Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-28 Thread dlgegg
Message- From: felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org [mailto:felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org] On Behalf Of Lorrie Sent: Wednesday, September 26, 2012 4:02 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia That probably had a lot to do with it! On 09-26, Edna Taylor

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-28 Thread dlgegg
. Take me home. I want to die on my couch. So that's what he did. Terri - Original Message - From: [1]Lorrie To: [2]felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, September 26, 2012 12:57 PM Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia I

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-28 Thread dlgegg
I have no family to care for me, but do have very close friends. I have left instructions with them about my care at the end and what to do for my cats. Will have to re write to include DNR and give fluids. I have picked out a place for my cats and provided in my will for their care and

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-28 Thread Marcia Baronda
to die on my couch. So that's what he did. Terri - Original Message - From: [1]Lorrie To: [2]felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, September 26, 2012 12:57 PM Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia I guess your mom requested no tubes

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-28 Thread Bonnie Hogue
. So that's what he did. Terri - Original Message - From: [1]Lorrie To: [2]felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, September 26, 2012 12:57 PM Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia I guess your mom requested no tubes, and this is why she only got morphine

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-28 Thread dlgegg
: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia I guess your mom requested no tubes, and this is why she only got morphine. I'm sure glad she had that. Hospice is usually very generous with it, whereas hospitals aren't. Never go to a hospital to die. They do everything they can to keep you alive

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-28 Thread Lee Evans
] Euthanasia COULD GET EATEN BY A MOUNTAIN LION IN THE MOUNTAINS.  HE MIGHT MISTAKE YOU FOR PREY.  MY LION JUST VISITS EVERY SO OFTEN.  HE IS ON A DEER TRAIL AND WE TALK FOR A COUPLE OF MINUTES AND THEN HE SAUNTERS ACROSS THE ROAD.  HE/SHE IS SO CLOSE THAT TO RUN WOULD BE FATAL.  STANDING STILL

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread Lorrie
On 09-25, Marcia wrote: My 3 other siblings and I took care of my Mom for 3 weeks while she died at home. Her request(: hospice said no fluid, so she laid there with nothing all that time, struggling to breath, to swallow. Etc. I only cried one time during that 3 weeks, because I had a job

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread Marcia Baronda
My mom had morphine...hospice wouldn't allow fluids. Sent from my iPad that my most awesome kids surprised me with, Christmas 2010. On Sep 26, 2012, at 5:43 AM, Lorrie felineres...@frontier.com wrote: On 09-25, Marcia wrote: My 3 other siblings and I took care of my Mom for 3 weeks while

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread GRAS
...@felineleukemia.org [mailto:felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org] On Behalf Of Marcia Baronda Sent: Wednesday, September 26, 2012 9:24 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia My mom had morphine...hospice wouldn't allow fluids. Sent from my iPad that my most awesome kids surprised

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread Edna Taylor
No fluids? WHAT? they won't let someone die via assistance but it's OKAY to let them suffer without fluids? That is wrong on SO many levels :( From: marciabmar...@gmail.com Date: Wed, 26 Sep 2012 08:24:19 -0500 To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia My mom

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread Natalie
] On Behalf Of Marcia Baronda Sent: Wednesday, September 26, 2012 9:24 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia My mom had morphine...hospice wouldn't allow fluids. Sent from my iPad that my most awesome kids surprised me with, Christmas 2010. On Sep 26, 2012, at 5:43 AM

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread Lorrie
I guess your mom requested no tubes, and this is why she only got morphine. I'm sure glad she had that. Hospice is usually very generous with it, whereas hospitals aren't. Never go to a hospital to die. They do everything they can to keep you alive and they never give patients enough pain

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread Edna Taylor
They just want to get as much MONEY from the family and their insurance company as they can :( Date: Wed, 26 Sep 2012 12:57:47 -0400 From: felineres...@frontier.com To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia I guess your mom requested no tubes, and this is why she

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread Terri Brown
: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia I guess your mom requested no tubes, and this is why she only got morphine. I'm sure glad she had that. Hospice is usually very generous with it, whereas hospitals aren't. Never go to a hospital to die. They do everything they can to keep you alive and they never give

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread Marcia
Hospitals aren't good at palliative care. It wasn't that my Mom requested no tubes, it was that Hospice didn't want her to have fluids. They said it would make her uncomfortable. I went toe to toe with that lady. Her Dr said she could have fluids, hospice said no. Sent from my iPhone On Sep

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread Marcia
- Original Message - From: Lorrie To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, September 26, 2012 12:57 PM Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia I guess your mom requested no tubes, and this is why she only got morphine. I'm sure glad she had that. Hospice is usually very generous

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread Lorrie
That probably had a lot to do with it! On 09-26, Edna Taylor wrote: They just want to get as much MONEY from the family and their insurance company as they can :( ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread Lorrie
To: [2]felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, September 26, 2012 12:57 PM Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia I guess your mom requested no tubes, and this is why she only got morphine. I'm sure glad she had that. Hospice is usually very generous with it, whereas

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread Lorrie
On 09-26, Marcia wrote: Hospitals aren't good at palliative care. It wasn't that my Mom requested no tubes, it was that Hospice didn't want her to have fluids. They said it would make her uncomfortable. I went toe to toe with that lady. Her Dr said she could have fluids, hospice said no.

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread Natalie
: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia On 09-26, Marcia wrote: Hospitals aren't good at palliative care. It wasn't that my Mom requested no tubes, it was that Hospice didn't want her to have fluids. They said it would make her uncomfortable. I went toe to toe with that lady. Her Dr said she could have fluids

Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia

2012-09-26 Thread GRAS
...@felineleukemia.org] On Behalf Of Lorrie Sent: Wednesday, September 26, 2012 4:02 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Euthanasia That probably had a lot to do with it! On 09-26, Edna Taylor wrote: They just want to get as much MONEY from the family and their insurance

[Felvtalk] URGENT! 2 Adults and 3 kittens in danger of euthanasia

2009-08-24 Thread Doggone Fit
Hello Everyone! Fellow FELV+ owner and advocate hoping to get some help for some positive adults and kittens in danger of being put to sleep. I heard about this group of kitties from The Cat Shack, a non-profit rescue group out of Trexlertown, Pennsylvania, see a bit on their organization

Re: [Felvtalk] NEW ORLEANS, LA - INDIGO - FeLV+ Kitten in Danger of Euthanasia

2009-04-29 Thread MaryChristine
i'm thinking--hoping--she means BYlaw of the rescue group i've heard that some shelters have very specific regulations that rescues working with them have to abide by. ::: snark in your spare time, you could contact them and find out, huh? fleaing On Wed, Apr 29, 2009 at

[Felvtalk] NEW ORLEANS, LA - INDIGO - FeLV+ Kitten in Danger of Euthanasia

2009-04-28 Thread MaryChristine
. CONTACT INFORMATION IS LISTED BELOW! URGENT!!! Please help! 1 Feline leukemia kitten at risk of euthanasia. 5 kittens rescued and fostered from the Jefferson Parish SPCA. All of the kittens are fully vaccinated, spayed and tested. One of the kittens (named Indigo) tested positive for feline

Re: [Felvtalk] NEW ORLEANS, LA - INDIGO - FeLV+ Kitten in Danger of Euthanasia

2009-04-28 Thread Kelley Saveika
IS LISTED BELOW! URGENT!!! Please help! 1 Feline leukemia kitten at risk of euthanasia. 5 kittens rescued and fostered from the Jefferson Parish SPCA. All of the kittens are fully vaccinated, spayed and tested. One of the kittens (named Indigo) tested positive for feline leukemia. By law, the animal

euthanasia

2007-02-04 Thread Lernermichelle
I do not often get offended by this list, and I know I am in a bad state to begin with. But I really take offense at this thing people always say, which at least one of you has said to me in my questioning what to do about euthanasia, that I need to ask if I am keeping her here for me

Re: euthanasia

2007-02-04 Thread elizabeth trent
in a bad state to begin with. But I really take offense at this thing people always say, which at least one of you has said to me in my questioning what to do about euthanasia, that I need to ask if I am keeping her here for me or for her. We are talking about ending a life. Believe me, if I could

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-23 Thread TenHouseCats
... . i DO believe that euthanasia is often the final gift that we can give them in return for all they have given us--the most profound thing i've ever been told is that it's better to send them home one day too soon than 10 minutes too late. sometimes the act of leaving the body behind is soft and quiet

Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
My Beloved Group, First of all, I'm sorry I haven't been able to participate fully in the group this last couple of weeks. I love you all, but for the last couple of days, I haven't even been able bring myself to read the posts. I'm physically and emotionally exhausted by Grace and my last

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Lernermichelle
Nina, I am so sorry. I do not think lack of fat makes veins smaller or harder to find, so though I may be wrong, I do not think that should be a concern. You know how I am, though, I do not think I would do it at all since she does not seem to be in active pain. I do think the annoyed look she

RE: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Doljan, Joan
PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Nina Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2005 10:18 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace My Beloved Group, First of all, I'm sorry I haven't been able to participate fully in the group this last couple of weeks. I love you all

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Kat
have followed your posts about Grace. Kat (Mew Jersey) On Thu, 22 Sep 2005, Nina wrote: Date: Thu, 22 Sep 2005 07:18:15 -0700 From: Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace My Beloved Group

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
Michelle, Thank you so much for answering my post. When I was struggling with gathering the energy it took to actually write, I was thinking of you. I wanted your opinion about this. I wish I were braver. Funny, isn't it, I always think of myself as strong and brave, but when it comes to

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace My Beloved Group, First of all, I'm sorry I haven't been able to participate fully in the group this last couple of weeks. I love you all, but for the last couple of days, I haven't even been able bring myself

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Barb Moermond
Nina, I'm so sorry you're going through this right now, it's so hard. If you're worried about them finding a vein, you could request that they inject her parenterally, that's how my vet helped Ninja - no worried or stress about finding a vein and using an IV, just a shot.Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
From: Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace My Beloved Group, First of all, I'm sorry I haven't been able to participate fully in the group this last couple of weeks. I love you all

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
Hello, Barb, thank you. What does parenterally mean exactly? Is that subq, IM? N Barb Moermond wrote: Nina, I'm so sorry you're going through this right now, it's so hard. If you're worried about them finding a vein, you could request that they inject her parenterally, that's how my vet

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Barb Moermond
I had to look up the exact meaning myself http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=parenteral it's an injection into the abdomen, but not into any organ within the abdomen Ninja winced a bit with the initial needle entry, but that was it. Unfortunately, she was so ill, intestinal lymphoma, that

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Cherie A Gabbert
Nina, That is true just the shot would be so much better can you make an appointment for Friday, so at least you have some more good bye time. CherieBarb Moermond [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Nina, I'm so sorry you're going through this right now, it's so hard. If you're worried about them finding a

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
Thanks Cherie, I just called my Internist's office and they will be able to squeeze me in tomorrow at 9:30. I know you all know how this feels. The final moment, the realization that there's nothing left to do, nothing left to try. How can a heart break over and over again? N Cherie A

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Barb Moermond
Because your heart is big enough and flexible enough to love over and over again.Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Thanks Cherie,I just called my Internist's office and they will be able to squeeze me in tomorrow at 9:30. I know you all know how this feels. The final moment, the realization that

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread janine paton
Hi all, I'm going through this same thing and am so grateful for all the experience and calmness on this subject. And Nina, I don't feel so crazy since reading how you are feeling the same way. My cat MacKenzie is not positive, but he is dying. His breathing is mostly quieter now, but very

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
Thank you Janine for letting me know what's going on with you and MacKenzie. The picture you paint makes me see your MacKenzie as if he's in front of my eyes, and not just in my mind. Your sharing this with us, somehow makes me feel a little less alone. I'm so torn about this decision.

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Cherie A Gabbert
Nina, A Grace and all our furrbabies heal the broken hearts, then when they leave us they tend to break all over again...Are they going to come to your house, so you do not have to move her? Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Thanks Cherie,I just called my Internist's office and they will be able to

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Cherie A Gabbert
Janine, I am sorry to hear about MacKenzie, it is so hard and hurts so much, be strong for him, he needs you now. Cheriejanine paton [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi all, I'm going through this same thing and am so gratefulfor all the experience and calmness on this subject. And Nina, I don't feel so

Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread BONNIE J KALMBACH
Nina wrote: Can anyone tell me how difficult it is to put an animal to sleep in an emaciated condition? Dear Nina, You would want the vet to be VERY CAREFUL. One of my positive kitties, my beloved little shy golden turkish angora kitty, Katyusha, had a very painful death - I think -

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Sheila208
Nina, my heart breaks for you. I have been through the same situation recently with my Bubba and I know watching them leave is harder than actually losing them. I felt so guilty when he died for having feelings of relief when it was over. Seeing our babies suffer from this terrible disease is

RE: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread MacKenzie, Kerry N.
PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Nina Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2005 10:30 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace Thank you Janine for letting me know what's going on with you and MacKenzie. The picture you paint makes me see your

RE: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
: Thursday, September 22, 2005 8:18 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace My Beloved Group, First of all, I'm sorry I haven't been able to participate fully in the group this last couple of weeks. I love you all, but for the last couple of days, I haven't

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
Bonnie, This was one of my concerns. I'm so sorry you had this experience, but because of it, you may be helping others, you're certainly helping me. I know how hard it is to forgive ourselves when these things happen. Your intentions were loving and I know that Katyusha knows this too.

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Nina
This goes for you as well Kerry. You never told me the full circumstances of what happened with Levi, but I know it was horrendous for both of you. You're too kind and loving a person to dwell on what happened. What can we do, but move on and learn from life's hard lessons the best we can.

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Lernermichelle
Nina, I am sorry. This is so awful for you and her to have to go through this. If you do euthanize at some point, maybe you can give her some oral valium first, the way you did earlier, so that she is more relaxed for the process? While she does sound uncomfortable, she does not sound like she

RE: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread MacKenzie, Kerry N.
PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of [EMAIL PROTECTED]Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2005 12:03 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace Nina, I am sorry. This is so awful for you and her to have to go through this. If you do euthanize

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Lernermichelle
stay with him while he went on his own. But because of the particular problem he had, it was going to be an extremely traumatic and painful thing for him. But in that case euthanasia took more bravery (also the bravery of knowing I would always hate myself for doing the euthanasia, and I always have

Euthanasia

2005-09-22 Thread Lomaxturtle
Nina so sorry to hear of this sad time. Having Euthanased my dear Tidge and Bramble I can say that they were different experiences. I personally wouldn't sedate another who was weak before the shot as Tidge's veins collapsed due to the sedative so they had to give her the shot through her

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Rachel
I made that decision with my Butch. It is very hard, but I firmly believe that when they have given up there is no need for anything to be dragged out. I almost wish people could have the option of euthanasia because I know some would take it. Butch was having trouble breathing and had lost

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Terri Brown
I know I am posting this late. Darling Nina, the decision to euthanize is a personal one, but I will tell you my thoughts. If Grace told you through the AC that she was okay with euthanasia, and if you know that she is not going to get better, and she has asked to leave, then I would

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Steph E Caldwell
Nina, I can't help you decide, but my thoughts are with you. I don't personally believe in euthanasia, but I came very close with TeeCee this spring. It's tough... With Care, Steph

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread maimaipg
- From: Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2005 10:18 AM Subject: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace My Beloved Group, First of all, I'm sorry I haven't been able to participate fully in the group this last couple of weeks. I love you all

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread maimaipg
A heart that is full of love can break in infinite number of times. A hard heart might break once. - Original Message - From: Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2005 11:16 AM Subject: Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace Thanks

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Kerry Roach
replying, please edit your Subject line so it is more specificthan "Re: Contents of Felvtalk digest..."Today's Topics:1. Sulphur ([EMAIL PROTECTED])2. Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace (Rachel)3. Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace (T

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Gloria Lane
Nina, my heart goes out to you, I am so sorry for your pain. These are such difficult, important, and soul-searching questions. I can only answer of course from my own experience, but want to mention that homeopathy also has ways of supporting the one who is about to pass on, so you

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread maimaipg
on losing a loved one, you did not truly love. - Original Message - From: Gloria Lane [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2005 7:09 PM Subject: Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace Nina, my heart goes out to you, I am so sorry for your

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread Sue Feldbusch
I personally think Euthanasia of pets is wrong. We shouldn't have the power to take an innocent life. Only God has that power. From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace Date: Thu, 22 Sep

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread gblane
I have to say, I'm with you on that - Euthanizing my horse Whatsie was the hardest thing I ever did and gave me much of my present perspective on euthanasia. Gloria -- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread catatonya
Nina, I'm so sorry. I can say that as animals lose weight it does make it more difficult to find a vein. My vet can find a vein in a potato, but it sounds like your favorite vet is not available. Make sure that whoever you decide on sedates her first. Also, do NOT let them take her away from

Re: Question about Euthanasia and my Grace

2005-09-22 Thread catatonya
I may be wrong about the weight being the issue about finding a vein, but if Grace is anemic, that too can cause a problem with it. tonya --- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Nina, I am so sorry. I do not think lack of fat makes veins smaller or harder to find, so though I may be wrong, I do not

Jenn - the question of euthanasia

2005-05-17 Thread Nina
Jenn, I don't know if we're in the minority, or not. I am very grateful that we have the option of euthanasia available to us for our furred loved ones. I too would very much appreciate someone who loves me enough being able to help me cross if, when my time comes, I am suffering