Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-16 Thread Michael Jackson
So were the sidhalands a nationwide or world wide thing? Were they supposed to 
be constructed by volunteer labor and all that?





 From: doctordumb...@rocketmail.com doctordumb...@rocketmail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, March 15, 2013 11:23 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get 
no punishment.
 

  
Curtis returns in a week - In the meantime, I'll share my experiences. Curtis I 
think was at the Florida location, where a guy died during the construction 
phase. A group of about 30 of us were near Waverly, MO, and there was at least 
one other project going on at the time, near St. Louis.

Basically a work/study program when I first went there. We had a 40 or so room 
facility to design and build, and about 14 acres of organic strawberries to 
plant and tend to, later adding the adjacent apple orchard for apple juice 
production. Officially, the building we built was a Capital of the A of E, and 
the agricultural stuff was the Siddhaland.

After six months of work, we got the siddhis, by attending the TM Center in 
Kansas City, and doing the residence requirement for the flying block at MIU 
(MUM). Then we returned to the facility for six more months.

It was austere to say the least, more so for the sidha-wannabes, than the Guvs. 
We lived in a standalone garage. We did not have heat in the Winter, except for 
coal,  nor hot water for bathing. The Guvs did. Same deal for any cooling in 
the Summer. We didn't much care - we were a close group, working long hours, 
rounding 2 x 2, and getting the hang of the TMSP while doing either 
construction, or farming. 

I remember if you were fast, you could weed one and a half rows of strawberries 
per day. They were big rows. Your hoe was your prize (lol). We soon recognized 
which brands had a higher grade steel in the blade, and held their edge. In the 
Winter, tending the berries meant tearing straw off of big rolled bales on the 
back of a tractor, to insulate the plants. Dirty hard work.

It was also a great experience to live with the Guvs up close. I remember a 
couple of them we all liked, several who were total dicks, and the rest fell 
somewhere in the middle. Certainly not a rousing advertisement for going on TTC.

One day, while considering working for the Movement, I decided that instead of 
working, I'd take my boombox, put on something loud - probably the Talking 
Heads - and share it with everyone; sat in and around the main building with 
the music cranked. Conclusion? TTC = oil, me = water.:-)

The next job I had was working at a commercial deep sea dive shop in Santa 
Barbara, CA. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 Wow! Well said, Curtis. Would you say a bit more about sidhaland? I was 
 vaguely aware of it but I think that was after I had gotten free of TM. Where 
 was it, what was it and what was it like living there? 
 
 
 


 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-16 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 So were the sidhalands a nationwide or world wide thing? 
 Were they supposed to be constructed by volunteer labor 
 and all that?

Long after my time, but as I remember they were supposed
to be built by slave labor crews composed of Buddhists
and Negros.  :-)





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-16 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 So were the sidhalands a nationwide or world wide thing? Were they supposed 
 to be constructed by volunteer labor and all that?

The UK has a sidhaland, in a place called Skelmersdale. Formed just after the 
siddhis were introduced so we would have somewhere to meditate together and get 
all the claimed group benefits from that.

It's in the cheapest place to live in the country, the north west.
A very deprived and miserable housing estate built to cope with
the overflow from Liverpool, and the weather is awful! But over
the years they made a nice little town with dome and a Marshy 
school. Quite an impressive achievement, I think it's the only
one outside FF.

Then one day they found out that the hill to the east is just a bit
too high and it delays the sunrise by minute or so. which is too
much for sthapatya ved, so no matter how east-facing your home is 
it will never make the grade sthapatya vedically so they are moving the town 
further west so they can get all the benefits from having
an extra minute of early morning sun. But it's all a bit academic as it never 
stops raining up there. 

I always thought it weird that SV says that it's OK for buildings
to block the sunrise but not the land, but there is much that is
highly odd about SV homes. I would like one though if only so I
could predict equinoxes with my gateposts, the only practical use
for them I can think of actually...


 
  From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, March 15, 2013 11:23 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids 
 get no punishment.
  
 
   
 Curtis returns in a week - In the meantime, I'll share my experiences. Curtis 
 I think was at the Florida location, where a guy died during the construction 
 phase. A group of about 30 of us were near Waverly, MO, and there was at 
 least one other project going on at the time, near St. Louis.
 
 Basically a work/study program when I first went there. We had a 40 or so 
 room facility to design and build, and about 14 acres of organic strawberries 
 to plant and tend to, later adding the adjacent apple orchard for apple juice 
 production. Officially, the building we built was a Capital of the A of E, 
 and the agricultural stuff was the Siddhaland.
 
 After six months of work, we got the siddhis, by attending the TM Center in 
 Kansas City, and doing the residence requirement for the flying block at MIU 
 (MUM). Then we returned to the facility for six more months.
 
 It was austere to say the least, more so for the sidha-wannabes, than the 
 Guvs. We lived in a standalone garage. We did not have heat in the Winter, 
 except for coal,  nor hot water for bathing. The Guvs did. Same deal for any 
 cooling in the Summer. We didn't much care - we were a close group, working 
 long hours, rounding 2 x 2, and getting the hang of the TMSP while doing 
 either construction, or farming. 
 
 I remember if you were fast, you could weed one and a half rows of 
 strawberries per day. They were big rows. Your hoe was your prize (lol). We 
 soon recognized which brands had a higher grade steel in the blade, and held 
 their edge. In the Winter, tending the berries meant tearing straw off of big 
 rolled bales on the back of a tractor, to insulate the plants. Dirty hard 
 work.
 
 It was also a great experience to live with the Guvs up close. I remember a 
 couple of them we all liked, several who were total dicks, and the rest fell 
 somewhere in the middle. Certainly not a rousing advertisement for going on 
 TTC.
 
 One day, while considering working for the Movement, I decided that instead 
 of working, I'd take my boombox, put on something loud - probably the Talking 
 Heads - and share it with everyone; sat in and around the main building with 
 the music cranked. Conclusion? TTC = oil, me = water.:-)
 
 The next job I had was working at a commercial deep sea dive shop in Santa 
 Barbara, CA. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@ wrote:
 
  Wow! Well said, Curtis. Would you say a bit more about sidhaland? I was 
  vaguely aware of it but I think that was after I had gotten free of TM. 
  Where was it, what was it and what was it like living there? 
  
  
 




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-16 Thread Michael Jackson
I thought I was jaded, but I am still amazed at some of the insane stuff the 
hard core TMO people will do and put up with.





 From: salyavin808 fintlewoodle...@mail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Saturday, March 16, 2013 9:19 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get 
no punishment.
 

  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 So were the sidhalands a nationwide or world wide thing? Were they supposed 
 to be constructed by volunteer labor and all that?

The UK has a sidhaland, in a place called Skelmersdale. Formed just after the 
siddhis were introduced so we would have somewhere to meditate together and get 
all the claimed group benefits from that.

It's in the cheapest place to live in the country, the north west.
A very deprived and miserable housing estate built to cope with
the overflow from Liverpool, and the weather is awful! But over
the years they made a nice little town with dome and a Marshy 
school. Quite an impressive achievement, I think it's the only
one outside FF.

Then one day they found out that the hill to the east is just a bit
too high and it delays the sunrise by minute or so. which is too
much for sthapatya ved, so no matter how east-facing your home is 
it will never make the grade sthapatya vedically so they are moving the town 
further west so they can get all the benefits from having
an extra minute of early morning sun. But it's all a bit academic as it never 
stops raining up there. 

I always thought it weird that SV says that it's OK for buildings
to block the sunrise but not the land, but there is much that is
highly odd about SV homes. I would like one though if only so I
could predict equinoxes with my gateposts, the only practical use
for them I can think of actually...


  From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, March 15, 2013 11:23 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids 
 get no punishment.
 
 
   
 Curtis returns in a week - In the meantime, I'll share my experiences. Curtis 
 I think was at the Florida location, where a guy died during the construction 
 phase. A group of about 30 of us were near Waverly, MO, and there was at 
 least one other project going on at the time, near St. Louis.
 
 Basically a work/study program when I first went there. We had a 40 or so 
 room facility to design and build, and about 14 acres of organic strawberries 
 to plant and tend to, later adding the adjacent apple orchard for apple juice 
 production. Officially, the building we built was a Capital of the A of E, 
 and the agricultural stuff was the Siddhaland.
 
 After six months of work, we got the siddhis, by attending the TM Center in 
 Kansas City, and doing the residence requirement for the flying block at MIU 
 (MUM). Then we returned to the facility for six more months.
 
 It was austere to say the least, more so for the sidha-wannabes, than the 
 Guvs. We lived in a standalone garage. We did not have heat in the Winter, 
 except for coal,  nor hot water for bathing. The Guvs did. Same deal for any 
 cooling in the Summer. We didn't much care - we were a close group, working 
 long hours, rounding 2 x 2, and getting the hang of the TMSP while doing 
 either construction, or farming. 
 
 I remember if you were fast, you could weed one and a half rows of 
 strawberries per day. They were big rows. Your hoe was your prize (lol). We 
 soon recognized which brands had a higher grade steel in the blade, and held 
 their edge. In the Winter, tending the berries meant tearing straw off of big 
 rolled bales on the back of a tractor, to insulate the plants. Dirty hard 
 work.
 
 It was also a great experience to live with the Guvs up close. I remember a 
 couple of them we all liked, several who were total dicks, and the rest fell 
 somewhere in the middle. Certainly not a rousing advertisement for going on 
 TTC.
 
 One day, while considering working for the Movement, I decided that instead 
 of working, I'd take my boombox, put on something loud - probably the Talking 
 Heads - and share it with everyone; sat in and around the main building with 
 the music cranked. Conclusion? TTC = oil, me = water.:-)
 
 The next job I had was working at a commercial deep sea dive shop in Santa 
 Barbara, CA. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@ wrote:
 
  Wow! Well said, Curtis. Would you say a bit more about sidhaland? I was 
  vaguely aware of it but I think that was after I had gotten free of TM. 
  Where was it, what was it and what was it like living there? 
  
  
 



 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-16 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 I thought I was jaded, but I am still amazed at some of the insane stuff the 
 hard core TMO people will do and put up with.

You've got to admire the dedication!

I can correct myself here, there are two sidhalands in the UK.
The other is in Suffolk and is fully SV. I don't like it - not
from any prejudice, a nice house is a nice house to me - but
because when I walk around it feels creepy like I'm being watched.
I think it's because of the grid system, every window lines up
with every other window and it feels most odd. Be no surprise if 
the crime rate stays low!

I couldn't live there, I prefer an organic sprawl in a town where
you can trace its history. Shame they aren't invincible though :D
 
 
  From: salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Saturday, March 16, 2013 9:19 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids 
 get no punishment.
  
 
   
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@ wrote:
 
  So were the sidhalands a nationwide or world wide thing? Were they supposed 
  to be constructed by volunteer labor and all that?
 
 The UK has a sidhaland, in a place called Skelmersdale. Formed just after the 
 siddhis were introduced so we would have somewhere to meditate together and 
 get all the claimed group benefits from that.
 
 It's in the cheapest place to live in the country, the north west.
 A very deprived and miserable housing estate built to cope with
 the overflow from Liverpool, and the weather is awful! But over
 the years they made a nice little town with dome and a Marshy 
 school. Quite an impressive achievement, I think it's the only
 one outside FF.
 
 Then one day they found out that the hill to the east is just a bit
 too high and it delays the sunrise by minute or so. which is too
 much for sthapatya ved, so no matter how east-facing your home is 
 it will never make the grade sthapatya vedically so they are moving the town 
 further west so they can get all the benefits from having
 an extra minute of early morning sun. But it's all a bit academic as it never 
 stops raining up there. 
 
 I always thought it weird that SV says that it's OK for buildings
 to block the sunrise but not the land, but there is much that is
 highly odd about SV homes. I would like one though if only so I
 could predict equinoxes with my gateposts, the only practical use
 for them I can think of actually...
 
 
   From: doctordumbass@ doctordumbass@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Friday, March 15, 2013 11:23 PM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids 
  get no punishment.
  
  
    
  Curtis returns in a week - In the meantime, I'll share my experiences. 
  Curtis I think was at the Florida location, where a guy died during the 
  construction phase. A group of about 30 of us were near Waverly, MO, and 
  there was at least one other project going on at the time, near St. Louis.
  
  Basically a work/study program when I first went there. We had a 40 or so 
  room facility to design and build, and about 14 acres of organic 
  strawberries to plant and tend to, later adding the adjacent apple orchard 
  for apple juice production. Officially, the building we built was a Capital 
  of the A of E, and the agricultural stuff was the Siddhaland.
  
  After six months of work, we got the siddhis, by attending the TM Center in 
  Kansas City, and doing the residence requirement for the flying block at 
  MIU (MUM). Then we returned to the facility for six more months.
  
  It was austere to say the least, more so for the sidha-wannabes, than the 
  Guvs. We lived in a standalone garage. We did not have heat in the Winter, 
  except for coal,  nor hot water for bathing. The Guvs did. Same deal for 
  any cooling in the Summer. We didn't much care - we were a close group, 
  working long hours, rounding 2 x 2, and getting the hang of the TMSP while 
  doing either construction, or farming. 
  
  I remember if you were fast, you could weed one and a half rows of 
  strawberries per day. They were big rows. Your hoe was your prize (lol). We 
  soon recognized which brands had a higher grade steel in the blade, and 
  held their edge. In the Winter, tending the berries meant tearing straw off 
  of big rolled bales on the back of a tractor, to insulate the plants. Dirty 
  hard work.
  
  It was also a great experience to live with the Guvs up close. I remember a 
  couple of them we all liked, several who were total dicks, and the rest 
  fell somewhere in the middle. Certainly not a rousing advertisement for 
  going on TTC.
  
  One day, while considering working for the Movement, I decided that instead 
  of working, I'd take my boombox, put on something loud - probably the 
  Talking Heads - and share it with everyone; 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-16 Thread Share Long
There's also Lelystad in Holland, about an hour from Utrecht.  My best friend 
lived there for a while and sent photos.  The housing looked pretty decent 
inside and out.  Nothing vastu but that was back in 2001.





 From: salyavin808 fintlewoodle...@mail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Saturday, March 16, 2013 8:19 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get 
no punishment.
 

  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 So were the sidhalands a nationwide or world wide thing? Were they supposed 
 to be constructed by volunteer labor and all that?

The UK has a sidhaland, in a place called Skelmersdale. Formed just after the 
siddhis were introduced so we would have somewhere to meditate together and get 
all the claimed group benefits from that.

It's in the cheapest place to live in the country, the north west.
A very deprived and miserable housing estate built to cope with
the overflow from Liverpool, and the weather is awful! But over
the years they made a nice little town with dome and a Marshy 
school. Quite an impressive achievement, I think it's the only
one outside FF.

Then one day they found out that the hill to the east is just a bit
too high and it delays the sunrise by minute or so. which is too
much for sthapatya ved, so no matter how east-facing your home is 
it will never make the grade sthapatya vedically so they are moving the town 
further west so they can get all the benefits from having
an extra minute of early morning sun. But it's all a bit academic as it never 
stops raining up there. 

I always thought it weird that SV says that it's OK for buildings
to block the sunrise but not the land, but there is much that is
highly odd about SV homes. I would like one though if only so I
could predict equinoxes with my gateposts, the only practical use
for them I can think of actually...


  From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, March 15, 2013 11:23 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids 
 get no punishment.
 
 
   
 Curtis returns in a week - In the meantime, I'll share my experiences. Curtis 
 I think was at the Florida location, where a guy died during the construction 
 phase. A group of about 30 of us were near Waverly, MO, and there was at 
 least one other project going on at the time, near St. Louis.
 
 Basically a work/study program when I first went there. We had a 40 or so 
 room facility to design and build, and about 14 acres of organic strawberries 
 to plant and tend to, later adding the adjacent apple orchard for apple juice 
 production. Officially, the building we built was a Capital of the A of E, 
 and the agricultural stuff was the Siddhaland.
 
 After six months of work, we got the siddhis, by attending the TM Center in 
 Kansas City, and doing the residence requirement for the flying block at MIU 
 (MUM). Then we returned to the facility for six more months.
 
 It was austere to say the least, more so for the sidha-wannabes, than the 
 Guvs. We lived in a standalone garage. We did not have heat in the Winter, 
 except for coal,  nor hot water for bathing. The Guvs did. Same deal for any 
 cooling in the Summer. We didn't much care - we were a close group, working 
 long hours, rounding 2 x 2, and getting the hang of the TMSP while doing 
 either construction, or farming. 
 
 I remember if you were fast, you could weed one and a half rows of 
 strawberries per day. They were big rows. Your hoe was your prize (lol). We 
 soon recognized which brands had a higher grade steel in the blade, and held 
 their edge. In the Winter, tending the berries meant tearing straw off of big 
 rolled bales on the back of a tractor, to insulate the plants. Dirty hard 
 work.
 
 It was also a great experience to live with the Guvs up close. I remember a 
 couple of them we all liked, several who were total dicks, and the rest fell 
 somewhere in the middle. Certainly not a rousing advertisement for going on 
 TTC.
 
 One day, while considering working for the Movement, I decided that instead 
 of working, I'd take my boombox, put on something loud - probably the Talking 
 Heads - and share it with everyone; sat in and around the main building with 
 the music cranked. Conclusion? TTC = oil, me = water.:-)
 
 The next job I had was working at a commercial deep sea dive shop in Santa 
 Barbara, CA. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@ wrote:
 
  Wow! Well said, Curtis. Would you say a bit more about sidhaland? I was 
  vaguely aware of it but I think that was after I had gotten free of TM. 
  Where was it, what was it and what was it like living there? 
  
  
 



 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-15 Thread Michael Jackson
Wow! Well said, Curtis. Would you say a bit more about sidhaland? I was vaguely 
aware of it but I think that was after I had gotten free of TM. Where was it, 
what was it and what was it like living there? 





 From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltabl...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Saturday, March 9, 2013 6:24 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get 
no punishment.
 

  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
 and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
 own POV.
 

The reward centers of our brains do not make the value judgements about what 
triggers the endorphins. My point concerns the content free reward system 
itself.  And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime I saw a lot of people 
whose lives were a wreck from their fixation on meditation.  Later after I got 
out I spent time with families who had been torn apart by their kids 
over-involvement and inability to support themselves.  So the comparisons with 
other activities that can incapacitate people due to an uncontrollable urge 
like for rounding courses is not without some basis in my experience. 

And these levels of exposure was what Maharishi was pushing when I was 
involved.  It was what he wanted from his teachers. Most people who start TM 
never get to that level of involvement.  But on the other hand most people who 
start TM, stop TM too. 


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ 
  
   I think addiction is a tricky term to use. It's handy when
   you want to discourage people from trying TM or suggest
   there's something dangerous about it, because the term is
   usually pejorative; but then there's the whole positive
   addiction theory to be considered.
  
  I agree that addiction can be overused and misapplied. I
  believe in the case of TM it applies, but I get it that you
  do not.
 
 I think it can be considered a positive addiction for
 most of those who find it addicting at all.
 
  I believe it triggers a similar reward system at the
  synaptic level that drugs do.  At least that is how I
  experience it.
 
 I have no objection to this as long as you make it clear
 it's your experience.
 
  That was how it was first pitched in the West, as a
  drug-free high.
 
 By the TMO?
 
   Of course, when you cite cocaine addiction as if it were
   similar to addiction to TM, your intention to load
   your argument becomes obvious.
  
  We were discussing it in the context of all sorts of things
  people can be addicted to including gambling.
 
 Also a negative addiction.
 
   And there
  are many valid distinctions to draw between them. 
  
  But my focus was just on the brain reward system aspect.
  With meditation it is so high that it can lead to people
  being satisfied just meditating.  That was Guru Dev's life
  before he hit the Shankaracharya lottery right?  And he is
  far from the only one.  It was how I lived at sidhaland.
  We switched the balance there from meditating for activity
  to just acting as much as we had to to get back to program.
  It was all Maharishi directed and it went on for 3 years
  for me.  So I am not overstating the case of how absorbed
  you can get with these euphoric states of mind.
 
 In a Siddhaland-type context, sure. But you didn't specify
 that to begin with. It sounded as though you were speaking
 generally.
 
  Do you think I have an agenda to turn people off of
  practicing TM?  I don't.  Emily can figure out for herself
  if TM is for her.  But here I have a chance to express what
  I really think about it outside the PR angle that some
  person might get turned off to TM by me being honest about
  my POV on meditation.
 
 Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
 and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
 own POV.
 
  It is a fascinating area for me and the jury is not in about
  any of it. 
  
  I have come to believe that certain experiences of heightened 
  states of bliss are not productive.
 
 For you.
 
  I am trying to understand how it was so easy for me to
  drop out of the sidhis and never want to do them again.
  I got intense pleasure from the sidhis.  But now that
  kind of experience has zero appeal.  How can this be if
  it was the highest experience of my life?  The reason is
  that now I get my inner states of joy from achievements
  and creative expression.  I have switched my source of
  similar brain states of peak experiences.  I am no longer
  attracted to states of content free pleasure from any
  source.
 
 One might ask whether it's possible that your stint with
 the TM-Sidhis increased your capacity to get inner states
 of joy from achievements and creative expression.
 
 
  
  But your post balances out my 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-15 Thread Michael Jackson
I think it had something to do with money - either the foreign students were 
paying more for their stay at MUM OR it had to do with who their parents were - 
people with money or status in the Movement that Bevvie and company didn't want 
to alienate.

But the real issue with dope on campus is that the TMO has not unholstered the 
big guns - send in the Purusha Police! 

Let them make unannounced spot checks on all the dorm rooms and make sure they 
are carrying the Vedic Golden Rods of Chastisment, made of course from rare 
Indian Vedic woods, blessed by the nebulous Vedic Masters Nappy
 references, further blessed with the Marshy lingam energy by laying the rods 
in front of 8 by 10 pics of Marshy's Linga Temple (available from Girish and 
Company for however much they think you will pay). 

After the Purusha Police have beaten the
 dope rakshasa energy out of the stupid kids, then Vedic Justice will have been 
done and the numbers in the Dome shall certainly rise!

Jai Guru Whup Ass!





 From: Duveyoung no_re...@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, March 8, 2013 11:05 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get 
no punishment.
 

  
So far -- not a single response has been about the issue that American 
students are not cut a break but the foreign students are.  That's the issue 
-- the hypocrisy.

After seven decades of the movement shaping people -- to have this movement 
hypocrisy is PROOF that the technique sucks and the movement knows it and uses 
tradtional college power-tripping to hide the fact that personality, morality, 
diet, lifestyle, spirituality, is NOT IMPROVED BY TM.  I can give the names and 
addresses of dozens of assholes who were assholes to start and are still 
assholes and they're still running the movement.

And if a parent is soo stupid as to not know their child enough to know if 
dope is part of their lives and then they pay through the nose to put a kid in 
MUM -- so be it -- THEY  will get the rod whack of a shameful child -- let's 
see them CHANGE for the better after that rod hits them.  Don't want to spoil 
those parents, right?  Gotta keep them evolving too, right?  Maybe by the time 
they roll out their fifth or sixth kid they'll get it right, right?

Fucking hell.  When are the ninnies here going to admit that TM just cannot do 
ANYTHING?  It's only goal is to accomplish NOTHINGNESS and then we get to see 
what karma comes of that non-experience.  And woe unto those who would try to 
thwart Kali Yuga's coming into fullness. 

These are the dark times. We are the ones creating it for God's sake.  So I 
should just shut up about hypocrisy, eh? 

Sheeesh.

Edg

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_reply@... wrote:

 Facebook page:  MUMSecrets
 #8206;
 #81: few years back every single person of Bld 141 smoked pot. New Kid moves 
 in and rats ME out to the faculty. I get kicked out. foreign students smoked 
 pot, got ratted out. Faculty turns a blind eye because they are from a 
 different country. So I discovered your policy is make examples of the 
 Americans. I Love the meditation, and promoting world peace. disappointed 
 that your leaders actions and mindset don't lead us down that path. Too many 
 policies in place and enforced that have created a great dissension in the 
 movement. Hard to promote Peace when half your movement hates you for being 
 so unforgiving and distrustful of people who still wanna experience different 
 ways, AND meditation. My name is Matthew Speer. This story isn't a secret.



 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-15 Thread doctordumbass
Curtis returns in a week - In the meantime, I'll share my experiences. Curtis I 
think was at the Florida location, where a guy died during the construction 
phase. A group of about 30 of us were near Waverly, MO, and there was at least 
one other project going on at the time, near St. Louis.

Basically a work/study program when I first went there. We had a 40 or so room 
facility to design and build, and about 14 acres of organic strawberries to 
plant and tend to, later adding the adjacent apple orchard for apple juice 
production. Officially, the building we built was a Capital of the A of E, and 
the agricultural stuff was the Siddhaland.

After six months of work, we got the siddhis, by attending the TM Center in 
Kansas City, and doing the residence requirement for the flying block at MIU 
(MUM). Then we returned to the facility for six more months.

It was austere to say the least, more so for the sidha-wannabes, than the Guvs. 
We lived in a standalone garage. We did not have heat in the Winter, except for 
coal,  nor hot water for bathing. The Guvs did. Same deal for any cooling in 
the Summer. We didn't much care - we were a close group, working long hours, 
rounding 2 x 2, and getting the hang of the TMSP while doing either 
construction, or farming. 

I remember if you were fast, you could weed one and a half rows of strawberries 
per day. They were big rows. Your hoe was your prize (lol). We soon recognized 
which brands had a higher grade steel in the blade, and held their edge. In the 
Winter, tending the berries meant tearing straw off of big rolled bales on the 
back of a tractor, to insulate the plants. Dirty hard work.

It was also a great experience to live with the Guvs up close. I remember a 
couple of them we all liked, several who were total dicks, and the rest fell 
somewhere in the middle. Certainly not a rousing advertisement for going on TTC.

One day, while considering working for the Movement, I decided that instead of 
working, I'd take my boombox, put on something loud - probably the Talking 
Heads - and share it with everyone; sat in and around the main building with 
the music cranked. Conclusion? TTC = oil, me = water.:-)

The next job I had was working at a commercial deep sea dive shop in Santa 
Barbara, CA. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Jackson mjackson74@... wrote:

 Wow! Well said, Curtis. Would you say a bit more about sidhaland? I was 
 vaguely aware of it but I think that was after I had gotten free of TM. Where 
 was it, what was it and what was it like living there? 
 
 
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:


 But this is content free positive experience divorced from achievement.  I am 
calling into question the whole goal of the yoga systems including TM.

No, playing and busking in the streets isn't enough for this soul with GREAT 
ambitions; Curtis has found his life mission !



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread Share Long
Steve, I like your point in the second paragraph below:  that it's always 
possible to find a flaw in what the other person has written.  I definitely see 
myself doing that, hopefully less as time goes by.  And I very much appreciate 
your point that the spirit of discussion is lost.  Somehow it reminds me of the 
times when there is a great discussion on FFL, what that's like.  Makes it 
worth hanging in here.





 From: seventhray27 steve.sun...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, March 10, 2013 10:22 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get 
no punishment.
 

  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:
 No 'taker' here but I will give something.
 
 I actually take umbrage at your assertion about Judy's honesty. I personally 
 don't think she has a dishonest molecule in her body. In fact, I would go so 
 far as to says she can't help but tell the truth, as she sees it and at the 
 risk of seriously pissing everyone off. I do not believe Judy is about 
 distracting her reader from what is the closest to the truth of a thing, as 
 she sees it from her level. 
snip
Ann, 
More credit to you, if you can follow her arguments.  I find that they often 
become convoluted beyond any sensible conclusion.  And I suspect that you, like 
most of us, don't bother to read past the first couple of rebuttals she makes, 
especially after the third of fourth iteration.
I would say, that if anyone wants to find a flaw in another person's reasoning, 
they can do so.  There is always some technical point that can be disputed.  
But, by that point the spirit of the argument, or discussion is lost, and the 
object becomes simply finding a way to win.  Or maybe you decide to frame your 
argument in parameters that you alone determine as valid and win on that basis.
Oh, and  the sin of snipping.  That can always be grounds for immediate 
dismissal of any points. Because snipping in Judy's book is to hide something, 
and not for conciseness. (unless she does it)
And yes, she does have time, have time, have time for nearly unlimited 
research, (which we must remember is research when she does it, but internet 
stalking when done by someone else)
So, all of this, for me, disputes any notion of honesty on Judy's part.
But I certainly understand the attraction of having someone like Judy on your 
team.  She can disparage with best of them.  But, I suspect that she would 
remain a better friend, or ally at a distance.
And is it fair to bring up, that there must come a time, when we think about 
what legacy we might leave behind.  I think that comes into play at some point.
 
 
 She is inexhaustible in her research and in the pursuit of 'getting it 
 right'; she obviously has a mind that ranks right up there, as far as lucid, 
 raw intelligence goes, as high as anybody who has ever posted here. (I know 
 who is rolling their eyes right now, so don't think I don't.) 
 
 Her style, her fighting instinct, her doggedness does not endear her to 
 everyone. Fair enough. You don't have to like someone to appreciate their 
 innate insistence on accuracy, on this kind of purity of defining things. She 
 is, to me, very like a human barometer or other finely-tuned instrument that 
 can't go against this nature of hers to give one an accurate reading. She can 
 admit when she is wrong. She isn't easy at times, in fact she can be bloody 
 ruthless. But I love that, in its proper time, in its proper context. The 
 thing is, I don't believe Judy writes/asserts anything she does not truly 
 believe - even at the risk of being wrong. If that is not honesty, then I 
 don't know what is.


 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread Ravi Chivukula
On Mar 11, 2013, at 4:29 AM, Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote:

 Steve, I like your point in the second paragraph below: 

Of course you do !!!

 that it's always possible to find a flaw in what the other person has 
 written.  I definitely see myself doing that, hopefully less as time goes by. 
  And I very much appreciate your point that the spirit of discussion is lost. 
  Somehow it reminds me of the times when there is a great discussion on FFL, 
 what that's like.  Makes it worth hanging in here.
 
 
 From: seventhray27 steve.sun...@yahoo.com
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Sunday, March 10, 2013 10:22 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids 
 get no punishment.
 
  
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:
  No 'taker' here but I will give something.
  
  I actually take umbrage at your assertion about Judy's honesty. I 
  personally don't think she has a dishonest molecule in her body. In fact, I 
  would go so far as to says she can't help but tell the truth, as she sees 
  it and at the risk of seriously pissing everyone off. I do not believe Judy 
  is about distracting her reader from what is the closest to the truth of a 
  thing, as she sees it from her level. 
 snip
 Ann,
 More credit to you, if you can follow her arguments.  I find that they often 
 become convoluted beyond any sensible conclusion.  And I suspect that you, 
 like most of us, don't bother to read past the first couple of rebuttals she 
 makes, especially after the third of fourth iteration.
 I would say, that if anyone wants to find a flaw in another person's 
 reasoning, they can do so.  There is always some technical point that can be 
 disputed.  But, by that point the spirit of the argument, or discussion is 
 lost, and the object becomes simply finding a way to win.  Or maybe you 
 decide to frame your argument in parameters that you alone determine as valid 
 and win on that basis.
 Oh, and  the sin of snipping.  That can always be grounds for immediate 
 dismissal of any points. Because snipping in Judy's book is to hide 
 something, and not for conciseness. (unless she does it)
 And yes, she does have time, have time, have time for nearly unlimited 
 research, (which we must remember is research when she does it, but 
 internet stalking when done by someone else)
 So, all of this, for me, disputes any notion of honesty on Judy's part.
 But I certainly understand the attraction of having someone like Judy on your 
 team.  She can disparage with best of them.  But, I suspect that she would 
 remain a better friend, or ally at a distance.
 And is it fair to bring up, that there must come a time, when we think about 
 what legacy we might leave behind.  I think that comes into play at some 
 point.
  
  
  She is inexhaustible in her research and in the pursuit of 'getting it 
  right'; she obviously has a mind that ranks right up there, as far as 
  lucid, raw intelligence goes, as high as anybody who has ever posted here. 
  (I know who is rolling their eyes right now, so don't think I don't.) 
  
  Her style, her fighting instinct, her doggedness does not endear her to 
  everyone. Fair enough. You don't have to like someone to appreciate their 
  innate insistence on accuracy, on this kind of purity of defining things. 
  She is, to me, very like a human barometer or other finely-tuned instrument 
  that can't go against this nature of hers to give one an accurate reading. 
  She can admit when she is wrong. She isn't easy at times, in fact she can 
  be bloody ruthless. But I love that, in its proper time, in its proper 
  context. The thing is, I don't believe Judy writes/asserts anything she 
  does not truly believe - even at the risk of being wrong. If that is not 
  honesty, then I don't know what is.
 
 
 
 


[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread seventhray27


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@...
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 snip
  Oh, and the sin of snipping. That can always be grounds
  for immediate dismissal of any points. Because snipping
  in Judy's book is to hide something, and not for conciseness.
  (unless she does it)
 
  And yes, she does have time, have time, have time for nearly
  unlimited research, (which we must remember is research
  when she does it, but internet stalking when done by
  someone else)
 
  So, all of this, for me, disputes any notion of honesty
  on Judy's part.

 Except for the fact that what you say above about
 snipping and research is not true, and you know it's
 not true.


Truth, for you Judy is often a moving target.  As Curtis pointed,  often
the opportunity for a discussion that yields greater understanding is a
casualty for a different agenda.


 Lying about a person isn't a very good way to make a
 case for their being dishonest, now, is it?





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread seventhray27

As Ravi noted Judy, no one has any obligation to reveal personal details
about themselves.  You feel that you have done this.   I'd have to
disagree.  And what I am saying, is that it comes out naturally over a
period of time.  We knew more about Ann in two weeks, than we've known
about you in all the time you've been here.  I can't help but feel that
that speaks to the fact that maybe there's not much there to share.  I'm
sorry about that.




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@...
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@
wrote:
 
  Yes - Steve, you can't even notice the contradictions in
  what you write. FFL is a place for discussion, so Judy
  doesn't have to reveal anything about herself - it's like
  you hilariously accused her of - a straw man argument.

 Not only that, it's not true that I haven't revealed
 anything about myself, as I pointed out to him awhile
 back when he made the same nitwit accusation.

 As I told Ann, he doesn't have any legitimate complaints,
 so he just makes 'em up. And then calls me dishonest.





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  snip
   Oh, and the sin of snipping. That can always be grounds
   for immediate dismissal of any points. Because snipping
   in Judy's book is to hide something, and not for conciseness.
   (unless she does it)
  
   And yes, she does have time, have time, have time for nearly
   unlimited research, (which we must remember is research
   when she does it, but internet stalking when done by
   someone else)
  
   So, all of this, for me, disputes any notion of honesty
   on Judy's part.
 
  Except for the fact that what you say above about
  snipping and research is not true, and you know it's
  not true.
 
 Truth, for you Judy is often a moving target.

No, Steve, it is not.

Why you've suddenly decided that telling whoppers
about me is a good tactic, I really don't know.
But I'd suggest that you rethink it, because it
makes you look even more helplessly stupid than
you already do.





  As Curtis pointed,  often
 the opportunity for a discussion that yields greater understanding is a
 casualty for a different agenda.
 
 
  Lying about a person isn't a very good way to make a
  case for their being dishonest, now, is it?
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:
 
 As Ravi noted Judy, no one has any obligation to reveal
 personal details about themselves.  You feel that you
 have done this.   I'd have to disagree.

Uh, no, Steve, I don't feel that I have done this,
I *have* done this. It isn't a matter of agreement
or disagreement, it's a fact and is on the record.

 And what I am saying, is that it comes out naturally
 over a period of time.  We knew more about Ann in two
 weeks, than we've known about you in all the time
 you've been here.

That is not a fact, Steve. It's very far from a fact.

 I can't help but feel that that speaks to the fact
 that maybe there's not much there to share.  I'm
 sorry about that.

I'm sorry that you've chosen lying as the appropriate
way to get back at me.

What liars never seem to realize is that lying is an
admission of defeat, as well as of a lack of
self-respect.



 

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@
 wrote:
  
   Yes - Steve, you can't even notice the contradictions in
   what you write. FFL is a place for discussion, so Judy
   doesn't have to reveal anything about herself - it's like
   you hilariously accused her of - a straw man argument.
 
  Not only that, it's not true that I haven't revealed
  anything about myself, as I pointed out to him awhile
  back when he made the same nitwit accusation.
 
  As I told Ann, he doesn't have any legitimate complaints,
  so he just makes 'em up. And then calls me dishonest.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread Ravi Chivukula
Steve - what the fuck is wrong with you. This is the first time I'm seeing 
dishonesty, deceptiveness creep in to your attacks on Judy - are you channeling 
Barry - it's not funny anymore, get a grip dude.


On Mar 11, 2013, at 5:29 AM, seventhray27 steve.sun...@yahoo.com wrote:

 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ wrote:
  snip
   Oh, and the sin of snipping. That can always be grounds
   for immediate dismissal of any points. Because snipping
   in Judy's book is to hide something, and not for conciseness.
   (unless she does it)
   
   And yes, she does have time, have time, have time for nearly 
   unlimited research, (which we must remember is research
   when she does it, but internet stalking when done by
   someone else)
   
   So, all of this, for me, disputes any notion of honesty
   on Judy's part.
  
  Except for the fact that what you say above about 
  snipping and research is not true, and you know it's
  not true.
 
 Truth, for you Judy is often a moving target.  As Curtis pointed,  often the 
 opportunity for a discussion that yields greater understanding is a casualty 
 for a different agenda.
 
 
  Lying about a person isn't a very good way to make a
  case for their being dishonest, now, is it?
 
 
 


[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread seventhray27

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula
chivukula.ravi@... wrote:

 I would be glad to play that game with you.

 OK..ready,set, GO !!!

 Aw forget it - when I insult someone it almost always sticks but never
the
 other way around - I was an arrogant SOB from the day I was born.
And as Dr. Phil asks, How's that working for you Ravi
  But one
 can always try disparaging me..LOL. You are so much poorer in
understanding
 me if you label it as a tirade or an accusation, poorer in judging me
based
 on what I do.
I don't think I miss your playful nature Ravi.  But there is always
gonna be someone of the other side of your equation,  who will be
willing to dish it right back to you.
Well you are fucking clueless Steve - but I still love you.
I guess somehow Ravi, I've got something to show for it.  Know what I
mean?






[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread seventhray27

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula
chivukula.ravi@... wrote:

 OMG Ann wrote all that and you don't show any inclination to absorb
what
 she had to say - you couldn't detect any sincerity, conviction in her
post?
  You dismiss Ann's entire message because you think Ann wants Judy's
 support in attacking others? Oh boy - you are fucking hopeless man.
I'm sorry Ravi.  Please forgive me.

 On Sun, Mar 10, 2013 at 8:22 PM, seventhray27 steve.sundur@...wrote:

  **
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@ wrote:
   No 'taker' here but I will give something.
  
   I actually take umbrage at your assertion about Judy's honesty. I
  personally don't think she has a dishonest molecule in her body. In
fact, I
  would go so far as to says she can't help but tell the truth, as she
sees
  it and at the risk of seriously pissing everyone off. I do not
believe Judy
  is about distracting her reader from what is the closest to the
truth of a
  thing, as she sees it from her level.
  snip
 
  Ann,
 
  More credit to you, if you can follow her arguments.  I find that
they
  often become convoluted beyond any sensible conclusion.  And I
suspect
  that you, like most of us, don't bother to read past the first
couple of
  rebuttals she makes, especially after the third of fourth iteration.
 
  I would say, that if anyone wants to find a flaw in another person's
  reasoning, they can do so.  There is always some technical point
that can
  be disputed.  But, by that point the spirit of the argument, or
discussion
  is lost, and the object becomes simply finding a way to win.  Or
maybe you
  decide to frame your argument in parameters that you alone determine
as
  valid and win on that basis.
 
  Oh, and  the sin of snipping.  That can always be grounds for
immediate
  dismissal of any points. Because snipping in Judy's book is to hide
  something, and not for conciseness. (unless she does it)
 
  And yes, she does have time, have time, have time for nearly
unlimited
  research, (which we must remember is research when she does it,
but
  internet stalking when done by someone else)
 
  So, all of this, for me, disputes any notion of honesty on Judy's
part.
 
  But I certainly understand the attraction of having someone like
Judy on
  your team.  She can disparage with best of them.  But, I suspect
that she
  would remain a better friend, or ally at a distance.
 
  And is it fair to bring up, that there must come a time, when we
think
  about what legacy we might leave behind.  I think that comes into
play at
  some point.
 
 
 
 
   She is inexhaustible in her research and in the pursuit of
'getting it
  right'; she obviously has a mind that ranks right up there, as far
as
  lucid, raw intelligence goes, as high as anybody who has ever posted
here.
  (I know who is rolling their eyes right now, so don't think I
don't.)
  
   Her style, her fighting instinct, her doggedness does not endear
her to
  everyone. Fair enough. You don't have to like someone to appreciate
their
  innate insistence on accuracy, on this kind of purity of defining
things.
  She is, to me, very like a human barometer or other finely-tuned
instrument
  that can't go against this nature of hers to give one an accurate
reading.
  She can admit when she is wrong. She isn't easy at times, in fact
she can
  be bloody ruthless. But I love that, in its proper time, in its
proper
  context. The thing is, I don't believe Judy writes/asserts anything
she
  does not truly believe - even at the risk of being wrong. If that is
not
  honesty, then I don't know what is.
 
 
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread seventhray27
Thanks Share.  I guess people develop certain habits, that become
difficult to break.  But I don't know how else you move forward. (-:
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@...
wrote:

 Steve, I like your point in the second paragraph below:Â  that it's
always possible to find a flaw in what the other person has written.Â
I definitely see myself doing that, hopefully less as time goes by. 
And I very much appreciate your point that the spirit of discussion is
lost.  Somehow it reminds me of the times when there is a great
discussion on FFL, what that's like.  Makes it worth hanging in
here.




 
  From: seventhray27 steve.sundur@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Sent: Sunday, March 10, 2013 10:22 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign
kids get no punishment.


 Â

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@ wrote:
  No 'taker' here but I will give something.
 
  I actually take umbrage at your assertion about Judy's honesty. I
personally don't think she has a dishonest molecule in her body. In
fact, I would go so far as to says she can't help but tell the truth, as
she sees it and at the risk of seriously pissing everyone off. I do not
believe Judy is about distracting her reader from what is the closest to
the truth of a thing, as she sees it from her level.Â
 snip
 Ann,
 More credit to you, if you can follow her arguments.  I
find that they often become convoluted beyond any sensible
conclusion.  And I suspect that you, like most of us, don't
bother to read past the first couple of rebuttals she makes,
especially after the third of fourth iteration.
 I would say, that if anyone wants to find a flaw in another person's
reasoning, they can do so.  There is always some technical point
that can be disputed.  But, by that point the spirit of the
argument, or discussion is lost, and the object becomes simply finding a
way to win.  Or maybe you decide to frame your argument in
parameters that you alone determine as valid and win on that basis.
 Oh, and  the sin of snipping.  That can always be grounds for
immediate dismissal of any points. Because snipping in Judy's book is to
hide something, and not for conciseness. (unless she does it)
 And yes, she does have time, have time, have time for nearly unlimited
research, (which we must remember is research when she does it, but
internet stalking when done by someone else)
 So, all of this, for me, disputes any notion of honesty on Judy's
part.
 But I certainly understand the attraction of having someone like Judy
on your team.  She can disparage with best of them.  But, I
suspect that she would remain a better friend, or ally at a
distance.
 And is it fair to bring up, that there must come a time, when we think
about what legacy we might leave behind.  I think that comes into
play at some point.
 Â
 Â
  She is inexhaustible in her research and in the pursuit of 'getting
it right'; she obviously has a mind that ranks right up there, as far as
lucid, raw intelligence goes, as high as anybody who has ever posted
here. (I know who is rolling their eyes right now, so don't think I
don't.)
 
  Her style, her fighting instinct, her doggedness does not endear her
to everyone. Fair enough. You don't have to like someone to appreciate
their innate insistence on accuracy, on this kind of purity of defining
things. She is, to me, very like a human barometer or other finely-tuned
instrument that can't go against this nature of hers to give one an
accurate reading. She can admit when she is wrong. She isn't easy at
times, in fact she can be bloody ruthless. But I love that, in its
proper time, in its proper context. The thing is, I don't believe Judy
writes/asserts anything she does not truly believe - even at the risk of
being wrong. If that is not honesty, then I don't know what is.




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ wrote:
  
  As Ravi noted Judy, no one has any obligation to reveal
  personal details about themselves.  You feel that you
  have done this.   I'd have to disagree.
 
 Uh, no, Steve, I don't feel that I have done this,
 I *have* done this. It isn't a matter of agreement
 or disagreement, it's a fact and is on the record.


Some of the on the record facts that have trickled out
from Judy over the years:

1. She learned TM but never became a TM teacher. She
claims that she never even wanted to become a TM teacher.

2. She never met Maharishi or was in the same room with
him, although she has said that she tried once, and failed.
That's the kind of perseverance that really makes for a 
dedicated spiritual seeker. :-)

3. She has claimed that she took checker training, but
also that she never used it to actually check anyone's 
meditation. Presumably she learned it so she could argue
more effectively on the Internet, not to actually help
anyone with their meditation. :-)

4. She has never worked for or been close enough to the
TM organization to make any meaningful comments about it
and how it works, other than things told to her by TM
teachers, who would have regarded her as a peon and thus
given her the same doubletalk they presented to the public.

5. Her entire exposure to Maharishi's teachings, which
she often presents herself as authoritative about, is
based on things she heard on audio or videotape, things
she's read in books, and things told to her by the afore-
mentioned teachers who regarded her as a mere meditator
and thus were unlikely to provide her with any real 
information about what was taught to *them*.

6. According to the little she has posted, her experience
at TM rounding courses was seriously limited. She has
admitted to being spaced out and somewhat incapable of
functioning in the real world during those limited courses,
so there is no reason to doubt her veracity on this, that
being a rather common experience on such courses. :-)

7. She has said that she learned the TM Sidhis, but I for
one don't remember her ever mentioning having performed
them in a group, other than on the course she learned
them on. Thus her experiences with group program should
be regarded as somewhat limited, and not at the same 
level of experience as those who performed them in a 
group for many years. 


  And what I am saying, is that it comes out naturally
  over a period of time.  We knew more about Ann in two
  weeks, than we've known about you in all the time
  you've been here.
 
 That is not a fact, Steve. It's very far from a fact.
 
  I can't help but feel that that speaks to the fact
  that maybe there's not much there to share.  I'm
  sorry about that.
 
 I'm sorry that you've chosen lying as the appropriate
 way to get back at me.
 
 What liars never seem to realize is that lying is an
 admission of defeat, as well as of a lack of
 self-respect.
 
 
 
  
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@
  wrote:
   
Yes - Steve, you can't even notice the contradictions in
what you write. FFL is a place for discussion, so Judy
doesn't have to reveal anything about herself - it's like
you hilariously accused her of - a straw man argument.
  
   Not only that, it's not true that I haven't revealed
   anything about myself, as I pointed out to him awhile
   back when he made the same nitwit accusation.
  
   As I told Ann, he doesn't have any legitimate complaints,
   so he just makes 'em up. And then calls me dishonest.





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread seventhray27

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@...
wrote:

  Truth, for you Judy is often a moving target. (from Steve)
 No, Steve, it is not.

 Why you've suddenly decided that telling whoppers
 about me is a good tactic, I really don't know.
 But I'd suggest that you rethink it, because it
 makes you look even more helplessly stupid than
 you already do.

part of your loop, Judy


[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread seventhray27

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@...
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  As Ravi noted Judy, no one has any obligation to reveal
  personal details about themselves.  You feel that you
  have done this.   I'd have to disagree.

 Uh, no, Steve, I don't feel that I have done this,
 I *have* done this. It isn't a matter of agreement
 or disagreement, it's a fact and is on the record.
And that, my dear is the sad part.  A few little green shoots in the
desert.  Maybe they're even brown most of the time.
  And what I am saying, is that it comes out naturally
  over a period of time.  We knew more about Ann in two
  weeks, than we've known about you in all the time
  you've been here.

 That is not a fact, Steve. It's very far from a fact.

  I can't help but feel that that speaks to the fact
  that maybe there's not much there to share.  I'm
  sorry about that.

 I'm sorry that you've chosen lying as the appropriate
 way to get back at me.

 What liars never seem to realize is that lying is an
 admission of defeat, as well as of a lack of
 self-respect.

Ok, I do wish that you were a better example of some of these high
minded sentiments you express.  But as Ravi says, I love you anyway.
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula
chivukula.ravi@
  wrote:
   
Yes - Steve, you can't even notice the contradictions in
what you write. FFL is a place for discussion, so Judy
doesn't have to reveal anything about herself - it's like
you hilariously accused her of - a straw man argument.
  
   Not only that, it's not true that I haven't revealed
   anything about myself, as I pointed out to him awhile
   back when he made the same nitwit accusation.
  
   As I told Ann, he doesn't have any legitimate complaints,
   so he just makes 'em up. And then calls me dishonest.




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread seventhray27
Must be DST Ravi.  I don't know what's gotten into me!   Help me Rhonda.
Help, Help, Help me Rhonda!
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula
chivukula.ravi@... wrote:

 Steve - what the fuck is wrong with you. This is the first time I'm
seeing dishonesty, deceptiveness creep in to your attacks on Judy - are
you channeling Barry - it's not funny anymore, get a grip dude.


 On Mar 11, 2013, at 5:29 AM, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
   snip
Oh, and the sin of snipping. That can always be grounds
for immediate dismissal of any points. Because snipping
in Judy's book is to hide something, and not for conciseness.
(unless she does it)
   
And yes, she does have time, have time, have time for nearly
unlimited research, (which we must remember is research
when she does it, but internet stalking when done by
someone else)
   
So, all of this, for me, disputes any notion of honesty
on Judy's part.
  
   Except for the fact that what you say above about
   snipping and research is not true, and you know it's
   not true.
 
  Truth, for you Judy is often a moving target.  As Curtis pointed, 
often the opportunity for a discussion that yields greater understanding
is a casualty for a different agenda.
 
 
   Lying about a person isn't a very good way to make a
   case for their being dishonest, now, is it?
  
 
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread Ann
Dear Judy, I don't know if I would feel honoured or feel afraid. This man has 
evidently kept a long list compiled of your life history with regard to TM. 
What does this mean? Of course, at least half of it will be inaccurate but the 
FACT that he has done this is, er, interesting. Maybe it's time you got an 
extra lock on the door and some security; flights from Amsterdam arrive at 
Newark every day and Barry could be less than 10 hours away at any given time. 
Not THAT is a scary thought.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ wrote:
   
   As Ravi noted Judy, no one has any obligation to reveal
   personal details about themselves.  You feel that you
   have done this.   I'd have to disagree.
  
  Uh, no, Steve, I don't feel that I have done this,
  I *have* done this. It isn't a matter of agreement
  or disagreement, it's a fact and is on the record.
 
 
 Some of the on the record facts that have trickled out
 from Judy over the years:
 
 1. She learned TM but never became a TM teacher. She
 claims that she never even wanted to become a TM teacher.
 
 2. She never met Maharishi or was in the same room with
 him, although she has said that she tried once, and failed.
 That's the kind of perseverance that really makes for a 
 dedicated spiritual seeker. :-)
 
 3. She has claimed that she took checker training, but
 also that she never used it to actually check anyone's 
 meditation. Presumably she learned it so she could argue
 more effectively on the Internet, not to actually help
 anyone with their meditation. :-)
 
 4. She has never worked for or been close enough to the
 TM organization to make any meaningful comments about it
 and how it works, other than things told to her by TM
 teachers, who would have regarded her as a peon and thus
 given her the same doubletalk they presented to the public.
 
 5. Her entire exposure to Maharishi's teachings, which
 she often presents herself as authoritative about, is
 based on things she heard on audio or videotape, things
 she's read in books, and things told to her by the afore-
 mentioned teachers who regarded her as a mere meditator
 and thus were unlikely to provide her with any real 
 information about what was taught to *them*.
 
 6. According to the little she has posted, her experience
 at TM rounding courses was seriously limited. She has
 admitted to being spaced out and somewhat incapable of
 functioning in the real world during those limited courses,
 so there is no reason to doubt her veracity on this, that
 being a rather common experience on such courses. :-)
 
 7. She has said that she learned the TM Sidhis, but I for
 one don't remember her ever mentioning having performed
 them in a group, other than on the course she learned
 them on. Thus her experiences with group program should
 be regarded as somewhat limited, and not at the same 
 level of experience as those who performed them in a 
 group for many years. 
 
 
   And what I am saying, is that it comes out naturally
   over a period of time.  We knew more about Ann in two
   weeks, than we've known about you in all the time
   you've been here.
  
  That is not a fact, Steve. It's very far from a fact.
  
   I can't help but feel that that speaks to the fact
   that maybe there's not much there to share.  I'm
   sorry about that.
  
  I'm sorry that you've chosen lying as the appropriate
  way to get back at me.
  
  What liars never seem to realize is that lying is an
  admission of defeat, as well as of a lack of
  self-respect.
  
  
  
   
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
   wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@
   wrote:

 Yes - Steve, you can't even notice the contradictions in
 what you write. FFL is a place for discussion, so Judy
 doesn't have to reveal anything about herself - it's like
 you hilariously accused her of - a straw man argument.
   
Not only that, it's not true that I haven't revealed
anything about myself, as I pointed out to him awhile
back when he made the same nitwit accusation.
   
As I told Ann, he doesn't have any legitimate complaints,
so he just makes 'em up. And then calls me dishonest.
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ wrote:
   
   As Ravi noted Judy, no one has any obligation to reveal
   personal details about themselves.  You feel that you
   have done this.   I'd have to disagree.
  
  Uh, no, Steve, I don't feel that I have done this,
  I *have* done this. It isn't a matter of agreement
  or disagreement, it's a fact and is on the record.
 
 Some of the on the record facts that have trickled out
 from Judy over the years:
 
 1. She learned TM but never became a TM teacher. She
 claims that she never even wanted to become a TM teacher.

More or less correct. I considered it but decided
against it for several reasons, not least my extreme
dislike of the TMO.

 2. She never met Maharishi or was in the same room with
 him, although she has said that she tried once, and failed.

Because Maharishi didn't turn up.

 That's the kind of perseverance that really makes for a 
 dedicated spiritual seeker. :-)

Actually I never thought being around Maharishi was
a requirement.

 3. She has claimed that she took checker training, but
 also that she never used it to actually check anyone's 
 meditation.

Actually I never claimed that I never used it to check
anyone's meditation. I didn't, but that was because I
never got around to getting certified.

 Presumably she learned it so she could argue
 more effectively on the Internet, not to actually help
 anyone with their meditation. :-)

Not true.

 4. She has never worked for or been close enough to the
 TM organization to make any meaningful comments about it
 and how it works, other than things told to her by TM
 teachers, who would have regarded her as a peon and thus
 given her the same doubletalk they presented to the public.

Except for the months I spent living at the TM facility
in Asbury Park in '95-'96. I wasn't working for the
movement, but I was right in the middle of it and saw
(and was told) quite a bit that would not ordinarily
be available to peons.
 
 5. Her entire exposure to Maharishi's teachings, which
 she often presents herself as authoritative about, is
 based on things she heard on audio or videotape,

Audio and videotape of Maharishi teaching...

 things she's read in books,

...and books by Maharishi.

 and things told to her by the afore-
 mentioned teachers who regarded her as a mere meditator
 and thus were unlikely to provide her with any real 
 information about what was taught to *them*.

You forgot what I've learned about what teachers were
taught from the teachers on the various TM forums
I've been participating in since '95.

 6. According to the little she has posted, her experience
 at TM rounding courses was seriously limited.

Au contraire, according to what I've posted I've been
on *many* residence courses and WPAs. Why lie about
this, Barry, when it's on the record?

 She has
 admitted to being spaced out and somewhat incapable of
 functioning in the real world during those limited courses,

Again, au contraire, I have said no such thing.

 so there is no reason to doubt her veracity on this, that
 being a rather common experience on such courses. :-)
 
 7. She has said that she learned the TM Sidhis, but I for
 one don't remember her ever mentioning having performed
 them in a group, other than on the course she learned
 them on. Thus her experiences with group program should
 be regarded as somewhat limited, and not at the same 
 level of experience as those who performed them in a 
 group for many years.

Actually did group program for several years at the
Manhattan TM Center, plus all the WPAs.

And of course what I've said about myself on FFL has
by no means been limited to my TM-related experience.



   And what I am saying, is that it comes out naturally
   over a period of time.  We knew more about Ann in two
   weeks, than we've known about you in all the time
   you've been here.
  
  That is not a fact, Steve. It's very far from a fact.
  
   I can't help but feel that that speaks to the fact
   that maybe there's not much there to share.  I'm
   sorry about that.
  
  I'm sorry that you've chosen lying as the appropriate
  way to get back at me.
  
  What liars never seem to realize is that lying is an
  admission of defeat, as well as of a lack of
  self-respect.




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-11 Thread doctordumbass
In other words, Barry, Judy continues to practice TM, while you who quit forty 
years ago, insist upon your superior knowledge of it. Got it. Now can I burst 
out laughing at you?

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ wrote:
   
   As Ravi noted Judy, no one has any obligation to reveal
   personal details about themselves.  You feel that you
   have done this.   I'd have to disagree.
  
  Uh, no, Steve, I don't feel that I have done this,
  I *have* done this. It isn't a matter of agreement
  or disagreement, it's a fact and is on the record.
 
 
 Some of the on the record facts that have trickled out
 from Judy over the years:
 
 1. She learned TM but never became a TM teacher. She
 claims that she never even wanted to become a TM teacher.
 
 2. She never met Maharishi or was in the same room with
 him, although she has said that she tried once, and failed.
 That's the kind of perseverance that really makes for a 
 dedicated spiritual seeker. :-)
 
 3. She has claimed that she took checker training, but
 also that she never used it to actually check anyone's 
 meditation. Presumably she learned it so she could argue
 more effectively on the Internet, not to actually help
 anyone with their meditation. :-)
 
 4. She has never worked for or been close enough to the
 TM organization to make any meaningful comments about it
 and how it works, other than things told to her by TM
 teachers, who would have regarded her as a peon and thus
 given her the same doubletalk they presented to the public.
 
 5. Her entire exposure to Maharishi's teachings, which
 she often presents herself as authoritative about, is
 based on things she heard on audio or videotape, things
 she's read in books, and things told to her by the afore-
 mentioned teachers who regarded her as a mere meditator
 and thus were unlikely to provide her with any real 
 information about what was taught to *them*.
 
 6. According to the little she has posted, her experience
 at TM rounding courses was seriously limited. She has
 admitted to being spaced out and somewhat incapable of
 functioning in the real world during those limited courses,
 so there is no reason to doubt her veracity on this, that
 being a rather common experience on such courses. :-)
 
 7. She has said that she learned the TM Sidhis, but I for
 one don't remember her ever mentioning having performed
 them in a group, other than on the course she learned
 them on. Thus her experiences with group program should
 be regarded as somewhat limited, and not at the same 
 level of experience as those who performed them in a 
 group for many years. 
 
 
   And what I am saying, is that it comes out naturally
   over a period of time.  We knew more about Ann in two
   weeks, than we've known about you in all the time
   you've been here.
  
  That is not a fact, Steve. It's very far from a fact.
  
   I can't help but feel that that speaks to the fact
   that maybe there's not much there to share.  I'm
   sorry about that.
  
  I'm sorry that you've chosen lying as the appropriate
  way to get back at me.
  
  What liars never seem to realize is that lying is an
  admission of defeat, as well as of a lack of
  self-respect.
  
  
  
   
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
   wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@
   wrote:

 Yes - Steve, you can't even notice the contradictions in
 what you write. FFL is a place for discussion, so Judy
 doesn't have to reveal anything about herself - it's like
 you hilariously accused her of - a straw man argument.
   
Not only that, it's not true that I haven't revealed
anything about myself, as I pointed out to him awhile
back when he made the same nitwit accusation.
   
As I told Ann, he doesn't have any legitimate complaints,
so he just makes 'em up. And then calls me dishonest.
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread doctordumbass
Perhaps in an isolated small town, TM can become this way. In a busy urban 
context, there is no way to do this. That is the primary reason I stopped doing 
the TMSP - not practical, at all. I had a family, a household, a full time job, 
and a social life. How was I supposed to get about two hours of meditation in, 
every day? 

Even when I worked for the TMO, rounding was a pain. Sure I had some deep 
experiences, but mostly, it was a chore. 

I mostly went along with the 200 percent idea, and do now, that the practice of 
TM was only as good as my overall life is. Maharishi may have emphasized the 
Bliss during meditation, to stress its effectiveness, but his message was 
definitely for householders, and how to make their busy lives easier to deal 
with, by lowering stress, and improving health.

So, if I was isolated, and had the means to pay my bills, I might get into the 
blissy, addictive nature of TM, though I would bet people living this way are a 
tiny minority of the active TM population. 



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 
 Curtis,  what you say rings true  with my experience.  I don't
 understand the need to excessively qualify everything you say as my
 opinion this, or my opinion that.   I think that is pretty obvious. 
 My buy in was also tremendous.  My take away from the experience is at
 a different point on the  scale than yours, but I don't think you are
 skewing the whole affair by any means.
 
 And furthermore this place is greatly enhanced by your participation.  I
 know you hear this a alot and the reason is, because it's just true.
 
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
 
   Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
   and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
   own POV.
  
 
 
  The reward centers of our brains do not make the value judgements
 about what triggers the endorphins. My point concerns the content free
 reward system itself. And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime I
 saw a lot of people whose lives were a wreck from their fixation on
 meditation. Later after I got out I spent time with families who had
 been torn apart by their kids over-involvement and inability to support
 themselves. So the comparisons with other activities that can
 incapacitate people due to an uncontrollable urge like for rounding
 courses is not without some basis in my experience.
 
  And these levels of exposure was what Maharishi was pushing when I was
 involved. It was what he wanted from his teachers. Most people who start
 TM never get to that level of involvement. But on the other hand most
 people who start TM, stop TM too.
 
 
 
 
 
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
   
 I think addiction is a tricky term to use. It's handy when
 you want to discourage people from trying TM or suggest
 there's something dangerous about it, because the term is
 usually pejorative; but then there's the whole positive
 addiction theory to be considered.
   
I agree that addiction can be overused and misapplied. I
believe in the case of TM it applies, but I get it that you
do not.
  
   I think it can be considered a positive addiction for
   most of those who find it addicting at all.
  
I believe it triggers a similar reward system at the
synaptic level that drugs do. At least that is how I
experience it.
  
   I have no objection to this as long as you make it clear
   it's your experience.
  
That was how it was first pitched in the West, as a
drug-free high.
  
   By the TMO?
  
 Of course, when you cite cocaine addiction as if it were
 similar to addiction to TM, your intention to load
 your argument becomes obvious.
   
We were discussing it in the context of all sorts of things
people can be addicted to including gambling.
  
   Also a negative addiction.
  
   And there
are many valid distinctions to draw between them.
   
But my focus was just on the brain reward system aspect.
With meditation it is so high that it can lead to people
being satisfied just meditating. That was Guru Dev's life
before he hit the Shankaracharya lottery right? And he is
far from the only one. It was how I lived at sidhaland.
We switched the balance there from meditating for activity
to just acting as much as we had to to get back to program.
It was all Maharishi directed and it went on for 3 years
for me. So I am not overstating the case of how absorbed
you can get with these euphoric states of mind.
  
   In a Siddhaland-type context, sure. But you didn't specify
   that to begin with. It sounded as though you were speaking
   generally.
  
Do you think I have an agenda 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Ann

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@...
wrote:


 Ravi,  just let me know if you wish to look at some examples of what
an
 idiot truly is.   I will be more than happy to provide such examples
 from your own public postings here.  Is this something you'd like to
 compare and contrast?

 Just let me know, and I promise I'll keep it on the level.




 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula
 chivukula.ravi@ wrote:
 
  On Mar 9, 2013, at 8:51 PM, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ wrote:
 
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula
chivukula.ravi@
 wrote:
   
   
On Mar 9, 2013, at 8:22 PM, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
 steve.sundur@ wrote:
 
  Judy, I'm afraid you are not making a lot of sense.

 Of course you are!

   
LOL..a very strategy to deal with this idiot.
  
  
   Of course you are!
  
  
  
 
  You lost it, I am what? Hard to believe you are a native speaker.
Now
 I extend this privilege of calling you an idiot for the rest of
 eternity..LOL
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend
 authfriend@
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
-- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend
 authfriend@
  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend
 authfriend@
  wrote:
 
   Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison
with
 cocaine
   and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest
 about your
   own POV.
 
  The reward centers of our brains do not make the
value
  judgements about what triggers the endorphins.

 Duh. Right, you do that.
   
My point is that it happens on another level of the
brain.
You were accusing me of making a comparison between TM
and
drugs and gambling but it was on the wrong brain
 functioning
level. I am talking about an area of the brain where
they
are more similar in effect.
  
   And I'm talking about word choice. But you knew that.
  
  My point concerns the content free reward system
 itself.
  And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime I saw
a
  lot of people whose lives were a wreck from their
 fixation
  on meditation. Later after I got out I spent time
with
  families who had been torn apart by their kids over-
  involvement and inability to support themselves. So
 the
  comparisons with other activities that can
 incapacitate
  people due to an uncontrollable urge like for
rounding
  courses is not without some basis in my experience.

 I didn't say it never happened. Of course it does. But
I
 don't believe--I'd have to be shown hard evidence to
the
 contrary--that it's common among TMers generally.
   
Like I said , what is most common among TMers is that
they
quit TM and I know this for a fact.
  
   Non sequitur, since we're talking about people who
   practice TM.
  
 You said it yourself: you were/are the type of person
 who
 does get addicted, and you chose to spend time in an
 environment that catered to that addiction, with
others
 who were likely to be vulnerable to it as well.
   
I was the type of person who had really charming
 experiences
in meditation. It was the goal of the practice to have
the
experiences I was having.
  
   That must have been one of the secret teachings not
   divulged to the hoi polloi.
  
In my experience the more charming, the more addictive.
But this is content free positive experience divorced
from
achievement. I am calling into question the whole goal
of
the yoga systems including TM.
  
   Well, including TM for those privy to the secret
   teachings, but not including TM for the ordinary TMer,
   who, in my experience, was told most emphatically that
   the value of TM was one's experience in activity, not
   one's experience during meditation.
  
 I think it behooves you to make this very clear when
you
 deliver your POV, especially when you're talking to
 someone
 who is unlikely to be able to figure it out on his or
 her
 own.
   
So you think Emily was confused that I am always
expressing my own POV when I post here? I'll give her
a bit more credit.
  
   Oh, please, Curtis, you don't limit yourself to your own
   POV here, including in this exchange. Just for one
example,
   above you write, It was the goal of the practice to have
   the experiences I 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ 
  wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
   
This is what Curtis said, and Judy challenged:

And this was Maharishi's stated goal, fulfillment divorced from 
achievement.

'nuff said. I'm quite surprised I had to point it out to you.

Also, enlightened people, contrary to a lot of beliefs, don't act like 
pleasant eunuchs. All of them I have met have pretty normal 
personalities. 
   
   Hmmm, I think I know normal when I see it. It tends not to
   stand out.
  
  I think, but I could be wrong, that you are confusing normal with boring.
 
 Yes, you are wrong.

Well, it will hardly be the first time.





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread curtisdeltablues
I really appreciate that Steve, especially because we have both chosen 
different points on the scale in our personal take away.  The fact that this 
partial agreement and appreciation for what I write is followed by a rash of 
taunting is one of the weirder aspects of the joint.   

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 
 Curtis,  what you say rings true  with my experience.  I don't
 understand the need to excessively qualify everything you say as my
 opinion this, or my opinion that.   I think that is pretty obvious. 
 My buy in was also tremendous.  My take away from the experience is at
 a different point on the  scale than yours, but I don't think you are
 skewing the whole affair by any means.
 
 And furthermore this place is greatly enhanced by your participation.  I
 know you hear this a alot and the reason is, because it's just true.
 
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
 
   Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
   and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
   own POV.
  
 
 
  The reward centers of our brains do not make the value judgements
 about what triggers the endorphins. My point concerns the content free
 reward system itself. And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime I
 saw a lot of people whose lives were a wreck from their fixation on
 meditation. Later after I got out I spent time with families who had
 been torn apart by their kids over-involvement and inability to support
 themselves. So the comparisons with other activities that can
 incapacitate people due to an uncontrollable urge like for rounding
 courses is not without some basis in my experience.
 
  And these levels of exposure was what Maharishi was pushing when I was
 involved. It was what he wanted from his teachers. Most people who start
 TM never get to that level of involvement. But on the other hand most
 people who start TM, stop TM too.
 
 
 
 
 
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
   
 I think addiction is a tricky term to use. It's handy when
 you want to discourage people from trying TM or suggest
 there's something dangerous about it, because the term is
 usually pejorative; but then there's the whole positive
 addiction theory to be considered.
   
I agree that addiction can be overused and misapplied. I
believe in the case of TM it applies, but I get it that you
do not.
  
   I think it can be considered a positive addiction for
   most of those who find it addicting at all.
  
I believe it triggers a similar reward system at the
synaptic level that drugs do. At least that is how I
experience it.
  
   I have no objection to this as long as you make it clear
   it's your experience.
  
That was how it was first pitched in the West, as a
drug-free high.
  
   By the TMO?
  
 Of course, when you cite cocaine addiction as if it were
 similar to addiction to TM, your intention to load
 your argument becomes obvious.
   
We were discussing it in the context of all sorts of things
people can be addicted to including gambling.
  
   Also a negative addiction.
  
   And there
are many valid distinctions to draw between them.
   
But my focus was just on the brain reward system aspect.
With meditation it is so high that it can lead to people
being satisfied just meditating. That was Guru Dev's life
before he hit the Shankaracharya lottery right? And he is
far from the only one. It was how I lived at sidhaland.
We switched the balance there from meditating for activity
to just acting as much as we had to to get back to program.
It was all Maharishi directed and it went on for 3 years
for me. So I am not overstating the case of how absorbed
you can get with these euphoric states of mind.
  
   In a Siddhaland-type context, sure. But you didn't specify
   that to begin with. It sounded as though you were speaking
   generally.
  
Do you think I have an agenda to turn people off of
practicing TM? I don't. Emily can figure out for herself
if TM is for her. But here I have a chance to express what
I really think about it outside the PR angle that some
person might get turned off to TM by me being honest about
my POV on meditation.
  
   Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
   and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
   own POV.
  
It is a fascinating area for me and the jury is not in about
any of it.
   
I have come to believe that certain experiences of heightened
states of bliss are not productive.
  
   For you.
  
I am trying to understand how it was so easy for me to
drop out of the sidhis 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... wrote:

 
 On Mar 9, 2013, at 8:21 PM, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ wrote:
   
   Curtis, what you say rings true with my experience.
  
  Of course it does!
  
 
 Indeed - the hard on Steve gets every time he sees Curtis is pretty repulsing 
 - at least to me. No offense to you here, Curtis - just Steve.

I don't really get this Ravi.  You are capable of being friendly with people 
here and giving them a high five if you agree.  Why get so bent when Steve does 
it?  We were both in the same group and shared many of the same experiences so 
it shouldn't surprise you that we often see eye to eye. 

 Mostly he was high fiving me for contributing some sincere writing, sharing my 
perspective and inviting others to do the same.  Did you read Xeno's reply?  
Some interesting stuff came out of it.  I wish you would share more of your 
experiences with spirituality this way.


 I liked the concerns you brought up here - just disagree with your 
conclusions and how you brush off all cults, religion. Glad Judy challenged 
that.

I suspect we have many points of agreement in our views about spiritual groups 
Ravi.  It is a little harder because my experience is mostly localized in a 
group you weren't in. But many groups share a lot of similarities, especially 
in how the followers operate. 






 
 
  
  I don't
   understand the need to excessively qualify everything you say as my
   opinion this, or my opinion that. I think that is pretty obvious. 
   My buy in was also tremendous. My take away from the experience is at
   a different point on the scale than yours, but I don't think you are
   skewing the whole affair by any means.
   
   And furthermore this place is greatly enhanced by your participation. I
   know you hear this a alot and the reason is, because it's just true.
   
   
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
   
 Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
 and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
 own POV.

   
   
The reward centers of our brains do not make the value judgements
   about what triggers the endorphins. My point concerns the content free
   reward system itself. And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime I
   saw a lot of people whose lives were a wreck from their fixation on
   meditation. Later after I got out I spent time with families who had
   been torn apart by their kids over-involvement and inability to support
   themselves. So the comparisons with other activities that can
   incapacitate people due to an uncontrollable urge like for rounding
   courses is not without some basis in my experience.
   
And these levels of exposure was what Maharishi was pushing when I was
   involved. It was what he wanted from his teachers. Most people who start
   TM never get to that level of involvement. But on the other hand most
   people who start TM, stop TM too.
   
   
   
   
   

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 
   I think addiction is a tricky term to use. It's handy when
   you want to discourage people from trying TM or suggest
   there's something dangerous about it, because the term is
   usually pejorative; but then there's the whole positive
   addiction theory to be considered.
 
  I agree that addiction can be overused and misapplied. I
  believe in the case of TM it applies, but I get it that you
  do not.

 I think it can be considered a positive addiction for
 most of those who find it addicting at all.

  I believe it triggers a similar reward system at the
  synaptic level that drugs do. At least that is how I
  experience it.

 I have no objection to this as long as you make it clear
 it's your experience.

  That was how it was first pitched in the West, as a
  drug-free high.

 By the TMO?

   Of course, when you cite cocaine addiction as if it were
   similar to addiction to TM, your intention to load
   your argument becomes obvious.
 
  We were discussing it in the context of all sorts of things
  people can be addicted to including gambling.

 Also a negative addiction.

 And there
  are many valid distinctions to draw between them.
 
  But my focus was just on the brain reward system aspect.
  With meditation it is so high that it can lead to people
  being satisfied just meditating. That was Guru Dev's life
  before he hit the Shankaracharya lottery right? And he is
  far from the only one. It was how I lived at 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

Well, including TM for those privy to the secret
teachings, but not including TM for the ordinary TMer,
who, in my experience, was told most emphatically that
the value of TM was one's experience in activity, not
one's experience during meditation.


You are mixing up two very distinct levels of the teaching here.  One is the 
instruction to meditators not to try to manipulate their practice during the 
practice by preferring any experience over another during the practice, or 
worrying about it afterwards.  But the fact that our practice has experiential 
goals, especially after you have been doing it for a while and in an advanced 
group context is pretty obvious. 

Do you mean you were never on a course where you rated your experiences with A, 
B and C for how clear your transcending was and how much time you spent there?  
Are you unclear that the goals of Maharishi's meditaiton are clear 
transcending, witnessing transcending, witnessing the celestial level, 
realizing that what you are experiencing as outside you is actually the same 
unboundeness as your own Self, having that thread of unity woven into the cloth 
of Brahaman as even those things not directly perceived are enveloped by your 
Self...it goes on.

When you only write from the perspective of how a non meditator or new 
meditator might misunderstand something you are not writing authentically from 
your own experience as I am.  You are filtering it through some PR concern.  If 
we can't let it all hang out here and discuss what we really think about this 
practice here, where could we?

Judy
 Oh, please, Curtis, you don't limit yourself to your own
 POV here, including in this exchange. Just for one example,
 above you write, It was the goal of the practice to have
 the experiences I was having. And you refer to what you're
 questioning as the whole goal of the yoga systems including
 TM. Those are statements made as if of established fact. And
 they may *be* established fact. My point is that you make
 factual statements as well as POV statements, but some of
 your POV statements are indistinguishable from your factual
 statements.

I don't believe your distinction holds up.  Obviously as a trained teacher of 
TM and MIU grad I have confidence in my POV about his teaching.  But I am not 
representing the organization here. (Or anywhere)  So I can believe something I 
am stating is a fact but I would never expect anyone else to just take it on 
face value.  I am quite obviously viewing the system from outside of it in my 
own original way.  That influences everything I say here.  So for someone to 
take what I write as the definitive statement of fact about the teaching would 
be pretty idiotic.

And it was always like this even when Maharishi was alive.  There was no one 
person other than him who held the authority to speak for him without the 
caveat that we were all doing the best we could from whatever the level of 
consciousness we were in.  As soon as you move off the memorized scripts used 
in teaching and checking, you were in the world of not Maharishi.  So your 
complaint about me could be leveled at Bevan every time he opens his mouth 
about the wholeness of life or to receive a whole meat-lover's pizza as a 
reward for lumbering through a very low hanging hoop in the walrus show.






 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:

 Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
 and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
 own POV.

The reward centers of our brains do not make the value
judgements about what triggers the endorphins.
   
   Duh. Right, you do that.
  
  My point is that it happens on another level of the brain.
  You were accusing me of making a comparison between TM and
  drugs and gambling but it was on the wrong brain functioning
  level. I am talking about an area of the brain where they
  are more similar in effect.
 
 And I'm talking about word choice. But you knew that.
 
My point concerns the content free reward system itself.
And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime I saw a
lot of people whose lives were a wreck from their fixation
on meditation.  Later after I got out I spent time with
families who had been torn apart by their kids over-
involvement and inability to support themselves.  So the
comparisons with other activities that can incapacitate
people due to an uncontrollable urge like for rounding
courses is not without some basis in my experience.
   
   I didn't say it never happened. Of course it does. But I
   don't believe--I'd have to be shown hard 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Share Long
I think Steve is very often a reasonable, compassionate and honest voice on 
FFL.  And yet I also enjoy the different kinds of voices here.  A lot of what 
you wrote made me think, Curtis and I appreciate that too.





 From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltabl...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, March 10, 2013 9:48 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get 
no punishment.
 

  
I really appreciate that Steve, especially because we have both chosen 
different points on the scale in our personal take away.  The fact that this 
partial agreement and appreciation for what I write is followed by a rash of 
taunting is one of the weirder aspects of the joint. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 
 Curtis,  what you say rings true  with my experience.  I don't
 understand the need to excessively qualify everything you say as my
 opinion this, or my opinion that.   I think that is pretty obvious. 
 My buy in was also tremendous.  My take away from the experience is at
 a different point on the  scale than yours, but I don't think you are
 skewing the whole affair by any means.
 
 And furthermore this place is greatly enhanced by your participation.  I
 know you hear this a alot and the reason is, because it's just true.
 
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
 
   Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
   and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
   own POV.
  
 
 
  The reward centers of our brains do not make the value judgements
 about what triggers the endorphins. My point concerns the content free
 reward system itself. And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime I
 saw a lot of people whose lives were a wreck from their fixation on
 meditation. Later after I got out I spent time with families who had
 been torn apart by their kids over-involvement and inability to support
 themselves. So the comparisons with other activities that can
 incapacitate people due to an uncontrollable urge like for rounding
 courses is not without some basis in my experience.
 
  And these levels of exposure was what Maharishi was pushing when I was
 involved. It was what he wanted from his teachers. Most people who start
 TM never get to that level of involvement. But on the other hand most
 people who start TM, stop TM too.
 
 
 
 
 
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
   
 I think addiction is a tricky term to use. It's handy when
 you want to discourage people from trying TM or suggest
 there's something dangerous about it, because the term is
 usually pejorative; but then there's the whole positive
 addiction theory to be considered.
   
I agree that addiction can be overused and misapplied. I
believe in the case of TM it applies, but I get it that you
do not.
  
   I think it can be considered a positive addiction for
   most of those who find it addicting at all.
  
I believe it triggers a similar reward system at the
synaptic level that drugs do. At least that is how I
experience it.
  
   I have no objection to this as long as you make it clear
   it's your experience.
  
That was how it was first pitched in the West, as a
drug-free high.
  
   By the TMO?
  
 Of course, when you cite cocaine addiction as if it were
 similar to addiction to TM, your intention to load
 your argument becomes obvious.
   
We were discussing it in the context of all sorts of things
people can be addicted to including gambling.
  
   Also a negative addiction.
  
   And there
are many valid distinctions to draw between them.
   
But my focus was just on the brain reward system aspect.
With meditation it is so high that it can lead to people
being satisfied just meditating. That was Guru Dev's life
before he hit the Shankaracharya lottery right? And he is
far from the only one. It was how I lived at sidhaland.
We switched the balance there from meditating for activity
to just acting as much as we had to to get back to program.
It was all Maharishi directed and it went on for 3 years
for me. So I am not overstating the case of how absorbed
you can get with these euphoric states of mind.
  
   In a Siddhaland-type context, sure. But you didn't specify
   that to begin with. It sounded as though you were speaking
   generally.
  
Do you think I have an agenda to turn people off of
practicing TM? I don't. Emily can figure out for herself
if TM is for her. But here I have a chance to express what
I really think about it outside the PR angle that some
person might get turned off to TM by me being 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 I really appreciate that Steve,

Of course you do!



 especially because we
 have both chosen different points on the scale in our
 personal take away.  The fact that this partial
 agreement and appreciation for what I write is followed
 by a rash of taunting is one of the weirder aspects of
 the joint.




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread doctordumbass
I honestly don't see the problem with strongly expressing myself on a forum 
dedicated to spiritual pursuits. After all, we are not expressing ourselves in 
a vacuum here. I also admit to getting very sarcastic sometimes in my 
responses. So what? Does this somehow make me abnormal, or even unenlightened? 
Does it even have a bearing on such things, or is it more that you just don't 
care for it? 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ 
  wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
   
This is what Curtis said, and Judy challenged:

And this was Maharishi's stated goal, fulfillment divorced from 
achievement.

'nuff said. I'm quite surprised I had to point it out to you.

Also, enlightened people, contrary to a lot of beliefs, don't act like 
pleasant eunuchs. All of them I have met have pretty normal 
personalities. 
   
   Hmmm, I think I know normal when I see it. It tends not to
   stand out.
  
  I think, but I could be wrong, that you are confusing normal with boring.
 
 Yes, you are wrong.





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread doctordumbass
I find it *weird* that Curtis calls out others for the behavior he tolerates in 
his buddy. Such a blind spot. I know this is an old topic, and one that Curtis 
dances away from with his, so, sue me, I'm just Curtis, response. However it 
really trashes his credibility when he tries to get all science-y. 

A person can't claim objective assessment, while clearly stating subjective 
pick and choose realities. I've never seen a blues singer dressed in a lab coat 
before. Seems both a little too convenient, and Halloween is still seven months 
away.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  I really appreciate that Steve,
 
 Of course you do!
 
 
 
  especially because we
  have both chosen different points on the scale in our
  personal take away.  The fact that this partial
  agreement and appreciation for what I write is followed
  by a rash of taunting is one of the weirder aspects of
  the joint.





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread curtisdeltablues
I am concerned with how people communicate with me.  I am not in charge of how 
people communicate with each other.  Your attempt to make me accountable for 
what other people say here will gain no traction with me. 

Your personal attacks on me for posting my perspective on Maharishi's teaching 
are all on you buddy, they reveal who you are.  The only reason I even 
responded to you was that you tried to deny that you had made a personal attack 
on me as a response in a mind-bending display of your lack of self-awareness. 

So unable to say anything cogent about the content of my post, (as Judy did, 
even though I disagree with her opinion about it) and having been called out 
for your trolling personal attack behavior, 

you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,

trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it is my job to scold 
people for interactions that don't involve me.

Did you really think you were gunna make this fly after seeing Robin 
relentlessly try and fail the same thing?

Faux outrage is one of the strangest of the FFL games.

You don't like what I wrote, maybe you don't like me.  OK fine.  You have made 
your POV clear.  But don't even try to run this kind of contrived bullshit on 
me dude.  I was born at night, but it wasn't last night.






--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:

 I find it *weird* that Curtis calls out others for the behavior he tolerates 
 in his buddy. Such a blind spot. I know this is an old topic, and one that 
 Curtis dances away from with his, so, sue me, I'm just Curtis, response. 
 However it really trashes his credibility when he tries to get all science-y. 
 
 A person can't claim objective assessment, while clearly stating subjective 
 pick and choose realities. I've never seen a blues singer dressed in a lab 
 coat before. Seems both a little too convenient, and Halloween is still seven 
 months away.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   I really appreciate that Steve,
  
  Of course you do!
  
  
  
   especially because we
   have both chosen different points on the scale in our
   personal take away.  The fact that this partial
   agreement and appreciation for what I write is followed
   by a rash of taunting is one of the weirder aspects of
   the joint.
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Emily Reyn
In the dirt, my dear, in the dirt.  My car during a similar timeframe in my 
life was a very non-sexy hornet.  Looked a little like this.  Now, a classic, 
like me, I'm sure.  Smile. 











 From: Ann awoelfleba...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, March 10, 2013 6:49 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get 
no punishment.
 

  
Thank you dear Em. I am absolutely positive that you had your share of 
wildness in the woods too. Love the Emily Dickinson.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote:

 Dear Ann:  Here is a poem for you in honor of you mentioning your wild 
 night(s) on the hood of your mustang (a sexy car should be used for such) in 
 the cornfields of Iowa:
 
 Wild Nights - Wild Nights!
 
 Were I with thee
 Wild Nights should be
 Our luxury!
 
 Futile - the Winds - 
 To a Heart in port -
 Done with the Compass - 
 Done with the Chart!
 
 Rowing in Eden - 
 Ah, the Sea!
 Might I but moor - Tonight - 
 in Thee!
 
 ~Emily Dickinson, written in 1861
 
 This poem wasn't published until after her death.  One of her editors 
 expressed trepidation about publishing the poem, due to its unsrestrained 
 tone of rapture and explicit text. - from the Seattle Pro Musica program.
 
 We've come a long way baby!  Smile.  Love, Emily
 



 



[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread doctordumbass
That is what the German people said during the Holocaust, to provide an extreme 
parallel to your response. In other words, when it is solely directed at you, 
you will voice an objection. Otherwise, wow, the world is a crazy place. 

I'd like to think the reason we participate on FFL is to question ourselves, 
vs. confirming our prejudices. What I often see from you is a faux openness, 
something safe, like, how do we really know what is what?. But when it gets 
down to your heart, what you truly feel, it is all turning it on something 
else. As if you are uncertain or ashamed to voice your true feelings. WTF, dude?

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 I am concerned with how people communicate with me.  I am not in charge of 
 how people communicate with each other.  Your attempt to make me accountable 
 for what other people say here will gain no traction with me. 
 
 Your personal attacks on me for posting my perspective on Maharishi's 
 teaching are all on you buddy, they reveal who you are.  The only reason I 
 even responded to you was that you tried to deny that you had made a personal 
 attack on me as a response in a mind-bending display of your lack of 
 self-awareness. 
 
 So unable to say anything cogent about the content of my post, (as Judy did, 
 even though I disagree with her opinion about it) and having been called out 
 for your trolling personal attack behavior, 
 
 you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,
 
 trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it is my job to scold 
 people for interactions that don't involve me.
 
 Did you really think you were gunna make this fly after seeing Robin 
 relentlessly try and fail the same thing?
 
 Faux outrage is one of the strangest of the FFL games.
 
 You don't like what I wrote, maybe you don't like me.  OK fine.  You have 
 made your POV clear.  But don't even try to run this kind of contrived 
 bullshit on me dude.  I was born at night, but it wasn't last night.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  I find it *weird* that Curtis calls out others for the behavior he 
  tolerates in his buddy. Such a blind spot. I know this is an old topic, and 
  one that Curtis dances away from with his, so, sue me, I'm just Curtis, 
  response. However it really trashes his credibility when he tries to get 
  all science-y. 
  
  A person can't claim objective assessment, while clearly stating subjective 
  pick and choose realities. I've never seen a blues singer dressed in a lab 
  coat before. Seems both a little too convenient, and Halloween is still 
  seven months away.
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
I really appreciate that Steve,
   
   Of course you do!
   
   
   
especially because we
have both chosen different points on the scale in our
personal take away.  The fact that this partial
agreement and appreciation for what I write is followed
by a rash of taunting is one of the weirder aspects of
the joint.
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread seventhray27


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@...
wrote:

 Perhaps in an isolated small town, TM can become this way. In a busy
urban context, there is no way to do this. That is the primary reason I
stopped doing the TMSP - not practical, at all. I had a family, a
household, a full time job, and a social life. How was I supposed to get
about two hours of meditation in, every day?

  Thanks Jim. That also relates to my experience.  In fact, I used to do
afternoon program at the center here basically up until the time our
first child was born.  Then all those other factors took over, and it's
pretty much been the outward stroke ever since.

So, for me also, the bliss of meditation has given way to just enjoying
activity more.  Not that the bliss was a given anyway.  And now, yes,
the meditation is mostly for restorative purposes, and very enjoyable in
that regard.


 Even when I worked for the TMO, rounding was a pain. Sure I had some
deep experiences, but mostly, it was a chore.


I think manycan relate to that.  Of course, I was on long rounding
courses, and the changes were always subtle and gradual, and oftentimes
not noticeable until you left.


 I mostly went along with the 200 percent idea, and do now, that the
practice of TM was only as good as my overall life is. Maharishi may
have emphasized the Bliss during meditation, to stress its
effectiveness, but his message was definitely for householders, and how
to make their busy lives easier to deal with, by lowering stress, and
improving health.


True, but I guess we saw some message creep, or brand extension take
place.


 So, if I was isolated, and had the means to pay my bills, I might get
into the blissy, addictive nature of TM, though I would bet people
living this way are a tiny minority of the active TM population.


The thing is, the benefits of the next course or the next project'
were always played up, and sacrafice was allowed.


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
 
  Curtis, what you say rings true with my experience. I don't
  understand the need to excessively qualify everything you say as my
  opinion this, or my opinion that. I think that is pretty obvious.
  My buy in was also tremendous. My take away from the experience is
at
  a different point on the scale than yours, but I don't think you are
  skewing the whole affair by any means.
 
  And furthermore this place is greatly enhanced by your
participation. I
  know you hear this a alot and the reason is, because it's just true.
 
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
wrote:
  
  
Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
own POV.
   
  
  
   The reward centers of our brains do not make the value judgements
  about what triggers the endorphins. My point concerns the content
free
  reward system itself. And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime
I
  saw a lot of people whose lives were a wreck from their fixation on
  meditation. Later after I got out I spent time with families who had
  been torn apart by their kids over-involvement and inability to
support
  themselves. So the comparisons with other activities that can
  incapacitate people due to an uncontrollable urge like for rounding
  courses is not without some basis in my experience.
  
   And these levels of exposure was what Maharishi was pushing when I
was
  involved. It was what he wanted from his teachers. Most people who
start
  TM never get to that level of involvement. But on the other hand
most
  people who start TM, stop TM too.
  
  
  
  
  
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend
authfriend@

  I think addiction is a tricky term to use. It's handy when
  you want to discourage people from trying TM or suggest
  there's something dangerous about it, because the term is
  usually pejorative; but then there's the whole positive
  addiction theory to be considered.

 I agree that addiction can be overused and misapplied. I
 believe in the case of TM it applies, but I get it that you
 do not.
   
I think it can be considered a positive addiction for
most of those who find it addicting at all.
   
 I believe it triggers a similar reward system at the
 synaptic level that drugs do. At least that is how I
 experience it.
   
I have no objection to this as long as you make it clear
it's your experience.
   
 That was how it was first pitched in the West, as a
 drug-free high.
   
By the TMO?
   
  Of course, when you cite cocaine addiction as if it were
  similar to addiction to TM, your intention to load
  your argument becomes obvious.

 We 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
 Well, including TM for those privy to the secret
 teachings, but not including TM for the ordinary TMer,
 who, in my experience, was told most emphatically that
 the value of TM was one's experience in activity, not
 one's experience during meditation.
 
 You are mixing up two very distinct levels of the teaching
 here.  One is the instruction to meditators not to try to 
 manipulate their practice during the practice by preferring
 any experience over another during the practice, or worrying
 about it afterwards.

Oh, that's funny, Curtis. No, I wasn't even thinking
of this.

 But the fact that our practice has experiential goals,
 especially after you have been doing it for a while and
 in an advanced group context is pretty obvious.

Of course the practice has experiential goals. They're
obvious from the start; they're why people take up TM in
the first place:

During the TM technique, the mind settles down effortlessly,
experiencing quieter and quieter levels of thought. From
time to time, the mind transcends—or goes beyond—thought
to the state of pure consciousness. As you continue to
meditate 20 minutes twice a day, the qualities of that
state—serenity, steadiness, harmony—permeate your life.
Research indicates that the practice of the TM technique
increases calmness and decreases stress.

http://www.tm.org/inner-peace

The Transcendental Meditation (TM) technique provides
access to the profound silence of the inner Self that
is deep inside everyone. With regular meditation, the
peacefulness and bliss of that inner experience is
naturally integrated into daily living leading to an
enlightened life with a fully developed heart, mind
and soul.

http://www.tm.org/enlightenment

And of course better health, decreased anxiety, greater
productivity, improved relationships, etc., etc., etc.
All goals that have to do with experience in activity,
not just during meditation.

 Do you mean you were never on a course where you rated
 your experiences with A, B and C for how clear your
 transcending was and how much time you spent there?

Actually, no, I wasn't. Went on lots of courses, too.
(Last WPA I was on was sometime in 1995, so it's been
awhile.)

 Are you unclear that the goals of Maharishi's meditaiton
 are clear transcending, witnessing transcending, witnessing
 the celestial level, realizing that what you are
 experiencing as outside you is actually the same
 unboundeness as your own Self, having that thread of unity
 woven into the cloth of Brahaman as even those things not
 directly perceived are enveloped by your Self...it goes on.

I'm very clear that what *I* was taught was that the
goal of Maharishi's meditation was enlightenment, not
the neat experiences one may have while practicing it
as an end in themselves.

 When you only write from the perspective of how a non
 meditator or new meditator might misunderstand something
 you are not writing authentically from your own
 experience as I am.  You are filtering it through some PR
 concern.

PR concern is weasel wording when we're talking about
apparently factual statements that are potentially
misleading to non- or new meditators.

 If we can't let it all hang out here and discuss what
 we really think about this practice here, where could we?

Curtis, your context-shifting doesn't work on me any
more, hasn't in quite some time. Nobody's objecting to
discussing what we really think about the practice.

 Judy
  Oh, please, Curtis, you don't limit yourself to your own
  POV here, including in this exchange. Just for one example,
  above you write, It was the goal of the practice to have
  the experiences I was having. And you refer to what you're
  questioning as the whole goal of the yoga systems including
  TM. Those are statements made as if of established fact. And
  they may *be* established fact. My point is that you make
  factual statements as well as POV statements, but some of
  your POV statements are indistinguishable from your factual
  statements.
 
 I don't believe your distinction holds up. Obviously as
 a trained teacher of TM and MIU grad I have confidence
 in my POV about his teaching.  But I am not representing
 the organization here. (Or anywhere)  So I can believe
 something I am stating is a fact but I would never expect
 anyone else to just take it on face value.  I am quite
 obviously viewing the system from outside of it in my own
 original way.  That influences everything I say here.  So
 for someone to take what I write as the definitive
 statement of fact about the teaching would be pretty
 idiotic.

This is *such* a weird set of non sequiturs, especially
since you've made a bunch of what are obviously intended
to be definitive statements of fact about the teaching
in this very post. (The main thrust, that having
experiences during meditation is more important than

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2013-03-10 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:
snip
 I mostly went along with the 200 percent idea, and do now,
 that the practice of TM was only as good as my overall
 life is. Maharishi may have emphasized the Bliss during
 meditation, to stress its effectiveness, but his message
 was definitely for householders, and how to make their
 busy lives easier to deal with, by lowering stress, and
 improving health.
 
 So, if I was isolated, and had the means to pay my bills,
 I might get into the blissy, addictive nature of TM,
 though I would bet people living this way are a tiny
 minority of the active TM population.

Exactly, well said. I can't speak for what was taught to
teachers, but for the rank and file, the goal was to
integrate the experience during meditation with one's
daily life. Maharishi didn't write a book called The
Science of Being; it was called The Science of Being
and the Art of Living.




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:
snip
 So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
 my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
 opinion about it) and having been called out for your
 trolling personal attack behavior, 
 
 you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,
 
 trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
 is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
 involve me.

Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:

The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
one of the weirder aspects of the joint.

 Did you really think you were gunna make this fly after
 seeing Robin relentlessly try and fail the same thing?

Robin wasn't the only one to call you out on your hypocrisy.




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 snip
  So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
  my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
  opinion about it) and having been called out for your
  trolling personal attack behavior, 
  
  you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,
  
  trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
  is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
  involve me.
 
 Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
 for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:
 
 The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
 for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
 one of the weirder aspects of the joint.


It involved me because it was jumping on Steve for complimenting ME.  He was 
punishing Steve for saying something nice to me.  And that does affect how 
people feel about responding positively to my posts.  They know that the shit 
storm will descend from the usual suspects.

Nice try little gadfly.  

And I am not saying I will never jump into someone else's interaction if I 
choose to, this is an open message board and we all do that sometimes if it 
interest me.  I am just not buckling to outside pressure to scold certain 
people Jim and you don't like. I am not obligated to do so.  Just as you are 
not and pick and choose our own battles from your own priority perspective.  
This shame angle doesn't work on me. 

 
  Did you really think you were gunna make this fly after
  seeing Robin relentlessly try and fail the same thing?
 
 Robin wasn't the only one to call you out on your hypocrisy.

Right, if I don't scold people you think I should scold, then I am a hypocrite 
and should never scold anyone that I choose to. The I am king baby routine 
isn't gunna work Judy.  All discussions with you end up here don't they?  You 
are boringly predictable. A little hammer looking for a nail.

So you got your name calling buzz on today.  What a contribution.

Hey did you think that comparing me not scolding people Jim doesn't like  here 
on FFL to the German's attitude before the Holocaust was cool?   Did you jump 
on Jim for this idiotic, odious comparison?

No, because just as I do, you pick your battles here,while trying to shame me 
into picking different ones than you do. 

You match Jim in your appalling lack of self awareness as well as a desire to 
unpleasantly attack people whose views differ from your own. If you are worried 
about Emily evaluating TM unfavorably, you might want to think about how you 
two pro TM guys show up here. 












[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
  Well, including TM for those privy to the secret
  teachings, but not including TM for the ordinary TMer,
  who, in my experience, was told most emphatically that
  the value of TM was one's experience in activity, not
  one's experience during meditation.
  
  You are mixing up two very distinct levels of the teaching
  here.  One is the instruction to meditators not to try to 
  manipulate their practice during the practice by preferring
  any experience over another during the practice, or worrying
  about it afterwards.
 
 Oh, that's funny, Curtis. No, I wasn't even thinking
 of this.
 
  But the fact that our practice has experiential goals,
  especially after you have been doing it for a while and
  in an advanced group context is pretty obvious.
 
 Of course the practice has experiential goals. They're
 obvious from the start; they're why people take up TM in
 the first place:
 
 During the TM technique, the mind settles down effortlessly,
 experiencing quieter and quieter levels of thought. From
 time to time, the mind transcends—or goes beyond—thought
 to the state of pure consciousness. As you continue to
 meditate 20 minutes twice a day, the qualities of that
 state—serenity, steadiness, harmony—permeate your life.
 Research indicates that the practice of the TM technique
 increases calmness and decreases stress.
 
 http://www.tm.org/inner-peace
 
 The Transcendental Meditation (TM) technique provides
 access to the profound silence of the inner Self that
 is deep inside everyone. With regular meditation, the
 peacefulness and bliss of that inner experience is
 naturally integrated into daily living leading to an
 enlightened life with a fully developed heart, mind
 and soul.
 
 http://www.tm.org/enlightenment
 
 And of course better health, decreased anxiety, greater
 productivity, improved relationships, etc., etc., etc.
 All goals that have to do with experience in activity,
 not just during meditation.

Once again you have sifted the discussion level inappropriately to the brochure 
level: how how TM is sold to the public. I would say that this tendency has 
plagued our discussions from the very first days of our interaction. I bring up 
a point from the perspective of an insider, and you try to show how it is 
different from what is shown on the brochures.  The goal of Maharishi's 
programs was a state of consciousness.  He sold it to the West in a form he 
thought they could relate to: benefits in activity.  What activity enhancement 
do you think  Tat Walla Baba was expressing sitting in his cave?  It was his 
state of consciousness that Maharishi admired and it was developing this state 
of consciousness in us that was his goal.

 
  Do you mean you were never on a course where you rated
  your experiences with A, B and C for how clear your
  transcending was and how much time you spent there?
 
 Actually, no, I wasn't. Went on lots of courses, too.
 (Last WPA I was on was sometime in 1995, so it's been
 awhile.)

Well then you really don't have the experiential basis to criticize what I 
wrote.  

 
  Are you unclear that the goals of Maharishi's meditaiton
  are clear transcending, witnessing transcending, witnessing
  the celestial level, realizing that what you are
  experiencing as outside you is actually the same
  unboundeness as your own Self, having that thread of unity
  woven into the cloth of Brahaman as even those things not
  directly perceived are enveloped by your Self...it goes on.
 
 I'm very clear that what *I* was taught was that the
 goal of Maharishi's meditation was enlightenment, not
 the neat experiences one may have while practicing it
 as an end in themselves.

Neat experiences is not what I am talking about.  There are many guideposts 
in Maharishi's system to gaining enlightenment and on many courses I attended 
they were minutely analyzed.  Not in contradiction to the higher goal, but as a 
way to understand the path in detail.

 
  When you only write from the perspective of how a no
  meditator or new meditator might misunderstand something
  you are not writing authentically from your own
  experience as I am.  You are filtering it through some PR
  concern.
 
 PR concern is weasel wording when we're talking about
 apparently factual statements that are potentially
 misleading to non- or new meditators.

I believe it is accurate.  You are trying to spin what I wrote in a certain 
way.  You are welcome to do it, but it appears like a PR concern to me.  As 
Emily confirmed, she knows that when I post it is from my POV on Maharishi and 
his teaching. How could it be otherwise?

 
  If we can't let it all hang out here and discuss what
  we really think about this practice here, where could we?
 
 Curtis, your context-shifting 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  snip
   So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
   my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
   opinion about it) and having been called out for your
   trolling personal attack behavior, 
   
   you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,
   
   trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
   is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
   involve me.
  
  Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
  for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:
  
  The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
  for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
  one of the weirder aspects of the joint.
 
 It involved me because it was jumping on Steve for
 complimenting ME.  He was punishing Steve for saying
 something nice to me.

Actually I started it, not because he said something
nice to you, but because he's so stupidly *predictable*.
You and I were having an argument, so he sided with you
against me, as he virtually always does (he'll side with
almost anybody against me). In his very next post he 
said I wasn't making much sense, and I responded the
same way. (He isn't *smart* enough to get what I was
saying.)

Ravi thought that was a cool way to deal with Steve's
empty-headed predictability, so he picked up on it,
and we had fun batting Steve around with it.

 And that does affect how people feel about responding
 positively to my posts.  They know that the shit storm
 will descend from the usual suspects.

Oh, right, what a fierce shit storm that was. BTW, it
didn't bother Steve. I don't know why it would bother
anybody else. Except you, of course. You had to defend
Steve from being teased by Big Bad Judy and Big Bad
Ravi because he had sided with you, and you don't want
to risk losing his approval.

 Nice try little gadfly.  
 
 And I am not saying I will never jump into someone else's
 interaction if I choose to, this is an open message board
 and we all do that sometimes if it interest me.  I am just
 not buckling to outside pressure to scold certain people
 Jim and you don't like.

I don't think anybody was pressing you to do anything,
just observing what you do (or in this case don't do--
unless, of course, you need to defend one of your
allies).

 I am not obligated to do so.  Just as you are not and
 pick and choose our own battles from your own priority 
 perspective.  This shame angle doesn't work on me.

You are immune to any kind of shame, Curtis. You've been
working on that for a long time. Unfortunately it
doesn't stop others from commenting on what they
consider shameful.

   Did you really think you were gunna make this fly after
   seeing Robin relentlessly try and fail the same thing?
  
  Robin wasn't the only one to call you out on your hypocrisy.
 
 Right, if I don't scold people you think I should scold,
 then I am a hypocrite and should never scold anyone that
 I choose to. The I am king baby routine isn't gunna
 work Judy.

King Baby is Bob Price's and Ravi's name for Barry,
not you. I don't know why you're invoking it in this
context, particularly in the first person as if you
were *quoting* Barry.

 All discussions with you end up here don't they?  You are
 boringly predictable. A little hammer looking for a nail.

I didn't bring it up. I just noted your hypocrisy when
you dumped on DrD for mentioning it.

 So you got your name calling buzz on today.  What a
 contribution.
 
 Hey did you think that comparing me not scolding people
 Jim doesn't like  here on FFL to the German's attitude
 before the Holocaust was cool?   Did you jump on Jim for
 this idiotic, odious comparison?

He noted that it was an extreme parallel. If he hadn't,
I would have.

 No, because just as I do, you pick your battles here,
 while trying to shame me into picking different ones
 than you do.

Again, we're just *observing*. It's odd that you see it
in terms of shaming you if you don't feel any shame.

 You match Jim in your appalling lack of self awareness
 as well as a desire to unpleasantly attack people whose
 views differ from your own.

Da-da-da-da-da-da-da...

 If you are worried about Emily evaluating TM unfavorably,
 you might want to think about how you two pro TM guys show
 up here.

The only reason I mentioned Emily is that your post was
in response to her queries. I'm not concerned about how
Emily views me.

Say, you wouldn't be trying to shame *me*, would you?

Of course not. What a silly idea.





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread emilymae.reyn
And, Emily is not concerned about Judy not being concerned about how she views 
her, nor is she concerned about how Judy views her, or anyone else on FFL, for 
that matter.  She's given up on being ashamed of herself, except when she is.

Emily originally posed her question in a brief exchange with Share, predicting 
accurately that Share would back out of the conversation for many good reasons 
that she chose not to be concerned with at all, but hoping that someone on this 
public forum would take pity on her ignorance and weigh in, because she was 
curious and because she is doing some introspection right now on her life and 
how she deals with it.  

Emily was most impressed and interested in the responses and appreciative that 
there were responses.  

Emily doesn't understand many things that cross this forum, like how DST is 
related to digestion, for one.  But, no matter, she paid no attention to it at 
all and was glad to be reminded to change the clocks!

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   snip
So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
opinion about it) and having been called out for your
trolling personal attack behavior, 

you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,

trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
involve me.
   
   Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
   for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:
   
   The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
   for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
   one of the weirder aspects of the joint.
  
  It involved me because it was jumping on Steve for
  complimenting ME.  He was punishing Steve for saying
  something nice to me.
 
 Actually I started it, not because he said something
 nice to you, but because he's so stupidly *predictable*.
 You and I were having an argument, so he sided with you
 against me, as he virtually always does (he'll side with
 almost anybody against me). In his very next post he 
 said I wasn't making much sense, and I responded the
 same way. (He isn't *smart* enough to get what I was
 saying.)
 
 Ravi thought that was a cool way to deal with Steve's
 empty-headed predictability, so he picked up on it,
 and we had fun batting Steve around with it.
 
  And that does affect how people feel about responding
  positively to my posts.  They know that the shit storm
  will descend from the usual suspects.
 
 Oh, right, what a fierce shit storm that was. BTW, it
 didn't bother Steve. I don't know why it would bother
 anybody else. Except you, of course. You had to defend
 Steve from being teased by Big Bad Judy and Big Bad
 Ravi because he had sided with you, and you don't want
 to risk losing his approval.
 
  Nice try little gadfly.  
  
  And I am not saying I will never jump into someone else's
  interaction if I choose to, this is an open message board
  and we all do that sometimes if it interest me.  I am just
  not buckling to outside pressure to scold certain people
  Jim and you don't like.
 
 I don't think anybody was pressing you to do anything,
 just observing what you do (or in this case don't do--
 unless, of course, you need to defend one of your
 allies).
 
  I am not obligated to do so.  Just as you are not and
  pick and choose our own battles from your own priority 
  perspective.  This shame angle doesn't work on me.
 
 You are immune to any kind of shame, Curtis. You've been
 working on that for a long time. Unfortunately it
 doesn't stop others from commenting on what they
 consider shameful.
 
Did you really think you were gunna make this fly after
seeing Robin relentlessly try and fail the same thing?
   
   Robin wasn't the only one to call you out on your hypocrisy.
  
  Right, if I don't scold people you think I should scold,
  then I am a hypocrite and should never scold anyone that
  I choose to. The I am king baby routine isn't gunna
  work Judy.
 
 King Baby is Bob Price's and Ravi's name for Barry,
 not you. I don't know why you're invoking it in this
 context, particularly in the first person as if you
 were *quoting* Barry.
 
  All discussions with you end up here don't they?  You are
  boringly predictable. A little hammer looking for a nail.
 
 I didn't bring it up. I just noted your hypocrisy when
 you dumped on DrD for mentioning it.
 
  So you got your name calling buzz on today.  What a
  contribution.
  
  Hey did you think that comparing me not scolding people
  Jim doesn't like  here on FFL to the German's attitude
  before the Holocaust was cool?   Did you jump on 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Ravi Chivukula
Emily doesn't understand many things that cross this forum, like how DST
is related to digestion, for one. But, no matter, she paid no attention to
it at all and was glad to be reminded to change the clocks!

LOL..love you dear Em :-)

On Sun, Mar 10, 2013 at 2:26 PM, emilymae.reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.comwrote:

 **


 And, Emily is not concerned about Judy not being concerned about how she
 views her, nor is she concerned about how Judy views her, or anyone else on
 FFL, for that matter. She's given up on being ashamed of herself, except
 when she is.

 Emily originally posed her question in a brief exchange with Share,
 predicting accurately that Share would back out of the conversation for
 many good reasons that she chose not to be concerned with at all, but
 hoping that someone on this public forum would take pity on her ignorance
 and weigh in, because she was curious and because she is doing some
 introspection right now on her life and how she deals with it.

 Emily was most impressed and interested in the responses and appreciative
 that there were responses.

 Emily doesn't understand many things that cross this forum, like how DST
 is related to digestion, for one. But, no matter, she paid no attention to
 it at all and was glad to be reminded to change the clocks!


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
snip
 So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
 my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
 opinion about it) and having been called out for your
 trolling personal attack behavior,

 you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,

 trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
 is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
 involve me.
   
Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:
   
The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
one of the weirder aspects of the joint.
  
   It involved me because it was jumping on Steve for
   complimenting ME. He was punishing Steve for saying
   something nice to me.
 
  Actually I started it, not because he said something
  nice to you, but because he's so stupidly *predictable*.
  You and I were having an argument, so he sided with you
  against me, as he virtually always does (he'll side with
  almost anybody against me). In his very next post he
  said I wasn't making much sense, and I responded the
  same way. (He isn't *smart* enough to get what I was
  saying.)
 
  Ravi thought that was a cool way to deal with Steve's
  empty-headed predictability, so he picked up on it,
  and we had fun batting Steve around with it.
 
   And that does affect how people feel about responding
   positively to my posts. They know that the shit storm
   will descend from the usual suspects.
 
  Oh, right, what a fierce shit storm that was. BTW, it
  didn't bother Steve. I don't know why it would bother
  anybody else. Except you, of course. You had to defend
  Steve from being teased by Big Bad Judy and Big Bad
  Ravi because he had sided with you, and you don't want
  to risk losing his approval.
 
   Nice try little gadfly.
  
   And I am not saying I will never jump into someone else's
   interaction if I choose to, this is an open message board
   and we all do that sometimes if it interest me. I am just
   not buckling to outside pressure to scold certain people
   Jim and you don't like.
 
  I don't think anybody was pressing you to do anything,
  just observing what you do (or in this case don't do--
  unless, of course, you need to defend one of your
  allies).
 
   I am not obligated to do so. Just as you are not and
   pick and choose our own battles from your own priority
   perspective. This shame angle doesn't work on me.
 
  You are immune to any kind of shame, Curtis. You've been
  working on that for a long time. Unfortunately it
  doesn't stop others from commenting on what they
  consider shameful.
 
 Did you really think you were gunna make this fly after
 seeing Robin relentlessly try and fail the same thing?
   
Robin wasn't the only one to call you out on your hypocrisy.
  
   Right, if I don't scold people you think I should scold,
   then I am a hypocrite and should never scold anyone that
   I choose to. The I am king baby routine isn't gunna
   work Judy.
 
  King Baby is Bob Price's and Ravi's name for Barry,
  not you. I don't know why you're invoking it in this
  context, particularly in the first person as if you
  were *quoting* Barry.
 
   All discussions with you end up here don't they? You are
   boringly 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread seventhray27

Thank you Share.  It's always nice when we observe basic courtesies.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@...
wrote:

 I think Steve is very often a reasonable, compassionate and honest
voice on FFL.  And yet I also enjoy the different kinds of voices
here.  A lot of what you wrote made me think, Curtis and I
appreciate that too.




 
 From: curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Sent: Sunday, March 10, 2013 9:48 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign
kids get no punishment.


 Â
 I really appreciate that Steve, especially because we have both chosen
different points on the scale in our personal take away. The fact that
this partial agreement and appreciation for what I write is followed by
a rash of taunting is one of the weirder aspects of the joint.

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
 
  Curtis, what you say rings true with my experience. I don't
  understand the need to excessively qualify everything you say as my
  opinion this, or my opinion that. I think that is pretty obvious.
  My buy in was also tremendous. My take away from the experience is
at
  a different point on the scale than yours, but I don't think you are
  skewing the whole affair by any means.
 
  And furthermore this place is greatly enhanced by your
participation. I
  know you hear this a alot and the reason is, because it's just true.
 
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
wrote:
  
  
Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
own POV.
   
  
  
   The reward centers of our brains do not make the value judgements
  about what triggers the endorphins. My point concerns the content
free
  reward system itself. And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime
I
  saw a lot of people whose lives were a wreck from their fixation on
  meditation. Later after I got out I spent time with families who had
  been torn apart by their kids over-involvement and inability to
support
  themselves. So the comparisons with other activities that can
  incapacitate people due to an uncontrollable urge like for rounding
  courses is not without some basis in my experience.
  
   And these levels of exposure was what Maharishi was pushing when I
was
  involved. It was what he wanted from his teachers. Most people who
start
  TM never get to that level of involvement. But on the other hand
most
  people who start TM, stop TM too.
  
  
  
  
  
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend
authfriend@

  I think addiction is a tricky term to use. It's handy when
  you want to discourage people from trying TM or suggest
  there's something dangerous about it, because the term is
  usually pejorative; but then there's the whole positive
  addiction theory to be considered.

 I agree that addiction can be overused and misapplied. I
 believe in the case of TM it applies, but I get it that you
 do not.
   
I think it can be considered a positive addiction for
most of those who find it addicting at all.
   
 I believe it triggers a similar reward system at the
 synaptic level that drugs do. At least that is how I
 experience it.
   
I have no objection to this as long as you make it clear
it's your experience.
   
 That was how it was first pitched in the West, as a
 drug-free high.
   
By the TMO?
   
  Of course, when you cite cocaine addiction as if it were
  similar to addiction to TM, your intention to load
  your argument becomes obvious.

 We were discussing it in the context of all sorts of things
 people can be addicted to including gambling.
   
Also a negative addiction.
   
And there
 are many valid distinctions to draw between them.

 But my focus was just on the brain reward system aspect.
 With meditation it is so high that it can lead to people
 being satisfied just meditating. That was Guru Dev's life
 before he hit the Shankaracharya lottery right? And he is
 far from the only one. It was how I lived at sidhaland.
 We switched the balance there from meditating for activity
 to just acting as much as we had to to get back to program.
 It was all Maharishi directed and it went on for 3 years
 for me. So I am not overstating the case of how absorbed
 you can get with these euphoric states of mind.
   
In a Siddhaland-type context, sure. But you didn't specify
that to begin with. It sounded as though you were speaking
generally.
   
 Do you think I have an agenda to turn people off of
 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Ravi Chivukula
You are right, I don't say this often enough but I love you dear Curtis. My 
mind is fantasizing on a woman - she seems to have all the qualities I would 
want my partner to. I can't screw this by getting too playful and blissy - you 
hear me?


On Mar 10, 2013, at 7:56 AM, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltabl...@yahoo.com 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... 
 wrote:
 
  
  On Mar 9, 2013, at 8:21 PM, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ 
   wrote:

Curtis, what you say rings true with my experience.
   
   Of course it does!
   
  
  Indeed - the hard on Steve gets every time he sees Curtis is pretty 
  repulsing - at least to me. No offense to you here, Curtis - just Steve.
 
 I don't really get this Ravi. You are capable of being friendly with people 
 here and giving them a high five if you agree. Why get so bent when Steve 
 does it? We were both in the same group and shared many of the same 
 experiences so it shouldn't surprise you that we often see eye to eye. 
 
 Mostly he was high fiving me for contributing some sincere writing, sharing 
 my perspective and inviting others to do the same. Did you read Xeno's reply? 
 Some interesting stuff came out of it. I wish you would share more of your 
 experiences with spirituality this way.
 
 I liked the concerns you brought up here - just disagree with your 
 conclusions and how you brush off all cults, religion. Glad Judy challenged 
 that.
 
 I suspect we have many points of agreement in our views about spiritual 
 groups Ravi. It is a little harder because my experience is mostly localized 
 in a group you weren't in. But many groups share a lot of similarities, 
 especially in how the followers operate. 
 
  
  
   
   I don't
understand the need to excessively qualify everything you say as my
opinion this, or my opinion that. I think that is pretty obvious. 
My buy in was also tremendous. My take away from the experience is at
a different point on the scale than yours, but I don't think you are
skewing the whole affair by any means.

And furthermore this place is greatly enhanced by your participation. I
know you hear this a alot and the reason is, because it's just true.




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:


  Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
  and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
  own POV.
 


 The reward centers of our brains do not make the value judgements
about what triggers the endorphins. My point concerns the content free
reward system itself. And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime I
saw a lot of people whose lives were a wreck from their fixation on
meditation. Later after I got out I spent time with families who had
been torn apart by their kids over-involvement and inability to support
themselves. So the comparisons with other activities that can
incapacitate people due to an uncontrollable urge like for rounding
courses is not without some basis in my experience.

 And these levels of exposure was what Maharishi was pushing when I was
involved. It was what he wanted from his teachers. Most people who start
TM never get to that level of involvement. But on the other hand most
people who start TM, stop TM too.





 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
  
I think addiction is a tricky term to use. It's handy when
you want to discourage people from trying TM or suggest
there's something dangerous about it, because the term is
usually pejorative; but then there's the whole positive
addiction theory to be considered.
  
   I agree that addiction can be overused and misapplied. I
   believe in the case of TM it applies, but I get it that you
   do not.
 
  I think it can be considered a positive addiction for
  most of those who find it addicting at all.
 
   I believe it triggers a similar reward system at the
   synaptic level that drugs do. At least that is how I
   experience it.
 
  I have no objection to this as long as you make it clear
  it's your experience.
 
   That was how it was first pitched in the West, as a
   drug-free high.
 
  By the TMO?
 
Of course, when you cite cocaine addiction as if it were
similar to addiction to TM, your intention to load
your argument becomes obvious.
  
   We were discussing it in the context of all sorts of things
   people can be addicted to including 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Ravi Chivukula
http://youtu.be/eCmrrO3do5k

On Mar 10, 2013, at 3:30 PM, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com wrote:

 You are right, I don't say this often enough but I love you dear Curtis. My 
 mind is fantasizing on a woman - she seems to have all the qualities I would 
 want my partner to. I can't screw this by getting too playful and blissy - 
 you hear me?
 
 
 On Mar 10, 2013, at 7:56 AM, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltabl...@yahoo.com 
 wrote:
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... 
 wrote:
 
  
  On Mar 9, 2013, at 8:21 PM, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ 
   wrote:

Curtis, what you say rings true with my experience.
   
   Of course it does!
   
  
  Indeed - the hard on Steve gets every time he sees Curtis is pretty 
  repulsing - at least to me. No offense to you here, Curtis - just Steve.
 
 I don't really get this Ravi. You are capable of being friendly with people 
 here and giving them a high five if you agree. Why get so bent when Steve 
 does it? We were both in the same group and shared many of the same 
 experiences so it shouldn't surprise you that we often see eye to eye. 
 
 Mostly he was high fiving me for contributing some sincere writing, sharing 
 my perspective and inviting others to do the same. Did you read Xeno's 
 reply? Some interesting stuff came out of it. I wish you would share more of 
 your experiences with spirituality this way.
 
 I liked the concerns you brought up here - just disagree with your 
 conclusions and how you brush off all cults, religion. Glad Judy challenged 
 that.
 
 I suspect we have many points of agreement in our views about spiritual 
 groups Ravi. It is a little harder because my experience is mostly localized 
 in a group you weren't in. But many groups share a lot of similarities, 
 especially in how the followers operate. 
 
  
  
   
   I don't
understand the need to excessively qualify everything you say as my
opinion this, or my opinion that. I think that is pretty obvious. 
My buy in was also tremendous. My take away from the experience is at
a different point on the scale than yours, but I don't think you are
skewing the whole affair by any means.

And furthermore this place is greatly enhanced by your participation. I
know you hear this a alot and the reason is, because it's just true.




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:


  Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
  and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
  own POV.
 


 The reward centers of our brains do not make the value judgements
about what triggers the endorphins. My point concerns the content free
reward system itself. And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime I
saw a lot of people whose lives were a wreck from their fixation on
meditation. Later after I got out I spent time with families who had
been torn apart by their kids over-involvement and inability to support
themselves. So the comparisons with other activities that can
incapacitate people due to an uncontrollable urge like for rounding
courses is not without some basis in my experience.

 And these levels of exposure was what Maharishi was pushing when I 
 was
involved. It was what he wanted from his teachers. Most people who 
start
TM never get to that level of involvement. But on the other hand most
people who start TM, stop TM too.





 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
  
I think addiction is a tricky term to use. It's handy when
you want to discourage people from trying TM or suggest
there's something dangerous about it, because the term is
usually pejorative; but then there's the whole positive
addiction theory to be considered.
  
   I agree that addiction can be overused and misapplied. I
   believe in the case of TM it applies, but I get it that you
   do not.
 
  I think it can be considered a positive addiction for
  most of those who find it addicting at all.
 
   I believe it triggers a similar reward system at the
   synaptic level that drugs do. At least that is how I
   experience it.
 
  I have no objection to this as long as you make it clear
  it's your experience.
 
   That was how it was first pitched in the West, as a
   drug-free high.
 
  By the TMO?
 
Of course, when you cite cocaine addiction as if it were
similar to addiction to TM, your intention to load
your argument becomes 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Emily Reyn
God, Ravi, you crack me up.  I needed a good laugh.   Yes, remember to observe 
basic courtesies and don't show her FFL. :)




 From: Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, March 10, 2013 3:40 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids 
get no punishment.
 

  
http://youtu.be/eCmrrO3do5k


On Mar 10, 2013, at 3:30 PM, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com wrote:


You are right, I don't say this often enough but I love you dear Curtis. My 
mind is fantasizing on a woman - she seems to have all the qualities I would 
want my partner to. I can't screw this by getting too playful and blissy - you 
hear me?



On Mar 10, 2013, at 7:56 AM, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltabl...@yahoo.com 
wrote:


  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... 
wrote:

 
 On Mar 9, 2013, at 8:21 PM, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ 
  wrote:
   
   Curtis, what you say rings true with my experience.
  
  Of course it does!
  
 
 Indeed - the hard on Steve gets every time he sees Curtis is pretty 
 repulsing - at least to me. No offense to you here, Curtis - just Steve.

I don't really get this Ravi.  You are capable of being friendly with people 
here and giving them a high five if you agree.  Why get so bent when Steve 
does it?  We were both in the same group and shared many of the same 
experiences so it shouldn't surprise you that we often see eye to eye. 

Mostly he was high fiving me for contributing some sincere writing, sharing 
my perspective and inviting others to do the same.  Did you read Xeno's 
reply?  Some interesting stuff came out of it.  I wish you would share more 
of your experiences with spirituality this way.

I liked the concerns you brought up here - just disagree with your 
conclusions and how you brush off all cults, religion. Glad Judy challenged 
that.

I suspect we have many points of agreement in our views about spiritual 
groups Ravi.  It is a little harder because my experience is mostly 
localized in a group you weren't in. But many groups share a lot of 
similarities, especially in how the followers operate. 

 
 
  
  I don't
   understand the need to excessively qualify everything you say as my
   opinion this, or my opinion that. I think that is pretty obvious. 
   My buy in was also tremendous. My take away from the experience is at
   a different point on the scale than yours, but I don't think you are
   skewing the whole affair by any means.
   
   And furthermore this place is greatly enhanced by your participation. I
   know you hear this a alot and the reason is, because it's just true.
   
   
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
   
 Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
 and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
 own POV.

   
   
The reward centers of our brains do not make the value judgements
   about what triggers the endorphins. My point concerns the content free
   reward system itself. And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime I
   saw a lot of people whose lives were a wreck from their fixation on
   meditation. Later after I got out I spent time with families who had
   been torn apart by their kids over-involvement and inability to support
   themselves. So the comparisons with other activities that can
   incapacitate people due to an uncontrollable urge like for rounding
   courses is not without some basis in my experience.
   
And these levels of exposure was what Maharishi was pushing when I 
was
   involved. It was what he wanted from his teachers. Most people who 
   start
   TM never get to that level of involvement. But on the other hand most
   people who start TM, stop TM too.
   
   
   
   
   

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 
   I think addiction is a tricky term to use. It's handy when
   you want to discourage people from trying TM or suggest
   there's something dangerous about it, because the term is
   usually pejorative; but then there's the whole positive
   addiction theory to be considered.
 
  I agree that addiction can be overused and misapplied. I
  believe in the case of TM it applies, but I get it that you
  do not.

 I think it can be considered a positive addiction for
 most of those who find it addicting at all.

  I believe it triggers a similar reward system at the
  synaptic level that drugs do. At least that is how I
  experience it.

 I have no objection to this as long as you 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread seventhray27

I guess you do have to look a little at the life of two of my biggest
critics.

Ravi's life, which is pretty well documented, and Judy's life, or lack
of a life.  Or at least a life no one knows anything about even after 20
years of posting.  Or, I suppose this is her life.  That's about the
only conclusion that can be drawn.

Which is mostly just a counterpoint to everything Barry writes, and
Curtis and anyone else who takes a stance she finds objectionable.

Which of course is fine, except so much of it falls short of anything
that makes much sense.

I'd make a $500.00 bet that if a trained psychologist examined her
interactions, just within the last few days, that they would arrive at a
similiar conclusion, or they would at least find someone who is
incapable of discussing things honestly, and who also resorts to evasive
tactics, and straw man arguments all in a effort to feel that she has
won an argument.

Any takers?

   The fruits of a 30 plus years of dipping into pure concioussness, sat
chit ananda.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@...
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   snip
So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
opinion about it) and having been called out for your
trolling personal attack behavior,
   
you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,
   
trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
involve me.
  
   Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
   for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:
  
   The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
   for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
   one of the weirder aspects of the joint.
 
  It involved me because it was jumping on Steve for
  complimenting ME. He was punishing Steve for saying
  something nice to me.

 Actually I started it, not because he said something
 nice to you, but because he's so stupidly *predictable*.
 You and I were having an argument, so he sided with you
 against me, as he virtually always does (he'll side with
 almost anybody against me). In his very next post he
 said I wasn't making much sense, and I responded the
 same way. (He isn't *smart* enough to get what I was
 saying.)

 Ravi thought that was a cool way to deal with Steve's
 empty-headed predictability, so he picked up on it,
 and we had fun batting Steve around with it.

  And that does affect how people feel about responding
  positively to my posts. They know that the shit storm
  will descend from the usual suspects.

 Oh, right, what a fierce shit storm that was. BTW, it
 didn't bother Steve. I don't know why it would bother
 anybody else. Except you, of course. You had to defend
 Steve from being teased by Big Bad Judy and Big Bad
 Ravi because he had sided with you, and you don't want
 to risk losing his approval.

  Nice try little gadfly.
 
  And I am not saying I will never jump into someone else's
  interaction if I choose to, this is an open message board
  and we all do that sometimes if it interest me. I am just
  not buckling to outside pressure to scold certain people
  Jim and you don't like.

 I don't think anybody was pressing you to do anything,
 just observing what you do (or in this case don't do--
 unless, of course, you need to defend one of your
 allies).

  I am not obligated to do so. Just as you are not and
  pick and choose our own battles from your own priority
  perspective. This shame angle doesn't work on me.

 You are immune to any kind of shame, Curtis. You've been
 working on that for a long time. Unfortunately it
 doesn't stop others from commenting on what they
 consider shameful.

Did you really think you were gunna make this fly after
seeing Robin relentlessly try and fail the same thing?
  
   Robin wasn't the only one to call you out on your hypocrisy.
 
  Right, if I don't scold people you think I should scold,
  then I am a hypocrite and should never scold anyone that
  I choose to. The I am king baby routine isn't gunna
  work Judy.

 King Baby is Bob Price's and Ravi's name for Barry,
 not you. I don't know why you're invoking it in this
 context, particularly in the first person as if you
 were *quoting* Barry.

  All discussions with you end up here don't they? You are
  boringly predictable. A little hammer looking for a nail.

 I didn't bring it up. I just noted your hypocrisy when
 you dumped on DrD for mentioning it.

  So you got your name calling buzz on today. What a
  contribution.
 
  Hey did you think that comparing me not scolding people
  Jim doesn't like here on FFL to the German's attitude
  before the Holocaust was cool? Did you jump 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Ravi Chivukula
Thank you dear Em, yes courtesies, protocol - yeah you can do this Ravi, you 
can totally do this, yeah keep her away from ever google searching your name 
and away from FFL - whew.

Anyway translation of the main line of the song - Will love, will get hurt, 
but will never tired of the habit (of loving)


On Mar 10, 2013, at 3:54 PM, Emily Reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.com wrote:

 God, Ravi, you crack me up.  I needed a good laugh.   Yes, remember to 
 observe basic courtesies and don't show her FFL. :)
 
 From: Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Sunday, March 10, 2013 3:40 PM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign 
 kids get no punishment.
 
  
 http://youtu.be/eCmrrO3do5k
 
 On Mar 10, 2013, at 3:30 PM, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com wrote:
 
 You are right, I don't say this often enough but I love you dear Curtis. My 
 mind is fantasizing on a woman - she seems to have all the qualities I would 
 want my partner to. I can't screw this by getting too playful and blissy - 
 you hear me?
 
 
 On Mar 10, 2013, at 7:56 AM, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltabl...@yahoo.com 
 wrote:
 
  
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... 
 wrote:
 
  
  On Mar 9, 2013, at 8:21 PM, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ 
   wrote:

Curtis, what you say rings true with my experience.
   
   Of course it does!
   
  
  Indeed - the hard on Steve gets every time he sees Curtis is pretty 
  repulsing - at least to me. No offense to you here, Curtis - just Steve.
 
 I don't really get this Ravi. You are capable of being friendly with people 
 here and giving them a high five if you agree. Why get so bent when Steve 
 does it? We were both in the same group and shared many of the same 
 experiences so it shouldn't surprise you that we often see eye to eye. 
 
 Mostly he was high fiving me for contributing some sincere writing, sharing 
 my perspective and inviting others to do the same. Did you read Xeno's 
 reply? Some interesting stuff came out of it. I wish you would share more 
 of your experiences with spirituality this way.
 
 I liked the concerns you brought up here - just disagree with your 
 conclusions and how you brush off all cults, religion. Glad Judy challenged 
 that.
 
 I suspect we have many points of agreement in our views about spiritual 
 groups Ravi. It is a little harder because my experience is mostly 
 localized in a group you weren't in. But many groups share a lot of 
 similarities, especially in how the followers operate. 
 
  
  
   
   I don't
understand the need to excessively qualify everything you say as my
opinion this, or my opinion that. I think that is pretty obvious. 
My buy in was also tremendous. My take away from the experience is 
at
a different point on the scale than yours, but I don't think you are
skewing the whole affair by any means.

And furthermore this place is greatly enhanced by your participation. 
I
know you hear this a alot and the reason is, because it's just true.




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ 
 wrote:


  Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
  and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
  own POV.
 


 The reward centers of our brains do not make the value judgements
about what triggers the endorphins. My point concerns the content free
reward system itself. And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime I
saw a lot of people whose lives were a wreck from their fixation on
meditation. Later after I got out I spent time with families who had
been torn apart by their kids over-involvement and inability to 
support
themselves. So the comparisons with other activities that can
incapacitate people due to an uncontrollable urge like for rounding
courses is not without some basis in my experience.

 And these levels of exposure was what Maharishi was pushing when I 
 was
involved. It was what he wanted from his teachers. Most people who 
start
TM never get to that level of involvement. But on the other hand most
people who start TM, stop TM too.





 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
  
I think addiction is a tricky term to use. It's handy when
you want to discourage people from trying TM or suggest
there's something dangerous about it, because the term is
usually pejorative; but then there's the whole positive
addiction theory to be 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
   Well, including TM for those privy to the secret
   teachings, but not including TM for the ordinary TMer,
   who, in my experience, was told most emphatically that
   the value of TM was one's experience in activity, not
   one's experience during meditation.
   
   You are mixing up two very distinct levels of the teaching
   here.  One is the instruction to meditators not to try to 
   manipulate their practice during the practice by preferring
   any experience over another during the practice, or worrying
   about it afterwards.
  
  Oh, that's funny, Curtis. No, I wasn't even thinking
  of this.
  
   But the fact that our practice has experiential goals,
   especially after you have been doing it for a while and
   in an advanced group context is pretty obvious.
  
  Of course the practice has experiential goals. They're
  obvious from the start; they're why people take up TM in
  the first place:
  
  During the TM technique, the mind settles down effortlessly,
  experiencing quieter and quieter levels of thought. From
  time to time, the mind transcends—or goes beyond—thought
  to the state of pure consciousness. As you continue to
  meditate 20 minutes twice a day, the qualities of that
  state—serenity, steadiness, harmony—permeate your life.
  Research indicates that the practice of the TM technique
  increases calmness and decreases stress.
  
  http://www.tm.org/inner-peace
  
  The Transcendental Meditation (TM) technique provides
  access to the profound silence of the inner Self that
  is deep inside everyone. With regular meditation, the
  peacefulness and bliss of that inner experience is
  naturally integrated into daily living leading to an
  enlightened life with a fully developed heart, mind
  and soul.
  
  http://www.tm.org/enlightenment
  
  And of course better health, decreased anxiety, greater
  productivity, improved relationships, etc., etc., etc.
  All goals that have to do with experience in activity,
  not just during meditation.
 
 Once again you have sifted the discussion level
 inappropriately to the brochure level: how how TM is
 sold to the public. I would say that this tendency
 has plagued our discussions from the very first days
 of our interaction. I bring up a point from the
 perspective of an insider, and you try to show how it
 is different from what is shown on the brochures.

Oh, jeez, Curtis. One of your biggest problems is that it
doesn't occur to you that you're going to be called on it
when you try to distort a discussion and shift the context
to one you're more comfortable dealing with.

When you cite insider teachings as if they're what
everyone who learns TM is taught, as you did in this case,
you're durn tootin' I'm going to point out what you're
doing, especially if you're addressing your remarks to a
non-TMer.

What I quoted from the Web site about the goals of TM is
what I was *always* taught, not just at the beginning.

 The goal of Maharishi's programs was a state of
 consciousness.  He sold it to the West in a form he
 thought they could relate to: benefits in activity.
 What activity enhancement do you think  Tat Walla Baba
 was expressing sitting in his cave?  It was his state
 of consciousness that Maharishi admired and it was
 developing this state of consciousness in us that was
 his goal.

As I've said a couple of times now, that may have been
what he secretly taught to insiders, but for rank-and-
file non-teacher TMers (as you know), the goal was to
develop this state of consciousness and live our active
householder lives in it--not go sit in a cave.

   Do you mean you were never on a course where you rated
   your experiences with A, B and C for how clear your
   transcending was and how much time you spent there?
  
  Actually, no, I wasn't. Went on lots of courses, too.
  (Last WPA I was on was sometime in 1995, so it's been
  awhile.)
 
 Well then you really don't have the experiential basis
 to criticize what I wrote.

Complete non sequitur. I didn't criticize what you said
about what your experience was. More attempted context-
shifting.

   Are you unclear that the goals of Maharishi's meditaiton
   are clear transcending, witnessing transcending, witnessing
   the celestial level, realizing that what you are
   experiencing as outside you is actually the same
   unboundeness as your own Self, having that thread of unity
   woven into the cloth of Brahaman as even those things not
   directly perceived are enveloped by your Self...it goes on.
  
  I'm very clear that what *I* was taught was that the
  goal of Maharishi's meditation was enlightenment, not
  the neat experiences one may have while practicing it
  as 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote:

 And, Emily is not concerned about Judy not being concerned about how she 
 views her, nor is she concerned about how Judy views her, or anyone else on 
 FFL, for that matter.  She's given up on being ashamed of herself, except 
 when she is.
 
 Emily originally posed her question in a brief exchange with Share, 
 predicting accurately that Share would back out of the conversation for many 
 good reasons that she chose not to be concerned with at all, but hoping that 
 someone on this public forum would take pity on her ignorance and weigh in, 
 because she was curious and because she is doing some introspection right now 
 on her life and how she deals with it.  
 
 Emily was most impressed and interested in the responses and appreciative 
 that there were responses.  
 
 Emily doesn't understand many things that cross this forum, like how DST is 
 related to digestion, for one.  But, no matter, she paid no attention to it 
 at all and was glad to be reminded to change the clocks!

Good move there Emily (on not paying attention, that is). DST is a bonus for me 
and the cause of indigestion, obesity and heart attacks in others. An amazing 
world we live in when a mere change of the clocks by one hour means misery for 
some and for me it means:

Not having to rush home from work every day early in order to pick my paddocks, 
feed and hay the horses because there is no light.

Being able to choose if I want to ride in the morning or the evening depending 
upon weather and circumstances, and being able to do so in the light whether I 
choose the am or the pm.

Enjoying the evenings outside where there is natural light.

Finding my electric bill about one third less each month.

You get the idea. In other words, I LOVE daylight saving and wish they didn't 
'fall back' in the autumn.


 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
snip
 So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
 my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
 opinion about it) and having been called out for your
 trolling personal attack behavior, 
 
 you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,
 
 trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
 is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
 involve me.

Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:

The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
one of the weirder aspects of the joint.
   
   It involved me because it was jumping on Steve for
   complimenting ME.  He was punishing Steve for saying
   something nice to me.
  
  Actually I started it, not because he said something
  nice to you, but because he's so stupidly *predictable*.
  You and I were having an argument, so he sided with you
  against me, as he virtually always does (he'll side with
  almost anybody against me). In his very next post he 
  said I wasn't making much sense, and I responded the
  same way. (He isn't *smart* enough to get what I was
  saying.)
  
  Ravi thought that was a cool way to deal with Steve's
  empty-headed predictability, so he picked up on it,
  and we had fun batting Steve around with it.
  
   And that does affect how people feel about responding
   positively to my posts.  They know that the shit storm
   will descend from the usual suspects.
  
  Oh, right, what a fierce shit storm that was. BTW, it
  didn't bother Steve. I don't know why it would bother
  anybody else. Except you, of course. You had to defend
  Steve from being teased by Big Bad Judy and Big Bad
  Ravi because he had sided with you, and you don't want
  to risk losing his approval.
  
   Nice try little gadfly.  
   
   And I am not saying I will never jump into someone else's
   interaction if I choose to, this is an open message board
   and we all do that sometimes if it interest me.  I am just
   not buckling to outside pressure to scold certain people
   Jim and you don't like.
  
  I don't think anybody was pressing you to do anything,
  just observing what you do (or in this case don't do--
  unless, of course, you need to defend one of your
  allies).
  
   I am not obligated to do so.  Just as you are not and
   pick and choose our own battles from your own priority 
   perspective.  This shame angle doesn't work on me.
  
  You are immune to any kind of shame, Curtis. You've been
  working on that for a long time. Unfortunately it
  doesn't stop others from commenting on what they
  consider shameful.
  
 Did you really think you 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 
 I guess you do have to look a little at the life of two of my biggest
 critics.
 
 Ravi's life, which is pretty well documented, and Judy's life, or lack
 of a life.  Or at least a life no one knows anything about even after 20
 years of posting.  Or, I suppose this is her life.  That's about the
 only conclusion that can be drawn.
 
 Which is mostly just a counterpoint to everything Barry writes, and
 Curtis and anyone else who takes a stance she finds objectionable.
 
 Which of course is fine, except so much of it falls short of anything
 that makes much sense.
 
 I'd make a $500.00 bet that if a trained psychologist examined her
 interactions, just within the last few days, that they would arrive at a
 similiar conclusion, or they would at least find someone who is
 incapable of discussing things honestly, and who also resorts to evasive
 tactics, and straw man arguments all in a effort to feel that she has
 won an argument.
 
 Any takers?

No 'taker' here but I will give something.

I actually take umbrage at your assertion about Judy's honesty. I personally 
don't think she has a dishonest molecule in her body. In fact, I would go so 
far as to says she can't help but tell the truth, as she sees it and at the 
risk of seriously pissing everyone off. I do not believe Judy is about 
distracting her reader from what is the closest to the truth of a thing, as she 
sees it from her level. 

She is inexhaustible in her research and in the pursuit of 'getting it right'; 
she obviously has a mind that ranks right up there, as far as lucid, raw 
intelligence goes, as high as anybody who has ever posted here. (I know who is 
rolling their eyes right now, so don't think I don't.) 

Her style, her fighting instinct, her doggedness does not endear her to 
everyone. Fair enough. You don't have to like someone to appreciate their 
innate insistence on accuracy, on this kind of purity of defining things. She 
is, to me, very like a human barometer or other finely-tuned instrument that 
can't go against this nature of hers to give one an accurate reading. She can 
admit when she is wrong. She isn't easy at times, in fact she can be bloody 
ruthless. But I love that, in its proper time, in its proper context. The thing 
is, I don't believe Judy writes/asserts anything she does not truly believe - 
even at the risk of being wrong. If that is not honesty, then I don't know what 
is.
 
The fruits of a 30 plus years of dipping into pure concioussness, sat
 chit ananda.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
snip
 So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
 my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
 opinion about it) and having been called out for your
 trolling personal attack behavior,

 you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,

 trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
 is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
 involve me.
   
Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:
   
The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
one of the weirder aspects of the joint.
  
   It involved me because it was jumping on Steve for
   complimenting ME. He was punishing Steve for saying
   something nice to me.
 
  Actually I started it, not because he said something
  nice to you, but because he's so stupidly *predictable*.
  You and I were having an argument, so he sided with you
  against me, as he virtually always does (he'll side with
  almost anybody against me). In his very next post he
  said I wasn't making much sense, and I responded the
  same way. (He isn't *smart* enough to get what I was
  saying.)
 
  Ravi thought that was a cool way to deal with Steve's
  empty-headed predictability, so he picked up on it,
  and we had fun batting Steve around with it.
 
   And that does affect how people feel about responding
   positively to my posts. They know that the shit storm
   will descend from the usual suspects.
 
  Oh, right, what a fierce shit storm that was. BTW, it
  didn't bother Steve. I don't know why it would bother
  anybody else. Except you, of course. You had to defend
  Steve from being teased by Big Bad Judy and Big Bad
  Ravi because he had sided with you, and you don't want
  to risk losing his approval.
 
   Nice try little gadfly.
  
   And I am not saying I will never jump into someone else's
   interaction if I choose to, this is an open message board
   and we all do that sometimes if it interest me. 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread authfriend
Thank you, Ann, appreciate the kudos.

Steve has a problem. He knows I don't think very highly
of him--I've made that pretty clear--and he feels he
needs to get back at me, but he doesn't have the chops
to come up with legitimate criticisms that actually
apply to me. So he just makes stuff up, like Barry, 
only Steve isn't nearly as creative. Any old insult is
fine; it doesn't have to be accurate as long as he feels
he's gotten his rocks off.



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ wrote:
 
  
  I guess you do have to look a little at the life of two of my biggest
  critics.
  
  Ravi's life, which is pretty well documented, and Judy's life, or lack
  of a life.  Or at least a life no one knows anything about even after 20
  years of posting.  Or, I suppose this is her life.  That's about the
  only conclusion that can be drawn.
  
  Which is mostly just a counterpoint to everything Barry writes, and
  Curtis and anyone else who takes a stance she finds objectionable.
  
  Which of course is fine, except so much of it falls short of anything
  that makes much sense.
  
  I'd make a $500.00 bet that if a trained psychologist examined her
  interactions, just within the last few days, that they would arrive at a
  similiar conclusion, or they would at least find someone who is
  incapable of discussing things honestly, and who also resorts to evasive
  tactics, and straw man arguments all in a effort to feel that she has
  won an argument.
  
  Any takers?
 
 No 'taker' here but I will give something.
 
 I actually take umbrage at your assertion about Judy's honesty. I personally 
 don't think she has a dishonest molecule in her body. In fact, I would go so 
 far as to says she can't help but tell the truth, as she sees it and at the 
 risk of seriously pissing everyone off. I do not believe Judy is about 
 distracting her reader from what is the closest to the truth of a thing, as 
 she sees it from her level. 
 
 She is inexhaustible in her research and in the pursuit of 'getting it 
 right'; she obviously has a mind that ranks right up there, as far as lucid, 
 raw intelligence goes, as high as anybody who has ever posted here. (I know 
 who is rolling their eyes right now, so don't think I don't.) 
 
 Her style, her fighting instinct, her doggedness does not endear her to 
 everyone. Fair enough. You don't have to like someone to appreciate their 
 innate insistence on accuracy, on this kind of purity of defining things. She 
 is, to me, very like a human barometer or other finely-tuned instrument that 
 can't go against this nature of hers to give one an accurate reading. She can 
 admit when she is wrong. She isn't easy at times, in fact she can be bloody 
 ruthless. But I love that, in its proper time, in its proper context. The 
 thing is, I don't believe Judy writes/asserts anything she does not truly 
 believe - even at the risk of being wrong. If that is not honesty, then I 
 don't know what is.
  
 The fruits of a 30 plus years of dipping into pure concioussness, sat
  chit ananda.
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 snip
  So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
  my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
  opinion about it) and having been called out for your
  trolling personal attack behavior,
 
  you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,
 
  trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
  is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
  involve me.

 Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
 for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:

 The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
 for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
 one of the weirder aspects of the joint.
   
It involved me because it was jumping on Steve for
complimenting ME. He was punishing Steve for saying
something nice to me.
  
   Actually I started it, not because he said something
   nice to you, but because he's so stupidly *predictable*.
   You and I were having an argument, so he sided with you
   against me, as he virtually always does (he'll side with
   almost anybody against me). In his very next post he
   said I wasn't making much sense, and I responded the
   same way. (He isn't *smart* enough to get what I was
   saying.)
  
   Ravi thought that was a cool way to deal with Steve's
   empty-headed predictability, so he picked up on it,
   and we had fun batting Steve around with it.
  
And that does affect how people feel about 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Ravi Chivukula
Any takers?

Yes - Steve, you can't even notice the contradictions in what you write.
FFL is a place for discussion, so Judy doesn't have to reveal anything
about herself - it's like you hilariously accused her of - a straw man
argument. You are the one indulging in unfair, evasive tactics in attacking
her. I reveal details about my personal life because I'm more of an
entertainer and I want my audience to endear itself to me - if you are
going to make me into some kind of ridiculous model here I would be the
only one posting here perhaps and may be Emily..LOL - we don't want that do
we?

On Sun, Mar 10, 2013 at 4:07 PM, seventhray27 steve.sun...@yahoo.comwrote:

 **


 I guess you do have to look a little at the life of two of my biggest
 critics.

 Ravi's life, which is pretty well documented, and Judy's life, or lack of
 a life.  Or at least a life no one knows anything about even after 20 years
 of posting.  Or, I suppose this is her life.  That's about the only
 conclusion that can be drawn.

 Which is mostly just a counterpoint to everything Barry writes, and Curtis
 and anyone else who takes a stance she finds objectionable.

 Which of course is fine, except so much of it falls short of anything that
 makes much sense.

 I'd make a $500.00 bet that if a trained psychologist examined her
 interactions, just within the last few days, that they would arrive at a
 similiar conclusion, or they would at least find someone who is incapable
 of discussing things honestly, and who also resorts to evasive tactics, and
 straw man arguments all in a effort to feel that she has won an argument.

 Any takers?

   The fruits of a 30 plus years of dipping into pure concioussness, sat
 chit ananda.

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
snip
 So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
 my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
 opinion about it) and having been called out for your
 trolling personal attack behavior,

 you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,

 trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
 is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
 involve me.
   
Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:
   
The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
one of the weirder aspects of the joint.
  
   It involved me because it was jumping on Steve for
   complimenting ME. He was punishing Steve for saying
   something nice to me.
 
  Actually I started it, not because he said something
  nice to you, but because he's so stupidly *predictable*.
  You and I were having an argument, so he sided with you
  against me, as he virtually always does (he'll side with
  almost anybody against me). In his very next post he
  said I wasn't making much sense, and I responded the
  same way. (He isn't *smart* enough to get what I was
  saying.)
 
  Ravi thought that was a cool way to deal with Steve's
  empty-headed predictability, so he picked up on it,
  and we had fun batting Steve around with it.
 
   And that does affect how people feel about responding
   positively to my posts. They know that the shit storm
   will descend from the usual suspects.
 
  Oh, right, what a fierce shit storm that was. BTW, it
  didn't bother Steve. I don't know why it would bother
  anybody else. Except you, of course. You had to defend
  Steve from being teased by Big Bad Judy and Big Bad
  Ravi because he had sided with you, and you don't want
  to risk losing his approval.
 
   Nice try little gadfly.
  
   And I am not saying I will never jump into someone else's
   interaction if I choose to, this is an open message board
   and we all do that sometimes if it interest me. I am just
   not buckling to outside pressure to scold certain people
   Jim and you don't like.
 
  I don't think anybody was pressing you to do anything,
  just observing what you do (or in this case don't do--
  unless, of course, you need to defend one of your
  allies).
 
   I am not obligated to do so. Just as you are not and
   pick and choose our own battles from your own priority
   perspective. This shame angle doesn't work on me.
 
  You are immune to any kind of shame, Curtis. You've been
  working on that for a long time. Unfortunately it
  doesn't stop others from commenting on what they
  consider shameful.
 
 Did you really think you were gunna make this fly after
 seeing Robin relentlessly try and fail the same thing?
   
Robin wasn't the only one to call you out on your hypocrisy.
  
   Right, if I don't scold people you 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread seventhray27


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:
 No 'taker' here but I will give something.

 I actually take umbrage at your assertion about Judy's honesty. I
personally don't think she has a dishonest molecule in her body. In
fact, I would go so far as to says she can't help but tell the truth, as
she sees it and at the risk of seriously pissing everyone off. I do not
believe Judy is about distracting her reader from what is the closest to
the truth of a thing, as she sees it from her level.
snip

Ann,

More credit to you, if you can follow her arguments.  I find that they
often become convoluted beyond any sensible conclusion.  And I suspect
that you, like most of us, don't bother to read past the first couple of
rebuttals she makes, especially after the third of fourth iteration.

I would say, that if anyone wants to find a flaw in another person's
reasoning, they can do so.  There is always some technical point that
can be disputed.  But, by that point the spirit of the argument, or
discussion is lost, and the object becomes simply finding a way to win. 
Or maybe you decide to frame your argument in parameters that you alone
determine as valid and win on that basis.

Oh, and  the sin of snipping.  That can always be grounds for immediate
dismissal of any points. Because snipping in Judy's book is to hide
something, and not for conciseness. (unless she does it)

And yes, she does have time, have time, have time for nearly unlimited
research, (which we must remember is research when she does it, but
internet stalking when done by someone else)

So, all of this, for me, disputes any notion of honesty on Judy's
part.

But I certainly understand the attraction of having someone like Judy on
your team.  She can disparage with best of them.  But, I suspect that
she would remain a better friend, or ally at a distance.

And is it fair to bring up, that there must come a time, when we think
about what legacy we might leave behind.  I think that comes into play
at some point.




 She is inexhaustible in her research and in the pursuit of 'getting it
right'; she obviously has a mind that ranks right up there, as far as
lucid, raw intelligence goes, as high as anybody who has ever posted
here. (I know who is rolling their eyes right now, so don't think I
don't.)

 Her style, her fighting instinct, her doggedness does not endear her
to everyone. Fair enough. You don't have to like someone to appreciate
their innate insistence on accuracy, on this kind of purity of defining
things. She is, to me, very like a human barometer or other finely-tuned
instrument that can't go against this nature of hers to give one an
accurate reading. She can admit when she is wrong. She isn't easy at
times, in fact she can be bloody ruthless. But I love that, in its
proper time, in its proper context. The thing is, I don't believe Judy
writes/asserts anything she does not truly believe - even at the risk of
being wrong. If that is not honesty, then I don't know what is.





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread seventhray27

Thank you Judy, for your usual kind words.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@...
wrote:

 Thank you, Ann, appreciate the kudos.

 Steve has a problem. He knows I don't think very highly
 of him--I've made that pretty clear--and he feels he
 needs to get back at me, but he doesn't have the chops
 to come up with legitimate criticisms that actually
 apply to me. So he just makes stuff up, like Barry,
 only Steve isn't nearly as creative. Any old insult is
 fine; it doesn't have to be accurate as long as he feels
 he's gotten his rocks off.



 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@ wrote:
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
  
  
   I guess you do have to look a little at the life of two of my
biggest
   critics.
  
   Ravi's life, which is pretty well documented, and Judy's life, or
lack
   of a life. Or at least a life no one knows anything about even
after 20
   years of posting. Or, I suppose this is her life. That's about the
   only conclusion that can be drawn.
  
   Which is mostly just a counterpoint to everything Barry writes,
and
   Curtis and anyone else who takes a stance she finds objectionable.
  
   Which of course is fine, except so much of it falls short of
anything
   that makes much sense.
  
   I'd make a $500.00 bet that if a trained psychologist examined her
   interactions, just within the last few days, that they would
arrive at a
   similiar conclusion, or they would at least find someone who is
   incapable of discussing things honestly, and who also resorts to
evasive
   tactics, and straw man arguments all in a effort to feel that she
has
   won an argument.
  
   Any takers?
 
  No 'taker' here but I will give something.
 
  I actually take umbrage at your assertion about Judy's honesty. I
personally don't think she has a dishonest molecule in her body. In
fact, I would go so far as to says she can't help but tell the truth, as
she sees it and at the risk of seriously pissing everyone off. I do not
believe Judy is about distracting her reader from what is the closest to
the truth of a thing, as she sees it from her level.
 
  She is inexhaustible in her research and in the pursuit of 'getting
it right'; she obviously has a mind that ranks right up there, as far as
lucid, raw intelligence goes, as high as anybody who has ever posted
here. (I know who is rolling their eyes right now, so don't think I
don't.)
 
  Her style, her fighting instinct, her doggedness does not endear her
to everyone. Fair enough. You don't have to like someone to appreciate
their innate insistence on accuracy, on this kind of purity of defining
things. She is, to me, very like a human barometer or other finely-tuned
instrument that can't go against this nature of hers to give one an
accurate reading. She can admit when she is wrong. She isn't easy at
times, in fact she can be bloody ruthless. But I love that, in its
proper time, in its proper context. The thing is, I don't believe Judy
writes/asserts anything she does not truly believe - even at the risk of
being wrong. If that is not honesty, then I don't know what is.
  
   The fruits of a 30 plus years of dipping into pure concioussness,
sat
   chit ananda.
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
   wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend
authfriend@
   wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  snip
   So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
   my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
   opinion about it) and having been called out for your
   trolling personal attack behavior,
  
   you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,
  
   trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
   is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
   involve me.
 
  Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
  for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:
 
  The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
  for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
  one of the weirder aspects of the joint.

 It involved me because it was jumping on Steve for
 complimenting ME. He was punishing Steve for saying
 something nice to me.
   
Actually I started it, not because he said something
nice to you, but because he's so stupidly *predictable*.
You and I were having an argument, so he sided with you
against me, as he virtually always does (he'll side with
almost anybody against me). In his very next post he
said I wasn't making much sense, and I responded the
same way. (He isn't *smart* enough to get what I was
saying.)
   
Ravi thought that was a cool way to deal with Steve's

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread seventhray27

Ravi, your opinion always trumps.  So, discussions with you generally
degenerate into one of your usual tirades.

I don't care to degrade you, but if you are going to make accusations by
constantly calling people idiots or morons, I would be glad to play that
game with you.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula
chivukula.ravi@... wrote:

 Any takers?

 Yes - Steve, you can't even notice the contradictions in what you
write.
 FFL is a place for discussion, so Judy doesn't have to reveal anything
 about herself - it's like you hilariously accused her of - a straw man
 argument. You are the one indulging in unfair, evasive tactics in
attacking
 her. I reveal details about my personal life because I'm more of an
 entertainer and I want my audience to endear itself to me - if you are
 going to make me into some kind of ridiculous model here I would be
the
 only one posting here perhaps and may be Emily..LOL - we don't want
that do
 we?

 On Sun, Mar 10, 2013 at 4:07 PM, seventhray27 steve.sundur@...wrote:

  **
 
 
  I guess you do have to look a little at the life of two of my
biggest
  critics.
 
  Ravi's life, which is pretty well documented, and Judy's life, or
lack of
  a life. Or at least a life no one knows anything about even after 20
years
  of posting. Or, I suppose this is her life. That's about the only
  conclusion that can be drawn.
 
  Which is mostly just a counterpoint to everything Barry writes, and
Curtis
  and anyone else who takes a stance she finds objectionable.
 
  Which of course is fine, except so much of it falls short of
anything that
  makes much sense.
 
  I'd make a $500.00 bet that if a trained psychologist examined her
  interactions, just within the last few days, that they would arrive
at a
  similiar conclusion, or they would at least find someone who is
incapable
  of discussing things honestly, and who also resorts to evasive
tactics, and
  straw man arguments all in a effort to feel that she has won an
argument.
 
  Any takers?
 
  The fruits of a 30 plus years of dipping into pure concioussness,
sat
  chit ananda.
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 snip
  So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
  my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
  opinion about it) and having been called out for your
  trolling personal attack behavior,
 
  you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,
 
  trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
  is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
  involve me.

 Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
 for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:

 The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
 for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
 one of the weirder aspects of the joint.
   
It involved me because it was jumping on Steve for
complimenting ME. He was punishing Steve for saying
something nice to me.
  
   Actually I started it, not because he said something
   nice to you, but because he's so stupidly *predictable*.
   You and I were having an argument, so he sided with you
   against me, as he virtually always does (he'll side with
   almost anybody against me). In his very next post he
   said I wasn't making much sense, and I responded the
   same way. (He isn't *smart* enough to get what I was
   saying.)
  
   Ravi thought that was a cool way to deal with Steve's
   empty-headed predictability, so he picked up on it,
   and we had fun batting Steve around with it.
  
And that does affect how people feel about responding
positively to my posts. They know that the shit storm
will descend from the usual suspects.
  
   Oh, right, what a fierce shit storm that was. BTW, it
   didn't bother Steve. I don't know why it would bother
   anybody else. Except you, of course. You had to defend
   Steve from being teased by Big Bad Judy and Big Bad
   Ravi because he had sided with you, and you don't want
   to risk losing his approval.
  
Nice try little gadfly.
   
And I am not saying I will never jump into someone else's
interaction if I choose to, this is an open message board
and we all do that sometimes if it interest me. I am just
not buckling to outside pressure to scold certain people
Jim and you don't like.
  
   I don't think anybody was pressing you to do anything,
   just observing what you do (or in this case don't do--
   unless, of course, you need to defend one of your
   allies).
  
I am not obligated to do so. Just as you are not and
pick and choose our own battles from your own priority
perspective. 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread seventhray27

better word below:


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@...
wrote:


 Ravi, your opinion always trumps. So, discussions with you generally
 degenerate into one of your usual tirades.

 I don't care to disparage you, but if you are going to make
accusations by
 constantly calling people idiots or morons, I would be glad to play
that
 game with you.


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula
 chivukula.ravi@ wrote:
 
  Any takers?
 
  Yes - Steve, you can't even notice the contradictions in what you
 write.
  FFL is a place for discussion, so Judy doesn't have to reveal
anything
  about herself - it's like you hilariously accused her of - a straw
man
  argument. You are the one indulging in unfair, evasive tactics in
 attacking
  her. I reveal details about my personal life because I'm more of an
  entertainer and I want my audience to endear itself to me - if you
are
  going to make me into some kind of ridiculous model here I would be
 the
  only one posting here perhaps and may be Emily..LOL - we don't want
 that do
  we?
 
  On Sun, Mar 10, 2013 at 4:07 PM, seventhray27 steve.sundur@...:
 
   **
  
  
   I guess you do have to look a little at the life of two of my
 biggest
   critics.
  
   Ravi's life, which is pretty well documented, and Judy's life, or
 lack of
   a life. Or at least a life no one knows anything about even after
20
 years
   of posting. Or, I suppose this is her life. That's about the only
   conclusion that can be drawn.
  
   Which is mostly just a counterpoint to everything Barry writes,
and
 Curtis
   and anyone else who takes a stance she finds objectionable.
  
   Which of course is fine, except so much of it falls short of
 anything that
   makes much sense.
  
   I'd make a $500.00 bet that if a trained psychologist examined her
   interactions, just within the last few days, that they would
arrive
 at a
   similiar conclusion, or they would at least find someone who is
 incapable
   of discussing things honestly, and who also resorts to evasive
 tactics, and
   straw man arguments all in a effort to feel that she has won an
 argument.
  
   Any takers?
  
   The fruits of a 30 plus years of dipping into pure concioussness,
 sat
   chit ananda.
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
 wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend
authfriend@
   wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  snip
   So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
   my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
   opinion about it) and having been called out for your
   trolling personal attack behavior,
  
   you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,
  
   trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
   is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
   involve me.
 
  Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
  for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:
 
  The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
  for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
  one of the weirder aspects of the joint.

 It involved me because it was jumping on Steve for
 complimenting ME. He was punishing Steve for saying
 something nice to me.
   
Actually I started it, not because he said something
nice to you, but because he's so stupidly *predictable*.
You and I were having an argument, so he sided with you
against me, as he virtually always does (he'll side with
almost anybody against me). In his very next post he
said I wasn't making much sense, and I responded the
same way. (He isn't *smart* enough to get what I was
saying.)
   
Ravi thought that was a cool way to deal with Steve's
empty-headed predictability, so he picked up on it,
and we had fun batting Steve around with it.
   
 And that does affect how people feel about responding
 positively to my posts. They know that the shit storm
 will descend from the usual suspects.
   
Oh, right, what a fierce shit storm that was. BTW, it
didn't bother Steve. I don't know why it would bother
anybody else. Except you, of course. You had to defend
Steve from being teased by Big Bad Judy and Big Bad
Ravi because he had sided with you, and you don't want
to risk losing his approval.
   
 Nice try little gadfly.

 And I am not saying I will never jump into someone else's
 interaction if I choose to, this is an open message board
 and we all do that sometimes if it interest me. I am just
 not buckling to outside pressure to scold certain people
 Jim and you don't like.
   
I don't think anybody was pressing you to do anything,
just observing what you do (or 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:
snip
 Oh, and  the sin of snipping.  That can always be grounds
 for immediate dismissal of any points. Because snipping
 in Judy's book is to hide something, and not for conciseness.
 (unless she does it)
 
 And yes, she does have time, have time, have time for nearly 
 unlimited research, (which we must remember is research
 when she does it, but internet stalking when done by
 someone else)
 
 So, all of this, for me, disputes any notion of honesty
 on Judy's part.

Except for the fact that what you say above about 
snipping and research is not true, and you know it's
not true.

Lying about a person isn't a very good way to make a
case for their being dishonest, now, is it?





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... wrote:
 
 Yes - Steve, you can't even notice the contradictions in
 what you write. FFL is a place for discussion, so Judy
 doesn't have to reveal anything about herself - it's like
 you hilariously accused her of - a straw man argument.

Not only that, it's not true that I haven't revealed
anything about myself, as I pointed out to him awhile
back when he made the same nitwit accusation.

As I told Ann, he doesn't have any legitimate complaints,
so he just makes 'em up. And then calls me dishonest.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Ravi Chivukula
I would be glad to play that game with you.

OK..ready,set, GO !!!

Aw forget it - when I insult someone it almost always sticks but never the
other way around - I was an arrogant SOB from the day I was born. But one
can always try disparaging me..LOL. You are so much poorer in understanding
me if you label it as a tirade or an accusation, poorer in judging me based
on what I do. Well you are fucking clueless Steve - but I still love you.

On Sun, Mar 10, 2013 at 8:35 PM, seventhray27 steve.sun...@yahoo.comwrote:

 **


 better word below:


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@...
 wrote:
 
 
  Ravi, your opinion always trumps. So, discussions with you generally
  degenerate into one of your usual tirades.
 
  I don't care to *disparage* you, but if you are going to make
 accusations by

  constantly calling people idiots or morons, I would be glad to play that
  game with you.
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula
  chivukula.ravi@ wrote:
  
   Any takers?
  
   Yes - Steve, you can't even notice the contradictions in what you
  write.
   FFL is a place for discussion, so Judy doesn't have to reveal anything
   about herself - it's like you hilariously accused her of - a straw man
   argument. You are the one indulging in unfair, evasive tactics in
  attacking
   her. I reveal details about my personal life because I'm more of an
   entertainer and I want my audience to endear itself to me - if you are
   going to make me into some kind of ridiculous model here I would be
  the
   only one posting here perhaps and may be Emily..LOL - we don't want
  that do
   we?
  
   On Sun, Mar 10, 2013 at 4:07 PM, seventhray27 steve.sundur@...:

  
**
   
   
I guess you do have to look a little at the life of two of my
  biggest
critics.
   
Ravi's life, which is pretty well documented, and Judy's life, or
  lack of
a life. Or at least a life no one knows anything about even after 20
  years
of posting. Or, I suppose this is her life. That's about the only
conclusion that can be drawn.
   
Which is mostly just a counterpoint to everything Barry writes, and
  Curtis
and anyone else who takes a stance she finds objectionable.
   
Which of course is fine, except so much of it falls short of
  anything that
makes much sense.
   
I'd make a $500.00 bet that if a trained psychologist examined her
interactions, just within the last few days, that they would arrive
  at a
similiar conclusion, or they would at least find someone who is
  incapable
of discussing things honestly, and who also resorts to evasive
  tactics, and
straw man arguments all in a effort to feel that she has won an
  argument.
   
Any takers?
   
The fruits of a 30 plus years of dipping into pure concioussness,
  sat
chit ananda.
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@
wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   snip
So unable to say anything cogent about the content of
my post, (as Judy did, even though I disagree with her
opinion about it) and having been called out for your
trolling personal attack behavior,
   
you attempt one of the weirdest of the FFL moves,
   
trying to blame me for what other people write, as if it
is my job to scold people for interactions that don't
involve me.
  
   Says Curtis, right after having administered a scolding
   for interactions that didn't involve him. To Steve:
  
   The fact that this partial agreement and appreciation
   for what I write is followed by a rash of taunting is
   one of the weirder aspects of the joint.
 
  It involved me because it was jumping on Steve for
  complimenting ME. He was punishing Steve for saying
  something nice to me.

 Actually I started it, not because he said something
 nice to you, but because he's so stupidly *predictable*.
 You and I were having an argument, so he sided with you
 against me, as he virtually always does (he'll side with
 almost anybody against me). In his very next post he
 said I wasn't making much sense, and I responded the
 same way. (He isn't *smart* enough to get what I was
 saying.)

 Ravi thought that was a cool way to deal with Steve's
 empty-headed predictability, so he picked up on it,
 and we had fun batting Steve around with it.

  And that does affect how people feel about responding
  positively to my posts. They know that the shit storm
  will descend from the usual suspects.

 Oh, right, what a fierce shit storm that was. BTW, it
 didn't bother Steve. I 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Ravi Chivukula
OK then Ravi boy - you are meeting her for coffee tomorrow morning. Don't
fuck this up - she is not a member of your captive audience that is to be
used for your playful, narcissistic indulgences nor is she one of the
potential men that need to be taunted, provoked and confronted. You are
there to love, to support, on a journey, self-exploration, self-discovery
if you will. You are not to dictate and/or project some bullshit mystically
deceived fantasy but to let love, destiny, reality lead, dictate - peace
out.



On Sun, Mar 10, 2013 at 4:24 PM, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.comwrote:

 Thank you dear Em, yes courtesies, protocol - yeah you can do this Ravi,
 you can totally do this, yeah keep her away from ever google searching your
 name and away from FFL - whew.

 Anyway translation of the main line of the song - Will love, will get
 hurt, but will never tired of the habit (of loving)


 On Mar 10, 2013, at 3:54 PM, Emily Reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.com wrote:



 God, Ravi, you crack me up.  I needed a good laugh.   Yes, remember to
 observe basic courtesies and don't show her FFL. :)

   --
 *From:* Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com
 *To:* FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 *Sent:* Sunday, March 10, 2013 3:40 PM
 *Subject:* Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the
 foreign kids get no punishment.


 http://youtu.be/eCmrrO3do5k

 On Mar 10, 2013, at 3:30 PM, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com
 wrote:

 You are right, I don't say this often enough but I love you dear Curtis.
 My mind is fantasizing on a woman - she seems to have all the qualities I
 would want my partner to. I can't screw this by getting too playful and
 blissy - you hear me?


 On Mar 10, 2013, at 7:56 AM, curtisdeltablues 
 curtisdeltabl...@yahoo.com wrote:


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@...
 wrote:
 
 
  On Mar 9, 2013, at 8:21 PM, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:
 
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
   
Curtis, what you say rings true with my experience.
  
   Of course it does!
  
 
  Indeed - the hard on Steve gets every time he sees Curtis is pretty
 repulsing - at least to me. No offense to you here, Curtis - just Steve.

 I don't really get this Ravi. You are capable of being friendly with
 people here and giving them a high five if you agree. Why get so bent when
 Steve does it? We were both in the same group and shared many of the same
 experiences so it shouldn't surprise you that we often see eye to eye.

 Mostly he was high fiving me for contributing some sincere writing,
 sharing my perspective and inviting others to do the same. Did you read
 Xeno's reply? Some interesting stuff came out of it. I wish you would share
 more of your experiences with spirituality this way.

 I liked the concerns you brought up here - just disagree with your
 conclusions and how you brush off all cults, religion. Glad Judy challenged
 that.

 I suspect we have many points of agreement in our views about spiritual
 groups Ravi. It is a little harder because my experience is mostly
 localized in a group you weren't in. But many groups share a lot of
 similarities, especially in how the followers operate.

 
 
  
   I don't
understand the need to excessively qualify everything you say as my
opinion this, or my opinion that. I think that is pretty obvious.
My buy in was also tremendous. My take away from the experience is
 at
a different point on the scale than yours, but I don't think you are
skewing the whole affair by any means.
   
And furthermore this place is greatly enhanced by your
 participation. I
know you hear this a alot and the reason is, because it's just true.
   
   
   
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@wrote:


  Yeah, I don't think this covers the comparison with cocaine
  and gambling. That goes beyond just being honest about your
  own POV.
 


 The reward centers of our brains do not make the value judgements
about what triggers the endorphins. My point concerns the content
 free
reward system itself. And since I spent a lot of time being fulltime
 I
saw a lot of people whose lives were a wreck from their fixation on
meditation. Later after I got out I spent time with families who had
been torn apart by their kids over-involvement and inability to
 support
themselves. So the comparisons with other activities that can
incapacitate people due to an uncontrollable urge like for rounding
courses is not without some basis in my experience.

 And these levels of exposure was what Maharishi was pushing when I
 was
involved. It was what he wanted from his teachers. Most people who
 start
TM never get to that level of 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-10 Thread Ravi Chivukula
OMG Ann wrote all that and you don't show any inclination to absorb what
she had to say - you couldn't detect any sincerity, conviction in her post?
 You dismiss Ann's entire message because you think Ann wants Judy's
support in attacking others? Oh boy - you are fucking hopeless man.

On Sun, Mar 10, 2013 at 8:22 PM, seventhray27 steve.sun...@yahoo.comwrote:

 **



 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:
  No 'taker' here but I will give something.
 
  I actually take umbrage at your assertion about Judy's honesty. I
 personally don't think she has a dishonest molecule in her body. In fact, I
 would go so far as to says she can't help but tell the truth, as she sees
 it and at the risk of seriously pissing everyone off. I do not believe Judy
 is about distracting her reader from what is the closest to the truth of a
 thing, as she sees it from her level.
 snip

 Ann,

 More credit to you, if you can follow her arguments.  I find that they
 often become convoluted beyond any sensible conclusion.  And I suspect
 that you, like most of us, don't bother to read past the first couple of
 rebuttals she makes, especially after the third of fourth iteration.

 I would say, that if anyone wants to find a flaw in another person's
 reasoning, they can do so.  There is always some technical point that can
 be disputed.  But, by that point the spirit of the argument, or discussion
 is lost, and the object becomes simply finding a way to win.  Or maybe you
 decide to frame your argument in parameters that you alone determine as
 valid and win on that basis.

 Oh, and  the sin of snipping.  That can always be grounds for immediate
 dismissal of any points. Because snipping in Judy's book is to hide
 something, and not for conciseness. (unless she does it)

 And yes, she does have time, have time, have time for nearly unlimited
 research, (which we must remember is research when she does it, but
 internet stalking when done by someone else)

 So, all of this, for me, disputes any notion of honesty on Judy's part.

 But I certainly understand the attraction of having someone like Judy on
 your team.  She can disparage with best of them.  But, I suspect that she
 would remain a better friend, or ally at a distance.

 And is it fair to bring up, that there must come a time, when we think
 about what legacy we might leave behind.  I think that comes into play at
 some point.




  She is inexhaustible in her research and in the pursuit of 'getting it
 right'; she obviously has a mind that ranks right up there, as far as
 lucid, raw intelligence goes, as high as anybody who has ever posted here.
 (I know who is rolling their eyes right now, so don't think I don't.)
 
  Her style, her fighting instinct, her doggedness does not endear her to
 everyone. Fair enough. You don't have to like someone to appreciate their
 innate insistence on accuracy, on this kind of purity of defining things.
 She is, to me, very like a human barometer or other finely-tuned instrument
 that can't go against this nature of hers to give one an accurate reading.
 She can admit when she is wrong. She isn't easy at times, in fact she can
 be bloody ruthless. But I love that, in its proper time, in its proper
 context. The thing is, I don't believe Judy writes/asserts anything she
 does not truly believe - even at the risk of being wrong. If that is not
 honesty, then I don't know what is.

  



[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread Buck


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:

 To explain further, my daughter attends SFSU, and because the school gets 
 some funding from the feds, there is no dope smoking on campus. Although 
 slightly inconvenient, if you want a smoke, walk across the street, off 
 campus, and you can blow it in a cop's face with no consequences - it IS San 
 Francisco, after all.
  
 However, at the start of each year my daughter says there are always  the 
 first two weeks with fire alarms going off every night in the dorms, because 
 students are getting high and the cops come haul them off, every time. Stupid 
 kids, just like the dork at MSAE.
 
 So its not a conformity thing (also, fyi, the only characteristic of an 
 enlightened mind, is its pristine emptiness), merely a way to live life in a 
 smart, considerate way, vs. the disruptive and painful consequences of acting 
 stupidly.
 
 So, if the dork is enabled to continue the way he was acting, and lights up a 
 doob at work, he would get what he deserves. 



Yep,

Focused on The evident reality of the neuroplasticity of young developing 
brains drug use in school age (up to age 25!) youth  is a pernicious problem 
for all of society and should not be condoned or tolerated at all let alone 
facilitated by anyone.  As a community as the MSAE is about the full 
development of the person they certainly have particular right to ask and 
require their students to be without the use of drugs.  One would hope any 
school for youth would hold to that too.  This is now just elemental 
developmental brain physiology that should be societal policy; and people who 
get in the way of protecting this and even corrupt the system by supplying 
drugs to youth would be wholly strung up by all of civil society.  


 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  I don't care if he got disciplined for picking his nose. He deserves what 
  he gets, for getting caught. Anyone who hasn't learned how to take a 
  discreet hit is not smart enough to go to college. What a dope. 
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
   
I can't wait 'til the little dork lights up a doobie at his first job, 
and learns no MEANS no.:-)
   
   Conformity and obedience are really the most valued qualities of the 
   enlightened mind aren't they?
   
   I don't suppose just getting bounced out of college is enough punishment 
   for doing such a horrible thing.  It is more satisfying to fantasize 
   about him losing a job in the future. 
   
   And he is such a little dork for doing exactly what almost every poster 
   here, as well as our last three presidents did...
   
   and ALL future presidents. 
   
   
   
   
   
   
   

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ 
wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
 
  Look, these kids were part of something very large and special 
  within consciousness-based education. It is what their parents 
  wanted and were hoping for them and were providing and many have 
  sacrificed to make happen for their kids.  Consciousness-based 
  education.  Did You Know That Meditating Just 15 Min a Day twice a 
  day Could Change Your Life?  You've heard of neuroplasticity, 
  particularly in young brains?   If these little shits are going to 
  persist in screwing up their meditations and dulling the collective 
  consciousness of the whole group with the smoke and haze of 
  marijuana and other drugs then let them go to public education.  
  Everyone knows the rules on drug use and meditation and why they 
  are there. Jeesuus.  Spare the rod, ruin the child.  If and when 
  the these children stop using marijuana they can come back to ideal 
  education as better prepared students to make use of a large 
  opportunity.  Just like the adult fallen away meditators can always 
  re-apply to meditate in the Domes with the large groups.  There is 
  quite a lot of empathy within the system to facilitate 
  consciousness-based education.  If people can't follow the simple 
  rule about drug use for the good reasons of spiritual clarity, they 
  should live with the consequence until they clear up in this or 
  some other lifetime.  For right now there is something much larger 
  and much more high-minded going on here than these little shits 
  going out to get high with drugs and dragging the community down 
  along with them.  I am entirely with Bevan on this.  Why be part of 
  a community if the community can't protect itself from such erosion 
  as young kids using drugs.  We're trying to do something here that 
  needs to be protected. 
 
 I'm sorry to be the one to 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread Buck

 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  To explain further, my daughter attends SFSU, and because the school gets 
  some funding from the feds, there is no dope smoking on campus. Although 
  slightly inconvenient, if you want a smoke, walk across the street, off 
  campus, and you can blow it in a cop's face with no consequences - it IS 
  San Francisco, after all.
   
  However, at the start of each year my daughter says there are always  the 
  first two weeks with fire alarms going off every night in the dorms, 
  because students are getting high and the cops come haul them off, every 
  time. Stupid kids, just like the dork at MSAE.
  
  So its not a conformity thing (also, fyi, the only characteristic of an 
  enlightened mind, is its pristine emptiness), merely a way to live life in 
  a smart, considerate way, vs. the disruptive and painful consequences of 
  acting stupidly.
  
  So, if the dork is enabled to continue the way he was acting, and lights up 
  a doob at work, he would get what he deserves. 
 
 
 Yep,
 
 Focused on The evident reality of the neuroplasticity of young developing 
 brains drug use in school age (up to age 25!) youth  is a pernicious problem 
 for all of society and should not be condoned or tolerated at all let alone 
 facilitated by anyone.  As a community as the MSAE is about the full 
 development of the person they certainly have particular right to ask and 
 require their students to be without the use of drugs.  One would hope any 
 school for youth would hold to that too.  This is now just elemental 
 developmental brain physiology that should be societal policy; and people 
 who get in the way of protecting this and even corrupt the system by 
 supplying drugs to youth would be wholly strung up by all of civil society.  
 
 

For instance according to local newspapers, just recently in the courts here 
there has been sentencing of some of the people who were supplying illicit and 
corrupting drugs during some of the time of some of the related incidents being 
reported in social media as the tale-bearing tainting gossips about the MUM 
campus and MSAE school communities here.  Some family with dad and son 
evidently developed elaborate criminal interstate rackets here initially with 
an open refrigerator-door to their pot and cocaine for kids during those school 
years, they got figured out by State and local law enforcement and the courts, 
with the son now recently sent off to Federal penitentiary.  The court 
determined these guys were an incredibly corrupting element in the civil 
community,  An abomination.  So it went and justice in a civil society worked 
and the asocial proscribed.  Evidently in a larger way according to the latest 
science this is all in an accord with the Natural Law of an appropriate brain 
physiology.  And underneath it all is the protection of the spirituality of our 
youth from corruption.  I should hope in the expressed illiberality of some 
writing here these writers are not in fact advocating the licentious use of 
drugs by our youth.  That would be a serious shame.
--Buck

  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
  
   I don't care if he got disciplined for picking his nose. He deserves what 
   he gets, for getting caught. Anyone who hasn't learned how to take a 
   discreet hit is not smart enough to go to college. What a dope. 
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
-- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:

 I can't wait 'til the little dork lights up a doobie at his first 
 job, and learns no MEANS no.:-)

Conformity and obedience are really the most valued qualities of the 
enlightened mind aren't they?

I don't suppose just getting bounced out of college is enough 
punishment for doing such a horrible thing.  It is more satisfying to 
fantasize about him losing a job in the future. 

And he is such a little dork for doing exactly what almost every poster 
here, as well as our last three presidents did...

and ALL future presidents. 







 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 
 fintlewoodlewix@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
  
   Look, these kids were part of something very large and special 
   within consciousness-based education. It is what their parents 
   wanted and were hoping for them and were providing and many have 
   sacrificed to make happen for their kids.  Consciousness-based 
   education.  Did You Know That Meditating Just 15 Min a Day twice 
   a day Could Change Your Life?  You've heard of neuroplasticity, 
   particularly in young brains?   If these little shits are going 
   to persist in screwing up their 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread doctordumbass
I do see your point, only the word, drugs, is about as well understood as the 
word, enlightenment is.:-) What do you consider drugs? 

For the purpose of responding, I'll take the definition to mean illegal, 
psychoactive substances. Within that family, there is a huge amount of 
variability, in potency, danger, and effect. The anti-drug laws are made as a 
result of social policy, *not* health policy. Otherwise, of course, alcohol 
would be illegal.

Given that understanding, lumping in weed with heroin, and cocaine, and meth, 
doesn't make a lot of sense, as the voters are increasingly indicating, 
nationwide. I don't advocate kids taking drugs, but I also make a distinction 
between those truly harmful substances, and those far less so.

As with anything else, like chronically bashing TM and the TMO, frequency can 
veer off into addiction, and addiction is not a good idea, ever.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:

 
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
  
   To explain further, my daughter attends SFSU, and because the school gets 
   some funding from the feds, there is no dope smoking on campus. Although 
   slightly inconvenient, if you want a smoke, walk across the street, off 
   campus, and you can blow it in a cop's face with no consequences - it IS 
   San Francisco, after all.

   However, at the start of each year my daughter says there are always  the 
   first two weeks with fire alarms going off every night in the dorms, 
   because students are getting high and the cops come haul them off, every 
   time. Stupid kids, just like the dork at MSAE.
   
   So its not a conformity thing (also, fyi, the only characteristic of an 
   enlightened mind, is its pristine emptiness), merely a way to live life 
   in a smart, considerate way, vs. the disruptive and painful consequences 
   of acting stupidly.
   
   So, if the dork is enabled to continue the way he was acting, and lights 
   up a doob at work, he would get what he deserves. 
  
  
  Yep,
  
  Focused on The evident reality of the neuroplasticity of young developing 
  brains drug use in school age (up to age 25!) youth  is a pernicious 
  problem for all of society and should not be condoned or tolerated at all 
  let alone facilitated by anyone.  As a community as the MSAE is about the 
  full development of the person they certainly have particular right to ask 
  and require their students to be without the use of drugs.  One would hope 
  any school for youth would hold to that too.  This is now just elemental 
  developmental brain physiology that should be societal policy; and people 
  who get in the way of protecting this and even corrupt the system by 
  supplying drugs to youth would be wholly strung up by all of civil 
  society.  
  
  
 
 For instance according to local newspapers, just recently in the courts here 
 there has been sentencing of some of the people who were supplying illicit 
 and corrupting drugs during some of the time of some of the related incidents 
 being reported in social media as the tale-bearing tainting gossips about the 
 MUM campus and MSAE school communities here.  Some family with dad and son 
 evidently developed elaborate criminal interstate rackets here initially with 
 an open refrigerator-door to their pot and cocaine for kids during those 
 school years, they got figured out by State and local law enforcement and the 
 courts, with the son now recently sent off to Federal penitentiary.  The 
 court determined these guys were an incredibly corrupting element in the 
 civil community,  An abomination.  So it went and justice in a civil society 
 worked and the asocial proscribed.  Evidently in a larger way according to 
 the latest science this is all in an accord with the Natural Law of an 
 appropriate brain physiology.  And underneath it all is the protection of the 
 spirituality of our youth from corruption.  I should hope in the expressed 
 illiberality of some writing here these writers are not in fact advocating 
 the licentious use of drugs by our youth.  That would be a serious shame.
 --Buck
 
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
   
I don't care if he got disciplined for picking his nose. He deserves 
what he gets, for getting caught. Anyone who hasn't learned how to take 
a discreet hit is not smart enough to go to college. What a dope. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  I can't wait 'til the little dork lights up a doobie at his first 
  job, and learns no MEANS no.:-)
 
 Conformity and obedience are really the most valued qualities of the 
 enlightened mind aren't they?
 
 I don't suppose just getting bounced out of college is enough 
 punishment for doing 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread Ann

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@...
wrote:

 I don't care if he got disciplined for picking his nose. He deserves
what he gets, for getting caught. Anyone who hasn't learned how to take
a discreet hit is not smart enough to go to college. What a dope.
He's just lucky the high and mighty admin didn't stone him on his way
out of the joint. To be blunt, they might have been fired up enough to
have reef(ed) back  hit (bong and boink!)  the exiting student on the
head.

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@
wrote:
  
   I can't wait 'til the little dork lights up a doobie at his first
job, and learns no MEANS no.:-)
 
  Conformity and obedience are really the most valued qualities of the
enlightened mind aren't they?
 
  I don't suppose just getting bounced out of college is enough
punishment for doing such a horrible thing.  It is more satisfying to
fantasize about him losing a job in the future.
 
  And he is such a little dork for doing exactly what almost every
poster here, as well as our last three presidents did...
 
  and ALL future presidents.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808
fintlewoodlewix@ wrote:
   
   
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@
wrote:

 Look, these kids were part of something very large and special
within consciousness-based education. It is what their parents wanted
and were hoping for them and were providing and many have sacrificed to
make happen for their kids.  Consciousness-based education.  Did You
Know That Meditating Just 15 Min a Day twice a day Could Change Your
Life?  You've heard of neuroplasticity, particularly in young brains?  
If these little shits are going to persist in screwing up their
meditations and dulling the collective consciousness of the whole group
with the smoke and haze of marijuana and other drugs then let them go to
public education.  Everyone knows the rules on drug use and meditation
and why they are there. Jeesuus.  Spare the rod, ruin the child.  If and
when the these children stop using marijuana they can come back to ideal
education as better prepared students to make use of a large
opportunity.  Just like the adult fallen away meditators can always
re-apply to meditate in the Domes with the large groups.  There is quite
a lot of empathy within the system to facilitate consciousness-based
education.  If people can't follow the simple rule about drug use for
the good reasons of spiritual clarity, they should live with the
consequence until they clear up in this or some other lifetime.  For
right now there is something much larger and much more high-minded going
on here than these little shits going out to get high with drugs and
dragging the community down along with them.  I am entirely with Bevan
on this.  Why be part of a community if the community can't protect
itself from such erosion as young kids using drugs.  We're trying to do
something here that needs to be protected.
   
I'm sorry to be the one to break it to you Buck, kids are
going to smoke dope, they are going to experiment. They are NOT
going to be willing goody-goodies at all times no matter how
much parents want them to. I assume you were young once?
   
This is the bit that gives it away:
   
It is what their parents wanted and were hoping for them and
were providing and many have sacrificed to make happen for their kids
   
Do you really think what the parents wanted is going to be the
same as what the kids wanted? Sipping hot water and trudging to
the dome twice a day? You guys want to get real, that sort of
life is something you can choose to do when you know a bit about
life and have been round the block a few times, but to try to
inflict it (or any lifestyle) on your offspring is asking for trouble.
   
I would have done it to spite you when I was 18. Especially if
you
called me a little shit for not being as high minded as you,
you'd
get psylocibin mushrooms in your hot water for that!
   
   
Surely though, and I'm being serious here, if kids are smoking
dope where does that leave the idea of spontaneous right action?
Where does that leave the idea of coherence in collective
consciousness? Where does that leave the research on drugs and
TM
that show people spontaneously give up drugs? If it don't work
at MUM it's going to be a tough sell for the rest of the world.
   
   
   
 -Buck in the Dome

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808
fintlewoodlewix@ wrote:
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig LEnglish5@
wrote:
  
  
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808
fintlewoodlewix@ wrote:
   
   
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig
LEnglish5@ wrote:


 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:


Me:
I loved being sober at MIU. It was a fantastic college experience for me and I 
can relate to your points.  But this still reveals a real flaw in the ideal 
education.  They still have the same solution to kids smoking pot that was 
popular in prep schools in the early 70's: throw the bum out.  See, now the 
school is drug free!

It is lame. Especially for a technique that claims to evolve people out of 
wanting to get high.  

And remember when we went to MIU we had the glassy eyes of expectation of 
wonderous things just around the corner.  These students have seen what 40 
years of meditation gets you: another version of your dad. Not charming, 
giggling, flower waving Maharishi, but big ol' Bevan-walrus and a bunch of 
other old timers who need help loading up their Ipod with MP3s of Charles Llyod 
playing his TM inspired flute songs to whales.  (Yes, that is an actual thing.)

They know they are not on the cusp of any breakthrough.  Remember how it was 
for us?  People in Switzerland were flying...so we were told.  People talked to 
squirrels. (According to Jonathan Shear)  Larry Domash found his lost pen 
magically!)  They were heady times and we were on the cusp of something 
amazing. 

So it really wasn't much of a stretch for me to give up drugs.  But I pushed 
the boundaries appropriate to my age.  I did things that got kids kicked out in 
later years.  Skinny dipping co-ed at Lake Keosauqua and the reservoir and dorm 
showers...and anywhere else I could get young ladies to serve up the simplest 
form of undress.

These kids know everything.  They know Maharishi banged young white girls.  We 
thought he was a God.  They just don't have the context we had.

But more than that.  Any school who deals with kids smoking pot by saying we 
can't help you get your shit and leave is lame IMO.  And that is even 
institutions that don't sprinkle on the ideals like powdered sugar on french 
toast. (Use day old Challah bread) 

They have exposed that they are just another strict Christian school who can't 
handle any kid's rebellion.  Our class was the first one at MIU with actual 
kids, not TM teachers.  The class was much more indoctrinated than some of 
these kids.

So yeah, I get that we loved our drug-free MIU.  And I get it that these are 
the rules of the group and they SHOULD know them.

As I said in an earlier post, the part of your brain that actually allow us to 
foresee the consequences of our actions is physically NOT developed till 26.  
And society expectations of them being responsible don't change that.  (BTW 
society actually preys on this when we send young people to war.  There is a 
reason for that.) 

When I was at MIU there were off-the-program students smoking pot and drinking. 
 It had nothing to do with me and my choices. They kept it on the down-low and 
it was none of my business. I think Dennis Ramondi was very compassionate 
toward us that we were all growing and none of us was ideal anything. 

MIU is a buzz kill, and I wound never recommend smoking weed there.  But is 
this is their answer to the drug problem, then they really aren't adding 
anything new are they?






 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
  
  Spare the rod, ruin the child.
  
  For right now there is something much larger and much more high-minded 
  going on here than these little shits going out to get high with drugs and 
  dragging the community down along with them.
  
  Why be part of a community if the community can't protect itself from such 
  erosion as young kids using drugs. 
  
  First let me say that your stern views are the same as the TM 
  administration, and when I was a mouthpiece for pure knowledge,  I would 
  have parroted the same.
 
 And interestingly, you admitted you were one of the more strait-laced 
 students there when you and I attended MIU. You apparently sought out and 
 appreciated the environment that MIU, as a drug and alcohol free as well as 
 spiritual/evolutionary place to be, provided. Granted, times have changed and 
 so have you but at the time that is a big part of why you were there 
 presumably. And many others as well. What people expect at MIU/MUM these days 
 I have no idea. It is not somewhere I would chose to be as the person I am 
 now but it certainly was back in 1975-1980.
 
   So please view the following ripping a new one as directed toward this 
 pernicious style of thinking rather than directed at your Steven Colbert 
 style mash-up parody, where-does-it-end-and-you-begin, persona here.
  
  Here is my problem with this.  The first two quotes are draconian 1950's 
  anti-kid 
 
 I don't think they are 'anit-kid'. I just think, the first one, in 
 particular, is a cliche and an old one to boot. The others just sound more 
 like Buck's style of fire and brimstone 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread Share Long
I wonder what would happen to the world economy if ALL addicts, no matter what 
their substance or activity, had a way to monitor their craving and deliver 
themselves some satisfying chemical from inside their own physiology.  Thanks 
Doc and Curtis, your points make me think.  
And Ann, I agree with you about this morning:  I was laughing my head off at 
the exchange between Nabby and Salya.




 From: doctordumb...@rocketmail.com doctordumb...@rocketmail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Saturday, March 9, 2013 6:32 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get 
no punishment.
 

  
I do see your point, only the word, drugs, is about as well understood as the 
word, enlightenment is.:-) What do you consider drugs? 

For the purpose of responding, I'll take the definition to mean illegal, 
psychoactive substances. Within that family, there is a huge amount of 
variability, in potency, danger, and effect. The anti-drug laws are made as a 
result of social policy, *not* health policy. Otherwise, of course, alcohol 
would be illegal.

Given that understanding, lumping in weed with heroin, and cocaine, and meth, 
doesn't make a lot of sense, as the voters are increasingly indicating, 
nationwide. I don't advocate kids taking drugs, but I also make a distinction 
between those truly harmful substances, and those far less so.

As with anything else, like chronically bashing TM and the TMO, frequency can 
veer off into addiction, and addiction is not a good idea, ever.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:

 
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
  
   To explain further, my daughter attends SFSU, and because the school gets 
   some funding from the feds, there is no dope smoking on campus. Although 
   slightly inconvenient, if you want a smoke, walk across the street, off 
   campus, and you can blow it in a cop's face with no consequences - it IS 
   San Francisco, after all.
   
   However, at the start of each year my daughter says there are always  the 
   first two weeks with fire alarms going off every night in the dorms, 
   because students are getting high and the cops come haul them off, every 
   time. Stupid kids, just like the dork at MSAE.
   
   So its not a conformity thing (also, fyi, the only characteristic of an 
   enlightened mind, is its pristine emptiness), merely a way to live life 
   in a smart, considerate way, vs. the disruptive and painful consequences 
   of acting stupidly.
   
   So, if the dork is enabled to continue the way he was acting, and lights 
   up a doob at work, he would get what he deserves. 
  
  
  Yep,
  
  Focused on The evident reality of the neuroplasticity of young developing 
  brains drug use in school age (up to age 25!) youth  is a pernicious 
  problem for all of society and should not be condoned or tolerated at all 
  let alone facilitated by anyone.  As a community as the MSAE is about the 
  full development of the person they certainly have particular right to ask 
  and require their students to be without the use of drugs.  One would hope 
  any school for youth would hold to that too.  This is now just elemental 
  developmental brain physiology that should be societal policy; and people 
  who get in the way of protecting this and even corrupt the system by 
  supplying drugs to youth would be wholly strung up by all of civil 
  society. 
  
  
 
 For instance according to local newspapers, just recently in the courts here 
 there has been sentencing of some of the people who were supplying illicit 
 and corrupting drugs during some of the time of some of the related incidents 
 being reported in social media as the tale-bearing tainting gossips about the 
 MUM campus and MSAE school communities here.  Some family with dad and son 
 evidently developed elaborate criminal interstate rackets here initially with 
 an open refrigerator-door to their pot and cocaine for kids during those 
 school years, they got figured out by State and local law enforcement and the 
 courts, with the son now recently sent off to Federal penitentiary.  The 
 court determined these guys were an incredibly corrupting element in the 
 civil community,  An abomination.  So it went and justice in a civil society 
 worked and the asocial proscribed.  Evidently in a larger way according to 
 the latest science this is all in an accord with the
 Natural Law of an appropriate brain physiology.  And underneath it all is the 
protection of the spirituality of our youth from corruption.  I should hope in 
the expressed illiberality of some writing here these writers are not in fact 
advocating the licentious use of drugs by our youth.  That would be a serious 
shame. 
 --Buck 
 
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
   
I don't care if he got disciplined for picking his nose. He deserves 
  

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread Emily Reyn
Re: I wonder what would happen to the world economy if ALL addicts, no matter 
what their substance or activity, had a way to monitor their craving and 
deliver themselves some satisfying chemical from inside their own physiology.

Share, can you expand on this?  In that what do you mean by monitor their 
craving, no matter what.and deliver themselves some satisfying chemical 
from inside..




 From: Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Saturday, March 9, 2013 8:22 AM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids 
get no punishment.
 

  
I wonder what would happen to the world economy if ALL addicts, no matter what 
their substance or activity, had a way to monitor their craving and deliver 
themselves some satisfying chemical from inside their own physiology.  Thanks 
Doc and Curtis, your points make me think.  
And Ann, I agree with you about this morning:  I was laughing my head off at 
the exchange between Nabby and Salya.





 From: doctordumb...@rocketmail.com doctordumb...@rocketmail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Saturday, March 9, 2013 6:32 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get 
no punishment.
 

  
I do see your point, only the word, drugs, is about as well understood as 
the word, enlightenment is.:-) What do you consider drugs? 

For the purpose of responding, I'll take the definition to mean illegal, 
psychoactive substances. Within that family, there is a huge amount of 
variability, in potency, danger, and effect. The anti-drug laws are made as a 
result of social policy, *not* health policy. Otherwise, of course, alcohol 
would be illegal.

Given that understanding, lumping in weed with heroin, and cocaine, and meth, 
doesn't make a lot of sense, as the voters are increasingly indicating, 
nationwide. I don't advocate kids taking drugs, but I also make a distinction 
between those truly harmful substances, and those far less so.

As with anything else, like chronically bashing TM and the TMO, frequency can 
veer off into addiction, and addiction is not a good idea, ever.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:

 
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
  
   To explain further, my daughter attends SFSU, and because the school 
   gets some funding from the feds, there is no dope smoking on campus. 
   Although slightly inconvenient, if you want a smoke, walk across the 
   street, off campus, and you can blow it in a cop's face with no 
   consequences - it IS San Francisco, after all.
   
   However, at the start of each year my daughter says there are always  
   the first two weeks with fire alarms going off every night in the dorms, 
   because students are getting high and the cops come haul them off, every 
   time. Stupid kids, just like the dork at MSAE.
   
   So its not a conformity thing (also, fyi, the only characteristic of an 
   enlightened mind, is its pristine emptiness), merely a way to live life 
   in a smart, considerate way, vs. the disruptive and painful consequences 
   of acting stupidly.
   
   So, if the dork is enabled to continue the way he was acting, and lights 
   up a doob at work, he would get what he deserves. 
  
  
  Yep,
  
  Focused on The evident reality of the neuroplasticity of young developing 
  brains drug use in school age (up to age 25!) youth  is a pernicious 
  problem for all of society and should not be condoned or tolerated at all 
  let alone facilitated by anyone.  As a community as the MSAE is about the 
  full development of the person they certainly have particular right to 
  ask and require their students to be without the use of drugs.  One would 
  hope any school for youth would hold to that too.  This is now just 
  elemental developmental brain physiology that should be societal policy; 
  and people who get in the way of protecting this and even corrupt the 
  system by supplying drugs to youth would be wholly strung up by all of 
  civil society. 
  
  
 
 For instance according to local newspapers, just recently in the courts here 
 there has been sentencing of some of the people who were supplying illicit 
 and corrupting drugs during some of the time of some of the related 
 incidents being reported in social media as the tale-bearing tainting 
 gossips about the MUM campus and MSAE school communities here.  Some family 
 with dad and son evidently developed elaborate criminal interstate rackets 
 here initially with an open refrigerator-door to their pot and cocaine for 
 kids during those school years, they got figured out by State and local law 
 enforcement and the courts, with the son now recently sent off to Federal 
 penitentiary.  The court determined these guys were an incredibly corrupting 
 element in the civil 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread Share Long
Just the last few days I've been talking about addictions with a friend and 
I've been thinking about them even longer.  I'm not an expert but it seems that 
even addicts who are addicted to an activity like shopping or gambling or 
reading romance novels, such addicts are really addicted to whatever chemical 
in their body that that activity releases.  So for example, let's say a 
gambling addict could tell somehow when their craving for that activity was 
reaching a dangerously high level because the concomitant chemical was reaching 
a dangerously low level.  Instead of going to the local casino, what if there 
was some way they could release that craved chemical in their own body without 
ever going to the casino?  





 From: Emily Reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Saturday, March 9, 2013 10:30 AM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids 
get no punishment.
 

  
Re: I wonder what would happen to the world economy if ALL addicts, no matter 
what their substance or activity, had a way to monitor their craving and 
deliver themselves some satisfying chemical from inside their own physiology.

Share, can you expand on this?  In that what do you mean by monitor their 
craving, no matter what.and deliver themselves some satisfying chemical 
from inside..




 From: Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Saturday, March 9, 2013 8:22 AM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids 
get no punishment.
 

  
I wonder what would happen to the world economy if ALL addicts, no matter what 
their substance or activity, had a way to monitor their craving and deliver 
themselves some satisfying chemical from inside their own physiology.  Thanks 
Doc and Curtis, your points make me think.  
And Ann, I agree with you about this morning:  I was laughing my head off at 
the exchange between Nabby and Salya.





 From: doctordumb...@rocketmail.com doctordumb...@rocketmail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Saturday, March 9, 2013 6:32 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get 
no punishment.
 

  
I do see your point, only the word, drugs, is about as well understood as 
the word, enlightenment is.:-) What do you consider drugs? 

For the purpose of responding, I'll take the definition to mean illegal, 
psychoactive substances. Within that family, there is a huge amount of 
variability, in potency, danger, and effect. The anti-drug laws are made as a 
result of social policy, *not* health policy. Otherwise, of course, alcohol 
would be illegal.

Given that understanding, lumping in weed with heroin, and cocaine, and meth, 
doesn't make a lot of sense, as the voters are increasingly indicating, 
nationwide. I don't advocate kids taking drugs, but I also make a distinction 
between those truly harmful substances, and those far less so.

As with anything else, like chronically bashing TM and the TMO, frequency can 
veer off into addiction, and addiction is not a good idea, ever.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:

 
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
  
   To explain further, my daughter attends SFSU, and because the school 
   gets some funding from the feds, there is no dope smoking on campus. 
   Although slightly inconvenient, if you want a smoke, walk across the 
   street, off campus, and you can blow it in a cop's face with no 
   consequences - it IS San Francisco, after all.
   
   However, at the start of each year my daughter says there are always  
   the first two weeks with fire alarms going off every night in the dorms, 
   because students are getting high and the cops come haul them off, every 
   time. Stupid kids, just like the dork at MSAE.
   
   So its not a conformity thing (also, fyi, the only characteristic of an 
   enlightened mind, is its pristine emptiness), merely a way to live life 
   in a smart, considerate way, vs. the disruptive and painful consequences 
   of acting stupidly.
   
   So, if the dork is enabled to continue the way he was acting, and lights 
   up a doob at work, he would get what he deserves. 
  
  
  Yep,
  
  Focused on The evident reality of the neuroplasticity of young developing 
  brains drug use in school age (up to age 25!) youth  is a pernicious 
  problem for all of society and should not be condoned or tolerated at all 
  let alone facilitated by anyone.  As a community as the MSAE is about the 
  full development of the person they certainly have particular right to 
  ask and require their students to be without the use of drugs.  One would 
  hope any school for youth would hold to that too.  This is now just 
  elemental 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread emilymae.reyn
H, well I guess they could have sex, or exercise, or maybe meditate, or 
maybe eat a pieit's about the endorphins, is it not?, or other feel good 
chemicals, in the context you mention.  If they are addicted to the endorphin 
rush and therefore activities that release the endorphins and they replace one 
with another - they are doomed to become addicted to whatever.  Doesn't get to 
the issue of addiction very well.  Although physical exercise is better for you 
than eating too much sugar or gambling all your money away in the heat of the 
moment.  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Just the last few days I've been talking about addictions with a friend and 
 I've been thinking about them even longer.  I'm not an expert but it seems 
 that even addicts who are addicted to an activity like shopping or gambling 
 or reading romance novels, such addicts are really addicted to whatever 
 chemical in their body that that activity releases.  So for example, let's 
 say a gambling addict could tell somehow when their craving for that activity 
 was reaching a dangerously high level because the concomitant chemical was 
 reaching a dangerously low level.  Instead of going to the local casino, 
 what if there was some way they could release that craved chemical in their 
 own body without ever going to the casino?  
 
 
 
 
 
  From: Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Saturday, March 9, 2013 10:30 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign 
 kids get no punishment.
  
 
   
 Re: I wonder what would happen to the world economy if ALL addicts, no 
 matter what their substance or activity, had a way to monitor their craving 
 and deliver themselves some satisfying chemical from inside their own 
 physiology.
 
 Share, can you expand on this?  In that what do you mean by monitor their 
 craving, no matter what.and deliver themselves some satisfying chemical 
 from inside..
 
 
 
 
  From: Share Long sharelong60@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Saturday, March 9, 2013 8:22 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign 
 kids get no punishment.
  
 
   
 I wonder what would happen to the world economy if ALL addicts, no matter 
 what their substance or activity, had a way to monitor their craving and 
 deliver themselves some satisfying chemical from inside their own 
 physiology.  Thanks Doc and Curtis, your points make me think.  
 And Ann, I agree with you about this morning:  I was laughing my head off 
 at the exchange between Nabby and Salya.
 
 
 
 
 
  From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Saturday, March 9, 2013 6:32 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids 
 get no punishment.
  
 
   
 I do see your point, only the word, drugs, is about as well understood as 
 the word, enlightenment is.:-) What do you consider drugs? 
 
 For the purpose of responding, I'll take the definition to mean illegal, 
 psychoactive substances. Within that family, there is a huge amount of 
 variability, in potency, danger, and effect. The anti-drug laws are made as 
 a result of social policy, *not* health policy. Otherwise, of course, 
 alcohol would be illegal.
 
 Given that understanding, lumping in weed with heroin, and cocaine, and 
 meth, doesn't make a lot of sense, as the voters are increasingly 
 indicating, nationwide. I don't advocate kids taking drugs, but I also make 
 a distinction between those truly harmful substances, and those far less so.
 
 As with anything else, like chronically bashing TM and the TMO, frequency 
 can veer off into addiction, and addiction is not a good idea, ever.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
 
  
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
   
To explain further, my daughter attends SFSU, and because the school 
gets some funding from the feds, there is no dope smoking on campus. 
Although slightly inconvenient, if you want a smoke, walk across the 
street, off campus, and you can blow it in a cop's face with no 
consequences - it IS San Francisco, after all.

However, at the start of each year my daughter says there are always  
the first two weeks with fire alarms going off every night in the 
dorms, because students are getting high and the cops come haul them 
off, every time. Stupid kids, just like the dork at MSAE.

So its not a conformity thing (also, fyi, the only characteristic of 
an enlightened mind, is its pristine emptiness), merely a way to live 
life in a smart, considerate way, vs. the disruptive and painful 
consequences of 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread emilymae.reyn
Does meditation work to balance out the chemical makeup of one's physiology?  
Does it release our natural feel good chemicals within the body?  Or, maintain 
balanced levels of serotonin, dopamine, etc. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote:

 H, well I guess they could have sex, or exercise, or maybe meditate, or 
 maybe eat a pieit's about the endorphins, is it not?, or other feel good 
 chemicals, in the context you mention.  If they are addicted to the endorphin 
 rush and therefore activities that release the endorphins and they replace 
 one with another - they are doomed to become addicted to whatever.  Doesn't 
 get to the issue of addiction very well.  Although physical exercise is 
 better for you than eating too much sugar or gambling all your money away in 
 the heat of the moment.  
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  Just the last few days I've been talking about addictions with a friend and 
  I've been thinking about them even longer.  I'm not an expert but it seems 
  that even addicts who are addicted to an activity like shopping or gambling 
  or reading romance novels, such addicts are really addicted to whatever 
  chemical in their body that that activity releases.  So for example, let's 
  say a gambling addict could tell somehow when their craving for that 
  activity was reaching a dangerously high level because the concomitant 
  chemical was reaching a dangerously low level.  Instead of going to the 
  local casino, what if there was some way they could release that craved 
  chemical in their own body without ever going to the casino?  
  
  
  
  
  
   From: Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Saturday, March 9, 2013 10:30 AM
  Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign 
  kids get no punishment.
   
  
    
  Re: I wonder what would happen to the world economy if ALL addicts, no 
  matter what their substance or activity, had a way to monitor their craving 
  and deliver themselves some satisfying chemical from inside their own 
  physiology.
  
  Share, can you expand on this?  In that what do you mean by monitor their 
  craving, no matter what.and deliver themselves some satisfying 
  chemical from inside..
  
  
  
  
   From: Share Long sharelong60@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Saturday, March 9, 2013 8:22 AM
  Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign 
  kids get no punishment.
   
  
    
  I wonder what would happen to the world economy if ALL addicts, no matter 
  what their substance or activity, had a way to monitor their craving and 
  deliver themselves some satisfying chemical from inside their own 
  physiology.  Thanks Doc and Curtis, your points make me think.  
  And Ann, I agree with you about this morning:  I was laughing my head off 
  at the exchange between Nabby and Salya.
  
  
  
  
  
   From: doctordumbass@ doctordumbass@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Saturday, March 9, 2013 6:32 AM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids 
  get no punishment.
   
  
    
  I do see your point, only the word, drugs, is about as well understood 
  as the word, enlightenment is.:-) What do you consider drugs? 
  
  For the purpose of responding, I'll take the definition to mean illegal, 
  psychoactive substances. Within that family, there is a huge amount of 
  variability, in potency, danger, and effect. The anti-drug laws are made 
  as a result of social policy, *not* health policy. Otherwise, of course, 
  alcohol would be illegal.
  
  Given that understanding, lumping in weed with heroin, and cocaine, and 
  meth, doesn't make a lot of sense, as the voters are increasingly 
  indicating, nationwide. I don't advocate kids taking drugs, but I also 
  make a distinction between those truly harmful substances, and those far 
  less so.
  
  As with anything else, like chronically bashing TM and the TMO, frequency 
  can veer off into addiction, and addiction is not a good idea, ever.
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
  
   

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:

 To explain further, my daughter attends SFSU, and because the school 
 gets some funding from the feds, there is no dope smoking on campus. 
 Although slightly inconvenient, if you want a smoke, walk across the 
 street, off campus, and you can blow it in a cop's face with no 
 consequences - it IS San Francisco, after all.
 
 However, at the start of each year my daughter says there are always 
  the first two weeks with fire alarms going off every night in the 
 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Just the last few days I've been talking about addictions with a friend and 
 I've been thinking about them even longer.  I'm not an expert but it seems 
 that even addicts who are addicted to an activity like shopping or gambling 
 or reading romance novels, such addicts are really addicted to whatever 
 chemical in their body that that activity releases.  So for example, let's 
 say a gambling addict could tell somehow when their craving for that activity 
 was reaching a dangerously high level because the concomitant chemical was 
 reaching a dangerously low level.  Instead of going to the local casino, 
 what if there was some way they could release that craved chemical in their 
 own body without ever going to the casino?  

I suppose the irony of this whole conversation for me is that
I was a heavy dope smoker right up until the week I learned
TM. 

The teacher said we should avoid recreational drugs for two
weeks before we learn as they interfere with the process.
Which came as a bit of a shock as smoking dope was like
breathing to me but I wanted to do it right and complied.

I had such a good initial experience that I was transformed
into a raging Buddha overnight. After the 2nd day of checking
I went out for a pint with some of my droogs and realised that
drinking spoiled the effect of a natural high I got from TM
but when I tried a joint it was like every cell in my brain
went buzzy and cloudy, totally undermining my new found self.
Nasty enough for me to hand it back and say No way!

That was it for both of my main avenues of pleasure. Dropped
at once by instinct. I never said never again, indeed my mates
who knew me rather well, gave it six weeks at the outside. 20
years later and I've forgotten what it all felt like.

What is strange to me then is how these kids, or anyone,
can enjoy dope and TM. To me they simply did not mix, are
the MUM stoners totally OTP? Or was my reaction OTT?

Has anyone else successfully done both?






[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Does meditation work to balance out the chemical makeup of
  one's physiology?  Does it release our natural feel good 
  chemicals within the body?  Or, maintain balanced levels
  of serotonin, dopamine, etc.
 
 My experience with TM meditation and its associated practices
 is that it is a way to hijack our usual brain reward system
 for achievement in our lives.

Maybe this should say, ...it is a way to hijack my usual
brain reward system for achievement in my life, since this
is your personal experience.

 And this was Maharishi's stated goal, fulfillment divorced
 from achievement.

When did he say this? Do you have a quote? Was this one
of the secret teachings just for teachers? Because I
sure don't remember having heard him say it.

Anybody else remember Maharishi saying this was his goal?

 If you keep mediating you cultivate the mind to trigger
 highly pleasurable states. It becomes very addictive.
 Many meditators show signs of extreme irritation if they
 miss a mediation once they get hooked on it just like
 any other addict.

How many meditators show this? What percentage would you
say? And how have you determined this?

In what follows, you shift back and forth from statements
about your personal experience to general statements as to
how TM affects people in general. With regard to the latter,
could you explain how you've determined that these are
effects common to everyone who practices TM? (Or meditation
in general, depending on which you mean, which you don't
always specify.)

I ask because none of what you describe resembles my
own experience.




 So IMO mediation can become a problem like any other form of hijacking the 
 pleasure states, meant to reward our species for doing things that promote 
 our survival or express our creativity. I believe there is no neuronal free 
 lunch, every pleasure state has a cost.  
 
 Of course this is a highly heretical view in circles where regular meditation 
 and more meditation are both seen as only positives.  But for me the balance 
 is trickier.  I use meditation when I need some of what it does for my brain, 
 but regular meditation just leads to me getting hooked on the mental states 
 it produces. And for me these states do not produce my optimum functioning.
 
 They are as advertized, very charming to our minds.  But they can easily lead 
 to an end in themselves since our brains are inherently lazy and getting the 
 quick reward is neurologically preferred. Unfortunately that does not lead to 
 my fullest creative potential any more than hitting the slot lever again and 
 again.  Although they say that meditation is a preparation for activity, and 
 I don't doubt that for really impulsive people it is a real benefit, for 
 people like me who have perhaps cultivated this functioning a bit too much, 
 it can become a real distraction.  I get a lot more done with my eyes opened! 
  
 
 This understanding is still just a work in progress.  I am fascinated that 
 some like Barry maintain that other forms of meditation do no exhibit some of 
 what I see as downsides of TM's passive bliss states style.  




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread doctordumbass
Maybe a good bonk would chill um out!

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:

 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@
 wrote:
 
  I don't care if he got disciplined for picking his nose. He deserves
 what he gets, for getting caught. Anyone who hasn't learned how to take
 a discreet hit is not smart enough to go to college. What a dope.
 He's just lucky the high and mighty admin didn't stone him on his way
 out of the joint. To be blunt, they might have been fired up enough to
 have reef(ed) back  hit (bong and boink!)  the exiting student on the
 head.
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@
 wrote:
   
I can't wait 'til the little dork lights up a doobie at his first
 job, and learns no MEANS no.:-)
  
   Conformity and obedience are really the most valued qualities of the
 enlightened mind aren't they?
  
   I don't suppose just getting bounced out of college is enough
 punishment for doing such a horrible thing.  It is more satisfying to
 fantasize about him losing a job in the future.
  
   And he is such a little dork for doing exactly what almost every
 poster here, as well as our last three presidents did...
  
   and ALL future presidents.
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808
 fintlewoodlewix@ wrote:



 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@
 wrote:
 
  Look, these kids were part of something very large and special
 within consciousness-based education. It is what their parents wanted
 and were hoping for them and were providing and many have sacrificed to
 make happen for their kids.  Consciousness-based education.  Did You
 Know That Meditating Just 15 Min a Day twice a day Could Change Your
 Life?  You've heard of neuroplasticity, particularly in young brains?  
 If these little shits are going to persist in screwing up their
 meditations and dulling the collective consciousness of the whole group
 with the smoke and haze of marijuana and other drugs then let them go to
 public education.  Everyone knows the rules on drug use and meditation
 and why they are there. Jeesuus.  Spare the rod, ruin the child.  If and
 when the these children stop using marijuana they can come back to ideal
 education as better prepared students to make use of a large
 opportunity.  Just like the adult fallen away meditators can always
 re-apply to meditate in the Domes with the large groups.  There is quite
 a lot of empathy within the system to facilitate consciousness-based
 education.  If people can't follow the simple rule about drug use for
 the good reasons of spiritual clarity, they should live with the
 consequence until they clear up in this or some other lifetime.  For
 right now there is something much larger and much more high-minded going
 on here than these little shits going out to get high with drugs and
 dragging the community down along with them.  I am entirely with Bevan
 on this.  Why be part of a community if the community can't protect
 itself from such erosion as young kids using drugs.  We're trying to do
 something here that needs to be protected.

 I'm sorry to be the one to break it to you Buck, kids are
 going to smoke dope, they are going to experiment. They are NOT
 going to be willing goody-goodies at all times no matter how
 much parents want them to. I assume you were young once?

 This is the bit that gives it away:

 It is what their parents wanted and were hoping for them and
 were providing and many have sacrificed to make happen for their kids

 Do you really think what the parents wanted is going to be the
 same as what the kids wanted? Sipping hot water and trudging to
 the dome twice a day? You guys want to get real, that sort of
 life is something you can choose to do when you know a bit about
 life and have been round the block a few times, but to try to
 inflict it (or any lifestyle) on your offspring is asking for trouble.

 I would have done it to spite you when I was 18. Especially if
 you
 called me a little shit for not being as high minded as you,
 you'd
 get psylocibin mushrooms in your hot water for that!


 Surely though, and I'm being serious here, if kids are smoking
 dope where does that leave the idea of spontaneous right action?
 Where does that leave the idea of coherence in collective
 consciousness? Where does that leave the research on drugs and
 TM
 that show people spontaneously give up drugs? If it don't work
 at MUM it's going to be a tough sell for the rest of the world.



  -Buck in the Dome
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808
 fintlewoodlewix@ wrote:
  
  
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig LEnglish5@
 wrote:
   

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread doctordumbass
Just like Barry, Curtis has his secret stash of data, on the rest of us, 
scrupulously compiled with a wounded and fearful heart. 

Every time Curtis gets bent out of shape, he starts up with his, maybe red is 
blue, act, and determines all sorts of scientific truths about TM and 
Maharishi, from his crippled emotional state.

He and Barry need therapy. Sorry guys - I have come across a lot of dense old 
men - those continuously ready to see the problem always out there, propped 
up by a bloated ego. And it gets really tiresome.

I get the oddest picture when Barry and Curtis team up - a couple of spinster 
aunts.  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
  wrote:
  
   Does meditation work to balance out the chemical makeup of
   one's physiology?  Does it release our natural feel good 
   chemicals within the body?  Or, maintain balanced levels
   of serotonin, dopamine, etc.
  
  My experience with TM meditation and its associated practices
  is that it is a way to hijack our usual brain reward system
  for achievement in our lives.
 
 Maybe this should say, ...it is a way to hijack my usual
 brain reward system for achievement in my life, since this
 is your personal experience.
 
  And this was Maharishi's stated goal, fulfillment divorced
  from achievement.
 
 When did he say this? Do you have a quote? Was this one
 of the secret teachings just for teachers? Because I
 sure don't remember having heard him say it.
 
 Anybody else remember Maharishi saying this was his goal?
 
  If you keep mediating you cultivate the mind to trigger
  highly pleasurable states. It becomes very addictive.
  Many meditators show signs of extreme irritation if they
  miss a mediation once they get hooked on it just like
  any other addict.
 
 How many meditators show this? What percentage would you
 say? And how have you determined this?
 
 In what follows, you shift back and forth from statements
 about your personal experience to general statements as to
 how TM affects people in general. With regard to the latter,
 could you explain how you've determined that these are
 effects common to everyone who practices TM? (Or meditation
 in general, depending on which you mean, which you don't
 always specify.)
 
 I ask because none of what you describe resembles my
 own experience.
 
 
 
 
  So IMO mediation can become a problem like any other form of hijacking the 
  pleasure states, meant to reward our species for doing things that promote 
  our survival or express our creativity. I believe there is no neuronal free 
  lunch, every pleasure state has a cost.  
  
  Of course this is a highly heretical view in circles where regular 
  meditation and more meditation are both seen as only positives.  But for me 
  the balance is trickier.  I use meditation when I need some of what it does 
  for my brain, but regular meditation just leads to me getting hooked on the 
  mental states it produces. And for me these states do not produce my 
  optimum functioning.
  
  They are as advertized, very charming to our minds.  But they can easily 
  lead to an end in themselves since our brains are inherently lazy and 
  getting the quick reward is neurologically preferred. Unfortunately that 
  does not lead to my fullest creative potential any more than hitting the 
  slot lever again and again.  Although they say that meditation is a 
  preparation for activity, and I don't doubt that for really impulsive 
  people it is a real benefit, for people like me who have perhaps cultivated 
  this functioning a bit too much, it can become a real distraction.  I get a 
  lot more done with my eyes opened!  
  
  This understanding is still just a work in progress.  I am fascinated that 
  some like Barry maintain that other forms of meditation do no exhibit some 
  of what I see as downsides of TM's passive bliss states style.





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@ wrote:
 
 
 Me:
 I loved being sober at MIU. It was a fantastic college experience for me and 
 I can relate to your points.  But this still reveals a real flaw in the ideal 
 education.  They still have the same solution to kids smoking pot that was 
 popular in prep schools in the early 70's: throw the bum out.  See, now the 
 school is drug free!
 
 It is lame. Especially for a technique that claims to evolve people out of 
 wanting to get high.  
 
 And remember when we went to MIU we had the glassy eyes of expectation of 
 wonderous things just around the corner.  These students have seen what 40 
 years of meditation gets you: another version of your dad. Not charming, 
 giggling, flower waving Maharishi, but big ol' Bevan-walrus and a bunch of 
 other old timers who need help loading up their Ipod with MP3s of Charles 
 Llyod playing his TM inspired flute songs to whales.  (Yes, that is an actual 
 thing.)
 
 They know they are not on the cusp of any breakthrough.  Remember how it was 
 for us?  People in Switzerland were flying...so we were told.  People talked 
 to squirrels. (According to Jonathan Shear)  Larry Domash found his lost pen 
 magically!)  They were heady times and we were on the cusp of something 
 amazing. 
 
 So it really wasn't much of a stretch for me to give up drugs.  But I pushed 
 the boundaries appropriate to my age.  I did things that got kids kicked out 
 in later years.  Skinny dipping co-ed at Lake Keosauqua and the reservoir and 
 dorm showers...and anywhere else I could get young ladies to serve up the 
 simplest form of undress.
 
 These kids know everything.  They know Maharishi banged young white girls.  
 We thought he was a God.  They just don't have the context we had.
 
 But more than that.  Any school who deals with kids smoking pot by saying we 
 can't help you get your shit and leave is lame IMO.  And that is even 
 institutions that don't sprinkle on the ideals like powdered sugar on 
 french toast. (Use day old Challah bread) 
 
 They have exposed that they are just another strict Christian school who 
 can't handle any kid's rebellion.  Our class was the first one at MIU with 
 actual kids, not TM teachers.  The class was much more indoctrinated than 
 some of these kids.
 
 So yeah, I get that we loved our drug-free MIU.  And I get it that these are 
 the rules of the group and they SHOULD know them.
 
 As I said in an earlier post, the part of your brain that actually allow us 
 to foresee the consequences of our actions is physically NOT developed till 
 26.  And society expectations of them being responsible don't change that.  
 (BTW society actually preys on this when we send young people to war.  There 
 is a reason for that.) 
 
 When I was at MIU there were off-the-program students smoking pot and 
 drinking.  It had nothing to do with me and my choices. They kept it on the 
 down-low and it was none of my business. I think Dennis Ramondi was very 
 compassionate toward us that we were all growing and none of us was ideal 
 anything. 
 
 MIU is a buzz kill, and I wound never recommend smoking weed there.  But is 
 this is their answer to the drug problem, then they really aren't adding 
 anything new are they?

First, it was great to read some of those old names, the past incidents, the 
feel of the place back when we were there that you described so well just now. 
And while it is stereotypical to idealize 'the good old days' I feel that, in 
some fundamental way, they REALLY were just that. I agree with you that enough 
history has past that the naive idealism we all held about enlightenment and 
the sidhis and just the newness of the place seems but a pipe dream now. 
However, it does not take away from our perceived reality at the time and I 
remember my years at MIU with great affection. It was EXCITING, there seemed to 
be a limitless future available to all of us. 

And undoubtedly there are far more interesting and creative ways to deal with 
rule-breakers at MUM. You could create something revealing, and interesting and 
understandable for other students there by possibly discussing the need, the 
desire to smoke drugs while pursuing an education steeped in spirituality and 
self development through meditation - you could make it a mini course, an 
interactive area of study headed by the students themselves. There are infinite 
ways to approach the 'problem' of drug taking there by turning it into another 
learning experience. You just need to be open minded, creative and be prepared 
to be surprised. But MUM appears, if nothing else, steeped in dogma. A dogma 
that will be doomed to moulder and eventually crumble with age and obsolescence.
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   -- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

  
 
 And remember when we went to MIU we had the glassy eyes of expectation of 
 wonderous things just around the corner.  These students have seen what 40 
 years of meditation gets you: another version of your dad. Not charming, 
 giggling, flower waving Maharishi, but big ol' Bevan-walrus and a bunch of 
 other old timers who need help loading up their Ipod with MP3s of Charles 
 Llyod playing his TM inspired flute songs to whales.  (Yes, that is an actual 
 thing.)



We have a busker singing like a hog being slaughtered:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s5mc2T8g68M

and we have a real musician, in this case the fellow Curtis tries to ridicule, 
Charles Lloyd (that's how his name is spelled), with his own unique sound on 
the saxophone:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7XLWO1fA_TQ

Peanuts and Pineapples I know, yet I'm confident the viewers are able to make 
their own decisions.



[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread curtisdeltablues
Without anything specific to refute or correct the old personal attacks again...

Check out Judy's response which has many good points of challenge for me to 
think about.  What have you accomplished here other than to appear like a dick?

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:

 Just like Barry, Curtis has his secret stash of data, on the rest of us, 
 scrupulously compiled with a wounded and fearful heart. 
 
 Every time Curtis gets bent out of shape, he starts up with his, maybe red 
 is blue, act, and determines all sorts of scientific truths about TM and 
 Maharishi, from his crippled emotional state.
 
 He and Barry need therapy. Sorry guys - I have come across a lot of dense old 
 men - those continuously ready to see the problem always out there, propped 
 up by a bloated ego. And it gets really tiresome.
 
 I get the oddest picture when Barry and Curtis team up - a couple of spinster 
 aunts.  
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
   wrote:
   
Does meditation work to balance out the chemical makeup of
one's physiology?  Does it release our natural feel good 
chemicals within the body?  Or, maintain balanced levels
of serotonin, dopamine, etc.
   
   My experience with TM meditation and its associated practices
   is that it is a way to hijack our usual brain reward system
   for achievement in our lives.
  
  Maybe this should say, ...it is a way to hijack my usual
  brain reward system for achievement in my life, since this
  is your personal experience.
  
   And this was Maharishi's stated goal, fulfillment divorced
   from achievement.
  
  When did he say this? Do you have a quote? Was this one
  of the secret teachings just for teachers? Because I
  sure don't remember having heard him say it.
  
  Anybody else remember Maharishi saying this was his goal?
  
   If you keep mediating you cultivate the mind to trigger
   highly pleasurable states. It becomes very addictive.
   Many meditators show signs of extreme irritation if they
   miss a mediation once they get hooked on it just like
   any other addict.
  
  How many meditators show this? What percentage would you
  say? And how have you determined this?
  
  In what follows, you shift back and forth from statements
  about your personal experience to general statements as to
  how TM affects people in general. With regard to the latter,
  could you explain how you've determined that these are
  effects common to everyone who practices TM? (Or meditation
  in general, depending on which you mean, which you don't
  always specify.)
  
  I ask because none of what you describe resembles my
  own experience.
  
  
  
  
   So IMO mediation can become a problem like any other form of hijacking 
   the pleasure states, meant to reward our species for doing things that 
   promote our survival or express our creativity. I believe there is no 
   neuronal free lunch, every pleasure state has a cost.  
   
   Of course this is a highly heretical view in circles where regular 
   meditation and more meditation are both seen as only positives.  But for 
   me the balance is trickier.  I use meditation when I need some of what it 
   does for my brain, but regular meditation just leads to me getting hooked 
   on the mental states it produces. And for me these states do not produce 
   my optimum functioning.
   
   They are as advertized, very charming to our minds.  But they can easily 
   lead to an end in themselves since our brains are inherently lazy and 
   getting the quick reward is neurologically preferred. Unfortunately that 
   does not lead to my fullest creative potential any more than hitting the 
   slot lever again and again.  Although they say that meditation is a 
   preparation for activity, and I don't doubt that for really impulsive 
   people it is a real benefit, for people like me who have perhaps 
   cultivated this functioning a bit too much, it can become a real 
   distraction.  I get a lot more done with my eyes opened!  
   
   This understanding is still just a work in progress.  I am fascinated 
   that some like Barry maintain that other forms of meditation do no 
   exhibit some of what I see as downsides of TM's passive bliss states 
   style.
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 This understanding is still just a work in progress.  

As is mine.

 I am fascinated that some like Barry maintain that other 
 forms of meditation do no exhibit some of what I see as 
 downsides of TM's passive bliss states style.  

And I do so maintain. I've been on courses with meditators
practicing more focused forms of meditation (and some less
focused, in the sense that when it comes to 'effortlessness'
there isn't even a mantra or other object of focus to 'come 
back to') and never seen any of the spaced-outednessitude
we came to take for granted on TM rounding courses. 

I am still a believer -- when it comes to meditation -- that
a technique that is supposed to make you more focused and
coherent and here and now in the moment should do that
when you're doing a LOT of it. That has been my experience
on some of the retreats I've been on. On one there was a
legitimate emergency, a canyon fire (which travel at the
speed of 60mph) was reported only a few miles from where
we were meditating 8-12 hours a day. No asanas, no round-
ing, just meditating. No one had the least bit of problem
with pulling it together and getting ready to leave if the
winds had shifted and aimed the fire in our direction (they 
didn't). When it became obvious that we were not in the fire
path, several of us volunteered to drive over to the rescue
center and volunteer, going about helping those who were not
so fortunate. Can you imagine TM meditators doing this if
it had happened on a course near them? 





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  This understanding is still just a work in progress.  
 
 As is mine.
 
  I am fascinated that some like Barry maintain that other 
  forms of meditation do no exhibit some of what I see as 
  downsides of TM's passive bliss states style.  
 
 And I do so maintain. I've been on courses with meditators
 practicing more focused forms of meditation (and some less
 focused, in the sense that when it comes to 'effortlessness'
 there isn't even a mantra or other object of focus to 'come 
 back to') and never seen any of the spaced-outednessitude
 we came to take for granted on TM rounding courses. 
 
 I am still a believer -- when it comes to meditation -- that
 a technique that is supposed to make you more focused and
 coherent and here and now in the moment should do that
 when you're doing a LOT of it. That has been my experience
 on some of the retreats I've been on. On one there was a
 legitimate emergency, a canyon fire (which travel at the
 speed of 60mph) was reported only a few miles from where
 we were meditating 8-12 hours a day. No asanas, no round-
 ing, just meditating. No one had the least bit of problem
 with pulling it together and getting ready to leave if the
 winds had shifted and aimed the fire in our direction (they 
 didn't). When it became obvious that we were not in the fire
 path, several of us volunteered to drive over to the rescue
 center and volunteer, going about helping those who were not
 so fortunate. Can you imagine TM meditators doing this if
 it had happened on a course near them?


Ah, it's academic as the profound field of coherence would
keep the flames away.




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread curtisdeltablues
- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
  wrote:
  
   Does meditation work to balance out the chemical makeup of
   one's physiology?  Does it release our natural feel good 
   chemicals within the body?  Or, maintain balanced levels
   of serotonin, dopamine, etc.
  
  My experience with TM meditation and its associated practices
  is that it is a way to hijack our usual brain reward system
  for achievement in our lives.
 
 Maybe this should say, ...it is a way to hijack my usual
 brain reward system for achievement in my life, since this
 is your personal experience.

I believe your brain and mine are similar in this regard. If you transcend into 
what Maharishi called bliss consciousness you are giving your brain such a high 
reward it forgets everything else.   This is just Maharishi's teaching.  But 
you raise an interesting point that perhaps there is a difference between the 
kind of brain that would go into a sidhaland or Purusha and someone who has 
integrated TM into their life the way you have. 

 
  And this was Maharishi's stated goal, fulfillment divorced
  from achievement.
 
 When did he say this? Do you have a quote? Was this one
 of the secret teachings just for teachers? Because I
 sure don't remember having heard him say it.

It is a core part of his message I don't know how you missed it.  We go to 
bliss consciousness and establish ourselves in that to give us complete 
fulfillment which bypasses the whole action for achievement for fulfillment 
cycle. It is actually taught in 3 days checking.  Where I differ with his 
teaching is that he thinks this automatically makes people better at and more 
dynamic in activity and I don't. 
 
 Anybody else remember Maharishi saying this was his goal?
 
  If you keep mediating you cultivate the mind to trigger
  highly pleasurable states. It becomes very addictive.
  Many meditators show signs of extreme irritation if they
  miss a mediation once they get hooked on it just like
  any other addict.
 
 How many meditators show this? What percentage would you
 say? And how have you determined this?

I lived with thousands of meditators while in the movement. I have seen many 
meditators reactions to missing meditation.  Discussed many with my own TM 
students. I have discussed the experiences of dozens of people who quit TM as I 
did.  As well as some who have gone back and forth as I have.  But your 
question is valid.  And I don't have an answer for you, I am just presenting my 
view and believe it does not only apply to me. 

Skip afternoon meditation for a week and see how tired you get around 
meditation time.  When you are conditioned to get this state your brains begins 
to need it.  After a week or so off TM you mind recovers and you no longer feel 
tired in the afternoon. 

When I get addicted to TM I crave the state.  YMMV. 

 
 In what follows, you shift back and forth from statements
 about your personal experience to general statements as to
 how TM affects people in general. With regard to the latter,
 could you explain how you've determined that these are
 effects common to everyone who practices TM? (Or meditation
 in general, depending on which you mean, which you don't
 always specify.)

This is my current working model of understanding.  I don't doubt that others 
will see it differently. I believe that we all share a similar physiology. Your 
criticism could equally apply to anyone making any claim about what meditation 
does for people.  I am trying to explain what I believe is the underlying 
mechanism in the brain functioning.  It is my alternative model to Maharishi's. 
 

 
 I ask because none of what you describe resembles my
 own experience.

I don't know how many times you have gone off and on TM.  This insight came to 
me after I had done that a few times.  

But your general question of what part of this is just personal seems valid.  
That is true of most inductive reasoning.  How man examples are enough?  But 
people may have completely different experiences with TM just as all brains 
don't react to cocaine the same.  Some people dive in and become addicts and 
some say that was annoying.  

I appreciate your points though and will give them more thought.  I am just 
trying to figure this out and this is what I have so far. 





 
 
 
 
  So IMO mediation can become a problem like any other form of hijacking the 
  pleasure states, meant to reward our species for doing things that promote 
  our survival or express our creativity. I believe there is no neuronal free 
  lunch, every pleasure state has a cost.  
  
  Of course this is a highly heretical view in circles where regular 
  meditation and more meditation are both seen as only positives.  But for me 
  the balance is trickier.  I use meditation when I need some of what it 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:

You expressed the other ways they could have handled this situation really well 
Ann.  It is a very positive way to look at the alternatives to excommunication. 
Your options treated him like a valuable resource rather then something 
expendable. 

I look back at my time at MIU really fondly.  Remember walking back to the 
frats at night and seeing thousands of fireflies in the darkness almost merge 
at the horizon with all those big sky stars?

Did you and Lenny used to walk around the reservoir?  I have so many great 
memories cross country skiing around it in the Winter and running around it in 
the Summer.  The earth smelled good to me, including the bovine contributions. 

The potent combination of being so young and idealistic and being part of such 
a cause albeit full of the naivete of solving all the worlds problems was a 
great bridge of idealism into adult life.

Once I shook some of the bullshit out of my boots that is!  






 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@ wrote:
  
  
  Me:
  I loved being sober at MIU. It was a fantastic college experience for me 
  and I can relate to your points.  But this still reveals a real flaw in the 
  ideal education.  They still have the same solution to kids smoking pot 
  that was popular in prep schools in the early 70's: throw the bum out.  
  See, now the school is drug free!
  
  It is lame. Especially for a technique that claims to evolve people out of 
  wanting to get high.  
  
  And remember when we went to MIU we had the glassy eyes of expectation of 
  wonderous things just around the corner.  These students have seen what 40 
  years of meditation gets you: another version of your dad. Not charming, 
  giggling, flower waving Maharishi, but big ol' Bevan-walrus and a bunch of 
  other old timers who need help loading up their Ipod with MP3s of Charles 
  Llyod playing his TM inspired flute songs to whales.  (Yes, that is an 
  actual thing.)
  
  They know they are not on the cusp of any breakthrough.  Remember how it 
  was for us?  People in Switzerland were flying...so we were told.  People 
  talked to squirrels. (According to Jonathan Shear)  Larry Domash found his 
  lost pen magically!)  They were heady times and we were on the cusp of 
  something amazing. 
  
  So it really wasn't much of a stretch for me to give up drugs.  But I 
  pushed the boundaries appropriate to my age.  I did things that got kids 
  kicked out in later years.  Skinny dipping co-ed at Lake Keosauqua and the 
  reservoir and dorm showers...and anywhere else I could get young ladies to 
  serve up the simplest form of undress.
  
  These kids know everything.  They know Maharishi banged young white girls.  
  We thought he was a God.  They just don't have the context we had.
  
  But more than that.  Any school who deals with kids smoking pot by saying 
  we can't help you get your shit and leave is lame IMO.  And that is even 
  institutions that don't sprinkle on the ideals like powdered sugar on 
  french toast. (Use day old Challah bread) 
  
  They have exposed that they are just another strict Christian school who 
  can't handle any kid's rebellion.  Our class was the first one at MIU with 
  actual kids, not TM teachers.  The class was much more indoctrinated than 
  some of these kids.
  
  So yeah, I get that we loved our drug-free MIU.  And I get it that these 
  are the rules of the group and they SHOULD know them.
  
  As I said in an earlier post, the part of your brain that actually allow us 
  to foresee the consequences of our actions is physically NOT developed till 
  26.  And society expectations of them being responsible don't change that.  
  (BTW society actually preys on this when we send young people to war.  
  There is a reason for that.) 
  
  When I was at MIU there were off-the-program students smoking pot and 
  drinking.  It had nothing to do with me and my choices. They kept it on the 
  down-low and it was none of my business. I think Dennis Ramondi was very 
  compassionate toward us that we were all growing and none of us was ideal 
  anything. 
  
  MIU is a buzz kill, and I wound never recommend smoking weed there.  But is 
  this is their answer to the drug problem, then they really aren't adding 
  anything new are they?
 
 First, it was great to read some of those old names, the past incidents, the 
 feel of the place back when we were there that you described so well just 
 now. And while it is stereotypical to idealize 'the good old days' I feel 
 that, in some fundamental way, they REALLY were just that. I agree with you 
 that enough history has past that the naive idealism we all held about 
 enlightenment and the sidhis and just the newness of the place seems but a 
 pipe dream now. However, it does not take away from our perceived reality 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread curtisdeltablues
Thanks for posting that video of me Nabbie, great song.

I wasn't putting Charles Lloyd down, I love the guy.  But he did do a series or 
music to a killer whale he was rehabilitating that he played for us at MIU.  It 
is actually a beautiful story of human whale interaction.   



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 no_reply@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
   
  
  And remember when we went to MIU we had the glassy eyes of expectation of 
  wonderous things just around the corner.  These students have seen what 40 
  years of meditation gets you: another version of your dad. Not charming, 
  giggling, flower waving Maharishi, but big ol' Bevan-walrus and a bunch of 
  other old timers who need help loading up their Ipod with MP3s of Charles 
  Llyod playing his TM inspired flute songs to whales.  (Yes, that is an 
  actual thing.)
 
 
 
 We have a busker singing like a hog being slaughtered:
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s5mc2T8g68M
 
 and we have a real musician, in this case the fellow Curtis tries to 
 ridicule, Charles Lloyd (that's how his name is spelled), with his own unique 
 sound on the saxophone:
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7XLWO1fA_TQ
 
 Peanuts and Pineapples I know, yet I'm confident the viewers are able to make 
 their own decisions.





[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   This understanding is still just a work in progress.  
  
  As is mine.
  
   I am fascinated that some like Barry maintain that other 
   forms of meditation do no exhibit some of what I see as 
   downsides of TM's passive bliss states style.  
  
  And I do so maintain. I've been on courses with meditators
  practicing more focused forms of meditation (and some less
  focused, in the sense that when it comes to 'effortlessness'
  there isn't even a mantra or other object of focus to 'come 
  back to') and never seen any of the spaced-outednessitude
  we came to take for granted on TM rounding courses. 
  
  I am still a believer -- when it comes to meditation -- that
  a technique that is supposed to make you more focused and
  coherent and here and now in the moment should do that
  when you're doing a LOT of it. That has been my experience
  on some of the retreats I've been on. On one there was a
  legitimate emergency, a canyon fire (which travel at the
  speed of 60mph) was reported only a few miles from where
  we were meditating 8-12 hours a day. No asanas, no round-
  ing, just meditating. No one had the least bit of problem
  with pulling it together and getting ready to leave if the
  winds had shifted and aimed the fire in our direction (they 
  didn't). When it became obvious that we were not in the fire
  path, several of us volunteered to drive over to the rescue
  center and volunteer, going about helping those who were not
  so fortunate. Can you imagine TM meditators doing this if
  it had happened on a course near them?
 
 Ah, it's academic as the profound field of coherence would
 keep the flames away.

Didn't the San Jacinto TM facility burn down in a 
canyon fire? I seem to remember hearing that it did.






[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread doctordumbass
Oh you cute little weasel, you -  You're off spinning your BS, and when I call 
you on it, I'm a dick? 

OK, Curtis, we'll play this, according to Curtis logic:

I just heard that red lights NOW MEAN GO. Really, its true because I said it 
is, and I have experience with traffic lights, and if you propose a reason that 
I may be pulling this out of my butt, it means you are attacking me personally.

I'm sorry, Curtis, but I overwhelmingly favor reality.

Sincerely,
Your Dick 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... 
wrote:

 Without anything specific to refute or correct the old personal attacks 
 again...
 
 Check out Judy's response which has many good points of challenge for me to 
 think about.  What have you accomplished here other than to appear like a 
 dick?
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Just like Barry, Curtis has his secret stash of data, on the rest of us, 
  scrupulously compiled with a wounded and fearful heart. 
  
  Every time Curtis gets bent out of shape, he starts up with his, maybe red 
  is blue, act, and determines all sorts of scientific truths about TM and 
  Maharishi, from his crippled emotional state.
  
  He and Barry need therapy. Sorry guys - I have come across a lot of dense 
  old men - those continuously ready to see the problem always out there, 
  propped up by a bloated ego. And it gets really tiresome.
  
  I get the oddest picture when Barry and Curtis team up - a couple of 
  spinster aunts.  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
wrote:

 Does meditation work to balance out the chemical makeup of
 one's physiology?  Does it release our natural feel good 
 chemicals within the body?  Or, maintain balanced levels
 of serotonin, dopamine, etc.

My experience with TM meditation and its associated practices
is that it is a way to hijack our usual brain reward system
for achievement in our lives.
   
   Maybe this should say, ...it is a way to hijack my usual
   brain reward system for achievement in my life, since this
   is your personal experience.
   
And this was Maharishi's stated goal, fulfillment divorced
from achievement.
   
   When did he say this? Do you have a quote? Was this one
   of the secret teachings just for teachers? Because I
   sure don't remember having heard him say it.
   
   Anybody else remember Maharishi saying this was his goal?
   
If you keep mediating you cultivate the mind to trigger
highly pleasurable states. It becomes very addictive.
Many meditators show signs of extreme irritation if they
miss a mediation once they get hooked on it just like
any other addict.
   
   How many meditators show this? What percentage would you
   say? And how have you determined this?
   
   In what follows, you shift back and forth from statements
   about your personal experience to general statements as to
   how TM affects people in general. With regard to the latter,
   could you explain how you've determined that these are
   effects common to everyone who practices TM? (Or meditation
   in general, depending on which you mean, which you don't
   always specify.)
   
   I ask because none of what you describe resembles my
   own experience.
   
   
   
   
So IMO mediation can become a problem like any other form of hijacking 
the pleasure states, meant to reward our species for doing things that 
promote our survival or express our creativity. I believe there is no 
neuronal free lunch, every pleasure state has a cost.  

Of course this is a highly heretical view in circles where regular 
meditation and more meditation are both seen as only positives.  But 
for me the balance is trickier.  I use meditation when I need some of 
what it does for my brain, but regular meditation just leads to me 
getting hooked on the mental states it produces. And for me these 
states do not produce my optimum functioning.

They are as advertized, very charming to our minds.  But they can 
easily lead to an end in themselves since our brains are inherently 
lazy and getting the quick reward is neurologically preferred. 
Unfortunately that does not lead to my fullest creative potential any 
more than hitting the slot lever again and again.  Although they say 
that meditation is a preparation for activity, and I don't doubt that 
for really impulsive people it is a real benefit, for people like me 
who have perhaps cultivated this functioning a bit too much, it can 
become a real distraction.  I get a lot more done with my eyes opened!  

This understanding is still just a work in progress.  I am fascinated 
that some like Barry 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
This understanding is still just a work in progress.  
   
   As is mine.
   
I am fascinated that some like Barry maintain that other 
forms of meditation do no exhibit some of what I see as 
downsides of TM's passive bliss states style.  
   
   And I do so maintain. I've been on courses with meditators
   practicing more focused forms of meditation (and some less
   focused, in the sense that when it comes to 'effortlessness'
   there isn't even a mantra or other object of focus to 'come 
   back to') and never seen any of the spaced-outednessitude
   we came to take for granted on TM rounding courses. 
   
   I am still a believer -- when it comes to meditation -- that
   a technique that is supposed to make you more focused and
   coherent and here and now in the moment should do that
   when you're doing a LOT of it. That has been my experience
   on some of the retreats I've been on. On one there was a
   legitimate emergency, a canyon fire (which travel at the
   speed of 60mph) was reported only a few miles from where
   we were meditating 8-12 hours a day. No asanas, no round-
   ing, just meditating. No one had the least bit of problem
   with pulling it together and getting ready to leave if the
   winds had shifted and aimed the fire in our direction (they 
   didn't). When it became obvious that we were not in the fire
   path, several of us volunteered to drive over to the rescue
   center and volunteer, going about helping those who were not
   so fortunate. Can you imagine TM meditators doing this if
   it had happened on a course near them?
  
  Ah, it's academic as the profound field of coherence would
  keep the flames away.
 
 Didn't the San Jacinto TM facility burn down in a 
 canyon fire? I seem to remember hearing that it did.

Now you see why your house should face east!




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:

 Oh you cute little weasel, you -  You're off spinning your BS, and when I 
 call you on it, I'm a dick? 
 
 OK, Curtis, we'll play this, according to Curtis logic:
 
 I just heard that red lights NOW MEAN GO. Really, its true because I said 
 it is, and I have experience with traffic lights, and if you propose a reason 
 that I may be pulling this out of my butt, it means you are attacking me 
 personally.
 
 I'm sorry, Curtis, but I overwhelmingly favor reality.
 
 Sincerely,
 Your Dick 

OK, I'm a casual observer in this one who has just read the
posts concerned and can't see any BS from Curtis. Just an
opinion that you obviously disaproved of. You do this a lot
when someone takes a different line to the one you have
chosen. It makes me think your enlightenment is a bit on the
fragile side, it's too easy to bruise your ego and send you
over the top. It'd be OK if you kept to the point but you don't.

Where is this pristine emptiness of which you speak?

 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  Without anything specific to refute or correct the old personal attacks 
  again...
  
  Check out Judy's response which has many good points of challenge for me to 
  think about.  What have you accomplished here other than to appear like a 
  dick?
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
  
   Just like Barry, Curtis has his secret stash of data, on the rest of us, 
   scrupulously compiled with a wounded and fearful heart. 
   
   Every time Curtis gets bent out of shape, he starts up with his, maybe 
   red is blue, act, and determines all sorts of scientific truths about 
   TM and Maharishi, from his crippled emotional state.
   
   He and Barry need therapy. Sorry guys - I have come across a lot of dense 
   old men - those continuously ready to see the problem always out there, 
   propped up by a bloated ego. And it gets really tiresome.
   
   I get the oddest picture when Barry and Curtis team up - a couple of 
   spinster aunts.  
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn 
 emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Does meditation work to balance out the chemical makeup of
  one's physiology?  Does it release our natural feel good 
  chemicals within the body?  Or, maintain balanced levels
  of serotonin, dopamine, etc.
 
 My experience with TM meditation and its associated practices
 is that it is a way to hijack our usual brain reward system
 for achievement in our lives.

Maybe this should say, ...it is a way to hijack my usual
brain reward system for achievement in my life, since this
is your personal experience.

 And this was Maharishi's stated goal, fulfillment divorced
 from achievement.

When did he say this? Do you have a quote? Was this one
of the secret teachings just for teachers? Because I
sure don't remember having heard him say it.

Anybody else remember Maharishi saying this was his goal?

 If you keep mediating you cultivate the mind to trigger
 highly pleasurable states. It becomes very addictive.
 Many meditators show signs of extreme irritation if they
 miss a mediation once they get hooked on it just like
 any other addict.

How many meditators show this? What percentage would you
say? And how have you determined this?

In what follows, you shift back and forth from statements
about your personal experience to general statements as to
how TM affects people in general. With regard to the latter,
could you explain how you've determined that these are
effects common to everyone who practices TM? (Or meditation
in general, depending on which you mean, which you don't
always specify.)

I ask because none of what you describe resembles my
own experience.




 So IMO mediation can become a problem like any other form of 
 hijacking the pleasure states, meant to reward our species for doing 
 things that promote our survival or express our creativity. I believe 
 there is no neuronal free lunch, every pleasure state has a cost.  
 
 Of course this is a highly heretical view in circles where regular 
 meditation and more meditation are both seen as only positives.  But 
 for me the balance is trickier.  I use meditation when I need some of 
 what it does for my brain, but regular meditation just leads to me 
 getting hooked on the mental states it produces. And for me these 
 states do not produce my optimum functioning.
 
 They are as advertized, very charming to our minds.  But they can 
 easily lead to an end in 

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread doctordumbass


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 Didn't the San Jacinto TM facility burn down in a 
 canyon fire? I seem to remember hearing that it did.

LOL!!! Yes, it did -- *36* years ago!! About seven years *after* you left 
TM...and as Barry The Great is so proud of stating, *Never Looked Back* - 

How can you just lie to yourself like that? 

To have this macho image of yourself, who, 007-like,  silently and swiftly, 
Left TM Behind? I would think you'd be embarrassed about it. Don't you know the 
rest of us see right through the posturing? 

On the one hand, Big Barry, who LEFT-AND-NEVER-LOOKED-BACK, while the reality 
is you've got a permanently twisted neck from doing just that. 

Anyway, that is why you are a source of amazement to so many here, Barry. Your 
insecurities trump even your sense of personal shame. 



[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread turquoiseb
The only emotion uglier in a man than in a woman
is jealousy.  -- attributed to Oscar Wilde

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Didn't the San Jacinto TM facility burn down in a 
  canyon fire? I seem to remember hearing that it did.

 LOL!!! Yes, it did -- *36* years ago!! About seven years 
 *after* you left TM...and as Barry The Great is so proud 
 of stating, *Never Looked Back* - 
 
 How can you just lie to yourself like that? 
 
 To have this macho image of yourself, who, 007-like,  
 silently and swiftly, Left TM Behind? I would think you'd 
 be embarrassed about it. Don't you know the rest of us 
 see right through the posturing? 
 
 On the one hand, Big Barry, who LEFT-AND-NEVER-LOOKED-
 BACK, while the reality is you've got a permanently 
 twisted neck from doing just that. 
 
 Anyway, that is why you are a source of amazement to 
 so many here, Barry. Your insecurities trump even your 
 sense of personal shame.




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread doctordumbass
This is what Curtis said, and Judy challenged:

And this was Maharishi's stated goal, fulfillment divorced from achievement.

'nuff said. I'm quite surprised I had to point it out to you.

Also, enlightened people, contrary to a lot of beliefs, don't act like pleasant 
eunuchs. All of them I have met have pretty normal personalities. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Oh you cute little weasel, you -  You're off spinning your BS, and when I 
  call you on it, I'm a dick? 
  
  OK, Curtis, we'll play this, according to Curtis logic:
  
  I just heard that red lights NOW MEAN GO. Really, its true because I said 
  it is, and I have experience with traffic lights, and if you propose a 
  reason that I may be pulling this out of my butt, it means you are 
  attacking me personally.
  
  I'm sorry, Curtis, but I overwhelmingly favor reality.
  
  Sincerely,
  Your Dick 
 
 OK, I'm a casual observer in this one who has just read the
 posts concerned and can't see any BS from Curtis. Just an
 opinion that you obviously disaproved of. You do this a lot
 when someone takes a different line to the one you have
 chosen. It makes me think your enlightenment is a bit on the
 fragile side, it's too easy to bruise your ego and send you
 over the top. It'd be OK if you kept to the point but you don't.
 
 Where is this pristine emptiness of which you speak?
 
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   Without anything specific to refute or correct the old personal attacks 
   again...
   
   Check out Judy's response which has many good points of challenge for me 
   to think about.  What have you accomplished here other than to appear 
   like a dick?
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
   
Just like Barry, Curtis has his secret stash of data, on the rest of 
us, scrupulously compiled with a wounded and fearful heart. 

Every time Curtis gets bent out of shape, he starts up with his, maybe 
red is blue, act, and determines all sorts of scientific truths 
about TM and Maharishi, from his crippled emotional state.

He and Barry need therapy. Sorry guys - I have come across a lot of 
dense old men - those continuously ready to see the problem always out 
there, propped up by a bloated ego. And it gets really tiresome.

I get the oddest picture when Barry and Curtis team up - a couple of 
spinster aunts.  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn 
  emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
  
   Does meditation work to balance out the chemical makeup of
   one's physiology?  Does it release our natural feel good 
   chemicals within the body?  Or, maintain balanced levels
   of serotonin, dopamine, etc.
  
  My experience with TM meditation and its associated practices
  is that it is a way to hijack our usual brain reward system
  for achievement in our lives.
 
 Maybe this should say, ...it is a way to hijack my usual
 brain reward system for achievement in my life, since this
 is your personal experience.
 
  And this was Maharishi's stated goal, fulfillment divorced
  from achievement.
 
 When did he say this? Do you have a quote? Was this one
 of the secret teachings just for teachers? Because I
 sure don't remember having heard him say it.
 
 Anybody else remember Maharishi saying this was his goal?
 
  If you keep mediating you cultivate the mind to trigger
  highly pleasurable states. It becomes very addictive.
  Many meditators show signs of extreme irritation if they
  miss a mediation once they get hooked on it just like
  any other addict.
 
 How many meditators show this? What percentage would you
 say? And how have you determined this?
 
 In what follows, you shift back and forth from statements
 about your personal experience to general statements as to
 how TM affects people in general. With regard to the latter,
 could you explain how you've determined that these are
 effects common to everyone who practices TM? (Or meditation
 in general, depending on which you mean, which you don't
 always specify.)
 
 I ask because none of what you describe resembles my
 own experience.
 
 
 
 
  So IMO mediation can become a problem like any other form of 
  hijacking the pleasure states, meant to reward our species for 
  doing things that promote our survival or express our creativity. I 
  believe there is no neuronal free lunch, every pleasure state has a 
  cost.  
  

[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread doctordumbass
I choose my friends for their good looks, my acquaintances for their good 
characters, and my enemies for their intellects. A man cannot be too careful in 
the choice of his enemies.

-- attributed to Oscar Wilde 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 The only emotion uglier in a man than in a woman
 is jealousy.  -- attributed to Oscar Wilde
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
  
   Didn't the San Jacinto TM facility burn down in a 
   canyon fire? I seem to remember hearing that it did.
 
  LOL!!! Yes, it did -- *36* years ago!! About seven years 
  *after* you left TM...and as Barry The Great is so proud 
  of stating, *Never Looked Back* - 
  
  How can you just lie to yourself like that? 
  
  To have this macho image of yourself, who, 007-like,  
  silently and swiftly, Left TM Behind? I would think you'd 
  be embarrassed about it. Don't you know the rest of us 
  see right through the posturing? 
  
  On the one hand, Big Barry, who LEFT-AND-NEVER-LOOKED-
  BACK, while the reality is you've got a permanently 
  twisted neck from doing just that. 
  
  Anyway, that is why you are a source of amazement to 
  so many here, Barry. Your insecurities trump even your 
  sense of personal shame.




[FairfieldLife] Re: MUM kid expelled for pot but the foreign kids get no punishment.

2013-03-09 Thread curtisdeltablues
-- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:

 Oh you cute little weasel, you -  You're off spinning your BS, and when I 
 call you on it, I'm a dick? 
 
 OK, Curtis, we'll play this, according to Curtis logic:
 
 I just heard that red lights NOW MEAN GO. Really, its true because I said 
 it is, and I have experience with traffic lights, and if you propose a reason 
 that I may be pulling this out of my butt, it means you are attacking me 
 personally.

Jim attacking me personally in his post:

with a wounded and fearful heart.
from his crippled emotional state.
He and Barry need therapy
dense old men
propped up by a bloated ego
a couple of spinster aunts

All because I expressed my opinion about a meditation practice that I taught, 
and still practice.

You weren't calling me on anything Jim, you were name calling. Judy was 
challenging my view respectfully while making some of her own POV known. Her 
post is the contrast.

This is a pattern with you Jim.  We have been down this road so many times 
before. You are one of the least tolerant people of opposing viewpoints on TM 
on the board. And the most emotionally reactive. 

And I'll bet that you can't articulate my points to demonstrate that you even 
understood what I wrote before you went into over-reaction, kill-the-messenger 
mode.  










 
 I'm sorry, Curtis, but I overwhelmingly favor reality.
 
 Sincerely,
 Your Dick 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 
  Without anything specific to refute or correct the old personal attacks 
  again...
  
  Check out Judy's response which has many good points of challenge for me to 
  think about.  What have you accomplished here other than to appear like a 
  dick?
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
  
   Just like Barry, Curtis has his secret stash of data, on the rest of us, 
   scrupulously compiled with a wounded and fearful heart. 
   
   Every time Curtis gets bent out of shape, he starts up with his, maybe 
   red is blue, act, and determines all sorts of scientific truths about 
   TM and Maharishi, from his crippled emotional state.
   
   He and Barry need therapy. Sorry guys - I have come across a lot of dense 
   old men - those continuously ready to see the problem always out there, 
   propped up by a bloated ego. And it gets really tiresome.
   
   I get the oddest picture when Barry and Curtis team up - a couple of 
   spinster aunts.  
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn 
 emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Does meditation work to balance out the chemical makeup of
  one's physiology?  Does it release our natural feel good 
  chemicals within the body?  Or, maintain balanced levels
  of serotonin, dopamine, etc.
 
 My experience with TM meditation and its associated practices
 is that it is a way to hijack our usual brain reward system
 for achievement in our lives.

Maybe this should say, ...it is a way to hijack my usual
brain reward system for achievement in my life, since this
is your personal experience.

 And this was Maharishi's stated goal, fulfillment divorced
 from achievement.

When did he say this? Do you have a quote? Was this one
of the secret teachings just for teachers? Because I
sure don't remember having heard him say it.

Anybody else remember Maharishi saying this was his goal?

 If you keep mediating you cultivate the mind to trigger
 highly pleasurable states. It becomes very addictive.
 Many meditators show signs of extreme irritation if they
 miss a mediation once they get hooked on it just like
 any other addict.

How many meditators show this? What percentage would you
say? And how have you determined this?

In what follows, you shift back and forth from statements
about your personal experience to general statements as to
how TM affects people in general. With regard to the latter,
could you explain how you've determined that these are
effects common to everyone who practices TM? (Or meditation
in general, depending on which you mean, which you don't
always specify.)

I ask because none of what you describe resembles my
own experience.




 So IMO mediation can become a problem like any other form of 
 hijacking the pleasure states, meant to reward our species for doing 
 things that promote our survival or express our creativity. I believe 
 there is no neuronal free lunch, every pleasure state has a cost.  
 
 Of course this is a highly heretical view in circles where regular 
 meditation and more meditation are both seen as only positives.  But 
 

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