Re: [lace-chat] Re: Katrina devastaion

2005-09-30 Thread Weronika Patena
On Thu, Sep 29, 2005 at 10:52:38PM -0700, susan wrote:
 i'm not sure who mentioned this wether it was weronica  or you that
 poland ( and i guess poland is communists.  i'm not good at political
 studies and only remember what you have written on this website) made
 all the people in the city take nature walks and go berry picking to
 show them what they could eat for survival tactics. i thought that was
 a nice idea, and they should try to get the innner city school kids
 here when they are in grade school to go on field trips to learn those
 things.  you never know if later in life it could save your life.

Definitely wasn't me.  
Teaching city kids enough to actually be able to survive in the wild
would take a long course, not a walk with berry picking.  Of course getting
them out of the city once in a while is good for other reasons - I just 
don't think it would do that much for survival. 
Also, Poland hasn't been communist since 1989.  And Russia since 1991 or so?
The only communist countries in the world now are I think China, Cuba, Laos, 
North Korea, Vietnam. 

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: coffee and tea preferences

2005-09-22 Thread Weronika Patena
No tea, no coffee.  Except tea sometimes when my stomach hurts
(very strange - then I suddenly get cravings for strong tea
without sugar, which I normally hate; and it does make the pain
stop!).  I tried coffee once.  Arabic, incredibly strong in a 
tiny little cup.  Arrgh.  Good thing they gave me lots of 
sticky candy with it.  
When I was a kid, my mom said I'm a freak because I won't drink 
tea...  Everyone else in my family does. 
I like water, milk, hot chocolate, and random soft drinks.  
Ah, and Thai ice tea, but I don't think that counts. 

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: Language Evolution

2005-09-02 Thread Weronika Patena
On Fri, Sep 02, 2005 at 07:34:12PM -0400, Tamara P. Duvall wrote:
 Polish, OTOH, still happily uses dual number (if in very few instances) 
 and group number, baffling foreigners who attempt to learn it... Which 
 is why Polish'll never become the international language of 
 communication :) 

Dual and group number, really?  I can't think of any examples...

 Of course, the plethora of little do-dads - over the 
 letters, under the letters - doesn't help either; one wonders how come 
 both Latin and English managed to escape those altogehter :)

Latin, by inventing their own alphabet; English, by just giving each word 
a randomly chosen Latin alphabet spelling in no way related to 
pronounciation... G

 Texting is a separate system of spelling on its own
 
 I wish I had enough brain cells left to follow the development of 
 texting - it looks fascinating. But, when my son tried to give me an 
 example (granted, texting is almost allien to him too, since he's 28 
 g), it left me totally baffled. All I'd want to learn how to text is: 
 duh?

What is texting?

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] fwd: It may save...

2005-08-23 Thread Weronika Patena
I guess the moral was don't open your car to a stranger for any reason...
Which seems obvious, but I did find this particular story useful - I don't 
think I've ever thought of the possibility that the bad guy could act 
so nice and come up with such a smart trick.  

Weronika

On Tue, Aug 23, 2005 at 08:31:39PM -0700, Bev Walker wrote:
  It was approximately 5:15 A.M. in Opelousas, La. I had stayed with a
  friend there and was on my way to work. I stopped at the Exxon/Blimpie
  Pie station to get gas. I got $10 gas and a Diet Coke. I took into the
  store two $5 bills and one $1 bill (just enough to get my stuff).
 
 so - what is the moral - be careful at 5:15 am, don't go to Opelousas LA,
 and if so avoid the Exxon/BP - buy Pepsi next time not Diet Coke...
 
 of course you can't be too careful, these forward-to-everyone stories clog
 the inboxes though...
 :(
 
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Re: [lace-chat] .......And flying things

2005-08-09 Thread Weronika Patena
I don't think you necessarily need to worry about self-inflicted pain...  I 
used to do that a lot as
a kid, and still don't think there was anything unhealthy about it.  I just 
wanted to be tough and
to develop my pain resistance - I wasn't being suicidal or self-hating or 
anything, and only used
methods with non-permanent effects (nettles were a favorite).  

As for flying things, I have a childhood story about that too...  We had some 
really old Christmas
hard candy that we didn't want to eat, so me and my brother put in out on the 
windowsill (is that the right
spelling?) and opened the window so the wasps could get to it.  The wasps were 
really happy about
it, and we ended up with *lots* of them crawling around our window for several 
days.  We had a net
on the window so they couldn't get into the house, but we'd put our hands under 
the net all the time
and play with them, and they never stung us.  To full of candy, probably g.

Weronika

On Tue, Aug 09, 2005 at 09:07:19AM -0700, susan wrote:
 i think you can be sure no one here will try that at home!   it's good to 
 know she wasn't completely insane.  a mother would have to worry about a 
 child if she liked inflicting pain on herself!  

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: ......And flying things

2005-08-09 Thread Weronika Patena
On Tue, Aug 09, 2005 at 10:17:16PM -0400, Tamara P. Duvall wrote:
 No wonder the two of us hit it off like a house on fire, despite a 34 
 years difference in our ages :) And I don't think it's something 
 specifically Polish (as in dumb Polack), either...
 
 I remember being at camp (aged maybe 10 or 11), where a group of us 
 decided to form an Indian tribe. As every child in Poland knew, Red 
 Indians were noble and stoic,  indifferent to pain, and feared nothing 
 at all... So. In order to qualify for membership, one had to pass 
 certain tests, which we devised ourselves. Some were simply skills - 
 races, climbing trees (the fastest and the highest. I had an advantage 
 there, being skinny; even the high limbs didn't bend under me g). But 
 some amounted to self-inflicted pain - running over sharp objects, 
 rubbing with nettles, hitting yourself with pine bough (needless part) 
 till your hand bled and then swinging the hand till the blood *ran* - 
 useful for blood oaths, where you were supposed to mix your blood 
 with that of someone else's We were a bunch of very well-read young 
 savages with great imaginations :)

Wow!!!  I wish we had that!!  Most of the kids my age weren't that much into 
Indians, just me and
one friend, so we'd go off by ourselves and spend the whole afternoon in tests 
involving nettles,
cold water, and what not...  We did all have lots of fights (organized for fun, 
not angry fights),
which was fun too.  

And good job with the chief's wife part!! VBG

It really is continuously amazing how well we fit together, Tamara. 

Weronika


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[lace-chat] I completely forgot to tell you all about my wedding!!

2005-07-22 Thread Weronika Patena
I just remembered that I don't think I've written on arachne about anything 
that's been going on in
my life for the last few months...  Which is quite a lot!

I one week, middle of June, I graduated, got married, and moved to the Bay Area.

Some of you may know I was actually already married for a year - the way that 
worked is that we
quietly got legally married in the City Hall last year, for practical purposes, 
but this year we
had a big ceremony and reception with guests and such.  One of the reasons for 
that was to get
graduation and the wedding in the same week so my parents could visit and see 
both, which they did.
They've never been in the US before, since the trip from Poland is expensive, 
so it was nice that
they could finally come.

The wedding went very well, sometime soon I'll put info about in in my journal
(http://vole.stanford.edu/weronika/,
click on JOURNAL) - I'm still behind on that.  But there are pictures
(http://vole.stanford.edu/images/wedding/).
It was all in a botanic garden, very pretty, and we designed the ceremony 
ourselves (neither of us
is religious, and legally we were already married anyway, so we could do 
whatever we wanted).  I did
wear a dress, which is a rare thing... G

I didn't manage to make any lace to wear for the wedding, but Tamara made me a 
beautiful Milanese
bracelet!  Pictures of that in my lace journal (same webpage, click on the 
Journal link under LACE).
Thank you, Tamara!!

Soon after that, me and Geoffrey moved into Stanford couples housing, so now 
I'm permanently in the
Bay Area, can go to Cathy's Lace Museum classes every week, and all sorts of 
good things.

I did not get into grad school, which I'm actually pretty happy about - now I 
get to relax and make
lace for a few months, and I'll look for a job after the summer.

Life is good.

Weronika


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Re: [lace-chat] French: was: [lace] Re: Query

2005-04-29 Thread Weronika Patena
 English got its habit of French interjections from a little event in 1066 -- 
 but where did Polish pick it up?  

Several centuries later...  Around baroque, I think, maybe?  My history is
pretty bad, but I remember French was very fashionable for a while.  

 Do you also have latin stock phrases?  (e.g.:   etc., i.e., q.v., Q.E.D., 
 gustabis non disputandem est, habeus corpus, quid pro quo, carpe diem, . . . )

Yes, we do, although not as many as in English.  We had very little contact with
actual Romans, so these come from the Middle Ages, when Latin was the learned
language. 

There is some German, too, unsurprisingly.  And I'm sure there are lots of
influences from other Slavic languages, but these are hard to pick out. 
Ah, and Italian, too, from when one of our kings married an Italian woman and
she introduced things like cauliflower ;-)

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: Whither US?

2005-02-07 Thread Weronika Patena
On Fri, Feb 04, 2005 at 11:30:13PM -0500, Tamara P. Duvall wrote:
 On Feb 3, 2005, at 1:01, Weronika Patena wrote:
 
 This is the first thing I've ever heard that I could seriously apply 
 the
 adjective mind-boggling to...
 
 Really scary, too.
 http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/4225013.stm
 
 Yes, but only up to a point... It *is* scary, because those kids mouth 
 off what they'd heard at home, which gives you an insight into what US 
 (supposedly s much for liberty... All the while hating liberals 
 g) *really is* - as bigoted as any other country. But you also need 
 to adjust it for age group
 
 These are highschool teens. They've not been taught freedom of speech 
 at home... Quite the opposite, they've been taught to keep their mouths 
 closed and follow the party line. How many parents on this list, 
 however liberal/progressive, have, never-ever, used the phrase: don't 
 you dare speak to me like this! to a sulky child? The -accepted by 
 necessity and excused by necessity -  parental disregard for 
 individuality is easily transfered to *other* authority, be it a priest 
 or a president.

???
Since when do teenagers actually think this sort of parental behavior *is a good
thing* and want more of it from the government in their adult lives??  You'd
think it'd just make them even more against any authoritarian tendencies...  

 And, of course, those kids may never get the chance to grow up into 
 thinking individuals; the current administration does not encourage 
 individual thinking any more than the Polish/USSR communist governments 
 did... 

Fortunately, even under the communist government we ended up with a decent
fraction of thinking people...  Perhaps even more decent than usual, since it
was so obvious that there was something wrong with the way the administration
was doing things. 

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: Whither US?

2005-02-07 Thread Weronika Patena
On Mon, Feb 07, 2005 at 11:49:42PM -0500, Tamara P. Duvall wrote:
 
 What I have observed - myself, my friends, my son, my friends' children 
 - is this: the parents and the kids can fight - tooth and nail - on 
 every issue under the sun. But ask them a question of *judgement* that 
 is outside their direct interest/knowledge - something I tend to term 
 philosophy/politics (are men or women better drivers? Are Whites, 
 Asians, Latinos, or Blacks the smartest segment of the population? 
 Abortion? Gay marriage? Gun control? Freedom of speech? Etc, etc)...
 
 Any and all of those issues they have never really given any thought 
 to, because the immediate reality (is Amy gonna invite me to her b-day 
 party, and will Bobby be there? If so, what sould I wear other than 
 makeup?) is more important... Short term is where it's at when you're a 
 very young human being, just beginning to think :) So, faced with big 
 issues, they're likely to spout back whatever they'd heard - either 
 the latest or the most often repeated. And home is where they hear it 
 :) If home, school, church and government (TV) all agree, that's 
 splendid, since it requires no thinking at all, just regurgitation, 
 adjusted for hopefully, this is what you want to hear. If the're a 
 discrepancy, they chose the view they've heard from the least 
 objectionable parent...

I still find that unintuitive - my default response to most questions, if I
didn't think about it, was to spout the *exact opposite* of whatever was most
often repeated at home or in school...  I still haven't managed to get rid of
this attitude - I find myself having problems with completely harmless things
(like a white wedding dress) just because that's how it's traditionally
done.  Reverse regurgitation doesn't require much thinking either...
But I can believe that most teenagers choose the opposite route, if they
don't have any basic world-view conflicts with their parents...

 I was thrown into adulthood prematurely, but even I was unable to - 
 totally - escape this paradigm; until I was 16, I was still fine-tuning 
 my Mother's point of view (discarded my father's at 12, the 
 government's at 6 - at my Mother's instigation - and never thought the 
 church knew what it was talking about, having gown up as an atheist)

I was raised Catholic, but decided it makes no sense in early high school,
which would indicate some thinking...  Still had to go to religion classes
until I turned 18, since my parents refused to sign the papers to let me not
to.  And my problems with the religion were mostly of the abortion, gay
marriage, etc. sort, not of the church is boring and I don't see a point
sort.  

 Bush's restrictive system may, actually, have the same backlash 
 result in the long run that the communist goverment's did; it's so 
 obviously *wrong*, people will start objecting on principle, even if 
 they don't *quite* know what they're objecting to... 

That seems very possible right now...

 Of course, we did know our history (and its bizarre turns), while 
 Americans don't seem to care about past lessons... :(

Their history doesn't seem to be nearly as painful, so it's probably harder 
to remember.

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Whither US?

2005-02-02 Thread Weronika Patena
This is the first thing I've ever heard that I could seriously apply the
adjective mind-boggling to...  

Really scary, too.  

Weronika


On Thu, Feb 03, 2005 at 12:30:37AM -0500, Tamara P. Duvall wrote:
 An interesting bit of news...
 
 http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/4225013.stm
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 Lexington, Virginia, USA (Formerly of Warsaw, Poland)
  
  
 
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[lace-chat] German Amazon order translation - help!

2005-01-05 Thread Weronika Patena
Hi, 
I'm trying to buy a book on the German Amazon website, but I don't know
German...  Could someone who does help me? 

I'm getting this message:

Wichtige Nachricht!
Bei ihrer Bestellung ist ein kleines Problem aufgetreten (siehe unten).

Dieser Artikel kann leider nicht an den gewunschten Ort versandt werden.  Sie
konnen entweder die Versandadresse andern oder den Artikel aus Ihrer Bestellung
loschen, indem Sie seine Stuckzahl auf 0 setzen und dann den
Aktualisierungsbutton unten anklicken.

What does that mean??

Weronika

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[lace-chat] German Amazon purchase - need go-between

2005-01-05 Thread Weronika Patena
Hi, 

I'm trying to get a book from Amazon.de, and for some reason it refuses to ship
to either my US address or my Polish address.  I'm not sure why or what
addresses it would ship to, but presumably German ones and maybe some other
European countries? 

Since I can't do it and that's the only place to get the book (Russian Lace
Making by Cook, which has been out of print for a while), could someone in
Germany or maybe elsewhere in Europe let me use their address for Amazon and
then mail the book to my US address when it arrives?  I'll pay back for the
shipping cost (I'm not sure what a good method of transfering small amounts of
money between countries is - maybe PayPal?).

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] measuring a child's coat

2004-12-18 Thread Weronika Patena
On Sat, Dec 18, 2004 at 09:18:28PM -, Margery Allcock wrote:
 Weronika wrote:
 Can anyone explain why children always have to wear mittens and not real
 gloves??
 
 Maybe it starts when a child is a baby - can you imagine a mother dressing a
 wriggly baby in tiny gloves with separate tiny fingers?  Mittens do simplify
 the process.  And the mother keeps on giving the child mittens until it's
 big enough to put its own gloves on or complain about the mittens?  Just a
 guess ...

That all makes sense.  I was wearing mittens long after I complained about them,
but that might've been because you couldn't buy child-sized gloves in Poland
when I was a kid...  Well, or just because my mom believed kids should wear
mittens g. 
They do keep you warmer, except when you're a 9-year-old who really cares about
making good snowballs and so you take them off all the time to play in the snow,
like I did... g

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: Lace and fairy tale

2004-12-17 Thread Weronika Patena
On Sun, Dec 12, 2004 at 09:06:52PM -0500, Tamara P. Duvall wrote:
 And, on the subject of a missing sleeve... Wasn't there a story - in 
 the Brothers Grimm collection - about a girl who had to make 12 shirts 
 for her brothers who'd been turned into ravens?

I remember one with swans...  And the girl had to make the shirts out of nettles
at night at a graveyard.  And there were additional gruesome effects, I think,
but I don't remember.  The fact that those used to be stories for children tells
you something about how life must have been then...

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] measuring a child's coat

2004-12-17 Thread Weronika Patena
I never minded feeling like a child (I was the I never want to grow up type,
and in fact still am to some extent), but I hated mittens too.  Do really bad
things to your manual ability.  The string was mildly annoying, but not nearly
as bad as the mittens themselves (plus, I did lose things a lot, so I realized
it made sense). 
Can anyone explain why children always have to wear mittens and not real
gloves??

Weronika

On Thu, Dec 16, 2004 at 08:31:11AM +1100, Ruth Budge wrote:
 Dear Bev,
 
 Your question brought back memories!   Let me say upfront that I understand
 the need for strings to connect mittens, especially for a young child, but
 as a young child, I *hated* having a string
 
 To keep my little hands warm in an English winter, I had a pair of fur
 mittens (my mother had fur gloves...and how I wished I had gloves too!),
 and I would walk along the street pretending my mittens were, in fact,
 grown-up gloves just like Mum's.But the biggest stumbling block to my
 imagination was that dratted string (in fact, a long piece of elastic, which
 allowed me to stretch my arms without too much trouble).   It rubbed the
 back of my neck, it tangled round my arms in the coat sleeves, but, worst of
 all in my opinion, it spoilt the look of my mittens (because I could see
 where the elastic had been sewn onto the mitten) and made me feel like a
 child!
 
 Nothing worse for a 4 or 5 year old - to feel like a child!!
 
 Ruth Budge (Sydney, Australia)
 
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 From: Bev Walker [EMAIL PROTECTED]
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 Sent: Thursday, December 16, 2004 4:32 AM
 Subject: [lace-chat] measuring a child's coat
 
 
  Hi everyone, especially those within reach of a child's jacket
 
  I need to know how long to make the 'string' to connect a pair of mittens
  I've knitted for a 2 yr-old. The pattern directions helpfully tell me to
  make the cord 'the desired length' - ok...I don't know the kid's wingspan,
  and I would like to present the mittens + string 'complete' - if someone
  with a winter garment for a 2 to 4 yr. old could please
  measure the distance from cuff to cuff along the shoulder line, I would be
  grateful. It would be better to make it a bit too long, than too short.
  Too, too long would be cumbersome.
 
  TIA for any help!
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Re: [lace-chat] measuring a child's coat

2004-12-17 Thread Weronika Patena
That makes sense...  But what age are we talking about here?  I was still 
wearing 
mittens in 1st-3rd grades, and I find it hard to imagine that children who can 
write and do math can't put on gloves...  

Weronika

On Sat, Dec 18, 2004 at 01:30:59PM +1100, Ruth Budge wrote:
 Because it's actually very hard (and I speak as a mother of three here!) to
 ease a small child's fingers into gloves!   Young children don't seem to
 have the manual dexterity to fit each finger in each hole, or even the
 mental capability to envisage which finger goes into which holeso you
 end up with a child  who's managed to put the thumb in the thumb-hole OK,
 but who has then managed to insert the second finger into the third hole,
 and the third and fourth fingers into the fourth hole, and who have a finger
 left over, with nowhere to go - or some similar mess!!!
 
 Ruth Budge (Sydney, Australia)
 
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 From: Weronika Patena [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 To: Ruth Budge [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Cc: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Sent: Saturday, December 18, 2004 1:19 PM
 Subject: Re: [lace-chat] measuring a child's coat
 
 
  I never minded feeling like a child (I was the I never want to grow up
 type,
  and in fact still am to some extent), but I hated mittens too.  Do really
 bad
  things to your manual ability.  The string was mildly annoying, but not
 nearly
  as bad as the mittens themselves (plus, I did lose things a lot, so I
 realized
  it made sense).
  Can anyone explain why children always have to wear mittens and not real
  gloves??
 
  Weronika
 
  On Thu, Dec 16, 2004 at 08:31:11AM +1100, Ruth Budge wrote:
   Dear Bev,
  
   Your question brought back memories!   Let me say upfront that I
 understand
   the need for strings to connect mittens, especially for a young child,
 but
   as a young child, I *hated* having a string
  
   To keep my little hands warm in an English winter, I had a pair of fur
   mittens (my mother had fur gloves...and how I wished I had gloves
 too!),
   and I would walk along the street pretending my mittens were, in fact,
   grown-up gloves just like Mum's.But the biggest stumbling block to
 my
   imagination was that dratted string (in fact, a long piece of elastic,
 which
   allowed me to stretch my arms without too much trouble).   It rubbed the
   back of my neck, it tangled round my arms in the coat sleeves, but,
 worst of
   all in my opinion, it spoilt the look of my mittens (because I could see
   where the elastic had been sewn onto the mitten) and made me feel like a
   child!
  
   Nothing worse for a 4 or 5 year old - to feel like a child!!
  
   Ruth Budge (Sydney, Australia)
  
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Hi everyone, especially those within reach of a child's jacket
   
I need to know how long to make the 'string' to connect a pair of
 mittens
I've knitted for a 2 yr-old. The pattern directions helpfully tell me
 to
make the cord 'the desired length' - ok...I don't know the kid's
 wingspan,
and I would like to present the mittens + string 'complete' - if
 someone
with a winter garment for a 2 to 4 yr. old could please
measure the distance from cuff to cuff along the shoulder line, I
 would be
grateful. It would be better to make it a bit too long, than too
 short.
Too, too long would be cumbersome.
   
TIA for any help!
-- 
bye for now
Bev in Sooke, BC (on Vancouver Island, west coast of Canada)
Cdn. floral bobbins and New Christmas Bobbin
www.woodhavenbobbins.com
   
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Re: [lace-chat] Thanksgiving (was Christmas of old)

2004-12-01 Thread Weronika Patena
 Thanksgiving is not a holiday I grew up with, so I've only ever paid 
 scant attention to it - no more than I *had to* (like going to the bank 
 and PO a day before or forget it till Friday following). 

Yeah...  Maybe next year I'll finally remember to organize some food before
Thanksgiving instead of finding out all the restaurants are closed and eating
bread...

 In Poland of 
 my childhood and teens, we had something like harvest festival 
 (dozynki - gathering of last strands of grain), but we all thought it 
 was something contrived by the Communist government seeking to promote 
 the rule of workers and peasants 

Really?  I've always thought it was older than the communist government...  We
still had them when I was a kid (later we moved from a village to a city, so I
don't know if villages continued to have them).  

 BTW, someone sent me some info on Polish Christmas customs, which said 
 they differed in different parts of the country. They sure did, but the 
 website never mentioned the one I grew up with - that the gifts were 
 brought by the First Star of 24th. 

At least one side of my family had that one too.  Really, we had a combination: 
On I think Dec 6th, which is St. Nicholas Day in Poland, we got presents from
our immediate family from St. Nicholas, and then for Christmas we all visited
our grandparents and got presents from our extended families from the Star.
The Christmas Eve dinner started when the kids saw the first star (really
annoying when it's cloudy), and we got to open presents after dinner (according
to my friends you do in the next morning in the US - is that right?). 
It really is sort of strange that all the fun of Christmas was actually on the
day before, and then on actual Christmas Day we just ate leftovers and had to go
to church G. 

 A subtle reminder that the same star 
 announced the gift to mankind of the baby Jesus (if one's beliefs go 
 that way). Nevertheless, the gifts were dropped off under the tree, not 
 under a stable trough... :)

Is that a custom anywhere??

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Fw: The LITTLE Things

2004-11-27 Thread Weronika Patena
All these lists really make me wonder how many people weren't actually supposed
to be in the Twin Towers at the time but were there and died because of similar
little things...

Weronika

On Sat, Nov 27, 2004 at 10:59:22AM -0800, Lorri Ferguson wrote:
 I don't know how true any of these statements are but it does make one think.
 Lorri
 
 After Sept. 11th, one company invited the remaining members of other companies
 who had been decimated by the attack on the Twin Towers to share their
 available office space.  At a morning meeting, the head of security told
 stories of why these people were alive. and, all the stories were just:
 
 L I T T L E  things which include the following:
 As you might know, the head of the company got in late that day because his
 son started kindergarten.
 Another fellow was alive because it was his turn to bring donuts.
 One woman was late because her alarm clock didn't go off in time.
 One was late because of being stuck on the NJ Turnpike because of an auto
 accident.!
 One of them missed his bus.
 One spilled food on her! clothes and had to take time to change.
 One's car wouldn't start.
 One went back to answer the telephone.
 One had a child that dawdled and didn't get ready as soon as he should have.
 One couldn't get a taxi.
 The one that struck me was the man who put on a new pair of shoes that
 morning, took the various means to get to work but before he got there, he
 developed a blister on his foot. He stopped at a drugstore to buy a Band-Aid.
 That is why he is alive today.
 
 Now when I am stuck in traffic, miss an elevator, turn back to answer a
 ringing telephone ... all the little things that annoy me. I think to myself,
 this is exactly where God wants me to be at this very moment.
 
 
 Next time your morning seems to be going wrong, the children are slow getting
 dressed, you can't seem to find the car keys, you hit every traffic light,
 don't get mad or frustrated;  God is at work watching over you.
 
 May God continue to bless you with all those annoying little things and may
 you remember their possible purpose.
 
 Pass this on to someone else, if you'd like.   There is NO LUCK attached. If
 you delete this, it's okay:  God's Love Is Not Dependent On E-Mail.
 
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Re: [lace-chat] Black Squirrels

2004-10-24 Thread Weronika Patena
I know Stanford has both black and ground squirrels, and they both seem to be
doing fine.  The ground squirrels are much more numerous - in fact on average
there's at least one in sight wherever you are on campus.  I'm not sure about
brown tree squirrels though. 

At Caltech we have lots of brown tree squirrels (I think that's what they are,
anyway), and I think a few black squirrels, but again the brown ones are much
more numerous.

So as far as I know black squirrels don't drive the other ones out. 

Weronika

On Sun, Oct 24, 2004 at 09:21:05AM -0400, Webwalker wrote:
 I live in NE Ohio -- about 60 miles in from both the N and E borders. 
 About 20 years ago, a community of black squirrels were living about 20 
 miles north of here--and were prevalent.  No one I knew had ever seen 
 black squirrels before.  Now there are black squirrels where I 
 live--both black and brown.
 
 Do any of you have black squirrels, and if so, do you know if they drive 
 out the other squirrels?
 
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Re: [lace-chat] celebrations

2004-09-16 Thread Weronika Patena
 We have some exciting news. DD1 became engaged to her boyfriend last night. 

Congratulations!

 He came and requested DH's permission a couple of days ago. We were really
 honoured that he would do that in these times. 

What did DD1 think about it?  I must say, if Geoffrey did something like that,
and then asked me to marry him, he sure wouldn't get a yes. 

 He has been lay-bying the ring
 for 6 months. I can't wait to see it.

What's lay-bying?

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] :-) I'm Older 'n Dirt

2004-08-28 Thread Weronika Patena
And I, being only 21, can still tell very similar things about my childhood in
Poland!

We definitely ate at home, all the time.  Or in the school cafeteria.  I was
picky, so I often ended up sitting there for an hour or two not eating my food
before they let me get up. 

We lived in a flat.  Only one family on our floor had a phone, so we all used
theirs - even better than a party line, huh? g.  My grandparents did have a
party line phone - I think it was actually for the whole village.  Also, you
didn't dial at all, you just lifted the speaker part and told the phone person
who you wanted to talk to.  Also, there was a little handle on the side of the
phone, which you had to turn to make it work - I don't remember whether you had
to do it all the time or just at the beginning, but I remember it being an
important part of the process g. 

Once, my father and his friend decided to get a TV *and* a video casette player.
They couldn't afford to get both, so they both rotated between our houses every
month.  The TV was, of course, very small and black-and-white, although as a
child I swore I saw colors on it, and when we finally got a color TV much later,
I was very disappointed, because the colors were all wrong g. 

It was hard to get basic food products.  I remember once standing in line for
rice.  The line went out of the store, down the stairs, and about the length of
the block.  Me and mom switched places so that one of us would stand in the line
and the other could go sit down for a while, since it took hours.  The guy right
before me in the line bought the last two bags of rice.  
And once, when Dad came back home on a break in his mandatory army training, he
brought home ORANGES!

We had lots of power outages and similar stuff.  Sometimes all at once.  Once,
in the middle of winter, the power and the gas (i.e. the stuff that worked your
stove) went out all at once.  And since power was needed to pump water up to the
flat, no water either.  For about a week.  Me and my dad had to go to the well
every day to get water.  I was probably about 10 years old, the buckets were
heavy, so I always spilled some and it froze on my clothing before we got home. 
Being a kid, I actually thought it was a lot of fun.  I called it The Ice Age
g. 

So, apparently, I'm also Older 'n Dirt!  And I bet if I told those stories to
Polish kids 8 or 10 years younger, they'd have just as hard a time believing
it...


Weronika


On Sat, Aug 28, 2004 at 06:18:38PM +0100, Jean Nathan wrote:
 This was sent to DH. Change the currency and some of the words, and you
 could be in the UK apart from the revolving charge card. My parents belonged
 to various shop's clubs - paid in a bit each week until there was enough
 money on the card to pay for a pair of shoes or whatever the shop sold.
 
 
 
 I am Older 'n Dirt!!

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Re: [lace-chat] Civics/Citizen education

2004-08-09 Thread Weronika Patena
I lived in Poland up to the end of high school.  We did have citizenship education, 
but nobody took it seriously - that was the class we used to play games under the 
table or do homework for other classes.  It was pretty boring, too.  
I'm not sure how true that really is, but it seems to me that in Poland there still 
isn't much concept of citizenship, because our goverments have been our enemies for 
so long.  Most people I know, my age at least, don't regard the law as something very 
important (it's practically good to follow it sometimes, because bad things may happen 
if you get caught, but it often seems to have no particular ethical value).  I think 
part of the reason (or maybe it's the effect...) for that is that we have lots of laws 
that aren't enforced - high school kids get drunk on a regular basis, bus 
ticket-checkers take bribes, etc.  
Here in the US I haven't developed much sense of citizenship yet (makes sense, given 
how I'm not a citizen g), but I might given time - I intend to stay, and I like a 
lot of things about the country. One thing that seems to me strange in terms of 
citizenship is how the voting system is set up so that in most states voting is 
pointless, since everyone knows what most people in the state will vote for anyway.  
The two-party system is sort of strange too.  We don't have to take any citizenship 
education at Caltech (most people do take law or at least economics, but I'm trying to 
stick to psychology). 

Weronika

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 I am taking part in some classes and salons on the philosopher-citizen as a decision 
 maker and it came up that citizenship  is a concept in flux: that it has different 
 meanings in other states or countries and that it was taught so very differently in 
 the past.
 
 I would love to hear from all of you, particularly those in different states and 
 countries (I'm in California) about what citizenship means to you and what 
 citizenship education you received in school at all or various levels.  (It would 
 then help to know ages.)  For instance, I have heard but don't know if it is true or 
 how it would be enforced, that it is illegal to not vote in Australia.
 
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Re: [lace-chat] Civics/Citizen education

2004-08-09 Thread Weronika Patena
 It is illegal not to vote in Australian elections, if your name is on the
 electoral role and is not crossed off at the election then you get fined.
 Someone tried to publicise some way of making a stand against the compulsory
 voting without the possibility of  getting fined - they got fined for doing
 that.

That's amazing...

 You can understand why they make it compulsory if you could see the ballot
 paper for the Senate (Upper house) it seems to get larger every year, last
 time I think it was about 3ft by 1 ft. The paper is divided into 2 sections
 you can put one cross in the upper section which is basically voting for a
 party. Or you put numbers 1 - 10 in the lower section which has the names of
 each candidate in the order of your preference.

It seems like that would just make people vote randomly, since they didn't want to do 
it in the first place and it's so complicated...  Maybe they should try to make it 
simpler instead of forcing people to do it. 

 In the UK where I originally hail from voting is not compulsory - I think I
 only ever missed one local election. Citizenship is not taught at schools, as
 such, depends I suppose on what you mean by citizenship. Part of education,
 partly by school and mainly by parents is what it means to be a good citizen -
 I suppose I talking morality and ethics.

I'm not sure how much that's related.  It seems perfectly possible to be an ethical 
person and an anarchist...  Then again, maybe that just shows my personal idea of 
citizenship g.  But I really don't see countries as very important - both the people 
you interact with and people in general seem to be more important groups to be ethical 
towards. 

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] RE: civics/citizenship

2004-08-09 Thread Weronika Patena
 I know that my kids recite the Pledge of Allegiance each day at school -
 they're going into 3rd grade and 1st grade.  They both had to learn the
 Pledge in preschool, to recite at their Pre-K graduation.  I'm not sure
 that it makes you a better citizen, but it does make you aware of your
 responsibilities as a citizen.  

Or make you significantly more annoyed with your country, as it would probably do with 
me.  I hate reciting things, even if they make sense.  

 I don't think you have to have proof of Citizenship to be a good Citizen
 - to me it's a 2 part thing.  The Official Citizenship (ie
 passports/papers, etc), but it's the other part - what comes from
 within, and what you contribute to society in terms of teaching and
 obeying the laws of the society you live in, and your good work in the
 community - even if it's a couple of hours a month in your Kids' school
 or being a driver or companion to an elderly person or whatever.  

But that seems like it's just being a good person, not necessarily a good citizen.  

 My kids' school has a programme for the first graders, that voluntary,
 for kids to go to a local retirement home/assisted living centre, and
 read and talk to some of the elderly residents.  I signed my son up for
 it, as I thought it was a worthwhile thing to do - his GGrandmother is
 in a similar place, and she's lucky as we visit her regularly (I take
 her books on tape weekly), but I explained that there are many who
 aren't as fortunate as their family don't live nearby, or are all dead
 or just don't care.  It wasn't his most favourite activity, but it was a
 good lesson in being part of the community, and giving back.

I definitely agree that's a good thing. 

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Eyrope in a wheelchair

2004-06-09 Thread Weronika Patena
 Where do they proprose to wash? Presumably in public toilets - good luck to
 them - I wouldn't. They'll need good street maps to show the location of
 them. In Poole (and I think this is a case in a lot of towns), public
 toilets have been closed because of the filthy state they get in, drug abuse
 in them and vandalism. 

Now I see why in Poland you generally have to pay for public
toilets and there are actual people there who take your money, and
hopefully prevent you from doing anything unpleasant.

 Larger stores have toilets for public use, but I
 don't think they'd be too happy to have vagrants using them to have a strip
 wash.

Well, Claire needs special facilities to do anything of this sort
anyway, so there probably won't be very much washing involved in the
sleeping in parks period.  She's cutting her hair very short.  

 Presumably they intend to eat more than just bread - I don't know how long
 it takes to develop scurvy if you don't get enough vitamin C.

I'm sure they'll get hungry for stuff they're not getting before
anything particularly bad happens.  Plus, they'll probably have more
money than they thought, anyway. 

 I'm sure there a lot of things that they haven't thought of.

Of course.  The fun of traveling.  g

Weronika

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[lace-chat] Re: Europe in a wheelchair

2004-06-07 Thread Weronika Patena
Well, she'll have a brother with her most of the time.  And I'm not sure
how dangerous sleeping in random places really is - I've done quite a lot in
Warsaw, which is not supposed to be a very safe city, and I've never had
any trouble.  Plus, the stories are so much better g

Weronika

On Mon, Jun 07, 2004 at 06:08:41PM +1000, Helene Gannac wrote:
 You've got a friend who's in a wheelchair and wants to sleep in parks in
 Europe I suggests she read a few European newspapers articles before
 she goes!! The incidence of thefts, rape, accidents in Europe for ordinary
 travellers is bad enough without planning to sleep in parks! Good grief! I
 thought I was a seasoned traveller, but I wouldn't have been game even
 when I was in my twenties!! 
 My instinct would be to say Stay home until you have enough money to
 sleep in hostels at least!
 Good luck to her if she goes. She must be game, but I think there is game
 and there is foolhardy...

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[lace-chat] Re: swivel windows

2004-06-07 Thread Weronika Patena
On Mon, Jun 07, 2004 at 05:59:02PM +1000, Helene Gannac wrote:
 Weronika wrote:
 I'm not sure how Tamara's swivel windows work, but the ones we have at
 home in Poland can open normally (i.e. like doors), and if you twist the
 handle up they'll open at the top and stay attached at the bottom, but
 only open a little, so you can leave them like that to get some air but
 not be cold.  Since all of the opening happens in one direction,
 mosquito screens should work with those. 
 
 Yes, that's how my mother's work too, but then, you can't put Venetian
 blinds inside to keep the sun out, and in Australia, we certainly need
 them!

Hmm.  I'm again not sure what Venetian blinds are, but in our house
there were things called zaluzje (Tamara?), which kept the sun out.
I looked at some venetian blind images, and it looks like they're the
same thing, but maybe normally they're mounted on the wall above the
window?  Ours were mounted directly on the window, so they just moved
with it when it opened (unfortunately no longer kept the sun out then).  

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: Mosquitoes

2004-06-07 Thread Weronika Patena
 Louise Hume [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  only the male mosquitoes sing, to attract the females.
 So... if you hear a mosquito singing, it is a male and will not bite.
 
 I have read this, too, but apparently the mosquitoes in Michigan haven't.
 I don't know if male and female mosquitoes have a different pitch, but I
 can definitely hear the ones that bite me.  Then again, perhaps this is a
 species thing, with some mosquiteo species quiet and other ones buzzy.

I've also heard the female-biting thing, but I've definitely had some
buzzing ones bite me.  I think maybe only females bite in the large
mosquito species and all of them bite in the small one?  That is
assuming those are different species at all.  

 Louise in Central Virginia,  where we have had so much rain in the past
 month that the mozzies rise up in clouds when one walks across the lawn.

Ouch.  Living in the desert has advantages.

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: Insects meet their fate

2004-06-05 Thread Weronika Patena
Hmm.  I don't have a flyswatter, but I use paper or such for flies, or
just open the window and try to get them to leave.  I deal with
mosquitoes the same way you do.  Especially effective when they're
trying to get at you in bed at night and you don't want to get up and
turn the light on.  I'm not sure a flyswatter would work on a hornet.
Anyway, with most insects it's enough to open the window and direct them
to it, since they're banging against the glass and trying to get out
anyway.  Flies, bees and such.  Mosquitoes try to get in, and I guess
fruit flies and such just stay in, but no point in trying to kill single
fruit flies, just have to take out the garbage (or, in the case of my
apartment-mate, perhaps wash the dishes). 
What's a flour moth?  If it's very small and reasonably slow, clapping
hands is my instinctive reaction too. 
And then there are people like my boyfriend, who show off by catching
flies alive g

Weronika

 Out of curiosity... When I see a fly or a bee/wasp/yellow jacket/hornet 
 in the house, I reach for the fly swatter. When I see a mosquito, I 
 wait for it to come into my parlour (ie alight somewhere on me) and 
 then slap it flat. When I see a flour moth, I chase all over the 
 kitchen after it, trying to smash it between my clapping hands. Most 
 unsatisfactory method, but one which seems instinctive... Do other 
 people do it the same way?
 
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Re: [lace-chat] Re: Lives of the cat

2004-06-05 Thread Weronika Patena
 All I can remember is that a cat always falls on 4 legs, ie lands 
 safely. In
 extensio, that would mean that a cat never dies at all g
 
 and a piece of buttered bread always lands butter side down.
 
 So if you strap a piece of bread, buttered side up, on a cat's back,
 and drop the cat from a height, then both the cat's feet and the
 buttered side of the bread will want to land first and hey presto,
 perpetual motion!

Or maybe they disappear into some alternative universe where you can
have down be in two directions at once... I guess it could happen in our
universe too, if you had two planets colliding or something.  Well then,
if we just attach a tracking device to the cat, we have a new method of
detecting colliding planets and other strange things!

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] :-)) Interesting exercise

2004-06-05 Thread Weronika Patena
Hmm.  Narwhal?  My spelling is probably wrong, but I'm pretty sure it
starts with an N. 

Weronika

On Sat, Jun 05, 2004 at 08:39:06AM +0100, Jean Nathan wrote:
 I didn't get any further than thinking of a letter - I just couldn't think
 of an animal that began with the letter N.
 
 I could only come up with a nant, a nalligator, a naarvark and a nelephant.
 
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Re: [lace-chat] Re: This is for Real - humour

2004-06-05 Thread Weronika Patena
 Weronika,
 The culture confuses ME, and I was born and raised here by very 
 non-international parents! 

I'm not sure whether I should be happy that my problem isn't abnormal,
or unhappy because that means it'll probably never go away... g

 Except for The Lord of the Rings and Harry 
 Potter, Master and Commander (because we liked the books) and 
 Minority Report, I don't think we've seen any movies in the last 
 five years. 

I find myself watching lots of movies now, because for some reason my
friends want to see them.  Like Spiderman and such.  In Poland I used to
only go see movies I knew were going to be really good, but here people 
seem to do it much more often, college students at least.  
Well, I can tell you you're not missing anything g

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Catching up with my reading of lace-chat digests

2004-06-05 Thread Weronika Patena
 If anyone wants to see the house that we are going to live in for the next
 phase of our lives, you can go to : http://oruvilla.ee/eng/index.html
 DH is wearing a blue shirt in the 3rd photo on the History page. A few 
 things
 that appeal to us about living in Estonia, are the simpler lifestyle, more
 exercise  less driving, healthier food  less candy  junk food,  no
 mortgage to pay off!! We think that we are very lucky to have this adventure
 ahead of us. The boys don't like the idea of moving but they'll adjust in 
 time.

That sounds great!  I like the US a lot, but I do wish I could live is
some more foreign country - the US is pretty similar to Poland other
than details (like much more money g), and I bet Estonia is more
different despite being much closer. 
How old are your boys?  I remember when I was in primary school my dad
got an offer to go to an African village with his family for 3 years to
teach English, and I thought it was the greatest idea ever!
Unfortunately we didn't go.  

I hope you enjoy the new phase of your life!

Weronika

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[lace-chat] friend going to Europe

2004-06-04 Thread Weronika Patena
Hi, everyone!
A friend of mine at Caltech is planning to go to Europe over the summer,
but doesn't know where she should go and where she can afford going.
Since you live all over the world and probably even go to Europe for
lace events, I thought you might know. 
So she's planning to travel around Europe for I think two months, most
of the time with her brother.  They don't have much money, so are
planning to sleep in parks and eat bread.  The current plan is to fly to
London, then go to Paris, and then sort of move in the direction of
Central and Eastern Europe using trains: some German cities, Vienna,
also Amsterdam, and then Krakow (I told her about that), Budapest,
Prague, maybe Sofija, and hopefully down to Istambul, and then somehow
get back to London (probably by plane) and fly back to the US.  Or the
other way around.  But this is very tentative.  So what cities do you
think she should see, what sort of cheap transportation is there, is it
safe to sleep in parks, how hard is it to find people who speak English?
Also, she's on a wheelchair - what's the situation with curbcuts (I
think that's the word - the way sidewalks ramp down to level with the
street on corners in the US), accessible buses and trains, etc.?  

By the way, the idea of traveling around Europe sounds great.  I should
do it sometime g

Weronika

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Re: [lace] Re: [lace-chat] The culture shock

2004-06-03 Thread Weronika Patena
 Everybody gets confused over whether 12:00 is ante meridian or post
 meridian.  

That's a relief - it's not just me being a confused foreigner... g

 Sensible people say that the time one minute after 11:59 AM is twelve
 noon, and the time one minute after 11:59 PM is twelve midnight.

Sounds reasonable. 

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] windows

2004-06-03 Thread Weronika Patena
  Tamara, obviously, you don't have many mosquitoes or flies in your part
  of the country!! You can't put mosquito screens up with swivel windows. I
 know the ones you mean, my parents have them in Provence, and I love
  them, but if I had them in Melbourne, we'd be invaded by flies during the
 day, and mosquitoes after sunset!!

I'm not sure how Tamara's swivel windows work, but the ones we have at
home in Poland can open normally (i.e. like doors), and if you twist the
handle up they'll open at the top and stay attached at the bottom, but
only open a little, so you can leave them like that to get some air but
not be cold.  Since all of the opening happens in one direction,
mosquito screens should work with those. 
I have no problem with mosquito screens as such, I just wish they opened
or had an easy way to take them out and put them back in (I took the
ones in my apartment out once and now I can't fit them back in!)

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] The culture shock

2004-06-03 Thread Weronika Patena
Ouch.  Ah well, I'm sure I'll live, and Alaska is just the greatest
place on Earth anyway (and that has absolutely nothing to do with the
fact that it's where my boyfriend comes from g).

Weronika

On Thu, Jun 03, 2004 at 11:15:12PM +0200, dominique wrote:
 Hi weronika`
 
 i'm ready to bet there will be in the summer and the further north they are 
 the greedier they are too G... 
 some mosquitoes managed to sting through our trousers and socks in a wood 
 near Paris  and they were huge  .. argh!
 I remember seeing a film about the artic and there was that herd of 
 reindeers running through  vast meadows trying to  escape swarm of 
 mosquitoes .. they didn't even stop for a bite ...
 
 still feeling like going to Alaska ??? ... just kidding ...
  
 dominique from Paris, france  .. 

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Re: [lace-chat] Weronika's Matlab

2004-06-02 Thread Weronika Patena
  (Also, my Matlab program just returned out of
  memory, arrgh)
 
 Hi, Weronika -
 
 Programming's like hitting your head on a brick wall - lovely when it
 stops!  G

g.  Actually programming isn't that bad, I just wish I had someone to
debug it for me!  Plus, I spent most of last summer dissecting fruit fly
larvae - programming really isn't that bad.  At least you can be pretty
sure there's nothing disgusting in your coffee g.

 And a programmer is a machine for turning coffee into code - is that still
 true for the newer generations of programmers?

I'm the rare non-coffee-addicted Techer, but in general, yes.  Even
worse for the electronics people, it seems.  Two years ago during finals
a friend of mine locked himself in the electronics building basement for
I think 5 days, without sleep or food, in order to finish his class
project.  

 BFN,

What does that mean?

Weronika
(Caltech, Pasadena, California)

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Re: [lace-chat] The culture shock

2004-06-02 Thread Weronika Patena
 In Michigan (very recently wet, rainy Michigan), if you didn't have window
 screens, you'd be eaten alive at night by mosquitoes.  Even with the
 screens, sometimes the mosquito-whining from outside the screens drives me
 crazy, and if one of the little devils has sneaked into the house, into the
 bedroom, it has to die before I can sleep.
 
 Does the US really have that many more flying, stinging insects than
 elsewhere in the world?

Given how big the US is, it's quite probable that some part of it has
more of them than at least anywhere in Europe.  I wouldn't be sure about
Africa and South America...
But there are pretty much no insects here in California, and we still
have the screens.  Well, there are ants, but the windows don't keep them
out at all...

We have some mosquitoes in Poland, especially the lake region - one
summer I lived in a little wooden summer house right next to a lake for
a few weeks, and the mosquitoes really were everywhere.  We closed all
the windows and doors, but once someone left the little bathroom window
open a little, and the next time someone opened the door, a huge *cloud* 
of mosquitoes flew out and tried to kill us g.

I'm going to Alaska in two weeks - I wonder if there'll be mosquitoes
there...

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: This is for Real - humour

2004-06-01 Thread Weronika Patena
Hi everyone!
I'm back from visiting my boyfriend for the long weekend, and I think
I'll sit down and answer all of my accumulated Arachne email now.
It's a great thing to do while waiting for my Matlab program to finish
running and tell me what silly programming error I've made this time...

 True, there doesn't seem to be, although I always thought that was just
 because I've never dealt with sex in Polish.
 
 Possibly a vicious circle: there's no ordinary language to talk about 
 it, because nobody talks about it?

I was assuming Polish people having sex with other Polish people (which
I never ended up doing) do talk about it, although I might be wrong g. 

 (of course the idea of using condoms wasn't even mentioned, since the
 Caltholic Church doesn't allow them, for no reason that I ever managed
 to understand).
 
 The first and foremost reason for having sex is procreation, not 
 pleasure; pleasure is icing on the cake, and not strictly necessary. By 
 using a condom, you turn that principle upside down. 

But then why is contraception by charting your cycle and only having
sex during non-fertile days acceptable?  

 Then, too, the 
 Catholic Church is ruled by men, and it's men who object the most to 
 using condoms, so, who knows what the real reason is :)

I think the assumption is that the men who rule the Catholic Church
don't have sex, with or without condoms... g

 I don't know anything about Ann Landers either.
 
 Too late now; she'd dead and burried. But she used to have a syndicated 
 advice column, which used to be published in half the newspapers in the 
 US. The other half of the newspapers published the advice column 
 wrtitten by her twin sister (Amy van Buren? The Washington Post had Ann 
 Landers, so her name is more familiar to me). I used to love Ann 
 Landers when I first came here; her replies to all sorts of questions 
 (some totally bizarre) was so no-nonsense and straightforward... 
 Reading the column gave me many a chuckle (as well as some insight into 
 what American society at large was like).

Sounds interesting...  I need insight into American society.  Especially
since Caltech has very little in common with the rest of it, it seems. 

 In the US I get in lots of conversations I'm completely lost in...  
 Tamara, does this ever go away?
 
 No, not really. 

Ouch.  

 Plus, my asking a question about things 
 which are natural to every born-and-bread American but obscure and 
 esoteric to me, is likely to make someone's day, providing the 
 explanation, so, why not? 

Yep, that works well.

Weronika
(In Caltech, Pasadena, USA, once again unbearably hot from my Polish
point of view)

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: This is for Real - humour

2004-06-01 Thread Weronika Patena
 Weronika, the problem of getting lost in conversation doesn't only occur when
 moving to a country with a different language!   

I'm sure it doesn't.  I'm fine with most of the language, it's just the
culture that confuses me.  Especially when people my age start talking
about music and movies and such...

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Language and culture (was: This is for Real - humour)

2004-06-01 Thread Weronika Patena
 And on the matter of cultural differences... Quite apart from the fact 
 that an American window is still not a proper window to me (the 
 sash-horror g), 

What's wrong with the windows?  There's plenty wrong with the windows
around where I live, but I didn't know it was a common American thing
g

 31.5 yrs down the American road, I still have 
 *vital* problems with the American *calendar*... :)

 The week *starts* with a *Sunday*?!?!?

Oh yes.  I can't get used to that.  And isn't Sunday part of the
*weekend*??

 Sunday is the day of rest, *after* a week of labour; that's how God set 
 things up, and even the communists knew it :) 

Although I remember somewhere in church hearing that Sunday is the first
day of the week - even the Catholics don't seem to be very consistent on
that one. 

 And, please, don't tell 
 me that its because Sunday is the Sabbath...  Christians have moved 
 the day of rest to Sunday *long* ago, and, linguistically, neither 
 Saturday nor Sunday has anything to indicate the Sabbath in English. 
 In Polish and in Russian, there's at least a vestige of it (sobota 
 and subota, respectively), and it's the only foreign day's name, 
 with no roots within the language. But it is, definitely, *Sunday*, 
 which is a no work day in both languages, and Monday is the day 
 after the no work day. And, Tuesday is the second day, just in case 
 anyone missed the point on Monday, with Wednesday being mid day, and 
 Thursday and Friday being the fourth and the fifth, respectively... 
 :)

It is a very reasonable naming system. 

 *Every time* I look at a calendar to find out what day of a week a 
 particular date is, I look in the wrong place, because the arrangement 
 has been moved by one...

Oh yes.  I get the time confused as well - in Poland we sometimes say 4
when we mean 16 or 4pm, but we pretty much always write 16, so when I
see pm hours in emails, I often miss the pm and show up 12 hours
early...

Weronika
(confused in Caltech, Pasadena, USA)
(Also, my Matlab program just returned out of memory, arrgh)

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: Arrangement of dates

2004-06-01 Thread Weronika Patena
 And the arrangement of dates? Don't even get me started...Where's the 
 logic of having month, day, year sequence???
 
 Only the U.S. does that, the rest of us do day, month, year.
 
 I have a strong suspicion -- Weronika? -- that Poland is now aping the 
 custom (along with many others). 

Not that I know of. 

 When I was growing up, the dates were 
 not only written in the day, month, year sequence (the logical 
 progression from the smallest to the largest unit), but the month was 
 written in Roman numerals, just to make everything perfectly clear. So, 
 today, would have been: 28.V.04.

This was still the usual version when I left, although the all-Arabic
one was also used, especially on official forms that look like they
might be computer-read or just have fields specified as DDMMYY. 

 Sometime after I left, the month began to be written in Arabic 
 numerals. I expect, with the school week being reduced from 6 days to 
 5, there was't enough time to teach kids Roman numerals g  

When was the school week 6 days??
We had Roman numerals in primary school though.  In fact from what I can
tell from my younger cousins, we're still not aping the American school
system - there's more and more stuff to learn and it starts earlier and
earlier.  One of my cousins had astronomy in 3rd or 4th grade!

 Works both ways... :) The commonly used (in Poland) word for email is 
 emalia. Which, in Polish, *means* enamel, but sounds somewhat 
 similiar to the original English. 

My mother sometimes says emalia, but most people my age just say
email like in English.  Same for many other English words, especially
the computer-related ones.  I wonder whether they'll ever evolve Polish
versions, or just stay like this.  I've seen a GREAT list of Polish
synonyms proposed by various people, but I doubt it'll catch on, which
is a pity - you can do amazing things with the Polish language if you
try.   

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] :) Fwd: Californians

2004-06-01 Thread Weronika Patena
 1.Your co-worker has 8 body piercings and none are visible.

Ah yes.  The tongue piercings just keep surprising me. 

 2.You take a bus and you are shocked at two people carrying on a 
 conversation in  English.

Yep.  And I don't have a car...

 4.You can't remember.is pot illegal?

No, no...  Who cares?

 8.A really great parking space can totally move you to tears.

Sometimes I'm really happy I don't have a car. 

 9.A low speed police pursuit will interrupt ANY TV broadcast.

And there are helicopter pursuits over your town at least once a week.

 10.  Gas costs $1.00 per gallon more than anywhere else in the U.S.

Really?

 14.  Your hairdresser is straight, your plumber is gay, the woman who 
 delivers your mail is into S  M, and your Mary Kay rep is a guy in 
 drag.

And judging by the parties, *everyone* is really bisexual. 

 16.  It's barely sprinkling rain, and there's a report on every news 
 station: STORM WATCH.

Oh yes.  And also, even if it is barely sprinkling, the puddles are so
large you could drown...

 18.  You pass an elementary school playground and the children are all 
 busy with their cells or pagers.

Actually, I was surprised - fewer of my American friends than my Polish
friends have cell phones.  

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] The culture shock

2004-06-01 Thread Weronika Patena
 I promise -- cross my heart -- never to do this again, 

Ah yes.  Please complain to me freely if I start writing about something
uninteresting or otherwise unsuitable.  I am, according to my friends,
clueless g. 
In fact, I could just send this whole email privately to Tamara, but
since I already put this disclaimer on top and I want people to tell me
what I should avoid writing, I might as well send it - don't read on if
you're not interested in small things foreigners can find
annoying/surprising in the US.

 I wonder whether they'll ever evolve Polish versions, or just stay 
 like this.
 
 I wonder myself... We now have a mikrofalowka (microwave) but, can we 
 zap or nuke our food in it? Not as far as I've been able to 
 determine... :)

I've never had one in Poland - I suspect not.  Verbs are harder to
assimilate.  

 which is a pity - you can do amazing things with the Polish language 
 if you
 try.
 
 That you can... But, usually, it takes up much more space; just look at 
 the number of pages in any Dickens volume, in the original and then in 
 Polish :)

Yep.  
Another amusing difference - we have much longer sentences.  Many of my
professors complain about the length of my sentences (once the question
said: answer in three sentences or less, and I wrote about half a
page...).  

 Tee hee... So, on my 2nd day in Lexington, I go to a Hallmark store, to 
 buy a box of stationery, to write my parents more than I could put in 
 the telegram (anyone remember *those*? g)... I pick a cheap-o box for 
 $2, go to the cashier and she says: that'll be $2.08 (our tax was 4% 
 then; it's 4.5 now)... Say *what*???

Some very small things can be confusing too - American cashiers always
say how much money you just gave them, which is a good idea, but I often
think they're trying to tell me I didn't give them enough money or
something...

 in the US there aren't any small grocery stores
 
 There *are*, in some towns; as a matter of fact my son lives within a 5 
 minute walk of one (Palo Alto, CA) and uses it all the time. 

But it's still not like in Poland - in Poland I could find a grocery
store pretty much anywhere if I walked around a bit, which was good if I
wanted some cookies or whatever.  Doesn't work like this here.

 But they 
 *are* more expensive than the stores which shift merchandise in great 
 bulk, so you have to be willing to put your money where your mouth is 
 to shop there on a regular basis. 

They're mostly more expensive in Poland too, but a lot easier to use as
far as I'm concerned.  Although Polish farmer's markets are still
cheaper than anything else. 

 *And* you have to be willing to walk 
 -- there and back (loaded with the groceries). Which, not all Americans 
 are (including some who run, daily, for exercise g). Go to a mall 
 parking lot, and observe: some people will spend more time circling 
 around, looking for a near spot, than it would take them to park far 
 away and walk.

Oh yes.  I always wonder whether all those people I see running in the
morning (quite a lot of them, which is good) drive everywhere during the
day...  

 Don't know what's wrong with *yours*, but... To me, windows ought to 
 have two -- large and unbroken (to allow for maximum light and for a 
 dead air cushion, both in summer and in winter) -- glass panes. And 
 they should open *out*, on hinges, like doors (so-called casement 
 windows). Or, if you go for a more modern version, on a swivel, which 
 allows you to open the top in, and the bottom out, and vice-versa. The 
 Danish windows are a miracle and a delight, in that, you can open them 
 *either* on the mid-swivel, *or* at the side... g
 
 All the windows, around where I'm at, are *sash* windows (you move half 
 of it up or down, and it  -- *always* -- gets stuck). And each half of 
 the window is divided into 8 cutsey little panes... A practice which 
 made a lot of sense 600 yrs ago, when glassmaking wasn't all that well 
 developed and big sheets of it were an impossibility  but, *now*???

The ones here are sash windows too, which is mildly annoying, or very
annoying if they get stuck, which mine definitely do.  Also,
they have only one sheet of glass and no rubber stuff on the sides, so
they're nowhere nearly as soundproof as the ones we had in Poland, which
is very annoying here.  Also, the ants can get through, and it's really
easy to open the windows from the outside without breaking anything. 
Ah, and they all have those insect nets, which isn't a bad idea, but the
nets don't open or come out!  I like to be able to lean out my
windows...  At least they aren't divided into small pieces.  But then
windows in California generally aren't very big to start with, it seems. 
I was really hoping I could get real windows when I bought an
apartment/house...

 DH says that, should a neighbour's kid lob a ball into one's window, 
 it's easier to replace a small pane than a large one. True. But, in my 
 31 years here, we had *one* case of a kid (with a 

Re: [lace-chat] Re: Arrangement of dates

2004-05-29 Thread Weronika Patena
On Sat, May 29, 2004 at 09:19:06AM -0700, Lorri Ferguson wrote:
  I have a strong suspicion -- Weronika? -- that Poland is now aping the 
  custom (along with many others). 

I've never heard the month/day/year version before coming to the US, so
no. 

  Sometime after I left, the month began to be written in Arabic 
  numerals. I expect, with the school week being reduced from 6 days to 
  5, there was't enough time to teach kids Roman numerals g  

I've seen both Roman and Arabic, often Arabic for forms and such because
it's probably easier for computer reading, but mostly Roman for normal
usage. 

 Tamara,
 How was it arranged when spoken?  
 We say 'May 28, 2004', would you have said '28th of May, 2004?

Yes, that's how we normally say it in Poland.  

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: evacuation

2004-05-27 Thread Weronika Patena
I spent a summer in Israel (mostly Haifa) a few years ago, and there was
a big bomb scare - it was an organized scientific workshop sort of
thing, and for the last week they didn't let us off campus at all!  I
got the habit of crossing the street whenever I see anything without an
obvious owner.  
Nonetheless, Israel is definitely the most beautiful and interesting
country I've ever been to - I hope I can visit it again at some point. 

Weronika

On Thu, May 27, 2004 at 11:15:54AM +0300, Avital Pinnick wrote:
 Living in Jerusalem, I've been around real bombs a couple times, usually when 
 they've been detected and detonated. I haven't been in the vicinity during a real 
 bomb attack, although I think Miriam was around when the refrigerator bomb went off 
 in Zion Square in the 70s. We had a suicide bomber on our bus line once (I wasn't on 
 the bus at the time). Fortunately, he was caught before he blew himself up.
 
 Avital
 
  British citizens I have, in the past, been evacuated from the university, 
  theatre, bus stations etc because of bomb threats.  While bomb scares tended to 
  be empty threats (the real ones came with no warning) all had to be treated as 
  potentially dangerous.  
  
  Patricia in Wales
 
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Re: [lace-chat] Re: This is for Real - humour

2004-05-27 Thread Weronika Patena
 !
 This is really horrible!  I always thought this sort of thing was over
 earlier than the 60's...  Tamara, was it like this in Poland too?
 
 Nope, and I doubt it had been like this in Poland even in 1860's... :)

I thought so.  Good...

 And the post WWII communist rule only strengthened the trend: 
 women had to work, same as men did (the salaries were calulated on the 
 basis of *two* people supporting one family), so were less likely to 
 go, willingly, through the pretense of you are more important than I 
 am. 

Yep.  Even though I think communism is completely wrong as a political
system, after coming to the US I realized that it did do a couple of
good things for Poland.

 I'd estimate that 98% of all the sex 
 education I received (school, friends, books, parents) was couched 
 either in strictly biology textbook terms, or those from the gutter; 
 the first were too boring, the second too embarassing. But there was 
 nothing in between, no every day language to bridge the gap, until I 
 learnt enough English...

True, there doesn't seem to be, although I always thought that was just
because I've never dealt with sex in Polish. 
As for sexual education, there was an additional element in my
childhood: in I think 6th or 7th grade we had one hour of class with a 
Catholic sexual educator.  It started and ended with a prayer, and
mostly consisted of giving reasons for never having sex outside of
marriage - including great ideas like if you have sex with different
men, you will become allergic to sperm and won't be able to have sex
(of course the idea of using condoms wasn't even mentioned, since the
Caltholic Church doesn't allow them, for no reason that I ever managed
to understand). 

 I also have some doubts about the text having been written by a woman; 
 sounds to me more like something concocted by a man in a wet dream. 

I don't know.   If no women believed in this sort of thing enough to
write it, they wouldn't do it either, and it seems that at least a
decent percentage of them did, or else the social order wouldn't work
the way it did...  I doubt you could force half the human population to
act inferior if they didn't believe it was right. 

 As early as The Forsyth Saga, when Soames insisted on his 
 marital rights, the book manipulated one's sympathies towards his wife, 
 who resisted...

I don't know what the Forsyth Saga is... When was it out?

 I'd love to be able to lay my hands on a big book of early Ann Landers 
 responses; by the time I got here ('73) she was very level-headed and, 
 while she preached compromise, she preached it to *both* sexes 
 (something I entirely agree with)

I don't know anything about Ann Landers either.  In the US I get in lots
of conversations I'm completely lost in...  Tamara, does this ever go
away?

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] This is for Real - humour

2004-05-25 Thread Weronika Patena
!
This is really horrible!  I always thought this sort of thing was over
earlier than the 60's...  Tamara, was it like this in Poland too? 

Weronika

On Wed, May 26, 2004 at 02:23:46AM +1000, David Collyer wrote:
 GOOD GRIEF !
 'Lay back and think of England'
 This is an actual extract from a sex education school text book for
 girls, printed in the early 60's in the UK,  written by a woman.

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Re: [lace-chat] :)? Fwd: fundraising

2004-05-23 Thread Weronika Patena
That is really scary...

Although, when I think of it, it might be the result of the law that
where political parties get their money from must be public (I think
there's a law like that, although I'm not sure, maybe I'm getting my
countries confused again g).  In which case it seems like pretty
annoying misuse of initially reasonable information. 

Weronika

On Thu, May 20, 2004 at 11:57:05PM -0400, Tamara P. Duvall wrote:
 Got this from DS, and am forwarding to the chat-at-large (rather than 
 through the subterrenean route), because, while somewhat political, 
 it's unbiased, just reporting facts. And, I suspect, it's also 
 fascinating (if I could only learn how to navigate it properly and 
 milk it for all the info it contains g).
 
 It is also an interesting addendum to the -- periodically resurfacing 
 on chat -- issue of privacy (and how much of it we have. Or not. As the 
 case seems to be g). Having your lace postings bandied on Google 
 may be unpleasant and, personally, I'm not overfond of the yearly Visa 
 summary of my spending, but this is something else. To people who 
 still have illusions of being able to keep themselves to themselves, 
 it's *beyond* a bit scary... I had no idea that a track of the 
 *checks* I write is a matter of public record; just as well I never 
 could afford (or justify g) big political donations  :)
 
 From: D.D.
 
 Dunno if you've seen this site:
 
 http://www.fundrace.org/
 
 The money maps are pretty cool [...]
 The site also lets you look up what people have contributed, by address
 or by name.  See who's contributed how much to whom in your 
 neighborhood
 and bake them a cake / toilet paper their yard!
 
 (Yes, it's a bit scary.)

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[lace-chat] Freeway Lace Guild meeting

2004-05-23 Thread Weronika Patena
Hi, 
Last Saturday (i.e. the one before yesterday - I'm never sure what
last and next mean in English) I went to the Freeway Lace Guild
Meeting.  I had lots of fun - thanks for everyone who was there and is
on arachne!  I started a bookmark, and spent exactly all of my money on
a new pillow, tools and colored thread - fortunately one merciful sould
gave all my new stuff a ride so that I didn't have to bike home for half
an hour with two pillows hanging from my back g.  
I got to see other people's work, pretty bobbins and such - also I now
know what tatting looks like.  And one lady did the most amazing thing
with her lace pillow - she needed the bobbins for something else, so she
unwound the thread from *38 pairs* of bobbins in the middle of making a
lace piece with them, and just left all of the thread there by itself.
It looked very scary...  I was too busy running around and
trying to look at everything at once to do much work, but I got started
on a bookmark and learned lots of new styles of spiders. Meeting other 
lacemakers was great!  I'm really looking forward to meeting other
lacemakers in Alaska and Sunnyvale in the summer. 

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] The peculiar languages

2004-05-21 Thread Weronika Patena
 That's very interesting.  Even though it doesn't use spaces, Japanese 
 does
 have a pretty clear concept of a word - or maybe they just made it up 
 to
 teach to foreigners ;-)
 
 Don't know about that... But I do remember that my students (I taught 
 ESL to some Japanese girls, for a year, about 10 yrs ago or so) used to 
 have those funny dictionaries... When I tried to understand how the 
 dictionary was arranged, they told me it was according to the *number 
 of strokes* drawn in a particular ?hieroglyph? used for a word (or 
 phrase)... I found that method even more intimidating than Roget's 
 dictionary of synonyms/antonyms before it went over to alphabetical 
 listings... As bad, indeed, as the yellow pages in the phone-book or a 
 'putert search (how on earth do you *begin* to guess???)

The hieroglyphs are called kanji, and what they look like doesn't have
any clear relation to how they're pronounced (plus they tend to have
several different pronounciations depending on context), so if you see a
kanji you don't know and want to know what it means or how it's
pronounced, you have to find it in a dictionary only based on what it
looks like, i.e. number of strokes, component shapes, etc.  I only know
about 100 kanji, so fortunately I don't have to use a kanji dictionary
yet. 
There are also dictionaries that go the other way and are more similar
to ours - you find the word's pronounciation (written in the syllabic
alphabet, so the dictionary is arranged alphabetically like the English
ones) and the dictionary tells you the meaning, corresponding kanji etc.

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Eats, Shoots and Leaves

2004-05-19 Thread Weronika Patena
Hi!

 One question was about the history of punctuation and
 she said it came from musical notation and was first used in
 Greek plays.  They had marks to tell the actor when to take a
 deep breath before a long speech (or a medium or small
 breath).  

Interesting.  I never wondered about punctuation, but when you think
about it it does seem non-obvious, other than the period. 

 Also the book is being adapted into Swedish, Japanese and
 and other languages.  Can't be translated for obvious reasons.
 So, wise lace chatters, please tell me where is the punctuation
 in Japanese?  I don't recall seeing any punctuation but maybe
 I've only see the calligraphy and not much..Wait, I just got out
 my Japanese Battenberg lace book and I see commas,
 parantheses and periods (like little os).  Once again I
 missed something right in front of my eyes G.

As far as I know (currently taking the third term of a Japanese course,
so I may well be missing things), these are the only punctuation marks
in Japanese, and the periods normally look like little o's.  Periods
work pretty much like in English and Polish.  The commas are a little
vague (either that or I'm just vague on how to use them).  Ah, right,
there are quotation marks too sometimes, which look like little corners: 
|_ before and  _
 | after.  The most confusing thing about Japanese is
that there generally aren't any spaces, other than in books for little
children.  I just recently got to the no-space stage...

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: :) Fwd: proof that girls are evil (fwd)

2004-05-18 Thread Weronika Patena
 My objection is to the first x, which *should have been* a +... I quote 
 from the site:
 First we state that girls that girls require time *and* money. 
 Girls=Time x Money.
 
 Last I heard, and  meant plus, not times. So, time and money 
 should have been written out as Time + Money.  The rest of the 
 proof falls flat on its face because, as Robin Panza said (she's not 
 on chat, sent the message privately):

Actually in math and is times and or is plus.

 The quote 'Money is the root of all evil' is incorrect, if that helps. 
 The
 actual quote says that 'the love of money is the root of all evil'

I don't know, I always heard the version without love. 

 Weronika Patena (a student at Cal Tech) wrote:
 
 Not refutable, other than the absolute value comment someone already
 added on the same page.  Which, by the way, means that either girls =
 evil or girls = -evil, so it's not that bad g
 
 And Liz Beecher wrote:
 
 Being a mathematician - I am sorry to say that the mathematical 
 equations are
 absolutely correct and that it does appear that I am evil.
 
 Seems to me, if you include my own objection to a wrong sign being 
 used, it's:
 Language Arts: 3, Mathematics: 0.  g Robin, who spotted the mistake 
 in translation (from English to math language), is a scientist 
 herself, but of the generation somewhat closer to me in age than either 
 Liz or Weronika. I am a little disturbed that the young ones are so 
 careless of context, so willing to focus narrowly...

Math will do that to you g.

 Robin throws in another interesting equation (philosophical, this 
 time g):
 
 [...] anything we value requires time and money, so everything of 
 value is evil.

Of course g

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: :) Fwd: proof that girls are evil (fwd)

2004-05-18 Thread Weronika Patena
 Actually in math and is times and or is plus.
 
 In my school days (40+ yrs ago), and was +, times was x, and or, 
 being very indefinite, belonged not to mathemathics, but to philosophy 
 (and to history, and to daily budgeting g)

Ah, right, I didn't go to school in the US, so I missed this one.  But
in math fields like logic and is multiplication and or is addition, because 1 or 
0 is 1 just like 1+0, and both 1 and 0 and 1*0 are 0. 

 I don't know, I always heard the version without love.
 
 Very few of us read The right stuff at all, much less read it 
 carefully these days; we're in too much of a hurry... I myself knew the 
 original quote, but didn't think to question the one supplied, as 
 that's the one in common circulation

I must say the original version makes much more sense than the common
one.  There's nothing wrong with money, really.  You can buy bobbins
with it g.

Weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] :) Fwd: proof that girls are evil (fwd)

2004-05-17 Thread Weronika Patena
Not refutable, other than the absolute value comment someone already
added on the same page.  Which, by the way, means that either girls =
evil or girls = -evil, so it's not that bad g

Weronika

On Tue, May 18, 2004 at 12:30:25AM -0400, Tamara P. Duvall wrote:
 Math's not my strong point, so I'm can't refute this myself, much as I 
 would like to; hope someone else will be able to do it for me. All *I* 
 can do is object to the + (plus) looking like an x (times)...
 
 From: D.D.
 
 http://www.anvari.org/fun/Gender/Proof_that_Girls_are_Evil.html
 
 ---
 Tamara P Duvall http://lorien.emufarm.org/~tpd
 Lexington, Virginia, USA (Formerly of Warsaw, Poland)
   Healthy US through The No-CARB Diet:
 no C-heney, no A-shcroft, no R-umsfeld, no B-ush.
 
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[lace-chat] how my roommate thinks lace is made...

2004-05-13 Thread Weronika Patena
Hi!

I just had the greatest conversation with my roommate.  She finally got
curious enough about what I was doing to come and ask, so I told her I
was making lace.  And she said:  Ah, so that's how you make lace!
We've all heard this one, I'm sure.  But then she said: I always
thought you just took a big wool cloth and some machine punched holes in
it  I wonder what that would look like g.  And I can't figure out
why her first choice for a lace material was wool...

Also, I'm just finishing a Torchon doily (very small) which I sort-of
designed.  I'm very proud of myself, although designing in Torchon is
just about the easiest thing ever...  g.  Plus, I forgot to pull all
but one of the starting loops, so the finishing is pretty nasty.  

And I'm going to my very first Pasadena lace group meeting on Saturday!

Weronika
(Caltech, Pasadena, California)

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: Nancy Drew books

2004-05-05 Thread Weronika Patena
When I was a kid in Poland, we didn't have TV for a long time, and even
now only 3 channels, so I never watched much - read insane lots of books
instead (I had to hide from my mom because it was bad for my eyes).  I
really hope my children will read...  Actually I probably won't even
want a TV in the house (I'm doing just fine without one now) - that
should help g. 
As for memorization - again, that's almost all that happens in Polish
schools.  *Lots* of memorization.  You're right that some is good for
you (the idea of not being able to multiply in your head is just
horrible), but believe me, too much is really bad.  For one, you forget
everything immediately in order to make space for the new stuff, and
you forget the important stuff along with the unimportant - I had to
memorize too many dates in my history classes and now I have no idea
when the French revolution was...  Also, it just makes you want to never
have to learn anything again, and that attitude is really a big problem later.
That said, some memorization really is good.  I'm very scared of sending
my kids (if and when I have some) to American high schools. 

Weronika


On Wed, May 05, 2004 at 07:58:39AM -0700, Lorri Ferguson wrote:
 I read the Trixie Belden series.  Owned a few and got the rest from the 
 library.  It is too bad our kids and grand-kids have television so handy as 
 reading was much better for the mind.
 I also think that the memorization we and our parents (I'm 61) were required 
 to do was 'exercise for our mind' just like PE (physical education) was good 
 for our muscles.  Memorization 'strengthened' the brain.  Too bad they don't 
 even require kids today to memorize the multiplication tables, just use a 
 calculator.
 
 I still enjoy reading when I have the time.  And Mother is reading again. 
 She lives in an assisted living apartment and the bookmobile comes to them. 
 She has almost given up knitting, says 'she is lazy' but I think it is the 
 arthritis.
 
 Lorri 
 
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Re: [lace-chat] Thank You Debbie Mouzon!!!

2004-04-19 Thread Weronika Patena
More beginner's questions:  what are Secret Pals?

Weronika

On Mon, Apr 19, 2004 at 09:15:25AM -0700, Shirlee Hill wrote:
 Debbie Mouzon was my Secret Pal!
  
 Thank you, Debbie, for being such a great pal!  Looks like we have quite a few 
 things in common other than lacing.  I, too, am 50 years old, married (28 years 
 instead of 29, though),  have two children!  My husband  I used to live in Florida 
  both of our children were born there (St. Petersburg).  
  
 How lucky for you to have lived in England for 6 years!  John (DH)  I are planning 
 a trip there this fall ... our first visit!  Guess what I'll be brining home in my 
 extra suitcase?  Lol!
  
 Thank you so much for the lovely spangles, the beautiful bobbin,  of course the bit 
 of beachfront property   : )   
  
 Do contact me via email if you'd like  let's keep in touch!  
  
 Thank you again for being such a great Secret Pal!
  
 Shirlee
 
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