[Zen] Handling OCD(to Dave/list)

2011-01-03 Thread Mel
Hello Dave and forum --- On Mon, 3/1/11, Dave P wrote: From: Dave P Subject: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2 To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Received: Monday, 3 January, 2011, 7:21 AM   1) Is ten minutes okay? I ask because I already have a timed CD with a 10 minute zazen session.     MEL: E

[Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Dave P
I am not sure where you got the impression that I am not taking medication. I have been taking medication for OCD for over 15 years. I would not be so frustrated if the medication had worked. I also help others all the time - it is my job. --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Anthony Wu wrote:

[Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Dave P
I wasn't clear about the CD. it is by John Daido loori, and it is a gong followed by 10 minutes of silence completed by another gong. --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明 wrote: > > Hi Dave P, > > Great. You are willing to give it a try. Here is the link to m

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明
Good Morning Dave P, Let me explain why "gong" or timer or any external devices are not recommended for serious Chan practitioners. Because, when there is external dependency, our mind will be anxious in waiting for that "gong". It could be constantly asking itself, "where is the gong? whe

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Kristy McClain
Good Morning  Dave,   I see.. This makes sense!  So, you are seeking to augment meds with other practices to find a better solution?   You don't mention whether or not you have tried different medications. I will assume you have.  I still suggest that you  take a step back, first.  You  have the

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Anthony Wu
ED,   Whether meditation or medication is primary is for Dave to try and decide. We cannot subsititute.   Anthony --- On Mon, 3/1/11, ED wrote: From: ED Subject: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2 To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 3 January, 2011, 3:32 PM   Anthony, I second your re

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Anthony Wu
Kristy,   >From what he has described so far, I sense that Dave has a strong 'self''. So >does a person suffering from depression. But they go in the opposite >directions. OCD tends to protect himself too much, while depression may want >to solve the problem by eliminating himself.   Anthony -

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Anthony Wu
Dave,   I got a wrong impression. If medication does not work, you may be taking a wrong medicine. If helping others does not help yourself, you may be doing it in a not too correct  way psychologically. It is not a joke. Just keep trying.   Anthony --- On Mon, 3/1/11, Dave P wrote: From: Dav

[Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Dave P
But isn't the alternative staring at a clock? I find myself never waiting for the gong. it usually just comes. --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明 wrote: > > Good Morning Dave P, > > Let me explain why "gong" or timer or any external devices are not > recommend

[Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread ED
Anthony, Yes, indeed! I too assert by autonomy in such-like matters, after I have heard from the best medical opinions available to me. --ED --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Anthony Wu wrote: > > ED, > > Whether meditation or medication is primary is for Dave to try and decide. We cannot

[Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread ED
Just observe the expectancy and let it go? --ED --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Jue Miao Jing Ming wrote: > > Good Morning Dave P, > > Let me explain why "gong" or timer or any external devices are not > recommended for serious Chan practitioners. > > Because, when there is external depen

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread ChrisAustinLane
As every one said, Dave's course of action is up to him. However I find it interesting that the suite of mindfulness based stress training has a study showing OCD is a treatment that benefits from MBSR, which despite all the loosey goosey stuff associated with the English term mindfulness is act

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Kristy McClain
*chuckles*   Yep-- that was my experience as well when I started the practice, and was using a similar CD.  I simply never concerned myself with the time, as I knew when the perod ended--I would hear a reminder.  I think its all in one's personality, and what such a device represents to the indi

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Mark Perew
For me, the bell timer is an indicator as to how much I was in to my mediation. When the bell sounds and I am surprised that it is sounding so soon, then that is a clue that I was present for my breathing and not for other things. Yes, there are times when my mind wanders off to the bell, wonderi

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明
Hello Dave P, Perhaps you can tell me what does "P" stand for. I felt quite impolite to address you so. You see, the most effective meditation need to "completely" rest all external connections. So that our mind is "completely" at ease. Stress the mind is the cause of the OCD. And this

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Kristy McClain
Hi JM,    Stress the mind is the cause of the OCD.   Please share  why you believe this is true.   Thanks,   Kristy  

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明
Hi Kristy, I know you meant well. So do I. Instead of getting into scientific or medical discussion, why don't we let Dave breathe for a month and see what happens. Unless you believe breathing would make OCD worse? Be Enlightened In This Life - We ALL Can http://chanjmjm.blogspot.com ht

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread Kristy McClain
JM,   Gosh-- of   course not.  I think breath work is invaluable.. I teach it every day in classes.  I sense that you missed my point.  I am truly curious why you made the statement below. Clearly, you must have a reason.  This isn't a competition. Its a discussion group. If you resent the quest

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread ChrisAustinLane
Thanks, Chris Austin-Lane Sent from a cell phone On Jan 3, 2011, at 17:52, Mark Perew wrote: > > > For me, the bell timer is an indicator as to how much I was in to my > mediation. When the bell sounds and I am surprised that it is sounding so > soon, then that is a clue that I was presen

Re: [Zen] Re: Mindfulness pt 2

2011-01-03 Thread ChrisAustinLane
Also, earlier link did not point to a relevant article. Here is A better one: http://lancashirecare.wordpress.com/2010/07/12/is-mindfulness-based-therapy-an-effective-intervention-for-obsessive-intrusive-thoughts-a-case-series/ Thanks, Chris Austin-Lane Sent from a cell phone On Jan 3, 201