Rose and Lana,
For an unenlightened response, the question can only be answered on a case by case basis. For an enlightened response, the answer is 'just THIS' in every moment. (But that may infuriate the other if he/she is unaware of the rules of the game that you are playing from!) ---ED --- In [email protected], Rose P <things_r...@...> wrote: > > Good question Lana. It would be great to have more discussion in this forum about the nitty gritty of dealing with people in the world. > > Rose
