[FairfieldLife] HaHo9?

2005-12-09 Thread cardemaister

Is Hanuman Hoffman Nine a (former) TMer?






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[FairfieldLife] MSAE record, was Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread lurkernomore20002000
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:

snip

It amazes me that kids who grew up meditating would still
> enjoy drugs and not find their effect distasteful.

Have kids ever NOT rebelled.  I have always enjoyed that quote that 
talks about kids being disrespectful, eating too fast, rebelling 
against their parents, and then finding it was attributed to Socrates 
2500 yrs. ago. (or whenever his era was)
>
lurk






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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis
Dr Pete: writes
The Shiva Sutras have a sloka(?) that specifically
states that you become realized only through your own
effort, nothing else.

Tom T:
from the shiva sutras as posted here two years ago by Michael Goodman

Shiva Sutras
Translated by Sage Vasugupta

First Awakening

1. Universal Consciousness is one's own nature.

(Swami Lakshmanjoo: Supreme consciousness is the reality of everything.)

2. Knowing the individual consciousness as one's own nature and not
knowing the Universal Consciousness as one's own nature is bondage.

(Swami Lakshmanjoo: Knowing differentiatedly is bondage and not
knowing undifferentiatedly is bondage.)

3. Differentiated perception and the field of individual activities
are also bondage.

[Editor's note: #2 & #3 seem to refer to rishi, devatta, and chhandas
in their non-samhita, differentiated, individual state.]

(Swami Lakshmanjoo: Mayiyamala and karmamala are also bondage.)

[Mayiyamala = yonivargah, differentiated knowledge, intellectual dis-
crimination between pairs of opposites.Karmamala = kalashariram, the
embodiment of action as separate action.]

4. This threefold bondage is attributable to and commanded by the
Universal Mother while She remains unknown. Hence the field of
ignorance comes into existence through Her and not through any other
agency.

(Swami Lakshmanjoo: The Universal Mother commands this triple knowledge.)

5. To get rid of this triple bondage, such effort constitutes (the)
means,which is identical with Bhairava [Lord Shiva].

(Swami Lakshmanjoo: That effort, the flashing forth of active
awareness that instantaneously makes universal consciousness shine, is
Bhairava.)

6. With deep contemplation on the wheel of energies, the whole
differentiated universe comes to an end.

[Editor: Transcendental Consciousness.]

(Swami Lakshmanjoo: By establishing and meditating on the wheel of
energiesthe differentiated universe comes to an end.)

7. Such a yogi, who has accomplished this stage, experiences Turiya
(Tran-scendental God Consciousness) in the other three states also -
jagrat (wake-fulness), swapna (dream) and sushupti (deep sleep).






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Hagelin sez 2000 student university in DC "immediately"

2005-12-09 Thread bbrigante
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jyouells2000" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, bbrigante <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> > >
> > > "we are immediately establishing a group of 2,000 meditating 
students 
> > > in Washington, D.C.,"
> > > 
> > > http://www.globalgoodnews.com/world-peace-a.html?
art=11339834121142172
> > >
> > 
> > TMO-speak for "wouldn't it be nice if...?"
> >
> (as he detects the subtle fragrance of fund raising in the air...)
> 



> It may be TM speak for, "show me the money". Or maybe they're 
figuring
> up the proceeds from all those trademark infringment cases ;-)
>




The TMO will never see any money from infringment cases, but lawyers 
agree that you have to protect your trademark even when it seems 
silly:

http://abcnews.go.com/2020/GiveMeABreak/story?id=1390867





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Hagelin sez 2000 student university in DC "immediately"

2005-12-09 Thread jyouells2000
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, bbrigante <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> >
> > "we are immediately establishing a group of 2,000 meditating students 
> > in Washington, D.C.,"
> > 
> > http://www.globalgoodnews.com/world-peace-a.html?art=11339834121142172
> >
> 
> TMO-speak for "wouldn't it be nice if...?"
>
(as he detects the subtle fragrance of fund raising in the air...)

It may be TM speak for, "show me the money". Or maybe they're figuring
up the proceeds from all those trademark infringment cases ;-) 







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[FairfieldLife] MSAE record, was Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread feste37
Can't you read? I gave you an example of one success (one out of many, I 
might add) but you're incapable of seeing it, which pretty much proves my 
point about where you're coming from. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> On Dec 9, 2005, at 6:14 PM, feste37 wrote:
> 
> > You are so intent on denigrating the achievements of others that you 
> > can see
> >  nothing but faults and failures. Successes should also be 
> > acknowledged, in
> >  my view.
> 
> I agree.  Got any?  I mean real ones,  with specifics.
> 
> >  That doesn't mean that the school is perfect, or without serious
> >  problems, but its successes are undeniable to any reasonable observer.
> 
> Really?  Is that why, with a few exceptions, most parents take their 
> kids out at some point, usually for at least a year or two if not 
> several.
> 
> >  Nor are these successes all in the past. If you were to look at the 
> > University Report, 2004-05, you would see full details of awards won, 
> > with names of competitions and students. (I don't think it's available 
> > online;
> 
> How convenient.
> 
> >  it's sent to
> >  donors.) Here's just one example: Maharishi School students won more 
> > first-
> >  and second-place awards than any other school in the world at the
> >  Destination ImagiNation world competition held in Knoxville, 
> > Tennessee.
> >
> >  I don't expect to convince you of the merits of the school, nor do I 
> > care to,
> >  since you appear to be more interested in venting your anger and 
> > cynicism
> >  than in pursuing the truth, but I hope there are others on this forum 
> > who are
> >  capable of reaching more accurate, balanced and informed conclusions 
> > than
> >  you are.
> 
> Doubtful. :)
> 
> Sal
>






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Re: [FairfieldLife] MSAE record, was Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread Rick Archer
on 12/9/05 7:07 PM, lurkernomore20002000 at [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "feste37" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>> 
>> No, it's not changed. Although the brutally cynical posters on
> this board will 
>> never acknowledge it, MSAE has a remarkable record of significant
>> achievement. See the list compiled below, which I have taken from
> the MSAE 
>> website. 
> 
> Okay, maybe I'm shooting from the hip cause I'm jumping in on this
> thread, but is it so difficult to "train" or inspire kids to be high
> achievers?  I always had the impression that MSAE and the MIU
> community had something to "prove" with MSAE.  That even though we
> were "fringe", we could out-achieve, out-perform the traditional
> segment.  And that this was a kind of "mission".  Here's the true
> test.  How well adjusted are these kids?

Compared to kids in general? I guess you'd have to collect honest data on
drug use, arrest records, sexually transmitted diseases, etc., presuming
those indicate poor adjustment, as well as positive measures, and compare
them with the larger population of kids of similar socio-economic status. My
guess is that there wouldn't be a dramatic discrepancy, but I may be wrong.
I was still high school age when I learned TM and it had a tremendously
healing influence. It amazes me that kids who grew up meditating would still
enjoy drugs and not find their effect distasteful.




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[FairfieldLife] Re: Fidel Castro and TM

2005-12-09 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "shempmcgurk" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Eustace" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> >
> > Several years ago TMO had considered Fidel Castro the 
> personification
> > of the Invincibility principle, or something like that. It was 
> quite
> > appropriate given the more than 400, if I remember correctly,
> > assassination attempts against his person organized by the CIA 
and 
> the
> > Miami mafia...
> 
> 
> 
> 
> Too bad they didn't get him like they did that other mass-murderer 
> Che Guevara.
> 
> Castro is responsible for about 50,000 deaths and enslaving 11 
> million Cubans.
> 
So, about the same as some of our recent Presidents? Johnson with 
his ~73,000 Vietnam War dead (American deaths only) came to mind. 
Though I don't recall specifically the dictators he supported under 
his administration so I can't correlate the 11 million enslaved.

And Bush the first killed roughly 100,000 Iraqis during the first 
war, and then allowed Sadaam to remain in power, enslaving roughly 
25 million.

Oh, and Reagan propped up quite a few central american dictatorships 
during his terms, easily surpassing the '11 million enslaved' 
number. 

Damn, you're making Castro out to be some kind of wimp or something! 
No wonder we hate him so much, he doesn't even kick ass like we do! 

And so un-American of him to unilaterally kick out the US 
corporations and Mafia who were actually enslaving his country. 
Bastard! At least he could've allowed them by proxy as Sadaam and 
the South African apartheid governments did! Geez!





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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, cardemaister <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" 
> <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > wrote:
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > > wrote:
> > 
> > > > The Shiva Sutras 
> 
> Just happened to find a PDFile of Shiva-suutras on my 
> Desktop. Suutra I 18 might refer to ("bidirectional")M-effect:
> 
> lokaanandaH samaadhi-sukham (his bliss of samaadhi is [a cause
> of?] happiness of the world - or vice versa: in Sanskrit  
> word order is rather free, so both "samaadhi-sukham" and
> "lokaanandaH" can be considered the subject or topic, or whatever).
> 
Well that is heartening to hear. It isn't something I really ever 
think about, because I am never aware of it- this bidirectional 
effect of enlightenment. It makes sense though, that as we realize 
the world and ourselves as One, that all of those false boundaries 
between us and 'them' are dissolved, and in a profound way, service 
to the world is rendered; the world is more easily able to know 
itslef and thus more easily fulfill its purpose. That must account 
for all the 'support of Nature' we experience after enlightenment. 
As you sow, etc. Though as I said I rarely if ever give it a second 
thought. 

Perhaps the elimination of boundaries renders the world as were are 
to such an extent it is seamless. I was buying chocolates in a 
chocolate store today and I remarked to the woman behind the counter 
that the store smelled so good. Then I asked her if she could smell 
it after being there all day, and she said no. Then she added that 
even when she gets there in the morning and walks in, it no longer 
smells like chocolate. Same thing.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Fidel Castro and TM

2005-12-09 Thread shempmcgurk
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Eustace" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> Several years ago TMO had considered Fidel Castro the 
personification
> of the Invincibility principle, or something like that. It was 
quite
> appropriate given the more than 400, if I remember correctly,
> assassination attempts against his person organized by the CIA and 
the
> Miami mafia...




Too bad they didn't get him like they did that other mass-murderer 
Che Guevara.

Castro is responsible for about 50,000 deaths and enslaving 11 
million Cubans.







> Anyway, if you do a search on a recent speech he gave:
> 
> http://www.scoop.co.nz/stories/WO0512/S00120.htm
> 
> you will find that he uses several time the verb "meditate", once
> "meditation", and once "transcendental" (in a context where the 
use of
> the word was kink of artificial and certainly not necessitated). A
> reasonable explanation would be that the efforts of TMO to reach 
him
> had, after all, some effect, at some (conscious or unconscious) 
level.
> I think people in the TMO should know about this. I don't think 
that
> suggesting that Cuba organize a group of yogic flyers would be 
such a
> good idea... It takes a lot of believing for the uninitiated and 
has
> not worked even in much richer countries. But Cuba has excellent
> medicine. Maybe some research project could be proposed that the 
Cuban
> doctors would be interested to participate in or carry out...
> 
> It would be great if they would couple their "El pueblo/ unido/ 
jamas
> sera vencido!" (The people united will never be defeated) with
> "Yogastah kuru karmani".
> 
> JGD,
> 
> Eustace
>






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[FairfieldLife] MSAE record, was Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread lurkernomore20002000
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "feste37" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> No, it's not changed. Although the brutally cynical posters on 
this board will 
> never acknowledge it, MSAE has a remarkable record of significant 
> achievement. See the list compiled below, which I have taken from 
the MSAE 
> website. 

Okay, maybe I'm shooting from the hip cause I'm jumping in on this 
thread, but is it so difficult to "train" or inspire kids to be high 
achievers?  I always had the impression that MSAE and the MIU 
community had something to "prove" with MSAE.  That even though we 
were "fringe", we could out-achieve, out-perform the traditional 
segment.  And that this was a kind of "mission".  Here's the true 
test.  How well adjusted are these kids?

lurk
> >
>






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Was:The supposed "Emotional Healing" of Tom Pall, Now: Pity Party

2005-12-09 Thread lurkernomore20002000
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- Tom Pall <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "bostonbob53"
> > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > > 
> > > I'm sorry, but I just don't get it.  Anon or Tom
> > Pall, these posts are
> > > obviously his. What the hell?  Does he think he's
> > fooling anyone or
> > > that anyone still cares?   
> > 
> > They still care enought to attack him.  To state
> > categorically that he
> > is forever doomed because development stops when
> > abuse begins.
> 
> Your ridiculous pity party is becoming absurd,Tom.
> Everybody is sorry that some really nasty shit
> happened to you growing up, but to play it over and
> over again in order to justify your rage towards
> others is getting very old, very quickly. And these
> inferences you come up with from others' posts that
> you turn into statements that you then claim they made
> against you is asinine. Butch up, man. Deal with your
> shit, don't pathetically smear it all over a
> newsgroup. You need professional help to deal with
> your past trauma. No amount of yagyas will help you as
> evidenced by your posts! Yeah, I know. You have
> contacted the authorities, my employer and have
> lawyers on retainer that will sue me for everything.  
> 
> 
> > My guess is that Tom wants to have the last
> > > word and even up all his imagined slights.  So
> > okay Tom.  You win.  We
> > > all love you.  Happy now?
> > >
> > 
> > That is absolutely what Tom wants.  He wants sincere
> > apologies from
> > the people who derided him over and over.  He want a
> > detailed, sincere
> > apology from the "Dr." who said that Tom would
> > always be his nigah.
> 
> You stupid liar. I said no such thing and you know it.
> GROW UP baby boy.
> 
>  
> > Tom is working day and night to get FFL deleted.  He
> > wants the slams
> > made against him and encouraged by others undone. 
> > He'll eventuall
> > shame the hatemongers into apologizing or better
> > yet, make FFL not be
> > there when you next go to visit it.  So he won't
> > have to see more
> > ganging up against him to slam him for the fun of
> > it.
> 
> You are a pathetic whiner. If you don't like FFL, then
> LEAVE. Nobody is making you stay, are they?
> 
> > 
> > And he wants the "So okay Tom. You win.  We all love
> > you.  Happy now?
> > turned into sincere words.  Not of "we love you" but
> > "we've been some
> > really immature louts".  If it's too tedious for you
> > to do so, then
> > just keep your wise ass "Happy now?" comments out of
> > it.  You have
> > added to the flames.  Happy now?
> 
> Why do you continue the abuse, Tom? You set
> yourself-up so people post comments like the one I'm
> making and the emotional abuse continues. Ever heard
> of a repetition compulsion? You interact with people
> to draw out their ire and then you scream "Foul!
> Unfair! Look how horrible people are towards me! I was
> abused!" You really need help. You don't need to
> act-out your rage in a newsgroup. Good bye. Go. Leave.
> Nobody cares anymore. Go crap on somebody else. We're
> no longer interested. Have someone else change your
> dirty diaper. Pathetic. Are you happy now that I've
> posted this? Isn't a post such as this exactly what
> you want so you can now pout and become outraged
> against the injustice of these comments? Look at what
> you're doing. But unfortunately the odds of that are
> the same as the pundits arriving.

I'm calling this "Exhibit A" for the Dr. Pete School of Tough Love.  
You stamp out this kind of advice, you stamp out real progress on 
dealing with your issues.

lurk

Funny story:  I had a paranoid schizophrenic working for our small 
company as a delivery driver.  He was super smart, high IQ, the 
usual.  But the voices were always there, and he didn't take his 
medication, but was generally a great worker.  After he had missed 
work a few days and put us in a real bind, I called him aside and 
gave a brilliant talk about the spirtual path, dealing with issues, 
facing your demons etc., I was sure that I had given the impetus 
to "turn the corner".  WRONG.  It had no effect (that I could see).  
Luckily he quit on this own a few months later.  He and the mafia 
that tormented him every day.

lurk
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Re: [FairfieldLife] MSAE record, was Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread Sal Sunshine
On Dec 9, 2005, at 6:14 PM, feste37 wrote:

You are so intent on denigrating the achievements of others that you can see 
 nothing but faults and failures. Successes should also be acknowledged, in 
 my view.

I agree.  Got any?  I mean real ones,  with specifics. 

 That doesn't mean that the school is perfect, or without serious 
 problems, but its successes are undeniable to any reasonable observer.

Really?  Is that why, with a few exceptions, most parents take their kids out at some point, usually for at least a year or two if not several.

 Nor are these successes all in the past. If you were to look at the University Report, 2004-05, you would see full details of awards won, with names of competitions and students. (I don't think it's available online;

How convenient.

 it's sent to 
 donors.) Here's just one example: Maharishi School students won more first- 
 and second-place awards than any other school in the world at the 
 Destination ImagiNation world competition held in Knoxville, Tennessee. 

 I don't expect to convince you of the merits of the school, nor do I care to, 
 since you appear to be more interested in venting your anger and cynicism 
 than in pursuing the truth, but I hope there are others on this forum who are 
 capable of reaching more accurate, balanced and informed conclusions than 
 you are. 

Doubtful. :)

Sal


[FairfieldLife] Re: Was:The supposed "Emotional Healing" of Tom Pall, Now: Pity Party

2005-12-09 Thread lurkernomore20002000
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- Tom Pall <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "bostonbob53"
> > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > > 
> > > I'm sorry, but I just don't get it.  Anon or Tom
> > Pall, these posts are
> > > obviously his. What the hell?  Does he think he's
> > fooling anyone or
> > > that anyone still cares?   
> > 
> > They still care enought to attack him.  To state
> > categorically that he
> > is forever doomed because development stops when
> > abuse begins.
> 
> Your ridiculous pity party is becoming absurd,Tom.
> Everybody is sorry that some really nasty shit
> happened to you growing up, but to play it over and
> over again in order to justify your rage towards
> others is getting very old, very quickly. And these
> inferences you come up with from others' posts that
> you turn into statements that you then claim they made
> against you is asinine. Butch up, man. Deal with your
> shit, don't pathetically smear it all over a
> newsgroup. You need professional help to deal with
> your past trauma. No amount of yagyas will help you as
> evidenced by your posts! Yeah, I know. You have
> contacted the authorities, my employer and have
> lawyers on retainer that will sue me for everything.  
> 
> 
> > My guess is that Tom wants to have the last
> > > word and even up all his imagined slights.  So
> > okay Tom.  You win.  We
> > > all love you.  Happy now?
> > >
> > 
> > That is absolutely what Tom wants.  He wants sincere
> > apologies from
> > the people who derided him over and over.  He want a
> > detailed, sincere
> > apology from the "Dr." who said that Tom would
> > always be his nigah.
> 
> You stupid liar. I said no such thing and you know it.
> GROW UP baby boy.
> 
>  
> > Tom is working day and night to get FFL deleted.  He
> > wants the slams
> > made against him and encouraged by others undone. 
> > He'll eventuall
> > shame the hatemongers into apologizing or better
> > yet, make FFL not be
> > there when you next go to visit it.  So he won't
> > have to see more
> > ganging up against him to slam him for the fun of
> > it.
> 
> You are a pathetic whiner. If you don't like FFL, then
> LEAVE. Nobody is making you stay, are they?
> 
> > 
> > And he wants the "So okay Tom. You win.  We all love
> > you.  Happy now?
> > turned into sincere words.  Not of "we love you" but
> > "we've been some
> > really immature louts".  If it's too tedious for you
> > to do so, then
> > just keep your wise ass "Happy now?" comments out of
> > it.  You have
> > added to the flames.  Happy now?
> 
> Why do you continue the abuse, Tom? You set
> yourself-up so people post comments like the one I'm
> making and the emotional abuse continues. Ever heard
> of a repetition compulsion? You interact with people
> to draw out their ire and then you scream "Foul!
> Unfair! Look how horrible people are towards me! I was
> abused!" You really need help. You don't need to
> act-out your rage in a newsgroup. Good bye. Go. Leave.
> Nobody cares anymore. Go crap on somebody else. We're
> no longer interested. Have someone else change your
> dirty diaper. Pathetic. Are you happy now that I've
> posted this? Isn't a post such as this exactly what
> you want so you can now pout and become outraged
> against the injustice of these comments? Look at what
> you're doing. But unfortunately the odds of that are
> the same as the pundits arriving.

Dr. Pete, you know you're just saying this,...cause IT'S 
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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread lurkernomore20002000
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> The attributes of a survivor and what makes Anon exceedingly
> successful in his profession.

Which is?

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[FairfieldLife] MSAE record, was Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread feste37
You are so intent on denigrating the achievements of others that you can see 
nothing but faults and failures. Successes should also be acknowledged, in 
my view. That doesn't mean that the school is perfect, or without serious 
problems, but its successes are undeniable to any reasonable observer. Nor 
are these successes all in the past. If you were to look at the University 
Report, 2004-05, you would see full details of awards won, with names of 
competitions and students. (I don't think it's available online; it's sent to 
donors.) Here's just one example: Maharishi School students won more first- 
and second-place awards than any other school in the world at the 
Destination ImagiNation world competition held in Knoxville, Tennessee. 

I don't expect to convince you of the merits of the school, nor do I care to, 
since you appear to be more interested in venting your anger and cynicism 
than in pursuing the truth, but I hope there are others on this forum who are 
capable of reaching more accurate, balanced and informed conclusions than 
you are. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> On Dec 9, 2005, at 3:32 PM, feste37 wrote:
> 
> > No, it's not changed. Although the brutally cynical posters on this 
> > board will
> >  never acknowledge it, MSAE has a remarkable record of significant
> >  achievement. See the list compiled below, which I have taken from the 
> > MSAE
> >  website.
> 
> Yes, now there's a credible, objective source.
> 
> >
> >  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> >  >
> >  > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine 
> > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >  > wrote:
> >  > >
> >  > > Considering the track record of the MSAE, would you trust your
> >  > > children, if you had them, to the teachers there?
> >  >
> >  > The track record has always seemed rather good. Has this changed?
> >
> >  MSAE
> >  HIGHLIGHTS OF ACHIEVEMENTS
> >
> >
> >  In the past decade, students at Maharishi School have won more than 
> > 100
> >  state titles in science, speech, drama, writing, poetry, spelling, 
> > art,
> >  photography, history, mathematics, chess, tennis, golf, track, and 
> > Destination
> >  ImagiNation, a national and international creative problem-solving
> >  competition.
> 
> Do you believe everything you read on websites, Feste?  Notice the lack 
> of specifics, or even the lack of names.  What "state titles" were 
> these, anyway?
> >
> >  Grades 10-12 score in the top 1% nationally, and in Iowa, on 
> > standardized
> >  tests (ITED)
> >
> >  95% of graduates accepted at four-year colleges
> 
> Many if not most of the graduates there go to MUM.  Again, if they're 
> all going to well-known  colleges, they would mention which ones.
> >
> >  Over ten times the nation's average for National Merit Scholar 
> > Finalists over
> >  the past five years
> 
> What does that mean, exactly?  The nation doesn't have an "average for 
> National Merit Scholar Finalists," individual high  schools do.
> 
> >  State Record: 41 state championships in creative problem-solving
> >  competitions Destination ImagiNation and Odyssey of the Mind
> 
> Yep.  And these programs are so great that every other private school 
> in the country participates in them, right?  Ever been to their 
> websites?
> 
> >
> >  World Record: Winners of the Global Finals of Destination 
> > ImagiNation, and
> >  more top-ten finishes than any other school in the world
> >
> >
> >
> >  First Place: American High School Math Exam, Iowa Division, four 
> > years in a
> >  row
> >
> >  First Place: Five first-place finishes, Iowa State History Fair, 
> > Senior Division
> >
> >  First Place: Ten first-place finishes in the senior division of the 
> > Eastern Iowa or
> >  Hawkeye state science fairs
> >
> >  Grand Champions: Eight grand champion awards in the past decade in 
the
> >  junior division of the Eastern Iowa Science and Engineering Fair
> >
> >
> >
> >  First place: Twice winner of the state spelling bee
> >
> >
> >
> >  State Record: Most Critic's Choice State Banner Awards for speech in 
> > the past
> >  decade (16)
> >
> >  National Champion: Bravo Cable Channel High School Theater 
Competition
> >
> >
> >
> >  State Record: Congressional Art Competition, "An Artistic Discovery," 
> > grand
> >  prize three years in a row
> >
> >
> >
> >  First Place: Iowa Poetry Association's high school contest
> >
> >  First Place: Iowa "Young Writer of the Year" award
> >
> >
> >
> >  State Champion: Iowa Junior Chess Championship
> >
> >  First Place: Iowa Educational Media Association (Photography)
> >
> >  Grand Prize: International Photo Imaging Education Association 
> > competition
> >
> >
> >  State Champions: 16 boys' state tennis championships,
> >  tying for the most in Iowa history
> >
> >  State Champion: Girls' state singles tennis
> >
> >  State Record: Tennis Triple Crown winner two years in a row
> >
> >  State Record: Boys' tr

[FairfieldLife] MSAE record, was Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> On Dec 9, 2005, at 3:32 PM, feste37 wrote:
> 
> > No, it's not changed. Although the brutally cynical posters on this 
> > board will
> >  never acknowledge it, MSAE has a remarkable record of significant
> >  achievement. See the list compiled below, which I have taken from 
the 
> > MSAE
> >  website.
> 
> Yes, now there's a credible, objective source.
> 

As Judy pointed out, its no  less credible than your assertions. 
Actually, unless they are out and out lying, its MORE credible, but it 
may not apply tothe *current* school.





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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread Peter
Maybe I read a bad translation!

--- cardemaister <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"
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> wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
> "jim_flanegin" 
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> > wrote:
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter
> <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > > wrote:
> > 
> > > > The Shiva Sutras 
> 
> Just happened to find a PDFile of Shiva-suutras on
> my 
> Desktop. Suutra I 18 might refer to
> ("bidirectional")M-effect:
> 
> lokaanandaH samaadhi-sukham (his bliss of samaadhi
> is [a cause
> of?] happiness of the world - or vice versa: in
> Sanskrit  
> word order is rather free, so both "samaadhi-sukham"
> and
> "lokaanandaH" can be considered the subject or
> topic, or whatever).
> 
> 
> 
> have a sloka(?) that specifically
> > > > states that you become realized only through
> your own
> > > > effort, nothing else.
> 
> Perhaps II 2: pra_yatnaH saadhakaH ??
> 
> 
> > > 
> > > Another one o' them pair-of-oxes: 
> > > 
> > > Before liberation or the full sunshine of the
> Self in Unity, or
> > > pick your own description, we pray and exhort
> Gods, Godesses, and 
> > > the saints and Masters to deliver us from our
> suffering. 
> > > Afterwards, we are delighted we did it all by
> our Selves!
> > 
> > As I was reading the first sentence, I thought you
> > were going to finish by saying, "Afterwards, we
> are
> > delighted to find that every one of them was just
> > our Self all along!"
> > 
> > > Again, looking back it seems absurd that such a
> duality of 
> > > deliverance from our ignorance by someone or
> someGod else would 
> be 
> > > preferred. After all, if we don't do it by
> ourselves, we can't 
> > > really know exactly what we have done, and by
> extension would 
> > > hypothetically remain in ignorance...
> > 
> > Nah.  We *do* know exactly what we have done: we
> have
> > appealed to aspects of our very own Self.  From
> the
> > perspective of enlightenment--I would
> assume--there's
> > no way we can do it *other* than by ourselves.
> >
> 
> 
> 
> 
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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread Peter


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> > 
> Agreed. I will say again that I thought it was a
> brave thing for Tom 
> to openly post details of his childhood trauma. Such
> an action can 
> sometimes be helpful for empowerment and to
> destigmatize  
> victimizing event.
> 
> However, instead of then taking a breath of fresh
> air and getting on 
> with life, he squanders his equity by trashing
> others. Aside from 
> finding it annoying and disruptive, it doesn't help
> Tom in the 
> slightest.

It is too bad. He's just caught-up in a repetition
compulsion, evoking ire from people with his constant
needling and then when they unload on him, like I did
this morning, he claims he is totally innocent and is
being unfairly victimized. Even his post regarding his
abuse was completely inappropriate and used to, I
guess, evoke sympathy for him. Notice how he paints
people in a broad brush as villians who exploit him,
the weak innocent victim. He does this over and over
again and refuses any responsibility for these
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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread cardemaister
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> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
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> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > wrote:
> 
> > > The Shiva Sutras 

Just happened to find a PDFile of Shiva-suutras on my 
Desktop. Suutra I 18 might refer to ("bidirectional")M-effect:

lokaanandaH samaadhi-sukham (his bliss of samaadhi is [a cause
of?] happiness of the world - or vice versa: in Sanskrit  
word order is rather free, so both "samaadhi-sukham" and
"lokaanandaH" can be considered the subject or topic, or whatever).



have a sloka(?) that specifically
> > > states that you become realized only through your own
> > > effort, nothing else.

Perhaps II 2: pra_yatnaH saadhakaH ??


> > 
> > Another one o' them pair-of-oxes: 
> > 
> > Before liberation or the full sunshine of the Self in Unity, or
> > pick your own description, we pray and exhort Gods, Godesses, and 
> > the saints and Masters to deliver us from our suffering. 
> > Afterwards, we are delighted we did it all by our Selves!
> 
> As I was reading the first sentence, I thought you
> were going to finish by saying, "Afterwards, we are
> delighted to find that every one of them was just
> our Self all along!"
> 
> > Again, looking back it seems absurd that such a duality of 
> > deliverance from our ignorance by someone or someGod else would 
be 
> > preferred. After all, if we don't do it by ourselves, we can't 
> > really know exactly what we have done, and by extension would 
> > hypothetically remain in ignorance...
> 
> Nah.  We *do* know exactly what we have done: we have
> appealed to aspects of our very own Self.  From the
> perspective of enlightenment--I would assume--there's
> no way we can do it *other* than by ourselves.
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[FairfieldLife] Howard Stern, another celebrity TMer

2005-12-09 Thread bbrigante
"In TM, you let distracting thoughts float right out of your mind. 
Some thoughts, though, are like fish bones. Like how about that ad 
Howard's boss took out? Good riddance to twenty years of stale fart 
jokes, as if he couldn't wait to usher Howard out the door. 
Infuriating! Reduce Howard to fart jokes! What about his penis and 
vagina material? He practically invented saying penis and vagina on 
the radio! And his stripper bits and lesbian gags and his legion of 
deformed and defective characters? Howard's boss ought to drop to his 
knees and thank him. Those fart jokes built an empire! That genius 
should get testicular cancer!"

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Re: [FairfieldLife] MSAE record, was Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread Sal Sunshine
On Dec 9, 2005, at 3:32 PM, feste37 wrote:

No, it's not changed. Although the brutally cynical posters on this board will 
 never acknowledge it, MSAE has a remarkable record of significant 
 achievement. See the list compiled below, which I have taken from the MSAE 
 website. 

Yes, now there's a credible, objective source. 

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
 >
 > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
 > wrote:
 > >
 > > Considering the track record of the MSAE, would you trust your 
 > > children, if you had them, to the teachers there?
 > 
 > The track record has always seemed rather good. Has this changed?

 MSAE
 HIGHLIGHTS OF ACHIEVEMENTS


 In the past decade, students at Maharishi School have won more than 100 
 state titles in science, speech, drama, writing, poetry, spelling, art, 
 photography, history, mathematics, chess, tennis, golf, track, and Destination 
 ImagiNation, a national and international creative problem-solving 
 competition. 

Do you believe everything you read on websites, Feste?  Notice the lack of specifics, or even the lack of names.  What "state titles" were these, anyway? 
 Grades 10-12 score in the top 1% nationally, and in Iowa, on standardized 
 tests (ITED)

 95% of graduates accepted at four-year colleges

Many if not most of the graduates there go to MUM.  Again, if they're all going to well-known  colleges, they would mention which ones.
 Over ten times the nation's average for National Merit Scholar Finalists over 
 the past five years

What does that mean, exactly?  The nation doesn't have an "average for National Merit Scholar Finalists," individual high  schools do.

 State Record: 41 state championships in creative problem-solving 
 competitions Destination ImagiNation and Odyssey of the Mind

Yep.  And these programs are so great that every other private school in the country participates in them, right?  Ever been to their websites?

 World Record: Winners of the Global Finals of Destination ImagiNation, and 
 more top-ten finishes than any other school in the world



 First Place: American High School Math Exam, Iowa Division, four years in a 
 row

 First Place: Five first-place finishes, Iowa State History Fair, Senior Division

 First Place: Ten first-place finishes in the senior division of the Eastern Iowa or 
 Hawkeye state science fairs

 Grand Champions: Eight grand champion awards in the past decade in the 
 junior division of the Eastern Iowa Science and Engineering Fair



 First place: Twice winner of the state spelling bee



 State Record: Most Critic's Choice State Banner Awards for speech in the past 
 decade (16)

 National Champion: Bravo Cable Channel High School Theater Competition



 State Record: Congressional Art Competition, "An Artistic Discovery," grand 
 prize three years in a row



 First Place: Iowa Poetry Association's high school contest

 First Place: Iowa "Young Writer of the Year" award



 State Champion: Iowa Junior Chess Championship

 First Place: Iowa Educational Media Association (Photography)

 Grand Prize: International Photo Imaging Education Association competition


 State Champions: 16 boys' state tennis championships, 
 tying for the most in Iowa history 

 State Champion: Girls' state singles tennis

 State Record: Tennis Triple Crown winner two years in a row

 State Record: Boys' track 800 m

 State Champions: Golf team and individual

 ESVN

 *  The End School Violence Now (ESVN) and Students Creating Peace 
 Network (SCPN) has given presentations on radio stations, participated in 
 Youth Development in the 21st Century sponsored by the 4-H clubs of 
 America, and given presentations to guests of the School. 

 The students have given presentations at the St.Louis Enlightened 
 Sentencing Project Graduation. They were invited to represent Southeast 
 Iowa at the Youth Development in the 21st Century Conference at Iowa State 
 University in Ames, and invited to Expo High School in Waterloo, Iowa. They 
 were also invited to the kick-off event for the Season of Non-Violence in Los 
 Angeles where they spoke to educators, parents and the event organizers. 
 While in Los Angeles a presentation was given at a South Los Angeles 
 alternative High School. All the events met with great success.

 The students are working on a student-to-student video, a web site, and other 
 projects to bring 8,000 Yogic Flyers to Maharishi University of Management 
 and Maharishi Vedic City.

 > 
 > I can't comment on these assertions, but has the school changed inthe 
 > past few months and years. National Merit Scholarship and semi-
 > finalists don't grow on trees. Nor do exceptionaly high scores on 
 > standardized tests.
 > 
 >  Now 
 > > personally I can't imagine why anyone would object to those things, 
 > but 
 > > there you have it.  And the few halfway decent teachers that have 
 > > remained teach the boys, since the education of girls

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Woman's Duty, Happiness and Power...was Men and women

2005-12-09 Thread vashtirama
I'm excited about this information. It sounds so easy, there must be 
a catch, or maybe something got lost in translation. What are some of 
the rewards I could expect? When can I expect them? What kinds of 
services should I provide to my husband--specific duties, or is 
it "anything goes"?

Please elaborate if possible, thank you. I'm tired of waiting for the 
payoff from all the tapas.

--vashtirama


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, hanumanhoffman9 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> Taken from the Book Sri Datta Darshanam.
> 
> Jaya Guru Datta
[snipt]
> Anasuya said this to Sumati:
> 
> "For a virtuous and devoted wife, the company of her husband alone 
is all the world. His 
> happiness is her happiness. His nearness alone gives meaning to her 
life. she has life so 
> long as the husband is hale and hearty. Such a one is said to be 
a 'Pativrata'.
> 
> "While a man cannot acquire merit without undergoing much suffering 
and without 
> observing rituals, for us, dedicated service to our husbands is 
enough. That alone can 
> easily give us all rewards."
> 
> "For women there is no need for any other religious observances or 
disciplines. For a 
> Woman her husband alone is God. Service to one's husband is worship 
to God. I have 
> achieved great things through that alone."
> 
> In Datta seva
> 
> Sri Guru Datta
> 
> Hanuman
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[FairfieldLife] Walking through solid walls..Witnessed by hundreds

2005-12-09 Thread hanumanhoffman9
 Life History of H.H. Sri Swamiji 161

Life History of H.H. Sri Swamiji 161
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"Seeing the tail is like seeing the tiger" is a saying. Some people who believe 
in statements 
like that, spread the news that the entire city of Mysore was blacked out. 
Swamy was angry 
at this exaggeration of facts and said, "I do not touch any wires at all." The 
elder residents 
of the colony heaved a sigh of relief on hearing it from Swamy. They were 
frightened that 
their stupidity in testing Swamy would lead them to be prosecuted by the 
officials of the 
electricity board. Swamy had already said that it was his duty to save them. 
These events 
did upset Swamy a lot. He increased his tour programmes of visiting other 
places. Some 
days he spent his time in the prayer room of Nagappa's house. When he wanted to 
spend 
more time on meditation without being disturbed, he preferred to come to 
Nagappa's 
house. Nagappa and his wife Jayamma were always ready to receive Swamy at their 
house. 
Jayamma actually looked upon and treated Swamy as her own grandson. Swamy on 
his 
part walked around like their child in that house. He addressed Jayamma as 
"Amma, 
Amma". Nagappa's car was the disposal of Swamy and met all his travel needs. 
One or two 
other cars belonging to the other devotees were also available for the use of 
Swamy if 
needed. Nagappa's driver served Swamy with love and devotion. Sometimes Dwaraka 
would go in the middle of the night on his bike to Nagappa's house to get the 
car. The 
driver happily would get up and come to the ashrama and take Swamy wherever he 
wanted 
to go. One day there was a violin concert by the famous A.S.Shivarudrappa at 
Nagappa's 
house. Shivarudrappa was a great violinist, a scholar and had received honours 
at the 
place. He used to attract a number of fans at his concerts. He enjoyed playing 
for Swamy. 
That day both Swamy and Shivarudrappa was deeply immersed in the music. Few 
people 
sitting near the homa commented, "Who cares for these powers? It is only for 
the benefit 
of the rich. These are guises of cheats. (Meaning that the guises are to 
attract the money 
from the rich)". Swamy walked towards them angrily, and like a small child 
rolling his 
cheeks and lips made a funny noise and spat out a number of loose coins from 
his mouth. 
As they had considered Swamy as "Ashadabhootis", Swamy had decided to 
materialise only 
loose coins for them. The critics sat quiet and did not even apologise. Swamy 
went back to 
his seat. At the end of the homa the devotees came forward to receive the 
blessing of 
Swamy. The turn came for the critics to receive the blessings. Swamy stopped 
them and 
said, "Why do you want to fall at the feet of Ashadabhootis?" Those critics 
were sorry and 
fell at the feet of Swamy and begged to be excused. In view of the demand, the 
city 
transport authority had organised special bus services to the ashrama. On the 
days of 
sankeertanas, the programme would go late into the evening and the bus drivers 
waited 
patiently till the last of the passenger got on to the bus. There was no worry 
for the 
devotees about missing the last bus. The final stop of the bus to the ashrama 
came to be 
known as the "Swamy's ashrama stop.] An unusual event happened one Thursday. 
The 
bhajans finished at about 10pm. Swamy went inside to take rest. Prasadam was 
being 
distributed to the devotees. Some youngsters from the colony started a scuffle. 
The 
youngsters were complaining that the functions at the ashrama were disturbing 
this sleep. 
some devotees tried to object to the criticism by the lads and that ended up in 
the scuffle 
that night. Not wanting to see any harm come to Swamy, some of the devotees 
locked his 
room from outside. All the houses at the colony were of a stereotype; they did 
not have a 
backdoor. There was only one way in and out of the houses. The youngsters 
started 
shouting that Swamy was frightened of them and has decided to hide inside. 
Holding on to 
their batons and other tools, they started shouting and asking for Swamy to 
come out and 
face them. Swamy shouted and asked his devotees to open the door and let him 
out to 
face the youngsters. No one took notice of Swamy's request. Suddenly Swamy came 
out 
through the solid walls of the room shouting, "Who is the fool that is asking 
for me?" 
Hundreds of devotees witnessed this miracle. The youngsters got frightened and 
some 
even wet their trousers. Dropping their tools they ran away. Some of them asked 
Swamy 
for his forgiveness. The elders in the colony also asked forgiveness for the 
acts committed 
by the youngsters. Srikantiah begged Swamy to calm down and took him inside.


http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sacredlifeofswamiji/
This Yahoo group contains the complete story from the
beginning .
Satyam, or Satyanarayana referred to here was Sri Swamiji's name as a child.
Later
references to Swamy are to Him as well. It describes in detail

[FairfieldLife] MSAE record, was Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread feste37
No, it's not changed. Although the brutally cynical posters on this board will 
never acknowledge it, MSAE has a remarkable record of significant 
achievement. See the list compiled below, which I have taken from the MSAE 
website. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> >
> > Considering the track record of the MSAE, would you trust your 
> > children, if you had them, to the teachers there?
> 
> The track record has always seemed rather good. Has this changed?

MSAE
HIGHLIGHTS OF ACHIEVEMENTS


In the past decade, students at Maharishi School have won more than 100 
state titles in science, speech, drama, writing, poetry, spelling, art, 
photography, history, mathematics, chess, tennis, golf, track, and Destination 
ImagiNation, a national and international creative problem-solving 
competition. 



Grades 10-12 score in the top 1% nationally, and in Iowa, on standardized 
tests (ITED)

95% of graduates accepted at four-year colleges

Over ten times the nation's average for National Merit Scholar Finalists over 
the past five years



State Record: 41 state championships in creative problem-solving 
competitions Destination ImagiNation and Odyssey of the Mind

World Record: Winners of the Global Finals of Destination ImagiNation, and 
more top-ten finishes than any other school in the world



First Place: American High School Math Exam, Iowa Division, four years in a 
row

First Place: Five first-place finishes, Iowa State History Fair, Senior Division

First Place: Ten first-place finishes in the senior division of the Eastern 
Iowa or 
Hawkeye state science fairs

Grand Champions: Eight grand champion awards in the past decade in the 
junior division of the Eastern Iowa Science and Engineering Fair



First place: Twice winner of the state spelling bee



State Record: Most Critic's Choice State Banner Awards for speech in the past 
decade (16)

National Champion: Bravo Cable Channel High School Theater Competition



State Record: Congressional Art Competition, "An Artistic Discovery," grand 
prize three years in a row



First Place: Iowa Poetry Association's high school contest

First Place: Iowa "Young Writer of the Year" award



State Champion: Iowa Junior Chess Championship

First Place: Iowa Educational Media Association (Photography)

Grand Prize: International Photo Imaging Education Association competition


State Champions: 16 boys' state tennis championships, 
tying for the most in Iowa history 

State Champion: Girls' state singles tennis

State Record: Tennis Triple Crown winner two years in a row

State Record: Boys' track 800 m

State Champions: Golf team and individual

ESVN

*   The End School Violence Now (ESVN) and Students Creating Peace 
Network (SCPN) has given presentations on radio stations, participated in 
Youth Development in the 21st Century sponsored by the 4-H clubs of 
America, and given presentations to guests of the School. 

The students have given presentations at the St.Louis Enlightened 
Sentencing Project Graduation. They were invited to represent Southeast 
Iowa at the Youth Development in the 21st Century Conference at Iowa State 
University in Ames, and invited to Expo High School in Waterloo, Iowa. They 
were also invited to the kick-off event for the Season of Non-Violence in Los 
Angeles where they spoke to educators, parents and the event organizers. 
While in Los Angeles a presentation was given at a South Los Angeles 
alternative High School. All the events met with great success.

The students are working on a student-to-student video, a web site, and other 
projects to bring 8,000 Yogic Flyers to Maharishi University of Management 
and Maharishi Vedic City.

> 
> > 
> > Let's see...by now most of the decent teachers have long ago left, 
> not 
> > willing to work for no pay, no benefits, and for an oftentimes 
> > capricious administration that routinely makes decisions that show 
> a 
> > breath-taking lack of concern for anyone, including the kids. 
> 
> 
> I can't comment on these assertions, but has the school changed inthe 
> past few months and years. National Merit Scholarship and semi-
> finalists don't grow on trees. Nor do exceptionaly high scores on 
> standardized tests.
> 
>  Now 
> > personally I can't imagine why anyone would object to those things, 
> but 
> > there you have it.  And the few halfway decent teachers that have 
> > remained teach the boys, since the education of girls apparently 
> > doesn't matter at all.  This basically gives the parents of girls 
> few 
> > options except to spend even more $$ and time hiring private tutors.
> > 
> 
> Do you have documentation that there is such a dichotomy in 
> educational treatment?
> 
> > And the parents kids with any kind of disability, be it learning, 
> > speech, behavior, etc are told to either stuff it or take care of 
> it on 
> > their own, since, 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Fidel Castro and TM

2005-12-09 Thread Eustace
You are probably right. World government and raja rhetoric certainly
wouldn't do. But a research project to evaluate the benefits of a
simple alternative medicine technique might be another story.  -Eustace

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> Castro wouldn't let SSRS in the country several years
> ago. I doubt he'd let the TMO with its world
> government and raja rhetoric into the country for
> anything.
> 
> --- Eustace <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 
> > Several years ago TMO had considered Fidel Castro
> > the personification
> > of the Invincibility principle, or something like
> > that. It was quite
> > appropriate given the more than 400, if I remember
> > correctly,
> > assassination attempts against his person organized
> > by the CIA and the
> > Miami mafia... Anyway, if you do a search on a
> > recent speech he gave:
> > 
> > http://www.scoop.co.nz/stories/WO0512/S00120.htm
> > 
> > you will find that he uses several time the verb
> > "meditate", once
> > "meditation", and once "transcendental" (in a
> > context where the use of
> > the word was kink of artificial and certainly not
> > necessitated). A
> > reasonable explanation would be that the efforts of
> > TMO to reach him
> > had, after all, some effect, at some (conscious or
> > unconscious) level.
> > I think people in the TMO should know about this. I
> > don't think that
> > suggesting that Cuba organize a group of yogic
> > flyers would be such a
> > good idea... It takes a lot of believing for the
> > uninitiated and has
> > not worked even in much richer countries. But Cuba
> > has excellent
> > medicine. Maybe some research project could be
> > proposed that the Cuban
> > doctors would be interested to participate in or
> > carry out...
> > 
> > It would be great if they would couple their "El
> > pueblo/ unido/ jamas
> > sera vencido!" (The people united will never be
> > defeated) with
> > "Yogastah kuru karmani".
> > 
> > JGD,
> > 
> > Eustace





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[FairfieldLife] Woman's Duty, Happiness and Power...was Men and women

2005-12-09 Thread hanumanhoffman9
Taken from the Book Sri Datta Darshanam.

Jaya Guru Datta

The most virtuous Anasuya Mata was the wife of Lord Brahma's mind born son, 
Saptarishi 
Atri. She was the 2nd daughter of Kardama Prajapati and Devahuti.

Brahma's act of creating the human species continued ceaselessly; and has it 
continued 
people indulged in sense pleasure and vulgar enjoyments in the name of Grhastha 
Dharma. They ignored the need for contemplation and forgot the Soul. This 
caused 
Brahma deep anguish, and he reflected over it seriously. He came to the 
conclusion that 
the incarnation of a Saviour possessing immense moral and spiritual power would 
be the 
only solution to this problem.

He performed the marriage of Anasuya with his own mind born son Atri, a 
peerless 
Brahmajnani. He commanded Atri to assist him in his work of creation according 
to 
Grhastha Dharma (householder).

That excellent couple spent many thousands of celestial years as man and wife. 
Their 
wedded life was full of tapas, faultless, marvelous, unequalled and unsullied 
by lust.

By the power of his tapas Maharishi Atri was able to receive the revelation of 
the 5th 
mandala of the Shakalya branch of the Rig Veda. That part of the Veda 
containing prayer 
to Agnilinga, and the topic of Amarendra which possesses the power of bestowing 
happiness both here and hereafter.

During Krita Yuga when disease and sickness spread and the world of living 
beings was 
being destroyed, it was Maharishi Atri who obtained the vision of Ayurveda.

At another time when people were feeling that the Dharma Shastra compied by 
Manu had 
become incomprehensible, Atri himself composed a Smrti in words beautiful, 
clear and 
easy to understand. When the demons captured the Sun and Moon plunging the 
whole 
world into utter darkness, it was Atri who was sought by the devatas. He 
himself assumed 
the form of the Sun and Moon and dispersed lighrt to the world.

There is no comparison to the various miracles performed by Anasuya, with her 
exemplary 
chastity and sincere devotion to here husband.

Once, due to scorching heat, the river Ganga dried up; and Anasuya brought the 
river back 
to life for the convenience of the munis.

Another time the river Ganga lost its purity and had been turned black by the 
sinner's 
touch. Anasuya sprinkled water from her kamandalu and burnt away all the 
impurities of 
Ganga in an instant. Many such deeds she performed.

It was through their intense tapas that the Trinity... Brahma, Vishnu, and 
Shiva appeared at 
the same time and told them they would be born to them as their son who was 
Dattatreya.

Anasuya was human, yet her chastity and fame was so great as to instill the 
jealousy of the 
three Goddesses, Lakshmi, Saraswati, and Parvati.

(parts of story snipped)

Anasuya was called upon to save the world when another chaste woman, Sumati 
kept the 
son from rising due to another curse on her husband, Kausika.

Anasuya said this to Sumati:

"For a virtuous and devoted wife, the company of her husband alone is all the 
world. His 
happiness is her happiness. His nearness alone gives meaning to her life. she 
has life so 
long as the husband is hale and hearty. Such a one is said to be a 'Pativrata'.

"While a man cannot acquire merit without undergoing much suffering and without 
observing rituals, for us, dedicated service to our husbands is enough. That 
alone can 
easily give us all rewards."

"For women there is no need for any other religious observances or disciplines. 
For a 
Woman her husband alone is God. Service to one's husband is worship to God. I 
have 
achieved great things through that alone."

In Datta seva

Sri Guru Datta

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> On Dec 9, 2005, at 2:34 PM, authfriend wrote:
> 
> >  Let's see...I believe the context of my post was
> >  MMY's reported notion that very young children
> >  shouldn't be taught second languages because it
> >  causes some kind of "subtle confusion."
> 
> And what exactly gives you the impression that MMY knows *anything* 
> about what children need, or what causes confusion or anything
> else?  All the experience he's had raising them?

I don't believe I said I had that impression.

Do you think you're reading more than is there
into what I'm writing?

> >  I'm having a little trouble seeing how the things
> >  you list have anything to do with that.  Would you
> >  care to elaborate?
> 
> I'm obviously experiencing subtle confusion. Must have been the 
Spanish 
> I took in grade school.
> 
> Sal
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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread Sal Sunshine
On Dec 9, 2005, at 2:34 PM, authfriend wrote:

 Let's see...I believe the context of my post was
 MMY's reported notion that very young children
 shouldn't be taught second languages because it
 causes some kind of "subtle confusion."

And what exactly gives you the impression that MMY knows *anything* about what children need, or what causes confusion or anything else?  All the experience he's had raising them?

 I'm having a little trouble seeing how the things
 you list have anything to do with that.  Would you
 care to elaborate?

I'm obviously experiencing subtle confusion. Must have been the Spanish I took in grade school.

Sal


[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> Considering the track record of the MSAE, would you trust your 
> children, if you had them, to the teachers there?

Let's see...I believe the context of my post was
MMY's reported notion that very young children
shouldn't be taught second languages because it
causes some kind of "subtle confusion."

I'm having a little trouble seeing how the things
you list have anything to do with that.  Would you
care to elaborate?

(And frankly, I don't take what you knee-jerk
anti-TMOers have to say about the horrors of the
TMO any more seriously than I do what the TBers
have to say about its glories.  I consider the
perspective of both groups rather seriously warped.)

> Let's see...by now most of the decent teachers have long ago left, 
> not willing to work for no pay, no benefits, and for an oftentimes 
> capricious administration that routinely makes decisions that show 
> a breath-taking lack of concern for anyone, including the kids.  
> Now personally I can't imagine why anyone would object to those 
> things, but there you have it.  And the few halfway decent teachers 
> that have remained teach the boys, since the education of girls 
> apparently doesn't matter at all.  This basically gives the parents 
> of girls few options except to spend even more $$ and time hiring 
> private tutors.
> 
> And the parents kids with any kind of disability, be it learning, 
> speech, behavior, etc are told to either stuff it or take care of 
> it on their own, since, of course, children going to school in 
> paradise don't have those issues.
> 
> Sal
> 
> 
> On Dec 9, 2005, at 11:11 AM, authfriend wrote:
> 
> >  That out of the way, do you have any relevant comment
> >  on what I suggested, i.e., that we don't know enough
> >  about what MMY means to come to the conclusion, as you
> >  did, that he isn't to be trusted with children's
> >  education?
>






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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> [...]
> > However, instead of then taking a breath of fresh air and 
getting on 
> > with life, he squanders his equity by trashing others. Aside 
from 
> > finding it annoying and disruptive, it doesn't help Tom in the 
> > slightest.
> >
> 
> Which is why I originally questioned the concept that itwas 
*always* 
> good to open up and discuss such things. Deliberately waking the 
> sleeping elephants (to use MMY's unstressing metaphor) may not be 
a 
> good idea if you don't know where the exit is and don't have a 
guide to 
> get you past the ensuing stampede.
>
I agree- was never much for group 'therapy' myself.






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> Considering the track record of the MSAE, would you trust your 
> children, if you had them, to the teachers there?

The track record has always seemed rather good. Has this changed?

> 
> Let's see...by now most of the decent teachers have long ago left, 
not 
> willing to work for no pay, no benefits, and for an oftentimes 
> capricious administration that routinely makes decisions that show 
a 
> breath-taking lack of concern for anyone, including the kids. 


I can't comment on these assertions, but has the school changed inthe 
past few months and years. National Merit Scholarship and semi-
finalists don't grow on trees. Nor do exceptionaly high scores on 
standardized tests.

 Now 
> personally I can't imagine why anyone would object to those things, 
but 
> there you have it.  And the few halfway decent teachers that have 
> remained teach the boys, since the education of girls apparently 
> doesn't matter at all.  This basically gives the parents of girls 
few 
> options except to spend even more $$ and time hiring private tutors.
> 

Do you have documentation that there is such a dichotomy in 
educational treatment?

> And the parents kids with any kind of disability, be it learning, 
> speech, behavior, etc are told to either stuff it or take care of 
it on 
> their own, since, of course, children going to school in paradise 
don't 
> have those issues.

Heh. Screening takes all forms. Few public charter schools are 
willing to deal with extreme special needs kids and the way Arizona 
law is set up, they don't have to. Aside from wheelchair access 
andthe like, charter schools aren't required to be equiped for 
arbitrary special needs because, by definition, charter schools are 
specializing in special needs already.

Most private schools operate the same way: if your child doesn't fit 
the curriculum or facility, then they don't modify the curriculum or 
the facilities to accomidate the child -- the child has to go 
somewhere that DOES accomidate them.
> 





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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > wrote:
> 
> > > The Shiva Sutras have a sloka(?) that specifically
> > > states that you become realized only through your own
> > > effort, nothing else.
> > 
> > Another one o' them pair-of-oxes: 
> > 
> > Before liberation or the full sunshine of the Self in Unity, or
> > pick your own description, we pray and exhort Gods, Godesses, and 
> > the saints and Masters to deliver us from our suffering. 
> > Afterwards, we are delighted we did it all by our Selves!
> 
> As I was reading the first sentence, I thought you
> were going to finish by saying, "Afterwards, we are
> delighted to find that every one of them was just
> our Self all along!"
> 
> > Again, looking back it seems absurd that such a duality of 
> > deliverance from our ignorance by someone or someGod else would 
be 
> > preferred. After all, if we don't do it by ourselves, we can't 
> > really know exactly what we have done, and by extension would 
> > hypothetically remain in ignorance...
> 
> Nah.  We *do* know exactly what we have done: we have
> appealed to aspects of our very own Self.  From the
> perspective of enlightenment--I would assume--there's
> no way we can do it *other* than by ourselves.
>

Isn't there something in the gita about the Self unfolding the Self 
or somesuch?







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
[...]
> The question in my mind is whether the confusion MMY
> is talking about is on such a subtle level that you
> *wouldn't* detect it as such--the point being that we
> really don't know what he's referring to.
> 
> Until we have a clearer idea, it makes no sense to
> assume he's contradicting established scientific 
> fact.
>

And of course, we don't know what is being referred to in the first 
place, since MY recollection is merely that MMY didn't like second 
languages being taught outside their country-of-use because it was 
inefficient and [presumeably] a waste of time.

My first Japanese teacher is finishing up his doctorate in educational 
linguistics (my term). He's been doing research on interesting things 
like how native speakers move their eyes while reading their native 
language as opposed to secondary language speakers. Apparently there's 
a very striking difference that is quite consistent.

His own comments in class,based on his years of study inthe field, 
about the utility of foreign language instruction outside a native-
speaking country are very inline with what *I* have heard that MMY say 
about it.

Ihaven't heard before  that MMY says its not a good to learn a second 
laguage early on. In fact, given that most educated Indians are at 
least somewhat bilingual from exposure in school, including himself and 
apparently Gurudev, that would be rather silly.







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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
[...]
> However, instead of then taking a breath of fresh air and getting on 
> with life, he squanders his equity by trashing others. Aside from 
> finding it annoying and disruptive, it doesn't help Tom in the 
> slightest.
>

Which is why I originally questioned the concept that itwas *always* 
good to open up and discuss such things. Deliberately waking the 
sleeping elephants (to use MMY's unstressing metaphor) may not be a 
good idea if you don't know where the exit is and don't have a guide to 
get you past the ensuing stampede.






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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread Sal Sunshine
Considering the track record of the MSAE, would you trust your children, if you had them, to the teachers there?

Let's see...by now most of the decent teachers have long ago left, not willing to work for no pay, no benefits, and for an oftentimes capricious administration that routinely makes decisions that show a breath-taking lack of concern for anyone, including the kids.  Now personally I can't imagine why anyone would object to those things, but there you have it.  And the few halfway decent teachers that have remained teach the boys, since the education of girls apparently doesn't matter at all.  This basically gives the parents of girls few options except to spend even more $$ and time hiring private tutors.

And the parents kids with any kind of disability, be it learning, speech, behavior, etc are told to either stuff it or take care of it on their own, since, of course, children going to school in paradise don't have those issues.

Sal


On Dec 9, 2005, at 11:11 AM, authfriend wrote:

 That out of the way, do you have any relevant comment
 on what I suggested, i.e., that we don't know enough
 about what MMY means to come to the conclusion, as you
 did, that he isn't to be trusted with children's
 education?

[FairfieldLife] Keeping Things Quiet (was Re: Hurdy Gurdy Man revealed)

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
[...]
> > No, exactly backwards.  As you keep saying, you might
> > learn to read. I was suggesting that *you* are dependent
> > on the people whom you feel agree with you.
> 
> You can suggest anything you like.  I'm just pointing
> out that that isn't what "co-dependent" means.  A co-
> dependent is someone who is manipulated by another
> person with a personality disorder.  Only if you're
> claiming Lawson is the one doing the manipulating could
> you properly call me the co-dependent.  If I'm the
> manipulator, then Lawson is the co-dependent.

We could also be mutually co-dependent.






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[FairfieldLife] Keeping Things Quiet (was Re: Hurdy Gurdy Man revealed)

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > wrote:
[...]
> > That's pretty much what I thought (and still think) was implied.
> 
> I don't think either Barry or Vaj were implying it.
> They both meant to take a slam at me, not you, and
> were in too much of a hurry to do so to bother to
> think about what "co-dependency" actually means.
> 
> Typical.
>

Actually, if you read what Vaj and Barry say about ANYONE who agrees 
with you on something concerning them, they DO believe that we're all 
a co-dependent bunch of losers.





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[FairfieldLife] FW: News from India about Ayurveda

2005-12-09 Thread Rick Archer
Title: FW: News from India about Ayurveda





Source: BBC

Wednesday, 7 December 2005, 13:22 GMT 
 
India hits back in 'bio-piracy' battle 

In a quiet government office in the Indian capital, Delhi, some 100 doctors are hunched over computers poring over ancient medical texts and keying in information.

These doctors are practitioners of ayurveda, unani and siddha, ancient Indian medical systems that date back thousands of years.

One of them is Jaya Saklani Kala, a young ayurveda doctor, who is wading through a dog-eared 500-year-old text book for information on a medicine derived from the mango fruit.

"Soon the world will know the medicine, and the fact that it originated from India," she says.

With help from software engineers and patent examiners, Ms Kala and her colleagues are putting together a 30-million-page electronic encyclopaedia of India's traditional medical knowledge, the first of its kind in the world.

'Bio-piracy'

The ambitious $2m project, christened Traditional Knowledge Digital Library, will roll out an encyclopaedia of the country's traditional medicine in five languages - English, French, German, Japanese and Spanish - in an effort to stop people from claiming them as their own and patenting them.

The electronic encyclopaedia, which will be made available next year, will contain information on the traditional medicines, including exhaustive references, photographs of the plants and scans from the original texts.

Indian scientists say the country has been a victim of what they describe as "bio-piracy" for a long time.

"When we put out this encyclopaedia in the public domain, no one will be able to claim that these medicines or therapies are their inventions. Till now, we have not done the needful to protect our traditional wealth," says Ajay Dua, a senior bureaucrat in the federal commerce ministry.

Putting together the encyclopaedia is a daunting task.

For one, ayurvedic texts are in Sanskrit and Hindi, unani texts are in Arabic and Persian and siddha material is in Tamil language. Material from these texts is being translated into five international languages, using sophisticated software coding.

The sheer wealth of material that has to be read through for information is enormous - there are some 54 authoritative 'text books' on ayurveda alone, some thousands of years old.

Then there are nearly 150,000 recorded ayurvedic, unani and siddha medicines; and some 1,500 asanas (physical exercises and postures) in yoga, which originated in India more than 5,000 years ago.

Under normal circumstances, a patent application should always be rejected if there is prior existing knowledge about the product.

But in most of the developed nations like United States, "prior existing knowledge" is only recognised if it is published in a journal or is available on a database - not if it has been passed down through generations of oral and folk traditions.

The irony here is that India has suffered even though its
traditional knowledge, as in China, has been documented extensively.

But information about traditional medicine has never been culled from their texts, translated and put out in the public domain.

Litigation

No wonder then that India has been embroiled in some high-profile patent litigation in the past decade - the government spent some $6m alone in fighting legal battles against the patenting of turmeric and neem-based medicines.

In 1995, the US Patent Office granted a patent on the wound-healing properties of turmeric.

Indian scientists protested and fought a two-year-long legal battle to get the patent revoked.

Last year, India won a 10-year-long battle at the European Patent Office against a patent granted on an anti-fungal product, derived from neem, by successfully arguing that the medicinal neem tree is part of traditional Indian knowledge.

In 1998 the US Patent Office granted patent to a local company for new strains of rice similar to basmati, which has been grown for centuries in the Himalayan foothills of north-west India and Pakistan and has become popular internationally. After a prolonged legal battle, the patent was revoked four years ago.

And, in the US, an expatriate Indian yoga teacher has claimed copyright on a sequence of 36 yoga asanas, or postures.

Dr Vinod Kumar Gupta, who is leading the traditional wealth encyclopaedia project and heads India's National Institute of Science Communication and Information Resources (Niscair), reckons that of the nearly 5,000 patents given out by the US Patent Office on various medical plants by the year 2000, some 80% were plants of
Indian origin.

Practitioners of traditional medicines say their importance cannot be denied - according to the WHO, 70% of the people living in India use traditional medicine for primary health care.

Also, some 42% of the people living in the US and 70% of the people living in Canada have used traditional  medicines at least once for treatment.

By one estimate, a quarter of the new dru

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread Vaj


On Dec 9, 2005, at 1:08 PM, authfriend wrote:Now, why do you think *that* is? I don't like wasting my time on constant arguments?





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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > wrote:
> 
> > > The Shiva Sutras have a sloka(?) that specifically
> > > states that you become realized only through your own
> > > effort, nothing else.
> > 
> > Another one o' them pair-of-oxes: 
> > 
> > Before liberation or the full sunshine of the Self in Unity, or
> > pick your own description, we pray and exhort Gods, Godesses, 
and 
> > the saints and Masters to deliver us from our suffering. 
> > Afterwards, we are delighted we did it all by our Selves!
> 
> As I was reading the first sentence, I thought you
> were going to finish by saying, "Afterwards, we are
> delighted to find that every one of them was just
> our Self all along!"

Yep. Thanks, That is probably more accurate.
> 
> > Again, looking back it seems absurd that such a duality of 
> > deliverance from our ignorance by someone or someGod else would 
be 
> > preferred. After all, if we don't do it by ourselves, we can't 
> > really know exactly what we have done, and by extension would 
> > hypothetically remain in ignorance...
> 
> Nah.  We *do* know exactly what we have done: we have
> appealed to aspects of our very own Self.  From the
> perspective of enlightenment--I would assume--there's
> no way we can do it *other* than by ourselves.
>
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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:

> > The Shiva Sutras have a sloka(?) that specifically
> > states that you become realized only through your own
> > effort, nothing else.
> 
> Another one o' them pair-of-oxes: 
> 
> Before liberation or the full sunshine of the Self in Unity, or
> pick your own description, we pray and exhort Gods, Godesses, and 
> the saints and Masters to deliver us from our suffering. 
> Afterwards, we are delighted we did it all by our Selves!

As I was reading the first sentence, I thought you
were going to finish by saying, "Afterwards, we are
delighted to find that every one of them was just
our Self all along!"

> Again, looking back it seems absurd that such a duality of 
> deliverance from our ignorance by someone or someGod else would be 
> preferred. After all, if we don't do it by ourselves, we can't 
> really know exactly what we have done, and by extension would 
> hypothetically remain in ignorance...

Nah.  We *do* know exactly what we have done: we have
appealed to aspects of our very own Self.  From the
perspective of enlightenment--I would assume--there's
no way we can do it *other* than by ourselves.







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> On Dec 9, 2005, at 12:11 PM, authfriend wrote:
 > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> >> On Dec 9, 2005, at 11:29 AM, authfriend wrote:
> >>> How odd, you seem to have deleted what I went on
> >>> to say, which made it clear I wasn't questioning
> >>> the accepted scientific fact.
> >>
> >> It wasn't clear to me.
> >
> > Well, let's have another look, shall we?  (Since
> > you snipped it again.)
> > 
> > The "subtle confusion" LBS refers to isn't necessarily
> > in conflict with the principle that the younger the
> > better in terms of second-language acquisition. The
> > purported confusion may be on an entirely different
> > level than that of facility in a second language.
> >
> > It isn't impossible that the optimal situation, in
> > MMY's view, is a sort of trade-off between acquiring
> > second-language facility and avoiding the subtle
> > confusion. In other words, an older child may still
> > be able to learn a second language well enough to
> > become reasonably fluent in it at a point when learning
> > it may no longer cause the subtle confusion.
> >
> > Or maybe not. But obviously we don't know enough, on
> > the basis of LBS's account, to say either way.
> > 
> > Where in what I wrote do you see any suggestion
> > that I was questioning accepted scientific fact?
> >
> > I repeat: I think you just *assumed*, in a knee-jerk
> > fashion, that I would question established scientific
> > fact because you have me erroneously pegged as a
> > "true believer" (or just hope you can convince others
> > to think I am).
> >
> > And therefore you didn't pay much attention to the
> > rest of what I said.  If you had, you'd have seen
> > that I was actually accepting as a given that
> > children learn languages more easily the younger
> > they are.  (One hint: that's why I referred to it
> > as a "principle" rather than a "theory.")
> >
> >> Despite repeated accusations of having some hidden agenda in the
> >> quoting of your email messages, there exists no such agenda, 
> >> other than in your own consciousness.
> >
> > Oh, goodness, it's not just *my* "email messages" (I
> > assume you mean posts to FFL and alt.m.t) by any means.
> > You even snip portions of your own earlier posts when
> > they might conflict with or detract from whatever you're
> > saying in your current post.  In any case, the snipping
> > is always in your own interest.
> >
> > I'm quite willing to believe, however, that the
> > agenda may not be conscious.  I suspect it's just
> > become second nature, and you do it without even
> > thinking about it.
> >
> > That out of the way, do you have any relevant comment
> > on what I suggested, i.e., that we don't know enough
> > about what MMY means to come to the conclusion, as you
> > did, that he isn't to be trusted with children's
> > education?
> 
> LOL. You read way too much into these things.
> 
> Why do you think that is?

You seem to be assuming I think it's the case,
but obviously I don't.

I note that you *still* can't address what I
suggested; nor are you able to say where in
what I wrote you saw any hint that I was
questioning established scientific facts.

Now, why do you think *that* is?






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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Patrick Gillam" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> What do you guys think is the connection between 
> the individual and collective consciousness? 

Here we go with another paradox. Once the illusion of seperation is 
largely dispelled as a result of identification with the Self, there 
really is no individual vs collective consciousness. 

So we act walk and talk like individuals, and operate as such 
because we each have our own physical bodies, and it is the 
practical material thing to do, but it is upon closer examination, 
not ultimately real.

As an experiment, when we close our eyes, we expand to Infinity 
through silence, and when we open our eyes, we also expand to 
Infinity through the action of the senses. In both directions and in 
both cases, infinity is the end result. 

So there may appear to be a surface construct of individual vs 
collective consciousness, but the reality is forever a union of the 
two, a oneness, a singularity, where the actual boundary 
between 'me' and 'you' cannot be located.  

I've 
> often felt that my individual evolution is in thrall 
> to the collective, just as my income usually depends 
> on the larger economy. 
> 
> Your remarks below consider only individual power, 
> independent of collective consciousness.
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > wrote:
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" 
> > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > > wrote:
> > snippage> 
> > > > My experience has been that as a born English speaker I 
found 
> > > > no subtle confusion when very young being introduced to a 
> > > > language of the country I was in. For example, learning 
Spanish 
> > > > in Mexico, because I heard and spoke both languages daily. I 
> > > > also rapidly forgot the non-English language after leaving 
its 
> > > > country of origin.
> > > 
> > > The question in my mind is whether the confusion MMY
> > > is talking about is on such a subtle level that you
> > > *wouldn't* detect it as such--the point being that we
> > > really don't know what he's referring to.
> > 
> > I mean no disrespect to him or to you, but if it is that subtle, 
> > from a practical standpoint, who cares?
> 
> Sure, obviously it's an individual decision whether
> you want to worry about it on the basis of something
> MMY has said.  I'm not advocating either way, and for
> all I know MMY could be completely wrong about it.
> 
> I'm just saying that on the basis of what very little
> we know, it's not impossible that something could
> get screwed up on a very subtle level that would have
> some negative impact on grosser levels without the person
> necessarily being able to make the connection, or even
> realizing there had *been* a screwup.  And if so, it
> might be something you'd want to avoid if you could,
> even if it did mean sacrificing some degree of ease
> of learning a second language as a tradeoff.
> 
> Again, all I'm saying is that we can't rule this
> possibility out without knowing more about what MMY
> means.  I'm not suggesting anybody even worry about
> it if they don't feel it's worth it.  Just pointing
> out that the original conclusion that MMY can't be
> trusted with children's education in this regard 
> isn't warranted on the basis of what information we
> have.
> 
> There's just this knee-jerk kind of reaction that
> many here have, that if something MMY says doesn't
> immediately make perfect sense to us on its face,
> therefore it must be crazy and wrong.  Maybe it is
> and maybe it isn't, but often the assumption is
> made on a very superficial basis.
> 
> That's really all I'm getting at.
> 
Oh OK. Yes, I agree with you.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" 
> <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > wrote:
> snippage> 
> > > My experience has been that as a born English speaker I found 
> > > no subtle confusion when very young being introduced to a 
> > > language of the country I was in. For example, learning Spanish 
> > > in Mexico, because I heard and spoke both languages daily. I 
> > > also rapidly forgot the non-English language after leaving its 
> > > country of origin.
> > 
> > The question in my mind is whether the confusion MMY
> > is talking about is on such a subtle level that you
> > *wouldn't* detect it as such--the point being that we
> > really don't know what he's referring to.
> 
> I mean no disrespect to him or to you, but if it is that subtle, 
> from a practical standpoint, who cares?

Sure, obviously it's an individual decision whether
you want to worry about it on the basis of something
MMY has said.  I'm not advocating either way, and for
all I know MMY could be completely wrong about it.

I'm just saying that on the basis of what very little
we know, it's not impossible that something could
get screwed up on a very subtle level that would have
some negative impact on grosser levels without the person
necessarily being able to make the connection, or even
realizing there had *been* a screwup.  And if so, it
might be something you'd want to avoid if you could,
even if it did mean sacrificing some degree of ease
of learning a second language as a tradeoff.

Again, all I'm saying is that we can't rule this
possibility out without knowing more about what MMY
means.  I'm not suggesting anybody even worry about
it if they don't feel it's worth it.  Just pointing
out that the original conclusion that MMY can't be
trusted with children's education in this regard 
isn't warranted on the basis of what information we
have.

There's just this knee-jerk kind of reaction that
many here have, that if something MMY says doesn't
immediately make perfect sense to us on its face,
therefore it must be crazy and wrong.  Maybe it is
and maybe it isn't, but often the assumption is
made on a very superficial basis.

That's really all I'm getting at.





 My benchmark for such 
> things even as a child has been if it is creating undue strain, 
> don't bother. On the other hand, if something seems readily 
> available, take advantage of it...
> 
> Reminds me of a larger issue, sort of related to the emotional 
> healing vs TM discussion. After I had been meditating for awhile 
> and been exposed to all of the esoteric Indian stuff and tried some
> of it on for size, I realized that as a person of the world, with a 
> finite amount of time to devote to spiritual practice, I had to use 
> common sense in what I adopted vs not.
> 
> This then led to a growing sense of freedom that it was I who was 
> most interested in enlightening myself, vs blindly accepting and 
> following the precepts of the saints. 
> 
> It eventually made for a much more interesting journey, being 
> empowered to deliberately choose from a menu of thought and 
> practice what best suited my personal spiritual development.
> 
> > Until we have a clearer idea, it makes no sense to
> > assume he's contradicting established scientific 
> > fact.






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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread Vaj


On Dec 9, 2005, at 12:11 PM, authfriend wrote:--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:   On Dec 9, 2005, at 11:29 AM, authfriend wrote:  How odd, you seem to have deleted what I went on to say, which made it clear I wasn't questioning the accepted scientific fact.  It wasn't clear to me.  Well, let's have another look, shall we?  (Since you snipped it again.)   The "subtle confusion" LBS refers to isn't necessarily in conflict with the principle that the younger the better in terms of second-language acquisition. The purported confusion may be on an entirely different level than that of facility in a second language.  It isn't impossible that the optimal situation, in MMY's view, is a sort of trade-off between acquiring second-language facility and avoiding the subtle confusion. In other words, an older child may still be able to learn a second language well enough to become reasonably fluent in it at a point when learning it may no longer cause the subtle confusion.  Or maybe not. But obviously we don't know enough, on the basis of LBS's account, to say either way.   Where in what I wrote do you see any suggestion that I was questioning accepted scientific fact?  I repeat: I think you just *assumed*, in a knee-jerk fashion, that I would question established scientific fact because you have me erroneously pegged as a "true believer" (or just hope you can convince others to think I am).  And therefore you didn't pay much attention to the rest of what I said.  If you had, you'd have seen that I was actually accepting as a given that children learn languages more easily the younger they are.  (One hint: that's why I referred to it as a "principle" rather than a "theory.")  Despite repeated accusations of having some hidden agenda in the   quoting of your email messages, there exists no such agenda, other   than in your own consciousness.  Oh, goodness, it's not just *my* "email messages" (I assume you mean posts to FFL and alt.m.t) by any means. You even snip portions of your own earlier posts when they might conflict with or detract from whatever you're saying in your current post.  In any case, the snipping is always in your own interest.  I'm quite willing to believe, however, that the agenda may not be conscious.  I suspect it's just become second nature, and you do it without even thinking about it.  That out of the way, do you have any relevant comment on what I suggested, i.e., that we don't know enough about what MMY means to come to the conclusion, as you did, that he isn't to be trusted with children's education? LOL. You read way too much into these things. Why do you think that is? 





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread Patrick Gillam
--- Rick Archer wrote:
> 
> A friend of mine told me a very funny story 
> about being called up in front of his high 
> school class to speak when he happened to 
> have an erection. 

At what point in high school does a male *not* have an erection?






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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread Patrick Gillam
What do you guys think is the connection between 
the individual and collective consciousness? I've 
often felt that my individual evolution is in thrall 
to the collective, just as my income usually depends 
on the larger economy. 

Your remarks below consider only individual power, 
independent of collective consciousness.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> >
> > 
> > 
> > --- TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > 
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter
> > > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > > wrote:
> > > > --- Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > > > 
> > > > > But it's our work to do as
> > > > > individuals--you can't  
> > > > > really outsource your own sadhana to India.
> > > > 
> > > > Very wise words.
> > > 
> > > I noticed that, too.  Nor, IMO, can you outsource 
> > > them to a guru or a spiritual tradition to do 
> > > "for you."  We got ourselves into this karmic
> > > mess ( or illusion of a mess, if you prefer ), and 
> > > we have to get ourselves out ( or realize that there
> > > was never anything to get out of, again if you
> > > prefer :-).
> > 
> > The Shiva Sutras have a sloka(?) that specifically
> > states that you become realized only through your own
> > effort, nothing else.
> > 
> 
> Another one o' them pair-of-oxes: 
> 
> Before liberation or the full sunshine of the Self in Unity, or pick 
> your own description, we pray and exhort Gods, Godesses, and the 
> saints and Masters to deliver us from our suffering. Afterwards, we 
> are delighted we did it all by our Selves! 
> 
> Again, looking back it seems absurd that such a duality of 
> deliverance from our ignorance by someone or someGod else would be 
> preferred. After all, if we don't do it by ourselves, we can't 
> really know exactly what we have done, and by extension would 
> hypothetically remain in ignorance...
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> 
> On Dec 9, 2005, at 11:29 AM, authfriend wrote:
> 
> > How odd, you seem to have deleted what I went on
> > to say, which made it clear I wasn't questioning
> > the accepted scientific fact.
> 
> It wasn't clear to me.

Well, let's have another look, shall we?  (Since
you snipped it again.)


The "subtle confusion" LBS refers to isn't necessarily
in conflict with the principle that the younger the
better in terms of second-language acquisition. The
purported confusion may be on an entirely different
level than that of facility in a second language.

It isn't impossible that the optimal situation, in
MMY's view, is a sort of trade-off between acquiring
second-language facility and avoiding the subtle
confusion. In other words, an older child may still
be able to learn a second language well enough to
become reasonably fluent in it at a point when learning
it may no longer cause the subtle confusion.

Or maybe not. But obviously we don't know enough, on
the basis of LBS's account, to say either way.


Where in what I wrote do you see any suggestion
that I was questioning accepted scientific fact?

I repeat: I think you just *assumed*, in a knee-jerk
fashion, that I would question established scientific
fact because you have me erroneously pegged as a
"true believer" (or just hope you can convince others
to think I am).

And therefore you didn't pay much attention to the
rest of what I said.  If you had, you'd have seen
that I was actually accepting as a given that
children learn languages more easily the younger
they are.  (One hint: that's why I referred to it
as a "principle" rather than a "theory.")

> Despite repeated accusations of having some hidden agenda in the  
> quoting of your email messages, there exists no such agenda, other  
> than in your own consciousness.

Oh, goodness, it's not just *my* "email messages" (I
assume you mean posts to FFL and alt.m.t) by any means.
You even snip portions of your own earlier posts when
they might conflict with or detract from whatever you're
saying in your current post.  In any case, the snipping
is always in your own interest.

I'm quite willing to believe, however, that the
agenda may not be conscious.  I suspect it's just
become second nature, and you do it without even
thinking about it.

That out of the way, do you have any relevant comment
on what I suggested, i.e., that we don't know enough
about what MMY means to come to the conclusion, as you
did, that he isn't to be trusted with children's
education?






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Zen Cartoon

2005-12-09 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> When I was in Santa Fe, a friend who once spent a year
> studying in a Zen monastery in Kyoto showed me this
> classic Gahan Wilson cartoon. It's funny, but it's
> also just Right On, so I thought I'd share it. If 
> you're a member of FFL, this link should work for you:
> 
> http://tinyurl.com/by2xv
> 
> It's at the base level of the Photos section; if Rick
> feels the need to delete it or move it in the future,
> that's fine.
>

Funny! I haven't seen a Gahan Wilson cartoon in ages. I always 
appreciated his exceedingly dry sense of humor...

So, what's next?





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
snippage> 
> > My experience has been that as a born English speaker I found no 
> > subtle confusion when very young being introduced to a language 
of 
> > the country I was in. For example, learning Spanish in Mexico, 
> > because I heard and spoke both languages daily. I also rapidly 
> > forgot the non-English language after leaving its country of 
origin.
> 
> The question in my mind is whether the confusion MMY
> is talking about is on such a subtle level that you
> *wouldn't* detect it as such--the point being that we
> really don't know what he's referring to.

I mean no disrespect to him or to you, but if it is that subtle, 
from a practical standpoint, who cares? My benchmark for such things 
even as a child has been if it is creating undue strain, don't 
bother. On the other hand, if something seems readily available, 
take advantage of it...

Reminds me of a larger issue, sort of related to the emotional 
healing vs TM discussion. After I had been meditating for awhile and 
been exposed to all of the esoteric Indian stuff and tried some of 
it on for size, I realized that as a person of the world, with a 
finite amount of time to devote to spiritual practice, I had to use 
common sense in what I adopted vs not.

This then led to a growing sense of freedom that it was I who was 
most interested in enlightening myself, vs blindly accepting and 
following the precepts of the saints. 

It eventually made for a much more interesting journey, being 
empowered to deliberately choose from a menu of thought and practice 
what best suited my personal spiritual development.

> Until we have a clearer idea, it makes no sense to
> assume he's contradicting established scientific 
> fact.
>






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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter
> > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > wrote:
> > > --- Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > > 
> > > > But it's our work to do as
> > > > individuals--you can't  
> > > > really outsource your own sadhana to India.
> > > 
> > > Very wise words.
> > 
> > I noticed that, too.  Nor, IMO, can you outsource 
> > them to a guru or a spiritual tradition to do 
> > "for you."  We got ourselves into this karmic
> > mess ( or illusion of a mess, if you prefer ), and 
> > we have to get ourselves out ( or realize that there
> > was never anything to get out of, again if you
> > prefer :-).
> 
> The Shiva Sutras have a sloka(?) that specifically
> states that you become realized only through your own
> effort, nothing else.
> 

Another one o' them pair-of-oxes: 

Before liberation or the full sunshine of the Self in Unity, or pick 
your own description, we pray and exhort Gods, Godesses, and the 
saints and Masters to deliver us from our suffering. Afterwards, we 
are delighted we did it all by our Selves! 

Again, looking back it seems absurd that such a duality of 
deliverance from our ignorance by someone or someGod else would be 
preferred. After all, if we don't do it by ourselves, we can't 
really know exactly what we have done, and by extension would 
hypothetically remain in ignorance...







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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread Vaj


On Dec 9, 2005, at 11:29 AM, authfriend wrote:How odd, you seem to have deleted what I went on to say, which made it clear I wasn't questioning the accepted scientific fact. It wasn't clear to me.Despite repeated accusations of having some hidden agenda in the quoting of your email messages, there exists no such agenda, other than in your own consciousness.DISCLAIMER: The above message contains material quoted from another, longer, message. This is done for the sake of conciseness and brevity. Any perceived other reason is solely the responsibility of the reader. Any similarity to email messages existing or deleted is purely coincidental. Any reading of the message/email, or clipping/cut-&-pasting/ or verbal repetition of  message/email constitutes acceptance of the terms of this disclaimer.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> > > > On Dec 8, 2005, at 4:51 PM, L B Shriver wrote:
> > > > 
> > > > > I have found it interesting that at MSAE Maharishi doesn't 
> > > > > allow 2nd language acquisition at the younger age (he may 
> make 
> > > > > an exception for Sanskrit) because he claims that for the
> > > > > youngster to speak something other than the "mother tongue" 
> > > > > creates some subtle kind of confusion—even though, as you 
> note, 
> > > > > it is the ideal time for language acquistion.
> > > > >
> > > > > Does anyone have more precise information on this?
> > > > 
> > > > I asked my wife who has a masters in Infant development. Do 
it 
> > > > BEFORE elementary school.
> > > > 
> > > > Would you trust *your* children to Mahesh's theories?
> > > 
> > > Would you trust rumors that may not ahve any basis in fact in 
> order 
> > > to pass judgement on someone?
> > 
> > Even if it's true as stated by LBS, to decide not to
> > trust one's children to MMY because his "theories" are
> > not the same as those of someone who has a master's in
> > infant development is a knee-jerk, thoughtless
> > conclusion.
> > 
> > The "subtle confusion" LBS refers to isn't necessarily
> > in conflict with the principle that the younger the
> > better in terms of second-language acquisition.  The
> > purported confusion may be on an entirely different
> > level than that of facility in a second language.
> > 
> > It isn't impossible that the optimal situation, in
> > MMY's view, is a sort of trade-off between acquiring
> > second-language facility and avoiding the subtle
> > confusion.  In other words, an older child may still
> > be able to learn a second language well enough to 
> > become reasonably fluent in it at a point when learning
> > it may no longer cause the subtle confusion.
> > 
> > Or maybe not.  But obviously we don't know enough, on
> > the basis of LBS's account, to say either way.
> 
> My experience has been that as a born English speaker I found no 
> subtle confusion when very young being introduced to a language of 
> the country I was in. For example, learning Spanish in Mexico, 
> because I heard and spoke both languages daily. I also rapidly 
> forgot the non-English language after leaving its country of origin.

The question in my mind is whether the confusion MMY
is talking about is on such a subtle level that you
*wouldn't* detect it as such--the point being that we
really don't know what he's referring to.

Until we have a clearer idea, it makes no sense to
assume he's contradicting established scientific 
fact.







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> 
> On Dec 9, 2005, at 10:49 AM, authfriend wrote:
> 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> >
> >> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> >>
> >>> On Dec 8, 2005, at 4:51 PM, L B Shriver wrote:
> >>>
> >>>
>  I have found it interesting that at MSAE Maharishi doesn't
>  allow 2nd language acquisition at the younger age (he may make
>  an exception for Sanskrit) because he claims that for the
>  youngster to speak something other than the "mother tongue"
>  creates some subtle kind of confusion—even though, as you note,
>  it is the ideal time for language acquistion.
> 
>  Does anyone have more precise information on this?
> 
> >>>
> >>> I asked my wife who has a masters in Infant development. Do it
> >>> BEFORE elementary school.
> >>>
> >>> Would you trust *your* children to Mahesh's theories?
> >>
> >> Would you trust rumors that may not ahve any basis in fact in 
> >> order to pass judgement on someone?
> >
> > Even if it's true as stated by LBS, to decide not to
> > trust one's children to MMY because his "theories" are
> > not the same as those of someone who has a master's in
> > infant development is a knee-jerk, thoughtless
> > conclusion.
> 
> It really has nothing to do with a degree or any reaction but that  
> this an accepted scientific fact.

How odd, you seem to have deleted what I went on
to say, which made it clear I wasn't questioning
the accepted scientific fact.

I'm sure it was inadvertent.  You read the first
paragraph of my response, jumped to the erroneous
conclusion that I was disputing the science, and
decided the rest of what I said must be more of the
same and could therefore be ignored.

Here, let me give you another chance to read what
you snipped, so you can take a stab at making a
relevant response:

The "subtle confusion" LBS refers to isn't necessarily
in conflict with the principle that the younger the
better in terms of second-language acquisition. The
purported confusion may be on an entirely different
level than that of facility in a second language.

It isn't impossible that the optimal situation, in
MMY's view, is a sort of trade-off between acquiring
second-language facility and avoiding the subtle
confusion. In other words, an older child may still
be able to learn a second language well enough to
become reasonably fluent in it at a point when learning
it may no longer cause the subtle confusion.

Or maybe not. But obviously we don't know enough, on
the basis of LBS's account, to say either way.






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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Marek Reavis" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> Comment below:
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> **SNIP** 
> > 
> > Tom has arranged for a $50,000 legal retainer to sue
> > Ben the lier.  If Ben posts a fully apologitic statement in 
which he
> > admits in every line that he, and not Tom was wrong and he 
apologizes
> > for wrongfully accusing Tom for it in an unambiguous, convincing,
> > non-finger pointing way, the suit will not be filed.  Any hint 
that
> > he's being insincere and Tom will see Ben in Court.  If Ben posts
> > anything to Fairfield life on any subject becept a convincing  
apology
> > and  agreement that he is a flake, the lawsuit against Ben will 
be
> > filed and a few days later Ben will receive his subpoena.  Tom 
doesn't
> > want to stiffle Ben's freedom of speach.  But he doesn't want to 
read
> > the words of a lier who reprements himself as totally innocent 
of any
> > wrong doing.  The lawyers will prove otherwise.  Tom has more 
money
> > set aside for more prosecuition, counter suits and to fight 
malicious,
> > frivilous law suits against him.  He's also got every email Ben 
ever
> > sent to him, notes of every phone conversation, every email he 
ever
> > sent to Ben or others about Ben.  Some of it will curl your hair.
> > 
> **SNIP TO END**
> 
> Tom,
> 
> $50k is quite a large retainer to sue a private individual for
> defamation and libel.  And from what I've read of Ben's posts, and 
as
> a lawyer (albeit one who doesn't get $50k retainers), I don't see 
how
> you'd make a case.  Your suit would likely be considered frivolous.
> 
> Perhaps the people who have hurt you in your life did so because 
they
> were radiating the hurt and ignorance in their own.  To whatever
> degree that is true, it certainly doesn't minimize or mitigate the
> pain and suffering that you have endured and continue to wrestle 
with.
>  But the expansion of misery and suffering to others can't 
diminish or
> resolve your own.  I'm sure you know that.
> 
> Why not use your legal fund to establish some foundation or project
> that serves to alleviate suffering rather than increase it.  If 
Ben is
> the scoundrel you know him to be, why not let him reap the
> consequences of his behavior without enmeshing you in it, too?  If
> Nature is due to deliver Ben the consequences of his bad karma you
> don't have to volunteer to be the carrier of that karmic delivery.
> 
> That's just a response to what you've written and, as you know 
from a
> previous post of mine, I do not share your opinion of Ben.  But, 
then
> perhaps you know more of him than I.  Or perhaps you're wrong in 
your
> evaluation of his character.  I don't know all the details (not do 
I
> think it's necessary that I need to); but solely as a human being 
who
> cares about others and prefers to see the expansion of happiness
> rather than the converse, I'd ask you to consider this response to
> your posting as a sincere and candid reaction from your 
environment to
> what you are projecting into it.
> 
> Thanks for taking the time to consider this.
> 
> Marek
>

Bravo! Thank you- excellently stated!





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> > > On Dec 8, 2005, at 4:51 PM, L B Shriver wrote:
> > > 
> > > > I have found it interesting that at MSAE Maharishi doesn't 
> > > > allow 2nd language acquisition at the younger age (he may 
make 
> > > > an exception for Sanskrit) because he claims that for the
> > > > youngster to speak something other than the "mother tongue" 
> > > > creates some subtle kind of confusion—even though, as you 
note, 
> > > > it is the ideal time for language acquistion.
> > > >
> > > > Does anyone have more precise information on this?
> > > 
> > > I asked my wife who has a masters in Infant development. Do it 
> > > BEFORE elementary school.
> > > 
> > > Would you trust *your* children to Mahesh's theories?
> > 
> > Would you trust rumors that may not ahve any basis in fact in 
order 
> > to pass judgement on someone?
> 
> Even if it's true as stated by LBS, to decide not to
> trust one's children to MMY because his "theories" are
> not the same as those of someone who has a master's in
> infant development is a knee-jerk, thoughtless
> conclusion.
> 
> The "subtle confusion" LBS refers to isn't necessarily
> in conflict with the principle that the younger the
> better in terms of second-language acquisition.  The
> purported confusion may be on an entirely different
> level than that of facility in a second language.
> 
> It isn't impossible that the optimal situation, in
> MMY's view, is a sort of trade-off between acquiring
> second-language facility and avoiding the subtle
> confusion.  In other words, an older child may still
> be able to learn a second language well enough to 
> become reasonably fluent in it at a point when learning
> it may no longer cause the subtle confusion.
> 
> Or maybe not.  But obviously we don't know enough, on
> the basis of LBS's account, to say either way.
>

My experience has been that as a born English speaker I found no 
subtle confusion when very young being introduced to a language of 
the country I was in. For example, learning Spanish in Mexico, 
because I heard and spoke both languages daily. I also rapidly 
forgot the non-English language after leaving its country of origin. 






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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread Marek Reavis
Comment below:

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
**SNIP** 
> 
> Tom has arranged for a $50,000 legal retainer to sue
> Ben the lier.  If Ben posts a fully apologitic statement in which he
> admits in every line that he, and not Tom was wrong and he apologizes
> for wrongfully accusing Tom for it in an unambiguous, convincing,
> non-finger pointing way, the suit will not be filed.  Any hint that
> he's being insincere and Tom will see Ben in Court.  If Ben posts
> anything to Fairfield life on any subject becept a convincing  apology
> and  agreement that he is a flake, the lawsuit against Ben will be
> filed and a few days later Ben will receive his subpoena.  Tom doesn't
> want to stiffle Ben's freedom of speach.  But he doesn't want to read
> the words of a lier who reprements himself as totally innocent of any
> wrong doing.  The lawyers will prove otherwise.  Tom has more money
> set aside for more prosecuition, counter suits and to fight malicious,
> frivilous law suits against him.  He's also got every email Ben ever
> sent to him, notes of every phone conversation, every email he ever
> sent to Ben or others about Ben.  Some of it will curl your hair.
> 
**SNIP TO END**

Tom,

$50k is quite a large retainer to sue a private individual for
defamation and libel.  And from what I've read of Ben's posts, and as
a lawyer (albeit one who doesn't get $50k retainers), I don't see how
you'd make a case.  Your suit would likely be considered frivolous.

Perhaps the people who have hurt you in your life did so because they
were radiating the hurt and ignorance in their own.  To whatever
degree that is true, it certainly doesn't minimize or mitigate the
pain and suffering that you have endured and continue to wrestle with.
 But the expansion of misery and suffering to others can't diminish or
resolve your own.  I'm sure you know that.

Why not use your legal fund to establish some foundation or project
that serves to alleviate suffering rather than increase it.  If Ben is
the scoundrel you know him to be, why not let him reap the
consequences of his behavior without enmeshing you in it, too?  If
Nature is due to deliver Ben the consequences of his bad karma you
don't have to volunteer to be the carrier of that karmic delivery.

That's just a response to what you've written and, as you know from a
previous post of mine, I do not share your opinion of Ben.  But, then
perhaps you know more of him than I.  Or perhaps you're wrong in your
evaluation of his character.  I don't know all the details (not do I
think it's necessary that I need to); but solely as a human being who
cares about others and prefers to see the expansion of happiness
rather than the converse, I'd ask you to consider this response to
your posting as a sincere and candid reaction from your environment to
what you are projecting into it.

Thanks for taking the time to consider this.

Marek






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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- lurkernomore20002000 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> wrote:
> 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff
> > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > wrote:
> > 
> > > 
> > > Damning Tom once again.  He's not a survivor who's
> > getting over.  
> > He's
> > > forever damned because his emotional development
> > was arrested at 
> > the
> > > time of
> > abuse..
> > 
> > snip
> > 
> > Yes, you're right. It's not polite to treat someone
> > like a 
> > psychological specimen to be prodded and analyzed. 
> > Yet he does not 
> > read the posts, so I just speculated some.  I would
> > be interested to 
> > see an example of something which demonstrates
> > slander or fraud on 
> > the part of Ben Collins(?).  I mean everthing I've
> > seen posted by 
> > Ben seemed pretty balanced.  What am I missing or
> > mis-interpreting.  
> > It sounds like there must be ample instances. 
> > Thanks.
> > 
> > lurk
> 
> Ample evidence supporting Tom's rage can be found in
> his imagination.
> 
Agreed. I will say again that I thought it was a brave thing for Tom 
to openly post details of his childhood trauma. Such an action can 
sometimes be helpful for empowerment and to destigmatize  
victimizing event.

However, instead of then taking a breath of fresh air and getting on 
with life, he squanders his equity by trashing others. Aside from 
finding it annoying and disruptive, it doesn't help Tom in the 
slightest.   





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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread Vaj


On Dec 9, 2005, at 10:49 AM, authfriend wrote:--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: On Dec 8, 2005, at 4:51 PM, L B Shriver wrote:  I have found it interesting that at MSAE Maharishi doesn't  allow 2nd language acquisition at the younger age (he may make  an exception for Sanskrit) because he claims that for the youngster to speak something other than the "mother tongue"  creates some subtle kind of confusion—even though, as you note,  it is the ideal time for language acquistion.  Does anyone have more precise information on this?  I asked my wife who has a masters in Infant development. Do it  BEFORE elementary school.  Would you trust *your* children to Mahesh's theories?  Would you trust rumors that may not ahve any basis in fact in order  to pass judgement on someone?  Even if it's true as stated by LBS, to decide not to trust one's children to MMY because his "theories" are not the same as those of someone who has a master's in infant development is a knee-jerk, thoughtless conclusion. It really has nothing to do with a degree or any reaction but that this an accepted scientific fact.Take it or leave it, it doesn't really matter to me.On a separate note I do know a number of yogis who used sadhana to help with knowledge acquisition and retention, often with great effect. Typically sadhanas of Jupiterian deities are of wonderful assistance. Now with growing recognition of neuroplasticity and the fact that the neural hardware tends to morph itself to the consciousness of the person--old neural pathways are not written in stone. This is wonderful news for education, recovery from abuse/addictions or criminal rehabilitation. Reminds me of a movie where criminals were put in suspended animation instead of jail and their neural-pathways "retrained" using computers linked the body-hardware (i.e. the brain/nervous system). 





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[FairfieldLife] Keeping Things Quiet (was Re: Hurdy Gurdy Man revealed)

2005-12-09 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > What's strange is that I forgot to mention 
> > > > > > > > codependency.
> > > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > > Thanks for reminding me.
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > Thanks for providing my morning chuckle, Vaj.  :-)
> > > > > > 
> > > > > > Says the comrade-in-arms while chuckling over jokes made 
> > > > > > at the expense of someone with suspected and/or 
diagnosed  
> > > > > > mental problems.
> > > > > 
> > > > > Lighten up, Lawson.  I was not laughing at the recent
> > > > > jibes made here about your medical condition, and do
> > > > > not support them.  I was laughing at Judy's compulsive
> > > > > rush to "defend" one of the people she views as a 
> > > > > "comrade-in-arms" and supporter.  The 'codependency'
> > > > > Vaj jokes about is on her side, not yours.  I found
> > > > > it funny, that's all.
> > > > 
> > > > Actually, I took it as a jibe at me since "co"-dependency 
> > > > is, well, a two-way street.
> > > > 
> > > > You can't have a single person be "co"-dependent.
> > > 
> > > You are correct, of course. I was just chuckling
> > > at the 'dependency' Vaj nailed in someone who has
> > > made an Internet 'career' out of trying to convince
> > > others that she's "right" and that they pretty much
> > > have to agree with her. Once she recruits someone
> > > into the position of agreeing with her fairly consis-
> > > tently
> > 
> > In other words, *Lawson* is the co-dependent, the
> > one who is manipulated and controlled (or the "toady,"
> > as Barry is fond of putting it).
> 
> No, exactly backwards.  As you keep saying, you might
> learn to read. I was suggesting that *you* are dependent
> on the people whom you feel agree with you.

You can suggest anything you like.  I'm just pointing
out that that isn't what "co-dependent" means.  A co-
dependent is someone who is manipulated by another
person with a personality disorder.  Only if you're
claiming Lawson is the one doing the manipulating could
you properly call me the co-dependent.  If I'm the
manipulator, then Lawson is the co-dependent.

> I was sug-
> gesting that (IMO, of course) it seems to give you
> some feeling of comfort to know that people agree 
> with you or that you have been successful in convincing
> them that you are right,

I suspect the vast majority of people feel more
comfortable with agreement than disagreement.

 and when that happens, you
> form a protective relationship with them, compulsively
> rushing in to "protect" them whenever they get into a
> challenging discussion. I could be wrong about this,
> but it's my honest opinion after watching your behavior
> for years.

Yeah, you're wrong about this.  As I said, I support
those I feel are being unfairly attacked, whether I
agree with them or not.

> Lawson does NOT need your "protection."

Has nothing to do with "protection."  It has to do
with standing up for what I feel is right, i.e.,
fairness.  Not something you'd understand, of course.


> I really don't believe that my point of view is "right."
> It's just my point of view.  It changes daily, if not
> more often.  If your point of view or someone else's
> differs from mine, I think that's OK, and I'm going
> to try my best to not get involved in discussions that
> seem to be oriented towards proving the superiority of
> one point of view and the inferiority of the other.
> That strikes me as terribly lowvibe and not worthy of
> someone who has spent as long on a spiritual path as
> I have or as you have.  If you still get off on such
> things, I wish you well with it, but I really don't
> want to get involved any more.

  Be interesting to know exactly how many times
you've made this vow.  Between FFL and alt.m.t, it's
surely up to the several dozens by now.






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > On Dec 8, 2005, at 4:51 PM, L B Shriver wrote:
> > 
> > > I have found it interesting that at MSAE Maharishi doesn't 
> > > allow 2nd language acquisition at the younger age (he may make 
> > > an exception for Sanskrit) because he claims that for the
> > > youngster to speak something other than the "mother tongue" 
> > > creates some subtle kind of confusion—even though, as you note, 
> > > it is the ideal time for language acquistion.
> > >
> > > Does anyone have more precise information on this?
> > 
> > I asked my wife who has a masters in Infant development. Do it 
> > BEFORE elementary school.
> > 
> > Would you trust *your* children to Mahesh's theories?
> 
> Would you trust rumors that may not ahve any basis in fact in order 
> to pass judgement on someone?

Even if it's true as stated by LBS, to decide not to
trust one's children to MMY because his "theories" are
not the same as those of someone who has a master's in
infant development is a knee-jerk, thoughtless
conclusion.

The "subtle confusion" LBS refers to isn't necessarily
in conflict with the principle that the younger the
better in terms of second-language acquisition.  The
purported confusion may be on an entirely different
level than that of facility in a second language.

It isn't impossible that the optimal situation, in
MMY's view, is a sort of trade-off between acquiring
second-language facility and avoiding the subtle
confusion.  In other words, an older child may still
be able to learn a second language well enough to 
become reasonably fluent in it at a point when learning
it may no longer cause the subtle confusion.

Or maybe not.  But obviously we don't know enough, on
the basis of LBS's account, to say either way.






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[FairfieldLife] Keeping Things Quiet (was Re: Hurdy Gurdy Man r

2005-12-09 Thread tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis
TorquiseB writes: Big snipperino
That strikes me as terribly lowvibe and not worthy of
someone who has spent as long on a spiritual path as
I have or as you have.  If you still get off on such
things, I wish you well with it, but I really don't
want to get involved any more.

Tom T responds:
Thank you Thank you thank you. Spoken like a true Buddhist. We all
appreciate your comments but the war seemed silly in light of what you
said. Now congruence in thought and action. Bravo!. Love Tom T







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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread Rick Archer
on 12/9/05 5:01 AM, TurquoiseB at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
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>> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
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>> 
>>> It *was* kinda embarrassing; I had to buy some baggy
>>> pants for the duration. Fortunately I was on vacation
>>> and not doing training classes at the time, otherwise
>>> the students would've been making snide comments about
>>> my new "laser pointer."  :-)
>>> 
>>> But at least now I know the secret of Billy and Mick's
>>> onstage charisma.
>> 
>> When I'm not sleeping (I assume) and am rounding, the laser
>> pointer is almost ever present.  One of Nature's little
>> impractacle jokes, I suspose.
> 
> Having a laser pointer with the button stuck in the ON
> position is actually not that unusual for men who are
> engaging in extended periods of meditation, in my
> experience.  Kundalini awakening, and all that.

A friend of mine told me a very funny story about being called up in front
of his high school class to speak when he happened to have an erection. It
was hilarious as he told it.




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[FairfieldLife] Keeping Things Quiet (was Re: Hurdy Gurdy Man revealed)

2005-12-09 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > wrote:
[Vaj wrote:]
> > > > > > > > What's strange is that I forgot to mention 
> > > > > > > > codependency.
> > > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > > Thanks for reminding me.
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > Thanks for providing my morning chuckle, Vaj.  :-)
> > > > > > 
> > > > > > Says the comrade-in-arms while chuckling over jokes made 
> > > > > > at the expense of someone with suspected and/or diagnosed 
> > > > > > mental problems.
> > > > > 
> > > > > Lighten up, Lawson.  I was not laughing at the recent
> > > > > jibes made here about your medical condition, and do
> > > > > not support them.  I was laughing at Judy's compulsive
> > > > > rush to "defend" one of the people she views as a 
> > > > > "comrade-in-arms" and supporter.  The 'codependency'
> > > > > Vaj jokes about is on her side, not yours.  I found
> > > > > it funny, that's all.
> > > > 
> > > > Actually, I took it as a jibe at me since "co"-dependency 
> > > > is, well, a two-way street.
> > > > 
> > > > You can't have a single person be "co"-dependent.
> > > 
> > > You are correct, of course. I was just chuckling
> > > at the 'dependency' Vaj nailed in someone who has
> > > made an Internet 'career' out of trying to convince
> > > others that she's "right" and that they pretty much
> > > have to agree with her. Once she recruits someone
> > > into the position of agreeing with her fairly consis-
> > > tently
> > 
> > In other words, *Lawson* is the co-dependent, the
> > one who is manipulated and controlled (or the "toady,"
> > as Barry is fond of putting it).
> 
> That's pretty much what I thought (and still think) was implied.

I don't think either Barry or Vaj were implying it.
They both meant to take a slam at me, not you, and
were in too much of a hurry to do so to bother to
think about what "co-dependency" actually means.

Typical.






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[FairfieldLife] Closing FFL

2005-12-09 Thread dhamiltony2k5
So, they are trying to close FFL.

The irony is that if Maharishi or Bevan or John were not doing girls 
while trying to hold everybody else to a double-standard of 'dignity' 
this list would not need to be closed to minors.  Truth and 
consequent?   

You've reached an Age-Restricted Area of Yahoo! Groups

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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread Peter


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> > --- Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > 
> > > But it's our work to do as
> > > individuals--you can't  
> > > really outsource your own sadhana to India.
> > 
> > Very wise words.
> 
> I noticed that, too.  Nor, IMO, can you outsource 
> them to a guru or a spiritual tradition to do 
> "for you."  We got ourselves into this karmic
> mess ( or illusion of a mess, if you prefer ), and
> we have to get ourselves out ( or realize that there
> was never anything to get out of, again if you
> prefer :-).

The Shiva Sutras have a sloka(?) that specifically
states that you become realized only through your own
effort, nothing else.



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[FairfieldLife] Re: YF, etc, and mantras?

2005-12-09 Thread cardemaister
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> 
> On Dec 9, 2005, at 8:35 AM, cardemaister wrote:
> 
> > akaasha-gamana space-going (yogic flying)
> 
> Is akaaza-gamana a hidden allusion to the khechari-mudra--the secret  
> process of drinking soma?

Have no idea, but a related word "aakaasha-ga" means 'bird'.

> 
> ...and aNimaa the improved subtlety of consciousness thereby  
> experienced?

aNimaa is one of the eight mahaa-siddhis:

1 aNiman %{a} m. (fr. %{aNu} q.v.) , minuteness , fineness , thinness 
S3Br. &c. ; meagreness ; atomic nature , the superhuman power of 
becoming as small as an atom , (%{a4Niman}) n. the smallest particle 
S3Br.  

(the form "aNiman" is the inflectional stem of the word 
whose nominative singular is "aNimaa"; it's derived
from the noun "aNu" which means e.g. 'atom'.)






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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> --- Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 
> > But it's our work to do as
> > individuals--you can't  
> > really outsource your own sadhana to India.
> 
> Very wise words.

I noticed that, too.  Nor, IMO, can you outsource 
them to a guru or a spiritual tradition to do 
"for you."  We got ourselves into this karmic
mess ( or illusion of a mess, if you prefer ), and
we have to get ourselves out ( or realize that there
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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread Peter


--- Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> But it's our work to do as
> individuals--you can't  
> really outsource your own sadhana to India.

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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread Peter


--- lurkernomore20002000 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
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> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff
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> wrote:
> 
> > 
> > Damning Tom once again.  He's not a survivor who's
> getting over.  
> He's
> > forever damned because his emotional development
> was arrested at 
> the
> > time of
> abuse..
> 
> snip
> 
> Yes, you're right. It's not polite to treat someone
> like a 
> psychological specimen to be prodded and analyzed. 
> Yet he does not 
> read the posts, so I just speculated some.  I would
> be interested to 
> see an example of something which demonstrates
> slander or fraud on 
> the part of Ben Collins(?).  I mean everthing I've
> seen posted by 
> Ben seemed pretty balanced.  What am I missing or
> mis-interpreting.  
> It sounds like there must be ample instances. 
> Thanks.
> 
> lurk

Ample evidence supporting Tom's rage can be found in
his imagination.



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Re: [FairfieldLife] YF, etc, and mantras?

2005-12-09 Thread Vaj


On Dec 9, 2005, at 8:35 AM, cardemaister wrote:akaasha-gamana space-going (yogic flying)Is akaaza-gamana a hidden allusion to the khechari-mudra--the secret process of drinking soma?...and aNimaa the improved subtlety of consciousness thereby experienced?





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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread lurkernomore20002000
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:

> 
> Damning Tom once again.  He's not a survivor who's getting over.  
He's
> forever damned because his emotional development was arrested at 
the
> time of abuse..

snip

Yes, you're right. It's not polite to treat someone like a 
psychological specimen to be prodded and analyzed.  Yet he does not 
read the posts, so I just speculated some.  I would be interested to 
see an example of something which demonstrates slander or fraud on 
the part of Ben Collins(?).  I mean everthing I've seen posted by 
Ben seemed pretty balanced.  What am I missing or mis-interpreting.  
It sounds like there must be ample instances.  Thanks.

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[FairfieldLife] YF, etc, and mantras?

2005-12-09 Thread cardemaister

The third sentence(?) of BaadaraayaNa's (?aka Veda-vyaasa's, KRSNa
Dvaipaayana's, who is thought to be the author of Vedaanta-suutras aka
Brahma-suutras aka Shaariiraka-suutras) commentary on YS IV 1 goes 
like this:

mantrairaakaashagamanaaNimaadilaabhaH

 without sandhi prolly like this:

mantraiH; aakaasha-gamana; aNimaa-aadi -laabhaH

mantraiH  by (or whatever is the most best
 preposition hereabouts) mantras
akaasha-gamana space-going (yogic flying)
aNimaadi (aNimaa-aadi) aNimaa, etc: the eight
 mahaa-siddhis (aNimaa, mahimaa, garimaa, laghimaa...)
laabhaH achievement (~they [YF and the 8] are achieved)

It's interesting that BaadaraayaNa, the author
of Vedaanta-suutras ("etena yogaH pratyuktaH", [by this
{paatañjala-}yoga is refuted]) specifically mentions
YF here. 

Ouch, I'm running out, or stuff, of brackets... :0






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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread Vaj


On Dec 9, 2005, at 7:49 AM, sparaig wrote:--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:   On Dec 9, 2005, at 3:36 AM, sparaig wrote:  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:On Dec 8, 2005, at 4:51 PM, L B Shriver wrote:   I have found it interesting that at MSAE Maharishi doesn't allow 2nd language acquisition at the younger age (he may make an exception for Sanskrit)  because  he claims that for the youngster to speak something other than the "mother tongue"  creates  some subtle kind of confusion—even though, as you note, it is the ideal time for language acquistion.  Does anyone have more precise information on this?  L B S   I asked my wife who has a masters in Infant development. Do it  BEFORE  elementary school.  Would you trust *your* children to Mahesh's theories?Would you trust rumors that may not ahve any basis in fact in  order to pass judgement on someone?  "Believe nothing merely because you have been told it. Do not  believe   what your teacher tells you merely out of respect for the teacher.   But whatsoever, after due examination and analysis, you find to be   kind, conducive to the good, the benefit, the welfare of all  beings   -- that doctrine believe and cling to, and take it as your guide."   Was that directed to me, or to you? Anyone.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
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> 
> On Dec 9, 2005, at 3:36 AM, sparaig wrote:
> 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> >
> >>
> >>
> >> On Dec 8, 2005, at 4:51 PM, L B Shriver wrote:
> >>
> >>
> >>> I have found it interesting that at MSAE Maharishi doesn't allow
> >>> 2nd language acquisition
> >>> at the younger age (he may make an exception for Sanskrit)
> >>>
> > because
> >
> >>> he claims that for the
> >>> youngster to speak something other than the "mother tongue"
> >>>
> > creates
> >
> >>> some subtle kind of
> >>> confusion—even though, as you note, it is the ideal time for
> >>> language acquistion.
> >>>
> >>> Does anyone have more precise information on this?
> >>>
> >>> L B S
> >>>
> >>
> >> I asked my wife who has a masters in Infant development. Do it
> >>
> > BEFORE
> >
> >> elementary school.
> >>
> >> Would you trust *your* children to Mahesh's theories?
> >>
> >>
> >
> > Would you trust rumors that may not ahve any basis in fact in 
order
> > to pass judgement on someone?
> 
> "Believe nothing merely because you have been told it. Do not 
believe  
> what your teacher tells you merely out of respect for the teacher.  
> But whatsoever, after due examination and analysis, you find to be  
> kind, conducive to the good, the benefit, the welfare of all 
beings  
> -- that doctrine believe and cling to, and take it as your guide."
>

Was that directed to me, or to you?






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[FairfieldLife] Was:The supposed "Emotional Healing" of Tom Pall, Now: Pity Party

2005-12-09 Thread Peter


--- Tom Pall <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "bostonbob53"
> <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > 
> > I'm sorry, but I just don't get it.  Anon or Tom
> Pall, these posts are
> > obviously his. What the hell?  Does he think he's
> fooling anyone or
> > that anyone still cares?   
> 
> They still care enought to attack him.  To state
> categorically that he
> is forever doomed because development stops when
> abuse begins.

Your ridiculous pity party is becoming absurd,Tom.
Everybody is sorry that some really nasty shit
happened to you growing up, but to play it over and
over again in order to justify your rage towards
others is getting very old, very quickly. And these
inferences you come up with from others' posts that
you turn into statements that you then claim they made
against you is asinine. Butch up, man. Deal with your
shit, don't pathetically smear it all over a
newsgroup. You need professional help to deal with
your past trauma. No amount of yagyas will help you as
evidenced by your posts! Yeah, I know. You have
contacted the authorities, my employer and have
lawyers on retainer that will sue me for everything.  


> My guess is that Tom wants to have the last
> > word and even up all his imagined slights.  So
> okay Tom.  You win.  We
> > all love you.  Happy now?
> >
> 
> That is absolutely what Tom wants.  He wants sincere
> apologies from
> the people who derided him over and over.  He want a
> detailed, sincere
> apology from the "Dr." who said that Tom would
> always be his nigah.

You stupid liar. I said no such thing and you know it.
GROW UP baby boy.

 
> Tom is working day and night to get FFL deleted.  He
> wants the slams
> made against him and encouraged by others undone. 
> He'll eventuall
> shame the hatemongers into apologizing or better
> yet, make FFL not be
> there when you next go to visit it.  So he won't
> have to see more
> ganging up against him to slam him for the fun of
> it.

You are a pathetic whiner. If you don't like FFL, then
LEAVE. Nobody is making you stay, are they?

> 
> And he wants the "So okay Tom. You win.  We all love
> you.  Happy now?
> turned into sincere words.  Not of "we love you" but
> "we've been some
> really immature louts".  If it's too tedious for you
> to do so, then
> just keep your wise ass "Happy now?" comments out of
> it.  You have
> added to the flames.  Happy now?

Why do you continue the abuse, Tom? You set
yourself-up so people post comments like the one I'm
making and the emotional abuse continues. Ever heard
of a repetition compulsion? You interact with people
to draw out their ire and then you scream "Foul!
Unfair! Look how horrible people are towards me! I was
abused!" You really need help. You don't need to
act-out your rage in a newsgroup. Good bye. Go. Leave.
Nobody cares anymore. Go crap on somebody else. We're
no longer interested. Have someone else change your
dirty diaper. Pathetic. Are you happy now that I've
posted this? Isn't a post such as this exactly what
you want so you can now pout and become outraged
against the injustice of these comments? Look at what
you're doing. But unfortunately the odds of that are
the same as the pundits arriving.


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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread Vaj


On Dec 9, 2005, at 4:09 AM, anonymousff wrote:You're assuming that Tom is just wrath. No, not at all. Just that he had possible anger issues. In any event, it helpful for *anyone* to be able to integrate the movement of thought with the calm, transcendent state irregardless of what individual issues we might have. For that, wrathful mantra is a great friend. IMO TMSP will just exacerbate issues. YMMV.Bottom line: it's pretty standard that if you do mantra-japa as your sadhana to do at least a quarter of that japa to a fire or flame. Make offerings that please your devata. That's the simplest yajna you can do. Self yajna. But it's our work to do as individuals--you can't really outsource your own sadhana to India.





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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread Vaj


On Dec 9, 2005, at 3:36 AM, sparaig wrote:--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:   On Dec 8, 2005, at 4:51 PM, L B Shriver wrote:  I have found it interesting that at MSAE Maharishi doesn't allow   2nd language acquisition at the younger age (he may make an exception for Sanskrit)  because   he claims that for the youngster to speak something other than the "mother tongue"  creates   some subtle kind of confusion—even though, as you note, it is the ideal time for   language acquistion.  Does anyone have more precise information on this?  L B S  I asked my wife who has a masters in Infant development. Do it  BEFORE   elementary school.  Would you trust *your* children to Mahesh's theories?   Would you trust rumors that may not ahve any basis in fact in order  to pass judgement on someone? "Believe nothing merely because you have been told it. Do not believe what your teacher tells you merely out of respect for the teacher. But whatsoever, after due examination and analysis, you find to be kind, conducive to the good, the benefit, the welfare of all beings -- that doctrine believe and cling to, and take it as your guide." 





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Re: [FairfieldLife] Shuurangama suutra

2005-12-09 Thread Vaj


On Dec 9, 2005, at 2:52 AM, cardemaister wrote:Anyone read Shuurangama suutra? I read a couple  of pages. It felt rather boring. Skip to last section on the 50 Demonic states of consciousness. They're the rage in FF!See:http://homepage.mac.com/vajranatha/FileSharing2.html





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[FairfieldLife] Zen Cartoon

2005-12-09 Thread TurquoiseB
When I was in Santa Fe, a friend who once spent a year
studying in a Zen monastery in Kyoto showed me this
classic Gahan Wilson cartoon. It's funny, but it's
also just Right On, so I thought I'd share it. If 
you're a member of FFL, this link should work for you:

http://tinyurl.com/by2xv

It's at the base level of the Photos section; if Rick
feels the need to delete it or move it in the future,
that's fine.








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[FairfieldLife] Re: Visit to a Third World nation

2005-12-09 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, gullible fool <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> 
> The Hub is the center of the universe. The great city
> of Boston.
> 
> http://www.gethep.net/road/hub.html

That's just an feeling you have because in Boston
no one will let you out of a traffic roundabout once
you've gotten into one, so you have the illusion
of being at the center of things.  :-)  :-)  :-)

> --- TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer 
> > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > > on 12/7/05 4:00 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] at
> > [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
> > > > In a message dated 12/7/05 12:22:13 P.M. Central
> > Standard Time,
> > > > [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
> > > > 
> > > Have you and conservatives in general always
> > disliked the 
> > > French or is that just fashionable now because
> > they wouldn¹t 
> > > join this war?
> > 
> > *Everyone* has *always* disliked the French.  :-)
> > And with reason.  The Bushies just tried to make
> > it patriotic to do what everyone was already doing.
> > 
> > The French are a trying lot, and I live here and
> > love them dearly.  My favorite metaphor for the
> > mindset that raises hackles in other countries is
> > a stone set in the ground in front of the cathedral
> > of Notre Dame in Paris.  It's called 'Point Zero.'
> > From the medieval period onwards, every French 
> > measurement of distance in the world was made from 
> > that stone.  London was so many kilometers away from
> > Point Zero, Cairo was so many kilometers away from
> > Point Zero, and so on.  Basically, it's a way of
> > saying that France (and thus the French) are at the
> > center of the universe, and that everything revolves
> > around them.  Is it any wonder that such an attitude
> > occasionally inspires resistance in other peoples?
> > 
> > Now consider the TM movement, which obviously feels
> > the same way about itself and its True Believers,
> > and you might begin to understand why some people
> > have some resistance to its gawdawful self-important
> > posturing.  :-)






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[FairfieldLife] Keeping Things Quiet (was Re: Hurdy Gurdy Man revealed)

2005-12-09 Thread TurquoiseB
> > > > > > > What's strange is that I forgot to mention 
> > > > > > > codependency.
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > Thanks for reminding me.
> > > > > > 
> > > > > > Thanks for providing my morning chuckle, Vaj.  :-)
> > > > > 
> > > > > Says the comrade-in-arms while chuckling over jokes made 
> > > > > at the expense of someone with suspected and/or diagnosed  
> > > > > mental problems.
> > > > 
> > > > Lighten up, Lawson.  I was not laughing at the recent
> > > > jibes made here about your medical condition, and do
> > > > not support them.  I was laughing at Judy's compulsive
> > > > rush to "defend" one of the people she views as a 
> > > > "comrade-in-arms" and supporter.  The 'codependency'
> > > > Vaj jokes about is on her side, not yours.  I found
> > > > it funny, that's all.
> > > 
> > > Actually, I took it as a jibe at me since "co"-dependency 
> > > is, well, a two-way street.
> > > 
> > > You can't have a single person be "co"-dependent.
> > 
> > You are correct, of course. I was just chuckling
> > at the 'dependency' Vaj nailed in someone who has
> > made an Internet 'career' out of trying to convince
> > others that she's "right" and that they pretty much
> > have to agree with her. Once she recruits someone
> > into the position of agreeing with her fairly consis-
> > tently
> 
> In other words, *Lawson* is the co-dependent, the
> one who is manipulated and controlled (or the "toady,"
> as Barry is fond of putting it).

No, exactly backwards.  As you keep saying, you might
learn to read. I was suggesting that *you* are dependent
on the people whom you feel agree with you. I was sug-
gesting that (IMO, of course) it seems to give you
some feeling of comfort to know that people agree 
with you or that you have been successful in convincing
them that you are right, and when that happens, you
form a protective relationship with them, compulsively
rushing in to "protect" them whenever they get into a
challenging discussion. I could be wrong about this,
but it's my honest opinion after watching your behavior
for years.

Lawson does NOT need your "protection." He has neither
asked for it nor does he seem to welcome it.  But you
seem compelled to provide it. *That* is the 'dependency'
I was speaking of. It's all from your side.

Clear now?

But I owe you an apology for bringing all this up again,
and you have it -- I apologize.

You are who you are, and that's OK.  I really *am*
tired of all this circular sniping with you, Judy.
It's boring and unproductive.

What's brought me to this realization is the discovery
yesterday that my brother seems to have done a Dennis
Miller and become a Born Again Conservative, compelled
to overreact whenever anyone pushes his "America is a
great place" buttons by questioning that myth, and
equally compelled to try to convince the offending
parties that they are WRONG and that he is RIGHT.

It's downright embarrassing. It's like discovering 
that you have Bill O'Reilly for a brother.  :-)

And it's made me realize that what I really enjoy on
Internet discussion groups like this one is interactions
with people who are comfortable with believing what they
believe, and equally comfortable with other people
believing what *they* believe, even if it's the
polar opposite.  There are such people here at FFL,
and I treasure them.  Rick has created a great forum,
one in which one can (theoretically) exchange points
of view and learn from the differences between those
points of view, without the need to butt heads to 
establish dominance or prove one point of view "better"
than another.

I really don't believe that my point of view is "right."
It's just my point of view.  It changes daily, if not
more often.  If your point of view or someone else's
differs from mine, I think that's OK, and I'm going
to try my best to not get involved in discussions that
seem to be oriented towards proving the superiority of
one point of view and the inferiority of the other.
That strikes me as terribly lowvibe and not worthy of
someone who has spent as long on a spiritual path as
I have or as you have.  If you still get off on such
things, I wish you well with it, but I really don't
want to get involved any more.







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> 
> > It *was* kinda embarrassing; I had to buy some baggy
> > pants for the duration. Fortunately I was on vacation
> > and not doing training classes at the time, otherwise
> > the students would've been making snide comments about
> > my new "laser pointer."  :-)
> > 
> > But at least now I know the secret of Billy and Mick's
> > onstage charisma.
> 
> When I'm not sleeping (I assume) and am rounding, the laser 
> pointer is almost ever present.  One of Nature's little 
> impractacle jokes, I suspose.

Having a laser pointer with the button stuck in the ON
position is actually not that unusual for men who are
engaging in extended periods of meditation, in my
experience.  Kundalini awakening, and all that.








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[FairfieldLife] Re: The supposed "Emotional Healing" of Tom Pall

2005-12-09 Thread Tom Pall
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "bostonbob53" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> 
> I'm sorry, but I just don't get it.  Anon or Tom Pall, these posts are
> obviously his. What the hell?  Does he think he's fooling anyone or
> that anyone still cares?   

They still care enought to attack him.  To state categorically that he
is forever doomed because development stops when abuse begins. 

My guess is that Tom wants to have the last
> word and even up all his imagined slights.  So okay Tom.  You win.  We
> all love you.  Happy now?
>

That is absolutely what Tom wants.  He wants sincere apologies from
the people who derided him over and over.  He want a detailed, sincere
apology from the "Dr." who said that Tom would always be his nigah. 
Tom is working day and night to get FFL deleted.  He wants the slams
made against him and encouraged by others undone.  He'll eventuall
shame the hatemongers into apologizing or better yet, make FFL not be
there when you next go to visit it.  So he won't have to see more
ganging up against him to slam him for the fun of it.

And he wants the "So okay Tom. You win.  We all love you.  Happy now?
turned into sincere words.  Not of "we love you" but "we've been some
really immature louts".  If it's too tedious for you to do so, then
just keep your wise ass "Happy now?" comments out of it.  You have
added to the flames.  Happy now?






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Shuurangama suutra

2005-12-09 Thread cardemaister
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, cardemaister <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> 
> Anyone read Shuurangama suutra? I read a couple 
> of pages. It felt rather boring.
>

FWIW, according to SS, Gautama Shaakyamuni had blue eyes?!
Anyways, "shaakya" prolly means, that He belonged to
Scythian shakas.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- anonymousff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
> > "lurkernomore20002000" 
> > > 
> > > > Imagine the day in the life of a cetain 5 year
> > old 
> > > boy.
> > > 
> > > snip
> > > 
> > > Sorry to come in late on this thread, but is this
> > Tom Pall's story, 
> > > and if so, is this a reposting, or is this new
> > information?  Thanks.
> > > 
> > > lurk
> > 
> > It is not a reposting.  I think I know Tom Pall
> > rather well and
> > believe it to be Tom's story.  It was not written to
> > evoke pity to
> > make the statement that shrinks, except ones who are
> > obviously in it
> > to cure their own misery, should be less flippant
> > and derisive.  It
> > did prove one thing.  "Dr." Pete isn't perhaps a
> > doctor.  If he is
> > he's most likely a vet.
> 
> One thing about this anon, he doesn't let go once he
> sinks his teeth in.
> 

The attributes of a survivor and what makes Anon exceedingly
successful in his profession.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "lurkernomore20002000"
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> >
> 
> > 
> > Has *anyone* suggested Tom get a wrathful mantra/ishta rather than 
> a  
> > peaceful one? Peaceful deity mantras are just peachy for your 
> average  
> > Joe or Judy wanting to *transcend*, but special mentations require  
> > special mantras. This guys a diamond in the rough just waiting for  
> > the right method. He'd attain mirror-like Wisdom quite quickly I'd  
> > guess.
> > 
> > Interesting man that Tom.
> 
> Being on a spiritual path has not mitigated 
> what seems to me to be some real flaws. 

So you've been keeping Tom's diary.  Once again Tom is damned because
he's fabulously improved but not perfect.

I think it lends credence to 
> the notion that we all could use a good dose of therapy.  I would 
> welcome Dr. Pete's opinion on this. 

I'd welcome the the opinion of a real doctor, not a sick himself
wannabe psychologist or a vet saying he's a psychologist.


It's hard to imagine anything more 
> horrendous than this story.  They say emotional development gets 
> arrested at the time of abuse.  

Damning Tom once again.  He's not a survivor who's getting over.  He's
forever damned because his emotional development was arrested at the
time of abuse.  Funny the real Dr.s who treated Tom didn't feel that
way.  They felt no need to teach Tom how to act or encourage him to
grow. They watched it happen before their eyes and took notes.  They
felt that merely freeing the pain brought forth the true, loving,
secure Tom.  With other patients these very Drs. taught their patients
what they had failed to develop.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Emotional Healing'

2005-12-09 Thread anonymousff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Has *anyone* suggested Tom get a wrathful mantra/ishta rather than a  
> peaceful one? Peaceful deity mantras are just peachy for your average  
> Joe or Judy wanting to *transcend*, but special mentations require  
> special mantras. This guys a diamond in the rough just waiting for  
> the right method. He'd attain mirror-like Wisdom quite quickly I'd  
> guess.
> 
> Interesting man that Tom.
>

You're assuming that Tom is just wrath.  Actually, he's full of shake
and quake but is very sensitive to slights, as he was trained like
Pavlov's dogs to equate the slightest displeasure of someone with him
as another night he has to worry about being murdered or thrown out in
the snow shoeless and naked to spend the night shivering in what
little pile of leaves he could find. Hopefully God was good that night
and he was able to get some rest for school the next day. 

That sensitiveness to slights makes him feel differently about Ben
saying he was happy everybody enjoyed their special coins or
amulets when he didn't receive anything.  It's true Tom told Ben after
a few years that he wasn't that excited about receiving sacred ash,
but Ben's mamory is ever convenient to cover up his own failings.  Ben
does appear to suffer from attention and memory deficit.  Tom lives in
a world in which a man's word is his bond, else he's fired an hour
after he fails to deliver.  Tom truly believes Ben is just another one
of those space cadets who's quite suited to the SoCal "let's have
lunch" mentality.  Tom is not all hate.  There are a lot of flakey
people in the world and there are a lot of vicious people in the
world, "Dr." Pete and Dr. Lechter being two of them.  Tom might have
asked for it, but that doesn't mean it's got to run the gauntlet and
then have the person he least honors for truth and reliability after
having dealt with him for years, the Pundit in training, to pick up on
"Dr." Pete's damnation of him with "just look at his chracter. 
search the archives." as a way to cover up his own failing and child
abuse issues.  

Tom has arranged for a $50,000 legal retainer to sue
Ben the lier.  If Ben posts a fully apologitic statement in which he
admits in every line that he, and not Tom was wrong and he apologizes
for wrongfully accusing Tom for it in an unambiguous, convincing,
non-finger pointing way, the suit will not be filed.  Any hint that
he's being insincere and Tom will see Ben in Court.  If Ben posts
anything to Fairfield life on any subject becept a convincing  apology
and  agreement that he is a flake, the lawsuit against Ben will be
filed and a few days later Ben will receive his subpoena.  Tom doesn't
want to stiffle Ben's freedom of speach.  But he doesn't want to read
the words of a lier who reprements himself as totally innocent of any
wrong doing.  The lawyers will prove otherwise.  Tom has more money
set aside for more prosecuition, counter suits and to fight malicious,
frivilous law suits against him.  He's also got every email Ben ever
sent to him, notes of every phone conversation, every email he ever
sent to Ben or others about Ben.  Some of it will curl your hair.

Joining YBC is the best thing Tom ever did.  It's been a week now he's
been doing full TM/TM Sidhi Program.  The consciousness flows through
him now and he feels full of spunk and hope and optimism as he did 14
years ago when he was last able to do full program off a course.  The
infusion of consciousness makes former perceived slights not.  It
makes frustrations in traffic not.  It makes the feeling of being
helplessly stuck in the muck and mire not. It makes formely
overwhelming terror and panic which drove him to the bottle of Dr.s'
prescripions flow through and out of him.

Tom has lead a moderately successful life here and there, clearing a
quarter million a year here, being an National Merit there, branch
manager of a control systems vendor resident at Bechtel in SF with an
annual 1/4 $billion annual budged there, being born conscious and
remembering his past there.  

"Interesting Man that Tom" is not only truer than you imagine, its
truer than you can imagine.  Richard Nixon opened us to Mainland
China, but took Dilantin for his depression, did some really petty
shit and resigned as the articles of impeachment were being drawn up.  

Abraham Lincoln and his life believed in dreams and wrote every one
down.  They had sayances performed in the White House regularly and
Lincoln timed has actions based on the feedback he got through his
secretary from a noted psychic.  Lincoln told his cabinet the day
before that night about the very disturbing dream where we woke up and
heard wailing.  He walked into a hall and there was a large man laid
out in a coffin.  He asked an overcome woman who was laid out in the
coffin.  The woman told him it was the President.  Lincoln campaigned
to have That Pecular Instituion undone  but also put his power behind
the establishment

[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> 
> On Dec 8, 2005, at 8:17 PM, anonymousff wrote:
> 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> >>
> >>
> >> Would you trust *your* children to Mahesh's theories?
> >>
> >
> > Indeed.  I had almost total immersion in Czech at Our Lady of the
> > Inquisition Catholic School in kindergarten and 1-2 grade.  The nuns
> > were right off the boat from Czecho.  It was easy as pie to learn  
> > Czech.
> 
> But M's theory is that this should just confuse you Akasha.
>

No, this is someone's possible mis-remembering of MMY's theory.

*I* heard almost exactly the opposite about learning 2nd languages.






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> 
> On Dec 8, 2005, at 4:51 PM, L B Shriver wrote:
> 
> > I have found it interesting that at MSAE Maharishi doesn't allow  
> > 2nd language acquisition
> > at the younger age (he may make an exception for Sanskrit) 
because  
> > he claims that for the
> > youngster to speak something other than the "mother tongue" 
creates  
> > some subtle kind of
> > confusion—even though, as you note, it is the ideal time for  
> > language acquistion.
> >
> > Does anyone have more precise information on this?
> >
> > L B S
> 
> I asked my wife who has a masters in Infant development. Do it 
BEFORE  
> elementary school.
> 
> Would you trust *your* children to Mahesh's theories?
>

Would you trust rumors that may not ahve any basis in fact in order 
to pass judgement on someone?





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "L B Shriver" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, bbrigante <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> 
> 
> 
> snip
> 
> . Numerous studies have persuaded linguistic 
> > researchers that acquisition of a second language after the age 
of 
> > 15 means that one is unlikely to acquire mastery (especially in 
> > terms of pronunciation -- the brain has less flexibility after 
the 
> > age of 15), although there are certainly individual variations:
> > 
> > http://tinyurl.com/a322s
> > "learning before the age of 7 yields perfect command
> 
> *
> 
> I have found it interesting that at MSAE Maharishi doesn't allow 
2nd language acquisition 
> at the younger age (he may make an exception for Sanskrit) because 
he claims that for the 
> youngster to speak something other than the "mother tongue" creates 
some subtle kind of 
> confusion—even though, as you note, it is the ideal time for 
language acquistion.
> 
> Does anyone have more precise information on this?
> 
> L B S
>

I hadn't heard that claim. I have heard that he thinks the only way 
to acquire a second language completely is to live in a country where 
it is spoken natively. This is in-line with normal linguistics 
research, from what I hear.






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Hagelin sez 2000 student university in DC "immediately"

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, bbrigante <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> "we are immediately establishing a group of 2,000 meditating students 
> in Washington, D.C.,"
> 
> http://www.globalgoodnews.com/world-peace-a.html?art=11339834121142172
>

TMO-speak for "wouldn't it be nice if...?"





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 
> > Women must be different on Governor Training since I'm worth as 
> > reasonable bit on paper,owning lots of property, but no-one appears 
> > to think of moi as a "good catch." Of course, I don't advertise, 
> > having learned that whatever you advertise, is the kind of person
> > you attract.
> 
> (Says Lawson, advertising.)
>


True, but the odds that anyone is going to take me seriously, travel to 
tucson and get involved with me because of some braggartly posting on 
FFL are kinda slim, so I feel safe.





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[FairfieldLife] Keeping Things Quiet (was Re: Hurdy Gurdy Man revealed)

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> >
> > > > > > > What's strange is that I forgot to mention codependency.
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > Thanks for reminding me.
> > > > > > 
> > > > > > Thanks for providing my morning chuckle, Vaj.  :-)
> > > > > 
> > > > > Says the comrade-in-arms while chuckling over jokes made at 
> > > > > the expense of someone with suspected and/or diagnosed 
mental 
> > > > > problems.
> > > > 
> > > > Lighten up, Lawson.  I was not laughing at the recent
> > > > jibes made here about your medical condition, and do
> > > > not support them.  I was laughing at Judy's compulsive
> > > > rush to "defend" one of the people she views as a 
> > > > "comrade-in-arms" and supporter.  The 'codependency'
> > > > Vaj jokes about is on her side, not yours.  I found
> > > > it funny, that's all.
> > > 
> > > Actually, I took it as a jibe at me since "co"-dependency 
> > > is, well, a two-way street.
> > > 
> > > You can't have a single person be "co"-dependent.
> > 
> > You are correct, of course. I was just chuckling
> > at the 'dependency' Vaj nailed in someone who has
> > made an Internet 'career' out of trying to convince
> > others that she's "right" and that they pretty much
> > have to agree with her. Once she recruits someone
> > into the position of agreeing with her fairly consis-
> > tently
> 
> In other words, *Lawson* is the co-dependent, the
> one who is manipulated and controlled (or the "toady,"
> as Barry is fond of putting it).

That's pretty much what I thought (and still think) was implied.

> 
> , then she seems compelled to dive in and 
> > "support" them any time they get into a challenging 
> > discussion.
> 
> Actually this is bullshit, of course.  I support
> people who appear to me to be the target of unfair
> criticism, whether I happen to agree with them or
> not.  The idea of supporting someone just because
> it's the right thing to do is not in Barry's
> ethical vocabulary.
> 
> It's bullshit as far as Lawson is concerned as well.
> He and I often disagree, but generally speaking we've
> been able to do so amicably because we respect each
> other.
> 
> All I ask of anyone is sincerity, fairness, and
> intellectual (and factual) honesty, not agreement.
> 
> Oh, yeah, and the notion that *Barry* is somehow
> above trying to convince people he's right is
> laughable.  Try disagreeing with him sometime and
> see how he treats you.  No matter how amicable you
> are in your disagreement, no matter how often Barry
> claims he's not trying to convince you of anything
> and doesn't care if you think differently, you'll
> be the target of his putdowns as long as the exchange
> continues.
> 
> 
> 
> 
> > 
> > So it's a dependency issue, not a co-dependency
> > issue. Some people only feel comfortable about life
> > when others agree with them on their illusions about
> > it. Consensus reality, and all that...  :-)
> > 
> > > > I think you've been showing admirable restraint lately
> > > > with the knee-jerk posting thang, and have been putting
> > > > much more thought into your replies before pushing Send.
> > > > IMO, that's a good thing, both for yourself and for the
> > > > forum.
> > > 
> > > Think of them as koans... There's far more thought in my 
> > > one liners than in my stream-of-consciousness paragraphs...
> > 
> > I had noticed that, actually.
> >
>






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > wrote:
> > >
> > > > > I don't know about anyone else, but I find the 
> > > > > concept of women thinking of a man as a "good
> > > > > catch" because of his income more offensive than
> > > > > any of the racist epithets attributed here to Tom.
> > > > >
> > > > 
> > > > 
> > > > Why would you be offended by this? It's a simple fact of life,
> > > > affirmed to be so by many intelligent women in private 
> > > > conversation and also by normal observations.
> > > 
> > > No argument there. It's just that personally I would
> > > never have anything to do with any woman who was
> > > interested in me for my money (not that I have a lot
> > > of it). I *know* that it's a factor in many women's
> > > search for a partner; it's just that I'm not searching
> > > for "many women," just one who is looking for a little
> > > more out of life than an easy life.
> > 
> > "Looking for a "good provider" is an essential thing for a sane
> > woman who is hoping to raise a family unless she is already well-
to-
> > do.
> 
> Not only that, it's hard-wired, an evolutionary
> survival trait.  The children of women who have
> a knack for picking a good provider are more likely
> to survive and pass on their genes (including the
> gene for the knack of picking a good provider).
> 
> Long ago, of course, a "good provider" was the guy
> who reliably brought home game after the hunt and
> was strong enough to protect the woman and the kids
> from predators (animal and otherwise).
> 
> These days it's money rather than game ("bringing
> home the bacon"), but there's still a premium on
> good looks and strength because they tend to
> indicate good health and fertility (in both males
> and females), which again favors survival of the
> genes.
> 

Genetics can breed for faux signals. You can have women (or men) who 
aren't worth a darn in or out of bed, have no concept of how to raise 
a child, etc., but their overall appearance and demeaner triggers 
mating instincts in many people just by some combination of 
features/qualities that fit the inbred  pattern recognition for 
mates. Of course, people are more complicated than crabs, so not 
everyone is triggered by the giant claw, or whatever, but the 
principle is still applies in virtually everyone, to some extent: 
there's someone out there whom, if you meet them, you WILL make a 
fool of yourself.

> 
> > The problem is when you make money the MOST important part of who 
> > you're looking for.
>






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Yagna By Choice. It Works

2005-12-09 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> 
> On Dec 8, 2005, at 12:30 PM, sparaig wrote:
> 
> > Women must be different on Governor Training since I'm worth as
> > reasonable bit on paper,owning lots of property, but no-one appears
> > to think of moi as a "good catch."
> 
> Should we feign surprise?
>

Are you hinting at something?





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