Re: [Felvtalk] Please add grey and white kitten to the CLS list

2010-08-18 Thread Melinda Kerr
Your kindness will never be forgotten. It takes a wonderful person to take care of animals as you do. Melinda Kerr On Aug 18, 2010, at 4:27 PM, Karen Griffith wrote: All of your messages touched my heart and brought tears, as I see that there are so many other caring, loving people out

Re: [Felvtalk] Fw: New to Feline Leukemia

2010-09-17 Thread Melinda Kerr
Hello all, I haven't really posted much and I've never actually shared my story. I will be brief now and say that I have a 15 month young kitty who is FeLV positive and receiving Chemo for mediastinal lymphoma. The problem is, she doesn't know that she is supposed to be sick. At this time

Re: [Felvtalk] Fw: New to Feline Leukemia

2010-09-17 Thread Melinda Kerr
what might happen to her. We live in the country with dogs, coyotes, hawks and.well, you get the idea. With a lot of stress-reducers, your little one will adjust. Actually, getting a companion who is FELV+ may be the best answer. On Sep 17, 2010, at 4:33 PM, Melinda Kerr wrote

Re: [Felvtalk] Fw: New to Feline Leukemia

2010-09-17 Thread Melinda Kerr
live in the country with dogs, coyotes, hawks and.well, you get the idea. With a lot of stress-reducers, your little one will adjust. Actually, getting a companion who is FELV+ may be the best answer. On Sep 17, 2010, at 4:33 PM, Melinda Kerr wrote: Hello all, I haven't really

Re: [Felvtalk] New to Feline Leukemia

2010-09-18 Thread Melinda Kerr
inside 1st so she got used to it. Then she could safely explore the great outdoors. By the way you don't walk a cat. They walk you. LOL Mattie, my blind FeLV kitty loved going outside and exploring. I used a harness and one of those retractable leashes. Sharyl On Sep 17, 2010, at 11:04 PM, Melinda

Re: [Felvtalk] for Melinda

2010-09-20 Thread Melinda Kerr
and come dashing in before dark. Lorrie On 09-18, Melinda Kerr wrote: I forgot to add that on our very small base there are no wild animals, most strays are caught almost immediately ( Fuji is collared and chipped) and the likelihood of Fuji coming across and getting into a confrontation

Re: [Felvtalk] for Melinda

2010-09-20 Thread Melinda Kerr
You all have such wonderful ideas and I have actually been quite entertained by reading them. Many of you have taken in kitties that have been abandoned or abused. It breaks my heart when I hear of one passing away. You all have extremely kind hearts and have provided great support. Thanks,

Re: [Felvtalk] Update on our Lydia

2010-10-01 Thread Melinda Kerr
I also never saw your original post on Lydia, so I don't know what her condition is or what led you to have these tests to begin with. My Fuji had an HCT of 17 about 8 weeks ago. I was very concerned she would need a transfusion. She has since bounced back and hasn't had the anemia since.

Re: [Felvtalk] Avis treatment plan (BIG thanks to Alice, Sharyl Natalie!!)

2010-10-03 Thread Melinda Kerr
My Fuji absolutely refuses to take pills. However, the last few days I've added lysine to her wet food and she has been eating it pretty well! On Oct 4, 2010, at 12:06 PM, Bonnie Hogue wrote: Sharyl I perked up reading your message about L-Lysine and herpes. I have my mother's dear cat,

Re: [Felvtalk] remembering my babies!

2010-10-06 Thread Melinda Kerr
Thank you for sharing your heartfelt experiences. These babies are truly special. I'm not sure if it is because they are sick or if it is because we love them so much better due to their sickness. I know I took my kitty for granted until she got sick. Now I spend every day trying to make

[Felvtalk] Mixing

2010-10-13 Thread Melinda Kerr
OK,  I know I am going to get some really strong opinions on this one.   What I really want is positive feedback from people who have mixed positives and negatives.  My Fuji contacted her FeLV from her mom and it didn't show up on her initial test.  We did not know she was positive until a

Re: [Felvtalk] Mixing

2010-10-13 Thread Melinda Kerr
the other six until I got all their vaccinations up to date. After that, per my vet's opinion/advice, I let them all interact. Mandy passed away about 2 years later but no one else has gotten sick (and Mandy's been gone for a year now). Pat - Original Message - From: Melinda Kerr msk

Re: [Felvtalk] Mixing

2010-10-13 Thread Melinda Kerr
It all seems as though fate has hand, doesn't it? Thank you for the response. Sent from my iPhone On Oct 13, 2010, at 9:54 PM, Beth Noren maxgoodb...@gmail.com wrote: I rescued a litter of 5, 1 tested positive and was quarantined, and died of FIP at 12 weeks old. One of the negatives

Re: [Felvtalk] Mixing

2010-10-13 Thread Melinda Kerr
...@felineleukemia.org] On Behalf Of Melinda Kerr Sent: Wednesday, October 13, 2010 5:15 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: [Felvtalk] Mixing OK, I know I am going to get some really strong opinions on this one. What I really want is positive feedback from people who have mixed positives

Re: [Felvtalk] Mixing

2010-10-14 Thread Melinda Kerr
.   Copyright © 1999-2010 tazzys.org. All rights reserved. Original Message Subject: [Felvtalk] Mixing From: Melinda Kerr msk...@me.com Date: Wed, October 13, 2010 2:14 am To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org OK,  I know I am going to get some really strong opinions on this one.   What I

Re: [Felvtalk] Murphy is gone.

2010-10-26 Thread Melinda Kerr
Alice, I am so sorry for your loss. I've enjoyed following his progress and your stories about him. You gave him a wonderful life, as you did with your other babies and he couldn't have asked for more! Melinda, Fuji and Voodoo (no longer Shadow!) On Oct 26, 2010, at 3:54 PM, Alice Flowers

Re: [Felvtalk] Spanky - fluid in chest

2010-11-27 Thread Melinda Kerr
Stacy, My kitty Fuji is almost 18 months old. In July, she was diagnosed with FeLV and a mediastinal mass. Very little effort was spent diagnosing her, but the final conclusion was lymphoma because of the presence of FeLV. At that time, all I wanted was to make her more comfortable. She

Re: [Felvtalk] Subject: Re: Spanky - fluid in chest - mediastinal tumor in chest

2010-11-28 Thread Melinda Kerr
you for sharing her story and success. Stacy and Spanky Message: 5 Date: Sat, 27 Nov 2010 23:11:24 +0900 From: Melinda Kerr msk...@me.com To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Message-ID: 255f926b-47f4-4aab-94ce-0148adf35...@me.com Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii Stacy, My

Re: [Felvtalk] Spanky has large cell lymphoma

2010-12-02 Thread Melinda Kerr
Stacy, I am sorry to hear your outcome. Since I am currently going through the same thing I can understand all of your concerns. It looks like his WBC count is OK, my vet would definitely do a treatment with it that high! You have the added benefit of having an oncologist at your disposal.

Re: [Felvtalk] Subject: Spanky has large cell lymphoma

2010-12-03 Thread Melinda Kerr
know if you want more info. Good luck to you and Fuji also.Sending healing waves to you!!! Thanks again Stacy and Spanky Message: 8 Date: Fri, 03 Dec 2010 09:16:00 +0900 From: Melinda Kerr msk...@me.com To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Spanky has large cell lymphoma Message

Re: [Felvtalk] Spanky - first IV chemo today

2010-12-06 Thread Melinda Kerr
Exactly the first drug that was used on Fuji! I hope it works as well for Spanky:) Melinda and Fuji On Dec 6, 2010, at 10:53 PM, Stacy Zacher wrote: Hi: PLease send some healing thoughts and purrayers for Spanky today - he has his first chemo - vincristine. Paws crossed everything goes

Re: [Felvtalk] Question About Inegrating Positive and Negative Cats

2010-12-06 Thread Melinda Kerr
I brought a very young stray kitten into my home at about 6 weeks. His initial test was negative and he was vaccinated even though he was a bit too young for it. I am in Japan and they have very different beliefs. (Their first vaccine is a 5 in one and includes it.) Anyway, I kept the

[Felvtalk] Helping kitty with extreme congestion

2010-12-06 Thread Melinda Kerr
As I wrote in my previous post on mixing, my little kitty is extremely congested. The vet has given him antibiotics and anti-inflammatory medicine, but since he isn't too interested in eating, I am having trouble getting them into him. I have very limited access to medications or natural

Re: [Felvtalk] Spanky - first IV chemo today

2010-12-06 Thread Melinda Kerr
Also, I forgot to add that Fuji had her first follow-up appointment from her second round of chemo. The vet believes the second mass has been shrunk! Besides a sneeze or two, probably inherited from her baby brother, she is in excellent condition. We will do blood work later this week and

Re: [Felvtalk] Helping kitty with extreme congestion

2010-12-06 Thread Melinda Kerr
results from the Convenia antibiotic injection. --- On Mon, 12/6/10, Melinda Kerr msk...@me.com wrote: From: Melinda Kerr msk...@me.com Subject: [Felvtalk] Helping kitty with extreme congestion To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Date: Monday, December 6, 2010, 2:37 PM As I wrote in my previous post

Re: [Felvtalk] Helping kitty with extreme congestion

2010-12-06 Thread Melinda Kerr
Maybe I can find the Benedryl.  Thanks, On 07 Dec, 2010,at 08:20 AM, Edna Taylor taylore...@msn.com wrote: You can give cats children's Benadryl (ONLY .10 (one/tenth) of a cc) or if you have access to a nebulizer, those are great too. From: msk...@me.com Date: Tue, 7 Dec 2010 07:37:33 +0900

Re: [Felvtalk] Question on taking in kitten or not.

2010-12-08 Thread Melinda Kerr
My cat tested negative at 6 weeks old. She did not go out until she was 8 months old. Even then she rarely if ever came in contact with another cat. She was only out for very short periods close by the house. She never came home showing signs of a fight. Looking back at her medical history,

Re: [Felvtalk] how to know if your only needs a friend?

2010-12-17 Thread Melinda Kerr
I agree completely. My 18mo old female with cancer who receives chemo has accepted the kitten since day one. When she doesn't feel like playing she patiently lets him know. When he doesn't back of she makes it quite clear she doesn't want to play! I've felt like she acts like a momma kitty.

Re: [Felvtalk] Is There ANYONE that can help?

2011-03-20 Thread Melinda Kerr
Oh, this makes me so terribly sad. I know some of you will step up and help if you are able. Boy has it been an education being a part of this group. My two FeLV babies were accidents. Both negative when adopted, later testing positive. My Fuji has survived with mediastinal lymphoma for 8

Re: [Felvtalk] Is There ANYONE that can help?

2011-03-20 Thread Melinda Kerr
iPhone On Mar 20, 2011, at 7:09 PM, Sharyl cline...@yahoo.com wrote: Melinda, how are you doing? The devastation of the earthquake and tsunami is so awful. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Sharyl --- On Sun, 3/20/11, Melinda Kerr msk...@me.com wrote: From: Melinda Kerr msk

[Felvtalk] Airline Health Certificate

2011-03-20 Thread Melinda Kerr
Would a FeLV positive cat showing no signs of illness be able to get a health certificate to travel by air?  My current vet seems to think it wouldn't be a problem.  However, she is leaving and I am worried it could be a problem! Thanks for your input. Melinda, Fuji, VooDoo

Re: [Felvtalk] Airline Health Certificate

2011-03-21 Thread Melinda Kerr
Thank you all for your answers. It will be a while before I get to bring them home. However, with recent events, I wanted to be sure. Thanks again. Melinda, Fuji, and VooDoo Sent from my iPhone On Mar 22, 2011, at 5:35 AM, czadna sacarawicz czadnasacaraw...@hotmail.com wrote: IT

Re: [Felvtalk] Keep Cats Indoors

2011-03-22 Thread Melinda Kerr
My crazy Fuji just wants to make friends with them. She brought us a bird that fell out of a nest once. She brought another one, and then let it go (alive) when it was time to come in. I have caught her a few times with the hamster, but she has never hurt her. I suppose she just doesn't

Re: [Felvtalk] Please add Rosie to CLS

2011-03-30 Thread Melinda Kerr
So sad for you that you lost Rosie so soon after Murphy. She brought Miso and Sachi into your life so you wouldn't be alone. She knew they would comfort you when she was gone. She and Murphy are together again. Melinda, Fuji, and VooDoo Sent from my iPhone On Mar 30, 2011, at 6:21 PM,

Re: [Felvtalk] Fluid in chest cavity

2011-05-15 Thread Melinda Kerr
My Fuji had labored breathing. We discovered that she had fluid caused by a mass that was found to be Mediastinal lymphoma. She has been receiving chemo for 10 months and you can't even tell she is sick. My VooDoo had a couple of episodes of labored breathing and the xray showed a small

[Felvtalk] Soft Paws

2011-05-21 Thread Melinda Kerr
Has anyone tried Soft Paws for their cats?  I have read a few unfavorable reviews on Amazon.com, but even more favorable ones.  My cats are starting to damage the persian rugs and leather carpet.  My husband is threatening bodily harm if they don't stop it!   Melinda, Fuji and VooDoo

Re: [Felvtalk] Soft Paws

2011-05-22 Thread Melinda Kerr
[mailto:felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org] On Behalf Of Melinda Kerr Sent: Saturday, May 21, 2011 11:38 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: [Felvtalk] Soft Paws Has anyone tried Soft Paws for their cats? I have read a few unfavorable reviews on Amazon.com, but even more favorable ones

Re: [Felvtalk] Please add Aggie to the CLS

2011-06-07 Thread Melinda Kerr
As sad as it makes me every time someone loses one of their babies, it makes me happy to know how much they were loved! So sorry for your loss. Melinda, Fuji, and VooDoo Sent from my iPhone On Jun 8, 2011, at 7:29 AM, Sharyl cline...@yahoo.com wrote: Andy, I was saddened to read that Aggie

Re: [Felvtalk] Vets for Felv cats

2011-06-10 Thread Melinda Kerr
I am in a unique situation. We live on a military base in Japan with limited resources. I take my cats to a general practice Japanese vet. He has kept my Fuji alive and healthy for almost a year. She is FeLV positive with Mediastinal Lymphoma. I never had the opportunity to give her

[Felvtalk] VooDoo is missing

2011-06-24 Thread Melinda Kerr
Hello all, It is with a very heavy heart that I am asking for some positive energy from this group! My son's friend left a door open last night and my little VooDoo escaped. He is terrified of being outdoors and all attempts to capture him only scared him more! We live on a military base

Re: [Felvtalk] VooDoo is missing

2011-06-24 Thread Melinda Kerr
a lot of different places. Fortunately, I am able to lock off that area and keep Fuji inside. I'll keep you posted. I am hoping that the morning brings my kitty back to me! Melinda, Fuji and VooDoo On Jun 24, 2011, at 6:53 PM, Melinda Kerr wrote: Hello all, It is with a very heavy heart

Re: [Felvtalk] VooDoo is missing

2011-06-24 Thread Melinda Kerr
wellbeing will be my first priority. Thanks again for all of your suggestions! ( I will check out the Facebook groups to see if any of them are local and can help with our other issues!) Melinda, Fuji and VooDoo On Jun 24, 2011, at 11:16 PM, Melinda Kerr wrote: Thank you for all

Re: [Felvtalk] VooDoo is missing

2011-06-24 Thread Melinda Kerr
] On Behalf Of Melinda Kerr Sent: Friday, June 24, 2011 9:09 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] VooDoo is missing Well, around midnight I heard my other cat meow and looked outside. There was a big yellow cat that I have seen hanging around a black cat. And, low

Re: [Felvtalk] VooDoo is missing

2011-06-25 Thread Melinda Kerr
. Possble stroke, nuerological issue they did lots of tests. He is not in pain but his mind is not here either. Please pray for my lover boy he is 12. Thanks all On Fri, Jun 24, 2011 at 5:53 AM, Melinda Kerr msk...@me.com wrote: Hello all, It is with a very heavy heart that I am asking

[Felvtalk] VooDoo's Home

2011-06-25 Thread Melinda Kerr
OK, so who says miracles and divine intervention do not exist? After a couple of hours in the very hot sun, I found evidence that maybe VooDoo was alive and close by. Then, I discovered that the police now have a NO trapping policy. I went to my Japanese vet to see if he could find a trap.

Re: [Felvtalk] Cali - 7 month old kitten - Update

2011-06-25 Thread Melinda Kerr
You should definitely have her chest X-rayed. Her symptoms sound a bit like my Fuji's. She has mediastinal lymphoma. With treatment, she is still very healthy almost year after being diagnosed! On the other hand, when VooDoo had a couple of bouts with the panting like breaths. I panicked,

Re: [Felvtalk] Bitty

2011-06-26 Thread Melinda Kerr
the night. Possble stroke, nuerological issue they did lots of tests. He is not in pain but his mind is not here either. Please pray for my lover boy he is 12. Thanks all On Fri, Jun 24, 2011 at 5:53 AM, Melinda Kerr msk...@me.com wrote: Hello all, It is with a very heavy heart that I

Re: [Felvtalk] Ittle Bitty

2011-06-28 Thread Melinda Kerr
That is great news. It sounds like maybe the worst is over! Sent from my iPhone On Jun 28, 2011, at 2:42 PM, Sally Davis putty...@gmail.com wrote: Hi Heather, Thanks for encouraging news. We did go back today. At first I though he was not inproving but the vet saw marked improvement slight

Re: [Felvtalk] Plato Please add to the CLS :(

2011-06-29 Thread Melinda Kerr
Bless you for loving these babies. My heart breaks for you every time you post about losing one! Melinda, Fuji, and VooDoo Sent from my iPhone On Jun 28, 2011, at 11:17 AM, Sherry DeHaan sherryd...@yahoo.com wrote: Another one of our wonderful Sids kids became an angel today. Plato was a

Re: [Felvtalk] Umberto Please add to the CLS :(

2011-07-22 Thread Melinda Kerr
Sherri, So sorry for your recent losses. Please refresh my memory, what does SIDS stand for and where are you located? Your stories always inspire me! Melinda, Fuji, and VooDoo Sent from my iPhone On Jul 21, 2011, at 9:21 AM, Heather furrygi...@gmail.com wrote: I am sorry too Sherry, SIDS

Re: [Felvtalk] Umberto Please add to the CLS :(

2011-07-22 Thread Melinda Kerr
Sherry- Oops, sorry I misspelled your name! Sent from my iPhone On Jul 22, 2011, at 8:46 PM, Melinda Kerr msk...@me.com wrote: Sherri, So sorry for your recent losses. Please refresh my memory, what does SIDS stand for and where are you located? Your stories always inspire me

Re: [Felvtalk] Bocce' Please Add to the CLS :(

2011-07-23 Thread Melinda Kerr
So sorry Bocce didn't pull through! As always I deeply feel your pain. Thank you for your loving care! Sent from my iPhone On Jul 23, 2011, at 3:11 PM, Sherry DeHaan sherryd...@yahoo.com wrote: What an awful week it has been...lost too many Sids kids and several Crash cats. :( Bocce' was

Re: [Felvtalk] Jager Please add to the CLS :(

2011-08-14 Thread Melinda Kerr
Your love for these babies overwhelms and inspires me. I truly do not know how you deal with the heartache! However, I'm sure the rewards of knowing that these babies knew love is worth it. Please keep doing what you are doing. Melinda On Aug 15, 2011, at 11:55 AM, Sherry DeHaan wrote: We

Re: [Felvtalk] My 1 year old just diagnosed

2011-08-23 Thread Melinda Kerr
I didn't find out that Fuji was positive until she was having breathing problems. She was just a year old (tested negative as kitten with extremely limited outside time and only after she was 9 months. The vet thinks she got it from her mother and it didn't show on original test.) Anyway,

Re: [Felvtalk] Avery Please add to the CLS :*(

2011-09-13 Thread Melinda Kerr
Every kitty is different and might require a different treatment. My Fuji has survived Mediastinal lymphoma for 14 months. At this point she shows no signs of slowing down any time soon:) We live in Japan, so the treatment is a bit less than traditional. However, my vet does use a series of

Re: [Felvtalk] 10 week old baby with slight positive

2011-09-14 Thread Melinda Kerr
My kitten was diagnosed at around 8 weeks. He had a few minor health issues at the time and I had him treated several times with antibiotics. Since then he has had no obvious health issues. He is now a year old. I have never used any kind of supplements. My treatment has been lots of love,

Re: [Felvtalk] Miller

2011-09-22 Thread Melinda Kerr
So sorry you lost Miller. At least you gave him the chance to fight! Sent from my iPhone On Sep 23, 2011, at 6:12 AM, Edna Taylor taylore...@msn.com wrote: Well, after trying one round of chemo last week Miller seemed to have a bit more pep in his step and was eating like a champ but then on

Re: [Felvtalk] New member (correcting an error)

2011-11-01 Thread Melinda Kerr
They are both so cute and look quite at home in your house. I'm glad you decided to keep both. I have 2 positives (may have caused the second by mixing too young too soon:( However, I have no regrets because they are best friends! Even though one has suffered from lymphoma (in remission for 15

Re: [Felvtalk] please add tigger to list

2011-11-18 Thread Melinda Kerr
Sorry for your loss. At least you had each for time he had! Sent from my iPhone On Nov 19, 2011, at 6:01 AM, john pollack bucfa...@yahoo.com wrote: I lost my little Tigger today, 1 month short of his 5th birthday. FeLV+ since birth. God speed, lil Tigger

[Felvtalk] FeLV friendly vets in Charleston

2011-12-06 Thread Melinda Kerr
Hello all, Our time in Japan will finally be ending next summer. I have been so happy with my Japanese vet and credit him with the amazing health of my Fuji, who was diagnosed with Mediastinal Lymphoma 17 months ago. She was given 2-3 months to live and has exceeded that by over a year due

Re: [Felvtalk] FeLV friendly vets in Charleston

2011-12-06 Thread Melinda Kerr
. Morisaki has started. Natalie -Original Message- From: felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org [mailto:felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org] On Behalf Of Melinda Kerr Sent: Tuesday, December 06, 2011 7:35 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: [Felvtalk] FeLV friendly vets

[Felvtalk] Charleston, SC

2012-01-10 Thread Melinda Kerr
Hello all, OK, it is official. My family will be arriving in Charleston, SC in June. I can't wait to be back in the good, ole USA! However, I will miss my Japanese vet so much. I am hoping someone on here knows of a good vet there. I've been given some links to look for a vet, but

Re: [Felvtalk] Anyone in or near California want a very sociable companion for their FeLV+ cat?

2012-01-14 Thread Melinda Kerr
She is beautiful. I hope you find her a home! On Jan 15, 2012, at 12:09 PM, Shanda Robertson wrote: Hi, I am new to this list. I've just found out that a stray cat I've been looking after is FeLV+. She is an adorable, petite young female (1-2 years old) that I've named Munchkin who is

Re: [Felvtalk] Is my kitten having his first FIV/FELV episode?

2012-02-27 Thread Melinda Kerr
You've gotten good advice to see a vet. Both of my FeLV cats developed lymphoma at an early age with the symptoms you describe. They both receive chemo (one for 20 months and the other for 3) and both are doing well. It is a scary diagnosis, but just wanted you up know that if it is what your

Re: [Felvtalk] Off topic but if anyone can help with info? fluid in lungs

2012-03-03 Thread Melinda Kerr
Kitty needs to be properly diagnosed. Both of my babies have lymphoma. One was diagnosed with X-ray, ultrasound and fine needle aspirate and the other with X-ray and fine needle aspirate. They both receive chemo (Fuji for 20 months now). Both cats are relatively healthy considering their

Re: [Felvtalk] Ginger

2012-03-10 Thread Melinda Kerr
Well said! I was trying to think of how to say the same thing. On Mar 11, 2012, at 2:16 PM, GRAS wrote: I am so sorry about Ginger; every time I hear of a cat dying, it hurts, whether it's someone else's or my own...and it happens so often on this list! No, getting another cat is not

Re: [Felvtalk] TNR

2012-03-11 Thread Melinda Kerr
I also received that email and did not know what it meant. I know my last posting was very short and posted. I was thinking that maybe a filter was causing some of the emails I should have received to bounce as I often read a chain with emails that I didn't see. On Mar 12, 2012, at 9:07

Re: [Felvtalk] Charles Adams - Breeding cats

2012-05-28 Thread Melinda Kerr
Kelley, I was thinking the exact same thing. Fairly recently a young lady posted, got very little good advice, but a great deal of criticism and then was never heard from again. The people of this group have so much to offer. It is a shame to scare off those needing good advice! Sent from my