@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Monday, January 02, 2012 11:28 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hello,
I have gone through all the mails on this issue, here I would like to
express my personal view. Today everything works on simple law of
market that is supplier will get
Greetings!
Since long this discussion is a hot topic. I would like to share my experience.
I am a low vision and my problem cannot be identified very easily.
When my parents were searching for a bride for me, I use to disclose
about the visual problem to all the girls while talking to them. In
Hi Rajesh sir,
Thanks for your email.
I was introduced to my wife by my mother and sister as I wrote in the
last paragraph of my piece. It means that they wanted me to marry the
girl of their choice but rested the final decision on me. I found that
the girl is good and will be happy with me, so
hi i completely agree with your argument.
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From: Zoher Kheriwala zos...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Monday, January 02, 2012 11:28 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hello,
I have gone through all the mails
: Monday, January 02, 2012 11:28 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hello,
I have gone through all the mails on this issue, here I would like to
express my personal view. Today everything works on simple law of
market that is supplier will get the price for his product
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Monday, January 02, 2012 11:28 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hello,
I have gone through all the mails on this issue, here I would like to
express my personal view. Today everything works on simple law of
market that is supplier
30, 2011 9:05 PM
To: shalini khanna; accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Dear Ma'am,
Thanks for your appreciation.
When I was confined at home and had to depend on others for my works,
I used to think that I will never marry a blind girl
Hello,
I have gone through all the mails on this issue, here I would like to
express my personal view. Today everything works on simple law of
market that is supplier will get the price for his product as per the
demand for the product and quality of the same. And marriage is not an
acception for
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From: mahendra gal...@chello.at
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 5:28 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before
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Ph. no. 011- 41656266, 9811772499
From: mahendra gal...@chello.at
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 5:28 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
congratulations, you
Delhi
Ph. no. 011- 41656266, 9811772499
From: mahendra gal...@chello.at
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 5:28 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
congratulations, you did right thing, i wish
Committee
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From: mahendra gal...@chello.at
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 5:28 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hello Ravindra,
I think Rajesh sir asked this question in reply of comments made by mr.
Bhavani.
I hold the similar views as mr. Bhavani as far as cheating is concern.
We have neither the suitable
Hey Shadab,
I completely subscribe to your ideas.
Binni Kumari
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From: Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Thursday, December 15, 2011 9:51 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hi Pankaj sir,
Thanks
brnaut...@gmail.com
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 10:55 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I am struck!
Let me start with congratulating Shadab, lucky indeed both the spouses.
Can't believe in a co-incidence of this topic just propping up like
that. Just
?
-Original Message-
From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in
[mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of BHAWANI
SHANKAR
VERMA
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:41 AM
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 11:04 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Dear Rajesh sir,
in most of the cases a blind partner have been cheated by their sighted
partners. whether is male or female.
Please share the sample size
11:03 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I think what you say regarding mobility and eye contact, is equally true
in
the contest of VI women also. Don't you think so?
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From: ekinath ekinath ekin...@gmail.com
To: accessindia
...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of BHAWANI
gt;gt; SHANKAR
gt;gt; VERMA
gt;gt; Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:41 AM
gt;gt; To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
gt;gt; Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
gt;gt;
gt;gt; in most of the cases a blind partner have been
sarfudeen sssarfud...@gmail.com
To: accessindia accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 5:09 AM
Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
Dear members.
I totally agree with the view expressed by Bhawani Shankar Verma
earlier about the plight
partner is always better.
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From: ss sarfudeen sssarfud...@gmail.com
To: accessindia accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 5:09 AM
Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
Dear members.
I totally agree with the view
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 8:06 AM
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Cc: unitee-education-c...@googlegroups.com
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hai folks:
Enjoyed the great discussion. I feel trust and love are the two
important ingredients of a loving
rahay hai. Or something like this.
- Original Message -
From: BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA bsvermad...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 7:31 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
you are absolutely right!
i did not say
@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:45 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
But I think unfortunetly, it's a reality. Accept or not, But according to my
view, it's very easy to cheet a VI person.
Further, I also think that most of the time, the sighted
. Or something like this.
- Original Message -
From: BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA bsvermad...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 7:31 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
you are absolutely right!
i did not say that one should not go
thanks and best of luck sir!
- Original Message -
From: akhilesh akhil.akhi...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 2:23 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hello,
I'm quoting the mail below and later I will answer
@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 2:40 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Just a curious question - being a visually impaired, how does one
round the fire for seven times?
No offense
Thanks
On 12/13/11, akhilesh akhil.akhi...@gmail.com wrote:
Hello
rahay hai. Or something like this.
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From: BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA bsvermad...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 7:31 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
you are absolutely right!
i did not say
himself bold and courageous and be concious
always.
- Original Message -
From: Rohiet A. Patil patil_ro...@dataone.in
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 11:25 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Bhavani jee, I want to draw
. Or something like this.
- Original Message -
From: BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA bsvermad...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 7:31 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
you are absolutely right!
i did not say that one
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:45 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
But I think unfortunetly, it's a reality. Accept or not, But according
to
my
view, it's very easy to cheet a VI person.
Further, I also think that most of the time, the sighted partner thinks
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
you are absolutely right!
i did not say that one should not go for sighted partner, but,
preferably
don't go for sighted partner. keep it as the last option.
- Original Message -
From: Rohiet A. Patil patil_ro
-
From: Rohiet A. Patil patil_ro...@dataone.in
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 11:03 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I think what you say regarding mobility and eye contact, is equally true
in
the contest of VI women also. Don't
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:36 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
it is my suggestion that a disabled person should prefer a disabled
partner. the same disability should be given higher preffrence.
- Original Message
Dear members.
I totally agree with the view expressed by Bhawani Shankar Verma
earlier about the plight of the disabled partner irrespective of the
gender. It is in fact, worse for the VI women. Whether in love or in
marriage, the sighted person at some stage, rejects their disabled
partner.
] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
Dear members.
I totally agree with the view expressed by Bhawani Shankar Verma
earlier about the plight of the disabled partner irrespective of the
gender. It is in fact, worse for the VI women. Whether in love or in
marriage, the sighted person at some
: Sunday, December 11, 2011 6:39 PM
Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
Dear members.
I totally agree with the view expressed by Bhawani Shankar Verma
earlier about the plight of the disabled partner irrespective of the
gender. It is in fact, worse for the VI women. Whether
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:41 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
in most of the cases a blind partner have been cheated by their sighted
partners. whether is male or female.
- Original Message -
From: Rohiet A. Patil
puranay relation me atakay rahay to isko kya pata
chalega?.
- Original Message -
From: Dr Jalaja jalajakumar...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:10 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I can't agree with you fully
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:10 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I can't agree with you fully. Cheating happens even if both are sighted. It
is a matter of mutual trust in relations, and if the trust is not there we
can't lead a normal married life
is
think in terms ofsight not in terms of visual impairment.
krishnan.
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From: Dr Jalaja jalajakumar...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:10 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I can't agree
-
From: Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:00 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
Hi Bhawani bhai,
http://www.punemirror.in/article/62/2011091920110919183912700db7cb168/Gentle-men%E2%80%99s-club.html
is not there we
can't lead a normal married life.
RegardsJalaja
- Original Message -
From: BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA bsvermad...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:41 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
in most
://www.daisy.org/get-involved
-Original Message-
From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in
[mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of tkg
Sent: 11 December 2011 21:39
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
hai friends
Of course! fully agree with you!
B. R. Nautial
- Original Message -
From: Dr Jalaja jalajakumar...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:10 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I can't agree with you fully. Cheating
Hello Members,
Looks like we are having a great debate on this topic. Sighted or not Male or
Female for everyone matrimony is a challenging affair. There is always a quest
to find the perfect partner. Here the definition of a perfect partner is
different from person to person. Some might
i entirely agree with you. we should not make extreme opinions. the
chemistry of a relationship is different between 2 couples--be it in
marriage or in love. so painting all with same brush is a bit unfair.
what, according to me, is most important is to keep faith in oneself
and one's own
but, you can partially agree with me.
- Original Message -
From: Dr Jalaja jalajakumar...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:10 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I can't agree with you fully. Cheating happens
11, 2011 8:45 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
But I think unfortunetly, it's a reality. Accept or not, But according to my
view, it's very easy to cheet a VI person.
Further, I also think that most of the time, the sighted partner thinks that
chalo isko cheet karna
PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hello,
I don't understand why the persons with disabilities prefer to marry
with a sighted or the non disabled?
I strongly believe that a blind person can understand the problem of a
blind person better.
Whatever I have seen
please arrange one special accessindia convention for the purpose
smile!
- Original Message -
From: Prashant Ranjan Verma pr_ve...@hotmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 11:34 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
Hai folks:
Enjoyed the great discussion. I feel trust and love are the two
important ingredients of a loving companionship and not eye contacts.
In fact, as someone who has seen the world and living without sight
now, I feel eyes are the greatest distractions for anyone . I support
being honest
I do agree marriage or companionship is an important part of our
lives, but we shouldn't base our happiness on someone's acceptance or
rejection of us. Of course, it may make us feel disappointed or point
to our disability, but we are our own person and no one has the divine
right to hurt us that
marriage
please arrange one special accessindia convention for the purpose
smile!
- Original Message -
From: Prashant Ranjan Verma pr_ve...@hotmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 11:34 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before
'Disability' before marriage
please arrange one special accessindia convention for the purpose
smile!
- Original Message -
From: Prashant Ranjan Verma pr_ve...@hotmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 11:34 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing
] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
There was a time when my mother and sister were searching a bride for
me. I had insisted to have my visual 'disability' (as others call it)
be totally disclosed. People initially showed interest and willingness
I am afryed, there is some misunderstanding in my mail. I did'nt mean
to say that the disability should not be disclosed at all. But my
point was that, even the disability was disclosed, there is a tendency
of the society to assume that it has not been fully disclosed.
Renuka.
On 12/12/11,
, December 11, 2011 7:41 AM
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
in most of the cases a blind partner have been cheated by their sighted
partners. whether is male or female.
- Original Message -
From: Rohiet A. Patil patil_ro...@dataone.in
@accessindia.org.in
Cc: unitee-education-c...@googlegroups.com
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hai folks:
Enjoyed the great discussion. I feel trust and love are the two
important ingredients of a loving companionship and not eye contacts.
In fact, as someone who has seen the world
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
I do agree marriage or companionship is an important part of our
lives, but we shouldn't base our happiness on someone's acceptance or
rejection of us. Of course, it may make us feel disappointed or point
to our disability, but we are our own
[mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Subramani L
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 8:06 AM
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Cc: unitee-education-c...@googlegroups.com
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hai folks:
Enjoyed the great
: unitee-education-c...@googlegroups.com
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hai folks:
Enjoyed the great discussion. I feel trust and love are the two
important ingredients of a loving companionship and not eye contacts.
In fact, as someone who has seen the world
insight,
Loving regards,
Rishi.
- Original Message -
From: Subramani L lsubramani.v...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 8:29 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
I do agree marriage or companionship is an important
Of disclosing ‘disability’ before marriage
There was a time when my mother and sister were searching a bride for
me. I had insisted to have my visual ‘disability’ (as others call it)
be totally disclosed. People initially showed interest and willingness
in my proposal, but the moment my Retinitis
Really Interesting!
B. R. Nautial
- Original Message -
From: Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com
To: accessindia accessindia@accessindia.org.in;
unitee-education-c...@googlegroups.com
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 4:03 PM
Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 4:03 PM
Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Of disclosing ‘disability’ before marriage
There was a time when my mother and sister were searching a bride for
me. I had insisted to have my visual ‘disability’ (as others call it)
be totally
- Original Message -
From: Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com
To: accessindia accessindia@accessindia.org.in;
unitee-education-c...@googlegroups.com
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 4:03 PM
Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Of disclosing ‘disability’ before marriage
congratulations, you did right thing, i wish you both,
all the best for your future.
give my regards and love to your butyful wife.
At 11:33 AM 12/10/2011, you wrote:
Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
There was a time when my mother and sister were searching a bride for
me. I had
Dear Shadab,
Thanks for sharing this aspect of your life with us. All I can say is that God
bless you both with all the happiness life has to offer. Being a recent blind
after my seperation of 7 years of marriage has left me really emotionally upset
and also the trust in the opposite sex has
: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
There was a time when my mother and sister were searching a bride for
me. I had insisted to have my visual 'disability' (as others call it)
be totally disclosed. People initially showed interest
women.
With Regards
B. R. Nautial
- Original Message -
From: Sushmeetha sushmee...@voicevision.in
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 7:41 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Its easy for a guy to disclose still get a wife
-
From: Sushmeetha sushmee...@voicevision.in
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 7:41 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Its easy for a guy to disclose still get a wife, but its not possible
for
a lady to get a husband
. Nautial
- Original Message -
From: Sushmeetha sushmee...@voicevision.in
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 7:41 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Its easy for a guy to disclose still get a wife, but its not possible
To: accessindia; unitee-education-c...@googlegroups.com
Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
There was a time when my mother and sister were searching a bride for
me. I had insisted to have my visual 'disability' (as others call
: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Its easy for a guy to disclose still get a wife, but its not possible
for
a lady to get a husband.
As whatever we have achieved or however modernised we are, a man still
looks
his wife to be a good house wife only.
Still my personal view
, 2011 10:55 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I am struck!
Let me start with congratulating Shadab, lucky indeed both the spouses.
Can’t believe in a co-incidence of this topic just propping up like
that. Just before opening my mail I was going through
?
- Original Message -
From: ekinath ekinath ekin...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Cc: B. R. Nautial brnaut...@gmail.com
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 10:55 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I am struck!
Let me start with congratulating Shadab
: Saturday, December 10, 2011 10:22 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Dear Shadab bhai,
you have raised an issue which is a thing of my present life. i got a
job at the age of 21 years and it was a farely good job and of a
farely good salary in spite of my visual disability
, 2011 10:55 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I am struck!
Let me start with congratulating Shadab, lucky indeed both the spouses.
Can’t believe in a co-incidence of this topic just propping up like
that. Just before opening my mail I was going through these thoughts
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 10:55 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I am struck!
Let me start with congratulating Shadab, lucky indeed both the spouses.
Can’t believe in a co-incidence of this topic just propping up like
that. Just before opening my mail I
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 11:03 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I think what you say regarding mobility and eye contact, is equally true in
the contest of VI women also. Don't you think so?
- Original Message -
From: ekinath ekinath ekin
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