyurl.com/8r6ajzd



[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread Richard J. Williams

  I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine
  backwards, it generates one of your posts.
 
  awoelflebater:
 Imagine backwards almost spells enigma but not quite.
 
  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illuminati



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2012-09-17 Thread merlin


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[FairfieldLife] Re: Roger Ebert on the film that caused four murders

2012-09-17 Thread Richard J. Williams


authfriend:
 We all know this statement was made *before* the attacks
 on the embassy, right? It wasn't a *response* to the
 attacks.

Apparently the statement was sent out in response to the 
film trailer, not the later attack. 

The Islamists are going to have to get used to the fact 
that we have freedom of speech over here and it's not 
going to change anytime soon. What's needed are more 
films like this - films that get you to think about what 
you believe and to question religious dogmas. 

It's difficult to tell what's going on when the U.S. 
Embassy in Cairo is deleting tweets and the U.S. State 
Department is sending out liars on TV. 

But, apparently the tweet from the Cairo Embassy was 
sent out at 5:53 a.m., 9/11/12, before the riot began. 

From what I've read, there was no riot or protest in 
Benghazi, Libya before the attack that killed the U.S. 
Ambassador.

'Here's a Timeline of the Confusing Statements on 
Libya and Egypt'
http://tinyurl.com/9ob29x2

 
The Embassy of the United States in Cairo condemns the 
continuing efforts by misguided individuals to hurt the 
religious feelings of Muslims -- as we condemn efforts 
to offend believers of all religions.
   
  Seraphita:
Rather than pandering to intolerant thugs shouldn't we be 
   making it clear that western  societies value their 
   traditions of free speech, which not only have they no 
   intention of  relinquishing  but would hope one day to see 
   all citizens in Muslim countries enjoy?
  
  Apparently Obama is running scared, afraid of the radicals
  over there - maybe Obama wants to arrest the film-maker.
  Go figure. Hillary opposed the jailing of Pussy Riot over
  in Russia - why not support American film-makers?
  
  Is anyone in charge anymore? The tweet came from a VERIFIED 
  account. The Cairo Embassy did tweet it. They basically 
  slammed freedom of speech and caved. Our Soldiers have died
  protecting our freedoms. Stating no one approved the msg 
  is admitting no one is in control, no one is leading, and 
  we have a vacuum to fill. - Julie Anne Dostal 
  
  'Obama administration disavows Cairo 'apology'
  http://tinyurl.com/9spumjk




[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread awoelflebater


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
 
 ME: Jesus, did someone call a meeting?
 
 A:  Here is the thing, the email, according to Curtis, was supportive and 
 ego-stroking to Curtis.
 
 M: Sorry to intrude in the fantasy, but there was no ego stroking.  She was 
 defending me for something she believed to be unfair.
 
 A:  When that happens and yet the other side of the email was allegedly an 
 unwarranted and vicious attack on Emily, Curtis appears to not be able to get 
 beyond the fact that he liked the email because Sal was complimentary to him.
 
 M:  Sorry spin sister, no go.  Even Judy didn't try this routine and she read 
 it.
 
 A:  If he really has no problem with Emily (and frankly, why should he?) then 
 he should have understood and admitted that Sal's email to Emily was harsh, 
 ugly, unjustified.
 
 
 M: Unless that isn't how I viewed it.  
 
 A:  Instead of liking the email because it was good for his ego he should 
 have (if he had any respect or reasonable feeling for Emily's position)
 
 M:  Now you are really running with that ball you created aren't you?
 
 A:  gotten beyond his subjective support of this otherwise mean-spirited and 
 traumatizing correspondence and called it for what it was.
 
 M: And that would be because someone else's subjective opinion about the 
 letter is the right one?  I don't agree with Judy or Emily about how 
 horrible the letter was.  You tipped your hand a bit far with the word 
 traumatizing.  I think you and Raunchy are being a bit too eager to please 
 Judy. I don't see any reason to think Emily was traumatized by the email.  
 Nor should she have been. I read it.
 
 
 A: That has not happened and therefore I question Curtis' intentions and 
 values not to mention his motives for treating Emily badly by not supporting 
 her and understanding where she was coming from in her pain. But maybe that 
 is asking too much.
 
 
 M:  Feeling a little mean today?
 
 Emily and I are fine, sorry to disappoint.  At least I am fine with her and 
 our last exchange was very friendly and full of understanding and tolerance 
 for each others differences.
 
 The very qualities your post lacks.   

Curtis, you may be correct in all that you say. I am getting impressions from 
people who read the email that Sal sent that it was not a pleasant email to 
receive for Emily. Emily has said so and Judy has said so, both of whom read 
the letter. So I am going to back out now that I have put in my two cents 
regarding the conclusion I drew from all of the to-ing and fro-ing on this 
subject. I am going to back out because I did not read the email and thus can 
not comment further on it. However, I can and did want to say what I said 
regarding the general play of personalities and human nature as I saw it based 
on discussions of this issue. At this point, if Sal is all she is cracked up to 
be by those who love and support her, it would be about that time when she 
could step out from behind that curtain and say her lines.
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with 
   whatever this thing is that seems to interest you.
  
  Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.
 
 I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine 
 backwards, it generates one of your posts.
 
You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's 
cool with you. After calling her motives into question 
so brutally, do you really think she trusts you? Just 
curious...
   
   There's a number of things Curtis can't change.
   
   1. He can't change the ugly email Sal wrote Emily accusing
   her of being mean to him.
   2. He can't change the fact that he then defended Sal on FFL.
   3. He can't change the fact that he tried to make Sal's email
   sound like no big deal.
   4. He can't change the fact that he accused Emily of sending
   me Sal's email to foment a public fight, after Emily had
   explicitly explained otherwise.
   
   Why *would* Emily want to be cool with Curtis in light of
   those facts?
   
   Nor can Curtis change the fact that I've also read Sal's email.
   
   Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
   know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
   him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?). If he had
   not defended Sal, if he had acknowledged the ugliness of Sal's
   email, if he hadn't attributed ulterior motives to Emily for
  

[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread awoelflebater


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
   know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
   him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
  
  Judy at her finest.
 
 
 What a sad, ugly, vindictive cunt.

I hate to think that who you are is contained in this one sentence, but I fear 
it may be so. You tend to default to this every time you hit bottom, and that 
bottom appears to be, in some real sense, your essence.
 
 All of this because she can't get everyone on the
 forum to hate someone she hates, in this case you.
 
 I've been trying to stay out of this silliness,
 if for no other reason than I've got better things
 to do than to relive Junior High School, but I'll
 weigh in with my take on what Emily did, and
 why. 
 
 I once lived in a dorm that contained a rather
 disturbed prankster. One of his favorite tricks 
 was to take a tall trash can, fill it with water,
 and then lean it against the inward-opening door
 of one of his victims. One of them. Because then
 what he'd do is knock on the door, and at the
 same time knock on the door of the other victim
 on the opposite side of the hall, and run.
 
 Victim 1 would open the door and watch helplessly
 at water cascaded all over his feet, his rugs,
 and his room. Victim 2, opening his door to the
 knock, would invariably laugh at Victim 1. At
 that point, Victim 1 would attack Victim 2. Mean-
 while the sick prankster was laughing down the
 hall, having caused a fight between two people.
 
 My impression is that this is exactly what Emily
 did, and intended to do. 
 
 A mature person, sent an email that she didn't
 take kindly to, would have replied to the sender
 *in email*, telling her to buzz off, and never
 said a word about it to anyone else. But Emily,
 pussywhipped by Judy and wishing to get on her
 good side, sent copies of the email to you and
 to Judy. My take is that in so doing she was
 trying to get you to criticize one of Judy's
 announced enemies, start a fight between you
 and Sal, and thus get strokes from Judy for
 having done it. 
 
 She succeeded only in the latter, having made
 an ass of herself in trying to start the fight.
 
 This behavior is so juvenile and pathetic that 
 I don't understand how anyone could be fascinated 
 enough by it to continue obsessing about it. 
 Including you, Curtis. This is just another 
 attempt by Judy to get people to pile on to one 
 of her enemies. You've seen it all before, as 
 has everyone else here. 
 
 [Cop voice] Move along folks...nothing to see here.
 
 
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with 
   whatever this thing is that seems to interest you.
  
  Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.
 
 I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine 
 backwards, it generates one of your posts.
 
You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's 
cool with you. After calling her motives into question 
so brutally, do you really think she trusts you? Just 
curious...
   
   There's a number of things Curtis can't change.
   
   1. He can't change the ugly email Sal wrote Emily accusing
   her of being mean to him.
   2. He can't change the fact that he then defended Sal on FFL.
   3. He can't change the fact that he tried to make Sal's email
   sound like no big deal.
   4. He can't change the fact that he accused Emily of sending
   me Sal's email to foment a public fight, after Emily had
   explicitly explained otherwise.
   
   Why *would* Emily want to be cool with Curtis in light of
   those facts?
   
   Nor can Curtis change the fact that I've also read Sal's email.
   
   Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
   know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
   him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?). If he had
   not defended Sal, if he had acknowledged the ugliness of Sal's
   email, if he hadn't attributed ulterior motives to Emily for
   sending me the email, he wouldn't be out of favor with Emily,
   and folks on FFL wouldn't be wondering about his integrity.
   
   If one of my supporters had written a nasty email to
   someone viciously castigating them for purportedly putting
   me down, and I found out about it, I'd call the emailer out
   on FFL by name.
   
   Curtis *definitely* doesn't have the integrity to do that.
   
When Emily played off 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread Richard J. Williams


   Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least 
   as far as we know; was the email really all Sal's 
   idea? did she run it by him, and if so did he 
   encourage her to send it?).
  
  Judy at her finest.
 
turquoiseb:
 What a sad, ugly, vindictive cunt.
 
So, you didn't get the email from Sal. Go figure. 

Now you're going down the rabbit hole talking about
Sal's private email that you didn't even get. Some 
expats just feel better when they have someone to 
talk to, I guess. LoL!

 All of this because she can't get everyone on the
 forum to hate someone she hates, in this case you.
 
 I've been trying to stay out of this silliness,
 if for no other reason than I've got better things
 to do than to relive Junior High School, but I'll
 weigh in with my take on what Emily did, and
 why. 
 
 I once lived in a dorm that contained a rather
 disturbed prankster. One of his favorite tricks 
 was to take a tall trash can, fill it with water,
 and then lean it against the inward-opening door
 of one of his victims. One of them. Because then
 what he'd do is knock on the door, and at the
 same time knock on the door of the other victim
 on the opposite side of the hall, and run.
 
 Victim 1 would open the door and watch helplessly
 at water cascaded all over his feet, his rugs,
 and his room. Victim 2, opening his door to the
 knock, would invariably laugh at Victim 1. At
 that point, Victim 1 would attack Victim 2. Mean-
 while the sick prankster was laughing down the
 hall, having caused a fight between two people.
 
 My impression is that this is exactly what Emily
 did, and intended to do. 
 
 A mature person, sent an email that she didn't
 take kindly to, would have replied to the sender
 *in email*, telling her to buzz off, and never
 said a word about it to anyone else. But Emily,
 pussywhipped by Judy and wishing to get on her
 good side, sent copies of the email to you and
 to Judy. My take is that in so doing she was
 trying to get you to criticize one of Judy's
 announced enemies, start a fight between you
 and Sal, and thus get strokes from Judy for
 having done it. 
 
 She succeeded only in the latter, having made
 an ass of herself in trying to start the fight.
 
 This behavior is so juvenile and pathetic that 
 I don't understand how anyone could be fascinated 
 enough by it to continue obsessing about it. 
 Including you, Curtis. This is just another 
 attempt by Judy to get people to pile on to one 
 of her enemies. You've seen it all before, as 
 has everyone else here. 
 
 [Cop voice] Move along folks...nothing to see here.
 
   So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with 
   whatever this thing is that seems to interest you.
  
  Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.
 
 I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine 
 backwards, it generates one of your posts.
 
You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's 
cool with you. After calling her motives into question 
so brutally, do you really think she trusts you? Just 
curious...
   
   There's a number of things Curtis can't change.
   
   1. He can't change the ugly email Sal wrote Emily accusing
   her of being mean to him.
   2. He can't change the fact that he then defended Sal on FFL.
   3. He can't change the fact that he tried to make Sal's email
   sound like no big deal.
   4. He can't change the fact that he accused Emily of sending
   me Sal's email to foment a public fight, after Emily had
   explicitly explained otherwise.
   
   Why *would* Emily want to be cool with Curtis in light of
   those facts?
   
   Nor can Curtis change the fact that I've also read Sal's email.
   
   Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
   know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
   him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?). If he had
   not defended Sal, if he had acknowledged the ugliness of Sal's
   email, if he hadn't attributed ulterior motives to Emily for
   sending me the email, he wouldn't be out of favor with Emily,
   and folks on FFL wouldn't be wondering about his integrity.
   
   If one of my supporters had written a nasty email to
   someone viciously castigating them for purportedly putting
   me down, and I found out about it, I'd call the emailer out
   on FFL by name.
   
   Curtis *definitely* doesn't have the integrity to do that.
   
When Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think
she was teasing you or did it piss you off? Was your 
poor treatment of her pay back for a bruised ego or did
it have nothing to do with this:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723
   
   Good question. But if he deigns to respond to it, will we
   have any reason to trust what he tells us? Will Emily?
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread raunchydog


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
 
 R: You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's cool with you. 
  
 M: Does the thought of that excite you?  Are you acting as a peacekeeper here 
 Raunchy?  Trying to help Emily and I smooth out a misunderstanding maybe? 
  
  

Whose misunderstanding? Seems to me Emily understands you far better than you 
understand her.

 R: After calling her motives into question so brutally, 
  
 M: Oh, that was disappointing  , did you have to tip your hand so fast?  You 
 were doing so well with the restrained tone and now this ham handed word 
 choice.  From now on the mean girl agenda is going to be so obvious and 
 boring. Trying to invoke the feeling of violence between Emily and me huh? 
 Something that we already worked out just fine without your help.
  
 Does the word  brutally make you think of blood, how it smells?  The warmth 
 on your tongue, before it clots with its delicious mineral taste, somewhere 
 between liver and raw steak.  Are you inviting me to share a dream with you?  
 I'll pass.
  
  

Calm down, Curtis. Feeling a little crabby this morning? O.K. maybe *brutally* 
was a little strong. How about impugning Emily's character as plotting and 
devious by misrepresenting her motivations? Or, while Sal had her pinned to the 
mat, sadistically kicking her when she was already down?

 R:  do you really think she trusts you? 
 
 M: Let's see, if you really wanted to know, you would be asking her, so what 
 are you getting at here?  Oh I get it, you want me to worry about whether or 
 not she trusts me.  The problem I have is that so little trust is really 
 required between us to post here.  Let me answer your insincerity with some 
 sincerity.  I suspect that Emily will display an appropriate level of trust 
 and mistrust for our interactions here, just as I do. 
  
 R: Just curious... 
  
 M: This is really just a style point but that ah shucks lets set here a 
 spell and shoot the breeze has been overused by your mean mentor, so we all 
 kinda know what is coming.  Kinda like the brutally, but with the added 
 unpleasantness of copying her style too closely. 
  
 R: when Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think she was teasing 
 you or did it piss you off? 
  
 M: I thought Emily was sincerely expressing how she saw it, that was her 
 actual POV on that.  Different people here often have different POVs on the 
 same thing.  Does that tend to piss you off? 
  

IOW not teasing. Thanks, now I know your POV from my POV.

 R: Was your poor treatment 
  
 M: See I would have held back on the brutally at first and gone with this 
 weaker accusation poor treatment and then built to brutality.  This is 
 kind of anti-climatic now.  I hardly want to correct it as a misstatement 
 after dealing with the brutally already.
 
 Is the brutality and poor treatment because I didn't view the email as 
 egregious as Judy does?  Or that I didn't believe that Emily's stated reasons 
 for sending it to Judy was comprehensive?  And does her lack of seeing 
 Robin's send up the same as I do constitute her being brutal with me for 
 disagreeing?  Or is that only applied to me?
  
  
 R: of her pay back for a bruised ego or did it have nothing to do with this: 
  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723 
  
  
 ME: She sent me an email and I called it like I saw it.  You are welcome to 
 interpret that any way you want.
 I guess it makes you happy to imagine me having a bruised ego over her 
 thinking differently than I did about something.  Perhaps you are running 
 these posts a bit closer to your own ego sense than I do.
   
 But just curious...are you looking forward to a pat on the head from Judy, or 
 were you pursuing your own desire to cause trouble between posters here who 
 seem to be getting along fine without your junior high bullshit? 
 
 
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ 
 wrote:
 
 So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with whatever this
 thing is that seems to interest you.

Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.
   
   
   I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine backwards, it 
   generates one of your posts.
   
   
  
  You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's cool with you. After 
  calling her motives into question so brutally, do you really think she 
  trusts you? Just curious...when Emily played off Robin's irony email did 
  you think she was teasing you or did it piss you off? Was your poor 
  treatment of her pay back for a bruised ego or did it have 

[FairfieldLife] Re: lecture on research on adverse effects of meditation

2012-09-17 Thread sparaig
I just did reread what you wrote. If you think that NLP offers something, then 
the DoD and Office of Veterans' Affairs should be made aware of things.


L.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig LEnglish5@ wrote:
 
  Feel free to recommend it to the DOD and Office of Veterans Affairs.
 
 
 Feel free to read it again.
 
  
  L.
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ 
  wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig LEnglish5@ wrote:
   
The question arises: which ruts does TM practice create?
   
   What I'm talking about is behaviour patterns, could be anything from
   driving a car to having panic attacks. All of them are things that we
   learn and become habituated to doing at certain times.
   
   Don't know if TM itself would create a rut other than than the habit
   of doing it. but then we don't really know how it works, maybe the
   increase of what you call coherence is due to a rut being followed
   and the after effect carrying on into daily routine. They always
   become easier as the path becomes better worn.
   
   Ruts aren't bad it's only our opinion of them that colours them so. When 
   you have a nervous problem (OCD for instance) your brain is 
   just following it's learned procedure same as when you sit behind 
   the wheel of a car to drive it. All this is unconscious and the brain 
   thinks it is helping you whatever it does, it's all stimulus/response.
   There is no good or bad [to the unconscious] but thinking makes it so.
   
   NLP techniques teach you to identify the trigger and lead yourself
   away from the rutted path you dislike. TM, it claims, does something
   similar in diluting the rut and removing the line on stone. That's
   the idea anyway, which is why I say if you learn TM for a specific reason 
   you may be disappointed as that is likely to be something that
   has pissed you off for many years. TM = not such a good therapy there.
   But for general anxiety or PTSD it may be better as that is a constant 
   state of adrenal arousal that may benefit from the rut of the relaxation 
   response as there isn't a specific target to re-rut.
   
   So maybe comparative meditation studies should include NLP in
   working out which is most effective for various complaints?
   
   
   
   

L

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:

 Yes, what I've read is that the neural pathways are like ruts in a 
 dirt road.  Every time one goes down a particular rut, the pathway 
 is as if deepened.  Thus one is more likely to go down that pathway 
 the next time.  I think I first encountered this idea in Tara 
 Bennett Goleman's Emotional Alchemy.  
 
 I know just a very little bit about NLP, mainly from an expat friend 
 who has lived in China for quite some time.  Glad you found 
 something both so beneficial and enjoyable.   
 
 
 Thank you for positive feedback
 Share
 
 
 
  From: salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Sunday, September 16, 2012 11:51 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: lecture on research on adverse effects 
 of meditation
  
 
   
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  Here's an article I received recently that talks about, among other 
  related topics, attention in the sense of what Rick Hanson calls 
  self regulated neuroplasticity.  
  
  
  http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_trick_your_brain_for_happiness
 
 Good share Share, sounds similar to some of the Neuro Linguistic
 Programming courses I've done and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy I've 
 read about. Train the mind to go in a particular direction at a
 particular time and it will be more likely to go that way next time
 the stimulus arises. It can be used to train the mind to alieviate 
 stress or play musical instruments better or even to perform better 
 at job interviews - you are only limited by your imagination, the 
 brochure says.
 
 I found it useful, I quit the siddhis so I'd have more time to 
 practise NLP and found that I really prefered life without all that 
 sitting around and hoping for the best. Much better to feel that
 you are directly tackling life's problems rather than hoping some 
 stress will be released, some day
 
  PS  Maharishi used to also say take it as it comes.  And if 
  it doesn't come, then go out and create it.
  
  
  
   From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Sunday, September 16, 2012 10:34 AM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] 

[FairfieldLife] Re: lecture on research on adverse effects of meditation

2012-09-17 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig LEnglish5@... wrote:

 I just did reread what you wrote. If you think that NLP offers 
 something, then the DoD and Office of Veterans' Affairs should 
 be made aware of things.

Not everyone is a compulsive proselytute, Lawson. 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread seventhray1

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:

  Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
  know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
  him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).

Yea, it's a pretty low inference to make.  But it is from the same
playbook that states that if someone writes something and then
attributes it to someone else, by signing another persons name to it,
then that person, to whom it was attributed is within their rights to
ask that this not be done again, but not to claim that they are being
misrepresented.  Keep in mind that the misappropriation may remain
forever on the internet unless it is deleted.
You would think that, apart from stating something is an obvious parody,
that the party who made the misrepresentation would apologize and make a
retraction of some sort.  Instead the misrepresented party is asked to
prove that they were misrepresented, and then be judged as to whether or
not they were misrepresented by others who have shown themselves to be
hostile to this person in the past.
You wonder what the #1 point stated above could possibly morph into.
That others found the situation so funny indicates to me a lack of
empathy should they find themselves in that same situation.
 Judy at her finest.





 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@
wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
-- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with
  whatever this thing is that seems to interest you.

 Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.
   
I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine
backwards, it generates one of your posts.
   
   You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's
   cool with you. After calling her motives into question
   so brutally, do you really think she trusts you? Just
   curious...
 
  There's a number of things Curtis can't change.
 
  1. He can't change the ugly email Sal wrote Emily accusing
  her of being mean to him.
  2. He can't change the fact that he then defended Sal on FFL.
  3. He can't change the fact that he tried to make Sal's email
  sound like no big deal.
  4. He can't change the fact that he accused Emily of sending
  me Sal's email to foment a public fight, after Emily had
  explicitly explained otherwise.
 
  Why *would* Emily want to be cool with Curtis in light of
  those facts?
 
  Nor can Curtis change the fact that I've also read Sal's email.
 
  Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
  know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
  him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?). If he had
  not defended Sal, if he had acknowledged the ugliness of Sal's
  email, if he hadn't attributed ulterior motives to Emily for
  sending me the email, he wouldn't be out of favor with Emily,
  and folks on FFL wouldn't be wondering about his integrity.
 
  If one of my supporters had written a nasty email to
  someone viciously castigating them for purportedly putting
  me down, and I found out about it, I'd call the emailer out
  on FFL by name.
 
  Curtis *definitely* doesn't have the integrity to do that.
 
   When Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think
   she was teasing you or did it piss you off? Was your
   poor treatment of her pay back for a bruised ego or did
   it have nothing to do with this:
   http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723
 
  Good question. But if he deigns to respond to it, will we
  have any reason to trust what he tells us? Will Emily?
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@... wrote:

 Curtis, you may be correct in all that you say. I am getting impressions from 
 people who read the email that Sal sent that it was not a pleasant email to 
 receive for Emily. Emily has said so and Judy has said so, both of whom read 
 the letter.

M: I am not denying that, I was objecting to the histrionic characterization 
Judy was trying to use to create a fuss that you bought into.


A:So I am going to back out now that I have put in my two cents regarding the 
conclusion I drew from all of the to-ing and fro-ing on this subject. I am 
going to back out because I did not read the email and thus can not comment 
further on it.
However, I can and did want to say what I said regarding the general play of 
personalities and human nature as I saw it based on discussions of this issue.

M: It clarified a bias I was unaware of. 

A: At this point, if Sal is all she is cracked up to be by those who love and 
support her, it would be about that time when she could step out from behind 
that curtain and say her lines.

M: Slow news day huh?  I think all the actual participants are all fine at this 
point. Thanks for your concern.





 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
  
  ME: Jesus, did someone call a meeting?
  
  A:  Here is the thing, the email, according to Curtis, was supportive and 
  ego-stroking to Curtis.
  
  M: Sorry to intrude in the fantasy, but there was no ego stroking.  She 
  was defending me for something she believed to be unfair.
  
  A:  When that happens and yet the other side of the email was allegedly an 
  unwarranted and vicious attack on Emily, Curtis appears to not be able to 
  get beyond the fact that he liked the email because Sal was complimentary 
  to him.
  
  M:  Sorry spin sister, no go.  Even Judy didn't try this routine and she 
  read it.
  
  A:  If he really has no problem with Emily (and frankly, why should he?) 
  then he should have understood and admitted that Sal's email to Emily was 
  harsh, ugly, unjustified.
  
  
  M: Unless that isn't how I viewed it.  
  
  A:  Instead of liking the email because it was good for his ego he should 
  have (if he had any respect or reasonable feeling for Emily's position)
  
  M:  Now you are really running with that ball you created aren't you?
  
  A:  gotten beyond his subjective support of this otherwise mean-spirited 
  and traumatizing correspondence and called it for what it was.
  
  M: And that would be because someone else's subjective opinion about the 
  letter is the right one?  I don't agree with Judy or Emily about how 
  horrible the letter was.  You tipped your hand a bit far with the word 
  traumatizing.  I think you and Raunchy are being a bit too eager to 
  please Judy. I don't see any reason to think Emily was traumatized by the 
  email.  Nor should she have been. I read it.
  
  
  A: That has not happened and therefore I question Curtis' intentions and 
  values not to mention his motives for treating Emily badly by not 
  supporting her and understanding where she was coming from in her pain. But 
  maybe that is asking too much.
  
  
  M:  Feeling a little mean today?
  
  Emily and I are fine, sorry to disappoint.  At least I am fine with her and 
  our last exchange was very friendly and full of understanding and tolerance 
  for each others differences.
  
  The very qualities your post lacks.   
 
 Curtis, you may be correct in all that you say. I am getting impressions from 
 people who read the email that Sal sent that it was not a pleasant email to 
 receive for Emily. Emily has said so and Judy has said so, both of whom read 
 the letter. So I am going to back out now that I have put in my two cents 
 regarding the conclusion I drew from all of the to-ing and fro-ing on this 
 subject. I am going to back out because I did not read the email and thus can 
 not comment further on it. However, I can and did want to say what I said 
 regarding the general play of personalities and human nature as I saw it 
 based on discussions of this issue. At this point, if Sal is all she is 
 cracked up to be by those who love and support her, it would be about that 
 time when she could step out from behind that curtain and say her lines.
  
  
  
  
   
  
  
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ 
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with 
whatever this thing is that seems to interest 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Which will you buy?

2012-09-17 Thread Bhairitu
On 09/17/2012 06:08 AM, Alex Stanley wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, card cardemaister@... wrote:

 http://www.wired.com/gadgetlab/2012/09/iphone5-spec-showdown/

 Whoa! Guess I'll keep my Nokia shares at least for a while, after all...

 Out of those, I'd buy the Galaxy S3. I bought a Galaxy S2 a few months ago, 
 and I'm delighted with it. But, I'm not so thrilled that Samsung keeps making 
 their phones bigger and bigger; the S3 is bigger than the S2, and the S4 is 
 supposedly going to be even bigger still. I want a phone that fits in my 
 pocket, even when it's in a protective case.



The Galaxy Nexus has a 4.6 screen and with an Otterbox case still fits 
in my pockets but that's not the way I carry them as I use the holster 
instead.  Maybe look at a different case because the holster overlaps 
the phone jack. :-(

I like the larger screen but there are plenty of smaller ones but I 
suppose stuck in the boonies you can't exactly window shop like I can 
at places like Fry's or Best Buy.  The nice thing about the larger 
screen (and higher resolution) is that I watched a Netflix movie on it 
last night which might not have been as enjoyable on a smaller screen.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Which will you buy?

2012-09-17 Thread Bhairitu
On 09/17/2012 07:39 AM, Richard J. Williams wrote:

 Whoa! Guess I'll keep my Nokia shares at least for a
 while, after all...

 Alex Stanley:
 Out of those, I'd buy the Galaxy S3...

 It all depends on what you need a phone for. Since I'm at
 a computer desk all day I don't need much else to
 communicate. Almost any phone will send and recieve phone
 calls if I step out to the parking lot for a break. And,
 almost any smartphones can browse the internet for mail
 and snap a photo.

 It all boils down to security - how much are employees
 allowed to use on the company network for their personal
 communications.

 Actually, I find cell phones to be a distraction and I
 don't like talking on phones, unless it's an emergencey.
 That said, if I get another phone it will probably be the
 Nokia Lumia 920 for the camera and video capabilities.

 'Why Android has a reason to be paranoid'
 http://tinyurl.com/99bl3hv

 A Windows tablet that works seamlessly with Microsoft's
 Exchange email system and Office applications would be a
 godsend for corporate technology managers, who have been
 bending over backward to put their CEO's iPads --
 'executive jewelry,' as one analyst puts it -- onto their
 company's email and security systems.

 'Microsoft unveils Windows 8 for public test'
 http://tinyurl.com/82pqg7e

 With the rise of texting, instant chat and transcription
 apps, more people are ditching the venerable tool that
 once revolutionized the telephone business, displaced
 armies of secretaries and allowed us to eat dinner more
 or less in peace. The behavioral shift is occurring in
 tandem with the irreversible fading of voice calls in
 general, prompting more wireless carriers to offer
 unlimited voice minutes.

 'The Death of Voicemail?'
 http://tinyurl.com/8rc3dz8



Bingo!  That's why the newer low cost plans with less phone minutes and 
higher data bandwidth.  I had 450 anytime minutes with Verizon but used 
only 30-40 minutes a month and rarely every around 60.  I was paying $40 
for those minutes and another $30 for the data.  The new plan only has 
100 minutes of talk, unlimited texting and 5GB of data.  My data use was 
often only around 1/2 GB a month but depending on what I'm doing I might 
use more.  Netflix is watched on the phone via wifi anyway and in fact 
their new app has setting to just use wifi.  The new phone also won't 
use carrier data if I'm connected to wifi.  BTW, the data plan is no 
contract, just month to month.  So I can drop it anytime or change the 
plan.

Not everyone needs a smartphone but they're getting cheaper and plans 
cheaper so more people are getting them.  Android is way outselling 
everything else.  That's why Apple and Microsoft are pissed.  But 
they're old world business plans with closed source software.  Unless 
they change they're doomed.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
 
 ME: Jesus, did someone call a meeting?

No, Curtis, sorry, nobody called a meeting. Ann and raunchy
are reacting independently to what's been going on here.
They are not mindless robots controlled by me; they have
their own opinions, just as Barry and Sal do.

 A:  Here is the thing, the email, according to Curtis, was
  supportive and ego-stroking to Curtis.
 
 M: Sorry to intrude in the fantasy, but there was no ego 
 stroking.  She was defending me for something she believed
 to be unfair.

The email portrayed Curtis in a positive light, but there
wasn't any of what I would call ego-stroking.

Curtis neglects to mention, however, that Sal's defense
of him was based on a belief of hers that did not reflect
the facts.

I asked earlier if Curtis, having read Sal's email, had
then explained to her that she had gotten it wrong and
suggested she should apologize to Emily. He did not
respond.

 A:  When that happens and yet the other side of the email
 was allegedly an unwarranted and vicious attack on Emily,
 Curtis appears to not be able to get beyond the fact that
 he liked the email because Sal was complimentary to him.
 
 M:  Sorry spin sister, no go.  Even Judy didn't try this
 routine and she read it.

Ann is not spinning or trying a routine. She's drawn an
inaccurate conclusion based on what Curtis said about the
email.

 A:  If he really has no problem with Emily (and frankly,
 why should he?) then he should have understood and admitted
 that Sal's email to Emily was harsh, ugly, unjustified.
 
 M: Unless that isn't how I viewed it.

If that email were to be posted here, everyone who read
it would wonder what the hell was wrong with Curtis that
he did not view it as harsh, ugly, and unjustified. (Oh,
except Barry, of course.)

 A:  Instead of liking the email because it was good for his
 ego he should have (if he had any respect or reasonable
 feeling for Emily's position)
 
 M:  Now you are really running with that ball you created
 aren't you?

To say it was ego stroking goes too far, but saying it was
good for his ego is not out of line. He wrote, She was
sticking up for me and I appreciate that.

 A:  gotten beyond his subjective support of this otherwise
 mean-spirited and traumatizing correspondence and called
 it for what it was.
 
 M: And that would be because someone else's subjective
 opinion about the letter is the right one?

It looks like Ann and raunchy both feel Emily's and my
opinion of the email is more trustworthy than Curtis's.

  I don't agree
 with Judy or Emily about how horrible the letter was.  You
 tipped your hand a bit far with the word traumatizing.

Emily said in her FFL post that it freaked her out. Freaked
out and traumatized are synonymous. Ann didn't have a hand
to tip; she was referring to what Emily told us. So here
again Curtis is being dishonest in casting unjustified
aspersions on Ann.

 I think you and Raunchy are being a bit too eager to please
 Judy.

Neither Ann nor raunchy write their posts to please Judy.
Do Sal or Barry write their posts/emails to please Curtis?

 I don't see any reason to think Emily was traumatized
 by the email.

Again, Curtis flatly accuses Emily of lying, this time
about the effect the email had on her.

 Nor should she have been. I read it.

And Curtis now dictates to Emily how she *should* have
reacted to the email.

Me, I wouldn't have been traumatized by it, but that's
because I'm familiar with Sal's exceedingly nasty
personality, as well as her difficulties making sense
of what she reads on FFL. Emily wasn't. (I would have
been *surprised* by the email because it was so much
worse than anything Sal has posted in public.)

 A: That has not happened and therefore I question Curtis' 
 intentions and values not to mention his motives for
 treating Emily badly by not supporting her and
 understanding where she was coming from in her pain. But
 maybe that is asking too much.
 
 M:  Feeling a little mean today?

That's how Ann perceives you to have behaved, Curtis. She
is not alone in this on FFL. You might want to ask yourself
how you have managed to create this impression if it isn't
correct.

 Emily and I are fine, sorry to disappoint.  At least I am
 fine with her and our last exchange was very friendly and
 full of understanding and tolerance for each others
 differences.

Says Curtis, confidently assuming nobody could have any
reason for distrusting what he tells us.

 The very qualities your post lacks.

Says Curtis, having just got done showing us how much
understanding and tolerance *he* has for people's
differences.



 

  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 -- In 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@... 
wrote:

At great risk of being accused of saying this because you have stroked my ego 
by being supportive, thanks Steve.

The need to fabricate comes from a lack of anything newsworthy.  Just like 
characterizing my POV on the email as lying because it didn't match Judy's.  

It all would have played out a little less silly if Emily had played ball and 
played her role as the brutally aggrieved party.  But instead we exchanged 
posts and made our points clear without attacking each other personally. 
Imagine that options on FFL?

Not much to work with there right?  That is what has made the machinations of 
the ill-will machine so intriguing.  Raunchy's buy-in was no surprise, but I 
have to admit that Ann's was.

Your noticing the WTF? quality to these accusations makes me feel a bit of 
sanity in an otherwise weird morning.





 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
   Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
   know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
   him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
 
 Yea, it's a pretty low inference to make.  But it is from the same
 playbook that states that if someone writes something and then
 attributes it to someone else, by signing another persons name to it,
 then that person, to whom it was attributed is within their rights to
 ask that this not be done again, but not to claim that they are being
 misrepresented.  Keep in mind that the misappropriation may remain
 forever on the internet unless it is deleted.
 You would think that, apart from stating something is an obvious parody,
 that the party who made the misrepresentation would apologize and make a
 retraction of some sort.  Instead the misrepresented party is asked to
 prove that they were misrepresented, and then be judged as to whether or
 not they were misrepresented by others who have shown themselves to be
 hostile to this person in the past.
 You wonder what the #1 point stated above could possibly morph into.
 That others found the situation so funny indicates to me a lack of
 empathy should they find themselves in that same situation.
  Judy at her finest.
 
 
 
 
 
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@
 wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with
   whatever this thing is that seems to interest you.
 
  Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.

 I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine
 backwards, it generates one of your posts.

You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's
cool with you. After calling her motives into question
so brutally, do you really think she trusts you? Just
curious...
  
   There's a number of things Curtis can't change.
  
   1. He can't change the ugly email Sal wrote Emily accusing
   her of being mean to him.
   2. He can't change the fact that he then defended Sal on FFL.
   3. He can't change the fact that he tried to make Sal's email
   sound like no big deal.
   4. He can't change the fact that he accused Emily of sending
   me Sal's email to foment a public fight, after Emily had
   explicitly explained otherwise.
  
   Why *would* Emily want to be cool with Curtis in light of
   those facts?
  
   Nor can Curtis change the fact that I've also read Sal's email.
  
   Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
   know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
   him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?). If he had
   not defended Sal, if he had acknowledged the ugliness of Sal's
   email, if he hadn't attributed ulterior motives to Emily for
   sending me the email, he wouldn't be out of favor with Emily,
   and folks on FFL wouldn't be wondering about his integrity.
  
   If one of my supporters had written a nasty email to
   someone viciously castigating them for purportedly putting
   me down, and I found out about it, I'd call the emailer out
   on FFL by name.
  
   Curtis *definitely* doesn't have the integrity to do that.
  
When Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think
she was teasing you or did it piss you off? Was your
poor treatment of her pay back for a bruised ego or did
it have nothing to do with this:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723
  
   Good question. But if he deigns to respond to it, will we
   have any reason to trust what he tells us? Will Emily?
  
 





[FairfieldLife] And like that...[puff!], Weeds is gone -- part 1

2012-09-17 Thread turquoiseb
One can make a convincing argument that great TV series such as Dexter
and Breaking Bad would never have existed without Showtime's
groundbreaking series Weeds. It raised the bar for antiheroes, those
lawbreakers and outlaws we know we should dislike, but just can't bring
ourselves *to* dislike. In other words, Weeds was one of the first
American TV series to attempt the high dharma of making compassion
popular.

The episode I'm watching tonight is the series' last, but I don't know
this yet. I do notice that it's a two-parter that starts up (for those
of us who saw the previous episode, and the rest of this year's shows)
as shockingly as the first episode of the final season of Breaking
Bad. That previous episode of Weeds ended with A Return To Agrestic,
and a set of New Starts and New Directions for almost all characters.
Cool, said I, watching it last week. I can't wait to see where they
all are next week. I did not know at the time that I was watching one
of the last episodes of Weeds ever.

Still not knowing this, I fired up the latest episode. The credit
sequence fades and the show starts and Bam!, we're not in Kansas any
more, Toto. We're not in next week but some years in the future. No
mention of this is made, however; we in the audience are supposed to
figure out the timeline from hints dropped in conversation, all during
the first five minutes. Successful (and now legal, because marijuana is
now legal) businesses have been founded, and prospered. Marriages have
come and gone. New babies have been born. The most recent new baby we
remember from the previous episode is being Bar Mitzvahed. Computers and
iPhones are now as thin as playing cards.

And all of this in the first five minutes, without a word of
boring-assed exposition. I am SO hooked already. I pause the show,
partly because I am curious about the two-parter thing but also because
I'll have to go to dinner before finishing the episode and this
mini-review, and I do some Googling. I immediately notice headlines that
announce reviews of the Last Episodes Ever Of Weeds. I stop Googling
immediately, and read none of them, because I want no spoilers to this
experience.

I'm off to dinner now. More later...  :-)






[FairfieldLife] Re: Which will you buy?

2012-09-17 Thread Alex Stanley


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:

 
 
 I like the larger screen but there are plenty of smaller ones but I 
 suppose stuck in the boonies you can't exactly window shop like I
 can at places like Fry's or Best Buy.

Out here, ATT is all about fewer bars in rural places. Verizon's coverage is 
good, but US Cellular has absolute blanket coverage out here, and their 
customer service is great; we've been with US Cellular for about 16 years, and 
we're not about to change. They were a little slow to hop on the Android 
bandwagon, but they're up to speed now. If I'd waited a few months, I'd could 
have gotten an S3 instead of an S2, but the HTC Desire's running out of app 
space was driving me crazy.



[FairfieldLife] Great writers' writng quotes

2012-09-17 Thread curtisdeltablues
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http://tinyurl.com/9axw4lp



[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
 
 R: You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's cool
 with you. 
  
 M: Does the thought of that excite you?  Are you acting as a
 peacekeeper here Raunchy?  Trying to help Emily and I smooth
 out a misunderstanding maybe?

According to Curtis, it's already *been* smoothed out.

 R: After calling her motives into question so brutally, 
  
 M: Oh, that was disappointing  , did you have to tip your
 hand so fast?  You were doing so well with the restrained
 tone and now this ham handed word choice.  From now on the
 mean girl agenda is going to be so obvious and boring.
 Trying to invoke the feeling of violence between Emily and
 me huh?

I refer everyone to Emily's FFL post in which she described
Sal's email--

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319943

--then to her FFL post to Curtis:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320148

Emily clearly felt violated both by Sal and by Curtis.
raunchy is just reflecting this.

 Something that we already worked out just fine without your
 help.
  
 Does the word  brutally make you think of blood, how it smells?
 The warmth on your tongue, before it clots with its delicious 
 mineral taste, somewhere between liver and raw steak.  Are you 
 inviting me to share a dream with you?  I'll pass.

You can always tell when Curtis is really beginning to
lose it.

 R:  do you really think she trusts you? 
 
 M: Let's see, if you really wanted to know, you would be asking 
 her, so what are you getting at here?  Oh I get it, you want me
 to worry about whether or not she trusts me.

raunchy wants you to tell us what you believe. You are
unwilling to do that because you couldn't answer in the
affirmative without looking ridiculous.

 The problem I have is that so little trust is really required 
 between us to post here.  Let me answer your insincerity with
 some sincerity.  I suspect that Emily will display an
 appropriate level of trust and mistrust for our interactions
 here, just as I do.

Both of them already have. Emily does not trust Curtis
because he displayed an inappropriate level of mistrust
in her. Except he doesn't really believe she was lying;
he's trying to take the heat off himself by turning it
on Emily. Collateral damage. Tough beans, Emily.

 R: Just curious... 
  
 M: This is really just a style point but that ah shucks lets
 set here a spell and shoot the breeze has been overused by
 your mean mentor,

Interesting, I don't believe I've ever said anything that
could be characterized this way.

 so we all kinda know what is coming.  Kinda like the brutally,
 but with the added unpleasantness of copying her style too
 closely.

This is insane.

 R: when Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think she
 was teasing you or did it piss you off? 
  
 M: I thought Emily was sincerely expressing how she saw it,
 that was her actual POV on that.  Different people here often
 have different POVs on the same thing.  Does that tend to piss
 you off? 

Says Curtis, doing his absolute damndest to avoid answering
raunchy's question.

 R: Was your poor treatment 
  
 M: See I would have held back on the brutally at first and
 gone with this weaker accusation poor treatment and then
 built to brutality.  This is kind of anti-climatic now.  I
 hardly want to correct it as a misstatement after dealing with
 the brutally already.

Well, you certainly can't deny poor treatment.

 Is the brutality and poor treatment because I didn't view the
 email as egregious as Judy does?

Or as Emily does, Curtis forgets to add.

Emily responds to Curtis's view of Sal's email:

-
Curtis: Duh,she was being criticized and I was being defended.
Imagine that, we have different perspectives on the same email,
what an amazing thing.

Emily: Criticized? Oh, let's play it down shall we. I'm good
at accepting criticism Curtis - constructive criticism that
is. Sal's email was mean and and totally off-base. I find it
hilarious that you would actually want such a supporter on 
your 'team' - she is on your 'team,' right? Me, I'll go with
logic over loony every time. 
-

 Or that I didn't believe that Emily's stated reasons for
 sending it to Judy was comprehensive?

Emily's view of Curtis's stated disbelief, also from her
post to Curtis:

You have every right to speculate on the reasons I sent
that gem from Sal to you. Why believe what I told you was
the reason - the same reason I posted here as a matter of
fact. I am honored by how devious you think I am
Considering that I mentioned I had almost no idea who Sal
was - you bet, why take anything I said at face value
Curtis. Let's attribute motive. smackdown - God, I should
so get a life, huh?

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320148

Again, raunchy was reflecting Emily's view of how she was
treated by Curtis. Curtis knows 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
  know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
  him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
 
 Judy at her finest.

Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.

His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
try to hide it.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread Share Long
And I haven't stepped into the fray until now for the same reason:  I haven't 
seen the email that Sal sent Emily.  Is that not possible?  


I know first hand from last week how complicated this kind of conflict can 
become.  And then all the piling on complicates matters even more.  


Plus Emily is on vacation and Sal is still lurking!  Maybe these things do take 
on a life of their own so that the main participants don't even have to be 
present!  




 From: awoelflebater no_re...@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 10:43 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to shut up; 
it's my turn!
 

  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
 
 ME: Jesus, did someone call a meeting?
 
 A:  Here is the thing, the email, according to Curtis, was supportive and 
 ego-stroking to Curtis.
 
 M: Sorry to intrude in the fantasy, but there was no ego stroking.  She was 
 defending me for something she believed to be unfair.
 
 A:  When that happens and yet the other side of the email was allegedly an 
 unwarranted and vicious attack on Emily, Curtis appears to not be able to get 
 beyond the fact that he liked the email because Sal was complimentary to him.
 
 M:  Sorry spin sister, no go.  Even Judy didn't try this routine and she read 
 it.
 
 A:  If he really has no problem with Emily (and frankly, why should he?) then 
 he should have understood and admitted that Sal's email to Emily was harsh, 
 ugly, unjustified.
 
 
 M: Unless that isn't how I viewed it. 
 
 A:  Instead of liking the email because it was good for his ego he should 
 have (if he had any respect or reasonable feeling for Emily's position)
 
 M:  Now you are really running with that ball you created aren't you?
 
 A:  gotten beyond his subjective support of this otherwise mean-spirited and 
 traumatizing correspondence and called it for what it was.
 
 M: And that would be because someone else's subjective opinion about the 
 letter is the right one?  I don't agree with Judy or Emily about how 
 horrible the letter was.  You tipped your hand a bit far with the word 
 traumatizing.  I think you and Raunchy are being a bit too eager to please 
 Judy. I don't see any reason to think Emily was traumatized by the email.  
 Nor should she have been. I read it.
 
 
 A: That has not happened and therefore I question Curtis' intentions and 
 values not to mention his motives for treating Emily badly by not supporting 
 her and understanding where she was coming from in her pain. But maybe that 
 is asking too much.
 
 
 M:  Feeling a little mean today?
 
 Emily and I are fine, sorry to disappoint.  At least I am fine with her and 
 our last exchange was very friendly and full of understanding and tolerance 
 for each others differences.
 
 The very qualities your post lacks. 

Curtis, you may be correct in all that you say. I am getting impressions from 
people who read the email that Sal sent that it was not a pleasant email to 
receive for Emily. Emily has said so and Judy has said so, both of whom read 
the letter. So I am going to back out now that I have put in my two cents 
regarding the conclusion I drew from all of the to-ing and fro-ing on this 
subject. I am going to back out because I did not read the email and thus can 
not comment further on it. However, I can and did want to say what I said 
regarding the general play of personalities and human nature as I saw it based 
on discussions of this issue. At this point, if Sal is all she is cracked up to 
be by those who love and support her, it would be about that time when she 
could step out from behind that curtain and say her lines.
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with 
   whatever this thing is that seems to interest you.
  
  Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.
 
 I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine 
 backwards, it generates one of your posts.
 
You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's 
cool with you. After calling her motives into question 
so brutally, do you really think she trusts you? Just 
curious...
   
   There's a number of things Curtis can't change.
   
   1. He can't change the ugly email Sal wrote Emily accusing
   her of being mean to him.
   2. He can't change the fact that he then defended Sal on FFL.
   3. He can't 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
   know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
   him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
  
  Judy at her finest.
 
 Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
 a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.
 
 His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
 try to hide it.


So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing to make 
yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting that you guys 
literally called a meeting?  And you thought that other readers might be 
confused if you pretended it was as literal as your insinuation?

That's why I call you the troll queen.










[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Plus Emily is on vacation and Sal is still lurking!  Maybe these things do 
 take on a life of their own so that the main participants don't even have to 
 be present!  


Perfectly nailed Share.  




 And I haven't stepped into the fray until now for the same reason:  I 
 haven't seen the email that Sal sent Emily.  Is that not possible?  
 
 
 I know first hand from last week how complicated this kind of conflict can 
 become.  And then all the piling on complicates matters even more.  
 
 
 Plus Emily is on vacation and Sal is still lurking!  Maybe these things do 
 take on a life of their own so that the main participants don't even have to 
 be present!  
 
 
 
 
  From: awoelflebater no_re...@yahoogroups.com
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 10:43 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to shut 
 up; it's my turn!
  
 
   
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
  
  ME: Jesus, did someone call a meeting?
  
  A:  Here is the thing, the email, according to Curtis, was supportive and 
  ego-stroking to Curtis.
  
  M: Sorry to intrude in the fantasy, but there was no ego stroking.  She 
  was defending me for something she believed to be unfair.
  
  A:  When that happens and yet the other side of the email was allegedly an 
  unwarranted and vicious attack on Emily, Curtis appears to not be able to 
  get beyond the fact that he liked the email because Sal was complimentary 
  to him.
  
  M:  Sorry spin sister, no go.  Even Judy didn't try this routine and she 
  read it.
  
  A:  If he really has no problem with Emily (and frankly, why should he?) 
  then he should have understood and admitted that Sal's email to Emily was 
  harsh, ugly, unjustified.
  
  
  M: Unless that isn't how I viewed it. 
  
  A:  Instead of liking the email because it was good for his ego he should 
  have (if he had any respect or reasonable feeling for Emily's position)
  
  M:  Now you are really running with that ball you created aren't you?
  
  A:  gotten beyond his subjective support of this otherwise mean-spirited 
  and traumatizing correspondence and called it for what it was.
  
  M: And that would be because someone else's subjective opinion about the 
  letter is the right one?  I don't agree with Judy or Emily about how 
  horrible the letter was.  You tipped your hand a bit far with the word 
  traumatizing.  I think you and Raunchy are being a bit too eager to 
  please Judy. I don't see any reason to think Emily was traumatized by the 
  email.  Nor should she have been. I read it.
  
  
  A: That has not happened and therefore I question Curtis' intentions and 
  values not to mention his motives for treating Emily badly by not 
  supporting her and understanding where she was coming from in her pain. But 
  maybe that is asking too much.
  
  
  M:  Feeling a little mean today?
  
  Emily and I are fine, sorry to disappoint.  At least I am fine with her and 
  our last exchange was very friendly and full of understanding and tolerance 
  for each others differences.
  
  The very qualities your post lacks. 
 
 Curtis, you may be correct in all that you say. I am getting impressions from 
 people who read the email that Sal sent that it was not a pleasant email to 
 receive for Emily. Emily has said so and Judy has said so, both of whom read 
 the letter. So I am going to back out now that I have put in my two cents 
 regarding the conclusion I drew from all of the to-ing and fro-ing on this 
 subject. I am going to back out because I did not read the email and thus can 
 not comment further on it. However, I can and did want to say what I said 
 regarding the general play of personalities and human nature as I saw it 
 based on discussions of this issue. At this point, if Sal is all she is 
 cracked up to be by those who love and support her, it would be about that 
 time when she could step out from behind that curtain and say her lines.
  
  
  
  
   
  
  
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ 
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with 
whatever this thing is that seems to interest you.
   
   Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.
  
  I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine 
  backwards, it generates one of your posts.
  
 You 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:
snip
 A mature person, sent an email that she didn't
 take kindly to, would have replied to the sender
 *in email*, telling her to buzz off,

Emily did exactly that, in fact. She didn't
quote it here, but I've seen it.

 and never said a word about it to anyone else.

It wasn't just an email that she didn't take
kindly to. It was a *frighteningly* ugly email,
insanely off-base.

Now, class, do we all remember the trick Barry
pulled awhile back with Dan Friedman? Not only
did Barry write a post about an email Dan had
written to Barry that Barry didn't take kindly
to, he sent Dan's wife an ugly email of his own.

How many here think it's just a wee tad bit
hypocritical for Barry to criticize Emily for
posting about Sal's email?

 But Emily,
 pussywhipped by Judy and wishing to get on her
 good side, sent copies of the email to you and
 to Judy. My take is that in so doing she was
 trying to get you to criticize one of Judy's
 announced enemies, start a fight between you
 and Sal, and thus get strokes from Judy for
 having done it.

Barry's take is factually wrong in every single
detail.

 She succeeded only in the latter, having made
 an ass of herself in trying to start the fight.

Says Barry, having just made a gigantic ass of
himself.

Now, notice how Barry turns his *conjecture*
about Emily's motivations into established fact:

 This behavior is so juvenile and pathetic that 
 I don't understand how anyone could be fascinated 
 enough by it to continue obsessing about it. 
 Including you, Curtis. This is just another 
 attempt by Judy to get people to pile on to one 
 of her enemies. You've seen it all before, as 
 has everyone else here.

Emily isn't the issue, of course. Nor is Judy.

Curtis's pervasive, continuing dishonesty is the
issue.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread Share Long
I noticed that Judy did not recognize the humor in my exchange with Richard.  
Perhaps something similar is going on here.  However Curtis, it was clear to me 
that you were making a joke with the called a meeting comment. 


The insinuation that you and Sal conspired about the email to Emily is unfair 
fighting and makes matters worse.  Why do that?


 From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltabl...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:42 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to shut up; 
it's my turn!
 

  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
   know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
   him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
  
  Judy at her finest.
 
 Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
 a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.
 
 His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
 try to hide it.

So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing to make 
yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting that you guys 
literally called a meeting?  And you thought that other readers might be 
confused if you pretended it was as literal as your insinuation?

That's why I call you the troll queen.




 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Great writers' writng quotes

2012-09-17 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 http://tinyurl.com/9axw4lp

Wonderful. And lost completely on those who have never
dared to write creatively. 

My faves were the quotes by E. L. Doctorow and Saul Bellow.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@... 
wrote:
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
   Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
   know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
   him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
 
 Yea, it's a pretty low inference to make.

It was a question, Steve (three questions, actually).

  But it is from
 the same playbook that states that if someone writes
 something and then attributes it to someone else, by signing
 another persons name to it, then that person, to whom it was
 attributed is within their rights to ask that this not be
 done again, but not to claim that they are being 
 misrepresented.

You forgot to add without supporting the claim. Of course
they have a right to make the claim. But either they
support the claim, or they refrain from complaining when
its credibility is challenged.

Curtis, incidentally, repeatedly and quite deliberately
misrepresented the objections to his behavior in this
matter.

 Keep in mind that the misappropriation may remain
 forever on the internet unless it is deleted.

Not sure what misappropriation is supposed to mean
here, but all the objections to and controversy about
it *also* remain forever on the Internet unless they
are deleted.

 You would think that, apart from stating something is an
 obvious parody, that the party who made the
 misrepresentation would apologize and make a retraction
 of some sort.

Even if that party doesn't believe they misrepresented
anything?

 Instead the misrepresented party is asked to prove that
 they were misrepresented,

Of course they are.

 and then be judged as to whether or
 not they were misrepresented by others who have shown
 themselves to be hostile to this person in the past.

I don't believe that only hostile persons were asked to
judge. These were all public posts, and anybody could
make whatever judgment they wished.

 You wonder what the #1 point stated above could possibly
 morph into.

You don't even know what that point was, Steve. HINT: It
isn't stated in what you quote above.

BTW, Curtis hasn't provided an answer to any of the three
questions I asked.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Great writers' writng quotes

2012-09-17 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  http://tinyurl.com/9axw4lp
 
 Wonderful. And lost completely on those who have never
 dared to write creatively. 
 
 My faves were the quotes by E. L. Doctorow and Saul Bellow.


I liked Orwell and Vonnegut and the line about exclamation marks.

I have terrible trouble writing, I'm trying to write my
autobiography - not that I've had an epic life, but I've been 
round the block a few times and got lost along the way here
and there. I have no delusions that anyone would publish it 
even if I sent it somewhere but it seems like a good exercise 
to try and arrange my funny old life in a way that others might
find interesting. Trouble is everything I write reads back like
a Douglas Adams novel and it aint the effect I'm after. I want
a sort of emotional rags-to-riches fable. Ah well keep trying





[FairfieldLife] Re: lecture on research on adverse effects of meditation

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig LEnglish5@ wrote:
 
  I just did reread what you wrote. If you think that NLP offers 
  something, then the DoD and Office of Veterans' Affairs should 
  be made aware of things.
 
 Not everyone is a compulsive proselytute, Lawson.

Classic Barry. Lawson is responding to a post from salyavin
in which salyavin asked:

  So maybe comparative meditation studies should include NLP in
  working out which is most effective for various complaints?




[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Curtis, you may be correct in all that you say. I am
  getting impressions from people who read the email that
  Sal sent that it was not a pleasant email to receive
  for Emily. Emily has said so and Judy has said so, both
  of whom read the letter.
 
 M: I am not denying that, I was objecting to the histrionic
 characterization Judy was trying to use to create a fuss
 that you bought into.

Which histrionic characterization of mine was Ann buying
into, Curtis?

Not only did I not use the characterization Ann did, I noted
explicitly that it was inaccurate.

But Curtis has just gone too far now; he can't stop himself
from lying even if there's no question he'll be exposed.

 A:So I am going to back out now that I have put in my two
 cents regarding the conclusion I drew from all of the to-ing
 and fro-ing on this subject. I am going to back out because
 I did not read the email and thus can not comment further on
 it. However, I can and did want to say what I said regarding
 the general play of personalities and human nature as I saw it
 based on discussions of this issue.
 
 M: It clarified a bias I was unaware of. 

Translation: Curtis does not agree with Ann's opinions,
therefore they constitute a bias.

 A: At this point, if Sal is all she is cracked up to be by
 those who love and support her, it would be about that time
 when she could step out from behind that curtain and say her
 lines.
 
 M: Slow news day huh?  I think all the actual participants
 are all fine at this point. Thanks for your concern.

Emily isn't fine. Curtis is lying up a storm, so clearly
he isn't so fine either.

Sal has *never* been fine. At least not since she joined
FFL.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 Emily isn't fine. Curtis is lying up a storm, so clearly
 he isn't so fine either.

Tee hee


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
  
   Curtis, you may be correct in all that you say. I am
   getting impressions from people who read the email that
   Sal sent that it was not a pleasant email to receive
   for Emily. Emily has said so and Judy has said so, both
   of whom read the letter.
  
  M: I am not denying that, I was objecting to the histrionic
  characterization Judy was trying to use to create a fuss
  that you bought into.
 
 Which histrionic characterization of mine was Ann buying
 into, Curtis?
 
 Not only did I not use the characterization Ann did, I noted
 explicitly that it was inaccurate.
 
 But Curtis has just gone too far now; he can't stop himself
 from lying even if there's no question he'll be exposed.
 
  A:So I am going to back out now that I have put in my two
  cents regarding the conclusion I drew from all of the to-ing
  and fro-ing on this subject. I am going to back out because
  I did not read the email and thus can not comment further on
  it. However, I can and did want to say what I said regarding
  the general play of personalities and human nature as I saw it
  based on discussions of this issue.
  
  M: It clarified a bias I was unaware of. 
 
 Translation: Curtis does not agree with Ann's opinions,
 therefore they constitute a bias.
 
  A: At this point, if Sal is all she is cracked up to be by
  those who love and support her, it would be about that time
  when she could step out from behind that curtain and say her
  lines.
  
  M: Slow news day huh?  I think all the actual participants
  are all fine at this point. Thanks for your concern.
 
 Emily isn't fine. Curtis is lying up a storm, so clearly
 he isn't so fine either.
 
 Sal has *never* been fine. At least not since she joined
 FFL.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@ 
 wrote:
 
 At great risk of being accused of saying this because you
 have stroked my ego by being supportive, thanks Steve.

Just for the record, until Ann used the phrase this
morning (incorrectly, as I've noted), the notion of
people taking a particular perspective in a post
because they wanted their egos stroked was the
exclusive property of the Curtis-Barry axis.

 The need to fabricate comes from a lack of anything newsworthy.
 Just like characterizing my POV on the email as lying because
 it didn't match Judy's.  

As Curtis knows, I did not characterize what he said about
Sal's email as lying. I said it was *dishonest*, because
it attempted to portray the email as no big deal when he
knew it was scarily vicious.

 It all would have played out a little less silly if Emily had
 played ball

Played ball with whom, Curtis?

 and played her role as the brutally aggrieved
 party.  But instead we exchanged posts and made our points
 clear without attacking each other personally. Imagine that
 options on FFL?

Wait. Is this exchange of posts what Curtis was referring
to as him and Emily being cool?

If so, does he think nobody *read* Emily's post?? Here it is:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/320148

 Not much to work with there right?  That is what has made the 
 machinations of the ill-will machine so intriguing.  Raunchy's
 buy-in was no surprise, but I have to admit that Ann's was.
 
 Your noticing the WTF? quality to these accusations makes me
 feel a bit of sanity in an otherwise weird morning.

Translation: At least there's one person left on FFL who
still hasn't seen through me.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 And I haven't stepped into the fray until now for the same
 reason:  I haven't seen the email that Sal sent Emily.  Is
 that not possible?

For you to see the email? Emily's been pretty clear that
she doesn't want it posted. You could always email her
and ask if she'd send it to you privately, but I
seriously doubt she would.

 I know first hand from last week how complicated this kind of
 conflict can become. And then all the piling on complicates
 matters even more.

Very, VERY different kind of conflict. In this case, the
complication is that Curtis has been, shall we say, less
than straightforward about the situation.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Which will you buy?

2012-09-17 Thread Bhairitu
On 09/17/2012 09:54 AM, Alex Stanley wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:


 I like the larger screen but there are plenty of smaller ones but I
 suppose stuck in the boonies you can't exactly window shop like I
 can at places like Fry's or Best Buy.
 Out here, ATT is all about fewer bars in rural places. Verizon's coverage is 
 good, but US Cellular has absolute blanket coverage out here, and their 
 customer service is great; we've been with US Cellular for about 16 years, 
 and we're not about to change. They were a little slow to hop on the Android 
 bandwagon, but they're up to speed now. If I'd waited a few months, I'd could 
 have gotten an S3 instead of an S2, but the HTC Desire's running out of app 
 space was driving me crazy.



US Cellular appears to be a mid-west only service.  I can't even access 
their web page which is a bit odd.  I got my first cellphone in 1993 and 
then there were few carriers and I was on Cellular One, an early west 
coast company.   They got bought by ATT Wireless who got bought by 
Cingular and then ATT bought Cingular.  These companies are all run by 
the get rich quick types or what we used to call the gold rush 
mentality.  They're often salesmen who gambled on an emerging technology 
even if they don't really understand it.  Many of those types are CEOs.  
Good reason why the Hindus made them the third rung on the caste system. 
:-D

3G and 4G are built on the back of WiMax which is a wide area broadband 
that was designed to bring broadband to rural areas, farms, etc where 
laying fiber or even phone lines wouldn't work.  It is part of why 
analog TVs went dark because those lower channels are being used by 
companies and emergency networks now.  Those lower frequencies propagate 
better over wide areas than the higher UHF frequencies.  That's why one 
could often get VHF channels 2-6 with just rabbit ears.

At the house I mainly get E on the phone which means Edge and on 
some phones will say 3G.  4G shows up as H for HSPA and I do sometimes 
see that.   If I had the tower right behind as there should be by now it 
would be H all the time.  The acid test was going on my walk in the 
neighborhood and even with 3G there was no dropouts on the streams when 
I occasionally would get them on a walk using Verizon.  The neighbors 
were worried about kids playing near the towers while they are probably 
irradiating them more with their wifi routers in their homes. :-D

If you want to talk about large phones, my nephew's company got a cell 
phone in 1984 when they were the new thing.  I recall attending his 
brothers wedding here and my nephew had this box with phone handset, 
antenna and a handle on it.


[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
   
   Judy at her finest.
  
  Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
  a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.
  
  His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
  try to hide it.
 
 So desperate for manufactured material that you are even
 willing to make yourself look this thick?  So you got that I
 was suggesting that you guys literally called a meeting?

No, I got that you were suggesting we were acting in
concert. Not the first time you've made such a suggestion,
is it?

 And you thought that other readers might be confused if you
 pretended it was as literal as your insinuation?
 
 That's why I call you the troll queen.

Not only no cigar, but not even a good try. You are so
running out of steam, Curtis.





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Post Count issue

2012-09-17 Thread Bhairitu
On 09/15/2012 01:32 PM, Alex Stanley wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:
 On 09/15/2012 04:22 AM, Alex Stanley wrote:
 I just sent several replies to posts, all sent from the web interface, and 
 one of them showed up with my Yahoo ID instead of my name next to my email 
 address. That means my posts will appear under two different handles in 
 the Post Count. Usually, that happens when people post using both email and 
 the website, but it appears that this is one of those *very* rare instances 
 where Yahoo is having a glitch, and it's a problem for people who only post 
 with one method.

 People with post counts that run near the limit will need to keep an eye 
 out for all their posts on the Post Counts.


 I might be able if I get time to modify the script so it can give you a
 second listing by email address omitting the noreply@... one.  But
 then you'll get the *pleasure* of setting it up. :-D

 Shouldn't be a problem to simply insert a block of code into the existing 
 script. Ya just gotta make sure the code is compatible with the older version 
 of PHP/Pear/whatever that the current script runs on. To refresh your memory, 
 when I migrated from the old Win2000 box to the Win7 laptop, I installed the 
 newest version of XAMPP, only to discover that it wouldn't run the script. I 
 then replaced the PHP directory with the one from the Win2000 backup, and the 
 script worked just fine.



Appears that maketime was deprecated or part of it.  That's because PHP 
is a wrapper around the C libraries that are on all systems and C has 
started using something different too.  That is probably easy to fix and 
the same problem is probably why the Python version didn't want to work 
either with that section.  I am thinking that we shouldn't include the 
email addresses in the Post Count because it leaves people open to spam 
but I really don't get much spam on my account.  Ideally it should list 
every handle attached to an address after the message count instead of 
the email.  That might take a bit more work.



[FairfieldLife] Emperor's new phone

2012-09-17 Thread card

I bet almost everybody even up in Minnesota has already
seen this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rdIWKytq_q4



[FairfieldLife] Devas and Architecture

2012-09-17 Thread mjackson74
Years ago I attended a WPA/Advanced Technique week in Washington, DC. Neal 
Patterson was the Advanced Technique initiator.

During the knowledge part of one afternoon, we all watched a video tape of 
Maharishi talking about cultural differences and natural law. 

In this lecture he stated the reason people are different all over the world 
was the energy of the devas. 

Now I mean he actually used the words deva and devas, and during the talk used 
also the term the personifications of the laws of nature interchangeably for 
devas.

He said the reason people had developed different cultures, different modes of 
dress, different languages, different cultural habits and food preferences, in 
short all the aspects of a particular culture was due to the energy of the 
devas underlying that particular part of the geographical landscape. 

The devic energy or energy of the personifications of the laws of nature formed 
the energy that people would pick up on and using that energy create all the 
aspects of their culture. This accounted for cultural differences all over the 
world. It was the devas.

I wonder then how that fits in with the idea of sthapatya veda where all the 
buildings must be designed and constructed the same way. 

Does this mean that all the devas responsible for the cultural creation of 
architecture all over the world have now become Maharishi Sthapatya Veda devas? 
Or have they just been taking lessons from the old sthapatya veda devas? Or is 
sthapatya veda unnecessary outside of India?

Thoughts, anyone?




[FairfieldLife] Re: Post Count issue

2012-09-17 Thread Alex Stanley


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:

 On 09/15/2012 01:32 PM, Alex Stanley wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@ wrote:
  On 09/15/2012 04:22 AM, Alex Stanley wrote:
  I just sent several replies to posts, all sent from the web interface, 
  and one of them showed up with my Yahoo ID instead of my name next to my 
  email address. That means my posts will appear under two different 
  handles in the Post Count. Usually, that happens when people post using 
  both email and the website, but it appears that this is one of those 
  *very* rare instances where Yahoo is having a glitch, and it's a problem 
  for people who only post with one method.
 
  People with post counts that run near the limit will need to keep an eye 
  out for all their posts on the Post Counts.
 
 
  I might be able if I get time to modify the script so it can give you a
  second listing by email address omitting the noreply@ one.  But
  then you'll get the *pleasure* of setting it up. :-D
 
  Shouldn't be a problem to simply insert a block of code into the existing 
  script. Ya just gotta make sure the code is compatible with the older 
  version of PHP/Pear/whatever that the current script runs on. To refresh 
  your memory, when I migrated from the old Win2000 box to the Win7 laptop, I 
  installed the newest version of XAMPP, only to discover that it wouldn't 
  run the script. I then replaced the PHP directory with the one from the 
  Win2000 backup, and the script worked just fine.
 
 
 
 Appears that maketime was deprecated or part of it.  That's because PHP 
 is a wrapper around the C libraries that are on all systems and C has 
 started using something different too.  That is probably easy to fix and 
 the same problem is probably why the Python version didn't want to work 
 either with that section.  I am thinking that we shouldn't include the 
 email addresses in the Post Count because it leaves people open to spam 
 but I really don't get much spam on my account.  Ideally it should list 
 every handle attached to an address after the message count instead of 
 the email.  That might take a bit more work.


This has now officially reached the point where I'm delighted with the Post 
Count script system exactly as it is.




[FairfieldLife] New Video: Zebra Finch Update

2012-09-17 Thread raunchydog
The desire of Mother Nature to propagate the species will not be thwarted. 
Zebra finches are particularly adept at defeating every intervention a meddling 
human could possibly devise to prevent them from making babies.
http://youtu.be/LS48YDiNBsI




[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
Share, forgive me, but you are very much out of the loop
here. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 I noticed that Judy did not recognize the humor in my exchange with 
 Richard.  Perhaps something similar is going on here.  However Curtis, it 
 was clear to me that you were making a joke with the called a meeting 
 comment. 
 
 
 The insinuation that you and Sal conspired about the email to Emily is unfair 
 fighting and makes matters worse.  Why do that?
 
 
  From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:42 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to shut 
 up; it's my turn!
  
 
   
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
   
   Judy at her finest.
  
  Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
  a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.
  
  His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
  try to hide it.
 
 So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing to make 
 yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting that you guys 
 literally called a meeting?  And you thought that other readers might be 
 confused if you pretended it was as literal as your insinuation?
 
 That's why I call you the troll queen.
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] New Video: Zebra Finch Update

2012-09-17 Thread Mike Dixon
They are not good for hawk bait either! I tried catching Merlins with them and 
they freeze at the sight of a hawk or falcon. Almost caught a Sharpshinned hawk 
once, using a Zebra Finch. The hawk came into the trap and landed next to it 
and looked at the funny looking creature, jumped around a few times, then took 
off. I took the Finches back to the pet store.

 


 From: raunchydog raunchy...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:25 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] New Video: Zebra Finch Update
  

   
 
The desire of Mother Nature to propagate the species will not be thwarted. 
Zebra finches are particularly adept at defeating every intervention a meddling 
human could possibly devise to prevent them from making babies.
http://youtu.be/LS48YDiNBsI

   
  

[FairfieldLife] Re: Great writers' writng quotes

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  http://tinyurl.com/9axw4lp
 
 Wonderful. And lost completely on those who have never
 dared to write creatively.

Actually, anyone who writes anything, and even many
who just love to read good writing, will appreciate
them.

It's not quite such a closed little circle as you
imagine, Barry.

 My faves were the quotes by E. L. Doctorow and Saul Bellow.

Mine was Chesterton's:

I owe my success to having listened respectfully to the
very best advice, and then going away and doing the
exact opposite.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Great writers' writng quotes

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  http://tinyurl.com/9axw4lp
 
 Wonderful. And lost completely on those who have never
 dared to write creatively.

Actually, anyone who writes anything, and even many
who just love to read good writing, will appreciate
them.

It's not quite such a closed little circle as you
imagine, Barry.

 My faves were the quotes by E. L. Doctorow and Saul Bellow.

Mine was Chesterton's:

I owe my success to having listened respectfully to the
very best advice, and then going away and doing the
exact opposite.




[FairfieldLife] Fw: PRAY, PRAY, PRAY!!

2012-09-17 Thread Mike Dixon

  
Just got this. I'm wondering if the Jyotishi's see any truth here?

FW: PRAY, PRAY, PRAY!!







   
 
 
As received by me.Actually I'm surprised that it has not yet 
happened..

 
 
 
   
 Received from a credible friend...
 
 

  

  

 
 


  I just received this from my sister-in-law in San Antonio.  She called me 
and read it to me before I even got the e-mail.   We feel that something big 
is about to happen and Christians need know.  Be alert…we may be on the verge 
war…pray, pray, pray!  June
  
   
 

 
   I PRAY EVERYONE IS PRAYING AND HAS BEEN PRAYING!.IF YOU HAVE 
NOT BEEN PRAYING PLEASE JOIN US IN PRAYER FOR THE PEACE OF JERUSALEM, HE 
(GOD) WILL BLESS THEM THAT LOVE THEE (JERUSALEM)..THIS AFFECTS US AS 
MUCH AS IT DOES JERUSALEM!!!..PLEASE SEND THIS OUT TO AS MANY BELIEVERS 
AS POSSIBLE!!...PRAY WITHOUT CEASING
   
 
  
   
 
  
   
 
  
 
1 Thessalonians 5:17.  Pray without ceasing.

 
 
 
 
 
___

   
  Pray! Pray! PRAY! 
   
 
  This just came to me from a sincere friend.  PRAY!
 
   
 
  I just received this from a very reliable source source.
 
   
 
   
 
  Sounds like Benjamin Net. May not wait until after the election.
 

 
  
 My brother and his family live in Jerusalem - he is a minister - and a 
former Navy SEAL - his office is close to one of Israel 's largest 
underground military bases.
 
 He called me last night which is very unusual - usually it is email.
 
 He called to tell me that he is sending his family back to the US 
immediately due to what he is seeing happen within the last week and what he 
is being told by his military contacts 
 
  in both the Israel and US military.
 
 He said he is seeing with his own eyes military movements the likes of 
which he has never seen in his 20+ years in Israel .
 
 What he called a massive redeployment and protective tactics of forces is 
underway.
 
 Over the last two days he has seen anti-aircraft missile deployments 
throughout the Jerusalem area including 3 mobile units that he can see from 
his office windows.
 
 In addition, he has seen very large Israeli armored columns moving fast 
toward the Sinai where Egypt has now moved in Armor.
 
 There are reports of the top military leaders meeting with Israel's Sr. 
Rabi which is something that has happened preceding every prior military 
campaign.
 
 His admonition is to watch carefully and pray for Israel and its people.
 
 He is convinced that barring something extraordinary Israel will attack 
Iran - with or without the US - and very soon.
 
 It is the belief in Israel that Obama does not stand with Israel but with 
the Arab countries.
 
 He has told me before that Israel will saber rattle from time to time but 
that this time it is very very different from what he is seeing and hearing.
 
 He was at the Wailing Wall 2 days ago and there were hundreds of IDF 
soldiers there. As he was leaving he passed at least 20 military buses full 
of soldiers in route to the wall.
 
 He has never seen this before either.
 
 Just thought I would pass this along.
 My brother is not an alarmist by any means.
 
 When he talks like this it gets my attention for sure and usually I find he 
knows more than he shares.
 
 There are reports that Israel is asking Obama to come to Israel immediately 
but they are being answered with silence.
 
 My opinion is that I see the making of the perfect storm 
 
   
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 -- 
 

 

 



 
 
 
 
 

-- End of Forwarded Message
  

[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread seventhray1
Share,
With all due respect.  I think some of us can be guilty of this notion
of bringing a knife to gun fight. Or rather, we didn't originally come
to fight at all, but realize we are up against someone who has come to
fight, and fight to win and will deploy whatever arsenal is necessary to
effect this outcome.
And yes, I think Judy misses much of the humor and subtlety that takes
place here.  She remains primarily focused on promoting the rightness of
her POV.
The bigger casualty is that the overall dialogue.  It is hard to discuss
something without quickly coming up against what she feels are vital
distinctions.
And then before you know it, you are stuck in a never ending,
meaningless discussion about some obscure point that has no bearing on
the overall picture.
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@...
wrote:

 I noticed that Judy did not recognize the humor in my exchange with
Richard.  Perhaps something similar is going on here.  However
Curtis, it was clear to me that you were making a joke with the called a
meeting comment.


 The insinuation that you and Sal conspired about the email to Emily is
unfair fighting and makes matters worse.  Why do that?

 
  From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:42 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to
shut up; it's my turn!


 Â
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
wrote:
  
Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
  
   Judy at her finest.
 
  Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
  a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.
 
  His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
  try to hide it.

 So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing to
make yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting that
you guys literally called a meeting?  And you thought that other readers
might be confused if you pretended it was as literal as your
insinuation?

 That's why I call you the troll queen.

 




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread Share Long
Steve, I was asking why fight unfairly which only makes matter worse.  I don't 
at all equate that with what you're talking about, getting into the conflict 
tho not having intended to. Share




 From: seventhray1 lurkernomore20002...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 3:06 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to shut up; 
it's my turn!
 

  
Share,

With all due respect.  I think some of us can be guilty of this notion of 
bringing a knife to gun fight. Or rather, we didn't originally come to fight 
at all, but realize we are up against someone who has come to fight, and fight 
to win and will deploy whatever arsenal is necessary to effect this outcome.

And yes, I think Judy misses much of the humor and subtlety that takes place 
here.  She remains primarily focused on promoting the rightness of her POV. 

The bigger casualty is that the overall dialogue.  It is hard to discuss 
something without quickly coming up against what she feels are vital 
distinctions.

And then before you know it, you are stuck in a never ending, meaningless 
discussion about some obscure point that has no bearing on the overall picture.
  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 I noticed that Judy did not recognize the humor in my exchange with 
 Richard.  Perhaps something similar is going on here.  However Curtis, it 
 was clear to me that you were making a joke with the called a meeting 
 comment. 
 
 
 The insinuation that you and Sal conspired about the email to Emily is unfair 
 fighting and makes matters worse.  Why do that?
 
 
  From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:42 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to shut 
 up; it's my turn!
 
 
   
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
   
   Judy at her finest.
  
  Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
  a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.
  
  His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
  try to hide it.
 
 So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing to make 
 yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting that you guys 
 literally called a meeting?  And you thought that other readers might be 
 confused if you pretended it was as literal as your insinuation?
 
 That's why I call you the troll queen.
 
 


 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread seventhray1
Okay.  No biggie.
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@...
wrote:

 Steve, I was asking why fight unfairly which only makes matter
worse.  I don't at all equate that with what you're talking about,
getting into the conflict tho not having intended to. Share



 
  From: seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 3:06 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to
shut up; it's my turn!


 Â
 Share,

 With all due respect. Â I think some of us can be guilty of this
notion of bringing a knife to gun fight. Or rather, we didn't
originally come to fight at all, but realize we are up against someone
who has come to fight, and fight to win and will deploy whatever arsenal
is necessary to effect this outcome.

 And yes, I think Judy misses much of the humor and subtlety that takes
place here. Â She remains primarily focused on promoting the
rightness of her POV.Â

 The bigger casualty is that the overall dialogue.  It is hard
to discuss something without quickly coming up against what she feels
are vital distinctions.

 And then before you know it, you are stuck in a never ending,
meaningless discussion about some obscure point that has no bearing on
the overall picture.
 Â Â
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  I noticed that Judy did not recognize the humor in my exchange with
Richard.  Perhaps something similar is going on here. 
However Curtis, it was clear to me that you were making a joke with the
called a meeting comment.
 
 
  The insinuation that you and Sal conspired about the email to Emily
is unfair fighting and makes matters worse.  Why do that?
 
  
   From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
  Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:42 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going
to shut up; it's my turn!
 
 
  ÂÂ
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
wrote:
   
 Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
 know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
 him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
   
Judy at her finest.
  
   Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
   a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.
  
   His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
   try to hide it.
 
  So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing to
make yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting that
you guys literally called a meeting?  And you thought that other readers
might be confused if you pretended it was as literal as your
insinuation?
 
  That's why I call you the troll queen.
 
  
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
Steve, none of this is accurate. It's just fallout from the
fact that you get called on stupidities of one sort or
another and feel the need to strike back. But you never
manage to be *relevant* when you do this. You just flail
around a lot.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@... 
wrote:

 Share,
 With all due respect.  I think some of us can be guilty of this notion
 of bringing a knife to gun fight. Or rather, we didn't originally come
 to fight at all, but realize we are up against someone who has come to
 fight, and fight to win and will deploy whatever arsenal is necessary to
 effect this outcome.
 And yes, I think Judy misses much of the humor and subtlety that takes
 place here.  She remains primarily focused on promoting the rightness of
 her POV.
 The bigger casualty is that the overall dialogue.  It is hard to discuss
 something without quickly coming up against what she feels are vital
 distinctions.
 And then before you know it, you are stuck in a never ending,
 meaningless discussion about some obscure point that has no bearing on
 the overall picture.
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@
 wrote:
 
  I noticed that Judy did not recognize the humor in my exchange with
 Richard.  Perhaps something similar is going on here.  However
 Curtis, it was clear to me that you were making a joke with the called a
 meeting comment.
 
 
  The insinuation that you and Sal conspired about the email to Emily is
 unfair fighting and makes matters worse.  Why do that?
 
  
   From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
  Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:42 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to
 shut up; it's my turn!
 
 
  Â
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:
   
 Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
 know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
 him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
   
Judy at her finest.
  
   Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
   a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.
  
   His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
   try to hide it.
 
  So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing to
 make yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting that
 you guys literally called a meeting?  And you thought that other readers
 might be confused if you pretended it was as literal as your
 insinuation?
 
  That's why I call you the troll queen.
 
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread awoelflebater


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@... 
wrote:

 Okay.  No biggie.
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@
 wrote:
 
  Steve, I was asking why fight unfairly which only makes matter
 worse.  I don't at all equate that with what you're talking about,
 getting into the conflict tho not having intended to. Share
 
 
 
  
   From: seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
  Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 3:06 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to
 shut up; it's my turn!
 
 
  Â
  Share,
 
  With all due respect. Â I think some of us can be guilty of this
 notion of bringing a knife to gun fight. Or rather, we didn't
 originally come to fight at all, but realize we are up against someone
 who has come to fight, and fight to win and will deploy whatever arsenal
 is necessary to effect this outcome.

Okay all you gunslingers and knife wielders out there, I think you have 
confused me here Share. I understand the concept of unfair fighting and what 
that might entail but I am unsure what your analogy of bringing a knife to a 
gunfight means here. Does the knife wielder hold an unfair advantage or is 
he/she at a disadvantage or are you saying the knife holder doesn't want to 
fight or, oh dear, I am really puzzled now.

In my estimation someone who is fighting unfairly would be someone telling lies 
or untruths. Someone twisting facts to purposefully mislead others. And in 
addition, they would have to know that there was no way to prove these untruths 
to be otherwise. So to be unfair in a fight would be to intentionally lie in 
order to create conflict, a conflict that might never be able to be resolved 
because evidence is known, or at least believed, to be non-forthcoming at any 
point. That is the best definition I can come up with at this point for what I 
could describe as fighting unfairly.

Now how that relates, if at all, to what you are speaking about then by chance 
I got it right. But feel free to correct me.


 
  And yes, I think Judy misses much of the humor and subtlety that takes
 place here. Â She remains primarily focused on promoting the
 rightness of her POV.Â
 
  The bigger casualty is that the overall dialogue.  It is hard
 to discuss something without quickly coming up against what she feels
 are vital distinctions.
 
  And then before you know it, you are stuck in a never ending,
 meaningless discussion about some obscure point that has no bearing on
 the overall picture.
  Â Â
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   I noticed that Judy did not recognize the humor in my exchange with
 Richard.  Perhaps something similar is going on here. 
 However Curtis, it was clear to me that you were making a joke with the
 called a meeting comment.
  
  
   The insinuation that you and Sal conspired about the email to Emily
 is unfair fighting and makes matters worse.  Why do that?
  
   
From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
   Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:42 PM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going
 to shut up; it's my turn!
  
  
   ÂÂ
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:

  Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
  know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
  him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).

 Judy at her finest.
   
Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.
   
His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
try to hide it.
  
   So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing to
 make yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting that
 you guys literally called a meeting?  And you thought that other readers
 might be confused if you pretended it was as literal as your
 insinuation?
  
   That's why I call you the troll queen.
  
   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Steve, I was asking why fight unfairly which only makes matter 
 worse.

Seems like you haven't noticed the *extreme* unfairness
with which Curtis fights.

You can't judge fairness without reference to reality,
Share. You can't judge it if you're blinded by your
biases. You can't judge it if you spend your time
wandering around in a self-created fairyland.

If there's a dispute, you can't judge the fairness
quotient fairly unless you can evaluate the fairness
on both sides without bias. You can't make assumptions
that the person in the dispute you like is never unfair
simply because you like him. You have to be willing to
look closely enough to make sure you've got the full
picture.

Otherwise *you* aren't being fair.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread awoelflebater
See, that's how confused I got, it wasn't Share who mentioned bringing a knife 
to a gunfight but Steve! So maybe he can answer that one. But I think I 
attributed the unfair fighting reference to Share which is accurate, as far as 
I can tell. Phew.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@... 
wrote:

 Okay.  No biggie.
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@
 wrote:
 
  Steve, I was asking why fight unfairly which only makes matter
 worse.  I don't at all equate that with what you're talking about,
 getting into the conflict tho not having intended to. Share
 
 
 
  
   From: seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
  Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 3:06 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to
 shut up; it's my turn!
 
 
  Â
  Share,
 
  With all due respect. Â I think some of us can be guilty of this
 notion of bringing a knife to gun fight. Or rather, we didn't
 originally come to fight at all, but realize we are up against someone
 who has come to fight, and fight to win and will deploy whatever arsenal
 is necessary to effect this outcome.
 
  And yes, I think Judy misses much of the humor and subtlety that takes
 place here. Â She remains primarily focused on promoting the
 rightness of her POV.Â
 
  The bigger casualty is that the overall dialogue.  It is hard
 to discuss something without quickly coming up against what she feels
 are vital distinctions.
 
  And then before you know it, you are stuck in a never ending,
 meaningless discussion about some obscure point that has no bearing on
 the overall picture.
  Â Â
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   I noticed that Judy did not recognize the humor in my exchange with
 Richard.  Perhaps something similar is going on here. 
 However Curtis, it was clear to me that you were making a joke with the
 called a meeting comment.
  
  
   The insinuation that you and Sal conspired about the email to Emily
 is unfair fighting and makes matters worse.  Why do that?
  
   
From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
   Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:42 PM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going
 to shut up; it's my turn!
  
  
   ÂÂ
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:

  Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
  know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
  him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).

 Judy at her finest.
   
Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.
   
His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
try to hide it.
  
   So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing to
 make yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting that
 you guys literally called a meeting?  And you thought that other readers
 might be confused if you pretended it was as literal as your
 insinuation?
  
   That's why I call you the troll queen.
  
   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread laughinggull108




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
 
 R: You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's cool with you. 
  
 M: Does the thought of that excite you?  Are you acting as a peacekeeper here 
 Raunchy?  Trying to help Emily and I smooth out a misunderstanding maybe? 

DNFTT

  
  
 R: After calling her motives into question so brutally, 
  
 M: Oh, that was disappointing  , did you have to tip your hand so fast?  You 
 were doing so well with the restrained tone and now this ham handed word 
 choice.  From now on the mean girl agenda is going to be so obvious and 
 boring. Trying to invoke the feeling of violence between Emily and me huh? 
 Something that we already worked out just fine without your help.
  
 Does the word  brutally make you think of blood, how it smells?  The warmth 
 on your tongue, before it clots with its delicious mineral taste, somewhere 
 between liver and raw steak.  Are you inviting me to share a dream with you?  
 I'll pass. 
  


DNFTT
  
 R:  do you really think she trusts you? 
 
 M: Let's see, if you really wanted to know, you would be asking her, so what 
 are you getting at here?  Oh I get it, you want me to worry about whether or 
 not she trusts me.  The problem I have is that so little trust is really 
 required between us to post here.  Let me answer your insincerity with some 
 sincerity.  I suspect that Emily will display an appropriate level of trust 
 and mistrust for our interactions here, just as I do. 
  
 R: Just curious... 
  
 M: This is really just a style point but that ah shucks lets set here a 
 spell and shoot the breeze has been overused by your mean mentor, so we all 
 kinda know what is coming.  Kinda like the brutally, but with the added 
 unpleasantness of copying her style too closely. 

  
DNFTT

 R: when Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think she was teasing 
 you or did it piss you off? 
  
 M: I thought Emily was sincerely expressing how she saw it, that was her 
 actual POV on that.  Different people here often have different POVs on the 
 same thing.  Does that tend to piss you off? 

  
DNFTT

 R: Was your poor treatment 
  
 M: See I would have held back on the brutally at first and gone with this 
 weaker accusation poor treatment and then built to brutality.  This is 
 kind of anti-climatic now.  I hardly want to correct it as a misstatement 
 after dealing with the brutally already.
 
 Is the brutality and poor treatment because I didn't view the email as 
 egregious as Judy does?  Or that I didn't believe that Emily's stated reasons 
 for sending it to Judy was comprehensive?  And does her lack of seeing 
 Robin's send up the same as I do constitute her being brutal with me for 
 disagreeing?  Or is that only applied to me?
  
  
 R: of her pay back for a bruised ego or did it have nothing to do with this: 
  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723 
  
  
 ME: She sent me an email and I called it like I saw it.  You are welcome to 
 interpret that any way you want.
 I guess it makes you happy to imagine me having a bruised ego over her 
 thinking differently than I did about something.  Perhaps you are running 
 these posts a bit closer to your own ego sense than I do.
   
 But just curious...are you looking forward to a pat on the head from Judy, or 
 were you pursuing your own desire to cause trouble between posters here who 
 seem to be getting along fine without your junior high bullshit? 
 
 
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ 
 wrote:
 
 So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with whatever this
 thing is that seems to interest you.

Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.
   
   
   I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine backwards, it 
   generates one of your posts.
   
   
  
  You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's cool with you. After 
  calling her motives into question so brutally, do you really think she 
  trusts you? Just curious...when Emily played off Robin's irony email did 
  you think she was teasing you or did it piss you off? Was your poor 
  treatment of her pay back for a bruised ego or did it have nothing to do 
  with this:
  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread laughinggull108




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
  know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
  him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
 
 Judy at her finest.


DNFTT
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
-- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  So Emily and I are cool now.  Have fun with 
  whatever this thing is that seems to interest you.
 
 Have fun believing that you and Emily are cool now.

I'm pretty sure that if you play the song Imagine 
backwards, it generates one of your posts.

   You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's 
   cool with you. After calling her motives into question 
   so brutally, do you really think she trusts you? Just 
   curious...
  
  There's a number of things Curtis can't change.
  
  1. He can't change the ugly email Sal wrote Emily accusing
  her of being mean to him.
  2. He can't change the fact that he then defended Sal on FFL.
  3. He can't change the fact that he tried to make Sal's email
  sound like no big deal.
  4. He can't change the fact that he accused Emily of sending
  me Sal's email to foment a public fight, after Emily had
  explicitly explained otherwise.
  
  Why *would* Emily want to be cool with Curtis in light of
  those facts?
  
  Nor can Curtis change the fact that I've also read Sal's email.
  
  Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
  know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
  him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?). If he had
  not defended Sal, if he had acknowledged the ugliness of Sal's
  email, if he hadn't attributed ulterior motives to Emily for
  sending me the email, he wouldn't be out of favor with Emily,
  and folks on FFL wouldn't be wondering about his integrity.
  
  If one of my supporters had written a nasty email to
  someone viciously castigating them for purportedly putting
  me down, and I found out about it, I'd call the emailer out
  on FFL by name.
  
  Curtis *definitely* doesn't have the integrity to do that.
  
   When Emily played off Robin's irony email did you think
   she was teasing you or did it piss you off? Was your 
   poor treatment of her pay back for a bruised ego or did
   it have nothing to do with this:
   http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/319723
  
  Good question. But if he deigns to respond to it, will we
  have any reason to trust what he tells us? Will Emily?
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: And like that...[puff!], Weeds is gone -- part 1

2012-09-17 Thread turquoiseb
Nice. Sweet. Loving.

Not profound, not brilliant, not any of that intellectual stuff, just
sweet.

And that's enough.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 One can make a convincing argument that great TV series such as
Dexter
 and Breaking Bad would never have existed without Showtime's
 groundbreaking series Weeds. It raised the bar for antiheroes, those
 lawbreakers and outlaws we know we should dislike, but just can't
bring
 ourselves *to* dislike. In other words, Weeds was one of the first
 American TV series to attempt the high dharma of making compassion
 popular.

 The episode I'm watching tonight is the series' last, but I don't know
 this yet. I do notice that it's a two-parter that starts up (for those
 of us who saw the previous episode, and the rest of this year's shows)
 as shockingly as the first episode of the final season of Breaking
 Bad. That previous episode of Weeds ended with A Return To
Agrestic,
 and a set of New Starts and New Directions for almost all characters.
 Cool, said I, watching it last week. I can't wait to see where they
 all are next week. I did not know at the time that I was watching one
 of the last episodes of Weeds ever.

 Still not knowing this, I fired up the latest episode. The credit
 sequence fades and the show starts and Bam!, we're not in Kansas any
 more, Toto. We're not in next week but some years in the future. No
 mention of this is made, however; we in the audience are supposed to
 figure out the timeline from hints dropped in conversation, all during
 the first five minutes. Successful (and now legal, because marijuana
is
 now legal) businesses have been founded, and prospered. Marriages have
 come and gone. New babies have been born. The most recent new baby
we
 remember from the previous episode is being Bar Mitzvahed. Computers
and
 iPhones are now as thin as playing cards.

 And all of this in the first five minutes, without a word of
 boring-assed exposition. I am SO hooked already. I pause the show,
 partly because I am curious about the two-parter thing but also
because
 I'll have to go to dinner before finishing the episode and this
 mini-review, and I do some Googling. I immediately notice headlines
that
 announce reviews of the Last Episodes Ever Of Weeds. I stop Googling
 immediately, and read none of them, because I want no spoilers to this
 experience.

 I'm off to dinner now. More later...  :-)





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread seventhray1

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@...
wrote:

 Steve, none of this is accurate. It's just fallout from the
 fact that you get called on stupidities of one sort or
 another and feel the need to strike back. But you never
 manage to be *relevant* when you do this. You just flail
 around a lot.

I'd have to say that you don't generally motivate me to strike back. 
Mostly I am in awe, if that's what you want to call it, in you ability
to defend a position that has been shown to be untenable.
The thing that I have noticed, even last week in fact, is that those
days when your participation is less, than some of the fun that used to
characterize FFL starts to return.



 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1
lurkernomore20002000@ wrote:
 
  Share,
  With all due respect.  I think some of us can be guilty of this
notion
  of bringing a knife to gun fight. Or rather, we didn't originally
come
  to fight at all, but realize we are up against someone who has come
to
  fight, and fight to win and will deploy whatever arsenal is
necessary to
  effect this outcome.
  And yes, I think Judy misses much of the humor and subtlety that
takes
  place here.  She remains primarily focused on promoting the
rightness of
  her POV.
  The bigger casualty is that the overall dialogue.  It is hard to
discuss
  something without quickly coming up against what she feels are vital
  distinctions.
  And then before you know it, you are stuck in a never ending,
  meaningless discussion about some obscure point that has no bearing
on
  the overall picture.
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@
  wrote:
  
   I noticed that Judy did not recognize the humor in my exchange
with
  Richard.  Perhaps something similar is going on here. 
However
  Curtis, it was clear to me that you were making a joke with the
called a
  meeting comment.
  
  
   The insinuation that you and Sal conspired about the email to
Emily is
  unfair fighting and makes matters worse.  Why do that?
  
   
From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
   Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:42 PM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not
going to
  shut up; it's my turn!
  
  
   Â
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend
authfriend@
  wrote:

  Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as
we
  know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
  him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).

 Judy at her finest.
   
Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.
   
His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
try to hide it.
  
   So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing
to
  make yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting
that
  you guys literally called a meeting?  And you thought that other
readers
  might be confused if you pretended it was as literal as your
  insinuation?
  
   That's why I call you the troll queen.
  
   
  
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread laughinggull108




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Curtis, you may be correct in all that you say. I am getting impressions 
  from people who read the email that Sal sent that it was not a pleasant 
  email to receive for Emily. Emily has said so and Judy has said so, both of 
  whom read the letter.
 
 M: I am not denying that, I was objecting to the histrionic characterization 
 Judy was trying to use to create a fuss that you bought into.
 

LG: DNFTT

 
 A:So I am going to back out now that I have put in my two cents regarding the 
 conclusion I drew from all of the to-ing and fro-ing on this subject. I am 
 going to back out because I did not read the email and thus can not comment 
 further on it.
 However, I can and did want to say what I said regarding the general play of 
 personalities and human nature as I saw it based on discussions of this issue.
 
 M: It clarified a bias I was unaware of. 
 

LG: DNFTT

 A: At this point, if Sal is all she is cracked up to be by those who love and 
 support her, it would be about that time when she could step out from behind 
 that curtain and say her lines.
 
 M: Slow news day huh?  I think all the actual participants are all fine at 
 this point. Thanks for your concern.
 

LG: DNFTT

 
 
 
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
   
   ME: Jesus, did someone call a meeting?
   
   A:  Here is the thing, the email, according to Curtis, was supportive 
   and ego-stroking to Curtis.
   
   M: Sorry to intrude in the fantasy, but there was no ego stroking.  She 
   was defending me for something she believed to be unfair.
   
   A:  When that happens and yet the other side of the email was allegedly 
   an unwarranted and vicious attack on Emily, Curtis appears to not be able 
   to get beyond the fact that he liked the email because Sal was 
   complimentary to him.
   
   M:  Sorry spin sister, no go.  Even Judy didn't try this routine and she 
   read it.
   
   A:  If he really has no problem with Emily (and frankly, why should he?) 
   then he should have understood and admitted that Sal's email to Emily was 
   harsh, ugly, unjustified.
   
   
   M: Unless that isn't how I viewed it.  
   
   A:  Instead of liking the email because it was good for his ego he should 
   have (if he had any respect or reasonable feeling for Emily's position)
   
   M:  Now you are really running with that ball you created aren't you?
   
   A:  gotten beyond his subjective support of this otherwise mean-spirited 
   and traumatizing correspondence and called it for what it was.
   
   M: And that would be because someone else's subjective opinion about the 
   letter is the right one?  I don't agree with Judy or Emily about how 
   horrible the letter was.  You tipped your hand a bit far with the word 
   traumatizing.  I think you and Raunchy are being a bit too eager to 
   please Judy. I don't see any reason to think Emily was traumatized by the 
   email.  Nor should she have been. I read it.
   
   
   A: That has not happened and therefore I question Curtis' intentions and 
   values not to mention his motives for treating Emily badly by not 
   supporting her and understanding where she was coming from in her pain. 
   But maybe that is asking too much.
   
   
   M:  Feeling a little mean today?
   
   Emily and I are fine, sorry to disappoint.  At least I am fine with her 
   and our last exchange was very friendly and full of understanding and 
   tolerance for each others differences.
   
   The very qualities your post lacks.   
  
  Curtis, you may be correct in all that you say. I am getting impressions 
  from people who read the email that Sal sent that it was not a pleasant 
  email to receive for Emily. Emily has said so and Judy has said so, both of 
  whom read the letter. So I am going to back out now that I have put in my 
  two cents regarding the conclusion I drew from all of the to-ing and 
  fro-ing on this subject. I am going to back out because I did not read the 
  email and thus can not comment further on it. However, I can and did want 
  to say what I said regarding the general play of personalities and human 
  nature as I saw it based on discussions of this issue. At this point, if 
  Sal is all she is cracked up to be by those who love and support her, it 
  would be about that time when she could step out from behind that curtain 
  and say her lines.
   
   
   
   

   
   
   


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread laughinggull108


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
   
   Judy at her finest.
  
  Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
  a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.
  
  His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
  try to hide it.
 
 
 So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing to make 
 yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting that you guys 
 literally called a meeting?  And you thought that other readers might be 
 confused if you pretended it was as literal as your insinuation?
 
 That's why I call you the troll queen.
 

DNFTTQ

 
 
 
 
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread azgrey

Dear Ann, 

When you walk in the rain it would be best
if your mouth was kept closed.

I'm afraid that otherwise you would drown.

xoxoxo, 

Azgrey

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@... wrote:

 See, that's how confused I got, it wasn't Share who mentioned bringing a 
 knife to a gunfight but Steve! So maybe he can answer that one. But I think I 
 attributed the unfair fighting reference to Share which is accurate, as far 
 as I can tell. Phew.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@ 
 wrote:
 
  Okay.  No biggie.
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@
  wrote:
  
   Steve, I was asking why fight unfairly which only makes matter
  worse.  I don't at all equate that with what you're talking about,
  getting into the conflict tho not having intended to. Share
  
  
  
   
From: seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
   Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 3:06 PM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to
  shut up; it's my turn!
  
  
   Â
   Share,
  
   With all due respect. Â I think some of us can be guilty of this
  notion of bringing a knife to gun fight. Or rather, we didn't
  originally come to fight at all, but realize we are up against someone
  who has come to fight, and fight to win and will deploy whatever arsenal
  is necessary to effect this outcome.
  
   And yes, I think Judy misses much of the humor and subtlety that takes
  place here. Â She remains primarily focused on promoting the
  rightness of her POV.Â
  
   The bigger casualty is that the overall dialogue.  It is hard
  to discuss something without quickly coming up against what she feels
  are vital distinctions.
  
   And then before you know it, you are stuck in a never ending,
  meaningless discussion about some obscure point that has no bearing on
  the overall picture.
   Â Â
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
   
I noticed that Judy did not recognize the humor in my exchange with
  Richard.  Perhaps something similar is going on here. 
  However Curtis, it was clear to me that you were making a joke with the
  called a meeting comment.
   
   
The insinuation that you and Sal conspired about the email to Emily
  is unfair fighting and makes matters worse.  Why do that?
   

 From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:42 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going
  to shut up; it's my turn!
   
   
ÂÂ
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
  wrote:
 
   Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
   know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
   him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
 
  Judy at her finest.

 Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
 a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.

 His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
 try to hide it.
   
So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing to
  make yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting that
  you guys literally called a meeting?  And you thought that other readers
  might be confused if you pretended it was as literal as your
  insinuation?
   
That's why I call you the troll queen.
   

   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread seventhray1
Or it may pertain to the notion that ideas can be discussed without one
party resorting to needless parsing,  or an unending need to find fault
flaws in someone elses views, no matter how small or insignificant those
flaws may be, or maybe they aren't even flaws, but mere differences in
opinions.  That may be more what I am trying to say.
Perhaps the knife fight, gun fight was not a good analogy.
If you look at the site where Judy and Barry and some others came from
before, it became so toxic that it became uninhabitable.
And I believe it would become the same way here, but there are many that
seem committed to maintaining a more civil discourse.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@...
wrote:



 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1
lurkernomore20002000@ wrote:
 
  Okay.  No biggie.
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@
  wrote:
  
   Steve, I was asking why fight unfairly which only makes matter
  worse.  I don't at all equate that with what you're talking
about,
  getting into the conflict tho not having intended to. Share
  
  
  
   
From: seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
   Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 3:06 PM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not
going to
  shut up; it's my turn!
  
  
   Â
   Share,
  
   With all due respect. Â I think some of us can be guilty of
this
  notion of bringing a knife to gun fight. Or rather, we didn't
  originally come to fight at all, but realize we are up against
someone
  who has come to fight, and fight to win and will deploy whatever
arsenal
  is necessary to effect this outcome.

 Okay all you gunslingers and knife wielders out there, I think you
have confused me here Share. I understand the concept of unfair fighting
and what that might entail but I am unsure what your analogy of bringing
a knife to a gunfight means here. Does the knife wielder hold an unfair
advantage or is he/she at a disadvantage or are you saying the knife
holder doesn't want to fight or, oh dear, I am really puzzled now.

 In my estimation someone who is fighting unfairly would be someone
telling lies or untruths. Someone twisting facts to purposefully mislead
others. And in addition, they would have to know that there was no way
to prove these untruths to be otherwise. So to be unfair in a fight
would be to intentionally lie in order to create conflict, a conflict
that might never be able to be resolved because evidence is known, or at
least believed, to be non-forthcoming at any point. That is the best
definition I can come up with at this point for what I could describe as
fighting unfairly.

 Now how that relates, if at all, to what you are speaking about then
by chance I got it right. But feel free to correct me.


  
   And yes, I think Judy misses much of the humor and subtlety that
takes
  place here. Â She remains primarily focused on promoting the
  rightness of her POV.Â
  
   The bigger casualty is that the overall dialogue.  It is
hard
  to discuss something without quickly coming up against what she
feels
  are vital distinctions.
  
   And then before you know it, you are stuck in a never ending,
  meaningless discussion about some obscure point that has no bearing
on
  the overall picture.
   Â Â
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@
wrote:
   
I noticed that Judy did not recognize the humor in my exchange
with
  Richard.  Perhaps something similar is going on here.ÂÂ
  However Curtis, it was clear to me that you were making a joke with
the
  called a meeting comment.
   
   
The insinuation that you and Sal conspired about the email to
Emily
  is unfair fighting and makes matters worse.  Why do that?
   

 From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:42 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not
going
  to shut up; it's my turn!
   
   
ÂÂ
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend
authfriend@
  wrote:
 
   Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as
we
   know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it
by
   him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
 
  Judy at her finest.

 Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
 a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.

 His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
 try to hide it.
   
So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing
to
  make yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting
that
  you guys literally called a meeting?  And you 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, laughinggull108 no_reply@... wrote:
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
  
  R: You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's cool
  with you. 
   
  M: Does the thought of that excite you?  Are you acting as a
  peacekeeper here Raunchy?  Trying to help Emily and I smooth
  out a misunderstanding maybe? 
 
 DNFTT

Right, it's much more effective to keep smacking Curtis
in the mouth when he gets like this, because his appetite
for deception and cruelty is insatiable once he lets down
the Mr. Wonderful facade.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread awoelflebater


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, azgrey no_reply@... wrote:

 
 Dear Ann, 
 
 When you walk in the rain it would be best
 if your mouth was kept closed.
 
 I'm afraid that otherwise you would drown.
 
 xoxoxo, 
 
 Azgrey

Dear AZ, you have to at least give me credit for admitting when I am wrong or 
confused or made a mistake. That should be worth something around here. Or 
maybe not. And by the way, the only way I could drown would be to walk around 
looking up with my mouth open which I am not inclined to do. However, I will 
consider your advice given in the most generous of spirits. Thanks for the hugs 
and kisses again.
A
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
 
  See, that's how confused I got, it wasn't Share who mentioned bringing a 
  knife to a gunfight but Steve! So maybe he can answer that one. But I think 
  I attributed the unfair fighting reference to Share which is accurate, as 
  far as I can tell. Phew.
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@ 
  wrote:
  
   Okay.  No biggie.
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@
   wrote:
   
Steve, I was asking why fight unfairly which only makes matter
   worse.  I don't at all equate that with what you're talking about,
   getting into the conflict tho not having intended to. Share
   
   
   

 From: seventhray1 lurkernomore20002000@
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 3:06 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going to
   shut up; it's my turn!
   
   
Â
Share,
   
With all due respect. Â I think some of us can be guilty of this
   notion of bringing a knife to gun fight. Or rather, we didn't
   originally come to fight at all, but realize we are up against someone
   who has come to fight, and fight to win and will deploy whatever arsenal
   is necessary to effect this outcome.
   
And yes, I think Judy misses much of the humor and subtlety that takes
   place here. Â She remains primarily focused on promoting the
   rightness of her POV.Â
   
The bigger casualty is that the overall dialogue.  It is hard
   to discuss something without quickly coming up against what she feels
   are vital distinctions.
   
And then before you know it, you are stuck in a never ending,
   meaningless discussion about some obscure point that has no bearing on
   the overall picture.
 Â
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:

 I noticed that Judy did not recognize the humor in my exchange with
   Richard.  Perhaps something similar is going on here. 
   However Curtis, it was clear to me that you were making a joke with the
   called a meeting comment.


 The insinuation that you and Sal conspired about the email to Emily
   is unfair fighting and makes matters worse.  Why do that?

 
  From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:42 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann  I'm not going
   to shut up; it's my turn!


 ÂÂ
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
   wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
   wrote:
  
Curtis *could* have avoided all but #1 (at least as far as we
know; was the email really all Sal's idea? did she run it by
him, and if so did he encourage her to send it?).
  
   Judy at her finest.
 
  Too funny, after Curtis tried to insinuate that I had called
  a meeting to get Ann and raunchy to criticize Curtis.
 
  His hypocrisy comes so naturally to him that he doesn't even
  try to hide it.

 So desperate for manufactured material that you are even willing to
   make yourself look this thick?  So you got that I was suggesting that
   you guys literally called a meeting?  And you thought that other readers
   might be confused if you pretended it was as literal as your
   insinuation?

 That's why I call you the troll queen.

 

   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Fwd: The Truth About the Left

2012-09-17 Thread wleed3











---BeginMessage---


Dear Informed Citizen,

Recently, the Daily Caller
published a story in which a liberal Super PAC made the case
that, in order to be successful, the left should not discuss
policy but instead attack the character of Republicans. Matthew
Arnold, a leader of the liberal CREDO Super PAC said

 

 When we said that Steve King
hellip; is pro-life and believes in cutting Social Security and
voted for the Ryan budget, no one cared. When we said Steve
King's a racist, Steve King believes that immigrants ought to be
put in electric fences, people moved.
  
And with that, the truth was
finally out. This disgusting approach to politics is what
separates us from the left: they believe in smears, while we
believe in ideas. They attack for the sake of partisanship, while
we actually want to solve the country's problems. 

But Arnold makes one good point:
attacks are effective. Fighting for ideas, by contrast, is a lot
harder. Which is why it's so important that every conservative
becomes a warrior the battle of ideas. By sharing stories, and
making the case for conservative values on social media and
blogs, we can overcome the ugliness of liberal politics and
strike a blow for decency, sound policy, and American Greatness.
 
 The fight goes on,

Dustin Stockton

Now Live At DustinStockton.com:

Enough Printing Money, Let's
Build A Real Economy Obama and Bernanke seem to think that
printing money is a substitute for real economic growth. No
wonder the recovery is stuck in neutral. 

The   Difference Between Obama
And Netanyahu On Iranian Nukes Wouldn't it be nice if we had a
real leader? You know, the kind that actually stands up to our
enemies... 

Obama:   Blame Video For Embassy
Attacks, Not Us With American embassies under attack across the
Middle East, Obama's leadership is missing in action. But hey, at
least he has an excuse for everything.

Got   A Couch? Obama Campaign
Asks Supporters To House Volunteers Pretty soon Obama's campaign
is going to just ask supporters to sign their houses over to the
Glorious Leader's cause. 

What Dustin Is Reading Around the
Web:

President Downgrade (Hot   Air)
Bernanke's Fed Makes A Mockery Of
Thrift (Wall   Street Journal)
Why QE3 Won't Help Mortgages
(Reason)
Poll: QE3 Seen As Negative
(Zerohedge)
Ryan: QE3 Is Obama's Bailout (Hot
  Air)
The Magnitude Of The Mess We're
In (Wall   Street Journal)
Romney To Outline $500b in Annual
Spending Cuts (Daily   Caller)
Young People Desperate For Jobs
(USA   Today)
Poll: Majority Says Government
Does Too Much (Hot   Air)
Scaremongering Over Sequestration
(Reason)
Consequences Of Obama's Fuel
Economy Standard (Washington   Times)
The Battle For Wisconsin Rages On
(Fox   News)
The Rise And Fall Of Occupy Wall
Street (Townhall)
Obama's Foreign Policy Statements
Boomerang (The   Hill)
Anti-American Actions Across The
Globe (Zerohedge)
Beirut Embassy Staff Preparing
For Attack (Fox   News)
Iran: Israel One Step Away From
The Cemetery (Free   Beacon)
Protester Dies Of Smoke
Inhalation From Burnt American Flag (Townhall)






Dustin Stockton is Co-Founder of
Western Representation PAC 
and Chief Strategist for
TheTeaParty.net




 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread John
test

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Hey John, do you have software to do a chart of FFL?  I inadvertantly gave 
 my friend the wrong date of Sept 1.  Going to post 1, it should be Sept 5 
 2001 2:24 pm Fairfield.  Which probably means a little better for the women 
 folk here (-:
 
 
 anyway, thanks, share
 
 
 
 
  From: John jr_esq@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 1:20 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man
  
 
   
 The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of 
 consciousness.
 
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec





[FairfieldLife] Re: Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread John
Share,

Given the birth data provided, the FFL chart has the ascendant of Scorpio and 
the Moon was in the nakshatra of Revati.

The Sun was in Leo, its own sign, and was in the 10th house of career.  Thus, 
the forum is successful in meeting its objectives as stated in the front page.

Using Jaimini jyotish analysis, the Moon is placed in the ascendant of the 
navamsha chart.  This means that the forum is good for learning and giving 
knowledge related to Sankhya, Yoga philosophies, and music.

Saturn is placed in the 7th house for both the rashi and navamsha charts.  This 
means that the members of the forums come from various nationalities in various 
parts of the world.  The members are also experienced in the subjects being 
discussed.

There are many other information indicated in the chart.  But this would take 
too long to discuss in this post.  If you have any other questions, please let 
me know.

JR



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  Hey John, do you have software to do a chart of FFL?  I inadvertantly gave 
  my friend the wrong date of Sept 1.  Going to post 1, it should be Sept 5 
  2001 2:24 pm Fairfield.  Which probably means a little better for the 
  women folk here (-:
  
  
  anyway, thanks, share
 
 Hey, I want my chart done!
  
  
  
  
   From: John jr_esq@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 1:20 AM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man
   
  
    
  The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of 
  consciousness.
  
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread John


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  Hey John, do you have software to do a chart of FFL?  I inadvertantly gave 
  my friend the wrong date of Sept 1.  Going to post 1, it should be Sept 5 
  2001 2:24 pm Fairfield.  Which probably means a little better for the 
  women folk here (-:
  
  
  anyway, thanks, share
  
  
  
  
   From: John jr_esq@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 1:20 AM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man
   
  
    
  The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of 
  consciousness.
  
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec
 
 THe book, Initiation by Elizabeth Haitch, is interesting about Eygypt's 
 ancient culture and chakras, symbols, etc.
 


Susan,

Thanks for the information.  Also, I'm beginning to believe what Srila 
Prabhupada said about the Egyptian pharaohs.  He said they originally came from 
India and emigrated to Egypt to escape the wrath of Parasuraman, an angry 
incarnation of Vishnu, who killed all of the  corrupt rulers of India eons ago.

JR



[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread Susan


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  Steve, I was asking why fight unfairly which only makes matter 
  worse.
 
 Seems like you haven't noticed the *extreme* unfairness
 with which Curtis fights.

Judy, you are one of the very few people here on FFL who think that Curtis 
fights unfairly.  I mean look around  I am sure you are convinced of 
this, but others are not.

 
 You can't judge fairness without reference to reality,
 Share. You can't judge it if you're blinded by your
 biases. You can't judge it if you spend your time
 wandering around in a self-created fairyland.

 
 
 If there's a dispute, you can't judge the fairness
 quotient fairly unless you can evaluate the fairness
 on both sides without bias. You can't make assumptions
 that the person in the dispute you like is never unfair
 simply because you like him. You have to be willing to
 look closely enough to make sure you've got the full
 picture.
 
 Otherwise *you* aren't being fair.

I know you pride yourself on your being unbiased.  But I also think that your 
focus on detail means that you sometimes miss the gist or bigger picture.  
And that results in your feeling outraged that others don't see things your 
way. They see the big picture that you can overlook, you see the errors in 
details that they overlook. I think it helps to remember that there is not much 
in life that is black and white, right and wrong, good and evil. There is lots 
of gray.  Maybe your role is to see things in black and white and to be sure 
details are correct, but it is a tough road to run along.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread Susan
Thanks JOhn and Share.  John I was wondering about the environment on FFL.  It 
was more civil and open and friendly for the first 5 years. Then things shifted 
and while there are many good interactions and information, there is also a 
toughness to the atmosphere.  Can you see that?  Does it shift anytime soon?

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, John jr_esq@... wrote:

 Share,
 
 Given the birth data provided, the FFL chart has the ascendant of Scorpio and 
 the Moon was in the nakshatra of Revati.
 
 The Sun was in Leo, its own sign, and was in the 10th house of career.  Thus, 
 the forum is successful in meeting its objectives as stated in the front page.
 
 Using Jaimini jyotish analysis, the Moon is placed in the ascendant of the 
 navamsha chart.  This means that the forum is good for learning and giving 
 knowledge related to Sankhya, Yoga philosophies, and music.
 
 Saturn is placed in the 7th house for both the rashi and navamsha charts.  
 This means that the members of the forums come from various nationalities in 
 various parts of the world.  The members are also experienced in the subjects 
 being discussed.
 
 There are many other information indicated in the chart.  But this would take 
 too long to discuss in this post.  If you have any other questions, please 
 let me know.
 
 JR
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   Hey John, do you have software to do a chart of FFL?  I inadvertantly 
   gave my friend the wrong date of Sept 1.  Going to post 1, it should be 
   Sept 5 2001 2:24 pm Fairfield.  Which probably means a little better for 
   the women folk here (-:
   
   
   anyway, thanks, share
  
  Hey, I want my chart done!
   
   
   
   
From: John jr_esq@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
   Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 1:20 AM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

   
     
   The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of 
   consciousness.
   
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread Susan


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, laughinggull108 no_reply@ wrote:
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
   
   R: You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's cool
   with you. 

   M: Does the thought of that excite you?  Are you acting as a
   peacekeeper here Raunchy?  Trying to help Emily and I smooth
   out a misunderstanding maybe? 
  
  DNFTT
 
 Right, it's much more effective to keep smacking Curtis
 in the mouth when he gets like this, because his appetite
 for deception and cruelty is insatiable once he lets down
 the Mr. Wonderful facade.


Are you kidding? What is up, Judy?




[FairfieldLife] Re: Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread Susan


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, John jr_esq@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   Hey John, do you have software to do a chart of FFL?  I inadvertantly 
   gave my friend the wrong date of Sept 1.  Going to post 1, it should be 
   Sept 5 2001 2:24 pm Fairfield.  Which probably means a little better for 
   the women folk here (-:
   
   
   anyway, thanks, share
   
   
   
   
From: John jr_esq@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
   Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 1:20 AM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

   
     
   The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of 
   consciousness.
   
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec
  
  THe book, Initiation by Elizabeth Haitch, is interesting about Eygypt's 
  ancient culture and chakras, symbols, etc.
  
 
 
 Susan,
 
 Thanks for the information.  Also, I'm beginning to believe what Srila 
 Prabhupada said about the Egyptian pharaohs.  He said they originally came 
 from India and emigrated to Egypt to escape the wrath of Parasuraman, an 
 angry incarnation of Vishnu, who killed all of the  corrupt rulers of India 
 eons ago.
 
 JR


Interesting.  In the book, Initiation, the author recalls a previous life in 
Egypt and it is fascinating.  Haitch was a spiritual and yoga teacher in 
Germany for many years with students.  They asked that she write the story of 
her life, and the main section of the book is about her life in Egypt, where 
she was initiated. Amazing story. during her current life in gErmany, she had 
many insights into the future, too.  And the meanings of universal and 
religious symbols.   A good read if you like that sort of thing.




[FairfieldLife] Re: New Video: Zebra Finch Update

2012-09-17 Thread raunchydog


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Mike Dixon mdixon.6569@... wrote:

 They are not good for hawk bait either! I tried catching Merlins with them 
 and they freeze at the sight of a hawk or falcon. Almost caught a 
 Sharpshinned hawk once, using a Zebra Finch. The hawk came into the trap and 
 landed next to it and looked at the funny looking creature, jumped around a 
 few times, then took off. I took the Finches back to the pet store.
 

So Mike, what do you use for bait now? The finches aren't much good for 
anything IMO. They are way too messy, seeds everywhere, can't walk barefoot in 
the dining area, they're not the least bit cuddly and are harder than heck to 
catch. Quick little buggers. My general attitude toward pet birds is that they 
belong outdoors, wild and untamed. 

Our two green cheek conures are a lot more interactive and interesting as pets 
than the finches. Sometimes I let them perch on the shower door as I take a 
shower. I imagine they are enjoying a warm rain forest mist as I flick drops of 
water at them. I whistle and they whistle back. It's a call and response Indian 
Kirtan style, a devotional hymn to the Great Garuda, king of the birds and 
devourer of jungle serpents.

Green cheek conures don't squawk much and it's not eardrum piercing when they 
do. Once we boarded two sun-conures for a week. They squawked loudly and 
constantly, big poops too. Very annoying. One of them bit our green cheek, Chi 
Chi, and cracked the side of his beak. If you look closely, you can still see a 
small battle wound.
  
 
 
  From: raunchydog raunchydog@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 12:25 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] New Video: Zebra Finch Update
   
 
    
  
 The desire of Mother Nature to propagate the species will not be thwarted. 
 Zebra finches are particularly adept at defeating every intervention a 
 meddling human could possibly devise to prevent them from making babies.
 http://youtu.be/LS48YDiNBsI





[FairfieldLife] Re: Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread feste37


I have been here since the fall of 2001, and I don't recognize the shift you 
talk about. This has always been a tough neighborhood, although the residents 
have changed over the years. It's an interesting neighborhood, too, although 
you do have to remember not to leave home without your semiautomatic assault 
weapon tucked into your waistband, just in case you might need it. After all, 
an armed Internet forum is a polite Internet forum. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@... wrote:

 Thanks JOhn and Share.  John I was wondering about the environment on FFL.  
 It was more civil and open and friendly for the first 5 years. Then things 
 shifted and while there are many good interactions and information, there is 
 also a toughness to the atmosphere.  Can you see that?  Does it shift anytime 
 soon?
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, John jr_esq@ wrote:
 
  Share,
  
  Given the birth data provided, the FFL chart has the ascendant of Scorpio 
  and the Moon was in the nakshatra of Revati.
  
  The Sun was in Leo, its own sign, and was in the 10th house of career.  
  Thus, the forum is successful in meeting its objectives as stated in the 
  front page.
  
  Using Jaimini jyotish analysis, the Moon is placed in the ascendant of the 
  navamsha chart.  This means that the forum is good for learning and giving 
  knowledge related to Sankhya, Yoga philosophies, and music.
  
  Saturn is placed in the 7th house for both the rashi and navamsha charts.  
  This means that the members of the forums come from various nationalities 
  in various parts of the world.  The members are also experienced in the 
  subjects being discussed.
  
  There are many other information indicated in the chart.  But this would 
  take too long to discuss in this post.  If you have any other questions, 
  please let me know.
  
  JR
  
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
   
Hey John, do you have software to do a chart of FFL?  I inadvertantly 
gave my friend the wrong date of Sept 1.  Going to post 1, it should 
be Sept 5 2001 2:24 pm Fairfield.  Which probably means a little 
better for the women folk here (-:


anyway, thanks, share
   
   Hey, I want my chart done!




 From: John jr_esq@
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 1:20 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man
 

  
The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of 
consciousness.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec
   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread Susan
Well, I would like to hear from others who have been here since the early 
2000's. Maybe I am remembering those good ole days with rose tinted glasses, 
but I don't think so.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@... wrote:

 
 
 I have been here since the fall of 2001, and I don't recognize the shift you 
 talk about. This has always been a tough neighborhood, although the residents 
 have changed over the years. It's an interesting neighborhood, too, although 
 you do have to remember not to leave home without your semiautomatic assault 
 weapon tucked into your waistband, just in case you might need it. After all, 
 an armed Internet forum is a polite Internet forum. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@ wrote:
 
  Thanks JOhn and Share.  John I was wondering about the environment on FFL.  
  It was more civil and open and friendly for the first 5 years. Then things 
  shifted and while there are many good interactions and information, there 
  is also a toughness to the atmosphere.  Can you see that?  Does it shift 
  anytime soon?
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, John jr_esq@ wrote:
  
   Share,
   
   Given the birth data provided, the FFL chart has the ascendant of Scorpio 
   and the Moon was in the nakshatra of Revati.
   
   The Sun was in Leo, its own sign, and was in the 10th house of career.  
   Thus, the forum is successful in meeting its objectives as stated in the 
   front page.
   
   Using Jaimini jyotish analysis, the Moon is placed in the ascendant of 
   the navamsha chart.  This means that the forum is good for learning and 
   giving knowledge related to Sankhya, Yoga philosophies, and music.
   
   Saturn is placed in the 7th house for both the rashi and navamsha charts. 
This means that the members of the forums come from various 
   nationalities in various parts of the world.  The members are also 
   experienced in the subjects being discussed.
   
   There are many other information indicated in the chart.  But this would 
   take too long to discuss in this post.  If you have any other questions, 
   please let me know.
   
   JR
   
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
   


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:

 Hey John, do you have software to do a chart of FFL?  I 
 inadvertantly gave my friend the wrong date of Sept 1.  Going to 
 post 1, it should be Sept 5 2001 2:24 pm Fairfield.  Which probably 
 means a little better for the women folk here (-:
 
 
 anyway, thanks, share

Hey, I want my chart done!
 
 
 
 
  From: John jr_esq@
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 1:20 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man
  
 
   
 The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of 
 consciousness.
 
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec

   
  
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread Share Long
Thank you so much for this John.  And Susan I'm so glad you remembered about 
the change 5 or 6 years ago.  That was the comment that got me thinking about 
the FFL chart.

John what is Revata nakshatra about?  What about the Moon in the 8th house?


What about the ruler of the chart being Mars and in the 2nd?  

What is Sankhya about?  

I guess I'd love to hear anything that brings understanding to the recurring 
dynamics on FFL.  


Oh yes, what about placements of Rahu and Ketu?  What do they indicate?




 From: Susan waybac...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 6:37 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man
 

  
Thanks JOhn and Share.  John I was wondering about the environment on FFL.  It 
was more civil and open and friendly for the first 5 years. Then things shifted 
and while there are many good interactions and information, there is also a 
toughness to the atmosphere.  Can you see that?  Does it shift anytime soon?

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, John jr_esq@... wrote:

 Share,
 
 Given the birth data provided, the FFL chart has the ascendant of Scorpio and 
 the Moon was in the nakshatra of Revati.
 
 The Sun was in Leo, its own sign, and was in the 10th house of career.  Thus, 
 the forum is successful in meeting its objectives as stated in the front page.
 
 Using Jaimini jyotish analysis, the Moon is placed in the ascendant of the 
 navamsha chart.  This means that the forum is good for learning and giving 
 knowledge related to Sankhya, Yoga philosophies, and music.
 
 Saturn is placed in the 7th house for both the rashi and navamsha charts.  
 This means that the members of the forums come from various nationalities in 
 various parts of the world.  The members are also experienced in the subjects 
 being discussed.
 
 There are many other information indicated in the chart.  But this would take 
 too long to discuss in this post.  If you have any other questions, please 
 let me know.
 
 JR
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   Hey John, do you have software to do a chart of FFL?  I inadvertantly 
   gave my friend the wrong date of Sept 1.  Going to post 1, it should be 
   Sept 5 2001 2:24 pm Fairfield.  Which probably means a little better for 
   the women folk here (-:
   
   
   anyway, thanks, share
  
  Hey, I want my chart done!
   
   
   
   
From: John jr_esq@
   To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
   Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 1:20 AM
   Subject: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man
   
   
     
   The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of 
   consciousness.
   
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec
  
 



 

[FairfieldLife] Post Count

2012-09-17 Thread FFL PostCount
Fairfield Life Post Counter
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Start Date (UTC): Sat Sep 15 00:00:00 2012
End Date (UTC): Sat Sep 22 00:00:00 2012
284 messages as of (UTC) Tue Sep 18 00:14:04 2012

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17 Susan waybac...@yahoo.com
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 9 salyavin808 fintlewoodle...@mail.com
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 7 seventhray1 lurkernomore20002...@yahoo.com
 7 raunchydog raunchy...@yahoo.com
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 7 Alex Stanley j_alexander_stan...@yahoo.com
 6 mjackson74 mjackso...@yahoo.com
 5 Emily Reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.com
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Devas and Architecture

2012-09-17 Thread srijau
There is british Maharishi Vaastu and japanese style Maharishi Vastu buildings. 
There is infinite creativity possible within precise rules.
Vastu buildings are also personalised to individuals nakshatra. Correct Vastu 
also does not negative national differences. IF you were truly interested in 
the subject and did some study these things would already be apparent.

talking about cultural differences and natural law. 
 
 In this lecture he stated the reason people are different all over the world 
 was the energy of the devas. 
 
 Now I mean he actually used the words deva and devas, and during the talk 
 used also the term the personifications of the laws of nature interchangeably 
 for devas.
 
 He said the reason people had developed different cultures, different modes 
 of dress, different languages, different cultural habits and food 
 preferences, in short all the aspects of a particular culture was due to the 
 energy of the devas underlying that particular part of the geographical 
 landscape. 
 
 The devic energy or energy of the personifications of the laws of nature 
 formed the energy that people would pick up on and using that energy create 
 all the aspects of their culture. This accounted for cultural differences all 
 over the world. It was the devas.
 
 I wonder then how that fits in with the idea of sthapatya veda where all the 
 buildings must be designed and constructed the same way. 
 
 Does this mean that all the devas responsible for the cultural creation of 
 architecture all over the world have now become Maharishi Sthapatya Veda 
 devas? Or have they just been taking lessons from the old sthapatya veda 
 devas? Or is sthapatya veda unnecessary outside of India?
 
 Thoughts, anyone?





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@... wrote:
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, laughinggull108 no_reply@ wrote:
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:

R: You may be cool with Emily, Curtis, but I doubt she's cool
with you. 
 
M: Does the thought of that excite you?  Are you acting as a
peacekeeper here Raunchy?  Trying to help Emily and I smooth
out a misunderstanding maybe? 
   
   DNFTT
  
  Right, it's much more effective to keep smacking Curtis
  in the mouth when he gets like this, because his appetite
  for deception and cruelty is insatiable once he lets down
  the Mr. Wonderful facade.
 
 Are you kidding? What is up, Judy?

Wish I were kidding. Read the traffic, Susan.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread John
Feste,

The chart reveals that Mars and Ketu are in the second house of speech.  Thus, 
the forum has a tendency to be irreverent and profane, with its unabashed use 
of indelicate words, to put it in mild terms.

In the navamsha chart, Mars is in the 5th house which indicates that the forum 
is aggressive and can give expertise in metallurgy, arms, warfare and matters 
related to fire.  Jaimini states that the person with this configuration will 
be wielding a spear.

JR



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@... wrote:

 
 
 I have been here since the fall of 2001, and I don't recognize the shift you 
 talk about. This has always been a tough neighborhood, although the residents 
 have changed over the years. It's an interesting neighborhood, too, although 
 you do have to remember not to leave home without your semiautomatic assault 
 weapon tucked into your waistband, just in case you might need it. After all, 
 an armed Internet forum is a polite Internet forum. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@ wrote:
 
  Thanks JOhn and Share.  John I was wondering about the environment on FFL.  
  It was more civil and open and friendly for the first 5 years. Then things 
  shifted and while there are many good interactions and information, there 
  is also a toughness to the atmosphere.  Can you see that?  Does it shift 
  anytime soon?
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, John jr_esq@ wrote:
  
   Share,
   
   Given the birth data provided, the FFL chart has the ascendant of Scorpio 
   and the Moon was in the nakshatra of Revati.
   
   The Sun was in Leo, its own sign, and was in the 10th house of career.  
   Thus, the forum is successful in meeting its objectives as stated in the 
   front page.
   
   Using Jaimini jyotish analysis, the Moon is placed in the ascendant of 
   the navamsha chart.  This means that the forum is good for learning and 
   giving knowledge related to Sankhya, Yoga philosophies, and music.
   
   Saturn is placed in the 7th house for both the rashi and navamsha charts. 
This means that the members of the forums come from various 
   nationalities in various parts of the world.  The members are also 
   experienced in the subjects being discussed.
   
   There are many other information indicated in the chart.  But this would 
   take too long to discuss in this post.  If you have any other questions, 
   please let me know.
   
   JR
   
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
   


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:

 Hey John, do you have software to do a chart of FFL?  I 
 inadvertantly gave my friend the wrong date of Sept 1.  Going to 
 post 1, it should be Sept 5 2001 2:24 pm Fairfield.  Which probably 
 means a little better for the women folk here (-:
 
 
 anyway, thanks, share

Hey, I want my chart done!
 
 
 
 
  From: John jr_esq@
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 1:20 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man
  
 
   
 The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of 
 consciousness.
 
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec

   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Devas and Architecture

2012-09-17 Thread mjackson74

Infinite creativity!?! Surely you jest. Come on people someone please help me 
out here. Infinite creativity in a system that claims harm comes to people if 
they don't enter a building through an east facing entrance? That if we don't 
live in a properly aligned home it creates all sorts of problems?

The whole point to meditating is that over time it makes you stronger, 
healthier etc, not more weak. But if you take the Movement's word, you are on 
the brink of death unless you are hopping, while gobbling amrit in a sthapatya 
veda flying hall.

If TM is enough, then we don't need all the bells and whistles. If it ain't 
enough then where were all the fancy frills from 1955 till?

I wonder if archaeological excavations will show all the old building in India 
were built according to sthapatya ved? Bet they don't. 





--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, srijau@... no_reply@... wrote:

 There is british Maharishi Vaastu and japanese style Maharishi Vastu 
 buildings. There is infinite creativity possible within precise rules.
 Vastu buildings are also personalised to individuals nakshatra. Correct Vastu 
 also does not negative national differences. IF you were truly interested in 
 the subject and did some study these things would already be apparent.
 
 talking about cultural differences and natural law. 
  
  In this lecture he stated the reason people are different all over the 
  world was the energy of the devas. 
  
  Now I mean he actually used the words deva and devas, and during the talk 
  used also the term the personifications of the laws of nature 
  interchangeably for devas.
  
  He said the reason people had developed different cultures, different modes 
  of dress, different languages, different cultural habits and food 
  preferences, in short all the aspects of a particular culture was due to 
  the energy of the devas underlying that particular part of the geographical 
  landscape. 
  
  The devic energy or energy of the personifications of the laws of nature 
  formed the energy that people would pick up on and using that energy create 
  all the aspects of their culture. This accounted for cultural differences 
  all over the world. It was the devas.
  
  I wonder then how that fits in with the idea of sthapatya veda where all 
  the buildings must be designed and constructed the same way. 
  
  Does this mean that all the devas responsible for the cultural creation of 
  architecture all over the world have now become Maharishi Sthapatya Veda 
  devas? Or have they just been taking lessons from the old sthapatya veda 
  devas? Or is sthapatya veda unnecessary outside of India?
  
  Thoughts, anyone?
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Eastwooding: PS to Ann I'm not going to shut up; it's my turn!

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@... wrote:
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
  
   Steve, I was asking why fight unfairly which only makes matter 
   worse.
  
  Seems like you haven't noticed the *extreme* unfairness
  with which Curtis fights.
 
 Judy, you are one of the very few people here on FFL who think
 that Curtis fights unfairly.  I mean look around  I
 am sure you are convinced of this, but others are not.

There's at least six people, regulars, strong contributors,
on the record to this effect, Susan, plus three who haven't
said this specifically but clearly don't trust him, plus
another very strong contributor who hasn't been around for
a while. Entirely possible there are others who don't dare
speak up.

Yes, he has his fans, no question about that. Some of them
don't exactly have a reputation for fairness themselves.
The rest, IMHO, aren't terribly perceptive.

  You can't judge fairness without reference to reality,
  Share. You can't judge it if you're blinded by your
  biases. You can't judge it if you spend your time
  wandering around in a self-created fairyland.
 
  If there's a dispute, you can't judge the fairness
  quotient fairly unless you can evaluate the fairness
  on both sides without bias. You can't make assumptions
  that the person in the dispute you like is never unfair
  simply because you like him. You have to be willing to
  look closely enough to make sure you've got the full
  picture.
  
  Otherwise *you* aren't being fair.
 
 I know you pride yourself on your being unbiased.  But I also
 think that your focus on detail means that you sometimes miss 
 the gist or bigger picture.

You know, Susan, there are details that aren't significant,
and then there are details *on which the big picture is
based*. When those are wrong, it can seriously distort the
big picture. I may be missing the big picture *you* see
because I'm aware that it's based on faulty details. I may
even be seeing a different big picture that's based on
accurate details.

Yes, sometimes it's a judgment call. Let me know whenever
you think I'm focusing on an insignificant detail and
missing the big picture, and we can talk about it.

 And that results in your feeling outraged that others don't
 see things your way. They see the big picture that you can 
 overlook, you see the errors in details that they overlook.
 I think it helps to remember that there is not much in life
 that is black and white, right and wrong, good and evil.
 There is lots of gray.  Maybe your role is to see things in
 black and white and to be sure details are correct, but it
 is a tough road to run along.

That's pretty funny, Susan. In fact, I see more shades of
gray than most people here *because I look at the details*
as well as the big picture. And the shades-of-gray road
is much tougher to run along than the black-and-white
road--lots of bumps and dips and twists and turns.

You're just mouthing lazy platitudes because you don't
follow what goes on here that closely, but you're eager
to defend Curtis, and they're handy.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man

2012-09-17 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@... wrote:
 
 I have been here since the fall of 2001, and I don't recognize the shift you 
 talk about. This has always been a tough neighborhood, although the residents 
 have changed over the years. It's an interesting neighborhood, too, although 
 you do have to remember not to leave home without your semiautomatic assault 
 weapon tucked into your waistband, just in case you might need it. After all, 
 an armed Internet forum is a polite Internet forum. 

It can be illuminating to look in the archives of those
early years. My impression has been that it was just as
rough then as it is now.



 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@ wrote:
 
  Thanks JOhn and Share.  John I was wondering about the environment on FFL.  
  It was more civil and open and friendly for the first 5 years. Then things 
  shifted and while there are many good interactions and information, there 
  is also a toughness to the atmosphere.  Can you see that?  Does it shift 
  anytime soon?
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, John jr_esq@ wrote:
  
   Share,
   
   Given the birth data provided, the FFL chart has the ascendant of Scorpio 
   and the Moon was in the nakshatra of Revati.
   
   The Sun was in Leo, its own sign, and was in the 10th house of career.  
   Thus, the forum is successful in meeting its objectives as stated in the 
   front page.
   
   Using Jaimini jyotish analysis, the Moon is placed in the ascendant of 
   the navamsha chart.  This means that the forum is good for learning and 
   giving knowledge related to Sankhya, Yoga philosophies, and music.
   
   Saturn is placed in the 7th house for both the rashi and navamsha charts. 
This means that the members of the forums come from various 
   nationalities in various parts of the world.  The members are also 
   experienced in the subjects being discussed.
   
   There are many other information indicated in the chart.  But this would 
   take too long to discuss in this post.  If you have any other questions, 
   please let me know.
   
   JR
   
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
   


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:

 Hey John, do you have software to do a chart of FFL?  I 
 inadvertantly gave my friend the wrong date of Sept 1.  Going to 
 post 1, it should be Sept 5 2001 2:24 pm Fairfield.  Which probably 
 means a little better for the women folk here (-:
 
 
 anyway, thanks, share

Hey, I want my chart done!
 
 
 
 
  From: John jr_esq@
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Monday, September 17, 2012 1:20 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Magical Egypt--The Temple of Man
  
 
   
 The Egyptians knew of the seven chakras and the higher levels of 
 consciousness.
 
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCswN4oUqcwfeature=g-vrec

   
  
 





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