[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-15 Thread defenders_of_bhakti
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:


Otherwise its a really absurd idea, with the sort of populistic
appeal, the same as that we are all co-creators. It just makes
some
people feel more important.
+++ Haven't you observed that you do some creating yourself?  N.
  
  For me rather anticipation in creation.
 
 +++ Thru your choices, you have created yourself.   N.

But who created the choices? Are they preexistent? If I create myself
through choices, who chose before I created myself?





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-15 Thread Nelson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson nelsonriddle2001@
 wrote:
 
 
 Otherwise its a really absurd idea, with the sort of populistic
 appeal, the same as that we are all co-creators. It just makes
 some
 people feel more important.
 +++ Haven't you observed that you do some creating yourself?  N.
   
   For me rather anticipation in creation.
  
  +++ Thru your choices, you have created yourself.   N.
 
 But who created the choices? Are they preexistent? If I create myself
 through choices, who chose before I created myself?

+++ As a facet of the eternal, you are responsible.  N.





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-14 Thread defenders_of_bhakti
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti
 no_reply@ wrote:
 
  
  I think there is a big confusion of what evolution actually means.
  Here some biological definitions:
  
  Evolution: The long-term process through which a population of
  organisms accumulates genetic changes that enable its members to
  successfully adapt to environmental conditions and to better exploit
  food resources.
  www.accessexcellence.org/AE/AEPC/WWC/1994/glossary.html
  
  The change in life over time by adaptation, variation,
  over-reproduction, and differential survival/reproduction, a process
  referred to by Charles Darwin and Alfred Wallace as natural selection.
  http://www.emc.maricopa.edu/faculty/farabee/BIOBK/BioBookglossE.html
  
  In this sense evolution is not the development to a certain
  pre-existent goal, but rather the successful adaptaion to a given
  environment by a certain organism. Thhis is what trial and error and
  natural selection is all about. This makes the idea of an evolving
  Creator-God fairly upsurd: How could a Creator adapt to an
  environment, he has created himself? It is even more absurd if you
  assume an all-knowing God going through trial and error. Pretty much
  trial and error can be done by machines, and doesn't require a creator
  at all. That is why evolution, the theory of natural selection is so
  much opposed by the creationists.
  
  Now one can of course try to transfer the idea of evolution to a sort
  of teleological argument, and that is what many New Agers do. There is
  a goal, a pre-existent ideal to which nature develops. But if God
  himself develops, who established the ideal, was it already there or
  did he create it? And if he created the ideal, why didn't s/he create
  the ideal creation right away?
  
  I think one gets into a big muddle if one tries to combine
  evolutionary theories which really don't need any God (like trial and
  error) with creationist ideas. Why should a God evolve, unless he has
  fallen, and is now involved in his own creation? Of course one could
  argue, we are all God, and we are all evolving to finally realize this
  potential of ours.
  
  Otherwise its a really absurd idea, with the sort of populistic
  appeal, the same as that we are all co-creators. It just makes some
  people feel more important.
  +++ Haven't you observed that you do some creating yourself?  N.

For me rather anticipation in creation.





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-14 Thread Nelson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson nelsonriddle2001@
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti
  no_reply@ wrote:
  
   
   I think there is a big confusion of what evolution actually means.
   Here some biological definitions:
   
   Evolution: The long-term process through which a population of
   organisms accumulates genetic changes that enable its members to
   successfully adapt to environmental conditions and to better exploit
   food resources.
   www.accessexcellence.org/AE/AEPC/WWC/1994/glossary.html
   
   The change in life over time by adaptation, variation,
   over-reproduction, and differential survival/reproduction, a process
   referred to by Charles Darwin and Alfred Wallace as natural
selection.
   http://www.emc.maricopa.edu/faculty/farabee/BIOBK/BioBookglossE.html
   
   In this sense evolution is not the development to a certain
   pre-existent goal, but rather the successful adaptaion to a given
   environment by a certain organism. Thhis is what trial and error and
   natural selection is all about. This makes the idea of an evolving
   Creator-God fairly upsurd: How could a Creator adapt to an
   environment, he has created himself? It is even more absurd if you
   assume an all-knowing God going through trial and error. Pretty much
   trial and error can be done by machines, and doesn't require a
creator
   at all. That is why evolution, the theory of natural selection is so
   much opposed by the creationists.
   
   Now one can of course try to transfer the idea of evolution to a
sort
   of teleological argument, and that is what many New Agers do.
There is
   a goal, a pre-existent ideal to which nature develops. But if God
   himself develops, who established the ideal, was it already there or
   did he create it? And if he created the ideal, why didn't s/he
create
   the ideal creation right away?
   
   I think one gets into a big muddle if one tries to combine
   evolutionary theories which really don't need any God (like
trial and
   error) with creationist ideas. Why should a God evolve, unless
he has
   fallen, and is now involved in his own creation? Of course one could
   argue, we are all God, and we are all evolving to finally
realize this
   potential of ours.
   
   Otherwise its a really absurd idea, with the sort of populistic
   appeal, the same as that we are all co-creators. It just makes some
   people feel more important.
   +++ Haven't you observed that you do some creating yourself?  N.
 
 For me rather anticipation in creation.

+++ Thru your choices, you have created yourself.   N.   





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...

That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
that's not related in any way to God, since they
don't believe in one.
   
   To say life is suffering implies there is something--
   a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.
   
   If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
   a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.
   
   What is it?
 
  ++ State of mind?
 
 In a way. If (as the Four Noble Truths state) the
 cause of suffering is attachment to desire/aversion,
 then living in a state of mind that is *not* attached
 to achieving the fruits of desire or avoiding the
 things one is averse to is a way beyond suffering.
 
 The input to life doesn't change, only one's
 ability to greet it with equanimity. Try to force
 the square peg of that input into the round hole of
 one's desires, and you get suffering. Treat it as
 a square peg and be neither attached nor averse,
 no suffering. 
 
 Nothing to achieve, no obstacles to remove from
 the path to non-suffering, nowhere to go. Same 
 old same old...just life dealt with as What Is, not 
 What You'd Like Life To Be.
 
 Just for fun, compare and contrast this to MMY's
 latest U.N. rap, in which he once again presents his
 S-V theories and suggests that the problems of the
 world can't be solved unless one starts over with
 all-new buildings. In the Buddhist view, this 
 approach to resolving suffering can never work
 because it is based upon trying to change the input
 of life to avoid suffering, rather than change the 
 inner being's ability to deals with the input with-
 out attachment. 
 
 In the Buddhist view, the richest, most successful
 person in the world, living in a perfectly-aligned
 S-V house but still attached to his desires, will
 be lost in suffering. Whereas the poor person who
 lives in a cardboard box, if he is not attached to 
 his desires, is beyond suffering.



The basic division between suffering and non-suffering lies in, as
Barry puts it, if you can accept  `What is', or if you want to make
life what you want or dream it to be. Paradoxically also accepting
'what is' much more effectively leads to transformation and true healing.

The latter way was my way of functioning until age 16. I perceived
many faults and defects in myself and wanted to become like some of my
peers I admired. The efforts I made to change myself lead mainly to
big disappointments and even to worsening of my problems. 

Then at 16 I got the realization that life doesn't expect me to be
like someone, it accepts me as nothing. Life accepts me as no one.
There is an evolutionary impulse deep in life's functioning. All I
need to do is to align with this evolutionary impulse. It meant
`active passivity'.  Passivity meant accepting yourself as you are, or
being nothing, and not trying to become something. Active meant being
alert in nothingness and acting when an impulse appeared from deep inside.

This was a start of a highly interesting and exciting journey of life
consciously appreciating transformation. And I want to emphasise the
word start. I had just got a stable platform. Being established on
that I can keep basic stability and calm in the whirls of true
transformation and even enjoy the journey, just as you can find a
roller coaster ride very enjoyable.

For a person, who does not rest on this kind of very stable platform,
enlightenment as a dream state means a blissful end station, where all
the whirls of painful creation and destruction have ceased. There the
essential nature of life is a threat, and enlightenment means you
don't need to re-incarnate anymore.

Felt pain, mental or physical, is an important source of suffering.
Pain that one can accept I don't call suffering. It is just a very
intense sensation. Fear makes pain worse. Embracing resolves it. This
is of course much more easily said than done. I know this myself
thoroughly through my own life experience.  I have a hereditary
muscular disease. For a very long time (from childhood on, getting
worse when I became adult) I felt very uncomfortable pain in my hands
and feet. At worst it felt like an awful pain in my bones. I was
afraid of this pain. It made me react physically to it by contraction,
which made the disease progress. The culmination of this process
happened in –92, when intense burning and tingling sensations appeared
in my feet. My feet were like burning, and simultaneously it could
feel like they were in ice and freezing. It was awful. However I
recognized hidden rage in this pain and started to work with it. I
engaged myself also in long psychotherapy to help the rocess.

Gradually the burning sensation started to diminish and my perception
of it to change. I can still occasionally have intense burning
sensations in my feet, but now I can appreciate this 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...
 
 That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
 Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
 that's not related in any way to God, since they
 don't believe in one.

To say life is suffering implies there is something--
a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.

If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.

What is it?
  
   ++ State of mind?
  
  In a way. If (as the Four Noble Truths state) the
  cause of suffering is attachment to desire/aversion,
  then living in a state of mind that is *not* attached
  to achieving the fruits of desire or avoiding the
  things one is averse to is a way beyond suffering.
  
  The input to life doesn't change, only one's
  ability to greet it with equanimity. Try to force
  the square peg of that input into the round hole of
  one's desires, and you get suffering. Treat it as
  a square peg and be neither attached nor averse,
  no suffering. 
  
  Nothing to achieve, no obstacles to remove from
  the path to non-suffering, nowhere to go. Same 
  old same old...just life dealt with as What Is, not 
  What You'd Like Life To Be.
  
  Just for fun, compare and contrast this to MMY's
  latest U.N. rap, in which he once again presents his
  S-V theories and suggests that the problems of the
  world can't be solved unless one starts over with
  all-new buildings. In the Buddhist view, this 
  approach to resolving suffering can never work
  because it is based upon trying to change the input
  of life to avoid suffering, rather than change the 
  inner being's ability to deals with the input with-
  out attachment. 
  
  In the Buddhist view, the richest, most successful
  person in the world, living in a perfectly-aligned
  S-V house but still attached to his desires, will
  be lost in suffering. Whereas the poor person who
  lives in a cardboard box, if he is not attached to 
  his desires, is beyond suffering.
 
 
 
 The basic division between suffering and non-suffering lies in, as
 Barry puts it, if you can accept  `What is', or if you want to make
 life what you want or dream it to be. Paradoxically also accepting
 'what is' much more effectively leads to transformation and true
healing.
 
 The latter way was my way of functioning until age 16. I perceived
 many faults and defects in myself and wanted to become like some of my
 peers I admired. The efforts I made to change myself lead mainly to
 big disappointments and even to worsening of my problems. 
 
 Then at 16 I got the realization that life doesn't expect me to be
 like someone, it accepts me as nothing. Life accepts me as no one.
 There is an evolutionary impulse deep in life's functioning. All I
 need to do is to align with this evolutionary impulse. It meant
 `active passivity'.  Passivity meant accepting yourself as you are, or
 being nothing, and not trying to become something. Active meant being
 alert in nothingness and acting when an impulse appeared from deep
inside.
 
 This was a start of a highly interesting and exciting journey of life
 consciously appreciating transformation. And I want to emphasise the
 word start. I had just got a stable platform. Being established on
 that I can keep basic stability and calm in the whirls of true
 transformation and even enjoy the journey, just as you can find a
 roller coaster ride very enjoyable.
 
 For a person, who does not rest on this kind of very stable platform,
 enlightenment as a dream state means a blissful end station, where all
 the whirls of painful creation and destruction have ceased. There the
 essential nature of life is a threat, and enlightenment means you
 don't need to re-incarnate anymore.
 
 Felt pain, mental or physical, is an important source of suffering.
 Pain that one can accept I don't call suffering. It is just a very
 intense sensation. Fear makes pain worse. Embracing resolves it. This
 is of course much more easily said than done. I know this myself
 thoroughly through my own life experience.  I have a hereditary
 muscular disease. For a very long time (from childhood on, getting
 worse when I became adult) I felt very uncomfortable pain in my hands
 and feet. At worst it felt like an awful pain in my bones. I was
 afraid of this pain. It made me react physically to it by contraction,
 which made the disease progress. The culmination of this process
 happened in –92, when intense burning and tingling sensations appeared
 in my feet. My feet were like burning, and simultaneously it could
 feel like they were in ice and freezing. It was awful. However I
 recognized hidden rage in this pain and started to work with it. I
 engaged myself also in long psychotherapy to help the rocess.
 
 Gradually the 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread claudiouk
The really problematic dimension of suffering is not personal (if one 
can indeed become detached from internal desire or aversion) - it 
is interpersonal. Try being detatched whilst your loved ones are 
being tortured... 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
wrote:
  
   I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...
  
  That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
  Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
  that's not related in any way to God, since they
  don't believe in one.
 
 To say life is suffering implies there is something--
 a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.
 
 If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
 a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.
 
 What is it?
   
++ State of mind?
   
   In a way. If (as the Four Noble Truths state) the
   cause of suffering is attachment to desire/aversion,
   then living in a state of mind that is *not* attached
   to achieving the fruits of desire or avoiding the
   things one is averse to is a way beyond suffering.
   
   The input to life doesn't change, only one's
   ability to greet it with equanimity. Try to force
   the square peg of that input into the round hole of
   one's desires, and you get suffering. Treat it as
   a square peg and be neither attached nor averse,
   no suffering. 
   
   Nothing to achieve, no obstacles to remove from
   the path to non-suffering, nowhere to go. Same 
   old same old...just life dealt with as What Is, not 
   What You'd Like Life To Be.
   
   Just for fun, compare and contrast this to MMY's
   latest U.N. rap, in which he once again presents his
   S-V theories and suggests that the problems of the
   world can't be solved unless one starts over with
   all-new buildings. In the Buddhist view, this 
   approach to resolving suffering can never work
   because it is based upon trying to change the input
   of life to avoid suffering, rather than change the 
   inner being's ability to deals with the input with-
   out attachment. 
   
   In the Buddhist view, the richest, most successful
   person in the world, living in a perfectly-aligned
   S-V house but still attached to his desires, will
   be lost in suffering. Whereas the poor person who
   lives in a cardboard box, if he is not attached to 
   his desires, is beyond suffering.
  
  
  
  The basic division between suffering and non-suffering lies in, as
  Barry puts it, if you can accept  `What is', or if you want to 
make
  life what you want or dream it to be. Paradoxically also accepting
  'what is' much more effectively leads to transformation and true
 healing.
  
  The latter way was my way of functioning until age 16. I perceived
  many faults and defects in myself and wanted to become like some 
of my
  peers I admired. The efforts I made to change myself lead mainly 
to
  big disappointments and even to worsening of my problems. 
  
  Then at 16 I got the realization that life doesn't expect me to be
  like someone, it accepts me as nothing. Life accepts me as no one.
  There is an evolutionary impulse deep in life's functioning. All I
  need to do is to align with this evolutionary impulse. It meant
  `active passivity'.  Passivity meant accepting yourself as you 
are, or
  being nothing, and not trying to become something. Active meant 
being
  alert in nothingness and acting when an impulse appeared from deep
 inside.
  
  This was a start of a highly interesting and exciting journey of 
life
  consciously appreciating transformation. And I want to emphasise 
the
  word start. I had just got a stable platform. Being established on
  that I can keep basic stability and calm in the whirls of true
  transformation and even enjoy the journey, just as you can find a
  roller coaster ride very enjoyable.
  
  For a person, who does not rest on this kind of very stable 
platform,
  enlightenment as a dream state means a blissful end station, 
where all
  the whirls of painful creation and destruction have ceased. There 
the
  essential nature of life is a threat, and enlightenment means you
  don't need to re-incarnate anymore.
  
  Felt pain, mental or physical, is an important source of 
suffering.
  Pain that one can accept I don't call suffering. It is just a very
  intense sensation. Fear makes pain worse. Embracing resolves it. 
This
  is of course much more easily said than done. I know this myself
  thoroughly through my own life experience.  I have a hereditary
  muscular disease. For a very long time (from childhood on, getting
  worse when I became adult) I felt very uncomfortable pain in my 
hands
  and feet. At worst it felt like an awful pain in my bones. I was
  afraid of this pain. It made me react physically to it by 
contraction,
  

[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, claudiouk [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 The really problematic dimension of suffering is not personal (if 
one 
 can indeed become detached from internal desire or aversion) - it 
 is interpersonal. Try being detatched whilst your loved ones are 
 being tortured... 
 

Of course, in the TM sense, lack of suffering is due to witnessing. 
Anger, horror, terror, unhappiness, etc., can be expected within a 
person watching another, especially a loved one, being tortured. That 
doesn't preclude witnessing in the TM sense, however.

It's an interesting paradox: one can suffer and yet not be suffering.


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
 wrote:
   
I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...
   
   That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
   Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
   that's not related in any way to God, since they
   don't believe in one.
  
  To say life is suffering implies there is something--
  a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.
  
  If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
  a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.
  
  What is it?

 ++ State of mind?

In a way. If (as the Four Noble Truths state) the
cause of suffering is attachment to desire/aversion,
then living in a state of mind that is *not* attached
to achieving the fruits of desire or avoiding the
things one is averse to is a way beyond suffering.

The input to life doesn't change, only one's
ability to greet it with equanimity. Try to force
the square peg of that input into the round hole of
one's desires, and you get suffering. Treat it as
a square peg and be neither attached nor averse,
no suffering. 

Nothing to achieve, no obstacles to remove from
the path to non-suffering, nowhere to go. Same 
old same old...just life dealt with as What Is, not 
What You'd Like Life To Be.

Just for fun, compare and contrast this to MMY's
latest U.N. rap, in which he once again presents his
S-V theories and suggests that the problems of the
world can't be solved unless one starts over with
all-new buildings. In the Buddhist view, this 
approach to resolving suffering can never work
because it is based upon trying to change the input
of life to avoid suffering, rather than change the 
inner being's ability to deals with the input with-
out attachment. 

In the Buddhist view, the richest, most successful
person in the world, living in a perfectly-aligned
S-V house but still attached to his desires, will
be lost in suffering. Whereas the poor person who
lives in a cardboard box, if he is not attached to 
his desires, is beyond suffering.
   
   
   
   The basic division between suffering and non-suffering lies in, 
as
   Barry puts it, if you can accept  `What is', or if you want to 
 make
   life what you want or dream it to be. Paradoxically also 
accepting
   'what is' much more effectively leads to transformation and true
  healing.
   
   The latter way was my way of functioning until age 16. I 
perceived
   many faults and defects in myself and wanted to become like 
some 
 of my
   peers I admired. The efforts I made to change myself lead 
mainly 
 to
   big disappointments and even to worsening of my problems. 
   
   Then at 16 I got the realization that life doesn't expect me to 
be
   like someone, it accepts me as nothing. Life accepts me as no 
one.
   There is an evolutionary impulse deep in life's functioning. 
All I
   need to do is to align with this evolutionary impulse. It meant
   `active passivity'.  Passivity meant accepting yourself as you 
 are, or
   being nothing, and not trying to become something. Active meant 
 being
   alert in nothingness and acting when an impulse appeared from 
deep
  inside.
   
   This was a start of a highly interesting and exciting journey 
of 
 life
   consciously appreciating transformation. And I want to 
emphasise 
 the
   word start. I had just got a stable platform. Being established 
on
   that I can keep basic stability and calm in the whirls of true
   transformation and even enjoy the journey, just as you can find 
a
   roller coaster ride very enjoyable.
   
   For a person, who does not rest on this kind of very stable 
 platform,
   enlightenment as a dream state means a blissful end station, 
 where all
   the whirls of painful creation and destruction have ceased. 
There 
 the
   essential nature of life is a threat, and enlightenment means 
you
   don't need to re-incarnate anymore.
   
   Felt pain, mental or physical, is an important source of 
 suffering.
   Pain that one can 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, claudiouk [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 The really problematic dimension of suffering is not personal (if one 
 can indeed become detached from internal desire or aversion) - it 
 is interpersonal. Try being detatched whilst your loved ones are 
 being tortured... 
 

It is not about being emotionally detached. It is about embracing all
the awful emotions the situation arises, and by no way trying to
diminish the horror of the situation.
This is much easier to accomplish when the `I ` is firmly established
on a ground where it does not anymore identify with these emotions.
Not identifying does not mean not feeling intensely. It means that you
can keep yourself separate from the emotions. It is a situation where
you have emotions in your system, body and mind. You are not the
emotions, you have them, you witness them and simultaneously observe
and feel them very intensely. 

I went  through this kind of torture experience when my father was
very sick and he was given wrong kind of medication. For a month he
was in a catatonic state, very stiff, not capable of speaking. He
could only scream for help, which he did whenever he had enough energy
for screaming. And he was full of panic and fear and pain, which they
tried to medicate down, but actually made only worse. He deep inside
himself knew this and wanted away from the hospital, but couldn't
express himself. And even if he had been, they wouldn't have let him
go. It was awful to sit in the hospital at his bedside and be with him
in his enormous suffering. Once when I went to the hospital, my
husband said to me:You look like you were going to a beheading. I
did not understand at that time the medication caused this torture to
my father. After a month they moved him to the University Hospital and
there they immediately realized it was the medication that caused his
suffering. They stopped the medication and after one week he was much
better, and after two weeks again at home. 

Irmeli






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, claudiouk claudiouk@ wrote:
 
  The really problematic dimension of suffering is not personal (if one 
  can indeed become detached from internal desire or aversion) - it 
  is interpersonal. Try being detatched whilst your loved ones are 
  being tortured... 
  
 
 It is not about being emotionally detached. It is about embracing all
 the awful emotions the situation arises, and by no way trying to
 diminish the horror of the situation.
 This is much easier to accomplish when the `I ` is firmly established
 on a ground where it does not anymore identify with these emotions.
 Not identifying does not mean not feeling intensely. It means that you
 can keep yourself separate from the emotions. It is a situation where
 you have emotions in your system, body and mind. You are not the
 emotions, you have them, you witness them and simultaneously observe
 and feel them very intensely. 
 
 I went  through this kind of torture experience when my father was
 very sick and he was given wrong kind of medication. For a month he
 was in a catatonic state, very stiff, not capable of speaking. He
 could only scream for help, which he did whenever he had enough energy
 for screaming. And he was full of panic and fear and pain, which they
 tried to medicate down, but actually made only worse. He deep inside
 himself knew this and wanted away from the hospital, but couldn't
 express himself. And even if he had been, they wouldn't have let him
 go. It was awful to sit in the hospital at his bedside and be with him
 in his enormous suffering. Once when I went to the hospital, my
 husband said to me:You look like you were going to a beheading. I
 did not understand at that time the medication caused this torture to
 my father. After a month they moved him to the University Hospital and
 there they immediately realized it was the medication that caused his
 suffering. They stopped the medication and after one week he was much
 better, and after two weeks again at home. 
 
 Irmeli



 One emotion there is however that I don't easily experience and that
is getting hurt of something someone says to me. Often I may not even
observe the insult, or if I observe I may react by getting furious and
try to express why I felt the person's behaviour was inconsiderate or
stupid.

Irmeli





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, claudiouk claudiouk@ wrote:
 
  The really problematic dimension of suffering is not 
  personal (if one can indeed become detached from 
  internal desire or aversion) - it is interpersonal. 
  Try being detatched whilst your loved ones are 
  being tortured... 
  
 
 It is not about being emotionally detached. 

It's good to be precise in these kinds of discussions. 
'Detached' is not the same thing as 'non-attached.'







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 One emotion there is however that I don't easily experience 
 and that is getting hurt of something someone says to me. 
 Often I may not even observe the insult, or if I observe I 
 may react by getting furious and try to express why I felt 
 the person's behaviour was inconsiderate or stupid.

Who is being insulted?

If you've experienced every notion you've ever had of who 
and what you are dissolving into light, over and over and
over, what's left to be insulted, or to resent the insult?







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  One emotion there is however that I don't easily experience 
  and that is getting hurt of something someone says to me. 
  Often I may not even observe the insult, or if I observe I 
  may react by getting furious and try to express why I felt 
  the person's behaviour was inconsiderate or stupid.
 
 Who is being insulted?
 
 If you've experienced every notion you've ever had of who 
 and what you are dissolving into light, over and over and
 over, what's left to be insulted, or to resent the insult?


What makes me react by fury sometimes is, when my husband keeps on
nagging and nagging to me about some minor details in a weary tone.
There maybe  some drops of juice on the kitchen floor that he feels on
his soles. Or there is something in the layout in my work he does not
like, which I think is very easy for him to change.  I just cannot
know exactly what he wants. He expresses it as if I were deliberately
tormenting him by this kind of behaviour.

 Usually I don't  care about his nagging at all. And then suddenly I
feel insulted and frustrated by it and get ballistic. And then he
often runs off, because I tend to put my words in a way that hurt him
deeply. No name-calling. I just do a deep analysis of him.

Earlier he could feel hurt for a week or two, during which he didn't
speak to me. Nowadays most of it goes away in one day.  When I get
hurt, it lasts only for the moment of my blast and then it is gone. 

This probably is not the most smart behaviour. However I have not come
upon a better way of dealing with my frustration. I have also tried to
correct the details he gets irritated about. That is however no
solution, because then he gets irritated about something that didn't
irritate him before.

But this is not a cause of suffering to me, but a challenge it is,
that I have not been capable of solving. To be quite honest I also
enjoy these blasts.

Irmeli






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...

That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
that's not related in any way to God, since they
don't believe in one.
   
   To say life is suffering implies there is something--
   a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.
   
   If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
   a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.
   
   What is it?
 
  ++ State of mind?
 
 In a way. If (as the Four Noble Truths state) the
 cause of suffering is attachment to desire/aversion,
 then living in a state of mind that is *not* attached
 to achieving the fruits of desire or avoiding the
 things one is averse to is a way beyond suffering.
 
 The input to life doesn't change, only one's
 ability to greet it with equanimity. Try to force
 the square peg of that input into the round hole of
 one's desires, and you get suffering. Treat it as
 a square peg and be neither attached nor averse,
 no suffering. 
 
 Nothing to achieve, no obstacles to remove from
 the path to non-suffering, nowhere to go. Same 
 old same old...just life dealt with as What Is, not 
 What You'd Like Life To Be.
 
 Just for fun, compare and contrast this to MMY's
 latest U.N. rap, in which he once again presents his
 S-V theories and suggests that the problems of the
 world can't be solved unless one starts over with
 all-new buildings. In the Buddhist view, this 
 approach to resolving suffering can never work
 because it is based upon trying to change the input
 of life to avoid suffering, rather than change the 
 inner being's ability to deals with the input with-
 out attachment.

As I understand it, the theory is that S-V buildings
facilitate the change in the inner being's ability
to deal with the input without attachment.
 
 In the Buddhist view, the richest, most successful
 person in the world, living in a perfectly-aligned
 S-V house but still attached to his desires, will
 be lost in suffering. Whereas the poor person who
 lives in a cardboard box, if he is not attached to 
 his desires, is beyond suffering.

But what if living in a perfectly aligned S-V house
makes it easier to break the attachment to desires?

(I'm not saying it does, just that if one is comparing
*views*, it's important to include that aspect of MMY's
view.)

As I recall, some time ago MMY in an interview made
the same point about the poor person; I think the
specific context was hunger rather than housing, but
the idea was that the poor person who was enlightened
would not *suffer* from hunger.  Some people found
this shocking and outrageous.






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
 wrote:
 
  I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...
 
 That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
 Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
 that's not related in any way to God, since they
 don't believe in one.

To say life is suffering implies there is something--
a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.

If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.

What is it?
  
   ++ State of mind?
  
  In a way. If (as the Four Noble Truths state) the
  cause of suffering is attachment to desire/aversion,
  then living in a state of mind that is *not* attached
  to achieving the fruits of desire or avoiding the
  things one is averse to is a way beyond suffering.
  
  The input to life doesn't change, only one's
  ability to greet it with equanimity. Try to force
  the square peg of that input into the round hole of
  one's desires, and you get suffering. Treat it as
  a square peg and be neither attached nor averse,
  no suffering. 
  
  Nothing to achieve, no obstacles to remove from
  the path to non-suffering, nowhere to go. Same 
  old same old...just life dealt with as What Is, not 
  What You'd Like Life To Be.
 
 Another thought on this subject, to relate it back
 to the rap that started this thread:
 
 Both desire and aversion are an attempt to turn
 What is into something else. 
 
 The person who is convinced that there is something
 that 'prevents' their enlightenment -- whether 
 they consider that something to be ego, or intel-
 lect, or stress, or whatever -- is attempting
 to (in Vaj's terms) patch the What is of the
 universe and transform it into the What I'd like 
 it to be of the professional sufferer. It's the
 desire/aversion cycle as path -- I should come 
 back to the mantra; I should not trusts my ego/
 self/intellect.
 
 The What is of life is *all you need* to realize
 enlightenment.

But this itself is the realization.  Or to put it
another way, in enlightenment one has realized
that the What is of life is all one needs.

Prior to enlightenment, one does not have this
realization.  So there is still something to be
achieved.

The realization that there was nothing to be
achieved *is the achievement*.

 Nothing needs to be achieved, nothing
 removed. Nothing is an 'obstacle' to enlightenment.
 The ego is enlightenment, the intellect is enlighten-
 ment, the 'good' questions of the bhakti are enlight-
 enment and the 'bad' questions of the cynic are 
 enlightenment. Only enlightenment is.

If there was nothing to be achieved, we would all
be born with this realization.

In other words, to tell a person who has not had
this realization that there is nothing for him or
her to achieve is a category mistake, spoken from
the perspective of one who has already achieved
the realization.



 
 Listening to someone go on and on about the parts
 of one's self one has to reject or not trust or 
 get beyond to realize enlightenment is a lot like
 watching someone looking for their glasses while 
 wearing their glasses. You'd kinda like to tell them,
 but at the same time they seem to be so *involved* in
 searching for the glasses everywhere that you hate 
 to spoil their fun...








 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, claudiouk claudiouk@ 
 wrote:
 
  The really problematic dimension of suffering is not personal (if 
 one 
  can indeed become detached from internal desire or aversion) - 
it 
  is interpersonal. Try being detatched whilst your loved ones are 
  being tortured... 
  
 
 Of course, in the TM sense, lack of suffering is due to witnessing. 
 Anger, horror, terror, unhappiness, etc., can be expected within a 
 person watching another, especially a loved one, being tortured. 
That 
 doesn't preclude witnessing in the TM sense, however.
 
 It's an interesting paradox: one can suffer and yet not be 
suffering.

But the referent of one changes.  The self is suffering,
while the Self is not.





  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
   Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
  wrote:

 I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...

That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
that's not related in any way to God, since they
don't believe in one.
   
   To say life is suffering implies there is something--
   a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.
   
   If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
   a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.
   
   What is it?
 
  ++ State of mind?
 
 In a way. If (as the Four Noble Truths state) the
 cause of suffering is attachment to desire/aversion,
 then living in a state of mind that is *not* attached
 to achieving the fruits of desire or avoiding the
 things one is averse to is a way beyond suffering.
 
 The input to life doesn't change, only one's
 ability to greet it with equanimity. Try to force
 the square peg of that input into the round hole of
 one's desires, and you get suffering. Treat it as
 a square peg and be neither attached nor averse,
 no suffering. 
 
 Nothing to achieve, no obstacles to remove from
 the path to non-suffering, nowhere to go. Same 
 old same old...just life dealt with as What Is, not 
 What You'd Like Life To Be.
 
 Just for fun, compare and contrast this to MMY's
 latest U.N. rap, in which he once again presents his
 S-V theories and suggests that the problems of the
 world can't be solved unless one starts over with
 all-new buildings. In the Buddhist view, this 
 approach to resolving suffering can never work
 because it is based upon trying to change the input
 of life to avoid suffering, rather than change the 
 inner being's ability to deals with the input with-
 out attachment. 
 
 In the Buddhist view, the richest, most successful
 person in the world, living in a perfectly-aligned
 S-V house but still attached to his desires, will
 be lost in suffering. Whereas the poor person who
 lives in a cardboard box, if he is not attached to 
 his desires, is beyond suffering.



The basic division between suffering and non-suffering lies 
in, 
 as
Barry puts it, if you can accept  `What is', or if you want 
to 
  make
life what you want or dream it to be. Paradoxically also 
 accepting
'what is' much more effectively leads to transformation and 
true
   healing.

The latter way was my way of functioning until age 16. I 
 perceived
many faults and defects in myself and wanted to become like 
 some 
  of my
peers I admired. The efforts I made to change myself lead 
 mainly 
  to
big disappointments and even to worsening of my problems. 

Then at 16 I got the realization that life doesn't expect me 
to 
 be
like someone, it accepts me as nothing. Life accepts me as no 
 one.
There is an evolutionary impulse deep in life's functioning. 
 All I
need to do is to align with this evolutionary impulse. It 
meant
`active passivity'.  Passivity meant accepting yourself as 
you 
  are, or
being nothing, and not trying to become something. Active 
meant 
  being
alert in nothingness and acting when an impulse appeared from 
 deep
   inside.

This was a start of a highly interesting and exciting journey 
 of 
  life
consciously appreciating transformation. And I want to 
 emphasise 
  the
word start. I had just got a stable platform. Being 
established 
 on
that I can keep basic stability and calm in the whirls of true
transformation and even enjoy the journey, just as you can 
find 
 a
roller coaster ride very enjoyable.

For a person, who does not rest on this kind of very stable 
  platform,
enlightenment as a dream state means a blissful end station, 
  

[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread TurquoiseB
  I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...
 
 That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
 Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
 that's not related in any way to God, since they
 don't believe in one.

To say life is suffering implies there is something--
a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.

If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.

What is it?
  
   ++ State of mind?
  
  In a way. If (as the Four Noble Truths state) the
  cause of suffering is attachment to desire/aversion,
  then living in a state of mind that is *not* attached
  to achieving the fruits of desire or avoiding the
  things one is averse to is a way beyond suffering.
  
  The input to life doesn't change, only one's
  ability to greet it with equanimity. Try to force
  the square peg of that input into the round hole of
  one's desires, and you get suffering. Treat it as
  a square peg and be neither attached nor averse,
  no suffering. 
  
  Nothing to achieve, no obstacles to remove from
  the path to non-suffering, nowhere to go. Same 
  old same old...just life dealt with as What Is, not 
  What You'd Like Life To Be.
  
  Just for fun, compare and contrast this to MMY's
  latest U.N. rap, in which he once again presents his
  S-V theories and suggests that the problems of the
  world can't be solved unless one starts over with
  all-new buildings. In the Buddhist view, this 
  approach to resolving suffering can never work
  because it is based upon trying to change the input
  of life to avoid suffering, rather than change the 
  inner being's ability to deals with the input with-
  out attachment.
 
 As I understand it, the theory is that S-V buildings
 facilitate the change in the inner being's ability
 to deal with the input without attachment.

As I understand it, the S-V theory is being promoted
by someone who has been afraid to leave his suite of 
S-V rooms or to be in the same room with a human being 
other than the two or three trusted aides he interfaces 
with for over a decade now. And the latest plan to deal
with the input being promoted by the person living this
S-V-compliant lifestyle depends on raising an amount of 
money that is greater than the combined GNPs of the 
world's biggest countries.

I'd say that either the theory needs a sanity break or 
the theorist does.

  In the Buddhist view, the richest, most successful
  person in the world, living in a perfectly-aligned
  S-V house but still attached to his desires, will
  be lost in suffering. Whereas the poor person who
  lives in a cardboard box, if he is not attached to 
  his desires, is beyond suffering.
 
 But what if living in a perfectly aligned S-V house
 makes it easier to break the attachment to desires?

See above. The longer the primary proponent of S-V
hides inside his S-V house, the larger his demands 
for money get and the more dire his pronouncements 
of what will happen to the world if he *doesn't* 
receive the money he's demanding get. 

Does this look to you as if S-V reduces either one's
desires or the attachment to them?

Just asking. I mean, people these days pay a million
dollars to go on a course with Maharishi, the person 
who has been living in S-V compliant buildings longer 
than anyone else, and what they find is someone who
is so fearful or reclusive or whatever that he can't 
even sit in the same room with them. 

Does this behavior tend to convince you of the 
benefits of S-V?







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
  wrote:
  
   I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...
  
  That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
  Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
  that's not related in any way to God, since they
  don't believe in one.
 
 To say life is suffering implies there is something--
 a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.
 
 If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
 a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.
 
 What is it?
   
++ State of mind?
   
   In a way. If (as the Four Noble Truths state) the
   cause of suffering is attachment to desire/aversion,
   then living in a state of mind that is *not* attached
   to achieving the fruits of desire or avoiding the
   things one is averse to is a way beyond suffering.
   
   The input to life doesn't change, only one's
   ability to greet it with equanimity. Try to force
   the square peg of that input into the round hole of
   one's desires, and you get suffering. Treat it as
   a square peg and be neither attached nor averse,
   no suffering. 
   
   Nothing to achieve, no obstacles to remove from
   the path to non-suffering, nowhere to go. Same 
   old same old...just life dealt with as What Is, not 
   What You'd Like Life To Be.
  
  Another thought on this subject, to relate it back
  to the rap that started this thread:
  
  Both desire and aversion are an attempt to turn
  What is into something else. 
  
  The person who is convinced that there is something
  that 'prevents' their enlightenment -- whether 
  they consider that something to be ego, or intel-
  lect, or stress, or whatever -- is attempting
  to (in Vaj's terms) patch the What is of the
  universe and transform it into the What I'd like 
  it to be of the professional sufferer. It's the
  desire/aversion cycle as path -- I should come 
  back to the mantra; I should not trusts my ego/
  self/intellect.
  
  The What is of life is *all you need* to realize
  enlightenment.
 
 But this itself is the realization.  Or to put it
 another way, in enlightenment one has realized
 that the What is of life is all one needs.
 
 Prior to enlightenment, one does not have this
 realization.  So there is still something to be
 achieved.

The realization is that nothing ever had to
be achieved. The realization is that there was
never a time when enlightenment was not present,
merely a time when one did not realize it was
present. The glasses you have been searching for 
have always been on your nose, but the person 
wearing the glasses has been so caught up in 
searching for them and so attached to being a
perpetual searcher that she never noticed. :-)

 The realization that there was nothing to be
 achieved *is the achievement*.

There is no achievement because there was never
any need for anything to be achieved. Enlight-
enment was always present. The glasses have 
always been on your nose...is noticing them 
there that big an achievement?
 
  Nothing needs to be achieved, nothing
  removed. Nothing is an 'obstacle' to enlightenment.
  The ego is enlightenment, the intellect is enlighten-
  ment, the 'good' questions of the bhakti are enlight-
  enment and the 'bad' questions of the cynic are 
  enlightenment. Only enlightenment is.
 
 If there was nothing to be achieved, we would all
 be born with this realization.

Says the person who desperately wants to keep
searching for her glasses, while wearing them. :-)

 In other words, to tell a person who has not had
 this realization that there is nothing for him or
 her to achieve is a category mistake, spoken from
 the perspective of one who has already achieved
 the realization.

Or the truth, spoken from the perspective of someone
talking to a person with glasses firmly on nose who
is whining about them being lost.  :-)

  Listening to someone go on and on about the parts
  of one's self one has to reject or not trust or 
  get beyond to realize enlightenment is a lot like
  watching someone looking for their glasses while 
  wearing their glasses. You'd kinda like to tell them,
  but at the same time they seem to be so *involved* in
  searching for the glasses everywhere that you hate 
  to spoil their fun...







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
snip
   In the Buddhist view, the richest, most successful
   person in the world, living in a perfectly-aligned
   S-V house but still attached to his desires, will
   be lost in suffering. Whereas the poor person who
   lives in a cardboard box, if he is not attached to 
   his desires, is beyond suffering.
  
  But what if living in a perfectly aligned S-V house
  makes it easier to break the attachment to desires?
 
 See above. The longer the primary proponent of S-V
 hides inside his S-V house, the larger his demands 
 for money get and the more dire his pronouncements 
 of what will happen to the world if he *doesn't* 
 receive the money he's demanding get. 
 
 Does this look to you as if S-V reduces either one's
 desires or the attachment to them?

Damn.  I could have *sworn* I included a disclaimer
that I wasn't saying the theory worked.  Let me see...

Yup, I did.  But you seem to have deleted it from
your response:

  (I'm not saying it does, just that if one is comparing
  *views*, it's important to include that aspect of MMY's
  view.)






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
wrote:
snip
   The person who is convinced that there is something
   that 'prevents' their enlightenment -- whether 
   they consider that something to be ego, or intel-
   lect, or stress, or whatever -- is attempting
   to (in Vaj's terms) patch the What is of the
   universe and transform it into the What I'd like 
   it to be of the professional sufferer. It's the
   desire/aversion cycle as path -- I should come 
   back to the mantra; I should not trusts my ego/
   self/intellect.
   
   The What is of life is *all you need* to realize
   enlightenment.
  
  But this itself is the realization.  Or to put it
  another way, in enlightenment one has realized
  that the What is of life is all one needs.
  
  Prior to enlightenment, one does not have this
  realization.  So there is still something to be
  achieved.
 
 The realization is that nothing ever had to
 be achieved.

Right, that's what I just said.  That's the realization
one needs to achieve.

 The realization is that there was
 never a time when enlightenment was not present,
 merely a time when one did not realize it was
 present.

Right, that's the realization one needs to achieve,
as I just said.

 The glasses you have been searching for 
 have always been on your nose, but the person 
 wearing the glasses has been so caught up in 
 searching for them and so attached to being a
 perpetual searcher that she never noticed. :-)

Yup, being caught up and searching and attached
is what gets in the way of the realization that
there is nothing to be achieved.  Those are the--

   parts of one's self one has to reject or not
   trust or get beyond to realize enlightenment

--just as you so aptly put it.

  The realization that there was nothing to be
  achieved *is the achievement*.
 
 There is no achievement because there was never
 any need for anything to be achieved.

Except the realization that there was never any
need for anything to be achieved.

 Enlight-
 enment was always present. The glasses have 
 always been on your nose...is noticing them 
 there that big an achievement?

Seems to make the difference, don't it?

   Nothing needs to be achieved, nothing
   removed. Nothing is an 'obstacle' to enlightenment.
   The ego is enlightenment, the intellect is enlighten-
   ment, the 'good' questions of the bhakti are enlight-
   enment and the 'bad' questions of the cynic are 
   enlightenment. Only enlightenment is.
  
  If there was nothing to be achieved, we would all
  be born with this realization.
 
 Says the person who desperately wants to keep
 searching for her glasses, while wearing them. :-)
 
  In other words, to tell a person who has not had
  this realization that there is nothing for him or
  her to achieve is a category mistake, spoken from
  the perspective of one who has already achieved
  the realization.
 
 Or the truth, spoken from the perspective of someone
 talking to a person with glasses firmly on nose who
 is whining about them being lost.  :-)

Another way of saying what I just said, but nastily.

See, you can't avoid the achievement aspect.  All
you can do is push it back a level.  This kind of
category mistake always results in an infinite
regress, something you've never understood.

But then, if you did understand, you wouldn't have
the opportunity to express scorn and contempt for
those who haven't yet achieved the realization, and
that's much more important to you than intellectual
honesty.


 
   Listening to someone go on and on about the parts
   of one's self one has to reject or not trust or 
   get beyond to realize enlightenment is a lot like
   watching someone looking for their glasses while 
   wearing their glasses. You'd kinda like to tell them,
   but at the same time they seem to be so *involved* in
   searching for the glasses everywhere that you hate 
   to spoil their fun...






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
snip
 But then, if you did understand, you wouldn't have
 the opportunity to express scorn and contempt for
 those who haven't yet achieved the realization, and
 that's much more important to you than intellectual
 honesty.

(Speaking of attachment...)






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 snip
In the Buddhist view, the richest, most successful
person in the world, living in a perfectly-aligned
S-V house but still attached to his desires, will
be lost in suffering. Whereas the poor person who
lives in a cardboard box, if he is not attached to 
his desires, is beyond suffering.
   
   But what if living in a perfectly aligned S-V house
   makes it easier to break the attachment to desires?
  
  See above. The longer the primary proponent of S-V
  hides inside his S-V house, the larger his demands 
  for money get and the more dire his pronouncements 
  of what will happen to the world if he *doesn't* 
  receive the money he's demanding get. 
  
  Does this look to you as if S-V reduces either one's
  desires or the attachment to them?
 
 Damn.  I could have *sworn* I included a disclaimer
 that I wasn't saying the theory worked.  Let me see...
 
 Yup, I did.  But you seem to have deleted it from
 your response:

Did you see anything in the *question* asked of
you above that implies you *did* say that that 
the theory worked?

I was asking a question to see if you'd answer
instead of sitting on the fence spouting disclaimers
*while* defending the theory. Guess not...  :-)

   (I'm not saying it does, just that if one is comparing
   *views*, it's important to include that aspect of MMY's
   view.)








 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig sparaig@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, claudiouk claudiouk@ 
  wrote:
  
   The really problematic dimension of suffering is not personal 
(if 
  one 
   can indeed become detached from internal desire or aversion) -
 
 it 
   is interpersonal. Try being detatched whilst your loved ones 
are 
   being tortured... 
   
  
  Of course, in the TM sense, lack of suffering is due to 
witnessing. 
  Anger, horror, terror, unhappiness, etc., can be expected within 
a 
  person watching another, especially a loved one, being tortured. 
 That 
  doesn't preclude witnessing in the TM sense, however.
  
  It's an interesting paradox: one can suffer and yet not be 
 suffering.
 
 But the referent of one changes.  The self is suffering,
 while the Self is not.

Well yeah, but just because we see beauty in the dead dog's shiny 
teeth doesn't mean we go out of our way to admire them if there is 
something else *better*, relatively speaking, to look at. 





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 snip
  But then, if you did understand, you wouldn't have
  the opportunity to express scorn and contempt for
  those who haven't yet achieved the realization, and
  that's much more important to you than intellectual
  honesty.
 
 (Speaking of attachment...)

You're the one whining...







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
wrote:
  snip
   But then, if you did understand, you wouldn't have
   the opportunity to express scorn and contempt for
   those who haven't yet achieved the realization, and
   that's much more important to you than intellectual
   honesty.
  
  (Speaking of attachment...)
 
 You're the one whining...


And you are whining about the whining.

And I am whining about the whining about the whining.


Hey, a universe in the making!





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
wrote:
  snip
 In the Buddhist view, the richest, most successful
 person in the world, living in a perfectly-aligned
 S-V house but still attached to his desires, will
 be lost in suffering. Whereas the poor person who
 lives in a cardboard box, if he is not attached to 
 his desires, is beyond suffering.

But what if living in a perfectly aligned S-V house
makes it easier to break the attachment to desires?
   
   See above. The longer the primary proponent of S-V
   hides inside his S-V house, the larger his demands 
   for money get and the more dire his pronouncements 
   of what will happen to the world if he *doesn't* 
   receive the money he's demanding get. 
   
   Does this look to you as if S-V reduces either one's
   desires or the attachment to them?
  
  Damn.  I could have *sworn* I included a disclaimer
  that I wasn't saying the theory worked.  Let me see...
  
  Yup, I did.  But you seem to have deleted it from
  your response:
 
 Did you see anything in the *question* asked of
 you above that implies you *did* say that that 
 the theory worked?

Sure.  It was a rhetorical question.  And you make
it explicit below, when you claim I was defending
the theory:

 I was asking a question to see if you'd answer
 instead of sitting on the fence spouting disclaimers
 *while* defending the theory. Guess not...  :-)

Again, you confuse defending a theory with stating
what the theory *is*.  I was doing the latter, not the
former.  As I said, if one is comparing *views*, it's
important to correctly, and completely, *state* the
views.

Then one can move on to discussing whether one view
works better than another.

I have no idea whether MMY's S-V theory works.  I
don't live in an S-V home and don't know anybody who
does.  I don't know whether MMY is hiding in his S-V
home or whether he's too frail to leave it.  I don't
know whether his demands for money represent desires
to which he's attached.

And neither do you.

But you have a desire to belittle MMY's theories,
behavior, and state of consciousness, to which
you're obviously very much attached; what is is
not acceptable to you.  For that matter, you're
very firmly attached to your desire to belittle
anybody who doesn't see things the way you do.

(I'm not saying it does, just that if one is comparing
*views*, it's important to include that aspect of MMY's
view.)






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  snip
   But then, if you did understand, you wouldn't have
   the opportunity to express scorn and contempt for
   those who haven't yet achieved the realization, and
   that's much more important to you than intellectual
   honesty.
  
  (Speaking of attachment...)
 
 You're the one whining...

And you're whining about my whining.  The difference
between us is that I don't have any problem admitting
it.






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
wrote:
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
wrote:
   snip
But then, if you did understand, you wouldn't have
the opportunity to express scorn and contempt for
those who haven't yet achieved the realization, and
that's much more important to you than intellectual
honesty.
   
   (Speaking of attachment...)
  
  You're the one whining...
 
 And you're whining about my whining.  

I think both you and Lawson need to straighten
your already-present glasses. :-) I am merely 
poking fun at your whining. It's *your* choice 
if what you want to do is whine about your lost 
glasses while wearing them. 

That doesn't sound like a whole lotta fun to me, 
but if that's how you choose to amuse yourself, 
so be it. It doesn't affect me one way or another, 
so it's not as if I've got anything to whine about.

But something to *laugh* about...that I've got.
Many thanks...  :-)







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
wrote:
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:
snip
 But then, if you did understand, you wouldn't have
 the opportunity to express scorn and contempt for
 those who haven't yet achieved the realization, and
 that's much more important to you than intellectual
 honesty.

(Speaking of attachment...)
   
   You're the one whining...
  
  And you're whining about my whining.  
 
 I think both you and Lawson need to straighten
 your already-present glasses. :-) I am merely 
 poking fun at your whining. It's *your* choice 
 if what you want to do is whine about your lost 
 glasses while wearing them.

What, me whine?

Barry, virtually all you *do* here is whine about
one thing and another.

 That doesn't sound like a whole lotta fun to me, 
 but if that's how you choose to amuse yourself, 
 so be it. It doesn't affect me one way or another, 
 so it's not as if I've got anything to whine about.

Actually you have nothing to whine about because
neither Lawson nor I are whining, at least not
about not being enlightened.  To state that one
is not enlightened is not in and of itself whining,
but rather simply saying *what is*.

But Barry isn't at all happy with *what is*, so he
whines and whines and whines:  The *nerve* of those
people, saying they aren't enlightened!





 
 But something to *laugh* about...that I've got.
 Many thanks...  :-)







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 What, me whine?

LOL. Now you've done it. Now I've got an image
running through my mind of Mad magazine's Alfred 
E. Newman with a pair of glasses on his nose,
searching for them everywhere while whining about
them being lost. All of this over a caption that 
says in big letters, What, me whine?  :-)

I suspect the bottom line to all of this is some
kind of cosmic wish-fulfilling gem with a weird
sense of humor. 

Some people really *like* being on the path to 
enlightenment. Being on the path is what they 
live for. They've got their unfulfilled seeker 
act down pat and don't want to learn another 
act. So enlightenment fulfills their wishes by 
making their path longer and longer and longer, 
as long as they need it to be so they can keep 
seeking.

Other folks would rather be enlightened than
seek enlightenment, and enlightenment accomodates
them, too.

Nice system, sorta like in a Chinese restaurant.
You get to choose from either column A (perpetual
seeking) or column B (finding). I don't know about
you, but I'm gonna have the Kung Pao Chicken tonight...








 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:
 
  What, me whine?
 
 LOL. Now you've done it. Now I've got an image
 running through my mind of Mad magazine's Alfred 
 E. Newman with a pair of glasses on his nose,
 searching for them everywhere while whining about
 them being lost. All of this over a caption that 
 says in big letters, What, me whine?  :-)
 
 I suspect the bottom line to all of this is some
 kind of cosmic wish-fulfilling gem with a weird
 sense of humor. 
 
 Some people really *like* being on the path to 
 enlightenment. Being on the path is what they 
 live for. They've got their unfulfilled seeker 
 act down pat and don't want to learn another 
 act. So enlightenment fulfills their wishes by 
 making their path longer and longer and longer, 
 as long as they need it to be so they can keep 
 seeking.
 
 Other folks would rather be enlightened than
 seek enlightenment, and enlightenment accomodates
 them, too.

And some folks would rather slap column A and
column B labels on people.



 
 Nice system, sorta like in a Chinese restaurant.
 You get to choose from either column A (perpetual
 seeking) or column B (finding). I don't know about
 you, but I'm gonna have the Kung Pao Chicken tonight...







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread defenders_of_bhakti
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson nelsonriddle2001@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson 
 nelsonriddle2001@ 
   wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 snip
  Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
  through and from them.
 
 Question on this one point: By what standard can it
 be said that God makes mistakes?

 I recall reading somewhere that he said that he was 
evolving which would mean not so much making mistakes as doing 
things differently. N.
   
   Evolving toward what?

I think there is a big confusion of what evolution actually means.
Here some biological definitions:

Evolution: The long-term process through which a population of
organisms accumulates genetic changes that enable its members to
successfully adapt to environmental conditions and to better exploit
food resources.
www.accessexcellence.org/AE/AEPC/WWC/1994/glossary.html

The change in life over time by adaptation, variation,
over-reproduction, and differential survival/reproduction, a process
referred to by Charles Darwin and Alfred Wallace as natural selection.
http://www.emc.maricopa.edu/faculty/farabee/BIOBK/BioBookglossE.html

In this sense evolution is not the development to a certain
pre-existent goal, but rather the successful adaptaion to a given
environment by a certain organism. Thhis is what trial and error and
natural selection is all about. This makes the idea of an evolving
Creator-God fairly upsurd: How could a Creator adapt to an
environment, he has created himself? It is even more absurd if you
assume an all-knowing God going through trial and error. Pretty much
trial and error can be done by machines, and doesn't require a creator
at all. That is why evolution, the theory of natural selection is so
much opposed by the creationists.

Now one can of course try to transfer the idea of evolution to a sort
of teleological argument, and that is what many New Agers do. There is
a goal, a pre-existent ideal to which nature develops. But if God
himself develops, who established the ideal, was it already there or
did he create it? And if he created the ideal, why didn't s/he create
the ideal creation right away?

I think one gets into a big muddle if one tries to combine
evolutionary theories which really don't need any God (like trial and
error) with creationist ideas. Why should a God evolve, unless he has
fallen, and is now involved in his own creation? Of course one could
argue, we are all God, and we are all evolving to finally realize this
potential of ours.

Otherwise its a really absurd idea, with the sort of populistic
appeal, the same as that we are all co-creators. It just makes some
people feel more important.

  
   He didn't say but I would guess that being at level, he would
  be pretty well qualified to decide.
 
 If he recognizes that ultimate toward which he is evolving,
 such that he can see that something he did was a mistake,
 or that he needed to do things differently, what is the
 nature of that ultimate?
 
 If what we're calling God is not the ultimate, what is?






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread Nelson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 I think there is a big confusion of what evolution actually means.
 Here some biological definitions:
 
 Evolution: The long-term process through which a population of
 organisms accumulates genetic changes that enable its members to
 successfully adapt to environmental conditions and to better exploit
 food resources.
 www.accessexcellence.org/AE/AEPC/WWC/1994/glossary.html
 
 The change in life over time by adaptation, variation,
 over-reproduction, and differential survival/reproduction, a process
 referred to by Charles Darwin and Alfred Wallace as natural selection.
 http://www.emc.maricopa.edu/faculty/farabee/BIOBK/BioBookglossE.html
 
 In this sense evolution is not the development to a certain
 pre-existent goal, but rather the successful adaptaion to a given
 environment by a certain organism. Thhis is what trial and error and
 natural selection is all about. This makes the idea of an evolving
 Creator-God fairly upsurd: How could a Creator adapt to an
 environment, he has created himself? It is even more absurd if you
 assume an all-knowing God going through trial and error. Pretty much
 trial and error can be done by machines, and doesn't require a creator
 at all. That is why evolution, the theory of natural selection is so
 much opposed by the creationists.
 
 Now one can of course try to transfer the idea of evolution to a sort
 of teleological argument, and that is what many New Agers do. There is
 a goal, a pre-existent ideal to which nature develops. But if God
 himself develops, who established the ideal, was it already there or
 did he create it? And if he created the ideal, why didn't s/he create
 the ideal creation right away?
 
 I think one gets into a big muddle if one tries to combine
 evolutionary theories which really don't need any God (like trial and
 error) with creationist ideas. Why should a God evolve, unless he has
 fallen, and is now involved in his own creation? Of course one could
 argue, we are all God, and we are all evolving to finally realize this
 potential of ours.
 
 Otherwise its a really absurd idea, with the sort of populistic
 appeal, the same as that we are all co-creators. It just makes some
 people feel more important.
 +++ Haven't you observed that you do some creating yourself?  N.






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread defenders_of_bhakti
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Not to argue, but you seem to have missed this section:
 
  Maharishi's commentary says:
 
 By 'homage' is meant submission or surrender.

Sure, I saw it later, but he was of course quoting MMY. Not setting
the stage for his own audience.

 http://www.commandperformance.net/calendar/Sept%2004/25.htm
 
 :-)  :-)  :-)

Is BDSM on operating system? (Like FreeBSD)






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Not to argue, but you seem to have missed this section:
  
   Maharishi's commentary says:
  
  By 'homage' is meant submission or surrender.
 
 Sure, I saw it later, but he was of course quoting MMY. Not 
 setting the stage for his own audience.
 
  http://www.commandperformance.net/calendar/Sept%2004/25.htm
  
  :-)  :-)  :-)
 
 Is BDSM on operating system? (Like FreeBSD)

In a way...it stands for bondage, domination and
sado-masochism.  Given Michael's sig file, I doubt 
it's free.  :-)

I'm just joking around. I'm sure it's fine for a 
therapist to give a talk about BDSM...I just thought 
it humorous that it was billed as a workshop/demo...








 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Dean Goodman
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 SELF-DOUBT AND CYNICISM VS. PROFOUND TRUST
  From a Talk by Adyashanti
 
 There is nothing more insidiously destructive to the attainment of
 liberation than self-doubt and cynicism.  Doubt is a movement of the
 conditioned mind that always claims that it's not possible ... that
 freedom is not possible for me [or for you - or at least it is very
 very difficult, very distant].  Doubt always knows; it knows that
 nothing is possible.  And in this knowing, doubt robs you of the pos-
 sibility of anything truly new or transformative from happening.  Fur-
 thermore, doubt is always accompanied by a pervasive cynicism that
 unconsciously puts a negative spin on whatever it touches.  Cynicism
 is a world view which protects the ego from scrutiny by maintaining
 a negative stance in relationship to what it does not know, does not
 want to know, or cannot know.  Many spiritual seekers have no idea
 how cynical and doubt-laden they actually are.  It is this blindness
 and denial of the presence of doubt and cynicism that makes the birth
 of a profound trust impossible - a trust without which final libera-
 tion will always remain simply a dream. - Adyashanti
 

A complementary perspective to Adhyasanti's view:

For evolving to higher stages of consciousness, more destructive than
self-doubt and cynicism, is an unquestioning mind with no capacity to
inner inquiry and dialogue. Whatever grandiose idea of oneself appears
is taken to be the absolute truth, doubts are immediately suppressed,
if they ever appear. 
Doubts and cynicism can be quite destructive. However I see even that
kind of tormenting doubt as one of the first steps into an acquisition
of capacity to inner dialogue. Denial of the presence of doubt leads
to suppression. Working with doubts canlead to a transformation, where
doubt becomes a constructive inner voice and opener to inner inquiry.

A person who suppresses doubt has an internal structure that could be
called fundamentalism. A person who has no doubts is  even below that
developmentally. Being beyond fundamentalism means capacity to handle
doubts and also difficult emotions in an constructive way.

In my teens I remember myself spending long ours almost daily in an
inner dialogue. An idea came to my mind. Soon after that appeared an
opposing idea that doubted or disapproved with the first idea.
I calmly just witnessed this discussion and dialogue inside and it
gradually got more and more subtle, and dealt with many important
existential questions.  I still remember one pearl that was created
through these dialogues: If there is God, and he is the embodiment of
Truth, he can only expect from me that I do what I understand to be
true and right. Even if that meant the denial of God. And it actually
meant it for me then. I think this insight appeared at 14. I also
claim that it was this kind of inner dialogue that lead to the
powerful experience of realization I had at age 16, that I have
described more in details many times here at FFL

Irmeli






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Dean Goodman
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 [That trust is also often called homage, or even devotion or
 surrender - and the path that encompasses this openness of heart
 is called bhakti.  Once Self-realization is ripening, this open-
 ness of heart in devotion is essential in order to expand out and
 meet and imbibe your god/goddess. - MDG]
 
 
 BHAGAVAD GITA ON HOMAGE, REPEATED INQUIRY, AND SERVICE
 
 For example, in the Bhagavad Gita, 4:34, Lord Krishna says:
 
Through homage, repeated inquiry, and service,
 the men of knowledge who have experienced Reality
 will teach you knowledge.
 
 Maharishi's commentary says:
 
By 'homage' is meant submission or surrender.
 
 The commentary says that surrender to the teacher (ultimately to the
 Truth that the teacher is a reflector of), is the prerequisite for
 asking questions (repeated inquiry, or curiosity).  After devotion,
 the questions are true seekings for deeper understanding.  There is
 no hint of any intention to diminish the teacher or test the teacher
 or argue with the teacher or improve the teacher - no hint of any in-
 tention to doubt the teacher or the Truth.  There is no intention to
 play the game I'm more OK, based on making you less OK. The teacher
 has already been accepted fully as a conduit of Truth, and the inten-
 tion of the inquiry is to make everyone more and more OK, more and
 more infinite/vast/divine.
 
 Then the heart of the teacher opens wide, any and all questions are
 welcome and appropriate, and deep knowledge flows in response to
 them.  This acceptance of the teacher is actually a surrender to the
 unbounded Truth; it invites the unbounded to shine forth through the
 teacher.  This trust or surrender means that the individual has
 gotten out of the way to some extent, has dropped their ego-defend-
 ing patterns, has dropped their guard.
 
 Before trust, before devotion, the questions are not really from a
 surrendered place.  The questioner has not accepted the teacher as a
 teacher, the questioner has not accepted the limitations of his/her
 own relative ego/intellect, and therefore there is not that open flow
 of knowledge.  In the questions there may be some lack of respect for
 the teacher, some implication that the teacher is not competent, some
 belittling or depreciation of the teacher.  The teacher's heart is
 not opened by this, the recipient's guard is not put down, and the
 flow of Truth is not profound.
 
 We all know from everyday experience that questions (curiosity) gener-
 ally can have two very distinct purposes, even in mundane conversation:
 
 1. To actually gain understanding, as sincere inquiries; to create
 love/togetherness/unity by going deeper into knowledge; to open
 the conduit for richer flow of knowledge.
 
 2. To hide something behind the smokescreen of a question:
 a. To hide our criticism/anger, to avoid making a directly critical
statement.
 b. To hide that we're trying to control or dominate someone - to
hide that we're trying to manipulate someone or trying to engage
someone in a game.
 c. To create doubt/division/fear.
 
 In this case, questions are actually deceptions, a kind of passive/
 aggressive behavior.  Rather than saying what we feel in direct
 statements, we hide behind questions.  If challenged, if our true
 but hidden feelings or motives are noticed, we can always say I
 didn't mean any criticism - I was just wondering  Often it is
 apparent to observers, and to the recipient of the question, that
 we were NOT just wondering.  The question has an obvious edge to
 it, or it asks for an answer that we already know or could figure
 out, or it is pretty blatantly a manipulation, or it just leaves
 the recipient feeling odd, as though they've been tricked or mess-
 ed with.
 
 Although not so easy to say in words, the difference in how it feels
 to receive these two different kinds of questions (inquiries) is
 energetically obvious to most of us.  Sincere questions, without
 hidden emotional agendas or motives, evoke an open flow of
knowledge,
 evoke more unity and deepening, and don't leave a strange
aftertaste.
 
 The nature of a person's speech (and writing), especially their style
 of spiritual inquiry and discussion (as on this list), is very reveal-
 ing about the condition of their heart and mind.  They reveal so clear-
 ly whether they are swimming in the sea of doubt and cynicism and ego-
 defense, or whether they've found the life-preserver of surrender and
 simplicity and concern for others.
 
 
 Namaste,
 
 Michael
 

Also a complementary perspective to Goodman's view:

Bhagavad Gita, 4:34, Lord Krishna says:

Through homage, repeated inquiry, and service, the men of knowledge
who have experienced Reality will teach you reality.

My dictionary translates homage to mean respect, reverence, and not

[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 My dictionary translates homage to mean respect, reverence, and not
 surrender. And I understand the quotation in a way that also the
 teacher should show homage to the student, give his advice after
 repeated inquiry, and do service to others.
  
 Through wrongly understood devotion many difficult questions and
 doubts can get suppressed and the inner process becomes partial or
 distorted. Experience shows that the suppressed issues tend to get
 acted out elsewhere in a less constructive ways in the student's 
 and teacher's lives. And I think the teacher should be tested, 
 or at least his behavior, and the structure of his organization 
 observed very accurately. 

Just as an observation, the only teachers I have ever
met who reacted negatively to being tested by their
students were IMO afraid that they would flunk the test.

This includes high Tibetan lamas and recognized tulkus
who had *no problem* with their students or drop-in
visitors questioning *anything* they said or taught.
In contrast to those who *do* react negatively to
having their expertise or authority questioned, these 
guys seemed to *delight* in the testing. The tougher 
the questions, the more they seemed to like it. Go 
figure.







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Alex Stanley
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti 
 no_reply@ wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
  
   Not to argue, but you seem to have missed this section:
   
Maharishi's commentary says:
   
   By 'homage' is meant submission or surrender.
  
  Sure, I saw it later, but he was of course quoting MMY. Not 
  setting the stage for his own audience.
  
   http://www.commandperformance.net/calendar/Sept%2004/25.htm
   
   :-)  :-)  :-)
  
  Is BDSM on operating system? (Like FreeBSD)
 
 In a way...it stands for bondage, domination and
 sado-masochism.  Given Michael's sig file, I doubt 
 it's free.  :-)

BDSM actually contains multiple meanings within it:

BD = bondage  discipline
DS = dominance  submission
SM = sadism  masochism





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
snip
 Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
 through and from them.

Question on this one point: By what standard can it
be said that God makes mistakes?






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Vaj

On Mar 12, 2006, at 8:29 AM, authfriend wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 snip
  Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
  through and from them.

 Question on this one point: By what standard can it
 be said that God makes mistakes?

Which God?



 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 On Mar 12, 2006, at 8:29 AM, authfriend wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
  snip
   Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
   through and from them.
 
  Question on this one point: By what standard can it
  be said that God makes mistakes?
 
 Which God?

The one Irmeli is referring to.







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 snip
  Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
  through and from them.
 
 Question on this one point: By what standard can it
 be said that God makes mistakes?

It is just the observation that evolving in nature happens through
errors and in animals also by avoiding the mistakes and as even in a
more advanced form  humans can sometimes also learn from mistakes. I
consider the manifest creation to be expression of God or one aspect
of God.

Irmeli







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti 
  no_reply@ wrote:
   
   Is BDSM on operating system? (Like FreeBSD)
  
  In a way...it stands for bondage, domination and
  sado-masochism.  Given Michael's sig file, I doubt 
  it's free.  :-)
 
 BDSM actually contains multiple meanings within it:
 
 BD = bondage  discipline
 DS = dominance  submission
 SM = sadism  masochism

Wow. Impressive...a truly modular operating system.
Combine the first letter with the last (BM) and 
you've even got coprophilia covered.  :-)








 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Vaj

On Mar 12, 2006, at 8:44 AM, Irmeli Mattsson wrote:

 It is just the observation that evolving in nature happens through
 errors and in animals also by avoiding the mistakes and as even in a
 more advanced form  humans can sometimes also learn from mistakes. I
 consider the manifest creation to be expression of God or one aspect
 of God.

Ah, a Creator God. Yeah, they screw up all the time, esp. at the  
start. :-)



 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Vaj


On Mar 12, 2006, at 5:45 AM, defenders_of_bhakti wrote:--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Not to argue, but you seem to have missed this section:   Maharishi's commentary says:      "By 'homage' is meant submission or surrender."Sure, I saw it later, but he was of course quoting MMY. Not settingthe stage for his own audience. http://www.commandperformance.net/calendar/Sept%2004/25.htm  :-)  :-)  :-)Is BDSM on operating system? (Like FreeBSD)No, bioenergetic pathology.





To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!'








  
  
SPONSORED LINKS
  
  
  

Maharishi university of management
  
  
Maharishi mahesh yogi
  
  
Ramana maharshi
  
  

   
  







  
  
  YAHOO! GROUPS LINKS



  Visit your group "FairfieldLife" on the web.
  To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
  Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to the Yahoo! Terms of Service.



  








[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 On Mar 12, 2006, at 8:44 AM, Irmeli Mattsson wrote:
 
  It is just the observation that evolving in nature happens 
  through errors and in animals also by avoiding the mistakes 
  and as even in a more advanced form  humans can sometimes 
  also learn from mistakes. I consider the manifest creation 
  to be expression of God or one aspect of God.
 
 Ah, a Creator God. Yeah, they screw up all the time, esp. 
 at the start. :-)

LOL. 

Being essentially a Buddhist w.r.t. to creation
(that is, believing that there never *was* one, and
that the universe has always been, is now, and will
always be) I've always been interested in how much of
theology seems to be based on linear thinking. 

If one begins with the assumption that there was a 
creation (a start), and that things evolve towards 
dissolution (an end), then the need to posulate a 
Creator intellectually arises.

If you further assume that there have been multiple
creations, with a 'gap' between the dissolution of 
one and the creation of the next, *again* the need 
to postulate a Creator arises. (Because if the 'next'
creation actually is 'created,' then some Creator
energy or intelligence must have been present during 
the 'gap' between creations to create the next one.

On the other hand, if one starts with the assumption
that the universe is eternal, and that there has never
been a moment in which it was not manifest, and never
will be, then there is no intellectual need to postu-
ate a Creator. The need for a Creator is very much
dependent on the assumption that there was once a
creation.







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread defenders_of_bhakti
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 It's rhetorical, Def. :)
 
 Sal

Thanks. Being native german, I did a 'literal' translation.

 
 On Mar 11, 2006, at 6:49 PM, defenders_of_bhakti wrote:
 
   Well, we all know rethoric questions, don't we? (This was a rethoric
   question).








 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Nelson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 snip
  Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
  through and from them.
 
 Question on this one point: By what standard can it
 be said that God makes mistakes?

 I recall reading somewhere that he said that he was evolving
which would mean not so much making mistakes as doing things
differently. N.





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread defenders_of_bhakti
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 snip
  Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
  through and from them.
 
 Question on this one point: By what standard can it
 be said that God makes mistakes?

On the basis of this is of course gnostic thinking (Freemasonree,
Rosecrucians). The basic idea behind it, is that creation is like a
prison. I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism, possibly even
the Upanishads, who say, that the Gods keep man like cattle. In Tantra
there is a term calling it the 'original ignorance' Why would
ignorance be there at the first place, if the creation was perfect,
just as it is?





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Nelson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajranatha@ wrote:
  On Mar 12, 2006, at 8:44 AM, Irmeli Mattsson wrote:
  
   It is just the observation that evolving in nature happens 
   through errors and in animals also by avoiding the mistakes 
   and as even in a more advanced form  humans can sometimes 
   also learn from mistakes. I consider the manifest creation 
   to be expression of God or one aspect of God.
  
  Ah, a Creator God. Yeah, they screw up all the time, esp. 
  at the start. :-)
 
 LOL. 
 
 Being essentially a Buddhist w.r.t. to creation
 (that is, believing that there never *was* one, and
 that the universe has always been, is now, and will
 always be) I've always been interested in how much of
 theology seems to be based on linear thinking. 
 
 If one begins with the assumption that there was a 
 creation (a start), and that things evolve towards 
 dissolution (an end), then the need to posulate a 
 Creator intellectually arises.
 
 If you further assume that there have been multiple
 creations, with a 'gap' between the dissolution of 
 one and the creation of the next, *again* the need 
 to postulate a Creator arises. (Because if the 'next'
 creation actually is 'created,' then some Creator
 energy or intelligence must have been present during 
 the 'gap' between creations to create the next one.
 
 On the other hand, if one starts with the assumption
 that the universe is eternal, and that there has never
 been a moment in which it was not manifest, and never
 will be, then there is no intellectual need to postu-
 ate a Creator. The need for a Creator is very much
 dependent on the assumption that there was once a
 creation.

+++ Did you read the greatest miracle by Og Mandino?
In it was a memorandom from God which contained quite a bit of
information on this latest creation.
Believing or not is a choice sometimes and, I enjoyed the story. N






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
  snip
   Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
   through and from them.
  
  Question on this one point: By what standard can it
  be said that God makes mistakes?
 
 On the basis of this is of course gnostic thinking 
 (Freemasonree, Rosecrucians). The basic idea behind 
 it, is that creation is like a prison. 

Depends entirely on the flavor of gnosticism.
Some flavors believe that creation wasn't created
by God but by the other guy (Satan, the demiurge). 

 I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...

That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
that's not related in any way to God, since they
don't believe in one.







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Nelson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
  snip
   Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
   through and from them.
  
  Question on this one point: By what standard can it
  be said that God makes mistakes?
 
 On the basis of this is of course gnostic thinking (Freemasonree,
 Rosecrucians). The basic idea behind it, is that creation is like a
 prison. I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism, possibly even
 the Upanishads, who say, that the Gods keep man like cattle. In Tantra
 there is a term calling it the 'original ignorance' Why would
 ignorance be there at the first place, if the creation was perfect,
 just as it is?

 Maybe this is made up by those who want to free you from
ignorance and charge you for it?





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajranatha@ wrote:
   On Mar 12, 2006, at 8:44 AM, Irmeli Mattsson wrote:
   
It is just the observation that evolving in nature happens 
through errors and in animals also by avoiding the mistakes 
and as even in a more advanced form  humans can sometimes 
also learn from mistakes. I consider the manifest creation 
to be expression of God or one aspect of God.
   
   Ah, a Creator God. Yeah, they screw up all the time, esp. 
   at the start. :-)
  
  LOL. 
  
  Being essentially a Buddhist w.r.t. to creation
  (that is, believing that there never *was* one, and
  that the universe has always been, is now, and will
  always be) I've always been interested in how much of
  theology seems to be based on linear thinking. 
  
  If one begins with the assumption that there was a 
  creation (a start), and that things evolve towards 
  dissolution (an end), then the need to posulate a 
  Creator intellectually arises.
  
  If you further assume that there have been multiple
  creations, with a 'gap' between the dissolution of 
  one and the creation of the next, *again* the need 
  to postulate a Creator arises. (Because if the 'next'
  creation actually is 'created,' then some Creator
  energy or intelligence must have been present during 
  the 'gap' between creations to create the next one.
  
  On the other hand, if one starts with the assumption
  that the universe is eternal, and that there has never
  been a moment in which it was not manifest, and never
  will be, then there is no intellectual need to postu-
  ate a Creator. The need for a Creator is very much
  dependent on the assumption that there was once a
  creation.
 
 +++ Did you read the greatest miracle by Og Mandino?
 In it was a memorandom from God which contained 
 quite a bit of information on this latest creation.

Haven't read it, or any of his books.

 Believing or not is a choice sometimes and, I 
 enjoyed the story. N

I enjoy good stories, too, even the ones associated
with gods and creations myths I may not personally 
believe in. Sometimes a good story is just a good 
story, similar to the way that a cigar is just a 
cigar.  :-)








 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
  snip
   Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
   through and from them.
  
  Question on this one point: By what standard can it
  be said that God makes mistakes?
 
 It is just the observation that evolving in nature happens through
 errors

But again, errors by what standard?



 and in animals also by avoiding the mistakes and as even in a
 more advanced form  humans can sometimes also learn from mistakes. I
 consider the manifest creation to be expression of God or one aspect
 of God.
 
 Irmeli







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Nelson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti 
 no_reply@ wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
   Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   snip
Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
through and from them.
   
   Question on this one point: By what standard can it
   be said that God makes mistakes?
  
  On the basis of this is of course gnostic thinking 
  (Freemasonree, Rosecrucians). The basic idea behind 
  it, is that creation is like a prison. 
 
 Depends entirely on the flavor of gnosticism.
 Some flavors believe that creation wasn't created
 by God but by the other guy (Satan, the demiurge). 
 
  I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...
 
 That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
 Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
 that's not related in any way to God, since they
 don't believe in one.

 Curious- where did the suffering idea come from? 
 Suffering for some is a challenge for others. sounds like they
had a poor attitude.  N.





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
  snip
   Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
   through and from them.
  
  Question on this one point: By what standard can it
  be said that God makes mistakes?
 
  I recall reading somewhere that he said that he was evolving
 which would mean not so much making mistakes as doing things
 differently. N.

Evolving toward what?








 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
  snip
   Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
   through and from them.
  
  Question on this one point: By what standard can it
  be said that God makes mistakes?
 
 On the basis of this is of course gnostic thinking (Freemasonree,
 Rosecrucians). The basic idea behind it, is that creation is like a
 prison. I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism, possibly
 even the Upanishads, who say, that the Gods keep man like cattle. 
 In Tantra there is a term calling it the 'original ignorance' Why 
 would ignorance be there at the first place, if the creation was 
 perfect, just as it is?

Ignorance *of what*?

You can only have ignorance by comparison with
something else that is not ignorance.  Ignorance is a
lack of some sort.  Where is what is lacking in
ignorance to be found?

Here's what I'm getting at: If God makes mistakes,
if creation is imperfect, where is the perfection
that is lacking?

Or to put it another way, what is it that we're
calling God?  If what we're calling God makes
mistakes, then this God cannot be the ultimate,
because there has to be perfection for there to
be a mistake.








 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Nelson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson nelsonriddle2001@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
   Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   snip
Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
through and from them.
   
   Question on this one point: By what standard can it
   be said that God makes mistakes?
  
   I recall reading somewhere that he said that he was evolving
  which would mean not so much making mistakes as doing things
  differently. N.
 
 Evolving toward what?

 He didn't say but I would guess that being at level, he would be
pretty well qualified to decide.





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
  Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
  that's not related in any way to God, since they
  don't believe in one.
 
  Curious- where did the suffering idea come from? 
  Suffering for some is a challenge for others. 
 sounds like they had a poor attitude.  N.

In my opinion, more like a poor translator. :-)
I've *never* been able to identify with the Life
is suffering thang, even though I've hung out in
Buddhist sanghas for years.

I personally believe that Life is suffering doesn't
do justice to what Buddha had in mind with his First
Noble Truth, which was that satisfaction and fulfil-
ment can never be based on the elements of the
emphemeral world, because they *are*, after all,
ephemeral. The other three Noble Truths explain
the situation somewhat, going on to state exactly
what the problem is (attachment to the fruits of
desire) and explaining that there is a way beyond
suffering.

 





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti 
 no_reply@ wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
wrote:
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
   Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   snip
Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
through and from them.
   
   Question on this one point: By what standard can it
   be said that God makes mistakes?
  
  On the basis of this is of course gnostic thinking 
  (Freemasonree, Rosecrucians). The basic idea behind 
  it, is that creation is like a prison. 
 
 Depends entirely on the flavor of gnosticism.
 Some flavors believe that creation wasn't created
 by God but by the other guy (Satan, the demiurge). 
 
  I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...
 
 That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
 Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
 that's not related in any way to God, since they
 don't believe in one.

To say life is suffering implies there is something--
a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.

If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.

What is it?






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson 
nelsonriddle2001@ 
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
snip
 Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
 through and from them.

Question on this one point: By what standard can it
be said that God makes mistakes?
   
    I recall reading somewhere that he said that he was 
   evolving which would mean not so much making mistakes as doing 
   things differently. N.
  
  Evolving toward what?
 
  He didn't say but I would guess that being at level, he would
 be pretty well qualified to decide.

If he recognizes that ultimate toward which he is evolving,
such that he can see that something he did was a mistake,
or that he needed to do things differently, what is the
nature of that ultimate?

If what we're calling God is not the ultimate, what is?






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson 
 nelsonriddle2001@ wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
wrote:
  
   That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
   Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
   that's not related in any way to God, since they
   don't believe in one.
  
   Curious- where did the suffering idea come from? 
   Suffering for some is a challenge for others. 
  sounds like they had a poor attitude.  N.
 
 In my opinion, more like a poor translator. :-)
 I've *never* been able to identify with the Life
 is suffering thang, even though I've hung out in
 Buddhist sanghas for years.
 
 I personally believe that Life is suffering doesn't
 do justice to what Buddha had in mind with his First
 Noble Truth, which was that satisfaction and fulfil-
 ment can never be based on the elements of the
 emphemeral world, because they *are*, after all,
 ephemeral.

What is it that is *not* ephemeral?




 The other three Noble Truths explain
 the situation somewhat, going on to state exactly
 what the problem is (attachment to the fruits of
 desire) and explaining that there is a way beyond
 suffering.








 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Nelson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti 
  no_reply@ wrote:
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
snip
 Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
 through and from them.

Question on this one point: By what standard can it
be said that God makes mistakes?
   
   On the basis of this is of course gnostic thinking 
   (Freemasonree, Rosecrucians). The basic idea behind 
   it, is that creation is like a prison. 
  
  Depends entirely on the flavor of gnosticism.
  Some flavors believe that creation wasn't created
  by God but by the other guy (Satan, the demiurge). 
  
   I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...
  
  That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
  Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
  that's not related in any way to God, since they
  don't believe in one.
 
 To say life is suffering implies there is something--
 a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.
 
 If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
 a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.
 
 What is it?

++ State of mind?





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Nelson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson nelsonriddle2001@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson 
 nelsonriddle2001@ 
   wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 snip
  Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
  through and from them.
 
 Question on this one point: By what standard can it
 be said that God makes mistakes?

 I recall reading somewhere that he said that he was 
evolving which would mean not so much making mistakes as doing 
things differently. N.
   
   Evolving toward what?
  
   He didn't say but I would guess that being at level, he would
  be pretty well qualified to decide.
 
 If he recognizes that ultimate toward which he is evolving,
 such that he can see that something he did was a mistake,
 or that he needed to do things differently, what is the
 nature of that ultimate?
 
 If what we're calling God is not the ultimate, what is?

+++Whatever you are seeking, possibly the same.
Maybe the ultimate is upgraded from time to time-infinity plus one
you know.   





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Sal Sunshine
Maybe the ultimate is like Avis--We Try Harder.

Sal


On Mar 12, 2006, at 11:27 AM, Nelson wrote:

 > If what we're calling God is not the ultimate, what is?
 >
 +++Whatever you are seeking, possibly the same.
     Maybe the ultimate is upgraded from time to time-infinity plus one
 you know.   




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti 
  no_reply@ wrote:
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
snip
 Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
 through and from them.

Question on this one point: By what standard can it
be said that God makes mistakes?
   
   On the basis of this is of course gnostic thinking 
   (Freemasonree, Rosecrucians). The basic idea behind 
   it, is that creation is like a prison. 
  
  Depends entirely on the flavor of gnosticism.
  Some flavors believe that creation wasn't created
  by God but by the other guy (Satan, the demiurge). 
  
   I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...
  
  That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
  Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
  that's not related in any way to God, since they
  don't believe in one.
 
 To say life is suffering implies there is something--
 a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.
 
 If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
 a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.
 
 What is it?

Perfect coordination between one's self and one's environment. To 
relieve suffering, we don't travel anywhere, so the difference 
[between suffering or not] must be due to either having full 
awareness of our envirnment, and taking full advantage of it, or 
not. 

So how is this done? First by becoming aware of our environment, all 
of the inside and all of the outside. Then, having this awareness, 
we act, and it is the action that integrates both, coordinates the 
two worlds, of the inside and the outside, until they merge, 
transforming life from the lack of suffering, to the abundance of 
perfect coordination.

How do we know we are there? We are released from our suffering in 
all situations and states of consciousness; life begins to transform 
itself before us, always perfect, always just what we wanted. Not by 
us 'making do', or settling for less, but by having a perfect 
acceptance of all that we do, and a perfect response from our 
environment, our world, that maintains our everpresent success.





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
  snip
   Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
   through and from them.
  
  Question on this one point: By what standard can it
  be said that God makes mistakes?
 
 It is just the observation that evolving in nature happens through
 errors and in animals also by avoiding the mistakes and as even in a
 more advanced form  humans can sometimes also learn from mistakes. I
 consider the manifest creation to be expression of God or one aspect
 of God.
 
 Irmeli


Does God exist within the boundries of time? How do you know if what 
WE perceive as sequential unfoldment of existence isn't like how 
Mozart described his comprehension of a symphony, where all the notes 
were present at the same time though he could only write them out one-
at-a-time.






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
  snip
   Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
   through and from them.
  
  Question on this one point: By what standard can it
  be said that God makes mistakes?
 
 On the basis of this is of course gnostic thinking (Freemasonree,
 Rosecrucians). The basic idea behind it, is that creation is like a
 prison. I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism, possibly 
even
 the Upanishads, who say, that the Gods keep man like cattle. In 
Tantra
 there is a term calling it the 'original ignorance' Why would
 ignorance be there at the first place, if the creation was perfect,
 just as it is?


The original ignorance is the mistake of the intellect, noting 
distinctions between Self and Self. This gives rise to all relative 
existence after an infinite or near-infinite set of combinations of 
noticing the noticing about what you are noticing...






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti 
 no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
   Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   snip
Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
through and from them.
   
   Question on this one point: By what standard can it
   be said that God makes mistakes?
  
  On the basis of this is of course gnostic thinking (Freemasonree,
  Rosecrucians). The basic idea behind it, is that creation is like 
a
  prison. I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism, possibly
  even the Upanishads, who say, that the Gods keep man like cattle. 
  In Tantra there is a term calling it the 'original ignorance' Why 
  would ignorance be there at the first place, if the creation was 
  perfect, just as it is?
 
 Ignorance *of what*?
 
 You can only have ignorance by comparison with
 something else that is not ignorance.  Ignorance is a
 lack of some sort.  Where is what is lacking in
 ignorance to be found?
 
 Here's what I'm getting at: If God makes mistakes,
 if creation is imperfect, where is the perfection
 that is lacking?
 
 Or to put it another way, what is it that we're
 calling God?  If what we're calling God makes
 mistakes, then this God cannot be the ultimate,
 because there has to be perfection for there to
 be a mistake.


MMY gives a lecture where he describes the creation of the universe 
in terms of the ultimate mistake: the unmanifest notices that it 
exists by virtual of the buddhi -- the fundamental intellect. This 
mistake is inevitable given that the nature of consciousness is to 
become conscious and the nature of the intellect is to make 
distinctions but it is a mistake nonetheless because there IS no 
distinction between Self and Self and yet the buddhi recognizes 
enough of one to come into [as it comes into?] existence and 
note Self and Other.







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson 
nelsonriddle2001@ 
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson 
  nelsonriddle2001@ 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend 
jstein@ 
  wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
  snip
   Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
   through and from them.
  
  Question on this one point: By what standard can it
  be said that God makes mistakes?
 
  I recall reading somewhere that he said that he was 
 evolving which would mean not so much making mistakes as 
doing 
 things differently. N.

Evolving toward what?
   
    He didn't say but I would guess that being at level, he 
would
   be pretty well qualified to decide.
  
  If he recognizes that ultimate toward which he is evolving,
  such that he can see that something he did was a mistake,
  or that he needed to do things differently, what is the
  nature of that ultimate?
  
  If what we're calling God is not the ultimate, what is?
 
 +++Whatever you are seeking, possibly the same.
 Maybe the ultimate is upgraded from time to time-infinity plus 
one
 you know.


Nyah, Aleph[i+1].

Aleph[0] is the level of infinitity that the countable numbers 
possess: 1, 2, 3,  . It is the smallest infinity.

Aleph[1] is the level of infinity found when you combine all the 
numbers of the countable infinity in every possible combination, also 
called the Power Set P(Aleph[0]).

Aleph[i+1] is the Power Set: P(Aleph[i]).

Aleph[i+2] is the Power Set of the Power Set: P(P(Aleph[i])).

Aleph[R] is the level of infinitity of the real number line. It may 
or may not fit in with the series given above, but by Cantor's 
Transfinite Arithmatic, P(Aleph[0])  P(Aleph[R])  P(P(Aleph[R])).



Cantor, by the way, died in an insane asylum, but his Transfinite 
Arithmatic is considered one of the most important advances in 
mathematics in history.







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Marek Reavis
Thanks for the heads-up on Cantor.  The website on the Hotel Infinity
is good stuff.
**

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson nelsonriddle2001@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson 
 nelsonriddle2001@ 
   wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson 
   nelsonriddle2001@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend 
 jstein@ 
   wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
   Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   snip
Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
through and from them.
   
   Question on this one point: By what standard can it
   be said that God makes mistakes?
  
   I recall reading somewhere that he said that he was 
  evolving which would mean not so much making mistakes as 
 doing 
  things differently. N.
 
 Evolving toward what?

 He didn't say but I would guess that being at level, he 
 would
be pretty well qualified to decide.
   
   If he recognizes that ultimate toward which he is evolving,
   such that he can see that something he did was a mistake,
   or that he needed to do things differently, what is the
   nature of that ultimate?
   
   If what we're calling God is not the ultimate, what is?
  
  +++Whatever you are seeking, possibly the same.
  Maybe the ultimate is upgraded from time to time-infinity plus 
 one
  you know.
 
 
 Nyah, Aleph[i+1].
 
 Aleph[0] is the level of infinitity that the countable numbers 
 possess: 1, 2, 3,  . It is the smallest infinity.
 
 Aleph[1] is the level of infinity found when you combine all the 
 numbers of the countable infinity in every possible combination, also 
 called the Power Set P(Aleph[0]).
 
 Aleph[i+1] is the Power Set: P(Aleph[i]).
 
 Aleph[i+2] is the Power Set of the Power Set: P(P(Aleph[i])).
 
 Aleph[R] is the level of infinitity of the real number line. It may 
 or may not fit in with the series given above, but by Cantor's 
 Transfinite Arithmatic, P(Aleph[0])  P(Aleph[R])  P(P(Aleph[R])).
 
 
 
 Cantor, by the way, died in an insane asylum, but his Transfinite 
 Arithmatic is considered one of the most important advances in 
 mathematics in history.







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti 
  no_reply@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
snip
 Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
 through and from them.

Question on this one point: By what standard can it
be said that God makes mistakes?
   
   On the basis of this is of course gnostic thinking 
(Freemasonree,
   Rosecrucians). The basic idea behind it, is that creation is 
like 
 a
   prison. I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism, possibly
   even the Upanishads, who say, that the Gods keep man like 
cattle. 
   In Tantra there is a term calling it the 'original ignorance' 
Why 
   would ignorance be there at the first place, if the creation 
was 
   perfect, just as it is?
  
  Ignorance *of what*?
  
  You can only have ignorance by comparison with
  something else that is not ignorance.  Ignorance is a
  lack of some sort.  Where is what is lacking in
  ignorance to be found?
  
  Here's what I'm getting at: If God makes mistakes,
  if creation is imperfect, where is the perfection
  that is lacking?
  
  Or to put it another way, what is it that we're
  calling God?  If what we're calling God makes
  mistakes, then this God cannot be the ultimate,
  because there has to be perfection for there to
  be a mistake.
 
 
 MMY gives a lecture where he describes the creation of the universe 
 in terms of the ultimate mistake: the unmanifest notices that it 
 exists by virtual of the buddhi -- the fundamental intellect. This 
 mistake is inevitable given that the nature of consciousness is to 
 become conscious and the nature of the intellect is to make 
 distinctions but it is a mistake nonetheless because there IS no 
 distinction between Self and Self and yet the buddhi recognizes 
 enough of one to come into [as it comes into?] existence and 
 note Self and Other.

Right, but this is still not what I was asking Irmeli,
originally.  She said:

I think that also God makes mistakes and learns through
and from them.

What I was trying to get at is that for there to be a
mistake, especially one that can be corrected, there
has to be a corresponding NOT-mistake, i.e., perfection.

So if God makes mistakes, then there is something beyond
God that is free of mistakes.  So this God cannot be the
ultimate entity/state/condition.

The point being that if when you say God you're referring
to that Ultimate, but when I say God I'm referring to
the mistake-making entity/state/condition, we're not going
to understand each other very well.

It seemed a lot more profound before I actually wrote it
down.  ;-)







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Nelson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson nelsonriddle2001@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson 
 nelsonriddle2001@ 
   wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Nelson 
   nelsonriddle2001@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend 
 jstein@ 
   wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
   Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   snip
Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
through and from them.
   
   Question on this one point: By what standard can it
   be said that God makes mistakes?
  
   I recall reading somewhere that he said that he was 
  evolving which would mean not so much making mistakes as 
 doing 
  things differently. N.
 
 Evolving toward what?

 He didn't say but I would guess that being at level, he 
 would
be pretty well qualified to decide.
   
   If he recognizes that ultimate toward which he is evolving,
   such that he can see that something he did was a mistake,
   or that he needed to do things differently, what is the
   nature of that ultimate?
   
   If what we're calling God is not the ultimate, what is?
  
  +++Whatever you are seeking, possibly the same.
  Maybe the ultimate is upgraded from time to time-infinity plus 
 one
  you know.
 
 
 Nyah, Aleph[i+1].
 
 Aleph[0] is the level of infinitity that the countable numbers 
 possess: 1, 2, 3,  . It is the smallest infinity.
 
 Aleph[1] is the level of infinity found when you combine all the 
 numbers of the countable infinity in every possible combination, also 
 called the Power Set P(Aleph[0]).
 
 Aleph[i+1] is the Power Set: P(Aleph[i]).
 
 Aleph[i+2] is the Power Set of the Power Set: P(P(Aleph[i])).
 
 Aleph[R] is the level of infinitity of the real number line. It may 
 or may not fit in with the series given above, but by Cantor's 
 Transfinite Arithmatic, P(Aleph[0])  P(Aleph[R])  P(P(Aleph[R])).
 
 
 
 Cantor, by the way, died in an insane asylum, but his Transfinite 
 Arithmatic is considered one of the most important advances in 
 mathematics in history.

+++ Looks like I have gotten into the realm of the square root of
minus one...  Did not know about Cantor-  thanks.  N.





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread TurquoiseB
I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...
   
   That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
   Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
   that's not related in any way to God, since they
   don't believe in one.
  
  To say life is suffering implies there is something--
  a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.
  
  If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
  a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.
  
  What is it?

 ++ State of mind?

In a way. If (as the Four Noble Truths state) the
cause of suffering is attachment to desire/aversion,
then living in a state of mind that is *not* attached
to achieving the fruits of desire or avoiding the
things one is averse to is a way beyond suffering.

The input to life doesn't change, only one's
ability to greet it with equanimity. Try to force
the square peg of that input into the round hole of
one's desires, and you get suffering. Treat it as
a square peg and be neither attached nor averse,
no suffering. 

Nothing to achieve, no obstacles to remove from
the path to non-suffering, nowhere to go. Same 
old same old...just life dealt with as What Is, not 
What You'd Like Life To Be.

Just for fun, compare and contrast this to MMY's
latest U.N. rap, in which he once again presents his
S-V theories and suggests that the problems of the
world can't be solved unless one starts over with
all-new buildings. In the Buddhist view, this 
approach to resolving suffering can never work
because it is based upon trying to change the input
of life to avoid suffering, rather than change the 
inner being's ability to deals with the input with-
out attachment. 

In the Buddhist view, the richest, most successful
person in the world, living in a perfectly-aligned
S-V house but still attached to his desires, will
be lost in suffering. Whereas the poor person who
lives in a cardboard box, if he is not attached to 
his desires, is beyond suffering.







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...

That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
that's not related in any way to God, since they
don't believe in one.
   
   To say life is suffering implies there is something--
   a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.
   
   If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
   a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.
   
   What is it?
 
  ++ State of mind?
 
 In a way. If (as the Four Noble Truths state) the
 cause of suffering is attachment to desire/aversion,
 then living in a state of mind that is *not* attached
 to achieving the fruits of desire or avoiding the
 things one is averse to is a way beyond suffering.
 
 The input to life doesn't change, only one's
 ability to greet it with equanimity. Try to force
 the square peg of that input into the round hole of
 one's desires, and you get suffering. Treat it as
 a square peg and be neither attached nor averse,
 no suffering. 
 
 Nothing to achieve, no obstacles to remove from
 the path to non-suffering, nowhere to go. Same 
 old same old...just life dealt with as What Is, not 
 What You'd Like Life To Be.

Another thought on this subject, to relate it back
to the rap that started this thread:

Both desire and aversion are an attempt to turn
What is into something else. 

The person who is convinced that there is something
that 'prevents' their enlightenment -- whether 
they consider that something to be ego, or intel-
lect, or stress, or whatever -- is attempting
to (in Vaj's terms) patch the What is of the
universe and transform it into the What I'd like 
it to be of the professional sufferer. It's the
desire/aversion cycle as path -- I should come 
back to the mantra; I should not trusts my ego/
self/intellect.

The What is of life is *all you need* to realize
enlightenment. Nothing needs to be achieved, nothing
removed. Nothing is an 'obstacle' to enlightenment.
The ego is enlightenment, the intellect is enlighten-
ment, the 'good' questions of the bhakti are enlight-
enment and the 'bad' questions of the cynic are 
enlightenment. Only enlightenment is. 

Listening to someone go on and on about the parts
of one's self one has to reject or not trust or 
get beyond to realize enlightenment is a lot like
watching someone looking for their glasses while 
wearing their glasses. You'd kinda like to tell them,
but at the same time they seem to be so *involved* in
searching for the glasses everywhere that you hate 
to spoil their fun...







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Marek Reavis [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 Thanks for the heads-up on Cantor.  The website on the Hotel Infinity
 is good stuff.
 **
 

Wikipedia seems to have an awful lot on the subject. It's quite fun to 
contemplate deities whose hierachy is like the Power Set's. HOffstedder 
wrote about something like that in his _GEB: the eternal golden braid_:

The recursive G.O.D. (God Over Djin).







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-11 Thread defenders_of_bhakti
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Dean Goodman
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Many spiritual seekers have no idea
 how cynical and doubt-laden they actually are.  It is this blindness
 and denial of the presence of doubt and cynicism that makes the birth
 of a profound trust impossible - a trust without which final libera-
 tion will always remain simply a dream. - Adyashanti

I always liked Adyashanti.





 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-11 Thread defenders_of_bhakti
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
  We all know from everyday experience that questions 
  (curiosity) generally can have two very distinct 
  purposes, even in mundane conversation:
  
  1. To actually gain understanding, as sincere inquiries; 
  to create love/togetherness/unity by going deeper 
  into knowledge; to open the conduit for richer 
  flow of knowledge.
  
  2. To hide something behind the smokescreen of a question:
  a. To hide our criticism/anger, to avoid making a 
 directly critical statement.
  b. To hide that we're trying to control or dominate 
 someone - to hide that we're trying to manipulate 
 someone or trying to engage someone in a game.
  c. To create doubt/division/fear.
 
 His definition of the first (good) type of question 
 seems to be that they have to be based on total and 
 complete surrender and submission to the teacher.

Sorry to correct you Barry: but he nowhere says so. He rather speaks
of questions *curiosity* even in a 'mundane conversation'

This does not imply complete surrender and submission as you falsly say.

 His definition of the second type of question seems 
 to be that their purpose is by definition bad or
 nefarious, and that therefore the questions he assigns
 to this category can be justifiably disregarded, and 
 the questioner demonized.

Well, we all know rethoric questions, don't we? (This was a rethoric
question). To me this seems to be just an extension on such rethoric
questions. Maybe rethoric question, which are not immediately
recognizable as such. I don't see any demonization in this.

 Doesn't it strike you as fascinating that a person 
 who has set *himself* up as a for-profit spiritual 
 teacher is *already* promoting a closed belief 
 system in which any question about his *own* actions 
 that he doesn't like can automatically be written 
 off as a) angry, b) an attempt at control or game-
 playing, or c) an attempt to sow seeds of doubt 
 and fear?
 
 If I were *really* cynical, I would suggest that
 this kind of closed belief system doesn't bode well 
 for Michael's clients.

Well, you are real cynical and say it. Again, rethoric.






 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-11 Thread Sal Sunshine
It's rhetorical, Def. :)

Sal


On Mar 11, 2006, at 6:49 PM, defenders_of_bhakti wrote:

 Well, we all know rethoric questions, don't we? (This was a rethoric
 question).

[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-11 Thread Marek Reavis
Patrick, thanks for this, couldn't agree more.
**

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Patrick Gillam [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

  Maharishi's commentary says:
 
 This acceptance of the teacher is actually a surrender to the
  unbounded Truth; it invites the unbounded to shine forth through the
  teacher. 
 
 Instead of the teacher, read life.
 
 This acceptance of life is actually a surrender to the 
 unbounded Truth; it invites the unbounded to shine 
 forth through life.
 
 And we have the work of Byron Katie.







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-11 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, defenders_of_bhakti 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
  
  His definition of the first (good) type of question 
  seems to be that they have to be based on total and 
  complete surrender and submission to the teacher.
 
 Sorry to correct you Barry: but he nowhere says so. 
 He rather speaks of questions *curiosity* even in a 
 'mundane conversation'
 
 This does not imply complete surrender and submission 
 as you falsly say.

Not to argue, but you seem to have missed this section:

 Maharishi's commentary says:

By 'homage' is meant submission or surrender.

 The commentary says that surrender to the teacher 
 (ultimately to the Truth that the teacher is a 
 reflector of), is the prerequisite for asking 
 questions (repeated inquiry, or curiosity).  

As a funny aside, it strikes me that a curious seeker, 
perusing Google to find out more about MDG (I'd never
heard of him until these recent long rants to FFL), 
might wonder whether his fascination with submission 
and surrender was somehow related to one of his public 
appearances that is still listed on Google:

http://www.commandperformance.net/calendar/Sept%2004/25.htm

:-)  :-)  :-)







 Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- 
Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing
http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM
~- 

To subscribe, send a message to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Or go to: 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/
and click 'Join This Group!' 
Yahoo! Groups Links

* To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/

* To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

* Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/