Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-15 Thread Anthony Wu
JMJM, I did not expect you to be so pessimistic. Anthony --- On Sun, 15/8/10, Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明 wrote: > From: Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明 > Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? > To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com > Date: Sunday, 15 Augus

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-15 Thread Anthony Wu
Anthony; >   > You didn't answer the > question.  You limited the question tje skin of > people.  You gave a mental image that you > imagined. This is again a job of the ego or the self. I > repeat the question::  Which is better black or > white? > Mayka  > > --

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-15 Thread ChrisAustinLane
An email to a listserv from an airport. Thanks, Chris Austin-Lane Sent from a cell phone On Aug 15, 2010, at 10:17 AM, Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明 wrote: > > > Is life itself meaningful? ;-) > > On 8/15/2010 5:48 AM, ED wrote: >> >> >> The question, as it stands, is meaningless. --ED >>

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-15 Thread Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明
Is life itself meaningful? ;-) On 8/15/2010 5:48 AM, ED wrote: The question, as it stands, is meaningless. --ED --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez wrote: > > Anthony; > > You didn't answer the question. You limited the question tje skin of people. You gave a mental image t

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-15 Thread Maria Lopez
ED;   ...And yet we do it all the time every time we make comparations.   Mayka --- On Sun, 15/8/10, ED wrote: From: ED Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 15 August, 2010, 13:48   The question, as it stands, is meaningless.  --ED   -

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-15 Thread ED
The question, as it stands, is meaningless. --ED --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez wrote: > > Anthony; > > You didn't answer the question. You limited the question tje skin of people. You gave a mental image that you imagined. This is again a job of the ego or the self. I rep

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-15 Thread Maria Lopez
From: Anthony Wu Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 15 August, 2010, 0:22   Mayka,   If white represents Jesus, Buddha, saints, Messiah, heroes and other unselfish persons, and black represents Satan, Mara, devils, looters and rapists, then

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-14 Thread Anthony Wu
rules. Escapism or nihilism does not work fine.   Anthony --- On Sun, 15/8/10, Maria Lopez wrote: From: Maria Lopez Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 15 August, 2010, 5:57 AM   Anthony:   Which is better black or white?   Mayka --- On Sa

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-14 Thread Maria Lopez
Anthony:   Which is better black or white?   Mayka --- On Sat, 14/8/10, Anthony Wu wrote: From: Anthony Wu Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, 14 August, 2010, 22:24   Mayka, How can you avoid making comparisons? When Jesus and Satan a

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-14 Thread Anthony Wu
Mayka, How can you avoid making comparisons? When Jesus and Satan appear at the same time, what do you choose? Anthony 2--- On Sat, 14/8/10, Maria Lopez wrote: > From: Maria Lopez > Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? > To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com > Date: Saturday, 14 Augu

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-14 Thread Maria Lopez
Making comparations Anthony?.  This is also a job the ego does to one.  And  what do you think is that?.   Mayka   --- On Sat, 14/8/10, Anthony Wu wrote: From: Anthony Wu Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, 14 August, 2010, 0:10  

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-14 Thread Maria Lopez
time to stop and get carried away by the emotion.   Mayka     --- On Fri, 13/8/10, ED wrote: From: ED Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Friday, 13 August, 2010, 15:35     Mayka, depending on which Buddhist path: Hinayana, Mahayana, Vajrayana, Maham

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-13 Thread roloro1557
To me, what Bill is saying here is exactly what is meant by the saying, "You can have your emotions, or your emotions can have you." Having (or feeling) emotions is not the same as acting on them - or acting on them in a thoughtless way. They are just part of being - not all of being. Artie

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-13 Thread Anthony Wu
ormed into something positive through performing a sex ritual. I have no comment on that, but I will treat it as an amusing event, though I can imagine how the girl is hurt.   Anthony --- On Fri, 13/8/10, ED wrote: From: ED Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Fr

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-13 Thread ED
Mayka, depending on which Buddhist path: Hinayana, Mahayana, Vajrayana, Mahamudra, Dzogchen, etc. that one is traversing, emotions are dealt with differently. --ED http://viewonbuddhism.org/tantra_practice.html "This also illustrates one o

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-10 Thread Maria Lopez
ED;   Strange, I thought that to be a realization of the Buddha too. Oh well suit yourself. Mayka       --- On Tue, 10/8/10, ED wrote: From: ED Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Tuesday, 10 August, 2010, 16:42     Mayka, That's *your* tr

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-10 Thread ED
Mayka, That's *your* truth, and I neither assert nor deny its truth - for yourself. Persons may in due course realize the wisdom of your understandings - or they may not. Thank you for sharing. --ED --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez wrote: > > ED: > > Doing the right thing, do

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-10 Thread Maria Lopez
full each second of our life in mindfulness.   Easy to say not as easy to be carried out.  Tell me about it!!!   Mayka     --- On Mon, 9/8/10, ED wrote: From: ED Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 9 August, 2010, 15:38     Hi Mayka, My

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-09 Thread ED
Hi Mayka, My point was: There are almost as many points of view on these issues as there are humans. To most humans, what the "right" thing to do, for themselves, is *not* a puzzlement. Those, like Anthony, who appear to be confused, could seek a source whom they can trust to guide them. --

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-09 Thread Maria Lopez
wrote: From: roloro1557 Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 9 August, 2010, 10:31   Well. . . "Practice" is not the same for everyone. Not everything that's in us is nonsense, and some of us have managed to clean out some o

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-09 Thread roloro1557
Well. . . "Practice" is not the same for everyone. Not everything that's in us is nonsense, and some of us have managed to clean out some of the nonsense. And punching the pillow and reading are not necessarily running away for some of us. . . . . Assumptions, judgements, and concepts! Art

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-09 Thread Anthony Wu
Bill,   Of course no problems with equinimity. I am comparing it with emotions. You seem to say both are OK.   anthony --- On Mon, 9/8/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote: From: billsm...@hhs1963.org Subject: RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 9 August, 20

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-09 Thread Maria Lopez
at is really in us without running away to punch the pillow or reading and reading and more reading   Mayka   --- On Sat, 7/8/10, ED wrote: From: ED Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, 7 August, 2010, 19:45   http://www.thebuddh a

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-08 Thread Anthony Wu
Subject: RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 8 August, 2010, 8:18 AM   Anthony,   I do indeed sometimes succumb to illusions, but I did not emphasize the items highlighted in red below.  However, maybe I should have because that was an impo

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-08 Thread Anthony Wu
1963.org wrote: From: billsm...@hhs1963.org Subject: RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 8 August, 2010, 8:18 AM   Anthony,   I do not believe Buddha taught ‘doing away with’ emotions, or rejecting anything else that is real.   …Bill!   From: zen_fo

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-08 Thread Maria Lopez
Bill;   I can read now your posting. .   Cheerful.  I particularly like the poem you copy on it.  Thank you.   Mayka --- On Sat, 7/8/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote: From: billsm...@hhs1963.org Subject: RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, 7 August,

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread roloro1557
Anthony- Yes, that is what I'm saying exactly. I think it is impossible and unwholesome to suppress anger and our other emotions too. And yes, I do think it's better to vent anger on a neutral object, like a stone. (NEVER a dog or cat or living being.) My understanding is that Bill! is correc

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread BillSmart
: [Zen] Where's Mayka? Bill: What post are you referring to?. Can you repost it again above this one?. I'm always very interested in your sayings. Thanks! Mayka --- On Sat, 7/8/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote: From: billsm...@hhs1963.org Subject: RE: [Zen] Where&#

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread BillSmart
be (I should have said ‘are probably’) maya, but emotions are not maya – they are real. …Bill! From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Anthony Wu Sent: Sunday, August 08, 2010 4:28 AM To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Subject: RE: [Zen] Where's

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread BillSmart
: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? Artie, I believe you are saying that it is impossible or unwholesome to 'suppress' anger. It must be 'vented' one way or the other. Instead of harming others, the better way to vent it is targeting a neutral object (hope it is not a do

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread Anthony Wu
e'. I want Ladders, not Snakes.   Anthony --- On Sun, 8/8/10, ED wrote: From: ED Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 8 August, 2010, 2:45 AM   http://www.thebuddh adharma.com/ issues/2008/ summer/forum. php Forum: How to Work wit

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread Anthony Wu
ddha to do away with emotions. Or is there such a buddha?   Anthony --- On Sat, 7/8/10, roloro1557 wrote: From: roloro1557 Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, 7 August, 2010, 7:52 PM   Mayka- Well, my understanding and experience is that one

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread Anthony Wu
Bill,   I am led to believe, based on your highlighted words that something in you succumbs to Maya.   Anthony --- On Sat, 7/8/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote: From: billsm...@hhs1963.org Subject: RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, 7 August, 2010, 6:

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread ED
http://www.thebuddhadharma.com/issues/2008/summer/forum.php Forum: How to Work with Emotions From: Buddhadharma, The Practitioner's Quarterly --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez wrote: > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread Maria Lopez
n the tablet of pain.  But by no meanings, only you do know what is the best for you.  My saying here is within the zen practice.   Mayka --- On Sat, 7/8/10, roloro1557 wrote: From: roloro1557 Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, 7 August, 2010,

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread roloro1557
Mayka- Well, my understanding and experience is that one of the ways difficulties with emotions come is when one tries to artificially hold them in or control them. That is, emotions are natural responses, part of being human. Also that difficulties with emotions may come when one expresses the

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread Maria Lopez
nd Bill.      Thanks Mayka       --- On Sat, 7/8/10, Maria Lopez wrote: From: Maria Lopez Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, 7 August, 2010, 12:00   Artie:   We seem to be both alike here!.    Solidarity and big smile from Mayka  

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread roloro1557
Aw :-) BIG SMILE and solidarity to you too Mayka! :-) Artie --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez wrote: > > Artie: > > We seem to be both alike here!.  > > Solidarity and big smile from > Mayka > = FROM: Over the hills and far away. . . The way t

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread Maria Lopez
Bill:   What post are you referring to?.  Can you repost it again above this one?.  I'm always very interested in your sayings.  Thanks!   Mayka --- On Sat, 7/8/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote: From: billsm...@hhs1963.org Subject: RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroup

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread Maria Lopez
Artie:   We seem to be both alike here!.    Solidarity and big smile from Mayka   --- On Sat, 7/8/10, roloro1557 wrote: From: roloro1557 Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, 7 August, 2010, 11:40   I have always thought the zen w

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread roloro1557
I have always thought the zen way to experience emotions is to experience them FULLY and COMPLETELY. That is - when you have joy, soar with it, feel it into your bones, BE joy. And the same with all other emotions - yes, even the 'unpleasant' ones. If one is mourning, then mourn fully, cry, wail

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread BillSmart
: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Subject: RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka? Hey Bill; I'd like to introduce myself to you as the "Expertise of Emotions", heheNot everything was going to be on oneself detriment about being a highly emotional person. Thought, I do keep and pr

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread BillSmart
…Bill! From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of billsm...@hhs1963.org Sent: Saturday, August 07, 2010 10:39 AM To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Subject: RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka? Anthony, ‘Disagreeing’ in not an emotion. If I’d said,

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread Maria Lopez
wer in me and others or on the contrary grow all what is destructive.  I have a choice.  Emotions give me that choice.  They are all in me, in you and everyone else.  A bow to emotions!   Mayka     --- On Sat, 7/8/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote: From: billsm...@hhs1963.org Subject: RE: [Zen

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-07 Thread Maria Lopez
ake the way of emotions are handled in zen. Mayka       --- On Sat, 7/8/10, Anthony Wu wrote: From: Anthony Wu Subject: RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, 7 August, 2010, 1:22   Bill,   It is premature and 'emotional' for you to disagree. If

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-06 Thread BillSmart
@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Anthony Wu Sent: Saturday, August 07, 2010 7:23 AM To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Subject: RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka? Bill, It is premature and 'emotional' for you to disagree. If you don't 'hug'

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-06 Thread Anthony Wu
. Doesn't this conform to your 'system'?   Anthony --- On Fri, 6/8/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote: From: billsm...@hhs1963.org Subject: RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Friday, 6 August, 2010, 6:49 PM   Anthony,   I disagree.  What

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-06 Thread BillSmart
Sent: Friday, August 06, 2010 4:49 AM To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Subject: RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka? Bill, I think zen views emotions arising just like watching a movie as a bystander. You don't hug them. Still, they are harmful. Otherwise, the zen way would be different.

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-05 Thread Maria Lopez
    I did met TNH personally and he officially initiated me in the practice with many other students.       --- On Thu, 5/8/10, Anthony Wu wrote: From: Anthony Wu Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 5 August, 2010, 22:59   Mayka

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-05 Thread Anthony Wu
first before anything serious. In this case, Sakymuni is a good example. He allowed people to have doubts on him.   Anthony --- On Thu, 5/8/10, Maria Lopez wrote: From: Maria Lopez Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 5 August, 201

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-05 Thread Anthony Wu
@yahoogrou ps.com [mailto:Zen_ fo...@yahoogroup s.com] On Behalf Of Anthony Wu Sent: Thursday, August 05, 2010 4:35 AM To: zen_fo...@yahoogrou ps.com Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?     Mayka,   I am very glad you came back. As regards the difference you talk about between C

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-05 Thread Maria Lopez
t to life.    Mayka     --- On Thu, 5/8/10, Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明 wrote: From: Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明 Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 5 August, 2010, 3:07   Dear Mayka, How are you?  I am concerned. Are you are seeking outward

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-04 Thread Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明
, 5/8/10, Maria Lopez //* wrote: From: Maria Lopez Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 5 August, 2010, 0:14 /Anthony;/ // /I had just had an immaginary Teacher for many years. He wasn't real. He wa

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-04 Thread BillSmart
, August 05, 2010 4:35 AM To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? Mayka, I am very glad you came back. As regards the difference you talk about between Christianity and Buddhism, I agree to some extent. The former is more emotional, more intending to

RE: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-04 Thread BillSmart
: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? Anthony; I had just had an immaginary Teacher for many years. He wasn't real. He was never present, or available, or guiding. correcting...he was just a tape, video, dvd, book...I currently see him more a kind o

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-04 Thread Maria Lopez
Thu, 5/8/10, Maria Lopez wrote: From: Maria Lopez Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 5 August, 2010, 0:14   Anthony;   I had just had an immaginary Teacher for many years.  He wasn't real.  He was never present, or available, or g

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-04 Thread Maria Lopez
Mayka     --- On Wed, 4/8/10, Anthony Wu wrote: From: Anthony Wu Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 4 August, 2010, 22:35   Mayka,   I am very glad you came back. As regards the difference you talk about between Christianity and B

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-04 Thread Anthony Wu
think it is too premature for you to give up on TNH, who is a wonderful personality.   Anthony --- On Thu, 5/8/10, Maria Lopez wrote: From: Maria Lopez Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 5 August, 2010, 12:13 AM   Hi Mike, Anthony... an

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-04 Thread Maria Lopez
m!.  They may be all in maxim red alert urgent need of oxygeno for themselves!.   Thank you Mayka   --- On Sun, 1/8/10, Anthony Wu wrote: From: Anthony Wu Subject: Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 1 August, 2010, 23:01   Mike,   Zen is

Re: [Zen] Where's Mayka?

2010-08-01 Thread Anthony Wu
Mike,   Zen is everyday life, so it is a project, a hobby and everything you can think about.   Yes, I miss Mayka too.   Anthony --- On Sun, 1/8/10, mike brown wrote: From: mike brown Subject: [Zen] Where's Mayka? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 1 August, 2010, 9:48 AM