Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-12 Thread P.J. Alling
This is all pretty silly and a bit stupid. Men like to look at women, well most men anyway, that's the way we're wired. Society and Political correctness be damned. Most, but not all women, are not wired that way, but some are and they'll admit to leering at men. Some men will look at

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-12 Thread Bill
On 12/12/2013 3:45 PM, P.J. Alling wrote: Hooters is sleazy, but I prefer my sleaze a lot sleazier. MARK And my esteem level of you just gone up a million percent. bill -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net http://pdml.net/mailman/listinfo/pdml_pdml.net to UNSUBSCRIBE from

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-10 Thread Paul Stenquist
I don't have time for a lot of silliness, but I spent ten seconds googling this. Here's one: http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0301051103000541 On Dec 10, 2013, at 12:57 AM, knarf knarftheria...@gmail.com wrote: Giving me authors' names and nothing else is still an appeal to

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-10 Thread Bill
On 09/12/2013 10:09 PM, knarf wrote: The female breast is not a sexual object. It's merely a producer of infant food. Nothing more. Do you really believe that, Bill? I'm just trying to explain the male fascination with them. I'm told that the fastest way to a man's heart is through his

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-10 Thread Larry Colen
On Tue, Dec 10, 2013 at 05:13:49PM -0600, Bill wrote: On 09/12/2013 10:09 PM, knarf wrote: The female breast is not a sexual object. It's merely a producer of infant food. Nothing more. Do you really believe that, Bill? I'm just trying to explain the male fascination with them. I'm told

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-10 Thread Bill
On 10/12/2013 5:20 PM, Larry Colen wrote: On Tue, Dec 10, 2013 at 05:13:49PM -0600, Bill wrote: On 09/12/2013 10:09 PM, knarf wrote: The female breast is not a sexual object. It's merely a producer of infant food. Nothing more. Do you really believe that, Bill? I'm just trying to explain

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-10 Thread Boris Liberman
I think I see what you're saying. Well, on one hand it makes sense because to establish the point of whether we're hardwired or not would have great influence on how this conversation would develop. On the other hand, Frank, again, if I understand you correctly, you say that the sexualization

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-10 Thread Boris Liberman
I absolutely agree with you, Jostein. It seems to me that this whole discussion would boil down to some very fundamental notions (such as nature vs nurture), which cannot be resolved. In fact, the idea that our society is very diverse as far as approaches to these things go, probably

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread Boris Liberman
On Mon, Dec 9, 2013 at 7:19 AM, David Parsons parsons.da...@gmail.com wrote: Too exhibitionist for showing a picture of her daughter? That is called slut shaming (or victim blaming if you are sensitive), blaming the victim for acting outside your accepted norms. Dave, let me try to explain.

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread Boris Liberman
. Facebook are not, like the thieves in Boris' example, criminals. My two cents, Jostein -Opprinnelig melding- Fra: Boris Liberman Dato: 9. desember 2013 09:08 Til: Pentax-Discuss Mail List Emne: Re: fanning the flames On Mon, Dec 9, 2013 at 7:19 AM, David Parsons parsons.da

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread Boris Liberman
- Fra: Boris Liberman Dato: 9. desember 2013 13:20 Til: Pentax-Discuss Mail List Emne: Re: fanning the flames Jostein, I don't understand how it come to be that you inferred from my reasoning that common sense and law don't apply somewhere, say on FB? I would appreciate an explanation, even

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread David Parsons
I understand what you are saying, but I think you are wrong. Compare your scenario to this one. I'm having a party at my house and I have a bunch of friends over. No big deal. Someone who has a grudge against me calls the police and my party is shut down because of the complaint, even though

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread Boris Liberman
Well, you're right but not completely. I'm not saying that FB were right to apply whatever corrective action their applied following (supposedly) report of this image via their standard procedures. I'm saying that the problem is elsewhere, and not in the what picture shows or FB action, especially

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread Walt
I think the underlying premise -- that to portray a human as a sexual being is to inherently denigrate other aspects of their humanity -- is a false one. All of this calls to mind a recent discovery for me: a woman named Susan Oliver. I just happened to see her in an episode of the Andy

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread John Francis
On Mon, Dec 09, 2013 at 09:53:45AM -0600, Walt wrote: All of this calls to mind a recent discovery for me: a woman named Susan Oliver. I just happened to see her in an episode of the Andy Griffith Show that was on the TV at the bar where I worked and was struck by just how beautiful a woman

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread Igor Roshchin
Sun Dec 8 09:55:19 EST 2013 Attila Boros wrote: On Sat, Dec 7, 2013 at 10:15 PM, Larry Colen lrc at red4est.com wrote: On the subject of some people finding any nudity to be sexual: http://thefeministbreeder.com/why-subscribe/tfb-banned-facebook/ I agree that no sane person would find

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread Bill
On 09/12/2013 9:53 AM, Walt wrote: I think the underlying premise -- that to portray a human as a sexual being is to inherently denigrate other aspects of their humanity -- is a false one. Of course, everyone here has it wrong, since they are either arguing for or against the femal breast

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread knarf
I know I said I was done with this thread. Apparently I lied. ;-) But I had to jump in to completely disagree with your assertion wrt the underlying premise. To my mind the premise is that there is a huge disparity in the way that women and men are portrayed in the media including the arts.

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread Bill
On 09/12/2013 9:35 PM, knarf wrote: I know I said I was done with this thread. Apparently I lied. ;-) But I had to jump in to completely disagree with your assertion wrt the underlying premise. To my mind the premise is that there is a huge disparity in the way that women and men are

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread knarf
The female breast is not a sexual object. It's merely a producer of infant food. Nothing more. Do you really believe that, Bill? Cheers, frank Bill anotherdrunken...@gmail.com wrote: On 09/12/2013 9:35 PM, knarf wrote: I know I said I was done with this thread. Apparently I lied. ;-)

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread Paul Stenquist
Paul via phone On Dec 9, 2013, at 10:35 PM, knarf knarftheria...@gmail.com wrote: I know I said I was done with this thread. Apparently I lied. ;-) But I had to jump in to completely disagree with your assertion wrt the underlying premise. To my mind the premise is that there is a

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread knarf
I don't agonize but I am concerned. And my concern is that the blatant sexualization of women in the media is degrading to them. If you don't see it by now you never will. Btw what you're doing is called the appeal to authority and it's a logical fallacy. Who says that? Please cite authors

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread Walt Gilbert
Not to flog this dead horse, and I'll happily leave it alone after this, but I do have to point out that in your original message on the subject you said this: But here's the rub: showing genitalia and breasts is sexual. It sexualizes the women. Even if they consent to it they are being

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread Boris Liberman
Frank, purely for the matter of argument, not in any disrespect to you or your reasoning, but didn't you just do the same (appeal to authority)? I mean - who says that we're not hard wired as Paul indicated? Are there studies to support that this specific part of our nature can be modified

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread Paul Stenquist
Paul via phone On Dec 9, 2013, at 11:50 PM, knarf knarftheria...@gmail.com wrote: I don't agonize but I am concerned. And my concern is that the blatant sexualization of women in the media is degrading to them. If you don't see it by now you never will. Btw what you're doing is

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread Paul Stenquist
Paul via phone On Dec 9, 2013, at 11:50 PM, knarf knarftheria...@gmail.com wrote: I don't agonize but I am concerned. And my concern is that the blatant sexualization of women in the media is degrading to them. If you don't see it by now you never will. Btw what you're doing is

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread knarf
No I am not appealing to authority. Paul was. Paul made the assertion that we're hard wired in a certain way basing that claim on studies. The authority was studies. That's what he was appealing to. Hence: Appeal to Authority. The problem with it is that I can't refute it. I don't know to

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread knarf
Giving me authors' names and nothing else is still an appeal to authority. Cheers, frank Paul Stenquist pnstenqu...@comcast.net wrote: Paul via phone Masters and Johnson, Kinsey and others. Who says we're hard wired that way? And how do they know it? And just because we're hard wired

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-09 Thread AlunFoto - Jostein Øksne
I hope we're not going to take this into a nature vs. nurture debate. That subject has remained unresolved since the renessance and will stay that way for as long as the division exist between humanistic and natural sciences. Jostein knarf knarftheria...@gmail.com wrote: No I am not appealing

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread Alan C
Larry, I agree with you and all those others that this is plain ridiculous. However, I think it is a knee jerk reaction because the social media have been severely criticized for being soft on weirdos in recent times. In sub-Saharan Africa, for instance, there is a misguided belief that AIDS

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread Attila Boros
On Sat, Dec 7, 2013 at 10:15 PM, Larry Colen l...@red4est.com wrote: On the subject of some people finding any nudity to be sexual: http://thefeministbreeder.com/why-subscribe/tfb-banned-facebook/ I agree that no sane person would find that sexual. However the FB terms of service is meant to

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread David Parsons
The situation is silly, but I don't know why you would protest on Facebook about Facebook when your business relies on Facebook access. On Sat, Dec 7, 2013 at 3:15 PM, Larry Colen l...@red4est.com wrote: On the subject of some people finding any nudity to be sexual:

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread knarf
Yes, I said that, and of course: 1) I was talking about adults, although lord knows kids much younger than her have been sexualized through kiddie beauty pageants and the like, and, 2) I was talking about society's view of nudity not my personal view. That being said there is obviously nothing

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread Larry Colen
On Sun, Dec 08, 2013 at 04:11:29PM -0500, knarf wrote: Yes, I said that, and of course: 1) I was talking about adults, although lord knows kids much younger than her have been sexualized through kiddie beauty pageants and the like, and, 2) I was talking about society's view of nudity not

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread Stan Halpin
On Dec 8, 2013, at 5:32 PM, Larry Colen wrote: ... It's almost enough to make someone want to start a campaign to get people to start flagging photos of christmas decorations as inappropriate. And thus starteth the revolution! Great idea! stan -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread knarf
I believe you missed my point Larry. The tut-tutting and head-shaking are about FB's decision to flag the photo and suspend the account. I'm fine with the photo, as I suspect every reasonable person would be. However, you think a barechested adult male is viewed the same way as a barechested

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread Paul Stenquist
Paul via phone On Dec 8, 2013, at 6:47 PM, knarf knarftheria...@gmail.com wrote: I believe you missed my point Larry. The tut-tutting and head-shaking are about FB's decision to flag the photo and suspend the account. I'm fine with the photo, as I suspect every reasonable person would

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread David J Brooks
They take down that, but TV still allows Honey BoBo and toddlers and tiaras, major child porn and child abuse as far as i'm concerned. Dave On Sat, Dec 7, 2013 at 3:15 PM, Larry Colen l...@red4est.com wrote: On the subject of some people finding any nudity to be sexual:

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread Paul Stenquist
Facebook's action is ludicrous. Haven't seen those tv shows, but the titles aren't promising. Paul via phone On Dec 8, 2013, at 7:16 PM, David J Brooks pentko...@gmail.com wrote: They take down that, but TV still allows Honey BoBo and toddlers and tiaras, major child porn and child abuse

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread knarf
They're using young shapely women to sell beer and chicken wings. That's not sexist? It's tongue-in-cheek? You know that may be worse than more blatant forms of sexism because it normalizes it, it makes it okay in the minds of too many. Even if is tongue-in-cheek (which I don't buy) it's not

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread Paul Stenquist
Muscular male trainers sell gym memberships, cheerleaders sell football. Sex makes the world go 'round. It's not evil; it's human nature. Paul via phone On Dec 8, 2013, at 7:50 PM, knarf knarftheria...@gmail.com wrote: They're using young shapely women to sell beer and chicken wings. That's

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread Bill
On 08/12/2013 5:47 PM, knarf wrote: But to say that they aren't sexualized or that there's no difference between the male and the female chest is naive at best, disingenuous at worst. As we age, the differences do become less though. bill -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread Boris Liberman
Guys, guys, guys... I think you missed the point entirely here. Have you read the comments under that blog post? Two thoughts crossed my mind that evening (when I read them): 1. That lady seems to be a minor FB celebrity. I don't have FB acct so I cannot check, but she seems to have very loud

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-08 Thread David Parsons
On Sun, Dec 8, 2013 at 11:59 PM, Boris Liberman bori...@gmail.com wrote: Guys, guys, guys... I think you missed the point entirely here. Have you read the comments under that blog post? Two thoughts crossed my mind that evening (when I read them): 1. That lady seems to be a minor FB

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-07 Thread Bruce Walker
An epic head-shaker. Thanks, Larry; I shared that link -- on FB of course. ;-) On Sat, Dec 7, 2013 at 3:15 PM, Larry Colen l...@red4est.com wrote: On the subject of some people finding any nudity to be sexual: http://thefeministbreeder.com/why-subscribe/tfb-banned-facebook/ -- Larry Colen

Re: fanning the flames

2013-12-07 Thread Rob Studdert
Wow, community standards rule :( On 8 December 2013 07:54, Bruce Walker bruce.wal...@gmail.com wrote: An epic head-shaker. Thanks, Larry; I shared that link -- on FB of course. ;-) On Sat, Dec 7, 2013 at 3:15 PM, Larry Colen l...@red4est.com wrote: On the subject of some people finding any