--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, <billsm...@...> wrote:
> My comment was directed towards Ed, not you. Opening up a can of
time to time and when it' appropriate is fine with me.
Bill and Mayka,
And fine by me too.
> If you think Ed is a 'male feminist' (chauvinist) tell him.
Better still, tell him what you think (as above), what this thought make
you feel, and what you want (which 'want' is usually or always a
consequence of one's 'attachment' to something or other.)
> See what he says.
He may say nothing, which is his prerogative. The process of asking the
three questions can of itself bring much insight.
> All this should be irrelevant in this forum, but it's not.
Absolutely not irrelevant.
> More to the point things like this should be irrelevant to you. Why
does it bother you? Tell Ed
That penetrates to the heart of the matter.