Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-09-02 Thread catatonya
rom: Lorrie Subject: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Date: Tuesday, August 11, 2009, 4:02 PM Dear Friends,  I have a difficult decision to make, and I hope you can help...  I have several FelV cats at a shelter I have in town. Most remain in good health by all

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-14 Thread MaryChristine
oh, yes, i've had that happen, too! "tell me when it's time for me to help you" she meows, this a cat who maybe meowed a dozen times in her entire life--so i get her into the carrier, tears streaming down my face, lock myself out, have to break into the house to get the car keys, take her to t

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-14 Thread POTT, BEVERLY
. :-( That was really hard. -Original Message- From: Lorrie [mailto:felineres...@kvinet.com] Sent: Thursday, August 13, 2009 5:53 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision Yes, watching them struggle or gasp for breath is just unbearable. I've u

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-13 Thread Susan Hoffman
e her plenty of time to forget her former life that had left her in such bad straits by the time she found us. --- On Thu, 8/13/09, Reyna Castano wrote: > From: Reyna Castano > Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision > To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org > Date: Thursday, August 13,

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-13 Thread Reyna Castano
Susan,   Do you work at a sanctuary? --- On Thu, 8/13/09, Susan Hoffman wrote: From: Susan Hoffman Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Date: Thursday, August 13, 2009, 6:10 PM We just PTS one of our geriatric cats on Monday.  I had a little stash of

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-13 Thread Susan Hoffman
fall would have been much too soon but I worry that Sunday would have been better than Monday to PTS. It was a matter of vet availability and cost. Hate it when decisions have to be made on that basis. --- On Thu, 8/13/09, MaryChristine wrote: > From: MaryChristine > Subject: Re:

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-13 Thread MaryChristine
i don't know about klonopin, but i DO know that valium can have a paradoxical effect in cats, and make them very agitated, which is clearly NOT the intended effect. i've worried about that ever since i heard a number of folks, including vets, mention it. i would think, tho, that if you've got

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-13 Thread Lorrie
Yes, watching them struggle or gasp for breath is just unbearable. I've used Klonopin to ease the fear or struggle when a cat is dying. It really helps and it is used for cats because I checked with my vet. It's like Valium. Have any of you used this for dying cats? I have a prescription for mys

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-13 Thread Gloria B. Lane
breath, or trying to walk and falling down, etc. Just my personal opinion... -Original Message- From: Lorrie [mailto:felineres...@kvinet.com] Sent: Tuesday, August 11, 2009 4:03 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision Dear Friends, I have a difficult dec

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-13 Thread POTT, BEVERLY
ugust 11, 2009 4:03 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision Dear Friends, I have a difficult decision to make, and I hope you can help... I have several FelV cats at a shelter I have in town. Most remain in good health by all appearances, however one 8

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-12 Thread Frank and Sue Koren
August 12, 2009 10:26 AM Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision sue, i think that we learn those hard, hard lessons that way specifically so that we do NOT make the same choice again. you did the best you could with the information you had at the moment--buzz' last lesson to you may

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-12 Thread MaryChristine
sue, i think that we learn those hard, hard lessons that way specifically so that we do NOT make the same choice again. you did the best you could with the information you had at the moment--buzz' last lesson to you may well have been to teach you to listen to your heart from now on. i thank th

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-11 Thread CATHERINE DIDONNA
>> From: felineres...@kvinet.com >> To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org >> Subject: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision >> >> Dear Friends, I have a difficult decision to make, and I hope you >> can help... I have several FelV cats at a shelter I have in >> town. M

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-11 Thread Frank and Sue Koren
again I will wait and not chose to euthanize unless I know for sure the cat is in pain. Sue - Original Message - From: "Lorrie" To: Sent: Tuesday, August 11, 2009 4:02 PM Subject: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision Dear Friends, I have a difficult decision to make, and I ho

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-11 Thread Sharyl
Lorrie, I'm so sorry she has reached this stage. Of the three positives I've lost this yr. one was from anemia. CJ was in distress that last day and I did take him to the vet to have him PTS. Each kitty is unique so don't know if my experience is relevant to your situation. I'm in the pr

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-11 Thread Cougar Clan
hey become very lethargic and just get tired and weak and eventually pass. I wish you the very best!! I am so sorry! Date: Tue, 11 Aug 2009 16:02:50 -0400 From: felineres...@kvinet.com To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision Dear Friends, I have a difficult decision

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-11 Thread MaryChristine
it sounds as if your little one is doing what so many FeLVs do, just fading away. often they seem to be alert and aware of their surroundings, and in no distress, nor in any great hurry to leave--they just slowly sort of disappear it's usually a quiet, gentle passage, and whenever possible (ie,

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-11 Thread jbero tds.net
Hello Lorrie, I am so sorry. I have been in your situation one three occasions. The first time I did nothing. I let her stop eating, as force feeding in this situation seems only to bother them and prolong their suffering. She lived for approximately two weeks after she stopped eating. She wo

Re: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-11 Thread Christy Buchin
am so sorry! > Date: Tue, 11 Aug 2009 16:02:50 -0400 > From: felineres...@kvinet.com > To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org > Subject: [Felvtalk] Difficult decision > > Dear Friends, I have a difficult decision to make, and I hope you > can help... I have several FelV cats a

[Felvtalk] Difficult decision

2009-08-11 Thread Lorrie
Dear Friends, I have a difficult decision to make, and I hope you can help... I have several FelV cats at a shelter I have in town. Most remain in good health by all appearances, however one 8 year old female has been steadily losing weight, she is now very anemic; extremely emaciatedm and sh