Wow. Reminds me of the last time I was on perscription painkillers. :-/
-- Ben Doom
Programmer & General Lackey
Moonbow Software, Inc
: -----Original Message-----
: From: Bill Wheatley [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
: Sent: Wednesday, February 05, 2003 9:10 AM
: To: CF-Community
: Subject: Re: antidepressants (was RE: Kid takes OD over his Web Cam)
:
:
: This is strangely on topic!!
:
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:
: ----- Original Message -----
: From: "Angel Stewart" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
: To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
: Sent: Wednesday, February 05, 2003 9:00 AM
: Subject: RE: antidepressants (was RE: Kid takes OD over his Web Cam)
:
:
: > *blink* *blink*
: >
: > OMG. My GF seems to have all these symptoms.
: >
: > I just grouped them all under 'Insecurity'...
: >
: > I read this out to her and this was the conversation.
: >
: > Her:"Ahhahahha! Oh that's funny! That sounds like one fucked up
: > person...aaahahhaha!"
: > Me:"Oh yeah it does! Person like this would be almost impossible to get
: > along with for very long!"
: > Her:" Yes! Hehhehehe..Good thing neither of us suffer from these things
: > hmm?"
: > Me:"*pause* Oh yeah...eh heh heh...whoo..good thing huh..."
: > Her:"Print it out for me."
: > Me:"okies muffins."
: > *click*
: >
: > 0_0
: >
: > -Gel
: >
: >
: > -----Original Message-----
: > From: Larry C. Lyons [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
: > Sent: Tuesday, February 04, 2003 4:06 PM
: > To: CF-Community
: > Subject: RE: antidepressants (was RE: Kid takes OD over his Web Cam)
: >
: >
: > No not that at all. I suggest you look at the FAQ.
: >
: > Let me give you an example, and please remember this is a very shallow
: > example, I am not a practitioner in the field and have not been one for
: > years.
: >
: > you're talking with someone at a party. She suddenly ups and leaves.
: > There
: > are basically two ways of handling this, you could condemn yourself for
: > being an absolutely horrid person who will never get anywhere, and its
: > awful because no one cares for me etc. Lots of emotional upset here -
: > absolutist beliefs, and musts - I must have this I must do this etc.
: >
: > The other way to look at it, its unfortunate that she did not stay
: > around,
: > she missed out on a lot. I think I'll go and have another beer, and meet
: >
: > some other new people.
: >
: > Its how we let our emotions and certain beliefs rules our lives. You can
: >
: > rule them or be ruled by them. Its essentially your choice.
: > The 12 beliefs that I've alluded to are:
: >
: > Catastrophizing The tendency to upset oneself by cognitively escalating
: >
: > the seriousness of the situation.
: >
: > Guilt Feelings of guilt in oneself and attributions of guilt in others.
: >
: > Perfectionism Demands for perfection in all areas of behavior.
: >
: > Approval Demands Need for approval from others for value judgements
: > about
: > oneself.
: >
: > Caring The demand that all people care and help one another.
: >
: > Blaming Measures blame and punishment of self and others for mistakes,
: > sins or wrongdoing.
: >
: > Avoidance and Inertia The person's ability to counteract inertia and
: > avoidance tendencies by accepting difficulties and by working on
: > unpleasant
: > tasks.
: >
: > Dependence The degree of independence in decision making and
: > acceptance
: > of the consequences of one's actions and decisions.
: >
: > Downing The tendency to upset oneself by negative self-evaluations.
: >
: > Future Concerns The tendency to upset oneself about possible future
: > misfortunes, irrespective of their probability of occurrence.
: >
: > Emotional Control The belief that one's emotions are under the control
: > of
: > external forces.
: >
: > hth,
: > larry
: >
: >
:
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