Humility and self-delusion

2004-02-05 Thread David Friedman
There have been many really good Baha'is. These people have obviously been humble. What I have noticed over the years is that humility and self-delusion often go together. Humble people often genuinely believe themselves to be of a lower station than they really are, and express views which

RE: Humility and self-delusion

2004-02-05 Thread David Friedman
Dear Sandra, Ruhiyyih Khanum thought that Shoghi Effendi had appointed her a Hand of the Cause just because she was his wife. I believe that was something Violette Nakhjavani said in her talk about Ruhiyyih Khanum at the North American ABS in 2000. I'm not saying that Shoghi Effendi said

RE: Humility and Abu'l-Fadl

2004-02-05 Thread David Friedman
Dear Richard, The following story gives us a glimpse of his greatness. In the early years of this century, 'Abdu'l-Bahá sent Mirza Abu'l-Fadl to the United States of America to teach and help the believers deepen in the Faith. After his return, he and a number of American pilgrims were seated in

RE: Prophets and sin

2004-02-02 Thread David Friedman
Dear Vaughn, I think the idea that David was a Manifestation of God is based on a misunderstanding of the Baha'i Writings. Is the idea that David was a Manifestation contradicted in the Writings? I think you're trying to suggest that David would not necessarily be a Manifestation just because

Re: Prophets and sin

2004-01-30 Thread David Friedman
Dear Michael, How often the Prophets of God and His supreme Manifestations in Their prayers confess Their sins and faults! This is only to teach other men, to encourage and incite them to humility and meekness, and to induce them to confess their sins and faults. For these Holy Souls are pure

The 1290 days

2004-01-27 Thread David Friedman
Another prophecy question: 'Abdu'l-Baha says that the 1290 days of Daniel started in 613 C.E., with the proclamation of Muhammad, and ended in 1863 C.E., with the proclamation of Baha'u'llah. How exactly could anyone have possibly figured this prophecy out in advance? Here is the prophecy:

Re: Prophecy

2004-01-22 Thread David Friedman
I have a further issue to raise about chronology. ‘Abdu’l-Baha wrote: And the holy city shall they tread under foot forty and two months - that is to say, the Gentiles shall govern and control Jerusalem forty and two months, signifying twelve hundred and sixty days; and as each day signifies

Re: Capitalizing pronouns - any exceptions?

2004-01-20 Thread David Friedman
Dear Mark, The use of capitalization is an alternative to ha.drat (which was rendered, in some early English translations as his holiness) or peace be upon him (pbuh or asw, in Arabic). Shoghi Effendi felt that his holiness was bad English form. Since capitalization was more common, the

SAQ question

2004-01-19 Thread David Friedman
'Abdu'l-Baha said: But it is important to give perception and eternal life - that is, the spiritual and divine life. For this physical life is not immortal, and its existence is equivalent to nonexistence. So it is that Christ said to one of His disciples: Let the dead bury their dead; for

Re: SAQ question

2004-01-19 Thread David Friedman
Dear Mark, It appears to me that Jesus might have been saying, in response to a fellow who wanted to bury his father (literally), that the dead (those who are not in Christ) should bury the dead (this man's father who was both physically and spiritually dead). In other words, it may have been

Capitalizing pronouns - any exceptions?

2004-01-19 Thread David Friedman
Shoghi Effendi seems quite clear that Baha'is should always capitalize pronouns in reference to the Manifestations or 'Abdu'l-Baha, including when others won't share our beliefs. I would just like to make sure I understand this issue correctly. Are Baha'is allowed to not capitalize pronouns

RE: Fines

2004-01-16 Thread David Friedman
The Baha'i penalty for fornication and (presumably) adultery isn't nearly as harsh as the one in the Old Testament: If a man is found lying with the wife of another man, both of them shall die, the man who lay with the woman, and the woman; so you shall purge the evil from Israel. (Deuteronomy

Being 'raised' to Prophethood

2004-01-16 Thread David Friedman
The Baha'i teaching is that Prophets were always Prophets, even before whatever revelatory experience they might have had. It would seem to me that this teaching is contradicted in earlier revelations, and even in parts of the Baha'i Writings. In the Old Testament people 'become' Prophets (or

Zaynu'l Muqarrabin's questions

2004-01-15 Thread David Friedman
From looking at a few of Zaynu'l Muqarrabin' questions in Q A it isn't at all apparent what his question actually is. I don't know if he just assumed that Baha'u'llah was all-knowing and would thus know what he wanted to know, or whether his questions have been edited. Here's what I mean:

Holy water

2004-01-13 Thread David Friedman
Sacred fountains were enlarged to hold more holy water, and the rightful authorities had foreseen that many miracles might take place on the day of the jubilee, with the aid of these fountains (Shoghi Effendi: The Promised Day is Come, Page: 68) I didn't know that holy water was an

Tape

2004-01-09 Thread David Friedman
With reference to the suggestion made by Mr Alexander(1) for taking a record of the Guardian's voice, he wishes me to inform you that although he fully appreciates the spirit in which this and similar suggestions are made to him... (Shoghi Effendi: Arohanui: Letters to New Zealand, Page: 41)

Prophecy

2004-01-05 Thread David Friedman
I'd be interested in your thoughts on these comments about prophecy from a Baha'i academic. He made an interesting point about the calcuation of the years which I hadn't noticed, and can't say I would be able to respond to. Here were his comments: I tend to take prophecy stuff with a grain

Re: Looks like I didn't get the memo

2004-01-05 Thread David Friedman
I wasn't too happy about that, but hopefully we have an excuse for saying one less than the required amount! Why don't you just remember to say one extra after using the 94 beads? Oh, I can see how that might have been unclear. I meant an excuse for those times we said it before we found out

Year of patience

2004-01-05 Thread David Friedman
A few months ago someone here said that 'Abdu'l-Baha said in a Tablet that the year of patience is waived in the case of adultery. After reading the following passage in the Aqdas I seriously doubt there is such a Tablet: Should a woman be divorced in consequence of a proven act of infidelity,

Re: Looks like I didn't get the memo

2004-01-01 Thread David Friedman
Many Baha'is use prayer beads to assist in this. The ones I use (and make) have five large beads and 19 smaller ones to assist in counting. You hold one of the larger ones in the fingers of one hand while slipping the smaller ones through the fingers of the other hand while repeating

Re: Politics

2003-12-31 Thread David Friedman
Dear Susan, Correct, but that doesn't mean if a Senator or President became a Baha'i they would have to resign from their office. This comment surprised me. Why do you think they would be allowed to continue? David _ Gaming

Re: Politics

2003-12-31 Thread David Friedman
I thought it was against Baha'i teachings to be member of a political party. You're not familiar with running as an independent? i.e. not aligned with any party. Hmm. Isn't the teaching not only that we shouldn't be aligned with a party but that we shouldn't take sides about parties? That a

Salvation

2003-12-30 Thread David Friedman
Those who have never had any opportunity of hearing of the Faith but who lived good lives will no doubt be treated with the greatest love and mercy in the next world, and reap their full rewards. -- Shoghi Effendi, Directives from the Guardian, p. 62. I'm just wondering what this quote

Politics

2003-12-30 Thread David Friedman
This passage struck me when I read it: O handmaid of the Lord! Speak thou no word of politics; thy task concerneth the life of the soul, for this verily leadeth to man's joy in the world of God. Except to speak well of them, make thou no mention of the earth's kings, and the worldly

Re: Flattery and specious arguments

2003-12-30 Thread David Friedman
From Tablets of Abdu'l-Baha p. 136: Self-love is a strange trait and the means of the destruction of many important souls in the world. If man be imbued with all good qualities but be selfish, all the other virtues will fade or pass away and eventually he will grow worse. This is an

Re: Temple Designs by Mason Remey

2003-12-10 Thread David Friedman
Has the House actually confirmed that the Remey design will be built? Given that the Master and Guardian approved Remey and his design before he broke the covenant, it would seem that the House would have grounds to alter the decision. Does it seem credible or consistent that either the

Re: Significance of a prayer? Please Look at* the incumbents and pre-requisites and the most importants*

2003-12-10 Thread David Friedman
Dear Khazeh, I don't think the Guardian would be too happy with those capitalized pronouns you used in reference to him! David _ Gaming galore at http://xtramsn.co.nz/gaming ! -- You are subscribed to Baha'i Studies as:

Feast readings

2003-12-10 Thread David Friedman
Can someone give me the link to that site which has readings for Feasts? I've got Feast tonight and am a bit rushed. David _ Download MSN Messenger @ http://messenger.xtramsn.co.nz - talk to family and friends overseas!

Re: Recite ye the verses of God every morn and eventide

2003-12-08 Thread David Friedman
the verses of God means all Writings of Baha'u'llah and they should be read (Talavat literally means reading, as Persian to Persian Dictionary of Mo'een defines) everyday. Does that mean that if a person had memorized all of Baha'u'llah's Writings they would still have to literally read His

Re: Recite ye the verses of God every morn and eventide

2003-12-08 Thread David Friedman
We are fortunate to have in our community a woman (American) with a lovely a cappella voice. She often chants prayers in English. This reminds me of an American woman who was in my community a year ago. She would often sing prayers at events, however her singing was mediocre and if I were her

Manifestations

2003-11-30 Thread David Friedman
I would like to know from those who have more extensive knowledge of Baha'u'llah's Writings than I whether Baha'u'llah proclaimed any of His Baha'i contemporaries to be some Prophet of God. Baha'u'llah referred to the Bab pronouncing Mulla Husayn to be Muhammad: Consider thou the Revelation

Ulterior motive friendships

2003-11-29 Thread David Friedman
In general people only have as friends those whom they have personal interest in. In describing the gradual method of teaching 'Abdu'l-Baha speaks of making friends with receptive people. Since He doesn't say that one shouldn't make friends (and by friend I mean a person whom one sees for at

Re: Ulterior motive friendships

2003-11-29 Thread David Friedman
Dear Scott, That's a very strange question, David. Why would you think that Abdu'l Baha wishes one to make false friendships? I wouldn't see it like that. It seems that the concept of friendship in the Faith is just more liberal than the norm. 'Friendship' in the Writings seems based totally

Burial ring

2003-11-26 Thread David Friedman
I'm just wondering if it would be permissible for a non-Baha'i (15 years or over) to be buried with one of our burial rings, if they requested it (prior to death). Would it be disallowed for all non-Baha'is, and I mean those not pronounced Covenant-breakers, or would it simply be conditional

Why?

2003-11-04 Thread David Friedman
It says in the Writings that mortal illnesses come to people to bring them closer to God. One might expect, therefore, that those getting diseases like cancer would be the ones who really need the spiritual benefit the illness could provide. In other words, the least spiritual people. One

Re: Notetakers for Promulgation of Universal Peace

2003-10-30 Thread David Friedman
Dear Tim, What became of these people who took notes? Does anyone know? I believe they all died. David _ Surf the net and talk on the phone with Xtra Jetstream @ http://www.xtra.co.nz/products/0,,5803,00.html ! -- You

Re: Shaving the head

2003-10-25 Thread David Friedman
Dear Susan, Not allowing a man's hair to grow too long also had something to do with this. Certain qalantars, or wandering Sufis used to do this. I think Baha'u'llah is saying Baha'is shouldn't do these kinds of things to make ourselves stick out. We should be distinctive in our character, not

Shaving the head

2003-10-23 Thread David Friedman
1. Baha'u'llah said, Shave not your heads; God hath adorned them with hair, and in this there are signs from the Lord of creation to those who reflect upon the requirements of nature. (Kitab-i-Adqas, p. 35.) Many people, mostly women, shave their legs. I would be interested to look at this in

Re: Telling the truth

2003-10-19 Thread David Friedman
Dear Don, I suppose Badi pretty much had to lie in not answering the questions of his tormentors. I don't see the failure to answer as being lying. Yeah, I take that back. He just didn't reveal anything he knew. David _ Surf the

Telling the truth

2003-10-18 Thread David Friedman
As to the question whether it is right to tell an untruth in order to save another, he feels that under no condition should we tell an untruth but at the same time try and help the person in a more legitimate manner. Of course it is not necessary to be too outspoken until the question is

Year of patience

2003-10-17 Thread David Friedman
One of the Baha'is where I live started his year of patience and then went overseas to live for what he seemed to think might be about a year in his home country of the US. During the year of patience couples typically see the other sometimes and try to work things out. In this case, the two

Article on Nobel Peace Prize winner

2003-10-10 Thread David Friedman
AFTENPOSTEN Shirin Ebadi - biography The Iranian lawyer and human rights activist Shirin Ebadi was born in 1947. RELATED ARTICLES The Nobel Peace Prize 2003 - press release - 10.10.03 Shirin Ebadi wins Nobel Peace Prize - 10.10.03 She received a law degree from the University of Tehran.

Re: Functioning of the House

2003-10-05 Thread David Friedman
I wrote to someone at the World Centre on this issue and received this response to my message: I think you basically have a good grasp on what the House does. You cannot really go past the provisions of the constitution. The critical part is the section you have quoted below. As far as I am

Re: Fw: UHJ and majority vote.

2003-10-03 Thread David Friedman
Dear Brent, I missed the part of the Constitution and By-laws that Guy posted. The only specific reference I can find in the Constitution of the House of Justice to the requirement for the entire membership to be present in consultation on a matter, is at the very end of the Constitution and

Re: Literalism

2003-09-29 Thread David Friedman
Dear Mark, Do you know of a denomination which believes that only 144,000 will be saved? I'm not sure that any Christian denomination believes that, though I think some individual Christians do. But I think I know of one other group who believes this - the Covenant-breaker group BUPC. They

Each one teach one

2003-09-28 Thread David Friedman
I think everyone here knows of the passage in which 'Abdu'l-Baha tells us to teach one person per year. This passage is often cited to show that if Baha'is live their life properly and teach properly the outcome will be that they will convert one person to the Faith a year. It is also

Bathing

2003-09-23 Thread David Friedman
It hath been enjoined upon you to pare your nails, to bathe yourselves each week in water that covereth your bodies, and to clean yourselves with whatsoever ye have formerly employed. Take heed lest through negligence ye fail to observe that which hath been prescribed unto you by Him Who is the

Re: Bathing

2003-09-23 Thread David Friedman
Dear Sekhmet, Isn't showering a subcategory of bathing? And if you can figure out a way to take a shower _without_ the water covering your body, while still getting clean, let me know... Baha'u'llah said: bathe yourselves each week in water that covereth your bodies. I understand where you're

Re: Bathing

2003-09-23 Thread David Friedman
Dear Sandra, As for bathing, it appears to me that Baha'u'llah is actually endorsing what we now call a shower. The (nearly) bottom line of this passage is: If the bather, instead of entering the water, wash himself by *pouring it upon his body*, it shall be better for him and shall *absolve*

Re: Bathing

2003-09-23 Thread David Friedman
Dear Sekhmet, Seems to me you're overinterpreting yourself into a corner. My advice: if the minutiae of bathing are that important to you (why?), ask for an elucidation from the Universal House of Justice. And don't tell them I sent you... I would allow for the possibility I'm missing

Re: Did you even read this?

2003-09-23 Thread David Friedman
Dear Dean, With respect, I urge you to consider the wisdom of what Khazeh has tried to explain to you below. Did you read it? I do not see any indication that you did, and I never saw any acknowledgement that you did. I read it. I don't see why I would need to respond to it, however. Sure, I

Tobacco

2003-09-23 Thread David Friedman
The Bab, at the outset of His mission, explicitly prohibited tobacco, and the friends one and all abandoned its use. But since those were times when dissimulation was permitted, and every individual who abstained from smoking was exposed to harassment, abuse and even death - the friends, in

Re: A question on the word SELF

2003-09-22 Thread David Friedman
Dear Brian, Here, also, is the possibility that a description of the Self of God may also have differences that are specific to God alone as compared to the self of man (being a mirror of God's Self). But, here also is the possibility that God's Self is actually so completely revealed in the

Re: Muqarrabin

2003-09-19 Thread David Friedman
Dear Ahang, While this is true, it seems that some of the QA were not based on actual questions raised by Zayn and are extracts from previously-revealed Tablets that Zayn pulled into QA, That is, the QA seems to be a mix of questions that Zayn asked after reading the Aqdas and also compilation

Re: Muqarrabin

2003-09-19 Thread David Friedman
Dear Ahang, That would mean that the QA section isn't all by definition part of the Aqdas, wouldn't it? You lost me. How did you get to that inference? It seemed you were saying that parts of QA are not Baha'u'llah's answers to the set of questions given, but from other Tablets of His.

Re: Whoso layeth claim...

2003-09-09 Thread David Friedman
Dear Sandra, but since Shoghi Effendi indicated 'Abdu'l-Baha Revealed things I get a bit uncomfortable when believers make comments as statements of fact, suggesting that ALL Baha'is must know or believe this -without the authoritative source. And, particularly on an open listserve and

Re: Fw: Quinn and Buck's articles

2003-09-07 Thread David Friedman
Dear Susan, The statements in this case are mostly oral talks, in other words, pilgrim notes in which case they don't have authority. The following authentic passage might be read to indicate that the Manifestation has always come from the East, but maybe it doesn't say that. It depends

Re: Manifestations only from the east?

2003-09-06 Thread David Friedman
Perhaps the next manifestation will come from California (this speculation is only half tongue-in-cheek)? In Tablets of the Divine Plan Abdu'l-Baha compares it to the Holy Land (quote below). Yesterday I happened to see reference to a Mount Carmel in Illinois. Wouldn't it be something if the

Re: Fw: Quinn and Buck's articles

2003-09-06 Thread David Friedman
I thought there was a passage in Gleanings which states that all of the Prophets have come from the Holy Land. Of course, this may not preclude Messengers. Dear Matt, What's the Holy Land? Dear Susan, I think the piece from TDP p. 85 that Sandra just quoted answers this: THE BLESSED state of

Re: Manifestations only from the east?

2003-09-05 Thread David Friedman
Dear Sandra, Also, (David), with regard to gender of the next Manifestation - a female Manifestation would certainly be a challenge; and that in itself suggests the probability, - to me. Having said that... I firmly believe at this point in time that the physical temple of the Manifestation

Re: Fw: Quinn and Buck's articles

2003-09-05 Thread David Friedman
Dear Susan, I thought all Manifestations were supposed to come from the East. Am I misled about this? I think that is pretty much a Baha'i myth. The Qur'an says there is no people to whom a Prophet has not been sent. I presume that means the West as well as the East. Obviously 'Abdu'l-Baha's

Re: Four poisons

2003-09-05 Thread David Friedman
Dear Mike, I have found that it is very difficult not to appear cold and unfriendly if, when greeted by a female with a loving embrace, I proffer my hand instead. Nevertheless in view of the above quote I believe this would help if we would abide by it. I agree. I don't think too many people

Baha'i bows out of championship

2003-09-01 Thread David Friedman
FYI, this is the result of one of the semi-finals of the mens 800m at the World Track and Field Championships, in which David Krummenacker, an American Baha'i, ran. He did not make it through. Heat 3 - Friday, August 29, 2003 - 20:52 Pos Lane Bib Athlete Country Mark 1 5 717 Longo

Re: Conferred Infallibility of the House of Justice

2003-08-28 Thread David Friedman
Dear Patti, I must admit I find 'Abdu'l-Baha's view that World War 1 was Armageddon confusing, in light of the chronology of the Book of Revelation, which I suppose I find confusing as well. Revelation reads: 16:12 And the sixth angel poured out his vial upon the great river Euphrates; and

The Religion Test

2003-08-27 Thread David Friedman
http://www.emode.com/tests/religion/authorize/signin.jsp?url=/tests/religion/index.jsp This has a test to see what religion your beliefs best fit you to. I decided to take it and give answers that fit Baha'i beliefs, so as to see if it would say I best fit Baha'i beliefs. It did indeed say

Tattoos

2003-08-26 Thread David Friedman
Here is a recent letter from the World Centre on Tattoos: 19 August 2003 Dear Baha'i Friend, Your email letter of 17 August 2003 regarding tattoos has been received at the Baha'i World Centre and referred to our Department for response. In reply to your enquiry, nothing at all has been

Re: Lamps before the Throne

2003-08-26 Thread David Friedman
Dear Ahang, Actually, there are 4 elders whose identity is unknown at the present. That is, of the 24, we can account for 20: The Bab, 18 Letters and Vakilu'd-Dawlih. That leaves 4 more to be identified and there is nothing that suggests Siyyid Kazim or Shaykh Ahmad should be included. I agree.

Kingship

2003-08-24 Thread David Friedman
Various rulers are referred to or addressed by either the Central Figures or Shoghi Effendi with titles like Your Majesty. What I would like to know is whether, when the world is Baha'i, such titles will still be used for kings. Surely a title such as Your Eminence, in capitals no less, would

House of Justice Letter

2003-08-19 Thread David Friedman
Some years ago Time had a list of the 100 most influential persons of the twentieth century, which was determined by people sending in votes. I chanced to come across a letter from the House of Justice telling Baha'is not to vote for 'Abdu'l-Baha. Does anyone have the text for this letter?

Re: Sex and marriage

2003-08-18 Thread David Friedman
Dear Sheila, 2.)Before marriage, and to assist in maintaining monogamy within a marriage, masturbation serves a necessary biological function. I would state the studies supporting this, but I don't remember the exact details ( I remember reading about them in my college biology course). If I

Re: men and sex outside of marriage

2003-08-17 Thread David Friedman
Dear Don, I didn't say whatever *might*, I said knows is likely. There's a big difference. It is the reason for putting restrictions on the clothing women wear at Baha'i events. Have some restrictions been made? What are you referring to? Regards, David

Re: men and sex outside of marriage

2003-08-17 Thread David Friedman
Dear Don, Any behavior or action by a woman which she knows is likely to elicit a sexual response by a man who is not her husband is, in my opinion, sexual activity outside marriage and therefore prohibited under Baha'i law. I would agree that women should not try to do something that

RE: Anything new on the House and women question?

2003-08-14 Thread David Friedman
The woman is indeed of the greater importance to the race. She has the greater burden and the greater work. Look at the vegetable and the animal worlds. The palm which carries the fruit is the tree most prized by the date grower. The Arab knows that for a long journey the mare has the longest

RE: Last names

2003-08-06 Thread David Friedman
Dear Susan, When my husband and I were consulting, before we married, regarding my married name to be, we had several issues to consider: 1) my professional work already done under my maiden name of Brill, 2) my strong desire for a family name that would linguistically and symbolically reflect

Passage

2003-07-31 Thread David Friedman
There are two places in the Writings speaking of a figure to come after Baha'u'llah. Until I examined the context, I thought they were very similar passages, but which spoke of two different people. Now I see that it is a different translation. Here are the passages: By God, O people! Mine

RE: Anything new on the House and women question?

2003-07-30 Thread David Friedman
Dear Steve, Interestingly Khan encourages others to keep working on this theological problem, if only to present it more palatably: These are the kind of things we need to be thinking about and developing thoughts about this. Of course the question of the composition of the Universal House of

Re: Baha'i courtship

2003-07-27 Thread David Friedman
Dear Susan, Since I don't think there is anything in the Writings on this topic, I'm not sure what any of us could say beyond expressing our personal opinion. It sounds like it is more of a topic for Baha'i-Discuss than Baha'i Studies which is focused on issues related to scholarship. Point

Question

2003-07-27 Thread David Friedman
I was looking at the archives recently, and read about how Allan Ward was elected to the National Assembly of America some time back, but was removed from the NSA by the Universal House of Justice as soon as they found out about his election. While I have no interest in finding out the reason,