[FairfieldLife] Re: Cultism and Free Seekers

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
You don't seem t be a fellow who parctices what he preaches.

=
All valid observations and insights that you need to
temper your own experience with, not deconstruct the
validity of another's experience. You can only talk
about what you experience, not another. And certainly
don't expect social consensus with someone like MMY.
Your mind is never going to get him. Never, ever.
Amen. DR PS

==

And yet you deconstruct my intellectual understandtings, motives and
experiences. You may best be suited to taking your own advice and
doing such to your own eperiences, not others.

Aside from your imputing motives, rather crudely I might add, you have
suggeted a theory as to why so many people report quite different
things in their self-proclaimed state of enlightenment. I suggest
another theory, perhaps closer to Ochams Razor: the various
self-proclaimed liberated are experiencing different things and  thus
describing it diferently. And/or in some caes, simply parroting what
they have read or heard others say.

While I acknowledged that differences are expected when the
Indescribable is described, parallel to your point that the
difference is more the result of different minds/culture expressing
that which is outside of expression, I went on to say that it is
simply odd when some express things that are directly contradictory
there is no ego, there is an ego. Such a contradiction is far
beyond cultural differences as I am sure we can agree.  Thus I favor
my hypothesis over yours.

But it raises an interesting point. If you hold that directly
contradictory statements about enlightenment are valid, then it seems
anything could be said about it. Thus what is the value of discussion
orexposition? Its all valid:  Enlightenment is a red popsicle no
enlightenement is an orange and purple giraffe. Enlightenment is
dreaming of sugar plums and dancing rag dolls full of glee
Liberation is arguing about what liberation is Liberation is
Liberace. The Gita and Tropic of Cancer are allequally valid
expositions of IT.

Is that your view, that all statements, contradictory or not, are all
vaild statements about enlightenment? If not, why do yuo argue that
statements such as there is an ego and there is not ego are valid
and just cultural differences? Again, I am quite bafled by your logic
and understandings.


You ask, Also, why the hostility? Is that a reference to world
affairs. I missed the segue. If by some small chance yo are actually
refering to my post, I am baffled (again) by your statements. Please
point to any hostility. I have reread my post and find none. Its more
a late night reflective meandering, but hostility? Or is that the
reaction you got upon reading something that disturbed you?

You refer to my experiences. I reference them obliquley. anyone who s
experiencing Effulgence, a seemingly endless flow of liveliness,
unshakable bliss (not all bliss is dumb), constant wakefulness,
actions happening, knowledge happening, loss of possessionship (of
ideas, POVs, relations and things), compassion that seems to be rooted
at the core of everything, a limitless sense of wonder -- and irony, a
not so worried view of pending disasters, a not so impressed view of
pending sucesses, then wonderful.

These are my experiences. You are right, they don't meet my conceptual
definitions of enlightenment for I have none. In my post I was simply
suggestng that claiming labels is just as superficial and maningless
as it sounds -- something plastic and cheap that a dynamo laberler
could make. Talking about various concrete experiences makes a lot
more sense to me. Not to you too?


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 You seem to approach Realization as some sort of
 intellectual exercise. You seek conceptual consistancy
 and coherence like it was some sort of waking state
 intellectual product. You're not going to find that.
 While there is comminality to realization, there is
 also difference. The difference is more the result
 of different minds/culture expressing that which is
 outside of expression. Also, why the hostility? It
 seems that people who talk about enlightenment
 experiences that don't meet your conceptual definition
 get you angry in some way. Is that right?
 
 --- anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 
  The self-proclamation part has always struck me as
  odd. Linked to the
  absolutist interpretations of what IT IS. As if
  there is some
  insecurity. THIS has to be IT. And odd that there
  are strong mandates
  of how IT can be spoken of. And how IT cannot. And
  what one can
  understand and what one cannot. 
  
  And if anyone is experiencing Effulgence, a
  seemingly endless flow of
  liveliness, unshakable bliss (not all bliss is
  dumb), constant
  wakefulness, actions happening, knowledge happening,
  loss of
  possessionship (of ideas, POVs, relations and
  things), compassion that
  seems to be rooted at the core of everything, a
  limitless sense of
  wonder

[FairfieldLife] Re: Cultism and Free Seekers

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  wrote:
  
   
   And two, it is a healthy thing to do in speaking about it
  [enlightenment]  as if it is just another experience. Because it
  is...just...another...experience. 
  
  And yet so many disagree that it is an experience (if that implies 
 an
  experiencer) and so many disagree that it is not special. 
 
 
 
 I am trying hard to stay away from the 'specialness' of it, because 
 I think that causes a lot of confusion in a seeker's mind about what 
 it is, and the (im)possiblity of attainment. It certainly did for me.
  
  So many distinct views of enlightenemnt, it makes on pause for a
  moment to wonder if maybe some are speaking of different things.
 
 Yes, the enlightened speak about enlightenment. The almost 
 enlightened imagine enlightenment, colored by their almost 
 enlightenment.
  
  Its such a joy that in this age of enlightenment everyone seems 
 free
  and joyous to define enlightenment any way they think is neat and
  then claim it. Sort of like drawing circles, a target, around an 
 arrow
  you already shot. On the broadside of the barn. While the fat lady
  sings. Its such a joy.
 
 Does sarcasm really assist this discussion?
  
  Cake anyone?
 

Not all humor is sarcasm. I didn't intend it as sarcasm, sorry if you
interpreted it that way and disturbed you.

It rolled off my pen more as silliness. A bit of lightness to end the
evening with.






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
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 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin 
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  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff 
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   wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter 
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   wrote:
 Your mind is never going to get him [MMY]. Never, ever.
 Amen. 


With all due respect and pardons, but that seems quite an odd 
   thing to
say. Especially from (no)one proclaiming no self. 

Who / what is Maharishi? The same as we all experience in or 
 out of
meditation. Effulgence, for want of a better inadequate label 
 or 
   name.

What is the personality, mind, intellect of Maharishi? Its a 
   hallowed
out, crystaline matrix, a unique transparent tapestry woven 
 from 
   the
residue of thousands of lives, training, teachers, culturing, 
   habits,
experiences, karmas, sadhanas, tapas, sacrafices, blunders, 
 deaths,
births,  brothers, sisters, pets, hunger, sex, wives, 
 children, 
   wars,
peace, oppulence, wandering, seclusion, fame, poverty, shame, 
   dharma,
joy, sadness, dispair and elation. 

What does this tapestry have to do with the Effulgent? 
 Nothing. 
   Other
than being a vessel for the Effulgent to flow through. As all 
   vessels,
you and me, are.

So there is Effulgence, and there is a personality. One of 
   billions of
personalities cultured over the eons. That a particular 
 personality
has quirks, is odd, misbehaves sometimes -- like Dr. 
 Strangelove's 
   arm
trying to chock him -- its all reaction. Reaction of that 
 tapestry,
with all its quirky embedded designs, with the day to day 
 ticking 
   of
LIFE and experience as presented, while EFFULGENCE flows 
 through 
   it all.

What is hard to understand here?
   
   Good Morning. So, you've narrowed your understanding down to the 
   roughly six and half billion people currently on the planet, all 
 of 
   whom share in common what you have written about your mind's 
   understanding of Maharishi. Are you able to be more specific?
  
  
  How odd that you feel 6 billion people are hallowed out, crystaline
  matrix, a unique transparent tapestry woven from the residue of
  thousands of lives .. (as in roasted samskaras) while living the
  fullness of effulgence (not experiences while the samskaras are 
 lively). 
  
  I guess the currency of liberation is so low today, anything and
  everything passses as it.
 
 OK- you hadn't made the part about the samskaras being roasted and 
 not lively clear in your previous posting.


Perhaps I am too prone to the poetic. I thought Its a
HOLLOWED OUT, CRYSTALINE matrix, a unique TRANSPARENT tapestry woven
from the RESIDUE of thousands of lives, ... made the empty shell
idea of roasted smaskaras clear. Perhaps its an experiential difference.







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[FairfieldLife] Cultism and Free Seekers

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis 

 The young lady in question said it was her
 experience that her mind was never going to figure it out. Not Now.
 Not ever. 

Sorry, I misread that very last part of the letter. I thought you were
commenting that her mind was never going to figure it out. Not Now.
 Not ever.  Sorry.

That one small misreading however does not change the main point of
the post. 

I quoted the following, and suggested support for its validity.

=
All valid observations and insights that you need to
temper your own experience with, not deconstruct the
validity of another's experience. You can only talk
about what you experience, not another. And certainly
don't expect social consensus with someone like MMY.
Your mind is never going to get him. Never, ever.
Amen. DR PS

==

Your post appeared to contradict this, that you were not just speaking
of your own eperience but making unversal claims as to all others'
experiences. If I misudnderstood this too, aplologies.

 The writer looking out through these eyes is that Brahman.
 What has been written is the experience of life lived. It may not be
 your experience if you are real attached to that I you keep inserting
 in someones elses letter. 


However, if I did misunderstand your position, and now it is clarified
that you only speak for your own experiences, I fail to see your
reason for disturbance about my stating perhaps what Tom meant to say
was ... and as an interesing exercise in tone, creating an
alternative text, recasting your post interms of your experience and
not universal claims about all others' experiences. I would think you
would say, upon reading the alternative way of treating the matter
yes, that is all I meant, that I am describing my own experiences,
not making unversal claims about others'.

If on the otherhand, you beleive Dr. Stuphens points are wrong and you
are making universal claims about all others' experiences, then the
follow-up post to this on Cultism and Free Seekers has more
importance. It would confirm my worst, though barely ever  dwelt on
fears about you Tom, that if holding such a position, you would be a
cultist carving out your own creed with an absolutist sense of
universal Truth  for all, based solely on your own personal experience
(as grand as that may be.)









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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 
 --- anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 
  
  
  Perhaps I am too prone to the poetic. I thought Its
  a
  HOLLOWED OUT, CRYSTALINE matrix, a unique
  TRANSPARENT tapestry woven
  from the RESIDUE of thousands of lives, ... made
  the empty shell
  idea of roasted smaskaras clear. Perhaps its an
  experiential difference.
 
 What the f**k are you talking about, Grasshopper? 
 

Apparently nothing you can related to. 








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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:



 --- anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


 
 
  Perhaps I am too prone to the poetic. I thought Its
  a
  HOLLOWED OUT, CRYSTALINE matrix, a unique
  TRANSPARENT tapestry woven
  from the RESIDUE of thousands of lives, ... made
  the empty shell
  idea of roasted smaskaras clear. Perhaps its an
  experiential difference.

 What the f**k are you talking about, Grasshopper?


Apparently nothing you can relate to.










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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
Its sort of sad people are so vested in explaining other people's
motives and experiences. I suggest you take the words of a wise man to
heart.

=
All valid observations and insights that you need to
temper your own experience with, not deconstruct the
validity of another's experience. You can only talk
about what you experience, not another. And certainly
don't expect social consensus with someone like MMY.
Your mind is never going to get him. Never, ever.
Amen. DR PS

==



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 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 
  
  
  --- anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  
  
   
   
   Perhaps I am too prone to the poetic. I thought Its
   a
   HOLLOWED OUT, CRYSTALINE matrix, a unique
   TRANSPARENT tapestry woven
   from the RESIDUE of thousands of lives, ... made
   the empty shell
   idea of roasted smaskaras clear. Perhaps its an
   experiential difference.
  
  What the f**k are you talking about, Grasshopper? 
  
 If I may, anon or Akasha's, and Vaj's insistence on keeping 
 discussions of enlightenment both intellectually consistent, 
 available to Socratic method, and in Vaj's case, adhering to some as 
 yet unnamed tradition, are expressed in the emotion of 'the seeker's 
 burn'. It is not hostility per se in Akasha's case directed at 
 anyone in particular. 
 
 He is just pissed off and frustrated in general that his 
 enlightenment eludes him, and chooses to take it out on anyone who 
 brings up the topic. I can relate, and I'm sure you can too, Peter. 
 Before such a breakthrough is a lot of frustration for something so 
 tantalizingly close and yet apparently unreachable.
 
 Akasha chooses to take refuge in his intellect, to explain away much 
 of what you and I and Tom (and Rory, when he was posting) say as 
 inconsistent with his head trip of 'enlightenment'. 
 
 As for Vaj, he has studied much about enlightenment, and again is 
 full of 'Thou shalt' and 'Thou shalt not' stuff from various 
 teachers. He doesn't understand that enlightenment does not adhere 
 to ANY tradition. It is what it is. Period.
 
 Btw, did you catch Vaj's reference about offlist discussions with 
 Akasha on demonic possession? Well, I guess 'the devil is in the 
 details', as they say...







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:



 --- anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


 
 
  Perhaps I am too prone to the poetic. I thought Its
  a
  HOLLOWED OUT, CRYSTALINE matrix, a unique
  TRANSPARENT tapestry woven
  from the RESIDUE of thousands of lives, ... made
  the empty shell
  idea of roasted smaskaras clear. Perhaps its an
  experiential difference.

 What the f**k are you talking about, Grasshopper?


Apparently nothing you can relate to.

Perhaps its not in your experience, but with time and grace, there is
a sense that the body, mind, intellect and all become HOLLOW and
empty. They appear to become more TRANSPARENT, as if CRYSTALINE. Their
functioning seems, as a poetic metaphor, like a RESIDUE -- though its
a complex pattern like a TAPESTRY. 

This appears to happen as those knots within our soul (another poetic
phrase) loosen and unravel. Like a know in a rope, when it is untied,
it does not exist, But what is left is some small creasing of the
rope. As knots unravel, there is that growing sense of being HOLLOW
AND EMPTY. But the crease from the past knots causee enough dust
to form on the otherwise transparent Crystaline form or body, mind
intellect and all that remains. The dust creates some defraction of
both Effulgence and the light of everyday life events. This light
defraction (again a poetic metaphor) gives the appearance of the
former mundane earthy body, mind and intellect, though its is just a
mirage.

Those knots, in classical literature, are called samskaras. 

I hope this helps.













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[FairfieldLife] Re: COB and F-land?

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
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 Conan O'Brien must have lived in (Sweden-)Finland in
 some previous lifetime. Otherwise his obsession with
 Finland is unconceivable! 
 (Finland was a part of Sweden for several hundred years
 up to 1809.)


Well, he does look like your madame prime minister -- when he holds up
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 
 
  --- anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 
  
  
   Perhaps I am too prone to the poetic. I thought Its
   a
   HOLLOWED OUT, CRYSTALINE matrix, a unique
   TRANSPARENT tapestry woven
   from the RESIDUE of thousands of lives, ... made
   the empty shell
   idea of roasted smaskaras clear. Perhaps its an
   experiential difference.
 
  What the f**k are you talking about, Grasshopper?
 
 
 Apparently nothing you can relate to.
 
 Perhaps its not in your experience, but with time and grace, there is
 a sense that the body, mind, intellect and all become HOLLOW and
 empty. They appear to become more TRANSPARENT, as if CRYSTALINE. Their
 functioning seems, as a poetic metaphor, like a RESIDUE -- though its
 a complex pattern like a TAPESTRY. 
 
 This appears to happen as those knots within our soul (another poetic
 phrase) loosen and unravel. Like a know in a rope, when it is untied,
 it does not exist, But what is left is some small creasing of the
 rope. As knots unravel, there is that growing sense of being HOLLOW
 AND EMPTY. But the crease from the past knots causee enough dust
 to form on the otherwise transparent Crystaline form or body, mind
 intellect and all that remains. The dust creates some defraction of
 both Effulgence and the light of everyday life events. This light
 defraction (again a poetic metaphor) gives the appearance of the
 former mundane earthy body, mind and intellect, though its is just a
 mirage.
 
 Those knots, in classical literature, are called samskaras. 
 
 I hope this helps.


-


With the poetic allusions clarified, perhaps the original post makes
more sense to those prone to literal readings.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/81889

Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever. DR. PS


Who / what is Maharishi? The same as we all experience in or out of
meditation. Effulgence, for want of a better inadequate label or name.

What is the personality, mind, intellect of Maharishi? Its a hallowed
out, crystaline matrix, a unique transparent tapestry woven from the
residue of thousands of lives, training, teachers, culturing, habits,
experiences, karmas, sadhanas, tapas, sacrafices, blunders, deaths,
births, brothers, sisters, pets, hunger, sex, wives, children, wars,
peace, oppulence, wandering, seclusion, fame, poverty, shame, dharma,
joy, sadness, dispair and elation.

What does this tapestry have to do with the Effulgent? Nothing. Other
than being a vessel for the Effulgent to flow through. As all vessels,
you and me, are.

So there is Effulgence, and there is a personality. One of billions of
personalities cultured over the eons. That a particular personality
has quirks, is odd, misbehaves sometimes -- like Dr. Strangelove's arm
trying to chock him -- its all reaction. Reaction of that tapestry,
with all its quirky embedded designs, with the day to day ticking of
LIFE and experience as presented, while EFFULGENCE flows through it all.

What is hard to understand here?







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
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  enlightenment does not adhere 
  to ANY tradition. It is what it is. Period.

And your detailed study of enlightenment traditions include which
cultures?









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[FairfieldLife] Re: Cultism and Free Seekers

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

--- Anonymousff wrote:
  If on the otherhand, you beleive Dr. Stuphens points are wrong and 
 you
  are making universal claims about all others' experiences, then the
  follow-up post to this on Cultism and Free Seekers has more
  importance. It would confirm my worst, though barely ever  dwelt on
  fears about you Tom, that if holding such a position, you would be 
 a
  cultist carving out your own creed with an absolutist sense of
  universal Truth  for all, based solely on your own personal 
 experience
  (as grand as that may be.)


 Careful or you will succeed only in tying yourself into a 
 pretzel.

I WISH. I wish I could get into some of the pretzal asana poses I used
to, in my teens and twenties. Oh well, the Wheel of Time moves on. 

But thanks for the good wishes.









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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
Its also entirely possible that some people simply are not pissed off.
Or even frustrated. But for Jim perhaps, its a strange unbelievable
phenomenon, not having experienced it apparently.



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 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 snip
  He is just pissed off and frustrated in general that his 
  enlightenment eludes him, and chooses to take it out on anyone who 
  brings up the topic. I can relate, and I'm sure you can too, Peter. 
  Before such a breakthrough is a lot of frustration for something so 
  tantalizingly close and yet apparently unreachable.
 
 You know, Jim, it's entirely possible to be pissed off
 and frustrated with what presumably awakened people say
 about enlightenment *without* also being frustrated and
 pissed off that one has not yet achieved it oneself.
 
 Until one is enlightened, what the presumably awakened
 say about it is confusing, by the very nature of the
 beast.  But frustration on the part of the ignorant with
 that confusion may not be the same as frustration that
 they are not yet enlightened.
 
 snip
  Btw, did you catch Vaj's reference about offlist discussions with 
  Akasha on demonic possession? Well, I guess 'the devil is in the 
  details', as they say...
 
 Vaj is fond of mentioning his offlist discussions in his
 public posts.







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
   He is just pissed off and frustrated in general that his 
   enlightenment eludes him, and chooses to take it out on anyone
who brings up the topic. I can relate, and I'm sure you can too, Peter. 
   Before such a breakthrough is a lot of frustration for something
so tantalizingly close and yet apparently unreachable.

The imputing of others motives, the deconstruction of others'
experiences is getting fascinating on this board. Like a soap opera of
vindictiveness. Even though Dr. Stuphen, apparently the most educated
on this board in these matters, says that is impossible to do
correctly. Yet, ignoring such wise counsel,  some still seem obsessed
with doing so. 

A more subtle thing appears to present itself. The enlightenment
story. Some appear to claim it as a means to differentiate themselves
from others. So many tribes, races, religions, creeds, nations and
movements  have done this in the past and present. I am in (arbitrry)
Circle A  and you are not. You are not one of us. We are special. 

Who knows if this is what is going on in Jim's mind, but there appears
to be a pattern of such in any number of posters. Just an observation.

If this pattern does exist, it seems strange to me. While I personaly
think enlightement is a bogus and misused label, it appears that
adherents (worshipers to such label idols?)  proclaim oneness amongst
us all. Yet an apparent (observable) tendency to differentiate us
from them. All facilitated by the enlightenment story. And other tools.

While I am not sayng walking the talk is a sign of so called
enlightenment (btw, please at least first define your enlightenment
tradition if you are going to use the term), not walking ones talk
would seem a weak sign of so called enlightenment.   But then again,
Enlightenment is a Big Red Popsicle!, so anything goes.








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[FairfieldLife] Apologies to Dr. Sutphen - spelling error

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
I have been quoting you as Dr. Stuphen. Sorry, I should have checked
the spelling before citing you -- in what I think is a great quote.
(cant deconstruct others experiences

I found my spelling error in doing a google search of you to see whcih
university you teach at. Even Google appears to know its Sutphen, not
Stuphen. 

You have alluded to teaching classes. I didn't see you as professor or
adjunct faculty at any florida university or colege. Is this an
oversight on the colleges part?

Nor any listing in professional psychogist associations. Or even a
listing of a practice.

I checked vet schools, but no listing there either, so Mr Paul is
apparently mistaken in that assumption. 

One post claimed you were a practicioner of experimental psychology
not counseling or clinical psychology? Is this correct?

Certainly its not mandatory that you post your professional
qualifications. But you cite them as a basis of your expertise at
times. As did I just recently (most knowledgable on this board in
these matters.) So any professional cites or descriptions would be of
interest, if you don't mind sharing.

  





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin 
snip
his enlightenment eludes him 

A sign of great writing is you can read it over several times and find
great new gems.

Jim, I admire your enlightenment tradition, what ever it is, for such
unique view of enlightenment, distinct from any other enlightenemnt
tradition I have encountered.

In fours short words, its almost aphorismic, to both assign
posseionship of enlightenment to an individual his enlightenment and
the implication that it is an individual who is enlightened,
enlightenment eludes him is in such stark contrast to other
traditions, I have to stand up and cheer that you are revealing some
new yet uncovered, distinct description of the multi-cultural vast
diversity in the use of the term enlightenemnt.  It certainly supports
the thesis that many different cultures and traditions  experience
many different things that they paradoxically all call the same thing
enlightenement.

While being  steeped in your enlightenment tradtion, you may, or may
not, be aware of how other traditions use the same term -- but with
clearly a vastly different experience attached. For example many
eastern traditions hold that possessionship of an enlightened status
makes no sense whatso ever. The phrase would never enter their lexicon
because (they claim) that is not the experience. In their world, there
is no possessor, no experiencer, just the commonality of all existence
that pervades ones awareness. 

And they go on to hold, that an individual never becomes enlightened.
Thus enlightenment eluding an individual again would be non-sensical
to these classical eastern traditions. It is the commonality of all
existence that awakens unto itself. It has nothng to do with the
individual. Some such traditions even hold that any sense of
individuality is an illusion. 

So keep up the good work in reporting these utterly unique
descriptions of the term enlightenemnt, from your enlightenment
tradition, and the correspondng implied experiences that are so
utterly different and unique compared to classical enlightenment
traditions. 

By the way, what is your enlightenment tradition?









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[FairfieldLife] Re: Apologies to Dr. Sutphen - spelling error

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
Thanks. I have also referred to you as Dr. PS. I hope that is a
comfortable moniker for you.

But, I do pray to God that your middle inital is not M.



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 --- anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  I have been quoting you as Dr. Stuphen. Sorry, I
  should have checked
  the spelling before citing you -- in what I think is
  a great quote.
  (cant deconstruct others experiences
 
 A common mistake. You should see how my students spell
 my name. The best was, Tufin!!!







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[FairfieldLife] Re: question about Maharishi's brothers, for Paul Mason or others

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, at_man_and_brahman
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 FFL is wasted by all the eternal bullshit
 between people exemplified by the thread 
 following my original posted question.

Yes, the exchange this morning appeared even more bizzare than usual.
It reminded me of the scene in Four Weddings and a Funeral where
Hugh Grant is seated at the wedding dinner next to a dogey old man
clearly not quite all there. The old man makes some diparaging remark
about Hugh, seen by the old man as the old mans brother. Hugh, a bit
perplexed and flushed says, but pardon me sir, I am not your
brother.  the old man stares ice at him and in highly distilled,
quiet rage, grits out, Are you telling me I don't know my own brother?







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[FairfieldLife] Re: question about Maharishi's brothers, for Paul Mason or others

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, at_man_and_brahman
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 

 Maharishi's Brother is said to be 97,
 alive and kicking. He was recently seen
 this past Oct 12th on victory day on the
 broadcast from the globalcountry of World
 peace. He told a friend privately that there
 is a tradition in India not to talk about a
 saints life- just aspire to be like him yourself.

MMY said the same thing of SBS. That a saints life is not in the
details. That taking a new name and all signifies the death of the
prior life. And even the details as a swami or monk, or teacher are
insignificant. Its the breath of Pervading Silence (or some such
allusion) is all that matters. 

Same or similar point made in aother post about the false claim that
one can never understand Maharishi. Its the Pervading Silence in his
life that matters. The details, which are simply spinoffs of old
karmas and the residue of samskaric imprints are unimportant. Even if
they seem odd. 

That some view that some saints have odd karma and samksaric residue
as odd, is to me quite odd. The universe and the span of time are
large. Strange things can happen in this thing we call lives.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Christ All Mighty

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, braaahmaan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
  tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis   The writer looking out through
  these eyes is that Brahman.
  
  Speak for yourself Tom, not for me, your pal Braaahmaan. 
  
  I grant you authority to speak of your own experiences. And your own
  interpretation of your own experiences. No other licenses granted.
  
  Your claiming to speak for Braaahmaan is like Jerry Farwell claiming
  to speak for Christ and his pervading Consciousness.
  
  In Wholeness,
  
  B.
 
 Is Braahmaan Brahman's goat?

Why, are you trying to get Brahman's goat?








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[FairfieldLife] Re: Christ All Mighty

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, braaahmaan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
  tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis   The writer looking out through
  these eyes is that Brahman.
  
  Speak for yourself Tom, not for me, your pal Braaahmaan. 
  
  I grant you authority to speak of your own experiences. And your own
  interpretation of your own experiences. No other licenses granted.
  
  Your claiming to speak for Braaahmaan is like Jerry Farwell claiming
  to speak for Christ and his pervading Consciousness.
  
  In Wholeness,
  
  B.
 
 Is Braahmaan Brahman's goat?


Perhaps Card can intervene with his insights. It appears to me that
Braaahmaan phonetically is a fuller, deeper and richer expression of
Wholeness than Brahman. 

Perhaps Tom is only speaking for Brahman level 1, and not Braaahmaan
level 9.













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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Patrick Gillam 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  --- jim_flanegin wrote:
  
   enlightenment does not adhere 
   to ANY tradition. It is what it is. Period.
  
  I've been given to understand that enlightenment 
  changes quite a bit from one spiritual tradition to 
  another. I'm told, for instance, that Buddhists 
  disagree with Hindus on key points, and when 
  their adherents attain end states they call awakening 
  or enlightenment, the attainees describe their 
  experiences differently from one another but 
  consistent with their traditions.

Even amongs Hindus. Non-dual and dualist advaita traditions.
Vaishnavas -- tending to always have some distinction between
themselves and Godhead -- even in the attainment of the highest lokas,
vs. non-dualist shaivites. 

And Buddists are hardly one school. Theravada, Mahayana, Tibetian. And
great differences in schools of understanding and views even within
these great rivers of buddhism.

And Islam. Shunni, Shi-ite, Sufi?

And the jains. And the farsi zoriasterists of bombay. 

And so many christian sects and understandings of perfection.

How many extinct traditions over the last 10,000 or more years. Far
more than exist today, I would venture.

To say that all enlightenement tradions are the same must be from
someone with their head in the sand. (or other places the sun don't
shine.)


 
 That is my experience as well. It's as if the myth
 of enlightenment that members of a tradition grew
 up with becomes by default the language they use
 to express the inexpressible.
 
  Native Americans have no such states in their 
  traditions, suggesting enlightenment is not 
  something that all traditions recognize.
 
 I have spent time with Yaqui shamans and read a 
 bit of Native American traditions, and I have to
 agree with you. The quest for power, yes. The 
 quest for altered states of consciousness, yes.
 The quest for an impeccable life, yes. But it's 
 tough to find an analogue for enlightenment as 
 we know it from Eastern traditions.
 
  View determines fruit, as Vaj quoted a master 
  as saying. Or as Dana Sawyer says, precept 
  determines percept.
 
 I have to agree. That which one expects seems to
 color awakening into the unexpected. The experience
 it what it is, but when it comes to describing or
 interpreting it, one's previously-established 
 view (carried over from and structured in ignorance)
 seems to become the default.
  
  I'm not sure if I'm disagreeeing with you here, Jim. 
  I don't know enough about either side of the discussion. 
  I'm simply expressing some cognitive dissonance with 
  the statement that enlightenment does not adhere to 
  any tradition.
 
 I don't feel any cognitive dissonance, but that
 may be because I've had occasional flashes of 
 enlightened states, *and* I've had decades of
 indoctrination into trying to anticipate and
 explain such experiences. The anticipation was
 fruitless; I was waiting for what was already
 present. And all of the explanations fell flat,
 because they didn't do justice to the experience.
 Close, but no cigar.
 
 Still, when you're discussing cigars, you need a
 language to express the differences between a 
 true Havana and a cheap Baltimore Stogie. Even
 though *no one* you speak to will ever under-
 stand the difference until they've fired up 
 both. :-)







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Patrick Gillam [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- TurquoiseB wrote:
 
  Gillam wrote:
  
   View determines fruit, as Vaj quoted a master 
   as saying. Or as Dana Sawyer says, precept 
   determines percept.
  
  I have to agree. That which one expects seems to
  color awakening into the unexpected. The experience
  it what it is, but when it comes to describing or
  interpreting it, one's previously-established 
  view (carried over from and structured in ignorance)
  seems to become the default.
 
 That said, I don't much hear Jim and Tom and Peter 
 and such lot talking in Maharishi's idioms. For example,  
 this whole notion of losing a personal self was totally  
 absent from any understanding I ever had of the Science 
  of Creative Intelligence. 

Yes, their languange and conceptual frameworks appear to be directly
out the books they read and satsangs they attended (off the program
??), such as Ramana, Papaji, etc .. and a good dash of new-agism. 

Of course Rory, a former book store owner, read far more bboks so look
for more varied concepts and language. And charter Theopsophy book
club member. 
  

 
 So it's the same old story - on the one hand,
 on the other hand. Jaimini cricket.







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Judy and TorquiseB

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I'm just doing what he recommended, embracing my
 assholiness.  

I know this an Adult group, but that image seems a bit raw. 








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[FairfieldLife] Re: COB and F-land?

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, gullible fool [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 By now, TurquoiseB, you must have switched to making
 cracks about Belgians.
 
 The lowdown on Conan and Finland:
 
 http://www.crikey.com.au/articles/2005/10/18-1422-3489.html
 
 --- TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, cardemaister
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  wrote:
   
   Conan O'Brien must have lived in (Sweden-)Finland
  in
   some previous lifetime. Otherwise his obsession
  with
   Finland is unconceivable! 
   (Finland was a part of Sweden for several hundred
  years
   up to 1809.)
  
  And then what? The Swedes came to their senses
  and gave the land away to whoever would take it? 
  :-)
  
  Just joking, really. I once had a wife of Swedish
  descent, and she filled me in on many of the 
  in-jokes the Swedes have about their Scandinavian
  neighbors, and vice-versa. The only one I can 
  remember is, Twenty Swedes ran through the weeds,
  chased by one Norwegian.  :-)
  


Some Norwegian friends, 10th Mountain Divison types, after drinking
too much Aquavit, would make fun of Fins for being gloomy and drinking
way too much vodka.








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[FairfieldLife] Re: Apologies to Dr. Sutphen - spelling error

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I also like to be garlanded with bija mantras:
 
 Om Shrim Klim,Hrim,Gum Dr. PLS.. 

Do you mandate that of your patients, or simply make it optional?

(Do you charge the ones that don't garland your name an extra $20 / hr?)


Your parents missed naming you Dr. PMS by one letter. Though I guess
the upside would be you would have have a swelling clientele. 

But I am glad it didn't happen. Otherwise, Barry or others would
probably be labeling you the bitch doctor, with glee. Though of
course I would find such remarks repugnant.






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  Thanks. I have also referred to you as Dr. PS. I
  hope that is a
  comfortable moniker for you.
  
  But, I do pray to God that your middle inital is not
  M.
  
  
  
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  [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  
   
   
   --- anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   
I have been quoting you as Dr. Stuphen. Sorry, I
should have checked
the spelling before citing you -- in what I
  think is
a great quote.
(cant deconstruct others experiences
   
   A common mistake. You should see how my students
  spell
   my name. The best was, Tufin!!!
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Patrick Gillam 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- jim_flanegin wrote:
  
   enlightenment does not adhere 
   to ANY tradition. It is what it is. Period.
  
  I've been given to understand that enlightenment 
  changes quite a bit from one spiritual tradition to 
  another. I'm told, for instance, that Buddhists 
  disagree with Hindus on key points, and when 
  their adherents attain end states they call awakening 
  or enlightenment, the attainees describe their 
  experiences differently from one another but 
  consistent with their traditions.
  
  Native Americans have no such states in their 
  traditions, suggesting enlightenment is not 
  something that all traditions recognize.
  
  View determines fruit, as Vaj quoted a master 
  as saying. Or as Dana Sawyer says, precept 
  determines percept.
  
  I'm not sure if I'm disagreeeing with you here, Jim. 
  I don't know enough about either side of the discussion. 
  I'm simply expressing some cognitive dissonance with 
  the statement that enlightenment does not adhere to 
  any tradition.
 
 Uh-oh, I see another Paradox! Just ample warning for those that wish 
 to read no further...
 
 Spiritual traditions are all useful, and thank God there are a lot 
 of them, to serve us all in such diversity. 
 
 What I meant by my remark was that once enlightenment is reached, 
 the spiritual tradition we have followed loses its uniqueness, and 
 in some ways much of its value; an enlightened Buddhist shares the 
 same view as an enlightened Hindu or Sufi or whatever. 

Says who? Your intuition? Precisely which enlightened Buddhists,
Hindus and Sufis did you talk to regarding this. Or are you just
spouting off platitudes that sound good.

 
 Oddly enough, once enlightenment blossoms, all of the ways of all of 
 the spiritual traditions become accessible, 

And you are quite familiar with all the ways of all the spiritual
traditions? Again, it sounds like feel-good platitudes, nothing
actually based on studying such traditions and talking to their
proponents. Tell us about the aghori and nath practices you have
accessed since becoming self-proclaimed enlightened?

 so that we gain a much 
 stronger intuitive appreciation of all of the traditions, and can 
 enjoy them as we wish.

Sounds like a MUM first year student doing sing-song.







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Judy and TorquiseB

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lurkernomore20002000
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 
   
   Tom T:
   OK folks I thought you were both going on the wagon. This 
 addictive
   relationship is pretty toxic for us as well as you. Where is the 
 need
   to continue based? What is the pay off you both get out of 
 throwing
   brick bats? This too is your wholeness. Embrace the others 
 position
   and practice what you say you are here for-spirituality. Love 
 you both
   Tom T
  
  And their banter irritates you, why?
 
 snip
 
 Because there was a respite, a very pleasant respite, and now we're 
 back in the same pattern, the never ending, never ending pattern.
 
 lurk


Feel the sensation that arises in the body when you get that
irritation. Breath through it. Feel the wholeness Luke.

I find their banter delightfully refreshing. Sort of like abbott and
costello. Or Laurel and Hardy. Martin and Dean. Perhaps Rocky and
Bullwinkle.








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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Patrick Gillam 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  
   --- jim_flanegin wrote:
   
enlightenment does not adhere 
to ANY tradition. It is what it is. Period.
   
   I've been given to understand that enlightenment 
   changes quite a bit from one spiritual tradition to 
   another. I'm told, for instance, that Buddhists 
   disagree with Hindus on key points, and when 
   their adherents attain end states they call awakening 
   or enlightenment, the attainees describe their 
   experiences differently from one another but 
   consistent with their traditions.
   
   Native Americans have no such states in their 
   traditions, suggesting enlightenment is not 
   something that all traditions recognize.
   
   View determines fruit, as Vaj quoted a master 
   as saying. Or as Dana Sawyer says, precept 
   determines percept.
   
   I'm not sure if I'm disagreeeing with you here, Jim. 
   I don't know enough about either side of the discussion. 
   I'm simply expressing some cognitive dissonance with 
   the statement that enlightenment does not adhere to 
   any tradition.
  
  Uh-oh, I see another Paradox! Just ample warning for those that wish 
  to read no further...
  
  Spiritual traditions are all useful, and thank God there are a lot 
  of them, to serve us all in such diversity. 
  
  What I meant by my remark was that once enlightenment is reached, 
  the spiritual tradition we have followed loses its uniqueness, and 
  in some ways much of its value; an enlightened Buddhist shares the 
  same view as an enlightened Hindu or Sufi or whatever. 


When I was a TM teacher, and for a few years after that, I said the
same thing. Then I asked, Do I really know what I am talking about
here, or am I just parroting unsubstantiated dogma I have heard? I
quickly realized it was the latter. With some reading and reaserch,
talking to others, I found there are quite large differences in views
of different traditions and religions -- and representative saint's
reports of states theyhave obtained.  But I am not a scholar. Most
scholars I have read or talked to, who devote their lives to the
topic, find differences not sameness. 

Parroting dogma is a mental handicap. It can be overcome.


 
 Says who? Your intuition? Precisely which enlightened Buddhists,
 Hindus and Sufis did you talk to regarding this. Or are you just
 spouting off platitudes that sound good.
 
  
  Oddly enough, once enlightenment blossoms, all of the ways of all
of the spiritual traditions become accessible, 
 
 And you are quite familiar with all the ways of all the spiritual
 traditions? Again, it sounds like feel-good platitudes, nothing
 actually based on studying such traditions and talking to their
 proponents. Tell us about the aghori and nath practices you have
 accessed since becoming self-proclaimed enlightened?
 
  so that we gain a much 
  stronger intuitive appreciation of all of the traditions, and can 
  enjoy them as we wish.
 
 Sounds like a MUM first year student doing sing-song.

Yup, reading right off some big colorful chart.







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lurkernomore20002000
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  Oddly enough, once enlightenment blossoms, all of the ways of all
  of the spiritual traditions become accessible,
 
 snip 
 
 so that we gain a much 
stronger intuitive appreciation of all of the traditions, and 
 can 
enjoy them as we wish.
 
 I'm feeling better already.
 
 lurk  

Yes, dogmatic fantasies are so uplifting, and SUCH a joy!.

Ask Jim to access Rinzai  Obaku sects and tell you of his access of
their their practices and his direct experience of what they decribe
as higher states and how its joyously all the same as his own personal
experience.  Its so blissful. Even the delusions are Brahman.









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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:

 enlightenment does not adhere 
 to ANY tradition. It is what it is. Period.

I've been given to understand that enlightenment 
changes quite a bit from one spiritual tradition to 
another. I'm told, for instance, that Buddhists 
disagree with Hindus on key points, and when 
their adherents attain end states they call awakening 
or enlightenment, the attainees describe their 
experiences differently from one another but 
consistent with their traditions.

Native Americans have no such states in their 
traditions, suggesting enlightenment is not 
something that all traditions recognize.

View determines fruit, as Vaj quoted a master 
as saying. Or as Dana Sawyer says, precept 
determines percept.

I'm not sure if I'm disagreeeing with you here, Jim. 
I don't know enough about either side of the discussion. 
I'm simply expressing some cognitive dissonance with 
the statement that enlightenment does not adhere to 
any tradition.
   
   Uh-oh, I see another Paradox! Just ample warning for those that 
 wish 
   to read no further...
   
   Spiritual traditions are all useful, and thank God there are a 
 lot 
   of them, to serve us all in such diversity. 
   
   What I meant by my remark was that once enlightenment is 
 reached, 
   the spiritual tradition we have followed loses its uniqueness, 
 and 
   in some ways much of its value; an enlightened Buddhist shares 
 the 
   same view as an enlightened Hindu or Sufi or whatever. 
  
  Says who? Your intuition? Precisely which enlightened Buddhists,
  Hindus and Sufis did you talk to regarding this. Or are you just
  spouting off platitudes that sound good.
  
 I looked up platitude: 

sorry you had to look it up. A comment on American education.


 a banal, trite, or stale remark. Anyone that 
 knows me personally knows that I am just about anti-platitude. 

I only know you from your writing and the above is surely not clear
from that vantage.

 What 
 is the value of spouting off platitudes? as they are from memory, 
 exactly as you describe; to make one feel good. 
 
 But the difference is they are mood-making. I already expressed 
 myself regarding mood-making. 

Again, not reflected in the logic and content of your actual writing. 

 You also asked, 'says who'? Good 
 question. Do you have an answer?

Well you said it an enlightened Buddhist shares the same view as an
enlightened Hindu or Sufi or whatever.  Apparrently with no
substantiation. Which is my point. You are spouting dogma you heard.
Wake up and do some research and process your own thoughts. 


   Oddly enough, once enlightenment blossoms, all of the ways of 
 all of 
   the spiritual traditions become accessible, 
  
  And you are quite familiar with all the ways of all the spiritual
  traditions? Again, it sounds like feel-good platitudes, nothing
  actually based on studying such traditions and talking to their
  proponents. Tell us about the aghori and nath practices you have
  accessed since becoming self-proclaimed enlightened?
  
   so that we gain a much 
   stronger intuitive appreciation of all of the traditions, and 
 can enjoy them as we wish.
  
  Sounds like a MUM first year student doing sing-song.
 
 Oh well. Perhaps you can say it better? I try mightily to write 
 well, and sometimes I fail.

First, I would, and have, reounced dogma echoing in my mind. That is a
vow you appear to not have yet taken. And when it appears in my mind I
ask do I really know if this is true. Usually, I can't say that I
do. So I do some research. On the matter of equal views of
enlightenment by Hindus, Christians, Moslems, Sufis, Buddhists,
Shaman, first I have come to recognize a huge diversity of opinion and
experience even within each of these traditions. And greater diversity
among these grand traditions.

To sing-song that all religious and spiritual traditions essentially
have a shankarian non-dualistic advaitist view is silly and shallow.








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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lurkernomore20002000
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  
   
 
Oddly enough, once enlightenment blossoms, all of the ways of 
 all
of the spiritual traditions become accessible,
   
   snip 
   
   so that we gain a much 
  stronger intuitive appreciation of all of the traditions, 
 and 
   can 
  enjoy them as we wish.
   
   I'm feeling better already.
   
   lurk  
  
  Yes, dogmatic fantasies are so uplifting, and SUCH a joy!.
 
 I disagree.
  
  Ask Jim to access Rinzai  Obaku sects and tell you of his access 
 of
  their their practices and his direct experience of what they 
 decribe
  as higher states and how its joyously all the same as his own 
 personal
  experience.
 
 If you explain carefully what they are, I'll give you my opinion.

hahaha. you are the one claiming enlightenment. And the one claiming
once enlightenment blossoms, all of the ways of all of the spiritual
traditions become accessible

So if they are accessable to you why are you asking me. You tell us,
in your accessibility mode how their view and experience of higher
states is the same as your non-dual advaitist TMO  simplified view and
experience of enlightenment.

 
  Its so blissful.
 Really? 

a favorite mocking phrase of an early TMer, mid 1960's, a social
aquaintance of mine who later became US ambassador to a number of
small but semi important countries, who was aghast even back then at
bliss ninnies running amock in the TMO.


 
  Even the delusions are Brahman.
 Who's delusions?

hahah, well, not Brahman's.








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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]   

--- Anonymousff wrote:
To sing-song that all religious and spiritual traditions 
 essentially have a shankarian non-dualistic advaitist view is silly
and  shallow.

 I said that the end result of all of these religious and spiritual
traditions is the same. Else they are not worth the paper their
scriptures are written on. 

The same place as your enlightenement tradition, which you have
proclaimned as TMO plus some introspection, the former being a
simplified shankarian non-dualistic advaitist view. You don't even
know the names from which stem your own dogma, yet you expect us to
believe your claims that all religions and spiritual traditions end in
the same place! How astonishing!

Again, the original question: on what basis do you make such claims?
Widhful feel-good fantasy and dogma appears to be your main sources,
not scholarship, not practice of other traditions, not talking to the
accomplished in many other traditions.

 
 They come from the same source. They return us to the same source. 

Nice dogma but on what basis can you make such statements? None of
substance it appears or else you would have stated it already instead
of repeatedly spouting dogma echoing in the hollow of your mind.


 That is what I said. And I wouldn't know a 'shankarian non-dualistic 
 advaitist view' if it walked up and bit me.

Or knowledge of any other tradition apparently. Yet you KNOW they end
in the same place. Hasn't the discordance begun to settle in yet? Or
is it sll just a blissful fantasy dream land still for you?









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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-15 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:
 
 You will never be satisfied with my answers. I wish you all the best.

Thats because you make wild unsubstantiated claims, and try to back
them up with mere dogma. While it has nothing to do with my
satisfaction, it has all to do with the validity of your claims. Which
by your own responses is not-existant. 

I wish you the best of luck in reconciling your world of dogma and
delusion with Reality which will inevitably rear its lovely head.











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[FairfieldLife] Re: 1032 Members

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
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[FairfieldLife] Good for the goose, good for the gander (was Re: Yagna By Choice Payback)

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I also noticed you started
 to do what I did and get caught up in what
 psychoanalytic thought calls projective
 identification. The person in question unconsciously
 projects a unintegrated/disowned aspect of their
 personality onto others and provokes them into
 responding/behaving in accord with that unintegrated
 part. People have a tendency to go off on the person
 in question thus perpetuating the abuse he experiences
 and recreating this abuse in a repetition compulsion
 that unconsciously seeks to resolve the original abuse
 in current relationships. 

It would seem that this then is a healing mechanism of the mind --
parallel to healing mechanisms in the body. 

 Unless this is consciously
 recognized, it just continues on and on and on until
 that complex of samskaras are disolved. 

And if it is consciously recognized, and stopped, is the healing
stopped. Is the dissolving of that particular complex of  samskaras
left unresolved?








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[FairfieldLife] Re: The British in India

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
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 jim_flanegin writes; snipped
 Maharishi has evolved into pure paradox, transcending my intellect,  
 and leaving me as the innocent witness to his actions. Like a master-/
  disciple relationship only in the transcendent; ONLY in the 
 transcendent. Pure Paradox.  
 
 Tom T responds:
 This is the value of Brahman. Only Brahman can hold those extreme
 values inside one human mind and live with that paradox. If you have
 any doubt left about the nature of Brahman see above and ponder on
 that for a while. This is the exposition and playing out of the
 Jaimini sutras. On the hand is the realtive loony toon character and
 on the other hand is the blazing brillance of pure Shiva, go try and
 figure it out and you can't. That is the definition of Brahman. 
 I once heard a 23 year old, FF born and raised, describe her
 enlightenment as delightful confusion. Delightful because it was and
 confusion because the mind was never going to figure it out. Not now
 Not ever. Tom T


Snake-oil salesmen, religions, cults, tyrants and even democratically-
elected / appointed political leaders like I can't explain it pretty
good why we kneaded to have done it, but like God told me to do it so
I done it, I invaded Iraq revert to the same claim -- just trust my
explanation even though I can't explain it rationally and you can
never understand it: its 'a magic elexir, 'a miracle', 'god's will',
'what our founding fathers said was good for us', 'the unspoken
mystery', 'the grand paradox'. 

How to differentiate I wonder? 





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[FairfieldLife] Re: The British in India

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
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  --- jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  
  snip
   
   Maharishi has evolved into pure paradox,
   transcending my intellect,  
   and leaving me as the innocent witness to his
   actions. Like a master-
disciple relationship only in the transcendent;
   ONLY in the 
   transcendent. Pure Paradox.
  
  Absolutely. You got it! Nothing of value on the
  surface at all. It's all sentimentality and ego up
  there, but deep in the heart is that pulse of Brahman
  that just PULLS you into it and flattens all the
  bullshit of the personality. Pure Shiva whirling in
  absolute stillness destroying all boundaries. 
 
 And yet I suspect you'd have to admit that this
 is a subjective feeling. 

A polite way of saying mood making, perhaps? 

And/ or the inner consolidation/condensation of ones own projections
of how the world (and gurus) should be? I mean if one thinks MMY or
whoever is IT, THE ONE, won't the mind almost automatically create
a sense of that experience when one sees them? Particularly if it is a
rare event / (always a) special occasion?

Did the skinboys and inner circle types who were around MMY constantly
experience him as blazing brahman.

Could the need to experience a teacher as blazing brahman justify
the umpteen years poured into what now apear, at least in part as
trivial and silly projects of his?

Someone once said that the grandeur of the described experience
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[FairfieldLife] Re: The British in India

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Premanand Paul Mason
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 Please, when and where did you meet Brahmananda Saraswati face-to-face?
 
 
  *Paradoxically* I never had the slightest inclination to be in 
  Maharishi's physical presence. 
  
  and *paradoxically* the only guru who lived up to my expectations 
  when I met him face to face was Brahmananda Saraswati aka Guru Dev 
  (who was the only one I ever met face-to-face...). The embodiment of 
  gentleness, love, friendliness, compassion and an absolute pillar of 
  resolve, tenacity, steadfastness, and no compromise.
 


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[FairfieldLife] Re: The British in India

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:
  
  
  In his dreams?
 
 Believe what you want. I have not stated such a thing to convince 
 anybody. On the other hand, I am not going to pretend it was some 
 fantasy, or that I mention this for ego aggrandizement as many would 
 understand it, or keep quiet about it because there are folks out 
 there that desperately need a rational explanation. You've been 
 meditating long enough, deal with it, however you like. 

Its funny, no one said anything about belief, or lack thereof,  
pretending, fantasies, desperately needing a rational explanation, or
ego aggrandizement. Yet you jump immediately to defend yourself on
those grounds. As in Hamlet, The lady doth protest too much, methinks.

I thought the remark about dreams funny -- multi-leveled: sains often
come in deams; field of dreams -- create the field and they
(saints) will come; I have a dream -- a desire to be in the presence
of saints; and yes the slightly disparaging one -- in his
imagination -- somewhat declawed by its juxtapostion. All together, a
funny (and tasty) sandwich of meanings, in my mind.


 To paraphrase what Barry Wright said earlier, is daily life any less 
 of an enlightened and enlightening experience? 

Sounds deep. Perhaps too much for me. (As deep a Barry White's voice?)

 So what?

So Hum?

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[FairfieldLife] Re: 1032 Members

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, bbrigante [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lurkernomore20002000 
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  You know, we suddenly jumped from 1000 members to 1032.  I wonder if 
  we're being monitored.  I certainly hope so.  We've had a good two 
  weeks of postings.
  
  lurk
 
 **
 
 People who were able to lurk before without joining now have to join 
 to read messages because of this group's being put in Yahoo's adult 
 section, that's probably why the jump in numbers.


Nope, not true. But one does have to sign in to ANY yahoo user name,
whether its a FFL member or not, to get to the homepage.

I think the adult thing is a general crack down yahoo has consented
to, reachng an agreement after facing serious prosecution from Elliot
Spitzer or some prosecutor of his zeal, stemming from a percieved
environment for potential sexual abuse of minors in yahoo's chat rooms. 

Yahoo has  eliminated all its user-defined chat rooms -- which while
creative in name and content at times, did on face value, look pretty
raunchy -- such as High School Gurls Who Love Older Guys etc.  For
years there was lots of basic sex drugs and rock-in-roll content, and
more importantly to some, the appearance of such, in these totally
uncensored rooms.

And the extra adult screen to get to FFL now talks about options for
concerned parents who want to protect their children. I would guess
that many groups are now adult -- based on yahoo's scan of key
words. They apear to be wanting to err on the side of caution and show
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[FairfieldLife] Re: FFL's Adult Yahoo Category

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
Rick,

Here's an idea:

Create a new group called FairfieldLife2. Use the same home page 
description as on FairfieldLife, except, perhaps, leaving out 
anything that might categorize it as an adult site. Also, add a 
line at the top which states something like - To access 
FairfieldLife, log into any Yahoo account, then go to this url ... 
with maybe a brief explanation of why needed. This way, people just 
doing searches will find FairfieldLife2 and from there, find 
FairfieldLife.

You could put a longer explanation in a post sent to the new group 
and give the post a subject heading inviting and encouraging 
newcomers to read it.

If possible, you could also disallow anyone else posting to the new 
group, so that it doesn't become an unintentional competing mess. 
Maybe also don't allow people to join, because all that you want is 
to point people to the other group. So, like FFL, FFL2 would allow 
non-members to read the home page and browse the archives.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: FFL's Adult Yahoo Category

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
More thoughts:

If you create a FFL2, you'd probably have to post to it occasionally 
to make sure that it wasn't cancelled by Yahoo, but I think they 
would send the owner or moderator(s) warnings before doing so. You 
may also need to have two or members to stay in business.

Another thought is that you might create a group just for the 
purpose of experimenting with what made Yahoo change the category. 
This would be a group that doesn't allow new memberships. 

Examples of tests:

a) You could put the full FFL description on the home page and wait 
a few days to see what happens. Maybe you would get immediate 
feedback, like when you were not able to save the word bondage in 
the description. 

b) Try uploading the Sexy Sadie files.

If the switch of category of FFL was automated, these kinds of 
tests ought to yield some results. If it was caused by someone's 
complaints, well, that's another matter.

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wrote:

 Rick,
 
 Here's an idea:
 
 Create a new group called FairfieldLife2. Use the same home page 
 description as on FairfieldLife, except, perhaps, leaving out 
 anything that might categorize it as an adult site. Also, add a 
 line at the top which states something like - To access 
 FairfieldLife, log into any Yahoo account, then go to this 
url ... 
 with maybe a brief explanation of why needed. This way, people 
just 
 doing searches will find FairfieldLife2 and from there, find 
 FairfieldLife.
 
 You could put a longer explanation in a post sent to the new group 
 and give the post a subject heading inviting and encouraging 
 newcomers to read it.
 
 If possible, you could also disallow anyone else posting to the 
new 
 group, so that it doesn't become an unintentional competing mess. 
 Maybe also don't allow people to join, because all that you want 
is 
 to point people to the other group. So, like FFL, FFL2 would allow 
 non-members to read the home page and browse the archives.







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[FairfieldLife] Re: The British in India

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin 
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In his dreams?
   
   Believe what you want. I have not stated such a thing to 
 convince 
   anybody. On the other hand, I am not going to pretend it was 
 some 
   fantasy, or that I mention this for ego aggrandizement as many 
 would 
   understand it, or keep quiet about it because there are folks 
 out 
   there that desperately need a rational explanation. You've been 
   meditating long enough, deal with it, however you like. 
  
  Its funny, no one said anything about belief, or lack thereof,  
  pretending, fantasies, desperately needing a rational explanation, 
 or
  ego aggrandizement. Yet you jump immediately to defend yourself on
  those grounds. As in Hamlet, The lady doth protest too much, 
 methinks.
  
  I thought the remark about dreams funny -- multi-leveled: sains 
 often
  come in deams; field of dreams -- create the field and they
  (saints) will come; I have a dream -- a desire to be in the 
 presence
  of saints; and yes the slightly disparaging one -- in his
  imagination -- somewhat declawed by its juxtapostion. All 
 together, a
  funny (and tasty) sandwich of meanings, in my mind.
  
  
   To paraphrase what Barry Wright said earlier, is daily life any 
 less 
   of an enlightened and enlightening experience? 
  
  Sounds deep. Perhaps too much for me. (As deep a Barry White's 
 voice?)
  
   So what?
  
  So Hum?
  
  By the way, do you have a match sir?
 
 Akasha, please go practice your cynicism and rationalizations 
 elsewhere. Besides the next time I see Guru Dev, I'm tattling on 
 youHa Ha

What a wonderful rorshoch test this is. The world is as we are.








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[FairfieldLife] Re: The British in India

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 All valid observations and insights that you need to
 temper your own experience with,

Actually all of the questions I wrote: the inner
consolidation/condensation of ones own  projections of how the world
(and gurus) should be; could the need to experience a teacher as
blazing brahman justify the umpteen years poured into the trivial
etc., are prompted from reviewing, questioning and speculating about
my own experiences with saints. 

 not deconstruct the
 validity of another's experience. 

Who said anything about any specific other's experience? It was a
serious of questions about the general drawn from observation and
speculation of my own experiences, the specific

 You can only talk
 about what you experience, not another. 

OK I will try to keep that in mind when such circumstances arise. I
assume you will also.

 And certainly
 don't expect social consensus with someone like MMY.
 Your mind is never going to get him. Never, ever.
 Amen. 

Aren't you now guilty of what you just preached not to do? It appears
valid for you to conclude that your mind is never going to get him. 
But it seems baseless for you to conclude that another mind, much less
all minds, are incapbable of getting him, or of anything for that
matter. Isn't all possibilities part of the credo of this group? 

 






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[FairfieldLife] Re: 1032 Members

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 What consent degree?

Perhaps consent decree was the wrong term. There was an agreement
Yahoo made --apparently with Spitzer -- perhaps others, regarding chat
rooms, perhaps Groups were included, and to genearlly shape up. It
appears there was also advertiser pressure.

http://www.chatmag.com/news/101505_yahoo_chat.html

http://www.oag.state.ny.us/press/2005/oct/oct12a_05.html

http://www.wired.com/news/politics/0,1283,69188,00.html

 





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[FairfieldLife] Re: The British in India

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
  Not  now  Not ever. Tom T
  
  
  Snake-oil salesmen, religions, cults, tyrants and even 
 democratically-
  elected / appointed political leaders like I can't explain it 
 pretty
  good why we kneaded to have done it, but like God told me to do it 
 so
  I done it, I invaded Iraq revert to the same claim -- just trust 
 my
  explanation even though I can't explain it rationally and you can
  never understand it: its 'a magic elexir, 'a miracle', 'god's 
 will',
  'what our founding fathers said was good for us', 'the unspoken
  mystery', 'the grand paradox'. 
  
  How to differentiate I wonder?
 
 Intuition, ...plain...and...simple.


A problem with intuition, in general, is that it can and is used by
spiritual and political charlatans and others (look at bush, I just
got a hunch its the right thing, I feel it strongly in my gut -- as
if thats some sort of proof or validation of some lame brained thing
that pops into his head. He really needs Byron Katie and have himself
ask about each of his thoughts Is it true? Do I really know its
True). 

Spiritual charlatans can justify great things by saying the insight
is from their (implied, highly refined, highly evolved) intuition.
Any questioning of such brings the easy retort well, if you don't
HAVE it, I can't explain it to you or some such spurious and
condescending comment. (with a small smirk and chuckle too)

Personally using intuition, if that includes forsaking rational
analysis, is such a trap for so many. On the other hand, intuition,
insight, that is then tested or thought through rationally, can be a
great tool. Part of a package. But to use it exclusively, in the above
post, to discern wheat from chaf, charlatans from those with insight,
appears naive. But  each to his own, going with what works.

If I were to go by intuition alone, I would take a number of posts on
this list  as unrepentant mood making. But I try to keep an open mind,
the rational side keeps the door open.



 





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[FairfieldLife] Re: The British in India

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
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 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
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  What a wonderful rorshoch test this is. The world is as we are.
 
 *yawn*...

Ah, dream time aproaches. May the sugar plums be sweet and the rag
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[FairfieldLife] Re: The British in India

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis  
 Tom T responds:
 This is the value of Brahman. Only Brahman can hold those extreme
 values inside one human mind and live with that paradox. If you have
 any doubt left about the nature of Brahman see above and ponder on
 that for a while. This is the exposition and playing out of the
 Jaimini sutras. On the hand is the realtive loony toon character and
 on the other hand is the blazing brillance of pure Shiva, go try and
 figure it out and you can't. That is the definition of Brahman. 
 I once heard a 23 year old, FF born and raised, describe her
 enlightenment as delightful confusion. Delightful because it was and
 confusion because the mind was never going to figure it out. Not now
 Not ever. Tom T


Perhaps you can take insight from Dr. Pete, below. You can speak for
yourself and your experience, but not really for others. 



All valid observations and insights that you need to
temper your own experience with, not deconstruct the
validity of another's experience. You can only talk
about what you experience, not another. snip
Amen. 
Dr. PS
=
Perhaps Tom meant to say,

This is the value of Brahman for me. Only what I call Brahman can hold
those extreme values inside my mind and live with that paradox. If you
have  any doubt left about what I experience as the nature of Brahman,
see above and ponder on that for a while and see if you get the same
insight that I do. For me, this is an experience of the exposition and
playing out of the  Jaimini sutras. I percieve, and hey it may be my
ownlimitations, but on one hand is the realtive loony toon character
and on the other hand is the blazing brillance of pure Shiva. When I
go try and figure it out, it am profoundly confused -- in a good way.
I just for the life of me can't figure it out. Maybe you can, at least
its worth a try. But that profound confusion, that is the definition
of Brahman for me.  I once heard a 23 year old, FF born and raised,
describe her enlightenment as delightful confusion. Delightful
because it was and confusion because it appeared to my mind that her
mind was never going to figure it out. Not now, Not ever am I ever
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[FairfieldLife] School Sucks

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
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[FairfieldLife] Geeks Rule

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
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[FairfieldLife] Re: 1032 Members

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
   What consent degree?
  
  Perhaps consent decree was the wrong term. There was an agreement
  Yahoo made --apparently with Spitzer -- perhaps others, regarding
  chat rooms,
 
 OK, I had a quick look at your links; I remember
 reading about this now.
 
  perhaps Groups were included
 
 I kind of doubt Groups were included.  At least,
 it would seem that making a group suspected of
 discussing adult material inaccessible to the
 general public is not the best way of handling
 the situation--if it isn't accessible except by
 invitation, all kinds of things could go on there
 without interference.  At least if the public can
 read it, anything that looks as though it might
 facilitate child predation has a chance of being
 reported.
 
 It was the *privacy* of the chat rooms that was
 the problem.


Well the mo of many, across the spectrum of nice people and pervs, in
many chat rooms, not just teen adult ones, is to engage in some group
convo, then, privately IM people of interest and  side chat with them
privately. The same approach could and does happen in some groups as
well as chat rooms. I think the purpose of the yahoo agreement was to
create a chinese wall, an inpenetrable firewall, between teens and
adults. Good for the problem raised, not so good in terms of
increasing communications and understanding between generations. 






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[FairfieldLife] Re: The British in India

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
   wrote:
What a wonderful rorshoch test this is. The world is as we are.
   
   *yawn*...
  
  Ah, dream time aproaches. May the sugar plums be sweet and the rag
  dolls dance with glee.
 
 dude, you are quick minded, but that may in fact be your biggest 
 barrier. Good night


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[FairfieldLife] Re: 1032 Members

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  wrote:
What consent degree?
   
   Perhaps consent decree was the wrong term. There was an agreement
   Yahoo made --apparently with Spitzer -- perhaps others, regarding
   chat rooms,
  
  OK, I had a quick look at your links; I remember
  reading about this now.
  
   perhaps Groups were included
  
  I kind of doubt Groups were included.  At least,
  it would seem that making a group suspected of
  discussing adult material inaccessible to the
  general public is not the best way of handling
  the situation--if it isn't accessible except by
  invitation, all kinds of things could go on there
  without interference.  At least if the public can
  read it, anything that looks as though it might
  facilitate child predation has a chance of being
  reported.
  
  It was the *privacy* of the chat rooms that was
  the problem.
 
 
 Well the mo of many, across the spectrum of nice people and pervs, in
 many chat rooms, not just teen adult ones, is to engage in some group
 convo, then, privately IM people of interest and  side chat with them
 privately. The same approach could and does happen in some groups as
 well as chat rooms. I think the purpose of the yahoo agreement was to
 create a chinese wall, an inpenetrable firewall, between teens and
 adults. Good for the problem raised, not so good in terms of
 increasing communications and understanding between generations.


And the thing is, a lot of kids go to adult age chat rooms (not
necessarily with xxx adult material by lying on the age entry on
their profile about their age to gain access to where adults hang
out. Its funny, because on the text part of their profiles they will
sometimes say things like I am really 17, but I lied above to get
around yahoos stupid rules that try to keep me in the teen ghetto.









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[FairfieldLife] Cultsim and Free Seekers

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
 tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis  
  Tom T responds:
  This is the value of Brahman. Only Brahman can hold those extreme
  values inside one human mind and live with that paradox. If you have
  any doubt left about the nature of Brahman see above and ponder on
  that for a while. This is the exposition and playing out of the
  Jaimini sutras. On the hand is the realtive loony toon character and
  on the other hand is the blazing brillance of pure Shiva, go try and
  figure it out and you can't. That is the definition of Brahman. 
  I once heard a 23 year old, FF born and raised, describe her
  enlightenment as delightful confusion. Delightful because it was and
  confusion because the mind was never going to figure it out. Not now
  Not ever. Tom T
 
 
 Perhaps you can take insight from Dr. Pete, below. You can speak for
 yourself and your experience, but not really for others. 
 
 
 
 All valid observations and insights that you need to
 temper your own experience with, not deconstruct the
 validity of another's experience. You can only talk
 about what you experience, not another. snip
 Amen. 
 Dr. PS
 =
 Perhaps Tom meant to say,
 
 This is the value of Brahman for me. Only what I call Brahman can hold
 those extreme values inside my mind and live with that paradox. If you
 have  any doubt left about what I experience as the nature of Brahman,
 see above and ponder on that for a while and see if you get the same
 insight that I do. For me, this is an experience of the exposition and
 playing out of the  Jaimini sutras. I percieve, and hey it may be my
 ownlimitations, but on one hand is the realtive loony toon character
 and on the other hand is the blazing brillance of pure Shiva. When I
 go try and figure it out, it am profoundly confused -- in a good way.
 I just for the life of me can't figure it out. Maybe you can, at least
 its worth a try. But that profound confusion, that is the definition
 of Brahman for me.  I once heard a 23 year old, FF born and raised,
 describe her enlightenment as delightful confusion. Delightful
 because it was and confusion because it appeared to my mind that her
 mind was never going to figure it out. Not now, Not ever am I ever
 going to figure it out.

While there are a number of examples that could be drawn upon, the
above is handy and illustrates a point I have been pondering. (Thus it
is not specific to Tom, but illustrative of a type of thinking and
proclamation.)

It seems to me, that a characteristic of cults are leader(s) who
proclaim a (near) universal message which applies to most if not all.
Fundamental truths and insights applicable to all. 

A second characteristic often is that there is often a mystical claim
to such insight, via enlightenment, tradition, intuition, cognition,
or other mystical means of knowledge outside of rational explanation.
Examples might be its vedic, MMY's latest thinking is, the
knowledge, Its my intuition, I'm enlightened and you are not so you
can't undertand what I am saying, this is an unsolvable mystery, no
one can ever figure it out, its in the bible, the founding fathers
said so, the tarot cards said, my jyotish chart said, AV says to
do .., south facing entrances, etc.

It appears to me, certainly no proof implied, just a shared insight,
that the original statement about Brahman above, have these two
characteristics. 

In contrast, the re-written suggested text seems characteristic of a
free-thnking, humble seeker (or knower). 

In terms of purpose, both statements appear to seek communicate
something, an insight, that may be useful to others, so that others
can chew on it, and if nutritious, to digest and incorporate into
their own word view.  

To me, the latter is far more effective and inviting. And it doesn't
have heavy-handedness of cultish procliamations this is the way it
is, period. This interprestation of reality is the only valid one.
period. And it is known by means way beyond you. So just take it
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[FairfieldLife] Re: School Sucks

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


http://www.firstcoastnews.com/news/topstories/news-article.aspx?storyid=48816

The news is catching even veteran educators by surprise.
It is not indicative of any school in Duval County, said Acting
Principal Jack Shanklin.

I've been in education a long time and I have never seen a situation
like this in any educational setting, he said.

Which is quite different than suggesting or even validating that its
not happening, and hasn't been happening for a longtime. 

Well, you can't prove a negative, but perhaps if ol' Jack cited some
thorough investigation into the matter, his good ol boy statements
would carry more weight. 






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2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
I think Dr Stuphen hit the nail on the head, paraphrasing,

One can  have quite valid observations and insights to temper ones own
experience, but that is not the same as having the ability to
deconstruct the validity of another's experience. You can only talk
about what you experience, not another. 

x


It seems trouble starts on this board when people try to generalize
their own experience to a universal, to all others. Or when someone
(A) tries to explain another's experience (B) in A's terms and
experience -- and possibly limitations. Or when motives are imputed or
diagnosed (with any basis?)

Not to say one can't speculate as to whether an observation of a few
others behaviors or self-reports, or ones own experience, can be
generalized. But that is far different from proclaiming my
experience is THE EXPERIENCE. (Beyond discussion of who this pesky
my fellow is.)


(I know this an ADULT board, but nailing and head above were meant
quite innocently.)






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Cultsim and Free Seekers

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, qntmpkt [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 ---But there's no rule written in stone that Enlightenened people may
 not talk about anything.  HWL Poonja talked about it quite a bit,
 including his experiences with Ramana Maharshi. He also has some
 interesting comments on Maharishi. 

MMY I presume you mean, not RM. If so, what did he say about MMY?





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Your mind is never going to get MMY. Never, ever.

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
   Your mind is never going to get him [MMY]. Never, ever.
   Amen. 
  
  
  With all due respect and pardons, but that seems quite an odd 
 thing to
  say. Especially from (no)one proclaiming no self. 
  
  Who / what is Maharishi? The same as we all experience in or out of
  meditation. Effulgence, for want of a better inadequate label or 
 name.
  
  What is the personality, mind, intellect of Maharishi? Its a 
 hallowed
  out, crystaline matrix, a unique transparent tapestry woven from 
 the
  residue of thousands of lives, training, teachers, culturing, 
 habits,
  experiences, karmas, sadhanas, tapas, sacrafices, blunders, deaths,
  births,  brothers, sisters, pets, hunger, sex, wives, children, 
 wars,
  peace, oppulence, wandering, seclusion, fame, poverty, shame, 
 dharma,
  joy, sadness, dispair and elation. 
  
  What does this tapestry have to do with the Effulgent? Nothing. 
 Other
  than being a vessel for the Effulgent to flow through. As all 
 vessels,
  you and me, are.
  
  So there is Effulgence, and there is a personality. One of 
 billions of
  personalities cultured over the eons. That a particular personality
  has quirks, is odd, misbehaves sometimes -- like Dr. Strangelove's 
 arm
  trying to chock him -- its all reaction. Reaction of that tapestry,
  with all its quirky embedded designs, with the day to day ticking 
 of
  LIFE and experience as presented, while EFFULGENCE flows through 
 it all.
  
  What is hard to understand here?
 
 Good Morning. So, you've narrowed your understanding down to the 
 roughly six and half billion people currently on the planet, all of 
 whom share in common what you have written about your mind's 
 understanding of Maharishi. Are you able to be more specific?


How odd that you feel 6 billion people are hallowed out, crystaline
matrix, a unique transparent tapestry woven from the residue of
thousands of lives .. (as in roasted samskaras) while living the
fullness of effulgence (not experiences while the samskaras are lively). 

I guess the currency of liberation is so low today, anything and
everything passses as it. 








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[FairfieldLife] Re: Cultsim and Free Seekers

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
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As they say, 'Denial - Its not just a river in 
 Egypt...'

Thats the river that spreads layers of deep bullshit everywhere isn't it?







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Cultism and Free Seekers

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 On Dec 14, 2005, at 8:36 PM, anonymousff wrote:
 
 
  To me, the latter is far more effective and inviting. And it doesn't
  have heavy-handedness of cultish procliamations this is the way it
  is, period. This interprestation of reality is the only valid one.
  period. And it is known by means way beyond you. So just take it
  without questioning.
 
 One of the reasons an enlightened being will typically not talk about  
 enlightenment or even their own enlightenment is because this is,  
 except for some generalities, of little help in awakening the true  
 state of enlightenment in others. In other words, it's a very  
 inefficient way to introduce that state (either temporarily or  
 permanently) in students.
 
 It's interesting the culture that has developed in the west from the  
 satsangs of Ramana, Nisargadatta and Papaji. It's nothing like the  
 sadhanas that lead them to the non-dual state in the first place.  
 Ramana was a devotee of Kali who had numerous non-dual sadhanas. But  
 he did not teach that to his student (that I am aware of). And  
 Nisargadatta had a Nath guru who undoubtedly taught him some great  
 teaching which lead to his ripening and liberation. But he also would  
 not even talk of these teachings in any detail. They gave no methods  
 for the masses that flocked to them like the ones they themselves  
 used. But laughingly, those who emulate their examples merely parody  
 there darshans as if that will do it. It would be laughable if it  
 wasn't so sad. Even Papaji said none of his students received his  
 final teaching--the final stroke. They were just leeches. But those  
 who tasted--glimpsed--the View of non-duality abruptly claimed it as  
 their own. And then they declared satsangs of their own. And they  
 declared themselves enlightened on their own...even after people like  
 Papaji told them, no, sorry.
 
 It's like the old saying 'those who know, don't say; those who say,  
 don't know.'
 
 Worth remembering.


The self-proclamation part has always struck me as odd. Linked to the
absolutist interpretations of what IT IS. As if there is some
insecurity. THIS has to be IT. And odd that there are strong mandates
of how IT can be spoken of. And how IT cannot. And what one can
understand and what one cannot. 

And if anyone is experiencing Effulgence, a seemingly endless flow of
liveliness, unshakable bliss (not all bliss is dumb), constant
wakefulness, actions happening, knowledge happening, loss of
possessionship (of ideas, POVs, relations and things), compassion that
seems to be rooted at the core of everything, a limitless sense of
wonder -- and irony, a not so worried view of pending disasters, a
not so impressed view of pending sucesses, then wonderful. Why not
speak of these things. Why speak in nebulous labels of liberation, 
awakening, and enlightenment? Whose liberation, whose awakening? So
many paths, so many traditions make so many distinctions. Lots of
trail markers on this hike. Why be so anxious to claim the pinnacle. 
Why not just claim, if claims are needed,  I am hiking, and its fun.
(oops, sorry the body is hiking smirk


(And I mean experience not in the sense of I see the flower and this
I experience it, but in the sense of Consciousness Groking, 

And the process of self-proclamation, what a concept. Someone reads a
book and says I GET that! I must be enlightened.  hm, they say here
no-self is enlightenment. I have searched high and low and cannot find
an ego. Ergo I am enlightened.  Yet so many self-proclaimed
enlightened, even  here on this list, but more so else where, directly
contradict each other. 

Sure the indescribable can be approached from different angles. But
its odd when A says There is absolutely no ego and B says, of
course there is an ego, you are insane to think there isn't, and C
says well, there is an ego, but it finds its proper role as servant,
not master and D says You are a fool to try to understand this
paradox of ego, it is Brahman, it is confusion and E says well, if
you take this conic section and slice it, its clear the ego is an
elipse with 16 dancing golden elves who are really the ashwins. 
Perhaps they each went to a different Satsang, or read a different book.

Its odd too people claim labels (enlightenemnt, awakening,
liberation, and not specific attributes of such. Its as if the
label is a smoke screen for all attributes. But few are willng to
proclaim specific attributes and discuss in detail. Which if the
purpose is helping others, to promote insight and understanding, could
serve a role. But usually its la de da liberation. 

The socratic method always struck me as useful. No proclamations.
Simply questions crafted to allow others to get IT in their own way,
by their own means. Not that such should be a universal mandate, but
it does seem to be a humble path to sharing knowledge.







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice Payback

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
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  Stop smokin' me up, Tom! I refuse to play a part in
  your psyche anymore. It is very difficult to resist.

Psychiatrist proclaims independence from co-dependence. But its hard
he said, exasperated.

  







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[FairfieldLife] Re: 1032 Members

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lurkernomore20002000
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 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, bbrigante [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  **
  
  People who were able to lurk before without joining now have to join 
  to read messages because of this group's being put in 
 Yahoo's adult 
  section, that's probably why the jump in numbers.
 
 Makes sense.
 
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Cultsim and Free Seekers

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
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wrote:
 Silly ego 
 driven bullshit. 

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Cultism and Free Seekers

2005-12-14 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 
 And two, it is a healthy thing to do in speaking about it
[enlightenment]  as if it is just another experience. Because it
is...just...another...experience. 

And yet so many disagree that it is an experience (if that implies an
experiencer) and so many disagree that it is not special. 

So many distinct views of enlightenemnt, it makes on pause for a
moment to wonder if maybe some are speaking of different things.

Its such a joy that in this age of enlightenment everyone seems free
and joyous to define enlightenment any way they think is neat and
then claim it. Sort of like drawing circles, a target, around an arrow
you already shot. On the broadside of the barn. While the fat lady
sings. Its such a joy.

Cake anyone?



















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[FairfieldLife] Re: Regulations and Restrictions

2005-12-13 Thread anonymousff


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, hanumanhoffman9 [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 
  Regulations and Restrictions
  From Sadguru Sookti Sangraha, Sri Ganapathi Sachchidananda Swamiji
  
  Peace and happiness cannot be derived through impulsive and 
 unbridled freedom. 
  Actually, there is no freedom without restraint. For attaining 
 peace and happiness in life, 
  self-imposed regulations and restrictions are most necessary. They 
 are not meant to 
  punish the body, but to regulate and channelize it in order to 
 bring self-discipline.
  
  Human body is the temple of God. Mind, by itÕs very nature, is 
 chanchala (restless). It will 
  always try to rule over the body. It will think of something and 
 the body will follow.
  
  Mind and body need to be subjected to the higher principles of 
 life, so that slowly and 
  steadily, they are purified. So long as purification of body and 
 mind are lacking, self-
  fulfillment will also be delayed.
  
  In order to achieve purification, there are many 
 religious/spiritual practices, such as 
  Naama Sankeertan, Pooja, Homa, reading of the scriptures, 
 Pranaayama, Yogasanaas etc.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, cardemaister [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 
 Whew! If one ain't sure where to place long (diirgha) vowels,
 one might be better off not trying to do that at all! It may turn
 out to be counterproductive, or stuff. Sorry!

Why are you sorry? 

That you suspect many of us here cannot understand your egotistic attempts at 
translating 
Sanskrit posts? Am I the only one not smart enough to figure out what you are 
doing?
Do you think what you are doing isn't counterproductive?

or sorry that what you post can't enlighten us?

Or sorry that we are smart enough to know?

Hoffman at least is providing something more interesting than your gAbULdEgUk.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: FFL's Adult Yahoo Category

2005-12-13 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:


 
 It's a minor annoyance to most of us but one fellow in the UK said
he reads
 FFL on a public library computer and can no longer get in because of its
 adult classification. If this is the result of someone complaining to
 Yahoo, then I'd say they have a serious case of if you don't play
my way
 I'm taking my football and going home syndrome. Multiply that tendency
 1,000 times and you have a terrorist blowing up innocent people.


Because there's a total lack of civility seen in other groups, because
there are people who get their rocks off by playing now I've got you,
so sonofabitch, because there are Drs who should keep their
diagnosis to their own unfortunate clients and not to FFL, there are
people out to get FFL closed down in the belief that freedom of speech
does not include deriding and belittling people over and over and
over again.  If this is such a spiritual group, why aren't people
called when they do such things to people?  It's possible that someone
tried to get FFL closed down because of someone posting inappropriate
material then someone complained once again to Yahoo.  Rick knows the
whole story, only he's keeping it quiet.  Quiet is something Rick
should not be. He's the group owner and moderator.  Quiet makes him
accomplice.  Posting rules doesn't cut it.  Cutting someone down when
they go on the attack is what needs to be done.

Unless, until FFL polices itself, there will be people trying
everything they can to get FFL closed down, including interviewing
with and being hired by Yahoo so they can then have the power to pull
the plug on not only FFL but all the members with Yahoo email
addresses so the group can't reform.

Characterize it (character, what an interesting word) as a play by my
rules or I take my ball home if you wish.  Read the posts and tell me
if there has been sufficient civility to warrant FFL continuing
another second.  

Play by the rules of civility or the group will be closed down, if
bribes, calling in favors from friends in infamous families,  and
endless number of complaints against Yahoo don't close don't this
group, nothing will.  Play by the rules of civility and people won't
feel they've entered a minefield where whatever they post will be
pounced upon again and again and again.  And won't feel the need to
stiffle free speech.  Or spend their free time networking to find
just the right person to get the plug pulled on FFL.

Terrorists?  Disappointed you can't access FFL from a public library?
Blame the major flippant posters of FFL for that.  If you go to the
site and suddenly it's no longer there, blame said posters for that as
well.  And blame yourself for not saying cut that out in response to
the uncivil posts.  

BTW, the posts of Rudra Joe were enough to get this group an Adult
rating or deletion years ago.  It just took a while for Yahoo to catch
on. 

Get it?






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[FairfieldLife] Re: FFL's Adult Yahoo Category

2005-12-13 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer 
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 wrote:
 
 
  
  It's a minor annoyance to most of us but one fellow in the UK 
said
 he reads
  FFL on a public library computer and can no longer get in 
because of its
  adult classification. If this is the result of someone 
complaining to
  Yahoo, then I'd say they have a serious case of if you don't 
play
 my way
  I'm taking my football and going home syndrome. Multiply that 
tendency
  1,000 times and you have a terrorist blowing up innocent people.
 
 
 Because there's a total lack of civility seen in other groups, 
because
 there are people who get their rocks off by playing now I've got 
you,
 so sonofabitch, because there are Drs who should keep their
 diagnosis to their own unfortunate clients and not to FFL, there 
are
 people out to get FFL closed down in the belief that freedom of 
speech
 does not include deriding and belittling people over and over and
 over again.  If this is such a spiritual group, why aren't people
 called when they do such things to people?  It's possible that 
someone
 tried to get FFL closed down because of someone posting 
inappropriate
 material then someone complained once again to Yahoo.  Rick knows 
the
 whole story, only he's keeping it quiet.  Quiet is something Rick
 should not be. He's the group owner and moderator.  Quiet makes him
 accomplice.  Posting rules doesn't cut it.  Cutting someone down 
when
 they go on the attack is what needs to be done.
 
 Unless, until FFL polices itself, there will be people trying
 everything they can to get FFL closed down, including interviewing
 with and being hired by Yahoo so they can then have the power to 
pull
 the plug on not only FFL but all the members with Yahoo email
 addresses so the group can't reform.
 
 Characterize it (character, what an interesting word) as a play 
by my
 rules or I take my ball home if you wish.  Read the posts and 
tell me
 if there has been sufficient civility to warrant FFL continuing
 another second.  
 
 Play by the rules of civility or the group will be closed down, if
 bribes, calling in favors from friends in infamous families,  and
 endless number of complaints against Yahoo don't close don't this
 group, nothing will.  Play by the rules of civility and people 
won't
 feel they've entered a minefield where whatever they post will be
 pounced upon again and again and again.  And won't feel the need to
 stiffle free speech.  Or spend their free time networking to find
 just the right person to get the plug pulled on FFL.
 
 Terrorists?  Disappointed you can't access FFL from a public 
library?
 Blame the major flippant posters of FFL for that.  If you go to the
 site and suddenly it's no longer there, blame said posters for 
that as
 well.  And blame yourself for not saying cut that out in 
response to
 the uncivil posts.  
 
 BTW, the posts of Rudra Joe were enough to get this group an Adult
 rating or deletion years ago.  It just took a while for Yahoo to 
catch
 on. 
 
 Get it?

Oh darn...it got posted. I was ranting a bit folks, again, and 
didn't mean to hit the send key. I really must stop being so sneaky 
and making vague threats to you all. My buttons got pushed, 
especially by Rudra Joe, way back when. And Dr. Pete- who I now 
acknowledge really nailed it when he addressed my posting several 
back.

And that stuff I just said about 'if bribes, calling in favors from 
friends in infamous families, and endless number of complaints 
against Yahoo don't close don't this group, nothing will.  Play by 
the rules of civility...etc '. I really overstepped my bounds, and 
realize that empty threats don't amount to much, especially 
anaonymously...

So anyway, keep up the free exchange of ideas, and I will try my 
best to restrain myself in the future...I for one really hope we are 
able to get this site back to a non-Adult Category again. Cheers.






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[FairfieldLife] Re: TMO threatens South Florida teacher and magazine

2005-12-12 Thread anonymousff
What an arrogant asshole you, MDG, are. This is beyond any of your 
usual pompous material.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, ffia1120 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 
  Michael, I just have one question.  Did your mother ever tape 
your 
  mouth or otherwise prevent you from talking when you were growing 
 up?
  
  Sal
  
  
  On Dec 12, 2005, at 2:23 PM, Michael Dean Goodman wrote:
  
  (Really long snip)
  
I hope this gives FFLife readers some perspective on the local 
   situation
here in south Florida.  It's caused much more heat on the 
FFLife 
 list 
   than
it has here locally!  Locally, other than his ads, Mike's TM 
   activities
are so limited that they have very little effect and get no 
 attention.
The few times that my schedule has allowed me to go to a TM 
 event 
   hosted
by the new teachers, I've never heard Mike mentioned.
 
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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Has *anyone* suggested Tom get a wrathful mantra/ishta rather than a  
 peaceful one? Peaceful deity mantras are just peachy for your average  
 Joe or Judy wanting to *transcend*, but special mentations require  
 special mantras. This guys a diamond in the rough just waiting for  
 the right method. He'd attain mirror-like Wisdom quite quickly I'd  
 guess.
 
 Interesting man that Tom.


You're assuming that Tom is just wrath.  Actually, he's full of shake
and quake but is very sensitive to slights, as he was trained like
Pavlov's dogs to equate the slightest displeasure of someone with him
as another night he has to worry about being murdered or thrown out in
the snow shoeless and naked to spend the night shivering in what
little pile of leaves he could find. Hopefully God was good that night
and he was able to get some rest for school the next day. 

That sensitiveness to slights makes him feel differently about Ben
saying he was happy everybody enjoyed their special coins or
amulets when he didn't receive anything.  It's true Tom told Ben after
a few years that he wasn't that excited about receiving sacred ash,
but Ben's mamory is ever convenient to cover up his own failings.  Ben
does appear to suffer from attention and memory deficit.  Tom lives in
a world in which a man's word is his bond, else he's fired an hour
after he fails to deliver.  Tom truly believes Ben is just another one
of those space cadets who's quite suited to the SoCal let's have
lunch mentality.  Tom is not all hate.  There are a lot of flakey
people in the world and there are a lot of vicious people in the
world, Dr. Pete and Dr. Lechter being two of them.  Tom might have
asked for it, but that doesn't mean it's got to run the gauntlet and
then have the person he least honors for truth and reliability after
having dealt with him for years, the Pundit in training, to pick up on
Dr. Pete's damnation of him with just look at his chracter. 
search the archives. as a way to cover up his own failing and child
abuse issues.  

Tom has arranged for a $50,000 legal retainer to sue
Ben the lier.  If Ben posts a fully apologitic statement in which he
admits in every line that he, and not Tom was wrong and he apologizes
for wrongfully accusing Tom for it in an unambiguous, convincing,
non-finger pointing way, the suit will not be filed.  Any hint that
he's being insincere and Tom will see Ben in Court.  If Ben posts
anything to Fairfield life on any subject becept a convincing  apology
and  agreement that he is a flake, the lawsuit against Ben will be
filed and a few days later Ben will receive his subpoena.  Tom doesn't
want to stiffle Ben's freedom of speach.  But he doesn't want to read
the words of a lier who reprements himself as totally innocent of any
wrong doing.  The lawyers will prove otherwise.  Tom has more money
set aside for more prosecuition, counter suits and to fight malicious,
frivilous law suits against him.  He's also got every email Ben ever
sent to him, notes of every phone conversation, every email he ever
sent to Ben or others about Ben.  Some of it will curl your hair.

Joining YBC is the best thing Tom ever did.  It's been a week now he's
been doing full TM/TM Sidhi Program.  The consciousness flows through
him now and he feels full of spunk and hope and optimism as he did 14
years ago when he was last able to do full program off a course.  The
infusion of consciousness makes former perceived slights not.  It
makes frustrations in traffic not.  It makes the feeling of being
helplessly stuck in the muck and mire not. It makes formely
overwhelming terror and panic which drove him to the bottle of Dr.s'
prescripions flow through and out of him.

Tom has lead a moderately successful life here and there, clearing a
quarter million a year here, being an National Merit there, branch
manager of a control systems vendor resident at Bechtel in SF with an
annual 1/4 $billion annual budged there, being born conscious and
remembering his past there.  

Interesting Man that Tom is not only truer than you imagine, its
truer than you can imagine.  Richard Nixon opened us to Mainland
China, but took Dilantin for his depression, did some really petty
shit and resigned as the articles of impeachment were being drawn up.  

Abraham Lincoln and his life believed in dreams and wrote every one
down.  They had sayances performed in the White House regularly and
Lincoln timed has actions based on the feedback he got through his
secretary from a noted psychic.  Lincoln told his cabinet the day
before that night about the very disturbing dream where we woke up and
heard wailing.  He walked into a hall and there was a large man laid
out in a coffin.  He asked an overcome woman who was laid out in the
coffin.  The woman told him it was the President.  Lincoln campaigned
to have That Pecular Instituion undone  but also put his power behind
the establishment of the country of 

[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lurkernomore20002000
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 
  
  Has *anyone* suggested Tom get a wrathful mantra/ishta rather than 
 a  
  peaceful one? Peaceful deity mantras are just peachy for your 
 average  
  Joe or Judy wanting to *transcend*, but special mentations require  
  special mantras. This guys a diamond in the rough just waiting for  
  the right method. He'd attain mirror-like Wisdom quite quickly I'd  
  guess.
  
  Interesting man that Tom.
 
 Being on a spiritual path has not mitigated 
 what seems to me to be some real flaws. 

So you've been keeping Tom's diary.  Once again Tom is damned because
he's fabulously improved but not perfect.

I think it lends credence to 
 the notion that we all could use a good dose of therapy.  I would 
 welcome Dr. Pete's opinion on this. 

I'd welcome the the opinion of a real doctor, not a sick himself
wannabe psychologist or a vet saying he's a psychologist.


It's hard to imagine anything more 
 horrendous than this story.  They say emotional development gets 
 arrested at the time of abuse.  

Damning Tom once again.  He's not a survivor who's getting over.  He's
forever damned because his emotional development was arrested at the
time of abuse.  Funny the real Dr.s who treated Tom didn't feel that
way.  They felt no need to teach Tom how to act or encourage him to
grow. They watched it happen before their eyes and took notes.  They
felt that merely freeing the pain brought forth the true, loving,
secure Tom.  With other patients these very Drs. taught their patients
what they had failed to develop.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 
 --- anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
  lurkernomore20002000 
   
Imagine the day in the life of a cetain 5 year
  old 
   boy.
   
   snip
   
   Sorry to come in late on this thread, but is this
  Tom Pall's story, 
   and if so, is this a reposting, or is this new
  information?  Thanks.
   
   lurk
  
  It is not a reposting.  I think I know Tom Pall
  rather well and
  believe it to be Tom's story.  It was not written to
  evoke pity to
  make the statement that shrinks, except ones who are
  obviously in it
  to cure their own misery, should be less flippant
  and derisive.  It
  did prove one thing.  Dr. Pete isn't perhaps a
  doctor.  If he is
  he's most likely a vet.
 
 One thing about this anon, he doesn't let go once he
 sinks his teeth in.
 

The attributes of a survivor and what makes Anon exceedingly
successful in his profession.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 on 12/7/05 7:17 PM, anonymousff at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:
  
  
  Tom, was Laura Calvert at MIU? The name is so
  familiar, but I can't a face to the name.
  
  Perhaps I can answer your question.  Laura Calvert was an Okie who
  migrated to Austin, TX because she was a groupie and because she had
  friends with money (one of them was Tom) who helped her out.
 
 Are you referring to Tom Pall?


Yes.  Tom was never by any stretch of the imagination rich.  But he
managed all his life to make a good income, spent most of his life
single and often cared more about giving to others than keeping for
himself. He grew up in a thrify household which didn't even believe in
buying a house on credit until one had saved enough to buy one
outright.  He was, when all the ladies came back from Governor
Training talked up as a good catch and is till considered to be one
today.  You'd probably have to be a woman to understand their way of
thinking.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  
   Are you referring to Tom Pall?
  
  Yes.  Tom was never by any stretch of the imagination rich.  But he
  managed all his life to make a good income, spent most of his life
  single and often cared more about giving to others than keeping for
  himself. He grew up in a thrify household which didn't even 
  believe in
  buying a house on credit until one had saved enough to buy one
  outright.  He was, when all the ladies came back from Governor
  Training talked up as a good catch and is till considered to be 
  one today.  You'd probably have to be a woman to understand their 
  way of thinking.
 
 I don't know about anyone else, but I find the 
 concept of women thinking of a man as a good
 catch because of his income more offensive than
 any of the racist epithets attributed here to Tom.


It wasn't just his income.  It was his warmth and caring.  He had been
and could have become again a very devoted, loving husband.  And
unlike many guys in the TM Movement or on the periphery, he was
straight.  Many women, including Laura, told Tom how much an issue was
that.  OK, now flame on about that slam. You can't win for losing in
this group, can you?






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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 On Dec 8, 2005, at 7:20 AM, anonymousff wrote:
 
  Had he
  been a foster child, his ability to attach, ability to love and
  intellect would not have made him a horror but a joy to have, love and
  hold.
 
 I don't know that that would be the case. My one child, we were his  
 12th home by the age of 5 and he was not removed from his family of  
 origin till he was 2. In a child like that, all they have to do is  
 act out till the system moves them; and they move from house to house  
 to house. again and again and again.
 
 I know one women who was in over 85 foster placements. She did  
 recover but not until after long term placement in one of two long  
 term attachment facilities in the country. We need more.



You're obsessed with this foster home thing, aren't you?  Foster home
was never an issues or an option where this child grew up.  Family
took in a child when his or her parents died.  Try to imagine that
life is not organized nor every nook and crany of the world
constructed the way you've experienced it nor make your practice in it
for just amoment.  

The child grew up in a nice surburban/collegate but not affluent area
where the system and foster homes didn't exist.  Children were cared
for by every neighbor and relative.  If your nose was running, a
neighbor handed you a hanky and told you to blow.
If it was lunch time, they called your mom, told you were there
and asked if it was OK to have the child eat with the family.  If your
shoe laces were untied and you didn't quite have the knack of it, a
stranger would do the honors.  People just didn't get involved in the
discipline of a child, which is what people considered this case to
be.  It was a different time, a different place.

The entire world is not the ghetto and there still are places where
charity begins and ends next door.  

The neighbor's wife died very young of pneumonia after an illness that
lasted all of 24 hours.  The neighbors women visited on a rotation
basis to raise the children and console and feed the husband.  No kidding.






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Sad story.  Laura worked with me in the Western
 Regional Office in L.A. for a while.  Sweet lady.
 May she have a speedy and pleasant trip through
 the Bardo, and end up in a dimension that is closed
 to pissants like the ones who drove her out of Austin.
 
 Unc
 
So life is not a bowl of cherries for all of us and a little charity
and love instead of the constant grand slam this group is noted for is
sometimes appropriate, be the poster sweet or not?





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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 Sincerity is in the eye of the beholder, as you well know. Now run 
 along and accuse someone else, if it makes you feel any better...


Yes.  Thank you Dr. Lechter.  I get it.  With fava beans and a good
chianti.  Thank you for revealing who you are and what you're made of,
Dr. Lechter.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Thanks for the clarification.  No flames.
 
 Having spent far too much time in California, around
 women who literally talked in terms of having a 
 prosperous first marriage, so that they never had
 to work a day in their lives, I'm a bit sensitive to
 female money-grubbing.  :-)


Being a guy every once in a while, I can understand the concept of
money grubbing.  There's a famous country singer who announced two
decades ago that he's given up on marriage.  He's found it much easier
on the psyche every few years to go and buy a house and give it to a
woman he can't stand.  

Perhaps you should spend some time working out with the guys, 
showering with them and sharing a few beers afterwards.  If you
thought Tom appeared to have some unflattering things to say about
women and their motives...

Quite seriously, there was a mad rush in places like Dallas by ladies
who had come back from Governor Training to get the best rising sidha
man with an income.  Tom was accosted by a Governor who's name sounded
like and who looked like she was a Blackfoot Indian but was in fact of
Welch extraction.  She married a real geek who worked at TI because
the man she had had a couple of enjoyable walk and talks with on a CAC
prep course in Forrestburg, TX insulted her and all of Governer- and
Women-kind by not proposing to her on the spot.  Here he was cute,
witty, charming, gentlemanly and prosperous and she had to settle for
second best because Tom left her at the alter during one of those walk
and talks.  Tom's head still reels when he remembers the rage directed
at him by the woman he unknowingly and unwittingly ??jilted??. 
Perhaps what every other women has told Tom is right:  men are boys
who never grow up and unsensitive louts to boot.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 wrote:
 
  Sincerity is in the eye of the beholder, as you well know. Now run 
  along and accuse someone else, if it makes you feel any better...
 
 
 Yes.  Thank you Dr. Lechter.  I get it.  With fava beans and a good
 chianti.  Thank you for revealing who you are and what you're made 
of,
 Dr. Lechter.


Oooops. I take that back. Sorry. I apologize profusely. I was really 
feeling mean and insecure and took a jab at you. Won't happen again. 





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, L B Shriver [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  Sad story.  Laura worked with me in the Western
  Regional Office in L.A. for a while.  Sweet lady.
  May she have a speedy and pleasant trip through
  the Bardo, and end up in a dimension that is closed
  to pissants like the ones who drove her out of Austin.
 
 
 
 
 
 Amen and Bon Voyage. We love you Laura.
 
 L B S

And all of us in different ways.






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[FairfieldLife] Men and women (was Re: Yagna By Choice)

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Patrick Gillam [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 
 I recall a videotape about the role of devotion in 
 culturing god consciousness. MMY said that if both 
 husband and wife worked, each would be too spent 
 at day's end to devote themselves to the marriage. 
 One person would need to be fresh. I saw this on a 
 men-only course. I imagine the women -- or the 
 ladies, as one says in the TMO -- saw the same tape.


MMY never had any kids to mother through out the day, did he?  A man
doth work from sun to sun but a women's work is never done is no less
true now than it was two centuries ago.  Then God created soccer moms.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 
 It has been said: money is the greatest aphrodisiac.


But more often power is the greatest aprhodisiac.  Don't get me
started on the J.A.P. jokes about what ends that lust.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, L B Shriver [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 
 
 According to Dr Kissinger, POWER is the greatest aphrodisiac.
 
 L B S


Add to it a German accent that's pure affectation.  Henry's brother
has no accent.  I know a guy who went from talking like a Damned
Yankee to a Texan in just a few years but Henry hasn't learned to talk
like a Georgetown resident in 70 years.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 No problem with it coming up. It's just a personal
 preference with me. I got so disgusted with the
 money-grubbing mentality of California women (espec-
 ially Southern California women) that I left the
 state, never to return. I think it's something in
 the water there. :-)
 

I loved the If you're straight or even bi I'm yours.  Take me, you
fool. mentality of SF, CA two decades ago.  I had to struggle with
offers to become a women's mister (I guess that's the masculine of
mistress in this context) about once a month.  Being treated like a
sex object was a bit uncomfortable, however.  It was rough but beat
out Tom's experience at 7 by a mile.  So who did I hook up with? 
Dawn, of the Age of Enlightenment who left me for a mere boy who
wanted to get married.  She died soon afterwards.  Hmm.  I seem to
have this effect upon women.  Any obscenely wealthy women wanting to
get married sans prenup?  It is said a man who marries for money earns
it.  With my batting average I wouldn't have to work that long to earn
it.  

Gallows humor to assuage the grief.





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[FairfieldLife] Men and women (was Re: Yagna By Choice)

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 Thanks for the explanation. The women who saw
 this tape and actually believed it are free to
 search for men who share the same degree of
 gullibility. Me, I'll hold out for more.  :-)


Would someone please pull out the requirements for a bride of Ram Raj
again?






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Whoever said that has obviously never visited a
 good Chinese tonic herbalist. I knew such an
 herbalist once, who supplied tonic herbal teas 
 (including some that were rather powerful yang
 tonics) to the rich and famous. I once got to
 sample some of the tea he was brewing up for
 an order for Billy Idol and Mick Jagger. Had
 a hardon for three days. No joke. 

According to the Viagra commercials on TV here in the hahahaha The
Home of the Brave and the Free hahahahaha, any such condition which
lasts for me than 3 hours should immediately be reported to one's doctor.

Dr. Jordan's answering service.  Would you state your condition so
the Doctor can get right back to you?  What's that you say?  You've had
a Purple Heart on for more than 3 hours?  Well, on behalf of a gratful
nation





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  
  Gallows humor to assuage the grief.
 
 Was that Dawn, a former MIU student in the early days?
 Blond hair?

A bit zoftig, tended to space out and stare at the palms of her hands
in utter amazement for years after her TTC?  Taught in FTL during the
Merv wave?  Full lips and ...?






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 Looking for a good provider is an essential thing for a sane woman 
 who is hoping to raise a family unless she is already well-to-do. The 
 problem is when you make money the MOST important part of who you're 
 looking for.


After that looking for a winning divorce attorney, retaining custody
and being a good housekeeper doesn't hurt either.  

Sorry.  Been working out, showering and having some beers with the
guys afterward a bit too often.





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[FairfieldLife] Men and women (was Re: Yagna By Choice)

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 There's two different kinds of frazzle from outside work vs housework. 
 Both are bad, but having to have BOTH at once in the same person is 
 probably worse.


Thank God the Sixpense in Her Shoe, Feminine Mistique and Woman's Lib
thing has waned a bit, not to mention the coming of business casual in
the work place.  It was exteremly painful to watch and work with women
who felt they had to have their hair done before each meeting, be
dressed to the hilt, work day and night to get ahead in the
profession, race home to cook for hubby and the kids and be a tigress
in the private quarters of the house.  

At a computer vendor in Roundrock, TX, they're only required, in
keeping with the area's californication, to have 2% bodyfat, do
aerobics for 4 hours a day, work 60 hours a week, be gourmet chefs and
look like a movie star goddess.  Oh yeah, and of course have large
Winnebagos.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 
  How about men thinking of women as good catches based on looks 
  and/or family connections?
 
 Pretty much the same level of stupidity.
 
 You get what you settle for.
 

It's not who we are, Harley, it's what we've settled on being. 
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 It *was* kinda embarrassing; I had to buy some baggy
 pants for the duration. Fortunately I was on vacation
 and not doing training classes at the time, otherwise
 the students would've been making snide comments about
 my new laser pointer.  :-)
 
 But at least now I know the secret of Billy and Mick's
 onstage charisma.


When I'm not sleeping (I assume) and am rounding, the laser pointer is
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 Yes, that's her (I like the zoftig adjective!) She
 lived in my Frat, but I never really knew her very
 well. I think she died of skin cancer. She was one of
 the first ru's to die of cancer.

MMY had a special secret telephone conversation with her towards the
end.  Probably one of the last ru's to have that sort of treatment.

I was branch manager for a control system vendor for a multi-billion
dollar seawater treatment plant for Prudhoe Bay, Alaska.  To put sea
water out of the bay, treat it and pump it into 1200 wells to replace
the oil else Alaska would become one big sinkhole.  I had to entertain
and also fly first class.  She was gratious to allow me to drink all
the bloody marys and wine they served with breakfast in the up front
cabin.  She was not only a very charming person on our quiet trips to
Calestoga, she was a very gracious dinner companion when I had to blow
$4,000 for dinner at the Big Four or Caesar's Castle or La Touilas (I
can't spell French) to feed all of 3 couples once a week.  She loved
French veggies and Perier with lime (at something like $15 a bubble)
at those places.  A very sweet but typically naive MIU lady.  

I remember my first words when I met her again in SF after watching
her stare at her palms for hours on end at the FTL TM Center.  I
melted, gazed in her eyes and uttered that she'd become a stunningly
beautiful woman.  And beautiful she was in every way you could imagine.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, bbrigante [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I don't know how old Walter Kissinger was when he landed in New York 
 with Henry, but if he was even a little younger, that would explain 
 his superior command of English pronunciation. If Walter was older 
 than Henry, then it's just a matter of individual variation -- 
 everybody, not just linguistic professionals, has met people who 
 have never lost their home country accent, so it strains credulity 
 to say that Henry would have wasted his name affecting an accent for 
 all these years, when a more reasonable explanation is just that he 
 was too old to acquire the pronunciation pattern of a native speaker 
 of American English.


Dr. K likes to drink.  He loses his accent and speaks English like a
native born American when he's had a bit too much to drink or when you
catch him at an odd moment when he's off guard.  Ask any reporter. 
Even journalists like at LB's level has observed this.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 Would you trust *your* children to Mahesh's theories?


Indeed.  I had almost total immersion in Czech at Our Lady of the
Inquisition Catholic School in kindergarten and 1-2 grade.  The nuns
were right off the boat from Czecho.  It was easy as pie to learn Czech.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lurkernomore20002000 
 
  Imagine the day in the life of a cetain 5 year old 
 boy.
 
 snip
 
 Sorry to come in late on this thread, but is this Tom Pall's story, 
 and if so, is this a reposting, or is this new information?  Thanks.
 
 lurk

It is not a reposting.  I think I know Tom Pall rather well and
believe it to be Tom's story.  It was not written to evoke pity to
make the statement that shrinks, except ones who are obviously in it
to cure their own misery, should be less flippant and derisive.  It
did prove one thing.  Dr. Pete isn't perhaps a doctor.  If he is
he's most likely a vet.






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 But M's theory is that this should just confuse you Akasha.


If you subtly think of Inner Lite Beer before doing your flying, your
body takes on the properties of Akasha, confused or not.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-08 Thread anonymousff
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 Dawn Golden, wasn't it?  Her name came up for discussion a while back.
 
 Sal

Give that man a cupie doll. Of course Dawn Golden.  A name impossible
to remember for me, just like the names Ann Richards and Paul Harvey.

She was quite a gal when she came back from TTC and became every part
of a lovely woman.  She made the mistake of not waiting around to
marry the right man in Tom's opinion but beyond that she was
perfection incarnate.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: TM-Sidhis and Judaism

2005-12-07 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, at_man_and_brahman [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
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 I have a copy of the video. It's probably
 fairly rare in the U.S.

Anyway that you can make a copy of this video and email it to the files in the 
group?






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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-07 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert Gimbel
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 In reading some of the recent posts, and the feeling,
 That the TMO avoids discussing emotional healing.
  
 I have had some experience with emotional healing.
 Feeling what is at the root of what is blocking emotions.
 Noticing what is coming up emotionally, staying with the feeling,
 bring awareness to what is below the surface, what is held in the body
 Talking about feelings in an atmosphere of unconditional love.
 The idea that , that the soul itself, 
 Can heal what needs to be healed.
 Generally, any emotion which is held,
 a block, a lower vibration, of fear, or whatever..
 Meditation, by expanding consciousness, can bring the awareness
 to feel, or view or 'see' what the block is;
 or seeing 'it' for what it is;
 Then some detatchment or some awareness of the emotional block,
 Helps to release yourself from this sort of mental/emotional block.
 All in all, we want to feel our emotions completely and fully.
 Unfortunately, many of us who have lived in dysfuncional families;
 And a dysfunctional culture, have trouble just expressing or just 
 knowing one's true feelings, or what we are expected to feel;
 or
 We can tend to feel numb or shutdown, or left-out, etc.
 When avoiding what we are feeling...
 
 It would be appreciates for anyone to share, from personal experience,
 How is it to heal emotionally...  
 How did it happen, what is a good way to think of what
 Emotional healing is; what does it entail..
 R.G.



Imagine the day in the life of a cetain 5 year old boy.  An only
child, so no siblings to confide in or get help from.

The boy comes home from school.  It's freezing cold, blizzard
conditions outside.  The boy is as usual made to strip completely
outside before entering the house.  The boy has mud on his pants, so
his mother's enraged.  The boy is taken to the basement and placed in
one of the wash tubs to be bathed, as dirtying the upstairs and
especially the bathroom/bathtub is a no-no.  While the boy is being
bathed, his mother yells and screams at him for getting mud on his
clothes (despite the fact that his clothes are stripped off him and
washed every time he arrives at the house).  His mother goes into her
usual almost hourly tirade that the boy is no good, that he will get
nowhere in life, that no one loves him, that he'll never be loved,
have any friends or succeed in life.  That God hates him and that
he'll be forever damned.  She tries to drown him once again, but he
manages to free himself from her grasp before losing consciousness. 
Enraged more, his mother takes the stick she uses to poke clothes into
dye or bleach in that sink and beats him with it.  

Eventually dad comes home and is enraged that his wife is angry at the
boy.  He makes the boy kneel for hours, naked, in the closet of his
bedroom on coins which dig into his knees, to pray to God to become a
good boy, despite the fact that he is forever damned, that he is
useless, terrible, that he is not loved, will never be loved, will
never succeed, never have friends, will be shunned by all.  

Imagine that afternoon and early evening are repeated from the age of
1 to 18 years old.  Imagine that the fraternal uncle the boy begs help
from decides to fuck him up the ass, dry, at the age of 7, while the
boy pleads to his uncle for deliverance from these parents between the
strokes which tear apart his rectum.

Imagine a child who spends most of his time shaking and trembling and
going to the police and neighbors begging for help but being shunned
and told to go away and to stop shaking and trembling like that.

There's a possibility that someone having grown up under such
circumstances might have issues.  That the person might have
problems with anger and might not want to be characterized by the
resident psychologist of a forum related to TM and spiritual matters
to be damned forever because of his character.  Suppose while the
man who survived that has been through the therapy but TM and other
spiritual practices at times unearth some of the pain of the past. 
Imagine that when TM causes some unstressing of the pain, the
utterances of pain the man writes into an occasional post are used
with glee by people on the spiritual path and even a pundit in
training to be something they can use to pounce upon the man and
denounce him and damn him forever in post after post.

Emotional healing is difficult.  It is painful beyond belief.  Bearing
it all without complaint, without revealing the pain or the past but
being denounced by people who take sport in it like they're in the
audience at the Coloseum in Rome two millenium ago is just another
part of the life of someone officially designated by health
professionals who are experts in their field as a survivor is just
another afternoon in the life of such a person.  It hurts.  But it
doesn't hurt as much as the typical afternoon the person faced as a 5
year old.

It hurts to read the stories of 

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